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00:00Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, when you see me out, tell me how they feel, tell me how they feel, don't nobody else, know the real deal, used to be something, when it first began, now we just pretend.
00:24The party theme is a 1920s theme.
00:30Hello beautiful, hi, I love this, you look gorgeous.
00:59One, one, one, one, one, my air kisses.
01:02It's such a beautiful night.
01:04Nice cuckoo.
01:05Wow.
01:07Oh, how wonderful.
01:09You are so talented.
01:11This party is like the Great Gatsby meets Palm Beach Opulence, and it's to celebrate the 100th anniversary of Addison Meisner.
01:21The blueprint of Palm Beach is built on the work of Addison Meisner.
01:25I used to visit Palm Beach with my family as a little girl on spring break, and I felt like I was in a magical place.
01:31This dude did a good job.
01:32Oh my God, I'm so glad I saw you.
01:34I'm going to see you tomorrow.
01:35My hair's got so much hairspray in it, I'm going to take out somebody's eye.
01:38It's like a helmet.
01:40Honestly, the NFL wants to study this for like the impact, shock of work, Jarbson.
01:44Coco and I share a passion for architecture, and she said when they were sitting in their meeting for the Boca Raton Historical Society, she was like, um, we need to get tumbles.
01:56So it's a big deal that I'm co-hosting this with Coco.
01:59You know, it's a big step up for me.
02:00Usually I show up as the DJ, and this time, like, my name is on it.
02:05I just graduated to like the bigger table in the lunchroom.
02:08I got to make sure now, like, you know, I don't pull out a smelly tuna sandwich.
02:12Like, you know what I mean?
02:15Are they going to poop on me?
02:16Oh, hi!
02:18Oh, Coco!
02:20Oh my God, it's eating my hair.
02:21They look good on you.
02:22Oh my God, you're getting the white one.
02:23Are they going to poop?
02:28As long as it doesn't poop on my head.
02:30Addison Meisner was known for basically going around with a parrot and a monkey everywhere he went.
02:36So here we are with the most expensive hairstyles.
02:39Literally risking our hair lives with parrots on our heads on the name of, like, cool party pics to be posted on Instagram.
02:47Welcome to Palm Beach.
02:48Okay, ladies.
02:49Do you want to get in a picture really quick?
02:52Sure.
02:52Oh my God, I love this.
02:53Wait, Maria, one more picture.
02:54I'd love to.
02:55I'd love to be on theme.
02:57Get in the picture and then we'll talk about it.
02:58Can you, someone go on this side?
03:00Hillary and I have a complicated relationship.
03:02She doesn't really see me on the same level as her.
03:05But I am not going to miss an opportunity to invite her to an event where I am co-hosting.
03:09And let her see that, guess what?
03:10I too can throw a really freaking glorious over-the-top Palm Beach event.
03:14Okay?
03:14And guess what?
03:15We got a monkey, bitch.
03:17And a parrot.
03:18This is going to be epic right here.
03:20We are epic, darling.
03:21Yes.
03:22Coco is just a lovely, lovely, lovely person and friend.
03:26So I'm not here for Maria.
03:28I'm here for Coco.
03:29He's not about to poop, right?
03:36Pretty.
03:37Oh, wine sip.
03:38That's it.
03:39You smell so good.
03:41Do I?
03:41I like so...
03:42Potpourri.
03:43No, I don't know.
03:44You smell like fresh.
03:46Let me see.
03:48I smell like Palm Beach in Bad Decisions.
03:50Oh.
03:51You can't stay long?
03:52No, I'm sorry.
03:54I have another event.
03:55A huge event.
03:56700 people.
03:57Great Gatsby theme for the veterans.
04:00Oh, I wish you were staying with me.
04:02Hi.
04:03It's funny.
04:03I did this thing till I got like...
04:04You look so great.
04:05I hear Romina.
04:07Why is she screaming?
04:08Does she want all eyes on her?
04:10Hi.
04:12See how loud she is?
04:13I saw you from the back.
04:14I didn't realize it was you.
04:14She's screaming.
04:14We hear her from here.
04:16Okay, sexy lady.
04:18Are you serious right now?
04:21Now, she'll tell me...
04:22She's still screaming.
04:23We hear her.
04:24She will tell me tomorrow I wasn't screaming.
04:26Oh, there.
04:27You look so cute.
04:29That's her thing.
04:31Romina is so loud all the time.
04:33Roman.
04:34Roman.
04:35I'll have a tequila.
04:36Oh, my God.
04:39Don't go.
04:41Where have you been hiding?
04:43Put my song on.
04:44I want to dance.
04:45Oh, hello.
04:47I'm a jungle woman.
04:50She can be a little embarrassing.
04:52Did you see the update that came out for the invite for her party?
04:55Oh, I'm very disappointed about the invite.
04:58I do want to talk to her about it, but I'm very, very disappointed.
05:03You don't mention the charity.
05:04Read it to me again.
05:06I forget.
05:07I'm so excited to celebrate my birthday with you.
