00:00Are you single? Are you dating anyone?
00:02Rolled up.
00:03Both?
00:03Both.
00:05Why are you all so tangled up these days?
00:08Ah, today...
00:09I don't know if it's the men...
00:11These days I don't think it's even the men who string women along anymore, right?
00:13I think it's women who string men along.
00:15Really? Do you share that opinion?
00:17It's because men nowadays are too...
00:20Men these days are more feminine than we are.
00:22Let's talk about reality.
00:24That's a point. Do you agree?
00:25I also think.
00:26Why do you think that's the main reason you're single today?
00:29No, I'm not single.
00:30Oh, you're in trouble, aren't you?
00:31Yeah, look, girl...
00:32Ah, they're both involved with that guy.
00:35Yeah, each one with their own guy. It's not the same.
00:37No, yes, yes.
00:38So what's missing for your relationship to work out?
00:42I'm having an affair with my ex.
00:46I am trying...
00:47Reconnect.
00:48Reconnect.
00:49It's just that these days it's easier to be in a relationship than to be single, because it's tough, you know?
00:54Do you think... Do you intend to get married?
00:57Oh, absolutely. I think every woman dreams of getting married, right?
01:00For now?
01:03In the near future.
01:05And you?
01:06Also.
01:07Do you intend to marry this person who is involved with someone else or not?
01:10Yes, preferably, right?
01:12Look, you see? If he watches this video, he'll already have a clue, he'll already know the way.
01:15And when you get married?
01:16Do you think the man has to be the provider in the relationship?
01:20I carry this with me.
01:21Really? Why?
01:23Yes... The man has to be the provider of the home and...
01:27The foundation is the woman, right?
01:28But the man has to be the provider, he has to take care of the woman, she has to feel protected, loved.
01:33hugged.
01:35Men need to act like men.
01:37Man is the protection.
01:40I understand. And for you, do you think the man has to be the provider?
01:42I understood.
01:43Look, I don't know, I'm not good at talking.
01:46No, is that your perspective on women?
01:48Yeah, I think... Actually, I think so, right?
01:50I don't think so, I'm sure of it.
01:52In my upbringing, all the men in my family were providers, so...
01:57That's the bare minimum, right?
01:59What does it mean to be the provider there? It's, like...
02:02AND...
02:03There are many ways to be a provider, right?
02:05Not just necessarily financially, but I mean in terms of providing care, attention, and, as she said, protection.
02:12Because, whether we like it or not, we feel safer when we have a man looking after us.
02:20Don't worry about it, I'll handle it.
02:24And that's what's missing, right?
02:25These days, guys aren't really like that anymore.
02:27No.
02:28Do you think men should pay the household bills?
02:32Well, I think that when you're married, it really depends on the couple's situation, right?
02:38Yes, I think it's a combination.
02:39I think it's quite relative, really. I think the division of assets is fine when you're married.
02:43Everything was discussed there.
02:45Exactly.
02:45Yes.
02:46Okay. And you, as women, what do you have to offer in a relationship?
02:52Complicity, respect, companionship, in this kind of thing like splitting bills, I think if you're married it's...
03:00It's because when you get married, you're no longer... you become just one person, right?
03:03Yes.
03:04So, you help each other, it's... advice from both sides, it's... you support each other's dreams.
03:13Whatever you think is cool for you, encourage it.
03:17You become a...
03:18Helping one grow is key to helping others grow.
03:20Yes, absolutely. I think they have to... they have to have the same goal.
03:23You don't think everything should fall on the shoulders of men, do you?
03:27I don't think so. I think it's on men's backs...
03:28You have a lot of people saying that these days.
03:30Ah, yes. That's pretty intense, isn't it?
03:32That's because women are quite dependent these days.
03:35AND.
03:36I understood.
03:36It's because it's more convenient to enjoy something than to build it together with someone, right?
03:42So, unfortunately, many people only want to enjoy it for themselves.
03:46If you're single... ah, you're single.
03:48Would you date a bricklayer?
03:51I would date her.
03:52I've dated... not a construction worker, but I've dated someone who, at the time, earned significantly less than me.
03:59I had a job... I think, honestly, look at what a job is worth.
04:03Bricklayer... would you go?
04:04Does the guy work there and hustle for himself?
04:05Yes. I wouldn't date a guy who is a rapist, a killer, a murderer, a thief who kills...
04:13Others because of a cell phone.
04:14See? What a good answer. And you? Would you date a construction worker?
04:17Yes, because I think that nowadays women...
04:19I'm not going to say no, because they'll judge, right?
04:21She's saying it, it's not a lie.
04:23Yes, she certainly speaks for herself; she sounds like a bricklayer she wants.
