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00:00:0015 women, 15 men, 225 dates, and that's just on day one.
00:00:11The wedding will take place six weeks from today.
00:00:14Love is Blind Germany, season two.
00:00:18Hello.
00:00:19Hello, hello.
00:00:20Hi there.
00:00:21Good day.
00:00:21What's up?
00:00:22Where are you from?
00:00:23Manns.
00:00:23Berlin.
00:00:24Munich.
00:00:24Hamburg.
00:00:24From the Roo Valley.
00:00:26Hey.
00:00:26So, hard facts.
00:00:27I love German bar songs.
00:00:28I'm a real cuddle bug.
00:00:30I don't want kids.
00:00:31What's this problem?
00:00:32A woman's lounge can be ruthless.
00:00:33Bye.
00:00:35It's incredible to get to know someone through their voice.
00:00:37He sees me without having seen me.
00:00:39Crazy that all of this is happening in front of this wall right now.
00:00:43There's this magic, this spark.
00:00:45I'm really in love.
00:00:47I'm really in love.
00:00:49Oh my God, man.
00:00:54You've awakened something to me that I didn't know was there.
00:00:56Oh God, how beautiful is this moment?
00:00:58It's so nice.
00:00:59I've never felt this close to a man before.
00:01:03This is the craziest thing I'll ever do in my entire life.
00:01:08I'm just going to ask the question.
00:01:10Will you be my wife?
00:01:11Yes, I will.
00:01:13Yes!
00:01:16I can't wait to see that woman.
00:01:19Oh my God.
00:01:21Sparks are flying.
00:01:23It's just a dream.
00:01:24He's really hot.
00:01:27It's lovely to get physical with him.
00:01:30Cheers to all of us.
00:01:33Nothing's happening before marriage.
00:01:34Sure.
00:01:36I can see things going like this.
00:01:39At some point, real life sets in.
00:01:40That's when things start to get annoying.
00:01:42I want to be able to be myself.
00:01:45Right now, I'm just not doing it.
00:01:47Look, it pisses me off.
00:01:47It really does.
00:01:48This is exactly the kind of toxic rollercoaster I don't want to be on.
00:01:51It's an absolute disgrace.
00:01:52I can be.
00:01:53Was that all for show?
00:01:54How can I be so stupid?
00:01:56Spineless.
00:01:57What a wimp.
00:01:59For me, it was very clear that I wanted to get married.
00:02:02I was sure until yesterday.
00:02:05Now we'll find out, is love really blind?
00:02:13Well, hello.
00:02:16How's everyone feeling?
00:02:19We heard there are some guys here looking to fall in love.
00:02:23Hello.
00:02:26Awesome.
00:02:27Great energy.
00:02:28Likewise.
00:02:28Hello, and welcome to round two of Love is Blind, Germany.
00:02:35I'm Steffi Bruns, and of course, I brought my husband along with me.
00:02:39I'm Chris Wachert Bruns, and Steffi and I are thrilled that you're so eager to take part in this very unique experiment with the wonderful goal of finding true love.
00:02:53All right, ladies.
00:02:54I'm a huge fan of numbers, data, and facts, and I think you're going to love these two, because today, all 15 women will actually talk to all 15 men in speed dating rounds that last eight minutes each.
00:03:07As time goes by, there will be fewer dates, but they'll be even more intense.
00:03:12At that point, they can last a few hours, which is totally fine, because at the end of the day, you're trying to find out if your true love is sitting on the other side of that wall.
00:03:20If that's the case, you'll get engaged.
00:03:23One of you will propose, doesn't matter which one of you.
00:03:31And then you'll see your fiancé for the very first time.
00:03:35After that, you can get up close and personal on your first vacation together.
00:03:39Then you'll move into your first apartment together.
00:03:45Just be aware, the wedding is in six weeks.
00:03:48That's when you'll have to make the most important decision of your life.
00:03:54No pressure.
00:03:54So, are you ready for the craziest ride of your life?
00:04:00Yes!
00:04:01Yes!
00:04:02Are you ready to find out if love really is blind?
00:04:08You all are ready?
00:04:09The pods are now open.
00:04:11Have fun.
00:04:12Enjoy!
00:04:13You stay here.
00:04:21I'm here.
00:04:22I'm captive.
00:04:26I can't believe we're here.
00:04:29Have fun.
00:04:30Good luck.
00:04:30Hey, always remember, love, laughter, lightness.
00:04:38Here we go!
00:04:39Let's go!
00:04:41Woo, hi!
00:04:42Oh, wow!
00:04:44Energy!
00:04:45That's a great intro.
00:04:49You have a great vibe.
00:04:51A little ray of sunshine.
00:04:53I'm Brie.
00:04:56Brie?
00:04:56Like the cheese?
00:05:00Bro, have fun.
00:05:03Have fun.
00:05:05You too.
00:05:06I'm Simone.
00:05:07And you?
00:05:08Dennis.
00:05:09Dentist?
00:05:10Dennis?
00:05:15I'm Anastasia.
00:05:16Anastasia?
00:05:17Yeah.
00:05:18I'm an idiot.
00:05:18I just wrote my own name down.
00:05:20Does anyone talk to Anne?
00:05:24No.
00:05:25No.
00:05:25Anne?
00:05:26Fuck.
00:05:27Is that her name?
00:05:31This is so awesome.
00:05:34I love it.
00:05:36Each one's better than the last.
00:05:38Amazing women, great matches, everything worked.
00:05:46I'm actually a real cuddle bug.
00:05:50The one thing I can't do is fall asleep while we're spooning.
00:05:53I have to maintain the butt-to-butt position because I need to...
00:05:56Butt-to-butt position?
00:05:58That's what it's called.
00:06:04I consider myself a Swiss army knife.
00:06:07You can do anything with me.
00:06:09You can take me to the stadium today and we'll boo the referee.
00:06:12Then tomorrow we can go on a silent retreat and find ourselves or whatever.
00:06:16Make a good life!
00:06:18I want someone who will enjoy life to the fullest with me.
00:06:22There's nothing better than that.
00:06:27We only live once, and I want someone with that same mindset.
00:06:32Tell me a little about your hobbies.
00:06:38I like going to raves.
00:06:42Techno's my thing.
00:06:43And what if I told you that I really like German bar songs?
00:06:47Then I'd write down a big minus sign next to bar songs.
00:06:52Okay, bye then.
00:06:54She was like, I like German bar songs, and I'm thinking, I can't listen to that shit.
00:07:02I like to pump techno music in my car.
00:07:04Dude, that's my kind of girl.
00:07:06Can you tell me her name?
00:07:07Jessie.
00:07:09So you're out, and I'm in.
00:07:11I want nothing more than to finally find my dream man and grow old with him.
00:07:18And that's why I want to get married, so we can have a huge party afterwards.
00:07:23I love this.
00:07:27Hello!
00:07:29Hello!
00:07:30Hello!
00:07:33Good day!
