90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days follows couples who begin their relationships online and meet in person for the very first time. As they travel across the world, they face doubts, cultural differences, and emotional risks to find out if their love is real — or just an illusion.
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00:00:01Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:07With past boyfriends.
00:00:09I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No.
00:00:17We can leave the past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past,
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:38And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me that we're going to be married.
00:00:51We can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:56I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:06Do you want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:13I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met, but now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:22Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:25It's freaking me out.
00:01:26You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:35I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:39Now that the ancestors are approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:49But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:54We don't accept it here.
00:01:56You were giving your parents money.
00:01:59Why did you not tell us?
00:02:01They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept.
00:02:05It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:10That still didn't answer the question.
00:02:13He's just got the blinders on.
00:02:16And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:21It's okay, baby.
00:02:23I'm sorry, I did it again areаздering.
00:02:29They say, well, talk to us about this.
00:02:30But and our other others beat us somewhere just before we start from ähself.
00:02:44Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:45Oh, yeah!
00:02:46Check what you want.
00:02:47Then we can haggle, okay?
00:02:48Hey, Sheen.
00:02:58Yeah.
00:02:58What do you think of these?
00:03:00Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:01Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:09I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now.
00:03:12And despite all the drama, being with Sheena every day is amazing.
00:03:20Thank you so much.
00:03:21Yeah, thanks.
00:03:22What is something you need?
00:03:24I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:26Mm-hmm.
00:03:26Well, I like that.
00:03:27Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:28Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her.
00:03:34It's just something I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:38Make sure you're holding me.
00:03:40Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:40You're holding me.
00:03:42Okay, there we go.
00:03:44Does it fit?
00:03:45Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:49Mm-mm.
00:03:49Yeah.
00:03:50Okay.
00:03:51Sorry, that's too sad.
00:03:53I'm sorry, I'm a giant man.
00:03:54Oh, I got you.
00:03:58I kind of packed really light since Sheena was going on and on about how easy and cheap it
00:04:03is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:06Turns out you can find clothes.
00:04:08It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:13Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:15Maybe there's a t-shirt that you can push out there.
00:04:18I'm going 2X.
00:04:182X.
00:04:19Nah, that's too small.
00:04:21She won five weeks.
00:04:22Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:28Forrest, he's around like 6'2 or 6'3.
00:04:32It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:35My previous partner, that was around like 5' or 5'2.
00:04:41But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen in my life.
00:04:47Wow, you look like a macho.
00:04:50You look like a professional guy.
00:04:51You look like a tennis player.
00:04:53Yeah, it's too tight.
00:04:55It's too tight.
00:04:56Ow.
00:04:57So yeah, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:04:59Yeah.
00:05:01Right now, I'm kind of regretting bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts and
00:05:05a pair of bundes on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:09But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:12Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:14You never know.
00:05:15Hey, baby.
00:05:18It's so hot.
00:05:20You know, maybe I'll just take a seat real quick.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Let's take a seat.
00:05:25Yeah.
00:05:27I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:30Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines, it's been
00:05:34kind of hard to come by.
00:05:36And unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:41So, Sheena, how are you feeling after last night?
00:05:47It's a much better now, so you don't have any problems with that.
00:05:51Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents and
00:05:58not actually saving anything.
00:06:00I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront
00:06:05her parents about this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:08The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about,
00:06:15you know, the money issues and everything.
00:06:20I believe that after everything the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only thing
00:06:27we can do.
00:06:28It's time to be independent.
00:06:30It's time to be strong.
00:06:31And I'm going to be behind you and be your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:39I understand that, babe.
00:06:44This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:46I would plan a meeting for you so you could explain to them the situation that, sorry,
00:06:53we don't have that much money.
00:06:55But we're trying to say because we have a lot of plans for us and I will have to move
00:06:59with you to the U.S.
00:07:01Just show them that you are a very sincere person, what kind of person you are.
00:07:06Because in my culture, parents are the one who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:12So, if my parents would approve then, it would be much easier for just to have a better future for us.
00:07:29Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand?
00:07:34Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:37It's complicated.
00:07:38Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:45I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:52I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:07:55So, now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are basically
00:08:00numbered with getting money away from their daughter.
00:08:03This does not sound like an easy task.
00:08:05Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about,
00:08:12what if we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your parents?
00:08:21Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion,
00:08:26then things doesn't quite work.
00:08:28So, you think that we should have me come to see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:41I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:43Well, Sheena, all right, but my mom is definitely going to blow her lid.
00:08:55She's not going to take this too well.
00:08:57I know, babe.
00:08:59I understand about that.
00:09:00My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my mom out of the situation.
00:09:10She already doesn't trust Sheena, and I believe that this is just going to make things worse, and I'm scared.
00:09:16My titties are hurt.
00:09:25Don't wear a strapless bra on a flat that's going to take two days.
00:09:31I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be done with my titties because they're hurting.
00:09:38Don't wear a strapless bra on a flat that's going to take two days.
00:10:08It's coming, so that's why I'm excited and I'm happy.
00:10:13Oh, my God.
00:10:14Lisa is coming today.
00:10:16I barely slept last night.
00:10:18How should I put this?
00:10:20I live in Owele.
00:10:22That's my hometown, but because of things that are going on there, a lot of shootings, a lot of kidnappings.
00:10:30Lisa booked a hotel for Sheena to stay here in Lagos.
00:10:35I can't even wait to, you know, welcome her.
00:10:37And when I see her with my eyes, oh, my God.
00:10:42I will kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:49I'm really nervous.
00:10:53I planned a lot of things to welcome her from the airport.
00:10:58She doesn't have an idea of what I'm planning.
00:11:01So we have begun to just say, I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:12I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:14I'm so excited.
00:11:15I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time.
00:11:19But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:22Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:11:29Oh, my gosh.
00:11:30I am so ready for this to come to fruitation.
00:11:34I want to marry Daniel.
00:11:37But I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria.
00:11:41And that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:46But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:49I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:11:54Touchdown.
00:11:58Touchdown.
00:12:06Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:09Oh, my God.
00:12:09Oh, my God.
00:12:19I've been so desperate.
00:12:22So angry.
00:12:22I'm so nervous.
00:12:34I'm feeling like a drowned rat from the heat and the humidity.
00:12:40I did not sleep at all on the plane.
00:12:43And my nerves are just going crazy.
00:12:46I'm feeling really self-conscious right now.
00:12:48Oh, my God.
00:12:50Oh, my God.
00:12:51I'm feeling like this.
00:12:55I can't.
00:12:57I have boob sweat.
00:12:58When you're this large, you can't help but have boob sweat.
00:13:01I'm going to wash my crotch area.
00:13:03So I don't want to stink down here either.
00:13:04I am freaking out to the point where I feel sick to my stomach.
00:13:16I think he's going to be as handsome as ever, and I think he's going to look at me and say, oh, my God, she's older than I thought she was.
00:13:24Because everything with this heat, I can't camouflage anything, and my age of 52 is showing today.
00:13:33Oh, my God.
00:13:35And it was such a long flat.
00:13:38But the bags are under my eyes, and the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:43Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video, I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect, getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle just where it needs to be, and trying to be perfect.
00:13:57I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:04Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay.
00:14:14In a few seconds, she should be coming out.
00:14:17I will see.
00:14:25Whoa.
00:14:27I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:34How am I going to be able to keep all these promises I made to Faith?
00:14:37What if I come clean about my past and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:42And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:44What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:46I'm terrified.
00:14:48I'm afraid he's going to reject me.
00:14:50And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:14:57I am here. I am wishing.
00:15:00I'm done. I'm done. I'm done.
00:15:03All right, here we go.
00:15:16What's she taking a deep breath for, man?
00:15:18Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:20Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:15:22Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:25I know, man.
00:15:27Cute.
00:15:28Sexy.
00:15:29Javon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:34But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:44This is where we're going.
