- 5 hours ago
Seeking Sister Wife S6 Episode 10
Category
đ„
Short filmTranscript
00:01Ms. Merrifield? Mr. and Mrs. Merrifield?
00:07Now, I am Merrifield.
00:11I think there's still a lot of settling in to do.
00:14I'm wondering how the future's gonna look for all of us.
00:19Has everything been going good? You want some tea on him?
00:22Give me the tea on...
00:23Or the D.
00:26I am feeling jealous.
00:27There's a bit of me that's like, oof.
00:29Someone's getting a little excited.
00:32Billy shows facial expressions that she's not comfortable.
00:37I want to believe that she won't be jealous, but we never know.
00:42How did it go last night?
00:44The conversation with Jackie regarding my boundary
00:47with Yesel not having a baby with another woman
00:50didn't turn out the way we wanted.
00:52Did she basically end things with us?
00:54Yes.
00:55Well, that kind of sucks now, doesn't it?
01:00I don't think after tonight I want to pursue a relationship with you.
01:04So that's her.
01:06She broke up with us.
01:10Okay.
01:12I haven't told my family about our relationship dynamic.
01:16They're extremely opinionated.
01:18But with Shanae being gone, I might need to lean on my family.
01:24The way that you are about yourself, Theresa,
01:27it's causing disruptions in the harmony of our situation overall.
01:32I think they are getting tired of me running away
01:36and not addressing the issues when they bring them up.
01:39We have reached a sort of a crossroads.
01:42I know.
01:43I got you.
01:44I'm going to go take a moment.
01:47I'm sitting here trying to have an adult conversation.
01:49If you want to get up and act all flustered, all extra,
01:52then just get the up and go then.
01:53All right, you ready?
02:13We are heading straight for that bar.
02:16I'm definitely going to need a shot of liquid curry.
02:18I know why I'm so anxious.
02:20Today is our second date with Randy,
02:23and Billy's coming with,
02:25and I'm super excited to see her again
02:28and kind of see where her head's at
02:30and where this is all heading.
02:33How are you doing?
02:34Hey, I'm doing great. How about yourself?
02:35Good.
02:36Good, good, good.
02:37We're going to start with a shot.
02:39Yeah, I guess we'll go big or go home.
02:42I want tequila.
02:43Tequila?
02:44And whiskey, please.
02:45All right.
02:46Now that these feelings of jealousy have hit me,
02:48I'm anxious to see Randy again,
02:53but at the same time,
02:55Reese is super excited.
02:56I don't want to let him down.
02:58He's already got emotions invested,
03:00and obviously he sees something in her.
03:03Cheers.
03:04Cheers.
03:06So I want to give it a shot.
03:09My favorite.
03:11Give us...
03:12Oh my gosh.
03:13Oh, careful, careful, careful.
03:15All right.
03:16Go first.
03:17Oh, I get to go first?
03:18Yeah.
03:19How are you feeling?
03:20Well, I'm really anxious.
03:21So, I mean, obviously she's kind of interested.
03:25I don't know how this is going to go.
03:27Just pull off the bandaid.
03:29I did.
03:30I did it.
03:31Good job.
03:32How about you? How are you feeling?
03:33I'm more concerned about you.
03:35We just have to make sure we're on the same page.
03:37You know?
03:40Hello.
03:41Hey.
03:42How are you?
03:44Good to see you.
03:45Good to see you.
03:47You doing okay?
03:48Yeah.
03:49Yeah, I'm doing okay.
03:50You guys are playing gingas.
03:51You're playing a game.
03:53So, I had a great time with Reese on the first date.
03:57He seems like a great guy,
03:59but there are some concerns that I have with Billy
04:02that I think need to definitely be addressed.
04:05So, how's the babies?
04:07How's the kids?
04:08Good.
04:09Getting big.
04:10Oh, my gosh.
04:11You're so cute.
04:12It's crazy.
04:13I was looking at pictures from a year ago
04:14and they just look so different.
04:15And it's only a year.
04:17So, how are you guys feeling?
04:19Like, with everything's...
04:22I feel like, um...
04:24Like, I love being able to get to know you
04:26and, like, being able to message you.
04:27And, because now, like, you totally understand him.
04:30So, I have somebody that I can relate to.
