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90 Day Fiance: The Other Way - Season 7 Episode 14 -
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00:00Since we've been in France, everything's very, very heavy.
00:03So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
00:06What the f***?
00:10He's taking the jokes way too far.
00:12What is in your mind, Antoni?
00:16My daughter living here, that means I need to put a lot of trust in you.
00:20And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her.
00:23I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had infidelity.
00:29Chloe, show me that you can take care of yourself here, please.
00:33All right.
00:34I think when she feels the difference between having my financial support and not,
00:39a little bit of reality is going to settle in.
00:42Okay.
00:42Okay.
00:48That's mom.
00:49She's constantly invading our relationship.
00:54She calls every day.
00:56It's not normal.
00:59I've sat at the table with you girls.
01:01I know, but baby...
01:01You guys act like best friends.
01:02You're saying, is it resolved?
01:04You're saying, you know what, mom, but she is right.
01:09The honest truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
01:13I don't think I love you anymore.
01:18We'll just have a little warm-up first.
01:48Okay.
01:49You ready?
01:50Yes.
01:55Sorry.
01:56A bit hard.
01:56Okay.
01:58Oh!
02:01Don't worry about the ball.
02:02Okay.
02:03You want me to keep going?
02:04Yeah.
02:04I've been in Tasmania for a few weeks now, and Dylan's mom invited me to go play tennis with her today.
02:12Ah!
02:13And I kind of feel a little nervous about being with her alone because I still have a lot of issues with how close they are.
02:21I've got one for Tia.
02:24Oh!
02:26Fertie love.
02:27I feel like by her calling him every day, she influences him.
02:31She contaminates Dylan's head.
02:33I think she's the reason why we are not married today.
02:38Whoops, that's a bit me.
02:39Okay.
02:40My point.
02:46What do you love?
02:48I suck!
02:49Oh, God.
02:51She kicked my ass at tennis.
02:57Oh, that was embarrassing.
03:00Just like, oh, God.
03:01Are you thirsty?
03:03Yeah, I'm thirsty.
03:04Let's go.
03:04Have a break.
03:05I'm definitely going to take this opportunity to talk to Joe because Dylan does not have my back when it comes to boundaries.
03:13And if he's not going to fix it, I will.
03:17Well, thank you for inviting me out here to play tennis with you today.
03:21It's a beautiful place.
03:23Oh, thanks for coming.
03:25Yeah.
03:25To be honest with you, Joe, like, the other night at dinner, I wanted to say so much, but I'm like, oh, my God, is it too soon to be talking to her about this?
03:36No.
03:37Because I don't want to come off as...
03:38I'm very open.
03:39Listen, I'm very easygoing.
03:41Any other issues, just we bring them up.
03:43Well, how did you feel when you knew that Dylan said, Mom, Patia's going to be moving here, even though you knew I hated you and wanted nothing to do with you?
03:53Yeah, I was excited for him because he was excited about it, but he did say, Mom, Patia doesn't want to live anywhere near your house or Dad's house.
04:05Did you say that?
04:06I did.
04:07Yeah.
04:08Yeah.
04:09So I was concerned about that.
04:11I said, well, how's that going to work?
04:13I know, that's horrible.
04:14It's how I felt.
04:15Yeah, I know.
04:15I thought it was horrible too.
04:18That's just screwy because I don't mean you any harm.
04:21I know.
04:21I want you both to be happy.
04:22No, seriously, I do.
04:24I never, ever resented you.
04:25Oh, I did because I just, you know, the things that I thought you said about me was horrible.
04:31Yeah, no, well, I didn't say it.
04:32The main two things has been your hatred for me and the spending.
04:39Well, I stopped spending.
04:40You say you've stopped spending.
04:44You still haven't paid the debt off.
04:45Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
04:47So it's Dylan's fault again.
04:51He did say you are more than happy for Dylan to sell one of the properties to help you out.
04:58Yes.
04:58I feel like he owes me that.
05:00Well, I think that's terrible that you have that expectation that he's to sell one of the properties.
05:05That's obviously for the both of you to sort out.
05:08But I really would advise him against selling the property.
05:14This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom about us.
05:19Now she's going to tell him to not sell one of his properties.
05:23First of all, it's like none of her business.
05:25She shouldn't be putting her two cents in.
05:27I really need for her to back off.
05:30I wanted to say something else.
05:33In order for me to feel comfortable here, I need to set boundaries.
05:39Like maybe not call Dylan every day, three times a day.
05:42So that's still bothering you?