05:10If you're thinking of bringing a gift, I'd kindly prefer cash gifts.
05:14Terrible.
05:14Exclamation mark.
05:15You don't say, please bring me cash.
05:17Oh, my God.
05:18It's like people are going to say, what, are you broke?
05:21Also, in the spirit of giving, I'm partnering with two amazing charities close to my heart.
05:26I encourage everyone to donate a little something to the one that resonates the most,
05:30and I'll be sharing more with you at my party.
05:32Three people said something to me today since that update came out.
05:35And one person called me and said, Rosalyn, she is persona non grata in Palm Beach.
05:42Oh, my gosh.
05:43Wait, what does that mean?
05:47Oh, Marie, I love you.
05:49Persona non grata means she's a person not welcome.
05:53I thought persona non grata was like a cheese.
05:56I really did.
05:58It sounds like grated cheese.
06:01Hi, beautiful.
06:02Wow, look at you.
06:04Now, this is Art Deco, 1920s, magnificent.
06:09I love you.
06:10You literally liked this gown.
06:13Meisner.
06:14He's iconic for his architecture.
06:17It's all the architecture here.
06:19It's all the architecture on the side.
06:22Gail's always dressed perfect.
06:24Does she know about the text message, the update for the party?
06:28Unfortunately, you told me people sent it to you that Romina asked for money.
06:32Her party.
06:33For cash.
06:34I read that invitation.
06:34I want cash, she wrote.
06:36I have never in my life.
06:40I feel like a bride.
06:41You do look like a bride.
06:43Here comes the bride.
06:43I feel like I need to position you.
06:45Dressed in blue.
06:46That is not one area of the theme of the party.
06:53No.
06:54It's not 1920s.
06:56It's not 1920s.
06:58It's modern.
06:59It's Grecian.
07:00Grecian.
07:01Yes, it's Grecian.
07:02It's Grecian.
07:04I didn't feel Grecian.
07:05So, um, I was just mentioning to Roslyn and Gail that the text blast that you sent out for the invite this week regarding the charities.
07:14So, first of all, naming the charities would have helped because I don't think you'll get much donations, like, not putting them in the actual blast.
07:22Okay.
07:22But more importantly, it's not appropriate to ask for gifts, or especially cash.
07:28I don't care.
07:29It's a little not tactful.
07:31That's when I realized that this man made a suggestion.
07:33You should have never asked for money.
07:34I said gifts are not necessary.
07:36I know that.
07:37But much appreciated.
07:38But in lieu of gifts.
07:40Cash, because I knew my friends wanted to bring me stuff, but I don't want anyone to bring me.
07:46Well, it looks like you're doing a go Instagram fund me.
07:51I just feel defeated.
07:52These girls are just picking on me at this point.
07:54You're not dressing correctly.
07:56You're too loud.
07:57You are not right with, you know, with asking for cash for your presents.
08:03And as much as I want to fit in, I still want to be me.
08:06I don't want to be molded into someone else.
08:08I feel like I need to understand if the friendships with these women is important enough, and if it really is what I need in order to be successful.
08:19You know, is this group who I really need, or can I do it without them?
08:23I think we should just diffuse for a second.
08:26We'll talk about it later.
08:27Let's just let it go.
08:28Well, I love you.
08:29I love all the air kisses.
08:31Honestly, I've never air kissed somebody so much more before in my life than Gail.
08:35Literally.
08:36Mwah, mwah, mwah.
08:37I'll be back.
08:38This is a Palm Beach thing.
08:39I don't know why we air this.
08:40Are you an American or are you a Russian?
08:42I'm a Russian-American.
08:44And you can't take away from, like, my culture.
08:47Yeah, I know, but my culture has a culture.
08:49I want to make me feel guilty about my culture.
08:50I adopted to the American culture of what is the proper.
08:53I am a proper.
08:54What is the proper?
08:56It's my birthday, but I am very nicely adding charities, too.
09:00But this is not a charity event.
09:02This is my birthday party.
09:03But then why did you put the charities on it, then?
09:05At all.
09:05Because I don't.
09:06You don't have to.
09:06Because I wanted to.
09:07You shouldn't have put the charities on.
09:08To give back.
09:09If somebody wants to give back, yes, I am.
09:11You're not giving back.
09:13Ask them to just donate it to the charities.
09:15We're just fucking repeating ourselves this morning.
09:17Sorry.
09:18No, you're right.
09:19She doesn't want to listen.
09:21Ugh.
09:22Really fucking.
09:23I'm so annoyed.
09:26She's really mad at me.
09:27It's okay.
09:28It's coming from a good place.
09:31It's coming from a very good place.
09:32We're all trying to help her.
09:34If you're going to give me a gift, bring me cash.
09:36What happened?
09:36Somebody said to them?
09:37Yeah, they're telling me that I'm so fucked up.
09:40If we're telling her you don't do that in Palm Beach,
09:42then you just don't do that here.
09:43Obviously, everyone wants to bring you a gift on your birthday.
