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00:00:00Oh, Trish.
00:00:02Oh, you're here.
00:00:04I'm here, baby.
00:00:06I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:09Don't love me.
00:00:10I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:13I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:16after the ghosting incident.
00:00:18But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:22Surprise!
00:00:25Damn!
00:00:26You know what I really like from the States?
00:00:30The Chinese food out there.
00:00:32If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:34My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:37He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:41But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:44They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:46The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:49and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:52and that they left together.
00:00:54I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong,
00:00:59but there's definitely a little part of me
00:01:00that wonders if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:06Beer Con is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:12straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:14I'm ready to take the next step with him,
00:01:17but I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:20has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:22You want my time and attention
00:01:25as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:27but it can't go both ways.
00:01:30You said you'd never leave.
00:01:32I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:34I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:36I'm heading to the Philippines today,
00:01:42but last night, Sheena tells me
00:01:44she has been giving all her money to her parents this entire time.
00:01:49I am not happy,
00:01:51and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:01:54I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:01:58when she's alive here.
00:02:01And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:05It's a beautiful day!
00:02:12It's a beautiful day!
00:02:15I hate packing.
00:02:30I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:32So, yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:34I'm, like, super nervous.
00:02:35Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:37I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:40I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:42I've never left the continent.
00:02:44But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:47I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:54I've been talking about doing this for so long, for so many months.
00:02:57And now that it's here, I'm, wow, like, way more nervous than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:04The situation with Michael is giving me a little bit more anxiety, too.
00:03:10When I confronted Michael, I really was trying to give him a chance so I could have a clear head before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:21But Michael does not seem like he's ever going to come to terms with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:28And that's not fair to me.
00:03:31So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:35Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:37We do a lot of things together.
00:03:38We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:39And I know that that is not really common, to have that kind of male-female friendship in other cultures, other religions.
00:03:51And so that's scary to feel like I might possibly have to choose between somebody who's my best friend and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:02It's open.
00:04:03It's open.
00:04:04Hey.
00:04:05Hey.
00:04:05How are you?
00:04:06Good.
00:04:06How are you?
00:04:07Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:08Are you excited?
00:04:09Yeah.
00:04:10A little terrified, actually.
00:04:11I know.
00:04:12I'm terrified for you.
00:04:15My parents offered to take me to the airport, which is really nice.
00:04:19But my relationship has felt a little bit strained with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:27They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:31And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect to see me end up with.
00:04:38So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:43You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:45So excited.
00:04:52I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:53I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:04:55I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:04:56I wanted you to feel supported, but I'm not in favor of all of us.
00:05:03I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey and meet a guy you've never met who is a Muslim.
00:05:12It's not even in my wheelhouse to think that that would ever have been something that was possible.
00:05:17You know what I'm saying?
00:05:19It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:22It's not like I'm going in completely blind or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:32The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:37I mean, how old is he, Laura?
00:05:40He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:42Oh, my God.
00:05:46Laura, are you serious?
00:05:47I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:51Don't make jokes.
00:05:52That's not funny.
00:05:54What is he thinking?
00:05:55What is he thinking?
00:05:56I'm awesome.
00:05:57What the heck is he thinking?
00:05:58I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:00No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:04That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:05Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:10Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman and saying all the right things.
00:06:15Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:18Yeah.
00:06:19Okay.
00:06:19Big red flag.
00:06:20Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:21That's not what love is.
00:06:24You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:26You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:32Right now, it's not love.
00:06:33It's some infatuation or some, to me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but that guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:42I don't, like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:45I agree.
00:06:46A concern?
00:06:46It's more like, like 10 giant red flags.
00:06:52My word in heaven.
00:06:54You actually think that there's a possibility that this could work and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:03Yeah, I do.
00:07:04You do?
00:07:05If I didn't think that there was a possibility, I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:10My, my, my.
00:07:13Oh, my God.
00:07:14We're just pointing out all our concerns, you know, and all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:25I feel blindsided.
00:07:31I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:34I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:39I did, I just, honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:42All of it.
00:07:45I want to be happy for you.
00:07:47But I can't.
00:07:50I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:53I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:07:56And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me at this point, it is just messing with my head.
00:08:04It keeps me awake at night, thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:09Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:11Don't ever settle.
00:08:12We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:28Why?
00:08:29Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:34Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:36Yeah.
00:08:37Yeah.
00:08:37No, that's, that's a show we're going to happen now.
00:08:40Yeah.
00:08:42Do it once, do it twice.
00:08:44Take the cake, not just a slice.
00:08:46I got a funny feeling ain't nobody.
00:08:48What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:50You're how old?
00:08:51I'm 52.
00:08:53And you said you're an adult?
00:08:55I am an adult.
00:08:57You don't need my help picking out condoms.
00:09:00My name is Lisa.
00:09:01I'm 52 years old and I live in King of Prussia, Pennsylvania.
00:09:05I thought you would feel better knowing that your mother's taking precautions.
00:09:09I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so.
00:09:12I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:15No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:19Is that not a playboy?
00:09:20Playboy is somebody who's like, um, a gigolo.
00:09:24He didn't say he was not a playboy.
00:09:25No, gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:27Oh, gigolos are male hooker.
00:09:29No, that's not.
00:09:30That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:31That's a pimp.
00:09:32A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers and gets the money.
00:09:38Okay.
00:09:39I live with my daughter, Faith, where Faith lives with me.
00:09:43We live with each other.
00:09:44And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:47We talk about everything.
00:09:49Whether it's the topic of sex and masturbating to dirty dishes in the sink
00:09:56and who's going to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:09:59I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:01What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:03How do I know what size it is?
00:10:06Has he ever told you in inch, well, I guess it wouldn't be, in kilometers?
00:10:12No.
00:10:14I have never used a condom before.
00:10:16Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:18I have been married five times.
00:10:23Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb, and it led to an annulment.
00:10:28Husband number two, he was my very best friend.
00:10:31And it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:34But after a few years, I realized he made a better friend than he made a husband.
00:10:39Husband number three, he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:43He was a really good guy.
00:10:45So, why did I leave him?
00:10:49I realized I was a lesbian.
00:10:51And for the past 21 years, I've been with women only.
00:10:54Let's go with the flow.
00:10:58Relax.
00:10:59Watch what happens.
00:11:01Women are nice and curvy and soft.
00:11:05I've had one wife, and then I've had another wife.
00:11:08But neither of them worked out.
00:11:11But I forgot about men, to be quite honest with you.
00:11:13I wasn't even thinking that I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.
00:11:18But sure enough, Daniel came along, and yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:27Hi, beautiful.
00:11:28You're my everything.
00:11:29You're the lights in my show.
00:11:32He is 39 years old, and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:40He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form, so I don't know what it is.
00:11:46He messaged me on social media.
00:11:50We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.
00:11:54So, at first, I thought, this is a scam artist.
00:11:57I said, I'm not talking to you.
00:11:58You're not real.
00:12:00But he kept trying to talk to me, and you know what?
00:12:03He is a smooth operator.
00:12:05He says the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.
00:12:08I just fell in love with him.
00:12:16He is so sweet, it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.
00:12:20I love you, Lisa, and I will continue to love you.
00:12:24Daniel says I'm exquisite, and I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.