04:26But would you date someone like that? There's no arguing about it.
04:28It's because today, since women are independent—we are independent—we no longer seek that kind of financial support.
04:35We want a partner who cares, who gives affection, attention, respect, who is a man, right?
04:42Because today, I think a man is a man because he sleeps with many women, he's with many different people.
04:48A man is about respect, character, it goes far beyond that.
04:51Here in Salary, regarding the financial situation of bricklayers, do you think bricklayers earn poorly or well?
04:54No, he earns well, of course.
04:56What's your guess?
04:58It depends on the project he's taking on, right?
05:00It's really hard to find a bricklayer without work to build houses, you know?
05:04Guess an amount you think the bricklayer earns.
05:06Oh, I have no idea.
05:07Like this for a month?
05:09I don't know, but I know that if it's by contract, they earn well.
05:13They earn around 10,000 to 15,000 reais per job, for sure.
05:17Free, right? Without helpers, depending on the house.
05:21The foreman, right?
05:22Yeah, the boss is the one who earns the most, right?
05:24Yes.
05:24And the employees too, my friend.
05:27He doesn't earn badly, not at all.
05:28It's a very demanding job, isn't it? It's only fair that they get paid well.
05:31And it needs to be valued, right?
05:32For sure.
05:33All work should be valued, regardless of what it is.
05:36Besides the bricklayer's salary, how much does a guy have to earn to have a relationship with you?
05:41Obviously you're all disorganized.
05:42Ah, it has to be structured, obviously.
05:44So, like, how structured is it?
05:47Because that way, you should have a salary of your own.
05:49What the girls tell me is this:
05:51Dude, I have my salary.
05:52Sometimes if a guy earns significantly less than me, it's no longer possible to maintain the same lifestyle I have.
05:56But like this, it changes a lot, it's very complicated.
05:59Some women say, "Oh, if the guy has it, he earns less, but he's going for it, he's looking for it."
06:04So, is there a certain amount of money a guy would have to earn to be in a relationship with you?
06:08Something like that?
06:09I've already thought about that.
06:11No?
06:11No, I've never seen anything like it. I thought, "Wow, I'm going to date someone who earns that much."
06:15Never.
06:16But what if the guy earns less than you?
06:19No, I think it all depends on the situation you're in.
06:23Sometimes you find very wealthy people who date, meet people who have a much lower standard of living, and are happy.
06:29I think it's because of the person.
06:31So, would you date a guy who earns less than you?
06:33I've dated before.
06:35Have you ever dated a guy who earns less?
06:36You mentioned the bricklayer, right?
06:38AND.
06:38And you too?
06:40I'm not going to be hypocritical and say this here.
06:42I think that today, I don't think I would date anyone.
06:46I think that today it either has to be the same or it has to have the same objective as me.
06:50We have to dream, our life is about dreaming, right?
06:53We need to have more.
06:54Yes.
06:54I think if you say, "Oh, I'm satisfied with what I have here," I think that's a lie.
06:58I think everyone wants that.
06:59Yeah, I'm going to be bothered, right?
07:00Did you understand?
07:01It has to be a guy who is...
07:02Finally, I'll let you all go, then.
07:04Ask me a question.
07:05Interview.
07:06A proper interview, finally.
07:07Make a long video on YouTube.
07:08So, you guys live here in São Paulo?
07:11Yes.
07:12Which neighborhood?
07:13In Anália.
07:13In Anália.
07:14I live in Vila Mara.
07:15Where is Vila Mara located?
07:17No, not here in the East Zone.
07:18Not here, right?
07:19Because we're far apart.
07:20Also in the East Zone.
07:21Oh, also?
07:21Okay.
07:23Do you think...?
07:24How much does a person need to earn to have a stable life in São Paulo today, just to have a place to live?
07:28Especially in Anália Franco, which I know is expensive.
07:30A stable life?
07:31Let's put it in a...
07:32I believe that around 40,000 reais is too little.
07:36Is 40,000 reais not enough for you to live here in São Paulo?
07:38Damn.
07:40You include household expenses, employee salaries, car rental, and if you have children, school fees, transportation, and food.
07:52It's because we're paying for it in small installments.
07:54The minced meat, in the end, becomes too much, doesn't it?
07:57Yes.
07:57So, woman, you go to the salon, get your nails done, get your hair done, take a course, go to college.
08:03Oh, that's a lot.
08:04That's a lot.
08:04It's because I think nobody ever stops to put the minced meat in the right condition.
08:06So, you're guessing around 40,000?
08:08Over there, or over there?
08:09And you?
08:10Okay.
08:12Ah, I think it depends a lot on the person's life, right?
08:15If it is a...