09:46It's your birthday.
09:46People are going to bring you a gift, right?
09:48Yeah.
09:50I believe she's talking about us to the hostess.
09:53Oh, is she talking about us?
09:54Very inappropriate.
09:56I'm just like, ugh.
09:57Like, why?
09:57We know you.
09:58We didn't think anything of it.
10:00Apparently some people did.
10:01I knew you were going to get shit,
10:02and I was like, when I see her,
10:04I need to tell her I'm looking at her.
10:05I'm like, I had to walk away from that.
10:07I've never walked away from a conversation.
10:09Romina needs to be careful,
10:10because sometimes what happens outside of the club
10:13is more important than what happens inside the club.
10:15You just can't be flapping your frigging dress wings
10:17and screaming at the top of your lungs about the cash.
10:21You want to invite us to your house?
10:22You can scream as loud as you want.
10:23Don't do it here.
10:25Because now you're sitting on my table.
10:28Cash, please, she wrote.
10:30Cash, please.
10:31Please, tell her.
10:32No rights.
10:33I tried to tell her not to answer cash,
10:36and she exploded at me.
10:37What did she say?
10:39You're taking some heat right now?
10:41I am.
10:41I'm not as, you know, offended as the other people.
10:46I think it's funny.
10:48Okay.
10:49Cash.
10:50My friends will not be offended by that message.
10:54If you're offended by that message,
10:56then you are not my friend,
10:57and you don't know me.
10:59I think you're right.
11:01You meant well.
11:02I think Kale Brophy is a phony.
11:05I know it might sound mean,
11:06but nobody really likes her,
11:08and nobody really wants to be around her.
11:10She's so against Romina asking for cash.
11:13I just want to cut her right down.
11:16You know, so it's like more fun for me
11:18to stick up for Romina at that point
11:20than it is to agree with Kale.
11:22I think you're adorable.
11:24Oh, thank you.
11:24And you know what?
11:26Aw.
11:27I would just forget.
11:29I was laughing.
11:33Ah.
11:34Good evening, everybody.
11:35For those of you who I haven't met,
11:37my name is Maria,
11:39and I'm delighted to be a part
11:40of this wonderful celebration
11:42alongside my dear friend, Coco.
11:44I hope everybody's gotten themselves warmed up
11:47with a cocktail.
11:49This evening supports
11:50the Boca Raton Historical Society.
11:53I need, like, an order or something
11:55before I paint,
11:56because now I'm drinking.
11:57I can't drink without food.
11:59There's nothing to eat.
12:00No.
12:01What's there?
12:02What's fake?
12:03Yeah.
12:04She's still alive.
12:05Dedicated to preserving
12:07and sharing the rich history of our city
12:09through exhibits, education,
12:11and community programs.
12:13There's nothing to eat.
12:14I'm really...
12:15I can't do that.
12:19I can't.
12:20They're not serving any food.
12:22There's no past hors d'oeuvres.
12:24Major faux pas.
12:26I was about to roast one of the parrots.
12:28I was so hungry.
12:29Ah!
12:30And his signature style
12:32is woven into so many
12:33of the iconic buildings
12:35that define Palm Beach
12:36and Boca Raton,
12:37and it's a big part
12:39of what made me fall in love
12:40with this area
12:41and the whole reason
12:41why I moved here.
12:42Woo!
12:49Okay, well, let's go.
12:51Should we go?
12:52Like, seek out some food?
12:53Oh, see.
12:54Sorry, you were stepping on me.
12:55It's okay.
12:55Yeah.
12:56I was worried about that.
12:58I rode here with Hillary.
13:08Okay.
13:10And we had a long, long talk.
13:14You know, even though
13:14you don't know each other that well,
13:16but, you know,
13:17it doesn't matter about
13:18that he said, she said,
13:20whatever it is.
13:20I just feel like she came strong.
13:21I just feel...
13:22And she feels the same way about you.
13:23Yeah, like, where is she?
13:24Like, bring her.
13:25I'll talk to her.
13:26I don't know. Let's get her.
13:27Hillary!
13:28Okay.
13:30We have a beautiful view.
13:31First and foremost,
13:33how was the wedding?
13:34I heard it was beautiful.
13:35I talked to Rosalind.
13:36She said it was beautiful.
13:37It was a beautiful night.
13:39And I know that you wanted to talk,
13:40and I really...
13:41I didn't want anything to overshadow it,
13:43so I was like,
13:44I just wanted you to have the wedding
13:46and for it to be beautiful,
13:47and then I knew that we would, like,
13:48talk afterwards.
13:50I think we've had a lot of miscommunications.
13:54Well, but this is why...
13:55This is why I didn't understand it,
13:56because I felt like...
13:57I started thinking back,
13:58and I'm like,
13:58I really don't feel like there was any time
14:00that I really came for you.
14:02And I just felt like at some point,
14:03it just became, like,
14:04a lot of criticism back
14:05as to how I was conducting myself.
14:08The only thing I really actually said to you
14:10was about the language,
14:13and I said it very nicely and genuinely.
