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00:00The bees are head-butting me.
00:11Yeah, they're not happy we're here.
00:14Come in to the grand foyer.
00:17Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom,
00:19which is also our .
00:20I mean, is that, yeah.
00:21Is this a PG program?
00:23No, don't do.
00:25We try to put Gokhan in his crib,
00:28but he ends up in our bed.
00:32He's kicking us.
00:33He's crying.
00:35And we can't be intimate.
00:37We really need to change our sleeping ranges.
00:40Why?
00:41I'm tired of not having a sex life.
00:44I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
00:48I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's
00:52initials on your finger, bro.
00:54I'm just going to, like, chop it off at this point.
00:57For the nipples, the scar goes around the areola.
00:59You can't ever guarantee that you won't get hypo
01:02or hypersensitivity.
01:04There are a lot of risks that go into getting
01:07your boobs reducted.
01:09I could lose nipple sensation, have an ugly scar,
01:13or maybe be lopsided.
01:15Oh, my God, I'm getting anxious.
01:17I see this.
01:18Hmm.
01:20I feel like Siyad is completely withdrawing from me
01:31and this marriage, and it just makes me really suspicious,
01:35especially after finding him with another woman.
01:37I was kind of hoping we could enjoy having a Saturday off
01:40together.
01:41Yeah.
01:41How'd you get them?
01:43Are we?
01:50Yeah.
01:51I feel good, baby.
01:52I feel great.
01:53I ain't got so much on my plate.
01:55We're going to have a good day.
01:57Hey, we are getting ready to go to jiu-jitsu.
01:59Yes.
02:00Are you excited?
02:01I'm a little nervous.
02:02Oh, my gosh.
02:03She's so excited.
02:04All right.
02:05My name's Chantel.
02:06I'm 34 years old, and I'm from Atlanta, Georgia.
02:10Now introduce yourself.
02:11You have to do this, too, now.
02:13Okay.
02:14Hey, I'm Ashley.
02:15I'm 35 years old, and I'm from Wadawi, Alabama.
02:18Let me grab the door while you hold the camera.
02:20Aw, thank you.
02:21Yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:22Sweetie.
02:23So excited for this.
02:24All right.
02:25Hi.
02:26Hi.
02:26How are you?
02:27Doing well.
02:28Good.
02:29We've been trying to find a hobby that's for couples,
02:31and we can do it together.
02:33So Ashley suggested that we do jiu-jitsu.
02:37So I've been in jiu-jitsu for about a year,
02:39and I took some time off, but now I'm getting back to it.
02:42Couples hobby.
02:43Yay.
02:44Are you excited for this?
02:45Are you ready?
02:46I am nervous.
02:47I'm nervous.
02:48My 90-day journey began with my ex-husband, Pedro.
02:53Pedro moved to the US on the K-1 visa, and we got married.
02:58I pronounce that they are husband and wife.
03:02All right.
03:03You may kiss your bride.
03:10But after seven years of marriage, we divorced because our families just couldn't get along.
03:15Divorciate, punto.
03:16Suéltalo.
03:17You just call me a bitch.
03:19Yes.
03:21You are a whore, and you will not disrespect me like this today.
03:25Good night.
03:27After my divorce, I was living my best life, and that's when Ashley told me that she had romantic feelings for me.
03:34I'm so happy.
03:35I've never been with a woman before, but it was something that I was open to exploring.
03:42We soon fell in love, and a couple of months ago, Ashley moved in with me.
03:47I hope that there's enough room for all of this stuff.
03:51I hope so, too, because I kind of have more energy.
03:54Oh, my God.
03:55I love waking up to her and falling asleep to her.
03:58I love it.
03:59Aw, baby.
04:00So sweet.
04:01So sweet.
04:02All right.
04:03So we're going to start our class with self extension.
04:07Someone might try to grab your leg on and drag you out.
04:11She's going to break your rib towards my cup.
04:14So I've been working towards a blue belt.
04:17I don't know the difference between a green belt, a yellow belt, a blue belt.
04:21The only kind of belt that I know about is a Prada belt.
04:24Seriously?
04:25A Gucci belt.
04:26A Louis belt.
04:27I'm going to pair you guys up.
04:30I'm going to pair you up.
04:31I'm going to pair you up.
04:32I'm going to pair you up.
04:33I'm going to pair you up.
04:34I'm going to pair you up.
04:35I'm going to pair you up.
04:36Hold hard.
04:37Hold like you're going to drag her.
