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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03Ah, super.
00:05Since we've been in France, everything's very, very heavy.
00:08So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
00:11What the f***?
00:13Qu'est-ce qu'il fout lĂ lui?
00:14He's taking the jokes way too far.
00:17What is in your mind, Antoni?
00:21My daughter living here, that means I need to put a lot of trust in you.
00:25And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her.
00:27I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had infidelity.
00:34Show me that you can take care of yourself here.
00:37Please.
00:38All right.
00:39I think when she feels the difference between having my financial support and not,
00:44a little bit of reality is going to settle in.
00:47Okay.
00:47Okay.
00:53That's Mom.
00:53She's constantly invading our relationship.
00:59She calls every day.
01:01It's not normal.
01:03I've sat at the table with you girls.
01:05I know, but baby...
01:06You guys act like best friends.
01:07You're saying, is it resolved?
01:09You're saying, you know what, Mom Petit is right.
01:10The honest truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
01:21I don't think I love you anymore.
01:23We'll just have a little warm-up first.
01:53Okay.
01:54You ready?
01:55Yes.
02:00Sorry.
02:01Bit hard.
02:01Okay.
02:03Oh!
02:06Don't worry about the ball.
02:07Okay.
02:08You want me to keep going?
02:09Yeah.
02:09I've been in Tasmania for a few weeks now, and Dylan's mom invited me to go play tennis with her today.
02:17Ah!
02:18And I kind of feel a little nervous about being with her alone because I still have a lot of issues with how close they are.
02:26I've got one, Petitia.
02:30Fairly love.
02:32I feel like by her calling him every day, she influences him.
02:36She contaminates Dylan's head.
02:38I think she's the reason why we are not married today.
02:43Whoops, that's a bit me.
02:44Sorry.
02:44Okay.
02:49Ah!
02:50My point.
02:51Party love.
02:53I suck!
02:56Oh, God.
02:56She kicked my ass.
02:57Oh, that was embarrassing.
03:05Just like that.
03:06Are you thirsty?
03:08Yeah, I'm thirsty.
03:09Let's go.
03:09Let's have a break.
03:12I'm definitely going to take this opportunity to talk to Joe because Dylan does not have my back when it comes to boundaries.
03:18And if he's not going to fix it, I will.
03:22Well, thank you for inviting me out here to play tennis with you today.
03:26It's a beautiful place.
03:28Oh, thanks for coming.
03:30Yeah.
03:30To be honest with you, Joe, like the other night at dinner, I wanted to say so much, but I'm like, oh, my God, is it too soon to be talking to her about this?
03:41No.
03:42Because I don't want to come off this.
03:43I'm very open.
03:44I mean, listen, I'm very easygoing.
03:46Any other issues, just we bring them up.
03:48Well, how did you feel when you knew that Dylan said, Mom, Petitia's going to be moving here, even though you knew I hated you and wanted nothing to do with you?
03:58Yeah, I was excited for him because he was excited about it, but he did say, Mom, Petitia doesn't want to live anywhere near your house or Dad's house.
04:10Did you say that?
04:11I did.
04:12Yeah.
04:13Yeah.
04:13So I was concerned about that.
04:16I said, well, how's that going to work?
04:18I know, that's horrible.
04:19It's how I felt.
04:20Yeah, I know.
04:20I thought it was horrible too.
04:23That's just screwy because I don't mean you any harm.
04:26I know.
04:26I want you both to be happy.
04:27No, seriously, I do.
04:28I never, ever resented you.
04:30Oh, I did because I just, you know, the things that I thought you said about me was horrible.
04:36Yeah, no, well, I didn't say it.
04:37The main two things has been your hatred for me and the spending.
04:44Well, I stopped spending.
04:45You say you've stopped spending.
04:49You still haven't paid the debt off.
04:50Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
04:52So it's Dylan's fault again.
04:56He did say you are more than happy for Dylan to sell one of the properties to help you out.
