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00:00And he can't tell us apart.
00:03My hair in the way?
00:05Deadpool.
00:06Deadpool.
00:07What?
00:08There.
00:10Flins.
00:12Oh, that's it right there.
00:14It's so pretty.
00:16Today, we're taking our first tour
00:17of a possible wedding venue.
00:20Nice to meet you.
00:21Welcome to Crystal View.
00:22Oh, nice.
00:25My first impression is very echoey.
00:29Are your tics OK?
00:30Joe Biden does crystal math.
00:32This might not be the right one for us.
00:36When I leave the house, I have to flick the lights
00:38three times before day, because if I only do it once,
00:41then something bad's going to happen on the way to the airport.
00:44Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:47I can only say certain things.
00:49She has done a very good job at hiding it,
00:53but it has become more difficult.
00:58We have been talking about our marriage,
01:02and it started with some premarital counseling.
01:07If someone gets involved in our relationship or marriage
01:11too much, where does it end?
01:15Colin, did anything come up for you?
01:18I've been holding on to something for a while now,
01:22and it's not easy to say out loud,
01:24because I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:27So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought would be important to bring up together?
01:48Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.
01:56Yeah.
01:57So, obviously, you know that here soon I have to make a career decision.
02:04That is, like, a super, like, heavy burden that I guess I could say that I have.
02:13I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military
02:20or go into some kind of government job.
02:23Mm-hmm.
02:24That way we have health insurance.
02:26Being able to have that kind of benefits, especially with someone with her condition,
02:30I know is, like, huge. But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.
02:40Right.
02:42I've been in the military for about five years now, and my contract will be expiring in about a year.
02:50I joined at 19, and I was just a kid, immature. The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.
02:59But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life, and lately I've been wondering
03:06if there's a different career path for me outside of the military.
03:10But if I do decide to change careers, I need a job that I'm going to be successful in,
03:16be happy in, and also still be able to provide for me and my family.
03:22I feel like I'm being pulled almost, and so it's just like...
03:26Between what?
03:27Like, family members and friends, especially your dad, want me to, like, choose a career path that's
03:35secured financially, and it scares me that I, like, may not go in that direction that everyone else
03:42wants me to go in.
03:43Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.
03:46Yeah.
03:47Colin discussed feeling really concerned about the expectations from family and friends,
03:54stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.
03:58And while a lot of couples struggle financially, they're already dealing with more of a challenge
04:04as a result of Valen's conditions. Do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both of
04:10you and your future family financially?
04:13Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job, so it kind of has to be,
04:19like, on me to be able to make the main source of income.
04:23That's a lot of pressure on you.
04:25Yeah.
04:27There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Valen on a day-to-day basis.
04:32Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents, making sure that she's okay,
04:40she's taking her medicine, taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.
04:47It's a lot. And I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Valen. I don't let Valen see that
04:52I have all of this going on up here. But it is weighing on me a lot. And everyone has a breaking
05:00point somewhere. I just don't want to hit mine.
05:04So what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress. You don't
05:10want to share that with her. But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself. Like,
05:15you wouldn't want me to do that to myself. Yeah, but it's different. And, like, when I hear that,
05:21it just is, like... It's different, though. It's like, you already have a lot of moving parts in your
05:26life. So then for me to, like, add on to, like, my stress to that, I don't want to do that to you.
05:33Like, I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out. Like, it's just, like,
05:38like, that way, like, it almost makes me feel like, okay, I have to do this on my own, in a way.
05:47Oh, I don't want you to feel like that. Yeah.
05:51I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions and separating that from yours
06:00and mine. Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody. Kind of like how I am.
06:11I knew that Colin was stressed about his career, but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
06:16This is something I've always worried about. Because with my Tourette and other conditions,
06:24it can be a lot. Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.
06:29So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me from these type of difficult subjects.