00:12:29And he better, because this damn thing is itchy as all hell, and it's uncomfortable.
00:12:35Can I take it off?
00:12:36Oh, my God, it feels so much better.
00:12:50One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short, and I miss my long hair so much.
00:12:57So, I wear wigs.
00:12:59Daniel saw me in my natural hair first, and then he saw me in my wigs, and he was like, damn.
00:13:04So, now I wear wigs every day, and I plan on wearing my wig the whole time when I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than a week.
00:13:14Okay, here goes nothing.
00:13:17Try a flavored one.
00:13:18You might like it.
00:13:18No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:20Maybe you're rubbed.
00:13:21No, I don't know.
00:13:22Growing up with mom was in a roller coaster.
00:13:29My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly, at least what she thinks is love.
00:13:36She's been through a lot of relationships.
00:13:40We've moved so many places.
00:13:42I've been to 15 different schools, if that tells you something.
00:13:46Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men after 21 years.
00:13:50I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:54Oh, gosh.
00:13:57Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:00Oh, there's different sizes.
00:14:03Holy crap.
00:14:05Daniel and I, we've had video sex.
00:14:08We've sent pictures to each other, and I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:12But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years, I can't even think about it.
00:14:19They have different body parts than women.
00:14:22The smells, the taste, the feels, the cleanup.
00:14:27I mean, I remember 21 years ago just walking to the bathroom to have to take care of myself and still dripping.
00:14:35That's disgusting.
00:14:36You don't have that with women.
00:14:39It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:40Oh, I'm going to be sick.
00:14:43Um, sir, if you have a moment, could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:48I'm not going to help you.
00:14:49It's so embarrassing.
00:14:50I'm sorry.
00:14:50This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:14:53Okay.
00:14:53They have to be latex-free.
00:14:55I'm allergic to latex.
00:14:57I'm...
00:14:57Oh, gosh.
00:15:00When it says thinnest, does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural skin on it?
00:15:06It's just it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you or I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:10I'm just really, really embarrassed.
00:15:12No, no, it's good.
00:15:13I'm buying the condoms myself because I'm worried that I'll get there and there won't be a latex-free condom.
00:15:21But this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me.
00:15:25This is not just about the embarrassment over the condoms.
00:15:28All I can think about is Daniel and how he has no idea that I lived my life as a lesbian for 21 years.
00:15:37Thank you so much.
00:15:38No problem.
00:15:38I appreciate it.
00:15:39A couple of months ago, I went into Tessa Waters to see if I could come out with my whole truth.
00:15:46And I told him in the past that I had a fling with a woman.
00:15:52Daniel said to me, how could I do that to myself?
00:15:55How could I do that to God?
00:15:56God doesn't believe in same sexes being together.
00:15:59And he was disgusted.
00:16:03There you go.
00:16:05Yeah, no problem.
00:16:05Give me the rest of your time.
00:16:06I'm diving in the purse.
00:16:07I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person because I am not ashamed of who I am.
00:16:13But I'm terrified to tell him because of how he responded to the fling.
00:16:17I'm terrified.
00:16:21I'm worried that he's going to say that this is a mistake and walk away.
00:16:27And I'm going to be left heartbroken.
00:16:30Okay, that's over and done with.
00:16:32Thank God.
00:16:37So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:16:43Yes, I am.
00:16:45I was a player for most of my life.
00:16:48Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:49I want somebody to be there for me.
00:16:51So you want to stop all the parties?
00:16:53I stop all the parties.
00:16:54That's part of my life.
00:16:55That's part of my life.
00:16:56How do you think she's going to react?
00:17:01I have a check-in flight and I landed.
00:17:03But I'm worried since he's not sexing me.
00:17:07You're going to need your passport.
00:17:10Let's get through here.
00:17:11I don't know.
00:17:11I left him somewhere.
00:17:13What are we doing now?
00:17:14Oh, God.
00:17:14I'm rushing to my next gate right now.
00:17:39I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:40It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym because I am having to run to
00:17:46my connecting flight to Belize to meet my boyfriend, Stig, for the first time.
00:17:51Stig, you better be worth it because running through the airport is really embarrassing.
00:17:55Stig's a famous musician in Belize and the women there love him.
00:18:01So the last thing I want to do is look like a sweaty mess when I meet him for the first
00:18:06time.
00:18:06But I don't really have a choice right now.
00:18:08Four minutes.
00:18:11Just getting to my gate.
00:18:15Or maybe it was perfect timing.
00:18:18Thank the Lord.
00:18:20Next stop, Belize.
00:18:21After waiting for so long, I'm super nervous to meet Stig, but I cannot wait to get my
00:18:30hands on him and start a future together.
00:18:32My second plan to believe is I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:38I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:46Listen.
00:18:48Take up the world.
00:18:49Watch the crowd.
00:18:51It's a match, a match of world.
00:18:52Don't do it right here.
00:18:55Ladies.
00:18:56What's up?
00:19:20I am Erlen Dwayne.
00:19:22I go by Stig, the artist.
00:19:23I'm a musician from Belize, Belize, Central America, and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:29You know the vibes.
00:19:31I think I'm a cool guy, you know.
00:19:33I'm just chill for the most part.
00:19:36But when I'm performing, it's just a different feeling.
00:19:40I just get alive.
00:19:41I love what I do.
00:19:43I love music.
00:19:44I love singing for the ladies, them.
00:19:46And the girls, you know, they can get pretty wild at my show.
00:19:50There's just one time, this girl was literally trying to get in my pants.
00:19:55She was front stage.
00:19:56I'm like, yo, chill.
00:19:58But if that's what my music gives them, that kind of joy, then I'm doing the right job.
00:20:03I can't take you off my mind.
00:20:05About 10 years ago, I put out my first song, my first music video.
00:20:09I recorded every single day in the studio.
00:20:12I grew my fan base.
00:20:13And now I'm at the highest level of Belize as an artist.
00:20:17So everybody recognized me.
00:20:19And I am very grateful for the love and support that I get here.
00:20:28I'm very proud of what I've become.
00:20:30But I couldn't have done it by myself.
00:20:33Perf is my producer.
00:20:35He produced a lot of my biggest songs.
00:20:38Richie is my manager.
00:20:40Six is my G.
00:20:42He's one of my best friends.
00:20:44They're still my homies since we started everything.
00:20:46And I know they're always looking out for me.
00:20:49Have a special toast.
00:20:51My gallery tomorrow.
00:20:53Cheers, yeah?
00:20:55World, world.
00:20:56World, oh.
00:20:57You really like the American girls, bro.
00:20:59You really like them.
00:21:00Farina.
00:21:00Yo.
00:21:00You like the right gallery.
00:21:01Farina.
00:21:03Farina.
00:21:04I just shared Farina.
00:21:06We are the...
00:21:06Listen, my friends, they could joke around as much as they want and tease me.
00:21:13But I'm very serious about my girlfriend, Aviva.
00:21:17Two years ago, I started talking to Aviva on social media.
00:21:21At first, we were both in a relationship.
00:21:24But when we both became single, it was way beyond friends.
00:21:30Aviva's super hot.
00:21:31She has the most beautiful blue eyes.
00:21:34But one of the most attractive things about Aviva is her personality.
00:21:38She has a beautiful heart.
00:21:41So humble and gentle.
