00:00I've been doing a pep talk for Sparkle.
00:08Anyway,
00:10the pep talk is actually how to handle bashing.
00:14It's like how to handle the social media.
00:20One said to me,
00:22Kuya,
00:23I'm a great bashing.
00:27What's the bashing of you?
00:30Grabing babayero ko daw.
00:32*** problema mo.
00:34Right there and then sabi ko,
00:36basahin mo lahat ng bashing sa akin.
00:39Binasa niya.
00:40Binasa niya.
00:41Okay na siya ngayon.
00:43Okay na siya ngayon.
00:45Actually,
00:45may ganun eh.
00:46Actually, effective yun.
00:47Noong panahon na may bashing din ako,
00:49binasa ko yung bashing mo.
00:52Eh, di ba okay ka na?
00:53Okay ako.
00:54Hindi, may ganun eh.
00:55Yung unnormal pala ako.
00:57Oo.
00:58Yung,
00:58hindi kasi halimbawa na lang sa kuryente.
01:01Yan.
01:01Di ba?
01:01Magkano bill yun sa kuryente?
01:02Magkano.
01:03Magkano bill namin eh.
01:04Ocho.
01:05Pag talaman mo yung bill nila,
01:06medyo malapit pala.
01:07Aha, normal pala yun.
01:08Then you feel better.
01:09Exactly.
01:10Exactly.
01:10Ang pangit lang nung parang shit,
01:12natutuwa ka sa vein,
01:13pagka kung nasaan sila ngayon na sitwasyon.
01:16Pero hindi naman ganun yun.
01:18Like,
01:18pinapakita lang sa'yo na,
01:19ah, okay, normal pala ako.
01:21Okay pala to.
01:22Oo.
01:22Nasa age tayo ng approval eh.
01:24Yung approval.
01:24Dati naman,
01:28yung tatay mo.
01:28Oh yes.
01:29Actually.
01:30Oo.
01:30Di ba?
01:31Ngayon,
01:31ang hinahanap mo,
01:32likes ng mga hindi mo kakilala.
01:34May validation.
01:34Gusto ko yun.
01:35Di ba?
01:35Hindi, dito ko, di ba?
01:36Mga taong never ko makikita.
01:38Mga taong never ko nakita.
01:40Feeling ko ba?
01:40Yung mga ganun,
01:41yung nangyihinang validation,
01:43feeling ko lang po ito ah.
01:44Sa parking yan,
01:45pag nangyihinkang validation,
01:47mura yung parking.
01:47Di ba yun, madam chair?
01:48Hindi.
01:49Feeling ko hindi rin nila naranasan.
01:50Actually, sandali.
01:51Wait lang.
01:52Speaking of,
01:52may validation ba yung parking dito?
01:55Kanina pa ako nakaparking.
01:57Okay, Kuya Pau,
01:57ang sinabi ko doon sa validation ko,
01:59ikaw magbabayan.
02:01Wala na ako kinita?
02:04Pero gusto ko rin malaman,
02:05paano may nahandle yung bashing?
02:07I think we were never ready
02:10for the social media weapon
02:14that we have.
02:16Di ba?
02:17Wala nang mas powerful pa
02:19sa pagiging invisible na tao.
02:22True.
02:22Di ba?
02:23So, lahat pwede mong sabihin
02:25about someone.
02:27Pero sana,
02:28ano tayo eh,
02:30sinful creatures tayo eh.
02:32Ako,
02:33may mga times na
02:34nadulas din ako sa ganyan.
02:36Nag-bash din ako ng tao.
02:38Pero hindi mo masasabi.
02:40May pinagdadaanan siya,
02:41may ganun ka.
02:42Di ba?
02:43Minsan,
02:43mayroong nagsabi mo,
02:44pangit mo.
02:45Pag tinignan mo yung profile,
02:47pangit mo.
02:47Huwag ko na tingis akin.
02:49Hindi,
02:49hindi sa'yo.
02:50Hindi sa'yo.
02:51You get me?
02:52Bakit mo?
02:54Pero di ba,
02:56matagal pa to.
02:56Matagal pa tong konsepto na to.
02:58Matagal tong proseso na to.
02:59Kasi,
03:00we were never ready,
03:01we were never educated
03:03sa,
03:04sa ano,
03:05sa,
03:05ano tawag doon?
03:07Sa,
03:07sa transition?
03:08Hindi,
03:09hindi,
03:09hindi sa transition eh,
03:10sa etiket.