06:34It's not healthy for him or our relationship. It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
06:40You don't want to put anything onto me. And I understand that. However, you doing that
06:50is hurting yourself. And I don't want to feel disconnected from you. Regarding the pressure
06:58he feels from family and friends' opinions, I know it sucks because I feel it too. I feel like I'm stuck
07:03in the middle of Colin and them. And that's going to be a harder issue for me to address because I usually
07:09see both sides. Everything that everyone else says almost shouldn't be a burden. And I know that
07:17it's still going to be. And I'm telling you, like, suck a fat . I'm telling you that, like,
07:27that's between us. That's not between my dad, your parents, no one. And if we believe that it can work,
07:34then it'll happen. Investing. It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide,
07:45she just wants me to be happy. You have a few things to focus on until I see you next.
07:52Thank you so much. Thank you so much. But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future.
07:59And I have a feeling Alan isn't really going to let it go until I make some real decisions.
08:13tell me what to do. Don't let the rules down. Give me a coat, you. What ends up being there?
08:20We've got the hot wheels. We've got a little cash. We love to keep it from here.
08:27Can I ask you something? Huh? What are we doing? Starting something for a project. Don't try to block it.
08:35You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.
08:41I'm making something for someone. It's a surprise. Okay.
08:47Right? You're acting weird.
08:51I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve, and there's always something crazy going
08:57on in this head of his where he's conjuring up some silly ideas. The sooner I find out, the better,
09:02because this is just awkward. Yeah. So I've been working on a surprise for Balint just in case she
09:10can't or can't have certain things at her wedding. But we don't know that much about her wedding or
09:14her venue yet. Like we only know she needs the dogs there. That's really all we know. So I don't know
09:20how you are coming up with this and thinking that it's just going to fit into whatever. It's going to fit in.
09:28They end up. It's going to fit in. So here's the deal. I've been thinking a lot about Balint's wedding
09:35and how sensitive she is to her surroundings. And I want to pitch an idea to her. But before I pitch it,
09:42I want her to envision it. And that's what my secret little project is all about. Do you want it to be
09:48a surprise for me too? Am I not allowed to see this again? Yes, of course. I'm just going to do this.
09:52And I'm just going to show you this. And then you can say, wow. Or you can say, that's never going
09:58anywhere. Will you let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend with their
10:03mom and dad? Yeah. So you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend?
10:08Yeah. And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this. You know what I mean?
10:14Like, I got to get some things done. I'm a little nervous. I mean, with the wedding coming up
10:22and with Balint's condition, we know that she needs help. But I also don't want us to overstep
10:30our boundaries. Okay. But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see what's up Alan's sleeve
10:39in this carving situation. Hurry up and wait. I can still see you. And I have so many questions
10:50for you. So many questions. Hi, baby. Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
10:59They live out of state, so I don't see them as much. Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in
11:04premarital therapy? I didn't know he was carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of
11:09the military and... Because he knows you can't work a normal job? Mm-hmm. Yeah.
11:15Maylon, I want to show you something that we got outside. What? Yeah, what are we doing?
11:20Julie doesn't have a clue. I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get
11:26my ideas ruined is to invite her into my mind space on these. You're being creepy and weird right now.
11:39like fantasy. I'm a grown-up woman. I'm a pedigree. I could chill in my own menagerie.
11:47It's me to brush your teeth for today. Flop gets a whole one.
11:55We have no food. Are you not hungry? No. We can go grocery shopping and get food and we can cook
12:02something. Okay. So what are you up to today? Any plans? I am going to go hang out with Sammy and Burke.
12:09She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals, so...
12:15Yeah, that's good. I'm glad. How are you feeling after therapy?
12:18Fine. I'm like, I feel closer. Mm-hmm. I don't know how I feel. What? I feel fine. Okay.
12:33After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is getting...
12:40down in Dallas. It's getting real. Stop. I knew you were gonna laugh. I look over there,
12:46just like... I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders
12:54with finances and wedding planning and saving money and the stress of work and the unknown of that.
13:05I had no idea. Yeah. I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself. I can handle some stress.
13:17I honestly really appreciate Balin saying that she wants to help out with all of the burdens that
13:23I've been carrying, but there's a reason why I haven't, you know, brought this up to her,
13:29and it's because I know that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety. But a part of this whole counseling
13:37thing is learning to trust. If she says that I need to be open about something, then I need to be.
