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00:00Good morning, my despicable boss
00:08Good morning, Qirsh Amr
00:09I'm here to tell you that you're the worst manager I've ever had in my life.
00:13I eat your wife's food, it's disgusting.
00:15Your questions are decided
00:17Offensive and naive
00:19And you're making me cry a thousand times from the inside
00:21Before you make me laugh
00:23I'm here to tell you that you are no
00:25You don't look thinner
00:26You are fat
00:28You're fat and you'll stay fat your whole life.
00:31Thank you very much, Qirshf
00:32Can I know what the occasion is for this lovely talk?
00:34The occasion is that I have resigned
00:36So what will you do, my brother, after resigning?
00:44Like everyone else does
00:45I'm going to divorce my wife
00:47I spend all my money on women.
00:49I'm assuming you don't know any professors in your life.
00:51Since you used the word "women"
00:53No, not at all.
00:54By the way, they'll love me more
00:56When they found out I was unemployed, they weren't just sexist.
00:58And by the way
00:59This is plan number one
01:00I still have another plan
01:02Yes, brother, what's plan number two?
01:04I'm going to start a drug empire
01:06The whole market was eaten up by it
01:08Yes
01:08Do you have any knowledge of drugs and how to manufacture them?
01:11no
01:11But YouTube is there
01:13Indians are present
01:14So, do you have a head of something to start with?
01:16Do you have registered individuals?
01:18They help you control the market
01:19no
01:19But I have something that many people don't.
01:21I watched Breaking Bad five times
01:24Without translation
01:25Look, Ashraf
01:27What you're going through is called
01:28Breaking Bad
01:29middle-aged dwarf
01:31This is the dwarf
01:32The place where most men leave their wives
01:35They put all their money into the stock market
01:37They buy bicycles
01:38Porsche cars
01:39Or they could watch Breaking Bad five times without subtitles.
01:42You're like that
01:42You have two solutions
01:43Either you continue on this path
01:45And walk in it
01:46And it witnesses
01:47And she dies of hunger
01:49And come to me, Mazlouni
01:50Do you want to return the file?
01:52Farfosk is a man
01:53The second solution
01:53You need to understand
01:54This freedom
01:56The concept of selling on Instagram
01:58It is sold by airlines
02:00To sell more tickets
02:02The second solution
02:03You are withdrawing your resignation letter
02:05Nothing happened at all.
02:08Return to your office
02:10And she laughs at my jokes
02:11And you think your place is very strong
02:14In the career ladder
02:15social peace
02:17contemporary slave
02:18Contemporary Slave
02:20You look so slim today, my friend!
02:30Good morning
02:38Oh, my despicable boss
02:40We open Serby
02:44We're not working
02:46We work
02:53A prayer for the viewers of the health of blessings
02:54Welcome to a new episode
02:56From the Al-Daheeh program
02:57Dear viewers of the forties and fifties
02:58How?
02:59My dear, I'm not taking you by the hand.
03:00I'd take you any year far away
03:01And your freedom in any geographical area, your life is at peace.
03:03Rami, my dear, was born in Tamanat
03:05Atchaif Ma Zain Sharaf in his childhood
03:07Underneath her remained a teenager
03:08And playing Pokémon
03:09He replaces Pikachu
03:10Bablbus
03:10And he's growing up, my dear Rami
03:12He's going to university
03:13Medicine
03:13After a large total came in the general years
03:15Not because I love her, of course
03:16But he was raised just like all of us.
03:18The best way to a better future
03:20It is entering the top college
03:21He's just like any other doctor.
03:23Rami will get a good opportunity to travel
03:25But, my dear, as you know...
03:27He was also very dutiful to his father and mother.
03:29Because of his age and because they needed him, we alerted them.
03:30So he decided that he would stay in Egypt.
03:32He builds a future and guidance
03:33Abu Habil, you're taking a medal, you know the secrets of the houses.
03:35Okay, my dear Abu Habil, tell me
03:36No, no, Abu Habil, we're getting an idea.
03:38Just as you expected
03:39I'll get married late
03:40Rami, my dear
03:40After seven years of education
03:42And three armies
03:42Five years on coffee
03:43Praise be to God, by the power of the Almighty, who knows how to prepare himself
03:46A young man in his prime, thirty-five years old, just starting his life
03:49correct
03:49He married the one who prayed to him
03:50But he loved his wife after marriage.
03:52This was the girl he loved back in college.
03:55As for the girl he loved in college
03:57For many years and years
03:58I forgot about the diaspora and potato sandwiches.
04:01guitar shots
04:02And, God willing, she got married right after graduation.
04:05It was inevitable from the graduation project
04:07She went on a trip with her husband
04:08The one who works two jobs out of three grains in Dubai
04:10Our Quranic friend started collecting and grinding at work.
04:12He moves to a better apartment.
04:13He brought a cleaner car
04:15Finally, he entered and began to increase
04:16He no longer needs to work long hours.
04:18Thank God, the marriage has settled down and Malik and Zeina have arrived.
04:21Everything is going perfectly
04:22A gynecologist, this husband is loyal
04:25Its nuts are deficient and active, and it's listed on the menu of Balaban.
04:27Of course, my dear, as you know, the rules of dramatic plot
04:30Life doesn't stop here.
04:32Something has to come in and change everything.
04:34But the strange thing, my dear
04:35This need won't be met from the outside.
04:37You'll get it from inside
04:38After entering his forties, Rami began to feel that he was not happy.
04:41Everything is perfect on paper.
04:42But his feeling inside is that there's something more.
04:45It's not just his hair that's half thinned out
04:46The second text is eggs.
04:47And that belly fat that I can't seem to get rid of no matter how much I diet.
04:50These things, my dear, are all considered simple compared to what Rami has.
04:53A good wife's job and bright children
04:55But Rami still asks himself
04:57I don't feel happy
04:59He asks himself a blind question
05:00Was I happy all my life?
05:01I would be happier now if I traveled
05:03Or if I were the one who chose the check, the one I love
05:05Or if I wasn't behind him
05:07And I had led her on trips, vacations, and conferences
05:10Is this the story of the valley that was operating in Dubai?
05:12And he worked on a job that consists of three letters.
05:14It was possible to specify
05:15And then I could have been truly happy
05:17I married the woman I love.