00:21:43And she has a cute little laugh with her.
00:21:46I don't have to be stick to artists.
00:21:48You know, I don't have to impress her.
00:21:49I can be Erlen Dwayne.
00:21:51And that's why I feel like she's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
00:21:56So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:21:58Yes, I am.
00:22:00You think you would have settled on really with this woman?
00:22:02Start a family.
00:22:04Let's get married.
00:22:05Let's have kids.
00:22:06I don't know.
00:22:07I might want to be a baby.
00:22:10You are breathing.
00:22:12You want to bury her, girl?
00:22:13Hello?
00:22:14I mean...
00:22:15Woof.
00:22:16Woof, woof, woof.
00:22:17Woof, woof, woof.
00:22:17Damn.
00:22:18So you're right that she...
00:22:20So you know why she can't have your baby over here over America?
00:22:24America?
00:22:24America because you want to be a bit on...
00:22:26You know why you get to do it?
00:22:28I mean...
00:22:30Yes.
00:22:30Da.
00:22:32Get serious, boys.
00:22:34Get serious, sir.
00:22:36So you want to stop all the partying?
00:22:38I stop all the partying.
00:22:39That's part of my life.
00:22:40I mean, you know, like...
00:22:42I plan to take her to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:44You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows.
00:22:49You ready for that?
00:22:49Yeah.
00:22:50I mean, I hope she's ready.
00:22:52You know what it calls San Pedro, right?
00:22:55Temptation Island.
00:22:56Yee-haw!
00:22:57So what if you fix her San Pedro when a hundred girls jump out to you?
00:23:01I could bet you had you reached San Pedro.
00:23:03I want to marry you.
00:23:04I'm sorry, man!
00:23:08My personal relationship, I tell him.
00:23:10Like, you're going to get jealous?
00:23:11No, no, no.
00:23:12You always trip, so I told Aviva,
00:23:14if you're going to say, I hope you don't trip.
00:23:18And she's like, no, I'm not like that.
00:23:19I'm not jealous.
00:23:20But I don't know.
00:23:23I want somebody from my side, you know,
00:23:25to sit at her and worry about all that kind of stuff.
00:23:29Yeah, but everywhere we go,
00:23:30people always say, you have XYZ girls.
00:23:33How do you think she's going to react?
00:23:36I hope.
00:23:38Hope and pray I could be the best version of myself.
00:23:41This time, because the things are a little bit different.
00:23:44No disrespect, right?
00:23:45Uh-huh.
00:23:46I heard that sound too many times, bro.
00:23:50I can't control that.
00:23:52I can't control that.
00:23:53A lot of my relationships in the past have failed because of this very issue.
00:24:01You know, I was a player for most of my life.
00:24:05Now, I actually want a family.
00:24:06I want somebody I can go home to at night,
00:24:08and they're there to listen to me, to be there for me.
00:24:11I hope Aviva can be that person,
00:24:14and that I can be a faithful partner.
00:24:18You guys are going to love Aviva.
00:24:20You know, I love her.
00:24:21So let's see how it goes.
00:24:23I have 20% faith.
00:24:26God.
00:24:26Damn.
00:24:28Damn.
00:24:34So update on the food.
00:24:36Ooh, that's shrimp.
00:24:38Look at that.
00:24:40That's good stuff.
00:24:42I hope Gene and I get good airline food like this.
00:24:45Let me take a flight back home.
00:24:46Let me take a flight back home.
00:25:16with his parents, and I feel,
00:25:18wow, like, super happy and excited.
00:25:24I'm on my way to the airport now.
00:25:27We rented a bigger apartment where we can all stay together.
00:25:30So I'm carrying quite a few bags.
00:25:38Also, I am bringing jackfruit.
00:25:41I want Morris and his family to taste the local goodies here in the Philippines.
00:25:46I'm really quite nervous, and I don't know, to react.
00:25:56It's possible that I would kiss him before, or not.
00:26:00I would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the first time.
00:26:03Honestly speaking, we will both enjoy with each other.
00:26:09But I'm worried regarding with Molly that she would say bad things to me.
00:26:15So I'm trying to get rid of my nervousness, especially meeting the first time with the love of your life.
00:26:23It's once in a lifetime, so why not enjoy with it?
00:26:28Look, we're touching now.
00:26:39After so long.
00:26:43Forrest, this sure is a long way to come traveling for a girl.
00:26:50Yeah, but she's not just any girl.
00:26:59All right.
00:27:04After 30 hours of being on an airplane, I finally made it to the Philippines.
00:27:25I'm feeling ecstatic.
00:27:27I feel like I drank, like, six energy drinks.
00:27:37Mom.
00:27:40It's in there, right?
00:27:45I don't know.
00:27:48Great dress, though.
00:27:49It's in the brown.
00:27:50Yeah.
00:27:50Yes, I happened to check-in flight, and it landed.
00:27:58But I'm also worried, since he's not texting me.
00:28:04I really calm down.
00:28:09Here's my...
00:28:11Guys, with your impression, you're going to need your passport.
00:28:13Let's get through here.
00:28:14I don't know.
00:28:14I left him somewhere.
00:28:16Oh, my God.
00:28:17What are we doing now?
00:28:20I don't know, Deb.
00:28:21Look.
00:28:22Deb, stop.
00:28:23Oh, God.
00:28:26Get up!
00:28:27Get up!
00:28:28Get up!
00:28:28Get up!
00:28:30That little booty.
00:28:32I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish, but I think it's important that we're completely
00:28:38transparent with each other.
00:28:40And I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:28:48and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:28:51Did you sleep good?
00:29:14I slept great, baby.
00:29:17I slept beautiful in the morning, babe.
00:29:19I slept great, baby.
00:29:21I slept great.
00:29:24I slept great.
00:29:27I slept great.
00:29:28I slept great, baby.
00:29:31It was really tired from what we did.
00:29:37So was it everything you expected it to be?
00:29:41Even more.
00:29:42Yesterday night, we had sex two times.
00:29:51He's older, and I didn't think, like,
00:29:54he can do all of the stuff he did to me.
00:29:57Like, for the second round, it was, oh, my God.
00:30:04You want to go one more round?
00:30:07Let's do that.
00:30:08You good?
00:30:20Yeah, we're here.
00:30:23Wow, so this is the market.
00:30:26I only gave Trish a little sample of what I could do.
00:30:29I have some more tricks up my sleeve.
00:30:33If it were up to me, I'd just stay at the hotel all day.
00:30:36But this is our first day in Madagascar together,
00:30:39and Trish wants to take me to explore her city.
00:30:43What is that fried fish right there?
00:30:45Yeah.
00:30:45This is so different from anywhere I've ever been in my life.
00:30:50Today, I want to show him everything around in Antananarivo.
00:30:54First, I'm taking him to the market in Alakili.
00:31:04The butcher shop right here, huh?
00:31:06Mm-hmm.
00:31:09And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:31:15Yeah.
00:31:17Big face.
00:31:18Yeah.
00:31:19Oh, my God.
00:31:20What is that, babe?
00:31:21What is that?
00:31:22That's the stomach of the cow.
00:31:25That's the stomach.
00:31:26Yeah, yeah.
00:31:26And then it's also, like, intestines or what?
00:31:29Yes.