04:32I know, like, she's had some questions, too.
04:35I have.
04:36Yeah, and me too.
04:37And, um...
04:38Shoot.
04:39Ask away.
04:40Yeah.
04:41I was just wondering, like,
04:42how you feel about some things,
04:43because it felt like last time we met
04:47that maybe you were uncomfortable.
04:51Got the vibe that maybe it was just, like, not for you,
04:54or you weren't sure about me,
04:57or just the whole situation in general.
05:02I really didn't even want to come back.
05:06Oh.
05:07I about...
05:08I, like, basically wanted to cut off contact because of it.
05:13Because of my reaction?
05:14Yeah.
05:15Oh, okay.
05:16Knowing that Billy did feel jealous,
05:20I'm not surprised that Randy is feeling this way.
05:23I would be really disappointed
05:25if we had to end things with Randy
05:29because of these feelings.
05:30I mean, we put all this effort...
05:32I have put a lot of emotion,
05:34a lot of time and energy,
05:36and for it to all just kind of be flushed away
05:39is really defeating.
05:57This is why Mommy's a nurse and not a cake decorator.
06:04I'm gonna let it slide because you're cute.
06:06Are you excited for Daddy to come home?
06:09No.
06:10Today's finally the day.
06:12Yessel comes home,
06:13and I'm super excited,
06:15but I would say this homecoming
06:18feels a little bit more awkward than most
06:20because we need to address
06:22that things didn't work out with Jackie,
06:24which sucks a little bit.
06:28Daddy's gonna be home in, like, 45 minutes, dude.
06:32So Mommy's gotta get cooking, okay?
06:34I don't want negative feelings to fester
06:37or, like, resentment or anything.
06:39It feels like it might be a little bit in that arena,
06:44which is scary.
06:49So I feel like...
06:52I kind of, like...
06:53This is why I'm excited for your Daddy to be home.
07:09It's been a long couple of days of traveling.
07:11I am jet-lagged.
07:13Also, I am feeling a little bit cranky
07:15about how it was handled with Jackie.
07:17We-we've had our struggle with seeking a sister-wife,
07:20obviously.
07:21It just didn't really work out with Jackie.
07:24So it's just one of those things that...
07:26It sucks,
07:27especially because it happened while I was away.
07:30Shortly after Danny and Jackie had that conversation,
07:32Jackie did reach out to me.
07:34She immediately let me know how very disappointed she was.
07:37Danny and I haven't really talked about what happened at that dinner or after.
07:40I am feeling a little bit bitter.
07:42We have to really hash this out.
07:43So we're back on the same page.
07:46And just there's no more awkwardness between us.
08:05Daddy...
08:06Oh, my God!
08:07Hi, Daddy.
08:08Hi, boy.
08:09Oh, my goodness.
08:10Go get home.
08:11No, no, no.
08:12Run.
08:13Hi, Bobby.
08:14Good job.
08:15Hi.
08:32Good job, big boy.
08:33Isn't he heavy?
08:35I am so excited to see Danny and the boys.
08:40Coming home is always one of the best days of the year,
08:45I guess one could say.
08:50Oh, yeah.
08:51Thank you, babe.
08:52You're welcome.
08:53Mmm.
08:54Good luck.
08:55I'm about to bust this food down.
08:56I am really hungry.
08:57Mm-hmm.
08:58This is mine.
09:00Where's your guys' food?
09:02Okay.
09:03Did you make some for you?
09:05You know how hard I worked making all of that
09:07with your two children running around the kitchen?
09:09With, like, no other adult help?
09:12I mean...
09:15What?
09:16To be fair.
09:17Mm-hmm.
09:18We could have had a little adult help.
09:22Mm.
09:23You know.
09:24Mm.
09:25Mm-hmm.
09:26Mm-hmm.
09:27Mm-hmm.
09:28Mm-hmm.
09:29JJ.
09:30JJ.
09:31JJ.
09:32JJ.
09:33No, no.
09:34I could have.
09:36Watch that one, huh?
09:38Mm-hmm.
09:39Are you mad about it?
09:40Are you...
09:41I mean, I'm a little...
09:42I'm a little pissed about it.
09:44It happened while I was away.