05:18I won't hide it from you, my dear
05:19Since we are still in the stage of household secrets
05:21Rami Azizi started to find it difficult at home
05:23A little strange symptoms
05:24I want to delve a little deeper into the secrets of homes.
05:26Enough already!
05:27No, no, no, no
05:28Let's get an idea from them
05:29Rami was still working with the kingdoms
05:30Rami Azizi started getting annoyed when his wife touched his phone.
05:33His absences from home began to become more frequent.
05:35And it lasts for longer periods.
05:36I have a medical conference in Sharm El Sheikh.
05:38I had a case of severe illness for seven hours in the hospital.
05:41And so and so and so on
05:42Little by little, my dear
05:43And his wife found him heading towards Türkiye.
05:46So he can come back after a month
05:47The potatoes were arranged so they were red and juicy.
05:50His wife discovers that her husband is the father of her children.
05:52He had a hair transplant to cover up his baldness
05:54Here, my dear wife, all her fears were confirmed.
05:58And that's what we all expected
06:00What Shabo Hamid says is that the operation failed.
06:01No, my dear, it turns out he's married to someone else.
06:03Perhaps, my dear, Rami's story is a well-worn plot.
06:06I saw it in the Arab world about 500 times
06:08Nour El-Sherif worked on 4 projects and 4
06:10And you, my dear, the truth is that this story
06:12It will occupy some psychologists
06:13Even before his own goal, he could be born, bringing 70 years to the present.
06:17In 1957, psychologist Elliott Jack stood
06:21In front of the members of the University of Beirut Psychological Specialists
06:25He will present a scientific paper.
06:27This paper examines psychological changes
06:29For approximately 300 creators
06:30How? By solving their artistic problems.
06:33Two drawings and a book about Shakespeare and Dante's ruler
06:35My dear, I am in this study
06:37They are nearing the end of their thirties
06:39And the beginning of the rabbits from their age, their preparation begins with foundations and questions
06:43They start to have thoughts like we're about to die.
06:46They start to have questions about the purpose of their lives.
06:48What are we doing? And what are we going to do?
06:50Is this really what we wanted?
06:52These questions and ideas will cause some of them to produce less because of this stage.
06:55Some have completely ceased production and are isolated from public life.
06:59Hamad, don't take me for granted.
07:00But you said that Rami is an ordinary person like us.
07:02A doctor who works a regular job
07:04He is not necessarily an artist or a creative person
07:06The truth is, this talk didn't stop with the artists.
07:09Elliott said that this problem happens to ordinary people.
07:12They go through the same age phase with the same questions
07:14But there remained different and varying symptoms.
07:17For example, some people in this dissolute society are getting closer to God.
07:19And suddenly she had a religious awakening
07:21And some people turn in a completely different direction.
07:23She goes wild, gets drunk, and does whatever she wants.
07:26Other people make crucial decisions.
07:28Big Shift Works
07:29I am a respected doctor or a bank manager
07:32Suddenly I want a diving instructor in Dahab
07:34Keep a skirt dancer on the night of your life
07:36Keep the flute player at my leisure
07:37My heritage, my brother
07:38People in Rabia tend to be more concerned with their health.
07:40Playing games
07:41Are you on a diet?
07:42It's strange that they're doing this with such incredible effort.
07:44Eliot described this effort as being closer to compulsive behavior.
07:46People are trying to preserve their youth.
07:50It's as if death is coming for them
07:51Perhaps, my dear, as a Millennial viewer
07:53You feel that Eliot is exaggerating
07:54But according to the sources
07:55Fjax, who is Elliott Jax
07:56He will confess to one of the journalists
07:58Although he is a respected researcher, he says, "This is the talk."
08:00However, he is one of the patients in this study.
08:02Eliot Jaxx described this situation well.
08:04Because he was selling it to me
08:05He'll call his piety
08:06And be careful
08:08This was the first time this term was used.
08:11middle age crisis
08:13Let me tell you that this paper
08:15It is classified as one of the most famous scientific papers
08:19In the field of psychology
08:20You've probably heard of this midlife crisis somewhere before.
08:22But let me surprise you, my dear, and tell you
08:24Society at the time did not receive her with such enthusiasm.
08:28Why, Abu Ahmed?
08:28They will attack him and call him a childish man.
08:30He created a specific theory to justify his actions.
08:32my darling
08:33The worst thing, my dear, is that the man will be met with complete indifference.
08:36After the discussion, all that remains is silence.
08:38Jace, my dear, is talking about this day and saying
08:40The topic was very sensitive.
08:41No one spoke up, and that was something new and rare.
08:43No one told him he was great, and no one even told him he was a monster.
08:46What are you saying?
08:47What's the truth? This situation made Jack
08:49This research is mounted on the side
08:50And then he goes and studies other things
08:51It seems there is no acceptance
08:52It seems that this phenomenon
08:54It's a unique phenomenon; only I experience it.
08:55Or am I the only one who sees her living percentage?
08:57And since then he hasn't written about the midlife crisis again
08:59Because, in his words, it failed miserably.
09:02My dear, the matter remains as it is.
09:03It lasts for 6 years
09:05Then suddenly we find Elio Jax
09:07I sold his paper to the International Journal of Psychoanalysis.
09:10He weakened, relapsed, and returned to a midlife crisis.
09:12And indeed, the paper was sold out in October 1965.
09:15The same address
09:16But, my dear friend, instead of absolute silence
09:19The exact opposite will happen.
09:21The paper will explode and go viral
09:23My dear friend, the theory has been reduced to being confined within a scientific paper.
09:27For the world of popular culture
09:28We asked for his opinion on books, movies, and TV series.
09:31In less than 10 years
09:33We started watching movies whose heroes
09:34Men and women pass through the proven middle of science
09:37For example, we see
09:38Saif Da Tiger by Jack Lemmon
09:39Which was produced in 1973
09:41Anyone who talks about a successful businessman having a mental breakdown
09:43Because he feels it's his only passion in life
09:45Or The Unmarid Woman, 1978
09:47That's why she's forced to rebuild her life.
09:49After her husband left her, the atmosphere and the six were younger
09:51Celia Azizi's films will continue and will reach the millennium.
09:54When we watch a movie, for example, like Ed, Brea, Love
09:56The author of this book is Elizabeth Gilbert.
