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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way S7 EP 19
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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:04Over there, it's tiny as .
00:06There's no food deliveries, no taxi.
00:09So it's giving me anxiety.
00:10I would have never seen myself moved in the countryside
00:13in my whole life.
00:14And it's going to be a huge adjustment for me.
00:16Fully.
00:17You got a touch?
00:18For the first time.
00:19Oh, my god.
00:22I just hope that her buyer's remorse fades away.
00:24Because if Manon's not happy, nobody's happy.
00:28It is cute.
00:29I like it.
00:36All the arguments and the fighting.
00:39I'm too old for this.
00:41I have to say it.
00:42Smith has a fantasy of living with his parents forever,
00:48but I got to figure out a way to get us out of there.
00:53You broke his heart, Ressa.
00:55I, like, really don't want to hurt him.
00:57You might think it's done, but it's only been four days.
01:00He wonders whether you just need some time.
01:03I just know it in my instinct that, like, he's not my person.
01:09Jonathan left his phone on his nightstand.
01:12I found a message to a girl asking her to send nudes,
01:17asking, you know, that he missed her.
01:20And then the only thing he said was, you went behind my phone,
01:23behind my back.
01:25I put my whole life on pause to be here with him.
01:27And he ruined it.
01:30I don't want to be around him.
01:32Like, I don't want to see him.
01:34My mom is not feeling well, so I'm going to make a tree.
01:45So you know how to make a tree, right?
01:49Lentils and rice.
01:50Yes.
01:51Mixed together, right?
01:52Right.
01:53After all the drama that happened yesterday, you can feel the tension in the house.
01:59And now Sadna's sick, and it's probably related to her emotions, her stress level.
02:06Yeah, you can take this and ask her to just relax, okay?
02:12Yeah, absolutely.
02:14I'm sorry.
02:15I'm sorry.
02:16I'm sorry.
02:17I'm sorry.
02:18I'm sorry.
02:19I'm sorry.
02:20I'm sorry.
02:21I'm sorry.
02:22I'm sorry.
02:23I'm sorry.
02:24I'm sorry.
02:25I'm sorry.
02:26I'm sorry.
02:27Pray for me.
02:30I want to do something nice for Sadna.
02:33She's not feeling well.
02:35I also want to use this opportunity to have some time alone with Smith's parents.
02:40Mommy G, I made you some kitchery.
02:44Oh, thank you.
02:46That's good.
02:47Okay.
02:48So nice.
02:49Mom yelling at everybody just made it more clear that I want to get the hell out.
02:56But it's a little scary to go in there and tell them that.
02:59Can I bring you water?
03:01I don't want to involve Smith in the conversation because I don't think he would agree to it.
03:06But at some point, I'm going to have to tell him we can't live here anymore.
03:11Mom, what happened, Kewa?
03:12What happened to you?
03:13Dizzy.
03:14Dizzy, yeah.
03:15She's feeling dizzy.
03:16It's okay to sit?
03:17I don't want to sit on your feet.
03:18Try it and let me know if you like it.
03:19If I was sick, you would make me eat this, right?
03:21Wouldn't she?
03:22If I was sick, she would make me eat it.
03:23Yes.
03:24Okay, now.
03:25I'm here to tell you a few things.
03:27You need to relax.
03:28Don't let so much things bother you.
03:29When it comes to, like, me and Sri and everything, don't get upset.
03:32Don't take tension.
03:33Chintai karnini or parisandini gonna.
03:34Don't do anything.
03:35Don't do anything.
03:36Don't do anything.
03:37And, you know, what happened?
03:38That's all I need to do.
03:40I'm here to say, I'm here to make me eat this, right?
03:42Wouldn't she?
03:43If I was sick, she would make me khitri and make me eat it?
03:45Okay, now.
03:46I'm here to tell you a few things.
03:47You need to relax.
03:48Don't let so much things bother you.
03:50When it comes to, like, me and Sri and everything, don't get upset.
03:57Don't take tension.
03:59You don't have to worry about it, and you don't have to worry about it.
04:03Okay?
04:05Nothing happens.
04:07There's anger for the girl, and then it becomes normal.
04:10Actually, it is part of life.