03:12Wow,
03:12anong etiket?
03:13Sa etiket ng social media.
03:15Okay.
03:15Etiket nandito mga pe.
03:17Etiketa.
03:17Oh,
03:17okay,
03:19okay.
03:19Sa social media etiket,
03:20we were never ready for it.
03:23We were never ready for it.
03:25So,
03:26kung ako sa mga kabataan ngayon,
03:27you have to
03:28learn how to discern,
03:31you have to learn
03:32kung paano ka pipili,
03:34kung sino yung opinion na,
03:36pipiliin mo.
03:38At saka,
03:38kung nagpost ka,
03:40ready ka ba sa mga maririnig
03:41at mababasa mo?
03:42Dapat ganon.
03:43Nau-offend ka,
03:45eti ba ka mag-social media?
03:47Hindi yan,
03:48eti ba ka mag-post?
03:49Oo.
03:49I mean,
03:49oo nga,
03:50make sense,
03:51make sense.
03:52Kung ang buhay mo eh,
03:54likes.
03:55Yes po.
03:56Kung ang buhay mo eh,
03:57likes,
03:58kailangan tanggap mo rin yung fact
03:59na mababas ka.
04:00Kung hindi mo kaya,
04:02then don't post.
04:04Yes.
04:05Actually,
04:06make sense,
04:07Kuya Pau.
04:07Make sense yun.
04:08Diba?
04:08Kasi,
04:08ano ka na nun eh,
04:09anong tawag doon?
04:09Kung baga sa ano,
04:10k**** ka eh.
04:11Okay po.
04:12Pangit ba yung term?
04:14Cloud chaser.
04:15Cloud chaser.
04:16O, maganda yun.
04:16Cloud chaser.
04:17Diba?
04:18Papunta ka dun eh.
04:19So kung cloud chaser ka,
04:21it's either gusto mong malike ka,
04:23or ma-hate ka.
04:24Tama.
04:25Which is a social media,
04:26dalawa talaga yung kanyan.
04:28Dalawa yun.
04:28Diba?
04:29Kung baga nung panahon ko,
04:30good or bad publicity
04:31is still publicity.
04:34Diba?
04:34Oo nga.
04:34Pero kasi,
04:35hindi mo nakikita yung comment
04:37ng tao sa publicity.
04:39Diba?
04:39Kapag sinulat yan sa jaryo,
04:42wala namang comment section dyan,
04:43narandulat ng comment eh.
04:44Diba?
04:45True.
04:45Diba?
04:46May magandang publicity,
04:47may pangit na publicity.
04:49Sabihin,
04:49uy,
04:50relevant.
04:50Kasi,
04:51may ano,
04:51mayroong,
04:52diba?
04:52Publicity yan eh.
04:53Ngayon kasi,
04:54ganun na,
04:54cloud chaser ka.
04:55It's either good or bad.
04:57Now,
04:58people,
04:59walang,
04:59walang preno ang tao.
05:02Nakakalungkot pa nga,
05:03kuya pao,
05:03minsan,
05:04nakakalungkot na pag
05:05magbabasa ka ng comment.
05:06Minsan,
05:07may nag-comment ng,
05:08alam mong,
05:09hindi talaga para sa'yo yun.
05:11Diba?
05:11Yung comment na yun.
05:12Tapos nag-agree.
05:13Tapos magsasalita ka.
05:14Marami!
05:15Marami ganun.
05:15Magsasalita ka.
05:16So ngayon,
05:16narinig na ngayon yung opinion mo.
05:18Kung paano ka,
05:19isang tao,
05:20biglang magbabago ng comment.
05:22Alam mo yun?
05:23Na parang,
05:24men,
05:24hindi mo na maulit
05:25yung ano pa yung sinabi mo.
05:26Merong isang,
05:27lately may nag-comment sa'kin eh,
05:28na parang ano,
05:30alam mo,
05:30dati lagi kitang binabash eh.
05:32Pero ngayon gusto na kita.
05:33Pasalamat ka.
05:34At kung ba pasalamat sa'yo?
05:36Punta naman tayo sa ano,
05:38sa mga light na pangyayari.
05:40Kinaka masasayang pangyayari.
05:42Hindi,
05:42walang light light.
05:43Dun tayo,
05:43saan?
05:46Eto na nga,
05:47nanonood kayo ng Blackpink concert.
05:49Oo.
05:50Ni Lian,
05:52ni John,
05:53sa kanil.
05:53Di ba?
05:54Ang saya-saya.