09:58Her story became a guide for anyone who wants to travel and see the world.
10:01Especially after reaching middle age
10:04My dear, the topic is complicated here.
10:06It will continue to develop even further.
10:07And the house will no longer follow secrets.
10:08Everyone will know about everyone else
10:10The idea will become the talk of the town
10:12In her book, Midlife Dwarf
10:13You might say Barbara Freed, for example.
10:15Midlife dwarfism is a normal aspect of growth.
10:17Her outfit
10:18Just like teething in babies
10:19Suddenly, my dear, the world is dealing with a middle-aged dwarf.
10:22Something that was unknown five or six years ago at the time
10:24The best part is that it's a biological inevitability.
10:26Anyone who arrives in their early forties or late thirties
10:30Your body has to drive you crazy and make you go through it
10:32The symptoms of this condition were described in a New York Times article in 1971.
10:35Symptoms of stress are described
10:37Constant anxiety and boredom
10:39Your outlook on life is pessimistic and can be summed up in one question.
10:41What's the point?
10:42Symptoms include feeling trapped and confined.
10:45And protect your middle-life day
10:47In short, my dear, from the hour of Eliot's passing, it spread
10:50And as pop music, like evil, caught on, the term midlife crisis spread everywhere.
10:54The term "ready-made" remains, and we use it to describe any internal conflict.
10:57This happens to a person between the ages of 40 and 60.
11:00A term appropriate for any situation
11:02It could now be said that you've reached the midlife crisis.
11:04Because it was said that you failed to achieve your goals
11:07Or you succeeded in achieving your goals
11:08But you're not happy
11:09Or, or, or you succeeded in achieving your goals
11:12And happy
11:12But I'm not sure
11:13Are you happy with the people you missed out on, and are you happy with them now?
11:16Is this really happiness in the first place?
11:17Perhaps the meaning lies in suffering, and perhaps joy has no meaning.
11:20Dear topic, Muhammad
11:22To the point that it became a term used for anything.
11:23For example, you might find specialists in management science.
11:25They began encouraging companies to be sensitive.
11:28When they deal with employees in this age group
11:30The US Government Task Force warned of a midlife crisis
11:34This is caused by high mortality rates among men.
11:37At the age of 35 to 40 years
11:39Maybe, my dear, when you allow all this, you'll feel that this crisis
11:42A long-standing psychological crisis
11:44perennial crisis
11:45Finally, someone shone a spotlight on her and showed her mercy.
11:48But my dear, let me surprise you and tell you
11:49Some scientists say that the existence of this phenomenon is linked to the twentieth century.
11:54This is not an old thing
11:55This has never been the feeling humans have had for a long time.
11:57The twentieth century witnessed a significant and radical development
12:00Come back, and your generation will be dressed and ready. I'll take you by the hand.
12:03We look at the beginning of the twentieth century
12:05If you, my dear, were to become a person of calculation, you would calculate how much you have contributed to the 40
12:08Let me tell you that the first person to develop the concept of Hisbah was the scientist Gilles Pascal.
12:11But my dear, if you spread out the periodic table in front of you
12:13So, see what elements you're lacking, you're like a manganese or iron.
12:17It's a need to stop with you, old age
12:19Instead of you being fair with helium and neon in the inert elements like that
12:21You will find that the person who developed the basis of this periodic table was the scientist Hadri Masley.
12:26My dear friend, Pascal, this great and venerable scholar, died before the age of forty.
12:30The great scientist who developed this important table died before the age of thirty.
12:34Pascal died of an illness, and a battle in which he was killed.
12:37One lived in the seventeenth century and the other lived in the nineteenth century.
12:40What are you trying to say with protection?
12:41I'm trying to tell you, my dear, that if you were born in the twentieth century
12:44For example, the year 1900
12:45I'm telling you, my dear, that half the population is fine.
12:48Those who reached sixty
12:49You had more reasons to die than reasons to live.
12:52You wake up in the morning, stretch, and find a pandemic and a war.
12:54There was no midlife crisis
12:56midlife crisis, if present
12:58We never reached middle age
12:59The average age of men was barely 52 years old.
13:02It was natural for people to think that at forty, it was the beginning of the end.
13:06But what happened in the twentieth century was that the world turned upside down.
13:08Life expectancy, especially in wealthy countries
13:11Average lifespan will start to increase by 2 or 3 out of 10 years every 10 years
13:15That means, my dear, that someone born in the year 1030 has about an 80% chance of reaching sixty.
13:20In his book, Life Begins at Forty
13:22The book that was a bestseller in the 1930s
13:24Walter Pitkin says
13:25Before the machine age from Warout Ad Forty
13:28Meaning before the era of artificial images
13:29Men were saying goodbye at the age of forty
13:31Men in their forties become expire
13:33Expiration date
13:34But this is thanks to
13:35Industrial development, new medicines, and Pilates
13:38The men in the status update have started to move, according to him.
13:41Because they live to earn what is worthy of them
13:43The mission, my dear, is new and strange in the history of humanity.
13:47If they are even living their lives at all
13:49The conflict is over
13:50The struggle for survival
13:50We still want to sit down
13:52There will always be times in our lives like that.
13:54We don't do anything there and we live normally.
13:56Companionship, if you grow old and become disabled
13:58It didn't exist at all.
14:00Please be aware, my dear, that the time we are talking about
14:02The one in which Eliot Jack published his paper
14:04It was the year 65
14:05At that time, the average life expectancy in the Western country was stagnant
14:08Jump for seventy years
14:09This difference is in average age
14:11He left humans very naturally
14:13They are thinking of changing their lives in the text
14:15Suddenly, we live a long life together.
14:17A lot
14:18We build a career that we can stick with for years.
14:21And it could take decades
14:22Suddenly we squirt
14:23We ask ourselves, what are we doing?
14:24We ask ourselves, are we supposed to do this all our lives?
14:26This is the first time in human history
14:29It is expected that he will live long enough
14:31So that he can enjoy the results of his work
14:33Or invest in new relationships
14:35Also, my dear, I won't hide anything from you
14:36The second one volunteered
14:37Women have entered the labor market with significant numbers.
14:39They remained more independent in their decisions.
14:42Not only that
14:43These changes weren't limited to the wealthy class.