04:12In families, sometimes it happens.
04:14So that creates a little problem.
04:16After talking, everything is all right.
04:21Sadhana, you know, for me, this is my first time ever living with the family.
04:26I'm living with the family.
04:29So it's hard.
04:30We're both older women.
04:33So we're both set in our ways.
04:35Like, you're not going to change.
04:37I'm also not going to change, too.
04:41So Schmidt and I are going to move back to our apartment where we were happy.
04:46We were free to do anything, and nobody minded.
04:50I'm just saying I can't put up with all of this.
05:03She's saying Jenny will stay with us.
05:12I'm too old for this.
05:14I can't be told what I can't do.
05:16You are not going to leave.
05:18You have to leave with us.
05:20Jenny?
05:21It's an order.
05:23But you can't order me, though.
05:25Yeah.
05:26You have to leave with us.
05:27I can do what I want.
05:28After some time, everything will be all right.
05:31Jenny, you have to stay with us.
05:35I can't do this.
05:38I can't deal with this.
05:39I'm not going to let her boss me around.
05:42Schmidt not going to save, so I have to save.
05:45We want to move out.
05:47Schmidt won't be happy when I tell him about this.
05:50But he needs to understand that I'm serious about it.
05:54I got to get out of here.
05:56I got to get out of this.
05:59Once my mind gets made up, it's made up.
06:02You will feel happy living with a big family.
06:05Don't worry.
06:06No.
06:07We have to go.
06:08No.
06:09And you will stay here.
06:17The rest don't go.
06:19Hello.
06:20Hello.
06:21Hello.
06:22Hello.
06:23Now.
06:24Hello.
06:25Hello.
06:26Hello.
06:27Hello.
06:28He's here.
06:30Hello.
06:33Hello.
06:34Hello.
06:35Hello.
06:44Today is my first day of work and men on and they're still asleep.
06:48So I'm just trying to organize some stuff before I go.
06:52Um, these first couple of days in the house have been rough.
06:56You know, we're in a remote village.
06:58We haven't been able to get the things we need, like, for groceries,
07:01and the fridge is not being delivered until today,
07:05and she has to deal with Ben and the fridge and Ben and the Internet.
07:10So, um, it's a slow adjustment.
07:14I think we just need to get into a rhythm.
07:18If today doesn't go well for Rino, you know, she may get discouraged.
07:28But as parents who can't afford to quit, you are always on for your child.
07:34And she's going to be the one that has to do that now.
07:37So there is no option of quitting.
07:40Ah, you slept late today, buddy.
07:48Yeah.
07:49Ah, so we're going to have a good day, you and I, Benny?
07:52Hmm?
07:53Yeah.
07:54Come here.
07:55Yeah.
07:56Come here.
07:57You.
07:58He he he.
08:00So today it's Anthony's first day at work.
08:04I'm trying to not freak out much because I want him to see how happy I am to be with him.
08:10So let's stay on a good positive mood and energy today.
08:14We're just going to take the stroller and go on a little stroll, you and I.
08:17Yeah, it's going to be great.
08:19I'm super excited to be with Ben because I really want to prove to myself that, yes,
08:24I can do it.
08:25And also to prove to Anthony that, hey, look, I can just stay at home mom and make it happen.
08:30Yeah, you excited, huh?
08:31I'm also a little bit stressed.
08:33I'm not going to lie.
08:34No, I don't think I can do it this way, Ben.
08:37This is a new house in a new village.
08:40I don't know anybody around.
08:41I don't have a car.
08:43Oops.
08:44How are you looking?
08:47Oh, well, you are laughing.
08:53I guess it's fine.
08:54OK, it was fun.
08:56The thing is like, yeah, we bought our house really fast.
08:59And since it's two hours away from my parents' house, we were not able to visit again,
09:04to take the time to learn about the village as much as we would have liked to.
09:08Let's go.
09:09So today I'm going to just do that and enjoy and take the opportunity to bring Ben on a little walk.
09:15OK.
09:16OK.
09:17It's very sunny.
09:18Mommy's going to sweat like a pig.
09:21But that's OK.
09:22Oh, there's a little kitty kitty.
