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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03Ah, super.
00:05Since we've been in France, everything's very, very heavy.
00:08So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
00:11What the ?
00:13Qu'est-ce qu'il fout là lui ?
00:14He's taking the jokes way too far.
00:17What is in your mind, Antoni ?
00:19My daughter living here,
00:23that means I need to put a lot of trust in you.
00:25And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her.
00:27I am worried about Chloe
00:31being in the hands of someone that had infidelity.
00:34Show me that you can take care of yourself here.
00:37Please.
00:38All right.
00:39I think when she feels the difference
00:41between having my financial support and not,
00:44a little bit of reality is going to settle in.
00:47Okay.
00:47Okay.
00:53That's Mom.
00:54She's constantly invading our relationship.
00:59She calls every day.
01:01It's not normal.
01:03I've sat at the table with you girls.
01:05I know, but baby...
01:06You guys act like best friends.
01:07You're saying, is it resolved?
01:09You're saying, you know what, Mom, Petit is right.
01:13The honest, like, truth is that
01:15I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
01:18I don't think I love you anymore.
01:28Mom.
01:28We'll just have a little warm-up first.
01:53Okay.
01:54You ready?
01:55Yes.
01:55Sorry.
02:01Bit hard.
02:01Okay.
02:03Oh!
02:06Don't worry about the ball.
02:07Okay.
02:08You want me to keep going?
02:09Yeah.
02:10I've been in Tasmania for a few weeks now,
02:12and Dylan's mom invited me to go play tennis with her today.
02:17Ah!
02:18And I kind of feel a little nervous about being with her alone
02:22because I still have a lot of issues with how close they are.
02:26I've got one, Petitia.
02:29Oh.
02:31Fairly love.
02:32I feel like by her calling him every day, she influences him.
02:36She contaminates Dylan's head.
02:38I think she's the reason why we are not married today.
02:43Whoops.
02:43That's a bit me.
02:44Okay.
02:49Ah!
02:50My point.
02:51Party love.
02:53I suck!
02:56Oh, God.
02:56She kicked my ass at tennis.
03:02Oh, that was embarrassing.
03:05Just like...
03:05Are you thirsty?
03:08Yeah, I'm thirsty.
03:09Let's go.
03:09Let's have a break.
03:10I'm definitely going to take this opportunity to talk to Joe
03:14because Dylan does not have my back when it comes to boundaries.
03:18And if he's not going to fix it, I will.
03:22Well, thank you for inviting me out here to play tennis with you today.
03:26It's a beautiful place.
03:28Oh, thanks for coming.
03:30Yeah.
03:30To be honest with you, Joe, like, the other night at dinner, I wanted to say so much,
03:38but I'm like, oh, my God, is it too soon to be talking to her about this?
03:41No.
03:42Because I don't want to come off this.
03:43I'm very open.
03:44I mean, listen, I'm very easygoing.
03:46Any other issues, just we bring them up.
03:47Well, how did you feel when you knew that Dylan said,
03:53Mom, Patia's going to be moving here,
03:55even though you knew I hated you and wanted nothing to do with you?
03:59Yeah, I was excited for him because he was excited about it,
04:03but he did say, Mom, Patia doesn't want to live anywhere near your house or Dad's house.
04:10Did you say that?
04:11I did.
04:12Yeah.
04:13Yeah.
04:14So I was concerned about that.
04:15I said, well, how's that going to work?
04:17That's, I know, that's horrible.
04:19It's how I felt.
04:20Yeah, I know.
04:20I thought it was horrible, too.
04:23That's just screwy because I don't mean you any harm.
04:26I know.
04:26I want you both to be happy.
04:27No, seriously, I do.
04:29I never, ever resented you.
04:30Oh, I did because I just, you know,
04:32the things that I thought you said about me was horrible.
04:36Yeah, no, well, I didn't say it.
04:37The main two things has been your hatred for me and the spending.
04:44Well, I stopped spending.
04:45You say you've stopped spending.
04:47You still haven't paid the debt off.
04:50Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
04:53So it's Dylan's fault again.
04:56He did say you are more than happy for Dylan to sell one of the properties to help you out.
05:03Yes, I feel, I feel like he owes me that.
