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00:00:00It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only, but Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago, I told him I had a fling with a woman and he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes.
00:00:31He doesn't love you. That's not what love is. He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:54But that's just not what you said.
00:00:55A couple of weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now, seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:14Oh, my goodness.
00:01:17Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:34Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs, and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:01I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides?
00:02:19What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:24I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:27But...
00:02:27Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me, and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:01These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:04They're brand new.
00:03:06I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:10I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:14My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:17It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:20Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair.
00:03:27It sticks to your skin.
00:03:28You have rashes.
00:03:29You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:32It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria.
00:03:35But it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:03:40So I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:00I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:04and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:08But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:12Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful.
00:04:19Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:21That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen.
00:04:25Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:34That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately?
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:37Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper
00:04:39is on the 29th, so that the divorce
00:04:42becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still
00:04:49married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:50And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:53If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that,
00:04:58oh, you didn't just have a fling
00:04:59with a woman, no, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:04But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:09Not only does he not know that I've been with women
00:05:12for the past 21 years, Daniel doesn't know that I am
00:05:16technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started
00:05:25talking to me, and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:28Because in my heart, I have been free to marry because my ex-wife
00:05:31and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers
00:05:37until now.
00:05:39If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:05:49until we have this conversation.
00:05:51He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried, Mom.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:05It is getting late, and we need to get to get to.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow
00:06:14try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody
00:06:19before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Daniel was to ask you to get married with God,
00:06:30you're in Nigeria, would you keep going against the faith?
00:06:32Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:39I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:59I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:04I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:09Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:25Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:37I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:48We loved to skate.
00:07:50So our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair.
00:07:56And, uh, I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:06I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:09That was just, that was it.
00:08:11He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:19And here it is.
00:08:20I'm done waiting.
00:08:27No more.
00:08:28Hensitating.
00:08:30There ain't nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:43Big four.
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:48Lemonade.
00:08:48Oh, boy.
00:08:51My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old.
00:08:53And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:08:59I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work at a nursing home.
00:09:05And I like my job.
00:09:08Thank you, Emma.
00:09:09You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters.
00:09:15And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:19We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:34American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:38I call them the three-sixes.
00:09:43And it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:51We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55Yeah, it's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:58When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:02Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:06So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:14Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:20Aw.
00:10:21My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old.
00:10:25And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo.
00:10:29It's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:32Must be something.
00:10:33Yeah, it must be something.
00:10:37We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:40And we've been married for about two years.
00:10:45He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:10:51And we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:58Hello, boo-boo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:02Mwah!
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:17we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:23Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:29I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person.
00:11:32But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless,
00:11:41and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:11:47and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:52And I thought if we were married legally,
00:11:54he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:04When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:08I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:11I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox,
00:12:18but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:21When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend
00:12:23the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:31All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers
00:12:34as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:38How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:12:43Absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you
00:12:49lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:54I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:03How could you be married for years
00:13:05and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:09Uh, the whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:12So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Anna Lynn
00:13:20have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:22but work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:25And having a marriage online
00:13:28has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:36When I first met Anna,
00:13:37she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:44Like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:47I've always been feisty.
00:13:50She knows that.
00:13:51And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time,
00:14:01I had to fight to actually speak,
00:14:03to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting
00:14:06more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:10But before I apply for that spousal visa
00:14:13and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another
00:14:18to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:22I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems
00:14:29are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:32And if we can't,
00:14:34I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:36I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:40Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years
00:14:50to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off,
00:14:55but I'm kind of still nervous
00:14:58about what this marriage is going to be.
00:15:02I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:04but there's something else
00:15:05I wanted to, like, talk to you about
00:15:07that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:09What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:15Emma.
00:15:34I wanted to get out for a bit this morning
00:15:58and clear my mind
00:15:59because my night with Emma was horrible.
00:16:02I want to be her husband,
00:16:04but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:07I hope things better today.
00:16:14I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:16Like, I thought I'd be waking up next to him
00:16:19and he would be, like,
00:16:20bringing me coffee in the morning
00:16:21and cuddling with me.
00:16:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:25We've actually
00:16:25just been completely separate.
00:16:30Zia's behavior last night,
00:16:32it's making me a little suspicious,
00:16:34but I'm trying not to just be in my head
00:16:37and overthink things.
00:16:38I want this to be fun
00:16:39and I want us to
00:16:41just focus on
00:16:42the positive.
00:16:44I'm really determined
00:16:45to turn things around.
00:16:46Oh, yeah.
00:17:07Hi.
00:17:09Good morning.
00:17:10Morning.
00:17:11How's your night?
00:17:13This is nice.
00:17:14Really?
00:17:14Yeah.
00:17:16That's it. This is your place.
00:17:18I hope you will like it.
00:17:19Thanks, babe.
00:17:26Hello.
00:17:27Hello.
00:17:32She's adorable.
00:17:35My favorite.
00:17:36Eggs.
00:17:38I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it.
00:17:40I know, I know.
00:17:42Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:44What do you want to start for what?
00:17:46I mean, it wasn't really, like, a good start to my trip.
00:17:50I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:17:53Yeah.
00:17:54That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:17:58Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:00Yeah. Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:03I love the tea here.
00:18:05Okay.
00:18:06Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:09I don't hear you.
00:18:11I don't hear you.
00:18:12I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:13Can you repeat?
00:18:14I don't hear what you said.
00:18:15I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:16For what?
00:18:18For running away from your kiss.
00:18:22And?