14:45It even reached the middle class.
14:47Members of the middle class still had access
14:49They understand themselves better
14:50They think about things like therapy or capel therapy.
14:53They make decisions
14:54They are thinking of themselves
14:56They remain a priority for themselves in their lives.
14:58middle class, dear
15:00Trauma craft
15:00Also, my dear, we see that the view of marriage has changed.
15:03It used to be normal for a marriage to end with the death of the husband or wife.
15:07And many of them have a stepfather or stepmother.
15:10Now the chances of death are lower
15:12The idea that you spend the rest of your life with someone who has likely changed since the day you married them
15:16And you've probably changed too since the day you married him.
15:18The idea remained difficult
15:19Now, my dear, there are only marriages for those 68 years old.
15:21The prison service itself after 25 years
15:23And they accuse the criminals and endure a journalistic pardon
15:25What's this? Because in her book, The Wonderful Midlife Dwarf
15:28You're telling me, my dear, that on the second one, six
15:29People were not expected to live with us.
15:32And they love each other for long periods like this
15:33We've outlived the lifespan of relationships.
15:36This is one of the reasons for the increase in divorce rates.
15:39Also, my dear, a long life will make each partner look at the other.
15:43He grows older every year.
15:44And this, my dear, is not hidden from you; I felt it too.
15:47For example, the six who felt their attractiveness had decreased
15:49Her feelings might be reflected in the image of the husband today.
15:52The one who no longer finds it as attractive as before
15:53He stopped spoiling her and stopped going out with her.
15:55The young man who was a handsome groom is now heading towards old age
15:58His hair thinned and his weight increased.
16:00And testosterone, my dear, is now just drops
16:02Wow, my dear, it's time for some fun!
16:03Wow, look at the amount of testosterone!
16:06But there is nothing
16:07The first thing you'll do when you grow up, get married, and fall in love with him is have money.
16:10People love you and find you attractive.
16:12Teacher Jaafar tension
16:14Seriously, my dear, our lives need to be busy, but sometimes it's just home.
16:17Meanwhile, this man begins to fall on his wife
16:20She is no longer trustworthy herself.
16:21She stopped spilling it, that's enough.
16:22She doesn't want to go out with him anymore, enough is enough.
16:24The husband and wife then begin exchanging kisses at home.
16:26Mohammed, I feel like these families are getting more and more.
16:28Invalidate
16:29No, no, no, we know the hero.
16:31My dear imagination, I have a married couple, they are young
16:33They are, for example, in the strong fifties
16:35It's quite possible their children are married.
16:37However, this cable presents a very significant problem for them.
16:39This is a problem that the cable therapist calls
16:41By the emtinest
16:43The empty nest
16:44So guide us to raise and nurture
16:45Our whole lives will revolve around the children, raising them, yelling at them, pressuring them, and the trouble we cause them.
16:52We promised to look at your problems, put them on the shelf, and sweep them under the rug.
16:56All our disagreements are resolved under the pretext that we are pushing the ship to make it move.
16:59Suddenly, the boat arrives and you're sitting on the boat.
17:02What Else
17:03Then you start looking at each other and seeing what the problems were between you.
17:06Each of you will start to remember your sacrifices, the things you did to win back the other, to continue the marriage, and to raise the children.
17:13Here, even though they were already empty
17:16Although the world has become devoid of responsibilities
17:18However, the problems began to increase.
17:20These kinds of intrusions, my dear, have become even more common, especially in societies where the role of the extended family has begun to fade away.
17:26Back then, my dear, in some societies too
17:29The couple would stay in a family home or in a house near the home of the husband's or wife's parents.
17:34Therefore, care is not solely the responsibility of the parents.
17:37This refers to the father and mother only.
17:38No, Grandma helps.
17:40Auntie helps
17:41Uncle helps
17:42Everyone helps
17:43It all helps in raising children.
17:44And it helps with expenses
17:45But as societies developed, a great burden began to fall on the nuclear family.
17:50But my dear, over time people began to migrate to the cities.
17:53So it's far from the Extended Family
17:55She bears full responsibility for the care of the children.
17:58My dear, the fragrance of parenting has entered the couple's lives, making it much more difficult.
18:01From duties, studies, exams, and so on and so forth.
18:04I'm alone with my dear friend, I forgot what he does for a living.
18:06Each center remained
18:07He remained the guardian
18:08Ah, so you are the guardian of the student Salim and Muhammad
18:10How did you manage to get up?
18:11Doubt arises and your presence is concerning the same child and the other child.
18:13I really want this arrangement, my dear, for the mothers.
18:15It might have the opposite effect.
18:17We don't need to separate from each other
18:18The couple continues the marriage because divorce has become much more frightening now.
18:21Because we are in a state of complete absence of family or household support.
18:25Especially if the health is like before
18:27Here, both parties decide to proceed with this marriage based on the principle of
18:31When I'm forced to, who will take care of me? When I'm sick, who will look after me?
18:33And the old man we know
18:34Better than an old man we don't know
18:35Abu Ahmed, don't get involved in the details and personal matters of people.
18:39But Dr. Layla told me about him at first, the one whose name was Professor Rami.
18:41This man is neither divorced nor satisfied with his situation.
18:43This took a third choice, Khan
18:45First of all, my dear, don't call him my friend.
18:46I don't associate with these kinds of people.
18:47Secondly, let's move on from the many scenarios and possibilities.
18:50We unify the speech according to one style or pattern.
18:52A universal pattern that is imprinted on most people in the world, despite their different personalities.
18:55In psychology, it's called the U-curve of happiness.
18:58In a study, my dear, I dealt with a 2008 study that included about 132 countries
19:02The two studies, my dear, examined people's levels of happiness.
19:04They found that happiness takes the shape of the letter U.
19:06And you, for example, when you are young, at this point in the day
19:08The world is beautiful, there are no responsibilities.
19:10Fathers and mothers are two jobs that will drive you crazy
19:12And you, by your own command, make them laugh and be happy, and don't frown and upset them.
19:16It's ugliness, it's praying, it's bigger
19:18With a tug of war, a cuckoo falls and eats a coconut.
19:21Grow up a little, my dear, you'll enter the tens and thirties and the responsibilities will start to increase.
19:24And your family isn't as close to you as they used to be either.
