Baylen Out Loud - Season 2 Episode 03- Addicted All Around
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00:00And he can't tell us apart.
00:03My hair in the way?
00:05Deadpool.
00:06Deadpool.
00:07There.
00:08There.
00:10Flins.
00:12Oh, that's it right there.
00:14It's so pretty.
00:16Today, we're taking our first tour
00:17of a possible wedding venue.
00:20Nice to meet you.
00:21Welcome to Crystal View.
00:22Oh.
00:23Hi.
00:25My first impression is very echoey.
00:29Are your tics OK?
00:30Joe Biden does crystal math.
00:32This might not be the right one for us.
00:36When I leave the house, I have to flick the lights
00:38three times before I think, because if I only do it once,
00:41then something bad's going to happen on the way
00:42to the airport.
00:44Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:47I can only say certain things.
00:49She has done a very good job at hiding it,
00:53but it has become more difficult.
00:58We have been talking about our marriage,
01:02and it started with some premarital counseling.
01:07If someone gets involved in our relationship or marriage
01:11too much, where does it end?
01:15Colin, did anything come up for you?
01:18I've been holding on to something for a while now,
01:22and it's not easy to say out loud,
01:24because I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:27Um...
01:27So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought
01:47would be important to bring up together?
01:49Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.
01:56Yeah.
01:57So, obviously...
01:59Dick.
02:00You know that here soon I have to make, like, a career decision.
02:04Mm-hmm.
02:05That is, like, a super, like, heavy burden that I guess I could say that I have.
02:13Um...
02:15I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military
02:20or go into some kind of government job.
02:23Mm-hmm.
02:24That way we have health insurance.
02:26Being able to have that kind of benefits,
02:28especially with someone with her condition,
02:30I know is, like, huge.
02:34But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.
02:40Right.
02:42I've been in the military for about five years now,
02:45and my contract will be expiring in about a year.
02:50I joined at 19, and I was just a kid and mature.
02:55The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.
02:59But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life,
03:03and lately I've been wondering
03:06if there's a different career path for me outside of the military.
03:10But if I do decide to change careers,
03:12I need a job that I'm going to be successful in,
03:16be happy in,
03:17and also still be able to provide for me and my family.
03:21I feel like I'm being pulled, almost.
03:25And so it's just, like...
03:26Between what?
03:27Like, family members and friends, especially your dad,
03:32want me to, like, choose a career path that's secured financially.
03:37And it scares me that I, like, may not go in that direction
03:41that everyone else wants me to go in.
03:43Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.
03:46Colin discussed feeling really concerned about the expectations from family and friends,
03:54stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.
03:58And while a lot of couples struggle financially, they're already dealing with more of a challenge as
04:04a result of Balin's conditions.
04:06Do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both of you and your future family financially?
04:12Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job.
04:16So it kind of has to be, like, on me to be able to make the main source of income.
04:24That's a lot of pressure on you.
04:25Yeah.
04:27There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Balin on a day-to-day basis.
04:32Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents,
04:37making sure that she's okay, she's taking her medicine,
04:42taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.
04:47It's a lot, and I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Balin.
04:51I don't let Balin see that I have all of this going on up here.
04:55But it is weighing on me a lot, and everyone has a breaking point somewhere.
05:01I just don't want to hit mine.
05:04So what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress.
05:09You don't want to share that with her.
05:12But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself.
05:15Like, you wouldn't want me to do that to myself.
05:18Yeah, but it's different.
05:20And, like, when I hear that, it just is, like...
05:22It's different, though.
05:23It's like you already have a lot of moving parts in your life.
05:26So then for me to, like, add on, like, my stress to that,
05:32I don't want to do that to you.
05:33Like, I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out.
05:37Like, it's just, like...
05:38Dick to death.
05:40That way, like, it almost makes me feel like,
05:42like, okay, I have to do this on my own, in a way.
05:47Oh, I don't want you to feel like that.
05:49Yeah.
05:51I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions
05:58and separating that from yours and mine.
06:02Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody.
06:08Kind of like how I am.
06:11I knew that Colin was stressed about his career,
06:13but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
06:18This is something I've always worried about.
06:21Because with my Tourette and other conditions, it can be a lot.
06:25Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.
06:29So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me
06:32from these type of difficult subjects.
06:34It's not healthy for him or our relationship.
06:37It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
06:42You don't want to put anything onto me.
06:46And I understand that.
06:48However, you doing that is hurting yourself.