14:16What I don't think you realize
14:18is that I have feelings, too,
14:22and you said a lot of really mean things to me,
14:24like undercutting mean things,
14:26and maybe you don't even realize it.
14:27No, I did, after the fact,
14:29because I was hurt.
14:30I own it 100%.
14:32Okay.
14:32So you know what I want to hear?
14:33I was like, really mean.
14:34Okay, I'm going to apologize to you.
14:35And who's all?
14:36I'm going to apologize to you 100%,
14:37but I'm just letting you...
14:38And I was hurt that you wouldn't even
14:40speak to me over the phone,
14:41and I was like,
14:42how are we ever going to be friends
14:43if I can't even call you?
14:44Because I felt like it came after
14:46a lot of stupidness.
14:46But sometimes people don't feel like talking.
14:47I didn't feel...
14:48Listen...
14:48Do you know what I mean?
14:49Sometimes people don't feel like talking.
14:50Can I say something?
14:51Can I say something?
14:52And so I want to feel safe around my friends.
14:54I don't want to feel like
14:55my back up's against the wall.
14:56So listen, if we're going to start fresh,
14:58bring it.
14:59Because I truly...
15:00There are things about you
15:01that I truly really do like.
15:03And I have this Marie all the time.
15:05If I could have this Hillary.
15:07Yes.
15:08Definitely thanks to me,
15:10this is a step in the right direction.
15:12They're at least having a conversation.
15:14Are you like the Henry Kissinger of Palm Beach?
15:16Do you deserve a Nobel Peace Prize?
15:20I think I am the Henry Kissinger of this group.
15:25Yeah, I do deserve a Nobel Peace Prize.
15:28Okay.
15:29I was looking for you bitches.
15:31I just...
15:31We're closing.
15:32I literally walked the entire house.
15:32We're closing one last thought.
15:35Before you...
15:35No, just say, don't move.
15:36I'm just saying that I was looking for you.
15:37So I just want to say one thing.
15:38Can we both just try to reset
15:39and lead with kindness?
15:40Yes, this is a reset.
15:41Okay.
15:42That's all I want to try.
15:43Look at Ramina.
15:44Success!
15:45Again!
15:47I just want to be nice.
15:48I can't take any not niceness.
15:49Like, honestly.
15:50Me either.
15:51Because I've become like bitchy lepew.
15:52You think you're bitchy lepew.
15:54I'm bitchy.
15:55No, she's like, no, you're not.
15:56I bet I called you that behind your back.
15:57Sorry.
15:57I can't believe I got home last night and you two were like, he was drunk and...
16:19Oh, for every one glass that I have, he has three.
16:22I'm older than you.
16:23Ah, he's older than me.
16:25He looks...
16:25Does he look older?
16:26No, I look older?
16:27Who looks older?
16:27You both look very young.
16:30I haven't spent time with the two of you together my entire life.
16:35You know that.
16:36You know why?
16:36It's crazy that we're kind of like...
16:37You're looking for trouble now.
16:39We were married and then I got pregnant and I was reading the book, Our Bodies, Ourselves.
16:44That was the Bible for all the hippies.
16:46We were hippies.
16:47Long story short, we get to the hospital and there was no bed.
16:51So the doctor goes, remember in the book, Rona, where they tell you how the Chinese women in the rice patty, they go like this?
16:59He goes, I want you to do that.
17:02Then he checks me standing up to see how dilated I am standing up.
17:06Puts his finger.
17:07And then he goes, we need a bed now.
17:10And they said, we have to shave you.
17:12I said, no, you don't.
17:13You're not...
17:13I know my rights.
17:14I don't have to be shaved and you can't.
17:16So, so...
17:18Then he said, okay, when I say push, then you push.
17:22Three pushes.
17:23Three pushes.
17:24And you were out and I had an orgasm.
17:27I said, yes, this is...
17:30This is so beautiful.
17:32You're so crazy.
17:33My parents have been divorced since I'm two years old.
17:37My mother was a very young single mother, but we were very close.
17:42My father was absent.
17:43I didn't have my daddy when I was young.
17:46I think girls need their daddy.
17:48But today, they are living in my house in the same room.
17:53Like, who would ever believe that that would happen?
17:57And then 17 years later, your brother.
17:59I only married Tunisian men.
18:00You know that.
18:01Maybe you'll marry him again.
18:04I don't think either one of us want to get married again.
18:07No?
18:07We'll just fuck.
18:08My relationship with my parents growing up was not easy.
18:16I had a very hard childhood because I felt that my father's third wife was not very nice to me.
18:22And Kiki always took her side.
18:25Always.
18:27Emotionally, it made me feel completely alone.
18:30So this is like a dream come true to have both of you here with me.
18:38My significant other and father of my child is David Cohn, former baseball player, five-time World Series winner.
18:46I mean, I could go on and on.
18:48David is always on the road traveling, especially during baseball season.
18:52So I lived my life pretty much as a single mother, just like my mom did.