19:26But you're still here, you have orders and ambitions.
19:28Can you imagine a different future for yourself?
19:31Of course I know and believe that we will all die
19:32But your brain still isn't translated, that's a joke.
19:35Ignoring the fact that you're just like everyone else
19:36What applies to them applies to you.
19:38A risk factor for illness and death at any moment
19:40But my dear, when you approach forty
19:42Signs of aging are starting to appear on you
19:44You can smoke or reach her like our friend.
19:46You might develop high blood pressure or diabetes.
19:47One of your friends in the same city as you has a health crisis
19:50You might find yourself unable to eat two liver sandwiches before you go to sleep.
19:54Because he's terrified, welded, and put on a position that will melt you all night.
19:56The pheromone testosterone level begins to decrease in men.
19:59By about 1% annually after thirty
20:01But because this percentage is low for you
20:03The effects of this decline begin to become more apparent in the late forties and fifties.
20:07The weight loss is increasing and fatigue is rising.
20:09Muscle mass decreases and fat increases.
20:11Your hair is falling out and your head looks like a desert dung heap in Giza.
20:14On another note, my dear, in your forties you face some challenges
20:18First, cessation of menstruation
20:19Not only that, but it happens before you reach the minuscule stage.
20:22It undergoes physiological changes
20:24Their estrogen and progesterone levels start to decrease.
20:26However, hormonal changes in women are often faster and more pronounced.
20:30Therefore, my dear, its effect is one
20:33Piggy Atrabat during the menstrual cycle
20:34Continue until you reach the point of interruption of incubation.
20:37It has items like hot flashes, for example
20:39Or hot flashes
20:40This is the sensation of the body temperature suddenly rising in certain areas.
20:43The look of fear and horror and the Sidr
20:45A feeling that might last for seconds and sometimes minutes
20:48There may be excessive sweating or sudden trembling.
20:50The blockages are so numerous, they reach a point where it's like a fire burning inside the body.
20:54For no apparent reason, women also experience weight changes like us.
20:57Then the fat begins to accumulate more in the abdominal area.
21:00Instead of accumulating in the thighs and buttocks
21:02Burning rates also decrease
21:04It's possible that the dam is still eating the same food it used to eat.
21:07It could be less, but its weight increases faster.
21:09But estrogen remains responsible for skin structure.
21:12It produces collagen and bone saturation.
21:13Therefore, my dear, when it starts to decrease
21:15The wrinkles start to appear faster
21:17And the skin becomes drier and drier still
21:19The month is also getting shorter and less frequent.
21:22It can be crouched, and of course it can have ten bones.
21:24Therefore, the incident remains serious.
21:27My dear Deheri, it's on the same page for both genders.
21:28Sexual fear is decreasing
21:30Abu Hamad, don't take it
21:30You've almost messed up your scripts
21:32We at Rest are in the middle age stage
21:35You spoke in our language, you scoundrels
21:36It's possible to bring back an old-fashioned guide from time immemorial.
21:38my darling
21:39Understanding all these symptoms is important in understanding the midlife divide.
21:43Because suddenly the man and woman feel that they have become different people than before.
21:46And sometimes they respond to this with mood swings
21:48Like anxiety and depression
21:50Now, my dear, the reason for the misery is clear to me.
21:52I kept seeing them all in the mirror
21:54I kept feeling like I was fading away
21:56I'm dying in front of you
21:57I feel my demise
21:58The Hummer is limited and the questions are piling up halfway through the trip.
22:01I'm asking what you did in the past.
22:02What will I do in the future?
22:03Of course, my dear, if you're under forty, you're probably afraid to enter this year.
22:06After what I told you, I mean
22:07But let me, my dear, bring you back to a crucial point in this episode.
22:10The curve I showed you might get you a little excited
22:13Firstly, not all people are the same.
22:14Sinan, my dear Value Curve, the one I told you about is world-class.
22:16The differences in mood that occur between men and women
22:19These are inevitable raids
22:20But all of this turns into a crisis
22:22We call this crisis the Midlife Crisis
22:24This doesn't necessarily have to be something inevitable at all.
22:26So, yes, you might see art installations every day.
22:29But it doesn't matter to you
22:30Let's surprise you, my friend, and tell you an exclusive statement from the program.
22:32It could be a midlife crisis
22:35The problem isn't its cruelty or its prevalence.
22:37But its problem is fundamentally a scientific one.
22:39Scientific
22:40The truth, my dear, is that this midlife crisis
22:43Widespread not necessarily being scientific fact
22:46any?
22:46You're not Abu Ahmed, this man?
22:47She shared it in a scientific journal.
22:49Wait, my dear
22:49Come on, my dear, what I want to reveal to you in this episode
22:52This crisis is not a scientific crisis.
22:53Meaning, it became popular because it's spicy.
22:56Its appeal lies far more in its brilliance than in its scientific basis.
22:59any?
23:00You say, Abu Ahmed, I was desperately searching for justifications for my dirty deeds.
23:03Get out of here, Abu Ahmed, and come back again! Take me to the Renaissance!
23:06What does James Howat say?
23:08My dear, it won't hurt to take you back to the Renaissance era.
23:10But let me introduce you to Margie Lachman
23:12T is a professor of psychology at Brants University
23:14This saying, my dear, suggests that midlife crisis is mostly
23:17In her words, a legend
23:19What? A legend
23:20Mozum, my dear, the psychological descriptions associated with this crisis are not accurate.
23:25Ahmed, wait, let me tell you about the staple.
23:27According to a study published in 2000
23:29Between ten and twenty percent of Americans
23:32They said they went through a midlife crisis
23:34About 100% of them have no crisis or anything
23:37Ahmed, how can you say what you're saying?
23:39I spent half the episode building something only to demolish it in front of me.
23:42Like a small piece?
23:43No, my brother, what's the story?
23:44My dear, if you pay attention to what I'm saying, you'll find me telling you
23:46The midlife crisis remains a term
23:48It is designed to cope with any stress or psychological conflict a person may face in their forties.
23:52There is no single agreed-upon definition
23:54I mean, I'm telling you things and their opposites
23:56I'm telling you, some people can be religious.
23:57And some people might be promiscuous
23:59Some marry two women, and some decide to live alone.
