00:00When my girl farted on my leg for the first time while I was in bed, I was like, wow,
00:08she really cares about me.
00:09So that's romance to you, basically.
00:11It's romance to me, because I understand what it is.
00:14I understand women holding farts all the time.
00:17All the time.
00:18Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:22No, think about it.
00:23There's a crew in her back here right now probably holding in farts right now.
00:27See, the married man agrees with me.
00:29It's a different level of intimacy when she's letting that gas loose.
00:32So when she farts on your leg, that's the signal of true love?
00:37It's a step.
00:38I think it's one of them.
00:38It's a strong step.
00:39Have any of y'all motherfuckers done that shit?
00:42Is that it?
00:43All I can co-sign is that re-farting is a sign of commitment.
00:47As long as I'm looking at the camera, fart on my leg so you can just let me know.
00:51This is where I need to be.
00:52I think intimacy is like flowers and candies and like, oh, this song is dedicated to you
00:57and I thought about you when I wrote this poem.
01:00This is real shit.
01:01Is that a real fart on your leg, bro?
01:02I ain't ready for real love.
01:03See, I'm not co-signing that.
01:04Just for the record, I'm not co-signing the fart.
01:06Real life, though.
01:07We always try to paint the picture that women are insecure or just whatever.
01:09They're more sensitive.
01:10Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:10Okay.
01:11So I'm saying men, because we always have this thing that we have to uphold a certain image.
01:15We always have to make sure we take care of our lady.
01:16But there are times that we can't take care or there are times that mentally we can't be there for them.
01:21But we're afraid to admit that in a relationship.
01:24Is that more of a revealing factor of how much I love you?
01:27The more I reveal my insecurities and I'm troubled and that's exactly what it is.
01:31I don't think you can say because it depends on what your personality is.
01:34Some people need to deal with it on their own.
01:35It doesn't mean that you don't love you.
01:37But if you're with that person for a long time or you're building with that person,
01:41I think that's a big part of romance.
01:44Honestly, I don't fully trust anybody.
01:46How do y'all define trust, though?
01:47Because when I hear that, I think you're saying, yeah, I know him, but I don't know what he's capable of.
01:52To me, trust is all about, like, how much do I believe in the person you say you are?
02:00You know what I mean?
02:00Like, there's never been one time where it's like, oh, I went through this person's phone and everything went great.
02:07That's never, ever happened in life.
02:08I think what you're saying is true, and I think it took me a while to get there.
02:11But I also think men scar worse than women as it relates to trust.
02:16I think women, when women in relationships, like, they cry it out or they burn your car, like, waiting to excel or something like that.
02:23They start over, and in a new relationship, it's like, okay, I've learned, but I'm starting on this clean slate.
02:28Men, I feel like I have to move with you a certain way based on what I've dealt with.
02:32And that's why I'm saying, like, I don't trust anybody fully.
02:34And it's like, I've known myself to put everything on the table because that's what I want in return, but it's backfired.
02:41Right.
02:41So I keep myself guarded, and it's fucked up, you know, certain relationships or situations that I've, you know, tried to have because I just couldn't get past the fact, like, damn, like, I recognize that sign or that red flag.
02:53So it's like, ah, time to pull back and time to just retreat and go do some fuck shit.
02:58I don't want to live like that, but it's just like...
02:59That all goes back to just how men and women just deal with, like, trauma anyway.
03:05Women, they're allowed to be emotional all the fucking time.
03:08Like, it doesn't matter.
03:09So they can move on to the next situation.
03:11And you know what?
03:12A good example of that portrayed on TV was Insecure.
03:14When Lawrence was dealing with shit.
03:15Oh, yeah.
03:16And he didn't have one real good friend in the world.
03:18That's really how it feels sometimes.
03:20Like, when we go through stuff.
03:21That's why we was all watching Insecure, like, we've all been there before.
03:24Like, when he called his boy and his boy was like, yeah, the game is on.
03:27All right, cool.
03:28You good?
03:28All right, cool.
03:28That's really what it is for most guys.
03:30Like, we don't really have that real, you know, let it all out, release.
03:35This is what I'm dealing with.
03:36And then one day you see at the restaurant spaz on it, like, he did.
03:40And we have that whole mantra, like, yo, figure it out.
03:42We'll deal with it.
03:43Like, that's how these men just deal with it.
03:44Like, we have to deal with it.
03:46Because no one's going to deal with it for us.
03:47No one's going to pay our bills.
03:48No one's going to take care of our lady.
03:49A lot of that deal with it shit comes from just not wanting to be a burden.
03:54No man wants to be Lawrence that first season where you're just living on the couch
03:57and your girl's working and your woman almost, like, sort of pities you.
04:02One, it's harder for us, too.
04:03I don't know if we acknowledge that it's an issue.
04:06And I think when we enter relationships, that's part of the trust issues that happen.
04:11It has to do with trust and it has to do with patience.
04:14A lot of men don't have patience to do it again and again and again.
04:17Because we do shit that doesn't necessarily warrant a reaction from us.
04:22But to them, it's just like, yo, you broke my trust.
04:24You did that.
04:25And it's just like, I didn't think it was that deep.
04:27And now we got to start over and over and over.
04:28And I think that's a component we don't realize.
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