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While the silly season can offer a busy social calendar for some, many are also struggling with the expectation to socialise and mingle. Dr Michelle Lim is CEO of Ending Loneliness Together, an organisation raising awareness about loneliness in Australia. She says loneliness is widespread across the country and felt more deeply during the festive season.

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00:00so we do know in australia australia for our 2023 state of the nation report on social
00:07connection in australia almost one in three australians will report problematic levels of
00:13loneliness and even though loneliness is really common almost 50 percent of australians actually
00:20report that they will actively conceal their loneliness and about 30 percent of australians
00:25will actually say they feel ashamed when they feel lonely so there are certain cohorts in our
00:31community that are particularly affected and this is where people are maybe perhaps might themselves
00:36be socially isolated so they're actually physically seeing fewer people but they can also be more
00:42vulnerable segments of a population like older people with limited mobility people who do not
00:47have close family and friends around them especially during this festive season and they don't actually
00:53have the i guess the ability to spend that time with other people uh for many people i often advise
01:00them if if this is a time where they feel it's really critical to be with people it's always
01:04important to plan ahead and and to actually make plans for yourself it's actually okay as well to be
01:10by yourself you know it's not really uh we don't have to really cave into that social pressure that we
01:15have to be with people and in fact i do know many people who have friends themselves who choose
01:20to use this time as a bit of a reset uh self-care and actually um almost kind of take advantage of
01:27this quiet period to really check in with themselves so i think for for people who really do want
01:34um that connection you know it's important that we kind of think about this sort of period ahead and
01:40plan things where they feel like they're connected to not just family and friends but maybe to the
01:45wider community so i think that christmas is a time uh to also be generous i think that while
01:51many of us are fairly insular and we really want to just connect with friends and family it's also a
01:58time for us to think about bringing other people in um and they don't have to be people that we we
02:04know very well and you know it's a time for ourselves to be generous and to kind of um open our homes
02:11and and and or open i guess moments of connection again we don't have to be doing big things uh for
02:18other people but really checking in or or letting people know that we're thinking of them or giving
02:24them a call even if we can't have them in our homes or to spend time with them those little things can
02:29be important and this is to people who feel lonely but also people who um don't feel lonely at this period
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