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00:00Every day you have to talk to your mom, it's ridiculous.
00:03If you're worried about that, why don't you worry about your $20,000 debt that you have?
00:07Things are clearly not going well, and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:12and I think it might make it worse.
00:16How long would it take if we did file the partnership papers for me to be able to work?
00:22Eight to seven months.
00:24Yeah, that's a long time.
00:25That's a long time.
00:26If you're married, there's no problem.
00:29Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:31but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:36Well, I think at the end of the day, it's something to think about so we can be together in the end.
00:43I don't want to think I love you anymore.
00:49Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
00:52That's the saddest part.
00:54There was no fight.
00:55No.
00:56Your fight's just begun, son.
00:58I think you should have a talk with her.
01:04Oh, my God, what is she doing?
01:08Yeah.
01:09This is not the way I want to start my weekend wedding.
01:13I've been feeling dizzy and weird.
01:17I told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex.
01:21Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:22Yes, and I have a text.
01:25I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:38I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:50Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
01:55After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight about my relationship with my mum.
02:02I don't want the constant stress and the arguments.
02:05So I told her I can sort of meet her halfway with some boundaries, but my mum's going to be a part of our lives.
02:13So Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much, you know.
02:18G'day, mate.
02:21How you going?
02:21How the bloody hell are you?
02:22Well, a long time, mate.
02:24It's a strong hand.
02:25I like that.
02:31Enough to you, come on, sir.
02:33All right.
02:33Ever since Batia arrived in town, like every day, she keeps asking me, when are you going to propose?
02:40G'day, guys.
02:41I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:43Certainly.
02:44So today I'm going with my buddy Chris to a jewellery store to get the engagement ring that I gave Batia shined up.
02:52So that when I'm ready to propose, it looks brand new.
02:57Beautiful.
02:58You like that, do you?
02:59Family allure?
03:01Eh, not quite.
03:01He did actually give it to his partner.
03:07Yes.
03:07Before, and then he took it back.
03:09That's right.
03:10Yeah.
03:11It's a complicated relationship.
03:15The first time I proposed to Batia, it was very lacklustre.
03:20You know, we were in bed, it was Christmas morning, and I just slipped the ring on her finger, and she said yes.
03:26I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:29Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:31No, I don't.
03:31There is so much history and so many memories, so it still has a sentimental value.
03:37I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:39You don't want to trade it in?
03:40Definitely not.
03:41Perfect.
03:44And then you have to clean and polish.
03:46Perfect.
03:47Go grab a coffee.
03:48All right.
03:48After I proposed, we'd be breaking up every three or four weeks, and at one point, Batia's spending got so bad, she started selling all her jewellery just to fund her shopping habit, and I thought, she's going to pawn that.
04:07So, when I took the ring back, she saw that as, you know, we're no longer engaged, which is fair enough.
04:13Okay, so the ring.
04:17Yes.
04:17Ten years ago, you gave her the ring, and you've been holding on to that ring ever since.
04:22Yeah.
04:23You haven't proposed to her again?
04:26No, because I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:31I don't know, 12 years.
04:32I feel like if you haven't fixed something after 12 years, how many more years is it going to take for you to fix?
04:38I'm not giving up.
04:42Hmm, okay.
04:44I'm just worried about the personality clash.
04:46You lived together in Thailand.
04:48Yes.
04:48So, what happened there?
04:49Why did that not work out?
04:52In the beginning, it was magical.
04:54And then after a while, she was miserable, I wasn't giving her enough money, and she just hated it.
05:02I just thought she would be happy living that life, that retired beach lifestyle, but she, that wasn't enough for her.
05:14Her life has been fast-paced, fast money, fast living.
05:19How is she going to be happy here, long term?
05:23Honestly, think about that.
05:25She's in a foreign country.
05:27She's got no family or friends here.
05:28She's just going to be happy, hanging around, in Launceston.
05:34But the thing is, there's a certain limit.
05:37You can't do that all your life.
05:39You know, she's approaching an age.
05:41An age.
05:42She's getting older.
