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Selena Quintanilla’s father, Abraham Quintanilla Jr., has passed away at the age of 86.
For more than 30 years, he carried the legacy of the Queen of Tejano Music — as her father, her manager, and her fiercest protector. From building Selena y Los Dinos to preserving her memory after her tragic death, Abraham’s life was defined by faith, family, and sacrifice.

Today, fans around the world are reflecting on a bittersweet reunion — a father finally reunited with his daughter after three decades apart.

Watch as we remember the life, struggles, and enduring legacy of Abraham Quintanilla Jr.

❤️ Share your favorite Selena song or memory in the comments.

00:00 — A heartbreaking goodbye
00:35 — The man behind Selena’s rise
01:10 — Abraham’s early life and musical dreams
02:20 — Discovering Selena’s talent
03:15 — Building Selena y Los Dinos
04:25 — Stardom, protection, and family
05:20 — The tragedy that changed everything
06:05 — Preserving Selena’s legacy
06:35 — A father’s final reunion and farewell

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00:00Good morning, everyone. If you grew up in the 1990s listening to those unforgettable Tejano
00:05beats that made you want to dance, today's news is going to hit you right in the heart.
00:10On December 13, 2025, we lost Abraham Quintanilla Jr., the devoted father,
00:16visionary manager, and driving force behind the queen of Tejano music, Selena Quintanilla.
00:22He was 86 years old. His son, AB Quintanilla III, shared the heartbreaking news on Instagram
00:28with a simple message. It's with a heavy heart to let you guys know that my dad passed away today.
00:34No cause of death has been shared, but fans around the world are already saying the same thing.
00:39Father and daughter reunited at last after 30 long years. If this brings tears to your eyes like it
00:46does to mine, stay with me as we remember the life of the man who helped give the world Selena's magic.
00:52Welcome back, friends. For many of us, Selena wasn't just a singer. She was a cultural icon.
00:58She crossed borders, broke barriers, and touched our hearts with songs like Como La Flore,
01:04Biddy Biddy Bumboam, and Dreaming of You. And behind every step of her journey stood her father.
01:10Abraham Quintanilla Jr., he wasn't the one in the spotlight. But he was the architect of it all.
01:16Today, we honor his legacy. A story of family, perseverance, music, unimaginable loss,
01:22and unbreakable love. Abraham Isaac Quintanilla Jr. was born on February 20, 1939, in Corpus Christi,
01:31Texas, to a Mexican-American family. Music was in his blood from the very beginning.
01:36As a teenager in the 1950s, he joined a doo-wop group called Los Dinos. He sang and wrote songs
01:42at a time when opportunities for Latino artists were painfully limited. The industry wasn't ready
01:48for Mexican-American voices blending American pop with traditional sounds. And Abraham felt that
01:54resistance firsthand. By the late 1960s, he made a difficult decision. He put his own music dreams
02:00on hold. He took a steady job at Dow Chemical in Lake Jackson, Texas, to support his growing family.
02:07In 1963, he married Marcella Samora, a woman of Cherokee and Mexican heritage who became his anchor
02:14through everything. Together, they had three children. A.B., born in 1963, Suzette, born in 1967,
02:23and their youngest, Selena, born on April 16, 1971. Even while working a full-time job, Abraham never
02:32let go of music. He taught his children early. A.B. on bass, Suzette on drums, and Selena. When Abraham
02:39heard Selena sing at just nine years old, he knew instantly. Her pitch was perfect.
02:44Her timing was natural. He later said he could tell she was special from the very first note.
02:50In the early 1980s, life tested the Quintanilla family again. The Texas oil bust hit hard.
02:56Abraham lost his job. The family lost their home. But instead of giving up, Abraham saw possibility.
03:03He reformed the family band as Selena Y. Los Dinos. A.B. on bass and producing,
03:08Suzette on drums, Selena as lead singer, and Abraham as manager, songwriter, and sometimes
03:15guitarist. They toured relentlessly. Weddings, quinceaneras, county fairs, small venues across
03:21Texas. They traveled in a worn-down bus, chasing a dream most people didn't believe in.
03:28Abraham handled everything. Bookings, contracts, scheduling, even Selena's iconic stage outfits.
03:34Tejano music was dominated by men. Record labels were skeptical of a young girl leading a band.
03:41But Abraham refused to accept no. In one story he later shared, he took Selena to a small label
03:47in San Antonio. Executives hesitated because she was young and because she was female.
03:52Abraham pushed for one chance. They recorded a song. Selena was signed on the spot. From there,
03:58everything changed. By the late 1980s and early 1990s, Selena was winning Tejano Music Awards year
04:05after year. In 1994, she made history by winning a Grammy for Best Mexican-American Album for Life.
04:13She was preparing to cross over fully into English-language pop with Dreaming of You.
04:17The world was opening up to her. And Abraham was there every step of the way, protecting her,
04:23negotiating deals, keeping the family grounded in faith and values.
04:27When guitarist Chris Perez joined the band, he and Selena fell in love. They eloped in 1992.
04:34At first, Abraham struggled with the idea. But over time, he accepted Chris into the family.
04:40Because for Abraham, family always came first. Then came March 31, 1995, the day that shattered
04:48everything. Selena was murdered at just 23 years old by Yolanda Saldivar, the former president of her
04:54fan club. The loss was devastating. For Abraham, it was unimaginable. But he carried his grief with
05:01purpose. He dedicated the rest of his life to protecting Selena's legacy. He executive produced
05:07the 1997 film Selena, starring Jennifer Lopez, with Edward James Olmos portraying him. He oversaw
05:14posthumous releases, including Dreaming of You, which went multi-platinum. He founded the Selena
05:20Museum in Corpus Christi. He established the Selena Foundation to help children in need.
05:26Through Q Productions, he mentored new artists and fought tirelessly to protect Selena's image
05:31and music. In 2021, Abraham published his memoir, A Father's Dream. He also participated in Netflix's
05:38Selena, the series, and the documentary Selena Y. Los Dinos, A Family's Legacy. Some critics accused him
05:46of being controlling. Others said he held on too tightly. But Abraham always responded the same way.
05:52He wasn't exploiting Selena. He was protecting her. In interviews, he often spoke about faith,
05:58and about the day he believed he would see Selena again. Now, that day has come. Abraham Kindania Jr.
06:04outlived his daughter by 30 years. For three decades, he carried her light. He wasn't perfect,
06:10but he was a father who believed when others doubted. A father who sacrificed his own dreams
06:15so his children could live theirs. Today, fans around the world are posting the same words.
06:21Reunited at last. Thank you for giving us Selena. It feels like a full circle moment. A reminder that
06:28love doesn't end, and family never truly leaves U.S. Rest in peace. Abraham Kindania Jr. Your Dream
06:35lives on in every note Selena ever sang. If this story touched you, share your favorite Selena memory
06:41or song in the comments. I read every one. Like this video if you're sending love to the
06:47Quintanilla family. Subscribe for more stories from our generation's icons. And thank you for
06:52spending these moments with me. Take care of the people you love. I'll see you in the next one.
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