04:38You're the bad guy.
04:39Bad guy.
04:40Drag her to the ground.
04:41Perfect.
04:43I didn't know that this was going to be this aggressive.
04:46I'm supposed to make it happen for her.
04:48I mean, I thought we were just going to do a little wax on, wax off, like Karate Kid.
04:57But we are throwing each other around.
05:00There you go.
05:01Back.
05:02This is like football without the football.
05:07Well, thank you so much for the class today.
05:16Are you excited?
05:17Yeah, I'm excited.
05:19But my back is killing me.
05:21My boobs have gotten so big over the years.
05:26And they've been causing me a lot of back pain and shoulder pain, headaches, migraines.
05:32When I first started my 90 day journey, my breasts were a double D.
05:37And now I'm currently at a L.
05:40That's halfway through the alphabet.
05:44I'm excited.
05:45I'm a little nervous.
05:46Baby, I'm nervous for you.
05:47I know.
05:48I've had big boobs since...
05:49It's pregnant.
05:50I'm excited.
05:51I'm a little nervous.
05:52I'm excited.
05:53I'm a little nervous.
05:54Baby, I'm nervous for you.
05:55I know.
05:56I've had big boobs since...
05:59It's pregnant.
06:00Everybody online always thinks that these are fake and these are implants.
06:09But these are real and they're a real pain in my back.
06:13So I'm looking into a breast reduction surgery so that I can live a more pain-free life.
06:20With smaller breasts, I'll be able to participate in jujitsu better.
06:27Maybe compete.
06:29Really?
06:30I do.
06:31Another nice thing about getting the breast reduction is I'm looking forward to not being
06:38perceived sexually in some situations.
06:41Yeah.
06:42My boobs are so big that people stare at them and point at them and make all kinds of comments.
06:50Like, oh, they're so big and so fake and why would she do that to her own body?
06:56And it hurts my feelings and it makes me feel so self-conscious.
07:01And I just want to be comfortable in my own skin.
07:05Let's do this thing.
07:07I got your phone.
07:09Great.
07:15Okay, here we go.
07:17How heavy is this compared to my actual breasts?
07:21This is lighter.
07:22You think that's lighter?
07:23Yeah, it's way lighter.
07:24Put the other one on there.
07:26That's still lighter.
07:27Are you kidding me?
07:28Shut up.
07:29I'm going to see Dr. Deal, who did an amazing job removing my birthmark last year.
07:39Wow.
07:40I'm so happy.
07:42I'm so happy.
07:43Wow.
07:44Dr. Deal and I have already discussed that I want to get the breast reduction.
07:50So I'm meeting with him so he can go over everything and tell me what the surgery entails.
07:57What's up?
07:58Yo!
07:59What's up?
08:00Hey, Dr. Deal.
08:01Oh, look.
08:02Are we recording here?
08:03I'm sorry.
08:04I didn't even bust in the room.
08:05All right.
08:06Stand up for me.
08:07Let's see this.
08:08Okay.
08:09Imagine.
08:10So you see how they cover up a lot of my torso.
08:13One of the things that I was wanting to achieve is just more of my torso.
08:18Okay.
08:19Um.
08:20Mm-hmm.
08:23For the nipples, you want them about four centimeters above the fold under the breast.
08:27So about right here.
08:28So I'm just going to freehand this.
08:29You really want the nipple about in that position there.
08:32As you can see, the scar goes around the areola.
08:34It goes down the middle.
08:36That's where this comes together.
08:37And that's how the breast gets lifted.
08:39Oh, I still feel it.
08:40I think you have to feel it.
08:43I read that if you get a breast reduction, sometimes your nipple sensation won't come back.
08:49Oh, no.
08:50We got to have those nipples.
08:52We got to be able to feel.
08:54You can't ever guarantee that you won't get both hypo or hypersensitivity, but the majority
09:01of patients do get it to come back at around nine months or so.
09:05The idea that I could lose nipple sensation with my breast reduction or have an ugly scar
09:13or maybe be lopsided is a big risk.
09:16So I am worried that this could end horribly for me.
09:21With the breast reduction, yes, we'll get them to the size you want them to be.
09:26But remember, they'll still have a little bit of a slope on the top when they heal.
09:30Oh, my God.
09:31I'm getting anxious.
09:32I should not see this.
09:33Hmm.
09:34It's okay.
09:35Oh, hey, guys.
09:49Welcome to El Cris.
09:50Come on inside.