06:52And I don't want to feel disconnected from you.
06:56Regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends' opinions,
07:00I know it sucks because I feel it too.
07:02I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of Colin and them.
07:05And that's going to be a harder issue for me to address
07:08because I usually see both sides.
07:11Everything that everyone else says
07:14almost shouldn't be a burden.
07:16And I know that it's still going to be.
07:18And I'm telling you, like, suck a fat .
07:26I'm telling you that, like, that's between us.
07:28That's not between my dad, your parents, no one.
07:31And if we believe that it can work, then it'll happen.
07:38Mm-hmm.
07:39Best thing.
07:42It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide,
07:45she just wants me to be happy.
07:49You have a few things to focus on until I see you next.
07:52Thank you so much.
07:53Thank you so much.
07:55But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future.
07:59And I have a feeling Alan isn't really going to let it go
08:02until I make some real decisions.
08:11What you say to me?
08:13Can't tell me what you're doing.
08:14Don't let the rules down.
08:16Give me a coat, you.
08:18What ends up in there?
08:20We've got the hot wheels.
08:22We've got a little cash.
08:23We love to keep it free.
08:27Can I ask you something?
08:30What?
08:30What are we doing?
08:32Starting something for a project.
08:34Don't try to block it.
08:38You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.
08:44I'm making something for someone.
08:45It's a surprise.
08:46Okay.
08:48You're acting weird.
08:51I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve,
08:55and there's always something crazy going on in this head of his,
08:58where he's conjuring up some silly ideas.
09:00The sooner I find out, the better, because this is just awkward.
09:05Yeah.
09:05So I've been working on a surprise for Valen,
09:08just in case she can or can't have certain things at her wedding.
09:12But we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet.
09:15Like, we only know she needs the dogs there.
09:18That's really all we know.
09:20So I don't know how you are coming up with this and thinking that it's just going to fit into whatever.
09:28It's going to fit in.
09:28They end up.
09:29It's going to fit in.
09:31So here's the deal.
09:32I've been thinking a lot about Valen's wedding and how sensitive she is to her surroundings.
09:38And I want to pitch an idea to her.
09:40But before I pitch it, I want her to envision it.
09:44And that's what my secret little project is all about.
09:47Do you want it to be a surprise for me, too?
09:49Am I not allowed to see this again?
09:50Yes, of course.
09:51I'm just going to do this.
09:52I'm just going to show you this.
09:53And then you can say, wow, or you can say, that's never going anywhere.
09:58Will you let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend with
10:03their mom and dad?
10:04Yeah.
10:05So you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend, this?
10:08Yeah.
10:09And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this.
10:13You know what I mean?
10:14Like, I got to get some things done.
10:19I'm a little nervous.
10:20I mean, with the wedding coming up and with Valen's condition, we know that she needs help.
10:26But I also don't want us to overstep our boundaries.
10:33Okay.
10:33But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see what's up Alan's sleeve in this carving situation.
10:41Nope, hurry up and wait.
10:46I can still see you.
10:48And I have so many questions for you.
10:51So many questions.
10:55Hi, baby.
10:56Hi, Ronda.
10:57Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
10:59They live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
11:02Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
11:05I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out of the military.
11:09And because he knows you can't work a normal job?
11:12Mm-hmm.
11:12Yeah.
11:15Vailen, I want to show you something that we got outside.
11:18What?
11:18Yeah, what are we doing?
11:20Julie doesn't have a clue.
11:22I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,
11:27is to invite her into my mind space on these.
11:31You're being creepy and weird right now.
11:47This means brush your teeth for the day.
11:49Flop gets a whole one.
11:50We have no food.
11:57Are you not hungry?
11:58No.
11:59We can go grocery shopping and get food, and then we can cook something.
12:02Okay.
12:03So what are you up to today?
12:05Any plans?
12:05I am going to go hang out with Sammy and Burke.
12:09She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals, so...
12:15Yeah, that's good.
12:16I'm glad.
12:17How are you feeling after therapy?
12:20Fine.
12:22I'm like, I feel closer.
12:26Mm-hmm.
12:27I don't know how I feel.
12:29What?
12:30I feel fine.
12:33Okay.
12:35After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is getting
12:40down in Dallas.
12:42It's getting real.
12:44Stop, I knew you were going to laugh.
12:46I look over there and there's just a...
12:47I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders with finances
12:56and wedding planning and saving money and the stress of work and the unknown of that.
