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00:00There's nothing like a party under the sun
00:08Shades on at ice and shake it up
00:11With all my girls turning up
00:14There's nothing like a party under the sun
00:17Shades on at ice and shake it up
00:20With all my girls turning up
00:23Come on in!
00:27Thank you guys, you look beautiful
00:29Thank you for coming
00:35Thank you for including me
00:37Yeah
00:37Hi you guys
00:41Oh my god, you guys look gorgeous
00:43Bridesmaids are here
00:45Ramina and Roslyn are going to be bridesmaids
00:49At my renewal of Vows
00:51I really haven't had bridesmaids
00:53Since wedding number one
00:55So I just thought it would be kind of a lark
00:58You know, kind of like I was 27 again
01:00To have a couple of bridesmaids
01:03And actually when you got onto the boat
01:05You realized there was no room for any bridesmaids
01:07The point is, it makes me happy
01:09You look so good, right?
01:11You look so good
01:12Oh my gosh, guys
01:17Guys, what is happening?
01:18I can't
01:19It is really an oven no one would believe
01:21I can't
01:22Fan yourself too
01:23I'm dying
01:24There's another fan on the other table
01:25Give me that other one
01:26I can't
01:27Should I go get the other one?
01:28Yes, get the little one
01:29Just don't whack us in the head with this
01:31Oh my god
01:34Oh my god
01:35Hilary decided to have her wedding on what might be the hottest, most humid day of the year
01:40My god, you're soaked
01:41I'm soaking wet
01:42I know
01:43Everywhere you go on Palm Beach
01:45There are spaces where you can have a wedding that have air conditioning
01:48There's no air
01:49But instead, we're here on a boat
01:51Where I am sticky and sweaty in places I shouldn't be
01:56Bitches love boats
01:57But bitches love air conditioning even more
02:01Oh, with ice
02:02Oh, yeah
02:03Cheers
02:04Cheers
02:05To Hilary and Lucas
02:07Maybe fifth time a charm
02:14So how do you guys feel after Saturday night?
02:18For me, I felt pretty bad after
02:22I felt a little ganged up on by the three of you and Maria
02:27That wasn't the intention
02:29We were definitely not ganging up on you
02:31We were your friends
02:32We were just telling you how we feel
02:33But we were definitely not ganging up on you
02:35Right
02:36Well, it did feel like that
02:39The things that Maria were saying about like you with me
02:43Were totally off the mark
02:47Like when Maria starts and she insinuates things
02:51It's just too much
02:52It's too much
02:53I know
02:54That's why she didn't come today
02:56She got into it with Hilary
02:58I thought she was gonna be here on motorboat Luke
03:01For the wedding tonight
03:02I don't know
03:03There you go
03:04We're gonna be motoring on like any minute
03:08Watch this Hilary
03:12Ooh
03:13What was that?
03:15It's slippery
03:16She almost just fell again
03:19Do you want a glass of Palm Beach water?
03:22Uh, yeah
03:23Yeah, Palm Beach water
03:24Here we go
03:25Campaign
03:26I think it's time for Gail to switch from Palm Beach water
03:30To some real water
03:31Because I cannot be on pick up Gail off the floor duty
03:35At every event
03:36I want to thank you all
03:38For what you did the other night
03:40That was the kindest thing from the bottom of my heart
03:43What do you think?
03:44We're just gonna leave you on the floor?
03:45Of course we're gonna pick you up
03:46After our situation
03:48Thank you so much for being there
03:51It's etiquette
03:53And it's especially Palm Beach etiquette
03:55You of all people do it right
03:57Thank you
03:58On a yacht in Palm Beach
04:01Isn't this a beautiful yacht?
04:03Hilary Buster
04:05Thank you
04:06I love the cleavage
04:08Oh my goodness
04:09It's a little small on these
04:11And you too
04:12It's a little small on these bad girls
04:14But you know
04:15OMG
04:16It's beautiful
04:17Thank you
04:18You guys are gorgeous
04:19Thank you
04:20Sue Bell is a Palm Beach icon
04:22You will see her at every event
04:25Whether it's a shopping event
04:27A charity event
04:28A hospital for children
04:30For grown-ups
04:31For senior citizens
04:32For dogs
04:33For cats
04:34Whatever it is
04:35She's there
04:36She's also the fashionista of Palm Beach
04:38If she doesn't like your style
04:40Or what you're wearing
04:42She'll tell you straight out
04:43And she has good taste
04:45I'm so vain
04:46I will never drink
04:47At cocktail parties
04:48Because I don't want to ruin my lipstick
04:50Gail
04:51I cannot believe you have a tattoo
04:53A very small one
04:54What is it?
04:55It says I love my son
04:56It says I love my son
04:57It says I love my son
04:58He has a huge one
04:59One time he was almost kidnapped
05:01I was out at my horse farm
05:03Doing a celebration in Wellington
05:05I get a call for a ransom
05:07I came flying back
05:09How much did they want?
05:11From the bank
05:12They only wanted $100,000
05:13That's cheap
05:14That was cheap
05:15No, I don't
05:16You know what I'm saying
05:17I'm driving the Rolls Royces
05:18You know
05:19This is cheap
05:20You know?
05:21So I'm running back
05:22But I had just helped Bill Clinton get in office
05:24Because I called Bill directly
05:26Because they couldn't get through 9-1-1 at the time
05:28What did Bill want for those favors, Gail?
