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00:00Hey everyone, are you dating, are you single, how's it going?
00:03Dating, single.
00:04Why are you single these days?
00:07Oh dear, Maria.
00:09I finished two years ago.
00:11Already? Two years?
00:12Yes. I'm in a very good phase of my life.
00:14Why is she doing so well now that she's single?
00:16Well, because I learned to love myself, to live alone, and to achieve my own goals as well.
00:22And I'm not looking for love, but if it comes along, that's it.
00:26So, you're not looking right now, but if someone came along, would you be open to a relationship with a nice person?
00:30Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:31And how long have you been dating?
00:33Oh, it's been about two years, I think, I don't know.
00:36How long has she been single?
00:38That's about right.
00:39And how does it feel for you, being in a relationship and hearing her say things like that, that she prefers to stay single?
00:43What's the difference nowadays?
00:46Even more so because you're friends, you go out together.
00:48I think it's cool, I think it's cool.
00:50Legal what?
00:51The fact that she's single, the vibe she's got, is different from mine.
00:55And it's kind of difficult to maintain the same routine, and you two are managing to stay single?
01:00No, it's nothing.
01:01We do everything together.
01:03And I get along really well with her boyfriend.
01:05Yeah, we're doing great together.
01:07He knows how to respect our friendship, and I know how to respect their relationship as well.
01:10Yes.
01:11And that's it.
01:11Well, you're dating someone and you're single.
01:13Do you think that in a relationship the man has to be the provider?
01:18Obvious.
01:19I believe so too.
01:21Me, me...
01:22For sure.
01:23Why?
01:24Because, well, why not?
01:25Basically, the man has to be the provider.
01:27No, women need to have their own things too.
01:32Not depending on a man, that's obvious.
01:35But I think the man has to be the provider, yes.
01:37What does being a provider mean to you?
01:39Oh, to help, right?
01:40With things.
01:41Like, I'm talking about marriage, right?
01:44Like, I think the man has to be the man of the house.
01:48Like, being part of the family, you know?
01:50To be the man, to play his role.
01:51Yes.
01:52Do you think the man has to be the provider too?
01:54Yes definitely.
01:55Why?
01:56Ah, because I think that...
01:59Ah, but I don't know.
02:00Like, do you think he should be in charge of everything?
02:03No.
02:04To, for example, order someone to take the lead in situations?
02:06No, I think he needs to have some manly experiences, I think he does.
02:10Like, give an example like that.
02:12These days, there's a real shortage of real men, with a capital M.
02:15Do you think men are a bit weak these days?
02:17Very.
02:18To approach a woman, you can't quite get there.
02:20This whole "I love it" thing on Instagram, it's just constant "I love it," what do they think we are?
02:24AND.
02:24Oh, so the guys just say "I love it"?
02:26Just enjoy it.
02:26These days it's just love.
02:28Only.
02:28So, for the guy...
02:30Because guys give love to girls in circles.
02:32Is it possible for someone to find you on Instagram?
02:35He has.
02:36What would happen then if "I love you" didn't work?
02:39Send a message?
02:40Like, what are you saying?
02:42Which one would work for you, for example?
02:43I think that's what works...
02:46What works...
02:47Oh no!
02:49That would work, right?
02:51What would work for me would be a completely different matter from the others.
02:54For example, nowadays a guy comes up and says, "Beautiful, wonderful, blah blah blah."
02:59That's no longer the case...
03:00No.
03:01But what if he is yours...?
03:02Very polite.
03:03To arrive in a different way.
03:05Hi, how are you?
03:06How was your day?
03:07That's it, you've already got my day over there.
03:09And that strategy that guys talk about, for example, you're there, you went to the beach,
03:12You post a picture of yourself in a bikini.
03:13The guy doesn't comment on that, but he'll comment on, I don't know, the thing you're doing.
03:16eating.
03:17Perfect.
03:17It's cooler than...
03:18It's cooler.
03:19Yes.
03:20Oh, you see?
03:20That's a good strategy.
03:21Yes.
03:22We've already won 10.
03:23Yes, he's already won 10.