24:01Needs and their opposites
24:03Someone who loses their passion for life
24:04Someone is trying to start a new passion.
24:06There isn't one single definition we can refer to and tell you
24:09This is a midlife crisis
24:10These are broad definitions
24:11What is the meaning of a young man in his twenties who prays to the Prophet and has crises?
24:14The thirty-year-old man has crises
24:15There is no unit 2-3 when they get 4-5-6
24:18We're telling you this is a midlife crisis
24:19However, some studies define it as a general feeling of satisfaction.
24:22The reason has very natural causes.
24:24The aging process that occurs in the body and teeth
24:25And in other studies, these reasons branch out further.
24:27Hamad, I don't understand anything.
24:28If it's not scientifically accurate
24:30Why do people identify with her?
24:31And you feel like it's me here
24:32This happened to me
24:33Lash, my dear, you're saying that's part of the reason.
24:36Spices
24:36It's like the zodiac signs, my dear.
24:37People here like to put names on their age lists
24:39Oh Lord, the autumn of my life
24:41And again, all of these things, my dear, come with their own problems.
24:43The name of the midlife crisis is...
24:44This would make a good bookmark to put in the middle of your life story.
24:47It makes you feel the passing of days
24:48But the most important reason for the spread of the midlife crisis
24:51It's not scientifically accurate.
24:53But sometimes it is culturally accurate.
24:58In the book by psychologist Carl Tringer
25:00Fear of triviality
25:01So you caused claustrophobia
25:02Praiophobia
25:03xenophobia
25:04I held on to it
25:05The one who has a dear friend says that the most important role
25:07This crisis is playing out in the culture.
25:09In culture
25:10The culture of the society you live in
25:12That is, in Stringer's opinion, for example
25:13Western societies dress the United States of America
25:15The individual is the center of the world in it
25:17Not the family
25:18In these individualistic societies
25:20The Extended Family Gone
25:21Not available
25:22And human focus shifted to needs like
25:24If you remain Mongz
25:25If you develop yourself
25:27If you take pills
25:28If you are learning your languages
25:29You have to work from morning till late at night
25:32Because you have to succeed
25:33You have to be strong
25:35You have to rely on yourself
25:36Because if you have time, my love
25:37No one will catch you
25:38In this context
25:39The pressure is much greater on the individual.
25:41It's a slip of the tongue.
25:41He failed to achieve his goals before the 1940s
25:43Or he suffered job loss
25:45Or separate
25:45He starts to feel very intense pressure on himself.
25:48I'm going to hell
25:48I'm a failure.
25:49This, my dear
25:50In contrast to traditional societies
25:51Which is considered
25:52Time will tell what happens.
25:54It is part of the life cycle
25:55Technique for me
25:56There's no pressure.
25:57What he goes through
25:58Western man
25:58In capitalist society
26:00Something important, my dear
26:01Let's not call these traditional societies
26:02heaven
26:03And everything in it is happy
26:04There are no crises
26:04no
26:05It has different crises
26:06But it doesn't necessarily have to
26:07The same crisis exists in different societies
26:10Every society, my dear, has its own problems.
26:11But let's get back to our topic, my friend.
26:12In traditional societies
26:13The older a person gets
26:14It's like you're saying
26:15He has a role to play.
26:16For example
26:17He is the one who delivers victory
26:18For younger generations
26:19He just sits there rambling on and on about theories.
26:21When I was in Sinko
26:22And when I was in Adko
26:23And he keeps telling you
26:24Light, the youth always sit
26:25He was asleep, all the wishes
26:26Also, in a society that focuses on individual identity
26:29personal achievement
26:30You find everyone comparing themselves to others
26:31His life in a race
26:32And this race
26:33Baloch End
26:34Because there's always someone who has achieved something better than you.
26:36The best idea in your mind
26:37It was thrown on Rida from 2009
26:39Until you master the programming that you understand.
26:41An Indian actor explaining his actions on YouTube
26:42All your life savings
26:43Ronaldo's son's allowance
26:44He spends it for a week
26:45Now, my dear
26:46Due to class and country differences
26:47According to the article
26:48Fortune 2020
26:50It is based on a study of her work.
26:51NPER
26:52Which is the National Bureau of Economic Research
26:55Economists, my dear
26:56Download the study and answer the important questions.
26:57Is the midlife crisis real
27:00Is a midlife crisis a real crisis?
27:02Economists, my dear
27:03He said yes
27:04But if you live in a Western country
27:06and a rich country
27:07Besides that
27:07You don't have a midlife crisis
27:08The journalist neglects him
27:09In Ruckerman
27:10She says that midlife crisis
27:11Despite all her fame
27:12Many people are limiting it
27:14On the middle and upper classes
27:16Especially those with fair skin
27:17The one who is normal in rich countries
27:19People who have
27:20Sufficient free time
27:21Perfection on their lives
27:22And enough money
27:23Let them bring their carts.
27:25Those who try to delve into it
27:26middle age crisis
27:27Or they indulge in emotional whims
27:29Bahzat Al-Saman
27:30You, my dear, are a poor spectator
27:32You can't afford a midlife crisis
27:34You need a specific card
27:35So that we can get involved in the crisis
27:36In the second study
27:37For Socio-Ecnopic Review
27:38She says
27:39Those who killed the egg
27:40The people who work in administration now
27:42And sharing and things like that
27:43These people are more vulnerable
27:44If they have a midlife crisis
27:46Compared to workers
27:47The owners of the Zarqa killer
27:48Which they call in English
27:49blue collar
27:50This comes from high professional expectations.
27:53The constant pressure placed on the employee
27:55Low-income people suffer from various crises
27:57They call it the disease of despair
27:59For example, addiction or depression
28:01And that's because they feel there's little hope.
28:04And the future doesn't look what it does.
28:05Especially if we are ordinary people in societies where there is poverty and unemployment.
28:08My dear, if you reflect on the matter
28:10You'll find that the price is like marriage or divorce.
28:12Or the second marriage
28:13Carat, like resignation, shift career, or therapy
28:17Try playing a new instrument or practicing a new sport
28:19Or you can travel to another country
28:20All this, my dear, if you said it to a poor person
28:23He will shower you with a flood of tears from your family, one by one.
28:26And it's not the kind of music you like to listen to.
28:27My dear, I have things that are not available to all social classes.