05:06Well, I think that's terrible that you have that expectation that he's to sell one of the properties.
05:10That's obviously for the both of you to sort out.
05:13But I really would advise him against selling the property.
05:16This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom about us.
05:24Now she's going to tell him to not sell one of his properties.
05:28First of all, it's like none of her business.
05:30She shouldn't be putting her two cents in.
05:31But I really need for her to back off.
05:35I wanted to say something else.
05:38In order for me to feel comfortable here, I need to set boundaries.
05:44Like maybe not call Dylan every day, three times a day.
05:47So that's still bothering you?
05:49Yes.
05:50Oh my God.
05:52But I thought we got past that.
05:53Yes, we did get past that.
05:54But we haven't if you're still onto it.
05:56Yeah, yeah.
05:57I want to like get past it.
06:00It just makes me mad because Dylan will like stop everything just to talk to you.
06:05But isn't that a good thing?
06:06Because wouldn't you want him to stop everything to talk to you?
06:09Yes.
06:09Because you're important to him?
06:10Yes, but unless it's an emergency, you know.
06:13I don't know about that.
06:14Yes, I mean, unless it's an emergency, I just feel like he can wait till we get home and talk to you.
06:18I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
06:21Oh, you're joking.
06:23No.
06:25Here's the deal.
06:26I'm not needy.
06:27I'm not needy in any relationship.
06:28So I'm actually quite strong and quite capable.
06:30So I don't, I'm not going to be classed as needy.
06:34I don't think that Patia has a right to tell me what my relationship with Dylan should be like.
06:39I think that problem lies within her.
06:42I might back off a little bit, but I don't think Dylan's going to be in agreeance with that though.
06:46Asking me not to call doesn't seem normal or natural, but I mean, I'll do it.
06:52I know.
06:52That makes you happy.
06:53And if you think that's going to help the relationship, I'll do it.
06:55It will.
06:55But sometimes he'll phone me at half past nine at night.
06:57I'll say, what do you want, Dil?
06:58And he wants to chat.
06:59So it's not just me.
07:01It could be, yes.
07:01You better get in his ear too.
07:02Grandpa sent me a picture.
07:26Benny's sleeping on grandpa tonight.
07:28You probably sleep all night on their bed since it's probably a lot more comfortable than I am.
07:32Yeah.
07:34So I have no idea where we are going or what we are doing.
07:37I have no idea.
07:39My last couple of attempts have really failed at giving this like grand gesture of love to Manon with being a mine and the goat farm.
07:47So tonight I have a romantic getaway plan.
07:53This is definitely more along the lines of what's something I know she likes, which is really going to a nice hotel.
08:00But of course, earlier today we had a fight, so I don't know how this is going to be received.
08:08Here, the Terrace du Port, it's open seven days a week.
08:11It's the only stores that are open on Sundays.
08:14That's why tomorrow maybe I can get my nails done.
08:16I can do them for you.
08:18How does your mom got nail polish?
08:20Okay, not a good joke either, but that's fine.
08:23It's not a joke.
08:24It's how you save money.
08:26And that, I cannot do it now anymore?
08:27No.
08:28All right.
08:29Oh my God.
08:31So what you want to say about this afternoon?
08:34There's nothing to say.
08:35We're on the same page.
08:37We got it.
08:37We're good.
08:38What do you mean we are on the same page?
08:40Earlier today, when we were down in this historic part of Marseille, there was this little shop
08:48that had some seashell earrings, and she didn't have her purse on her, and she was asking if
08:53I had my wallet.
08:54And I said, I didn't have my wallet so that she would not buy anything.
09:00I'm like coming from this like sense of you spend money all the time.
09:04There's no money coming in, and we're looking to purchase a house.
09:07And then me, being the juvenile sense of humor that I have, kind of flashed my wallet as
09:15we're leaving the shop to show her, and I shouldn't have done that.
09:23I could have gone about it a different way and said, hey, maybe don't spend right now
09:27because I have something planned.
09:29Voilà.
09:29Or something like that.
09:30But even $20?
09:32Okay.
09:32I know you're saying $30.
09:33$100.
09:34It wasn't just $30.
09:35Max, $100, do you think I would have spent like crazy in a small, tiny boutique if you
09:40would have said, can you don't buy them, or can you buy just one piece?