03:2410 and 10.
03:26Okay.
03:26If you were single, and you are single, would you date a construction worker?
03:31Yes.
03:32I would date her.
03:33I would date.
03:33Why?
03:34Ah, just him having...
03:36Chasing after him, being a man, right?
03:39Yes.
03:39He has his job.
03:41His things.
03:42Like, he's not a lazy person today.
03:44AND.
03:44That's great.
03:45Basically, it's important to be hardworking.
03:46The fact that he's a bricklayer there, if he comes from the construction site, dirty, he says, "Honey, let's do something."
03:50there to eat.
03:51I believe it, the fingernails are full of grease.
03:53Come here, I'll clean your nail.
03:55Yes, obviously.
03:56You would give him a bath and stuff.
03:58Obviously, I would take care of it.
03:59I would make a small dinner.
04:00Yes.
04:01Man, these girls...
04:02Is that true?
04:03Because they...
04:03Yes.
04:03Too good to be true.
04:05Oh, her boyfriend's profession is motorcycle courier.
04:06So, like, if it were to...
04:08Right, friend?
04:09Because, whether we like it or not, we are beautiful.
04:10We achieve something through self-interest.
04:12But no, it's a matter of our character.
04:14Yes.
04:15And it's not a question of how much he earns.
04:17AND.
04:17It's about him as a person.
04:18It's about the person being...
04:21That he offers.
04:22Just one guy, like, for example, I'm single.
04:24If I see that the guy treats his family really well—his father, mother, brother—that's already enough for me.
04:28it won
04:29A thousand points there.
04:30Yes.
04:30Because it's about...
04:31It's not about, like, the family being good, I already know that when I fit into that family
04:36He's going to treat me really well.
04:37I base my decision on that.
04:39And it's also a matter of work, right?
04:40Yeah, it's obvious that you have to be with someone who works there, especially because
04:45We work, right?
04:46We don't depend on others, we work for ourselves.
04:48So, if a person is working, then everything is fine.
04:52Like, everyone's just busy with their own daily routine.
04:55Do you think bricklayers earn well?
04:57Yes.
04:58I think.
04:58I have no idea.
05:00I think so.
05:00But I think so.
05:01How much do you guess, then?
05:02Oh, I've seen a bricklayer before.
05:04I don't know, I have no idea, but...
05:05How much can you raise?
05:07Friend, I don't know, but it's a lot.
05:08It's like, dude, 10,000, 15,000 or so.
05:11Works with...
05:12With construction work?
05:13No, with plaster, right?
05:14No, it's with...
05:15Plaster also makes money.
05:16He's a thousand and one things, you know?
05:18From home, like this.
05:19But do you imagine that bricklayers earn well, then?
05:21Yes.
05:21I think so.
05:22Would you date a motorcycle delivery driver?
05:24Ah.
05:24I'm dating.
05:25Are you dating a motorcycle delivery driver?
05:26Yes.
05:27And how is it for you?
05:29Oh, I'd rather not eat.
05:32Dude, why?
05:32Every day, the little creature is there.
05:35Poor thing.
05:36Standing still in the rain, and I'm coming like this, a lot of people, I wonder whose side is he leaning towards?
05:40Oh, you see?
05:41The guy is causing trouble.
05:43What do I call your boyfriend?
05:44Oh, Kelvin.
05:45Kelvin is giving her trouble, and she thinks he's...
05:49No, I call him if I see that he's standing still, since I have his location.
05:53And even?
05:53On my cell phone.
05:53Are you a little crazy, like that?
05:55No, no, I'm cool.
05:57But if I see that he's been standing there for more than five minutes, I call him.
06:00But do you think there's harassment of girls by delivery drivers?
06:02He has.
06:03Yes, because I've worked in a place that only had motorcycle couriers, and I know very well how that works.
06:07That's just how things are.
06:08But you're dating Pina Motos, are you exagral?
06:10Me at Pina Motos too?
06:13And he's riding on the back?
06:15He's gone.
06:16Wow, that's awesome, man.
06:17You too?
06:18No.
06:19I'll ride on the back of her motorcycle.