05:43She can't live that fast-paced life forever.
05:46I don't know.
05:47Once you're used to something, it's hard to, um, to change, you know.
05:53I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn.
05:56Like, he won't change what he eats, for example.
05:57It's only chicken and rice.
05:59I try to get him to eat a cookie.
06:00Wouldn't even need a cookie.
06:01I mean, he's pretty stubborn.
06:03He won't change anything.
06:04So, I'm worried that Dylan's stubbornness is causing him to live in a fantasy and not deal with reality.
06:11I don't think a ring on the finger is going to be the thing that fixes everything.
06:18I love her.
06:19I just can't see myself with anyone else.
06:22I'm not saying...
06:22I'm not even attracted to anyone else.
06:24I just want her.
06:25All right.
06:26Look.
06:27I'm only saying this because I care about you as a friend.
06:33I love Patia.
06:35I know she makes you very happy.
06:38But your idea of happily ever after is a bit delusional.
06:44I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan.
06:47Chris's concerns are valid.
06:52Patia and I still have a lot of issues to work through.
06:56But I am feeling optimistic about the future with Patia.
07:00She's come to Australia.
07:02She's given it a good go.
07:03And she's trying to resolve things with my mother.
07:06So I think that's massive, really.
07:09I feel like it is different now.
07:11Well, think about it.
07:13I'm confused.
07:23Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
07:39I can't be.
07:41I can't be.
07:41I can't be.
07:43I can't be.
07:44I can't be.
07:45I can't be.
07:46And this stresses me the out right now.
07:56I didn't expect you to say that you actually think that you're pregnant.
08:01I really, like, so scared about if he's positive.
08:09Because if you have a baby, like, I need to have stability.
08:15Stability is the only thing that I really ever wanted.
08:19I'm talking about you don't give it to me.
08:21So how are we going to get our children to the war when you and me fighting all the time?
08:27When you're cheating of me, like, how?
08:32I hope that we can work on this relationship.
08:34But right now, I'm not confident that we're working.
08:36We talked yesterday.
08:38Hey, like, are we compatible?
08:39Can we not fight?
08:40And all we've done is continue to fight.
08:43Who made the fight today?
08:45I didn't try and fight today.
08:46I said, please.
08:47I don't want to argue.
08:54Do you want to go try this?
08:55No.
08:57Leave me alone.
09:00I want to know.
09:06No see.
09:07You think I am happy?
09:20Like, you know, there's a situation where I should be being happy.
09:24You're looking at me happy.
09:25Let's please try and be happy about this.
09:27Please, can we take the time?
09:28See, you think I am, like, you're going to change the emotions so easy.
09:30Like, how I'm going to be happy?
09:32I am two days to supposedly get married.
09:36If you are pregnant
09:39and we're going to have a baby,
09:45then this means that we're having a family, Madeline.
09:54Can we please take this test?
09:56No.
09:57Please.
10:04Please, Madeline.
10:06I am not ready to get the text,
10:21but it's something, like, I have to do.
10:25I need to know what is going on.
10:27This is a good opportunity for you to show me
10:37that you're ready to really take a serious step.
10:40If you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today,
10:43in a sense, you're not in love with me,
10:44like, you're in love with also an idea.
10:47I feel like this is a test if I'm actually wife material or not.
10:50You broke his heart, Ressa.
10:55You might think that it's done.
10:58He wonders whether you just need some time.
11:01I know.
11:01It's such a beautiful beach, huh?
11:25It is really pretty.
11:26It's been a few days since Jonathan and I have met with the lawyers
11:30and found out that the fastest and easiest way for me to stay here
11:33is to get married,
11:35and we're still kind of processing that information.
11:39I don't think your leg can support me.
11:40Oh, really?
11:41Come on.
11:42I've been eating a lot.
11:44Yeah?
11:44I want to step on your shoe.
11:45Let's go.
11:46Ow!
11:47I thought giving up everything and moving to another country was a lot,
11:50but adding this on top of it is, like, bang.
11:55Do we miss the sunset or is it just cloudy?