05:03Yes, I feel, I feel like he owes me that.
05:06Well, I think that's terrible that you have that expectation that he's to sell one of the properties.
05:10That's obviously for the both of you to sort out.
05:13But I really would advise him against selling the property.
05:16This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom about us.
05:24Now she's going to tell him to not sell one of his properties.
05:27First of all, it's like none of her business.
05:30She shouldn't be putting her two cents in.
05:31But I really need for her to back off.
05:35I wanted to say something else.
05:38In order for me to feel comfortable here, I need to set boundaries.
05:44Like maybe not call Dylan every day, three times a day.
05:47So that's still bothering you?
05:49Yes.
05:51Oh my God.
05:52But I thought we got past that.
05:53Yes, we did get past that.
05:54But we haven't if you're still onto it.
05:56Yeah, yeah.
05:57I want to get past it.
06:00It just makes me mad because Dylan will like stop everything just to talk to you.
06:05But isn't that a good thing?
06:06Because wouldn't you want him to stop everything to talk to you?
06:09Yes.
06:09Because you're important to him?
06:10Yes, but unless it's an emergency, you know?
06:13I don't know about that.
06:14Yes, I mean unless it's an emergency, I just feel like he can wait till we get home and talk to you.
06:18I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
06:21Oh, you're joking.
06:23No.
06:25Here's the deal.
06:26I'm not needy.
06:27I'm not needy in any relationships.
06:28I'm actually quite strong and quite capable.
06:30So I'm not going to be classed as needy.
06:34I don't think that Patia has a right to tell me what my relationship with Dylan should be like.
06:39I think that problem lies within her.
06:42I might back off a little bit, but I don't think Dylan's going to be in agreeance with that though.
06:47Asking me not to call doesn't seem normal or natural.
06:51But I mean, I'll do it.
06:52I know.
06:52That makes you happy.
06:53And if you think that's going to help the relationship, I'll do it.
06:55It will.
06:55But sometimes he'll phone me at half past nine at night and say, what do you want, Dil?
06:58And he wants to chat.
06:59So it's not just me.
07:00It could be yes.
07:01You better get in his ear too.
07:02You better get in his ear too.
07:16You can probably sleep all night on their bed since it's probably a lot more comfortable
07:32than us.
07:33Yeah.
07:34So I have no idea where we are going or what we are doing.
07:37I have no idea.
07:39My last couple of attempts have really failed at giving this grand gesture of love to Manon
07:45with being a mine and the goat farm.
07:48So tonight, I have a romantic getaway plan.
07:53This is definitely more along the lines of what's something I know she likes, which is
07:58really going to a nice hotel.
08:00But of course, earlier today, we had a fight, so I don't know how this is going to be received.
08:08Here, the Terrace du Port, it's open seven days a week.
08:11It's the only stores that are open on Sundays.
08:14That's why tomorrow, maybe I can get my nails done.
08:17I could do them for you.
08:18How does your mom got nail polish?
08:20Okay.
08:21Not a good joke either, but that's fine.
08:23It's not a joke.
08:24It's how you save money.
08:26And that, I cannot do it now anymore?
08:28No.
08:29Great.
08:30Oh my God.
08:31So what you want to say about this afternoon?
08:34There's nothing to say.
08:35We're on the same page.
08:37We got it.
08:38We're good.
08:39What do you mean we're on the same page?
08:42Earlier today, when we were down in this historic part of Marseille, there was this
08:47little shop that had some seashell earrings.
08:50And she didn't have her purse on her and she was asking if I had my wallet.
08:55And I said I didn't have my wallet so that she would not buy anything.
09:00I'm like coming from this like sense of you spend money all the time.
09:04There's no money coming in and we're looking to purchase a house.
09:07And then me being the juvenile sense of humor that I have kind of flashed my wallet as we're leaving the shop to show her.
09:17And I shouldn't have done that.
09:23I could have gone about it a different way and said, hey, maybe don't spend right now because I have something planned.