00:15:45Okay.
00:15:46The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on my second date here in Turkey.
00:15:57Are you nervous?
00:15:58A little bit.
00:15:59A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:16:07What you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:09No, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:12Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:16:15Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:18I know, man.
00:16:19All right.
00:16:20Don't tell you.
00:16:21You're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:25You got me in a love, hey.
00:16:28Call it a love days.
00:16:31Love days, baby.
00:16:33All right.
00:16:36Love you.
00:16:37Love you, too, man.
00:16:38Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:39Yeah.
00:16:42Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:16:49Yeah, man, I'm excited.
00:16:53This is it.
00:16:54Today's the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:17:03I just got past checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:09I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:20This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I need to figure out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:30I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:38This is it.
00:17:40Can't wait to see her.
00:17:41Can't wait to see her.
00:18:11Oh
00:18:17Mg cute sexy
00:18:27Hey Javon, it's me your wifey
00:18:41I'm Annalyn and I'm 38 years old from Cavite, Philippines
00:18:49I've always been I would say bubbly happy person talkative but
00:18:55there's also a hard working part of me as well
00:18:59I went to university and I studied mass communication because I like talking sometimes a lot
00:19:07But I decided to stop working full-time because Javon and I are on opposite time zones
00:19:15So I have to change my sleep schedule
00:19:19And that has made it really difficult to keep up any kind of job
00:19:24Thankfully Javon sends me 400 to 500 dollars once a month
00:19:30Ma ma
00:19:31Tignan, buksan mo ko, okay
00:19:37My mom and I live next to each other
00:19:40And she has a small store
00:19:44Ma, may mga binili ako, tingnan mo
00:19:46Ano yan, patingin
00:19:49I feel like we're more like best friends
00:19:52But she's a very timid shy woman and I'm more like
00:19:56Yeah
00:20:05Kailangan ko ng pandagdag ng height
00:20:08Kasi si Javon mataas yung height difference namin
00:20:13Excited na ako
00:20:15Nagbook ako kasi sa
00:20:17sa Miss Ibis, Miss Ibis Bay
00:20:19Hi
00:20:19Hi
00:20:19Wow
00:20:20Tomorrow morning I'm traveling to Beagle to meet Javon
00:20:26And finally have our honeymoon
00:20:31This will be the first time that we get to spend time together physically
00:20:36And intimacy wise we'll be able to discover a lot more about each other
00:20:41So yeah, good luck to us
00:20:47Grabe excited na ako mama
00:20:50Medyo kinakabahan din ako
00:20:53Kasi ang tagal
00:20:54Ang tagal ko kasing hinantay to
00:20:56Kasi ngayon nandito na
00:20:57Ma, anim na taon na ano
00:20:59Grabe, anim na taon
00:21:00Bala ko nga hindi na mangyayaring darating yun
00:21:04Six years na yan
00:21:06Umikot na lang ang buong buhay mo
00:21:08Ang mundo mo sa kanya
00:21:10Kakahintay ang mga tawag niya
00:21:13Hindi ka na nakakapagtrabaho ng maayos
00:21:17Hindi ka na nakikipagkita sa mga kaibigan mo
00:21:22Mahirap kayo pag masdan mo ang anak mong ganyan
00:21:26Ang alam ko may tampuhan kayo ni Javon
00:21:29Okay na ba kayo?
00:21:32Technically
00:21:33Hindi pa talaga namin nasusog
00:21:37Fully yung problem
00:21:41Naisip ko
00:21:42Magfocus muna sa mga positibong bagay
00:21:46Lalo na sa first time meeting namin
00:21:49Saka ako na lang siya
00:21:50Ididiscuss later on
00:21:53Javon and I had a fight recently
00:21:56Because he told me that he's been talking to this woman
00:21:59That he used to have feelings for
00:22:02Even though we talk about it
00:22:04I feel like he still doesn't understand
00:22:08Why it feels like a betrayal to me
00:22:11But at the same time
00:22:13Javon and I have some problems
00:22:15That are way, way, way worse than this
00:22:18Natutunan ko dito sa relasyon na ito
00:22:21Hindi siya madali
00:22:23Hindi siya para sa mga marupok
00:22:27Ikaw, ano ka eh, madali kang mainis
00:22:29At sya kandat sya dung luminanti si
00:22:33Javon, ang gusto niya, sya masusunod
00:22:39Javon and I have a lot of struggles
00:22:41And at times we fight a lot
00:22:44Javon thinks I changed
00:22:47But how I see it is that
00:22:49He's the one that really changed
00:22:52What happened was
00:22:54After we got married
00:22:55He started watching podcasts
00:22:58About masculinity and stuff
00:23:02They teach the man to find women that soft
00:23:05Feminine and submissive
00:23:09Suddenly you have this idea in your head
00:23:11That I should be like this as a woman
00:23:13Like what the hell
00:23:15We were not like this before
00:23:17I feel like he's trying to change me
00:23:20To a person that I'm not
00:23:23He thinks that even if I don't agree with him
00:23:25I should just be quiet
00:23:27And I'm a type of woman
00:23:28That I just don't agree
00:23:29I question things
00:23:41I love Javon and I know he loves me
00:23:49But my biggest fear is
00:23:52Javon will come here and we can't get along
00:23:55But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend
00:23:59I'm meeting a husband
00:24:01I can't just you know give off
00:24:03After everything I did for six years
00:24:07If we can't resolve our issues
00:24:09And we fight the whole time
00:24:11What am I gonna do?
00:24:12Like how do
00:24:30How do you have this time?
00:24:31How are you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:24:44To be completely honest, I was really frustrated, disappointed, because I went to bed alone.
00:25:01When I got here, there were lots of moments where it felt really awkward, like we were not sure what to say, and I internalized those things, and so last night, I decided to go out into the living room and see if I could have a little bit of a conversation with BeerCon.
00:25:23I felt really disconnected that whole first day.
00:25:28I wanted to give you some space, so...
00:25:32But at the time, I'm thinking, oh, my worst fear that he's just not attracted to me in person has just come true.
00:25:42It didn't.
00:25:44Yeah.
00:25:45We ended up, like, making out pretty good.
00:25:49Good times.
00:25:53We have time to explore this further as we get to know each other better.
00:26:00But, you know, I am still kind of feeling a little, like, unsure about the situation because he decided to put the brakes on us having sex.
00:26:10And also, I am worried because we have some things to do later today that I'm really anxious about.
00:26:19More rain.
00:26:31Yeah.
00:26:32God loves us.
00:26:33I feel like he's crying on us.
00:26:36We are bringing bliss wherever we go.
00:26:38Okay.
00:26:39I think this is where we're going.
00:26:45The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on my second date here in Turkey.
00:26:59Hello.
00:27:00Hi.
00:27:01Oh, hi, kitty.
00:27:02You must be Laura.
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:04Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Nice to meet you.
00:27:06Please take a seat.
00:27:07Okay.
00:27:08Before I came to Turkey, I had been researching skin removal surgery.
00:27:13And Turkey has such high-quality plastic surgeons.
00:27:17So, fortunately, I was able to secure an appointment with one.
00:27:23But, unfortunately, the only appointment they had was for today.
00:27:29So awkward.
00:27:32Are you nervous?
00:27:33A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:27:35Okay.
00:27:36So you want me to come inside with you or you want to do it alone?
00:27:41No.
00:27:42If you want to come, you can.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:45Okay.
00:27:46A few weeks ago, I asked Bjorkan to come with me because I kind of want to see how our future could look together as someone who's supposed to support me.
00:27:56But now I kind of think it just feels weird.
00:27:59Even though we made out last night, I am still feeling insecure about how he actually perceives me physically.
00:28:07Is he attracted or not?
00:28:10I am.
00:28:11I am.
00:28:12Nice to meet you.
00:28:13Nice to meet you.
00:28:14Nice to meet you.