11:57It's a bit cloudy today.
11:59Anyway, me and Maria are going to have meatball night tomorrow.
12:03What does meatball night mean?
12:05Are you going to actually go to a restaurant and eat meatballs,
12:08or are you going to, like...
12:08It's just, like, a girly, fun night.
12:11Like, it's just where we can just act stupid and be in meatballs.
12:14Go to dinner, have a drink.
12:17Okay.
12:17And be...
12:17It's going to be fun night.
12:18One drink.
12:21Have a drink.
12:23Maria is my best friend on the island.
12:26Jonathan doesn't like when I go out with Maria
12:28because we like to drink.
12:31We like to be stupid.
12:33We like to randomly karaoke.
12:34We like to, like, climb palm trees
12:36and just do really harmless things.
12:40With that being said,
12:41if I'm being unrealistic about something that happened with Jonathan,
12:45Maria is always the one to reel me in
12:47and be like, don't put up with it.
12:49And I think that makes Jonathan a little nervous.
12:54I don't know where we're going to go to dinner yet.
12:55Maybe one of our go-to spots.
12:59Yeah, well, we'll find a spot where we can go dinner.
13:01Well, I think me and Maria are just going to go to dinner.
13:07And then...
13:07I'm not going to go?
13:09That's why it's a meatball night.
13:11Oh.
13:13We were going to invite you afterwards.
13:16Mm-hmm.
13:17Well, no, I don't want you to be, like, worried about it, you know?
13:21I know, but I have a lot of worries when Maria is here
13:24because when you guys get together,
13:25it's a real get-together, you know what I mean?
13:28You guys go all out.
13:30Yeah, but I think I've chilled out a lot.
13:34Maria, I met a few years back.
13:36We had the same friends, you know?
13:37We'd hang out sometimes.
13:39When I introduced Chloe, they clicked automatically.
13:42It was, like, the next day, Chloe was telling me,
13:44I'm going to hang out with Maria every day now.
13:46The thing about Maria is that she works abroad,
13:48so when she comes to Ruby,
13:50she only wants to look for a party, you know?
13:52And I don't like that at all.
13:55Now that, you know, you're living here on the island and stuff,
13:57this is a good opportunity for you to show me
14:00that you're mature and ready
14:02to really take a serious step.
14:05You know, I'm not going to go out and, you know,
14:07go dance on top of the bar and, you know, be crazy.
14:10Like, that's not something that's respectable
14:12from either of our parts.
14:13Like, I wouldn't do that.
14:14I just don't want you to want to change,
14:17like, so much about me to the point where, like,
14:20like, if you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today,
14:23in a sense, you're not in love with me.
14:24Like, you're in love with also an idea
14:26of what, like, the future can look like
14:29when you have to be okay with me now also.
14:32Okay.
14:35It's just, um,
14:37I'm used to you when you're going out and going heavy.
14:39You know what I mean?
14:40Right, and I think that's more vacation mode.
14:42Okay, so just, I want to see how this mode's going to be, okay?
14:46So this is the opportunity to show me, like,
14:47what kind of mode you're in, okay?
14:50Okay.
14:53I know Jonathan doesn't like that I like to go out
14:56and have drinks, but I feel like this is more of a test
14:59if I'm actually white material or not.
15:01Now that we're talking about it more and more,
15:04I can't really tell if Jonathan wants this or not.
15:06I feel like he's throwing up all these little,
15:08little roadblocks and, like, high obstacles
15:10that I can't jump over to stall the process.
15:15You're going to let me live a little.
15:17Okay.
15:18Understood.
15:19Just don't go too crazy, okay?
15:21You're not going to go too crazy.
15:22I'm still a little crazy.
15:24You are.
15:25Very crazy.
15:26I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:279.
15:27I wouldn't say that about you.
15:28What would you say about that?
15:3010.
15:31You're so bad.
15:32You're so bad.
16:02I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:08I was just kind of, like, spiraling
16:13about everything that happened.
16:17The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew,
16:21and slipping the engagement ring off my finger
16:26made the breakup feel very real to me.
