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00:00Previously on The Real House Fives of Beverly Hills.
00:03Hi, how are you?
00:05That is so funny.
00:07That's really good.
00:07Well, you guys have that.
00:08We all got the memo.
00:09I'm best known for my best-selling book, Rich's ,
00:12which has given me the nickname, The Money Queen.
00:16My marriage has been eradicated from the Catholic Church.
00:19The letter came to Sutton Brown.
00:22Have you gone on any dates?
00:24Are you dating now?
00:25I'm not.
00:26I just haven't been leaving my house.
00:28Great.
00:29What?
00:29The truth about if Kyle is seeing somebody, it's like, I'm sorry,
00:34are we friends or not?
00:35I don't feel like being asked all the time about my private life.
00:38I was seeing someone, unfortunately, I'm single now.
00:41Since separating from Mo, I was at a very vulnerable place
00:45in my life, and I felt hard for this person.
00:50If it was only me, I would give all the answers they want.
00:53Yeah, it's not just about you.
00:54In this town, stars come and go, but diamonds last forever.
01:03I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living for me.
01:08I turn ambition into an art form, and I am the masterpiece.
01:13I might live on a main road, but I definitely bring main character energy.
01:17I didn't marry into money.
01:19I manifested it.
01:22Survival isn't my story.
01:24It's my superpower.
01:26I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally, unburdened.
01:31Niko, are we ready?
01:44So pretty.
01:46You look so pretty.
01:47Yeah.
01:48I'm ready.
01:49I'm in my matchmaking bag.
01:50I know you got the roses.
01:51I feel like I'm like the hostess of The Bachelorette.
01:54And what are the men called?
01:55The Bachelors?
01:56Yes.
01:57That's what single men are called.
01:58I've never seen The Bachelorette.
02:00I've come to a striking realization.
02:03Almost everybody is single in this friend group.
02:06These girls are going through it.
02:08We've got our questions.
02:09I think Dorita's going to be the most enthusiastic.
02:11Erica, too.
02:12No, Erica might scare them.
02:14And secretly, I think Kyle is going to be very nervous.
02:16I want all the girls to come out and enjoy themselves,
02:19but I think this might be an opportunity for Kyle
02:21to really let her hair down.
02:23Lure it a little.
02:24I want to see that side of her.
02:25I think the guys are already, like,
02:27comparing their resumes.
02:28Look at them.
02:29Good to see you.
02:30Cheers.
02:31Cheers, fellas.
02:32Cheers.
02:33Great to be here with you.
02:34You don't have your cocktails yet?
02:35Sorry.
02:36What bad timing.
02:37I went through my contact list
02:38and found eligible bachelors
02:40that match the interests of my friends.
02:42We are going to describe, like, keywords, okay?
02:46Protector.
02:47Chivalrous.
02:48Safe.
02:49Sexy.
02:50What does that mean?
02:51Someone who likes sex.
02:52And you can tell by looking at them.
02:53Oh, .
02:54I have done my research.
02:56I mean, this is a pretty good group.
02:58They look good, too.
02:59Oh, I'm so glad everybody's here.
03:01Thanks for having us.
03:02Hi.
03:03So nice to see you.
03:04Good to see you, too.
03:05Thank you for coming.
03:06Hi.
03:07How are you?
03:08Hi, both.
03:09How are you doing?
03:10Good to see you.
03:11Now, I have to tell you a secret.
03:12These ladies are very nervous.
03:13I can't tell you the group chat with the, like,
03:15what should I wear?
03:16What should I say?
03:17What should I say?
03:18What am I going to do?
03:22It would be really great if one or all of them found true love tonight.
03:25And even if it doesn't happen, I'm still excited for them to flirt a little bit.
03:30Because maybe it'll loosen up the old wires that aren't necessarily clicking all the way.
03:35They should be nervous.
03:36We are intense.
03:37Yeah.
03:38Look, you better cut it out.
03:39Okay.
03:40Give him a break.
03:41I want to look like a normal human being.
03:47Mm-hmm.
03:48Right?
03:49Because, you know, men get scared.
03:50Yeah.
03:51See?
03:52I agree.
03:53For the face, I think that we keep it young.
03:55Baby doll.
03:56Approachable.
03:57But not.
03:58Could give you a blowjob in the alley.
04:00But probably won't.
04:02Okay, we have to make me look very pretty.
04:11We're going to make you look extra snatched.
04:13Okay.
04:15Okay.
04:20This is running really per usual.
04:22I think I need a Coca-Cola.
04:25I am going to struggle tonight.
04:40I need a beverage now.
04:41Where are these ladies?
04:45Hi.
04:50You look good.
04:51Why are you giggling already?
04:52I know.
04:53I feel really weird.
04:54That might feel weird.
04:55I feel weird.
04:56I don't know.
04:57How about have a seat right there?
04:58Because they are over there.
04:59Oh, no.
05:00I know.
05:05If you make me take my shoes off.
05:07No, no, no.
05:08You don't have to.
05:09This is the first time.
05:10I was going to bring some sanitizer.
05:11I don't know what to make of Kyle's single state.
05:13Is she single because she has accepted her separation from Moe?
05:17For somebody who's nervous, you certainly don't look it.
05:19Is she single because she isn't dating anyone at all?
05:23Why did you bring the most expensive bag?
05:25See, this is clearly signaling your high maintenance.
05:27That means...
05:28Oh my...
05:29Don't mess with me.
05:30Don't mess with me.
05:31Don't mess with me.
05:32Don't mess with me.
05:33Don't mess with me.
05:34Don't mess with me.
05:36Oh!
05:37Wow!
05:38You are a goddess!
05:39Come on in!
05:40We all look like we're going to a funeral, you guys.
05:46She's just wearing black!
05:47No, she is not.
05:48Oh my God!
05:49Yes!
05:50Everybody's wearing black.
05:51Everybody's wearing black.
05:52Hello!
05:53Beautiful!
05:54Oh my God.