00:28:15Nice to meet you.
00:28:16Nice to meet you.
00:28:17Nice to meet you.
00:28:18You come?
00:28:19Nice to meet you.
00:28:22Please, take your seats.
00:28:23Okay.
00:28:24So, I'm Dr. Ramar, I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon.
00:28:25How can I help you?
00:28:26Um, I have recently lost 140 pounds, and so I have a book and I'm a book and I'm a book.
00:28:30And if you ask me, I'm happy with my teeth because it just might eat.
00:28:31I'm going to eat with this.
00:28:32So, who cares.
00:28:33But that it's her body and she is not happy with that.
00:28:36That's why I support her.
00:28:37Hi.
00:28:38You must be Laura.
00:28:39I am.
00:28:40Nice to meet you.
00:28:41Nice to meet you.
00:28:43You come?
00:28:44Yes.
00:28:46Your been nice to meet you.
00:28:48Please, take your seats.
00:28:49Okay.
00:28:50have recently lost 140 pounds and so I have some like loose skin in places that I am looking to
00:28:57have removed. Which areas bothers you the most? Like in my stomach area. It's my least confident
00:29:04spot. So I will take you to the studio for some pictures if it's okay for you. And then you can
00:29:12ask your questions and we can figure out a treatment plan for you. I love that. Thank you very much.
00:29:20Just knock the door when you're ready. I will come in. Thank you. All right. Can I? For sure you can.
00:29:30I touched someone else's boobs. I'm sorry.
00:29:36It's like a jellyfish. I just wanted to touch. You can't blame me guys.
00:29:41I guess at least you're having fun.
00:29:51Perfect. This is going to be enough for me. Can you come closer to the background?
00:29:56Come closer? Perfect. Okay. Now we're going to pull this part down a little bit more.
00:30:02Perfect. Yeah. This is an area that I want to look at. Yeah. I got it. I got it. Perfect.
00:30:08Hello. No. Nothing is seen. Okay. Perfect. All right.
00:30:14Okay. Just a few pictures. Okay. And it will be over. Your arms will be on your back.
00:30:20Exactly like that. Thank you very much.
00:30:23I feel really awkward because my stomach area is my biggest insecurity.
00:30:42Perfect. Same thing to the other side.
00:30:44I have worked my ass off literally and figuratively. And the fact that I still have the loose skin
00:30:53has been really hard. Thank you very much. That's great.
00:30:58When I look in the mirror, I don't want to see myself at 315 pounds anymore.
00:31:03I want to see myself now and the work that I've put in.
00:31:11Oh, okay.
00:31:12Okay. So, uh, the problem at the tummy part is, uh, actually really common after losing
00:31:23so much weight. Yeah.
00:31:24I will just show you some pictures.
00:31:29Okay.
00:31:32So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here.
00:31:37Mm-hmm.
00:31:37We should cut vertically.
00:31:39I was not expecting the doctor to take the things that you know are your most insecure flaws
00:31:49and project them for everyone to see like that.
00:31:54I am immediately regretting having Bearcon come with me.
00:31:58Here I am sitting next to my boyfriend, who happens to be 20 years younger than I am.
00:32:05Like, what the hell was I thinking?
00:32:08This is not romantic.
00:32:10It's not sexy.
00:32:11It's f***ing awful.
00:32:19So, do you think I can meet your family?
00:32:22My brothers, my father, everyone have here life.
00:32:26So, I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:32:28That's what I think.
00:32:30It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me.
00:32:33It just makes me feel like he's hiding something about his life.
00:32:36It's funny.
00:32:37It's funny.
00:32:38It's funny.
00:32:39It's funny.
00:32:40It's funny.
00:32:41It's funny.
00:32:42It's funny.
00:32:43It's funny.
00:32:44It's funny.
00:32:45It's funny.
00:32:46It's funny.
00:32:47I'm sorry.
00:32:48Hello.
00:32:49How are you?
00:32:50Salaam.
00:32:51Do you know where I can buy, like, hair oil?
00:32:54Like, to make my hair shiny?
00:32:55No.
00:32:56Speak English.
00:32:57I'll probably get it.
00:32:58Salaam.
00:32:59Oh.
00:33:00Excuse me.
00:33:01Do you know where I can get hair oil?
00:33:02Spice is all up in.
00:33:03No, not like hair oil.
00:33:05Not like oil, not spice.
00:33:06Down there?
00:33:07Okay.
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:09Maybe here?
00:33:10No.
00:33:11No.
00:33:12That.
00:33:13Not oil.
00:33:14Can you get stuff for your hair?
00:33:16Yeah.
00:33:17Oh, really?
00:33:18Here?
00:33:19Perfect.
00:33:20Do you want tea or coffee?
00:33:21I love tea.
00:33:22We're going to be cooking today.
00:33:24So crunchy.
00:33:25This doesn't really match my outfit.
00:33:27It's fine.
00:33:28It's just, it's for cover your outfit.
00:33:29So you don't need.
00:33:31This morning I took a walk through the Medina to try and clear my head.
00:33:38This isn't really sexy.
00:33:39Right now I'm feeling really concerned about everything that's happened since I landed.
00:33:46Ziad's been very distant with me emotionally and physically the whole time that I've been
00:33:52here.
00:33:53And it's making me a little suspicious.
00:33:54I'm actually really excited for this.
00:33:57But Ziad is taking me to a cooking class today and I really think it's such a cute idea.
00:34:18I really think it's such a cute idea.
00:34:21I'm going to really try not to just be in my head
00:34:25and overthink things.
00:34:27And I'm hoping this could be a fun bonding moment between us.
00:34:30What are we making?
00:34:38Yum.
00:34:39That sounds good.
00:34:46Can you tell me what she's saying?
00:34:48We start with lemon.
00:34:50OK.
00:34:51Wait, but I want to do it.
00:34:54Oh, you peel it.
00:34:55Exactly.
00:34:55Oh.
00:34:57So we're peeling the lemon.
00:34:58Exactly.
00:34:59All right.
00:35:00I could do that.
00:35:04I did it.
00:35:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:06She said, you make it perfect.
00:35:09Perfect.
00:35:14Oh.
00:35:15Are you going to try it?
00:35:17No.
00:35:18Careful to your fingers.
00:35:19Got it.
00:35:20Don't I look like a wife right now?
00:35:23I have an apron on.
00:35:24I'm cooking.
00:35:25Yeah.
00:35:26This is like real wife material.
00:35:28This is actually a lot of fun.
00:35:29Yeah.
00:35:30I like this.
00:35:31I want to teach Emma how to cook for me.
00:35:35I don't have a picture of you in my mind.
00:35:37You are cooking.
00:35:38You're cleaning.
00:35:39Yeah, I don't.
00:35:40I don't cook.
00:35:41No.
00:35:42You need, for example, to make breakfast.
00:35:45I don't like breakfast.
00:35:46Dinner, lunch.
00:35:47I don't like breakfast.
00:35:48Dinner, lunch.
00:35:49How did you leave if you don't?
00:35:50Coffee is my breakfast.
00:35:51Yes.
00:35:52I could make you, like, toast.
00:35:53And what about the lunch?
00:35:57I'll order you something.
00:35:58For lunch, I can't cook for myself.
00:36:02I make it easy for you.
00:36:04That's, yeah, yeah.
00:36:05That's better.
00:36:08What's your favorite food?
00:36:10It's toasting with meat.
00:36:13What's my favorite?
00:36:14Do you remember?
00:36:16It's sushi.
00:36:17Yeah.
00:36:18I know it.
00:36:19Oh, you remember.
00:36:21Have you ever cooked for your other ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:24No, never.
00:36:25We don't eat in-house or, no.
00:36:28We, if you want to eat, we eat outside.
00:36:31So we don't have time to.
00:36:33So you don't eat in the house?
00:36:34Never.
00:36:35Just for myself.
00:36:38Or for my parents.
00:36:43Did you tell your family about me yet?
00:36:46Yeah, yeah.
00:36:46They know you are here, and I'm with you.
00:36:51Before I came to Morocco, Ziad mentioned
00:36:55that he didn't tell anyone in his family that I was coming.
00:36:58I was upset.
00:37:00So I'm glad that Ziad finally told them.
00:37:03But I'm a little disappointed that he
00:37:07hasn't set up a meeting.
00:37:09I want to know more about him and understand him
00:37:12a little bit more, and I feel like meeting his family
00:37:14is the best way to do that.
00:37:16So do you think I can meet your family?
00:37:21I don't know which time they will be free,
00:37:24or they will be there, for example.
00:37:27My father always traveling.
00:37:30So I'm not going to meet anyone in your family
00:37:32while I'm here?
00:37:33Maybe, yeah.
00:37:33That's what I think.
00:37:37Don't you think that's a little frustrating for me?
00:37:39It is. It is.
00:37:40Like, I'm not seeing your apartment.
00:37:42I'm not meeting your family.
00:37:43It is.
00:37:43Everyone of my brothers, my father, everyone
00:37:47have their life.
00:37:51You know, this is the man that I love and that I want to be with.
00:37:54It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me
00:37:57to his family.
00:37:58And it just makes me feel like he's hiding me
00:38:02or hiding something about his life.
00:38:05And that's not OK.
00:38:08Have you ever introduced a girl to your parents?
00:38:10A girl?
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12No, no, no.
00:38:13Then the girls you date normally aren't just Moroccan girls.
00:38:16Yeah, yeah.
00:38:17Have you ever talked to an American girl, like online?
00:38:21Or just me?
00:38:22Mm-hmm.
00:38:24Uh-huh.
00:38:25No.
00:38:26Have you talked to girls from, like, Europe, or?
00:38:29Uh, no, no.
00:38:33Because the app that we met on is international.
00:38:36Yeah, yeah, I know.
00:38:37I was matched with a lot of girls, of course,
00:38:39but we don't talk.
00:38:40We don't, we didn't talk.
00:38:42You didn't message any of them?
00:38:44No, no, no, no.
00:38:47I feel like he's lying to me.
00:38:50Before I came to Morocco, me and Sia had gotten into a huge fight
00:38:54because I found out that he's still talking to a woman online.
00:38:58He told me that he wasn't cheating on me,
00:39:00but I'm not so sure about that.
00:39:03So I downloaded this extension on my laptop,
00:39:08and it shows you, in order, who people follow.
00:39:13Cut the garlic.
00:39:18This morning, I checked on my computer,
00:39:20and I found out that he's still adding more women.
00:39:25They're all from different countries.
00:39:27I mean, it's like he's never stopped looking for other options.
00:39:32It feels like everything is hitting me all at once,
00:39:34and I'm putting the pieces together.
00:39:37And it's just making me wonder if he did cheat on me,
00:39:40or if he even really wants this relationship.
00:39:43I think it's time to find out what's the real story here.
00:39:49I still really want to talk to your family.
00:39:56It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first,
00:40:00so they could have a better understanding.
00:40:04I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do
00:40:06if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:40:08I need to be there with Forrest.
00:40:12Forrest?
00:40:23This is Kahlo, so this is the area where there's a lot of,
00:40:27you know, um, street clubs.
00:40:32That's something we're gonna have to do, you guys.
00:40:35I don't need to see that.
00:40:36All I need is my sheep.
00:40:38Forrest, it's not the point of replacement.
00:40:42It's the point of just observing other things.
00:40:47I have no interest in women, but the human body is beautiful.
00:40:52I don't even go to those in the States.
00:40:55On my construction job, that was our lunch,
00:40:58because they cooked the best hamburgers.
00:41:01Monday was amateur day.
00:41:04Oh, man.
00:41:06Oh, look at that tree coming right out of the wall.
00:41:14Oh, look.
00:41:15That's me, man.
00:41:18My conversation with Sheena yesterday forced me to reevaluate
00:41:21how I'm going to approach Sheena's parents.
00:41:24And we decided that it's best to meet Sheena's family first without my mom and dad.
00:41:29So what other things are in, uh, what do you call it?
00:41:32Intramural roles.
00:41:33So this is another historical site in Manila.
00:41:37It's like a Spanish piece.
00:41:38Oh, man.
00:41:40I just have such a thing for history because you have to learn from history.
00:41:44Yes.
00:41:45Because history repeats itself.
00:41:47You can kind of predict what's going to happen if you don't learn from mistakes from the first time.
00:41:54You know, that's how I've always felt.
00:41:56I'm not looking forward to talking to my mom about this at all.
00:42:01She's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that her family is trying to get the hooks into me.
00:42:06Like, I'm going to go the first day, and they're just going to set me down.
00:42:09They're going to open up my brain, and they're just going to pour the brainwashing juice directly into my soul.
00:42:16And she's going to fight me tooth and nail to allow herself to go.
00:42:21Here we are at the Intramuros.
00:42:26Woo!
00:42:29So this, you can see, it's like a garrison for Spanish governors.
00:42:33For all the important guys.
00:42:34Yes, yes, yes.
00:42:36For Spanish rulers at that era, yes.
00:42:39Mostly like 1600s.
00:42:40That is neat.
00:42:42Look at the fountain.
00:42:44Yeah, that's the good stuff here.
00:42:45Oh, my God.
00:42:46You want to see?
00:42:47Oh, so beautiful.
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:48You can definitely tell that you're not in America anymore.
00:42:50Yeah.
00:42:51You can see the constructions, the variation.
00:42:53Do you know what?
00:42:54One thing Deb and I talk about all the time is we'll look at a rock, and we say,
00:43:00you know, imagine how much this rock has seen.
00:43:06It all blows my mind right there.
00:43:08Yeah.
00:43:08Oh, man.
00:43:09Oh, man.
00:43:11To Sheena's credit, she really is making the effort to show us the best of her country.
00:43:16Oh, my God.
00:43:17Oh, my God.
00:43:18Yeah.
00:43:18Yes, hard work.
00:43:19How old is this?
00:43:20Probably a thousand years.
00:43:21I don't know.
00:43:22Yeah, you could try to open.
00:43:22Maybe something will pop up.
00:43:24Oh, no, no.
00:43:24I don't want to open it.
00:43:26But honestly, I don't regret going so hard on Sheena the other night like that.
00:43:32Whoa.
00:43:33Oh, my God.
00:43:34I want to get one of these hats.
00:43:35Oh, mom and her hats.
00:43:37Yeah, that's how it'll look like.
00:43:38Oh, you're like Vietnamese.
00:43:39Oh, hey, that's perfect.
00:43:41I want to believe she has good intentions.
00:43:44Yeah, you look so handsome.
00:43:46We're just sitting here, stirring in the pot.
00:43:50I'm still struggling to figure out why Sheena lied.
00:43:54And I know in my heart that there is more to this story.
00:43:58There, there, that's the monkey's walk.
00:44:04I'm going to sit down, guys.
00:44:06All right.
00:44:06I'm sweating like crazy.
00:44:10This is all wonderful.
00:44:12I didn't realize how truly beautiful the Philippines is.
00:44:16Yes, thanks so much.
00:44:18I mean, seeing this, meeting you, is so important.
00:44:24But there's still one little piece of the puzzle, and that's with your family.
00:44:33So I still really want to talk to them and discuss things.
00:44:38Well, I'm glad that you brought up, you know, Sheena's family.
00:44:47Sheena and I had a discussion about, you know, going by ourselves to meet your parents and how it's
00:44:53important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
00:44:57So, mom, I know that you wanted to go as a group to meet with Sheena's family,
00:45:02but we would really like it if you come the next day.
00:45:07Forrest.
00:45:08Isn't that right, babe?
00:45:10It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first, so they could have a better understanding.
00:45:16I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:45:24If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena the way that they do,
00:45:29with the whole tradition and the first oldest daughter thing, and that we're broke,
00:45:35then who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:45:39I need to be there with Forrest and Sheena.
00:45:46I feel it is important that you have me and Dev to stand by your side.
00:45:53Just, we will come in and say our greetings. Hello, how are you?
00:45:58No going and yelling and screaming. I promise.
00:46:03And so I was hoping that you would be in agreement to doing that, allowing us to come.
00:46:14Mom, we're not saying that we don't want you to be there.
00:46:18We want you to be there. We just want you to go the next day.
00:46:24Because we can talk about special pink fairy dust and all this other great things,
00:46:29but we live in reality, okay? And in reality, you are a very hardcore person. You know you are
00:46:39going to go and look for anything to be said. And I'm an adult. You need to treat me like an adult.
00:46:46I am not a child anymore. And you should be able to trust me and Sheena and our judgment.
00:46:53I cannot trust Sheena yet. She has not perfect.
00:46:56This is the perfect opportunity.
00:46:57And I cannot trust you now. This is the perfect opportunity.
00:47:00I cannot trust you now.
00:47:03I know Forrest. He will sacrifice his own self and do anything for Sheena.
00:47:10This was the whole reason why I came here was to protect Forrest from Sheena's parents.
00:47:16This is total bull .
00:47:17Only moments away. This is so surreal.
00:47:26I'm meeting my husband, not just any man. I have a feeling that we're going to have some
00:47:33communication problem again. I don't know.
00:47:38Come on, Bobby. Where are you?
00:47:41Okay.
00:47:44Okay.
00:47:55Kaya kong lumangoy sa iyong imakalali.
00:48:01You were all I can think about.
00:48:04Iibig ko sa'yo.
00:48:04Iibig ko sa iyong imakalali.
00:48:07Beautiful but classy.
00:48:11Oh.
00:48:12Today is the day that I'm going to meet my
00:48:17loving husband and I'm so excited.
00:48:20It's just so surreal.
00:48:22After being married for three years, in a relationship for six years,
00:48:32I finally get to meet my husband in person for the first time.
00:48:38So crazy.
00:48:42Hi. Hello. Good morning.
00:48:43I'm finally picking up my husband.
00:48:45Could you please bring us some champagne later on?
00:48:47I suggested that we start this trip on our honeymoon.
00:48:53So this morning, I checked into this beautiful resort in Bicol.
00:48:58But it's been raining ever since I showed up.
00:49:02Some people would think that it's a bad sign.
00:49:06But you know, I'm Catholic and for us, water is cleansing.
00:49:10For me, it's a blessing.
00:49:12Some breath spray for the first kiss ever.
00:49:15Thank God.
00:49:17Javon, here I come.
00:49:22Daraga Airport, please.
00:49:26Wow, I feel like puking.
00:49:30There's just so many emotions going on in my system right now.
00:49:36I feel happy.
00:49:37I feel excited.
00:49:38I feel intense.
00:49:40It's just the fact that I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:49:45At the same time, I have a feeling that we're also going to have some communication problem again.
00:49:52I don't know.
00:49:54But I don't want to be negative because this moment is very special to me.
00:50:00I've been waiting for a long time.
00:50:01So, for today, I'm going to focus on the positive, which is the love and the feelings we have for each other.
00:50:09I'm just touched down.
00:50:20I'm very, very excited about what's about to happen.
00:50:23I was 15 to 54.
00:50:24This is so surreal.
00:50:28I can't believe that even though we've almost been married for three years, I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
00:50:35This moment is huge because it's been a buildup over years.
00:50:39I'm excited, but also I have a lot of anxiety because things are far from perfect right now.
00:50:47I would love to get back to the place where me and Anna can have fun and laugh together
00:50:54and be happy in our relationship, like how it was in the beginning.
00:51:01This has been like an overdue dream for me.
00:51:08I would always daydream of how it's going to be, how it would feel like.
00:51:13I wonder how it feels to touch him, to hold him.
00:51:18Oh my God.
00:51:20The nervousness is just leveling up.
00:51:24It's like ordering something online and when it finally arrives,
00:51:29you're just excited to unpack the package.
00:51:42Just past customs.
00:51:44I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:51:46And uh, just so ready.
00:51:50I'm waking up today and I'm finally seeing the sun.
00:51:54Come on.
00:51:56Poppy, where are you?
00:51:59Ah I'm at a moment.
00:52:01I love this.
00:52:02Oh.
00:52:25Oh my.
00:52:25Oh my.
00:52:25As you can't believe it.
00:52:26Oh my.
00:52:27There you go.
00:52:28Ah!
00:52:34Oh, man.
00:52:43It's OK.
00:52:46Look at you in pink.
00:52:48Like a peach on a window sill.
00:52:50Yeah.
00:52:51Yeah, I told you.
00:52:52Yeah.
00:52:54Happy, huh?
00:52:57No.
00:53:00I'm crying.
00:53:01It's OK.
00:53:02You're supposed to be happy.
00:53:04I'm happy.
00:53:06Here's some joy.
00:53:10I rehearsed the moment in my head a thousand times
00:53:13of how I was going to approach her
00:53:15and what she was going to look like.
00:53:17And she's just everything that I ever hoped for and more.
00:53:24Oh, my God.
00:53:26You're so fluffy.
00:53:28You're very handsome and tall.
00:53:30And, yeah, perfect.
00:53:33It just feels like a dream.
00:53:36It feels surreal.
00:53:37Like, I still can't believe it.
00:53:39But I just want more kisses.
00:53:43Yeah.
00:53:44It's still not enough.
00:53:50I got you some chocolate.
00:53:52Some more stuff for you in my suitcase.
00:53:54Very smart, mister.
00:53:55Yeah.
00:53:56Like, I can't even wrap my brain around it
00:54:00that I am standing next to my wife.
00:54:03It just feels amazing.
00:54:05And I'm ready for the honeymoon.
00:54:18You look uncomfortable right now.
00:54:20So I'm curious if you're OK with this.
00:54:22No, no, no.
00:54:23Everything is fine by me.
00:54:24I'm comfortable with everything.
00:54:26Seeing your photos is just...
00:54:28It is just...
00:54:29Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:54:31Are you?
00:54:32I will just show you some pictures.
00:54:51So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here
00:54:54that we should cut vertically.
00:54:57We call it abdominoplasty,
00:54:59but in public, it's called tummy tuck.
00:55:01OK.
00:55:02So, fix this area here and here in this part.
00:55:05We can remove it.
00:55:06OK.
00:55:08When we do an FDL tummy tuck,
00:55:10we have to cut in the middle of your tummy.
00:55:12So, it's almost impossible to hide it.
00:55:14Right, OK.
00:55:16You look uncomfortable right now.
00:55:18So, I'm curious if...
00:55:19No, no, no.
00:55:20I'm comfortable with everything.
00:55:23Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:55:25Are you?
00:55:29It didn't make me uncomfortable.
00:55:34It kind of surprised me, but it's just...
00:55:38It is just people's life, you know?
00:55:42It is not a problem for me.
00:55:49So, overall, all for $7,175.
00:55:54OK.
00:55:55That's pretty much all.
00:55:57The healing period, usually the patients...
00:55:58That's what I was about to ask.
00:55:59Uh-huh.
00:56:00Usually patients ask.
00:56:01So, six weeks.
00:56:02OK.
00:56:03All right?
00:56:04So, like, anything I do at the gym, pretty much,
00:56:06would be done for six weeks.
00:56:07Exactly.
00:56:08Almost, yes.
00:56:09Almost.
00:56:10But approximately two to three weeks later,
00:56:12you can start jogging and light exercises.
00:56:15Excellent.