00:18:24Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:18:29I mean, I'm sorry yesterday got, like, really dramatic,
00:18:31but I think it was just a long day for me because I was traveling for, like, 20 hours.
00:18:36I know it's difficult.
00:18:37And it was just, like, a lot going on.
00:18:38There was, like, a lot in my mind.
00:18:40Actually, there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:18:46What?
00:18:47What?
00:18:48What is this?
00:18:49What's happened?
00:18:50I was just, like, upset the past couple days because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:07Like, I've been there for five years and...
00:19:09Yes.
00:19:11Well, I got fired.
00:19:17Really?
00:19:19I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm gonna cry.
00:19:21No, no.
00:19:22You don't need this.
00:19:24Listen, listen.
00:19:27I just need a minute.
00:19:30Emma.
00:19:38Sorry.
00:19:39No, no.
00:19:40Don't cry.
00:19:42It's, uh...
00:19:43Because I don't know what I'm gonna do.
00:19:45It's just a word.
00:19:46It's a word.
00:19:47It's uttered.
00:19:49And you don't need to cry for it.
00:19:52So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:54No, don't cry.
00:19:55Don't cry.
00:19:56Okay.
00:19:57Don't cry.
00:19:58Okay.
00:20:05I don't know what I'm gonna do.
00:20:06I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:09It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:11But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14You will find another one more better than your last.
00:20:17Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:22We are together and everything will be good.
00:20:31I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:20:35It was like a tornado.
00:20:37But right now, he's showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:20:41I love you, babe.
00:20:42Yeah, it is.
00:20:43I love you more.
00:20:44What's...
00:20:45What's mean, tornado?
00:20:46Like an earthquake.
00:20:47Like a...
00:20:48Like a natural disaster.
00:20:49So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:20:54Yeah, yeah.
00:20:55That's an amazing example.
00:20:56Yeah, really.
00:21:01My future hubby.
00:21:03Ah.
00:21:04Do you know what that means?
00:21:05No.
00:21:06Can you explain?
00:21:07What's mean?
00:21:08It's short for husband.
00:21:09Really?
00:21:10Yeah.
00:21:11Hubby.
00:21:13One feet.
00:21:14Yeah.
00:21:15Exactly.
00:21:16I can't believe the trees.
00:21:17How beautiful they are.
00:21:18I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:19I'm probably gonna...
00:21:20I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:21I'm probably gonna...
00:21:22I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:23I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:47Love the way you smile.
00:21:52My heart is racing.
00:21:55All right.
00:21:56See you later, Deb.
00:21:57See you later.
00:21:58I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams
00:22:08after seven years.
00:22:10Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:14Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:17Waka waka.
00:22:19Yeah.
00:22:23Oh, this is incredible.
00:22:25Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:22:28Crazy.
00:22:29This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:22:32If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:22:38It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:22:44Oh, man.
00:22:45Glad I'm not driving.
00:22:48But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:22:51Look at that.
00:22:52That thing is pretty good.
00:22:53This is the jeepney.
00:22:54This is locally here in my country.
00:22:56They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with Americans,
00:23:00so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:04Incredible.
00:23:05You can see the big building there.
00:23:07That's the condo.
00:23:08We're gonna stay.
00:23:10I wish I could stay at your place.
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:14Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents
00:23:19said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:23:23When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their
00:23:27daughter, and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd,
00:23:34especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually just meet her.
00:23:42Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:23:45It's their wishes.
00:23:46I can't really go around that, but I'm not paying them money.
00:23:54This is the place.
00:23:55All right.
00:23:56I got it.
00:23:57All right.
00:23:58Charge.
00:24:00Sheena is an extreme foodie, and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:15Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:18Whoa!
00:24:19I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:24:21Oh, my goodness.
00:24:22I can definitely smell him.
00:24:23Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:24:27Don't go for that.
00:24:28Yeah, okay.
00:24:33So, sorry, baby.
00:24:34This is all I could get for you guys.
00:24:37You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:24:40It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:24:44The place is nice.
00:24:45It's pretty.
00:24:46But it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:24:49I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:24:52It feels good.
00:24:53It's your bag, too.
00:24:54Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:24:56It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:24:59If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down, I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:06Sheena.
00:25:07What?
00:25:08This feels more than online right now.
00:25:09Oh, this is.
00:25:10It's making me more nervous.
00:25:11Oh, you don't have to be.
00:25:12I'm hearing with you.
00:25:13Oh, I know.
00:25:14I can see.
00:25:15Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:25:16Oh, yeah.
00:25:17Oh, yeah.
00:25:18Because I got some good stuff here.
00:25:19Excuse me, baby.
00:25:21Boom.
00:25:22What is that?
00:25:23This is something amazing, and I want you to try it on for me, if you want.
00:25:42Wow, what this?
00:25:44What's that thing?
00:25:45What's that? What's that thing?
00:25:47I think it is a cloth that goes on your body
00:25:51and accentuates your sexuality.
00:25:56Oh, that's nice. I love the color.
00:25:59Oh, yeah. That's cool.
00:26:01Guess what? There's even more.
00:26:03What? You have more?
00:26:05I have more.
00:26:07Oh, wow. I love the color.
00:26:09I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:11Wow.
00:26:13To be honest, I feel quite nervous
00:26:15because
00:26:17I am a virgin.
00:26:19But forest makes me feel confident
00:26:21of my body.
00:26:23This is another one for you, in case
00:26:25you want to. Oh, it's pretty. It's cool.
00:26:27It's beautiful.
00:26:29Oh, okay.
00:26:37You're so handsome always.