05:55Oh my God.
05:56You look gorgeous.
05:57Everybody's wearing black.
05:58Let's see what Sutton has on.
05:59Hey!
06:01Is Sutton?
06:01Oh my God.
06:03The key is you can't look like you tried too hard
06:06because that reads desperate and thirsty.
06:07Don't look like you spent three hours getting dressed.
06:09Like, oh, I just threw this on.
06:11I look like the maid that's gonna bend over and get it.
06:15I do think if you wear a little black dress on a first date,
06:18you're saying, I want to have sex with you.
06:20Oh my God, she's wearing black.
06:23Everybody's in black.
06:24I cannot even believe you.
06:26Do we look like we're going to a funeral?
06:27That's what I just said.
06:28Our subconscious is talking right now.
06:31We do not look like a group of women
06:34that are looking to find a date.
06:36We're all dressed in black,
06:37like we just came from some sort of witch convention.
06:40I think it just says where we all are in our lives is black.
06:43It's a black cloud over all of us.
06:46We have to get out of our heads.
06:49She happens to know that they're all good guys.
06:51They're all successful.
06:52They're all very nice.
06:54Don't ask for any dick pics.
06:56What?
06:56I suppose.
06:57That is horrible.
06:58How dare you?
06:59Never.
07:00I've gotten enough of those dick pics in my DMs.
07:02I mean, do they really think you're gonna be like,
07:04oh my God, that's so great.
07:06Hi.
07:07Can we go say hi to them?
07:09Oh.
07:10Let's go.
07:12Let's go, girls.
07:13Let's go.
07:14I'm rallying the troops.
07:16Are you taking your bags?
07:17I'm wearing my sunglasses.
07:19Rachel.
07:19Is that rude?
07:20No.
07:21Yes.
07:22It's rude.
07:23But they're Rachel's old glasses.
07:24Hello, everyone.
07:25Hi.
07:26Okay.
07:27Good job, Dorit.
07:28I'm so proud of her.
07:29Hi, guys.
07:30I'm Dorit.
07:31Hi, Ben.
07:32Pleasure.
07:33I'm gonna beat you.
07:34What happened?
07:35No.
07:36Let's go to Jack of the Box.
07:37Get a dog.
07:38I didn't realize how many of these women are so socially awkward.
07:42Come on.
07:43Oh, I hate this.
07:44Just kidding.
07:45Yes.
07:46Kyle.
07:47Erica.
07:48Cheers.
07:49Weird Tuesday.
07:50Sutton.
07:51Okay, well, I knew Sutton was.
07:52It's itching because I have neuropathy.
07:54It's gonna bother me.
07:55Yeah.
07:56Hey.
07:57Rick.
07:58Greg.
07:59Nice to meet you.
08:00Rick.
08:01Hi.
08:02Rachel.
08:03Erica.
08:04Hi.
08:05How are you?
08:06Nice to meet you.
08:07How are you doing?
08:08What was your name?
08:09Rachel.
08:10Nice to meet you.
08:11Rachel.
08:12Nice to meet you.
08:13Wait, does this feel like a receiving line, you guys?
08:15Fun fact.
08:16I actually won the biggest flirt award when I was six years old.
08:19In day camp.
08:20A ribbon and everything.
08:21Where is your accent?
08:22Australian.
08:23Australia.
08:24Yeah, accent has two girls already.
08:25I get it.
08:26Always, always works, doesn't it?
08:28They asked us to choose a husband to marry on our camp bus.
08:33And you know who I picked?
08:34My 18-year-old counselor.
08:36Do you have a drink?
08:37No, but I think I need one.
08:38Oh my God, it feels so awkward.
08:39Hold on one second.
08:40Okay.
08:41I gotta go to the bar.
08:42What?
08:43I've never seen this side of Erica before.
08:44Where's a woman who was twirling around on stage, making people nervous when she walks in
08:49the room.
08:50Probably got a whips and chains somewhere.
08:51Where is she?
08:52Can I have a cocktail?
08:53Yes.
08:54I don't know.
08:55Do you want to take a shot?
08:56Do you want to take a shot?
08:57No, I don't need a shot.
08:58Erica Jane can do anything.
09:00She can talk to anybody.
09:01Splits on stage, run around in a costume, but Erica is very awkward.
09:06I thought you had like some icebreaker activity.
09:07I do.
09:08But we lost the icebreaker.
09:09I think, I know.
09:10We lost the icebreaker.
09:11Or would you just let it do it the old fashioned way in just a moment?
09:13We lost somebody?
09:14Yes.
09:15How long have you been single?
09:16Like a week.
09:17No, I'm kidding.
09:18A year.
09:19About four hours?
09:20Yeah.
09:21Okay.
09:22That's long enough for me.
09:23No.
09:24Well, I guess a year.
09:25A year.
09:26I'm not going to suggest that I'm emotionally in the best place to date right now.
09:30I've never heard a lemon referred to as a carcass when it's done.
09:34Listen, it's just a drink that I like.
09:36It's clean.
09:37It's easy.
09:38Is that how you would describe yourself?
09:41Not easy.
09:42I'm really not easy.
09:44I mean, but she is.
09:46Make sure you tell her I told you.
09:47I will.
09:48I'm a little out of practice, but that doesn't mean it's gone.
09:51I know I'm a good flirt.
09:53Hello.
09:55Yeah, it's working, right?
09:56Oh, good.
09:57I got everybody's attention.
09:58Well, welcome.
09:59I'm so glad everybody was able to come over.
10:02So welcome.
10:03Cheers to you.
10:04Cheers.
10:05Yes.
10:06So we have some stations where the ladies will sit.
10:09Some questions that I've written, but you are free to ask your own questions.
10:12And then we'll keep going around and around until everybody's met everybody.
10:15I'm gay.
10:16Yes.
10:17Okay.
10:18Very good.
10:19Kyle, you can sit here.
10:20Okay.
10:21Erica, you're going to go inside.