18:57Okay.
18:58What a gorgeous day.
19:00We need some wine now.
19:02Wine?
19:02No, no.
19:02You had enough wine.
19:03Here we go.
19:04Never enough.
19:05That's enough.
19:05No.
19:06I don't think you can take a break today.
19:09I never want Sammy to feel abandoned by his dad.
19:12So I always make sure that they spend quality time together when David is around.
19:17Look what your sperm did back when we...
19:21See what I did?
19:21Look at this.
19:22Look at that.
19:23And I was sleeping.
19:24It seemed to me you were awake.
19:26Oh my God.
19:28Can you believe that I came from these two hippies?
19:33You didn't bring your bathing suit.
19:35We could have jumped in.
19:36He goes skinny dipping.
19:37See?
19:38Yeah.
19:40More money, no problem.
19:42Doing what I always do to shop on.
19:45More power, no problem.
19:47Let's keep my friends close to any problem.
19:49Every day is a good day.
19:51I've been tired because I already got payday.
19:53More money, no problem.
19:55Doing what I always do to shop on.
19:57Come on in.
20:05Come on in.
20:10Aw, how are you?
20:11You look gorgeous.
20:13Is my outfit Palm Beach for you?
20:16Absolutely.
20:17I love that skirt.
20:18It is.
20:19What are we doing?
20:20Where are we going?
20:21Why don't we just sit outside?
20:22It's so nice out.
20:23Cece has to stay in.
20:24Cece has to stay in.
20:25Mango juice?
20:26Mango juice?
20:27You like mango?
20:28I do like mango.
20:29Me too.
20:30Let me have your glass.
20:32I also like sometimes do like mango mimosas.
20:35Ooh, that would be good.
20:36Cheers.
20:37Yeah, it's really good.
20:38Cheers.
20:47Yeah, it's perfect.
20:48It's not like not too sweet.
20:49Ooh.
20:50Yes.
20:51Yes.
20:52Yes.
20:55So the party was fun.
20:57Yeah.
20:58At the end, Hillary and Maria were hugging and making up.
21:01Oh my God, I love that.
21:02I know.
21:03I was like success again.
21:04That's how I felt.
21:05Mm-hmm.
21:06So, um, about the party.
21:09Yeah.
21:10Can I?
21:11Like I need to, I feel like I need to explain myself.
21:12Sure.
21:13A little more.
21:14Great.
21:15Because I don't feel like I was able to get a word out with Gail.
21:18Just like I felt like I was being attacked.
21:21Okay.
21:22And it's very normal to bring money for birthdays.
21:27Like that's their gift.
21:28This is like how I was raised.
21:30What my mom engraved in my head.
21:32Because nobody wants to go home carrying bags and things.
21:35You know?
21:36Okay.
21:37So I hear you.
21:38But I also heard it from Maria.
21:40And she said that the people from her charity saw that note right away
21:46and said something to her immediately.
21:48Like, oh my gosh, what a faux pas.
21:50I'm attaching charities to my birthday and making it a part of my party.
21:53They should be thankful for that.
21:55And as much as I would love to donate $50,000, because that's how much it's costing me,
22:01I just can't right now.
22:02I have three children.
22:03But basically you're saying, well, then the gifts can go towards covering the cost of the party.
22:09Yes.
22:10I think Romina's logic that her cash gift is going towards the money she's spending on her party
22:17is just really bad.
22:19It is not something you say out loud in Palm Beach.
22:23I don't think Romina's broke.
22:25I don't think she's broke.
22:27I think that maybe when somebody is not very generous,
22:30then maybe they want the money from your gifts to cover the party.
22:34Look, do you care about the charities at all?
22:38Because I do think that we could maybe smooth over the cash by writing.
22:44Additionally, I love the great team.
22:47If you would join me in caring about veterans' lives,
22:52I would deeply appreciate a contribution in my honor.
22:55No, I don't feel like I have to do anything.
22:58But you do know that Palm Beach is a different kind of place.
23:03And that's fine.
23:04So maybe, you know, maybe they don't need me in Palm Beach.
23:07You want a little more?
23:08Okay.
23:09I mean, that's fine too.
23:10Like, I just have to be true to myself at the end of the day.
23:12Yeah.
23:13I think you should be true to yourself.
23:14And if the whole Palm Beach thing is not for you, then it's not for you.
23:19Well, if they can't accept me for who I am, I can't be someone completely I'm not.
23:23Otherwise, I won't be happy.
23:24When Donald Trump saw me, he was very accepting and definitely took a photo.
23:28Well, you looked beautiful that day, you know?
23:31And as far as Gayle, she was pretty adamant that she feels you were very disrespectful to her.
23:37And she feels like you don't like her and you don't want her advice and you don't listen.
23:42And I hate to tell you one other thing.
23:44I know you were trying to help her.
23:46Um, she was very offended about the hair person, like you sent her a hair person.
23:52Just telling you.
23:53For her benefit.
23:54Okay.
23:55And that's fine.