09:23Oh, that's a fat kitty kitty.
09:24Hello, you.
09:25OK.
09:26Oh, there's a car.
09:27Let's be on the side.
09:28Oh, people are smiling.
09:29That's cool.
09:30This is actually pretty steep here.
09:31Oh, jeez.
09:32Ah!
09:33It's very tiny.
09:34It's not a layer.
09:35That's for sure.
09:36Oh.
09:37Oh, that's all there is here.
09:38OK.
09:39Hmm.
09:40Hmm.
09:41The gatteries sénévoles.
09:42The gatteries sénévoles.
09:43I guess they have some chocolate and some, like, cookies.
09:44Oh.
09:45Oh, that's all there is here.
09:48Cool.
09:49Finally, I found, like, a store.
09:50The only store in there.
09:51Oh, it's very tiny.
09:52Yeah.
09:53Oh.
09:54It's not a layer.
09:55That's for sure.
09:56Oh.
09:57That's all there is here?
09:58OK.
09:59Hmm.
10:00Hmm.
10:01The gatteries sénévoles.
10:02I guess they have some chocolate and some, like, cookies and stuff.
10:07Cool.
10:08Finally, I found, like, a store.
10:09The only store, actually.
10:10Bonjour.
10:11Let's see.
10:12Let's discover, and I'm excited to see what's going on in there.
10:13Bonjour, bonjour.
10:14Ah!
10:15C'est mignon ici.
10:16On va lui prendre la petite poule, alors, je pense.
10:17Ça?
10:18Euh, celle avec les trois.
10:19Peut-être chocolat blanc, noir et au l'air.
10:20On va faire une combinaison.
10:21Ça?
10:22Oui.
10:23Ok.
10:24Combien ça fera?
10:25Ça fait 30 euros tout rond, s'il vous plaît.
10:26Super.
10:27Alors, je vous donne la carte.
10:28Et j'avais une petite question.
10:29Oui?
10:30Oui?
10:31Ok.
10:32Combien ça fera?
10:33Oui?
10:34Ok.
10:35Combien ça fera?
10:36Ça fait 30 euros tout rond, s'il vous plaît.
10:37Super.
10:38Alors, je vous donne la carte.
10:39Et j'avais une petite question.
10:40Oui?
10:41Ok.
10:42Ok.
10:43Ok.
10:44Vous êtes le seul magasin du village?
10:47Le seul magasin?
10:48Alors, il y a une coiffeuse.
10:50Ah!
10:51Une coiffeuse.
10:52Bien.
10:53Ok, super.
10:54Oui.
10:55Mais il n'y a pas de boulangerie?
10:56Non.
10:57Ah, il n'y a pas de boulangerie?
10:58Non.
10:59Ok.
11:00Il n'y a pas de pharmacie?
11:01Non plus.
11:02Ok.
11:03Il faut aller à Saint-Embrois, c'est à 2 km.
11:04C'est tout?
11:05Il n'y a pas de bar, il n'y a pas de restaurant?
11:07Il n'y a pas...
11:08Il y avait un restaurant, mais je crois qu'il est fermé.
11:10Ok.
11:11Il a fermé?
11:12Ok.
11:13Mais sinon, à Saint-Embrois, vous avez tout ce qu'il vous faut.
11:15Ok.
11:16Il faut aller à Saint-Embrois.
11:17Oh my gosh, il n'y a pas encore de voiture.
11:19Vous avez des bus?
11:20Ah, il y a des bus?
11:22Il y en a un le matin à 7h45 pour aller à l'Est.
11:26À 7h45.
11:27Ok.
11:29Je ne sais pas si je dois rire ou pleurer, désolée.
11:32Bien, merci beaucoup.
11:33Allez Ben, on y va?
11:34C'est parti.
11:35Bonne fin de journée.
11:36Merci, vous aussi.
11:38À une autre fois, à bientôt.
11:39Au revoir.
11:40As I leave, I'm like...
11:43Did she said what she just said?
11:45F***, where am I?
11:48Oh f***, cassé la poule.
11:50Ah ben Anthony, il aura une poule cassée.
11:52Voilà.
11:53As reality just sinks in, I'm...