13:05I had no idea.
13:07Yeah.
13:08I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself.
13:14I can handle some stress.
13:15I honestly really appreciate Baylen saying that she wants to help out with all of the burdens
13:23that I've been carrying, but there's a reason why I haven't, you know, brought this up to her,
13:29and it's because I know that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety. But a part of this whole counseling
13:37thing is learning to trust. If she says that I need to be open about something, then I need to be.
13:43Okay. Let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have coming up.
13:48Do you want me to get out my calculator for this?
13:51Wedding.
13:54House, eventually.
13:56Bachelor, bachelorette trip.
13:57Honeymoon.
13:58Let's stop adding all of this stuff.
14:01Yeah, but it's a lot of money right there.
14:03Gosh.
14:04It's okay. It's fine.
14:08So, I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save money so that we can be able to
14:15not have to worry about all of those in the next year.
14:19What do we cut?
14:21Well, we spend a lot of money.
14:23Dick.
14:23On...
14:24Sorry.
14:24Good?
14:25Yeah.
14:26Sure?
14:26Yep.
14:27Dick.
14:28Yep.
14:28Okay.
14:28Okay, here we go.
14:29I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
14:42It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries and shopping.
14:48It's kind of hard.
14:50Every day, she's looking on some website.
14:53The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction is because I don't go out and regularly
15:02go shopping because of my tics.
15:06No, you're just addicted all around.
15:08Is that your name?
15:10Well, you name it, I got it.
15:15Just about.
15:17Also, if we can start cooking more meals here.
15:20The both of us not ordering food deliveries.
15:23Yep.
15:23We do that a lot.
15:24A lot.
15:25Wow.
15:26I really want to cook more, but as you know, as we get later into the day and, like, making
15:31meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot harder.
15:35So, I know that I go to almost, like, ordering food as, like, a comfort because I'm just too
15:42scared.
15:42But I feel like I can, like, come out of my comfort zone a little bit because we need to
15:47save some money.
15:48Mm-hmm.
15:49I would appreciate that.
15:52The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy.
15:56You little bitch.
15:57Yep.
15:58But we're going to try.
15:59Yep.
16:00You little bitch.
16:03What is setting that dick off?
16:05I don't know.
16:06I don't know.
16:18We're gonna have a good time.
16:18We're gonna have a good time.
16:19We're gonna have a good time.
16:20You can live it up.
16:22You can live it up.
16:26Bitch.
16:28Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
16:31They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
16:34So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
16:39Where are Burke and Sammy?
16:44I don't like this.
16:46I die on me.
16:48I die on me.
16:52Of course they're late.
16:54I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
17:00It's kind of like torture,
17:02because I'm just worried about the other people's reactions
17:06that are in the building.
17:08Woo-hoo!
17:16Oh, thank God they're here.
17:18Oh, thank God.
17:20My baby!
17:22Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
17:25Hi, baby!
17:26I love you.
17:28I love you.
17:29I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
17:32You look so good with your hair like this.
17:34Oh, thanks.
17:36She has severe OCD and anxiety,
17:39so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
17:43Hi, Burke.
17:44What's up, baby?
17:45What's up?
17:46My oldest brother, Burke, is living in Tampa.
17:50He is currently honestly thriving down there and loves it.
17:54How was your flight today?
17:55I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
17:57Dude, I was at fast this flight.
17:59I can't get up and walk around, but I, like, can't sit still.
18:02I, like, can't watch a movie.
18:04I just...
18:05It's just a lot.
18:07Traveling with my OCD and flying is...
18:10Obsessive-compulsive dick.
18:12...disorder is very challenging for me,
18:15and some days are harder than others.
18:18Objection!
18:20Where the is the function?
18:22Your mom has one life and she's 30% off this week.
18:26It's very common for Baylin to have new tics
18:29after you haven't seen her in a while
18:31because she can pick up anything from a TV show, a movie, music.
18:36Yeah.
18:37Take a dick.
18:38Self-serve that dick.
18:40They don't really surprise me that much anymore
18:42because there's been some crazy ones.
18:43Yeah.
18:44I mean, you really can't get much more crazy,
18:45especially with that airport one with the gun.
18:47Yeah.
18:48You know what I mean?
18:49I have a gun.
18:50Oof!
18:51Oh, my God, it's right there.
18:52Oof!
18:53I have a gun.
18:54Maybe try to whisper it.
18:55Maybe try to whisper it.