06:21Wow, that's awesome, man.
06:22Are you guys from the hood, or are you a rich girl type?
06:25Spoiled brat.
06:26That's a lie, it's broken.
06:27It's just the skin that changes a lot, right?
06:29Yeah, the skin didn't say.
06:30But you guys go by like this, look, I told him.
06:32Ana, these girls go through it like this, like this...
06:35Like, how can I put it, man?
06:36How can I explain this to you?
06:37He talked a lot, man.
06:38Yes, that's it.
06:40We enjoy all the environments, but...
06:43Do you consider her a funk singer?
06:44No.
06:45No.
06:46Mercy, no.
06:46Which one do you think...
06:48Pagodeira.
06:48Do you consider pagode music?
06:49Pagodeira.
06:50You too?
06:50No, I don't think so, because I am not.
06:53I think I'm really from the favela, someone who enjoys everything.
06:56What kind of broken-down place are you?
06:58I am there...
06:58Oh dear, I'm from far away.
06:59I'm from the West Zone.
07:00West Zone?
07:01Which place?
07:02Santana de Pernambuco.
07:03Santana, you too?
07:04No, I'm from the North Zone.
07:05Brasilândia.
07:06Oh, it's pretty broken, huh, man?
07:07Top.
07:09How much does a guy have to earn to be in a relationship with you?
07:12I don't think it's a question of value.
07:15There's no minimum value, is there?
07:17No.
07:17No, I think the value that...
07:19For those who have already paid for men, housing, electricity, and rent, everything is fine.
07:23Have you done this before?
07:23What?
07:24Already.
07:24Horrors.
07:25Would I do it again?
07:27The worst I could do is not sponsor someone else again.
07:30I think the person has to be from the same background as me.
07:32I think it's like one hand washing the other, you know?
07:35Good and you?
07:36I think he needs to earn a proportional amount so he can support himself each month.
07:40Paying for household expenses, paying for outings with his girlfriend.
07:45Well, I think that's it.
07:46I liked them, they're not girls obsessed with money, are they?
07:51Very cool.
07:51No, it's just that we have our own, you know, so...
07:53AND.
07:54Do you consider yourselves pretty girls?
07:55Yes.
07:56Yes.
07:57Like, wow, no, hold on.
08:00It's because people tell us that, right?
08:03Type...
08:03It's not you who speaks, it's the people who say so.
08:05AND.
08:06Okay, do you think you're pretty too?
08:07I think.
08:08No, don't you think so?
08:08No, I keep saying, man, how can people even talk about this?
08:13That I'm beautiful, I don't know what.
08:15I think it's normal.
08:17Type...
08:17How much do you spend per month to maintain your beauty?
08:20Dude, that's about a thousand reais.
08:22Around here?
08:23Yes, because it's a mark, it's eyelashes, eyebrows, nails.
08:27All of that?
08:28AND.
08:28And it's all the same, cars need maintenance, right?
08:30Exactly.
08:31Every two weeks.
08:33And which one is the most expensive of them all?
08:34The most expensive part, I think, is the eyelashes...
08:37I think it's the eyelashes.
08:38Yes, the eyelashes and the nail.
08:39No, the brand name is expensive, isn't it?
08:41No, it depends a lot.
08:42He has...
08:42The most expensive price I paid was R$130.
08:44AND.
08:44So, how many times a month do you get a tan?
08:46It's once.
08:47It depends a lot.
08:48Since we're very fair-skinned, it's once a month.
08:50It's once a month, twice.
08:51And we do it for R$15, R$15.
08:53I understood.
08:53So, what about the unemployed guy? You wouldn't date him, would you?
08:56Why do you think the guy has to be...
08:58Or would you date?
08:59Oh, I don't know, it depends.
09:01My friend, if he's currently unemployed, but he's really interested and wants to work, you know?
09:04Yes.
09:04I think I should find something for him to do...
09:07But if it were leaning against something, no.
09:08You'd date a delivery guy, right?
09:10I would date someone leaning against the wall.
09:10Motorcycle courier, yeah, right?
09:11Yes.