11:56I'm starting to feel my heart rate going up and up and up.
12:04Oh my lord.
12:06There's nothing here, Ben.
12:21Except chocolate.
12:23There's no pharmacy.
12:25There's no bakery.
12:27There's no hairdresser.
12:28Here you go.
12:29Please I don't have to cut my own hair.
12:30I think I need to pause for a moment.
12:31F***, what the f***?
12:32I have anxiety right now.
12:33I just feel stuck right now.
12:36I'm not made for this.
12:53I'm a nightmare for this.
13:08Just being a guy, you know, so I was bored and I didn't get really stupid.
13:13When I see Chloe, I'm asking for forgiveness.
13:15I'm not asking to be justified or anything like that.
13:20It's up to her if she wants to forgive me or not and move forward.
13:23Hey, Chloe.
13:53Right now, I'm here packing Chloe's stuff.
14:00You know, I'm in this situation because I did something really stupid and just being a guy, you know, so I was bored.
14:09I was bored and I did ask for a woman for her nudes and, you know, I just thought, oh, wow, it's the girl that keeps messaging me.
14:18Let me just ask her for some nudes, you know, and that was the kind of, like, mindset.
14:21It wasn't a thing like, oh, I'm going to go out with this girl.
14:23I'm going to go see her or get a hookup.
14:25No, it wasn't anything like that.
14:26It was more like, all right, I'm just going to entertain this for a second or two, you know, and, yeah, she saw all that and, you know, I just have to be a man about it and just face the consequences, you know, and I'm very sorry for it.
14:38And it's up to her if she wants to forgive me or not and move forward to it.
14:46I'm heading to Jonathan's house to get all my stuff and, I mean, we are absolutely done.
14:55Like, there is just, I can't, like, put up with that.
14:59I don't need to be putting up with that.
15:01There's nothing he can really say at this point at all, like, to make anything.
15:08I mean, you can say sorry.
15:10Sorry is great, but, I mean, sorry doesn't take back anything that he did, so it's just over.
15:21I really don't, I don't want to face him.
15:23I don't want to even look at him because I think it's just so sickening and, like, so devastating to me, but I want to be an adult about it and get my stuff.
15:32And really, for me, like, having him watch me leave and, like, physically walk out of his life is very, I think, well needed for myself.
15:45Like, when I see Chloe, I'm asking for forgiveness.
15:50I'm not asking to be justified or anything like that.
15:53I'm being guilty here.
15:56But I never hooked up with anybody.
15:58I didn't hook up with, ever since me and Chloe committed, I didn't hook up with anybody.
16:01Maybe we could be together, maybe not.
16:07Maybe we could try to work it out, maybe not.
16:09But I want her to talk to me because this whole week I haven't gotten that from her at all.
16:16You know, and I feel like she's just using everything that she can to paint a horrible picture of me to her friends and to make it seem like I'm a very, very, very bad person.
16:25I'm a villain and all that, and I feel like that's a bit unfair, you know, and I have, like, a hidden file on my phone.
16:31Bunch of nudes, a bunch of videos of me hooking up with other girls, you know, and this was all before we committed to each other.
16:37And she already knew about these things.
16:39Like, she asked me, like, why do you still have an album like that?
16:42Why do you have hidden files?
16:43I'm like, I'm a guy, bro.
16:45Like, you know, like, damn, you know, I get to see this, you know what I mean?
16:48You know what?
16:48I will delete it, you know?
16:50We can get to a point, like, hey, we can delete it, no problem.
16:52But, like, dude, if she's going to react like this for some nudes, I mean, I understand it's wrong.
16:57I get it.
16:58It's, like, a potential, flirtatious, whatever thing.
17:01But at this point, I'm like, okay, enough name-calling, enough, like, trying to mention things, like, of my mom.
17:06Like, she said, your mom would be so, like, disappointed in you.
17:10You're lucky she's not here with you to see this.
17:12And I'm just like, damn.
17:15Like, man, like, my mom's dead, dude.
17:18I'm alone, dude.
17:23I got nobody.
17:26I'm a man, you know?
17:27Like, I can take it.
17:28But, you know, I with you.
17:30It's, like, in the back of your head, like, damn, bro.
