In this video, I challenge the popular social media mantra "Follow your plan, not your mood." While this advice is meant to encourage discipline, I break down why it often backfires for women—specifically those from South Asian backgrounds—who are already conditioned to be high achievers. I explore the psychological toll of constant self-motivation and the cultural nuances that make "grind culture" feel different for us in 2026.
The Weight of Cultural Guilt I dive into the unique dynamic many South Asian women face: the unintentional guilt passed down through generations. Our culture often prioritizes duty and productivity over emotional well-being. I explain how our moms, even without meaning to, can make us feel guilty for taking a break, leading to a cycle where we are perpetually "hard on ourselves."
Redefining Motivation Instead of blindly following a rigid plan, I advocate for a more intuitive approach. For a demographic that is already naturally motivated and disciplined, pushing through a "bad mood" can lead straight to burnout. This video is a call to recognize that your mood is often a signal, not an obstacle, and why honoring that intuition is actually the smarter long-term strategy for success and mental health.
3. transcript
Transcript: This is a big expression on social media like Follow your plan, not your mood. I disagree with that. I feel like as women, especially as South Asian women, we are already so motivated and a lot of us are really hard on ourselves. I think a lot of it actually is the culture that we grew up in. Sometimes our moms have this ability to make us feel guilty even if it's not intentional. So I feel like, especially if South Asian women follow your
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