90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days follows couples who begin their relationships online and meet in person for the very first time. As they travel across the world, they face doubts, cultural differences, and emotional risks to find out if their love is real — or just an illusion.
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good, and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breathe, yo, yes I would.
00:00:12So you really like my guy, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:30Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm carrying a child.
00:00:50I'm still sick.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged, and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything,
00:00:58and he doesn't want me, and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me, is trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend,
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position of these 400 like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:01:35So now I have to go and get their approval,
00:01:37while I have to tell them that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:44First, it's your career.
00:01:46I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:51The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard, so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:01:58With my jobless situation and my debts, I am just broke.
00:02:08Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yes.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:13That's a lot of f***ing money.
00:02:16I'm avoiding telling the whole story.
00:02:21I'm worried if she finds out how I make money sometimes, she could leave me.
00:02:46I'm worried if she finds out how I make money sometimes, she could leave me.
00:02:53That's so beautiful.
00:02:55No.
00:02:56Mm-hmm.
00:02:57Mm-hmm.
00:02:58Mm-hmm.
00:02:59Mm-hmm.
00:03:06You have the nicest ass I have ever seen.
00:03:13I'm blushing.
00:03:18And you know, I always thought your dimples were my favorite thing, but you know what
00:03:22What is my favorite thing now?
00:03:24You're not going to...
00:03:27Your belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an Audi.
00:03:32It's not an innie.
00:03:33It's so cute.
00:03:38I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel, and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:43I'm engaged.
00:03:45Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:47I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:49All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:51He's everything I could have dreamed about, except he doesn't have food.
00:03:57We have to talk about last night.
00:04:02It was awful.
00:04:03Yes.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:07Why?
00:04:10Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:13Last night was uncomfortable, and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:26And I don't think he was full on.
00:04:31And I had so much anticipation, I was very .
00:04:34So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:37Even though we had sex, it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:41So it just deflated me.
00:04:43I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:45Maybe I am, you know, not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:50I was really questioning myself.
00:04:57But it was really awkward for me, because it's been so long since I've been intimate like that.
00:05:03And then you didn't finish.
00:05:06And then it was.
00:05:11I don't know how to talk to you about this on the face.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed, he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:20So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night, preparing, getting ready to go and waking up on you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:32It was a trial run.
00:05:33Yes.
00:05:34We have a test.
00:05:36It was a test run.
00:05:37A test at each.
00:05:38It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:39Yes.
00:05:40I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:43But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:45You did.
00:05:46Yes.
00:05:50But you want me to be honest?
00:05:52You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:55Really?
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little, it was a little painful at first.
00:06:00Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:01At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:07Okay.
00:06:08And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable.
00:06:11And I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.
00:06:14And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:18I'm so happy.
00:06:19I'm so happy.
00:06:20I'm happy.
00:06:21I'm so happy.
00:06:26I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:27And I love you so much.
00:06:29I love you more.
00:06:31And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:35Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him,
00:06:41I'm even more concerned how he's gonna handle what I have to tell him
00:06:45about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:52I'm already 100% into this relationship physically and emotionally.
00:06:57And it's definitely gonna be harder for me to handle if he can't accept my past.
00:07:02Yeah, I want an Emilio.
00:07:04You keep saying things like that.
00:07:06We're never gonna get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:10Mmm.
00:07:27Let's go ride a trike.
00:07:39Oh my goodness.
00:07:41Oh my God.
00:07:43Lord.
00:07:44Give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bus.
00:07:49She and I getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like being inside a can.
00:07:55I would never do this with anyone else but you, Sheen.
00:08:00That's pretty great.
00:08:01I get to, you know, get up nice and close.
00:08:03But she's also crushing me to death.
00:08:06I love those.
00:08:07Woohoo!
00:08:08Oh!
00:08:10I wish they'd give us a nice, you know, extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:15I'm afraid I'm gonna fall off and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:26Today I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time in a province called Covide.
00:08:32So we're almost there though.
00:08:34We'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous, baby.
00:08:37Oh man.
00:08:39Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago, her family has been like these ominous figures.
00:08:45She told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially.
00:08:48I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that Sheena is going to completely cut them off financially.
00:09:04But now it's turned into something completely and totally different than what I envisioned.
00:09:08You didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain, a treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14No.
00:09:15Oh man.
00:09:17First she told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26But the truth is I don't have a job. I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:29I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:33Baby, we can do this.
00:09:35Just be careful, babe.
00:09:36So at this point, I'm concerned that I won't be able to get the blessing for Sheena's family that I apparently need.
00:09:46Oh my gosh, is that them?
00:09:48Yes, my love.
00:09:50Oh my goodness.
00:09:59You must be Forrest.
00:10:00Forrest?
00:10:01Yeah, Forrest.
00:10:02Yes, my father.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:04Okay.
00:10:07Hello, sir.
00:10:08Nice to meet you.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you after so long.
00:10:11Nice to meet you too.
00:10:12Hello.
00:10:13Hello.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:16This is my father.
00:10:17This is my father.
00:10:18He said it's Katrina.
00:10:19So...
00:10:21Yep.
00:10:22She's just a little bit shy.
00:10:23This is my dad's version though.
00:10:26It's okay.
00:10:27I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:28Yes.
00:10:29I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:32No, I'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:41Oh man.
00:10:42Oh.
00:10:44Sheena told me that her mom is sick so I won't be meeting her, but her dad and sister seem nice enough.
00:10:50A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal, but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:54You want to take a break from traveling?
00:10:55Yeah, sure.
00:10:56Yes.
00:10:57To do that, can you show them?
00:10:58Yes.
00:10:59Follow me.
00:11:00Want to check out the gardens?
00:11:01Yes.
00:11:02Yes.
00:11:03So this is a place.
00:11:04Yes.
00:11:05There are small improvements over the years.
00:11:07Wow.
00:11:08Yes.
00:11:09Yes.
00:11:10Yes.
00:11:11This is for the place where we have our...
00:11:14Uh...
00:11:15Wow.
00:11:16Yes.
00:11:17Yes.
00:11:18Yes.
00:11:19This is for the place where we have our...
00:11:22uh...
00:11:24group meals...
00:11:25uh...
00:11:26for guests.
00:11:27Boy.
00:11:28Okay, cool.
00:11:31Sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof.
00:11:39Oh, they need the money to do this.
00:11:40Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:41That's why they're stealing all this money from me.
00:11:43But it turns out that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:47Okay.
00:11:48Welcome to our house.
00:11:50Oh, wow.
00:11:51You think you're gonna be on the second master's bedroom?
00:11:54This place is huge.
00:11:56Wow.
00:12:00So, Gary was under the impression that her family might be desolate, or they are gonna starve
00:12:06without her.
00:12:08It doesn't add up.
00:12:12Hey, come on, come on.
00:12:13Thank you very much.
00:12:14And we'll have dinner.
00:12:15Yes.
00:12:16Yeah, okay.
00:12:17Enjoy and relax.
00:12:18Yeah, okay.
00:12:20Thank you, guys.
00:12:27My mind's just confused.
00:12:28I don't understand.
00:12:29So, you like the place?
00:12:32Yes.
00:12:33It was way worth getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:36Yes.
00:12:38Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yes.
00:12:44They're great people.
00:12:46Okay.
00:12:47Well, I think I wanna clean up my face real quick.
00:12:49Yeah, sure.
00:12:50Take your time.
00:12:51I'm gonna head in the bathroom real quick.
00:12:52Yeah, go quickly.
00:12:53Go real fast.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest was expecting something different from what he's seeing at your family's
00:13:01house?
00:13:02Mm-hmm.
00:13:03Yes.
00:13:05Which is probably my fault.
00:13:07Test for the water if it's good.
00:13:09Wash your face around.
00:13:10Wash your hands.
00:13:11Yes.
00:13:12Yes.
00:13:13I'm worried about what is going to be said.
00:13:22What Forrest could say.
00:13:24What my family could say.
00:13:27I'm worried that everything could fall apart.
00:13:29Do you think I'm gonna marry you for your money?
00:13:41That's what everybody else thought.
00:13:45I thought he was the man who was going to honor the provision and protection that he sold me on in the beginning.
00:13:52And now I don't know.
00:13:54Debt is a big deal.
00:13:57You excited about my show tonight?
00:14:00Yes, I am.
00:14:01What songs are you singing at your show?
00:14:03Marriott, Vicky.
00:14:08So who is Vicky?
00:14:10Who is Vicky?
00:14:26You look at that.
00:14:27You can't tell me that's not beautiful.
00:14:29We have like the second most active barrier in the world.
00:14:31Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:14:32I'm so grateful that I live here.
00:14:34It's so pretty.
00:14:35Do you want to jump in?
00:14:36Okay.
00:14:37Come on.
00:14:38Now you know I can't swim.
00:14:39Don't play with me.
00:14:40You know what you need?
00:14:41Hmm.
00:14:42Right?
00:14:43Coconut water.
00:14:44Good for your brain.
00:14:45Good for your soul.
00:14:46That sounds good.
00:14:47What energy?
00:14:48This is Aviva's second full day in Belize and we're here in beautiful San Pedro because I'm going to perform tonight.
00:15:08Yesterday, Aviva was accusing me of not being over my ex from Texas, but in a hotel last night.
00:15:18I do believe that I was able to calm her down.
00:15:21I'm bored.
00:15:22Are you going to be so fine and want to travel?
00:15:24Huh?
00:15:25Stop stressing.
00:15:26I'll try.
00:15:35We had sex three times.
00:15:38No protection again.
00:15:39We're risking it all.
00:15:41We're just going with the flow.
00:15:44How was it?
00:15:45It's good.
00:15:46Mm-hmm. Refreshing.
00:15:47You had this in the States, in Arizona?
00:15:48No, not like this.
00:15:49Oh.
00:15:55You excited about my show tonight?
00:15:58Yes, I am.
00:16:00What songs are you singing at your show?
00:16:03Marry your dad.
00:16:04Oh.
00:16:05Yo.
00:16:06TMTM.
00:16:09Vicky.
00:16:13I am trying to have this romantic beach moment with Stig, but he mentions the song, Vicky.
00:16:20And I can't help but think of when my Aunt Spring brought up that rumor to me.
00:16:26They actually just did a big concert, like, for Valentine's Day.
00:16:29The first song that was performed was Vicky, and she was at the concert.
00:16:36And they left together.
00:16:37So who is Vicky?
00:16:38The concept of Vicky is a girl I was messing with who had a man, and the man wasn't treating her well. She was married. And I was the little bartender showing her love. You know what I mean? On the side.
00:16:58So, is it someone you still talk to? Is it someone that you have a past with?
00:17:05No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:17:06I had a past with you.
00:17:08Last year was a good one.
00:17:10So, my Aunt Spring, she knows a lot of people here. I've heard a lot of rumors that Vicky went to your last show with you. And you left the show with her. And I just, I'm confused and I'm just hoping that you can clear some things up with me.
00:17:28Aviva's Aunt Spring. I never met her. I only heard about Aunt Spring, but apparently she knows me better than I know myself. She, the Secret Service?
00:17:43I don't, nothing to hide. At the concert I was there, with the bros, trying to make a good set. You know, trying to make sure the staff members...
00:17:55But did you go home with her? No, I didn't. I didn't go home with any girl. You don't believe me?
00:18:03Apparently there was some article or you were tagged in something or she was tagged in something of you guys going home together. So, I'm not really sure how I'm supposed to believe you.
00:18:13Police isn't the fake news. Don't let it get to your head.
00:18:17I'm definitely going to do my best not to be in my head about it, but you're apparently going to sing it tonight. How do I know she's not going to be there?
00:18:30That's one of my biggest songs in Belize. I can't sing that.
00:18:33Yes.
00:18:34You don't want me to sing the song? My biggest, one of my biggest songs?
00:18:38Yes.
00:18:39Come on, don't do that.
00:18:45All of my exes, they start off saying, I'm not going to be jealous. I got you.
00:18:50But, I thought Aviva was going to be different.
00:18:54And now I am worried how she's going to react when I perform Vicky, when I do perform it.
00:19:01Tonight could the whole thing up. I don't want that.
00:19:07If tonight is a problem, that's going to throw me off. I don't, you know, I don't know if I can deal with that.
00:19:13That's not what I signed up for.
00:19:17I mean, I'll do my best, but I just would feel more comfortable if you didn't perform Vicky.
00:19:22That's all I can say.
00:19:24I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me because you would want a green card and money.
00:19:46And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
00:19:53Do you think, like, I'm going to marry you for your money?
00:20:08That's what everybody else thought.
00:20:11Did you think that?
00:20:12Well, I don't know right now. I'm literally just hearing about most of this for the first time.
00:20:19Birikhan just told me that he's 50K in debt and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt and just ignore it.
00:20:27I'm frustrated and incredibly concerned because it's making me feel like he's just straight up using me to get out of his debt.
00:20:36You know, that's not who I am, actually. If I was someone like that, I would have lied. I would have never told you about my debt. You know?
00:20:55I know that. But I want to make sure that I'm making a smart decision when it comes to future plans, like getting engaged.
00:21:05I just got to hustle because money is money, you know?
00:21:12You know what? I'm ready to go.
00:21:14OK, let's go. Let's go.
00:21:16What's going through your head right now?
00:21:35I'm pretty frustrated. He told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning. The debt is a big deal to me because he talked about nothing but like honesty and pride and respect. And it's really hard to respect someone who's not outright and straightforward with the truth.
00:21:54I thought he was the man who was going to honor the provision and protection that he sold me on in the beginning. And now I don't know. What are you doing?
00:22:09What are you doing?
00:22:11Washing the dishes.
00:22:18Why are you upset?
00:22:20I told you why. I'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did.
00:22:24Why are you mad?
00:22:26Don't be cute. That doesn't fix this.
00:22:30You think I'm cute?
00:22:32I'm not going to answer that right now.
00:22:34You got to ask.
00:22:35No.
00:22:36You got to ask.
00:22:37I don't have to answer that.
00:22:38You got to ask.
00:22:39You think that you can't stop.
00:22:40Why are you mad?
00:22:41You think a couple of kisses will win me over?
00:22:5315,000.
00:22:54Oh.
00:22:56I'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are.
00:23:00But this is probably all of the fantasies I had kind of rolled into one at that moment.
00:23:07Having a hot Turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you.
00:23:10I don't know what it is.
00:23:13I just can't resist him.
00:23:15You're adorable.
00:23:16I know.
00:23:17That's why you love me.
00:23:22We are here.
00:23:23Oh, baby.
00:23:24Hot outfit.
00:23:25Look, look.
00:23:27Limo.
00:23:28Maybe they should buy me some stuffing.
00:23:31This bougie chick.
00:23:33There ain't nobody sugared at him.
00:23:36I don't know why he acts this way.
00:23:39It's like he assumes the worst.
00:23:42I'm already doing things for you.
00:23:44So why are you asking for more?
00:23:46Is that what you want me for?
00:23:48Let's get out of here.
00:23:49Baby, they didn't give me any questions this morning, so give me kids.
00:23:55Uh-uh.
00:23:56Watch out.
00:23:57Okay.
00:23:58Okay.
00:23:59Are you ready?
00:24:00Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:01Okay, let's go.
00:24:02I'm so good.
00:24:03I'm so good.
00:24:05I'm so good.
00:24:06I'm so good.
00:24:08Are you ready?
00:24:09Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:10Since this morning, so you need to get it.
00:24:15Uh-uh, watch out.
00:24:19Okay.
00:24:22Are you ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:24OK, let's go.
00:24:32I'm so covered.
00:24:34Why?
00:24:36Because we were packing all night, that's why.
00:24:40Yesterday was tough, but after we had an argument about my ex,
00:24:49we went back to the hotel, and we did makeup, sex.
00:24:55It was really good.
00:24:57I love sex after an argument.
00:25:00Oh, yeah.
00:25:04Woo-hoo, excited.
00:25:07And it's in the plane.
00:25:09I know that we still have trust issues to work through,
00:25:14but today we are going to a romantic trip that Rick
00:25:18booked for us in Noosie Bay.
00:25:21First flight together, baby.
00:25:24Noosie Bay is a really beautiful island.
00:25:27They do have loomers and a beautiful beach.
00:25:33If you have someone to spend time together, romantic,
00:25:40Go there.
00:25:46Look how beautiful I'm signing.
00:25:47and half of them, baby.
00:25:49Oh, you like that?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Yes.
00:25:51Yes.
00:25:52Yes.
00:25:53Yes.
00:25:54Yes.
00:25:54Yes.
00:25:54Yes.
00:25:55Yes.
00:25:56Yes.
00:25:56Yes.
00:25:57Oh, that was hot out.
00:25:57Haha, really hot.
00:25:58WOOOOO!
00:25:59Yes!
00:26:00Yes!
00:26:01Yes!
00:26:02Yes!
00:26:03Yes!
00:26:04Yes!
00:26:05Yes!
00:26:06Yes!
00:26:07Yes!
00:26:08Yes!
00:26:09Yes!
00:26:10Yes!
00:26:11Yes!
00:26:12Oh, that's hot out!
00:26:14Haha!
00:26:15Really hot!
00:26:16Woo!
00:26:17Woo!
00:26:18Woo!
00:26:19Woo!
00:26:20Woo!
00:26:21It's nice and cool!
00:26:22Woo!
00:26:23I'm in the lake.
00:26:24Don't touch me.
00:26:25I'm hot.
00:26:26Oh my God.
00:26:27Baby, are you serious?
00:26:28Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:29That's nice.
00:26:30Woo!
00:26:31See, look, look.
00:26:32Le Maud.
00:26:33Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:26:34Baby.
00:26:35Pencils.
00:26:36Here we go.
00:26:37We'll see.
00:26:38We'll see.
00:26:39I know you've got expensive taste.
00:26:40You're so cheap.
00:26:55Tastes good.
00:26:56Huh?
00:26:57It's cheap.
00:26:58Huh?
00:26:59It's cheap.
00:27:00Huh?
00:27:01It's cheap.
00:27:02It's cheap.
00:27:03Huh?
00:27:04It's bad.
00:27:05It's good.
00:27:06It's cheap.
00:27:07Huh?
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08This bougie chick.
00:27:11Is she serious?
00:27:14Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:19There ain't nobody sugar daddy.
00:27:28Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:33I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you're a boozy girl, Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.
00:27:41And I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he acts this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:59I will never ask him for anything.
00:28:05Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:10Look.
00:28:12See what I set up for you?
00:28:16I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care, of course.
00:28:21Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:24So what are we here to do, huh?
00:28:35I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37Yeah, but your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a few things.
00:28:49You just say, oh, you act like a bougie.
00:28:52Oh, you act like I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:05I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08And I pay your rent.
00:29:09Yeah, you paid my rent.
00:29:11So why are you asking for more?
00:29:13Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a few things.
00:29:21It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need.
00:29:27But I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:39See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45So why did you come?
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:48Hmm.
00:29:50So I thought you were different too.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:04I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love.
00:30:12But I don't know why he thinks the opposite.
00:30:18It's crazy.
00:30:19I don't even.
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:32So what were you expecting?
00:30:33No, it wasn't a risk, Rick.
00:30:35I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting on the right foot.
00:30:49I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:55What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:05I just want to look at them.
00:31:06Hello.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:10I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:14They were my pets.
00:31:15They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:18Does your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25Sheena's family, they seemed pretty laid back,
00:31:28normal, caring people.
00:31:30What were you expecting when you went here?
00:31:33This is going to be mind shattering here.
00:31:37Well, I was expecting that.
00:31:39I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for them, OK?
00:31:59Okay.
00:32:05Oh.
00:32:07I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:09You're such a gentleman.
00:32:11You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So that's a taxi?
00:32:25Yeah, moolue.
00:32:26Moolue.
00:32:27Moolue.
00:32:28Moolue.
00:32:29Moolue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:33It's a taxi.
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:41Is this where we're going?
00:32:42Yes.
00:32:43The market?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market.
00:32:46I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:48Shh, shh, shh, shh, shh.
00:32:52This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:55This is nothing like the farmer's markets that I have been to.
00:33:02No one thinks the same.
00:33:06Let's go from here.
00:33:07Okay.
00:33:08It kind of reminds me of a flea market, but a flea market with food.
00:33:14And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:33:18And you can buy anything and everything.
00:33:21There are live poultry.
00:33:23There is dried fish, smoked fish.
00:33:26Hello.
00:33:27There are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market.
00:33:31It looks so beautiful.
00:33:35Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:33:37I just want to look at them.
00:33:38Okay.
00:33:39Oh, my goodness.
00:33:40Oh.
00:33:42Be careful.
00:33:43Like this.
00:33:44Hello.
00:33:45Hello.
00:33:46Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:33:48She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:33:51Okay.
00:33:52I eat chicken.
00:33:53No, no.
00:33:54I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:55You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:56I had chickens.
00:33:57They're my pets.
00:33:59My chickens were spoiled.
00:34:00They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:34:03Does your chicken watch TV?
00:34:05Yes.
00:34:06Really?
00:34:10Oh, my God.
00:34:13Bye, chicken.
00:34:15Okay.
00:34:16Let's go.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:18I have to take you to the stars.
00:34:22I love fabric.
00:34:24Hello.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:26Good afternoon.
00:34:28You're welcome.
00:34:29I would like you to check the one that will feed you.
00:34:32Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to welcome you.
00:34:35He was there.
00:34:36You saw him.
00:34:37He was very happy at the engagement.
00:34:38Yes, but he has not given us the blessing to marry.
00:34:46The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:34:48In my culture, you get blessings from your parents.
00:34:52But my dad is not well.
00:34:54My uncle will have to call my father and report back.
00:34:58But I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:00I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:02I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:03That's just a proposal.
00:35:05In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:35:07This is Nigeria.
00:35:09I know.
00:35:11We have different cultures.
00:35:11But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:12In my culture, you have to see you.
00:35:14In my culture, you get blessings from your parents.
00:35:15But my dad is not well.
00:35:17My uncle will have to call my father and report back.
00:35:20But I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:22I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:24I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:26That's just a proposal.
00:35:28In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:35:31This is Nigeria.
00:35:32I know.
00:35:33We have different cultures.
00:35:34We have different ways of life.
00:35:36But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:38You have to see you dress in traditional attire.
00:35:44Maybe one of the wrappers here.
00:35:48This one here.
00:35:49Yeah, this one.
00:35:54You know, my uncle loves it.
00:35:55He likes good things.
00:35:56Yes, it's nice.
00:35:57And this is colorful.
00:35:58Yes, this is a hair tie.
00:36:00You have to tie this one on your head.
00:36:02Okay.
00:36:03Yes, on the head.
00:36:06I'm confused.
00:36:08Just confused.
00:36:09Just confused.
00:36:13Okay, so it gets wrapped around.
00:36:15Yes.
00:36:18And then it gets tied.
00:36:19Yes.
00:36:20Just giving you the clue on how to tie it.
00:36:24I can't hear you.
00:36:26It's very loud.
00:36:30Oh, my gosh.
00:36:31How am I going to do this?
00:36:33I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:36:36I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:36:39And there's no way I'm going to remember how to do everything.
00:36:42Yes.
00:36:44I don't want to look like a fool.
00:36:45I don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:36:48It's very easy.
00:36:49Very easy.
00:36:50Very easy.
00:36:51Yes.
00:36:52It's nice.
00:36:53It looks so smooth.
00:36:55What should I expect?
00:36:58Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:37:01We have to cut it.
00:37:02Okay.
00:37:03Yes.
00:37:04We have to give it to a tailor.
00:37:05No?
00:37:06Oh, yes.
00:37:07I can cut.
00:37:08But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:37:12The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:37:18Because I'm too fat.
00:37:19Yes.
00:37:20Let me cut you.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:22Okay.
00:37:24I'm too fat.
00:37:25Baby, you're not fat.
00:37:27You said you're fat.
00:37:28Yes.
00:37:29Yes.
00:37:30You're fat.
00:37:32I'm feeling awful, and I'm kind of taken back.
00:37:36I have to meet his uncle, and I have to wrap myself up
00:37:39in two layers of this wrap, this big headdress,
00:37:43and I'm going to look fat.
00:37:46Okay, make your wrap, please.
00:37:52I have to try to impress his uncle.
00:37:54But what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:58What kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:38:02I'm worried that I may have to reveal things
00:38:04that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:38:07This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:38:11So I'm scared.
00:38:15You're welcome.
00:38:18What is that?
00:38:20I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting
00:38:30with some random girl on stage right in front of me.
00:38:37What is Aviva doing?
00:38:50What the hell is going to happen?
00:38:53See, I'm outside in San Pedro and the Main Street
00:38:56walking holding hands.
00:38:57I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:39:00You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:39:12How are you feeling? Are we good?
00:39:14I'm nervous.
00:39:15Don't overthink.
00:39:17Enjoy the show.
00:39:18Enjoy the entertainment.
00:39:20Okay.
00:39:21I'm an entertainer, right?
00:39:22Right.
00:39:23Are we good?
00:39:24Yes.
00:39:25Okay.
00:39:27I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still
00:39:29for not wanting me to perform my hit song,
00:39:31but listen, I'm still gonna go
00:39:33and peace stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:39:36I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:39:39Ready?
00:39:40Semi-ready.
00:39:42Ready.
00:39:42I have to say it like me.
00:39:43No, you can't say ready.
00:39:43You guys are ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:49Come on.
00:39:56That's good, brother.
00:39:59Trouble, man.
00:40:00I'm reaching, mother f*****g.
00:40:02Bye.
00:40:02Aviva.
00:40:08Welcome to all the parts of you guys tonight.
00:40:10Stick the parties in the band.
00:40:12I'm super, super excited to see Stig performing for the first time,
00:40:21but I feel super nervous.
00:40:25I still have my suspicions about what Stig's manager in Antspring had to say about Stig and other women.
00:40:34I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him, at his shows.
00:40:40And I don't know what to expect.
00:40:41I don't know what to expect.
00:40:45Anyone from Belize?
00:40:48Make some money f*****g nice.
00:40:51Big up.
00:40:52To all the girls who came from far for this one.
00:40:54Yeah, like, yo.
00:40:57Lessons in your life.
00:41:01Too many things.
00:41:02Long time you won't win for a wedding ring, girl.
00:41:05Today I'm gonna meet your father.
00:41:07This is what I'm going to say.
00:41:08I'm gonna marry your daughter.
00:41:10Can I have your blessings?
00:41:12That would be amazing.
00:41:14I know you think that I'm a bad guy.
00:41:17And I'm gonna break her heart.
00:41:22What is that?
00:41:27Yeah, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're smoking.
00:41:29We're f*****g here.
00:41:31I got some rum in my court.
00:41:32I got some horns.
00:41:33I'm gonna do it.
00:41:34I'm gonna do it.
00:41:35Yes and me.
00:41:36Hey.
00:41:37Hey.
00:41:38Hey.
00:41:39Hey.
00:41:40Hey.
00:41:41Hey.
00:41:42Hey.
00:41:43Hey.
00:41:44Hey.
00:41:45Hey.
00:41:46Hey.
00:41:47Hey.
00:41:48Hey.
00:41:49Hey.
00:41:50Hey.
00:41:51Hey.
00:41:52Hey.
00:41:53Hey.
00:41:54Hey.
00:41:55Hey.
00:41:56Hey.
00:41:57Hey.
00:41:58Hey.
00:41:59Hey.
00:42:00Hey.
00:42:01Hey.
00:42:02Hey.
00:42:03Hey.
00:42:04Hey.
00:42:05Hey.
00:42:06Hey.
00:42:07Hey.
00:42:08Hey.
00:42:09Hey.
00:42:10Hey.
00:42:11Hey.
00:42:12Hey.
00:42:13Hey.
00:42:14Hey.
00:42:15Hey.
00:42:16Hey.
00:42:17and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:47What is Aviva doing?
00:42:53I'm seeing a sea of people partying,
00:42:56having the time of their lives,
00:42:59and Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:05This is not the behavior I want in my future wife,
00:43:08much less my girlfriend right now.
00:43:10Like, come on.
00:43:12Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on the release, yeah.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:40Yo, six for us. Yeah, yeah.
00:43:42One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:47I forgot.
00:43:48All of me because I forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:53I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:04Ah, make this round.
00:44:06Make this fufu to be round.
00:44:07How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:09Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:15No.
00:44:16No.
00:44:17Stop raising your voice on me.
00:44:19Call it again.
00:44:20He's pushing me really hard, and I'm getting angry.
00:44:23What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:25Can you stand up and walk? Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes. Are you walking now, ma'am?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back.
00:44:33Come back.
00:44:37I'm smoking right now, by the way.
00:44:38Are you angry?
00:44:39I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:44:43Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:44:44I got something to prove.
00:44:45Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:44:46I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:44:48Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:44:49I got something to prove.
00:44:50Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:44:51No, no, you're not fat, baby.
00:44:52Come on.
00:44:53And I'm stressed.
00:44:54No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:44:55That's how stressed I am right now.
00:44:56I'm smoking right now, by the way.
00:44:57Are you angry?
00:44:58I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:45:01Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:45:02I got something to prove.
00:45:03Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:04No, no, you're not fat, baby.
00:45:05Come on.
00:45:06And I'm stressed.
00:45:07No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:08That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:09Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:10I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:11I tried to quit and I couldn't.
00:45:12And I, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:14I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:16It's not funny.
00:45:17Oh, my God.
00:45:18Oh, my God.
00:45:19You're not fat, baby.
00:45:20I'm not fat.
00:45:21I'm not fat, baby.
00:45:22I'm not fat, baby.
00:45:23You're not fat, baby.
00:45:24Come on.
00:45:25And I'm stressed.
00:45:26No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:27That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:28Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:31I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:32I tried to quit and I couldn't.
00:45:33And I, ah, ah.
00:45:36I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:37It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:48I, I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:51He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:54And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:57But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle
00:46:01for the blessing.
00:46:02And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be
00:46:06for Daniel.
00:46:07So I'm stressing out.
00:46:09And I want my vape.
00:46:15He surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:18How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:22I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:24So I'm from Igbo land.
00:46:25So we have to learn.
00:46:27Igbo people, we have tradition.
00:46:30And if Lisa wants to marry me, she has to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:40Yeah, you look good.
00:46:41You look good.
00:46:42Come on.
00:46:43Come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture.
00:46:47To impress my uncle.
00:46:52Come on.
00:46:53That might be the one.
00:46:54There's a traditional way of blessing power, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58You have to shake it.
00:46:59After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:02The ground must test it first.
00:47:05Then pick it up again.
00:47:07Mm-hmm.
00:47:08Woman blessing power is a taboo.
00:47:11It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:15Yes, you can test it, but it's very strong.
00:47:18It's very strong.
00:47:19Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:23Oh.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:31Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:34Did you pound it?
00:47:35It's pounding, pounding.
00:47:36Oh, okay.
00:47:37Pounded one, okay.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:43You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:50It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:55I learned you dip it.
00:47:56So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:00Throw it.
00:48:01Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:03Throw it.
00:48:04It.
00:48:06Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:17You just swallowed it.
00:48:18You boil it again.
00:48:19Okay.
00:48:20Dip your hand.
00:48:21Ah.
00:48:22Make this round.
00:48:23Make this fufu to be round.
00:48:24How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:25Are you asking me?
00:48:26Yes.
00:48:27Oh.
00:48:29This is really good.
00:48:30This is a soup.
00:48:31I could just eat that.
00:48:32Good.
00:48:33I need a spoon.
00:48:34This is your hand to eat soup.
00:48:35I am not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:36That's what the fufu is for.
00:48:37Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:39Look, baby.
00:48:40I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me, but I didn't think he'd be so forceful
00:49:05about it.
00:49:06I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:14It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:17It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers, and lick them dry.
00:49:24That's no.
00:49:25That's just nasty.
00:49:27I think he's being very rude.
00:49:29Have you taken your pair of wine?
00:49:33No.
00:49:35Can you taste it?
00:49:39Test.
00:49:40Go on.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:42Test.
00:49:43Test.
00:49:46You have to respect this to me.
00:49:48I did.
00:49:49I tasted it.
00:49:55Do you know what we call it in our dialect?
00:49:57No.
00:49:58My uncle.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:02I can't say that.
00:50:03What does it mean?
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05My uncle.
00:50:06Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10No.
00:50:11You drink it.
00:50:12You respect it.
00:50:13No.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice on me.
00:50:16Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:23I'm done talking to you.
00:50:26I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:28What is that?
00:50:31I thought you were drunk.
00:50:32I took one sip.
00:50:33It doesn't matter.
00:50:34Just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:50:37No, I'm not.
00:50:38You're the one who's changing.
00:50:39Look at you.
00:50:40Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:42This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:46I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:50:52But he's being rude to me.
00:50:54What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:56Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:58Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking normally?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:04You're walking normally.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:07Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09Come back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last 70 years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her terribly
00:51:26but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31It's not what you call it.
00:51:32What is your job?
00:51:35The importance, you have pants, you know?
00:51:37To help her.
00:51:41Well, always.
00:51:56Are you ready to go?
00:51:57Yes.
00:51:58It's already late.
00:51:59I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:52:01Yes.
00:52:02Yes.
00:52:03Yes.
00:52:04Yes.
00:52:05Yes.
00:52:06Yes.
00:52:07I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:09We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:11Yes.
00:52:12Yes.
00:52:13Yes.
00:52:14Yes.
00:52:15Yes.
00:52:16Yes.
00:52:17Yes.
00:52:18Yes.
00:52:19Yes.
00:52:20I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:21We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:23Yes.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:26We got into this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually, we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:48Oh, my God.
00:52:51But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:02Wow, baby.
00:53:07So beautiful.
00:53:10Today, we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:17This place looks like paradise.
00:53:20I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:28It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and reset, you know, take some strolls along the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:45Thank you very much.
00:53:47Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52Oh, I know.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56We haven't learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Oh, man.
00:54:02That's cool.
00:54:03And we can walk.
00:54:04Oh, what?
00:54:06It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:09You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:13Okay.
00:54:14Here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife, and I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:28She has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:37But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:50Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53Looking beautiful.
00:54:54Mm-hmm.
00:54:56So glad we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yes.
00:55:02I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:12I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich.
00:55:19So I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:22Just you do my need and then that's it.
00:55:24I think when you were asking me for things, then that, you know, kind of triggered some things that I've gone through in the past.
00:55:38What do you mean?
00:55:40Just past relationships, and I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want to be with me anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Cheney, for seven years.
00:56:09Cheney is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think Cheney had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide.
00:56:20And it caused a lot of issues between us.
00:56:23That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:29You run without them.
00:56:33I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:56:38But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs.
00:56:43That's it. That's what I'm asking.
00:56:46You know when you bring me to the country, I have to let everything in here.
00:56:53My life, my job.
00:56:56Yes, I know that.
00:56:58Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:04That's the promise I'm making to you.
00:57:07A promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15Everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:18My ex did a lot for me, but I wasn't happy.
00:57:24With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you give me a picture.
00:57:33I love that.
00:57:34I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:40Yeah, yes you are.
00:57:42You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:47And I love you.
00:57:49That's why I want our relationship for you.
00:57:53This is what I want too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:00Yeah, I want to get in the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:05I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:12That's what I need to feel.
00:58:15Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:22I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:26But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:39But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:43I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually it needs to come out.
00:58:48Do you love me?
00:58:49Of course, baby.
00:58:50The fruit is ready.
00:58:55Just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:58:56Just in time.
00:58:57Perfect.
00:58:58Yes, thanks.
00:58:59Good stuff.
00:59:00We hope you enjoyed this.
00:59:01This is our native food.
00:59:02Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:04That sounds awesome.
00:59:07Oh.
00:59:08The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:59:19Just in time.
00:59:19Perfect.
00:59:20Yes, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22We hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:26Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:34Dinner is served.
00:59:38Dinner is served.
00:59:45See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52We do it first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I am the biggest.
00:59:57We go by size here.
00:59:58Yeah, you go.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family.
01:00:03And so far, they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:07For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her
01:00:12her awfully.
01:00:13And now, I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:18I feel confused.
01:00:21But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then go from there.
01:00:27So, how's your trip here from America?
01:00:34It was long and it was hard, but I got to see my Sheena for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42Finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious, though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you went here?
01:00:49I was expecting, well, I was expecting, it's kind of hard to say, you know, my mom's under
01:01:07the impression that, um, I might be walking into a scam.
01:01:17Everyone, I know, there's, in every place, there are scammers.
01:01:21There are a lot of scammers.
01:01:23She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:27That's the rest of the thing.
01:01:29That's it.
01:01:30How'd you guys feel, uh, when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:38Yeah, I thought, finally, because it's so long, um, we're not really, we're not really
01:01:47sure if we're going to meet you in person.
01:01:50You know, I have to say, a lot of it had to do with, uh, finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:00Just eat, baby.
01:02:03Enjoy your meal.
01:02:03Okay.
01:02:05Um.
01:02:07But, uh, question is, uh, I, I, I don't recall it.
01:02:11What is your job?
01:02:15Yes.
01:02:17So, this is kind of going to be mind-shattering here.
01:02:24I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I, I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for, for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with, with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that, that's enough for you for your daily life?
01:02:50It covers, it covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But I, I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:01But, I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:09And, I was hoping, you know, I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, without any funding, how, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:33The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yes.
01:03:40Good job.
01:03:40I, I have the energy, I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:46I'm going to be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be supportive for her.
01:03:53I prefer that, uh, she now has a boyfriend that is capable.
01:03:58Because, it's the guy's, uh, obligation to support a wife.
01:04:05And, Sheena also is, uh, no, she's very helpful, you know?
01:04:11There, no, so, talagang hindi mawawala sa akin niyan.
01:04:14Okay, you have my blessing.
01:04:26But, you, you're going to help her.
01:04:30She's been helping us too.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been, uh, doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes, if we lack funds for her, you know,
01:04:40she would help us, you know, pay, like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yes.
01:04:48Yeah, yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad, yeah, they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:05It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I, I should be happy that I got their blessing,
01:05:10but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
01:05:14What I've seen, it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family, the way they live, the whole money situation,
01:05:26the stories are not adding up.
01:05:27And I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to come in
01:05:33and going to think everything has been a lie this entire time.
01:05:39She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:42So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:06:03Yes, you heard me right.
01:06:06This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a...
01:06:10About him?
01:06:11No.
01:06:12Yeah, I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:35I knew I killed it, but I forgot my lyrics.
01:06:45Middle show.
01:06:47my mind, but...
01:06:48Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself.
01:06:51It's okay.
01:06:52I'm so tired.
01:06:56It's been such a long night.
01:06:57Yes.
01:06:59We're just getting back to the hotel from Stig's performance,
01:07:02and I felt a little uncomfortable,
01:07:06but I think I did well.
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together and just push my feelings to the side.
01:07:13My feet are killing me.
01:07:19You want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:22Maybe.
01:07:24Maybe.
01:07:25Mm-hmm.
01:07:28I had a good time.
01:07:30I thought you did really well.
01:07:35So, did I handle it okay?
01:07:37Like...
01:07:40Yes.
01:07:42You guys?
01:07:44Yes.
01:07:45What'd I do?
01:07:48How does this girl think that she handled this well?
01:07:52Like, how?
01:07:54Are you mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:08:01She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.
01:08:05I'm boiling inside.
01:08:08And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:08:12Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:08:16When you were on your phone?
01:08:19Texting?
01:08:21Mm.
01:08:23Mm.
01:08:27Oh, no.
01:08:28It wasn't like that.
01:08:30Like...
01:08:30It's gonna hurt my feelings.
01:08:32Being on my phone?
01:08:33Yes.
01:08:34Not the right time for that.
01:08:36You weren't even watching.
01:08:37You were...
01:08:37Yes, I brought...
01:08:39I'm literally performing, singing to you.
01:08:42I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:08:48It wasn't intentional.
01:08:50But...
01:08:51He was dancing with another woman in front of me,
01:08:54and he played Vicky, even though I asked him not to.
01:08:57So...
01:08:58It's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song.
01:09:01It wasn't even a big event.
01:09:03I just feel like it's not fair.
01:09:04I don't have anybody out here.
01:09:15Like, you have to understand that there is all these girls on stage with you,
01:09:18so I'm gonna talk to my people.
01:09:20I'm going to text my friends.
01:09:22I can do that.
01:09:23Relax.
01:09:24You can do whatever you want.
01:09:24Cool.
01:09:26To me, that's...
01:09:27You're supposed to be on my team, a part of my team.
01:09:33That dude didn't hype me up.
01:09:35Kind of killed my vibe, actually.
01:09:38That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.
01:09:40I was just distracted.
01:09:43You keep talking about these other girls, this.
01:09:45These other girls having fun hyping me up,
01:09:47and my girl is there just on her phone.
01:09:51It's my first time in a situation like this.
01:09:55There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:09:56I just...
01:09:57I felt awkward.
01:09:58I didn't feel confident, and I just wanted...
01:10:00You really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:10:06Anyway, guys, I'm disappointed.
01:10:08Maybe I need to cut her clothes or her boat down.
01:10:13I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but okay.
01:10:19BRB.
01:10:20BRB.
01:10:21BRB.
01:10:22BRB.
01:10:26I'm kind of at a loss because I'm trying my best
01:10:31to not get super jealous, not to overreact.
01:10:35But apparently, I didn't do a very good job.
01:10:42I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy,
01:10:45he might just break up with me.
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off,
01:10:50but part of me is terrified that I already have.
01:11:07We are in the middle of nowhere.
01:11:09There is a dog.
01:11:12I don't like dogs.
01:11:13Why?
01:11:15Because you got bit...
01:11:16I said they bite me or bark me.
01:11:19Bark at you.
01:11:21Bark at me.
01:11:22Okay.
01:11:23No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is...
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Reboot.
01:11:28Reboot.
01:11:29Last night, I found out that Birkan has an immense amount of debt.
01:11:45And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:11:49But I have put a lot into this relationship,
01:11:53so maybe I just need to give it a little bit more time
01:11:56to see how red the red flags actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:11There are lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yes.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:15Today, my plan is taking Laura to the Nazar Koe.
01:12:21I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:12:26And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:32Siz ızızın büyül alalım.
01:12:34You there?
01:12:35Hampan said, "Let's take it like this."
01:12:37Yes.
01:12:39Evil eye beads, when you hear it, it's like something bad.
01:12:43But it is not.
01:12:44But it's for good luck.
01:12:45Can karşığıliği gibi, değil mi?
01:12:47Of course, of course.
01:12:47In the old age, that is 3 years old.
01:12:51Turn, turn.
01:12:53Ah, yes, yes.
01:12:55When people see you, if they get jealous about you,
01:12:58thoughts about you, the evil eye consumes bad thoughts
01:13:02and protects you.
01:13:08Perfect.
01:13:10Oh, you did it!
01:13:12I got one.
01:13:12Yes.
01:13:13They are exactly like that.
01:13:13I'll take this out.
01:13:15Yes, okay.
01:13:17In Turkey, everybody believes that superstition
01:13:19because, you know, people need to believe something.
01:13:24Not me.
01:13:25I'm into reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting,
01:13:30so she will enjoy.
01:13:33You did it.
01:13:34Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yes, I am.
01:13:46Check this.
01:13:47Hey, look, that's good.
01:13:48I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It has a tail.
01:13:55And it just broke.
01:13:58Apparently, I suck at evil eye beats.
01:14:02Yes, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:04I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:10Sometimes I can suck.
01:14:12Okay.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:17All the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yes.
01:14:22Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Did your parents teach you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30Yeah, they taught me.
01:14:31Okay.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yes.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of dance around that topic,
01:14:39and I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:43We never had a good relationship.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:51No, actually.
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birkan has been a little evasive
01:15:05about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:12So hearing that Birkan's parents don't approve of me
01:15:16is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this.
01:15:22And it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship
01:15:26where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point
01:15:33where would i ever meet your parents?
01:15:35I don't know.
01:15:37But I do feel like meeting someone's family
01:15:43is a good way to get to know
01:15:45more information about a person.
01:15:47My family is my friends.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:55For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:15:58I don't want you to be too close to him
01:16:10because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:15Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:25So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:16:43What is it then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:51We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:53When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend, and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:10I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:17:32it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him
01:17:36that I haven't seen yet, and I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a...
01:17:44About him?
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:17:52Hmm.
01:17:53So, why don't you think a little, you know,
01:17:57I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked.
01:18:10That Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me,
01:18:20especially when I've tried to be very understanding
01:18:24with the massive amount of debt that he revealed to me.
01:18:30This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:35I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and no.
01:18:44No, he's not going to do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:18:48I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:00The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and no.
01:19:07No, he's not going to do that.
01:19:09He's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:10No, he's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:11Let me go.
01:19:12Let me...
01:19:13Where is my wife?
01:19:15Where is my wife?
01:19:30Oh, shh.
01:19:52Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:00No, I gave you paw wine.
01:20:02I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I liked this.
01:20:06It makes someone...
01:20:07I took two sips.
01:20:08I don't want to...
01:20:09I'm not even going to drink it anymore.
01:20:10Even a drop can make someone go...
01:20:12Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know.
01:20:16that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:18Ukwelu.
01:20:19Ukwelu.
01:20:20Ukwelu.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me.
01:20:22because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:27I know, I know.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:30So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:32Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I am a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:36You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come and eat.
01:20:41Are you going to be nice?
01:20:43I've always been nice.
01:20:45Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat your food.
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:52That's your little girl.
01:20:53No.
01:20:54Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:55Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:21:02I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together
01:21:07and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving is giving off warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:14I'm sorry.
01:21:16I'm a little nervous.
01:21:18My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:20I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:25We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:21:29We are not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't, then?
01:21:34Or should I tell him that you don't put this to me?
01:21:36No, you don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family?
01:21:43Mm-hmm.
01:21:45We don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing,
01:21:54does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:21:59How is this?
01:22:08You told me you were a man who could make his own decisions.
01:22:10Yes.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason,
01:22:13and now you're telling me without a blessing
01:22:15that you can't marry me.
01:22:17Yes.
01:22:18I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:22:21In my family, we wear our own.
01:22:24The way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want everything possible to make sure
01:22:28that my uncle gave us a blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:32And that's, and the vaping is the only thing
01:22:34that you're very concerned about?
01:22:35That's your biggest concern?
01:22:36Yes.
01:22:37Yes.
01:22:42Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:45Thinking of what?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape,
01:22:50but that seems really small compared to all the other things
01:22:55that Daniel doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:00I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me,
01:23:03and even if he accepted my past,
01:23:05once I reveal my secrets to him,
01:23:07is he going to have to tell all of his family
01:23:09that I've only been with women for the past 21 years
01:23:12and that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle about that,
01:23:16I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:19I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:21We're here, huh?
01:23:24Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:27So cute.
01:23:28Maki-maki.
01:23:29Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:30Yes.
01:23:31It'll be worth it if I can bring a step-mommy home.
01:23:33But I want to have my own.
01:23:36If he decided does not want to have kids,
01:23:38I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:40You want what you don't want.
01:23:42You want what you don't want.
01:23:44You want what you don't want.
01:23:46You want what you don't want.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:53Now that I'm in person with my husband,
01:23:56He's giving me trust issues.
01:23:58Remember what you promised me.
01:24:00before you came down here.
01:24:02I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:05So, can I see your phone?
01:24:10Now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın bilmanmayen bir anı var.
01:24:22I will tell you.
01:24:23Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:27I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:29Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tekisini büyüyecek bence.
01:24:34Wait.
01:24:35What did she say?
01:24:38Oh, yes.
01:24:39Moment of truth.
01:24:40Man.
01:24:43This is so beautiful here.
01:24:45Holy.
01:24:47Well, would you look at that?
01:24:49Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money,
01:24:54that they're going to starve.
01:24:56Tonight, we'll get the truth for Sheena.
01:24:59She told us if she didn't give the money that you would mistreat her.
01:25:05Did you say that?
01:25:08Uncle.
01:25:13You are not an Igbo woman.
01:25:17I want to know more about Igbo.
01:25:18I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know about me.
01:25:23I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I want us to have this blessing more than anything in the world.
01:25:28Are you a practicing person?
01:25:30I have not always been, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:35Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:38Do you practice Leah unless you?
01:25:41bored
01:25:59You
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