00:31:30I think I see a heart over there.
00:31:32Yeah, let's see it.
00:31:34Oh, my God.
00:31:36I'm feeling like Trish deceived me.
00:31:39I mean, this is our first date.
00:31:41All this raw meat is going to mess up the sexy vibes we had going this morning.
00:31:44So this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat.
00:31:50No, we don't see that.
00:31:53In my culture, we eat everything.
00:31:56We don't waste something in the cow.
00:32:00Oh, my God.
00:32:01Even the feet, the head, intestine, the heart, liver, everything.
00:32:08Break.
00:32:09It's just food.
00:32:10Relax.
00:32:11Baby, I know that's not a brain right there.
00:32:14It's a brain.
00:32:15Oh, Lord.
00:32:16Yeah.
00:32:17Why?
00:32:17Would you eat that?
00:32:19Of course.
00:32:21Baby, don't put that in those stew that you cook for me.
00:32:25Please don't.
00:32:38Woo!
00:32:39I hope somebody's going to enjoy it.
00:32:42Wow, baby, what a view.
00:32:44Yeah.
00:32:45You can see all Maragascar in here.
00:32:48Wow.
00:32:50I can see the whole island.
00:32:51Yeah.
00:32:52Oh, my God.
00:32:53You don't know how to taste that.
00:33:05Like this.
00:33:07Hey, I can sing.
00:33:08Hey.
00:33:08Hey.
00:33:17Hey.
00:33:19Hey.
00:33:20Hey.
00:33:26Hey.
00:33:28I know how to tap dance, but this is not tap dance, this is something foreign to me.
00:33:51I've never seen this style of dance before, but I'm realizing that there's a lot that
00:33:56I don't know about Trish just from talking to her over the phone, like she's an amazing
00:34:00dancer.
00:34:02I didn't know she had that in her.
00:34:07Every minute I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish, but I think it's important
00:34:16that I get to know her better and that we're completely transparent with each other.
00:34:21Wow.
00:34:22That was something.
00:34:23Was that your traditional dance?
00:34:25No, that's not mine.
00:34:26I just dance like that.
00:34:28You like it?
00:34:29Oh, it's beautiful.
00:34:30The name of the place is Rufa.
00:34:31Rufa.
00:34:32Oh, Rufa.
00:34:33That means a palace.
00:34:34Oh.
00:34:35Okay, now where's the palace, is it?
00:34:36It's there.
00:34:37Oh, that's the palace.
00:34:38Okay, yeah, it's beautiful.
00:34:39Oh, I'm tired even.
00:34:40Wow.
00:34:41This is so beautiful, baby.
00:34:42I'm having such a great time with you, but there's some things that I wanted to talk
00:34:48to you about.
00:34:49So I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:34:55and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:35:02I already told you, like, you want me to explain to you everything that happened.
00:35:09You know that all of these things that you're telling me, you know, kind of sounds unbelievable.
00:35:15In a way, I would like you to be open and honest with me right now.
00:35:38I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
00:35:57You sent him money, right?
00:35:59Is that not part of a romance scam?
00:36:02My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:36:07She's in so much debt.
00:36:08I think this topic needs to be over because this is ridiculous.
00:36:12Sorry.
00:36:13I'm going to put the fire on the fire.
00:36:23Add a little to the sun.
00:36:25Now we've got entertainment.
00:36:27Uh-oh.
00:36:30And we have fire.
00:36:32What we gonna do?
00:36:34Gonna break that heat.
00:36:35Gonna break that heat.
00:36:36What we gonna do?
00:36:37Gonna break that heat.
00:36:38Sell the competition.
00:36:39Oh, go for it, Fee.
00:36:40What we gonna do?
00:36:41Gonna break that heat.
00:36:42Oh!
00:36:43Yay!
00:36:44I can do it.
00:36:45Oh!
00:36:46That was so close.
00:36:47I'm already done.
00:36:48Let me try.
00:36:49That was way over my head.
00:36:50That was on me.
00:36:51That was on you.
00:36:52Oh, yeah.
00:36:53For sure.
00:36:54I love you.
00:36:55I'll give you a good one.
00:36:56Hold it like a baseball.
00:36:57Oh, my God.
00:36:58That looks delicious.
00:36:59What kind of food do they have in Nigeria?
00:37:00Well, Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals.
00:37:01He's always eating rice.
00:37:02Is it like a fried rice thingy thing?
00:37:03I don't know.
00:37:04I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:05Where are you going again?
00:37:06I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:07Wow.
00:37:08Why?
00:37:09I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet for the very first time.
00:37:16Oh, my goodness.
00:37:17Wow.
00:37:18Congratulations.
00:37:19Good for you.
00:37:22But it's crazy.
00:37:23Is it not crazy?
00:37:24Yeah.
00:37:25It's slightly a little crazy.
00:37:26Yeah.
00:37:27It's slightly a little crazy.
00:37:28I don't know.
00:37:29I don't know.
00:37:30I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:31Where are you going again?
00:37:32I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:34Wow.
00:37:35Why?
00:37:36I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet for the very first time.
00:37:38Oh, my goodness.
00:37:39I would agree.
00:37:40But, you know, the heart wants what the heart wants.
00:37:42So, go for it, I say.
00:37:45I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel for the first time in just a few days.
00:37:51I can't believe I'm doing this.
00:37:53I must be insane.
00:37:54I really must be.
00:37:56I'm very, very nervous.
00:37:59So, I wanted to take the edge off by having a night out with my daughter Faith and my friend
00:38:04Juna.
00:38:05Oh, my.
00:38:06There's a volcano.
00:38:07Here it comes.
00:38:08I love teaching dreams.
00:38:09Woo!
00:38:10I love teaching dreams.
00:38:11Woo!
00:38:12Juna is my very best friend.
00:38:15I swear to God, if she was a lesbian, Juna would be my ideal woman.
00:38:20Juna knows the ringer I've been through in past relationships, and she is supportive of Daniel.
00:38:27I'm hoping this is finally more happy every hour.
00:38:30I'm going to hold you to it.
00:38:31What?
00:38:32That this is my happily ever after?
00:38:33Yes.
00:38:34And this is the last time.
00:38:36You're saying it for the last one, as she said every other time, which we know.
00:38:42Right?
00:38:43He's always talking sweet to me.
00:38:45He's always trying so hard to do things.
00:38:48He just makes me feel so good and so wonderful.
00:38:51It's a good thing that he's treating you up, but that's part of what concerns me.
00:38:57The love bomber right away, it's part of a romance scam.
00:39:04They go for single, and I don't mean to say rude, older women who have been hurt and who
00:39:11are desperately looking for somebody and want someone to give them all the compliments,
00:39:16all the love.
00:39:17Stop.
00:39:18Hold on.
00:39:19Do I look like an old, vulnerable, searching for somebody, woman on the internet?
00:39:28No, I was minding my own business, not looking for anybody.
00:39:31But you sent him money, right?
00:39:33Is that not part of a romance scam, sending money?
00:39:38Even though I live paycheck to paycheck, I send Daniel money almost every two weeks.
00:39:46Daniel works in construction.
00:39:48He makes very little money, and he lives in a very poor area of Nigeria.
00:39:53I give Daniel money for food.
00:39:56I have bought him clothes.