00:26:39I'm gonna go brush my teeth.
00:26:41Okay. Go for it, my love.
00:26:42Sure.
00:26:44You're anything with them.
00:26:46You know, when I was making, like, sexy talk with her,
00:26:50I was really just trying to, like, put her at ease,
00:26:52make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:26:56I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:00But, to be honest, I'm actually, I'm kind of still nervous about what is in my routine.
00:27:08I mean, I'm, I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off, but, uh, having sex with Sheena, I feel like it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:27:20It, it's, it's, it's just a big deal.
00:27:24I love you.
00:27:26I love you.
00:27:28Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:27:35It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:27:40I still have flaws and imperfections, and so I am nervous that BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:27:49Oh, my God. Here we go.
00:27:51We are in the process of landing, and I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or BeerCon, but I'm excited.
00:28:03So, this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:28:18I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting, for the first time.
00:28:24Everything has to go perfect, so I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:28:31Laura is arriving in Turkey today, and today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:28:40Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:28:44I never saw this big of place.
00:28:48It just feels me.
00:28:53Right now, I'm staying with different friends, sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:00That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:03But the privacy of our place is gonna be nice, because we have a lot of things to discuss face to face.
00:29:11It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:29:27I'm so excited now.
00:29:29I just wanna run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:29:32I'm so excited.
00:29:33I'm so excited.
00:29:34I'm so excited.
00:29:35I'm so excited.
00:29:36I'm so excited.
00:29:37I can leave all my luggage here.
00:29:39Oh.
00:29:40Oh.
00:29:41Oh, my God.
00:29:42She come early.
00:29:43It's slightly cold that I am having a heart attack or I am excited.
00:29:58Yeah, we will see.
00:30:00I am gonna wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:05I think that will be a lot cuter than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:30:12I'm really proud of the progress that I've made over the last 14 months.
00:30:17But I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:30:21And so I am nervous that Birkan won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:30:28And I think that's a cute dress.
00:30:30All right.
00:30:36The woman I love is coming, so I'm thrilled.
00:30:40My hopes are we will get engaged and go to America, live together, and get married.
00:30:47But maybe she will hate me.
00:30:51Nobody knows.
00:30:56This is it?
00:30:57I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
00:31:08Oh, my God.
00:31:09Here we go.
00:31:18Welcome, gorgeous.
00:31:21How are you?
00:31:22Good, how are you?
00:31:23I am good.
00:31:24How are you doing?
00:31:25It was so long.
00:31:26Yeah, I know.
00:31:27I am still thinking about, oh, my God, America.
00:31:30You know?
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:40I think everything's perfect right now.
00:31:44Yeah.
00:31:45That's really sweet.
00:31:46Yeah, that was.
00:31:47I know.
00:31:48I know.
00:31:49Yeah.
00:31:50Yeah.
00:31:53So let's go this way.
00:31:55Okay.
00:31:56These bumps are a pain with suitcases.
00:31:58Yeah.
00:31:59He looks amazing.
00:32:00Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing, which is that dark romance male main character.
00:32:07When you look at her, what do you think?
00:32:08She's perfect.
00:32:09I don't need to look at her.
00:32:11I don't need, because I feel it, you know?
00:32:14I'm complete, so we don't need to see.
00:32:16That's probably the best answer ever.
00:32:24That was, like, the best flight I've ever taken.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Seriously.
00:32:28Yeah.
00:32:29I'm glad.
00:32:30I'm really glad.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:46It's good to see you.
00:32:47You too.
00:32:53I don't know what's happening.
00:32:56It's very awkward right now.
00:33:01I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know, it was, like, great when we first met.
00:33:05He hugged me.
00:33:06He kissed me.
00:33:07And then we sit on this train, and it's like, he doesn't know who I am.
00:33:11And I don't know who he is.
00:33:18I think we're close.
00:33:19I'm hoping that, as time moves forward, that this will turn around, and it will feel more like it did when we were online.
00:33:31But right now, something is off.
00:33:34And it's freaking me out.
00:33:43Anna called me like it were, talking about your brother, your brother.
00:33:47I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:33:52She was just talking about that woman.
00:33:57Uh, yeah.
00:33:59Who is the woman?
00:34:00Who is the woman?
00:34:19This is nice.
00:34:22Really?
00:34:23This is screaming, I failed a pottery class.
00:34:26No, but she doesn't like how you dress, so you gotta do something else.
00:34:29Ah.
00:34:42I think you got some good purchases.
00:34:43Ah.
00:34:44Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:34:47It'll be fine.
00:34:48It's gonna be fine.
00:34:51I'm running some last minute errands with my sister Ashley, because I'm flying to the Philippines in a couple of days to meet my wife for the first time.
00:34:58For the first time in person.
00:35:01I'm excited and I'm super nervous because we've been married for three years.
00:35:06But we've never been in the same room or even the same continent with each other.
00:35:10So, are you all packed up? You ready?
00:35:15Uh, I think I'm as ready as I'm ever gonna be.
00:35:19And, you know, me and Anna's relationship, it's just been this spiraling, like, up and down loop-de-loop rollercoaster ride.
00:35:26But when things are good, I'm, like, really happy to be in a relationship.
00:35:30I think Anna's very funny.
00:35:31Yeah.
00:35:32Like, Anna seems like she's a good time.
00:35:35She's just a lot.
00:35:37Javon, marrying somebody online was actually wild to me.
00:35:44I do think they love each other.
00:35:46But I don't know, like, I wouldn't just call this, like, a normal marriage.