09:12Would you finance a motorcycle for your boyfriend who's a delivery driver?
09:15Yes.
09:16Would you finance it?
09:17I was going to do that.
09:20She was going to do it.
09:20He tarnished my name.
09:22Did he tarnish his name?
09:25Wow, did you learn anything from that?
09:27Very.
09:28Is it clean or not?
09:29Is it still dirty?
09:30No, I cleaned it, but it wasn't because of the motorcycle, it was because of the credit card.
09:33But I was going to register the motorcycle in my name.
09:34Wow, those girls, oh, they'd date a construction worker, they're not gold diggers, they'd finance a motorcycle in their own name.
09:39From them to you.
09:40Dude, she's still single, man.
09:42She is.
09:43But is he demanding?
09:44I think it's trauma.
09:46So you're very demanding as well.
09:47The right guy didn't show up.
09:48No, I think I'm demanding because I know what I'm delivering, right?
09:53For the person.
09:54What do you have to offer as a woman?
09:55I know who I am.
09:56Like, I'm loyal, which I think is the bare minimum a person can do.
10:00And when I'm really in love with someone, when they're right there by my side, I give myself completely.
10:03Ultimately, I'll confront whoever it is, I'm right there side by side.
10:07Not really, right?
10:08Did you see what happened to my name?
10:10So, like, yeah, but I think I would do it again because I think it's a matter of...
10:16of the person themselves.
10:17What I have to offer her is this: it's about my character, about who I am.
10:21No one can change that.
10:23So, it's very difficult for me to find someone these days because I'm very picky these days.
10:28Because I know who I am and what I can offer her.
10:31What do you think is the typical conversation a woman has in a relationship?
10:34What do you have to offer?
10:35Oh, young man, look.
10:36That's a tough problem, right, man?
10:37Give me a...
10:38Yes, but that's basically it, right?
10:40Like, we have to be there with our partner, be their companion, have
10:46Loyalty, having respect.
10:48Finally, we're here to help, right?
10:50Because it's a relationship where you share your life with the person.
10:54Well, that's it.
10:56Okay, do you guys train?
10:58Yes.
10:58Do you do it at the gym?
10:59Yes.
11:00Both?
11:00I stopped.
11:02I make.
11:02That's because you take care of your bodies, don't you?
11:06Yes.
11:06To activate activity and such.
11:08A woman, just like you, who works out, who takes care of her body, would you date a guy who's above that level?
11:13Because of their weight, why don't they take care of their health?
11:16I think that...
11:17It's not that he doesn't care.
11:19I've never dated an athlete, or anyone who does anything special.
11:23But being overweight, no, I've never been interested.
11:28Ah, so I only think about myself...
11:32I only think about my boyfriend, that's all.
11:34I can't...
11:35Oh no, like, she's dating someone.
11:37No, just kidding.
11:37But then, I've never dated someone who is overweight or doesn't take care of themselves, but I don't see it.
11:43It's a problem, like, obviously, right?
11:45I was going to encourage them, I was going to say, "Come on, let's go all out."
11:50But you, like...
11:53You say things like, "Guys, they're way overweight," or the guy is like, wait a minute, the guy is...
11:56Yes, but she's a little chubby, she's got a bit of a beer belly and all that, a little something like that?
11:59Oh no, I already got a beer belly.
12:03Oh, that's normal.
12:04Okay, to wrap things up, one more question.
12:07AND...
12:07But I like skinny guys.
12:08Yes, I like it.
12:08Do you like skinny guys?
12:09Skinny.
12:09Tattooed?
12:10Yes.
12:11Motorcycle?
12:13No, it doesn't matter.
12:14Okay.
12:15So, what do you guys think about making love on the first date?
12:19Normal.
12:20I think that's normal too.
12:22I think that from the moment you connected with that person, you witnessed...
12:25her safety.
12:27I think that's normal too.
12:28Okay, like, oh, you went out with the guy for the first time today, man, it went well, it clicked.
12:31Chemistry, man.
12:33Because, like, if I go out with him it's because I really want to and I already know him, right?
12:38I understood.