10:22Sutton, you're going inside too.
10:24I've never done anything like this.
10:26I'd be more comfortable like standing on stage with no clothes.
10:29I would like to gouge out my own eyeballs, but I'm going to go with a smile on my face.
10:36Let me start my clock.
10:37Okay.
10:38Here we go.
10:39Um, okay.
10:40Oh, .
10:41Let me start my clock.
10:42Okay.
10:43Here we go.
10:44Have you been married?
10:45Well, yes.
10:46That was a little.
10:47So you were a lawyer too?
10:48I was, but I'm not, I'm still active with a bar, but I'm not practicing.
10:49Thank God.
10:50What do you do for fun?
10:51No.
10:52I don't think I've had that in a very long time.
10:53So I've almost forgot.
10:54You're such a sexy dress.
10:55How could you not have fun?
10:56Well, thank you.
10:57Are you more of a dominant or a submissive?
10:58I've learned to be a bit more dominant in life.
10:59I think the question means sexually.
11:00Oh.
11:01Oh.
11:02Oh.
11:03Oh.
11:04Oh.
11:05Oh.
11:06Oh.
11:07Oh.
11:08Oh.
11:09Oh.
11:10Oh.
11:11Oh.
11:12Oh.
11:13Oh.
11:14Oh.
11:15Oh.
11:16Oh.
11:17Oh.
11:18Oh.
11:19Oh.
11:20I've been on a lot of bad dates.
11:21And you know, I did go on that one date with, it was just all about the mother.
11:25Uh, mom still is in the house, but I've been working from home so I can still be mom.
11:30I'm the only guy whose mother tried to pull the what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas rule.
11:36Oh.
11:37I kind of have this fearless factor when it comes to dating.
11:40So, show me what you got.
11:42Let's do this.
11:43I started Comic Con.
11:44So if you're ever into superheroes.
11:45No.
11:46Oh.
11:47I can't.
11:48I did a lot not in Los Angeles.
11:49Why is that?
11:50Girls here are pretty bad.
11:52Oh my.
11:53Where do you live?
11:54You live on this side?
11:55I'm, I think we're on the west side, right?
11:58I think we're on the east side now.
11:59Okay.
12:00So, I don't know what side I live on.
12:03Oh.
12:04I live in the valley.
12:05Okay.
12:06Do you know where that is?
12:07That way.
12:08Okay.
12:09Who do you think is amazing?
12:11Maybe like Led Zeppin on the Rolling Stones and that's like it.
12:13I don't know.
12:14Chris Martin?
12:15What?
12:16Coldplay sucks.
12:17What?
12:18Coldplay sucks, dude.
12:19White women love Coldplay.
12:20What?
12:21When I was younger, I was always in love with a guy that I shouldn't be in love with.
12:25What I've realized is I'm still her.
12:29I am still her.
12:30I'm still the girl that is attracted to a very certain kind of person that is not the guy that probably everybody wants to set me up with.
12:39Oh, my God.
12:40This is so much harder than I thought.
12:41It is?
12:42Yes.
12:43Is it a little stressful for me?
12:44It's so stressful.
12:45I'm a real estate agent, by the way.
12:46My husband would die right now.
12:48Well, I'm separated.
12:49We did a deal.
12:50I'm sure you did.
12:51Yeah.
12:52I honestly cannot get away from Mel.
12:54I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if he was here tonight as one of the bachelors.
12:58I mean, he does good deals.
12:59Have you been married?
13:00I married a stranger in Las Vegas for a day.
13:03It was on my bucket list.
13:04I was just going to say it was a bucket list.
13:06It was a bucket list.
13:07Because it's completely legal in your country.
13:09You can just...
13:10You get married.
13:11When I turn the charm on, I'm not the girl that's like, oh, oh, wow.
13:17Oh, you look good.
13:18Have you been working out?
13:19I'm more of the, it's in the eyes.
13:22Maybe a little hair flip.
13:25Anyway, so, seductive.
13:29I've been asking the guys.
13:31Everybody loves Dorit.
13:33Yeah, look at them right now.
13:34I have to tell you, oh, that's...
13:35Yeah.
13:36Thank you, my darling.
13:37But I think everybody likes Sebastian.
13:39Yeah, I like Sebastian.
13:40Yes, everybody likes Sebastian.
13:41Go, go back.
13:42But look at them.
13:43This is a match made.
13:44They both have accents.
13:45That's how I knew it was going to work.
13:47People say I'm loquacious, so...
13:49Oh, my...
13:50What a word.
13:51Were you like a big comic fan as a child?
13:52Yeah, I grew up collecting sports cards and comic books as a kid.
13:54I love sports cards.
13:55What kind of sports cards are we talking about?
13:56Baseball, basketball, all the great...
13:57Oh, cards, excuse me.
13:58Oh, yeah.
13:59Oh, yeah.
14:00C-A-R-D-S, yes.
14:01I have zero game.
14:03I can't small talk.
14:05I don't know how to do it.
14:06Wait, you're in the law, right?
14:08Yeah, but I do other things, too.
14:09So you're a slimy weasel?
14:11Sutton has a lot more game than I do.
14:13Soft and feminine and Southern and, you know, ha.
14:18Your accent's great.
14:19Just a hint of Georgia.
14:20But it's more if I go home or if I talk to my mother too long.
14:23Listen, when I'm on the phone with my family back home...
14:25Right.
14:26New York comes right now.
14:27Absolutely.
14:28It'll just come right back.
14:29I've been fortunate to work in baseball.
14:30I've represented a bunch of players.
14:31Oh, really?
14:32My apologies.
14:33You are halfway through your conversation.
14:34Halfway through.
14:35Yeah.
14:36Time is flying by, by the way.
14:37I know, when you're having fun.
14:38I like Rick.
14:39He is easy to talk to.
14:40He seems interested in me.
14:42He has potential, this Rick.
14:44Our time is up.
14:45Okay.
14:46Now, we're all gonna get back together.
