00:0010 Common Mistakes Older Men Make That Can Turn Women Off
00:05Bringing Up The Age Gap Every 5 Seconds
00:08Constantly Joking About Being
00:10Old Enough To Be Her Father
00:11Puts Unnecessary Focus On Age
00:13Instead Of Connection
00:15Repeating It Can Make Interactions
00:17Feel Awkward And Self-Conscious
00:18Rather Than Natural
00:20Drop The Age Commentary
00:22And Let Shared Interests
00:23Humor And Chemistry
00:25Take Center Stage
00:25Constantly Comparing Her To Your Exes
00:30Mentioning Exes Even Casually
00:31Makes It Feel Like She's Being
00:33Measured Against Someone Else
00:35Comparisons Create Insecurity
00:36And Emotional Distance Fast
00:38Complimentations
00:40Comments Should Be About Her
00:41Unique Traits
00:41Not How Closely She Resembles
00:43Someone From Your Past
00:45Not Being Emotionally Available
00:47If She Opens Up
00:49And You Respond
00:50With Surface Level Sympathy
00:51Or Emotional Shutdown
00:53It Quickly Feels One-Sided
00:55Emotional Availability
00:56Means Listening
00:57Responding
00:58And Sharing
00:58Too
01:00Connection Deepens
01:01When Both People Feel
01:02Heard And Supported
01:03Overcompensating
01:05With Money
01:05Or Status
01:06Success Is Attractive
01:08But Flaunting It
01:09Can
01:10Feel Like You're Trying
01:10To Buy Affection
01:11When Money Becomes
01:13The Main Signal
01:14Authentication
01:15Authenticity Takes
01:15A Hit
01:16Thoughtful Time
01:17And Genuine Effort
01:18Matter Far More
01:19Than Flaunting
01:20Flashy Gestures
01:20Being Too Stubborn
01:22Or Set In Your Ways
01:25Rigid Habits
01:25And Resistance To Change
01:27Can Come Across
01:27As Controlling
01:28Or Dismissive
01:30Relationships Thrive
01:31On Flexibility
01:32And Curiosity
01:33Showing Openness
01:34To New Ideas
01:35Signals Growth
01:36Not Weakness
01:37Not Taking Care
01:39Of Yourself
01:40Letting Your Health
01:41Appearance
01:42Or Energy Slide
01:43Sends The Message
01:44That Effort
01:44No
01:45No Longer Matters
01:45Taking Care
01:46Of Yourself
01:47Shows Self-Respect
01:48And Commitment
01:48Small Change
01:50Can Significantly
01:50Boost Attraction
01:51And Confidence
01:52Treating Her
01:54Like A Daughter
01:55Instead Of A Partner
01:55Unsolicited Advice
01:58And Constant Fixing
01:59Shifts The Dice
02:00Dynamic Into Parent
02:01Mode
02:01No One Wants
02:02To Feel Managed
02:03Rather Than Respected
02:05Partnership Means
02:05Equality
02:06Not Authority
02:07Being Overly Critical
02:10Or Judgmental
02:10Frequent Criticism
02:12Slowly Erodes
02:13Confidence And Warmth
02:15Even Well-Intended
02:16Comments Can Feel Draining
02:17If They Skew Negative
02:18Encouragement
02:20Builds Far Stronger Bonds
02:21Than Knitpicking
02:22Ever Will
02:22Neglecting Her
02:24Independence
02:25Hovering, Controlling
02:27Decisions
02:27Or Constant Check-Ins
02:28Can Feel Suffocating
02:30Independence
02:31Independence Doesn't
02:31Threaten Relationships
02:32It Strengthens Them
02:33Trust And
02:35Space Allow Attraction
02:36To Breathe
02:36Lack Of Humor
02:38Or Fun
02:40Being Overly Serious
02:41Turns Dating Into Work
02:42Instead Of Enjoyment
02:43Laughter Creates
02:45Connection And
02:45Ease
02:46Playfulness
02:46Shows Emotional
02:47Security And
02:48Keeps Relationships
02:49Feeling
02:50Alive
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