23:56I texted Gayle my hairdresser's number because he creates wigs and I feel like Gayle should get a better wig.
24:06It doesn't look natural.
24:07It doesn't.
24:08And then it moves around her head and she just looks, I'm sorry, but it looks ridiculous.
24:13Are you okay?
24:14Did you get hurt?
24:15Oh, no.
24:16You know what?
24:17That was so kind of you.
24:18Hold on.
24:19Here, use it for your face.
24:20Do this.
24:21Do this.
24:22Yeah.
24:23Why does the queen of the world have a shitty wig?
24:25It doesn't make sense in my head.
24:26I think you should have a better wig.
24:28I am 100% certain that Kim Kardashian would never wear that wig.
24:33I just know that the price that she paid, she can get a phenomenal wig.
24:38I mean, that wig was over $4,000.
24:40But at the end, it's not always about the price, right?
24:41I think she looks beautiful, though.
24:42I really do.
24:43I know, but I think she looks beautiful.
24:45And that's very sweet of you.
24:46Personally, I really do.
24:47No, I really do.
24:48But Gayle is the grand dame of Palm Beach.
24:51And if she says she's done with you, she has the power to just, like, blackball someone.
24:58Yeah.
24:59And she has very powerful friends who also can do that.
25:03I do know people who have been blacklisted from clubs, parties, or events in Palm Beach.
25:10And they don't live here anymore.
25:12They felt helpless, very isolated.
25:15Trust me, when you're done, you're done.
25:17I don't want you to not be invited somewhere.
25:23Mm-hmm.
25:24I do what I want cause I gotta like that, gotta like that, gotta like that.
25:33Yeah, I go where I want cause I gotta like that, gotta like that, gotta like that.
25:38Yeah, I do what I want cause I gotta like that.
25:41Okay, let me put my teabag in.
25:43I gotta teabag these for Romina.
25:47Hello.
25:48Hi.
25:49Come on in.
25:50Oh, my God, it's raining.
25:51Andrea, my therapist, helps me work through expressing myself.
25:56So I'm taking Romina to therapy because I need to get to a better place with her
26:01because I don't want the friendship to stay where it is.
26:04Couples go to therapy, right?
26:06That's how it saves relationships, okay?
26:08So why not bring your best friend?
26:10Like, bitches get into fights.
26:12They stop talking.
26:13And then 20 years later, it's like, oh, I don't talk to that bitch anymore.
26:16Had they gone to therapy, they could've salvaged the friendship.
26:1950% of marriages end in divorce anyways.
26:21I mean, a lot of times your friends are more worth keeping around.
26:24You could sit here if you'd like.
26:27Sit next to me.
26:28Oh, God.
26:29So then this way, if I need to strangle you, you're close.
26:30I'm just kidding.
26:31I'm nervous.
26:32Oh, my God, I cannot believe that we're in therapy for this right now.
26:35There is no way that this is going to help the situation.
26:38Let's kind of get some framework for what you hope to accomplish and something that you want to cover in your time together today.
26:49Okay.
26:50You know, I don't consider a lot of people close to me, but the people that I do consider, like, very close and intimate to me, I want to know that I can trust them.
26:58So, like, for you not to say to me, like, you cry too much, I expect to hear that from somebody like friggin' Hillary or somebody like whatever, but to hear that from you, that, like, is hurtful.
27:10Well, it's not like I wanted to hurt you.
27:13It's more of, like, I have been told, like, as a kid, like, oh, don't cry.
27:18Like, toughen up.
27:19Be tough.
27:20And that's just, like, how I was raised, basically, to, like, be tough.
27:24I completely agree that crying feels better, and sometimes it's necessary to let out your emotions.
27:31I just feel like that's something that's, like, for when you get home and you cry out.
27:36In private.
27:37In a more private setting.
27:39The most memorable time where I held in my tears was middle school, was when, you know, kids would make fun of me.
27:46I remember one of the boys in English class pulled out a book, and it was a picture of a monkey.
27:55And he goes, oh, look, it's Robina.
27:58Because the monkey's hairy, and so is Robina.
28:01And the whole class started to laugh, and I just, like, brushed it off as if it's no big deal.
28:07And it was very hurtful, but I didn't let them see my weakness.
28:12I went home, and then I cried, and I got over it.
28:16It made me stronger.
28:19I feel like she blows things out of proportion.
28:22Then you make things bigger than they need to be.
28:24I feel like I'm being minimized.
28:25I don't want to take away from, you know, her big deals, but I do feel like you make a lot of big deals.
28:30I feel like the friendship is not real, and it's not as serious as I want it to be, because I feel like we keep resetting.
28:40I feel like we come out the gate, something happens, and then instead of working through it, like...
28:46On the contrary, I think, like, friends are the kind of people that they can have an argument, and the next day they can go back to, like, hugging.
28:51No, she goes back to the start line.
28:53She doesn't work through it.
28:55Can we go back to an argument?
28:57I've never, like, worked through things with friends.
28:59I just...it's not like that.
29:01I don't know.
29:02Can I...wait.
29:03Pause.
29:04Are you with me, Maria?
29:05I can't tell.
29:06Yeah? You here?
29:07Mm-hmm.
29:08Okay.
29:10On her side, she gave you clues that there's something going on for her that is all her and isn't really specific to you, and that is, hey, I really don't like conflict.
29:25Did you hear her say that?
29:26Mm-hmm.
29:27She didn't say it the way I just said it.
29:28But she said, I don't do this.
29:29I've said that many times in those words, too.
29:32Maybe relationships are not the strong point for conflict for her.
29:39She's crying.
29:40It's, like, really stressful being your friend, honestly.
29:44Okay, can you tell us what's going on?
29:46All I hear is, like, my mom.
29:48I just feel like my mom friggin' denied my whole friggin' childhood that any of that ever happened.
29:53Well, can you imagine how much pressure there is?
29:55So in that moment, she hears...
29:56I'm a friend, like...
29:57No, but it's not.
29:58But listen, there's stuff from your childhood.
29:59It reminds me of your mom that they're horrible.
30:00There is stuff from her childhood that makes her the way she is, and I don't fucking vacate it.
30:05Like, you tell me how you are because of how your parents were in this and that.
30:08And you don't see me fucking taking off on you.
30:10I sit.
30:11I listen.
30:12I don't know.
30:13Like, I'm just...
30:14Maybe I have more tolerance than you do.
30:16Like, I feel like anything I do, somehow I fuck it up with you.
30:19It's like walking on eggshells next to you.
30:21Like, how are you supposed to build a friendship like that?
30:24I can't be friends with somebody that can't accept all of me, but I also don't want to lose the friendship.
30:29I'm feeling frustrated because I feel like, due to the relationship that she has with her mother, she kind of, like, has me to, like, fill that void in a way.
30:41And I can't be her mother.
30:42I have enough kids, and a husband, who's basically another kid.
30:45And as much as I love her, I will definitely be a friend to her, but I, you know, I can't just be, like, coddling her every time she cries.
30:52Something in our dynamic is happening that's making you feel something that you struggle with, which is abandonment.
30:59Just because she's reacting this way does not mean that she's not invested or that she doesn't care.
31:09Like, you can have conversations with one another.
31:12No, it's hard because she doesn't let me talk.
31:14Well, you did talk today.
31:16Because you were here.
31:17That's why I brought you here, and I feel the same way.
31:21Yes.
31:22So you can say that?
31:23You don't let me talk either, and that's why I brought her.
31:25Okay, we're gonna...
31:26That's crazy.
31:27We both feel the same way.
31:28We're gonna...
31:29And who's talking the whole time?
31:30We are both at the same time.
31:31Yeah, you're talking at each other.
31:33No, it's not me.
31:34It's you, actually.
31:35Because you're just like Roman, and decides that you fucking don't let me talk ever.
31:38I think...
31:39Well, you better learn to put up with us, because you're freaking married to him.
31:42You both dig in and don't listen as great.
31:46No.
31:47You allow your wounds to do the listening.
31:50But maybe if you could approach one another, less forcing to be the version of themselves
31:57that you find most acceptable.
31:59Well, I'm perfect, so it definitely has nothing to do with me.
32:02I think that's how we end.
32:04Okay.
32:05She's totally kidding.
32:08I'm very hurt.
32:09I don't understand why Romina's being so cold.
32:12It feels very cold, and I feel like she's just not concerning herself with the interests of, like, who I truly am.
32:22She doesn't want to see it. She's over it.
32:24I know when I'm not listening, I still heard things, like...
32:30But I feel like no matter what I do with you, like, you get upset, or sound good enough, or you get angry, or whatever it is.
32:37You have all these feelings.
32:39So maybe it feels bigger than it is, to be honest with you.
32:42I think there was, like, two times that I was really in my feelings, and I actually sent you away.
32:47So...
32:48Um, Rosalyn called me a few times. Let me call her.
32:51Hi.
32:54Romina.
32:55Hi, babe.
32:56Hi.
32:57Hi.
32:58How are you?
32:59I'm with Maria.
33:00Hi, girlfriend.
33:01Hi, Maria.
33:02How are you?
33:03You look cute.
33:04How's it going?
33:05Oh, I invited Romina over for a friggin' BF therapy session, and...
33:10She made me do therapy with her.
33:12How'd it go?
33:13It was okay.
33:15Oh, okay.
33:16So, anyway, um, today we don't have to go to the grade team, because there's no reason to really go there in person.
33:25I just feel like, you know, I'm giving you all this advice, and, um, I don't know. It's... I don't like to say anything negative.
33:33That's nice.
33:34I don't know.
33:35But I don't think giving advice is negative.
33:37But that's...
33:38I appreciate all of the advice that you guys are giving me, but I don't have to always agree with it.
33:43But you were yelling at us.
33:45I told you about how we... I thought the invite was, like, not in good taste, and it looked bad.
33:49And I asked my Russian friend, and she said, no, that's so low-class and trashy.
33:55And I said, are you sure...
33:56Oh, please.
33:58I can't believe this is, like, being blown into this fucking proportion.
34:02I've taken all of the advice you guys are saying...
34:04But you're yelling at us in the moment.
34:05Yes, for this, because I feel strongly about it, because I have an opinion about it.
34:10I know, but Romina, listen, let me say this.
34:12In the moment when we're at Coco's house, and you're yelling back, when Lori Simmons is there from the Big Dog Ranch, and Coco's there, and all the people from the committee, I'm sorry.
34:20I can't have it.
34:21Okay, so don't invite me anymore.
34:23If I am such a fucking embarrassment to all of you, then don't fucking invite me anymore.
34:29Seriously.
34:30I'm over it.
34:31You guys are fucking annoying.
34:33Nobody wants you to cry over me now.
34:36We're just saying.
34:37Don't give a shit.
34:39Oh, my God.
34:40I can't.
34:54Fuck.
35:00Can she freaking get out of her car?
35:09First of all, I don't want you driving like this, number one, okay?
35:11I really don't want it.
35:12I don't want to keep talking about this.
35:13Over it.
35:14I know, but listen to me.
35:15You're telling me that I'm embarrassing you.
35:17Meanwhile, everyone else fucking only gives me compliments.
35:19No, no.
35:20That's not what I said.
35:21And says the nicest things.
35:22That's not what I said.
35:23Rosalyn also believes that fucking Gayle is the grand dam.
35:26And if she wants to pretend like she fucking asked someone and make me look stupid,
35:29oh, no, I asked my friends.
35:31That's not what they do.
35:32That's bullshit.
35:33Ask them.
35:34That's what you do.
35:35You bring a fucking card with cash.
35:37Here, can we call my best friend?
35:39Listen, I think that's what they're probably saying.
35:41How about let's fucking call.
35:43If we need to fucking ask these questions.
35:46I just like to say when you told me freaking things are too much sometimes,
35:49this is too much for me, but I'm staying with you.
35:51So just know that.
35:53Diana.
35:54Diana.
35:55Question.
35:56When someone has a party at a Russian restaurant or any restaurant, what do you bring them?
36:02We bring the money, cash money, cause that cash is king.
36:06Why?
36:11Cause this has been the biggest fucking topic of conversation that I put on my invitation.
36:16Gifts are not necessary, cause that's what I fucking put.
36:19If you want to bring me a gift, bring me cash.
36:21I'm apparently the most fucking incompetent fucking bitch for writing this shit.
36:26Am I wrong?
36:27Can you please?
36:28So that they can hear that this is not me being crazy.
36:31So in the Russian culture, it is widely accepted and preferred that we bring cash.
36:38You know, cash is king.
36:40I didn't think it would be this much work to fit into the Palm Beach world, but with all the things that are happening right now, I'm starting to second guess, you know, how much I really want or need this in my life.
36:52At the very least, you're still going to frigging list the charities and make money for the charities.
36:56We don't need to go deep on this and we will work on it.
36:59Can we just put out the back burner for now?
37:00And the only thing I want to ask you is this.
37:02I'm already like, I don't freaking care about these fucking charities right now.
37:06Like I don't fucking want to add them to my fucking party because it's caused-
37:09Why did you do it?
37:10Did you feel like it was going to make you look good or did you really care?
37:12I do care.
37:13Okay, well then still do it.
37:14But obviously everybody else is fucking judging me or fucking telling me how I should care.
37:18I'm telling you that I don't want it to reflect poorly off of me.
37:22That's literally what I just told you.
37:24Don't fucking bring me.
37:26If I'm such an embarrassment, don't bring me.
37:29I've always said to you that I believe in you, you fucking asshole.
37:33I believe in you more than you believe in yourself.
37:35And you know why I do it?
37:36Because frigging I don't believe in myself sometimes.
37:38And I know I'm fucking putting my fucking brokenness on you.
37:40And I know I shouldn't be calling it brokenness, but you're frustrating sometimes.
37:43Like I want to fucking hug you and fucking strangle you at the same time.
37:46But we need to be united.
37:47We need to be on the same page.
37:48I can't.
37:49I don't feel comfortable.
37:50Like listen, it's taking me a while to build this girlfriend.
37:52Don't do this to me.
37:54I don't know if I can take it anymore.
37:56Like I feel like I've done everything I can and I'm still being criticized.
37:59Like I am ready to give up.
38:01And I feel like nobody even like wants me here.
38:03So I don't know if I want to be here anymore.
38:06Maybe I don't need to be a part of the Palm Beach Society.
38:09God damn it.
38:10Oh my God.
38:11What the fuck?
38:12Oh my God.
38:13Oh my God.
38:14Oh my God.
38:15Oh my God.
38:19Oh my God.
38:24Oh my God.
38:26Oh my God.
38:28Oh my God.
38:32Oh my God.
38:34Oh my God.
38:43Oh my God.
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