14:47Sure.
14:48Okay.
14:49So we can go back in here.
14:50Okay, what's happening, you guys?
14:51Well, everybody, I would like to say goodnight to our gentlemen.
14:56Oh.
14:57Goodnight, guys.
14:58It was nice meeting all y'all.
15:00Wait, wait.
15:01This is me.
15:02All right.
15:03Done.
15:04Let me know.
15:05All right.
15:06I'll let you know.
15:07It's in your court.
15:08Still got it.
15:09Obviously.
15:10I love Bose and there's nothing I won't do for her or with her.
15:13I need fire pit.
15:15But, like, I knew full well there was zero percent chance I was meeting a guy at a speed dating
15:20event.
15:21Dori, was that your first, like, meet new guys moment?
15:23Oh, actually.
15:24And?
15:25I feel like you did great.
15:26Oh, I feel like you were, like, I'm very good in this situation.
15:28By the way, I feel like you were fully rolling into each guy, right?
15:31Tonight was a boost of confidence.
15:33It felt like the feminine, flirty, fun Dori was here.
15:39And it felt good.
15:40Who was our favorite guy?
15:42The Aussie guy was great.
15:43The Aussie guy was great.
15:44It was really fun.
15:45I liked Rick.
15:46Did he give you his car?
15:48Because he gave me his car.
15:49Okay.
15:50Okay.
15:51Y'all, I'm just saying your attorney husband didn't work out so well.
15:55Oh!
15:56Oh!
15:57Holy .
15:59Coming up.
16:00In order to be friends, I want to know the information so that I can also be helpful.
16:05Why don't you ask what you really want to ask?
16:08Do you want to know the information?
16:09Okay.
16:10Okay.
16:11Okay.
16:12Who's our favorite guy?
16:13I like Rick.
16:14Did he give you his car?
16:15Because he gave me his car?
16:16Okay.
16:17Your attorney husband didn't work out so well.
16:18Oh!
16:19Holy .
16:20I'm about to do something really important.
16:21She's gonna throw it in the fire.
16:22No.
16:23In the spirit of kindness and being, like, a good friend, truthfully, this is for you.
16:36Whoa.
16:37Wow.
16:38It's taken a long time for Sutton and I to get to a good place.
16:41And Rick seems like a really nice guy.
16:43He has Sutton.
16:44Enjoy him.
16:45I'm gonna give the lawyer thing a rest.
16:47Case dismissed.
16:48Um, Kyle.
16:49Yes?
16:50Do you feel that you are actively looking to meet someone?
16:55Mm.
16:56Of course not.
16:57I mean, I'm not.
16:58No.
16:59I'm not.
17:00What do you mean, of course not?
17:01What do you mean, of course not?
17:02No, I'm not.
17:03I mean, you're not actively looking for anybody.
17:04I'm not three years in.
17:05I mean, like, is that what you want?
17:08I would be looking for a life partner, like.
17:11Whoa.
17:12That's heavy.
17:13I don't wanna get married again.
17:14You wanna be married again, Kyle?
17:15I think I would wanna get married again.
17:17Really?
17:18Dorit, do you wanna come talk with me for, like, five minutes?
17:21Pardon?
17:22Come here.
17:23Come talk with me for a minute.
17:24I wanna talk to you.
17:25Oh, okay.
17:26Go ahead.
17:27I just wanna catch up with you and how you're doing, NPK, and all of that.
17:31Sutton?
17:32Do you wanna sit here?
17:33Yeah.
17:34Is that okay?
17:35Have a seat.
17:36I was asking Dorit what's going on.
17:37And then I was just trying to check in on her and see how the kids are.
17:40Did they go to Florida?
17:42My kids are supposed to go to Florida with their grandparents.
17:45And NPK is now.
17:47I got a letter today from the lawyer saying that he's gonna block it.
17:51They did go to Florida.
17:53So the kids are having a good time.
17:55They are having the greatest time ever.
17:57What are you doing now that they're not?
17:59Are you resting?
18:00The best thing that you can do is take care of yourself.
18:02Yes.
18:03You have to.
18:04I know.
18:05I have to.
18:06And you don't want it used against you.
18:07You know what I mean?
18:08Exactly.
18:09That's, by the way, that's by design.
18:11Here's the thing.
18:12When you're going through a divorce, your state of mind is like a big deal.
18:16Anything and everything will be used against you to make you look not the best.
18:22So you have to be careful.
18:24What you say, how you say it, who you say it to, where you hanging out, who you hanging
18:27out with, where you spending money.
18:29And it's a long road.
18:31Yes.
18:32Dudes can get away with a hell of a lot more than mothers.
18:36The great news is this.
18:38You will come ashore.
18:39Yeah.
18:40And you will survive this.
18:41Yeah, you will.
18:42And your children will too.
18:43And all for the better.
18:44You know?
18:45You just have to get through it.
18:46Yeah.
18:47And it sucks.
18:48And I'm really sorry.
18:49Yeah.
18:50It does suck.
18:51This is really nice to see a different side of Sutton.
18:54She's talking to me from her heart.
18:57I know she has the experience.
18:59And it feels genuine.
19:00I completely sympathize with Dorit.
19:04I see a little bit of myself in this broken wing that she's walking around with.
19:11It's so sad.
19:13It's just the hardest thing to watch.
19:16I want to be a good friend to everybody.
19:19Yeah, of course.
19:20You know?
19:21I think Kyle is somebody that I'm like, okay.
19:23I'm like peeling back the onion.
19:25Do you like anybody?
19:26Was there anything that sparked?
19:28If not, I'm like, okay, tell me, girl, what you want.
19:30I mean, gosh, my gosh.
19:32You know, I'm not the only single one here.
19:34You don't want to, like, just be...
19:36No.
19:37No.
19:38You are not a one-night-only girl.
19:39No.
19:40So we've got to find somebody with substance.
19:42How many times have you been in love?
19:44Have I been in love?