18:58Is he gonna play shuffleboard?
18:59Yeah.
19:00Yeah, sure.
19:01So, do you want to be red or blue?
19:04I'll be blue.
19:05So, we're gonna try to knock each other's off.
19:07It's gonna take a little bit
19:08because you just gotta barely let go of the thing.
19:12Oh, that one broke.
19:14Not bad, though.
19:16Bro.
19:17So, now you want to try to knock his off because...
19:20Oh.
19:21All right.
19:22The three of us being the oldest and hanging out
19:24is a lot different than, like, the three younger ones
19:27hanging out because we're not fighting over boogers
19:30or, like, baseball bats.
19:34Too hard.
19:35That's what she said.
19:36Your mom's too hard.
19:39That's money, too.
19:41Bitch.
19:46I'm exhausted.
19:47We should've stretched out beforehand.
19:49Dude.
19:50Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
19:53So, who brought that up?
19:54Mom and Dad.
19:55I think it's a great idea.
19:57I'm all for it.
19:58It's great to be on the same page about children.
20:01Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
20:03Do you want to do this stuff?
20:04How...
20:05And we're so...
20:06Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations
20:07you have with each other.
20:08Yes, like, there's multiple things.
20:09Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress
20:11with, like, the future and him getting out of the military.
20:14Saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses
20:17and all these things and...
20:18Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
20:20Mm-hmm.
20:21It's hard for me to work a nine-to-five as much as I would love to.
20:24Yeah.
20:25It's hard with my tics.
20:27Yeah.
20:28But I do want to help contribute in, like, some way.
20:33Yeah.
20:36So, what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military?
20:39He doesn't honestly know.
20:41He officially gets out next year.
20:43Kind of, like, that's when he'll, like, be transitioning out
20:46to his next job if he has one.
20:48What do you...
20:49If he has one?
20:50Yeah.
20:51I mean, it's important when you have a job,
20:53you don't want to leave it until something else is lined up there.
20:56I know.
20:57That's the thing.
20:59I can definitely sympathize with Colin because the responsibility and due diligence
21:06of taking care of not only yourself but two people and providing for dogs and doing all
21:12that...
21:13Yeah.
21:14I definitely empathize with him.
21:15Mm-hmm.
21:16But I think it's also, like, a you know what you signed up for.
21:19You knew she couldn't work a normal job.
21:21He needs to find, like, steady income, a job.
21:24Yeah.
21:25Not even a stable job.
21:26Just a providing job for the both of them.
21:28But it's not our job to tell him which job.
21:30Yes.
21:31You know what I mean?
21:32Yes.
21:33He's got to come up with that himself.
21:34I'm not going to go to Colin and be like,
21:35Hey, you...
21:36Yeah, you need to...
21:37You need a 40-hour work week with health insurance and this.
21:41That's my dad's...
21:42My dad can do that.
21:43I just think it's hard for you.
21:45Like, let's say he gets out of the military and then waits, like, six months, like,
21:49birthed it after college for a job.
21:50Who knows on the time frame?
21:51Yes.
21:52That's why he's stressed.
21:57I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy.
22:00However, they both do have very strong opinions.
22:03They're very, very protective of me.
22:05Wait.
22:06Hey.
22:07All right.
22:08That's okay.
22:09Do you want a nap here?
22:10No.
22:11No.
22:12Let's just go.
22:13Colin and I just talked about, in therapy, the pressure he feels when my family weighs
22:18in on our business.
22:19If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning, I can't even imagine what my parents are going
22:24to think.
22:25Oh, my God!
22:28This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
22:32Pump that dick, bitch.
22:34Oh, my God.
22:35I'm scared.
22:36It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about mining Colin's
22:39future.
22:40Oh, my God!
22:42It's great.
22:43It's great.
22:44It's great.
22:49It's great.
22:50It's great.
22:51It's great.
22:52It's great.
22:53It's great.
22:54It's great.
22:55It's great.
22:56It's great.
22:57It's great.
22:58It's great.
22:59It's great.
23:00Between therapy and wedding planning lately, things have been very stressful.
23:05So, since Colin is working late, tonight I'm having a girls' night where we are just
23:10going to let loose and have tons of fun.
23:13Mmm.
23:14Take a dick, bitch.
23:15Hello!
23:16Hi, Bailey.
23:17What's that girl?
23:18Since I moved to D.C., I actually met a lot of new people through my best friend Leela,
23:25as well as through Colin's friends.
23:27Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?
23:29Wait, aren't you a bartender?
23:30Oh, yeah.
23:31There we go.
23:32This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
23:38It's great.
23:39It's great.
23:40It's great.
23:41So, how's your wedding planning going?
23:44We've looked at one venue.
23:46When we went there, it was beautiful.
23:48It had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers.
23:51However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be a very big trigger.
23:57I'm just hearing myself echo as I tick.
23:59Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.
24:03You want to be somewhere where you're comfortable, of course.
24:05Mm-hmm.
24:06The first time that I met Balin, she was ticking.
24:08But at the same time, for me personally, I grew up having a friend that had Tourette's,
24:12so I kind of already knew what it was, and that it's an uncontrollable thing, and it's
24:16worse to hold them in than it is to just let it all out.
24:19And so she would tick, and then we'd just kind of move on with our conversation.
24:23There were some other things that I didn't realize that I didn't like.
24:26Like, I didn't like circle tables because, like, it only got you secluded to the people
24:30that were at your table.
24:31Mm-hmm.
24:32So I kind of want, like, long tables, and then I would want to be separated.
24:36Mm-hmm.
24:37Like him and I.
24:38Like a sweetheart table?
24:39Mm-hmm.
24:40Oh, that's, I love that.
24:41Honestly, having a sweetheart table was so nice.
24:42Like, at my wedding, because it was like we got to sit there and enjoy each other.
24:46Mm-hmm.
24:47And not be surrounded by a bunch of people.
24:49Mm-hmm.
24:50The fact that my tics are not being brought up, like, no one's just dying laughing out of
24:55anywhere.
24:56I feel accepted, and I feel like I belong in this group because we're all just being
25:02ourselves.
25:03Two girls now.
25:04Nice.
25:06Salut.
25:09This is so strong.
25:12Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before, and I'm going
25:15to make us all some cotton candy.
25:16Oh my gosh.
25:17Cotton candy.
25:18Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?
25:20A long time ago.
25:21No.
25:22Absolutely not.
25:23I have never.
25:24It's coming out.
25:25Look at it.
25:26Pump that dick, bitch.
25:27Oh my gosh.
25:28That looks good.
25:30Mm.
25:31Oh, thank you.
25:32That's literally perfect.
25:33Sweet.
25:34A little sugar hangover.
25:35By the way, with wedding planning, me and Collin decided that we were going to start
25:40premarital therapy.
25:41One thing that was brought up was finances and saving money, and it's kind of like this
25:47huge stress that he has with this, like him getting out of the military.
25:52So when you heard Collin say that in...
25:55F*** that bitch.
25:57Is that something that like you knew that he was feeling?
26:00No.
26:01And I know it was hard for him to say it.
26:03He's like holding it onto himself thinking that like I can't help him.
26:07Hearing that Balin and Collin are doing premarital counseling I thought was really inspiring.
26:12And I think that's something that a lot of newlyweds or fiancés aren't really talking
26:17about as much anymore when it used to be a lot more common to do.
26:20Especially with what she's dealing with, her Tourette syndrome.
26:23They can set themselves up for a healthy marriage and hopefully for the rest of their life.
26:28So I was like, you know what, we'll save money with like not ordering out so much.
26:33And it's like, okay, well now I have to start making food.
26:36So fun times.
26:37So what kind of foods are you going to be making?
26:40I haven't figured that out yet.
26:41That's a good question.
26:42We should figure that out.
26:43We'll make you a recipe book.
26:44Yeah.
26:45Ooh, that's a good idea.
26:46We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.
26:49Make sure half of it I can put in the air fryer.
26:51I love the air fryer.
26:53I love the air fryer.
26:54We should get you a crock pot.
26:55A crock pot is so easy.
26:56You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on, and then you don't have to deal
26:59with it all day.
27:00And it's so nice.
27:01Crock pot.
27:02I have a gift for everybody.
27:04Right, punky boy?
27:05I have a gift.
27:07Tonight I have a special, fun, surprise for my girls.
27:12Girls' night with a twist.
27:15Twist that dick around, wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.
27:20Everybody, pick a bag.
27:23Ooh.
27:24Here you go.
27:25Just hand it to us.
27:26Oh, gosh.
27:27I'm scared.
27:28All right, can we open it?
27:29Oh!
27:30Mine's multicolored.
27:31No way.
27:32Mine is literally multicolored.
27:33I don't remember it.
27:34I got purple.