05:30Oh, yeah
05:31A blowjob?
05:32What did Bill?
05:33Yeah
05:34I couldn't beat that
05:36What?
05:37I kissed Ronnie Reagan at the White House
05:41Oh, my God
05:43Yeah, on the lips
05:45How did his wife feel about that one?
05:47I think they tore me away from that
05:50Hi, ladies
05:52It's almost time
05:53Oh
05:54Great
05:55I have special seats for you up front on the bow
05:57Okay
06:04Oh, here comes the group
06:06Just scratch
06:07Woo, woo, woo
06:09Woo
06:11Woo
06:14Woo
06:15Woo
06:16Woo
06:17Woo
06:18Oh, my God
06:19Oh, my God
06:20Oh, my God
06:21Thank you
06:22Woo
06:23You have no idea how hard it is to walk up the steps in this dress
06:27There's no hiding
06:28That I'm definitely in love with love, right?
06:31I'm in love with being in love
06:33Being in love
06:34I mean, literally
06:35I hate dating
06:36I hate being single
06:37And, you know, my history has sort of proven that, right?
06:40It's not my proudest moment that I'm on husband number five
06:44But that's been my journey
06:46And it took me to where I am now
06:49And it took me to a place where I was open and available to meet Luke
06:54Somebody up there was pointing us in each other's direction
06:58So he's staying around forever
07:01All right, everybody ready?
07:03We are
07:04Yeah
07:05All right
07:06I'm really glad I get to remarry you because I never got to marry you in Italy
07:08I know, I know, I know
07:11So now Hillary and Luke are going to renew their vows that they have written themselves
07:18First of all, I say thank you for sharing your fabulous friends and family
07:24Let us spend our days exploring the beauty of this planet
07:28Let us go from sunrise to sunset
07:30I promise you to work on my sloppiness
07:33I promise you to do my best cleaning up my workspace at the end of the day
07:39Today was all about Hillary's and Luke's love
07:43But I think the real love was between Rosalyn and Gail
07:52You can just feel the passion between them
07:56You've taught me how to change my mind a little more gracefully
08:05As it does come hard for me
08:07Mm-hmm
08:08We've created an incredible life together
08:11Full of surprises, magic, and love
08:15And I'm so excited for what tomorrow brings
08:21And, um, I love you
08:23Aww
08:24Aww
08:25Woo
08:26Wow
08:27Thank you
08:28Congratulations
08:29Oh, yeah
08:30Good
08:31Okay
08:32Good
08:35Thank you guys, let's party
08:37Thank you
08:39I gotta get out of this dress
08:41Come on
08:42Come on
08:43Come on
08:44Come on
08:45Come on
08:46Come on
08:47Come on
08:48Come on
08:49Come on
08:50Come on
08:51Come on
08:52Come on
08:53Come on
08:54Come on
08:55Come on
08:56I love you
08:57I love you more
08:58Come on
08:59Come on
09:02Hi
09:03What do they normally say?
09:04Three times a charm?
09:05Third time's a charm
09:06I said fifth time's a charm for her
09:08Mm-hmm
09:09So what did I miss, ladies?
09:10Anything?
09:11What?
09:12We were talking about Maria
09:14I can't believe that she didn't come
09:16Like
09:17Hillary tried to reach out to Maria
09:19Maria wasn't very receptive
09:21She didn't really feel wanted here at the wedding, so
09:25I don't know, I just feel like she
09:28She has, like, a hard time, like, letting things go
09:31So you feel she should've just let all that go
09:34And said, listen, I wanna just celebrate in love and
09:37If it was me?
09:38Yeah
09:39I would let it go
09:40Yeah
09:41I think Maria's being overdramatic
09:43And she has a hard time letting things go
09:45Due to the relationship that she has with her mother
09:49She just holds on to things way too much
09:53I don't like to hold things in
09:56Like this, you know, knot in your chest
09:59I hate that feeling
10:00I hate that feeling
10:01As I got older
10:02And I think it was mostly, like, after my divorce
10:04I just realized that if you can't control something
10:07There is no point of worrying about it
10:09So I hope to teach her one day how to just be like, it's okay
10:14It's really not that big of a deal
10:17Do you have water?
10:18What is this?
10:19Uh, her potato
10:20What is it?
10:21Potato?
10:22Yeah
10:23That's potato?
10:24What part of that is potato?
10:25What part of that is potato?
10:26Oh
10:27That looks like meat
10:28Can we have water?
10:29It's delicious
10:30Is that really potato?
10:31No
10:32No
10:33No
10:34No
10:35I think he had the potatoes before
10:40I stole the potatoes on a different platter
10:43No
10:44That was not a potato
10:46Do you think he understood when you asked him for water?