09:44I would have not pushed you.
09:47Really?
09:48Yes, really.
09:50Stop assuming that I'm a bitch.
09:53Why do you assume that I am such a monster?
09:56You're sabotaging me all the time and sabotaging us.
10:02Hmm?
10:02I, like, I really don't feel like going down this road because it could lead into some
10:07really bad s***, and I just don't want to go.
10:09Oh, wow.
10:09So you have more stuff to say to me?
10:11Do I have more stuff?
10:11It's like, what about you?
10:13Your apologies, huh?
10:15Like, we can, this can go on all day of, like, you, me, you, me.
10:19It can.
10:19I don't like feeling like the bad guy.
10:25I just, you know, I'm trying to be smart about everything, and Manon does not hear how,
10:29you know, she comes across to me.
10:31We tried to move away from these problems moving here, and they've just followed us from
10:37L.A.
10:37And I don't have a support system anymore.
10:41My family's over there.
10:43My only support system is her, and there's none.
10:50I apologized.
10:51I said where I'm coming from.
10:53But.
10:53But, like I said, you would invalidate the way I felt about it, which you did.
10:59I don't invalidate.
11:02You are invalidating your own apology by always saying a but, a but, a but.
11:08Then I guess I'll just never say where I'm, where, like, my mind was coming from in the
11:12moment, and I'll just say, I'm so sorry, my wife, my apologies, and get on my knees and
11:18beg for your forgiveness.
11:20I feel you just don't want this to work out.
11:22You just don't.
11:25You always, like, have to throw that on me, too.
11:27So, just like you do with a couple, like, divorcing.
11:30Oh, we're not compatible.
11:31Go find someone that's good for you.
11:32Because you make me feel this way.
11:35Putain.
11:37You just don't care about losing me, then.
11:39You just don't care about saving us, then.
11:42You just don't care about me.
11:43Period.
11:47When we talk about money, it's a fight.
11:50Our core beliefs are so freaking different.
11:54Is it even possible for us to be happy long term if we are that different?
11:57I'm telling you, I feel like I need to be a whole different person for you.
12:08But I'm sorry, Antoni.
12:09I cannot change for you.
12:11I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
12:20Today is a big day.
12:21I'm going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
12:23To legalize your status in Naruba, take approximately five months.
12:27Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
12:31Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
12:34Not...
12:35Not at all.
12:36Is it a dog?
13:04Don't tell me.
13:06It's a piece of leaf of a coconut tree.
13:11Looks like a dog, doesn't it?
13:12No.
13:13Oh, thank God.
13:14Relax.
13:15When Chloe's mom was here, you know, the pressure that she put on us for the papers and stuff
13:21that I feel like really put both of us in a place like, hey, you know, you got to get
13:24this done.
13:25So today is a big day.
13:27We're going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer and hopefully you can give me some really
13:30good information and what steps we should take next.
13:33Don't touch it, Chloe.
13:44The goal for me and Chloe right now is to apply for domestic partnership papers.
13:50I've known people that have done it before.
13:52First thing is partnership papers.
13:54And then for the job, we have to find an employer that wants to hire her and willing to pay for
13:58her work permit.
13:58I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
14:02Yes.
14:03We're kind of just looking to see what the process would be as far as how much it's going to
14:10cost.
14:11And we're very interested in a work permit because without work, I have no money.
14:16So I have to somehow find a legal way to do all of those things.
14:20The main thing right now is trying to legalize your status in Naruba.
14:25Once you are here in Naruba, the work will follow automatically.
14:29Maybe it will take some time, but it can happen.
14:32How much would the permits cost?
14:35How long is it going to take?
14:37It all depends if it is a partnership agreement or a marriage.
14:41Mm-hmm.
14:42When you marry, he can bring you in automatically.
14:45Mm-hmm.
14:46And the marriage will cost maybe some legal dues to marry at the municipal.
14:51But it can go very fast.
14:53So the partnership agreement, maybe $600, $700.
14:59But the thing is, that process will take approximately five months.
15:04Maybe part of that five months, you need to stay in the States to wait for you to come
15:09to Naruba.
15:10Oh, there's the bad news.