09:51To give you guys a little tour.
09:52Look at my fridge now.
09:53And my beers.
09:54Cheers.
09:55Cheers.
09:56How's everybody?
09:57My name is Sinjin.
09:58I'm all the way from South Africa.
09:59I'm 35 years old and I live in beautiful Los Angeles.
10:00My name is Shana.
10:01I'm 27.
10:02I'm from San Diego and I currently live in Los Angeles, California.
10:04Since you last saw us, we moved out of San Diego all the way to L.A. because Shana got a job out here and we're just hoping for the best.
10:23We'll do the whole tour, guys.
10:25Don't blink or you might miss it.
10:27This is our pooper.
10:28With our washer.
10:29The pooper is behind it.
10:31Yeah.
10:32Here, wait.
10:33Very small.
10:34Yeah.
10:35Plus, we have storage.
10:36We have storage.
10:37We have storage.
10:38Peace your eyes.
10:39Oh.
10:41Our definitely not haunted creepy, dark, gross spider demon cabinet.
10:47Tanya!
10:48No.
10:49Tanya, you're in there.
10:50I think she's demoning somewhere else.
10:51She's not there.
10:52Thank the Lord.
10:54My 90 day journey began when Tanya flew all the way to South Africa, met me in a local bar over there, you know?
11:01She's like, oh, this is a cute guy.
11:02Let's have sex.
11:03She looks beautiful even when she wakes up in the morning.
11:06Aw, baby.
11:07Supposed to be a one night thing.
11:09But then we ended up falling in love.
11:11I literally applied for the K-1 visa.
11:14Got here.
11:15Yes!
11:16Oh, my God.
11:17Got to get married in 90 days.
11:20Got married on day 89.
11:22I hereby pronounce you husband and wife.
11:26You may kiss the bride!
11:27Yeah!
11:28Yeah!
11:29Yeah!
11:31After me and Tanya were married, she told me that I'm not her true soulmate.
11:35And that, for me, just kind of was the beginning of the end of the relationship.
11:39This will be for the best, you know?
11:42Um...
11:43Are we getting divorced or are we getting separated?
11:45What do we even do?
11:46I think it's the same thing.
11:47No, I mean, separation, you're still legally married, you're separated.
11:50Yeah, but there's no point in them being married if you're separated.
11:56Sorry, baby.
11:59And now I'm sitting next to an even more beautiful girl.
12:03So I would say I win.
12:05Yeah, yeah.
12:06I slid in those DMs probably a little prematurely.
12:09I think you were still married.
12:10I was still still married.
12:11Sorry.
12:12Sorry.
12:13Sorry.
12:14Sorry.
12:15He was hot.
12:16There she is, everybody.
12:18We fell in love very quickly.
12:20We did distance for almost a year.
12:23Eventually, I wore him down.
12:25And now we're three and a half years later living in LA, Los Angeles, California, baby.
12:31And then you come in to the grand foyer.
12:35Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom, which is also our room.
12:38I mean, is that...
12:39Yeah.
12:40This is a PG program.
12:41Come over here and check our toast.
12:43This is our son.
12:46His name is toast.
12:48Come say hello to everyone.
12:50He is like...
12:52Mwah.
12:53A little guy.
12:54At least this child doesn't scream.
12:56I know.
12:57He doesn't scream.
12:58I know, right?
12:59Right?
13:00He doesn't scream every once.
13:01He doesn't, but so do children.
13:02Look.
13:03Day high.
13:04Day high.
13:05Mwah.
13:06Okay, Lise.
13:07Mommy's getting pound towns, so you gotta go away.
13:10You are.
13:11I'll give you the best two minutes of your life, brother.
13:13Oh, wow.
13:14No wachi wachi.
13:15No wachi wachi.
13:16Free for free!
13:24What?
13:25I just...
13:26I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
13:30I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's initials on your finger, bro.
13:37I don't even want to touch it.
13:39It drives me absolutely crazy.
13:42Me and Tanya spontaneously decided, you know what?
13:46Screw the traditional wedding rings.
13:48Maybe we can do something a little different.
13:50You ready?
13:51As ready as I would be.
13:54Uh-uh.
13:55Okay, that's good.
13:57And, uh, it turned out to be one of the dumbest decisions I've made of my life.
14:02I'm just gonna, like, chop it off at this point.
14:05You know, it just...
14:06There's a lot of pain involved in moving in.
14:08Money as well.
14:09We just getting back on our feet.
14:11Enough with the money, bro!