10:48I don't think so
10:49Yeah
11:03Ladies and gentlemen
11:07We're going to fill the bouquet
11:09Five
11:10Four
11:11Three
11:12Two
11:13One
11:14Throw it back
11:15Throw it back
11:16Throw it back
11:17That was something to do
11:18Yeah
11:19I got it
11:20I was aiming for maybe, you know, one of my younger friends who wasn't married
11:25But no, Gail caught it
11:26She worked very hard to catch the bouquet
11:29I think she humbled people to get it, but that was cool
11:35Cheers to her, and I hope that it works for her
11:38But I'm not sure how any man is gonna get close enough to her after tripping over all the names that she drops
11:45Listen, everything that, like, happened at your event
12:00Yeah
12:01Like, it came out, I feel like, not as it was supposed to
12:05Okay
12:06And the fact that you were, like, feeling attacked to the new texting us, like, after and everything
12:12Like, I was so upset for, like, making me feel hurt that I was, like, crying about it
12:18Well, I cried for two days
12:21I cried for two days
12:23I literally cried for two and a half days, actually
12:26Wait, all of Sunday, all of Monday, all of Saturday night
12:29Me too
12:30Dude, I got a freaking rash all over my body
12:33Well, it just shows that something's not right there
12:35Yeah
12:36After the global billionaire party, I woke up covered in a rash in hives
12:40I went to the hospital to see if I'm okay
12:43My doctor said it was a combination of the dress and the stress
12:49But one of my priorities is my friendship with Rosalyn
12:54Because as much as I love her, let's be honest
12:57She can get me into these events where there's Trump and Elon Musk
13:03Which makes me feel like I've made it in life
13:06I don't like when people are mad at me
13:08Like, I can take any fucking heat
13:11I can take anyone talking shit about me
13:13But when I knew that you were, like, hurt
13:15Yeah
13:16And it's something that, like, I did, that was freaking killing me
13:19And it's not at all, like, what I meant to do
13:23You know, Maria was like, oh, well, you're telling Romina how to dress
13:26Or you're telling her that she's not dressing appropriately
13:29Maria loves starting drama
13:31Oh, Maria lives for that
13:33She is so jealous of my relationship with Romina
13:37That I think that sometimes the advice and the ideas that she's filling in Romina's head
13:43They're not true
13:44I figured it out
13:45I help you, you tell Maria something in a nice way
13:50And she's twisted in a bad way
13:52When you tell me something about Maria, it's like, oh, great
13:54And I move on
13:55I don't even think about it again
13:57But you tell her something about me
13:59And she's gotta dig deep and find negativity
14:02And twist it into something self-serving and not good
14:05But me and her do talk a lot
14:07She calls me every single day
14:08I feel like it's been a very bad influence on you
14:11Since you've been starting to do that, actually
14:13Maybe
14:14Because I think she puts things in your head that aren't reality
14:16And it twists you up
14:18And I don't think that that's a positive for you
14:21The help that Maria's giving Romina is not very helpful
14:25It is definitely hurting Romina in her path to Palm Beach
14:29Because none of the advice that she's giving her is really concrete
14:33And none of it is actually making Romina a better person
14:37What I do is from the goodness of my heart
14:39And I would never come at you and say, Maria took you here
14:42Maria took you there
14:43Maria says this, Maria says that
14:45Like, who the hell does that? I don't have time for that
14:48We are very different people
14:50In fact, I'm putting on the event
14:52A huge major event
14:54And she is the DJ at an event
14:56There is the worker's side
14:58And that's great
14:59The service side
15:00And then there's the side of someone who's putting on the event
15:04So if Maria's going to mentor you
15:06That's very different in the DJ booth
15:10But it's, you know, your choice
15:13If you want my help, I'm here
15:15I want to be with you
15:17I want to introduce you to people
15:19I want to help you expand your wardrobe
15:22Give you ideas
15:23And if you don't want my help
15:24Or it's going to be spun into something negative
15:27And thrown in my face
15:29Then just let me know
15:31And Maria can take over
15:35I don't think that Maria's necessarily my mentor
15:38Like Rosalyn is
15:40Because I feel like Maria's more, like, on my level
15:43And sometimes I feel like I'm a mom to Maria
15:47But Rosalyn, I feel like, is more of that, like, mentor to me
15:51I don't know
15:52I'm feeling confused
15:53I'm feeling frustrated
15:55Keep her out of it
15:56Or don't talk about me to her
15:58Just like I don't talk about her to you
16:00Now we are because of what happened
16:02I don't sit there and talk about her to you
16:05I don't know
16:06I just feel, like, overwhelmed
16:08Yeah
16:09I need a drink
16:10It's a lot, yeah
16:11Let's go get a drink
16:12Okay
16:32Just to say
16:33Hello
16:34Good morning
16:35Good morning
16:36Good morning
16:37Good morning
16:38Good morning
16:39I see you shining through my window
16:42Good morning
16:43Time to get up
16:44Let the sun in
16:45Let the sun in
16:46Let the sun in
16:48That's it
16:49Flip cream
16:52Huh, babe?
16:53What?
16:54I figured we'd have waffles today
16:56Since you're leaving your mother soon
16:59Why you go?
17:00Why you leave me?
17:02Why you leave forever?
17:04And I just pulled these strawberries out
17:06And I realized that a couple of them are molded
17:08Look, fresh to go back to school
17:10I'm gonna friggin' poison you before you go back
17:12More so, Damon's gonna be friggin' mad about the hospital bill
17:18Dallas is the best friggin' thing I've ever done in my whole life
17:21He's my only child from my previous marriage
17:23And honestly, you wanna know something?
17:25I don't just hang out with Dallas because he's my kid
17:27I actually really like him
17:30Like, legit, if he wasn't my kid, I would hang out with him
17:32I thought they delivered eggs, babe, when they brought the groceries the other day
17:36But they didn't bring real eggs
17:38What did they bring?
17:39All I have is egg whites
17:41Like, is that good enough?
17:42I'm finished up tasting like eggs
17:44Dude, we're free-balling everything, okay?
17:46Don't say free-balling
17:47See, Dallas, this is what happens when it's been so long since I've done this
17:50Since you made food into the boiler again?
17:54I feel like I always have had a very unhealthy codependency on Dallas
18:00Because of my childhood, the relationship I had with my mom
18:03So I feel like it was always, like, a very in-your-face relationship
18:07Because I was very much a helicopter parent
18:09Dallas went off to school and I had his location on my phone
18:12It wasn't good
18:13I'd be like, where are you?
18:14I'm like, you haven't answered your phone in two hours, did you die?
18:17Yeah, it was bad
18:18I feel like this year has been, like, all systems
18:21Like, I turned 50 and I just friggin' felt like
18:24Old?
18:25Yeah, that too
18:26You know, because when you went away, I felt like I had a lot of anxiety
18:29It was almost like a control thing
18:30Like, I couldn't, you know, like, look out for your safety
18:34But, like, you're a whole grown-ass man
18:36Yeah, exactly
18:37I know
18:38But I feel like a lot of it came from, like, just always feeling like I needed to friggin' be in control of things
18:44Because my entire life felt like I never really had control
18:47Although my childhood had spurts of fun
18:50I probably would've written it differently
18:53I was one of those moms that wanted to make up for what I feel I never got from my mother
18:58So Dallas was my chance to rewrite my childhood
19:01I don't feel like I've ever really shared a lot of the shit that I went through when I was younger
19:05Because I felt like I've always tried to protect you
19:08I feel like, over the years, I did the best that I could to try to bring the best type of energy around
19:15Because I feel like I didn't grow up with the best energy
19:19But one thing I will tell you is that it is what fueled me to be, like, the mom that I've always strived to be
19:27You know what I mean?
19:28But, like, I say to myself, did I do good enough?
19:31Like, you know?
19:36Yeah
19:37Sometimes I worry about not being a good enough mom
19:40For a couple of reasons
19:42I feel like I've been programmed
19:45To have a fear for failure
19:48And have this intense need and propensity for, um
19:53Being perfect and excelling beyond the norm
19:57It's from my childhood
19:59There was always criticism
20:01Even when you did amazing, you did perfect
20:04It felt like it wasn't good enough
20:06I love you, Matake
20:08Aw
20:10Do you remember, um, our waffle party?
20:12Yeah
20:13Last time?
20:14Yeah
20:15Oh, no! Stop!
20:17What's my get-back for that?
20:19Is that your pay-back?
20:20That's my pay-back
20:21Have your waffle too, eh?
20:23You suck
20:25Aw
20:26Babe, I love you
20:27I love that, like, we're still close
20:29And I hope it stays like this forever and ever
20:31Ever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever
20:33Ever and ever and ever and ever
20:35And I'm, like, 40 years old
20:36And I'm still living in the house
20:38I was thinking more, like, 55
20:40Yeah, I like that
20:41Ian
20:43I like diamonds
20:44I like playing by the ocean
20:46I like rolling
20:48Prochets
20:49Money, money, money
20:50That's my little name.
20:51Oh, my God.
20:53Could there be more seaweed?
20:55Oh, my God, okay.
20:56I actually brought stuff for me and Roslyn afterwards.
21:00I'm trying to win her good graces back.
21:02Palm Beach is a small place.
21:04Need I remind you that the entire island
21:06is only 18 miles long, okay?
21:08When you do find friends, you hang on to those fuckers.
21:11You're gonna laugh.
21:11I actually brought caviar.
21:13Okay, okay.
21:13She's a little bit mad at me,
21:15so I'm hoping if you break her down first a little bit,
21:18we'll weaken the thighs a little bit.
21:19Yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:19Then I'll weaken the soul with some caviar.
21:21There you go.
21:22I truly feel bad for my behavior at Roslyn's party.
21:25I was wound up so tightly,
21:27like the thong freaking out my butt crack.
21:28Like, why?
21:30Why am I so intense sometimes?
21:32So, I want to make good.
21:34Roslyn's a good person.
21:35Not to mention she's very connected.
21:36She's a good friend to have.
21:37You know, we've always bonded through working out,
21:39and I know she loves herself some champagne and some caviar.
21:42So, this is Operation Win Roslyn Back.
21:46Hi!
21:47I didn't think there was gonna be so much seaweed.
21:48I'm so sorry.
21:50I'm accustomed to private beaches at private clubs,
21:53and they clean the beach.
21:55So, I was really surprised by all the seaweed.
21:58I thought maybe somebody should have picked it up.
22:01My trying to romance you is off to not a good start.
22:04Gabe, Roslyn, Roslyn, Gabe!
22:07Hi.
22:07Are you ready?
22:08Yes.
22:09He said it's probably better to take off our shoes.
22:11Oh!
22:11I can't stand Maria's salty attitude lately,
22:14so I hope her attitude doesn't stink as bad as the seaweed.
22:17But, um, I'm here, so we'll see.
22:20Either way, I'll get a great workout.
22:22All we're gonna do right here, arms nice and straight,
22:24pull with your elbows.
22:25All right, now nice and wide.
22:27Hands all the way out.
22:28Squeeze that back.
22:29Oh, yeah.
22:30Oh, that feels great.
22:32Man, we're gonna have such cute booties by the weekend.
22:34I'm so excited.
22:35Oh, God.
22:36Do you run?
22:37Oh, my God, let's do a little run.
22:38Oh, it looks like a breast implant.
22:39No, that's jellyfish.
22:41Get those inner thighs!
22:42Get it!
22:44Hot stepping!
22:45Oh, shoot!
22:46He's got some flexible hips.
22:48Your man's gonna love you for that.
22:51Open up those knees.
22:52It burns.
22:53Ah, it hurts!
22:55Am I done?
22:56Everything hurts.
22:57It's hot out.
22:58I didn't bring a towel.
23:00I have.
23:01Amazing.
23:03It reminds me when I was little with my, uh, dad.
23:06We used to go to the beach on Sundays.
23:08Yeah.
23:08And he used to pack up the entire house.
23:10He would get up at five in the morning.
23:11Yeah.
23:11And then he'd wake us up right over here.
23:14My dear lady.
23:15That's so great.
23:15I love you.
23:16Thank you for coming.
23:17Aw, that's so great.
23:18Let's open the caviar.
23:18Thank you, Maria.
23:19If this is how we end your workouts, I'm in.
23:22Girl!
23:23Wait, so I didn't ask you.
23:25You gotta tell me what happened at the wedding.
23:26How was Hillary's wedding?
23:27Oh.
23:28Well, I mean, her wedding was beautiful.
23:30I didn't come to the wedding.
23:31I said, I'm respectfully going to remove myself
23:33because I don't want to be somewhere
23:36where I'm not being fully accepted.
23:38I think you did the right thing, actually,
23:40because you don't want to ruin her wedding.
23:42No, I'm gonna hash things out with her, like,
23:44the night before the wedding.
23:46So whatever.
23:46And I wasn't...
23:47That really even wasn't, like, a power...
23:49No.
23:49You know, sometimes people are like,
23:50oh, she wants me.
23:50No, you didn't want to ruin her wedding.
23:51I really didn't.
23:52And it was a beautiful, beautiful wedding.
23:55Other than I don't know why I was wearing a bridesmaids dress.
23:57I have no clue, Ramina and I.
24:01So, listen, I wanted to at least show I absolutely love you.
24:06I want to get back on a good track.
24:07And I know how much your events mean to you.
24:10They're very important.
24:11The fact that it didn't go as well as you wanted it to do,
24:14I truly felt bad about that.
24:16Well, I felt like every time I have everyone at one of my events,
24:22everyone ends up fighting or people have to ruin it.
24:25So I was upset.
24:30Any contribution I had for it not being a total success the way you wanted it to,
24:35I apologize.
24:35Yeah, well, thank you.
24:37But nobody wants fighting at their events, you know?
24:41And with you and Ramina,
24:45maybe sometimes you two will speak about things that I'm doing with her or for her.
24:51And then you'll say something and it makes her doubt my intentions.
24:56And then when it comes out, she says,
24:58well, I didn't say it, Maria said it.
25:00So I said to Ramina,
25:02well, don't talk about our relationship with Maria
25:04and then things won't get twisted.
25:06I've looked at you guys and I have been envious.
25:09Like the way I was raised with my mom,
25:10I felt like everything was a comparison, a measurement, a competition.
25:16Like even with my father, like me and my mom used to compete with me
25:19because I was the girl child.
25:20I was direct competition for her, for my father's love.
25:23Like, I feel like she resented me
25:25because I was almost like the surrogate spouse to him,
25:29like in a fun, like it was weird.
25:31That is weird.
25:32It was weird.
25:32So unfortunately, I felt like I never had a good example for female relationships.
25:37Maria is blaming a lot of her behavior on her relationship with her mother.
25:43But at some point, we have to start taking responsibility for our own behavior and actions.
25:50I had no idea that this dynamic was even going on.
25:54I had no idea, like, she's talking to you about me
25:57or when your guys are talking about me.
26:00I had no idea.
26:01And I think, listen,
26:02because we now have this, like, you know, open communication
26:05that you'll be like,
26:06okay, let me, you know,
26:07go straight to friggin' Maria and tell her how I feel.
26:09Yes.
26:10I want Rosalind to know that I'm a work in progress.
26:13I mean, listen,
26:14even Stevie Wonder sees that.
26:16Hopefully she sees value in that.
26:18We're good on my side.
26:19Okay, we're good on my side.
26:20We're good on your side?
26:21Okay, can we, we need to have at least
26:22one last little friggin' caviar
26:24before we toast this away.
26:25This is how we do in Palm Beach.
26:27Yeah.
26:27Because we can afford to.
26:30Okay.
26:31Cheers.
26:31Oh, yeah.
26:53Oh, I love you, Christina.
26:55Oh, and this is my girlfriend, Rosalind Yellen.
27:01I passed the torch to her.
27:03Actually, this dress is from here.
27:05This is from Angelou.
27:07Oh, this is absolutely Romina.
27:10Well, we wanted our dear friend, Romina.
27:13She doesn't know how to dress for Palm Beach.
27:14Never seen anything like this.
27:18Never seen anything like this.
27:20Cause I got it.
27:23I have only three now.
27:25And then it's...
27:26This is going to be so much fun with Romina.
27:30I can't wait.
27:32Hello.
27:33Yes, Romina.
27:35You look so pretty.
27:36It's Romina.
27:37I love the hat.
27:39I just said I can't wait for Romina.
27:40I came back.
27:41Hi, babe.
27:42How are you?
27:43Hi.
27:44Hi, Romina.
27:45Is this your store?
27:46Yes, this is Christina, the owner.
27:48As gorgeous as Romina is, she cannot wear anything that she wants in Palm Beach and be accepted
27:56into the society that she wants to be accepted into.
27:59So we definitely want to find her some appropriate outfits.
28:04Palm Beach is so different.
28:06Yeah.
28:07That you can be persona non grata and 30 seconds flat with the wrong outfit.
28:11And then all the girls will stay away from you.
28:14Well, I'm excited.
28:15Me too.
28:16I want to say thank you to both you and Rosalyn for taking me here and for teaching me.
28:23And I want you to know that I do appreciate it.
28:25And I know that might have been mixed up or some other people may have taken, you know,
28:31your help and twisted it to a negative thing, but it is not a negative thing for me.
28:37I love you and I'm very thankful to you and to Gail.
28:42Do you want to look around?
28:44Sure.
28:44The Palm Beach look is definitely floral, a baby pink, a light green, any kind of pastel color.
28:53It's just a different way of dressing that you would not see in Philly.
28:58That's pretty.
28:59That would look nice on you.
29:00Yeah, that's pretty.
29:00Do you like that?
29:01Yeah, it's pretty.
29:02I like the color.
29:03I mean, I'll try it.
29:04Whatever you guys suggest.
29:06This is stunning.
29:07Yeah, that's so pretty.
29:08This is really nice.
29:10This is beautiful for your skin tone.
29:12You can have a dress that is perfect.
29:14That's amazing.
29:15Beautiful.
29:16You know, it's a sexy dress.
29:18Gorgeous.
29:18We're going to start with the resort?
29:20Yes.
29:20I can't wait to see Romina.
29:23She's really being open about changing her look.
29:27Oh, wow.
29:29Oh, my God.
29:30Oh, that.
29:32You look so fabulous.
29:34Oh, my God.
29:34We love it.
29:34We love it.
29:34Yes, we love it.
29:36And there's so many Palm Beach parties.
29:39How is this Palm Beach?
29:40Boys and girls, a white party?
29:41I think I'm very confused as to what Palm Beach is or isn't.
29:46Right.
29:46That is actually gorgeous on you.
29:49I can see that Romina doesn't like it, so that's okay.
29:52Oh, that's really sexy.
29:56Amas, that's really sexy.
29:58So this much boob is okay?
30:00It's okay.
30:04Let's see.
30:05Let's see.
30:06Oh, I love it.
30:08You need to buy that.
30:09But my tits are out.
30:11But he can tighten it.
30:13I'm confused because I don't know what's right and what's wrong.
30:17Like, I thought we're trying to find me something more conservative.
30:20But every dress I tried on was like tits out.
30:23What the fuck?
30:24Well, I think the goal is, like, more daytime.
30:27Like you said, that she's not intimidating anyone, that everything is conservative, things
30:32are covered.
30:33People don't understand.
30:35These women are mostly all married and worried about their husbands.
30:40Oh.
30:41And she can wear this in polo.
30:42Oh, pretty.
30:43Oh, wow.
30:45How many are you buying?
30:46I don't know if I'm going to buy anything.
30:48I'm just going to tell you guys now.
30:50I can't believe she's not going to buy anything.
30:53Yes.
30:53Oh.
30:54Oh, I love it.
30:55Yes.
30:56I was going to even look at the shirt.
30:58Yes.
30:58Yes.
30:59What I'm going to do is yes.
31:00Polo.
31:01Yes.
31:01When she walks, she's going to show a little leg.
31:04It's not going to be boring.
31:05That's exactly what she needs.
31:06It's not a boring dress.
31:07Yes.
31:07You like?
31:08That's it.
31:09No.
31:10Why?
31:11Why do you think that's the best?
31:12I like the shape.
31:14It's pretty.
31:14But this isn't, like, my color.
31:16I don't like some of my friends.
31:16It's not your color.
31:17Well, that's the best one you have on.
31:19But she can put it in a different color.
31:20What you guys, like, want.
31:22Yeah.
31:22You know, I get it.
31:24Like, I'm sorry.
31:25Maybe my mom would wear that.
31:27But not me.
31:29I feel like I can still be a version of myself and Palm Beach.
31:33I can't be, like, completely not myself.
31:36I'm not going to feel comfortable.
31:37Well, you look beautiful.
31:38Let's sit down and chat.
31:40I love Romina.
31:41I see so much potential there.
31:44But she just doesn't want to listen.
31:45She doesn't understand.
31:47Palm Beach is one of the last remaining societies in the country
31:50where they conform to an old way of doing things.
31:54There's a hierarchy.
31:55And that's just the way it is.
31:57Whether Romina likes it or not, she's not going to change Palm Beach.
32:01Did you design your ring?
32:02No, my nanny bought it for me.
32:04Oh, that's so cute.
32:05Isn't that cute?
32:06I always notice you're always in the evil eye.
32:08So, people from my country and my, basically, like, religion and just culture believe that...
32:17What is your country?
32:18I'm from Uzbekistan.
32:19Oh, Pakistan.
32:22No.
32:23No.
32:23Oh, I lived in Dubai.
32:26Uzbekistan.
32:26Oh.
32:30She's not all there.
32:31It's kind of sad.
32:32All right, ladies, cheers.
32:34Cheers.
32:35Cheers.
32:36A little bit stressful shopping day.
32:40Your body, your face, your etiquette, you just are shining.
32:44So gorgeous.
32:45Thank you, guys.
32:46Talking about etiquette, I remembered how me and Roman were at Mar-a-Lago, and he goes,
32:54Which fork do I use?
32:55And I was like, I don't know.
32:57I only know from Titanic.
32:58Start from the outside and we're here right now.
33:00That is the prince.
33:02Is there a class for this that we can take?
33:05I'll give it to you.
33:06I'd love to take the class.
33:07I think it would be fun.
33:10I'm just trying to be like a good sport and do whatever I can to show them that I am trying
33:18and that I do care about fitting in in Palm Beach.
33:22Maybe an etiquette class can just like shut them up and be like, okay, maybe she'll learn
33:26to be more proper since I'm so improper in their eyes.
33:30But I'm not going to wear a grandma dress just because the grandma says it looks good.
33:34Like, you know, my parents could never tell me what to wear.
33:37Like, who are these people who think they're going to tell me what to wear?
33:39At the end of the day, Uzbekistanians, you know, we eat like barbarians.
33:47Like, they eat with their hands.
33:48Do you know what the reason was that about?
33:51What?
33:52Go on, Gail.
33:53Tell me more about my culture.
33:55I lived for four years in Dubai.
33:57The reason, if you steal, they cut the hand that you eat with off.
34:04That's what the sabers were all about.
34:06Because I have the diamond sabers that I bought at Sotheby's and Samaritz.
34:13Wow.
34:13And it was used.
34:16And then someone was telling me it's because they didn't have toilet paper.
34:20So they, if you stole, they cut off the hand of feeding with the one that you had to wipe with.
34:29Ew.
34:29Okay, that's TMI.
34:32That's not true.
34:33She clearly knows nothing about Uzbekistan.
34:36When did you come over?
34:37We came here in 91, so a while ago.
34:40Your English is wonderful.
34:43Well, it was five.
34:45And they still didn't teach you how to eat in America?
34:47I literally cannot with this bitch.
34:51Like, are you kidding me?
34:53So I worked out with Maria.
34:56Oh.
34:56And we had a really nice talk, actually.
35:00And I explained to Maria that I'm really, really happy that you girls are best friends.
35:04But I would never, ever be jealous of that.
35:07Yeah.
35:08Yet she is envious of our bond.
35:11Yeah.
35:11And so she promised me that that cycle would not happen anymore.
35:16And she won't cause trouble or make it into something self-serving for me, which is insane.
35:23Yeah.
35:24I'm rooting for you.
35:26Because we're from...
35:27Very much.
35:27That's why we're here today.
35:29Like, you have no idea.
35:30Yeah.
35:31You have to dress more conservatively.
35:34Yeah.
35:34Yeah.
35:35Okay, Gail, I got it.
35:37I don't know why she needs to interrupt at every moment.
35:40Can someone take her?
35:44We're going to show you.
36:06Hello.
36:07Hi.
36:08Hello, Hanba.
36:11Hi.
36:12Oh, my God.
36:13You're so cute.
36:13Oh, my God.
36:14You're a little small girl.
36:15I'm so short.
36:16I'm wearing flats.
36:17Mermaid hair.
36:18You're so adorable.
36:20You look cute.
36:21Oh, you're wearing flats?
36:22Yeah, look.
36:22No.
36:23She is compared to me.
36:24You're so cute.
36:26I love you.
36:27How are you?
36:28How are you?
36:28Wait, I'm all about this.
36:29What's going on?
36:30Um, this is Alice and Olivia.
36:32Alice and Olivia.
36:32Yeah.
36:33And it's the vegan leather.
36:34It's so soft, right?
36:35It's so soft, yeah.
36:36Coco is the Paris Hilton of Palm Beach.
36:38She has the friggin' social media presence of, like, the gods.
36:42She's uber beautiful, uber fashionable, uber rich, uber nice.
36:48Her grandfather legit is con air, like blow dryers, hair curlers, anything you've ever put in your hair, beauty industry.
36:55She's everything perfect.
36:57We're gonna throw a charity gala, and I am going to co-host with her.
37:02So, I'm worried because my name is on this party.
37:05The last party we did, I wasn't really paying attention because it wasn't really my party.
37:09I felt bad.
37:10Rosalyn was like, you guys ruined my party.
37:11I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, get over it.
37:13And now it's my party.
37:14It's like, oh, shit.
37:15Do you have, like, a theme?
37:15It's a 1920 theme party.
37:18It's the 100-year celebration of Addison Meisner.
37:22Do you know who that is?
37:23Um, someone who used to live here, and now the buildings are named after him.
37:27Yeah, so he was, like, a renowned architect.
37:29He built the Boca Raton Hotel.
37:31He built the Addison.
37:32Meisner Park was named after him.
37:34He had, like, a Spanish-influenced style.
37:36Right.
37:37And he would throw these elaborate parties.
37:40Throwing a party in Palm Beach, everybody always tries to outdo somebody.
37:43So there needs to be some wow factor.
37:45And it has to be over the top.
37:47And we'll have ice sculptures, parrots, monkeys, people freaking flying out of helicopters.
37:54Like, there's no details spared.
37:57None.
37:58Well, cheers, guys.
38:00Cheers.
38:01Thank you for coming over.
38:01Here's to an epic event.
38:03And if Addison Meisner was here, we'd make him proud.
38:06Yes.
38:06So this is the first time that I'm actually, like, getting involved with this event.
38:10Because I've always, like, donated and I've showed up to events and, you know, bought tickets
38:13for, like, organizations and charities.
38:16Because you know what?
38:16There's so many in town.
38:18There's so many.
38:19It's hard to keep up.
38:20I'm actually adding them, like, to my birthday party.
38:23I'm adding the Big Dog Ranch and the Gray Team so that my guests can choose who to donate.
38:30That's so nice.
38:31The Gray Team is Rosalyn's.
38:33She's affiliated with them.
38:35Yeah, exactly.
38:36Yeah.
38:36I'm going to go check on everybody.
38:38Okay.
38:39I'm going to reach out to you then tomorrow, but let's definitely go through the speeches
38:42and everything and, like, kind of, like, run of show just to make sure everything goes
38:45off, like, without a hitch.
38:47I'll be back.
38:47Do your thing, girlfriend.
38:50So how was everything at the good old wedding ceremony?
38:55You not being there kind of, like, made it a little awkward.
39:03You should have been there.
39:04She doesn't recognize me.
39:05She doesn't like who I am.
39:06She doesn't like that I curse.
39:08She doesn't think that my emotions are real.
39:10What I won't allow is somebody to minimize me, dim my light, or invalidate who I am or the
39:16growth that I've made.
39:17So guess what?
39:17I'm not going to her wedding.
39:18The fact that you don't see that actually hurts me.
39:21I feel like you get hurt way too often.
39:30I love Maria, but I have not ever had a relationship with another girlfriend like this where, you
39:37know, it was, like, almost every time we hung out, there was tears involved.
39:41Maria needs to understand that not everyone wants to carry her emotional baggage.
39:48You know, people can be there for you, but they don't need to take all that heaviness on for you.
39:55What I'm hearing, tell me if I'm wrong, that, like, I need to cry less or, like, I'm too emotional sometimes.
40:02I just have never had a friend that is that deep in their feelings.
40:06It's heavy.
40:07Like, you make things so heavy.
40:08When I'm with my friends, I want to keep it light.
40:11And, like, I get it, like, you're, you know, you're going through difficult things, and I understand that.
40:16And I want to be there for you, but I also don't know if I can 100%, like, be there for all that heavy.
40:22You don't need to be.
40:23I feel that Romina minimizing, you know, my feelings or telling me not to cry or dismissing my emotions or telling me that I'm not allowed to feel that way is extremely hurtful and triggering.
40:37It puts me right back to my childhood where I was told to stop crying, you know, stop it, stop feeling that way.
40:45Like, how do you stop an emotion?
40:47I feel like I'm trying to tell you that you're caring too much.
40:51I know, but I'm not you.
40:53And if you were going through something, I would be there for you.
40:55So I'm sorry there's too much for you.
40:57Do you feel like I'm not there for you?
40:59No, not really.
41:00I feel like you're just wishy-washy, and I know it suits you.
41:04But when you then say to me, like, oh, it's too much, get over it.
41:08Like, you have to understand.
41:08But that's what I said.
41:09And that's what I would say, by the way, to any of my friends.
41:12And I'm sorry if that, like, is not what you're used to hearing, you know, because, I don't know, like, I guess because you're in therapy and your therapist is like, yeah, tell me more.
41:20I'm kind of like...
41:21No, it just sounds insensitive from a friend.
41:23You don't have to be a therapist.
41:24I mean, listen, I want you to be honest, and that's fine.
41:26But don't you, like, in some form agree with me?
41:30With what?
41:31That it's better to just, like, not give a shit?
41:36I'm surprised that you actually said that.
41:39You're telling me that you just don't want to friggin', like, deal with it or whatever the fuck you're saying?
41:45I don't even know what the fuck you're saying.
41:46No, I'm saying I feel like you don't need to be crying about what Hillary fucking said.
41:50Hillary is a representation of everything I dealt with friggin' growing up and friggin' being invalidated and not being seen and being shut down.
42:00And if I fucking was too much, chaos would erupt.
42:04So when chaos erupts, I go into fight or flight mode.
42:08I don't feel comfortable at this point even crying in front of you anymore because I don't want...
42:13It's so dramatic.
42:15It is hard for me when someone is, like, overly dramatic.
42:19Honestly, don't even worry about it.
42:21I just need to go because I'm going to go be really sensitive right now.
42:26It's definitely uncomfortable that Maria puts so much pressure on our friendship.
42:30You know, sometimes I feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
42:34I just don't know if I can be the kind of friend that she needs right now because she really needs a lot of compassion.
42:41But I feel like tears should happen more behind closed doors than out in the open.
42:51I can't.
42:52I can't.
42:58I can't.
43:06I can't.
43:14I can't.
43:22I'll see you next time.
43:52.
44:22.
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