00:56:16And I'll have a packet of all this information.
00:56:18Of course.
00:56:19It's already printed out.
00:56:20OK.
00:56:21Thank you very much.
00:56:22But we'll be in touch.
00:56:23Yes, absolutely.
00:56:24And if you have additional medical questions,
00:56:27feel free to ask.
00:56:28I love that.
00:56:29I was just going to ask if there was an email.
00:56:33I appreciate your time.
00:56:35I'm glad I did it.
00:56:37But I feel really embarrassed about going to this appointment with Birkan.
00:56:43I'm not fully confident that he's, like, physically attracted to me.
00:56:50And having him in there with me has made me more insecure than ever.
00:56:55So what are you thinking about surgery?
00:57:02It's something that I've thought about for a long time now.
00:57:05Yeah.
00:57:06I feel like sometimes I'll catch a glimpse of myself,
00:57:09and I feel like I don't look any different than I did 140 pounds ago.
00:57:13And I hate that.
00:57:14Yeah.
00:57:15OK.
00:57:16I see.
00:57:17If you feel more confident when you do it, just do it.
00:57:22This is your life.
00:57:24You have to make your own decisions.
00:57:28That shows you how brave you are.
00:57:31You know?
00:57:33I don't feel like it's brave, though.
00:57:36This feels exactly the opposite of brave.
00:57:38I feel, like, scared and embarrassed.
00:57:41And, like, it's not brave.
00:57:48But you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed.
00:57:53You have the power to change your life.
00:57:57You wanted a better body.
00:57:59Now you have it.
00:58:01You lost all the weight you want.
00:58:04This is the best part.
00:58:05You just go into surgery and enjoy your rest of your life,
00:58:10you know?
00:58:11And you are gorgeous.
00:58:18I will always be on your side.
00:58:21OK?
00:58:26OK.
00:58:27OK.
00:58:28OK.
00:58:31I appreciate that.
00:58:34I love how supportive Birkan is.
00:58:37His words are so touching.
00:58:42I feel like I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him
00:58:48that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:58:50And I can trust what he's saying.
00:58:52You want to go?
00:58:53Mm-hmm.
00:58:54Now let's go.
00:58:56OK.
00:59:01You're the best.
00:59:02I know.
00:59:04That's my mojo.
00:59:05Since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
00:59:17No, I don't.
00:59:18I just don't want us to have any secrets.
00:59:20So what about you?
00:59:21When we match, we're talking and one day we just go away.
00:59:26Can you just give me some details while you're just praying?
00:59:40Cute!
00:59:42That is so cute!
00:59:45That's like the cutest thing I've ever seen.
00:59:48Can we eat now?
00:59:49Yeah.
01:00:02This is so pretty.
01:00:03Yeah, so nice.
01:00:04Do you want to sit over here?
01:00:05You can sit right at this table.
01:00:07I'm feeling a little frustrated after the cooking class because I feel like the past couple days
01:00:12he's just been changing his story.
01:00:14He's been telling different things to me online and in person.
01:00:17Oh, this is what we made.
01:00:19Great.
01:00:20And then seeing what Siet is doing on social media, I feel like he has something that he's hiding
01:00:26or that he doesn't want to tell me.
01:00:29This is all the more reason that I think every girl needs to do a little bit of stalking.
01:00:35I would never like show up at someone's house in the middle of the night.
01:00:38Like that's like creepy stalker status.
01:00:41But, you know, like some light digging is like totally normal.
01:00:47I investigate.
01:00:49I don't stalk.
01:00:54We did a really good job.
01:00:56Yeah.
01:00:57Should we try it?
01:01:02Mmm.
01:01:04That's really good.
01:01:05Do you like it?
01:01:08Good.
01:01:18You don't eat yours.
01:01:19There is...
01:01:20Yeah, I'm eating.
01:01:21No, you eat nothing.
01:01:22You just...
01:01:26I have a lot on my mind.
01:01:27I'm thinking...
01:01:28For example?
01:01:32I don't know.
01:01:33I'm just like thinking about...
01:01:34About what?
01:01:35Just like the whole...
01:01:40Argument we got into a couple weeks ago.
01:01:42What?
01:01:43When I found out that you were still talking to girls.
01:01:47And you haven't talked to any girls since.
01:01:48No.
01:01:50So you don't talk to girls on your social media?
01:01:52Social media? It's...
01:01:54Just people who know me.
01:01:56I've been looking at your page.
01:01:58Every day.
01:01:59Mm-hmm.
01:02:01You follow new girls.
01:02:02Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:02:04Girls, girls.
01:02:05Yeah.
01:02:06And it's like thousands of people that you follow.
01:02:07There is...
01:02:08It's like respect.
01:02:09If someone follow me, I follow him back.
01:02:11So what if they message you?
01:02:12Do you respond to messages too?
01:02:14Mmm.
01:02:15Just people who...
01:02:16They know me or I know them.
01:02:18If girls try to flirt with you, what do you say?
01:02:20I would say thanks.
01:02:21That's all.
01:02:22Oh.
01:02:23So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:02:28I'm...
01:02:29I speak only with you like something romantic because you are my girl.
01:02:37So...
01:02:38So you don't think you've ever cheated on me?
01:02:42No, I don't.
01:02:43You would never cheat?
01:02:44No.
01:02:45Or lie?
01:02:46No.
01:02:47I just don't want us to have any secrets between each other.
01:02:50For me, everything on me, I say to you.
01:02:53I don't hide nothing.
01:02:58Anything she asks me, I give her answers.
01:03:01But in the beginning of our relationship, she did something that confused me.
01:03:07And I never asked her about it.
01:03:11Sometimes I see her reaction, how she talked with me.
01:03:14It's like she has, like, secret or something inside here.
01:03:20It's like I feel it.
01:03:23I want to feel like I can trust you.
01:03:26And that, like, you're not ever going to do something behind my back.
01:03:28Like, I don't ever want to have to worry about it.
01:03:31I don't hide nothing.
01:03:33So...
01:03:35What about you?
01:03:37Do you have some secret to me?
01:03:42No.
01:03:44Sure.
01:03:45Mm-hmm.
01:03:48Because...
01:03:49I remember, when we match, we're talking, and one day...
01:03:55Where is she? I don't know.
01:03:57We just go away.
01:03:59So, when you come back, I was waiting for you to talk.
01:04:02You didn't talk.
01:04:06Can you just give me some details while you did this prayer?
01:04:13Um...
01:04:15I was just going through a bad breakup.
01:04:17So, no, in the same moments when we talk, you still with someone?
01:04:22Or by yourself?
01:04:23I was going through a breakup.
01:04:25When we're speaking the first time, you give me a picture of you like you are single.
01:04:31You know?
01:04:32Yeah.
01:04:33And you are not. You are still here.
01:04:34Well, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:38Breakup? I mean, you're still talking with him?
01:04:40Like, going through a breakup means...
01:04:42Still talking with him.
01:04:44We were going through a breakup.
01:04:46I have to repeat again. I have to repeat.
01:04:48No.
01:04:49So, you don't want to tell a couple of...
01:04:50Babe, I was going through a breakup. That's my answer.
01:04:53I was going through a breakup.
01:04:55Okay.
01:04:56I wasn't in the right head space to start a relationship.
01:04:59Ah.
01:05:01Me and Zied have actually never talked about why I ended things with him when we first started dating.
01:05:07So, I'm really shocked to hear Zied bringing this up right now.
01:05:11I mean, honestly, I did kind of just drop him and disappear because I was trying to make things work with my ex.
01:05:18I really want to be open with Zied about Mohamed, but I feel like with the way Zied is badgering me for this information right now, he wouldn't take it well.
01:05:31So, I'm just not really ready to tell him in this moment.
01:05:37That was a long time ago.
01:05:40Right?
01:05:41No, I want to...
01:05:42And I'm here...
01:05:43I want to listen to the details.
01:05:44I'm here with you now.
01:05:45And I want to be with you now.
01:05:46I'm not talking with now.
01:05:47Yeah.
01:05:48Yeah, but I'm talking about now.
01:05:49Because I want to be with you now and focus on right now, us being together.
01:05:54She's being weird.
01:05:57She don't want to tell me everything.
01:05:59And when I speak with her in the subject, she changed the subject for another subject.
01:06:06Right now, I see like she hiding a lot of things.
01:06:15And I can't to be engaged with someone who has this secret.
01:06:19Wow, would you do all this?
01:06:20Yeah.
01:06:21I am very nervous because it has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:06:35Okay.
01:06:36Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's gonna go?
01:06:44Jovan, you ready for me?
01:06:47Now, how is it all of a sudden you can miraculously change and stand up to your parents?
01:06:55Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:06:57Now the story changes again.
01:07:00Lying.
01:07:02Not keeping her story straight.
01:07:04That's where I have an issue.
01:07:06I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:07:10They're gonna have you snooker before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:07:17I'm so happy.
01:07:18Really?
01:07:19Yeah.
01:07:20What?
01:07:21You can just look at me all night.
01:07:23Oh, my God.
01:07:24Oh, my God.
01:07:25I'm forcing you to kiss me.
01:07:26When you're stated, you can stay with me into the sunrise.
01:07:33As long as I got you, give me a smile.
01:07:36Where are you going?
01:07:37I kiss is nice.
01:07:38I just met my wife for the first time in person.
01:07:43Man, I dreamed about this day for a long time.
01:07:44This is freaking huge.
01:07:45Right now, we're on our way to the resort that Anna booked.
01:07:50And it's a very surreal feeling.
01:07:51Before I met you.
01:07:52Yeah.
01:07:53I have a lot of thought about this.
01:07:54Daydream about this.
01:07:55Wild dream about this.
01:07:56Yeah.
01:07:57Yeah.
01:07:58Yeah.
01:07:59Yeah.
01:08:00Yeah.
01:08:01Yeah.
01:08:02Yeah.
01:08:03Yeah.
01:08:04Yeah.
01:08:05Yeah.
01:08:06Yeah.
01:08:07Yeah.
01:08:08Yeah.
01:08:09Yeah.
01:08:10Yeah.
01:08:11Yeah.
01:08:12Yeah.
01:08:13Yeah.
01:08:14Yeah.
01:08:15Yeah.
01:08:16But then it's funny because even though we're married, I was a bit worried about it.
01:08:27I was thinking like, oh my God, like, am I going to be shy?
01:08:30Mm-hmm.
01:08:31But I feel like I can fart over here right now.
01:08:39Anna's personality is a big ball of energy, and she's a little wacky.
01:08:44And she can literally hold a conversation all on her own.
01:08:47Yeah.
01:08:50Pretty much the opposite of me.
01:08:52But what can I say?
01:08:53That's my wife.
01:08:57So am I what you were expecting?
01:08:59You're exactly what I was expecting.
01:09:04My beautiful, chatty wife.
01:09:06Oh my goodness.
01:09:10Here we are.
01:09:11Mm.
01:09:15This is really nice, boy.
01:09:17That's why I picked it.
01:09:19It's got good taste, you know.
01:09:20Yes.
01:09:22So.
01:09:23Ready?
01:09:27Okay.
01:09:28You got it?
01:09:29Yeah.
01:09:30Good.
01:09:31No.
01:09:32You heavy.
01:09:35Don't throw me away.
01:09:36Don't throw you?
01:09:38No.
01:09:39You may look tiny, but you heavy, though.
01:09:41Oh.
01:09:42Oh.
01:09:43Well, would you do all this?
01:09:44Yeah.
01:09:45Okay.
01:09:47I've been waiting on this night for six years.
01:09:50It's our honeymoon, and seeing the rose petals on the bed, you know.
01:09:56The environment's right for us to, you know.
01:09:59To?
01:10:01Get it in.
01:10:02Yeah.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:07Boo?
01:10:08Hmm?
01:10:09This is yours.
01:10:11You can take off your...
01:10:12These come with the room?
01:10:13Yeah.
01:10:14Okay.
01:10:15You can take this off.
01:10:16Ooh.
01:10:17I'm kind of scared to take my socks off.
01:10:19Yeah.
01:10:23Ooh.
01:10:24I can smell that.
01:10:25Yeah.
01:10:28Ooh.
01:10:29Boy.
01:10:33I was wearing boots.
01:10:34I haven't taken a shower in like...
01:10:36Why would you wear boots...
01:10:3733 hours.
01:10:38...on a 33-hour flight?
01:10:42Get a big whiff, man.
01:10:43That's what you're going to have to deal with on a day-to-day basis.
01:10:46You want to take a shower?
01:10:48Please do.
01:10:49All right.
01:10:50Okay?
01:10:51I'll be right out.
01:10:52I knew that I would learn a lot of things about Jubon, but I did not expect that the feet would smell so badly.
01:11:07It smelled terrible.
01:11:11Mm.
01:11:12Oh.
01:11:13Okay.
01:11:15I am very nervous because, oh my God, I've never been with a man for a long time.
01:11:22It has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:11:27Okay.
01:11:28Yeah!
01:11:29Look at you.
01:11:30Better.
01:11:31I am worried a little bit.
01:11:32I'm not going to be able to satisfy him.
01:11:35I don't know.
01:11:38What if the positions have changed?
01:11:41Do I still know how it's gonna go?
01:11:43Like...
01:11:44I don't know!
01:11:45.
01:11:46.
01:11:47.
01:11:50JEVONN!
01:11:51Mm?
01:11:52You ready for me?
01:11:55Hey!
01:11:56Yeah!
01:11:57Look at you.
01:11:58Mm-hmm.
01:11:59Good, boo!
01:12:00I know we have a lot to figure out about each other the next few weeks
01:12:07But so far your body and I are off to a really romantic start. All right, you ready ready?
01:12:14But oh my god, I've never seen any married couple that took three years before
01:12:21Doing it
01:12:23wish me luck
01:12:30Sheena if we go and meet your parents I agree to not
01:12:44Speak out of turn. I don't believe you're going to do that and we cannot
01:12:52Mess this up with Sheena's family
01:13:00Okay
01:13:05Sheena your parents are going to do the same
01:13:09Line that they've used on you all along the cultural thing and the duty of the family now
01:13:16How is it all of a sudden under one day you can miraculously change and stand up to your parents?
01:13:23Well, my family isn't the bad people
01:13:25It's just that probably got misunderstood
01:13:28Oh, but now the story changes again again
01:13:32You told me yourself
01:13:34Yes, mom
01:13:35That you are pressured and you're scared
01:13:38Yes, mom
01:13:39Of your family, remember?
01:13:40Yes, mom
01:13:40But I am
01:13:41You're scared of your family
01:13:43And I could know
01:13:44But now you feel totally safe and
01:13:47Yes, I understand
01:13:48Ah, how that switches
01:13:50Sheena telling me that her parents aren't bad people
01:13:55It's like what what are you saying?
01:13:58That's a total different story from what you've been telling me all along
01:14:03Oh, they're mistreating me they're gonna kick me out
01:14:06They call me names all of this and now the story switches
01:14:10It's hard to think bad of your parent
01:14:13You can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents
01:14:17Where my problem is, is her lying
01:14:20Not keeping her story straight
01:14:22That's where I have an issue
01:14:24I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either
01:14:30It would be the most perfect setup for your family and you guys
01:14:34Your family, of course, doesn't want you to leave this country and go to the United States
01:14:41So you get forced to come over there
01:14:43And then it's twice the amount of money to your parents
01:14:47And he will be the grunt just like you are
01:14:51Stop, don't, I don't do that
01:14:53I love my person, I love your son, I love more than anything
01:14:56I have self respect for your son
01:14:58But I'm just saying my fear is Forrest is gonna say and do anything just to keep your love
01:15:04And then find out that it was all a con
01:15:07Mom, you acting this way has proven my point
01:15:15I ask you to please just wait one day so I can go and greet Sheena's family
01:15:20That was it
01:15:21And look at where we're sitting right now
01:15:23You can't even hold your temper
01:15:27My mom is saying things that are way out of line
01:15:30Sheena is a person with such a kind heart that she would never do anything to put me in danger or hurt me
01:15:37I brought my mom to Manila to kind of support me and give me advice
01:15:44But instead, she's always just nuking it, which makes everything worse
01:15:51Mom, I don't think one day is truly going to change everything
01:15:56Forrest, it's not even the point
01:15:57We can't even have a decent
01:15:59We've gone beyond that
01:16:00It's already gone beyond that
01:16:01You know why it's gone beyond that?
01:16:03Because of the fact that you don't trust me
01:16:12I have bust my ass trying to make sure to be there for you and to be there for her
01:16:20You think that if I didn't trust you that I would bring you all the way here to the philippines?
01:16:25That took a lot of trust to bring you here
01:16:30Forrest saying that he doesn't trust me that I won't blow up
01:16:35The reason why I blow up has always been to protect him
01:16:40But to see how he's taken that protection and made it a problem
01:16:51It's painful
01:16:52And I will not be anybody's problem
01:16:57You guys want your life?
01:16:58You want your thing?
01:16:59Mom, we're not trying to hurt you
01:17:02They're gonna have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest
01:17:07So, good luck guys
01:17:09Good luck
01:17:11So, how do you feel this conversation went?
01:17:14Did you get what you wanted?
01:17:16Yes, it's for the best
01:17:18That she's not coming
01:17:28Oh my god, is it really you?
01:17:32Okay
01:17:36He devoured me
01:17:39When we get to the room, then maybe I will cheer you
01:17:47Oh my god, you better stop
01:17:50Oh my god, Daniel
01:18:02I don't mind being here for morning to night
01:18:05I will wait
01:18:08I will wait
01:18:18I am having a little lovers
01:18:20I can't believe I'm finally about to meet Daniel
01:18:28Excuse me
01:18:31Hello
01:18:33This is a beginning chapter
01:18:35No matter what it is, whether it's good or bad
01:18:38It's gonna change everything in my life right now
01:18:40It's gonna be so funny
01:18:41I want you to get back to the room
01:18:46I will move in
01:18:47And I'll shoot you
01:18:48That's not my fault
01:18:50You're so funny
01:18:51I can see you
01:18:52I can see you
01:18:52I can see you
01:18:53What is this?
01:18:54I can see you
01:18:56How do you do?
01:18:57I can see you
01:18:57I can see you
01:18:59I can see you
01:18:59You're so funny
01:19:00You're so funny
01:19:01Oh my god
01:19:02You're so funny
01:19:03What is this?
01:19:04I can do
01:19:05You're so funny
01:19:05I can do
01:19:06I can see you
01:19:07I want to look at you.
01:19:13Let me look at you.
01:19:14So beautiful.
01:19:23Oh, my God.
01:19:25I don't even have words for how I felt when I first saw Daniel.
01:19:28He started running towards me, and I was like, oh, my God, that's him.
01:19:32And my heart just exploded.
01:19:34And, and he devoured me.
01:19:38Are you serious?
01:19:41Daniel.
01:19:42Oh, my God, Daniel.
01:19:46When we get to the room, then maybe I will chew you.
01:19:50No.
01:19:54Oh, my God.
01:19:55You better stop.
01:19:57Oh, my God.
01:19:59Oh, my God.
01:20:00Is it really you?
01:20:01Is it really you?
01:20:02Oh, my God.
01:20:04I'm trying not to cry.
01:20:17Don't you cry?
01:20:19No, I'm happy.
01:20:22She's more gorgeous than I think.
01:20:24More beautiful than the, the flowers I gave her.
01:20:28Really?
01:20:29Yeah.
01:20:30No, I'm a mess.
01:20:31I've been on a plane for hours.
01:20:32No, no, baby, come on.
01:20:33You're, you're such an easy step of being for Angel.
01:20:37Oh, my God, baby.
01:20:39I love you.
01:20:43Oh, my God.
01:20:44I don't know what to do.
01:20:46I don't know what to do next.
01:20:47Okay, we should go.
01:20:48Let me get my, are you going to get the luggage?
01:20:49I will get this.
01:20:50You get that one?
01:20:52Which way?
01:20:53Okay.
01:20:53What the heck?
01:21:07Baby!
01:21:11Did you do this for me?
01:21:14Did you really do this?
01:21:15I walked out and there's music and it's loud.
01:21:42And there's dancers dancing around and I'm thinking, what the hell?
01:21:45Is this how they welcome all foreigners into their country?
01:21:49But no, this is about me.
01:21:52Daniel set this up for me.
01:21:53What the hell is going on here?
01:21:56This is nuts.
01:22:00Wait, wait, hold this.
01:22:01Let me try.
01:22:02Wait, hold the flowers.
01:22:04Wait.
01:22:04Is that right?
01:22:09Yeah.
01:22:10Am I doing it?
01:22:10Yeah.
01:22:15I can't do the other one.
01:22:19I plan to welcome her like a queen.
01:22:21That's why I invited traditional dancers.
01:22:25I am happy that she joined the dancers and the way she's laughing.
01:22:29I am very sure about Alisa at this moment.
01:22:44Oh my God, that was so amazing.
01:22:50You're welcome.
01:22:51You're welcome.
01:22:53You're welcome.
01:22:54You're welcome.
01:22:54You're welcome.
01:22:55You're welcome.
01:22:56You're welcome.
01:22:57You're welcome.
01:22:58You're welcome.
01:22:59What are you doing?
01:23:09Alarm.
01:23:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:23This one is for you, Aviva.
01:23:27That's the one.
01:23:29Today we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
01:23:33They have a lot of questions for you.
01:23:35First, it's your career.
01:23:39The truth is I'm quite frustrated for us.
01:23:41I haven't saved anything for a future.
01:23:43You're an adult.
01:23:44You can find a job.
01:23:46You have to be mad out of it.
01:23:48I brought condoms too, baby.
01:23:50Go take your shower.
01:23:52Get everything ready.
01:23:52Get everything ready.
01:23:53It's been 21 years since I've been with a man.
01:23:57I want it to happen.
01:23:59Wait.
01:24:00What if I want it and he doesn't want me?
01:24:03I want it.
01:24:04I want it.
01:24:05I want it.
01:24:06I want it.
01:24:08When we first started talking, he was so sweet, calling me his wife within like 10 minutes.
01:24:15So you are looking to get married?
01:24:17Yes.
01:24:24She lied about something.
01:24:27Sometimes you overstep just a little bit.
01:24:30We had the argument and you called my sister.
01:24:35I love you, but you are a little bit unhinged.
01:24:39Oh, my God.
01:24:40I can't believe you're born right now.
01:24:42You done?
01:24:43Done with this conversation.
01:24:48Well, this is something you didn't tell me about.
01:24:49Wait, stop.
01:24:50Can you just calm down?
01:24:51Because I wanted to...
01:24:52You've been holding this secret for, what, four months now?
01:24:55Now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days directly has to be with me.
01:25:00With her ex.
01:25:01The wizard I didn't told you is trying to get me back.
01:25:10I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a job.
01:25:14So with my debts, I am just broke.
01:25:18Did you say your debts?
01:25:19Yeah.
01:25:22How much is it?
01:25:26I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:31I don't want to.
01:25:33I'm going to open you up, so you can see me.
01:25:36I used to come, and wait for you.
01:25:37Better about the bientôt.
01:25:44Okay?
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