00:35:51This is something I've never seen or heard of before.
00:35:56You know, like, Anna actually called me.
00:36:00You spoke to her?
00:36:02Mm-hmm.
00:36:04She called me, like, at work.
00:36:06I'm working.
00:36:07I'm with customers.
00:36:09And she's just, you know, talking about, your brother, your brother.
00:36:12I don't know what to do with him.
00:36:13Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:36:16And I was like, can't even get her off the phone.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20She was just talking about that woman.
00:36:26Uh, yeah.
00:36:31So who is the woman?
00:36:38So the woman is just, like, a friend of mine that I've known for a long time.
00:36:44We communicate so well, and we can stay on the phone for hours.
00:36:49I think because we're both having problems in our, you know, relationship,
00:36:53it's definitely more easygoing, and it's more positive.
00:36:57So, but what is it that, that Anna's so, like, threatened and bothered by her?
00:37:06Like, what, what is it?
00:37:08Because I feel like I'm missing something.
00:37:10Yeah, I mean, there used to be this, this, this, this small thing between us.
00:37:16But we're better.
00:37:17Oh, so that, so, so, Javon, that's not okay.
00:37:21That is no good.
00:37:22I know, you know, and I'm not.
00:37:23So that's why she's so upset then.
00:37:25Yeah.
00:37:26Me and my friend, we never officially dated, but there was feelings for one another.
00:37:37We lost touch for a while, but I reached out to her because I was going through a rough time in my marriage,
00:37:46and I needed someone that knew me and that understood me.
00:37:51I wasn't trying to hide anything.
00:37:53So I just came out and told Anna Lynn I was talking to this other person.
00:37:58I don't think it's a big deal, but obviously she does because she's extremely pissed off and upset.
00:38:07I'm not saying she don't have a valid reason to be upset, but it's just completely platonic, you know,
00:38:14and she don't have to worry about that.
00:38:17Have you tried to call her?
00:38:20I have, but, you know, she blocked me.
00:38:25For real?
00:38:28She gets so aggressive.
00:38:29See, this is the problem.
00:38:31Like, this is how, this is why I had to go outside of our marriage to talk to somebody else about our marriage,
00:38:40and it shouldn't be that way.
00:38:41Obviously, Anna feels disrespected, and I do get that.
00:38:48I know that she's 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit,
00:38:53but I do feel like he presses her buttons.
00:38:56Javon just needs to say sorry and try and talk to her,
00:38:59and if they don't know how to talk, then they don't need to be married.
00:39:02You're about to see your wife for the first time.
00:39:05You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight.
00:39:09I don't know what the to do.
00:39:11I don't know what to do.
00:39:12I heard some interesting things from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:39:21Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
00:39:26I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:39:31Now, now you're kind of, now you're kind of being really disrespectful.
00:39:35Nice video.
00:39:56Hello, sweetheart.
00:39:57Oh, yeah.
00:39:58hey guys we're gonna go down and have some coffee by the pool so uh we'll be up in a little while
00:40:07later
00:40:09I arrived in the Philippines yesterday and the first night
00:40:39with the woman of my dream Sheena was amazing
00:40:42there's a lot of new and fun things I'm finding out being with Sheena physically I found out
00:41:00there's a night Sheena what and she's kind of grabby oh very very you're very uh into being
00:41:08physical night Sheena you know just finally being able to hold you and be with you and
00:41:17and kiss you it just felt awesome and I know that I talked of a big game last night about
00:41:24sex and everything like that but I really believe that we should um wait you know till we know each
00:41:33other a bit more you know in person I understand my love I really feel like after seven years me
00:41:43coming here to the Philippines and just having sex with Sheena straight up it's not what I want to do
00:41:49yeah I agree to that I just want to get to know you much better we'll know when the time is right
00:41:55I agree to that also probably when my mom's not around yeah
00:42:00I don't need a coat that's for sure ooh nice and cool in here
00:42:15so where exactly are we you're taking us again so it's a Chinatown here Manila actually one of the
00:42:31oldest Chinatown here in the whole world because Chinese people have been trading with the Filipinos
00:42:38before Spanish people arrive Spaniards so there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods
00:42:45I'm ready to eat it all
00:42:48so I got a little curiosity question to ask you guys
00:42:56uh I heard some interesting things you know coming for your from your guys's bedroom last night
00:43:03the little giggles so uh did uh you guys uh do the old uh nookie nookie
00:43:11no no no no no no so why why didn't you guys well just wasn't the right time or place to do that
00:43:27oh okay well you guys can always come and talk to us if you have questions it's not an embarrassing
00:43:36subject to me it's interesting it's life yep and it takes practice to be good at it yeah
00:43:43my parents are just it's a little too much it's a little bit rude and awkward for me
00:43:53I just want to prefer like a privacy between us you know I respect you guys for for waiting and
00:44:01there's nothing wrong with that there are other things that you can do if you guys didn't want to
00:44:06do the nookie nookie there's oral sex there's fondling now now you're kind of being really
00:44:15disrespectful here mom I get it you're trying to be helpful but you're pushing too far
00:44:18you know if we want to talk about sex with you we'll come up and ask about it okay excuse me
00:44:29I thought it was nice that he was defending her honor that's admirable but I was very shocked by
00:44:40Forrest's reaction thank you very much well Forrest out why is this a you know a total 180 from our
00:44:48normal discussions where you're right in there using the same language the same talk saying yeah
00:44:53I'm gonna get into that do that it's drastic night and day I see where this is head oh my god I miss
00:45:00this place feels at home Sheena already has that control that thumb on him let's not forget she was