00:07:34Hey there!
00:07:35Hi, greetings.
00:07:37Greetings, hi.
00:07:38Hello?
00:07:39Who's there?
00:07:40Little Constantine.
00:07:41Little Constantine.
00:07:43Where are you from?
00:07:45I live between Cologne and Mallorca.
00:07:47Okay, tell me more.
00:07:49I have family there, and I work from anywhere.
00:07:52I have a small office in Mallorca.
00:07:54At the Birkeneg bar on the beach?
00:07:56Yep!
00:07:57Correct!
00:07:58I live right above it.
00:07:59No, not really.
00:08:01In Palma.
00:08:03And who do we have here?
00:08:04Little Jesse.
00:08:06Oh, I heard about you.
00:08:07Awesome!
00:08:08No way!
00:08:09I heard you like German bar songs.
00:08:11What do you mean, I like German bar songs?
00:08:14You like listening to them?
00:08:15Yes, I do.
00:08:16It's so rare, and I'm totally the same way.
00:08:19Really?
00:08:19Yep.
00:08:20That's great.
00:08:21Okay, tell me, where do you listen to them?
00:08:23At the Carnival in Cologne?
00:08:24Of course, at the Carnival.
00:08:27You been there?
00:08:28Yeah, I love the Carnival.
00:08:29I also like skiing and the apres ski scene.
00:08:32Yeah, I like it too.
00:08:33I haven't done that often, to be honest.
00:08:35But can you ski?
00:08:36Yeah.
00:08:37I actually have ski poles that you can fill with schnapps
00:08:39and drink on the slopes.
00:08:40I have to say, that's pretty cool.
00:08:48So, you like to party?
00:08:50I like to party, yeah.
00:08:51I really got into apres ski.
00:08:53I'd go to a different ski resort every weekend.
00:08:54Yeah.
00:08:55And the train had no brakes.
00:08:57And if I were a piece of furniture?
00:08:59That's right.
00:08:59I'd be a lamp from the 70s.
00:09:01Oh, I love that song.
00:09:03It's so good.
00:09:05I'm about to start dancing.
00:09:07They play that song right now?
00:09:09Oh, me too.
00:09:09I joined right in.
00:09:11I would.
00:09:13Listen.
00:09:14How cool is this?
00:09:15It's great.
00:09:16I'll write down.
00:09:18Maybe meet Jessie again.
00:09:20But only maybe, right?
00:09:22Bye.
00:09:23Bye.
00:09:26I'm completely blown away.
00:09:28Really?
00:09:28Yeah, I can't deal.
00:09:29In a good way?
00:09:30Oh, yeah.
00:09:31That's so cool.
00:09:33She's a country bumpkin, just like me.
00:09:35We're exactly the same.
00:09:36Country bumpkin.
00:09:37Dude, the two of us, apres ski, dancing on the tables, perfect match.
00:09:40The other shoe's got to drop.
00:09:42It's got to drop.
00:09:44It's like a dream.
00:09:49My family's putting pressure on me regarding marriage and children.
00:09:52They're like, you're not bad looking.
00:09:54What about a wife?
00:09:55Love, when I feel it, the way it feels is just home.
00:10:05Have a good time and be nice.
00:10:07I love kissing, I love touching, I love making out, and I adore hugs.
00:10:15Hello.
00:10:16Hi.
00:10:17Hey, how are you?
00:10:19I'm great, and you?
00:10:20Great, thank you.
00:10:21What's your name?
00:10:22I'm Wendy.
00:10:24Nice name.
00:10:25My mom says I'm special.
00:10:27Oh.
00:10:28My mom says that, too.
00:10:29Did I introduce myself?
00:10:32No, right?
00:10:32No.
00:10:33Jubriel.
00:10:34Jubriel?
00:10:35What do you do for a living, Wendy?
00:10:37I'm an HR.
00:10:38Mm, nice.
00:10:39I'm a feel-good person.
00:10:41I make sure that everyone smiles.
00:10:43So, if that's your main characteristic, then you and I can leave right away.
00:10:47Yes?
00:10:48No need to talk for long.
00:10:49We can settle this and head home.
00:10:50Yes, it's true.
00:10:51It's very important to me to make people feel good.
00:10:54Same.
00:10:54Like, if you tell me what your favorite restaurant is, I make a note of it, and when you're having
00:10:59a bad day just like that, 8 o'clock, get ready, I'll pick you up.
00:11:03Stop it.
00:11:05Oh, my.
00:11:06Ah, don't.
00:11:07That's very good.
00:11:10So, you're prepared to make your woman happy?
00:11:14Of course.
00:11:15Princess treatment?
00:11:16If I got a woman, she's my princess.
00:11:20You just wrap every woman around your fingers.
00:11:22Shut up.
00:11:23I don't think so.
00:11:25Have you ever been in a relationship?
00:11:27No, not yet.
00:11:28You've never had a partner?
00:11:30No.
00:11:35I've been in two situations where it could have worked out.
00:11:41One of them, the guy was super attracted to me physically, great, but he never took the
00:11:47time to get to know me as a person, and that matters to me, and the other one I could
00:11:52have seen at work, but he wasn't ready for something serious.
00:11:56I knew early on what I wanted, and it just never happened.
00:12:00So, since I've never had a boyfriend, and now I'm looking for a husband, it's like, wow,
00:12:07I'm ready to go all in.
00:12:09That's why I'm here now.
00:12:16I'm glad you're here.
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:18Well, one thing's for sure, I definitely want to talk to you again.
00:12:22Okay.
00:12:22And get to know you better.
00:12:24I'm so happy.
00:12:26We'll talk, yeah?
00:12:32I've always been clear that I wanted to have a family.
00:12:36Get married, have kids.
00:12:38It did scare off some men, but I knew that's what I wanted.
00:12:41I want something real.
00:12:43Girls, this was amazing.
00:12:45Yeah.
00:12:46It's amazing.
00:12:47What's up, guys?
00:12:52There they are.
00:12:53Engaged, married, all of them.
00:12:55I have to say, Wendy was very interesting.
00:12:58She's lovely.
00:12:59She has a really beautiful voice, and seems very upbeat.
00:13:02You have no idea.
00:13:07But the fact that Wendy has never been in a relationship before, that could be a red flag.
00:13:12Yeah, cool.
00:13:13I'll be your bridesmaid.
00:13:15You got it.
00:13:16Girl.
00:13:17Is this the emotional rollercoaster that we're all on?
00:13:24I'm so excited.
00:13:25I can't even.
00:13:26I'm so excited, too.
00:13:27Oh, God.
00:13:29It's a nice feeling, being able to imagine that the one is on the other side.
00:13:33Hello.
00:13:34Hello.
00:13:35And?
00:13:37Nervous?
00:13:38Yeah, totally.
00:13:39Super crazy.
00:13:40Unreal, right?
00:13:41A whole new feeling.
00:13:44You have a lovely laugh.