17:32Like, there's one of the things you don't say no matter how mad you are, you know what I mean?
17:38And it was a mistake, you know?
17:39And everybody does mistakes.
17:41And I'm just very disappointed on the reaction of it.
17:43Oh, man, I guess.
17:59Could you just wait here a minute, please?
18:13Hey, Chloe.
18:25Nice to see you, you left for so long.
18:29All right, well, let's just get this over with.
18:34What do you mean get this over with?
18:37Just get it over with.
18:39I don't.
18:39I don't want to do this.
18:40I can't help.
18:41I don't want to.
18:43What do you want to do?
18:52I don't want to.
18:53I just have anxiety right now.
19:16There's nothing here.
19:18There's not even a pharmacy.
19:20There's nothing.
19:22Even her, she said, you need a car.
19:29So for a whole month, I'm stuck here.
19:31There's nothing around.
19:33And I don't have a car.
19:35It's just great.
19:40I'm having a panic attack.
19:44Sorry, Ben.
19:45I'm OK.
19:45Mommy's fine.
19:46Let's go.
19:47It's like reality is just slapping me in the face.
19:50Like, this is your life now.
19:53Hello.
19:54But when you have a child, you cannot let yourself just have a little moment of weakness, which
20:02makes things actually even more anxiety-triggering, even more panicky.
20:07Let's just go home, Ben.
20:08OK, honey?
20:09We've seen enough, I think.
20:11I mean, we've seen it all.
20:12So we've seen enough.
20:14Oh, there's a car, Ben.
20:16Oh, yes, yes, yes.
20:19I'm moving, I'm moving.
20:21Sorry.
20:24Before we moved, I worried already about all of these changes maybe being, like, too much
20:36for me, and right now I realize it's actually what's happening.
20:40It's way too much.
20:42And I'm freaking out.
20:45OK.
20:46Let's go.
20:47I don't know what to emotionally prepare for.
20:53I am open to have a conversation with him.
20:56There's still some of me holding on to the idea that Greta would turn around and say,
21:01I've made a terrible mistake.
21:27Boy.
21:27Boy.
21:32It's been three days since Greta left for a hotel and handed back the ring.
21:41She only gave our relationship four days to succeed.
21:46I've had parcels take longer to arrive than that.
21:50I'm sorry we couldn't keep her.
21:54But my dad came back from seeing Greta.
21:58He sat on the end of my bed and he looked me in the eye and he said, I'm sorry, but it's
22:06over, kid.
22:06There was still some of me holding on to the idea that Greta would turn around and say, I've
22:15made a terrible mistake.
22:17Greta texted me to say she needs to pick up her things.
22:26That's the only interaction we've had since she ended things.
22:29I don't know what I'm going to say to her, but right now I just feel empty and nothing and none.
22:38I am feeling anxious about collecting my stuff because I am not sure what he's going to be like.
22:58I don't know what to emotionally prepare for.
23:00I am open to have a conversation with him if that's what he needs right now.
23:05I think he is mostly sad, but I am anxious that his sadness could turn into anger.
23:13So, yeah, I'm just anxious about the unknown.
23:18I am anxious about the unknown.
23:28Hi, how are you doing?
23:44How are you?
23:46Doing better.
23:49I'm just here to get mixed up.
23:53I've got it right here.
23:58I'll bring it out for you.
24:00Thanks.
24:07Do you need help taking it to the car?
24:10Um, if you're able to.
24:13This one's the bigger one if you want to get that.
24:15I'll take that.
24:16Here.
24:17I'll put the big one in the back.
24:26Here you go.
24:28I'll miss you.
24:34I'll miss you too.
24:37Stay safe.
24:38If someone wants to leave, the only thing you can do is let them leave.
25:04It feels terrible.
25:12Truly awful.
25:14But I think I know now in my heart that it is the right thing.
25:21I just feel so bad because I can just tell that he's hurting a lot and he was an important part of my life, but it just, like, wasn't the future I really wanted anymore.
25:38And I'm going to miss him.
25:40I'm going to miss him a lot.
25:41And I just, like, really do feel like I'm alone now.