12:38I'm not going out like that, we talked today, we're going out today, no.
12:42Like, you need to have some conversations over the next few days, getting to know the person, yeah, okay.
12:47all good.
12:47And for you too?
12:48Me too.
12:49Like, what do you think is the point of people having this taboo, like, oh my God, lack of love?
12:53with the guy on the first date, I don't know, she's a slut, she's this and that, she has a
12:57Who says that?
12:58AND.
12:59Well, I think everyone has their own opinion, but I think when you're interested in a
13:03If you like someone, enjoy the moment and that's it, it doesn't mean she's going to be a slut.
13:09because she...
13:09Yeah, that's completely unrelated.
13:10It happened on the first date, that has nothing to do with it.
13:12Yeah, I also think it has nothing to do with it.
13:14Seriously, how could I forget your names?
13:15Ana, I'm already here.
13:16Ana, I'm already here.
13:18Finally, you live in the favela, and what do you do for a living?
13:22I am an HR analyst.
13:23Look, send the people away.
13:25And you?
13:25I'm from the tax office.
13:27Inspector of what?
13:28Auditor at an accounting firm.
13:30Ah, you are...
13:31The favela won, huh?
13:32The favela won.
13:33Wow, and you guys still live there, even with this kind of different job, like,
13:39It's more or less, you know, corporate, like that.
13:41We met at work; she was in my HR department when I was working there.
13:45You're the one who hired her, right?
13:46Yes.
13:47Yes, he hired me.
13:49He was.
13:49Then I left, but we formed a very strong friendship while we were there.
13:53After that, I left there and we became very, very close.
13:57To this day, and do you still work there?
13:58It's work.
14:00He understands?
14:00You're all graduates, right?
14:01Yes.
14:02In what?
14:03In administration.
14:03And you?
14:04Foreign trade.
14:05Foreign trade.
14:06Yeah, you're going to get rich, huh?
14:07You're going too.
14:08But I'm more certain of her.
14:09You are going.
14:10Foreign trade.
14:11But that's not what she wants to pursue.
14:12What do you want to pursue?
14:13I enjoy this aspect of HR, people management, talking to people.
14:17Have you fired a lot of people already?
14:19Unfortunately, I don't like that part.
14:20Have you cried yet?
14:22Oh!
14:23They've already cried, they've already cursed, they've already threatened me.
14:26Did you send her away?
14:27No, she resigned.
14:29Why?
14:30Ah, I couldn't take it anymore, I teleported.
14:31The problem was HR, wasn't it?
14:32No, I've never been in HR.
14:35Would you be an OnlyFans?
14:36No.
14:37No.
14:39And you?
14:40Why?
14:41I think it's very...
14:42Not even for, like, 50,000 a month, man.
14:44But when...
14:45Oh, yes.
14:47I would be very ashamed.
14:47No way.
14:48No way.
14:49You didn't make any money from OnlyFans, you said, no, not for 50,000.
14:53For 100,000, I would have an OnlyFans account.
14:55No.
14:55Oh, only if I were shameless.
14:58No, no, no, no.
14:59I can't even imagine.
15:00My family is watching.
15:01No, my father is watching.
15:03Too much God.
15:03Have you thought about it?
15:04And you, why?
15:06Neither.
15:06For the same reason.
15:07But I think it is...
15:08It's not a matter of what others think, but a matter of myself.
15:12You underestimate me, you know?
15:13For money.
15:14Given that there are other ways to make money.
15:16As much as.
15:17Very cool.
15:17And can I post research?
15:19He can.
15:19He can?
15:20Do you want to leave your Instagram account or something like that?
15:22It can leave.
15:23It can leave.
15:23Mine is underline Jaqueline Oliveira, with two J's and CK.
15:27And you?
15:30I don't know mine by heart, but it's Carolina Nascimento.
15:35It's closed, folks.
15:35Thank you very much.
15:36Have a good trip!
15:37Thank you for your time, okay?
15:38Thanks.
15:38Success.
15:39I hope you find a really nice boyfriend and that you get married too.
15:43It's OK?
15:44Thanks.
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