15:11I knew that was too good to be true.
15:13If you're married, there's no problem.
15:16But with partnership, you need to wait abroad.
15:20Yeah.
15:20How long would it take if we did file the partnership papers for me to be able to work?
15:26After you're legal in Naruba, it will take approximately another three months for you to get a job.
15:32The whole process is approximately, I think, eight to seven months.
15:38Yeah, that's a long time.
15:39That's a long time.
15:40I know.
15:41With a marriage thing, everything...
15:43Moves quicker.
15:44...goes quicker.
15:45But you have to be ready for that, of course.
15:47Right.
15:48No, it's not a little step.
15:50You know, it's a big step.
15:51I'm shocked.
15:57This partnership paper is not this easy, sign your cute little signature on a dotted line.
16:03And it's even more shocking that for a part of this, I might actually have to be home.
16:09In the past, when Jonathan and I have done long distance, he broke my trust once.
16:15And my anxiety then is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that he's going to just break my trust again.
16:24So Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
16:27Not...
16:28Not at all.
16:29Not in the slightest.
16:32Did you already discuss marriage as a possibility or...?
16:37Yeah, I've discussed with her about marriage.
16:40We've only known each other for a year now.
16:42And so, like you said, marriage is not a small step.
16:48Jonathan and I have talked about getting married, and he's definitely someone that I see myself marrying.
16:53But there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
16:58But it would solve a lot of our issues with me being able to stay here legally.
17:03When you're ready, just give me a call.
17:07I mean, the plan's always been to get married.
17:09Maybe we should just go for it.
17:12Maybe we should go for it.
17:14Maybe we should go for it.
17:15Maybe we should go for it today.
17:16Maybe we should be to win.
17:32Maybe.
17:36What about me?
17:39I don't want to think I love you anymore.
18:00Thank you for being honest.
18:02Relationship isn't always 50-50.
18:06Sometimes it's 70-30.
18:08But, like, I can't, like, force myself to love you.
18:21And, like, I love you as a person.
18:25And I, like, really, like, only want happiness for you.
18:30Like, I just feel like there's just so much about myself that I just, like, need to know about before I can commit to someone.
18:47I just, like, don't think it's, like, a good idea to, like, move forward in this relationship.
19:00It's been three or four days here.
19:07I think we just need to spend a little bit of time together again.
19:11Not worry about getting married or kids or necessarily even where to live.
19:17Just get somewhere and just feel it out.
19:21No commitment.
19:23I think there's something to explore still.
19:26I really do.
19:28But, like, I just, like, know what I need right now.
19:33Like, is to be alone.
19:35It's just all so sudden.
19:40I feel like I was pulling back the past six months.
19:47I was not being very affectionate.
19:49I was not reciprocating your feelings.
19:51I wasn't calling you as much.
19:53I wasn't sharing much about my life.
19:55And I've been, like, spiraling about it and wondering if we decide to see each other in person again.
20:02And then, like, then I would know.
20:04We've only seen each other with a camera crew around us.
20:09It doesn't have to do with the cameras.
20:12Like, like, no, it doesn't.
20:18I just know it in my gut.
20:19Like, I have to listen to my gut.
20:21Like, and it's not fair for me to string you along when I already know it's over.
20:25Like, this is not fair for you either.
20:33Nothing in the world could have prepared me for those words.
20:40You don't just suddenly not love someone.
20:44These things build up over time.
20:46And I had no idea it was building up.
20:51All this time.
20:55There is so much life still ahead of us.
20:59Yeah, I know.
21:01I was prepared to spend it all with you.
21:09Every single second day.
21:11I will only look back with, like, fond memories of, like, the connection I felt with you.
21:38And how we helped each other grow.
21:43And, like, maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.
21:47And even if I am, I still feel like I have to make it.
21:50That ring weighed a ton on my hand.
22:02When I put that ring on her finger,
22:06I never intended to take it back.
22:08Well, what do we do now?
22:20We just move forward.
22:25Our individual ways.
22:26I'm just...
22:34I'm sorry.
22:35I'm just a little bit dead inside.
22:37I'm sorry.
22:38I'm just a little bit dead inside.
22:39I can't believe it.
22:40I'm gonna go to a hotel, I guess.