08:16Some people survive on a single salary.
08:19Yes.
08:19So, I think it's very relative.
08:20I think it depends on your situation, where you live, your car, how much you...
08:27Spends per month on vanity, on children, on...
08:31So, it's quite relative.
08:32How much do you think it costs to live in São Paulo?
08:34Whatnot.
08:35I don't know if your neighborhood is as expensive as hers.
08:37If I'm going to do the math, it's better not to do the math at all.
08:40I never stopped to see how much I spend per month.
08:44You don't really like thinking about this issue of value, do you?
08:45I don't like it, otherwise I'll stay...
08:47I am suffering.
08:47I don't like to suffer.
08:49And what do you do for a living?
08:50I work in the pet industry.
08:52Pet?
08:53AND.
08:54No clinic?
08:54Pet grooming center.
08:56Animal grooming, stop!
08:57But it's already being advertised.
08:58And even?
08:59And what is animal aesthetics?
09:00Is it like pruning?
09:01AND...
09:02Pruning is like planting, right?
09:03It's just another small adjustment.
09:05It's more of a pet spa, focused on relaxation and service, without a kennel.
09:12Wow, that's great!
09:13Without a cage, just get there, attend to the patient, and do what needs to be done: a moisturizing treatment, a bath.
09:17Spa-style, a mud bath.
09:20It's like a trauma.
09:22And does all your income come from this job?
09:24No, I also have rental income.
09:27So, have you been investing during your life?
09:30Yes.
09:30And what do you do for a living?
09:31I'm studying nutrition and I lend money.
09:34There!
09:34Jota?
09:37Wow, I interviewed a Jota, man.
09:38No, guys, I'm not Jota, for God's sake.
09:41Who do you lend money to?
09:42For the bank?
09:43Or for people?
09:44For people.
09:45Banks don't need money.
09:46Wow, the first woman I've ever met is Jota.
09:49See?
09:49But do you really lend money?
09:52Yes.
09:53How much do you lend?
09:55100 reais.
09:55If I really need it.
09:56Only 100 reais.
09:58And what is the interest rate percentage?
09:59Oh no!
10:0020% or 30%?
10:0211% per month?
10:03Yes, 30% interest.
10:05So what's it like?
10:06Do you feel confident doing this?
10:08Man, it's a job that we do kind of on trust, in the dark, you know?
10:14But you make a...
10:15But I never had a problem.
10:16Do you carefully filter the person you're going to lend to?
10:18I'm looking for a filter, I'm looking for...
10:19It's not just a matter of going there and borrowing it.
10:22We try to find out their history; we don't lend to people who don't have a fixed income.
10:26who doesn't have a job.
10:28And why did you decide to get into the money lending business?
10:31Life led me down this path.
10:34Did you see an opportunity there?
10:36Yes.
10:37How much money can you make by lending it to others?
10:40Wow, that's a lot of information.
10:41The woman who works out has a beautiful body just like yours.
10:44Are you dating a guy who doesn't work out, a guy who's a bit sedentary, or a chubby guy?
10:49Does the woman care about that?
10:50I prefer someone who has the same lifestyle as me.
10:53I have no prejudice, nothing against it.
10:55But I prefer someone who has the same lifestyle as me.
10:58Because it's annoying when you want to go to the gym, when you want to do cardio, even if you're just in the park.
11:03Even with friendships.
11:04Yes.
11:05Some friends say, "Let's do some cardio over there," but I don't like that.
11:09So I think when it's the same lifestyle as us, it's cooler.
11:14Do you think so too?
11:16No, not her.
11:17No, I'm more drawn to the person themselves.
11:19Because of the way she treats me.
11:21Regardless of her life, if she doesn't want to, I'll go alone.
11:24So you don't care, like, you train, you have an extremely active life,
11:27But then you liked a guy who's like that, he's chubby,
11:31He doesn't go to the gym and says, "Honey, I'm not going to the gym, I'm not going to do anything."
11:34Are you still with him?
11:36Yes, I will encourage him.
11:37If he wants to come with me, I'll go alone; otherwise, I'll go alone.
11:41It's great to think that way, you see?
11:42Two different thoughts.
11:44Yes, that's the good thing, right?
11:46The good thing is that there's something for everyone.
11:49What is your pet's Instagram handle?
11:52Ah, yes...
11:53Arroba personal pet spa.
11:55What new service do you offer there, just so we can promote it?
11:59AND...
11:59Pet spa services: bathing, grooming, styling, coloring.
12:03Whatever your pet deserves, you'll find it there.
12:08It's located in the East Zone.
12:09Yes, East Zone, Anália Franco.
12:11If you want to borrow money, she's the one to contact.
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