13:43Let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have coming up.
13:48Do I need to get out my calculator for this?
13:51Wedding. House, eventually.
13:55Bachelor, bachelorette trip.
13:57Honeymoon.
13:58Let's stop adding all of the stuff.
14:01Yeah, but it's a lot of money right there.
14:03Gosh. It's okay. It's fine.
14:08So, I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save money so that we can be able to
14:15not have to worry about all of those in the next year.
14:18What do we cut?
14:20Well, we spend a lot of money on...
14:23Dick. Sorry.
14:24Good?
14:25Yeah.
14:26Sure?
14:26Yep. Dick.
14:28Yep.
14:28Okay, here we go.
14:31I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
14:37It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries and shopping.
14:48It's kind of hard.
14:49Every day, she's looking on some website.
14:53The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction is because I don't go out and regularly
15:02go shopping because of my tics.
15:06No, you're just addicted all around.
15:08Is that your name?
15:11Well, you name it, I got it.
15:15Just about.
15:17Also, if we can start cooking more meals here,
15:20the both of us not ordering food deliveries.
15:22Yep.
15:23We do that a lot.
15:24A lot.
15:25Wow.
15:26I really want to cook more, but as you know, as we get later into the day and, like,
15:30making meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot harder.
15:35So I know that I go to almost, like, ordering food as, like, a comfort because I'm just too scared.
15:42But I feel like I can, like, come out of my comfort zone a little bit because I need,
15:46we need to save some money.
15:48Mm-hmm.
15:49I would appreciate that.
15:52The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy,
15:56you little bitch.
15:57Yep.
15:58But we're going to try.
15:59Yep.
16:00You little bitch.
16:01What is setting that dick off?
16:05I don't know.
16:06I don't know.
16:10We gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, yeah, live it up, we gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, get your paper up, we gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, yeah, live it up, live it up, live it up.
16:26Bitch.
16:29Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
16:31They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
16:34So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
16:37Where are Burke and Sammy?
16:44I don't like them.
16:47I die them.
16:49I die them.
16:52Of course they're late.
16:55I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
17:00It's kind of like torture, because I'm just worried about the other people's reactions that are in the building.
17:09Woohoo, woohoo, woohoo.
17:16Oh, thank God they're here.
17:18Oh, thank God.
17:20My baby.
17:21Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
17:26Hi, baby.
17:27I love you.
17:29I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
17:32You look so good with your hair like this.
17:35Oh, thanks.
17:36She has severe OCD and anxiety, so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
17:44Hi, Burke.
17:45What's up, babe?
17:46What's up?
17:48My oldest brother, Burke, is living in Tampa.
17:51He is currently, honestly, thriving down there and loves it.
17:55How was your flight today?
17:56I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
17:58Dude, I was at f***ing pass this flight.
18:00I can't get up and walk around, but I, like, can't sit still.
18:03I, like, can't watch a movie.
18:04I just, it's just a lot.
18:08Traveling with my OCD and flying is...
18:11Obsessive compulsive dick.
18:13Disorder is very challenging for me, and some days are harder than others.
18:20Objection!
18:21Where the f*** is the function?
18:23Your mom has one life, and she's 30% off this week.
18:28It's very common for Baylin to have new tics after you haven't seen her in a while,
18:31because she can pick up anything from a TV show, a movie, music.
18:37Yep.
18:37Take a dick.
18:39Self-serve that dick.
18:40They don't really surprise me that much anymore, because there's been some crazy ones.
18:44Yeah.
18:44I mean, you really can't get much more crazy, especially with that airport one with the gun.
18:47Yeah.
18:48You know what I mean?
18:48I have a gun.
18:50Oh, my God.
18:52It's right there.
18:53I have a gun.
18:55Maybe try to whisper it.
18:58Is it going to play shuffleboard?
19:00Yeah.
19:00Yeah, sure.
19:01So, do you want to be red or blue?
19:05I'll be blue.
19:06So, we're going to try to knock each other's arms.
19:07Wait.
19:07It's going to take a little bit, because you just got to barely let go of the thing.