16:32And I am filled with immense sadness
16:35because an engagement is a promise,
16:37and I am breaking a promise,
16:40and that doesn't feel very good.
16:43Matthew's dad has texted me
16:46and wants to talk with me.
16:48I feel really nervous about it
16:51because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
16:55It's going to be difficult
16:56because I know it's going to be emotional,
16:59but I really do hope
17:01that the conversation ends amicably.
17:07Matthew's parents were so excited for me
17:09to move and to join the family,
17:11and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:14Hi, Greta.
17:31Mark, how are you?
17:34I'm OK, how are you?
17:35OK.
17:36I'm sorry.
17:38You have to be sorry, man.
17:39I just thought we'd just catch up with each other
17:45because, obviously, a lot's happened,
17:48and I just want to try and find out
17:49where you are
17:52because I can't understand what's happened,
17:56and I'm struggling to put it together.
18:01Matthew's isn't...
18:03I've never seen him like it, Greta,
18:05and I'm worried about him
18:07because he loves you.
18:10I know.
18:11He does.
18:12And you broke his heart, Greta, literally.
18:17That's, like, the worst part about it all,
18:19and that's why I was, like, struggling so much
18:21because, like, I, like, really don't want to hurt him
18:24because...
18:26it's so difficult to explain.
18:30I did love him so much,
18:32and I was so excited to talk to him all the time,
18:35and I was so excited to see him,
18:36and so...
18:38I'm confused, like,
18:41why I don't, like,
18:43feel like I love him,
18:45like, in love with him.
18:46Is that because you've had so much happening
18:48in the last few months?
18:50You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
18:52Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
18:54I mean, I know that there was a shift
18:59because I felt like we were not evolving
19:02into people that were still compatible with each other,
19:06and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
19:13Like, he's a great person.
19:15Like, he...
19:16Like, I respect him so much.
19:18He's, like, helped me so much in life.
19:20Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
19:22He wonders whether you just need some time
19:26because you don't forget
19:27you've just travelled across halfway over the world.
19:30You've probably not slept properly.
19:32He's prepared to give you your time and your space.
19:34Yeah.
19:35What worries me is that you've not had time together.
19:38You've not been on your own.
19:40So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done,
19:42and you say it is,
19:44but let's be honest, it's only been four days.
19:47There's not been given a chance to go any further because...
19:50I know it seems, like, sudden,
19:53and I know this just sounds, like, crazy,
19:56but I just know it in my instinct,
19:57like, that...
19:59that, like, he's not my person.
20:04That's such a shame, you know?
20:06And, like, my honest truth,
20:08which, like, you can accept or not,
20:10I just, like, know I can't make him happy.
20:13And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys
20:17and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms.
20:19Like, it really meant the world to me.
20:21Like, thank you, because...
20:23It did, too.
20:23We...we loved you, Greta.
20:26Yeah.
20:26We really fought a lot of you.
20:34I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
20:36I don't think there's any hope for Matthew
20:39and Greta at this stage.
20:43I don't understand it.
20:44I can see she's rationalising it in her mind
20:47why she's doing it, and she's justifying it.
20:50But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
20:55Matthew's always loved you,
20:56and he always probably will for a long time,
20:58still to come.
21:02Just wish I had a different ending.
21:03I did.
21:09I'm nerding my life.
21:11Take a dex for both Brekma.
21:15We're struggling to cross the finish line
21:18on us getting married,
21:19let alone starting a family together.
21:22I'm really so scared.
21:33I'm nerding my life.
21:55Take a dex for both Brekma.
22:00And I never think I'm gonna have to be...
22:02like this.
22:10I'm scared of this.
22:13I mean, we're struggling to cross the finish line
22:15on us getting married,
22:17let alone starting a family together.
22:19What do you want to be?
22:43Honestly, I think, like, right now,
22:48the right time for us to have a baby?
22:50Probably not.
22:51But it's something that I want with you.
22:54You are the person that I want to be
22:56the mother of my children
22:57because I love you.
