90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days follows couples who begin their relationships online and meet in person for the very first time. As they travel across the world, they face doubts, cultural differences, and emotional risks to find out if their love is real — or just an illusion.
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00:00:00Ah!
00:00:00Hey, boo.
00:00:03Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05Look at you in pink, like a peach on a windowsill.
00:00:09I just met my husband for the first time ever.
00:00:12And we're off to our honeymoon.
00:00:15You heavy.
00:00:16But Jobon has been talking to this woman
00:00:19that he used to have feelings for.
00:00:21So that's all we have to figure out the next few weeks.
00:00:26Three.
00:00:30We should fix this area here.
00:00:32We call it abdominoplasty.
00:00:33But in public, it's called contact.
00:00:37It kind of surprised me, but it's not a problem for me.
00:00:42You have nothing to be embarrassed.
00:00:45And you are gorgeous.
00:00:47I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him
00:00:51that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:00:54I'm really sorry to hurt you.
00:00:56But it's different now, because I see who you are.
00:01:00I can show everything happens to my life.
00:01:03Here she is going through all these things.
00:01:06And instead of being there for her,
00:01:09I went to Colombia to see my ex.
00:01:14When we match, we're talking.
00:01:16And one day, we just go away.
00:01:19I was just going through a bad breakup.
00:01:23Right now, I see like she hiding a lot of things.
00:01:28I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.
00:01:33You lied about the fact that you've
00:01:35been married to women several times.
00:01:37Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:40I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:01:42until we have this conversation.
00:01:48What are you doing?
00:01:51Can you marry me?
00:01:53She and I had a discussion about going by ourselves
00:01:56to meet your parents and how it's important that I meet them
00:01:59before mom and dad meet them.
00:02:02My fear is Forrest is going to say and do anything
00:02:06just to keep your love.
00:02:08If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena,
00:02:12who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:02:15They're going to have you snooker before you even
00:02:17realize it, Forrest.
00:02:36I learned.
00:02:45Oh, my God.
00:02:46I came here for an engagement.
00:02:48I just wasn't expecting it to be in the first 10 minutes.
00:02:51I had so many other things in my head going on.
00:02:56I don't want to say yes, because I have
00:03:00to tell them my secrets.
00:03:03Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman
00:03:06and that I have been married five times
00:03:09and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:03:15I don't know what to do.
00:03:31Yes, baby.
00:03:33I don't know.
00:04:01Oh my God, you're my fiancé.
00:04:13Oh, come on.
00:04:14You're mine.
00:04:22How long were you planning this?
00:04:24Almost six months now.
00:04:26Six months?
00:04:27That's when we met.
00:04:28Yeah.
00:04:28You wanted it for six months?
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:31You are a fast one.
00:04:34Of course.
00:04:35I don't have to be slow because I know it's going to work.
00:04:39So why should I be slowing down?
00:04:41OK.
00:04:42Yeah.
00:04:43So you're sure?
00:04:44I'm sure because you're made for me.
00:04:47Remember what I used to call you?
00:04:49My God-given gifts.
00:04:56Hi!
00:04:57I saw you!
00:04:58I saw you!
00:04:59You're welcome.
00:05:00Good to see you!
00:05:01You're welcome, man.
00:05:02You're welcome.
00:05:03Thank you very much for accepting my neighbor.
00:05:05Thank you, man.
00:05:06Very nice to see you.
00:05:08How do you feel?
00:05:09I am so surprised.
00:05:10The flowers were more than I expected, and then to see his uncle and his friends, and then the next thing I know, he's on his knee, and I'm like, oh my God. I wasn't expecting any of this.
00:05:25Oh my gosh, baby!
00:05:26That was amazing.
00:05:27You surprised me.
00:05:28You surprised me.
00:05:29I don't want to leave over here.
00:05:30That was so much fun, but I didn't want him to propose to me right away.
00:05:35I thought...
00:05:36I said I would not be engaged to him until I came clean.
00:05:37But I wanted to say yes.
00:05:38Yes.
00:05:39Yes.
00:05:40So I said yes.
00:05:41I need to tell Daniel everything.
00:05:42I don't want to leave over here.
00:05:43You surprised me.
00:05:44I don't want to leave over here.
00:05:47That was so much fun, but I didn't want him to propose to me right away.
00:05:55I thought...
00:05:57I said I would not be engaged to him until I came clean.
00:06:03But I wanted to say yes, so I said yes.
00:06:07I need to tell Daniel everything.
00:06:10I want to tell Daniel everything.
00:06:12I just hope he doesn't change his mind.
00:06:17That was unbelievable.
00:06:20That was unbelievable.
00:06:37Hey.
00:06:38Good morning.
00:06:39Good morning.
00:06:40How are you?
00:06:41Perfect.
00:06:42Yeah.
00:06:43It was a nice night.
00:06:44Yeah?
00:06:45Yeah.
00:06:46Yeah.
00:06:47Yeah.
00:06:48You know, I feel like I am on the clouds, else I'm wasted.
00:06:53What?
00:06:54What?
00:06:55What?
00:06:56I was really emotional after the surgical consultation yesterday, but Birkan made me feel beautiful.
00:07:00And when we got home, he definitely showed me that he is physically attracted to me.
00:07:03He was really emotional after the surgical consultation yesterday, but Birkan made me feel beautiful.
00:07:07And when we got home, he definitely showed me that he is physically attracted to me multiple times.
00:07:32You're on the clouds, but you're wasted.
00:07:35I don't understand that.
00:07:36Yeah.
00:07:37It's because of happiness, and I'm feeling tired.
00:07:41Yeah.
00:07:42It's a good combo.
00:07:44Okay.
00:07:48The sexual chemistry is pretty great.
00:07:51But I do think that it does take a little bit of time to learn a person's preferences.
00:07:57I feel like he's a little more vanilla, and I'm a little more spice.
00:08:04That's because I didn't have sex in the last four years, maybe?
00:08:08Yeah.
00:08:09You're a little crusty.
00:08:10But this whole truck still works.
00:08:14True.
00:08:16Plus, he's pretty blessed down there.
00:08:20I think I'm going to make the coffee.
00:08:27All right.
00:08:28I'll get ready.
00:08:29Okay.
00:08:35I'm so glad we're doing this.
00:08:37Yeah.
00:08:45This is so amazing.
00:08:47I just love this building.
00:08:50This is so old.
00:08:51It's...
00:08:52Yeah.
00:08:53It's ancient, actually.
00:08:54Not old.
00:08:55Ancient.
00:08:56Oh, my gosh.
00:08:58This is amazing.
00:08:59Yeah, it is.
00:09:00Oh, my God.
00:09:01This is part of the history, actually.
00:09:06Why don't we sit here?
00:09:08Okay.
00:09:09There's something, like, really just kind of mesmerizing about this.
00:09:18Yeah.
00:09:19It is a Sofie Islam meditating dance.
00:09:24One hand is up, and the other hand is down,
00:09:29because upside of the hand, getting something from the gut.
00:09:35The other hand is giving that to earth.
00:09:40Oh, so beautiful.
00:09:45Watching the whirling dervishes perform with Virkon is a really cool experience.
00:09:50And I love that he's taking time to make sure that I understand.
00:09:57That's a really attractive quality that he has.
00:10:02This looks so good.
00:10:05What did you order for us?
00:10:07It's kebab.
00:10:08This one is the manama.
00:10:11It's made of tomatoes, eggs.
00:10:22You like?
00:10:23Yeah, it's really good.
00:10:26It's nice to have time like this to get to know each other better.
00:10:30Yeah, quality time.
00:10:32I want to get to know everything about you.
00:10:35What are you wondering?
00:10:36I can tell you everything.
00:10:41So you were living here, and then you moved.
00:10:44Yeah.
00:10:45I felt like I got bits and pieces through, like, texts.
00:10:50But I don't really know, like, the full story, what's going on.
00:10:55Yeah, so I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a job.
00:11:03So I came back again without a place to stay.
00:11:08And my debts and my jobless situation.
00:11:12I just, I am just broke.
00:11:20Did you say you're dead?
00:11:21Yeah.
00:11:22How much is it?
00:11:27I don't want to give you a heart attack.
00:11:32I was going to give you a heart attack.
00:11:33And, uh, estimately, I think 50k.
00:11:40Turkish lira, that's what?
00:11:41$1,500?
00:11:42That's all.
00:11:43I hope it was in Turkish Liras.
00:11:45So 50k in US dollars?
00:11:46Okay.
00:11:47I did not know any of this.
00:12:00It's not a big deal.
00:12:01No.