22:54Um, I'm going to go to a hotel, I guess.
23:11Greta is always chasing a thrill in life.
23:18And I think the roller coaster just ended.
23:24All right, grab your bag.
23:32Oh, no.
23:34What the is this?
23:36I was definitely not expecting a...
23:39A sex dungeon.
23:40Yeah, I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
23:42Just there's no windows.
23:43And it's soundproof.
23:45Oh.
23:54I don't want you to change.
24:04But it don't feel the same.
24:07You say, I don't care about you.
24:09It's complete bull .
24:10I wouldn't be here in France if that was the case.
24:16We getting out?
24:17Right on.
24:18I mean, it's been a while since we had any alone time to be intimate.
24:30And I was looking forward to having like this nice time.
24:34And now we're walking up to the hotel, not in a good headspace.
24:38Oh, no.
24:39What the is this?
24:45Check it out.
24:46Oh, wow.
24:47That is cool.
24:48Uh-huh.
24:49That's a good jacuzzi, huh?
24:50Uh-huh.
24:51Cool.
24:52Cool.
24:53It's just there's no windows.
24:54That's the thing that's freaking me out right now.
24:55And it's soundproof.
24:56Oh.
24:57When I was asking Antoni for a sexy, romantic night away, I was definitely not expecting
25:24a, how can I put it, without being insensitive.
25:32A sex dungeon.
25:33Yeah.
25:34I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
25:36Thank you exactly.
25:37Well, it wasn't labeled as a sex dungeon.
25:41I bought a love room for you.
25:43Love room.
25:44Oh, okay.
25:46A strip ball.
25:47Okay.
25:48I get it.
25:49The effort was, it's still better than mine.
25:52So, thank you.
25:53Okay.
25:54Um, so I have a surprise for you.
25:59Oh, another one.
26:00So you stay over here and I'll get that ready.
26:04Okay.
26:05Manon loves the fact that I was in the military.
26:09I mean, I think she just loves a uniform.
26:12I'm scared.
26:14So I decided to dust off my old army of fatigues.
26:18That will at least, at a minimum, put a smile on her face, which I think is a stepping stone
26:25to having a better night.
26:27What is he doing?
26:28What is he doing?
26:29You ready?
26:34What the ?
26:37What is it?
26:38It's what you want.
26:39Yes, but you always said you would never wear it.
26:41You hate it.
26:42I'm doing it for you.
26:43And opportunity awaits.
26:44Oh, yeah.
26:45Oh, .
26:46Let's go.
26:47Come on.
26:48Can it hold my weight?
26:49Oh, Peter.
26:50You ready?
26:51I'm not.
26:52I'm not.
26:53Oh, my God.
26:54Oh, my God.
26:55Oh, my God.
26:56Oh, my God.
26:57Oh, my God.
26:58I'm thinking her.
26:59I'm going to break it.
27:00Oh.
27:01I'm the military boy.
27:02You can't look like you have a polo.
27:03Oh, yeah.
27:04Yeah, that's what you want?
27:05Oh.
27:06Oh, yeah.
27:07Oh, yeah.
27:08Oh, yeah.
27:09Oh, yeah.
27:10Oh, yeah.
27:19Oh, yeah.