00:45:09lying to him for years giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future and I
00:45:15don't know if Forrest they'll actually hold her accountable but we need to get some answers
00:45:20you don't need to talk about your past I know I know everything about your life you don't know
00:45:34everything I really want to tell the end about my last engagement because I think it's the only way
00:45:41that we could move forward oh look at the mirrors wait I want to check my outfit here hold that we look
00:46:05cute I can see you can you see yourself I'm excited to go shopping it's always crowded yeah this is an easy
00:46:29place to get lost today I want not to take Emma told me you know I feel so bad because Emma she
00:46:37loves her job I want to make her feel so better and she love shopping so oh look at those bags those
00:46:46are cute the market place in the middle and they have a thousand stores there oh my gosh I love all
00:46:53of these clothes you can find anything you want oh look at these rugs those are nice yes oh wait
00:47:02there's bags let's go look at the bags let's let's let's see what you want oh this is so cute can you
00:47:11hold this I want to look at everything hey look for anything you want I think I like these little
00:47:15wallets these are cute I think I'm gonna buy these three not you me you're gonna get them yeah it's
00:47:26like my gift to you okay give you a kiss nose hair hair kiss maybe is that okay yeah from now on yeah
00:47:35yeah you air kisses whenever I want to kiss you yeah it's really nice to have Ziad offer to buy me things
00:47:45and buy gifts for me that was so romantic because that's never something I've had in the past
00:47:52it's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than I was feeling yesterday
00:47:56where are you taking me babe this it's popular here in Marrakesh what is this
00:48:07what is that what we call them in English yeah snail snail I like don't want that really no
00:48:15it's like traditional I'm not trying no I literally would throw up
00:48:25so delicious that is the grossest thing I've ever seen in my whole life
00:48:29it's a slimy snail and you just suck it down for me it's delicious
00:48:35that's like really gross what's like the weirdest food you've ever tried like snails would be weird
00:48:46for you for me now so for me sushi for example I love sushi yeah it's we are different uh it's
00:48:54are we compatible
00:49:02thank you can you hold my other bag actually what else can we do like while we're here
00:49:08did you like horses I love horses I think we have to choose this one I like the white one
00:49:18just one by one one by one
00:49:23oh my god this is so romantic yeah this is like a romantic love ride
00:49:29this is three kisses you kiss me today
00:49:40I'm happy that we had a better day today
00:49:42yeah me too it was a big difference between this day and last day
00:49:49yesterday was like really hard for me it like brought up old feelings
00:49:52because you know I've like been lying to a lot like in my past like with past boyfriends
00:49:59so when when you kind of lied to me it was like a trigger for me
00:50:04yeah so you don't need to talk about your past
00:50:08your bad experience do you not care about my past no I know you right now not in past so yeah but
00:50:13don't you want to know about my life just like things I've been through like don't you want to
00:50:18know about me yeah I know I know everything about your life you don't know everything
00:50:24no I know everything I know your family I know uh where did you live I know I know but there are
00:50:29things that like I that have happened in my life that you don't know about
00:50:36like we can leave the impasse something passage it's passage
00:50:40I want to be vulnerable I want to share you know details about who I am and my past and I really
00:50:50want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could move
00:50:56forward but for him to shut me down it does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the
00:51:03past because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me
00:51:10that he has something to learn for me
00:51:12since I've gotten to morocco I've just felt really rejected by him
00:51:17and so now I'm just feeling a little concerned about everything
00:51:22I need you to be able to look me in the eye why have you lied to us all along
00:51:32I was so fearful of my parents they would say bad things to me they would say bad things to other
00:51:38OK.
00:51:39And it affects me emotionally, mentally,
00:51:41it drains me every day.
00:51:42Uh-uh.
00:51:43No.
00:51:44I need that direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
00:52:08Hello, Javon.
00:52:21What do you want now?
00:52:24I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow
00:52:26to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:52:29But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week.
00:52:34My sister talked to Anna Lynn, and she actually unblocked me.
00:52:38But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch
00:52:42with a friend I once had feelings for.
00:52:45There's so much riding on this trip.
00:52:48Anna being as angry, it's just not good.
00:52:54Hey, what's going on?
00:52:56What's going on?
00:52:57Ask yourself what's going on, Javon.
00:53:01I mean, you know, Anna, don't be so aggressive.
00:53:06I'm not being aggressive.
00:53:08You told me yourself if we're going to be married,
00:53:12we can't be keeping anyone special from the past.
00:53:18But you're doing it.
00:53:22And I'm not saying that you're cheating on me,
00:53:24but it's like a baby step for any temptation.
00:53:30I'm dealing with so much over here by myself.
00:53:33I'm dealing with your problems.
00:53:34I'm dealing with my problems.
00:53:36And sometimes I don't feel like I'm being emotionally supported
00:53:39by you.
00:53:41So, you know, I kind of felt like I was just a little bit desperate
00:53:45just to be understood and just heard.
00:53:48If you feel like sometimes you can't talk to me,
00:53:56you have siblings, you have a dad, you have a mom.
00:54:01But if your big circle is still not enough,
00:54:05you're American.
00:54:06Get the therapy.
00:54:09I mean, but, like, who can afford therapy right now?
00:54:12She's not taking any accountability that, you know,
00:54:21she played a part in why I reached out to a friend.
00:54:26I need to be able to rely on my wife,
00:54:28but she makes it impossible.