14:14It's really hard to, like, plan a future and move on and be like,
14:17Oh, yeah, this guy's, like, all into our relationship when you have, like,
14:20your ex-wife's initials literally tattooed on your body.
14:24Just don't worry about it, you know?
14:26The TM stands for, like, Thrustmaster or Tickle Madness.
14:31Oh, my God, stop it.
14:33Okay, this is in hand jail, okay?
14:37It stays over here.
14:38All I got is my right hand.
14:39Yes, okay.
14:40All I need.
14:45Oh, my God.
14:47You know, like, we're leaving in, like, 20 minutes, right?
15:02Please go get dressed.
15:03I hope you so much.
15:04Okay.
15:05You are welcome.
15:08I'm super, super excited.
15:10We're going to a concert.
15:12We're going to party, and it's going to be the best time ever.
15:15You look so cute!
15:17Ta-da!
15:18You know, I love when you get dressed up a little bit.
15:20I think it's adorable.
15:21Does this even count as getting dressed up?
15:23It's just, like, it's not the PJs.
15:25Can I spice you up a little bit?
15:27I'll do a little glitter, but no lipstick and stuff like that.
15:30You can...
15:34I know, it's been...
15:35I forgot about that.
15:36I honestly forget too.
15:37I forget too long, Lacey.
15:39Still there.
15:40I actually have not one, but two tattoos that I got for Sinjin.
15:45I got a little S on my wrist, and I thought it was safe.
15:48You know, maybe it means Shayna.
15:50Maybe it means Sinjin.
15:51Maybe it means stupid.
15:53So, which I would have been if we broke up, but we didn't.
15:56And then I thought it would be hilarious to get his name tattooed in my mouth.
16:01So, I have that now.
16:04Very sexy, by the way.
16:06I would love it if you got my name tattooed on you.
16:11It doesn't have to be big, giant letters on your chest,
16:14even though, you know, that would be nice.
16:16Could be something subtle.
16:17We could get your lip done.
16:19Honestly, the more I think about it,
16:22the more, you know, his Tanya tattoo, like, really pisses me off.
16:28I have two tattoos of him.
16:30He has zero of me and one of his ex.
16:33And I don't know, it's kind of up.
16:35I don't know. I've, uh...
16:37I don't know. I just, I think that if I get a tattoo of you, it's not going to work out.
16:43I literally have your name tattooed in my mouth, you know?
16:49Yeah.
16:50I feel like I've really shown my commitment to you in a lot of ways.
16:53So, honestly, you have three options.
16:56You can get my name tattooed somewhere.
16:59Um, you can get that thing lasered off once and for all.
17:03Or, which I think is maybe the easiest choice, you can, uh, put a ring right there on this figure.
17:10Those are your choices.
17:12And if not, I kind of don't really know where this relationship's even going.
17:18Maybe I should get a tattoo on my ass.
17:22Then you have to kiss it every time I show it to you.
17:24Kiss the bosom.
17:26It's, that's not what a bosom, do you know what a bosom is?
17:28No.
17:29Bosom is titties.
17:30Oh.
17:31Yeah.
17:32Yeah.
17:33I'm not gonna give up.
17:36I'm not gonna give up.
17:38Who are we?
17:40So, do you know where we're going?
17:42I'm gonna put it in a GPS right now, but...
17:45Okay.
17:46I don't want you to see, so I'm gonna just keep it on my phone.
17:48Okay, just direct me. You'll tell me.
17:49Um...
17:50I have a little surprise today for Shayna.
17:52I'm gonna step up to the plate and do something big.
17:57You know, I'm kind of emotional.
17:59I won't lie.
18:00Like, it's a big step.
18:01But, um...
18:03I'll be honest with you.
18:05I'm gonna actually go and get my tattoo room.
18:09You're joking.
18:10This is where we go.
18:11That's where we're going right now?
18:12We're going right now.
18:13Maybe.
18:14I'm ready for this.
18:15Oh, my God.
18:17You know what?
18:18I've actually thought long and hard about this.
18:21And Shayna has a point, you know.
18:24I can't keep just going around with my ex's name on my wedding finger.
18:29After my divorce, I was in a really dark place and Shayna got me out of it.
18:35She helped me see that there was light in my life and actually helped me love again.
18:40And I know I can't lose her.
18:42I can't lose her.
18:43Hello, everybody.
18:44Hi.
18:45Hi.
18:46So, here we are.
18:47Hi.