09:29Voila.
09:30Or something like that.
09:31But even $20?
09:32Okay.
09:33I know you're saying $30.
09:34It wasn't just $30.
09:35Max 100, do you think I would have spent like crazy in a small, tiny boutique if you would have said,
09:40can you don't buy them or can you buy just one piece?
09:43I would have not pushed you.
09:47Really?
09:48Yes, really.
09:50Stop assuming that I'm a bitch.
09:53Why do you assume that I am such a monster?
09:56You're sabotaging me all the time and sabotaging us.
10:02Hmm?
10:03I like, I really don't feel like going down this road because it could lead into some really bad and I just don't want to go.
10:09Oh, wow. So you have more stuff to say to me?
10:10Do I have more stuff?
10:11It's like, what about you?
10:13Your apologies?
10:14Huh?
10:15Like we can, this can go on all day of like you, me, you, me. It can.
10:20I don't like feeling like the bad guy. I just, you know, I'm trying to be smart about everything and Manon does not hear how, you know, she comes across to me.
10:31We tried to move away from these problems moving here and they've just followed us from LA and I don't have a support system anymore.
10:41My family's over there. My only support system is her and there's none.
10:47I apologize. I said where I'm coming from, but like I said, you would invalidate the way I felt about it, which you did.
10:59I don't invalidate. You are invalidating your own apology by always saying a but, a but, a but.
11:07Then I guess I'll just never say where I'm, where like my mind was coming from in the moment and I'll just say, I'm so sorry, my wife, my apologies and get on my knees and beg for your forgiveness.
11:19I feel you just don't want this to work out. You just don't.
11:23You always like have to throw that on me too. Just like you do. Because it's how I feel.
11:29Like divorcing. Oh, we're not compatible. Go find someone that's good for you.
11:32Because you make me feel this way. You just don't care about losing me then. You just don't care about saving us then. You just don't care about me, period.
11:44When we talk about money, it's a fight. Our core beliefs are so freaking different. Is it even possible for us to be happy long term if we are that different?
11:57I'm telling you, I feel like I need to be a whole different person for you.
12:05But I'm sorry, Antoni. I cannot change for you.
12:17I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
12:20Today is a big day. I'm going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
12:23To legalize your status in Naruba, take approximately five months. Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
12:30Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance. Not, not at all.
12:36Not at all.
12:37Oh, is that a dog?
13:04Don't tell me.
13:05It's a piece of leaf of a coconut tree.
13:11It looked like a dog, didn't it?
13:13Oh, thank God.
13:14Relax.
13:17When Chloe's mom was here, you know,
13:18the pressure that she put on us for the papers and stuff
13:21that I feel like really put both of us in a place like, hey,
13:24you know, you've got to get this done.
13:25So today is a big day.
13:26We're going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer,
13:29and hopefully you can give me some really good information
13:31and what steps we should take next.
13:35Don't touch it, Chloe.
13:45The goal for me and Chloe right now is to apply for domestic
13:49partnership papers.
13:50I've known people that have done it before.
13:52First thing is partnership papers, and then for the job,
13:55we have to find an employer that wants to hire her
13:57and willing to pay for her work permit.
13:59I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
14:02Yes.
14:04We're kind of just looking to see what the process would be as
14:08far as how much it's going to cost, and we're very interested
14:12in a work permit, because without work, I have no money.
14:16So I have to somehow find a legal way to do all of those things.
14:20The main thing right now is trying to legalize your status in Naruba.
14:25Once you are here in Naruba, the work will follow automatically.
14:29Maybe it will take some time, but it can happen.
14:32How much would the permits cost?
14:35How long is it going to take?
14:37It all depends if it is a partnership agreement or a marriage.
14:41Mm-hmm.
14:42When you marry, he can bring you in automatically.
14:45Mm-hmm.
14:46And the marriage will cost maybe some legal dues to marry
14:49at the municipal, but it can go very fast.
14:53The partnership agreement, maybe $600, $700.