00:54:32Even when I'm, like, at work,
00:54:33and you're going through something,
00:54:35I always try to be there for you emotionally.
00:54:37You know?
00:54:39I try, but I don't see you
00:54:42trying for me.
00:54:43When do you show up for me in that way?
00:54:46Oh, God.
00:54:50Like, hello, I've been waiting for you for six years.
00:54:55I have devoted, invested so much love.
00:55:04If you don't feel like that's understanding now,
00:55:07waiting for you for that love,
00:55:11I don't know what it is.
00:55:20I know you've made, you know,
00:55:22some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long.
00:55:26And I do apologize,
00:55:28and I do take accountability for what I've done.
00:55:33Okay.
00:55:34Okay?
00:55:37So you're going to stop talking to her?
00:55:39I can stop, but can we at least work on our communication?
00:55:51Okay.
00:55:52Okay.
00:55:53That's all I want, boo.
00:55:54That's it.
00:55:55Okay.
00:55:56With Javon coming out to the Philippines,
00:55:58I do feel like I could let go of some negative feelings about this situation.
00:56:06But even though he agreed that he's not going to talk to that woman anymore.
00:56:11Do I believe it?
00:56:16No, not really.
00:56:17So I will definitely talk about this again in person.
00:56:24Do you think we can, like, move past it?
00:56:27Like, when we see each other?
00:56:29I don't know.
00:56:30Maybe.
00:56:31Yeah.
00:56:48Whoa, look at this place.
00:56:50This was a church.
00:56:51Oh!
00:56:521588, man, that is old.
00:56:54It's old.
00:56:55Here, we got some greens here.
00:56:58What's this, you guys?
00:57:02Yes!
00:57:06Yeah, it's precision.
00:57:09Oh, my goodness!
00:57:10We call that fiesta.
00:57:11Oh, yes!
00:57:12That's a culture of a Catholic here in my country.
00:57:15Goodness!
00:57:17Yes, my God!
00:57:18Yeah, it's really cool.
00:57:19Look at this!
00:57:20I decided to take Boris and his family to Chinatown because I'm a Chinese mix.
00:57:30My mom is Chinese descent, so I wanted to show how Chinese culture interbonded with Filipino culture.
00:57:38Do you smell that?
00:57:40Oh, that smells so good!
00:57:41Wow!
00:57:42So this is a place that they make handmade noodles.
00:57:45Why can I eat that air?
00:57:47Hello!
00:57:48Oh!
00:57:49Yesterday, I was quite a little nervous to meet Boris's parents, especially Molly.
00:57:54Okay, thank you!
00:57:55Thank you!
00:57:56There's been a problem between me and Molly, but I'm so glad that she happened to accept
00:58:02me.
00:58:03And I wanted to provide them the best first day here in the Philippines.
00:58:08Yum!
00:58:09Oh, thank you!
00:58:10Slurps up!
00:58:11Slurps up and slurps up, huh?
00:58:12Yeah, actually, that's here in the culture here.
00:58:14If you want to slurp, it means you're eating the good noodles, so that's a good sign.
00:58:17So the loud are the best, right?
00:58:18Yeah, yes.
00:58:19Here I go.
00:58:20Yeah, you are the best, right?
00:58:21Yeah, yes.
00:58:22Here I go.
00:58:23Yeah, you are the king of slurp, slurps.
00:58:27I made sure to get on my glasses.
00:58:29That's the key.
00:58:30This is so good.
00:58:31Yeah.
00:58:32Well, Sheena, I wanted to thank you for your apology yesterday.
00:58:39I mean, that really showed a lot to me.
00:58:44But I did want to ask you about a few things.
00:58:50OK?
00:58:53OK, Mom.
00:58:54I'm listening.
00:58:55And I need you to be able to look me in the eye.
00:58:58And I need you to be truthful with me 100%.
00:59:06You lied to us about giving your parents the money.
00:59:11This was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to America to be a family
00:59:17with us.
00:59:18And these were the plans all of these years.
00:59:22And then for it to just find out now, before we come here, that hasn't been happening.
00:59:31Why have you lied to us all along?
00:59:34I really owe you millions and thousands of explanations I need.
00:59:42I hope you could listen to my situation.
00:59:45The reason why that I happen to give my money to my parents is because being a breadwinner,
00:59:53it's a cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around.
00:59:59I mean, I completely understand giving your parents money, needing to help your family.
01:00:03That's what family does.
01:00:05But my issue with it is that you lie.
01:00:16To be honest, the reason also, that's another reason I was so scared because my parents,
01:00:23my mom happened to guilt-tripping me from time to time.
01:00:28If I don't give them money, she makes me feel that I'm such a selfish person and it hurts me a lot.
01:00:35Okay, but if I'm asking you a direct question, I need that direct answer.
01:00:40And even now, you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
01:00:50Watching Sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful.
01:00:55I'm wanting to step in and defend her and protect Sheena.
01:01:00But at the same time, I don't understand what fear she had of telling me.
01:01:05I was so fearful of my parents.
01:01:09They would say bad things to me.
01:01:11They would say bad things to other people.
01:01:13Okay.
01:01:14And it affects me emotionally, mentally, drives me every day.
01:01:17Uh-uh. No.
01:01:18And it makes me feel so bad.
01:01:19No. No.
01:01:20Sheena, I'm not asking you that.
01:01:23I'm asking you why you did not tell us.
01:01:29I couldn't handle myself anymore because I don't know.
01:01:34Sheena, I can't understand what you're saying.
01:01:37I'm sorry.
01:01:38Oh, my God.