19:12Oh, that one broke.
19:14Not bad, though.
19:16Bro.
19:17So, now you want to try to knock his off, because...
19:20Oh.
19:21All right.
19:22The three of us being the oldest and hanging out is a lot different than, like, the three
19:27younger ones hanging out, because we're not fighting over boogers or, like, baseball bats.
19:34Too hard.
19:35That's what she said.
19:36Your mom's too hard.
19:39That's money, too.
19:40I'm exhausted.
19:48We should have stretched out beforehand.
19:49Dude.
19:50Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
19:54So, who brought that up?
19:55Mom and Dad.
19:56I think it's a great idea.
19:57I'm all for it.
19:58It's great to be on the same page about children.
20:02Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
20:03Do you want to do this stuff?
20:05How...
20:05Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations you have with each other.
20:08Yes, like, there's multiple things.
20:10Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out
20:13of the military, saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses and all these
20:18things, and...
20:19Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
20:21Mm-hmm.
20:21It's hard for me to work a nine-to-five as much as I would love to.
20:25Yeah.
20:25It's hard with my tics.
20:28Yeah.
20:29But I do want to help contribute in, like, some way.
20:34Yeah.
20:36So, what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military?
20:39He doesn't honestly know.
20:42He officially gets out next year.
20:44Kind of, like, that's when he'll, like, be transitioning out to his next job if he has
20:48one.
20:49What do you...
20:49If he has one?
20:51Yeah.
20:52I mean, it's important when you have a job, you don't want to leave it until something
20:55else is lined up there.
20:56I know.
20:57That's the thing.
20:58I can definitely sympathize with Colin because the responsibility and due diligence of taking
21:09care of not only yourself but two people and providing for dogs and doing all that, I
21:13definitely empathize with him.
21:16Mm-hmm.
21:16But I think it's also, like, a you-know-what-you-signed-up-for.
21:20You knew she couldn't work a normal job.
21:22He needs to find, like, steady income, a job.
21:24Yeah.
21:25Not even a stable job.
21:26Just a providing job for the both of them.
21:29But it's not our job to tell him which job.
21:31Yes.
21:31You know what I mean?
21:32Yes.
21:32He's got to come up with that himself.
21:33I'm not going to go to Colin and be like, hey, you need a 40-hour work week with health
21:40insurance and this.
21:41That's my dad's.
21:42My dad can do that.
21:44I just think it's hard for you.
21:46Like, let's say he gets out of the military and then waits, like, six months, like, Burke
21:49did after college for a job.
21:51Who knows on the time frame?
21:52Yes.
21:53That's why he's stressed.
21:58I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy.
22:00However, they both do have very strong opinions.
22:03They're very, very protective of me.
22:06Wait.
22:07All right.
22:08That's okay.
22:09Do you want a nap?
22:09No.
22:09I don't.
22:11No.
22:11Let's just go.
22:14Colin and I just talked about in therapy the pressure he feels when my family weighs in
22:19in our business.
22:20If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning, I can't even imagine what my parents are going
22:24to think.
22:25This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
22:33Pump that dick, bitch.
22:34Oh, my God.
22:36It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about mine and Colin's
22:40future.
22:40I love...
22:41Oh, my God.
22:42Oh, my God.
22:43It's great.
22:44It's great.
22:45Between therapy and wedding planning lately, things have been very stressful.
23:05So, since Colin is working late, tonight, I'm having a girls' night where we are just
23:11going to let loose and have tons of fun.
23:13Take a dick, bitch.
23:16Hello.
23:18Hi, Bailey.
23:19What's that, guys?
23:21Since I moved to D.C., I actually met a lot of new people through my best friend, Lila,
23:26as well as through Colin's friend.
23:28Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?
23:30Wait, aren't you a bartender?
23:32Oh, yeah.
23:32There we go.
23:33This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
23:40It's great.
23:43So, how's your wedding planning going?
23:45We've looked at one venue.
23:47When we went there, it was beautiful.
23:48It had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers.
23:52However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be a very big trigger.
23:57I'm just hearing myself echo as I tick.