00:12:02It's not?
00:12:03$50,000.
00:12:04That's a lot of money.
00:12:05It feels like a little bit of a betrayal because he wasn't forthright in our online conversations about this debt.
00:12:21It is a giant concern and a huge red flag.
00:12:28I'm absolutely shocked.
00:12:34Okay, Javon.
00:12:35So we're going to start with tinangat.
00:12:38That's a lot of chilies.
00:12:39Come on, DMN.
00:12:40All right.
00:12:42I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk.
00:12:45That I can't handle, like, a little bit of spicy foods.
00:12:52Did you finish?
00:12:53Almost.
00:12:54We have to go to meet with my friends.
00:12:56I know.
00:12:57You are so disrespectful for you.
00:12:59How am I disrespectful?
00:13:00You are every day.
00:13:01But I'm not going to let you say lies.
00:13:03What happened?
00:13:12Good morning.
00:13:13Oh, I'm tired.
00:13:14Tired?
00:13:15Really?
00:13:16Last night, I arrived in the Philippines and waking up next to my wife, Anna Lynn, for
00:13:38the first time on our honeymoon.
00:13:41It's so surreal.
00:13:42Like, I get to actually cuddle with her and smell her morning breath.
00:13:51So?
00:13:52No.
00:13:53How did you sleep last night?
00:13:55Oh.
00:13:58Well, we didn't get much sleep last night.
00:14:02Yes.
00:14:03We made love.
00:14:04Was it good, though?
00:14:07That's a good question.
00:14:10Oh, my God.
00:14:11You hit a long-ass pause.
00:14:13It is good.
00:14:14OK.
00:14:15Well, why did you just say that in the beginning?
00:14:16Because I also think of the same question I was thinking to myself.
00:14:20How do you feel about that?
00:14:23I ain't got no complaints.
00:14:24None.
00:14:25Yeah.
00:14:26That's right.
00:14:27Yeah.
00:14:29Breakfast is over.
00:14:30So, you feeling lunch?
00:14:32Yeah.
00:14:33Yeah.
00:14:34You have a spicy knife with your spicy wife.
00:14:37So, I'm gonna take you for a spicy lunch.
00:14:39You know just what I like.
00:14:40You know just what I like.
00:14:41You know just what I like.
00:14:42You know just what I like.
00:14:43Turn me up.
00:14:44Turn me on.
00:14:45We just get so high.
00:14:46OK, we're here.
00:14:47Oh.
00:14:48OK.
00:14:49Yes.
00:14:52Hello.
00:14:53Hello.
00:14:54Hello.
00:14:55Hello.
00:14:56Hello.
00:14:57Hello.
00:14:58Hello.
00:14:59I actually grew up in Biko, but I moved when I was a teenager.
00:15:04And I've been really excited to show Juvon my culture.
00:15:09Would you like to sit down here?
00:15:11Just wait.
00:15:12Just wait on me.
00:15:13I'm taking Juvon for lunch today to a local eatery that makes a real authentic Bicolano dishes.
00:15:23OK, Juvon.
00:15:24So, we're gonna start with Pinangat with Tarotis.
00:15:28Shall we?
00:15:29All right.
00:15:30Bicolanos love spicy food.
00:15:37I'm not really content if I don't have any chopped chilis on my plate.
00:15:42We even put chili on ice cream.
00:15:45I'm gonna try it with the chilis.
00:15:47If it's too much, I'll let you know.
00:15:49Cheers.
00:15:50Oh.
00:15:51That's really big boo.
00:15:52I know.
00:15:53Let me take baby steps.
00:15:54Yes.
00:15:55All right.
00:15:56You can do it.
00:15:57I know you can.
00:15:58Most of the American food that I know, it's more blonde in my taste.
00:16:05So, I don't know if you will be able to handle the heat.
00:16:11Cheers.
00:16:12Good.
00:16:23So, what do you think?
00:16:25I like this.
00:16:26Mm-hmm.
00:16:27I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk.
00:16:29That I can't handle, like, a little bit of spicy foods.
00:16:33But, inside, I'm definitely burning up.
00:16:37Mm.
00:16:38Ready?
00:16:39Level two.
00:16:40That's a lot of chilis.
00:16:43Come on, Juvon.
00:16:44Be a man.
00:16:45All right.
00:16:46Mm-hmm.
00:16:47Mm-hmm.
00:16:49Mm-hmm.
00:16:50Mm-hmm.
00:16:51Mm-hmm.
00:16:52Mm-hmm.
00:16:53Mm-hmm.
00:16:54Okay.
00:16:55Mm-hmm.
00:16:56Oh, God.
00:16:57Okay.
00:16:58I feel this one in my...
00:17:00I feel this one in my chest.
00:17:03My mouth is on fire.
00:17:04My stomach is struggling.
00:17:06I hope all the food here isn't like this.
00:17:08Because I don't want to spend too much time by the toilet blowing it up.
00:17:13Mm-hmm.
00:17:14Mm-hmm.
00:17:15You want me to order more?
00:17:16Oh, I'm good.
00:17:17I'm good.
00:17:18I'm good.
00:17:19I'm good.
00:17:20So, you know, because of Bicolanos being known for spicy food, they say that, you know,
00:17:34Bicolanos are just hot.
00:17:38It's like hot in what way?
00:17:42You found it out last night.
00:17:44Oh.
00:17:45Yeah.
00:17:47And if we're lucky enough, just the one night and it's bullseye.
00:17:57Like, what do you mean?
00:17:59Maybe I'm pregnant.
00:18:02Yeah.
00:18:05We talked about this way before he came down here.
00:18:09And we agreed that we might get pregnant on this trip.
00:18:15I feel like I always have a maternal instinct in me.
00:18:19And I'm almost 40, so it's not like I'm getting younger.
00:18:25So, hypothetically, if I get pregnant, how do you think this is going to affect us?
00:18:36Yeah.
00:18:37What?
00:18:38If you got pregnant, you know, I'll do everything in my power to be here with you.
00:18:44So, you know, but whatever it takes.
00:18:46There's no way that you're going to be over here with my kid and then I'm back home.
00:18:52So, it's like since you're going to have a kid, suddenly you can easily find a way to come here whenever.
00:19:07Wow, you love our kid more than me.
00:19:14I sometimes feel like my wife's mood suddenly changes at the drop of a hat.
00:19:19I mean, I thought I was saying something positive, but she twists my words around like I don't want to spend time with her.
00:19:26Like, you're capable of this and that when I'm pregnant.
00:19:32But when I'm not pregnant, why did it take years for you to come visit me in the Philippines?
00:19:39It seems to me what you're saying is that it's all just going to be for the baby.
00:19:43Does that not sound a little just out there?
00:19:47No.
00:19:48You flipped it and made it about you instead of the baby.
00:19:52Don't give me that.
00:19:56I mean, this is a prime example of the way she goes zero to 100 real quick.
00:20:03I definitely feel like I'm walking on eggshells a lot because I sometimes feel like she's looking for problems.
00:20:10It almost feels like you can't 100% be yourself without the other person getting upset.
00:20:15And that needs to change.
00:20:17Will we get there? I do not know.
00:20:20But for the sake of our marriage, I hope so.
00:20:26Emma.
00:20:27Yes?
00:20:28Did you finish?
00:20:29Almost.
00:20:30We have to go to meet with my friends.
00:20:31I know.
00:20:32I'm almost done.
00:20:33You look so great.
00:20:34Why you need all this makeup?
00:20:35I just need to touch up a little.
00:20:36I need to bronze my boobs.
00:20:37How you can stay one hour behind the mirror?
00:20:38It's like two hours.
00:20:39Okay.
00:20:40This is so cute.
00:20:41Yeah.
00:20:42This is so cute.
00:20:43Yeah.
00:20:44But 30 is winning.
00:20:45Oh, fine.
00:20:46Hello.
00:20:47Happy dinner.
00:20:48How you can stay one hour behind the mirror?
00:20:49It's like two hours.
00:20:50Yeah.
00:20:51Okay.
00:21:03This is so cute.
00:21:08Yeah.
00:21:10Hello.
00:21:11Hello.
00:21:12Hi.
00:21:13I'm Emma.
00:21:14Nice to meet you.
00:21:15My name is Ernest.
00:21:16Nice to meet you.
00:21:17Nice to meet you.
00:21:18Nice to meet you.
00:21:19Nice to meet you.
00:21:20Nice to meet you.
00:21:21Nice to meet you.
00:21:22Nice to meet you.
00:21:23Hi.
00:21:24Hi.
00:21:25Yeah.
00:21:26This is nice.