14:59But the thing is, that process will take approximately five months.
15:03Maybe part of that five months, you need to stay in the States
15:07to wait for you to come to Aruba.
15:10Well, there's the bad news.
15:11I knew that was too good to be true.
15:14If you're married, there's no problem.
15:16But with partnership, you need to wait abroad.
15:20Yeah, how long would it take if we did file the partnership papers
15:23for me to be able to work?
15:26After you're legal in Naruba, it will take approximately
15:30another three months for you to get a job.
15:32The whole process is approximately, I think, eight to seven months.
15:38Yeah, that's a long time.
15:39That's a long time, I know.
15:40Mm-hmm.
15:41With the marriage thing, everything...
15:43Moves quicker.
15:44...goes quicker.
15:45But you have to be ready for that, of course.
15:47Right.
15:48No, it's not a little step, you know, it's a big step.
15:51I'm shocked.
15:56This partnership paper is not this easy,
15:59sign your cute little signature on a dotted line.
16:02And it's even more shocking that for part of this,
16:06I might actually have to be home.
16:08In the past, when Jonathan and I have done long distance,
16:13he broke my trust once.
16:15My anxiety then is through the roof every day
16:19because I'm so nervous that he's going to just break my trust again.
16:23So Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
16:27Not...not at all.
16:29Not in the slightest.
16:32Did you already discuss marriage as a possibility or...?
16:37Yeah, I've discussed with her about marriage.
16:40We've only known each other for a year now.
16:42And so, like you said, marriage is not a...
16:44It's not a small step.
16:48Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
16:50and he's definitely someone that I see myself marrying,
16:53but there is no way that it was going to be
16:55as soon as tomorrow.
16:58But it would solve a lot of our issues
17:00with me being able to stay here legally.
17:03When you're ready, just give me a call.
17:07I mean, the plan's always been to get married.
17:09Maybe we should just go for it.
17:25The honest, like, truth is that...
17:40Like, I don't want to think I love you anymore.
17:45Thanks for being honest.
18:02A relationship isn't always 50-50.
18:06Sometimes it's 70-30.
18:07Sometimes it's 90-10.
18:10but like
18:16I can't like
18:18force myself to love you
18:20and
18:22like I love you
18:25as a person and
18:26I like really like only want
18:28happiness for you
18:29like
18:32I just
18:33I just
18:34I just feel like
18:38there's just so much about
18:39myself that I just like
18:42need to know about before I can
18:44commit to someone
18:46I just like
18:50don't think it's like a good
18:54idea to like
18:56move forward in a relationship
18:57it's been three or four
19:06days here
19:07I think we just need to spend a little bit of time
19:09together again
19:10not worry about getting married
19:13or kids
19:15or necessarily even where to live
19:17just get somewhere
19:18and just feel it out
19:20no commitment
19:22I think there's something to explore still
19:25I really do
19:28but like I just like know what I need right now
19:33like is
19:34to be alone
19:35it's just all so sudden
19:40I feel like I was
19:45pulling back the past six months
19:47I was not being very affectionate
19:49I was not reciprocating your feelings
19:51I wasn't calling you as much
19:53I wasn't sharing much about my life
19:55and I've been like
19:56like spiraling about it
19:58and wondering
19:58if
19:59we just had to see each other in person again
20:02and then like
20:03then I would know
20:04we've only seen each other
20:06with a camera
20:07it doesn't have to do it
20:10the camera
20:11like
20:12no it doesn't
20:15I just know it in my gut
20:19like I have to listen to my gut
20:21like and it's not fair for me
20:23to string you along
20:24when I already know it's over
20:25like this is not fair for you either
20:27nothing in the world
20:35could have prepared me for those words
20:37you don't just suddenly not love someone
20:42these things build up over time
20:46and I had no idea
20:50it was building up
20:51all this time
20:53there is so much life
20:57still ahead of us
20:59yeah I know
21:02I was prepared to spend it all
21:04with you
21:05every single second day
21:23I will only look back
21:33with like fond memories
21:34of like
21:35the connection I felt with you