00:13:47I think it matches yours nicely.
00:13:49Absolutely.
00:13:50It's crazy, because we're already in sync.
00:13:52I agree.
00:13:53Yeah.
00:13:54What's your name?
00:13:56Ladies first.
00:13:56I'm Josie.
00:13:58Jubriel.
00:13:59Nice to meet you.
00:13:59Jubriel.
00:14:00Right.
00:14:01I'm from Nigeria.
00:14:03Mm-hmm.
00:14:03My parents, they came to Germany with my brothers, and I was actually born here.
00:14:10But my two brothers didn't want to live in Germany.
00:14:13And that's a major experience I'd say I'd missed out on.
00:14:17That I couldn't grow up with them like a perfect family.
00:14:21And one of them had a child last year.
00:14:23The other one is having a child this year.
00:14:25Aww.
00:14:27I love children.
00:14:28I want to have children.
00:14:30What was your favorite childhood memory?
00:14:32Well, me, I'd say my mom.
00:14:36She'd always say goodnight and leave the bedroom.
00:14:39And every time when I was supposed to be asleep, or when she thought I was asleep, she'd come
00:14:45back after half an hour or so, she'd give me a big kiss on the forehead, and then leave
00:14:51again.
00:14:52That's nice.
00:14:54A kiss on the forehead with both hands on the face?
00:14:57Yes.
00:14:57From above, and then a kiss for a really long time?
00:15:00Yeah.
00:15:01I'm sorry.
00:15:02For me, that's...
00:15:03So nice.
00:15:06Crazy.
00:15:06Wow.
00:15:07What shaped me the most is that I grew up with a very tough, strong mom, and it was
00:15:17always just the two of us.
00:15:18It was a pleasure.
00:15:20I like your energy.
00:15:21I like your voice.
00:15:22Yeah, me too.
00:15:22I thought this was really nice.
00:15:24I agree.
00:15:25And for me, the top priority has always been to be in a beautiful relationship and a loving
00:15:31marriage.
00:15:32That's what I long for, to walk that path together, to embark on a journey.
00:15:37She's really amazing.
00:15:40Look at him.
00:15:41The man's happy.
00:15:42Check it out.
00:15:44Did you get engaged or what?
00:15:45Nah, but she's fantastic.
00:15:47Chelsea, she's great.
00:15:50So, the cards have been reshuffled.
00:15:55That was a lot.
00:15:58I love kids.
00:15:59I love my nephews.
00:16:00I'll do anything for them, and I believe I'd make a good father, but I don't want to be
00:16:05a father.
00:16:05It feels like a lot of women want to have kids.
00:16:09Almost all of them want kids.
00:16:11That's why Gunner is in a tough spot.
00:16:14Yeah, that's true.
00:16:16Yeah, it's an issue.
00:16:17I fit a particular stereotype to a T, the vegan left-wing hipster from Berlin.
00:16:29Now comes the downer.
00:16:31I don't want kids.
00:16:32Okay, fine.
00:16:34That's a personal choice.
00:16:36What about you?
00:16:36You want kids?
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:38Too bad.
00:16:39I mean, too bad for me, but good for you.
00:16:41How do you see your future?
00:16:44Do you want to start a family?
00:16:46No.
00:16:47No?
00:16:48Unfortunately not.
00:16:49I like my life the way it is right now.
00:16:51And the life that you get with kids just doesn't appeal to me enough.
00:16:55That's totally valid.
00:16:57But we're not compatible then.
00:16:59Bri!
00:17:00Yes?
00:17:00I love my family, but I don't want to start my own.
00:17:04I don't want kids.
00:17:09Then he said, I think you're really cool.
00:17:10And I was like, but that doesn't make a difference.
00:17:13It's like when you're looking for a parking spot and the one you find is too small for your huge SUV.
00:17:18It doesn't matter that there's a free spot.
00:17:20It won't fit.
00:17:21Dude.
00:17:21Yeah?
00:17:22Have fun.
00:17:23See you later.
00:17:24Enjoy.
00:17:25It's pretty obvious now that this might be closing a lot of doors for me here.
00:17:29And I'm afraid I might have reached a dead end.
00:17:32I'm really nervous.
00:17:34I underestimated the kids issue.
00:17:37Ultimately, it only takes one woman.
00:17:39But my chances are kind of dwindling.
00:17:42Hello.
00:17:43Hello.
00:17:46How are you?
00:17:48Good.
00:17:49Who am I talking to?
00:17:51Josie.
00:17:53Who are you?
00:17:54Gunner.
00:17:54Gunner.
00:17:55Here are the basics.
00:17:56I'm 33 from Berlin.
00:17:59So we can skip the dance.
00:18:03Would you say Berlin is and will remain my chosen city or?
00:18:07It's my chosen city, but it won't be forever.
00:18:10It won't?
00:18:10No.
00:18:11My life has changed and so have my hobbies and priorities.
00:18:14I rarely go out these days.
00:18:17I sound super old, don't I?
00:18:19Like those people saying, ew, bars are too loud.
00:18:22It sounds appealing, actually.
00:18:24Like, thank God.
00:18:25Cool.
00:18:26It's great.
00:18:27That means you go to bed early.
00:18:29Yes.
00:18:30So what's your sleep schedule like?
00:18:32I know, weird question, but since we're on the subject...
00:18:34No, it's super normal.
00:18:35Right.
00:18:36We're covering the basics.
00:18:37When do you go to bed?
00:18:38I actually go to bed pretty early.
00:18:41Let's hear it.
00:18:42Easily around 10, 11.
00:18:44That's my bedtime too.
00:18:45Really?
00:18:46Yeah.
00:18:47I love my retiree sleep schedule.
00:18:49Same.
00:18:49You don't miss anything in the evenings.
00:18:52I've started cycling.
00:18:53Midlife crisis.
00:18:55Totally.
00:18:56Marathon next?
00:18:56I have a spot in the Berlin Half Marathon in two weeks.
00:19:01You're kidding.
00:19:02I'm not.
00:19:02No.
00:19:03I'm totally having a midlife crisis.
00:19:06You're very judgy, I can tell.
00:19:08I'm super judgy, yeah.
00:19:10Judgy and a bit of a bully, I'll write that down.
00:19:12That's my love language.
00:19:14Hey, Josie, I like talking to you.
00:19:16Me too.
00:19:17I feel comfortable with you.
00:19:19But Josie, I have to bring up a topic that can be a bit of a downer.
00:19:23I don't want to have children.
00:19:30And it hurts me to say that.
00:19:34But when I see what life is for my friends who have kids, I just think I don't want that
00:19:40for myself.
00:19:43And that's why I've decided that the right thing for me is to not have kids.
00:19:50Oh, God.
00:19:51Yeah.
00:19:51I killed the mood.
00:19:53The vibe completely changed.
00:19:54No, I guess I've always had a romantic view of it.
00:19:58Like a perfect world, perfect family.
00:20:00Because I never had that myself.
00:20:02But that's something, depending on how things go, that I could come to terms with.
00:20:10So it doesn't totally put me off?
00:20:14I'm not going to cross you off.
00:20:16I'm glad to hear that.
00:20:17That would have been a shame, especially with you.
00:20:20So I hope we can talk again tomorrow.
00:20:22Let's do that.
00:20:23Thank you so much and have fun.
00:20:25Back at you.
00:20:26Take care.
00:20:31Hello.
00:20:32This means there's hope for me.
00:20:35I feel really comfortable with Josie, and I'd love to talk to her again.
00:20:38It's been a roller coaster.
00:20:40After the first few dates, I thought, I came here for nothing.
00:20:44Then Josie came along.
00:20:47Suddenly, I see a point to this whole thing.
00:20:49Wow.
00:20:49I just feel super comfortable with Gunnar.
00:20:52There's an instant vibe.
00:20:54We laugh a lot together.
00:20:56But the conversation with Jubriel was really nice, too.
00:21:00And the fact that Gunnar doesn't want kids lets me off a little.
00:21:04I'm really thinking about which woman would be the best match for me in the long run, someone
00:21:15I could be myself with.
00:21:17But I'm also wondering, where could I grow more?
00:21:21Winnie and Josie are wonderful women, who I find very interesting.
00:21:24They both have their own way about them.
00:21:27And I feel very comfortable with both of them.
00:21:30I feel like I'm facing a dilemma.
00:21:32I find two of the women fascinating, and I don't know how to decide.
00:21:36There are so many factors I have to take into account.
00:21:39Some guys come in like, wow, she's the one.
00:21:41She's amazing.
00:21:42But I can't compromise on the kids thing.
00:21:44Yeah, I find it difficult to talk about kids before you've even gotten to know each other.
00:21:49Who knows if the relationship can even handle it?
00:21:51But why start a relationship if you already know it's going to fail because of that?
00:21:56Yeah.
00:21:56It's a bit...
00:21:57If it's your final decision, I get it.
00:22:04Now please put everything away and take out your pen.
00:22:07I'm a warm-hearted, loving person.
00:22:10What I need to be 100% happy in my life is a partner by my side.
00:22:16Experiencing that physical closeness is what I miss most when I'm lying on the couch alone at night.
00:22:22That's why plan B or C would be to get a golden retriever, a dog,
00:22:26with whom I can experience that togetherness, that closeness.
00:22:31That sounds weird, right?
00:22:32I decided to be on Love is Blind because I think the concept and the experiment itself are brilliant.
00:22:41You get to know a woman without seeing what she looks like.
00:22:44Hello, hello.
00:22:45Hello.
00:22:46I'm Yasmin.
00:22:47And you?
00:22:48I'm Dustin.
00:22:49Dustin, nice to meet you.
00:22:51Not having to swipe right or left.
00:22:53Where are you from?
00:22:54I'm from Berlin.
00:22:55Berlin!
00:22:55And you?
00:22:56From Frankfurt.
00:22:57I don't have a specific type physically.
00:23:00I'm more about trying to get to know a woman through her values and what she does with her time, for example.
00:23:06What do you do?
00:23:08I work as an IT consultant.
00:23:10I study business, informatics from my bachelor's and master's degree.
00:23:14What do you like to do in your free time?
00:23:16Well, I'm actually a movie and TV show buff.
00:23:21And I like to ride motorcycles.
00:23:23I like adrenaline, speed, things that are intense.
00:23:27Wow, how cool is that?
00:23:27On the other hand, I also like more creative things like painting, some DIY.
00:23:33I mean, I'm more handy than any man I've ever met.
00:23:39Such a broad range.
00:23:40I love it.
00:23:42No joke.
00:23:43Really cool.
00:23:43I'm impressed.
00:23:46And how's life as a single woman in Frankfurt?
00:23:48Let me put it this way.
00:23:52If I wanted to, I could have a lot of dates.
00:23:54But I often get pigeonholed because of my looks.
00:24:00That's why I'm here.
00:24:11Perfect transition.
00:24:13And you?
00:24:14How's dating?
00:24:15Not that great either, actually.
00:24:17Because I'm the shy type, reserved.
00:24:21Really?
00:24:21The one in bars and clubs who isn't there to pick up women.
00:24:24And I don't like it when it's only about that.
00:24:27But maybe I'll never have to approach anyone again.
00:24:29That's my goal with this experiment.
00:24:32Because I'm not really good at it.
00:24:34Then let's try it this way now, right?
00:24:37I like that.
00:24:39Yes.
00:24:40Do you fall in love quickly or let people into your heart quickly?
00:24:43I've fallen on my face so many times, but I still have the ability to not close myself
00:24:48off and allow feelings to take hold.
00:24:49Great attitude.
00:24:50I'm exactly the same.
00:24:52You're like that too?
00:24:53I open up very quickly too.
00:24:55I'm fundamentally a little naive.
00:24:57I'm very trusting and always see the good in people.
00:25:01And if I fall for someone, I'm all in, fully and totally, like love of my life.
00:25:05Wow.
00:25:06Very nice.
00:25:09I have to say, I am very impressed.
00:25:11So, we have to see each other again.
00:25:14You can count on it.
00:25:23It's not hard to guess what box I'm usually put in by people when they first see me.
00:25:30The Barbie doll.
00:25:32And sure, I do look a lot like these.
00:25:34The stereotype.
00:25:36But honestly, I like looking like this.
00:25:39It's just who I am.
00:25:41Basically, I would say that I wasn't cared for as a child or as a teenager.
00:25:48My parents were too busy with their own problems.
00:25:52My brothers and I, we looked out for each other.
00:25:55We also grew up in severe poverty as a family.
00:25:59Everyone fought hard to get as far away as possible from that situation, from the life
00:26:04of my parents who were leading, which had no safety net.
00:26:07So, as consequence, I have a very strong need for security.
00:26:14Getting married at the end of this experiment would be like my biggest dream come true.
00:26:18So, it would be amazing.
00:26:21Yeah, that would be really nice.
00:26:28That would be the very first time that I
00:26:30really felt safe.
00:26:35God, I don't want to cry.
00:26:48Hello.
00:26:50Hello.
00:26:52This is Andy.
00:26:53Hi.
00:26:54Who's this?
00:26:55This is Yasmin.
00:26:57Yasmin.
00:26:58With a Y at the beginning.
00:27:00Oh, damn.
00:27:01I wrote it wrong.
00:27:02That's why I say it.
00:27:03How old are you?
00:27:0442.
00:27:0542.
00:27:06And you?
00:27:07I'm 30.
00:27:08Do you think a 12-year age gap is a lot?
00:27:12No.
00:27:13Oh, your laugh is very endearing.
00:27:17Perfect.
00:27:20Really cool.
00:27:21Now, the question is, what is important to you and a man for him to win your heart?
00:27:27Like, for instance, I would say what I can offer in a relationship,
00:27:33is reliability, appreciation, and strength.
00:27:37A shoulder you can lean on.
00:27:39That sounds nice, for sure.
00:27:41But would you say you have a dominant personality, or are you looking for an alpha male?
00:27:46Hmm.
00:27:47Well, I'd like an alpha by my side.
00:27:52I like the feeling of being with someone who protects me.
00:27:56I could do that.
00:27:57And who can speak for us as a family, if that makes sense.
00:28:00I think that's a nice feeling.
00:28:02So you'd like to have a family?
00:28:02That's the type of man I need.
00:28:04Yes, definitely.
00:28:05Hmm.
00:28:07When I have strong feelings for someone, then I like to think they're never going to fade.
00:28:11Yeah, I'm that passionate.
00:28:14Yeah?
00:28:15Yeah.
00:28:20Wow.
00:28:21Right now, I'd really love to, well, of course, see you, but also...
00:28:25I know what you mean.
00:28:27Well, just because I'd like to see the way you laugh, how your eyes light up when you're happy.
00:28:31But I think it's good that you don't know what I look like.
00:28:35Yes, I mean, we'll talk again.
00:28:36We'll talk again.
00:28:37Bye.
00:28:38Bye.
00:28:38I'm a typical guy from the Rhineland because I'm always cheerful.
00:28:42And in my 20s, I did the Mr. Pageant, and I became Mr. Cologne.
00:28:50So I'm very curious to see how things will unfold because on the other side of that wall, there are some great women.
00:28:57Hello, hello.
00:28:58What's your name?
00:28:59I'm Celia.
00:29:01Hi.
00:29:02Hi.
00:29:03Hi, this is Andy.
00:29:04Hi, Andy.
00:29:05This is Nadia.
00:29:05Where are you from?
00:29:06From Essen.
00:29:07From Essen.
00:29:08Cool.
00:29:09I'm from Hamburg.
00:29:10What would you say is important to you in a relationship?
00:29:14Just lay it on.
00:29:15I want my husband to be my best friend.
00:29:18You're speaking straight to my heart because I want that, too.
00:29:21That's how a relationship works best.
00:29:23Yeah.
00:29:23I don't know what your preferred relationship style is.
00:29:26I think I'd rather be in a monogamous relationship.
00:29:29Whew, my heart was racing.
00:29:32I thought when you brought up relationship style, I—anyway, I'm very monogamous, yes.
00:29:39Okay, cool.
00:29:40What do you do?
00:29:41Tell me.
00:29:42You could sum it up as an investment advisor for private investors who want to grow their wealth.
00:29:48I just help people prepare for retirement, and I really enjoy it.
00:29:54It's nice to talk to other people who are also self-employed because I have a pole dancing and aerial acrobatics dance studio.
00:30:03Awesome.
00:30:04I once hung from a pole, but you don't want to see that.
00:30:07So, how would you describe yourself?
00:30:11Are you a party animal?
00:30:13Are you someone who likes to stay at home, likes to cook?
00:30:16I want to know about your personality.
00:30:19Well, I'm very much into self-care.
00:30:21It doesn't matter what you do, whether it's therapy or life coaching or a breathwork session, anything you do for yourself.
00:30:29Breathwork session?
00:30:30I've done a lot of those.
00:30:31I find it amazing to be able to heal through breath.
00:30:35I'm so happy to hear that.
00:30:38Finally, someone else who's into that kind of thing.
00:30:40When I talk to Andy, I feel like we're on the same page.
00:30:45Like, it's a conversation between like-minded people.
00:30:47I feel really comfortable.
00:30:49Yeah.
00:30:49I would love to talk to you again.
00:30:52Me too.
00:30:53Then I look forward to next time.
00:30:54That's great.
00:30:55I thought so, too.
00:30:58I've got a fiery personality.
00:30:59I can get heated fast, but I also calm down quickly.
00:31:03And I'm not looking for a yes-man.
00:31:07I'll need him to bring me back down to earth sometimes.
00:31:13So if you were to ask me if I have a favorite, I'd say I don't have one yet.
00:31:19But there are women that I would like to get to know better.
00:31:23Namely, Yasmin, Nazia, and Celia.
00:31:26I'm excited to see how things go with them.
00:31:29Hello.
00:31:32Top men.
00:31:34Aren't they great?
00:31:35All of them.
00:31:36Amazing.
00:31:36Yeah.
00:31:37Really?
00:31:37Yes.
00:31:38Right now, my favorite is Andy.
00:31:43I feel like there's this spark between us.
00:31:46There's something there.
00:31:48That was funny.
00:31:50Awesome.
00:31:51Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:31:52You're glowing.
00:31:55I know.
00:31:58Yeah, I had a lovely date with Andy.
00:32:03And I felt so good afterwards, you know?
00:32:08I'm actually thinking about Andy a lot right now.
00:32:11It's wild.
00:32:13I was just with Andy, and it was great.
00:32:17How nice.
00:32:19It was really good.
00:32:20Wow, it's getting crazy.
00:32:21It's getting so crazy.
00:32:24Wow, Andy, huh?
00:32:27When I like someone, I'm all in.
00:32:31Trust is a cruel friend.
00:32:35New day, new beginning.
00:32:46Does that count?
00:32:50How do you feel?
00:32:51Good.
00:32:51Really good.
00:32:52I'm looking forward to it.
00:32:53Me too, to have more time, go deeper.
00:32:55I definitely know which direction I want to go to today, especially with Jubrio.
00:32:59I plan on getting a little deeper, talk about family, and...
00:33:02You haven't talked family yet?
00:33:04Oh, my gosh, yeah.
00:33:08Get me in the pods, hey!
00:33:11Get me in the pods, hey!
00:33:13Have a good time.
00:33:14Have fun.
00:33:15It's going to be awesome.
00:33:17I'm really looking forward to talking with Jubrio.
00:33:20My head is buzzing, because I'm wondering what else do I need to know.
00:33:24I have butterflies in my stomach just thinking about it, and I can't wait to learn more
00:33:29about it.
00:33:30Hi.
00:33:31Hello.
00:33:32Hello.
00:33:32Hello, my dear.
00:33:34Ah, great.
00:33:35This is nice.
00:33:36How are you?
00:33:37Good.
00:33:38And you?
00:33:38I'm doing really well.
00:33:41Mm-hmm.
00:33:41I realize that we haven't talked about family yet.
00:33:45That's true.
00:33:46Well, I'm really close to my mom.
00:33:48Oh, cool.
00:33:49I think that's great.
00:33:50My dad left us when I was about 10.
00:33:52Oh, okay.
00:33:53I know I don't have the perfect family like I wish I did, but I'm really...
00:33:57Who does?
00:33:57My parents separated, too.
00:33:59Mm, okay.
00:34:00They stayed together longer than they should have.
00:34:03You know how it is.
00:34:04Yeah.
00:34:04You're not supposed to separate.
00:34:06Yeah.
00:34:08But when they eventually did, I told them, just do what makes you happy.
00:34:12Do what's best for you.
00:34:13Yeah.
00:34:14What about you?
00:34:15Do you want kids?
00:34:16Yeah, for sure.
00:34:17I want children so badly.
00:34:19Um, and I know that my mom wants me to find my own path, find a husband and start a family.
00:34:27It's so important to her.
00:34:29But it would be really important to me that I become part of your family and that you become
00:34:33part of mine.
00:34:33I'd like to be able to say, my mom has gained another son.
00:34:39Yeah.
00:34:40And I would really love to be part of your family.
00:34:44I can tell we share the same values.
00:34:47And that's a great foundation to build on.
00:34:50Think about me and...
00:34:52I reckon I'll be thinking about you a lot today.
00:34:55I hope you'll think about me too.
00:34:57See you.
00:34:58See you, Jibrio.
00:34:59We'll talk more.
00:34:59I'm going to miss you.
00:35:01I can't really be myself with Wendy because she gets me, but I can't quite figure out if
00:35:12she's someone where I'm like, hey, I can see this lasting years or long-term or forever.
00:35:20Or if it just be a nice fling.
00:35:23I don't have a clear number one.
00:35:26I'd say each woman is unique, which is great.
00:35:29Wendy and Josie.
00:35:31Josie could be a great match because I feel very comfortable with her.
00:35:36And she's very much my type.
00:35:40I'm really confused.
00:35:41I'm not there yet, man.
00:35:43This is hard.
00:35:44This is really difficult.
00:35:46Tell us more.
00:35:47I find Wendy super interesting.
00:35:49I know she's not the only one you find interesting.
00:35:51Yeah.
00:35:54I don't want to hurt anyone.
00:35:55No, of course.
00:35:56I want...
00:35:56My goal is I don't...
00:35:58But that'll happen anyway.
00:36:00Man, it sucks.
00:36:01How did this happen?
00:36:02I don't know.
00:36:03I don't want to be an asshole.
00:36:06I don't want to come off as a player.
00:36:09Oh, my God.
00:36:11When I think about Josie, I'm really fired up.
00:36:16I want to keep talking to her and keep laughing with her.
00:36:18But there's no love without fear, without risk.
00:36:22It's part of the game.
00:36:24And of course, I'm afraid of getting hurt.
00:36:27Obviously, I had some fears coming into this.
00:36:29The kids' issue, for instance.
00:36:30I knew that wouldn't work for most women.
00:36:33That my choices would be limited.
00:36:34So you think you'll talk to Josie again?
00:36:40I'd be really sad if I didn't.
00:36:41And my intuition would turn out to be dead wrong.
00:36:45But even if it was a deal breaker, I'd hope we'd get a chance to talk and she'd want to tell me in person.
00:36:49And when it comes to that topic, it could go in any direction.
00:36:56Yeah, it would be easier if you had a woman opposite you who ruled it out, too.
00:37:00Totally.
00:37:01The kids thing?
00:37:06Do you even want kids?
00:37:09I used to think I want at least two because being an only child sucks.
00:37:13So if I have kids, then at least two.
00:37:16And now it's kind of strange because, I mean, Gunnar doesn't want any.
00:37:21And if I keep dating him, I need to figure out whether that works for me.
00:37:27I don't know.
00:37:28Yeah.
00:37:28I need to think about it more.
00:37:30Yeah.
00:37:31So, today I'm a bit more prepared, honestly.
00:37:43Now I'm scared.
00:37:44The issue of never having children.
00:37:48Shocking at first, right?
00:37:50Well, it's like, is that an option?
00:37:54I mean, is it bad not to have kids?
00:37:56Do I need to?
00:37:58I'll say this.
00:37:59I'm 29 now.
00:38:00I think in the first five, six, seven years, I could handle that.
00:38:04I know my friends and all the people who are around me.
00:38:07Everyone who's in my life, they're gonna have kids.
00:38:10And that means all my friends, who make me who I am and who I hang out with, will get pregnant.
00:38:18They'll face similar issues, they'll get to experience all those kid things at the same time, and I can imagine that at some point, I'll be at a stage where I feel like I'm being left out, disconnected from them, from their lives.
00:38:33I think that there's a lot of things you can, how shall I say it, replace almost one-for-one in both scenarios.
00:38:41Like, instead of meeting friends at the playground, you can meet at a cafe, and families do things together, but hopefully couples without kids do things together too.
00:38:49Just different things, things for themselves.
00:38:53I guess it's about figuring out whether you, specifically, would be enough in the end.
00:38:59I don't think that this issue was done and dusted, that I can make a clear decision about whether Gunnar and Josie will be enough forever.
00:39:10Or whether I'll eventually realize I want more.
00:39:21Jessie!
00:39:22I knew it was you!
00:39:24I knew it was you, too. Hey, if you hadn't been here...
00:39:26You would have been sad.
00:39:27Then I would have quit!
00:39:29No, just kidding.
00:39:31I hope so.
00:39:32I just feel like laughing again, having fun for a while, and with Jessie, I can do that easily.
00:39:37Most of all, I think it's time to go a little deeper.
00:39:40And underneath all the fun, find out more about each other on a deeper level.
00:39:46I couldn't believe it because our vibe was so strong, and I never would have thought that I could find someone so quickly where there's such a strong connection.
00:39:55Like, we talked for a few minutes, and I thought, what the fuck is going on here?
00:39:58I think I'm going to be very scared of it.
00:39:59Um...
00:40:00Eventually, your logical brain kicks in and says, wait a minute, we're just at the beginning, and everyone has skeletons in the closet, and some things will definitely come up.
00:40:12I think we have a lot more to talk about.
00:40:16I want to know about your family.
00:40:21Okay, my parents are divorced.
00:40:24Yeah, so are mine.
00:40:25They got divorced, and I had a sister.
00:40:29Or, I still have a sister.
00:40:30I had.
00:40:31I still have her, thank God.
00:40:32Very nice.
00:40:33Older or younger?
00:40:34They're all younger.
00:40:35I have four younger siblings.
00:40:38We're both the eldest?
00:40:39Yeah, we're both the eldest.
00:40:42I was always the one who got screwed.
00:40:44I was always the one who got grounded when I did something stupid, or...
00:40:47My brother just didn't get that, either.
00:40:49I know, they were allowed to do whatever.
00:40:51My parents experimented with me.
00:40:54Exactly, we were the guinea pigs.
00:40:55Yeah, but me, it's funny you say that.
00:40:59One-to-one, Dad was away a lot.
00:41:04So I had to be the role model for my brothers.
00:41:07How?
00:41:08That's an issue.
00:41:09How are we so...
00:41:10I can't get out of my head.
00:41:12You know what I've been noticing here?
00:41:15It's really deep inside me, because...
00:41:18It's so incredibly important to me that my inner circle is doing well.
00:41:23Me too.
00:41:24Same.
00:41:24And it's happening even here, in the experiment.
00:41:28Dude, can you just stop talking?
00:41:30Do you know what they call me at work?
00:41:32Feel-good manager, because I just want everyone to find the way I have.
00:41:35That's nuts.
00:41:41Let's keep going, okay?
00:41:49So a lot has happened in my life.
00:41:51There's so much...
00:41:53I could already write a whole book about my life.
00:41:56But over the last few years, well, really, these last two years, I...
00:42:01There's things that I...
00:42:07What I'm grateful for are, honestly, those small moments.
00:42:13Moments like when I'm sitting with friends, drinking a glass of wine, looking around the room and just thinking I'm grateful to experience such moments.
00:42:20Oh, God, how beautiful is that?
00:42:25Oh, God, how beautiful is that?
00:42:26It's really beautiful, because it's literally the same for me.
00:42:29Yeah.
00:42:31And that's why I live my life the way I do.
00:42:36To the fullest.
00:42:38100%.
00:42:39Oh, God, what do we do now?
00:42:45Shit.
00:42:46Why?
00:42:47I don't know, because this is such a...
00:42:50mindfuck, you know?
00:42:53It's just a lot.
00:42:55I totally see myself in you.
00:42:58That's the thing.
00:42:59And I don't even know if I can date anyone else.
00:43:02This is kind of my problem right now.
00:43:11I can't even put it into words.
00:43:12It's just...
00:43:14He fits like a glove.
00:43:22Well, I'm so sure that I'm going to put all my eggs in the same basket.
00:43:27All in now.
00:43:28Yes.
00:43:28Oh, my God, sorry.
00:43:37No, it's so sweet.
00:43:41I need to drink something first.
00:43:43Wait, I need to take a big gulp, man.
00:43:48Guys, this experiment is the best thing ever.
00:43:51This is nuts.
00:43:54I've never in my entire life, and I swear, I've dated a lot of women.
00:43:58I've never this quickly.
00:44:00We're talking about a few minutes here.
00:44:02Had such a vibe with a woman.
00:44:06Never.
00:44:07Never.
00:44:08This is awesome.
00:44:10Unreal.
00:44:11This is so great, man.
00:44:13This is...
00:44:13We've had two dates.
00:44:16I don't know.
00:44:17Now I'm worried something bad is going to come up, and the other shoe will drop.
00:44:23I mean, it's much easier to imagine what life with children is like, because that's the norm.
00:44:32But I don't know that many examples of life without children.
00:44:35Yeah.
00:44:36Would you say you grew up kind of sheltered?
00:44:40Totally.
00:44:41Your parents are still together.
00:44:42They're doing great.
00:44:43No fights.
00:44:44No, no fights at all.
00:44:45I'd say their relationship, especially the way it is now, is a perfect model for me in many ways.
00:44:52Yeah, well, I...
00:44:53My mother did the best to give me a sheltered upbringing, too.
00:44:59But it didn't always work out that way.
00:45:01You mentioned you were alone with your mom.
00:45:03Yeah.
00:45:06What's your relationship with your father like, if I may?
00:45:08I can't promise I won't get emotional.
00:45:14I hear you.
00:45:15Because I...
00:45:16Oh, perfect.
00:45:17That took exactly one second.
00:45:19I'm sorry.
00:45:20Only if you want to say...
00:45:21No, no, no.
00:45:21It's okay.
00:45:21I do want to tell you.
00:45:23Right.
00:45:24I am...
00:45:26I grew up just me and my mom, and when I met my dad, very late in my 20s, I understood
00:45:36everything my mother did for me, and how much she actually protected me from someone who
00:45:45makes a lot of promises and says, oh, we'll do this and that, but never keeps his word
00:45:56because he struggled with so many issues himself.
00:45:59And I think he would have liked to be a father, but in reality, he was just a sperm donor.
00:46:10And so I wrote him and never heard back.
00:46:16And then I wondered, why has he not replied?
00:46:19He always replies.
00:46:21We have contact once or twice a year.
00:46:24I thought, that's strange.
00:46:26Maybe he has a new number and forgot to tell me.
00:46:30So I googled him, and I found his obituary.
00:46:36He's been dead for six months.
00:46:39Oh, no.
00:46:39And no one told me.
00:46:40He said to that, but...
00:46:42Yeah, that's the kind of stuff that shapes you.
00:46:51I can't imagine.
00:46:52I'm so sorry.
00:46:55For getting so emotional.
00:46:56I...
00:46:57I didn't expect that.
00:47:00I'm so sorry.
00:47:02No way.
00:47:02Thank you, really.
00:47:04Boy, this wall is really bothering me right now.
00:47:07Normally, it doesn't bother me.
00:47:09I like talking to you, but right now, I'd really like to hug you.
00:47:12It hurts that you're sitting over there, and I'm sitting here, and all I can do is listen.
00:47:20He's only known me for such a short time, and yet he managed to give me a sensation that
00:47:25feels very much like home.
00:47:29Bye.
00:47:30Bye.
00:47:31I love how Josie opens up and reveals a lot about herself, but it's also a little scary
00:47:37to be honest, because I already feel very close to her.
00:47:40It's a weird thing to say, but I believe for the first time that love can actually be blind.
00:47:53But was it a good date?
00:47:55Yeah.
00:47:55Great.
00:47:56Good?
00:47:56Yes.
00:47:57Another date now?
00:47:58Yeah.
00:47:58Yeah.
00:47:59Honey, you're good.
00:48:00Get it together.
00:48:01Get it together.
00:48:01Get it together.
00:48:03Okay.
00:48:04Let's go.
00:48:05Mm-hmm.
00:48:07Hello.
00:48:10Hello.
00:48:12Hello.
00:48:13Ah, deep voice.
00:48:15Everything okay?
00:48:16Yeah, you?
00:48:17You sound shook up.
00:48:18What's going on?
00:48:19My tears aren't tears of joy, but it was still good to let them out.
00:48:26Want to talk about it?
00:48:28It's up to you.
00:48:29Any time I talk about my past, I realize that maybe I should do it more often and that maybe
00:48:46there are still a few things that I haven't quite processed and that the pain will always
00:48:54be there.
00:48:55I grew up alone with my mom.
00:48:57I would always ask her why I look the way I look.
00:49:01My skin color, my eyes, which aren't blue like hers.
00:49:06My dad died six months ago, and that was the last door closing that connected me to the
00:49:20side that makes me look the way I look and the side that I know nothing about.
00:49:25I only learned late in life how to do my hair or that I needed different body care, that
00:49:33my skin is different.
00:49:36And I always thought, well, I just have weird skin, and why can't I use the same lotion as
00:49:42everybody else?
00:49:42And I would really like to give you a lot of love right now.
00:49:52I can totally relate to, say, being the only dark-skinned person in class, the only dark-skinned
00:49:59person in a room, and also being asked, do you speak German?
00:50:04Do you speak African?
00:50:06Like, do that clicking tongue thing.
00:50:09Like, no, don't touch my hair.
00:50:12I'm not a circus freak.
00:50:13I'm a human being just like you, and it took me a long time to understand that.
00:50:19Even as a boy, I thought to myself, what if I were lighter-skinned?
00:50:24Would I be more popular?
00:50:26Would I have more advantages?
00:50:28Would I be more like the others, you know?
00:50:34And the older I got, I realized God made me the way I am.
00:50:39And I'm happy to be like this.
00:50:41And I love my skin color with every fiber of my being.
00:50:46Sure, it sucks that you couldn't ask questions about the way you look.
00:50:52And I'm sorry you didn't have the support you needed.
00:50:55Someone who looked like you, and who could relate to you because of your appearance.
00:51:01But be proud of it and love it, you know?
00:51:04Yes.
00:51:05Love it.
00:51:06Cherish everything about yourself.
00:51:07You are the way you are.
00:51:09Great.
00:51:12Trust me.
00:51:12Good like that.
00:51:14Yeah?
00:51:15Yes.
00:51:17I want you to feel the big hug I'm giving you right now.
00:51:21Honestly, imagine me coming around like a bear, taking you in my arms and squeezing you like crazy.
00:51:29Oh, thank you for that.
00:51:31Your voice alone feels like a hug, but your words are really lovely, and they're calming me down.
00:51:41That's nice.
00:51:43I feel very, well, loved as a human being, you know?
00:51:50Wow.
00:51:51That's intense.
00:52:03I think it's also the one thing that I've always been looking for in a relationship, which is this safe space.
00:52:12Because I always felt like I had to play this one role, and that people always expect me to be that.
00:52:17And that's the only way they see me.
00:52:19Mm-hmm.
00:52:21That's insane.
00:52:22Today is a really crazy day.
00:52:24I mean, I just can't.
00:52:30Ah, shit.
00:52:32But it was really lovely.
00:52:36We started with tears and ended with laughter.
00:52:38What more could you want?
00:52:40I can't just walk out of here now.
00:52:46Amazing.
00:52:47It's so heavy.
00:52:51You okay?
00:52:59Hey, hey.
00:53:03Who is it?
00:53:05Josie.
00:53:06What happened?
00:53:06We just understand how each other feel.
00:53:09I'm asking for a friend.
00:53:15Being able to share that moment with Josie brought me closer to her.
00:53:18Obviously, revealing a vulnerability that you normally try to keep to yourself is something that organically leads to a whole other kind of connection, one where you realize, hey, there's something there.
00:53:31It was incredible.
00:53:32It was incredible.
00:53:33The specific issue.
00:53:34That's nuts.
00:53:35The one that I've always struggled with where I didn't feel like I was good enough.
00:53:39And then he's like, please be that.
00:53:41Give me more of you.
00:53:44Oh, my God.
00:53:46That was so nice.
00:53:48Yeah.
00:53:48I felt safe with Jubriel.
00:53:50I felt hugged, even though we can't hug.
00:53:53And he understood me on a different level, a level that Gunnar, for example, can never understand.
00:54:01Do you know what's so crazy to see Jubriel crying like this?
00:54:05That gets you even more because you don't expect it.
00:54:07Not at all.
00:54:08Because he's the strong one here, right?
00:54:11It's great that you allowed yourself to feel these emotions.
00:54:13It was insane.
00:54:16Josie really touched me.
00:54:19She broke me in a good way.
00:54:20These dates emphasize emotional connection, where you're like, maybe it wouldn't have
00:54:27gone this far on the outside because of the wrong hair color, the wrong shoes.
00:54:31But here we're thinking, something's opening up that would never have opened up outside.
00:54:36That's exactly the kind of connection you need to build a future.
00:54:39The experiment is definitely meant to give people the space to grow.
00:54:44To learn more about your feelings and emotions.
00:54:46Let's do this.
00:54:53So how did today's dates go?
00:54:55Good.
00:54:57But I don't have a favorite.
00:54:59I don't know if I could live a life like that.
00:55:04A life without having children as a deliberate choice.
00:55:09I'd be okay with it if I wasn't able to get pregnant or if I couldn't find a partner.
00:55:14But I don't know about being in that situation where it's my partner who rules it out.
00:55:19I have to go in with that mindset that I won't be having children with Gunnar.
00:55:29Do the heli, heli, heli.
00:55:31Do the copter, copter, copter.
00:55:33Do the helicopter 117.
00:55:36Nice!
00:55:38Look at that.
00:55:40There's something here.
00:55:41Yeah, I know.
00:55:42Is it yours?
00:55:42Yeah, that soccer ball has a special meaning because it reminds me of my grandpa.
00:55:50My grandpa was a soccer fanatic.
00:55:54It was just his life.
00:55:56And he was a passionate FC Cologne fan.
00:56:00What?
00:56:00Yeah.
00:56:01No!
00:56:02Really?
00:56:04Do you want to hear the craziest thing?
00:56:06My dad is a musician.
00:56:07And you know the FC Cologne anthem?
00:56:09Yes.
00:56:10That's by my dad.
00:56:11You're kidding.
00:56:12Mic drop.
00:56:13Oh my God.
00:56:14For real?
00:56:15Oh my fucking God.
00:56:16It all makes so much sense.
00:56:18I can't even.
00:56:19Well, my dad didn't write it, but he sings it.
00:56:24I mean, I got goosebumps.
00:56:27It's wild.
00:56:29That anthem?
00:56:31We played it at my grandpa's funeral a month ago.
00:56:42I'm a hundred percent sure that fate brought me here.
00:56:52Yeah.
00:56:55And now I have goosebumps.
00:56:58Hallelujah.
00:57:00I want to hug you right now.
00:57:02Yes.
00:57:05This is wild.
00:57:06I'm completely at a loss for words.
00:57:18Krass.
00:57:20This is crazy.
00:57:21What kind of twist of fate is this?
00:57:35What kind of twist of fate is this?
00:57:37You're going to make this up.
00:57:40Oh my God.
00:57:40Where did they find this guy?
00:57:55I can't deal with this anymore.
00:57:57Really.
00:57:58I am done.
00:57:58I'm starting to freak out because things are going to get deep.
00:58:06We're going to unpack more.
00:58:08A lot more.
00:58:11Are you in love?
00:58:13I mean, that was totally for real.
00:58:14It's nuts.
00:58:16Shit.
00:58:18I'll be honest.
00:58:19The pressure is really high right now.
00:58:23She's found her man.
00:58:24Yeah.
00:58:25That's so beautiful.
00:58:27So emotional.
00:58:28I have my dark sides.
00:58:33I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:58:36You're so lucky.
00:58:37So much.
00:58:39Many.
00:58:58I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:08I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:09I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:11I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:12I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:13I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:14I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:15I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:16I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:17I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:18I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:19I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
00:59:20I swear to God, my whole family is going to love him.
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