05:44Yes.
05:46Oh, my God.
05:47But I thought we got past that.
05:48Yes, we did get past that.
05:49But we haven't if you're still onto it.
05:51Yeah.
05:51Yeah.
05:52I want to get past it.
05:55It just makes me mad because Dylan will like stop everything just to talk to you.
06:00But isn't that a good thing?
06:01Because wouldn't you want him to stop everything to talk to you?
06:04Yes.
06:04Because you're important to him?
06:05Yes.
06:06But unless it's an emergency, you know?
06:08I don't know about that.
06:09Yes.
06:09I mean, unless it's an emergency, I just feel like he can wait till we get home and talk to you.
06:13I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
06:16Oh, you're joking.
06:17No.
06:20Here's the deal.
06:21I'm not needy.
06:22I'm not needy in any relationship.
06:23So I'm actually quite strong and quite capable.
06:25So I'm not going to be classed as needy.
06:29I don't think that Patia has a right to tell me what my relationship with Dylan should be like.
06:34I think that problem lies within her.
06:37I might back off a little bit, but I don't think Dylan's going to be in agreeance with that, though.
06:41Asking me not to call.
06:44Doesn't seem normal or natural.
06:46But I mean, I'll do it.
06:47I know.
06:47That makes you happy.
06:48And if you think that's going to help the relationship, I'll do it.
06:50It will.
06:50But sometimes he'll phone me at half past nine at night.
06:52I'll say, what do you want, Dil?
06:53And he wants to chat.
06:54So it's not just me.
06:56It could be yes.
06:56You better get in his ear, too.
07:19Grandpa sent me a picture.
07:21Benny's sleeping on Grandpa tonight.
07:23You can probably sleep all night on their bed, since it's probably a lot more comfortable than I am.
07:27Yeah.
07:29So I have no idea where we are going or what we are doing.
07:32I have no idea.
07:34My last couple of attempts have really failed at giving this, like, grand gesture of love to Manon with being a mine and the goat farm.
07:43So tonight, I have a romantic getaway plan.
07:47But this is definitely more along the lines of what's something I know she likes, which is really going to a nice hotel.
07:55But, of course, earlier today, we had a fight.
07:59So I don't know how this is going to be received.
08:02Here, the Terrace du Port, it's open seven days a week.
08:06It's the only stores that are open on Sundays.
08:09That's why tomorrow, maybe I can get my nails done.
08:12I can do them for you.
08:13Has your mom got nail polish?
08:15Okay, not a good joke either.
08:17But that's fine.
08:18It's not a joke.
08:19It's how you save money.
08:21And that, I cannot do it now anymore?
08:22No.
08:23Great.
08:24Oh, my God.
08:24So what do you want to say about this afternoon?
08:29There's nothing to say.
08:30We're on the same page.
08:32We got it.
08:32We're good.
08:33What do you mean we are on the same page?
08:37Earlier today, when we were down in this, like, historic part of Marseille, there was this little shop that had some seashell earrings.
08:45And she didn't have her purse on her, and she was asking if I had my wallet.
08:50And I said I didn't have my wallet so that she would not buy anything.
08:55I'm, like, coming from this, like, sense of you spend money all the time, there's no money coming in, and we're looking to purchase a house.
09:02And then me, being the juvenile sense of humor that I have, kind of flashed my wallet as we're leaving the shop to show her, and I shouldn't have done that.
09:18I could have gone about it a different way and said, hey, maybe don't spend right now because I have something planned.
09:24Voilà .
09:24Or something like that.
09:25But even $20?
09:27Okay.
09:27I know you're saying $30.
09:28$100.
09:29It wasn't just $30.
09:30Max $100, do you think I would have spent like crazy in a small, tiny boutique if you would have said, can you don't buy them, or can you buy just one piece?
09:39I would have not pushed you.
09:42Really?
09:43Yes, really.
09:45Stop assuming that I'm a bitch.
09:48Why do you assume that I am such a monster?
09:51You're sabotaging me all the time and sabotaging us.
09:57Hmm?
09:57I, like, I really don't feel like going down this road because it could lead into some really bad and I just don't want to go.
10:04Oh, wow.
10:04So you have more stuff to say to me?
10:06Do I have more stuff?
10:06It's like, what about you?
10:08Your apologies?
10:10Huh?
10:10Like, we can, this can go on all day of like, you, me, you, me.
10:14It can.
10:17I don't like feeling like the bad guy.
10:19I just, you know, I'm trying to be smart about everything and Manon does not hear how, you know, she comes across to me.