27:35So, the theme for the night is wigs.
27:38This is so fun.
27:40Oh!
27:41I don't think I have my underwear.
27:43Oh, my God!
27:46This is what Girls' Night is all about.
27:50Show them what you're doing.
27:51Show them what you're doing.
27:52Show them what you're doing.
27:53Woo!
27:54Show them what you're doing.
27:55Oh!
27:56Ooh!
27:57Oh!
27:58Oh!
27:59Woo!
28:00Woo!
28:01Woo!
28:02Yay!
28:03We've had candy.
28:05We've had the jungle juice, like the crazy wigs.
28:08Sophie time!
28:09It's a very Balen night.
28:11This was exactly what I needed.
28:13Me and the girls laughing, having fun.
28:16It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about my Tourette's
28:21or mine and Colin's future.
28:23I would say that tonight was a super successful Girls' Night.
28:27Holy , I look like Beckner.
28:29I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
28:35I truly thought he was insane.
28:37Like, this is no girl's dream.
28:40Like, this is my dream.
28:41Oh!
28:42Oh!
28:43Oh!
28:44Wow!
28:45Wow!
28:46This is my dream!
28:47Thank you!
28:48Oh!
28:51Wow!
28:56That's a great dream.
28:57I love you.
28:58I'm not comfortable in here.
28:59Oh, I love you.
29:01I love you.
29:02That's a great dream.
29:03I love you.
29:04I love you.
29:05I love you.
29:06I love you.
29:07I love you.
29:08How many blankets do we need?
29:10Do you think I sound good?
29:11I think you sound like you got a tracheotomy, actually.
29:14Is this a good look for me? Is this a good sound?
29:16Sounds great.
29:18It means I can't yell at kids.
29:20One of you jokers gave this to me.
29:22This is not my fault.
29:24Yeah, well, did you come here with this?
29:28I did not.
29:29Okay, well then, you're not culpable.
29:33Since my siblings, Sammy and Burke, are in town,
29:37my dad wants to have a barbecue this weekend.
29:39But also, my dad's been bugging me
29:42to come by the house to see something,
29:45and I have no idea what it is.
29:47So I decided to get a two-hour ride share from D.C.
29:51to be able to see everybody.
29:54them kids.
29:56Oh, baby, finally made it.
30:00Hi.
30:00Hi.
30:01How was it?
30:02Yeah, the ride was good.
30:04Okay.
30:05It wasn't like the other time where I got motion sickness.
30:07Because ride shares in D.C. are...
30:08I know.
30:09How long is it?
30:10Like, two hours?
30:11The whole way.
30:13Whoa.
30:14Whoa.
30:14Whoa.
30:15Are we going to eat?
30:16Yeah, I'm just waiting for Burke to finish grilling.
30:18He's out there grilling.
30:19Come on.
30:20Are you hungry?
30:21Yeah.
30:21Are you?
30:21Yeah, a little bit.
30:23Where's the wieners?
30:24Are you all done?
30:24We're almost done.
30:24Okay.
30:25We're just talking about how you knew your way around a wiener.
30:27These wieners are very big.
30:30You were telling me how you had a girls' night.
30:32How did that go?
30:33Yes.
30:33So it went great.
30:35Me and my friends have, like, these regular, like, girls' nights where they'll all come over,
30:39but they're all themed nights.
30:41So we did wig nights.
30:44You don't have to wear it, Beckner, because...
30:46Wait, what?
30:46I'm actually you.
30:50That's you, Beckner.
30:51Let's do a side-by-side to see the accuracy.
30:53Looks like you guys both just fried ramen noodles and just plop them out there.
30:56That's good.
30:57It's okay.
30:57We'll just get...
30:58Look at Beckner.
30:59The wig looks better than Beckners right now.
31:01Honestly, put it on.
31:02Put it on, Yoder.
31:04So you have other wigs?
31:06Oh, yeah.
31:07Yes, but I only have one other wig for one person in the room who needs it.
31:11That one...
31:12It looks like somebody shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig.
31:16Look at this.
31:16Look at this.
31:24What do you think?
31:25Damn.
31:26I think it looks good.
31:28Wait, no.
31:28I'm not going to take a picture.
31:30I don't think you want it.
31:31You look like Sven with his hair.
31:33No, no.
31:34Now I look like Sven.
31:35Dad.
31:39With a baseball bat.
31:43No, it's this.
31:44It's this.
31:45Oh, God.
31:50I think you look like you should be on some sort of list.
31:54Maybe 200 feet away from schools or something.
31:58Well, before we eat, Vaylin, I want to show you something that we got outside.
32:02Okay.
32:03You guys should come all.
32:06I've been working on a surprise.
32:07I want to share with the family, but especially Vaylin.
32:12Come here.
32:13Come on.
32:14What?
32:15He doing?
32:16Yeah, what are we doing?
32:17Julie doesn't have a clue.
32:18I keep her in the dark about things, because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined, is to invite her into my mind space on these.
32:28Where are we going?
32:29Where are we going?
32:30Right here.
32:31What the f*** are we doing?
32:32I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
32:35I have no idea why my dad is taking us out back.
32:39I am so confused on so many different levels.
32:43You're being creepy and weird right now.
32:45He's like, let me show you my knife collection.
32:48Now listen, I don't know where you are with the whole wedding location search.
32:54So I know that you want animals at your wedding, right?
32:59Mm-hmm.
33:00Goats and alpacas and Ringling Brothers or whatever you want.
33:05And a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have animals.
33:09Okay?
33:11Mm-hmm.
33:11You got one chance to make this amazing?
33:14This is it.
33:16You can put all those things right here.
33:19Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
33:24How is that funny?
33:25No, I'm being serious.
33:26Serious?
33:28I've been working on a plan to have the entire yard wide open for Balen's wedding.
33:35Rip the fence down, cut trees, build a platform, whatever she wants.
33:42Let's start doing something.
33:46Come on, Dad.
33:48Seriously?
33:50Who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard?
33:52I don't even know what to say.
33:56So much for trying to take some pressure off of Colin.
33:59This whole idea is only going to add to it.
34:02This is crazy.
34:12This is it.
34:13Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
34:16How was that funny?
34:17No, I'm being serious.
34:21I'm envisioning it.
34:23There's not a lot to envision.
34:26You can have whatever you want here.
34:28I'll get those tents put up.
34:32This is where she comes up the aisle.
34:35And then we pass the lump.
34:36We pass the lump.
34:38I trip.
34:39All right.
34:40I truly thought he was insane.
34:42Like this is, this is no girl's dream.
34:45How many people do you think inviting?
34:47We are probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking between 125 and 150 will show up.
34:53With two toilets here.
34:54With two toilets?
34:56Two toilets.
34:57One grill.
34:58We're looking at a couple porta potties.
35:00Like imagine 150 people in this house.
35:03Oh no.
35:04They'd have to get Ubered to like the Holiday Inn or something.
35:06No, obviously 150 people are going to lay up cots here.
35:09I mean, come on.
35:11I'm talking about people wandering around getting food.
35:13I mean, just imagine 150 people just hammered.
35:16Brutal.
35:17Brutal.
35:18All right.
35:18So we'll think of different venues, but appreciate your offer.
35:21Let's move on.
35:22But if you go to another venue and then they don't allow half of the stuff that you want in your wedding.
35:26This is, this is the wedding.
35:28This is an option.
35:29This is something that, I mean, let's hope it only happens once in your life.
35:32It is an option.
35:33The last option, but it is an option.
35:34It could be the last option.
35:36The last one.
35:38It's fine.
35:39It's all right.
35:40It's, it, I am enjoying this.
35:43But to me, I'm not worried about the food.
35:47I'm not worried about desserts.
35:48I'm not worried about tents.
35:49I'm not worried about outdoors cat.
35:51I'm not worried about this.
35:52I'm worried about, is Balen going to be comfortable at this location?
35:57Because we all know that when she gets overstimulated, she could have a bad tick attack and end up on the floor.
36:03Having her wedding here at the house, she has a safe place that she's familiar with, comfortable with.
36:09And if we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle away from her to make her day amazing, then, then that's what it's truly about.
36:20It's not everyone else's wedding.
36:22It's her wedding.
36:23Okay.
36:24It's what you want.
36:25So, either way, whether you choose here or you choose somewhere else, I want you to come over here and look at something.
36:32It's one more thing for you to think about and visualize.
36:35All right?
36:36Let's go over here.
36:36Come on.
36:38You'll like this.
36:40Here, Balen, come over here and stand in front of this.
36:42Look this way.
36:42So I can take this off and then you can be surprised.
36:44It looks like he ordered a bed frame.
36:46I know.
36:47Wait, so he's been out back making this and you guys haven't?
36:50He told me he was doing something special.
36:52Oh, my God.
36:56What?
36:57Oh, my God.
36:58What?
36:59Why are you guys laughing?
37:01Only your dad.
37:02Oh, my God.
37:03Oh, my God.
37:05What are we doing?
37:06So this, so listen.
37:08So no matter what you pick.
37:10Pick.
37:10You can use this for a venue.
37:12All right?
37:12Okay.
37:13Well, it's not going to be.
37:15Oh, my goodness.
37:18Oh.
37:19Oh, my goodness.
37:22This is going in the apartment.
37:24No, okay.
37:25We just need to add some sprinkles.
37:27Do you know what they are?
37:28That's a horse.
37:31That's Fluffy and Toots.
37:32Toots me.
37:33Oh.
37:35Thank you so much.
37:37This probably took you so long.
37:39I am freaking so excited.
37:42I love alpacas.
37:44Mr. and Mrs. Dooley.
37:45There we go.
37:46That's Chuck and that's Marlene.
37:48Marlene's a dirty, filthy whore.
37:50Okay.
37:51Whatever.
37:51As our maid of honor, we accept this.
37:53We're not super sure about the venue portion of the whole thing.
37:56I think the venue's good.
37:57I could see, like, two big circus tents, your animals running around.
38:01A place to, like, take photos and there can be, like, flowers in the background.
38:04Yeah, whatever you want to do.
38:05It's your wedding.
38:06It ended up being a great surprise.
38:09I'm totally impressed.
38:11The backyard venue idea, I'm not so sure of.
38:16But the bench is beautiful.
38:17It probably took you so long to make.
38:20How long did it take you to make this?
38:2216 hours.
38:23No, time, I don't know.
38:24Time to stand still when it carves.
38:26So I'm not given a time frame.
38:29It's worth it.
38:30When Balin was at her worst four years ago in her medical journey, I really questioned that a day like this would come.
38:39Balin deserves to have the perfect wedding day like anybody else.
38:42It's been a long journey, and her day needs to be as amazing as her expectations wanted.
38:51I want her to be able to say, Dad, this is the best day ever.
38:56You can put, like, a bow tie.
39:05Or we can put whatever you want.
39:06It's kind of like Mr. and Mrs. Julie.
39:08That'd be so cute.
39:09Okay, that is really cute.
39:11That's a really cute idea.
39:13How heavy are these?
39:14What if she...
39:15Oh, they're heavy.
39:16Oh, yeah, they've got to be heavy.
39:17I mean, what if the venue's, like, four hours down the road?
39:21Like, I'll just drive it down the road, or what if it's here?
39:23This sweet gift from my dad has definitely made it harder to choose a wedding venue.
39:32I mean, I totally get why my dad thinks it would be better for me to have it here.
39:37And even though it's not exactly what I thought I wanted for my wedding, he's been taking care of me a long time, so I definitely trust his judgment.
39:48So what do you think?
39:50I'm thinking...
39:50It's an option.
39:51It is an option.
39:53Me and Colin are trying to save money for this specific reason, so I can bring it up to him.
40:00However, I don't think my parents' backyard is Colin's first wedding venue choice.
40:06And I know Colin feels a lot of pressure when my dad gives suggestions, even when they're meant to be helpful.
40:12And honestly, I'm a little afraid to ask.
40:21I can't look at the chickens.
40:24Mark, Mark, Mark, Mark!
40:27Have you told Colin?
40:28No.
40:29You told me what?
40:30The last time I saw my dad, he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue.
40:35I haven't even told Colin yet, and I'm not even sure I want to.
40:40Hey, Mom.
40:41Hi, baby.
40:42Bexar.
40:43I would like to have, like, a sleepover with you for the weekend.
40:47I'm a little, like, nervous.
40:48I've never hosted a kid before.
40:50Hola!
40:50I'm going to start.
40:51Muy bien!
40:53Okay, I'm going to show you how to bedazzle.
40:55I don't even know what bedazzle is.
40:56Bedazzle, bedazzle is.
40:58Take this, and it goes in the wax.
41:00Is something burning?
41:02Wait, whoa, whoa, whoa.
41:02What's over there burning?
41:05Do you think that you're still just trying to hold on to Balen?
41:09It's just, you know, when I went to pick her up and when I talked about it.
41:14Oh, my gosh, we're not talking about this again.
41:17I haven't shared this story with that many people.
41:20I haven't shared this story with that many people.
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