19:45How many times have you been in love?
19:46Like three?
19:47Oh, in love.
19:48Three times?
19:49Three.
19:50Yeah, in my life.
19:51How many have you been in love?
19:52Four.
19:53How many times?
19:54Three.
19:55Yeah.
19:56Have you found love again?
19:57Uh, yeah.
19:58Since?
19:59Yeah.
20:00Well, that's a good feeling.
20:01Yeah.
20:02I have loved somebody, but...
20:04Okay.
20:05But now you don't?
20:06No.
20:07And now I'm just figuring it out.
20:09No, now I'm just...
20:10I mean, I did, but now I'm...
20:12Now I'm on my own again, so...
20:14Okay.
20:15Okay.
20:16You know?
20:17Boz is acting like she's never heard anything or seen anything,
20:19and she's asking me all these questions,
20:21and I'm like, okay, Boz.
20:23Was it by choice not to be in love now?
20:26By your choice?
20:27Um, no, it's not...
20:32It's just complicated.
20:34I think it's been really challenging for Kyle to be vulnerable.
20:37You said that you had never before questioned your sexuality,
20:40but when public speculation went into overdrive,
20:43you would even talk to your daughters about it.
20:45Just a really proud moment for me as a mom, how my daughters reacted.
20:49They supported you.
20:50Oh, my gosh.
20:51Like...
20:53Beyond.
20:54And it was a really uncomfortable, hard conversation to have.
20:56But I'm really glad that she's at least sharing a little bit with me now,
21:01because I want to be there for her.
21:03I want to be able to support in every way that I can as a friend.
21:07I told you, I'm a girl's girl.
21:09I want to, like, be in everybody's business.
21:11You're a lady's lady.
21:12Not because I want to be in the business, but because I'm like...
21:14You're a lady's lady.
21:15But in order to be friends...
21:17Why don't you ask what you really want to ask?
21:19What's that?
21:20What do you think I want to ask?
21:21I don't know.
21:22I could go Brad.
21:23I could go Angelina.
21:24That's what you want me to say, right?
21:26I mean...
21:27Is that serious?
21:28We could go Brad or Angelina?
21:30No, I mean, I'm like half joking, but not fully joking.
21:35Okay.
21:36I don't know.
21:37Listen, I've learned a lot about myself.
21:39I think gender doesn't matter.
21:40Yeah, of course.
21:41I think it is a connection with a, you know, a soul connection.
21:46I think my biggest worry after Mo and I separated was really that I was going to maybe be alone one day.
21:53And then to find someone that you have a lot in common with and you can laugh with and have fun.
22:02It was exciting for me because I proved to myself, oh, you know, I actually can meet someone after a marriage of this many years.
22:11I've always been attracted to men, you know, like tall, dark and handsome.
22:16Could that apply to women?
22:18I also felt nervous about why go out with somebody, like, what is Mo going to think about that?
22:25What are the girls going to think about that?
22:27What is the public going to think about that?
22:30I don't really know, so.
22:32Kyle, to be honest with you, I actually don't think you have to know.
22:35You have been with Mo for ever.
22:37She said 30 years.
22:38And I think it's okay to now be like, I'm freely being me and whatever that feels like and whoever I connect with the most.
22:45I've gone through so much in these past few years and it really has changed my perspective on life and how I want to live.
22:54While I am sad about the relationship, I'm also really grateful.
23:00You get lost in being a wife and a mother and you can kind of forget about who you are.
23:06And I learned a lot about myself in that time.
23:12I'm going to go back in my contact list.
23:14No.
23:15No.
23:16You know what?
23:17I'm a fake kind of person.
23:19Coming up.
23:22Maybe I'll change my name back to Brown.
23:25I dropped my married name the day I left.
23:27It's like my last little thread.
23:29It is, but you're not married to me anymore.
23:42Oh, can I do this?
24:05You guys can absolutely.
24:07Oh, Shoshi, do you want to paint a dragon with KK?
24:10She's right behind you.
24:11She's right behind you.
24:12She's literally right next to you.
24:14Oh, hi.
24:15You want to paint a dragon?
24:16No.
24:17KK wants to help.
24:18Yeah.
24:19Let's go over here.
24:20Here, Mama, help.
24:21You want me to help you get the stuff?
24:22Mama, where do the beads stick?
24:23I'll show you.
24:24I've never done that activity before.
24:25Hey, KK, that's my side.
24:27What if we both paint on both sides
24:29and we work together collaboratively?
24:31How does where you grew up in Oklahoma
24:34differ from where your children are growing up?
24:36Um, okay.
24:40So I come from pretty humble beginnings.
24:43We didn't really have a lot.
24:45On Friday nights, I used to hang out at Walmart.
24:47We would, like, go walk.
24:49I would walk around Walmart.
24:50Do you want to go jet skiing with Dad tomorrow?
24:52We're going jet skiing in the morning.
24:53Of course, of course.
24:55They will never grasp,
24:57but the reason I have them in a stroller
24:59walking around Beverly Hills,
25:00like, getting ice cream
25:01and going to lunch or whatever,
25:02is because I dreamed this for them.
25:04Like, we walk the streets
25:06that I watched on Clueless.
25:08Like, that, you know?
25:10It looks like I'm going to Disney on Monday.
25:12Daddy has a new project at Disney World.
25:14Daddy!
25:15Sunday, you have water polo, correct?
25:17At 11, yeah.
25:18I'm going to take Liam.
25:19And I'm going to try to go to Pilates
25:20that day during nap time.
25:21Yeah.
25:22Eddie is my partner and fiancé and lover.
25:26We met in 2019, and so we've been together five years.
25:30Eddie is in construction.
25:31Isn't he so cute, though?
25:33He's, like, so cute.
25:35Okay, before Daddy proposed, like,
25:37I kept having the dream that he got me a ring
25:39with the Smart and Final logo on it.
25:41Get your Oklahoma ass out of here.
25:45So once Eddie and I were living together,
25:47he asked me what I wanted,
25:48what my priorities were.
25:49I was about to turn 36,
25:52and I remember telling him
25:53that there was an expiration date on my ovaries
25:56more than there was an expiration date on my ring finger,
25:58and I thought we should get to making babies.
26:03It did take a while for us to get engaged,
26:05but then Daddy crushed it.
26:06He got me the exact ring that had been
26:08on my vision board, literally.
26:10Okay.
26:11As a financial empowerment teacher and coach,
26:14I'm the embodiment of everything I teach.
26:16I'm my biggest testimonial.
26:18I remember someone who was in one of my courses,
26:21and they're like,
26:22of course Amanda wouldn't come through
26:24just manifesting a man.
26:25Amanda comes through manifesting a whole ass family.
26:27I'm really thankful you cook.
26:30Or else nobody would eat.
26:32No.
26:41Hi, Leigh.
26:59Hello.
27:00You are so sweet.
27:02Hi, you look so gorgeous.
27:03Hi. Hi.
27:04I feel so casual.
27:05I'm so sorry.
27:06You look gorgeous.
27:07Why are you, I'm in jeans.
27:08Okay, we're both in jeans.
27:09Yeah, I love your house.
27:11I love a penchant for white houses.
27:12I love white houses.
27:13Me too.
27:14You drink white wine.
27:15Yes.
27:16So I brought you some white wine.
27:17And I love this.
27:18I love Pouli Fousé.
27:19Yes.
27:20Thank you so much.
27:21I know Sutton because we have, like,
27:24some mutual friends.
27:25So I end up seeing her at different, like,
27:27events and lunches and parties
27:29when I do that sort of circuit.
27:32You know, around the holidays especially,
27:33I always see her at Cathy's.
27:35But she was always someone who was very, like,
27:37friendly and outgoing invites me to all these parties
27:40and things like that.
27:41I just had never gotten close with her.
27:43Wait, I feel like we have so much to discuss.
27:46How's it going?
27:47I mean, can we talk about Boz's house?
27:50I can't believe we just did, like, a speed dating night.
27:53Like, I didn't know that there was a name for this.
27:55Did you think any of the guys were cute?
27:57Eh.
27:58Did you think the guy with the hair?
28:01I feel like he was, like, good-looking and cute.
28:03Yeah.
28:04Right?
28:05Yeah.
28:06Felt like not up.
28:09It's all relative.
28:11You know, I think I'm still so fresh out of marriage.
28:15So I think I'm really enjoying not being married.
28:17Right.
28:18Obviously.
28:19Would you get married?
28:20So, you know, for me it's complicated
28:21because I found out a little over a year ago,
28:25my ex-husband, he asked for an annulment
28:28with the Catholic Church.
28:30Like, within the church, our marriage never existed.
28:34But when I got the letter from the Catholic Church,
28:39it came to Strack Brown.
28:44And Brown is my maiden name.
28:46I'm like, okay.
28:47I kept looking at it.
28:48Strack Brown.
28:49Mm-hmm.
28:50And so I thought, well, maybe,
28:52I'll change my name back to Brown.
28:55I dropped my married name the day I left.
28:57Really?
28:58Yeah.
28:59Well, the truth is, I'm not a Strack.
29:02So, unstruck yourself.
29:03You know, I'm not.
29:04You should de-struck.
29:05I know, but it's like my last little thread.
29:08It is.
29:09It is, but you know what?
29:11You're not married to him anymore.
29:13I always felt that I could get Christian back
29:17whenever I wanted to.
29:19Sometimes when we talk, I'm like, in this little moment,
29:23like, did I just win him back for a second?
29:26I think I realized, with this annulment,
29:31he is not going to take me back.
29:36It's over.
29:39Oh, Rachel, why do you want to make me cry?
29:42I don't want to make you cry, but I also want you to...
29:44It's like when I think about grandchildren,
29:46I'm like, eh.
29:47So what?
29:48Grandma and Grandpa Strack over there are the good ones.
29:51With all the houses all over the world.
29:53Nope.
29:54I'm just Grandmommy Brown over here with my four dogs
29:58and probably 18 cats.
29:59Look, 18 cats is a problem in and of itself,
30:01but that's a whole different story.
30:03I don't know.
30:05I know a lot of women who want to keep their married name,
30:08and sometimes it's status.
30:10Sometimes it's because they're not over the marriage
30:12and they want to hold on to it,
30:13and I'm not one of them.
30:16Something Brown's not bad.
30:18What's your middle name?
30:20Oh, no.
30:21What's your middle name?
30:22It's Thurman.
30:24Okay.
30:26Harder.
30:30Coming up...
30:31Do you know about your retirement accounts?
30:33No retirement accounts exist, as far as I'm concerned.
30:37Money's not invested?
30:38I'm in the unknown.
30:52I'm excited to see flowers.
30:53I know, me too.
30:54Another thing, we're checking off the list.
30:56We need to get with the program.
31:01Hello.
31:02How are you?
31:03Hi, welcome to Orca Republic.
31:04We have an appointment for her.
31:06Of course.
31:07Hi.
31:08Margarita.
31:09Hi, Margarita.
31:10Nice to meet you.
31:11Trying to get some inspo and ideas for her wedding flowers.
31:15What is your color scheme, and what are the flowers, maybe,
31:19that you're thinking about?
31:21I don't have a color scheme.
31:24I do want colorful, bohemian.
31:27I like, like, the wild, unique-looking flowers.
31:30You know, one, like, artichokes.
31:32Alexia's ideas get me a little stressed sometimes because my wedding was more traditional.
31:40Black tie, at a country club, I had 12 bridesmaids, and very traditional flowers, like pink and white roses.
31:48Let's just look in here for a second and see if we can find something.
31:51Like, ooh, look at that one right there.
31:53That's too many purples.
31:54Too many purples, of course.
31:55Alexia's my earth child, free spirit, so I expect this to be very eclectic.