25:46I don't have a home anymore in England, and I also don't really have a home in the U.S. And so I'm just kind of stranded.
25:56I'm giving up a really lovely life where I would be guaranteed at least moderate happiness.
26:06And I think I'm risking that for a life where I can crash and burn and never recover.
26:15Oh, c'est pour moi?
26:24For your first day watching Ben.
26:26It's been such a long day.
26:28Seeing him honestly, I was like, he's back.
26:31I had a panic attack.
26:33It's hard.
26:35It makes me, like, feel stuck.
26:38I just cannot stay here.
26:39I'm going to Marseille.
26:40Today was not so bad, eh, buddy?
27:10Even when I was, like, having an anxiety, when mommy was sad, you were actually very nice.
27:18Hmm.
27:19Merci.
27:21Earlier today, I was in town, and I almost had a panic attack.
27:26Luckily, I was able to slow down, control myself to get back home to where I'm calm again.
27:33Regarde!
27:34Y'a papa!
27:35Y'a papa!
27:36It's been such a long day.
27:43Oh, my gosh.
27:44He looks so tired.
27:45Seeing him honestly, I was like, he's back.
27:49Yeah.
27:51Coucou, papa!
27:52Hello.
27:54Oh, c'est pour moi?
27:56Uh-huh.
27:56For your first day watching Ben, like, switching roles and stuff.
28:00Oh, thank you.
28:03Uh-huh.
28:04Now is yours.
28:06Bye!
28:08No, no, no, no kidding.
28:10How was work?
28:11Just a lot of manual labor, but let's...
28:13For real?
28:13Yeah, let's go up there and...
28:15Yeah, you look exhausted.
28:16I'm fine.
28:18Okay.
28:19Let's go.
28:20Yeah!
28:20Today at work was exhausting.
28:24Spent the whole day in the sun just setting up camp, so not even getting to the fun part
28:29yet of doing the activities, but I'm really excited.
28:33I think I'm going to love the job.
28:35I'm, like, really happy returning home because, obviously, my wife and son are there, but it
28:42also feels like it's the start of, like, a new routine for us as a family.
28:48So what else happened today?
28:50No, actually, you know what?
28:51You're going to be very proud of me and him.
28:54He woke up, like, smiling at me.
28:56We went on a little stroll.
28:57Uh-huh.
28:57He was fine in the stroller with me.
28:59Do not cry.
29:00We went to the little village and I had a little bit of a panic attack.
29:07But even through my panic attack, he was fine.
29:09What did you have a panic attack about?
29:10Well, there's absolutely nothing except a freaking tiny, tiny chocolaterie.
29:21No bakery, no pharmacy, no restaurants.
29:25Nothing.
29:27You know, I think it is just a case of adjusting.
29:30It's different than in the U.S.
29:32It's just, it's hard.
29:34It makes me, like, feel stuck.
29:37You did it today.
29:39I'm proud of you.
29:40I'm trying as much as I can.
29:43But a whole month with no car here, I just, it's a lot.
29:47I need a car.
29:49We've leased another car.
29:51It gets here in a month.
29:53A month?
29:54It's four weeks.
29:55Seven days a week.
29:57It's not seven days.
29:58I don't have to work every single day, but I'm working nine to five, six days straight.
30:04Okay, six days straight without being able to get out of the house.
30:08I don't know 100%, but I think I'm going to have to, like, spend the night sometimes.
30:17You're going to have to spend the night?
30:19And I actually think that might be a weekly thing.
30:24What?
30:24I'm pretty sure, but I don't know.
30:33When I took the job, I was told I'd have to be away maybe, like, once a month.
30:37I'm working with kids, leading them in activities and down the Ardash River.
30:44But I didn't have the full schedule.
30:47And it's looking to be a lot more than just once a month.
30:51But it is what it is.
30:53One of us needs to work.
30:54We just have to try to get through it.
30:57I just think this is not a job for a dad.
31:02I think there's a lot of, like, people coming from everywhere in France just for the season who are single, a bunch of young kids.
31:09But it's a job.
31:11You don't have a job.
31:12I mean, I need a job.
31:13It's just not a job for a dad.
31:15It's a job.
31:15Someone with a family.
31:17Go find another better job.
31:18Military's not a job for a dad.
31:20People do that.
31:20Police officer's not a job for a dad.
31:22People do that.
31:23Great.
31:24Just great.
31:27Well, you know what?
31:29I just cannot stay here for a whole month.
31:32I'm going to Marseille.
31:35I'm going to go to my parents.
31:37Like, Sunday, they come to visit.
31:39And I'm going to tell them to bring me back to Marseille with them.
31:45You think I want to come home from work to an empty house?
31:48Like, come on.
31:50In Marseille, I can go to restaurants.
31:52I can go to grocery stores.
31:53If you want to go there for, like, a couple days, I understand, but not for the whole month.
32:01Kind of just leaving me here, and then I come home just empty.
32:04Yeah, well, you want me to suffer every day?
32:06You're telling me I'm going to be a solo parent at night in that environment by myself once a week?
32:19No, no, no, no, no, no.
32:20That's bringing me anxiety.
32:21It's not my way of living.
32:22And enough of that.
32:24It's a lot.
32:25It's too much.
32:26I'm bringing in money to pay our bills.
32:29Yeah, but not enough.
32:29I guess with you, it's never enough, so.
32:39Find another job.
32:41I'm not doing this for four months.
32:44No one gets married and starts a family thinking they're going to get divorced.
32:48I've always said, whatever it takes to make sure that both of Ben's parents, myself and Menon,
32:54are always in the same house, same dinner table, I'll do that.
32:59You don't just quit and leave.
33:03It's like the further along in our marriage we get, no matter where we are, our problems follow us.
33:11I want to go back to Marseille.
33:14I don't even know what to say, though.
33:15Okay, well, you're giving me no other option.
33:18It is what it is.
33:21I love Antoni with all my heart, but we haven't been able to recognize, like, I hope we would.
33:29We actually are drifting apart.
33:32So, I just don't know if we're going to be able to save our marriage.
33:38It's just devastating to me, and that breaks my heart.
33:41Thanks.
34:03We're moving out.
34:04I told you, Mom.
34:05I told you, Dad.
34:06Are you out of your mind, or what?
34:08We cannot move out of there.
34:10But I can't live there.
34:12I can't.
34:13I want to move out of that house.
34:15He can kiss my ass if he wants to live there.
34:18If you don't want to go with me, I guess I'll have to move out by myself.
34:21I did.
34:41So, where are we going?
34:45Do you have something planned, or?
34:47We are heading towards Westland.
34:50It's a park, like.
34:51Wetland?
34:52Yeah.
34:53After a month of living with the family, I feel stressed out.
35:02So, I said to Sumit, we need to get away and have some alone time.
35:06Trey...
35:08Trey...
35:10Trey, like goose song.
35:11Yeah.
35:12This kind of sanctuary is kind of place where migrated birds come.
35:17Be careful.
35:18There are snakes and pythons and...
35:21Wow.
35:22Well, then what a good reason to come here.
35:26A bird sanctuary of all places?
35:29Okay.
35:30Nice gesture, but I wanted to go to the mall.
35:33What is this?
35:38It's a spider's home.
35:40But I love to swim.
35:42Spiders love to swim?
35:45Yeah.
35:45Spiders are very good swimmers.
35:48You know, nature lover.
35:51Can you see there's a bird over there?
35:54In view, moving.
35:56Yeah.
35:56Oh, man, I'm really loving this.
36:00This is beautiful.
36:01I've been waiting to find the right time to talk to Sumit about the conversation I had
36:06with his parents, and that I told his parents that we're going to be moving out.
36:11I know he's not going to be happy, but I set up for myself, and I let him know exactly
36:16how I feel.
36:19It's beautiful out here.
36:21It really is.
36:23Oh, look at the ducks, right?
36:24Yeah.
36:25They're talking to each other.
36:28I wonder what they're talking about.
36:31This is what I hear at home, like, quack, quack, quack, quack, quack, quack.
36:35I'm sure I'm so mad.
36:37All the drama.
36:38Yeah.
36:38In the house and everywhere, even at the cafe.
36:41Thing is, I think this is a very good getaway, like, from that busy life or busy area, busy
36:46people, busy family.
36:48I'm here, just you and me.
36:49How it used to be, remember?
36:52Just you and me.
36:54Yeah.
36:55Can we go back there?
36:58Now we are living with the family.
37:00It makes me so happy, like...
37:02Yeah.
37:03Yeah.
37:03I know it does.
37:05I know you're happy to be living there, but...
37:08God, man.
37:09Your mom?
37:11I can't deal with it.
37:12It's too much.
37:13It sucks.
37:14It sucks living there.
37:16Whenever you move to any new place, you have to adjust.
37:18I want my own place.
37:26I already have to talk with your parents about it, too.
37:29What?
37:29What did you say?
37:31I said we're moving out.
37:33Moving out where?
37:36We're going to get another one of our own apartment.
37:40I told you, Mom.
37:41I told you, Dad.
37:42Are you out of your mind or what?
37:44Well, who else is going to say if I don't say it?
37:46We cannot move out of there.
37:48We are depending on them right now.
37:52They are the ones who are paying rent right now.
37:56We are living in their house.
37:57They are an important part of our...
37:58But I can't live there.
38:00I can't.
38:06I want our life to be back the way it was before.
38:10I don't want to live there.
38:12You behave like you've never lived with a family in your entire life.
38:15You would.
38:15I haven't lived with a family since I'm 18 years old.
38:19I can't be told you can't drink that.
38:22You can't eat meat.
38:23I understand that.
38:25But you need to understand that you are in a very different country.
38:28This is not America.
38:29I can't live there.
38:33I want to move out of that house.
38:35I told them before we even moved out, I cannot live with your parents.
38:39I know how your mom is.
38:41She's the boss.
38:42You don't go against her.
38:43Whatever she says goes.
38:45And that's it.
38:46I feel like I'm a kid again.
38:47I'm going back in time.
38:49And I can't sit down and watch TV in my underwear if I want to.
38:54What if I don't want to wear a bra?
38:56What if I just want to wear shorts and a t-shirt?
38:59I can't.
39:00I don't have my freedom anymore.
39:01My freedom is gone.
39:03There's no more happiness left for me.
39:06Schmidt is perfectly fine, but I'm not.
39:09He can kiss my ass if he wants to live there.
39:11He can stay there without me.
39:13I'm going to leave.
39:17I already told your parents we're moving out.
39:20And if you don't want to go with me, I guess I'll have to move out by myself, right?
39:24Because I'm not staying there.
39:25My life damn sucks.
39:27Don't you think our life sucks now?
39:30Don't you?
39:34Answer me.
39:35I'm waiting for your answer.
39:36No, it doesn't suck.
39:37It does.
39:39I can't take it anymore.
39:40You understand?
39:41I'm not going to live in this bedroom the rest of my life.
39:44I'm not happy there.
39:45I'm not happy about all the money we're spending in the cafe.
39:49We're supposed to be making money there.
39:51So you know what?
39:52I'm leaving.
39:55Our life sucks.
39:56I'm done.
39:57Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
40:08I had this conversation with Madeline.
40:10I said, are there any second thoughts on your side?
40:14And she actually paused and thought about it.
40:16I still have so many doubts.
40:22I don't even know if you're going to tumour at this guy.
40:25How can you be happy about this?
40:31We can't even have sex in this house.
40:33Right now, I need my family.
40:35I didn't even want to move out.
40:36Are you crazy?
40:37For seven years, I gave whatever she wanted.
40:40This is not right.
40:41This is being a selfie chauffeur.
40:43We are moving out.
40:44And you're figuring out how.
40:46You're out to four or five, six in the morning with different guys.
40:51You're so f***ing insecure.
40:53I am so mad.
40:55He's implying that I have sex with other men.
40:58Twelve years of this f*** is enough.
41:04You went through my f*** behind my back.
41:07F***ing cry about it.
41:08Before the f***ing cheating scandal, you were cheating me like f***ing anyways.
41:12So I don't want you anyways.
41:13Did he just not care the entire time?
41:17I don't even know.
41:19You think I want to be with somebody like that?
41:22Are you f***ing serious?
41:24You didn't want to f***ing.
41:26What?
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