09:45I wasn't really there to even try to remedy this situation.
09:50I wasn't there to try to support you in this situation.
09:52Right.
09:53So...
09:54It sucked.
10:00This is supposed to be a happy time.
10:02I just feel like you're a little hangry and you should probably eat.
10:05We will talk about it later when we can sit down, focus, full bellies, kids asleep.
10:10Okay.
10:11Well, let's give them a nap while I eat some food.
10:14Okay.
10:17I think in an ideal world, Yesel would want Jackie here to welcome him home.
10:23I don't like feeling like I let someone down.
10:28And just, like, knowing that, you know, maybe I could have prevented the ending of everything.
10:35Kind of feels like I took it away from him, so...
10:39It's just emotional.
10:40I'm, like, disappointed in myself a little bit.
10:49We let Danielle come in and we let Vera call her mommy.
10:52And then she left.
10:54I don't want to do that again with Teresa.
10:58It's just enough is enough at this point.
11:02There's been some things going on in my family.
11:05I am scared to let my family in on this because it can go either way.
11:10Where is it then?
11:12I want us to be able to have fun and enjoy Jenny's pregnancy and enjoy each other's company.
11:21All the time.
11:22And if every single time we try to talk to her about her...
11:23Self-destructiveness.
11:24Right.
11:25Her self-destructiveness.
11:26Let's go ahead and call her what it is.
11:27Her self-destruction.
11:28Right.
11:29Every time we try to talk to her, she runs away.
11:32And then we never get to talk about it.
11:33And then she'll try to come back and act like nothing ever happened.
11:37You know, I love Teresa very much.
11:38We all do.
11:55She's got a special place in our heart, and she's made a place in our family.
12:00I mean, we'd like to have a place for her in our family.
12:02But it's been eight or nine months that we've had to constantly revisit these same issues,
12:09these same topics that she finds herself stuck on and able to move past.
12:14This is not the energy or the mode that we want to sustain.
12:19All we've done is try to help, making sure that she feels secure and...
12:30Supported.
12:30...try to help her cancel out all of those negative, you know, self-talk moments.
12:37I don't want to have that constant energy in the house of being like, oh, you know what I mean?
12:43Walking on eggshells, worried about if somebody's...
12:45Gonna trigger her.
12:47Right, something's gonna upset her.
12:48Right.
12:49I mean, and I guess if she's just gonna always run away, then maybe we need to just let her run away.
12:54Yeah.
12:55And not keep trying to pull her back in.
12:59It's 100% about Teresa's relationship with herself.
13:05That is the trouble.
13:07Mm-hmm.
13:07There's nothing we can do to help her address the relationship she has inside.
13:13And the thing is, is the baby's gonna be here in a few weeks.
13:18And it breaks my heart because we're so concerned about making sure Teresa feels good.
13:24We can't even enjoy Jenny's pregnancy.
13:27And I just don't want to keep doing that.
13:29It's like maybe just, you know, keep giving her a chance and give her a chance and, like, you know, she'll, she'll work through it.
13:41Um, but at the same time, we're at the point that we're at, you know, and so that's what's, that's what has me really torn, you know?
13:49It's like, especially coming up on having a baby, it's like, you know, maybe, maybe I'm being too hard, you know?
13:58Maybe it's not a big deal.
13:59Like, maybe, like, I'm overreacting and stuff like that.
14:05It's upsetting and concerning to me for my two beautiful wives to be all emotional and upset.
14:12And I'm really not happy about that at all.
14:15You know, we let Danielle come in and we let Vera call her mommy, you know, and then she left.
14:24And so it's like, I don't want to do that again with Teresa and have my child get attached just for you to leave because you can't get your together.
14:37Yeah.
14:39It's just enough is enough at this point.
14:42Either she's going to commit herself to doing the internal work that she needs to do to help herself heal, or she's not going to be here.
14:52Today I'm going over to my mom's house.
15:11I'm going to be meeting with my mom, my sister Chastity, my Auntie Pumpkin, and my Auntie Tiffany, so that I can share that me and Matt, we had this polygamous relationship.
15:25Hey.
15:26Are you ready for a shot?
15:27Yeah.
15:27Um, shot o'clock?
15:29Yeah, I'll take one.
15:29Shot o'clock.