32:03I actually like more of, like, this vibe than that vibe.
32:06Bringing some of these guys in.
32:08That's what they like.
32:09Look at these tiny balls!
32:10I love them.
32:11Do you guys have any, like, drippies?
32:13This is giving artichokes.
32:14This is perfect.
32:15Ooh!
32:16See, would those look pretty in here?
32:17Do you like the more organic-y vibe?
32:19We're getting somewhere, guys.
32:20Woo-hoo!
32:21I love that she has her own unique style.
32:25Frozen.
32:26But it's just trying to get her to nail down the actual look she wants,
32:30so we can just put this to rest.
32:32This looks so pretty.
32:33Look at that.
32:34You like that?
32:35I do.
32:36This matches, like, the bridesmaids' dresses color scheme.
32:38You said there was no bridesmaids.
32:40Mother.
32:41I'm still having, like, bridesmaids.
32:43I'm just not doing the walk.
32:45And not matching dresses.
32:46I want matching dresses.
32:47You didn't say that.
32:48You said colors, not matching dresses.
32:49Yeah.
32:50But that's still matching.
32:51Dad and I are both walking in with you?
32:53Yeah.
32:54Okay.
32:55Of course.
32:56Yeah, you're gonna walk me down.
32:57That's so crazy.
32:58It does feel strange now to think that my daughter, our daughter, is getting married and we're not together.
33:06I would like to take the flowers home so that Jake can give the green light.
33:11I always like him to have the final yes.
33:13When I look at Alexia and Jake getting married, I just hope that they have a long, happy marriage.
33:19I hope that they can always trust each other.
33:22I hope that neither one of them ever hurt each other.
33:27I hope that Jake always looks at Alexia the way he looks at her today.
33:40But when you look back one day at your wedding photos, as long as you look back and you're like,
33:46Oh, that's exactly what, you know, what I wanted and, you know, that's what I wanted at the time.
33:52Mo and me, we were also really happy.
33:58So do I get scared thinking I hope one day they don't go through what we're going through?
34:03Of course I think like that.
34:05I'm hoping that they have both learned from Mo and me through all of this and love and respect each other as much, you know, 30, 40 years from now as they do today.
34:19I'm telling you, I'm going to have a very different wedding with each of your sisters.
34:23Yeah.
34:24God help me with Sophia's.
34:32Hi, welcome to Gemma.
34:34Feed me pasta and tell me I'm pretty.
34:37Oh, yes.
34:38That's your slogan.
34:39Right this way.
34:41Pops.
34:42Fabulous.
34:43Can I get you started with some still or sparkling water?
34:45Still would be great.
34:46Sounds good.
34:48Hi, how are you?
34:49Oh, hey, honey.
34:50How are you?
34:51I am good.
34:52Good, good.
34:53Can I get us started with something to drink over here?
34:55Can I have a nice tea?
34:56Yeah.
34:57Absolutely.
34:58I'll have an Arnold Palmer actually.
34:59You got it.
35:01I met Amanda at Jennifer Tilly's party.
35:02Whose jacket is that, by the way?
35:03This is Balmano.
35:04This is Balmano.
35:05I would knock you down, put you in that pool out there and take the jacket and go.
35:10I'm taking both those things as a compliment.
35:11She seems interesting.
35:12She's a businesswoman.
35:13She's getting married.
35:15So I want to get to know her better.
35:17Did you ever start in like the corporate space?
35:20No.
35:21No.
35:22I have no formal business experience at all.
35:23No, you've always been an entrepreneur.
35:24Really?
35:25You've always been an entrepreneur.
35:26I have a master's in counseling.
35:27I don't know that I had this language at the time, but I was like, let's make this a personal
35:29development brand.
35:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
35:31Like what do I want to be about?
35:32So I started putting out really good content online every day.
35:35I started out as a therapist and life coach and later a business coach.
35:39As my audience grew and I wanted to help more people, I began to create online courses
35:44to help people create both the professional and personal life of their dreams.
35:48Oh, interesting.
35:49So then I created a digital course called Become a Life Coach.
35:52Oh.
35:53And then I found that I had a gift, a niche around money, but not around, like I'm not
36:00a financial planner, you know, around like the energetic part of money, the mindset part,
36:05the psychology around it.
36:07Right.
36:08Most people who teach on money focus on the practical aspects of money exclusively.
36:14I think the practical aspects are really important, but I think the foundation is our
36:18relationship with money, which involves the psychological, the emotional and the energetic.
36:23That's really what I became known for.
36:25That's what I wrote my book on.
36:26I have a best-selling book called Rich as .
36:28Oh, yes.
36:29So then I became known as the money queen.
36:31Yes.
36:32But I create courses on all kinds of things.
36:34Well, hello, Ms. Fabulous.
36:35Hi.
36:36Hi, baby.
36:37You are.
36:38Love you.
36:39You are just so gorgeous.
36:40Hi.
36:41So good to see you.
36:42Good to see you, too.
36:43Here, I'll take your bag.
36:44Thank you, thank you, thank you.
36:45I'll take her bag.
36:46That's not what I meant, Doree.
36:48I'll take her bag.
36:49So I've been thinking about you a lot since the party.
36:51I really have.
36:52Sending you love and good vibes every day.
36:53I'm praying you're getting some sleep.
36:54Oh, Amanda.
36:55I really have.
36:56I have.
36:57Every day, you've been on my mind.
36:58Yeah.
36:59That's really very sweet.
37:00No, I mean it.
37:01My first impression of Amanda, to be honest, I didn't know what to make of her.
37:04We're really lovely meeting you.
37:06Oh, thank you.
37:08But now, hearing her say how she was thinking about me all weekend and prayed for me, it's
37:14incredibly kind and sweet and caring.
37:18The french fries, because that's the most important thing.
37:20Yes, it is.
37:21Absolutely.
37:22Let's do the kale salad.
37:23It looks like this calamari is gluten free.
37:25Calamari is gluten free.