27:20you're a very very rare breed it's just very cute it's very sexy it's very cute okay let's go
27:28you're a nice guy it's nice i love that i'm a nice guy yeah you are yeah anyway and i'm the
27:36bad girl we always know that i'm the bad girl i'm the crazy one i'm the loud one the big one
27:41you know i take space we know that dramatic emotional i'm not dramatic
27:45you are very sexy my new soldier yeah well you are also very sexy sure you are thank you you're
27:57welcome i'm really happy with antoni doing the effort and the thing is like you know when we
28:08are good we are good it makes me feel good you love me and everything it's just made me feel more like
28:14okay my heart can be full of joy full of love i'm home which is antoni antoni is my home
28:21well also that je t'aime beaucoup beaucoup oh my gosh
28:34are you ready to get married
28:40i'm hesitant is this something really she wants you know i'm afraid that when it gets too hard you might
28:49hungry i'm hungry i'm just actually starving
29:09i want my sweet potato fries what are you gonna eat with that oh the caesar salad with shrimp
29:25okay so what did you think about the the law firm today i think we got really useful information out
29:33of it yeah earlier today we found out that it would be a hell of a lot easier for me to start
29:42working and be legal here if we just got married i don't know how my mom will react when we tell her
29:49like it could be potentially eight months before i can work it definitely probably will be a i told you
29:54so moment we definitely did not see that one coming oh god you know what is that going to look like
30:02for us in the meantime if i can't work you know i don't want to put it on you
30:07the eight nine months is not probably taking care of you the problem i have is the lifestyle that you
30:13like to live you like to go out have drinks go to dinners and stuff like that i can't support that
30:20aspect no i understand everything else i can help you with but you would have to be patient
30:27oh i i understand that i think this whole entire situation is about patience at this point
30:33regardless we're going to be waiting around yeah but if i marry you it's in two weeks
30:38well are you ready to get married
30:43yeah i am i am hesitated i'm already at an age that i'm ready to get married it's not about age it's
30:51about me like you can marry anyone at any age no but like i'm looking for someone to marry
30:56and i really really love you so i would expect you to be the person that i want to marry
31:01but i don't know if you're ready for that because you're very young
31:06why you're nine you're nine years you're going to be proud i don't know if you still want to live
31:12life and party and all that you know i wouldn't say that i'm not ready i think we just have some
31:20work to do you know
31:24you know of course the marriage is a much easier option but you know is this something really she
31:33wants you know because partnership papers is one thing you know if it goes bad hey you know
31:37we go separate ways but if you marry somebody it's much easier to get married than to get divorced
31:43i think you're very concerned about like you're so young you shouldn't settle down and this but
31:48i think the way i grew up and like how blessed i was to travel and do all the things that i have
31:53like i feel so comfortable with the life that i have lived and i've never felt like how i feel with
31:58you with anyone else so why would i want to like put this on the back burner and not go all in like
32:05i'm already where i want to be like i'm still gonna have martini nights obviously but i would like
32:10to have a martini night and then come home like to you i just want you to know for sure what you're
32:18putting yourself into i'm going to tell you right now it's not going to be easy and i'm afraid that
32:25when it gets too hard you might leave because i've been through that situation before and i'm not
32:30trying to compare you to anybody but you know like i was in a relationship for a very very long time
32:35and i gave that person everything and that person at the end of the day left me for something easier
32:42so don't think it's only you risking everything i'm also risking life
32:49i think it's frustrating that he keeps telling me that i'm not ready to get married because he doesn't
32:54actually know how i feel in my eyes i mean i'm pretty in tune with my brain upstairs and i feel that
33:02i'm ready to get married i think if i thought in my head this isn't going to work would have already
33:07left and i'm telling you that i'm more than okay with it so don't have this you know second doubt of
33:15exactly of me and every day you show me that you love me and you care for me then i won't have that
33:20doubt in my mind i already gave up my entire life and moved to another country so there's nothing else i
33:28could really give up to prove to him how much i do love him i know it's fast and we definitely have
33:34our issues but to me this feels right well i think at the end of the day it's something to think about
33:40so we can be together in the end we'll figure it out
33:48every day you have to talk to your mom it's ridiculous
33:52you're just trying to destroy everything i think you're worried that i'm going to abandon you
33:58you better start picking your battles because you're just going to be nagging me till we're both dead
34:22hi babe hi how are you how was the game we thought we had a ball didn't we yes we did she did she kicked
34:30my ass oh not really we're both we're both winners on the day yeah she's really good okay guys i've got
34:37to be somewhere we'll catch up another day okay yes okay see ya bye it's good to see you and thank you
34:43thank you yes it was after tennis i feel a lot better i finally got all the issues off my chest
34:53other side remember we're in australia huh of course where are you going oh okay