00:21:28I definitely think that this is showing some progress in a relationship that I'm meeting
00:21:36Ziyad's friends tonight.
00:21:38I'm going to take, like, grapes and chocolates.
00:21:43I guess just the cappuccino?
00:21:47I was upset about not meeting his family.
00:21:50But I'm starting to feel a little special in this moment that he's willing to introduce
00:21:54me to other people in his everyday life.
00:21:56And, you know, hopefully I'll get the opportunity to do a little bit of digging and get to the
00:22:03bottom of who Ziyad really is.
00:22:07Emma, how are you?
00:22:08Good.
00:22:09How are you?
00:22:10Alhamdulillah.
00:22:11I'm so happy that you are with my friends.
00:22:14Aw, thank you.
00:22:15So do all three of you guys, like, hang out all the time?
00:22:18Are you besties?
00:22:19Yeah, most of the time.
00:22:21Has he said anything about me?
00:22:23Yes.
00:22:24Yeah, he told me that I meet a beautiful girl from the US.
00:22:28Aw.
00:22:29And, yeah.
00:22:30Why did you choose Ziyad?
00:22:32Well, we met on a dating app.
00:22:34Yeah.
00:22:35And when we first started talking, he was, like, so sweet and just genuinely kind to me.
00:22:43Like, he would text me every day.
00:22:45He would call me every single day.
00:22:46He was calling me, his wife, within, like, ten minutes of us talking.
00:22:50And I just, like, fell for him really quickly.
00:22:52So.
00:22:53Say it was mutual.
00:22:54It was, like, an instant connection.
00:22:55It was, like, an instant connection.
00:22:56Who, uh, Sokran?
00:23:13He asked me, for example, when we will go out and you take some clothes.
00:23:19Like, over.
00:23:20Like, open here.
00:23:21You know what I'm saying?
00:23:22Because we are, I mean, what, what do you wanna, what are you gonna do?
00:23:26Okay, can I just say one thing?
00:23:27I asked him a million questions before I got here.
00:23:32For example, I would say, when I come there, can I wear whatever I want?
00:23:35He was like, yeah, you can wear whatever you want here.
00:23:37People wear clothes like it's Europe.
00:23:40But, people in old minutes, like, people.
00:23:42Yeah, but you didn't tell me that until I got here.
00:23:44Why wouldn't you say?
00:23:45I don't know.
00:23:46I didn't know.
00:23:47We will be together in the mid, you know.
00:23:49Yeah, but you could have said, certain places, you can wear whatever you want.
00:23:53But not everywhere.
00:23:54It was, it was just a misunderstanding.
00:23:55No.
00:23:56It was just a misunderstanding.
00:23:57No.
00:23:58It was just a misunderstanding.
00:24:01Because he had lied.
00:24:06I think, I think, I think Ziyad.
00:24:09I feel like he was saying different things to me online and in person.
00:24:15It's just a lack of communication.
00:24:16No, but.
00:24:17Lack of communication on his end.
00:24:18No, but.
00:24:19Lack of communication on his end.
00:24:20She lied about something.
00:24:21What did I lie about?
00:24:22You lied about.
00:24:23Okay, the difference between, the difference between Ziyad and I.
00:24:26Why are you, I'm speaking.
00:24:27Everything I've said.
00:24:28I know, but I'm speaking.
00:24:29Everything I've said.
00:24:30When I'm talking, you should listen to me.
00:24:31I do respect you, but I'm so disrespectful for you.
00:24:33How am I disrespectful?
00:24:34You are, every day.
00:24:35You are, you are, you are, you are.
00:24:36I think you're disrespectful.
00:24:37You are, you are, you are, you are.
00:24:38I think you're disrespectful.
00:24:39Listen, I make a lot of effort just to, to find words.
00:24:40I'm not someone who's perfect in English.
00:24:41I know.
00:24:42And you stop at me.
00:24:43It's like, I forget everything, so.
00:24:44But I'm not going to let you say lies.
00:24:45What have I lied about?
00:24:46What happened?
00:24:47What happened?
00:24:48Three.
00:24:49Looking for God after me, I guess I don't buy and tell you.
00:24:53I know.
00:24:54And you stop at me.
00:24:55It's like I forget everything, so.
00:24:56But I'm not going to let you say lies.
00:24:57What have I lied about?
00:24:58What happened?
00:24:59I really loved you.
00:25:01I love you so much.
00:25:04Because I'm going to you.
00:25:05You long for me so I get away?
00:25:08Yesterday I 성py spoke.
00:25:10Today I my son's lead to daddy.
00:25:12Finally, when you began, I cried.
00:25:15I prayed, to your husband, a friend.
00:25:16Fr Richard Gisele, theешь man, to remain in love,
00:25:17It's hard to do what you need to do with your friends.
00:25:24Why you were in a relationship with someone else
00:25:27at the same time when you were talking to Ziad?
00:25:30It wasn't.
00:25:31No, no, no.
00:25:32Just liar.
00:25:33Something liar.
00:25:34I'm not a liar.
00:25:35We were broken up when I met this.
00:25:36You are a liar.
00:25:37Oh, immediately.
00:25:38I can't be with someone, for example,
00:25:40in the same time I'm taken with a girl.
00:25:43But you're on dating apps.
00:25:46Not only were you on dating apps, but you were actually talking to girls.
00:25:52Messaging them.
00:25:55You were telling girls, come to Morocco.
00:26:02You know what we probably should bring here?
00:26:04What?
00:26:05My banana hammock.
00:26:07Today we're traveling to meet Sheena's family
00:26:10with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
00:26:13No banana hammock for us.
00:26:15I put it back.
00:26:16Please.
00:26:17Well, this is something you didn't tell me about.
00:26:19Wait, stop.
00:26:20Can you just calm down?
00:26:21Because I wanted to.
00:26:22You've been holding this secret for, what, four months now?
00:26:24Now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days
00:26:28directly has to do with her ex.
00:26:30That looks very suspicious to me.
00:26:32Why would you keep that from me?
00:26:33Why would you keep that from me?
00:26:35Why would you keep that from me?
00:27:07My first day with Trish had its ups and downs.
00:27:11We did clear the air about her ghosting me for five days,
00:27:15and it made me feel better.
00:27:17But I'm not quite ready to tell her what happened
00:27:19in Columbia yet.
00:27:21I'm starting to feel closer to her,
00:27:23and I don't want to lose this feeling.
00:27:33Hey, what are you doing?
00:27:37This is so weird.
00:27:39What makes you buy this?
00:27:42I don't see what the problem was with it.
00:27:45Trish told me that she's very sexually open-minded,
00:27:49and she let me know that she's a ,,
00:27:53you know, a female ejaculator.
00:27:58When she gets excited, she can make quite a mess.
00:28:02So I came prepared with a little protection for the bed.
00:28:06So we can get in charge for the sheets, you know?
00:28:10Oh.
00:28:10Oh.
00:28:13What?
00:28:14Oh, my God.
00:28:15This is why I like to call her a splash pad.
00:28:18I know he bought that for me because I sent him a sexual video
00:28:27of me and he likes it, but it doesn't seem like something
00:28:36to put on the bed.
00:28:38It's like garbage back.
00:28:42I was doing it as a surprise to show you
00:28:44that I was ready to go all the way with pleasing you.
00:28:48But this is so stupid.
00:28:52Seriously?
00:28:54So are you going to pay for the damages to the mattress?
00:29:00It's horrible.
00:29:01Even though Trish didn't go for the splash pad,
00:29:14we both were satisfied last night.
00:29:17I'm feeling like she could really be the one.
00:29:20But, you know, I feel like Trish didn't give it a fair shot,
00:29:24which is disappointing because they're $50.
00:29:29Pretty expensive for a piece of plastic, you know?
00:29:42Well, I mean, you only have yourself to blame for that
00:29:45because you lied to me.
00:29:46No, I didn't lie to you.
00:29:47Well, you kept it from me.
00:29:49You kept it from me.
00:29:56Trish and I were about to go to dinner when, all of a sudden,
00:29:59Trish is telling me that her motorcycle's
00:30:01about to get dropped off and that it got fixed.
00:30:05I assumed it would be dropped off by a mechanic.
00:30:09But as it turns out, it was her ex-boyfriend's friend?
00:30:14Rick, stop, please.
00:30:16This is something you didn't tell me about.
00:30:19Trish and this guy are going on and on in Malagasy,
00:30:22and I don't know what the hell they're saying.
00:30:25So I started asking all these questions
00:30:27and he spoke some English.
00:30:29So I asked if she was still in contact with her ex.