23:00And I think that you would be a very good mom,
23:03whether it's now or in five years.
23:05It's not gonna change how I feel.
23:07What does this mean?
23:21Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant,
23:23a smile or a sad face or something.
23:25This says one line.
23:27What does one line mean?
23:31Negative.
23:31This is negative?
23:32That is the result.
23:37But you should be crying.
23:43You don't cry.
23:45That you're negative or positive?
23:47Negative.
23:50It doesn't change how I feel.
23:53I love you,
23:54and I want this relationship to work.
23:57Yeah, me too,
23:58but in the same way,
23:59I don't trust you in anything,
24:02and I'm really so scared.
24:07I just want you to be happy.
24:09And I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:11I try really hard,
24:12and I feel like I fail all the time.
24:15You try so hard.
24:16What about the conversation today?
24:19The love of the other we're talking about,
24:22we shared, too.
24:23This is gonna be my name.
24:26Um, okay.
24:27Like, one day,
24:29we're gonna have to share everything.
24:31We have a company together.
24:32We have business together.
24:34Everything.
24:34And later,
24:35no, I don't want to share anymore.
24:37The company is both of us.
24:39In your mind,
24:46everything is money.
24:48I don't care about money
24:50other than the fact that...
24:52Don't!
24:53Other than...
24:54Every single day mention money.
24:56Every single day mention,
24:58no, you don't push any money in this project.
25:01You don't pay anything.
25:02You never bother me.
25:03I value everything that you do.
25:07But the fact of the matter is,
25:08I try as much as I can
25:11to provide for you,
25:13and if you would let me be a man
25:16and make manly decisions,
25:19I'd really appreciate it.
25:23I don't ask much of you.
25:24Just let me do what I need to do
25:27to make our dreams a reality.
25:33I know I am not perfect.
25:46I know I am a difficult person,
25:47and I know I have so many things to do with.
25:51But I just love everything you've done well for me.
25:57But at the end of the day,
25:58I really love you, Luke.
26:02I know you do.
26:03And I love you more.
26:11One of my biggest problems in this relationship
26:14is always he show me
26:16I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:19So, I really push so hard
26:22to push my name on, like, the property.
26:26Because I don't know if in the future
26:28he's going to have to change the woman
26:29or change me,
26:30and what they're going to have to do.
26:31But when I tell him
26:34maybe I think I get pregnant
26:37and he reaction, like,
26:38no, I really want a family with you.
26:40It may make me more comfortable
26:42about everything's going to be good,
26:44and I need to trust him.
26:49I just want you to be happy.
26:50And I'd like for us to be happy together.
26:54It's not the first night we met.
27:11I know.
27:12Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:14Absolutely.
27:14If I'm being honest after being here,
27:17sometimes I miss it.
27:19I want to go back home
27:21for, like, six months
27:23and dance that debt off.
27:25You only just got here.
27:26All righty.
27:55Look at that.
27:56I've been here a couple of weeks
27:59and I've been complaining
28:01about how there's nothing to do here.
28:02But tonight, Dylan's taking me
28:04to a strip club.
28:08I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:10I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:14There's nightlife here in Tasmania.
28:16Something that's open past 10.
28:18OMG.
28:18Do you think you can do that?
28:31Definitely not.
28:35I feel like this is even like
28:36the first night we met.
28:37I know, right?
28:38Except you're wearing a little bit less
28:39than what you're wearing now.
28:41I know.
28:41More clothing.
28:42I know.
28:43This is awesome.
28:45It's a great club.
28:46G'day, g'day.
28:48Hey, beautiful.
28:49Oh, my God.
28:49She's hot.
28:51She's definitely good with the pole.
28:55You're loving this, aren't you?
28:57I do.
28:57Doing your elements.
28:58This is the happiest I've seen you
29:00since we got here.
29:01Shut up.
29:02Seriously.
29:02Shut up.
29:03I have everything we've done.
29:04Yeah.
29:05Babe, you know why I love it?
29:06It's because this is my life.
29:08I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:09It's like my second home.
29:12You know what it's like to perform.
29:13I love it.
29:14You feel good.
29:14Yes.
29:14You get all the, you know,
29:15the compliments is awesome.
29:18It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:19Yes, exactly.
29:22Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:23Absolutely.
29:24Why?
29:26Well, even though, you know,
29:28you were happy doing it
29:29and it lit you up,
29:30it's still not my favourite thought
29:32to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:35It's not my favourite thing.
29:37But you know it's just work.
29:40Yeah.
29:40I'd rather you do a different job.
29:44I get that he doesn't like me
29:46being around other men,
29:47but it's just a job
29:48and the money is fantastic.
29:50And if I'm being honest
29:51after being here,
29:53sometimes I miss it.
29:55It's going to be hard for me
29:56not making this kind of money,
29:59you know?
30:00I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:03Yeah.
30:06It scares me sometimes.
30:08I'm just going to have to look at,
30:09you know,
30:10some of the luxuries
30:11that you enjoy in Dallas,
30:14you know,
30:14all the online shopping
30:15and the excessive spending,
30:17that's going to have to stop.
30:20You're worried about the financial stuff.
30:22You're worried about the money,
30:24the debt.
30:25so I just think
30:28I want to go back to the States,
30:31home for like six months
30:33and dance that debt off.
30:36Then you won't have to worry
30:37about paying that off.
30:38It would be okay with that.
30:39I don't like that thought, love.
30:44You only just got here
30:45and you're talking about leaving
30:46and going back to dancing.
30:47To be honest,
30:48I know that
30:49it's fun for you
30:51and
30:51I dance too.
30:53but like
30:54I don't dance
30:56in a champagne room
30:57with just me
30:58and another person.
31:00No.
31:01I work with another girl.
31:02I'm not on stage.
31:02But I work with another girl.
31:03It's always me
31:04and another girl.
31:05Sometimes you don't.
31:06But the thing is...
31:0790% of the time, maybe.
31:08Okay, well,
31:0810% you don't.
31:10Very rare.
31:11It bothers me a little bit.
31:13Sorry.
31:16Even though, you know,
31:17we're both strippers,
31:18it's a very sensitive topic
31:21and makes me look like a hypocrite,
31:23but I feel like it is different in a way.
31:27I'm up on stage
31:28with a room full of women,
31:30but with Patias,
31:32she goes out,
31:33she finds a guy
31:34and then she takes him back
31:35to a VIP room.
31:37I know they're both entertainment,
31:40they're both stripping
31:40and it's both a transaction,
31:42but they're two different things.
31:44And so,
31:45I don't like the thought
31:46of Patia going back to dancing.
31:48It kind of feels like an excuse
31:49just to leave Tasmania.
31:51It's like,
31:52this place sucks,
31:53it's too quiet,
31:54I don't want to be near your family,
31:56so I'll just go back
31:57and dance in the US.
31:59Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
32:02Maybe Patia is not going to change.
32:05I just sometimes don't think
32:06that I'm enough for you.
32:07You are enough.
32:08I know that I'm enough,
32:10but sometimes I think
32:12that you're addicted
32:13to that lifestyle,
32:14that easy, fast money.
32:16And that's kind of
32:17what I'm scared of
32:17because I retired you in Thailand
32:20and you were just completely bored.
32:23I was bored.
32:23All you talked about the whole time
32:25was going back to dancing.
32:26I did, I did.
32:27I thought I was going to get a ring there
32:29and you didn't give it to me
32:30and I was like,
32:30you know what,
32:31what's the point?
32:32I'm done.
32:33If you really love me,
32:35you should just stick by my side
32:36no matter what.
32:40Listen,
32:40part of our problem
32:42in the past
32:42was because you didn't want to commit.
32:44So once you get a ring,
32:45like everything's magically going to change,
32:48you're going to become...
32:48It's not going to magically change.
32:50It's going to make me feel better.
32:53It's hard to commit to you
32:55if you can't commit to us being together.
32:58Okay.
32:59I want to commit to us being together.
33:01I love you.
33:02You're not committing.
33:02You're just like running off to dancing already.
33:04Put a ring on it.
33:07I want this to work
33:09but Batia's saying
33:11she wants to go back to the US.
33:13Thailand is kind of still
33:15in the back of my mind
33:16because she left me.
33:19If things get tough,
33:20is Batia just going to leave?
33:24I just want to know
33:24that you're going to stick by me
33:26no matter what.
33:29You marrying him
33:33is the worst idea
33:35you've probably ever had.
33:37Before, it looked so bad.
33:39Still is.
33:41In the year that they've been together,
33:43I think Johnny has cheated on her.
33:45Probably every week.
33:59Don't hit me with your car.
34:11Please.
34:12Or do.
34:14Bye.
34:17Girls night.
34:19Girls night.
34:19My best friend Maria
34:29is finally back in town
34:30and we're going to get dinner
34:31with our other friend Kamilah
34:32and I'm so excited
34:33to just have some girl time.
34:35How are you, Pookie?
34:37You look fabulous.
34:40They are my go-to girls
34:41to talk all my relationship gossips.
34:43They know everything
34:44from the highest high
34:45to like the lowest low.
34:48Did you guys get wine?
34:49Did you order anything?
34:50I'm not sure.
34:52Yeah.
34:52Between my mom
34:54cutting me off financially
34:56and everything that's going on
34:57with Jonathan,
34:58I think we have a lot
35:00to catch up on.
35:01I actually haven't seen you.
35:02This is so funny.
35:03And the last time I saw you...
35:04I barely saw you.
35:05You were six, so I...
35:07And then my phone broke.
35:08I got a new phone.
35:09Do you have a plan in Aruba?
35:10No.
35:11Oh, wow.
35:12I haven't gotten that far.
35:13I got a plan with my mom now
35:15instead of my, like, own
35:16because she has the business one
35:18so I can, like, internationally...
35:19Oh, I have the same.
35:20Roam it up.
35:21I have the same, yeah.
35:22But my mom said, you know,
35:24I'm not going to keep, you know,
35:26financing your journey.
35:29She was like, I'm not.
35:30Like, which is understandable.
35:32But now, it's like,
35:34if my mom's not going to help me out,
35:37we can't keep going to dinner
35:38every single night
35:39like we were when I was here,
35:41which is thousands and thousands
35:43of dollars at this point.
35:45Can Jonathan give you that?
35:48No.
35:49No.
35:49He can't give me...
35:50He cannot give me the financial aspect
35:51that I'm used to.
35:52He can't.
35:53Oh.
35:54And he knows that.
35:55It's going to be a lot harder.
35:57Are you willing to risk that?
36:00It's a lot.
36:01It's going to take a lot of work.
36:03I'm okay with that.
36:05I want to do that
36:06because I know at the end of the day,
36:07like, I do want to be happy with him.
36:10I want us to work.
36:11How long has it been?
36:13Not even a year or a year?
36:14It's been a year almost now.
36:16I have love goggles on.
36:17It's going to be a year.
36:19You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:21I wish that you'd rip him off your face.
36:25I want us to work.
36:27I want to build something together.
36:29I want a work permit.
36:30So, we went to our first appointment
36:33with an immigration lawyer.
36:34What happened?
36:36Well...
36:37The easiest way for me to be legal
36:40is to get married.
36:49Do you want to marry him?
36:50I do.
36:51I really do.
36:54Chloe?
36:55No.
36:55You marrying him
36:58is the worst idea
37:00you've probably ever had
37:01in your life.
37:03You see yourself long-term
37:05settling down with him.
37:06But you find out about a random girl
37:08every single week.
37:10He wants a relationship
37:11while he's out cheating.
37:14Remember that day
37:15that we were at Clubhouse
37:18and he said he was at work all day
37:19and his co-workers were like,
37:21Jonathan didn't work today.
37:24It wasn't his location
37:25of Jolly Pirate
37:26because Kainer has his phone.
37:28Because Kainer has his phone.
37:30And Clubhouse is a clubhouse.
37:33There's definitely been
37:34a few other times
37:36where I've questioned
37:36where Jonathan was,
37:38what he was doing,
37:39where I thought something
37:40was going on.
37:41But a lot of the times
37:42I couldn't prove it.
37:44So, I understand their side.
37:46But I feel like
37:47since I've been here
37:48that Jonathan is being faithful.
37:51I feel like
37:52before,
37:53it looked so bad.
37:55Like, it was bad
37:56before.
37:57You see,
37:58you're making an excuse
37:58for him again.
38:00I don't want to make
38:01so, no.
38:02It was bad.
38:03Still is.
38:05I think we're moving
38:06in a better direction.
38:08Like, I think we've had growth,
38:10but no.
38:11Like, our...
38:12So he has been cheating?
38:14Lately, no.
38:15But what's changed?
38:17I mean...
38:18Is he just lying better?
38:19Chloe has talked about
38:23marrying Johnny before,
38:24but I never thought
38:26it was actually serious.
38:28Because everybody on the island
38:29knows that Johnny
38:30has a reputation
38:32with girls.
38:33He's proud to have
38:34a lot of girls on him.
38:36I think it feeds his ego.
38:38In the year
38:38that they've been together,
38:39I think Johnny
38:40has cheated on her.
38:42Probably every week.
38:43You know what he's doing.
38:46You know what he's doing,
38:47you know?
38:47Like...
38:48Are you willing
38:49to put up with that?
38:50Is this...
38:51Right.
38:52So this is the person
38:53you want to marry.
38:55What I am baffled about
38:57is that you're just okay
38:58with what he says.
39:00Okay.
39:01I love you.
39:02I want to marry you.
39:04How about you don't
39:04cheat on me?
39:07What would it take
39:08for you to be like,
39:10okay, actually,
39:11I'm going to take
39:12my best friend's advice,
39:13my mom's advice,
39:14everybody else's advice
39:15that this is a bad idea.
39:18If something were to happen,
39:19I would pack my
39:21so fast.
39:23Just prepare yourself.
39:24That's all I'm saying.
39:32Next time on
39:3390 Day Fiancé,
39:34The Other Way.
39:35We're going to play.
39:36We're going to play.
39:37Even if you work a lot,
39:39you have to take
39:39time for yourself.
39:40Hearing from Anthony
39:42and from my mother,
39:44you focus too much
39:45on a career.
39:46The thing is like,
39:47we still need to provide
39:48and pay the bills.
39:49We're not rich.
39:50Me?
39:51I don't know if you
39:52continue to treat my life,
39:53but one day,
39:54I'll tell you something.
39:55There's a lot of things
39:55with your child.
39:59How are you doing?
40:00Good.
40:01This is Madeline.
40:02I'm not my dad.
40:03Madeline calling
40:04the wedding off
40:05three, four times.
40:06I mean,
40:06that's not a very good
40:07indicator going into
40:09a marriage.
40:11You're going to be
40:11marrying my son,
40:12but the three weeks
40:13that he's been here,
40:15it's a f***ing joke.
40:17Is this really
40:18what you want?
40:21You haven't really
40:22changed doing
40:23what you do.
40:24You haven't done anything.
40:25It's just a matter of time
40:27until he just does it again.
40:28Like, it's a habit.
40:29You didn't physically
40:30do anything.
40:31Exactly.
40:31You should not have
40:32messaged another girl.
40:33I did not see
40:34anything like that.
40:36I'm not getting
40:37into this.
40:41I just feel like
40:42it's one thing
40:43after another.
40:44Your mom is
40:45complaining about
40:46how I do things.
40:48I can't live like this.
40:49I knew that
40:50it's going to be
40:50hard for Jenny
40:51because my mom
40:52has a list of
40:53expectations
40:54for everybody
40:55in the house.
40:57I can't take
41:03this anymore.
41:03There's no
41:04making this
41:05woman happy.
41:09Someone needs
41:09to put her
41:10in her place.
41:11You're not
41:11saying this.
41:12You're not
41:13saying this.
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