37:26Well, that never happens.
37:27I haven't had calamari in here.
37:28I mean.
37:29So you have to.
37:30I have to do that.
37:31Awesome.
37:32I'll get that started.
37:33My, what do I say?
37:34My husband?
37:35My ex-husband?
37:36I don't know what to say.
37:37I keep saying estranged.
37:38Okay, yeah, I know.
37:39Estranged husband.
37:40He's very much an alpha male, a businessman.
37:43He built a very big business in the UK.
37:46And when the world tilted on an access in 2008, he lost his business.
37:52When PK and I married, we did not have a prenup.
37:54PK came into the relationship broke.
37:57He had lost his business and he was really starting from scratch.
38:01So there was nothing to protect.
38:03And when we got married, the finances, he really was handling everything.
38:09And you had kind of delegated it out of your mind.
38:11Yes.
38:12You weren't thinking about how the finances work.
38:13No.
38:14We had a business manager.
38:16I filed for divorce a couple of months ago.
38:18There wasn't like a handoff.
38:20There wasn't like an agreement.
38:22Right.
38:23There was nothing.
38:24I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore.
38:39Wait, wait, wait.
38:40So you're living in the house?
38:41Yes.
38:42The family home?
38:43Yes.
38:44And he's trying to not pay the mortgage?
38:45Like for example?
38:46He's currently paying the mortgage.
38:47He's just randomly deciding you're on your own.
38:48Absolutely.
38:49He's thinking she's making X.
38:50No.
38:51For the last 14 years, PK has been paying the lion's share of our family outgoings.
38:56When we separated, he said that the finances would stay the same.
38:58She's now having more financial responsibility than in the past.
38:59But not, but, right, but it hasn't been mutually decided upon.
39:00No.
39:01A month later, I got an email saying that he just decided to not pay the mortgage.
39:02Do you want to pay the mortgage?
39:03Or do you want to pay the mortgage?
39:04Or do you want to pay the mortgage?
39:05Like for example?
39:06He's currently paying the mortgage?
39:07He's just randomly deciding you're on your own.
39:08Absolutely.
39:09And he's thinking she's making X.
39:10No.
39:11For the last 14 years, PK has been paying the lion's share of our family outgoings.
39:14When we separated, he said that the finances would stay the same.
39:17She's now having more financial responsibility than in the past.
39:22But not, but, right, but it hasn't been mutually decided upon.
39:24No.
39:25A month later, I got an email saying that he decided he's no longer going to do that.
39:30And I was like, how can you change this all of a sudden?
39:32And his answer was, I only agreed to that for one month.
39:38For you to have a fair position in mediation, you have to know what you're working with.
39:42Do you know about your retirement accounts?
39:43No retirement accounts exist as far as I'm concerned.
39:48And money's not invested?
39:50I have yet to discover everything.
39:52And I can tell you, I'm in the unknown.
39:55When Peter died, I was left with the financial responsibility of raising Leo.
40:01On my own.
40:02Daveet is in a similar position.
40:04She needs to understand where the money is.
40:06I'm hoping, I'm praying that there's been money invested.
40:08Like, these are things that people live off of.
40:11How do you get here?
40:12Like, you have to turn a blind eye to your bank accounts for a long time to be in a state where you have no idea if you have retirement.
40:21I mean, this is like basic information every woman should know about their financial reality.
40:26My husband's a complex person.
40:28Uh-huh.
40:29He's complex.
40:30He's not a bad guy, like a terrible bad guy, vicious.
40:34Does he have some bad behavior?
40:36Absolutely.
40:37And then you throw drinking into the mix.
40:40And that, for someone of his character, it gets even more complicated.
40:44Right.
40:45Not only that, but my name is on everything.
40:49When I found out our house was in pre-foreclosure, I wasn't just worried about losing the house.
40:55The house is in my name.
40:57So if PK stops paying for something or doesn't make payments, it's me that suffers the consequences.
41:04I can't do anything right now.
41:06My hands are tied behind my back.
41:07So you need the clean brain to see you can start building everything back up.
41:10I can't buy a new house.
41:11Exactly.
41:12What can Dorit do, like, proactively, knowing, like, all of these unknowns?
41:16Is there anything that she can proactively do to protect herself or to, like, help the situation?
41:22I think you have to decide what you want, what you're creating, and, like, who you're going to be.
41:26Like, I know that's, like, a big overarching question, but who do you want to be as a provider?
41:29Who do you want to be as a woman who earns?
41:30Who do you want to be as a woman who has been screwed her and now she has to fill in the gaps?
41:34Like, who are you going to be no matter what he does?
41:36Right.
41:37You know what I'm saying?
41:38Totally.
41:39Because you're going to have to keep your mind right to go through this battle with this man.
41:41Oh, yes.
41:42What is this frou-frou mess we talking about?
41:45I was looking for one plus one equals two.
41:48Intentions?
41:49What kind of provider does she want to be?
41:51What does that even mean?
41:52This is not financial advice.
41:54Mm-mm.
41:55The math ain't mathin'.
41:57The road we're going, there are no winners.
41:59It is going to get very, very ugly.
42:03Next on, the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.
42:10Erica said, boring.
42:12I got her in that moment.
42:13Don't think for two seconds that you got her in that moment.
42:16Good donut!
42:17Here we come!
42:18Let's go, baby!
42:19This is Hot Girl Summer, Rachel.
42:20See?
42:21I don't have my luggage.
42:22What?
42:23Not the fashionista with no clothes.
42:25Did you see that picture of Erica in the tabloids with that guy?
42:29Did he approach you?
42:36I don't have my luggage.
42:38What is it?
42:39I don't have my luggage.
42:40I never showed you what I was doing in here.
42:41I actually showed you the whole house.
42:42I was to be able to get one more expanded, so I was going to be able to get one moreiesta than the ending.
42:47That's what we can always get to do now.
42:48I was a fan of the car.
42:49I didn't talk to you.
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