00:30:33He's saying that they saw each other about four months ago.
00:30:37At that point, we were supposed to be exclusive.
00:30:40Why would you keep that from me?
00:30:44Because I wanted to...
00:30:45You been holding a secret for, what, four months now?
00:30:48It was not really important.
00:30:50That looks very suspicious to me.
00:30:52I'm just telling you.
00:30:54Something more must have happened with your ex.
00:30:57I think you would have said something to me
00:30:59if nothing happened.
00:31:00I mean, I asked you...
00:31:01Rick, I didn't lie to you.
00:31:03I'm ready to go.
00:31:05Can you just calm down, please?
00:31:09I'm calm and cool.
00:31:10Your reaction, like, oh, well, well, well, well.
00:31:12I'm calm and cool and collected.
00:31:14I just wanted to get my bike back,
00:31:17and I didn't expect this to turn into the whole thing.
00:31:23Rick find out that I saw my ex,
00:31:25and I don't know how to tell Rick the whole story.
00:31:29And I'm scared.
00:31:35This one is for you, Aviva.
00:31:38The sex good and the vibe good
00:31:41Would I breed you?
00:31:42Yes, I would.
00:31:43So you really like my guy, huh?
00:31:46You're aware of what happened to him in the past, eh?
00:31:49His girlfriend from Texas,
00:31:51if I said that he's fully over it, then I'm lying.
00:31:56Wicked!
00:31:58Yo, my world.
00:31:59Sure.
00:32:00Deponimisha, you know.
00:32:01Sure.
00:32:02Undercover.
00:32:03My bone shot, this what a eat a nut of me,
00:32:05say a man what this,
00:32:06he'll catch up in me fish,
00:32:07she a snake in a broth,
00:32:08so what is when I'm christ,
00:32:09she when a sexy girl,
00:32:11make me a boot pit.
00:32:12Hi.
00:32:14Hi.
00:32:15Ooh.
00:32:16I love it, babe.
00:32:17And your booty showin'.
00:32:19So what a bone shot, this is,
00:32:21he'll catch up in me fish,
00:32:22say a man what this,
00:32:23he'll catch up in me fish,
00:32:24she a snake me a is,
00:32:25when they kill them christ.
00:32:29I'm glad you're here.
00:32:30Me too.
00:32:31I'm glad we, you know,
00:32:34can actually be physical.
00:32:36Like in real life.
00:32:37I know.
00:32:38I like the lingerie.
00:32:39Yeah.
00:32:40I like it better when it was off.
00:32:45Stig and I did have a long night.
00:32:51I definitely think us being intimate
00:32:53made us a lot closer.
00:32:54It did feel really good waking up next to him.
00:32:57He thought we made a baby last night?
00:32:58Mm-hmm.
00:32:59We'll see.
00:33:03Last night,
00:33:04he didn't want to use protection
00:33:06and he knows I'm not on birth control,
00:33:09so I guess we're not,
00:33:11not trying to have a baby.
00:33:13I know it seems a little crazy
00:33:17and super soon,
00:33:18but I want a family
00:33:21and I would love to have little baby Stig.
00:33:23He would make a great dad.
00:33:28Enjoy making love with you.
00:33:29Mm-hmm.
00:33:30Didn't feel like just sex,
00:33:31I'm hooking up with a girl.
00:33:32It really felt good.
00:33:33Yeah.
00:33:34That's good.
00:33:35I'm just going to go with the flow.
00:33:37If she want to go all the way,
00:33:39we're going to go all the way.
00:33:40If she don't want to use protection,
00:33:41we ain't going to use no protection.
00:33:43She's fine as .
00:33:45Bruh, we got to enjoy this to the fullest.
00:33:49You want to see me in the action today?
00:33:50You saw me in the action last night.
00:33:52I don't mean it like that.
00:33:53I don't mean it like that.
00:33:54Different type of action?
00:33:55Okay, okay, what?
00:33:56So, I want to take you to the studio.
00:33:58Have you seen what I do and how I do it?
00:34:02And the guys want to meet you.
00:34:03They want to chat to you.
00:34:06And after that, I have a show tomorrow.
00:34:08So, we're going to hop on a boat.
00:34:10We're going to go to the island.
00:34:12Whee!
00:34:15I had a great night with Stig.
00:34:17Everything's going super well.
00:34:21And although I'm wishing I had a little bit more
00:34:23alone time with Stig first,
00:34:25if I plan on starting a life with a Belizean music star,
00:34:29I have to be able to handle the lifestyle.
00:34:33I've been searching all this time
00:34:39for a little bit of sunshine.
00:34:41So, this is a studio.
00:34:43I'll just do this.
00:34:48You good?
00:34:51You got this.
00:34:56Gentlemen, gentlemen.
00:34:57Gentlemen.
00:34:57Oh, yo.
00:34:58Hey, yo.
00:34:59Hey, yo.
00:35:00Cool.
00:35:00Gentlemen.
00:35:01Hi, I'm Aviva.
00:35:01This is my girls.
00:35:02Nice to meet you.
00:35:02Nice to meet you.
00:35:03Finally here.
00:35:03Nice to meet you.
00:35:04Hey, Aviva, you want a hug, Shenshek?
00:35:05I think we should hug, man.
00:35:07Finally, you heard so much about you.
00:35:09I told them you're the love of my life.
00:35:11And all that good stuff.
00:35:13Ready to see some magic?
00:35:14I'm ready.
00:35:15All right, then.
00:35:16All right, let's do it.
00:35:17I'm going to leave you with the guys.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19No trouble, gentlemen, ladies.
00:35:20All right.
00:35:22I'm excited to take Aviva to the studio to meet the homies
00:35:25and to show her what I do.
00:35:28I have some lyrics tossing around in my mind.
00:35:30You know, I'm inspired by last night.
00:35:32So, Aviva, first time in the studio?
00:35:34It is.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:35This is cool.
00:35:36I like it.
00:35:36Your first time you're getting a song about you.
00:35:38First time.
00:35:39I love it.
00:35:39Damn.
00:35:40You ready?
00:35:40You never put the offer a stick.
00:35:41I never.
00:35:42Oh.
00:35:43Oh.
00:35:44Yeah.
00:35:46This one is for you, Aviva.
00:35:50The sex good and the vibe good.
00:35:53And you love me as you should.
00:35:56Would I marry you?
00:35:57Yes, I would.
00:35:58Would I breed you?
00:35:59Yes, I would.
00:36:00The sex good.
00:36:01You understand what you said?
00:36:02Goodbye.
00:36:03You understand the last word?
00:36:04We did it on fun last night.
00:36:11Nobody ever really says I want to breed you in America.
00:36:16Really?
00:36:17I don't know.
00:36:18I'm a dancing artist.
00:36:19That's how we talk.
00:36:20We breed you.
00:36:21Yeah.
00:36:23Sweet talker.
00:36:29What the?
00:36:33All right.
00:36:34Want to hear about that song?
00:36:35Yeah.
00:36:39So you really like my guy, huh?
00:36:40I do, yeah.
00:36:41A lot.
00:36:42You like the dude?
00:36:43Mm-hmm.
00:36:44I hope he likes me too.
00:36:45You know he's a handful, huh?
00:36:46A little bit.
00:36:47A little bit.
00:36:48A little bit.
00:36:49All right.
00:36:50I always try to give him good advice and put him on the right path.
00:36:54Yeah.
00:36:55There's a lot of mistakes that he made in the past, you know, so I wouldn't want to see that happening all over again.
00:37:01From my perspective as management, I always see these relationships damage his career.
00:37:14His ex in Texas was, in my opinion, kind of horrible because we couldn't get anything out of him productive.
00:37:18I can't allow Aviva to bring any type of drama to us, especially to Stig's career.
00:37:25You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:37:28His girlfriend from Texas, she definitely did a number to my dude.
00:37:33He mentioned it to you, brought it up to you?
00:37:35We talked about it a little bit, but he probably held back, yeah.
00:37:39Yeah, but I mean, when it all started, it damaged us and we couldn't get anything out of him, you know.
00:37:46For months, he was just depressed and we had a lot of international projects ahead of us and all of that kind of paused.
00:37:55So, it was a tough breakup and I believe that he had planned for a lot with her, you know.
00:38:01He wanted to start a family and then, bam.
00:38:13I didn't know that he was ready for a family with her, so that's news to me.
00:38:18Oh, is it bothering you?
00:38:20Yeah, a little.
00:38:22I mean, I didn't know that it was that serious.
00:38:25Well, if I said that he's fully over it, then I'm lying.