24:00Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.
24:04You want to be somewhere where you're comfortable, of course.
24:05Mm-hmm.
24:06The first time that I met Balin, she was ticking.
24:09But at the same time, for me personally, I grew up having a friend that had Tourette's.
24:12So, I kind of already knew what it was and that it's an uncontrollable thing and it's worse to hold them in than it is to just let it all out.
24:20And so, she would tick and then we'd just kind of move on with our conversation.
24:23There were some other things that I didn't realize that I didn't like.
24:26Like, I didn't like circle tables because, like, it only got you secluded to the people that were at your table.
24:32So, I kind of want, like, long tables and then I would want to be separated, like him and I.
24:38Like a sweetheart table?
24:39Mm-hmm.
24:39Oh, that's, I love that.
24:40Honestly, having a sweetheart table was so nice, like my wedding, because it was like we got to sit there and enjoy each other.
24:46Mm-hmm.
24:47And not be surrounded by a bunch of people.
24:50The fact that my tics are not being brought up, like no one's just dying laughing out of anywhere.
24:56I feel accepted and I feel like I belong in this group because we're all just being ourselves.
25:04Two girls' lives!
25:06Salut!
25:09This is so strong.
25:11Oh, no, no, no, no!
25:13Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before and I'm going to make us all some cotton candy.
25:16Oh, my gosh.
25:17It's a cotton candy!
25:19Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?
25:21A long time ago.
25:21Absolutely not.
25:22I have never.
25:23Little sour pouches.
25:24It's coming out!
25:25Look at it!
25:26Pump that dick, bitch!
25:28Oh, my gosh!
25:29That looks good!
25:31Mm.
25:31Oh, thank you!
25:33That's literally perfect!
25:34A little sugar hangover.
25:36By the way, with wedding planning, me and Colin decided that we were going to start premarital therapy.
25:41One thing that was brought up was finances and saving money and kind of, like, this huge stress that he has with this, like, him getting out of the military.
25:52So, when you heard Colin say that in...
25:56That bitch!
25:57Is that something that, like, you knew that he was feeling?
26:01No.
26:02And I know it was hard for him to say it.
26:04He's, like, holding it onto himself, thinking that, like, I can't help him.
26:07Hearing that Balin and Colin are doing premarital counseling, I thought was really inspiring.
26:13And I think that's something that a lot of newlyweds or fiancés aren't really talking about as much anymore, when it used to be a lot more common to do.
26:21Especially with what she's dealing with, her Tourette syndrome, they can set themselves up for a healthy marriage and hopefully for the rest of their life.
26:29So, I was like, you know what?
26:30We'll save money with, like, not ordering out so much.
26:34And it's like, okay, well, now I have to start making food.
26:37So, fun times.
26:39So, what kind of foods are you going to be making?
26:41I haven't figured that out yet.
26:42That's a good question.
26:43We should figure that out.
26:44We'll make you a recipe book.
26:45Yeah.
26:46Ooh, that's a good idea.
26:47We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.
26:50Make sure to do half of it.
26:51I can put in the air fryer.
26:53I love the air fryer.
26:54We should get you a crock pot.
26:56Crock pot is so easy.
26:57You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on, and then you don't have to deal with it all day.
27:00And it's so nice.
27:01Crock pot.
27:02I have a gift for everybody.
27:04Right, punky boy?
27:05I have a gift.
27:07Tonight, I have a special, fun surprise for my girls.
27:13Girls' night with a twist.
27:16Twist that dick around.
27:17Wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.
27:22Everybody, pick a bag.
27:24Here you go.
27:25Just hand it to us.
27:26Oh, gosh.
27:27I'm scared.
27:28All right, can we open it?
27:30Mine's multicolored.
27:31Mine is literally multicolored.
27:33I don't want braids.
27:34I got purple.
27:35So, the theme for the night is wigs.
27:39This is so fun.
27:41Oh.
27:42I don't think I have my underwear.
27:43Oh, my God.
27:46This is what Girls' Night is all about.
27:48We've had candy.
28:06We've had the jungle juice, like the crazy wigs.