21:38and
21:39how we helped each other grow
21:41and like
21:44maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life
21:47and even if I am
21:49I still feel like I have to make it
21:50that ring
21:56weighed a ton
21:57on my hand
21:58when I put that ring
22:03on her finger
22:03I never intended
22:07to take it back
22:08what do we do now
22:15we just
22:22move forward
22:24our individual ways
22:26I'm just
22:30I'm sorry
22:35I'm just a little bit dead inside
22:37I'm gonna go to a hotel I guess
23:06Greta
23:11Greta
23:11is always
23:13chasing a frill in life
23:15and I think
23:19the rollercoaster just ended
23:22all right
23:31grab your bag
23:32oh no
23:33what the
23:35is this
23:36I was definitely
23:38not expecting
23:39a
23:39a sex dungeon
23:40yeah I was not expecting
23:41a sex dungeon
23:42just there's no windows
23:43and it's soundproof
23:44oh
23:46I don't want you to change
24:01but it don't feel the same
24:06you say I don't care about you
24:09it's complete bull
24:10I wouldn't be here in France
24:12if that was the case
24:13we getting out
24:17right on
24:24I mean it's been a while
24:26since we had any
24:28alone time
24:29to be intimate
24:30and I was looking forward
24:32to having like this nice
24:33time
24:34and now we're walking up
24:35to the hotel
24:36not in a good headspace
24:37love room
24:43oh no
24:45what the
24:48is this
24:50check it out
24:58oh wow
25:00that is cool
25:01uh-huh
25:02that's a good
25:04jacuzzi
25:05uh-huh
25:06cool
25:07cool
25:08it's just there's no windows
25:10that's the thing
25:10that's freaking me out
25:11right now
25:12and it's soundproof
25:13oh
25:15when I was asking
25:18Antoni for a
25:19sexy romantic
25:21night away
25:22I was definitely
25:23not expecting
25:25a
25:25um
25:26how can I put it
25:28without
25:28uh
25:29being
25:30uh
25:30um
25:31insensitive
25:32a sex dungeon
25:34yeah
25:34I was not expecting
25:35a sex dungeon
25:36thank you exactly
25:37well it wasn't
25:39labeled
25:40as a sex dungeon
25:41it's labeled
25:42what a love room
25:42for you
25:43love room
25:44oh okay
25:46a strip pole
25:47okay
25:48I get it
25:49I get it
25:49the effort was
25:50it's still better
25:51than the mine
25:52so thank you
25:53okay
25:55um so
25:57I have a surprise
25:58for you
25:59oh
25:59another one
26:00so you stay over here
26:01and I'll
26:02get that ready
26:03okay
26:04okay
26:04Manon loves
26:07the fact
26:08that I was
26:08in the military
26:09I mean
26:10I think
26:10she just loves
26:11the uniform
26:12I'm scared
26:14so I decided
26:15to dust off
26:16my old army
26:17of fatigues
26:18that will
26:20at least
26:21at a minimum
26:21put a smile
26:22on her face
26:23which I think
26:23is a stepping stone
26:25to having
26:26a better night
26:27what is he doing
26:28you ready
26:30what the
26:36what is
26:37it's what you want
26:38yeah but you always
26:40said you will never
26:41wear it
26:41you hate it
26:42I'm doing it for you
26:44and
26:44opportunity awaits
26:47with the outfit
26:47oh yeah
26:48oh
26:49let's go
26:50come on
26:51can it hold my weight
26:54oh pizza
26:55you ready
26:56you're a very
27:22very rare breed
27:23it's just very cute
27:26it's very sexy
27:26it's very cute
27:27okay let's go
27:28let's go to the hotel
27:29you're a nice guy
27:30it's nice
27:31I love that
27:32I'm a nice guy
27:32yeah you are
27:33yeah
27:35anyway
27:35and I'm the bad girl
27:36we always know that
27:37I'm the bad girl
27:37I'm the crazy one
27:38I'm the loud one
27:40the big one
27:41you know
27:41I take space
27:42we know that
27:43dramatic
27:43emotional
27:44I'm not dramatic
27:45you are very sexy
27:48you are very sexy
27:48my dear soldier
27:50yeah but you are also
27:51very sexy
27:53yeah sure
27:53you are
27:54mm-hmm
27:55thank you
27:56you're welcome
27:57mm-hmm
27:58I'm really happy with Anthony doing the effort
28:06and the thing is like
28:07you know when we are good we are good
28:09he makes me feel good
28:11he loves me and everything
28:12it's just made me feel more like
28:14okay my heart can be full of joy
28:16full of love
28:17I'm home
28:18which is Anthony
28:20Anthony is my home
28:21mwah
28:24je t'aime beaucoup
28:25moi aussi je t'aime beaucoup
28:26it's just funny when you said beaucoup
28:28he said beaucoup
28:29but it's a beautiful ass
28:30well also that
28:31je t'aime beaucoup beaucoup
28:33oh my gosh
28:34are you ready to get married?