01:01:39I don't know.
01:01:40See, there's your manipulation.
01:01:41With the tears.
01:01:42Please put your tissue down.
01:01:43Please put your tissue down.
01:01:44Please.
01:01:45I'm trying to have Sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable.
01:01:53So even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents, what's the motivation
01:01:58for hiding it?
01:01:59We gotta get answers.
01:02:01Oh, my God.
01:02:02This is really happening.
01:02:03Oh, my God.
01:02:04Oh, my God.
01:02:05Oh, my God.
01:02:06Oh, my God.
01:02:07Oh, my God.
01:02:08Oh, my God.
01:02:09Oh, my God.
01:02:10Oh, my God.
01:02:11Oh, my God.
01:02:12Oh, my God.
01:02:13Oh, my God.
01:02:14I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:02:15I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:02:18She was physical with a woman.
01:02:22My jaw leg and walk.
01:02:24How did you?
01:02:25Mm-hmm.
01:02:26Oh, my God.
01:02:27Oh, my God.
01:02:28Oh, my God.
01:02:29Oh, my God.
01:02:30Oh, my God.
01:02:31Here he is.
01:02:32Awesome.
01:02:33Here we go.
01:02:34Yep.
01:02:35Here goes everything.
01:02:39Oh, my God.
01:02:40Oh, my God.
01:02:41Oh, my God.
01:02:42Oh, my God.
01:02:43Here he is.
01:02:44Awesome.
01:02:45Here we go.
01:02:46Yep.
01:02:47Here goes everything.
01:02:56Oh, my gosh.
01:02:58I'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life, Daniel, in Nigeria for the very first
01:03:04time.
01:03:05What am I doing?
01:03:06I don't know, Mom.
01:03:07What are you doing?
01:03:08What are you doing?
01:03:09Certainly not what I would be doing.
01:03:12It still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women, I'm traveling
01:03:18across the world to meet a man, and I love him.
01:03:23I love him.
01:03:24You're going to see when I come home how excited and happy I am.
01:03:27You're going to see when I talk to you there how happy I am, and you're going to be happy
01:03:31for me.
01:03:33I just, I don't want it to ruin your heart.
01:03:37I'm going to pee my pants.
01:03:38Oh, God.
01:03:39Please don't.
01:03:40Here we go.
01:03:41All right.
01:03:42You remember the rules.
01:03:43Don't get married on the trip even when the divorce comes through.
01:03:44Yes, and I would come clean about everything.
01:03:45It will be a foundation.
01:03:46And if you have questions.
01:03:47I will ask them.
01:03:51I love you.
01:03:52I love you.
01:03:53I love you too.
01:03:54I'm going to miss you so much.
01:03:55Stay safe.
01:03:56Oh, God.
01:03:57This is the biggest risk I've ever taken.
01:03:58Flying across the world to another country, to Nigeria, Africa, to be with a man I have
01:04:04never met before.
01:04:05I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:06Oh, my God.
01:04:07This is really happening.
01:04:08Oh, my God.
01:04:09Oh, my God.
01:04:10Oh, my God.
01:04:11Oh, my God.
01:04:27Oh, my God.
01:04:28Oh, my God.
01:04:29Oh, my God.
01:04:31Oh, my God.
01:04:34I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:35this. I hope Daniel will accept me for everything that I am and who I am and that he will become
01:04:46my sixth and final spouse. Daniel is coming.
01:05:05Daniel is coming.
01:05:35please give me 500 my name is Daniel I am 29 years old I am a Christian from the
01:05:52Igbo tribe we have traditions and we believe in traditions as an Igbo man we
01:05:57love competition we work hard and we have to be honest
01:06:05I grew up very poor sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food my family do the best
01:06:19they can do and I am really close to my family but some years ago I lost my mom before she she died
01:06:27she told me that during war she nearly be killed that a white woman protected her and I have to
01:06:34make sure that I get married a white human so I decided I will do it and that's how I found Lisa
01:06:40this size is 52 years old she lives in Pennsylvania she's a beautiful man she has um she has a good
01:06:52body structure she stick she has bops she has what I want she don't hide anything she supports me
01:07:02financially she makes me feel loved that's why I fell in love with her
01:07:07Oh yeah
01:07:16Yeah, I didn't work in.
01:07:46In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:08:08I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:12One, she vaped. Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:18And three, she was physical with a woman one time.
01:08:23This is the worst.
01:08:33We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:08:37Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:41So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:45She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:08:48But I love us.
01:08:49.
01:08:56I love you.
01:09:02Now that the ancestors are approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:23I'm planning a big surprise for Lisa when I meet her at the airport.
01:09:35I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:39If I marry Lisa to make me change the story of my family, and if I should make it to America,
01:09:45this will change my life to good.
01:09:49I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:03Yes.
01:10:04Oh, it feels like it got colder.
01:10:08It gets cold or gets hot.
01:10:10No straight weather.
01:10:12Wow.
01:10:13Here we are.
01:10:20Oh, we're here?
01:10:22Here you go.
01:10:23I will take this.
01:10:25You're welcome.
01:10:26After all of this excitement and anticipation and buildup of coming to Turkey and meeting
01:10:39Aircon face-to-face, it's starting off a little bit awkward, but I'm still so happy to be finally
01:10:47standing here with him.
01:10:49It just feels so right.
01:10:52I'm excited to see this.
01:10:54Here you go.
01:10:57Oh, you want me to go first?
01:10:58Yeah, of course.
01:10:59Yes.
01:11:00Okay.