28:08Sophie turn.
28:09It's a very Balan night.
28:12This was exactly what I needed.
28:14Me and the girls laughing, having fun.
28:17It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about my Tourette's
28:21or mine and Colin's future.
28:23I would say that tonight was a super successful Girls' Night.
28:28Holy ****, I look like Beckner.
28:32I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
28:36I truly thought he was insane.
28:38Like, this is no girl's dream.
28:40Who says a lady can't be king?
29:03Who says a lady can't be king?
29:07God, how many blankets do we need?
29:09Do you think I sound good?
29:11I think you sound like you got a tracheotomy, actually.
29:14Is this a good look for me?
29:15Is this a good sound?
29:16Sounds great.
29:17It means I can't yell at kids.
29:20One of you jokers gave this to me.
29:22This is not my fault.
29:24Yeah, well, did you come here with this?
29:28I did not.
29:29Okay, well, then you're not culpable.
29:33Since my siblings, Sammy and Burke, are in town,
29:36my dad wants to have a barbecue this weekend,
29:39but also my dad's been bugging me
29:42to come by the house to see something,
29:44and I have no idea what it is.
29:47So I decided to get a two-hour ride share from D.C.
29:51to be able to see everybody.
29:54them kids.
29:56Oh, baby, finally made it.
29:59Hi.
30:00How was it?
30:03Yeah, the ride was good.
30:04Okay.
30:05It wasn't like the other time where I got motion sickness.
30:07Because ride shares in D.C. are...
30:08I know.
30:09How long is it?
30:10Like two hours?
30:11The whole is f***ing late.
30:13Whoa.
30:14Are we going to eat?
30:16Yeah, we're just waiting for Burke to finish grilling.
30:18He's out there grilling.
30:19Come on.
30:20Are you hungry?
30:21Yeah.
30:21Are you?
30:21Yeah, a little bit.
30:23Where's the wieners?
30:24Are you all done?
30:24They're almost done.
30:25Okay.
30:25Almost.
30:25We were just talking about how you knew your way around a wiener.
30:27These wieners are very big.
30:30Um, you were telling me how you had a girls' night.
30:32How did that go?
30:33Yes, so it went great.
30:34Um, me and my friends have, like, these regular, like, girls' nights
30:38where they'll all come over, but they're all themed nights.
30:42So, we did wig nights.
30:44You don't have to wear it, Beckner, because...
30:46Wait, what?
30:46I'm actually you.
30:50That's you, Beckner.
30:51Let's do a side-by-side to see the accuracy.
30:53Looks like you guys both just fried ramen noodles
30:55and just plopped a lot in there.
30:57That's good.
30:57It's okay, we'll just get...
30:58Look at Beckner.
30:59The wig looks for the Beckners right now.
31:01Honestly, put it on.
31:02Put it on, Yoder.
31:04So, you have other wigs?
31:06Oh, yeah.
31:07Yes, but I only have one other wig for one person in the room
31:11who needs it.
31:11Dad, Dad, Mom.
31:12Yeah.
31:12It looks like he shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig.
31:15Look at this, look at this.
31:24What do you think?
31:25Damn.
31:26I think it looks good.
31:28Wait, no, I'm not going to take a picture.
31:28Because I haven't seen it.
31:30I don't think you want it.
31:31You look like Sven with his hair.
31:33No, no, now I look like Sven.
31:35Dad.
31:39With a baseball bat.
31:43No, it's this.
31:44It's this.
31:45Oh, God.
31:50I think you look like you should be on some sort of list.
31:54Maybe 200 feet away from schools or something.
31:59Well, before we eat, Baylen, I want to show you something
32:01that we got outside.
32:02Okay.
32:03Do you want this all?
32:03You guys should come all.
32:04I've been working on a surprise.
32:07I want to share with the family, but especially Baylen.
32:12Come on.
32:14What are we doing?
32:16Yeah, what are we doing?
32:17Julie doesn't have a clue.
32:18I keep her in the dark about things, because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,
32:25is to invite her into my mind space on these.
32:29Where are we going?
32:30We're here.