28:30If someone can't find anything to eat, you'll say, "Go to the mosque."
28:31Go away, you're full of yourself.
28:33Also, my dear, there are gender differences in the division of age by half.
28:36For example, according to a study I conducted in 1990
28:38She says that men are judged based on their wealth and success.
28:41The job makes them more prone to stress and anxiety in middle age.
28:45When they reach this stage, this age
28:47They find themselves, my dear, in a role where they are always competing to be the provider.
28:51The family's wise man spends
28:53If they feel that they are unable to do it, their numbers increase.
28:55And, God willing, my dear, we see things like
28:57Education costs are a currency that increases
28:59And it increases the rates of inflation more than
29:00So, the current circumstances mean that everyone is abandoning this guy.
29:05In another study entitled From Intertransition
29:07You'll find, my dear, that I'm confirming the same point.
29:09She says that men in traditional societies face a great psychological conflict as a result of
29:12Because they were raised to believe that masculinity means spanking
29:16Ability to spend
29:17The seventh pocket is never empty, and a man is only judged by his empty pocket.
29:19But I ask him about the Prophet, along with his feelings about social and economic changes.
29:22And Trump and the exorbitant tariff that gave his mother a headache
29:25Men see themselves as being in a crisis
29:27So there were no more lions, only owls.
29:29The man himself is saying that he is unable to send messages like before.
29:31He said, "This means that I have become Joseph."
29:34The money that was in the house is gone.
29:35It means I'm bald and have a belly.
29:37And I don't know how to be a family man either.
29:38And what happened to him, my dear, in the study in 2001?
29:40This is a study that analyzed the situation of Korean immigrants to America.
29:43This study found that men who felt they had lost their traditional role
29:47They began to develop severe psychological problems.
29:49Those men who have been bitten by them no longer care.
29:50Neither his wife nor his family nor anything else
29:52Other people have entered a wave of depression.
29:54Oh Abu Hamid, according to the opinion of Professor Ahmed Sheiba
29:56The need is once, and many heroes have been lost.
29:58I'm sorry, my dear, if you think this crisis only affects men from wealthy families.
30:02You're still wrong
30:02According to the Honey Book of Social Development study
30:05Even a man who has achieved professional success suffers.
30:08Because he is terrified that he could suddenly lose everything.
30:10His money could go to the stock market
30:12If that happens, he might not only lose his job
30:14This could cause him to lose his identity itself.
30:15His identity today is based on his work.
30:17The need that he spends on it can be more than 8 or 9 hours
30:21What are you, my dear, in this society?
30:22You're still definite because of what you're doing.
30:25You still know what you're doing
30:26Imagine, my dear, your name on Facebook, Bash Inji Ahmed Bahmad
30:29Why are there men, my dear?
30:30They are always in danger
30:31Please allow me, my dear, to study among your belongings.
30:34According to a study by Ericsson in the Journal of Aging Studies in 2021
30:38Modern social choices have exacerbated the problem.
30:41The idea of the breadwinner or provider means
30:43The one who has children and takes care of them and so on
30:45It began to erode and diminish without any alternatives remaining.
30:48So here, my dear, we have become a society, at least compared to Western societies.
30:50She tells the man that he shouldn't have to handle everything himself.
30:53But at the same time, if you leave your computer
30:55It's like you have to be responsible for everything.
30:57You might be able to share the expenses with her.
30:59But you can divorce, and you can divorce
31:02And then society will show no mercy.
31:03There's no extended family to take over and catch up
31:06Samani, my dear, the man's role was defined
31:08There were significant responsibilities, of course, but it was clear
31:10You go to work and dismiss a teller employee
31:13Do you want Khadya?
31:14Two hours in front of Sada El Balad, yelling at them
31:17You're afraid to sleep and then you go to work the next day, and thank you, we don't want to see you at home.
31:20At that time, society kept telling the man
31:22You must remain a family to your family
31:23But at the same time you have to be sensitive
31:25You have to push yourself at work and laugh at yourself
31:26But strength comes at the expense of your health.
31:28Your reward is a right you owe
31:29You know you need to give yourself some time.
31:31So that you don't get Burn Qut
31:32So stop working
31:33You need to take vacations
31:35But when you give yourself time
31:36You must make time for your wife
31:37So that breakfast doesn't become a problem in the marital relationship.
31:39And you, while you're working on breakfast in the marital relationship
31:41You also need to give time to the children.
31:43And the kids won't be termites
31:45And your daughter comes and tells you
31:46I love the people I have
31:47Because my father was a free man
31:49Above all, you must be a good person and a good citizen.
31:51And you know what's going on tonight.
31:52Because there are some ignorant people on social media who post this kind of stuff.
31:54And you connect it and do this with high efficiency.
31:56I'm that romantic
31:57I make this much money
31:58I spend this much time
32:00I'm going to my Lord to write these posts
32:02Surprise, my dear
32:03The man in his forties is in a state of time.
32:04He himself is besieged
32:05Compressed and carrying in his cats
32:06And when he starts complaining
32:07It worries, it dries up
32:08Freeze
32:09Why?
32:09And the man is crying
32:10I'm not shaking the globe, I'm crying
32:11Men, my dear, as we've said 500 times on this program
32:13Piamilwa to Capel Ewatif Aktar Min El Sittat
32:16If you were to fall asleep, my dear, in a depression episode
32:17You will find that depression rates among men
32:19The text is less than the number of women.
32:21But their rates of trade are four times higher.
32:23You'll find, my dear, that there are many men.
32:25I'm glad she will express her feelings and ask for support from people.
32:27That's what men are like, my dear.
32:28Of course, we see similar, identical, and different things among women.
32:31Even if their handling of crises
32:34Not the same way men are treated
32:35However, they and many of them
32:37Especially now in the societies we live in
32:39And again, under the circumstances we mentioned.
32:40They also have midlife crises
32:42What I'm trying to explain, my dear, is that this
32:44It doesn't necessarily happen to all social classes.
32:46All circumstances and all races
32:48All genders are the same
32:50It was originally a Western idea.
32:51But as you can see
32:52It's all true.
32:53What do you think globalization has done?
32:55Dear viewer, born in the eighties
32:58Welcome to the midlife crisis
33:00With you, Madam Crisis
33:01If you, my dear, are from the eighties generation
33:02You're entering middle age now.