18:48Good morning.
18:49Good morning.
18:50Thank you so much.
18:51You know, this is the last thing I have of Tanya.
18:54Once I get this off, I can finally forget about the bad times I had in a relationship.
18:59All the baggage, the hate, the tears, the anger, the frustration.
19:04I get to let it all go.
19:07Hello.
19:08Hello.
19:09Hi.
19:10Hello.
19:11I'm Dr. Dombra.
19:12Nice to meet you guys.
19:13Nice to meet you, I'm Shayna.
19:14Nice to meet you.
19:15Nice to meet you.
19:16Thank you so much for this.
19:17No worries.
19:18Oh, this is a little painful, right?
19:20Maybe it does hurt.
19:21Yeah.
19:22But the good thing is it's a small tattoo.
19:24Yeah.
19:25We'll be over soon.
19:26The doctor's going to use a laser, you know, get rid of the ink.
19:30And it's going to take multiple sessions.
19:33But hey, probably cheaper than therapy, to be honest.
19:37Hey, here we go.
19:39We're ready.
19:42Get started, okay?
19:44Yeah.
19:45Yeah.
19:46It's nice.
19:47Yes.
19:48Yes, yes, yes.
19:49Do it.
19:50Imagine a thousand bees stinging you at the same place.
19:59Oh my god.
20:00Yes.
20:01Is it the initials?
20:02Kind of gone.
20:03Oh my god.
20:04You did so good.
20:05Oh my god.
20:06Oh my god.
20:07You did so good.
20:08Oh my god.
20:09Oh my god.
20:10You did so good.
20:13Oh, painful.
20:15I never thought I would see the day that we finally get this thing off, man.
20:19No, this is the next step.
20:21Oh.
20:22We're taking the next step.
20:23We're taking this step.
20:24Yeah.
20:25And then we'll figure out whatever the next step is.
20:26Yeah, we'll figure it out.
20:27We'll figure it out.
20:28Okay, I'll take it.
20:29Whatever.
20:30We got the ring off.
20:31Maybe we gotta get the ring back on.
20:33So how long until he can get another tattoo on the same side?
20:40What are you doing?
20:41Oh, my god.
20:42You're done.
20:43Okay, you're done.
20:45I won't.
20:46I won't.
20:47I don't know where everything is, but I need the hardware stuff.
20:50So I haven't been here in years.
21:04I don't remember where everything is, but I need the hardware stuff.
21:11My name is Rebecca.
21:12I am 54 years old, and I currently live in Atlanta with my handsome husband, Zia.
21:19My name is Zia.
21:21I'm 32 years old.
21:23I'm from Tunisia, and I live in Georgia at Atlanta with my beautiful wife, Rebecca.
21:29You might find the Velcro picture things, like the hang pictures.
21:35You can use stuff.
21:37Oh, I think this way.
21:40Same paper, paper.
21:43My daughter-in-law, Laura, is in the process of setting up her salon, and she asked me to
21:48come by later and kind of help her set everything up and do the decorating.
21:53I got everything right here.
21:54Oh, yeah.
21:55First date.
21:56I brought Zia to the hardware store with me because I need him to help me pick out some
22:00supplies.
22:01He's my big, sexy, hunky HVAC tech, especially when he was wearing his school belt.
22:05You like it?
22:06Yeah.
22:07I'm wearing it every day.
22:08Yeah.
22:09I'm not.
22:10That's what I'm wearing.
22:11Right there.
22:12Yeah.
22:13Okay.
22:14Let's see.
22:15Damage-free hanging.
22:16Zia and I met on social media.
22:20We kind of fell in love immediately.
22:22He made me laugh, and he was definitely very handsome.
22:26Aw.
22:27Good morning, sexy.
22:30I want to kiss you now.
22:33For the first time I saw you, actually, I said, oh, she's beautiful.
22:39I want you to be a part of my life.
22:41Aw.
22:42Look at you.
22:45I ran to Tunisia to meet him for the first time.
22:48He was very handsome, very charming, and so sweet.
22:53So, after being in Tunisia for three weeks, Zia proposed to me.
23:00This is for you.
23:05You want my evening?
23:10I'm shaking.
23:14You're so perfect.
23:17I came home, Zia filed for the K-1 visa, and we got married right after that.
23:23I love you.
23:24Good.
23:25And we've been together ever since.
23:29But I want to get, like, a big pack of it so that we have some to hang other pictures
23:35and stuff.