01:11:01Oh, my God.
01:11:02This is huge.
01:11:03Oh, yeah.
01:11:04This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:08This is amazing.
01:11:12This kitchen is bigger than almost my every house, so.
01:11:17This is incredible.
01:11:19You like this?
01:11:20Oh, my God.
01:11:21I love this.
01:11:22I'm going to move here.
01:11:24You can see the sea.
01:11:28Everything?
01:11:29Oh, my God.
01:11:30Wow.
01:11:34This is amazing.
01:11:35I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
01:11:38Is it worth it all the trip?
01:11:43Yeah.
01:11:44I don't know if it's worth it.
01:11:45Yeah, I know.
01:11:47So, how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:11:56That sounds awesome.
01:11:57Let's do that.
01:11:58Let's do that.
01:11:59Okay.
01:12:04This is the best part of this mirror.
01:12:08This is incredible.
01:12:10I would love to, like, live right there.
01:12:12Like, with this view every day.
01:12:14Yeah.
01:12:15I like these old buildings.
01:12:17I do, too.
01:12:18Yeah.
01:12:19Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:26I love that.
01:12:27Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:28That's, like, really profound.
01:12:29Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:30Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things.
01:12:34And he has a way of taking things that are just very simple
01:12:38and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion around it.
01:12:43It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:45When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:52Sometimes it's a little exhausting because I'm like,
01:12:54oh, my God, it's just the sunset.
01:12:56I guess we gotta go this way.
01:12:57Go back this way?
01:12:58Yeah.
01:12:59I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:13:01Actually, not you.
01:13:03The people are.
01:13:04Not me?
01:13:05They have no idea where.
01:13:06Go ahead.
01:13:08I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:11I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes,
01:13:14but ultimately I like it and I wouldn't change it.
01:13:19Ugh.
01:13:20How was your day?
01:13:22Yeah, it was good.
01:13:24I enjoyed it.
01:13:26How about you?
01:13:27I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:28I traveled a ton to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights and...
01:13:42I'm exhausted and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:45Okay.
01:13:46You wanna go to bed?
01:13:48Actually, it's just 9 o'clock and I have no sleep.
01:13:56Okay.
01:13:57So why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV and join you after.
01:14:07Goodnight.
01:14:08Have a nice night.
01:14:09Alright, goodnight.
01:14:10Goodnight.
01:14:15Who's texting you?
01:14:33Um, Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:39He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:44And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:47I said, everything's good.
01:14:50And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:14:55So I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:01But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:09Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:11It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:16I feel like it's not this, like, super great magical moment.
01:15:19It just feels off.
01:15:22I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:23It just feels off.
01:15:25It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:38And so I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:42And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something.
01:15:45Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:50But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:15:55Right there, Collins.
01:16:08Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:10I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:12No.
01:16:13It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:14Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:16I want to end this now.
01:16:18You're acting all hostile?
01:16:19I'm not.
01:16:20Yeah, you are.
01:16:21Forrest?
01:16:25My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:36For they should be helping me around.
01:16:38They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:41We can't understand you.
01:16:45You have to speak.
01:16:46You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:50I need you to really please point blank.
01:16:56You were giving your parents money.
01:16:59Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:05Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:22They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:26I was so afraid that I was running, I'm running.
01:17:29Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:32Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:37I can't handle it anymore.
01:17:39No.
01:17:40It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:42The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:44I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:46It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:03Oh, you were scared.
01:18:05Forrest would have come to me and said, Mom, I got to get on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:10I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:12But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:17and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:21Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:29A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:32I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:37you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:41Forrest.
01:18:42It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:45That still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:48It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:50It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:18:54I believe Sheena is not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:01I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:04And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is blah, blah.
01:19:10You know, diarrhea of the mouth.
01:19:12I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:21Obviously she knows she did wrong.
01:19:25What's your goal here?
01:19:27Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:30I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:38Because ultimately the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:45Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on.
01:19:55I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:00It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:03Which is what she should have done to set up with you.
01:20:06Yeah.
01:20:07Years and years ago.
01:20:08Yeah, we could sit there and we could talk about the past.
01:20:10And he said, she said he could do that.
01:20:12She cannot do that.
01:20:13It's time to move forward now.
01:20:15Forrest?
01:20:16I want to add this now.
01:20:21I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:23I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:25You're acting all hostile.
01:20:27I'm not hostile.
01:20:28Yeah, you are.
01:20:29And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:32You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:34I tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:38Disaster.
01:20:42It's okay, babe.
01:20:47I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:50He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:20:55Now he sees us as the big, bad, bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:02But still, I have to always protect Forrest because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:07And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:12She lied.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:21I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:23This is so surreal.
01:21:26Come on.
01:21:27Where are you?
01:21:28This is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:34Mommy!
01:21:39Are you nervous?
01:21:40A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:42Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:46I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:52This part is best as possible.
01:21:55But I'm immediately regretting having Fear Calm come with me.
01:21:58I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:06I've been looking at your page.
01:22:08Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:10Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:13Yeah.
01:22:15I downloaded this extension on my laptop.
01:22:17And it shows you who people follow.
01:22:21This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:24So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:29Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents
01:22:33and how it's important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:38I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:42I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:46Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:52Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:54Now the story changes again.
01:22:56I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:02What the heck?
01:23:09I love him with everything I am.
01:23:12But he doesn't know that I've been married five times and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:18I know.
01:23:20What are you doing?
01:23:21I don't know.
01:23:22What are you doing?
01:23:23What are you doing?
01:23:25What are you doing?
01:23:26What?
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