32:31What the f*** are we doing?
32:32I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
32:35I have no idea why my dad is taking us out back.
32:40I am so confused on so many different levels.
32:44You're being creepy and weird right now.
32:46He's like, let me show you my knife collection.
32:48Now, listen, I don't know where you are with the whole wedding location search.
32:54So I know that you want animals at your wedding, right?
32:59Goats and alpacas and Ringling Brothers or whatever you want.
33:05And a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have animals.
33:09Okay?
33:11You got one chance to make this amazing?
33:14This is it.
33:16You can put all those things right here.
33:19Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
33:23How is that funny?
33:25No, I'm being serious.
33:27Serious?
33:29I've been working on a plan to have the entire yard wide open for Baylin's wedding.
33:35Rip the fence down, cut trees, build a platform, whatever she wants.
33:42Let's start doing something.
33:47Come on, Dad.
33:48Seriously?
33:50Who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard?
33:53I don't even know what to say.
33:55So much for trying to take some pressure off of Colin.
33:59This whole idea is only going to add to it.
34:02This is crazy.
34:12This is it.
34:13Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
34:15What the hell is that funny?
34:17No, I'm being serious.
34:21I'm envisioning it.
34:23There's not a lot to envision.
34:26You can have whatever you want here.
34:28I'll get those tents put up.
34:32This is where she comes up the aisle.
34:35And then we pass the lump.
34:36We pass the lump.
34:38I trip.
34:39All right.
34:40I truly thought he was insane.
34:42Like, this is no girl's dream.
34:46How many people do you think inviting?
34:47We're probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking between 125 and 150 will show up.
34:53With two toilets here.
34:55With two toilets?
34:56Two toilets.
34:58We're looking at a couple porta-potties.
35:00Like, imagine 150 people in this house.
35:03Oh, no.
35:04They'd have to get Ubered to, like, the Holiday Inn or something.
35:06Now, obviously, 150 people are going to lay up cots here.
35:10I mean, come on.
35:11I'm talking about people wandering around getting food.
35:13I mean, just imagine 150 people just hammered.
35:16Brutal.
35:17Brutal.
35:18All right.
35:18So, we'll think of different venues, but appreciate your offer.
35:21Let's move on.
35:22But if you go to another venue and then they don't allow half of the stuff that you want in your wedding.
35:26This is the wedding.
35:28This is an option.
35:28This is something that, I mean, let's hope it only happens once in your life.
35:32It is an option.
35:33The last option, but it is an option.
35:34It could be the last option.
35:36The last one.
35:38It's fine.
35:39It's all right.
35:40It's, it, I am enjoying this.
35:43But to me, I'm not worried about the food.
35:47I'm not worried about desserts.
35:48I'm not worried about tents.
35:50I'm not worried about outdoors.
35:51Cat, I'm not worried about this.
35:52I'm worried about, is Balen going to be comfortable at this location?
35:56Because we all know that when she gets overstimulated, she could have a bad tick attack and end up on the floor.
36:04Having her wedding here at the house, she has a safe place that she's familiar with, comfortable with.
36:09And if we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle away from her to make her day amazing, then, then that's what it's truly about.
36:20So, it's not everyone else's wedding.
36:23It's her wedding.
36:23Okay.
36:24It's what you want.
36:25So, either way, whether you choose here or you choose somewhere else, I want you to come over here and look at something.
36:33It's one more thing for you to think about and visualize.
36:35All right?
36:36Let's go over here.
36:37Come on.
36:39You'll like this.
36:40Here, Balen.
36:41Come over here and stand in front of this.
36:42Look this way.
36:42So, I can take this off and then you can be surprised.
36:44It looks like he ordered a bed frame.
36:46I know.
36:47Wait, so he's been out back making this and you guys haven't?
36:50He told me he was doing something special.
36:56What?
36:58What?
36:59Why are you guys laughing?
37:01Only your dad.
37:02Oh, my God.
37:03God.
37:05What are we doing?
37:06So, this.
37:07So, listen.
37:08So, no matter what you pick.
37:10Pick.
37:10You can use this for a venue.