15:30Good job.
15:31Good job.
15:31Two or three years ago, I told Chastity that we had this relationship, but I think I've decided now after three years to let my family in on our secret, on our life.
15:46Because we just broke up with Shanae, and I'm hurting.
15:52Right now, I need my family more than ever.
15:56I don't have that extra support to lean on in my relationship because Matt is also hurting.
16:03He doesn't know how to process my pain and his own.
16:08Shot o'clock.
16:09Cheers.
16:09Shot o'clock.
16:10Shot o'clock.
16:11Shot o'clock.
16:11She's so stupid, I swear.
16:17All right, sorry.
16:18What you been up to, Angelica?
16:20Nothing, just working.
16:21Mm-hmm.
16:22Raising these kids.
16:23Mm, I'm raising these kids.
16:24Trying.
16:26My family is very judgmental.
16:29They're extremely opinionated.
16:32I am scared to let my family in on this because it can go either way.
16:38All right, Tiff, go ahead.
16:39Explain the game.
16:40Okay.
16:40Some of them don't know.
16:42See, you have to see.
16:43You have to put it in the center.
16:45R, you pass it to the right.
16:47Left, you pass it to the left.
16:52There you go.
16:53Center and right.
16:53Yeah.
16:54Oh, I got one back.
16:55Here you go.
16:55All right, so the reason why, you know, I wanted to talk to you guys.
16:59Don't make me fall asleep.
17:00There's been some things going on in, you know, my house, my family.
17:05You can have just one more baby.
17:07No, no more kids.
17:08Where is it?
17:09Where is it then?
17:10So, Matt and I have actually been dating someone else.
17:23You got no girl.
17:25Don't tell me that.
17:26What, you swing?
17:27Yes.
17:28But we're not swingers.
17:29We're not swingers.
17:30Listen, let her talk.
17:31Yeah.
17:32We're not swingers.
17:34Matt and I have been dating some, a woman and.
17:37What?
17:39As a sister wife.
17:40As a sister wife.
17:41Oh, hell no.
17:45What?
17:46I don't get it.
17:47I don't know what you're saying to me.
17:48I don't know either.
17:49What the hell is she saying?
17:50So, essentially, Matt has a second, he has a girlfriend or a second wife.
17:55Do you have a girlfriend?
17:55Do you have a girlfriend?
17:57You sign, you, you're signing up to be, you know, like, you and Matt.
18:01A sister wife on, like, on TV?
18:02You and Matt are married.
18:04Yes!
18:05Yes.
18:05You and Matt are married.
18:06I love your mom.
18:08You and Matt got married.
18:09How long have you been married?
18:10Since 2019.
18:11Okay.
18:14How you sign up to be a side chick?
18:16You're married.
18:16You're okay with being a married side chick?
18:19I know you love him, but you know what?
18:21I can promise you his ain't that good.
18:23He don't even got that much money.
18:24It was actually my idea.
18:26Help us, Jesus.
18:29Bye.
18:32It doesn't have anything to do with sex.
18:37It's not fueled by sex.
18:39Not for you?
18:40Why, why, why did you bring it up, though?
18:43Why?
18:44Because I, I, I want the relationship.
18:47I want the relationship dynamic, the friendship, the camaraderie.
18:51With Matt?
18:51With the girl.
18:51No, with the other girl.
18:52You want a friend, so you're going to find a chick, a side chick for Matt?
18:56No, no.
18:57Because you're the side chick.
18:58No.
19:00I don't know how she got to this point.
19:02Where she thinks it's okay to find another, a replacement for herself.
19:07Because that's what it is.
19:10I love Matt.
19:11I love my son-in-law.
19:12But, I just don't think he's worth any of this.
19:18Angelica, whatever happened to just having an affair?
19:23He's throwing that all in your face.
19:25You know what I need?
19:26Why can't he just have an affair?
19:28Yeah.
19:29Because an affair doesn't involve a full relationship.
19:32Oh, it does.
19:33Like...
19:33Do you think, okay, do you think he will allow you?
19:37I don't want to be with anyone else.
19:40Yes, you do.
19:40But him, she loves him.
19:41She just wants to make him happy.
19:43That's the way I'm thinking.
19:43I can't say nothing.
19:48Because the stuff I'm going to say, you're not going to like.
19:50Oh, yeah.
20:10Hey, babe.
20:12Hey.
20:13Boys are down after about seven books.
20:17Two bedtime songs.
20:19The usual.
20:20That looks nice.
20:21Ooh.
20:22A little hot.
20:23A little bit.
20:24It moved at me.
20:25Since Yassil's been home, there's definitely some tension in the air.
20:29I can tell he's upset.
20:31A little more paper doesn't hurt.
20:33I think he's pissed.
20:35I know he's pissed.
20:39I want to touch some grass with my toes.
20:41Because the last three months, I feel like I need to be grounded.
20:47The last few months have felt very long.
20:52While I was away, Jackie and I were video calling, messaging on a pretty regular basis.
20:58Things were going well.
20:59I feel like we had a strong bond.
21:01I felt pretty close to her.
21:03And then in one day, it just blew up.
21:07What happened at that dinner?
21:10What exactly happened?
21:11There it is.
21:12You still a little spicy?
21:14Obviously, things completely fell apart.
21:17Right.
21:18So.
21:19We had the conversation about the no kid thing.
21:22Like, I'm just not comfortable with her having a biological child with you.
21:26What did she say when you brought that up?
21:28I just feel like she was a little too shell-shocked.
21:32And she definitely thought it was unfair.
21:35I feel like, you know, woman to woman, I feel like maybe she could have took it as you asserting
21:47almost like some sort of dominance or something.
21:50She could have took it as a threat.
21:51You don't know.
21:52I could have possibly been the buffer there.
21:55It sounds like her problem.
21:58No, it's an all of us problem.
22:00If you were there, that boundary is not going to change.
22:05So this is not a her problem.
22:09It's not a her problem.
22:11I wonder every day if Danny really wants this.
22:21I have kept a lot of my opinions to myself.
22:24And I feel like maybe it wasn't the wisest choice to completely let her, you know, give
22:30her the reins.
22:31And I am regretting not being more vocal with my concerns initially.
22:37I don't feel like it.
22:37I just kind of want to ask, like, is it, is it, do you still want to do this?
22:41Or is it the boundary awaited for you to, like, sabotage?
22:47Kind of like the relationship.
22:50So.
22:53You got to look at it from somebody else's point of view.
22:55You're a person coming into an established marriage, an established family.
23:01If somebody's telling you, you cannot have biological kids with my husband.
23:08I mean, wouldn't you see that as a major red flag?
23:11Like, what, what else?
23:12Are they trying to control me, you know?
23:17It's not about control.
23:20It's not, I could, I could see how it would seem unfair to someone.
23:24Absolutely.
23:24I get that.
23:25But this is not, like, a new boundary just because it's her.
23:29Is it something that, is it fair to me?
23:32Because, obviously, I want more kids.
23:37Oh, I feel like that's another discussion to have.
23:40And we're, we can have it right now.
23:48Do you think it's fair to you?
23:54Just, just, just a thought in my head is all it is.
23:59Well, if I could give you more, I would.
24:00Oh, I know you would.
24:01I just, like I've said multiple times, like, I just don't.
24:05My journey's over with it.
24:07My body's done.
24:08My heart is not.
24:11So to watch another woman have what I want so bad, I can't do that.
24:20I believe if someone wants this dynamic with us that bad, then they would, you know, be willing to compromise.
24:37Can you live without having more biological children?
24:49Yeah.
24:51Okay.
24:51I absolutely can.
24:52I mean, I have our three boys, I have you, and we're perfectly happy.
24:58I'm perfectly happy.
24:59Okay.
25:01I am more than prepared to sacrifice having another child for the sake of my family, my boys, and my wife's happiness.
25:12All right, give me a guess.
25:13During this, during this process, I feel like I've been giving you more of the reins and, you know, with Jackie and all that, and I feel like it, it, it possibly bit us in the ass.
25:33Maybe if we are more together in, in, in all of it.
25:39I just realized we both kind of did the same thing in different ways.
25:46Irony.
25:48You know, we got to learn lessons the hard way.
25:51That's true.
25:53During our first attempt at seeking, Yassel took the reins and I took a back seat and it, it blew up in her face.
26:02The second time around, Yassel let me take the reins because I feel like he felt a little bit guilty and it blew up in her face again.
26:12We're one for one each.
26:13Dead even one for one.
26:15Yes, we are.
26:15Okay.
26:17Knowing that we're both learning from our mistakes is reassuring.
26:20And now it's even.
26:23Moving forward, we should definitely bring up the baby subject in the beginning, you know?
26:29We.
26:29We.
26:30Together.
26:31Together.
26:32So it's not just one person delivering that very big piece, especially if we know it's somebody that's definitely interested in having a child.
26:41You know, put it in our profile.
26:44It's just one of those things we, I feel like we need to be really upfront about.
26:47Right.
26:47And this is for everybody out there.
26:58If your relationship is not solid, on solid freaking ground, try and polygamy out.
27:04It is not for the faint of heart.
27:07No.
27:08No.
27:08No.
27:09As long as we commit to being on the same page with each other, then I feel like, you know, third time might be the charm.
27:19Or fourth or fifth or sixth.
27:20We're not going to speak.
27:24We're not going to do that.
27:27This experience has made our relationship better.
27:31Learning how to just slow things down a little bit.
27:34Finding more of those compromises that we never thought we'd have to make.
27:38Right.
27:39As many times and times as it takes.
27:41Jesus.
27:42Jesus.
27:44Okay.
27:45I think our needle and haystack is out there.
27:50How far out there?
27:52No idea.
27:53I don't think it'll be easy.
27:55But I'm looking for a lifelong bond with someone.
28:00You don't take the easy road to get that.
28:02Hot young couple, done with kids, but looking for a sister wife.
28:07You're not wrong.
28:08I am hoping third time is the charm and we hit a home run.
28:14But in the back of my mind, all I'm thinking is, does she really want to do this?
28:19We'll see what happens.
28:21Well, I'm about done stroking this fire.
28:25Stoke.
28:26Stroke this fire.
28:27I'm going to stroke that fire.
28:29Can we go inside now?
28:29Okay.
28:31How do I know you're not just going to run away with my husband?
28:34I just really hope that Billy can get her feelings in check because I like Randy.
28:41I felt like last time we met that maybe you were uncomfortable.
29:02Because, I mean, basically it was jealousy.
29:06I really didn't even want to come back.
29:08Because of my reaction.
29:12Yeah.
29:12Oh, okay.
29:17I don't know.
29:18I wanted to talk to you about that a little bit more if we could and just make sure.
29:23I've got to run the restroom, so I'm going to leave you ladies so you can sit and chat for a minute, okay?
29:28All right.
29:28I just really hope that Billy can get her feelings in check because I like Randy.
29:35I see something there.
29:37But this relationship has to work for Billy as well.
29:40So I'm just going to excuse myself and let them talk amongst themselves because there are going to be a lot of tough conversations in the future if we do move forward with this.
29:50So I think this will definitely be a test for them to see, I mean, if they're compatible in this journey.
29:56So how do you think that you will handle the jealousy if we do bond and click?
30:08Because I'm not fully convinced right now that you would be able to deal with that.
30:15So one of my biggest fears is how do I know you're not just going to run away with my husband?
30:25What if my husband ends up loving you more because everything is, you know, shiny, it's new, it's fun, and I'm not.
30:35I'm what's been here before, you know what I mean?
30:38Old news.
30:38Like, yeah, like the old news.
30:41I wouldn't do that.
30:43I mean, I can understand those fears.
30:47I don't want to ruin anything that you guys have, you know.
30:50I mean, I wouldn't be human, I think, if I didn't have some sort of emotion.
30:55You know what I mean?
30:56I totally agree with that, too.
30:58Like, having all those emotions and fears is natural.
31:02So I know you have your fears, but I have mine, too.
31:08And how, you know, am I supposed to know that I'm not always going to be second?
31:13Yeah, and that's totally legitimate.
31:18And I've told Reese I don't like, like, the terms, like, first wife, second wife, because I don't want there to be a hierarchy among people.
31:27It's all, it's all of our relationship.
31:30Like, yeah, we got married first, and I understand that, like, when we have history.
31:34But that's why we're going slow and dating, is to build up that rapport so that you guys can be just as comfortable.
31:41You have very valid fears, you know, and as long as we go slow and steady and everyone's comfortable, I think we'll be on the path to the right way.
31:52Because, I mean, those fears that you have of being kicked out is the same fears that I have, you know, of being kicked out.
31:58I'm glad that we were able to have this conversation and talk about these things, because that's really reassuring that things could work, you know?
32:10I'm definitely glad that we had this conversation.
32:15Here you go, ladies.
32:17Oh, I'm starving.
32:18Randy seems really receptive to everything I'm saying, which is a good quality.
32:22You know, I want to be able to have a sister wife that I can talk to and ask hard questions or have hard conversations.
32:28So I feel like it's definitely a good thing.
32:33No, look who's here.
32:34Hey.
32:35Oh, there he is.
32:36Food is here.
32:37Food is here.
32:38Sorry, I would call you the man, the myth, the legend.
32:40That's right.
32:42So after, I mean, I guess, so where do we stand?
32:48Like, where are we going from here?
32:50I think that we can continue to talk and see where, explore it, see where things go.
32:59And hopefully it will work out.
33:03Okay, cool.
33:04Okay, I was kind of nervous.
33:05I was like, oh, my God.
33:06I know, I give up.
33:07I don't have vibes, but I promise I'm okay.
33:11I'm really satisfied with the way she handled my concerns.
33:16I feel better knowing that she's willing to communicate and hear my side, too.
33:22I'm excited to see where this goes because they're great people.
33:26And Reese is cute.
33:29And he gets cuter, too.
33:32Like, he's one of those people, it's like, you get to another personality and they get, so it's good.
33:38He's so fun.
33:39All right, so what are we thinking for third date, then?
33:44So we're going to do a third date?
33:45I mean, I have, that's what I was thinking.
33:48All right.
33:48All right.
33:48Okay.
33:49And...
33:50Yep, we're going to do it.
33:51I was really nervous that it wasn't going to happen.
33:54I don't want Billy to be uncomfortable or feeling jealous.
33:58I don't want our relationship to go negatively and get worse while a relationship with someone
34:04else is getting better and forming.
34:07So you're going to have to speak up, obviously, and then we can address it.
34:22If Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.
34:26We're tied to her for life.
34:28Bye, love.
34:30Bye, sister.
34:37Where were you when he met this girl and went on a date?
34:44So, if you let me explain, I can put all that out there.
34:50About three years ago...
34:51Are you kidding me?
34:53We met her on a dating app.
34:55No, he met her, not me.
34:56No, no, we met her on a dating app.
34:59Okay.
34:59I created his dating profile.
35:02I helped him write the biography.
35:03I was the one that was swiping through the photos.
35:08So you picked her?
35:09And I was the one...
35:11I liked her profile.
35:13For him?
35:14For him.
35:15Her name is Shanae.
35:17You know, she's been a great friend to me and, like, a support system, a sister.
35:23What is this about you don't have a support system?
35:25You need to bring this bitch in because you need support?
35:28When your sister's right across the street, I'm always around the corner.
35:31Shanae, what do you need support for?
35:34For what?
35:35For Matt?
35:36No, it's more than that.
35:38What?
35:38What is it?
35:39It's a different relationship.
35:41She and I are experiencing the same thing.
35:44We're going through the same thing.
35:46What?
35:46What do you want her to do?
35:49And it's, like, a frustration with Matt.
35:52She understands how, you know, how he can be and how...
35:55Kind of, how?
35:56Because they're in a relationship as well.
35:59My understanding is she's looking for her village, her support system.
36:07She has it right here.
36:08I know.
36:09I said it defended me and hurt my feelings, but when she explained it to me...
36:12That came out of your mouth right now was supportive.
36:15I...
36:16We're in shock!
36:17It does bother me and hurt me to see her sad and tearing up and holding back her feelings.
36:25At the end of the day, I'm not okay with this, but I am okay with my sister's happiness.
36:30So, um, we actually just got broken up with by Shanae.
36:36Good.
36:37And, um...
36:38And you're sad?
36:39I am sad.
36:40Who gives a if she left?
36:41And it's still not what's going to be you and your husband like it should be.
36:45And your kids.
36:46But I've developed a really good and close relationship with her and friendship.
36:49That's fine.
36:49You can still be her friend.
36:50You can still be her friend?
36:51Well, that's...
36:51And she can be your best friend.
36:52You know?
36:53That's what I was getting at.
36:54Okay.
36:54Okay.
36:55What?
36:55She's...
36:56You guys are...
36:56You and her are going to still be friends?
36:59Hopefully, yeah.
37:01You know, this was...
37:03There was a lot of love and a lot of...
37:05A lot that went into this.
37:07I'm in a lot of pain.
37:09You know, I am in a lot of pain.
37:10I'm hurting.
37:11And I'm looking for my community, my support system.
37:15And I'm coming to you guys asking for that.
37:19That's why I'm here today.
37:21That's...
37:21I love you.
37:22That's what I need.
37:28I don't agree with any of this stuff you're doing, but I'll be here for you.
37:35You can maintain her friendship.
37:37Just keep her out of your bed.
37:39At this point, I'm completely over even attempting to have a conversation with them.
37:44Maybe this wasn't the best way to go about telling my family about our situation.
37:54It just reminds me why we're on this journey.
37:57And it's...
37:59If anything, it's pushing me to continue down this path even more.
38:06I...
38:07I need Shanae.
38:09I...
38:09I cannot lose her.
38:11Okay, sister.
38:24You?
38:25Pipi?
38:26Un, dois, tres, cuatro, cinco.
38:29Aqui.
38:30This.
38:31This.
38:31This.
38:31This.
38:31Three weeks after Lorena and Garrick got married, Garrick and my brother Sam ended up
38:40having to go out to Wisconsin to help my grandma with some remodel work for her house that she's
38:45trying to sell.
38:46Capi e flat.
38:48Necesito.
38:48Assim.
38:50Flat.
38:50Yeah, assim.
38:52Necesito.
38:52So, shortly after Garrick left for Wisconsin with my brother, Lorena realized she was a little
38:58bit late with her period.
38:59E...
39:00GrĂĄvida?
39:02Dois.
39:04Entende?
39:05GrĂĄvida?
39:06Dois.
39:07No, grĂĄvida.
39:07Dois.
39:08GrĂĄvida, um.
39:08Okay.
39:08Eu sempre quis engravidar, mas nĂŁo que eu quisesse engravidar tĂŁo rĂĄpido chegando
39:15aqui.
39:16Eu estou um pouco preocupada, realmente, se eu estiver gråvida, porque vai ser muita mudança.
39:25Principalmente, eu ainda nĂŁo estar nativa no idioma do inglĂȘs e ter um bebĂȘ e tambĂ©m
39:32a minha famĂlia longe de mim me deixa um pouco preocupada se vai mudar as coisas, muito.
39:38Tanto para mim e para o Garrick, mas tambĂ©m para a famĂlia.
39:43Oh, meu Deus.
39:45Lorena's only been in the USA for three months, and Garrick and her literally just got married
39:50like three weeks ago, so everything is really happening fast.
39:54To be honest, everything with the relationship with Lorena has happened fast.
39:57Immigration, like, it's kind of surreal how fast everything is going.
40:03CiarĂĄn?
40:04Meu Deus.
40:05Garrick and I have never been to this point in polygamy where he's having a child with
40:10another woman, and so I really don't know how I'm going to feel.
40:15The reality is that if Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.
40:19We're tied to her for life.
40:22Is that one thing we're okay?
40:24No, I insist.
40:25Okay, any minute now she should be here.
40:30I have no idea what to expect from this conversation, this interaction we're about to have with Teresa.
40:34Oh, she's here.
40:37I just hope that we can all leave from this experience still being friends at the very least.
40:44I see my house over here.
40:52I see her house over here.
40:55I feel like we're getting really close to having our dream, you know, our village, our family.
41:00Now, would you be okay, though, knowing I'm right next door with a sister wife?
41:05How are you?
41:09I'm doing all right.
41:11You?
41:12Yeah.
41:13I went with Matt to see another woman, and I didn't tell Shanae.
41:18I think what broke the camel's back for me is you met this person.
41:23I'm not ready to lose her at all.
41:26I'm angry, Angelica.
41:27I'm angry.
41:27I'm angry.
Be the first to comment