23:36While sometimes Zia is sweet and romantic and loving, I just find it really annoying that
23:41Zia just randomly starts talking on the phone in Arabic, and I don't know who he's talking
23:46to, what he's saying.
23:47And it just makes me really suspicious, especially after finding him with another woman, who he
23:54claims was his friend's wife.
23:56Oh my God, he's with a woman.
23:57I'm gonna throw up.
23:58It doesn't matter why I followed you.
23:59I caught you.
24:00It doesn't matter why I followed you.
24:01I caught you.
24:02And you were chasing me, dude.
24:03You knew this.
24:04You promised me.
24:05I promise you.
24:06I promise you.
24:07It doesn't matter why I followed you.
24:08I caught you.
24:10I promise you.
24:12I promise you.
24:25I promise you.
24:29I promise you.
24:34Can you help me?
24:46The hardest part about him being on the phone talking to God knows who and saying God knows
24:55what is that it makes me feel like I don't matter anymore. And obviously whoever he's
25:02talking to is way more important than I am.
25:06Yeah, I do. Thank you. Thank you. Have a good day. I feel invisible and I really don't like it.
25:22Honestly, you have spent so much time on the phone lately. I feel like every time I need to see you or
25:28talk to you or want to spend time with you, all you do is you're on the phone.
25:32I talk with my family or with my friends.
25:39Go, go, go.
25:42Rebecca, she not trust me and I don't like this. I hate this. And to be honest, the last Rebecca trust me,
25:50the more I'm pushing away.
25:52I was kind of hoping we could have a good day today and be happy and
25:56enjoy having a Saturday off together.
25:59Right together.
26:02Are we?
26:05You are right now together.
26:08hello how are you how are you i'm wonderful let me put my cup down here
26:33i'm meeting up with my daughter-in-law laura to help her kind of redecorate her home
26:39eyelash and eyebrow studio it's good to see you good to see you how are you doing i'm good yeah
26:45yeah laura helped me on that dreadful night where i found z ed with the other woman and she has been
26:53my biggest support system to get me through all of this it's been going on oh my god it's changed
27:00already so much like it yeah so where you want to put the pictures okay so i have this one
27:07but then i also have this bigger one and i'm not sure it probably needs to be closer this way than
27:17that way well what's new with you i literally have no idea what's going on with zed right now
27:23um still yeah he is being so incredibly distant
27:30constantly on his freaking phone
27:33you're having this issue last year too yeah he is completely emotionally withdrawn from me
27:41we do not have the relationship that we used to have where it was just fun
27:45i remember when we come over we see it like he's just distant he's not attentive like when you asked
27:54him for something the other day it was almost like yeah yeah when it used to be like yeah he hasn't been
28:02the same okay um but like zed is the first relationship i've ever had that has been healthy
28:09and happy and made me believe that there is real love out there and honestly it just it's never been
28:16work and in the last year it has been nothing but work
28:19have you ever thought about like i know this is probably really not up zed's lane but like
28:28couples counseling he thinks he's perfectly fine
28:32but like someone needs to sit him down and be like what is going on like what do you want what do
28:37you need from this relationship yeah even though our marriage is really messed up right now i still
28:44feel like ziad is my soulmate i still feel very much in love with him and i still believe that this
28:52is worth and and capable of being fixed i need to sit ziad down and explain to him why we need therapy
29:01because i feel like without it our marriage will not survive
29:05you can't be the only one trying i know
29:10i want you to be happy i know
29:14okay we're off to check the bees
29:35i'm anna i'm 44 and i'm from velafine nebraska
29:41it's hot today this is like perfect weather to check the bees
29:46i am morsel i am 44 years old i am from turkey
29:52we are ready lady
29:54let's go lady
29:56mersal and i met through social media through a beekeeping group we started talking about beekeeping
30:03and then we just started talking about our lives and about each other and
30:07all for each other
30:08after about two months
30:13mersal proposed
30:15i said yes and then i applied for mersal's k-1 visa
30:19mersal
30:20and then we got married
30:26so in the presence of your witnesses i pronounce that you are now husband and wife
30:31you may seal your union with a kiss
30:34probably me oak
30:39now it looks looks good