37:12All right?
37:12Okay.
37:13Well, it's not going to be.
37:15Oh, my goodness.
37:18Oh.
37:19Oh, my goodness.
37:22This is going in the apartment.
37:24No.
37:25Okay.
37:26We just need to add some sprinkles.
37:27Do you know what they are?
37:28That's a horse.
37:31That's Fluffy and Toots.
37:32Toots me.
37:34Oh.
37:35Thank you so much.
37:37This probably took you so long.
37:39I am freaking so excited.
37:41I love alpacas.
37:44Mr. and Mrs. Dooley.
37:45There we go.
37:46That's Chuck.
37:47That's Marlene.
37:48Marlene's a dirty, filthy whore.
37:50Okay.
37:51All right.
37:51Whatever.
37:52As our maid of honor, we accept this.
37:53We're not super sure about the venue portion.
37:55I think the venue's good.
37:57I could see, like, two big circus tents, your animals running around.
38:01A place to, like, take photos, and there can be, like, flowers in the background.
38:04Yeah.
38:04Whatever you want to do.
38:05It's your wedding.
38:05It ended up being a great surprise.
38:09I'm totally impressed.
38:11The backyard venue idea, I'm not so sure of.
38:16But the bench is beautiful.
38:18This probably took you so long to make.
38:20How long did it take you to make this?
38:2116 hours.
38:23No, time, I don't know.
38:24Time to stand still when you carve.
38:26So I'm not given a time frame.
38:28It, it, it, it's worth it.
38:31When Balin was at her worst four years ago in her medical journey, I really questioned that
38:38a day like this would come.
38:40Balin deserves to have the perfect wedding day like anybody else.
38:42It's, it's been a long journey, and her day needs to be as amazing as her expectations
38:50wanted.
38:51I want her to be able to say, Dad, this is the best day ever.
39:02You can put, like, a, like, a bow tie.
39:05Or we can put whatever you want.
39:06It's kind of like Mr. and Mrs. Julie.
39:08That'd be so cute.
39:10Okay, that is really cute.
39:11Oh, that's a really cute idea.
39:13How heavy are these?
39:14What if she, what if you decide?
39:15Well, they're heavy.
39:16Oh, yeah, they gotta be heavy.
39:17I mean, what if the venue's, like, four hours down the road?
39:21Like, I'll just drive it down the road, or what if it's here?
39:24This sweet gift from my dad has definitely made it harder to choose a wedding venue.
39:32I mean, I totally get why my dad thinks it would be better for me to have it here.
39:37And even though it's not exactly what I thought I wanted for my wedding,
39:41he's been taking care of me a long time, so I definitely trust his judgment.
39:48So what do you think?
39:50It's an option.
39:52It is an option.
39:53Me and Colin are trying to save money for this specific reason, so I can bring it up to him.
39:59However, I don't think my parents' backyard is Colin's first wedding venue choice.
40:06And I know Colin feels a lot of pressure when my dad gives suggestions, even when they're meant to be helpful.
40:12And honestly, I'm a little afraid to ask.
40:16I can't look at the chickens.
40:25Have you told Colin?
40:28No.
40:29Yep.
40:30Told me what?
40:31The last time I saw my dad, he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue.
40:35I haven't even told Colin yet, and I'm not even sure I want to.
40:38Hey, Mom.
40:41Hi, baby.
40:42Back here.
40:43I would like to have, like, a sleepover with you for the weekend.
40:47I'm a little, like, nervous.
40:48I've never hosted a kid before.
40:50Hola, como estas?
40:51Muy bien.
40:53Okay, I'm going to show you how to bedazzle.
40:55I don't even know what bedazzle is.
40:56Bedazzle, bedazzle is.
40:58Take this, and it goes in the wax.
41:00Is something burning?
41:02Wait, whoa, whoa, whoa.
41:02What's over there burning?
41:03Do you think that you're still just trying to hold on to Balan?
41:09It's just, you know, when I went to pick her up, when I talked about her.
41:14Oh, my gosh, we're not talking about this again.
41:17I haven't shared this story with that many people.
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