00:00Was it difficult for the kids to kind of get along and kind of find their energy, their synergy, if you will?
00:05They were so young when we started.
00:08Your oldest was five and my oldest was four.
00:11So they got along.
00:12They kind of kicked it off.
00:13It was, you know, it was weird, I guess, in the very beginning.
00:16But they got along pretty well.
00:18I think it was because they were so young.
00:20And so they've known each other as far back as they can remember.
00:23But now, of course, you know, they bump heads and, you know, things like that.
00:27Right, teen years.
00:27And how do you make sure that you don't show favoritism or one child doesn't feel slighted over the other?
00:37That's the hardest thing probably to do because it's so many.
00:40And then, like, when the other kids go to their other parents, it's less children there.
00:44So they get more attention.
00:45Then they come back and it's like, you know, what's going on here?
00:48Or we say no to one thing or we don't buy one thing, but then they can get their other parent to buy it.
00:54And then we have issues there.
00:56Like, it's not fair.
00:57But I'm like, hey, I didn't buy it.
00:58So, you know.
00:59We stay conscious.
01:00We just try to play as fair as possible.
01:02It's not always easy, especially with the younger kids.
01:05They need more attention and time.
01:06But, I mean, we just try to play fair.
01:08Dealing with them on an individual level where they are.
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