00:38:30I knew about Stig's ex-girlfriend because that's how we bonded.
00:38:37We were both going through a heartbreak at the same time and found comfort in each other through that.
00:38:42But I had no idea that he was planning to have a family with her.
00:38:46Now, I definitely feel like Stig lied to me because he swore he was over her.
00:38:53And that's why I was willing to come all the way out here.
00:38:57So, now I don't know what to believe.
00:38:59We're here.
00:39:00We're here.
00:39:01Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
00:39:06They have a lot of questions for you.
00:39:07First, it's your career.
00:39:08I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:39:14I'm worried about their acceptance of man.
00:39:15I know.
00:39:16It's challenging me.
00:39:17You know what we probably should bring here?
00:39:18What?
00:39:19We should bring sex bear.
00:39:20Oh, just leave them alone.
00:39:21Just leave them alone.
00:39:22Just leave them alone.
00:39:23You want me to wear my Speedo?
00:39:24Oh, just leave it.
00:39:25My banana hammock?
00:39:26No banana hammock.
00:39:27No banana hammock.
00:39:28No banana hammock, Forrest.
00:39:29Please.
00:39:30I put it back.
00:39:31I put it back.
00:39:32I put it back.
00:39:33You want me to wear my Speedo?
00:39:34Oh, just leave it.
00:39:35You want me to wear my Speedo?
00:39:36Oh, just leave it.
00:39:37My banana hammock?
00:39:39No banana hammock, Forrest.
00:39:40Please.
00:39:41I put it back.
00:39:43Okay.
00:39:44Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's fans.
00:39:45You know what we probably should bring here?
00:39:46You know what we probably should bring here?
00:39:47What?
00:39:48We should bring sex bear.
00:39:49Just leave them alone.
00:39:50Just leave it alone.
00:39:51Just leave it alone.
00:39:52Just leave it alone.
00:39:53You want me to wear my Speedo?
00:39:54Just leave it alone.
00:39:55My banana hammock?
00:39:56No banana hammock, Forrest.
00:39:57Please.
00:39:58I put it back.
00:39:59Okay.
00:40:00Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing,
00:40:15to be married.
00:40:16It's still a bit confusing to me to get the blessing of these people who have been mistreating
00:40:23Sheena this entire time.
00:40:25She told me that she has to give them money all the time.
00:40:29And if she doesn't give them money, they start yelling at her, mistreating her, threatening
00:40:33to even kick her out of the house.
00:40:36But I really just want to go and represent myself and show how great I am.
00:40:41And once I make a good first impression, then we'll have the real hard discussion about
00:40:46cutting them off financially.
00:40:48Oh, man, Sheena.
00:40:49Thank you, my love.
00:40:50Goodness gracious.
00:40:51I'll just leave it there.
00:40:52Okay.
00:40:53Okay.
00:40:54You look nice.
00:40:55So, Sheena and I are about to get out of here.
00:40:59Oh, okay.
00:41:00You guys go and have your meeting the first day with your family.
00:41:05Then I can proceed to go from there.
00:41:09Yeah.
00:41:10I really appreciate you doing that, Mom.
00:41:12I wish you the best of luck and I pray for the best outcome in this situation, all right?
00:41:19I know my mom's upset with me that I want to go see Sheena's family by myself.
00:41:26But her being my mom, I still want her opinion.
00:41:29So, I'm kind of relieved that my mom is going to come the second day and support me how I've
00:41:34been wanting her to support me this entire time.
00:41:36I just hope that she doesn't blow up everything.
00:41:39Yeah.
00:41:40Bye, guys.
00:41:41Bye.
00:41:42See you tomorrow.
00:41:46I am really upset that he didn't want us there.
00:41:51I think that what's going to happen is they're going to go talk to them.
00:41:54And they're going to tell me, we've got it all handled.
00:41:58We've got it taken care of.
00:41:59It's all good.
00:42:00And they're going to keep me from seeing the parents.
00:42:03That is my gut feeling.
00:42:04And I'm not going to accept that.
00:42:06We just have to walk, honey.
00:42:07Yep.
00:42:08Ow.
00:42:09Sorry.
00:42:10That bus is quite big.
00:42:11Yep.
00:42:12That bus is going hardcore.
00:42:13That's so fun.
00:42:14Oh, just be careful.
00:42:15There's a lot of rocks around.
00:42:16Just do it.
00:42:17Yep.
00:42:18I will just carry the one thing.
00:42:19One thing.
00:42:20Ouch.
00:42:21Oh, my God.
00:42:22My family lives in a province in Cavite, two hours from Manila.
00:42:26The good thing about my family is that I'm not going to take care of my family.
00:42:35The good thing about the Cavite is the nature.
00:42:38It's less polluted and much more peaceful.
00:42:42I usually take a bus first, then a tricycle, which is a local transportation in the Philippines.
00:42:50So it's not an easy trip.
00:42:57You have fun in the bus today?
00:42:59No.
00:43:00I've never been on a bus this cramped before.
00:43:04I've got this guy sitting right on my lap.
00:43:06I don't know if he likes it or what, but...
00:43:09It's fun.
00:43:10You just squished through it.
00:43:11Squished through it.
00:43:12There's no way that Molly and Dev could figure this out on their own.
00:43:17So we're going to arrange a car for them tomorrow.
00:43:22If they happen to travel with a bus, we might never see them both again.
00:43:27You're so beautiful, Sheen.
00:43:31I love you.
00:43:32How did you go through everything not becoming a model?
00:43:34I don't know.
00:43:35Perhaps it isn't meant for me.
00:43:37That's why I'm a veteran.
00:43:39I'm so proud of it.
00:43:42We're here.
00:43:43We're here?
00:43:44Yeah.
00:43:45We're going to have to ride some bicycle now?
00:43:48Oh, we're getting to ride a trike?
00:43:50Yeah.
00:43:52We're going to have to wait.
00:43:57Oh, man.
00:44:00Are you okay?
00:44:01Well, I kind of just want to, like, regroup our thoughts here and kind of figure out what
00:44:07we're doing.
00:44:08This is the first time meeting me in seven years.
00:44:11I'm worried about their acceptance of me.
00:44:14I know.
00:44:15It's challenging, babe.
00:44:16They have a lot of questions for you, so I just have to answer them honestly.
00:44:20First, it's your...
00:44:23What's your purpose for coming here in the country?
00:44:26Then, second thing possible, it's your career.
00:44:31Hearing that Sheena's parents are going to probably ask me about my career and how I
00:44:35make money makes me extremely nervous.
00:44:38Honestly, because of my disability, I can't focus or do certain tasks that normal people
00:44:44would be able to do.
00:44:45It takes a lot for my boss to come back to me and keep telling me, hey, Forrest, you're
00:44:49messing up.
00:44:50Hey, Forrest, you're doing this wrong.
00:44:51And a lot of the time they can't do that, you know, because I'm now costing them money.
00:44:56So, I haven't had a job in several years.
00:45:00And I've been living on disability checks.
00:45:03Sheena has always understood my situation.
00:45:07And that's why it's been put more on her to save for our future.
00:45:12And I feel awful about it.
00:45:15I don't want your parents' disapproval.
00:45:19I'm worried that they will say that I'm not able to afford you.
00:45:24You have to be mad out of it.
00:45:26I mean, you're an adult.
00:45:28You could find a job.
00:45:29I know you proved yourself.
00:45:31And that's what I want to see from you.
00:45:33You could find a job.
00:45:34That's the only way.
00:45:37Sheena, I'm definitely going to work hard for you.
00:45:42And I'm going to tell them that.
00:45:45I have been helping my family for years to keep them happy.
00:45:52And the truth is, I'm quite frustrated that Forrest, as a guide, that he doesn't have work.
00:45:59It's hard for me working by myself while he haven't saved anything for a future.
00:46:04And now, I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:46:19I really get emotional because the pressure on my shoulders is quite hard.
00:46:25So, I don't know what's going to happen.
00:46:28And I'm so nervous.
00:46:34All right.
00:46:35Find experience, honey.
00:46:36Let's do this thing together.
00:46:37Let's do this together.
00:46:41We had that last argument, and you called my sister, and you were complaining about me.
00:46:47You were a little bit unhinged.
00:46:49Oh, my God.
00:46:51I can't believe you're born right now.
00:46:54I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:47:04Anna, can I just rest just for a little bit?
00:47:09No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:47:12Come on.
00:47:13We're on honeymoon.
00:47:15I think we both need a massage.
00:47:17Like, look at you.
00:47:18It will lessen the tension.
00:47:19Is it because of last night?
00:47:21Was I rough on you to make you feel like you need to go get a massage?
00:47:25Yeah, part of it.
00:47:27Honestly.
00:47:29Come on.
00:47:44What's up with you and my side dress?
00:47:46I mean, because, boo, I don't want anybody and everybody up in my personal space.
00:47:50If you gave me a massage, I wouldn't complain.
00:47:52But that's you.
00:47:53You're my wife.
00:47:54Have you seen these tiny, skinny fingers?
00:47:57Yeah, but that don't mean they don't work magic.
00:48:01Earlier today at lunch with Anna, things got a little bit tense.
00:48:06Navigating marriage with my wife in person is a little bit more challenging than I thought.
00:48:13But we're both on our honeymoon.
00:48:15We're supposed to be having good, positive vibes.
00:48:19So we call the truce for now.
00:48:21Hi.
00:48:22Good evening, folks.
00:48:24Yes, thank you.
00:48:25Okay.
00:48:26Oh.
00:48:27See?
00:48:28Nice.
00:48:29Now it's nice, huh?
00:48:30Yeah, it's nice.
00:48:31Face goes here, right?
00:48:32No, it's your butthole.
00:48:33I don't really like massages, but if it eases the tension between me and Anna, I'm all for it.
00:48:49How long you think it's been since you've been in a spa?
00:48:57In like a few years?
00:48:59Last month.
00:49:00Last month?
00:49:01When you have some stiff muscles, it really relaxes you.
00:49:05Also, if you have insomnia, get a massage.
00:49:09After the massage, I guarantee you, you'll fall asleep.
00:49:16Sounds like you go a lot.
00:49:18Yeah.
00:49:19Because it, you know, relaxes me.
00:49:22For about the last five years, I've been sitting at at least $600 a month, but sometimes more.
00:49:31I'm very old school.
00:49:33I believe the man should provide financially, and the woman is supposed to be the nurturer
00:49:39and the caregiver.
00:49:41But sometimes I feel like the money I give her is her vacation fund.
00:49:47That definitely makes me feel some type of way.
00:49:50I could have been here probably already if she just would have learned how to budget
00:49:54so I can send less money.
00:49:56Is the pressure okay?
00:49:58So good.
00:49:59It's just right.
00:50:01So, when we leave here and we visit Kabite, I'm excited to see where you live, boo.
00:50:09Have you been practicing your Tagalog?
00:50:12No, but I need to.
00:50:14How do you think you're going to communicate with my mom?
00:50:18I mean, I'm not here that long when I got you.
00:50:23But don't you want to make some effort to have a relationship with her?
00:50:29I try to make efforts to have a relationship with your siblings.
00:50:33Well, I mean, I want you to have a good relationship with my siblings.
00:50:42But sometimes I feel like, you know, you overstepped just a little bit.
00:50:48What do you mean?
00:50:51You know, kind of like we had that last argument and you called my sister.
00:50:58Remember that?
00:50:59And you were complaining about me.
00:51:02And you think that is what?
00:51:04I don't know.
00:51:05I mean, it's, you know, it's a bit much.
00:51:10Because, you know, she was at work and, I mean, you kind of unloaded a lot on her.
00:51:17A little bit unhinged.
00:51:19You feel comfortable enough that you can talk to her about our problems, but you can't do it with me. Why is that?
00:51:32At least when I'm hyper emotional, I just go to families.
00:51:37I mean, you're upset with me, but you run to other women.
00:51:42It's just so funny that you have the guts to call me out, that I share it to your siblings, yet you're so willing to share it to someone that you used to fancy.
00:51:57If you have this history, what do you think could happen?
00:52:00Well, I mean, Anna, like, once again, I'm waiting on accountability from you, to be honest with you.
00:52:07Accountability.
00:52:08Like, why did my husband go to another woman and talk about our problems? Huh.
00:52:14I wonder what made him feel like he needed to do that.
00:52:18You're saying that the reason you did this is because of me.
00:52:21So basically, it's like justifying cheating.
00:52:26I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful. You know that, don't you?
00:52:34Here we go again.
00:52:36Oh, Jesus. I'm just gonna change.
00:52:40You done?
00:52:41Yeah, I'm done with this conversation.
00:52:45You always complain about my hyper emotion. You're the reason why I have it.
00:52:51I'm not doing it intentionally.
00:52:53Yeah, whatever.
00:52:57Oh, my God. I can't believe you're born right now.
00:53:01I thought the reason we were fighting so much was because we were in a long distance relationship.
00:53:10But now that we are finally together, we're still fighting.
00:53:14If we are already like this on our honeymoon, what does it say about our marriage?
00:53:21Yeah.
00:53:22If we're the only child in a moment and we can't do this, then it sounds like I mean, we're going to be together.
00:53:30Oh, my God.
00:53:31That is the case, no.
00:53:32That's not the case.
00:53:33That's the case.
00:53:34That's not the case.
00:53:35You were telling girls, come to Morocco.
00:53:45You were telling girls, follow me on social media.
00:53:47It's not I told them you can't come to me.
00:53:48You were like, let's get to know each other.
00:53:49My name is Ziad.
00:53:50I'm from Morocco.
00:53:51I'm 27.
00:53:52You were on dating apps.
00:53:53Talk to me tonight.
00:53:54It was from a dating app.
00:54:07So that's normal thing.
00:54:09Why would you welcome girls on a dating app if you're in a relationship?
00:54:12So if I was on dating apps and I was talking to a bunch of guys,
00:54:15and all the guys I was talking to, I was like, come to Los Angeles, come to Los Angeles.
00:54:19That's okay for me to say that?
00:54:20It's not the same.
00:54:22It's not the same.
00:54:23How is it not the same?
00:54:24Let me explain.
00:54:25Me, I'm so proud about my country.
00:54:27So if anyone, let me speak.
00:54:30But you're meeting these people on dating apps.
00:54:31I'm speaking.
00:54:32Don't act like you're meeting people on dating apps and just want to welcome them to Morocco.
00:54:36You were meeting girls on dating apps, trying to talk to pretty girls.
00:54:39Actually, I totally understand you.
00:54:43So your friends agree with me, right?
00:54:45You guys are on my side.
00:54:46No, they are not.
00:54:47They just do that for you.
00:54:48We are with our guests.
00:54:50They want to make you.
00:54:51No, they see that I'm right.
00:54:53And they're on my side.
00:54:57Well, I think for me, from my perspective, it's like a lack of trust.
00:55:05Trust.
00:55:06I mean trust.
00:55:07Yeah.
00:55:08Emma, after what happened, do you see yourself continue in this relationship with the other?
00:55:14I mean, I think we have to like talk about our differences, but I want to overcome our problems.
00:55:23Overcome?
00:55:24Move forward.
00:55:25And then get married.
00:55:27Oh, okay.
00:55:28Yeah.
00:55:29So you are looking to get married?
00:55:31Yeah.
00:55:32Yes.
00:55:33I want to be engaged before the end of this trip.
00:55:35Zero percent.
00:55:36Zero percent why?
00:55:37Zero percent.
00:55:38He asked him if, can you see Emma as your wife?
00:55:42And you said zero percent?
00:55:43Yeah, yeah.
00:55:44At the moment I mean.
00:55:45So you're saying in this very moment, you see zero percent chance of me being your wife?
00:55:50For these moments.
00:55:51Then what does that mean for the rest of the time I'm here?
00:56:11You told me before I came here you wanted to get engaged.
00:56:13engaged i need more time to know you and you need your zero i need a lot of time to understand you
00:56:20because we are so different we need more time okay
00:56:34i brought condoms too baby i know but i'm really tired it's been 21 years since i've been with a
00:56:43man let me take a shower i'm a little nervous about it what if i want it and he doesn't want me do you
00:56:49know what kind of a letdown that's going to be you shocked me with that proposal i wasn't expecting
00:57:08it you're not supposed to keep secrets for me
00:57:22i i can't believe i'm here i'm in nigeria and i haven't even known daniel but for 10 minutes
00:57:29in person and i'm engaged to him it's crazy it's crazy
00:57:44daniel is very affectionate i've never been kissed like that before really yeah but i liked it
00:57:50your lips taste as natural as honey that's why i wanted to you know um bite off the lips
00:57:57also she was looking so stunning i i couldn't resist her oh my gosh you're a smooth talker
00:58:04that's really very happy that um we're going there today we should call princess about how i pull this
00:58:19we will talk to her not tonight but we will tell you no not tonight i want to spend time with you
00:58:25tonight but we will talk to her i think she will be very surprised i love your manners
00:58:33faith is going to be furious when she finds out we got engaged i told her that i was going to come
00:58:39clean before he proposed and that didn't happen she wants me to be very careful and not rush things
00:58:48but tonight the last thing i want to think about is the lecture i'm going to get from faith
00:58:57oh baby this is beautiful
00:59:04i want to show you what i got you i got you so much stuff baby all right you ready we'll open it
00:59:10there's more wait you have to open this one okay wow let's see if it fits wow
00:59:40wow wow now look i bought oils okay this one is strawberry supposed to like change the temperature
00:59:59as your friction and i brought condoms too baby i know but i'm wearing a child
01:00:10come on come on take your shower you want to take a shower together
01:00:17um take a shower tomorrow we'll do that okay okay you know we are tired go take your shower get
01:00:24everything ready okay
01:00:26is he tired or is he really just not interested i'm feeling like he's not interested anymore
01:00:40so i don't know what's going on but i want it to happen i'm nervous i want it to happen i want
01:00:46to get that part out of the way and get the new situation underway um
01:00:58it's been 21 years since i've been with a man so i'm a little nervous about it oh god
01:01:05i don't know what if i want it and he doesn't want me do you know what kind of a letdown that's
01:01:25gonna be after 21 years of not having it and then all of a sudden saying okay i'm ready for this
01:01:30and then him turning around and saying no that's a real possibility and it's scary
01:01:44i i don't know it's it's it's weird he's acting different all of a sudden than he did
01:01:50at the airport and during the engagement it's confusing but i'm not giving up yet
01:01:55oh
01:02:19baby
01:02:22oh
01:02:25I'm starting to think he's second-guessing everything.
01:02:38He sees my wrinkles, and he sees my saggy body,
01:02:41and he doesn't want me.
01:02:45Again?
01:02:46Yeah, yeah.
01:02:47Go to sleep.
01:02:48OK.
01:02:49I don't know what to think.
01:02:52I feel rejected, and I'm worried.
01:02:53He's going to call off the engagement.
01:02:55He's going to leave me stranded here
01:02:57because he's not attracted to my body
01:02:59now that he's seen it in person.
01:03:00That's how I feel.
01:03:02I'll wait on you for a little while.
01:03:04Is that OK?
01:03:04I'm OK.
01:03:05Can I snuggle you?
01:03:06Is that OK?
01:03:07I'm OK.
01:03:08I'm trying.
01:03:17What happened with your ex?
01:03:19Is he still sending you messages?
01:03:22No.
01:03:23Would you be willing to show me that?
01:03:25Why do you think your mind goes to Chi?
01:03:29My greatest fear is that Chi still has feelings for him.
01:03:38So what happened when you went to Texas a few months ago?
01:03:42You kind of just went quiet, so I thought
01:03:43that you were definitely seeing your ex.
01:03:45Stig went to Texas, and he didn't invite me.
01:03:49And now I can't help but think maybe there was a reason
01:03:53he didn't invite me to Texas.
01:03:54Can I get mad at it?
01:03:56Can I get mad at it?
01:03:57And now I came up with you, Jess en
01:04:16and told me about what I do to come on.
01:04:20So what do you want?
01:04:25I want wings, I want some shrimp, and I want some beef.
01:04:32And I'm cold, we need to sit back.
01:04:37I'm just so confused and a little bit irritated.
01:04:45I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
01:04:50because I know he has a lot of money,
01:04:52but Trisha has sworn to me that she would never get back with him
01:04:56because of how badly he treated her.
01:04:59But if that were the case, why would she be hanging out with him so recently?
01:05:03It bothers me that she kept that from me.
01:05:06Now I'm thinking again that this whole thing about her ghosting me for five days
01:05:12directly has to do with her ex.
01:05:19Are you ready to talk?
01:05:23I still don't understand why you want to talk.
01:05:26Like, we were just saying hi.
01:05:29That's it.
01:05:32So where was this? Where did you just happen to run into?
01:05:35A restaurant.
01:05:37So you just happened to be eating at the same restaurant as him?
01:05:40I saw him outside, then...
01:05:43And you called him over?
01:05:44Yeah.
01:05:52He was with his family, so I got a good relationship with his family.
01:06:01And we just talked a little bit, then I went home.
01:06:09I don't know, that sounds really sketchy to me.
01:06:11Because if it was a situation like you just happened to run into him,
01:06:15I think you would have told me about that.
01:06:17Listen, so the reason why I didn't told you is you're trying to get me back.
01:06:31He wants to get back with you.
01:06:34And how did you respond?
01:06:36I said, no, I already have someone.
01:06:39Then he got mad because I said, no.
01:06:42And I didn't say anything about it.
01:06:45Because I was really scary about your...
01:06:48How would you react of that?
01:06:50Like, maybe you would say, maybe she's still with her ex.
01:06:53Like, how you react right now?
01:06:58Have you guys been in contact since then?
01:07:02He contacted me on a text message.
01:07:05So he still hasn't gotten the message that you've moved on.
01:07:12And when did this conversation happen?
01:07:15Four months ago.
01:07:18And is he still sending you messages like that?
01:07:22No.
01:07:24Would you be willing to show me that?
01:07:30So if I show you, will you believe me?
01:07:33I'd have no choice about you.
01:07:46Look at the time.
01:07:48I didn't even respond, Rick.
01:07:50Look.
01:07:58I miss a boy's car.
01:08:00Yeah, I miss.
01:08:01I didn't even pick up.
01:08:02Do you believe me now?
01:08:07I see the date.
01:08:10So I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
01:08:13I'm not, Rick. I'm not.
01:08:14And that is, that's a big, that's a big deal.
01:08:19That makes your story a lot more credible.
01:08:21That was my greatest fear, that she still has feelings for him.
01:08:29But Trish shows me there wasn't any more text messages between her and her ex.
01:08:35Why do you think your mind goes to cheating?
01:08:40Do you wonder if that's something you're projecting?
01:08:44It's possible.
01:08:46If it did turn out that you were right, would that make you feel better?
01:08:50I don't know if I would feel better, but, you know, maybe I won't feel as guilty of what I did.
01:09:04I hate when I'm telling you everything.
01:09:08I'm being honest with you and you're just like, oh, I don't believe this, I don't believe that.
01:09:13It seems like it's really getting bad.
01:09:15These are, these are just growing pains.
01:09:19We got to get through these, you know, rough patches in the beginning to get to the green pastures, you know, that we have ahead of us.
01:09:27Yeah, I hope so.
01:09:30It's really hard for me to defend myself in front of Rick because even if I explain something a hundred times, he's like, is that true?
01:09:39And he doesn't trust me without proof.
01:09:42My ex was always jealous and like really suspicious, but he's the one who is cheating on me the whole time.
01:09:53And now I'm worried that it's the same thing with Rick.
01:09:58What if he's hiding something?
01:10:01If someone is like that, I think something is going on.
01:10:05What's good, brother?
01:10:08Hey, can you take us to the ferry, bro?
01:10:09Okay, sir.
01:10:10Hey, can you take us to the ferry, bro?
01:10:11Okay, sir.
01:10:12Rock time, he came in for the whole night.
01:10:14You caught my eye like a bird sign.
01:10:16Just trying to connect my face to face talk, girl, you too high.
01:10:21What's good, budda?
01:10:22I saw you move forward.
01:10:24Hey, can you take us to the ferry, bro?
01:10:26OK, sure.
01:10:27Hey, yeah.
01:10:29Sing like what's out there, girl.
01:10:31Time go fast and slow, but we collide.
01:10:34You drive me crazy.
01:10:35Sing like what's out there.
01:10:37Excited?
01:10:38Yeah.
01:10:39Feel the sea breeze already?
01:10:40I do.
01:10:41I do, I'm ready for this boat.
01:10:44Which way?
01:10:45This is the key cover and the San Pedro.
01:10:46You're going to love it.
01:10:47You bet.
01:10:49I just introduced Aviva to Richie and Perth at the studio,
01:10:53and now we're about to take a ferry,
01:10:55go to San Pedro for a couple of days, where I have a show.
01:11:00Good, bro?
01:11:01Smart.
01:11:03And I'm really excited about this, and I know she is too.
01:11:06I hope so.
01:11:06Are you OK?
01:11:07Kind of.
01:11:08How do you not know him?
01:11:09I mean, I'm kind of upset about some things, but, I mean, I just learned a lot.
01:11:22What?
01:11:23Like what?
01:11:24I'm pretty upset with Stig because his friend Richie shared some things that definitely made
01:11:34me question whether Stig is even being honest with me.
01:11:37I'm hesitant to bring up these worries already.
01:11:46I don't want this first week to be uncomfortable.
01:11:48And I want to show him that I'm not just a crazy, jealous girl.
01:11:53You good?
01:11:55However, the things Richie said brought up some previous concerns that I had just kind
01:12:02of swept under the rug.
01:12:04And now I feel like I do need to address them with Stig.
01:12:07That's a tourist village.
01:12:19I think that's where some of the cruise ships get off there.
01:12:26Aviva's being weird right now.
01:12:29I don't really know what.
01:12:30She don't want to talk about it.
01:12:32That is not cool because I'm big on communication.
01:12:34If something's bothering you, tell me.
01:12:36You ever been on a cruise?
01:12:37As a kid, I really want to go on another one.
01:12:38You are a kid.
01:12:39You're acting like a kid right now.
01:12:40I'm acting like a kid.
01:12:41You don't want to tell me what's up.
01:12:42I don't like silent treatment.
01:12:43I mean, I wasn't trying to ruin the mood, but Richie told me that you were really
01:13:05thinking about having a baby with your ex.
01:13:08And you said that same thing to me.
01:13:10So, I'm not sure if that's what you say to every single girl now.
01:13:15So, just kind of rubbed me the wrong way.
01:13:20I mean, I can't deny that.
01:13:27It is true, but I mean, when I date, that's the reason I date though.
01:13:32When I told you this, I was trying to chill, get off that player, playboy .
01:13:37I was looking for love.
01:13:38So, of course, I wanted a child of my ex.
01:13:42Of course, I was looking for marriage with my ex.
01:13:44Of course, that's what I wanted.
01:13:46A couple years back, I met a girl from Texas.
01:13:49She was visiting Belize.
01:13:51We worked together a year and a half, off and on.
01:13:54And she broke my heart.
01:13:56I was planning a future with this girl.
01:13:58That's not a bad thing.
01:14:00I mean, are you actually over her?
01:14:02Because Richie said he doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
01:14:05Is that true?
01:14:06Richie talking crazy.
01:14:08That doesn't mean it's true.
01:14:10So, you're going to let that get to you?
01:14:12I don't know.
01:14:13I mean, a little bit.
01:14:14Getting to me a little bit, for sure.
01:14:16I mean, it's a big deal, you know?
01:14:17You've got to control your own feelings.
01:14:18You know it's not a big deal.
01:14:20You're making it a big deal.
01:14:29So, what happened when you went to Texas a few months ago?
01:14:36A few months ago, Stig went to Texas and he didn't invite me.
01:14:41I knew that he was busy with work and that he has family there.
01:14:45But there is a part of me that thought that Stig saw his ex in Texas.
01:14:52I thought I was just being paranoid.
01:14:54But now, I can't help but think maybe there was a reason he didn't invite me to Texas.
01:14:59And he was actually going to see her.
01:15:01They booked me for a Belize day.
01:15:05I was out there.
01:15:08I didn't even see my family.
01:15:10Much less see any other girls.
01:15:12I went with a crew of us, a Belizean crew.
01:15:14We went to her farm.
01:15:15It was like, what, two days?
01:15:16You know that.
01:15:17Well, you kind of just went quiet.
01:15:19So, I thought that you were definitely seeing your ex.
01:15:21I don't know.
01:15:22I don't know.
01:15:23It's all just, like, not really adding up.
01:15:25So, I'm trying to figure it out, I guess.
01:15:27It's not like that.
01:15:29You got to start trusting me.
01:15:32Have I ever given you a reason to think that kind of way?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:37I just feel like you're a big charmer.
01:15:39And I don't know if you, like, were serious about being exclusive, if you were just saying that.
01:15:44You know?
01:15:45I don't know what, like, I don't know if what you say is real or not.
01:15:48You know?
01:15:49You know?
01:15:50Like, how am I supposed to know if you're being honest?
01:15:52Because I don't like lying.
01:15:53If I felt the other way, I would have told you.
01:15:56You really are, you want, you're like a one-woman type of guy.
01:16:00Yeah.
01:16:01Like, that's actually true.
01:16:02I could do that.
01:16:03I could do that.
01:16:04It's crazy.
01:16:05Like, I want that here.
01:16:06When I go home, like, how am I supposed to, you know, trust that you'll do the right thing, you know?
01:16:14Honestly, a stay is really hard to resist.
01:16:18But I have to be careful and protect my heart.
01:16:22And he's not convincing me that he's telling me the truth.
01:16:25I mean, I want to believe you for sure.
01:16:28It's just, it's hard.
01:16:31Prove it.
01:16:33Trust me, babe.
01:16:35This is super unsettling because I haven't been using protection with him.
01:16:39And I don't want to start a family with a liar.
01:16:48That's my debt in this country.
01:16:52If I'm not in that country, who cares how much debt I am in?
01:16:58You're talking about a massive amount of debt.
01:17:01Yeah.
01:17:02And you want to run away from it and flee in another country.
01:17:05She has a lot of doubts inside.
01:17:08That's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
01:17:14It's not a big deal.
01:17:15No.
01:17:16It's not.
01:17:17It's not.
01:17:18It's not.
01:17:19I'm not happy right now.
01:17:21It's not.
01:17:24I'm not happy right now.
01:17:39I know that he's having some difficulties with money and jobs.
01:17:53But I had no idea how bad his financial situation actually is.
01:18:00Birkan told me multiple times that his intention was to be this protective provider as a husband.
01:18:09And I'm questioning how at this point.
01:18:13And I'm so worried about what else he could be keeping from me.
01:18:18I didn't let you know because I am trying to figure out everything myself.
01:18:24But, I mean, if we're talking about sharing our life together, your problems would be my problems.
01:18:32And we'd be starting off together in a sizable debt.
01:18:37How that would all work.
01:18:39So you're talking about a massive amount of debt.
01:19:03Yeah.
01:19:04And you want to run away from it and flee in another country.
01:19:08I'm concerned by the fact that he would just run away from his debt and, like, flee a country to get out of it.
01:19:18I'm not okay with that.
01:19:20I don't want to bring Birkan to the States and be financially responsible for him.
01:19:26And then be worried that he would be burning through my money.
01:19:31You don't have to worry about my debts.
01:19:41I always handle my own problems.
01:19:43Then why haven't you done that right now?
01:19:45Because I'm waiting for the right time to figure that out.
01:19:54And the time is close.
01:19:55I know.
01:19:57It's just in this country, earning money is too hard.
01:20:01If I come to America, I think I can be able to afford my debts and also provide.
01:20:10Okay.
01:20:11I can do two jobs, maybe three jobs.
01:20:14I can take care of everything.
01:20:16You know, I am hustling.
01:20:17I am trying to survive.
01:20:19I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me because
01:20:29you would want a green card and money.
01:20:33And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
01:20:37She has a lot of doubts inside and I get it.
01:20:42But that's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
01:20:48I'm worried if she finds out how I make money when I'm not working, she could leave me.
01:20:59Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:08Oh, Lord.
01:21:10This is worse than the bus.
01:21:12Woo-hoo!
01:21:13I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time.
01:21:16But her family has been these ominous figures.
01:21:19I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down.
01:21:23The importance, you have pants in us.
01:21:26We are going to help her.
01:21:29And she's been helping us also.
01:21:33Well, Forrest.
01:21:38What is that?
01:21:41You got to look at my Nikki.
01:21:43You got to look at my .
01:21:45I feel very awkward because I didn't want him to do the song.
01:21:51And now he's flirting with this girl.
01:21:54Your bro's kidding, but you're here, no TK.
01:21:56I still have my suspicions.
01:21:58And it's making me feel pretty insecure.
01:22:00There is all these girls on the stage with you.
01:22:02I'm disappointed.
01:22:03He are me.
01:22:09I don't trust Michael.
01:22:10I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:22:14So, you or him?
01:22:16Yes, you heard me right.
01:22:20This is some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet.
01:22:24This doesn't feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:22:28Why don't you tingle it all?
01:22:30You know, I just get some air.
01:22:33My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:22:37I'm a little nervous.
01:22:39The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
01:22:42Without it, you can't marry.
01:22:44In my family, we are Christian.
01:22:46Without smoke.
01:22:48We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:22:51What kind of questions are going to be asked?
01:22:53I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
01:22:58I can't wait to spend some romantic time with my queen.
01:23:08Being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
01:23:12Like, what happened between me and my ex in Columbia?
01:23:16You think that I'm enough for you?
01:23:18You are. You are enough.
01:23:20I really do care about Drew.
01:23:23But what I did, it needs to come out.
01:23:26What should we do?
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