10:26We tried to move away from these problems moving here and they've just followed us from L.A.
10:32And I don't have a support system anymore.
10:36My family's over there.
10:38My only support system is her and there's none.
10:45I apologized.
10:46I said where I'm coming from.
10:48But.
10:48But like I said, you would invalidate the way I felt about it.
10:52Which you did.
10:54I don't invalidate.
10:57You are invalidating your own apology by always saying a but, a but, a but.
11:03Then I guess I'll just never say where I'm, where like my mind was coming from in the moment.
11:07And I'll just say, I'm so sorry, my wife, my apologies.
11:11And get on my knees and beg for your forgiveness.
11:15I feel you just don't want this to work out.
11:17You just don't.
11:20You always like have to throw that on me too.
11:23Just like you do.
11:24Because it's how I feel.
11:25Like divorcing.
11:25Oh, we're not compatible.
11:26Go find someone that's good for you.
11:27Because you make me feel this way.
11:29Mm-hmm.
11:30Putain.
11:32You just don't care about losing me then.
11:34You just don't care about saving us then.
11:36You just don't care about me.
11:38Period.
11:42When we talk about money, it's a fight.
11:45Our core beliefs are so freaking different.
11:49Is it even possible for us to be happy long term if we are that different?
11:52I'm telling you, I feel like I need to be a whole different person for you.
12:03But I'm sorry, Antoni.
12:04I cannot change for you.
12:06I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
12:15Today is a big day.
12:16I'm going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
12:18To legalize your status in Naruba, it'll take approximately five months.
12:22Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
12:26Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
12:29Not...
12:30Not at all.
12:31Is it a dog?
12:59Don't tell me.
13:01It's a piece of leaf of a coconut tree.
13:06Looks like a dog, didn't it?
13:08No.
13:08Oh, thank God.
13:09Relax.
13:10When Chloe's mom was here, you know, the pressure that she put on us for the papers and stuff
13:16that I feel like really put both of us in a place like, hey, you know, you got to get
13:19this done.
13:20So today is a big day.
13:22We're going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
13:24And hopefully you can give me some really good information and what steps we should take
13:28next.
13:28Don't touch it, Chloe.
13:39The goal for me and Chloe right now is to apply for domestic partnership papers.
13:45I've known people that have done it before.
13:47First thing is partnership papers.
13:49And then for the job, we have to find an employer that wants to hire her and willing to pay for
13:53her work permit.
13:53I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
13:57Yes.
13:58We're kind of just looking to see what the process would be as far as how much it's going
14:05to cost.
14:06And we're very interested in a work permit because without work, I have no money.
14:11So I have to somehow find a legal way to do all of those things.
14:15The main thing right now is trying to legalize your status in Naruba.
14:20Once you are here in Naruba, the work will follow automatically.
14:24Maybe it will take some time, but it can happen.
14:27How much would the permits cost?
14:30How long is it going to take?
14:33It all depends if it is a partnership agreement or a marriage.
14:37When you marry, he can bring you in automatically.
14:41And the marriage will cost maybe some legal dues to marry at the municipal, but it can go very
14:47fast.
14:48The partnership agreement, maybe $600, $700.
14:54But the thing is, that process will take approximately five months.
14:59Maybe part of that five months, you need to stay in the States to wait for you to come
15:04to Aruba.
15:05Well, there's the bad news.
15:06I knew that was too good to be true.
15:09If you married, there's no problem.
15:11But with partnership, you need to wait abroad.
15:14Yeah, how long would it take if we did file the partnership papers for me to be able to
15:20work?
15:21After you're legal in Naruba, it will take approximately another three months for you to
15:27get a job.
15:28The whole process is approximately, I think, eight to seven months.
15:33That's a long time.
15:34That's a long time.
15:35I know.
15:36With a marriage thing, everything goes quicker.
15:39Moves quicker.
15:39Moves quicker.
15:40But you have to be ready for that, of course.
15:42Right.
15:43No, it's not a little step.
15:45You know, it's a big step.
15:50I'm shocked.
15:52This partnership paper is not this easy, sign your cute little signature on a dotted line.
15:58And it's even more shocking that for a part of this, I might actually have to be home.
16:03In the past, when Jonathan and I have done long distance, he broke my trust once.
16:10My anxiety then is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that he's going to
16:16just break my trust again.
16:19So Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
16:22Not at all.
16:24Not in the slightest.
16:25Jonathan and I have talked about getting married and he's definitely someone that I
16:46see myself marrying, but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
16:52But it would solve a lot of our issues with me being able to stay here legally.