30:43after three years of marriage we have a thriving beekeeping business
30:47and a child together go khan's gonna be three and he is super active
30:54for us to have a child surrogacy was the only option um since i'm unable to carry
31:01we chose to do surrogacy in ukraine because we wanted our names on the birth certificate and
31:08we wouldn't have to go through the adoption process like you would have to in the united states
31:12when our surrogacy was about five months along um the war in ukraine broke out
31:19um yeah it was pretty scary
31:23go khan was born five weeks early i had to go to ukraine by myself to pick him up
31:29because they still hadn't approved mersal's entry visa into ukraine
31:36it was really scary every the whole the whole the whole situation was just scary
31:43you want to see the queen okay okay maybe very aggressive yes we'll see with it getting
31:50warmer we have to get the bees ready for peak summer production
31:56there's the queen oh yeah starting to get aggressive the bees are head-butting me basically
32:03they're telling us they don't like us here that's usually a bee's first warning is they'll head-butt you
32:12yeah i'm out of here
32:20yeah they're not happy we're here they're following me and singing the heck out of my legs
32:26i always get stung in the butt
32:28yeah
32:30everything my penis
32:33your penis
32:34yes inside
32:35so was your penis swollen
32:37little bit
32:39little bit
32:40i am ice put
32:43please don't like camera
32:50oh
32:51ladybug
32:52ladybug
32:53oh
32:54you're very tired
32:56you're tired
32:58let's go
32:59let's go to sleep
33:00let's go to sleep
33:01here
33:02let's go to bed
33:04Gokhan's
33:05gonna be three in about two weeks and he is sleeping in our bed
33:12and i don't like it
33:14here
33:15Michelle put him in his bed
33:17goodnight
33:18goodnight
33:23goodnight Gokhan
33:24goodnight Gokhan
33:28hey
33:29shhh
33:35no don't do
33:36we try to put Gokhan in his crib but he ends up in our bed
33:43he's kicking us
33:45he's crying
33:46he's sometimes
33:47pee
33:48poof
33:49ah
33:50fantastic
33:51it's a turn off
33:52not
33:53what's the problem
33:57gohan we all need to sleep here
33:58gohan we all need to sleep here
34:11last night was really bad
34:13i'm tired of Gokhan being in the room it's hard he's not i can't sleep
34:17i don't know why he's sleeping aggressive i don't know
34:21he was crying last night again
34:23just crying
34:25we really need to change our sleeping arrangements
34:28i can't sleep like this anymore with Gokhan
34:31do you know my second oldest son moved into a room in the basement
34:35so we have this room upstairs that we want to turn into Gokhan's room
34:39but i've been trying to get Marcel to help me with it for a long time
34:42he's too busy doing his carpentry business
34:44work work work work no stop i'm busy
34:48we need to get it done because our marriage life is not good
34:52why
34:55we don't have any time to ourselves
34:57yes
34:58it's very hot
35:00yeah we don't have a sex life because of this
35:03stop
35:05it's true
35:06after Gokhan was about a year old i decided to finally get gastric sleep surgery
35:11a lot of it had to do with me not being able to keep up with him i've lost over a hundred pounds
35:19i feel more energetic confident and intuitive my sexual side
35:24i'm tired of not having a sex life
35:27just bad
35:28since i've lost weight i feel like i can't really enjoy it like i i want to um
35:36what do you mean
35:38i don't like not having intimacy in our relationship i don't like not having sex
35:42i'm gonna start working on the room with gina i'm tired of waiting
35:52sorry
35:56how beautiful could it be
35:58she'll be with me
36:00are you helping
36:02okay
36:03i want to
36:04i want to
36:05i want to go to sleep in it
36:06no more sleepless nights
36:07no more sexless nights
36:09since marcella's not going to help me i guess i'm going to take it into my own hands
36:18tree there
36:19that's a tree
36:20there we go
36:27look what do you think
36:31this is your new bedroom gokhan
36:34what
36:35this
36:37this
36:38this
36:39this
36:40how you did
36:41this
36:42oh la la
36:44that's price
36:46very fancy room
36:48a big chance
36:50very very big chance
36:51i like
36:52well thank you
36:55you've gotta go to sleep
36:56we're gonna turn the light off
36:57rennes
36:58yes
36:59he's a big boy now
37:00ok
37:01let's turn the light off
37:02no no
37:03no no no
37:04i get on
37:06goodnight gorkhan
37:08he's sleeping
37:12he's like
37:14ho-ho-ho
37:15ha-ha-ha
37:16I want to be intimate.
37:21What do you mean intimate?
37:23Sex.
37:24Stop.
37:25Stop.
37:26Stop.
37:27Embers.
37:28I'm really watching.
37:30You're me.
37:31Yes.
37:46I can't sing.