00:39:58I give him money for fuel, for electricity.
00:40:02This is my generation.
00:40:05Daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two, maybe three times.
00:40:11But I give Daniel money more for myself because I want to feel that he's safe, and I want to feel that he's secure.
00:40:18All I know is within the first two months, you sent $2,000 total.
00:40:25And that was two months ago.
00:40:27So how much more is it now?
00:40:29I don't know.
00:40:31How did he do it before he met you?
00:40:36Does he not have a job?
00:40:38Yes, he has a job.
00:40:40But lately, he's been sick and he's missed work because of the malaria and other things that he has caught.
00:40:46That's not a red flag to you.
00:40:48He meets you, and now all of a sudden, he's getting sick all the time.
00:40:55My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:40:59She borrows from Juna a lot.
00:41:02She's in so much debt, and it has me feeling more on edge.
00:41:08You were telling me, has Juna gave you money to help us with bills?
00:41:12She has, haven't you?
00:41:14So she's been giving you, how much in debt now are we?
00:41:18You already know I hate that you're asking for money all the time.
00:41:21But it hasn't been the amount that it has been.
00:41:24It's still bad.
00:41:27Daniel seems to be a really, really nice person.
00:41:30I see how happy she is.
00:41:32So I have given her money to send to him, and I gave Lisa the money for the visa to go to Nigeria.
00:41:42I do have some concerns, because if he's scamming her, then he's scamming me.
00:41:51This was between Juna, me, and Daniel.
00:41:54It had nothing to do with you and me and your bills.
00:41:57It had to do with Juna and I and Daniel.
00:42:00And you're still not seeing any red flags about this?
00:42:03Juna has talked to him.
00:42:04Does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting?
00:42:09No, he doesn't.
00:42:11But, you know, texting and talking are different things.
00:42:16There's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything.
00:42:21That's fine.
00:42:22Because I know things that are inside and out more than you do, because you're not in the relationship.
00:42:30And this may be the best relationship I've ever had.
00:42:33You've said that every time.
00:42:38This has all been an emotional wreck, and we have not had one positive conversation together.
00:42:45And it's breaking my heart as much as it's breaking yours.
00:42:48And I think this topic needs to be over, because this is ridiculous.
00:42:52It always has to be over.
00:42:54I'm done.
00:42:55I'm done?
00:42:56I'm done.
00:42:57I'm done.
00:42:58I'm done.
00:42:59I'm done.
00:43:15This might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl.
00:43:19We would say one burner.
00:43:21That means you have one partner.
00:43:24Never always been a one burner.
00:43:26I used to be full of gallo.
00:43:28Need to make some changes in my lifestyle.
00:43:31But I'm nervous to handle all that.
00:43:37This is crazy.
00:43:43Super excited, super nervous.
00:43:45This is probably just 34 minutes until I land.
00:43:50Let me rephrase that.
00:43:5234 minutes until me and the shrimp land.
00:43:57And they actually landed on my pants.
00:44:00I have greasy, smelly sauce all over me.
00:44:04The things I do for you this day.
00:44:05The things I do.
00:44:06You're welcome.
00:44:07I was getting warm in here as the beep beep crack into the atmosphere.
00:44:17Come on, let's switch gears and the power stir and go.
00:44:20Let's go.
00:44:23So today, my girl is coming.
00:44:26I want to give her a Belizean welcome.
00:44:29Beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady.
00:44:31Today, I'm meeting my girlfriend Aviva for the very first time in person.
00:44:41Aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city.
00:44:45To my apartment.
00:44:46But she don't know that we have my nice hotel room in Belize City.
00:44:49Because I want a nice little romantic stay tonight.
00:44:53But hey, this looks a little kinky.
00:44:55I have butterflies.
00:45:00I feel like a kid again.
00:45:03This might be the start of the rest of my life.
00:45:07With Aviva.
00:45:08With one girl.
00:45:10We would say one burner.
00:45:12One burner.
00:45:14That means you have one partner.
00:45:17Never always been a one burner.
00:45:18I used to be full of girl.
00:45:20But I need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle.
00:45:23So I can be the man that I've always envisioned.
00:45:26And I would be.
00:45:31Uh, am I driving over?
00:45:32Yes, sir.
00:45:33Hi.
00:45:35Oh, Vee, Vee.
00:45:37Minutes away from picking you up.
00:45:42I'm nervous.
00:45:45I'm about to meet my man, Vee.
00:45:47I love you.
00:45:48I love you.
00:45:51After two years of talking and six months of dating,
00:45:54I am finally meeting Stig for the first time.
00:45:57We're here. We made it.
00:45:59I am super, super nervous and it's making me nauseous.
00:46:02Oh, the flight just landed.
00:46:13I'm ready.
00:46:18What's that, bro?
00:46:20I like your music, bro.
00:46:21I appreciate it, bro.
00:46:23Yes, man.
00:46:24Enough times, my bro.
00:46:26Blessings.
00:46:28The ladies.
00:46:32Okay, I am going to the bathroom to freshen up.
00:46:36I'm super nervous.
00:46:37I know he's outside waiting.
00:46:42I just want to make sure that he sees me and he's attracted to me.
00:46:46I look so tired and it's stressing me out.
00:46:48I know he's around beautiful women all the time.
00:46:54And deep down, there's things I'm worried about.
00:46:58So nervous.
00:47:00My biggest fear is that I'm going to go in with this big loving heart and it's just going to get crushed.
00:47:11Here we go.
00:47:12This is what I've been preparing myself for.
00:47:14This is crazy.
00:47:30Oh my .
00:47:32I'm going to throw up.
00:47:35Okay.
00:47:44I'm going to throw up.
00:47:45Oh.
00:47:46Oh.
00:47:47Oh.
00:47:48I'm going to throw up.
00:47:49Oh.
00:47:50I'm going to throw up.
00:47:51Oh.
00:47:52I'm going to throw up.
00:47:53Oh.
00:47:54Oh.
00:47:55Oh.
00:47:57Oh.
00:47:58Oh.
00:47:59Oh.
00:48:00Oh.
00:48:02Look at him more beautiful in person.
00:48:03No.
00:48:04Oh.
00:48:05Oh.
00:48:06Oh.
00:48:07Oh.
00:48:08Oh.
00:48:09Oh.
00:48:10Oh.
00:48:11Oh.
00:48:12Oh.
00:48:13You know, it felt good.
00:48:14Mm-hmm.
00:48:15It felt natural.
00:48:16It felt good.
00:48:17Yep.
00:48:18It did.
00:48:19Did I get a red?
00:48:20No.
00:48:21You're a blessing.
00:48:22You're a blessing.
00:48:23I love it.
00:48:24Oh.
00:48:25You're here.
00:48:26I know.
00:48:27Oh.
00:48:28You're very beautiful.
00:48:30You look really good too.
00:48:31I'm super happy.
00:48:32I love that, boday.
00:48:34Okay, one more clock, one more clock.
00:48:39Aviva got a fat ass, I had no idea.
00:48:42I know she's been in the gym a lot, but what?
00:48:44I like it.
00:48:47It was like, mmm, mmm, mmm.
00:48:50Okay, well, I brought you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:54No way.
00:48:56It's up.
00:48:58Don't eat that, don't eat that.
00:49:00Please don't, just throw it away.
00:49:02I would say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me, so.
00:49:06I mean, I brought it.
00:49:08I brought it, it's here, it's a little.
00:49:10I bet, I'm a man of my word.
00:49:12Ask anybody, ask about me.
00:49:13Okay, okay.
00:49:15Ready?
00:49:17Let me get that one for you.
00:49:22I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:26I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:31Just a very magical moment.
00:49:33He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:38Please throw this away now.
00:49:39No, no, no, no.
00:49:40I'm gonna eat it.
00:49:41Whatever, throw it away.
00:49:42You'll get sick.
00:49:43We're throwing it away.
00:49:44It's going, it's going, it's going.
00:49:45It's gone.
00:49:46This thing is just making me feel really special,
00:49:49and I know I only just got here,
00:49:51but it just seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought up,
00:49:55he hasn't been exclusive with just me,
00:49:57seemed a little silly and not true.
00:50:00You're actually here.
00:50:02I know.
00:50:03What are we gonna do?
00:50:04Wow.
00:50:05I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:07Laura is coming to Turkey,
00:50:09and it makes me feel excited.
00:50:11Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked out.
00:50:14I know that's something that I should tell her,
00:50:16but I don't know how she's gonna react.
00:50:19Right, thank you.
00:50:20You're welcome.
00:50:21Take care.
00:50:22I think you love you.
00:50:23I'm sure to write.
00:50:24You too, don't cry.
00:50:25Don't cry.
00:50:26Just be safe, okay?
00:50:27No.
00:50:28No.
00:50:29No.
00:50:30No.
00:50:31No.
00:50:32No.
00:50:33No.
00:50:34No.
00:50:35No.
00:50:36No.
00:50:37No.
00:50:38No.
00:50:39No.
00:50:40No.
00:50:41No.
00:50:42No.
00:50:43No.
00:50:44No.
00:50:45No.
00:50:46No.
00:50:47No.
00:50:48No.
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00:50:50No.
00:50:51No.
00:50:52No.
00:50:53No.
00:50:54No.
00:50:55No.
00:50:56I'm about to head to Turkey,
00:50:57so I can meet beer con in person for the very first time.
00:51:01And I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:06Hi.
00:51:07Love you.
00:51:08Bye.
00:51:09Bye.
00:51:10All of you singing as I step away from afar.
00:51:17There's an absolute possibility.
00:51:20This is going to blow up in my face, and everyone that was naysaying against it will tell me that
00:51:25they told me so.
00:51:26they told me so. But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks. And if I'm not willing to
00:51:33take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for? I have about 13 hours until I get
00:51:51to meet the love of my life. And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car
00:52:00ride with my parents, with a good smutty book, with some really steamy moments.
00:52:14This is the best part. It's darkness, you know. It's what I love about Nietzsche.
00:52:20He lightened the people around him, but he's the darkness himself. He was the part of the reason
00:52:28I wanted to find the light. I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the
00:52:36surface. I am trying to learn lives that I never lived. I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time
00:52:45of my life. I had the chance to have a professional career of football player. I was on the training,
00:52:53and my knee collapsed with other one's knee, and my AC had crashed. I know it was over,
00:53:01but I still play football for fun. You know, I love the game. Just have to keep moving. Embrace the pain.
00:53:12Life is like this. One part is struggling, and one part is surviving.
00:53:17After I ruptured my ACL, it was just the end of everything, you know. Everything I dream of,
00:53:31and now I rebuild it from the bottom.
00:53:34And what's helping me the most is finding Laura, actually. It was destiny.
00:53:43I met Laura in Snapchat. We started talking and joking around. She was so supportive,
00:53:54so optimistic. She made me believe that dreaming is okay.
00:54:01That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me. I'm in the darkness, but I can see the sun.
00:54:08It was about three or four weeks. I told her I love her. And now Laura is coming to Turkey,
00:54:18and it makes me feel excited. Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out.
00:54:26I want to move things to the next level, and maybe propose. I don't know yet. I'm waiting for just meaning.
00:54:34I don't know yet.
00:54:37It's good.
00:54:39Hey, what are you doing?
00:54:42Memo and Yuduba are my best friends in Izmir.
00:54:47I am not close with my family, so they are the closest people I have.
00:54:53Sen gelmeden taşları dizdikler dışım.
00:54:56Taşını gördüm.
00:54:59Ne yapıyorsunuz, nasıl gidiyon?
00:55:00İyi.
00:55:01Senle ne hariniyor?
00:55:02Laura yarın geliyor.
00:55:04But we'll die with a lot of excitement.
00:55:09You're the first time you've had a lot of excitement.
00:55:13I heard your voice in the chat.
00:55:16I said hello.
00:55:18But I didn't see it.
00:55:23How old was it?
00:55:2445.
00:55:28This problem can cause it?
00:55:31You know what I mean.
00:55:33You'll be 65 years old.
00:55:36Do you want to see someone younger?
00:55:40Do you know what I'm not?
00:55:46She's old.
00:55:47It's okay.
00:55:48Because I dated older women before.
00:55:51The thing I'm attracted to older women is...
00:55:55They understand, you know?
00:55:57Not childish.
00:56:01Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:56:04She looks young.
00:56:07You told me you told me things.
00:56:09You told me.
00:56:10No.
00:56:13No.
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00:56:56I talked to a lot of things.
00:56:58For example, a young man has a friend.
00:57:01He has a close friend, he has a friend, he has a friend, he has a friend, he has a friend.
00:57:08I'm afraid of that.
00:57:11It's my fault.
00:57:14I want to be able to get this friend.
00:57:17If you have a problem, you don't understand.
00:57:21He's a good friend.
00:57:23I have to think about it.
00:57:26There is something like that.
00:57:29I don't like it. I don't like it.
00:57:32I don't like it.
00:57:34But I don't trust Michael.
00:57:37I don't feel good about Michael at all.
00:57:41They are doing every activity together.
00:57:44But you think that you're just friends?
00:57:47I don't buy it.
00:57:49I'm not comfortable with this friendship she has.
00:57:52And if she doesn't cut Michael out of her life,
00:57:55I don't know this relationship is going to work.
00:58:03I'm supposed to be your confidant.
00:58:06I thought that you were with somebody else.
00:58:08Now that we're face to face,
00:58:10I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
00:58:14I didn't tell you everything, but...
00:58:18Oh, man. I'm scared now.
00:58:22I'm dead.
00:58:28I'm dead?
00:58:29I'm dead.
00:58:39Hey.
00:58:41You okay?
00:58:42I can't.
00:58:43I can't.
00:58:44I can't.
00:58:45Now I'm worried about her.
00:58:47I don't know what to do at this point,
00:58:49because it always ends up being a fight.
00:58:51Every time I've tried, she voiced my opinion.
00:58:57She doesn't want to talk about me.
00:58:59She doesn't want to hear me.
00:59:01Or she told me, I'm not allowed to feel that way.
00:59:06Let's see if we can find her.
00:59:07See if we can fix this.
00:59:08Faith.
00:59:09Let me talk to you for a minute.
00:59:10I really don't want to.
00:59:11No.
00:59:12Look at me.
00:59:13Look at me.
00:59:14Look at me.
00:59:15Look at me.
00:59:16Look at me.
00:59:17Please look at me.
00:59:18I love Daniel, and I know that you're worried that I'm in another bad relationship and things
00:59:21are going to go sour, and you're trying to save me from that.
00:59:23But I don't want you to feel like you're being second choice.
00:59:24I will always choose you before somebody else.
00:59:25Look at me.
00:59:26I will.
00:59:27You said, do not marry Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:28I promise you with the bottom of my heart, I am not marrying Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:30I'm not.
00:59:54I'm not.
00:59:55Just give me the opportunity to do this.
00:59:58If you break this promise.
01:00:00I'm not going to break this promise.
01:00:01If you break this promise again, I can't do this anymore.
01:00:06No, because that would be toxic.
01:00:08And I'm not a toxic person anymore, OK?
01:00:11So just please, give me a hug.
01:00:14I really need some space right now.
01:00:17OK, I'll do that.
01:00:24This was an awful lot for her today.
01:00:30I have been in so many relationships
01:00:32and moved around so much on this poor child when she was little.
01:00:37But at that time, I was searching for who I was.
01:00:41I want to show her that this is different.
01:00:43I'm a grown up.
01:00:45I'm not this young mom who is trying
01:00:48to take care of a young child and have a relationship
01:00:50after relationship.
01:00:52I want my happily ever after.
01:00:54I want this to be forever.
01:00:59And Fink doesn't see that yet.
01:01:09Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:16I'm trying to understand your feelings
01:01:18and I'm trying to not fight about it.
01:01:21Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him
01:01:23without you knowing him and that I'm
01:01:25going to choose him over you?
01:01:29You never listen.
01:01:32I'm telling you to think about us first.
01:01:40Listen, I understand your point of view.
01:01:43I'm listening to you and I'm going there
01:01:45to get to know him better.
01:01:47I'm going there to see if we are compatible.
01:01:49I'm not going there just to run off and get married.
01:01:53I'm listening to your concerns and I am going to voice them.
01:01:57I promise you, I will.
01:01:58OK?
01:01:59Can I have a hug now?
01:02:01OK, come here.
01:02:03I love you.
01:02:04I will start listening better.
01:02:06I'm proud of everything you do.
01:02:08You are wonderful and kind-hearted and loving and sweet and caring.
01:02:11And you have been good to your mother,
01:02:13regardless of what I've put you through.
01:02:16And I'm proud of you and I will listen to you more.
01:02:18OK?
01:02:19All right.
01:02:20I understand where Faith is coming from.
01:02:24And I understand that she has been down this road
01:02:27with past relationships over and over again.
01:02:30I hold her opinion deeply in my heart.
01:02:35But I think Daniel is different.
01:02:37I think he's the real deal.
01:02:39I think he's a very precious man who is very rare.
01:02:42And I would be a fool not to go after him.
01:02:47Can we go home now?
01:02:50You're welcome, welcome.
01:03:02Sig is everything I thought he would be.
01:03:04He looks super good.
01:03:05There is definitely some chemistry.
01:03:09But it's a bit scary.
01:03:11I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle.
01:03:14And I don't want to be super jealous or crazy.
01:03:16But I hope that you haven't been seeing other people
01:03:20just breathe you got this you're a man she and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with
01:03:29each other and i'm hoping my mom will not fight with sheena i just don't know how to feel on this
01:03:35whole situation there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed
01:03:50it's a boy no way i love it
01:04:03celebrities that is okay can i take a picture of it yeah sure love me love me girl
01:04:14you know you can change the world
01:04:21so where are we going i don't even know where we're going i don't know i don't know you don't know
01:04:26no i don't yes the driver you know where we're going the driver's just taking us he don't know
01:04:29where we're going to either whatever so i don't know but i can tell you though we're going to spend
01:04:34the night in village city at a hotel tomorrow we're going to go to the islands i do have a show out on
01:04:40the islands okay um some new songs i'm excited to perform those hopefully i kill it you know okay
01:04:48a lot of people are going to be there yep are you ready to be there are you ready for that i do
01:04:54want me there even of course i want to do okay
01:04:58i know stig can't stop working while i'm here i would never ask him to do that
01:05:07but i'm really shocked to hear that i'm seeing stig perform already in just a couple days
01:05:13i've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls and having him
01:05:23interact with fans in front of me and now i'm going to be thrusted into it right away
01:05:29and it's a bit scary okay welcome welcome i'll leave this here for now
01:05:37so we'll have an extra prize for you okay since you said that you love the flower i got you some
01:05:43more flowers oh well they're so pretty thank you this was to show you that you're my one and only
01:05:48and this is to show some gratitude that you're here oh thank you i like them they're so pretty
01:05:55check them out stick is everything i thought you would be he looks super good there is definitely
01:06:02some chemistry what are you gonna do with those come on over you we've been touching each other
01:06:09kissing each other so i hope the night continues on sexually let's get comfy that sounds good to me
01:06:19i'm attracted to her even more now in person but i'm a gentleman i'm not gonna just push up on her
01:06:26and try to get some the first night we'll see how it goes i'm gonna let it play out the way it should
01:06:32play i'm gonna get more comfy so what about you at that like a flower sorry it's not a rose
01:06:42what's a zero i think there's a rose what are you gonna get steak on your forehead could get it
01:06:49only if you get aviva there leave my ass and i have aviva big on my neck or something how do you
01:06:55think i would feel i'm gonna leave you unless you make me leave you oh what what would make you
01:07:03want to leave me oh that's a good question if you um you can't understand what i do for work and how
01:07:12i you know my lifestyle because of what i do and who i am yeah i mean i definitely want to respect your
01:07:18lifestyle and i don't want to be super jealous or crazy but but i also want to be like respected too
01:07:26just like i hope that you haven't been seeing other people because i feel like we've been talking
01:07:31seriously but why are you rolling your eyes like that i don't know because like you don't trust me
01:07:40i mean i know your lifestyle there's a lot of beautiful women around you always so they're not
01:07:46you though okay mr charmer oh i got you
01:07:53i do have one more thing for you that's not this film chinese food okay yeah steak makes me feel
01:08:07really comfortable he just knows the exact right thing to say and saying i just feel right together
01:08:14it's just a spark a connection a happiness all wrapped together with a bow i don't know how to explain it
01:08:24i don't know how to explain it but i don't know how to explain it but i don't know how to explain it
01:08:30hi hi hi hi
01:08:38hey that's how you feel
01:08:40uh-huh
01:08:50yes man that is it she's fine as
01:08:59i will be soon
01:09:06aviva just might be the one but i don't think she understands the extent of my lifestyle as a
01:09:12performer sometimes girls go on stage dance on me you know girls be in my dms some pretty girls i don't
01:09:20know if she can handle all that she said she will but we'll see
01:09:34all right i'm on monster passport left on the airplane
01:09:38yeah but we found it shut it up figure it out here we go
01:09:45here we go
01:09:51he's texting me he's already here he's feeling so happy and floating and lighted feeling
01:10:04all right here we go i actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom yeah go ahead oh man i gotta
01:10:13see you in a minute this way oh man i just don't know how to feel on this whole situation yeah
01:10:21it's just i mean i think that i have these ideas of what i want to say
01:10:25because the emotions get there the feelings get there settle down always settle down
01:10:38just breathe it's gonna be good
01:10:42everything's gonna be at peace you got this you got this you're the man keep moving forward
01:10:48my mom did not take kindly to sheena lying about the money again she sent text messages to sheena that
01:10:55made her really upset and hurt so i'm hoping that my mom will not fight with sheena
01:11:06hey mom she and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other and i just want everything
01:11:12to go smoothly you look good let's get this fixed up a little bit here let me get this little there you
01:11:20go you look good thank you are you ready yeah i'm ready this is your moment okay
01:11:28i'm so nervous
01:11:36let's do this thing here it comes you've got this you will do fine you tell her hello you say
01:11:42you'll just do whatever you feel okay you got this go forrest go thank you i love you guys
01:12:00oh my goodness
01:12:12okay
01:12:26Our journey's about to start, and we're going to go to the next level.
01:12:44I love you, too.
01:12:45Oh, I'll never hear the best of me.
01:12:49Meeting you, getting to be with you finally, is my world.
01:12:57My everything.
01:12:58My everything.
01:12:59Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:01Sheena.
01:13:02Oh, I'm so happy, baby.
01:13:04You're the best muggle bear ever.
01:13:06I love you.
01:13:07It feels like heaven.
01:13:10It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:15Oh, no.
01:13:16Sheena, can I kiss you?
01:13:17Kissing you, it was ecstatic.
01:13:32She has some really good, like, perfume or something on.
01:13:35Actually, I put some, a lot of flavored perfumes in it, but I know you're going to love it.
01:13:41Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:42I think I got it all over me.
01:13:43Oh, really?
01:13:44Yeah.
01:13:45That's why.
01:13:47I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:53I want us to be a big family.
01:13:57I want...
01:13:57I want...
01:14:02I want...
01:14:03I want...
01:14:05I want...
01:14:06I want...
01:14:10I want...
01:14:10You've got to be crying for her.
01:14:12I know, I'm going to be able to see me, Sheena.
01:14:17Oh, boy.
01:14:18Seeing Sheena cry, seeing Morris cry,
01:14:22and then the big trigger was just Dev,
01:14:24and then that was the waterworks.
01:14:26You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:27You're OK, OK?
01:14:30I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:34I don't cry very often.
01:14:36And then right there, I couldn't hold it back,
01:14:39you know, and it kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:42Sorry, I hopefully apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:46Well, I thank you for apologizing,
01:14:49but let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:51Yes, ma'am.
01:14:52We're going to be, today is a happy day.
01:14:54We are all together, right?
01:14:55Yes.
01:14:56I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:14:57It's been like a family.
01:14:59We're family now.
01:15:01We're family.
01:15:03You're with family now, Sheena.
01:15:06Seeing her face to face with him, face to face with me,
01:15:10this whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:13I love you, machine.
01:15:14I love baby, man.
01:15:16And you got the softest lips ever.
01:15:17Oh, really?
01:15:18And you taste like candy.
01:15:19But apology aside, there's still some things
01:15:25that have to be discussed and talked about before we can proceed.
01:15:31That's just how, how I see it.
01:15:38I would call you, you would press decline,
01:15:41and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:15:44I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:15:50During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days,
01:15:54I had made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:15:58What did you do?
01:16:11I promise I will tell you everything,
01:16:13but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:24Okay, I can promise you that I won't get mad,
01:16:31but I can't promise that it won't hurt me.
01:16:36About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life,
01:16:43and for five days, I didn't answer Rick's call.
01:16:48He was really, really upset,
01:16:51and it caused a huge problem for us.
01:16:56Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:16:59Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:17:01Yeah.
01:17:02And you said that he blamed you?
01:17:04Yeah, he blames me.
01:17:06Like, I was complete for everything,
01:17:09so I was really nervous and upset.
01:17:12And also, I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:17:16Oh, man, I'm scared now.
01:17:23After my ex-boyfriend got robbed,
01:17:27my brother got an accident.
01:17:29He hurt someone, bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:34We did a lot of process,
01:17:35like going for the radiographic
01:17:38and the guy at the hospital.
01:17:41We're paying for his food
01:17:43and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:47Then we went to the police to pay for the amends.
01:17:51Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:54I mean, I would call you, call you.
01:17:57You would press decline.
01:17:59I didn't press decline.
01:18:01Or you would just not pick up.
01:18:02I didn't pick up.
01:18:03And I would text you,
01:18:04and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:07I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:11I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:14I didn't even want to talk to anybody
01:18:18when I came back there,
01:18:20because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:22Baby, I'm not just anybody.
01:18:23I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:25We have to work together.
01:18:26I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:28So it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:33Maybe just say, that's not true.
01:18:36I don't believe.
01:18:37Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:39Maybe you will judge me.
01:18:44But, yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:51I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much.
01:18:55But it's different now, because I see you.
01:18:58I see who you are.
01:19:01So I can share, like, everything happens to my life.
01:19:04I see you, baby.
01:19:06I see you.
01:19:07You okay?
01:19:08You okay?
01:19:09Um...
01:19:14I'm okay.
01:19:15I completely understand what you're saying now.
01:19:18Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.
01:19:23I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:25I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:28What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.
01:19:33But now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
01:19:40And I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.
01:19:45Here she is going through all these things, and instead of being there for her, I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:19:54What did you do?
01:19:55Uh, during the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, um, I talked to my ex from Columbia, and she said that, you know, um, why don't you, you know, come down here, I'm, I'm missing you.
01:20:18And so, you know, I, I decided to book a trip and, and, and go spend time with her.
01:20:29Even though Trish started talking to me again, in my heart, I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:35And so, I still went to Columbia.
01:20:39My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:42We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:46Did you have sex?
01:20:48We had sex all the time, the whole time, multiple times a day, every day.
01:20:56I feel, I feel bad for that.
01:20:59So, I know that I need to tell her, but I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:08And, uh, it might be the end of us.
01:21:10Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:18This is it?
01:21:18This is it?
01:21:20I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:22I'm really proud of the progress that I've made, but I am nervous.
01:21:26BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
01:21:29Oh, my God, here we go.
01:21:37I love Lisa.
01:21:39She's thick.
01:21:40She has warts.
01:21:42But, as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
01:21:47We don't accept that.
01:21:48We're here going to the Philippines.
01:22:06Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:22:08I've never even met my wife yet.
01:22:11This would be actually our first meet.
01:22:14Oh, okay.
01:22:16Me and Anna, we've been married two years.
01:22:19He said that?
01:22:21No, we have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three years.
01:22:26Okay?
01:22:30Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
01:22:35You're pushing too far.
01:22:36It's in the right time, poor place.
01:22:38Yeah.
01:22:40Heena already has that control, that thumb on him.
01:22:43Let's not forget, she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future.
01:22:49You haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied.
01:22:55The pieces aren't lining up.
01:22:57I love you.
01:22:59I don't like that we were fighting yesterday.
01:23:03But there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
01:23:09What?
01:23:10What is this?
01:23:10What's happening?
01:23:12I really want to tell Zied about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
01:23:22No.
01:23:23I don't know what I'm going to do.
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01:23:27I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:27I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:28I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:28I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:29I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:30I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:32I don't know what I'm going to do.
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01:23:34I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:35I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:36I don't know what I'm going to do.
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