16:58When you're ready, just give me a call.
17:02I mean, the plan's always been to get married.
17:04Maybe we should just go for it.
17:22The honest truth is that I don't think I love you anymore.
17:40Thank you for being honest.
17:57Relationship isn't always 50-50.
18:01Sometimes it's 70-30.
18:03Sometimes it's 90-10.
18:05But, like, I can't, like, force myself to love you.
18:17And, like, I love you as a person.
18:21And I, like, really, like, only want happiness for you.
18:24I just feel like there's just, like, so much about myself that I just, like, need to know
18:38about before I can commit to someone.
18:41I just, like, don't think it's, like, a good idea to, like, move forward in this relationship.
18:52It's been three or four days here.
19:02I think we just need to spend a little bit of time together again.
19:06Not worry about getting married or kids or necessarily even where to live.
19:12Just get somewhere.
19:13Just feel it out.
19:16No commitment.
19:17But, like, I just, like, know what I need right now.
19:28Like, is to be alone.
19:34It's just all so sudden.
19:37I feel like I was pulling back the past six months.
19:42I was not being very affectionate.
19:44I was not reciprocating your feelings.
19:47I wasn't calling you as much.
19:48I wasn't sharing much about my life.
19:50And I've been, like, like, spiraling about it and wondering if we decided to see each other
19:56in person again and then, like, then I would know.
20:00We've only seen each other with a camera.
20:04It doesn't have to do with the cameras.
20:07Like, like, no, it doesn't.
20:10I just know it in my gut.
20:14Like, I have to listen to my gut.
20:16Like, and it's not fair for me to string you along when I already know it's over.
20:20Like, this is not fair for you either.
20:28Nothing in the world could have prepared me for those words.
20:32You don't just suddenly not love someone.
20:39These things build up over time.
20:44And I had no idea it was building up all this time.
20:48There is so much life still ahead of us.
20:55Yeah, I know.
20:57I was prepared to spend it all with you.
21:05Every single second.
21:07I will only look back with, like, fond memories of, like, the connection I felt with you
21:33and how we helped each other grow.
21:38And, like, maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.
21:42And even if I am, I still feel like I have to make it.
21:45That ring weighed a ton on my hand.
21:56When I put that ring on her finger,
22:00I never intended to take it back.
22:09Well, what do we do now?
22:10We just move forward.
22:20Our individual ways.
22:25I'm just...
22:26I'm sorry.
22:30I'm just a little bit dead inside.
22:32Um, I'm gonna go to a hotel, I guess.
23:01Yes.
23:06Greta is always chasing a thrill in life.
23:13And I think the roller coaster just ended.
23:25All right.
23:26Grab your bag.
23:28Oh, no.
23:28what is this I was definitely not expecting a sex dungeon yeah I was not
23:36expecting a sex dungeon just have no windows and it's soundproof I don't
23:55you to change but it don't feel the same you say I don't care about you is
24:05complete I wouldn't be here in France if that was the case we get now I mean it's
24:21been a while since we had any alone time to be intimate and I was looking
24:27forward to having like this nice time and now we're walking up to the hotel not
24:31in a good headspace
24:38oh no what is this
24:44check it out oh wow that is cool uh-huh that's a good jacuzzi huh uh-huh cool cool it's just there's no
25:04windows that's the thing that's freaking me out right now and it's soundproof oh when I was
25:12asking Antoni for a sexy romantic night away I was definitely not expecting a how can I put it without
25:23uh being uh um insensitive a sex dungeon yeah I was not expecting a sex dungeon thank you exactly
25:32well it wasn't labeled as a sex dungeon it's what a love room for you love room oh okay a strip pole okay
25:43okay I get it I get it the effort was it's still better than the mine so thank you
25:48um so I have a surprise for you oh so you stay over here and I'll get that ready okay
25:59Manon loves the fact that I was in the military I mean I think she just loves a uniform
26:07I'm scared so I decided to dust off my old army of fatigues that will at least at a minimum put a
26:17smile on her face which I think is a stepping stone to having a better night what is he doing you ready
26:25what the what is it's what you want yes but you always said you will never wear it you hate it
26:37I'm doing it for you and opportunity awaits
26:42let's go come on can it hold my weight
26:49you're a very very rare breed
27:18it's just very cute it's very sexy it's very cute okay let's go let's go to the hotel
27:24you're a nice guy it's nice I love that I'm a nice guy yeah you are yeah anyway and I'm the bad
27:31girl we always know that I'm the bad girl I'm the crazy one I'm the loud one the big one you know
27:36I take space we know that dramatic emotional I'm not dramatic
27:40you are very sexy my new soldier yeah but you are also very sexy
27:48sure you are thank you you're welcome
27:52I'm really happy with Antoni doing the effort and the thing is like you know when we are good we are
28:04he makes me feel good he loves me and everything it's just made me feel more like okay my heart
28:10heart can be full of joy full of love I'm home which is Antoni Antoni is my home