37:48I know.
37:49You're swallowed up by those balloons.
37:52Going to set up the boob vibe party.
37:56Help, help.
37:59Are they all in?
38:00Yeah.
38:01Okay.
38:02Are you sure?
38:03Yes.
38:04The door just opened back up.
38:06Today, I'm having my boob vibe party.
38:09All of my friends are coming over to a friend's place,
38:12and we're going to celebrate my boobs.
38:15And tell them goodbye, but not too much of a goodbye.
38:19Yeah.
38:20We're not saying goodbye to them completely.
38:22No.
38:23We're just giving them a little bit of rejuvenation.
38:26There you go.
38:31Welcome to your boob vibe party.
38:34Oh, thank you so much for the sweetest.
38:36Here, you pop us off.
38:38After a lot of consideration, I decided to go through
38:41with the breast reduction surgery.
38:43I'm going to pop this bottle.
38:45I'm going to pop them titties off.
38:47If she had smaller boobs, this wouldn't be a problem.
38:50Woo!
38:52Even though I'm scared and I know the risks,
38:55it's all worth it if I can alleviate my back pain
38:58and be more active.
39:00And I am a little bit worried about it,
39:02but you know I'm going to support you 100%
39:04on whatever you want to do.
39:06All right.
39:07Cheers to a weight off my chest.
39:09Yay!
39:10To the news titties.
39:12To the news titties!
39:14Ready for some games?
39:16Oh, okay.
39:19You're thinking about bedroom games.
39:21Wait, what are we talking about?
39:22I'm talking about at the boob eye party.
39:24Oh!
39:25So I got a fun game for us to play.
39:32Okay.
39:33So we're going to see who knocks each other's titties off first.
39:36Whoever keeps a titty wins.
39:39Ladies and gentlemen!
39:43To our left, we have Ashley Zeworld!
39:49And to our right, we have Chantelle Chanelle!
39:54Woo!
39:56Let the best thing win!
39:59Dang, dang, dang, dang, dang!
40:00Jared!
40:01Jared!
40:02Jared!
40:03Jared!
40:08Don't cheat!
40:09We need a rep!
40:10We need a rep!
40:11All right.
40:12Go!
40:13Hey!
40:14Hey!
40:15Hey!
40:16Hey!
40:17Hey!
40:18Hey!
40:19I'm so excited for my breast reduction surgery.
40:23I finally have everything in my life coming together.
40:28I have my perfect partner.
40:30And when I finally have smaller boobs, I'll be able to be more active.
40:37I'll be able to run with Ashley in the park.
40:41I'll be able to do jujitsu with her.
40:43I'm excited for your next chapter.
40:45And I can't wait to see you with smaller titties.
40:49My boobs are so big that people stare at them.
40:53And it makes me feel so self-conscious.
40:56So I can't wait to just feel more confident and healthier.
41:01I love you.
41:02Oh my God.
41:03I love you too.
41:04I'm doing the best.
41:06I'm doing fine.
41:07You have great hands.
41:08Awesome.
41:09I love you.
41:10I'm going to step into the best chapter of my life.
41:11Thank you so much, girls, for everything you've done for me.
41:14I appreciate you so much.
41:16You've been such a blessed.
41:17Oh my God.
41:18Oh my God.
41:19Oh my God.
41:20Oh my God.
41:21Cheers to the building to be here.
41:22Cheers.
41:23Love it.
41:24I'm divorced.
41:25And I can't wait to not hold this last name anymore.
41:26Oh my God.
41:27This year at New York City Pride, I will be performing at a street festival.
41:44New York City is one of the biggest prides ever.
41:48So I just hope that I kill it on stage.
41:51Here is Nikki and Veronica.
41:55Do you have anyone originally divorced here in the house?
41:59After all I've been through with my ex-husband, I cannot wait for this celebration.
42:09I deserve this.
42:14We were planning to have a baby with us, right?
42:17Hopeful.
42:18We have not had the best experience so far.
42:21We're trying to get a sense of this new fertility clinic because this is our last shot.
42:25If this doesn't work, that's it.
42:27The last surrogate we had, we found out some stuff that we didn't like.
42:32Do you just surround yourself with bores?
42:37Now I don't have the best of women.
42:39Stupid!
42:40I'm stupid!
42:41Johan, she's your girlfriend!
42:43What girlfriend?
42:44F*** you!
42:46F*** you!
42:56F*** you!
42:59F*** you!
43:04F*** you!
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