05:55Paano nagsimula yun?
05:56Hindi ko na ikukwento yung buong pangyayari.
05:59Pero it's not recent.
06:01Again,
06:01it's a very long process,
06:04which,
06:05again,
06:06dati kasi,
06:07feeling ko yung naging mali ko na
06:09tuwing ini-interview ako,
06:12ako naman si Ulul,
06:13sagot ako ng sagot.
06:13Alam naman yun.
06:14And then,
06:15I decided one day na,
06:17I think I should just
06:17shut up.
06:19And fix it.
06:21Kasi,
06:22on a personal level.
06:24Kasi,
06:24uno sa lahat,
06:25hindi lang naman ako yung
06:26involved eh.
06:28Yes,
06:29I know.
06:29Mga private na tao na yung mga
06:32bata.
06:34Of course,
06:35si Lian,
06:35si John,
06:36they're private people na.
06:37So,
06:38it became better.
06:39It became faster.
06:40I made it a point na kailangan
06:42very conscious ako
06:44na I didn't talk about it
06:45at all.
06:47And,
06:47again,
06:48eventually,
06:49it was fixed.
06:51And,
06:51masasabi ko nga ngayon
06:53na,
06:53hindi ko nasasabihin
06:54kung paano nangyari yun,
06:55but,
06:56ang saya.
06:58Yes.
07:01Ang saya-saya.
07:03Iba siya.
07:04Iba.
07:04Ngayon ko lang nakita yung
07:05ganda mo,
07:05nung sinabi mo,
07:06ngayon ko lang nakita yun.
07:08Ang saya-saya niya.
07:10Ang saya nung feeling
07:11na wala kang
07:13insecurity.
07:15It's sad that
07:17it took time
07:18bago yung naging maturity ko,
07:21yung naging,
07:22I hope,
07:23it's okay to say,
07:24naging maturity ni Lian,
07:26of course,
07:27naging,
07:28yeah,
07:29of course,
07:29nag-away kami.
07:30Nag-ailangan talaga ng time eh
07:31to heal.
07:32Pero ngayon,
07:34ang saya.
07:38Kasi kaibigan ko sila.
07:41Kaibigan ko si Lian,
07:43kaibigan ko si John.
07:44Oh,
07:45dumalaw pa sa taping.
07:46Oo nga.
07:47Si John lang yun.
07:48Si John lang.
07:49Nakatawa.
07:50Dati kasi,
07:52actually,
07:53binanggit ko ito kay John
07:54before nag-usap kami.
07:56Yung ego ko,
07:58lahat naman ang laki
07:58may ego.
07:59Yes, of course.
08:00Lahat naman laki may ego.
08:01Di ba?
08:01Pero years ago,
08:03my ego was,
08:05it was misplaced.
08:07Di ba?
08:08Misplaced ego siya.
08:10Di ba?
08:10Pero ngayon,
08:11yung ego mo
08:12na
08:13ko-control?
08:15Tama.
08:16Tama.
08:17Kasi,
08:18hindi ako nahihiya.
08:19Pumunta si John sa,
08:20di ba?
08:21Pumunta si John sa bubble.
08:23Di ba?
08:23And I was,
08:24and I was introducing him
08:27as the dad of my kids.
08:29Ang galing.
08:30Ang ganda, no?
08:31Walang tama yun sa akin.
08:34Walang masamang buto yun.
08:35And siguro,
08:36sa lahat ng kagaguhang
08:38ginawa ko sa buhay,
08:39isa yun sa mga swerte ko.
08:41Ang galing.
08:42That John was a good dad.
08:44Yes.
08:45And,
08:46di ba?
08:48Ah,
08:48suntukan.
08:49Gusto,
08:49mag-arap natin
08:50ang kasuntukan di ba?
08:51Wala ka bang binip-bet on the way?
08:55Wala eh.
08:55Saan gusto sa'yo lagi
08:56ng mabaladali?
08:58Rodrigo,
08:58pasok!
08:59Eto,
08:59Eto na kata.
09:00Rodrigo!
09:00Actually,
09:01macho to.
09:01Eto na kata.
09:02Eto,
09:03masatibay yung mukha nito.
09:04Jograd!
09:05Pasok.
09:05Iinom ako dapat-dapat
09:07na iinom ko dapat.
09:08Hahaha!
09:08Hahaha!
09:08Hahaha!
09:11More tawa,
09:12more saya!
09:19More tawa,
09:20more saya!
09:21Woo!
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