28:40I'm hesitated
28:42is this something really she wants
28:46you know
28:46I'm afraid that
28:48when it gets too hard
28:49you might leave
28:49hungry
29:07I'm actually starving
29:09I want my sweet potato fries
29:23what are you going to eat with that?
29:24oh the caissar salad with shrimp
29:25okay
29:26so what did you think about the law firm today?
29:30I think we got really useful information out of it
29:33yeah
29:33earlier today we found out that it would be a
29:38hell of a lot easier for me to start working
29:42and be legal here if we just got married
29:46I don't know how my mom will react when we tell her like it could be potentially eight months before I can work
29:52it definitely probably would be a I told you so moment
29:55we definitely did not see that one coming
29:57oh god
29:59you know what is that going to look like for us in the meantime if I can't work
30:04you know
30:05I don't want to put it on you
30:07I don't want to put it on you
30:09the eight nine months no problem me taking care of you
30:11the problem I have is that the lifestyle that you like to live
30:14you like to go out and have drinks go to dinners and stuff like that
30:18I can't support that aspect
30:20no I understand that
30:22everything else I can help you with
30:24but you would have to be patient
30:26no I understand that
30:28I think this whole entire situation is about patience at this point
30:32regardless we're going to be waiting around
30:34yeah but if I marry you it's in two weeks
30:39well are you ready to get married
30:44yeah I am
30:46I'm hesitating
30:47I'm already at an age that I'm ready to get married
30:49it's not about age it's about me like you can marry anyone at any age
30:52no but like I'm looking for someone to marry
30:55and I really really love you so I would expect you to be the person that I want to marry
31:02but I don't know if you're ready for that
31:04because you're very young
31:06why you're nine years you're going to be told
31:09I don't know if you still want to live life and party and all that you know
31:14I wouldn't say that I'm not ready I think we just have some work to do you know
31:23you know of course the marriage is a much easier option
31:29but you know is this something really she wants you know
31:32because partnership papers is one thing you know if it goes bad
31:35hey you know we go separate ways
31:37but if you marry somebody it's much easier to get married than to get divorced
31:42I think you're very concerned about like you're so young
31:45you shouldn't settle down and this but I think the way I grew up
31:48and like how blessed I was to travel and do all the things that I have
31:52like I feel so comfortable with the life that I have lived
31:55and I've never felt like how I feel with you with anyone else
31:58so why would I want to like put this on the back burner and not go all in
32:04like I'm already where I want to be
32:06like I'm still gonna have martini nights obviously
32:08but I would like to have a martini night and then come home like to you
32:13I just want you to know for sure what you're putting yourself into
32:18I'm gonna tell you right now it's not gonna be easy
32:21and I'm afraid that when it gets too hard you might leave
32:26because I've been through that situation before
32:29and I'm not trying to compare you to anybody
32:31but you know like I was in a relationship for a very very long time
32:34and I gave that person everything and that person at the end of the day
32:37left me for something easier
32:39so don't think it's only you risking everything I'm also risking life
32:48I think it's frustrating that he keeps telling me that I'm not ready to get married
32:52because he doesn't actually know how I feel
32:55in my eyes I mean I'm pretty in tune with my brain upstairs
33:00and I feel that I'm ready to get married
33:02I think if I thought in my head this isn't gonna work
33:05I would have already left
33:07and I'm telling you that I'm more than okay with it
33:10so don't have this you know
33:12Second doubt
33:14Exactly, of me
33:16Every day you show me that you love me and you care for me
33:18then I won't have that doubt in my mind
33:22I already gave up my entire life and moved to another country
33:25so there's nothing else I could really give up to prove to him
33:29how much I do love him
33:31I know it's fast and we definitely have our issues
33:33but to me this feels right
33:36Well I think at the end of the day
33:37it's something to think about
33:39so we can be together in the end
33:42We'll figure it out
33:43Every day you have to talk to your mom it's ridiculous
33:51You're just trying to destroy everything
33:53I think you're worried that I'm going to abandon you
33:56You better start picking your battles
33:58because you're just going to be nagging me until we're both dead
34:01Hi babe!
34:23Hi!
34:24How are you?
34:25How was the game?
34:26We saw we had a ball didn't we?
34:28Yes we did
34:29She did, she kicked my ass
34:30Oh not really
34:31We're both winners on the day
34:33Yeah
34:34She's really good
34:35Okay guys, I've got to be somewhere
34:37We'll catch up another day
34:39Yes
34:40See ya
34:41Bye
34:42Good to see you
34:43You too
34:44And thank you
34:45We'll do it again
34:46After tennis I feel a lot better
34:48I finally got all the issues off my chest
34:52Other side
34:53Remember we're in Australia
34:55Huh?
34:56Of course
34:57Where are you going?
34:58Oh wait
34:59Yeah
35:00I'm sorry I'm still trying to get used to the...
35:02The side
35:04She did point out that Dylan is part of the reason why they talk so much
35:09So maybe it's not all on her
35:12But I'm glad we talked about it and hopefully things can be different moving forward
35:16We had a good tennis match, she kicked my ass, it's been a long time since I've played
35:23She might have had to get some frustration out
35:25Yeah, at least she didn't hit me with the ball
35:28I was expecting her to hit me with the ball a couple of times
35:33Do you feel like all the issues are resolved with my mother?
35:37I feel like it's resolved
35:39I just said, you know, maybe she should not call so much
35:42Twice a week
35:43Twice a week?
35:44But not every day, three times a day, that's too much
35:47What do you think about that?
35:50I feel like you're bothered by that a little bit
35:55It's your great idea, it's not a great idea for me
35:58It's like we enjoy having a chat here and there
36:00Yeah, but if it bothers your partner, then how is that enjoyable?
36:05It shouldn't bother you that much
36:14If it's a problem for me, then you should, you know, you should respect how I feel
36:19Why would you stop the person that you love from doing something that makes them happy?
36:24Listen, I'm not stopped, no
36:25Yes, you are
36:26Babe, every day you have to talk to your mom
36:29It's ridiculous
36:31I don't talk to you every day
36:32Sometimes it's three times a day
36:33Yes, you talk to her three times a day
36:35And it's been an issue with us for 12 years
36:38Can't you just work on, like, getting over that?
36:41Can't you work on, like, helping me set boundaries and respecting my feelings?
36:48Since I was a little kid, mum and I have always been close
36:51And Patia has never really been close to her mum
36:54So she doesn't understand that closeness
36:58I think Patia feels fearful that my mum is going to influence me in some way
37:06Or take me away from Patia in some way
37:08But if respecting the woman that brought you into this world is a problem
37:12Then I don't really know what to say
37:15I mean, if I'm asking, if I'm saying, hey, babe, you're talking to your mum too freaking much
37:21You should be like, well, what?
37:23And then what if she dies? How would you feel?
37:25Stopping me to talk?
37:26She's not going to die
37:27She's freaking healthy
37:28She's pushing 70
37:29Babe, she plays tennis every day, are you kidding?
37:31She's freaking healthy
37:33I don't think it's fair that you're asking me to stop speaking to my mother
37:37I don't think it's really, like, that's something that's really sad
37:39That you'd be concentrating on that over all things in life
37:43You're worried about that
37:44Why don't you worry about your $20,000 debt that you have?
37:47You got me into it
37:50I've already told you about it
37:51No, I didn't
37:52Yes, you did
37:53It's funny that you blame me for everything that's gone wrong in your whole life
37:55I get the blame for
37:56Yes, you caused me a lot of money
37:57No, I didn't cause you anything
37:58I saved you money
38:00I taught you
38:01Oh, you did not save me money
38:03Are you kidding me?
38:04You've got lots of issues
38:06Big, big, big spending issues
38:08Excuse me, Mr. Controlling
38:10You have a lot of issues
38:11You're very controlling
38:13You're always, like, trying to tell me what to do
38:15It's always, like, my way or the highway
38:17Just don't
38:18You know what?
38:19I think that's the pot cool and the kettle black
38:20Because you're the most controlling one of us all
38:23You love controlling me
38:24Oh, !
38:25Absolutely
38:26You're always, like, trying to tell me what to do
38:27And that's why you don't like me talking to my mother
38:29Because you like to manipulate, influence, and control me
38:31And when I speak to her, you feel like she's, you know, taking that away from you
38:38You're just trying to destroy everything
38:40I think you're worried that I'm going to abandon you
38:43No, but I'm going to abandon you, you know, freaking respect my wishes
38:48Dylan tells me I'm controlling
38:50I'm like, what?
38:51How am I controlling?
38:53You're the controlling one
38:55Honestly, sometimes I think Dylan is a narcissist
38:58It's always about him
38:59You know, it's my way or the highway
39:02It's so annoying
39:04Whether Dylan wants to admit it or not
39:06His relationship with his mother is affecting our relationship
39:10I don't know how much longer I can take this
39:13It's not that hard
39:15You keep fighting me on it, which makes it worse
39:17Well, it's like, obviously my relationship with my mom's not going to change, so
39:22You better start picking your battles
39:24Because you're just picking this battle
39:25And you're just going to be nagging me until we're both dead
39:28And we're going to have a miserable life
39:30Things are clearly not going well
39:34And there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about
39:37And I think it might make it worse
39:43Next time on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way
39:46Let me get you some change
39:48How much money you have given back?
39:50All?
39:51You've given them all the change I've given to you
39:54You haven't charged anybody?
39:56She's saying, I don't know how Indian money works
39:58It's a basic man
39:59If you buy something for 60, if somebody pay you 100
40:03It's easy, give them 40 back
40:05I don't understand the change
40:09So I guess we didn't make any money on that sale, did we?
40:12I do feel alone and it's like starting to hit me that I am alone
40:19The last thing I want is for you and Greta to split up
40:22Some things are worth fighting for
40:24I am upset with Greta
40:26But I really want them to work out
40:29I think you should have a talk with her
40:34When I met with Dorian
40:36We already started working together on the skincare brand
40:40And we need to invest money
40:44We're trying to buy a home
40:46And I feel like this is going to set a lot of things back
40:49You working and living at your parents
40:53How much time before you crack?
41:00What's wrong?
41:01I feel so dizzy
41:03You okay?
41:04No
41:06This is not the way I want to start my weekend wearing
41:10Oh, no, no, no
41:16I say no, no, no
41:19I don't pregnant
41:20I don't pregnant
41:21Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
41:23I told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex
41:27I don't have sex
41:28I don't have sex
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