33:04Allow me to say welcome to Sandwich Generation
33:06The middle-aged generation is always caught between two categories
33:09Your father's category, the one who got old
33:10In one way or another, it's expected that you'll remain like him.
33:12Because you are his genetics and were raised in his house
33:14And the second lament
33:15You are among a younger generation than you
33:16Which is your children
33:17The younger generation in the family
33:18Those who might be of marriageable age
33:20But they are not like you, not in taste.
33:22Neither in thinking nor in ideas
33:23All your attempts to get rid of them, my dear
33:25It ends with a look of pity for you.
33:27Yeah
33:28Did the crisis do this to you?
33:29You are from a generation that has been together for a long time.
33:31And a generation that is still forming
33:32Generation that passed the torch
33:33And a generation waiting for the flag
33:34Please, my dear, don't ask me where the flag is.
33:36You, my dear, are in the text
33:37You didn't do what you had to do and finish it.
33:39Restarting and rebuilding yourself from scratch won't work.
33:41The scientist Erik Erikson in his theory of psychological development
33:44He will put the midlife crisis in stage seven
33:46My dear, he won't call it a crisis or an ordeal.
33:48He'll call it a phase, just a phase.
33:50And this, my dear, is because at every stage of growth in Erickson
33:53There is a conflict or struggle between two ideas.
33:55Middle age is not the exception
33:56Nor is it the only stage where there is conflict.
33:58My dear, I want to reassure you and worry you at the same time.
34:00There is no such thing as a midlife crisis
34:02God, O Abu Habad
34:03There's something called a life crisis.
34:04Each stage has its own struggles
34:06You will go through it, and that means you will go through it.
34:07Erikson will talk about the struggles that exist in midlife.
34:10Which is a conflict between two ideas
34:11Productivity and stagnation
34:13The generativity versus stagnation
34:15In middle age, Irison tells you that you should know yourself by now.
34:18Nor your partner's hand
34:18You should have defined all your values and principles in life.
34:21You have all the tools you need to make contributions to the world.
34:25You have children to raise and you are giving us the future generation.
34:28Do you have a specific job or role where you utilize your expertise?
34:31Enough, teacher!
34:32The community benefited from the teacher
34:33Hrickson's question remains
34:34Do you feel that your contribution has meaning?
34:36And you're just going around in circles.
34:38I would be grateful if I told you that I feel like I'm going around in circles.
34:40Does this mean I have a crisis?
34:41The idea here, my dear, is that you try to see the glass as half full.
34:43You, my dear, have the experience and money that the next generation doesn't have.
34:47You might have the health and passion that older generations don't have.
34:51So Pax kept all of this together and made people happy
34:53Fax, if you're doing something, write about yourself.
34:56Not the expectations of your family
34:57Nor those who are on the side of the young ages so that you can keep up with them
35:00Also at this age
35:01Emotional sensitivity or IQ may increase
35:03Thanks to the experiences of the past years that you have gained from dealing with people
35:06From your situation to the problems
35:07So you're middle-aged, huh? At a crossroads?
35:09It makes you grow up by looking both behind and ahead.
35:11Do you know what you've done and what's ahead of you?
35:13But my dear, if you think about it a little, you'll find it's an ideal stage.
35:16An opportunity that accumulated greater tools
35:18And your mind remained in its most vulnerable state.
35:20So that you can take what you want in your life
35:22And here, my dear, according to Ericsson
35:23The most important value at this stage is care.
35:25The care that, according to him, you provide to yourself
35:28And then to the world
35:29Don't forget something very important, my dear
35:31U-curve shape
35:32He hasn't reached rock bottom yet at this stage.
35:34It goes back up and increases again
35:36According to these studies, a person's average hours
35:38The older he gets, the more
35:40Even his health is declining
35:41The effects of aging are showing on him.
35:44Happiness levels are increasing
35:45Satisfaction levels are increasing
35:46Why did he think that?
35:47Because, quite simply
35:49Expectations towards you are decreasing
35:50And the magic, my dear, lies in predictions.
35:52Your expectations of yourself
35:53Society's expectations of you
35:55In the end, my dear
35:55I want to mess things up for you
35:56The middle-aged dwarf
35:57Not a medical diagnosis
35:58There are scholars who talk about it
36:00But it is not a medical diagnosis
36:01Even if sometimes
36:03These feelings are like anxiety or worry.
36:04Also, there is no effective fate
36:06It has to happen to you
36:06On the contrary, a very small percentage
36:08It might not exceed twenty-six percent
36:10They're the only ones who might be passing through this neighborhood.
36:12Or they feel it's a crisis that we all go through anyway.
36:14But we don't necessarily have to consider it a major crisis.
36:16We're all middle-aged too.
36:17Changes will happen to us
36:18Psychological, physical, and physiological
36:20As I explained to you
36:20But your response to it
36:21You don't always have to think that this is a crisis.
36:23This is a response your type will draw
36:25And your cultural class
36:26And sometimes your gender
36:28But my dear, what's most important of all is...
36:29Just like everything else in the world
36:30What matters most is your decision.
36:32The meaning you decided to take away from middle age
36:35As the philosopher Heidegger says
36:37Meaning isn't something we find.
36:38Meaning is something we create at every stage of our lives.
36:41You, my dear, are not looking for meaning.
36:43You create meaning
36:44Please, my dear
36:44Don't waste your life searching for meaning.
36:47Waste it in the creation of meaning
36:49That's all, my dear.
36:49Last but not least
36:50Let's look back at the previous episode
36:51Watch the next episode
36:52You forget to cut off the sources
36:52If we're on YouTube
36:53Subscribe to the channel
36:54Abu Ahmad, Abu Ahmad
36:55If you listen, I might say
36:56Noctiit, the end is yours.
36:57May God grant you success.
36:58Abu Ahmed introduced me
36:59Scientists who studied the midlife crisis
37:01They used Al-Khwarizmi's writings.
37:03Why, my dear?
37:04Because age is just a number
37:05I'm asking you a question
37:06I mean
37:07I've been doing comedy on this show for ten years.
37:09I didn't announce anything
37:10Because it means Algebra and Omar the number
37:11Are you doing that?
37:12Walk away now before I break your bones.