28:16beautiful ass well also that je t'aime beaucoup beaucoup oh my gosh
28:29are you ready to get married
28:35is this something really she wants you know I'm afraid that I'm gonna get too hard you might leave
28:44hungry I'm just actually starving
29:04I want my sweet potato fries what are you gonna eat with that
29:19oh the caesar shot with shrimp okay so what did you think about the law firm today I think we got
29:26really useful information out of it yeah earlier today we found out that it would be a hell of a
29:34lot easier for me to start working and be legal here if we just got married
29:41I don't know how my mom will react when we tell her like it could be potentially eight months before
29:46I can work it definitely probably be a I told you so moment we definitely did not see that one coming
29:52oh god you know what is that gonna look like for us in the meantime if I can't work you know I
30:00don't want to put it on you the eight nine months probably taking care of you the problem I have is
30:07that the lifestyle that you'd like to live you'd like to go out have drinks go to dinners and stuff
30:13like that I can't support that aspect everything else I can help you with but you would have to be
30:21patient oh I understand that I think this whole entire situation is about patience at this point
30:28regardless we're gonna be waiting around yeah but if I marry you it's in two weeks
30:32well are you ready to get married yeah I am I have stated I'm already at an age that I'm ready to get
30:45it's not about age it's about me like you can marry anyone at any age no but like I'm looking for
30:50someone to marry and I really really love you so I would expect you'll be the person I want to
30:56remember but I don't know if you're ready for that because you're very young you're nine years you're
31:04going to be told I don't know if you still want to live life and party and all that you know I
31:10wouldn't say that I'm not ready I think we just have some work to do you know you know of course
31:22the marriage is a much easier option but you know is this something really she wants you know because
31:29partnership papers is one thing you know if it goes bad hey you know we go in separate ways but if you
31:34marry somebody it's much easier to get married than to get divorced I think you're very concerned
31:40about like you're so young you shouldn't settle down and this but I think the way I grew up and
31:45like how blessed I was to travel and do all the things that I have like I feel so comfortable with
31:50the life that I have lived and I've never felt like how I feel with you with anyone else so why would
31:56I want to like put this on the back burner and not go all in like I'm already where I want to be
32:02like I'm still gonna have martini nights obviously but I would like to have a martini night and then
32:06come home like to you I just want you to know for sure what you're putting yourself into I'm gonna
32:15tell you right now it's not gonna be easy and I'm afraid that when it gets too hard you might leave
32:22because I've been through that situation before and I'm not trying to compare you to anybody but you
32:28know like I was in a relationship for a very very long time and I give that person everything and
32:32that person at the end of the day left me for something easier so don't think it's only you
32:38risking everything I'm also risking life I think it's frustrating that he keeps telling me that I'm not
32:47ready to get married because he doesn't actually know how I feel in my eyes I mean I'm pretty in tune
32:53with my brain upstairs and I feel that I'm ready to get married I think if I thought in my head this
33:00isn't gonna work would have already left and I'm telling you that I'm more than okay with it so don't
33:06have this you know second doubt of exactly of me and every day you just show me that you love me and
33:13you care for me then I won't have that doubt in my mind I already gave up my entire life and moved
33:20to another country so there's nothing else I could really give up to prove to him how much I do love
33:26him I know it's fast we definitely have our issues but to me this feels right well I think at the end of
33:33the day it's something to think about so we can be together in the end we'll figure it out
33:43every day you have to talk to your mom it's ridiculous you're just trying to destroy everything
33:49I think you're worried that I'm going to abandon you you better start picking your battles because
33:55you're just going to be nagging me to we're both dead hi babe hi how are you how's the game we had a
34:22ball didn't we yes we did she did she kicked my ass oh not really we're both we're both winners on
34:28the day yeah she's really good okay guys I've got to be somewhere we'll catch up another day yes
34:35okay see ya bye it's good to see you and thank you after tennis I feel a lot better I finally got
34:45all the issues off my chest other side remember we're in Australia oh we're young oh okay I'm sorry
34:56so trying to get used to the the side she did point out that Dylan is part of the reason why they talk
35:04so much so much so maybe it's not all on her but I'm glad we talked about it and hopefully things can
35:11be different moving forward we had a good tennis match she kicked my ass it's been a long time since
35:18I played she might have to get some frustration here yeah well at least she didn't hit me with
35:23the ball I was expecting to hurt her to hit me with a ball couple of times do you feel like all the
35:31issues are resolved with my mother I feel like it's resolved I just said you know like maybe she's not
35:37a call so much twice a week but not every day three times a day that's too much what do you think
35:46about that if you feel like you're I feel like you're bothered by that a little bit it's your
35:52great idea it's not a great idea for me okay we enjoy having a chat here and there yeah but if it
35:57bothers your partner it shouldn't bother you that much if it's a problem for me then you should you
36:13know you should why should you watch you respect how I would you stop why would you stop the person
36:17that you love from doing something that makes them happy I'm not stop now you are okay every day you
36:25have to talk to your mom it's ridiculous I don't talk to you every day sometimes it's free time today
36:28yes you talk to her free time today and it's been an issue with us for 12 years can't you just work
36:35on like getting over that can't you work on like helping me set boundaries and respecting my feelings
36:41since I was a little kid mom and I have always been close and Patia has never really been close to
36:49her mom so she doesn't understand that that closeness I think Patia feels fearful that my mom is going to
37:00influence me in some way or take me away from Patia in some way but if respecting the woman that brought
37:06you into this world is a problem then I don't really know what to say I mean if I'm asking if I'm
37:14saying hey babe you're talking to your mom too freaking much you should be like well then what
37:18if she what if she dies how would you feel stopping me she's not going to die she's she's pushing 70
37:24babe she plays tennis every day are you kidding she's freaking healthy I don't think it's fair that
37:30you're asking me to stop sort of speaking to my mother I think that's really like that's the
37:35that's really sad that you'd be concentrating on that over all things in life you're worried about
37:39that why don't you worry about your $20,000 debt that you have you got me into it I've already
37:47told you about yes you did it's funny that you blame me for everything that's gone wrong in your
37:50whole life I get the blame for yes no I didn't cause you anything I saved you money I told you
37:57you did not save me money are you kidding me you've got lots of issues big big big spending
38:03issues excuse me mr. controlling you have a lot of issues you're very controlling you're always like
38:10trying to tell me what to do it's always like my way or the highway just all right I mean you know
38:14what I think that's the pot call and the kettle black because you're the most controlling one of us
38:17all you love controlling absolutely you're always like trying to tell me what to do and that's why
38:24you don't like me talking to my mother because you like to manipulate influence and control me and
38:27when I speak to her you feel like she's you know taking that away from you you're just trying to
38:35destroy everything I think you're worried but I'm going to abandon you no but I'm gonna abandon you
38:40you know freaking respect my my my wishes Dylan tells me I'm controlling I'm like what how am I
38:48controlling you're the controlling one honestly sometimes I think Dylan is a narcissist it's always
38:54about him you know it's my way or the highway it's so annoying whether Dylan wants to admit it or not
39:02his relationship with his mother is affecting our relationship I don't know how much longer I can
39:07take this it's not that hard you keep fighting me on it which makes it worse just so obviously my
39:15relationship with my mom's not going to change so you better start picking your battles because you're
39:20just picking this battle and you're just going to be nagging me till we're both dead and we're going to
39:25have a miserable life
39:27things are clearly not going well and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about and I think it might make it worse
39:35next time on 90 day fiance the other way let me get you some change how much money you have given back
39:46oh you've given them all the change I've given to you you haven't charged anybody she's saying I don't
39:53know how any money work it's a basic man if you are buying something for 60 if somebody pay you 100
39:59it's easy give them 40 back I don't understand the change so I guess we didn't make any money on that
40:07sale did we I do feel alone and it's like starting to hit me that I am alone the last thing I want is
40:16for you and Greta to split up some things that we're fighting for now I'm upset with Greta but I really
40:23want them to work out I think you should have a talk with her when I met with Dorian we already
40:33started working together on the skincare brand and we need to invest money we're trying to buy a home
40:42and I feel like this is gonna set a lot of things back you're working and living at your parents how
40:50much time before you crack what's wrong I feel so dizzy okay this is not the way I want to start
41:04my weekend wearing I say no no no I don't pregnant I don't pregnant are you telling me that you're
41:18pregnant right now I told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex
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