35:00i'm sorry i'm still trying to get used to the the side she did point out that dylan is part of the
35:08the reason why they talk so much so maybe it's not all on her but i'm glad we talked about it and
35:15hopefully things can be different moving forward we had a good tennis match she kicked my ass it's
35:22been a long time since i played she might have had to get some frustration out yeah at least she didn't
35:28hit me with the ball i was expecting to her her to hit me with the ball a couple of times do you feel
35:36like all the issues are resolved with my mother i feel like it's resolved i just said you know like
35:41maybe she's not called so much twice a week twice a week but not every day three times a day that's too
35:47much what do you think about that i i you feel like you i feel like you're bothered by that a little
35:55bit it's your great idea it's not a great idea for me okay it's like we enjoy having a chat here
36:01and there yeah but if it bothers your partner yeah but it shouldn't but is that it shouldn't bother you
36:07that much
36:15if it's a problem for me then you should you know you should why should you you should respect how
36:20i would you stop why would you stop the person that you love from doing something that makes
36:24them happy listen i'm not stop no yes you are babe every day you have to talk to your mom it's
36:31ridiculous i don't talk to you every day sometimes it's three times today yes you talk to her three
36:35times today and it's been an issue with us for 12 years can't you just work on like getting over
36:41that can't you work on like helping me set boundaries and respecting my feelings
36:46since i was a little kid mom and i have always been close and patia has never really been close
36:54to her mom so she doesn't understand that that closeness i think patia feels fearful that my
37:04mom is going to influence me in some way or take me away from patia in some way but if respecting the
37:11woman that brought you into this world is a problem then i don't really know what to say
37:17i mean if i'm asking if i'm saying hey babe you're talking to your mom too freaking much
37:22you should be like well then what if she what if she dies how would you feel stopping me she's not
37:26going to die she's she's pushing 70. babe she plays tennis every day are you kidding she's freaking
37:33healthy i don't think it's fair that you're asking me to stop speaking to my mother i think that's really
37:38like that's the thing that's really sad that you'd be concentrating on that over all things in life
37:43you're worried about that why don't you worry about your 20 000 debt that you have
37:50you you got me into it i've already talked about yes you did it's funny that you blame me for
37:54everything that's gone wrong in your whole life i get the blame for yes you caused me a lot of money
37:58no i didn't cause you anything i saved you money i taught you you did not save me money are you kidding me
38:05you've got lots of issues big big big spending excuse me mr controlling you have a lot of issues
38:12you're very controlling you're always like trying to tell me what to do it's always like my way or the
38:17highway just all right i mean you know what i think that's the pot calling the kettle black because
38:21you're the most controlling one of us all you love controlling absolutely you're always like trying to
38:27tell me what to do and that's why you don't like me talking to my mother because you like to
38:30manipulate influence and control me and when i speak to her you feel like she's you know taking
38:36that away from you you're just trying to destroy everything i think you're worried that i'm going
38:43to abandon you no but i'm gonna abandon you you don't freaking respect my my my wishes dylan tells me
38:50i'm controlling i'm like what how am i controlling you're the controlling one honestly sometimes i think
38:57dylan is a narcissist it's always about him you know it's my way or the highway it's so annoying
39:05whether dylan wants to admit it or not his relationship with his mother is affecting our
39:10relationship i don't know how much longer i can take this it's not that hard you keep fighting me on
39:17it which makes it worse obviously my relationship with my mom's not going to change so you better start
39:24picking your battles because you're just picking this battle and you're just going to be nagging me
39:28till we're both dead and we're going to have a miserable life things are clearly not going well
39:35and there's something that i need to talk to dylan about and i think it might make it worse
39:40next time on 90 day fiancee the other way let me get you some change how much money you have
39:50given back oh you've given them all the change i've given to you you haven't charged anybody she's
39:57saying i don't know how i didn't money well it's a basic man if you are buying something for 60 if
40:03somebody pay you 100 it's easy give them 40 back i don't understand the change so i guess we didn't
40:11make any money on that sale did we i do feel alone and it's like starting to hit me that i am alone
40:20the last thing i want is for you and greta to split up some things are worth fighting for
40:25i am upset with greta but i really want them to work out i think you should have a talk with her
40:33when i met with dorian we already started working together on the skincare brand and
40:43we need to invest money we're trying to buy a home and i feel like this is going to set a lot of
40:49things back you're working and living at your parents how much time before you crack
40:57what's wrong i feel so dizzy you okay no this is not the way i want to start my weekend we're in
41:12i say no no no i don't pregnant i don't pregnant are you telling me that you're pregnant right now
41:24i told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex