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00:00Thank you for being willing to trust me.
00:03I'm just angry and tired.
00:04There are reasons why you are angry,
00:07and that's what we're looking for.
00:09You have to make a lot of money on this property,
00:10the one that you're going to put me on the listing for.
00:12I can already promise Chris.
00:14So you're just going to have to add another agent.
00:17Hello.
00:18How you doing, Miss Destiny?
00:20Beautiful.
00:21Well, thank you.
00:23Hello.
00:25Hey, how you doing?
00:27Destiny is walking in here with Will
00:29after a conversation we just had about Twan.
00:31So this is very surprising to me.
00:35Nail, you said, keep my name out your mouth,
00:38trying to make your problem.
00:39I said why I said that.
00:40You don't have to yell at us, though.
00:42I'm doing what everyone else is doing, OK?
00:44You're asking me.
00:45What do y'all think y'all doing here?
00:48Gang up on me?
00:48Go ahead.
00:49I dunk your ass in that pool you keep calling at me.
00:51You won't dunk me.
00:52No, .
00:53You won't dunk me.
00:54No, .
00:55Don't keep calling at me.
00:56Don't keep calling at me.
00:57I should not have said, I will dunk you in the pool
01:00if you keep calling at me.
01:01And I apologize for that.
01:03All in self, Kim is apology.
01:05But it really hurt.
01:06That hurt me.
01:07And if I yelled at you, I apologize to you.
01:12We keep it moving all day, all night.
01:16Yeah.
01:17Ain't no stopping us.
01:18Drop that.
01:19We ain't stopping.
01:21You know, you know, we keep it moving all day, all night.
01:32Yeah.
01:33Yeah.
01:34Yeah.
01:35All day, all night, yeah.
01:38Ain't no stopping us.
01:40Yeah.
01:42Yeah.
01:43Yeah.
02:14So I invited Tisha to the house so we can catch up.
02:19And I can just check her temperature on everything
02:21because the last couple of meetups have been a disaster.
02:25Chris, you're welcome.
02:26Welcome, brother.
02:27I'm going with this French.
02:29Just walk, just walk, just walk.
02:31So, Nell, why did you guys leave LA early?
02:36That's none of your business.
02:38I don't owe you anything.
02:40It's so quiet in here.
02:41Where everybody at?
02:42Where's Ken?
02:43Getting Zari back and forth to dance.
02:45Oh, he don't know the day to do these things.
02:46We'll be all over the place, girl.
02:47Good.
02:48I'm happy to hear y'all still a team.
02:50I was kind of concerned a little bit.
02:51Yeah.
02:52We're still working through it because, when I tell you,
02:54it has been arguments after arguments.
02:56Have y'all seeked, like, outside help to help, like,
03:00communicate better?
03:01So I'm going to dance.
03:04That's good.
03:04So you're going by yourself?
03:05I'm going by myself for now.
03:07OK.
03:08Because I do feel like I need to work on me.
03:10Because it's like, I brought up a lot of anger,
03:13life anger issues, and then I blow up.
03:16OK.
03:17I don't just blow up on family.
03:19It's like, whoever comes into contact with me
03:21that presses the smallest button sends me over to it.
03:25And I don't even know why.
03:27So has the therapist been helping you to, like,
03:29try to zoom in and see what is causing that problem?
03:33We're working on it.
03:34Because that's going to be better for not only
03:35your relationship with Ken, with your kids,
03:38with your friends, with everybody around you.
03:40Everybody, I do.
03:41Even with yourself.
03:42I agree.
03:43I think what this taught Ken and I, especially for me,
03:46is that we have to love each other in every season.
03:50Because you're going to have your seasons in life.
03:51Because we're going to have seasons.
03:53We're going to have them.
03:53Yep.
03:54But it's either we're going to, hey,
03:56let the weather take us down through there,
03:59or we're going to get through it.
04:00I have hope for y'all.
04:02As a black community, we've always, like,
04:05strayed away from going to therapy.
04:07It's like, we'll pray about it, and then we
04:08try to resolve things of our own.
04:10So I think it's a good thing that Trish is going out
04:14to seek the help that she needs from a therapist
04:17who can really give her the tools to do better
04:20and be better in life.
04:21I'm just happy that you're getting the help.
04:23I think you're going to, next year, next year,
04:25we're going to see a whole different Trish.
04:26I feel like I have to for myself, for the kids,
04:30for family, just for life in general.
04:32Speaking of family, that's what I want to come over here
04:35to talk to you about.
04:36I'm going to take a little mini trip to my hometown,
04:40to Besima, so I can see my mama in her food truck.
04:44So I wanted to know if you'll be able to come along with us.
04:47It's going to be this coming up weekend.
04:50Why are you looking like that?
04:52Because we'll be in Miami for Xavier's birthday.
04:54Aw, really?
04:58Dang.
04:59I hate you can't make it.
05:01I know.
05:02Dang.
05:03Trish?
05:04I really wanted Trish to experience Besima.
05:06But hey, I understand mom life, mom business comes first.
05:10So she's just going to have to miss out on this one.
05:13So you know, I haven't had a chance to talk to you
05:17since we left Nell's little thing.
05:21Girl, you were so out of it at this time.
05:23I was.
05:24Mm-hmm.
05:24So at first, I thought it was fun.
05:27But then, when we went outside to have a conversation with Nell,
05:31I felt like I was handling the conversation well.
05:35I was like in my convoys.
05:37I thought you did great.
05:38Because I was irritated.
05:40When people voice started elevating like that
05:43and I'm already in a moment, I'm like, yeah, mom.
05:44You was like, I'm over it.
05:46Yep.
05:51I said, Letitia Scott, we're about our own business.
05:55I'm just loud.
05:57I need to tone my voice.
05:59I mean, were you screaming at somebody or something?
06:01I didn't think I was.
06:03I started out very calm.
06:04They kept going, well, how are we going to resolve this?
06:08Do you have a problem?
06:08Do you have a problem?
06:09And I'm like, I don't have a problem.
06:11And then Destiny said, well.
06:12Who's saying this?
06:13Kimmy.
06:14Okay.
06:15And then Destiny.
06:16Everyone's saying something at this point.
06:18And I'm like, I'm good.
06:19So two on this side got the gas
06:21and the other two on this side got the light.
06:23Yeah.
06:23And that's the same thing like Kimmy was saying.
06:26Kimmy was like, you just can't be yelling at me.
06:27That's the problem.
06:28Yeah.
06:28I'm happy to hear that it just wasn't me.
06:30She must be.
06:31She was just on 20.
06:32And I'm like, what is wrong with you?
06:34And Kimmy says, don't you yell at me.
06:37Well, what do you think you doing right now?
06:40But y'all apologize and hugged it out, right?
06:43I'm cordial.
06:44I can apologize.
06:45Kimmy's apology, it was a public apology.
06:48So I did accept it.
06:49Normally, I don't do that.
06:51It normally takes more time than that.
06:53So I still have my guard up.
06:55Most definitely keeping my eye on these ladies.
06:57No, I think what happened was the whole issue about her grandbaby.
07:02You know, we did some stuff in L.A.
07:04And she said that she had to leave early.
07:06I thought she said because of the delivery of the baby.
07:09He had got a call saying he needed to get back.
07:12He had a baby on the way in labor.
07:14I saw that on social media.
07:16Me too.
07:17We all did.
07:18Kimmy, was you a part of that conversation
07:19when she said the reason they had to leave L.A. early
07:21was something dealing with the grandbaby?
07:22I felt like you said it did have something to do
07:25with you had to come back home for the situation.
07:28I did not tell you that.
07:30I feel like she wasn't supposed to talk about the baby.
07:34Yeah, so if you didn't say it, then how does Leticia know?
07:37Somebody had to voice it.
07:38How would I know?
07:39It didn't come out in the air.
07:40How would I know?
07:41I know all this went on with you and Kimmy.
07:44Where did it leave you and Leticia?
07:47Nowhere.
07:49She ain't talking to me and I ain't talking to her.
07:51And that's the problem with this group of ladies that I have.
07:55It's always something, but it's always pointed at me.
08:00Why am I defending myself, my family,
08:03and especially my granddaughter?
08:05I'm not going to keep talking about my granddaughter.
08:08I mean it.
08:09Like I felt like she was on 20 for no reason.
08:12Sometimes you can say things that kind of like
08:14push your foot in your mouth.
08:16So I believe that she said stuff
08:18and then she's like, oh, I wasn't supposed to say that.
08:20And she tried to like backtrack.
08:22But you already put it out there.
08:23So it's too late.
08:24Sometimes you get angry, you start saying stuff,
08:26and you don't pay attention to what you're saying.
08:29And then you start to tell on yourself.
08:30And she said she was a life coach.
08:34She needs some help.
08:35Lady needs some help.
08:36I think with myself saying Dr. Francis,
08:38it has definitely helped a lot
08:40with my anger issues or why I get angry.
08:43And I think Nell could definitely benefit from it
08:45because we have a lot of similarities on anger issues.
08:48So y'all haven't spoken to each other since?
08:51No, I got nothing to say to her.
08:52She told me to keep her
08:53in my mouth and I'm going to say
08:55do exactly what she asked me to do.
08:57She's not the type of person
08:58I would like want to like hang out with,
09:00be around, being associated with at all.
09:05Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
09:08When Kenny comes into the picture
09:10and the kids are saying,
09:12there's a breath of fresh air,
09:13let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
09:15You're saying, wait, wait a minute.
09:16Whoa, whoa, whoa.
09:17Whoa, what about me?
09:18I've had you all this time.
09:20He's the new kid on the block.
09:21I was jealous when he came along
09:23and they started asking him instead of me.
09:25It just kind of made me feel some type of way.
09:27Wanda! Miss Wanda!
09:30Hey!
09:31Come on, girl!
09:32Yeah, you got your truck!
09:34The hose came from her spiel.
09:36Yeah!
09:37We got involved, baby.
09:41But we should have walked.
09:43Now it's going on.
09:44So keep it on the low.
09:47We got involved, baby.
09:50But we should have walked.
09:52Now it's going on.
09:53So keep it on the low.
10:01Well, well.
10:02Well, hi.
10:03How are you?
10:05We meet again.
10:05We meet again.
10:06Feel good to see you.
10:07Please, go right ahead and have your seat.
10:10Listen.
10:12Listen, sit down anywhere you want to sit.
10:13Let's get a little fancy here.
10:14Let you sit right there?
10:15Just be comfortable, okay?
10:18So I'm here at my second session with Dr. Francis.
10:21Yay, I am back.
10:22I know, right?
10:23I think I've made a lot of progress since the first time.
10:26I still have a lot of work to do,
10:28but I can already see that it's worth the struggle.
10:31Last week we did, um,
10:34we talked about your family as a whole.
10:38Yeah.
10:39And I'm trying to get to know about you.
10:43Are you ready for that?
10:45Yes.
10:46You know, I think that last session was pretty awesome.
10:51Um, I actually went to visit my mom and dad's grave for the first time.
10:55And I cried.
10:56Oh, Trish, that's growth.
11:00It was something.
11:07I'm taking the time right now to tell you, to validate you,
11:11to let you know that going to your parents' grave site was an amazing growth piece for you.
11:19People are always growing.
11:21So the question is, who am I now?
11:25Do you have any children?
11:27Mm-hmm.
11:28Yep, two.
11:29Boy and girl.
11:30Boy and girl.
11:30Mm-hmm.
11:31And you were married.
11:32Mm-hmm.
11:33How'd you get along with father?
11:35No, we don't get along.
11:36So you're divorced?
11:38In the process.
11:39Mm-hmm.
11:40How long you've been separated?
11:43About six years.
11:44About six years.
11:45You may be separated physically, but emotionally you are still together.
11:51Well, actually, you know, the guy I'm with now.
11:54Ooh.
11:54What's your relationship like with him?
11:58I mean, we argue, like, in the other couple, but we have a great relationship.
12:03What kind of relationship does your daughter have with this man?
12:05I don't know.
12:06Kenny seems, um, you would have thought he was their dad.
12:11So he's strong?
12:12Very.
12:13That sounds good.
12:14Like, every event, everything they have going on, he's there.
12:18He's there, really?
12:18Even when I'm not.
12:19Or I can't make it.
12:21He's there.
12:21So, so, so he's heavily invested in them?
12:25Oh, yeah.
12:26Okay.
12:26And because of his attachment and heavily, heavy involvement in them, what does that do for you and him?
12:33It's great.
12:34I mean, it's good.
12:35It's...
12:36I was jealous in the beginning, but, yeah.
12:42You were jealous of him?
12:43Because I didn't think they would take to him like they did.
12:49Hmm.
12:50Can you tell me what that jealousy might have looked like an experience?
12:54It was...
12:58I don't know.
13:00I...
13:00It just felt like...
13:02It was like a possession.
13:04It was my kids.
13:07So, did you get it...
13:09Did it feel like you were losing your kids?
13:11Honestly?
13:12Yeah.
13:12I did.
13:14Um, it made me happy, but then I was like, wait a minute now.
13:17Because my kids always came to me for things and always asked me for things, so I was always the center of it.
13:26Then when he came along and they started asking him instead of me, it just kind of made me feel some type of way.
13:32So, what did you do with that?
13:36I used to make little smart jokes.
13:38But the joke, because he would see it as a joke, it would not negatively impact your relationship because it was just a joke.
13:47But you were serious about using the joke.
13:50It's, yeah.
13:52Yeah.
13:54And so when Kenny comes into the picture and the kids are saying, there's a breath of fresh air, let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
14:02You're saying, wait a minute, whoa, whoa, whoa.
14:04Whoa, what about me?
14:06I've had you all this time.
14:07He just, he's the new kid on the block.
14:14Yeah.
14:16After my ex moved to Atlanta, you know, out of sight, out of mind, the kids came to me for everything.
14:22I was like the center.
14:23And then here comes Kenny.
14:25I definitely felt jealous.
14:26And I'm like, wait a minute, wait a minute.
14:28It's been me here that's done all of these things for you guys.
14:32It's like they gravitated towards him so well.
14:35I don't have that responsibility anymore.
14:38And it kind of felt awkward.
14:40So do you get upset with the kids sometimes because he's paying them, you know, a lot of attention and the attachment is growing here?
14:47Or do you get upset with him for being such a good guy that the children would trust him to, so that they go with him?
14:55And I don't know about you and that because you just said, wait a minute, I'm supposed to be number one.
15:01I'm supposed to be the center.
15:02After dealing with so much loss, it was hard trusting anyone.
15:09It was hard to accept help.
15:12And I think that was one of our biggest issues with Ken and I.
15:15You're really good at this.
15:23What do you think?
15:24I don't know.
15:25I'm waiting for an explanation on that one.
15:26Self-protection.
15:28Do you like nuts?
15:30No.
15:32You don't like nuts?
15:33Well, can I tell you a nut story, though?
15:36Okay.
15:36Okay.
15:37Have you ever taken a good look at pistachios?
15:40So when you take a look at pistachios, you notice that all the shells are not opened to the same dimension, the same width, the same crack.
15:53The cracks are not always the same.
15:55You know that, right?
15:56Mm-hmm.
15:56I'm wondering, you know, how painful was something in your past that made you say, I'm going to be like, here's a pistachio and I'm going to be closed.
16:08You are protecting yourself from something that happened in the past.
16:14And so he had to pay his dues to get into this.
16:19And then when he got into this, this evolved with the children.
16:24And when this evolved with the children, you started to feel like you're having another loss.
16:37It's my parents.
16:39It's just, I don't want to deal with any more loss.
16:41It's just, I don't care if it's death.
16:43It's, I just, that's why I just, I just like to stay to myself.
16:50It took you all this time to show your vulnerability and your hurt and your pain and your disappointment.
17:03And I want to thank you.
17:04It feels like a weight lifted when I start to open up.
17:08I feel like it's really time for me to talk to Ken and make things right.
17:11Because I don't see a relationship for us in the future if I don't deal with the trauma of my past.
17:20Coming up on Love and Mary's Huntsville.
17:26Y'all both have said things about each other's husbands.
17:29Because of what her husband is saying about, he was making jokes about Marceau and Maurice.
17:34And today, 2025, I'm tired of people joking about it because it ain't funny no more.
17:41I felt like I was losing my kids.
17:43To me?
17:44Yeah.
17:45Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
17:47Y'all just pushing me to the side.
17:50This should be fun.
18:14Yeah.
18:14I hope y'all enjoy the ride.
18:15Cute in here.
18:17Road trip, bitches.
18:19Yes, yes, yes, road trip.
18:22I'm super excited to bring the girls to my hometown,
18:25my stomping ground, Bessema, Alabama.
18:27Kimmy Cakes.
18:29Good morning, team.
18:30You ready?
18:31I'm getting ready.
18:32Oh, what you do with that pillow?
18:35That's why I said she got a bag.
18:36Put that back in the car.
18:37You ain't taking no nap.
18:39I am the person I am today because of Bessema
18:42and my community.
18:43So I think we're going to have a good time.
18:45You look so cute.
18:47Thank you, darling.
18:48Excuse me, that's right.
18:49Let me get back out for a second.
18:50Please, give me my pillow.
18:55They going to make me like these girls' trips,
18:57whether I like it or not.
18:58I can see.
19:00Shadow Claw.
19:01Shadow Claw.
19:04OK, to our first road trip with the new duo, three-o.
19:09The threesome.
19:10Threesome.
19:11The new form of threesome.
19:13We got these holiday names.
19:15Kimmy, you didn't even look me in my eye.
19:17Well, who's going to look me in my eye?
19:24OK, I feel this already, baby.
19:26What the hell?
19:27You just took it.
19:28So my mom, you know, she started her food truck.
19:31She got it up, open.
19:32I saw those pictures.
19:33Yes.
19:33It's purple.
19:34I love it.
19:35So we're going to go pop up and pay her a little visit.
19:38You don't know we coming?
19:39No, she don't know.
19:40It's a pop up.
19:42I'd never think a pop up on Wanda is, dude.
19:44Well, she's going to be out.
19:45She going to be happy to see us.
19:47No, we don't want you acting up, though, Kimmy.
19:49Wanda is having her food truck soft opening.
19:54So we going to softly tiptoe in there and softly tiptoe
19:57right back out.
19:58This your shot.
19:59I got one already.
20:00Come on, this yours right here.
20:02So you didn't invite the rest of the ladies?
20:04Trish had to work.
20:06What about Nell?
20:06I don't talk to Nell.
20:08Why would I talk to Nell?
20:09You witnessed how she treated me?
20:11You saw her.
20:11I can't even say she going to throw her in the pool
20:13when she was yelling at her.
20:14Listen, don't worry.
20:15No, she said.
20:16My mother yelled back with her.
20:17Give me where from her.
20:18I can't do all that holla.
20:19And then that lip went up.
20:21Then that Baltimore came out.
20:22I'm going to throw her ass in there.
20:23Her lip.
20:25No.
20:26And like, call it like it is, though, for real.
20:28I asked her three times to stop yelling at me.
20:30She kept saying she wasn't yelling.
20:31Even Trisha.
20:33Trisha leans over.
20:34She was like, stop yelling.
20:35You are yelling at her.
20:37I'm telling you to stop yelling at my ass.
20:39Stop yelling at me.
20:40Stop yelling at me.
20:41She didn't.
20:42I wasn't yelling at you.
20:43She did.
20:44She did.
20:45But that's y'all gaining up on her.
20:46Because people telling her to stop yelling.
20:47But no, I'm saying before that, just the simple fact
20:51that I asked her to come out and have the conversation.
20:53Yeah.
20:54You almost begged her.
20:56Damn near carried her to come outside and have
21:00the conversation.
21:01Maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
21:03I'll go out here.
21:05But I'm not going to do all the arguing.
21:07I'm prayerful that's not going to be the case.
21:10But I barely wanted to have a conversation with her.
21:12But you want to get resolved.
21:13My energy changed when she was like, one, she said,
21:17y'all were ganging up on me.
21:18What do y'all think y'all doing here?
21:20Gang up on me?
21:22Destiny said, huh?
21:24And she went, it's got 1.0 and 2.0.
21:28I didn't say you.
21:29I didn't say you.
21:30I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
21:34Not you.
21:35It's got 1.0 and 2.0.
21:38Why you got to do the .0?
21:40Because.
21:41That's my whole thing about Nail.
21:43Like, I'm not about to disrespect you.
21:45You're, you can pretty much be like my mom almost.
21:48You cannot!
21:50I'm serious!
21:52I can't die.
21:52It says in the Bible, respect your elders.
21:55Oh, Jesus.
21:56So that's what I'm going to do.
21:57I'm going to stay in the child's place dealing with her.
21:59I've said to Tisha before, I think there's something else,
22:02that there's some kind of issue somewhere else.
22:04And I don't personally, I don't know what it is.
22:06I'm going to tell you what I think it is for the both of them.
22:08Y'all both have said things about each other's husbands.
22:12Because of what her husband is saying about,
22:14he was making jokes about Marceau and Maurice.
22:17And today, 2025, I'm tired of people joking about it,
22:21because it ain't funny no more.
22:24So that was my whole thing was,
22:25I didn't even have an issue with Nail.
22:26Woman to woman, I'm like, let's just stop it.
22:28You ain't even got no reply to that, do you?
22:30It's weird, huh?
22:31It's not really a reply, but I'm saying that you guys,
22:33I think, feel the same way.
22:35So with you saying.
22:36The day she started it.
22:37When she gets the messiness back, then it's the problem.
22:40That's where the problem comes in.
22:42Because she hasn't even seen me yet.
22:43That's the thing, she have not even witnessed me
22:46yet be messy with her.
22:48Or she has not even witnessed the comment for her.
22:49But I think that you let that comment go about your husband.
22:54We all had your conversation.
22:55But I don't know if she's really let it go.
22:57Because it's the truth for her.
22:58And that's my thing.
23:00It's a real issue for her.
23:02No, it is.
23:03It is.
23:04So don't play with me.
23:05I really don't like being the middleman.
23:08And it seems to be the running thing in this friend group.
23:10It's really annoying, to be honest with you.
23:13And I don't know how to handle it.
23:15I try my best to be as neutral as possible.
23:17But that never works.
23:19I'm the person that's in the middle, being in the tug of war.
23:23I didn't tell you this, and I should have.
23:25But I forgot.
23:26But when I met with her, she was like,
23:27she need not worry about my husband.
23:28She need to worry about that girl on that video, on that tape.
23:31Baby, I ain't worry about nothing.
23:33Do you see me?
23:35I see you.
23:36I ain't worry about nothing.
23:36All of you.
23:37Baby, let me tell you something.
23:39I ain't never got to worry about another woman, ever.
23:41You know what?
23:42Let's just change the topic.
23:44I always love this view on the way to Birmingham and Bethlehem.
23:47Let's talk about the view of you and your dating life.
23:49Uh-oh.
23:50Give us an update on that.
23:51What's going on?
23:52I have a new movie role.
23:53It's an independent film.
23:55Oh, it's a movie for real?
23:56It's a movie for real, yeah.
23:57But I have to learn how to box.
23:59And so I asked Mr. Googly Eyes if he could teach me how to box.
24:02Oh, to train you how to box.
24:04Because he boxes.
24:06So I was like, God just put that together.
24:08Did y'all do boxing dates?
24:10We haven't had our boxing date, a boxing session yet.
24:14Yeah, but we did.
24:15We had a business date that we talked about working together.
24:20We have an attraction to each other.
24:22We've acknowledged that.
24:23What did you and Will acknowledge?
24:25Will's nice.
24:25He's really nice.
24:27So Will get the curve.
24:28It was one and done.
24:30Will what?
24:31With Will.
24:32Will is nice.
24:33Like, I enjoy his company.
24:34OK.
24:35But you know, I know y'all joke about me, like, in my dating
24:38and your little videos of the multiple people.
24:40But like, my philosophy is, you know,
24:42you date until you find the one.
24:44Absolutely.
24:45And people automatically assume that you, like,
24:46sleeping with everybody.
24:47Like, I told all of them, like, I'm not sleeping with you.
24:49So if that's what you're looking for,
24:51you got the wrong lady.
24:53That's part of why he went and got that girl pregnant,
24:54because you was that part.
24:57Be very clear.
24:58Because I was.
25:01You out here wild-dogging.
25:06Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
25:09I know we've kind of had, you know,
25:10some rough spot to some things that I've said in the past,
25:13like, I'm not proud of.
25:16You sound like Miss Nell over here.
25:18Oh, Lord.
25:19She got herself upset with me.
25:21The old lady now.
25:22I'm going to have to let my mama have the Miss Nell,
25:24because I'm not about to go back and forth with this lady.
25:27And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
25:57I'm going to have to go back and forth with this lady.
26:00Hello.
26:01Hi.
26:02How are you guys doing?
26:03Great.
26:04How about yourself?
26:05Not too bad.
26:06I know that me and Trisha do have, you know,
26:08the things that we're going through.
26:09And I'm trying so hard to kind of continue to be patient
26:14and continue to allow her to seek the help
26:17and the therapy that she needs.
26:19Because I feel like if she does that, we'll be perfectly fine.
26:22This little place is nice.
26:24You finally get us some date time.
26:26Without little people.
26:27Without the kids.
26:28I know, right?
26:29This drink is actually good.
26:30It is.
26:31Got us a great workout in.
26:32I'm sore.
26:33I think I'll have a hard time because I like
26:35to train with my people.
26:37So then I'll be, like, extra sore and tired.
26:39How is that going, people you were training with?
26:41We got to get our own brick and mortar for one.
26:44I've actually reached out to a couple of people
26:46who possibly will do, will help us build that out.
26:49Me and Trisha, it's crazy.
26:50We're so much alike when it comes to what we want.
26:53But I think for me, you know, I feel like once Trisha actually
26:58takes all the tools that they give her,
27:00she needs to actually input them into her lifestyle.
27:04And I think we know the proper steps to take
27:06in order to be successful.
27:07I just want you to understand this, too.
27:09Know we've kind of had, you know, some rough spots.
27:14But at the end of the day, I'm still here,
27:17ready and rocking for you, you know?
27:19One, I want to say that I'm so proud of you because, you know,
27:23I've been preaching this therapy thing for a long time.
27:26The fact that you did it, though, like, I can't do nothing
27:31but be happy.
27:31And I know you've had a couple of sessions.
27:33How has it been going?
27:35It's been, it's, listen, it's been interesting.
27:38I'm not going to lie.
27:39But I like Dr. Princess, who used the metaphor
27:43as me being a pistachio.
27:47And he said, I'm the pistachio that's still guarding
27:50and protecting, that's still closed,
27:52and hasn't completely opened up to no one yet.
27:55And he was right.
27:56He told me I need to, you know, start talking to people more.
27:59Right, but you know, I'm that person you can tell,
28:01you can come to for that.
28:04Yeah, so Ken tells me that I can open up to him
28:07and, you know, come and talk to him when I have issues.
28:09I think I can.
28:10I'm not sure, because that's just not something I do
28:14or have done in the past.
28:15But I'm hoping he'll be patient with me,
28:16because it's very new to both of us.
28:18Dr. Francis hit on a, like, a major part
28:21that I never thought about.
28:22I said in the beginning, I was getting a little frustrated
28:25when Xavier used to call and ask him,
28:26talk to you about things that he would, you know,
28:28normally call me for.
28:29Right.
28:29And I used to be like, wait a minute.
28:31And you were like, he would tell me, oh, he called to talk to,
28:34he called, Xavier called and told me this.
28:36And I'm like, well, what the hell?
28:38God, I went from panicking, now I'm at rage.
28:44Y'all just pushing me to the side.
28:47What made you jealous of that?
28:48Like, what made that a thing, like?
28:52I felt like I was losing my kids.
28:54To me?
28:55Yeah.
28:56It's never going to be that.
28:58I don't know.
29:00Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
29:02Because I didn't go and talk to nobody but me.
29:04I understand where you come from when, you know,
29:07when you're used to being that person.
29:11That goes back to what Dr. Francis was saying as well.
29:14I've been the sole person for so long.
29:16It was definitely different because I was like,
29:19what the hell is happening here?
29:21So I share with Ken that in the beginning, it was very hard for me to let him into my life
29:26and the kids because I've always been their go-to person.
29:30Like, there's always been me, me and the kids.
29:32And it was just not normal for me to see them run to someone else other than myself.
29:38And I think that was just also a part of me protecting my heart and the kids' heart
29:42because we've been through a lot in the past and I didn't want them to go through it again.
29:46At the end of the day, we just have to be more, you know, conscious of what we're doing.
29:51Like, when we do have a disagreement, it's not turning into a big fight.
29:55I don't see myself doing nothing but life with you, you know?
29:59Me too.
29:59I might have my moments where I say, obviously, but you know, it's just frustration.
30:03And that's something that I also have to start, you know?
30:05I have to say, like, some things that I've said in the past, like,
30:08I'm not proud of and I apologize again, ultimately, I'm happy.
30:14Me too. Very.
30:21Coming up on Love & Married Huntsville.
30:23Letitia said, tell Letitia stop to get my name by her mouth.
30:29I think he could have left that part out.
30:30I'm gonna have to let my mama have them as nails.
30:32This bitch is crazy as hell.
30:38Wait a minute.
30:39Wait a minute.
30:40Wait a minute.
30:41Look at Wanda's truck.
30:42We're here.
30:43We're in Bessemer.
30:44And look at this.
30:45I'm just so happy that my mom stuck with her dream of starting this food truck.
30:46Here go my truck, y'all.
30:47I know, right?
30:48Look at it.
30:49Oh, my God.
30:50Don't be talking.
30:51Don't be laughing.
30:52I take this very serious now.
30:53Is that truck working?
30:54Does it run?
30:55Yes.
30:56You can start it up right now.
30:57For her to start this business at her age, that's something to be celebrated.
31:03I'm so proud of her.
31:04And I'm so happy for her because she did it.
31:06Wanda!
31:07Miss Wanda!
31:08Hey!
31:09Yo!
31:10Miss Wanda!
31:11Miss Wanda!
31:12Hey!
31:13Yo!
31:14Miss Wanda!
31:15Miss Wanda!
31:16Miss Wanda!
31:17Miss Wanda!
31:18Miss Wanda!
31:19Miss Wanda!
31:20Miss Wanda!
31:21Miss Wanda!
31:22Miss Wanda!
31:23Miss Wanda!
31:24Hey!
31:25Yo!
31:26Miss Wonder!
31:27Miss Wanda!
31:28Miss Wanda!
31:30Miss Wanda!
31:31с!
31:32Miss Wanda!
31:33You got your truck!
31:34The Hoseys came from Olympics field!
31:38I'm so glad to see y'all, though!
31:40I like your truck, Wanda!
31:41Well, thank you, thank you!
31:42Congratulations!
31:43We got to order!
31:44Yeah, we the order!
31:45I want a loaded chicken, potato!
31:47Let's open our mail!
31:48I want steak!
31:49Steak!
31:50Medium!
31:51Medium?!
31:52Cook my steak all the way to the belt.
31:54But if you don't know, you're in decimal.
31:56We do everything wrong.
31:58You pick it.
32:00Because I don't want my steak cooked like a belt?
32:03It's not going to be cooked like a belt.
32:05It's going to be cooked like steak.
32:07Okay, that's what I want.
32:08All right, y'all, give me a minute.
32:10I'll be back.
32:11Okay, she said, let me go sit down.
32:13I'm always nervous when they come to meet Wanda.
32:17That's just keeping it real.
32:19Because you just never know what's about to pop off.
32:22I'm excited that Wanda is opening up her food truck.
32:27That is where my excitement begins and ends.
32:31Everything else is sheer nerves.
32:33Hey, mama!
32:35Give me a hug, girl!
32:37Give me a hug!
32:40Look at you!
32:41Come on!
32:41Give me some hug!
32:42Yes!
32:44Are we going to say grace?
32:45I already blessed the food.
32:46Amen.
32:48Amen.
32:48Thank you, Destiny.
32:49You're welcome.
32:50Y'all blessed the hands that fed you.
32:52That's right.
32:53Very pretty picture of you on the truck.
32:56So have you had it out and about, like in town?
32:58This is my very first day.
33:00Yay!
33:00This is a great location, too.
33:02So how was the ride here?
33:04It was good.
33:05We had some good conversations.
33:06Oh, what's happening about me?
33:08It's always about you, honey.
33:11It's always about you.
33:13I can't believe y'all talking about me.
33:15So I got to talk about y'all damn asses then.
33:17Come on, let's go.
33:18No, no, no!
33:18Speaking of, everybody want to talk about our group.
33:21You sound like Miss Nell over here.
33:23Oh, Lord.
33:24She got herself upset with me.
33:25Who?
33:26Miss Nell.
33:27Nell who?
33:28The flexure lady.
33:30The old lady Nell.
33:32Yeah, and that's why I came to you.
33:33Because I'm like, I got to get my mama to talk to her.
33:35Oh, hell, wait a minute.
33:36Because I can't deal with it.
33:37No idea what, girl?
33:38Okay, let me tell you what happened.
33:40Please tell me.
33:41So what happened was, her husband said something about our husbands.
33:45And I told her, I was like, it really played an effect on my marriage.
33:48Overall, what I was saying is that I cannot argue with this lady because she's more of my mother's age.
33:56And she's an elder.
33:58And you know what the Bible said about your elders.
34:00No, you know what your mama said about the elders.
34:02Okay, not your definition, but the Bible.
34:04Okay.
34:04You respect your elders, so your days won't be cut short.
34:08When you've been trying that way.
34:10Exactly.
34:10So I was like, I'm going to have to let my mama have to Miss Nell because I'm not about to go back and forth with this lady to get my days cut short.
34:16And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
34:17I think that Tisha suggesting her mom and Nell talk is a horrible idea.
34:25Very, very, very horrible idea.
34:27Because Nell and Wanda both will pop off.
34:31And I just don't think it's a good idea.
34:34Ooh, girl, you done made me in my nerves.
34:38My blood pressure up now.
34:40Yeah, wait, I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:43Wait, I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:45Nell want to insert herself in my child business?
34:49Baby, you ain't nobody counsel.
34:52You ain't nobody instruction.
34:53You can't even keep your own marriage together.
34:56While he stepped out on you, while you worrying about what Monso and the rest of the people are doing,
35:02I don't think I'm going to talk about is mine.
35:04You put my child in your mouth, now it's time for me to come and talk with you about yours.
35:10When I'm coming back to Huntsville, I need to know.
35:13Anytime you ready to drive to Huntsville.
35:14Okay, I'm coming.
35:15Do you think it's really necessary for them to have a conversation?
35:17Oh, hell yeah, it's going to be necessary.
35:19It was necessary for her to step to my damn daughter.
35:21The thing is, she didn't say it to Tisha, she said it to her.
35:25We thought everything was fine.
35:26She stepped to Destin and told Destin how she was talking about.
35:27Also, you with the bone carrier.
35:31No, no, no, they carried their own bones before I even got in the picture.
35:34But she said she told you and you told Tisha.
35:36No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:44She stepped to Destin and told Destin how she was talking about.
35:46Also, you with the bone carrier.
35:47Oh, no, no, no, they carried their own bones
35:51before I even got in the picture.
35:52But she said she told you, and you told Tisha.
35:54No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:57Ms. Wanda, you know I adore you, but please stop.
36:00Please.
36:02Ain't that the part calling the cattle?
36:04They had their own issue, and apparently they resolved it,
36:08but when I talked to her, I didn't know that they hadn't moved forward.
36:11And when I brought it to her, she was like,
36:13we already talked about this, and we're supposed to be good.
36:16And Tisha said, tell her Tisha stop to get my mother
36:19I think you could have left that part out.
36:23That's what she said, though. Isn't that what she said?
36:24I'm just saying in front of Wanda.
36:26I see what Tisha's doing.
36:28She's, you know, sending Wanda to do her light work.
36:31That's not even a conversation to be had.
36:34It's just not.
36:34It's kind of like sicking your dogs on somebody.
36:37Bad idea.
36:38Horrible idea.
36:40So that was the whole thing.
36:41I don't know what she want from me.
36:43And then she felt like me and Kimmy wasn't being transparent
36:46because when she was asking us about the whole interview situation,
36:49I was like, I said what I had to say on my social media page.
36:53How do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husband?
36:58Me and my husband did a live,
36:59and we absolutely discussed how we felt about it.
37:02So if you want to know how I feel about it,
37:04I'm going to watch the live.
37:05I just want to know, what do you feel about it?
37:08About what?
37:09About what?
37:09About this
37:10This went to this live out here
37:15about Maso and Maurice.
37:20What do I feel about the
37:22Yeah.
37:23What do you feel about her?
37:24I know you've seen it.
37:25You never replied back to it.
37:27You never said anything.
37:28So I just want to know, what's really going on?
37:30We don't care.
37:31That, um, that, that, that, that, that, talking to you.
37:33Okay.
37:34Babe, I'm talking to you.
37:35No, I don't give it any energy.
37:37I didn't see the whole thing,
37:39because I just felt like it was ridiculous.
37:43But I would have took it in consideration.
37:45I was like, well, damn,
37:47this bitch says she had it in the butt,
37:49in the, in the mouth at the same time.
37:51Why are you repeating this?
37:52Because it happened, right?
37:53So what you feel about her, baby?
37:55I told you what I feel.
37:56You don't like what I feel.
37:57I don't believe that lady.
37:59I don't know who she is,
38:01and I don't know where she came from,
38:03and I don't believe the lady.
38:05You didn't conversate with Maurice about it
38:07after you heard about it?
38:08No, I did.
38:08I said, do you know her?
38:09Like, who is she?
38:10You actually believe it?
38:10You don't believe it.
38:11No, I don't.
38:12If a bitch come to me
38:13and says something happened,
38:14I'm not going to sit down
38:15and not take into consideration
38:17what damn just was saying.
38:19You believed her?
38:20It's a certain thing.
38:21But Wanda,
38:22there's been many times
38:24I've said very plain,
38:26I think that people can cheat.
38:29I don't have any issue
38:30with knowing that men,
38:32women, whoever, can cheat.
38:34That no, ma'am.
38:36Absolutely not.
38:39At this moment,
38:40Wanda is acting like a certified blogger,
38:43and I would assume
38:45part of being good at this
38:47is moving on.
38:49I've not done anything,
38:50haven't done anything,
38:51don't intend to do anything.
38:53You never showed me I did anything.
38:54Let it go.
38:55For real.
38:56This is one of them
38:57on the chin moments, ain't it?
38:58You got to go like this
38:59when you say it though, Destiny.
39:01I take it on the chin.
39:02I take it on the chin
39:04all the time.
39:05I want to call it
39:06but I'm just telling y'all
39:07young girls,
39:08don't be going around here
39:09saying that y'all don't believe
39:10what these folks be saying.
39:11Y'all got to take into consideration.
39:12So you believe everything
39:13somebody said?
39:14Hell yeah,
39:14that's why I ain't with my hub
39:15in the day.
39:16And that's probably why.
39:17Hell yeah,
39:18that's really ain't with him.
39:19And if it look like he'll do it,
39:21he did it.
39:21I think Kimmy is in denial.
39:24I think Kimmy like,
39:25I don't give a what's going on.
39:28I really think that.
39:29I think Kimmy like,
39:30I'm down with my man
39:32no matter what.
39:34Wanda, nobody believes her.
39:37Nobody.
39:37I don't know,
39:38millions stills and millions, y'all.
39:39Listen, we came here
39:40to support your food truck.
39:42Now I appreciate it
39:42but since y'all came
39:44all the way from Huntsville
39:44and I haven't talked to y'all
39:46in a long time,
39:47I just wanted to know
39:47what really was going on.
39:48Mom, we don't care.
39:50Mom also said he don't care.
39:51I said I don't care.
39:52My Reese didn't never
39:53say he didn't care.
39:54That's why I'm asking his wife.
39:54We can speak for everybody
39:55when we say we don't care.
39:56We want our refund.
39:57We didn't come here for that.
39:59Give us our money back.
40:01Oh Lord.
40:03We're here to support my mom
40:05and instantly she's like,
40:06I got words for y'all.
40:08Can we just have a good day
40:09to eat a nice potato
40:10and have a moment
40:12and pay you
40:13and then leave?
40:15Not the mess today.
40:17I ain't ambassin' with this
40:18I'ma tell you something.
40:19If a man come to you
40:21and he don't give you
40:22a straight answer,
40:24he damn did it.
40:33Next on Love and Mary Tonsville.
40:35How do you think
40:35you gonna get you a man
40:36if you ain't shaking?
40:37I know that's your standard,
40:38but I have a standard.
40:40I think that would be an issue
40:41with women trying to hold out
40:42with a man.
40:44So you just think
40:45that every woman
40:45that goes on a date with someone
40:47should just be sleeping with
40:48everybody they go on a date with?
40:50It's different.
40:51You say, oh, let's have a party.
40:52Yeah, you have a good time.
40:54But when you say dinner,
40:56it's a little more intense.
40:58We absolutely have to have it.
40:59Okay, well, let's have it.
41:01Let's do it.
41:03See how this go.
41:04I'm an open book.
41:05Are you?
41:06100%.
41:07So you have four children
41:08and never been married.
41:09Why haven't you been married?
41:11All Chris said was,
41:12he explained it.
41:14It was a question that dad said,
41:15I asked him.
41:16Now you're back on dad.
41:17So I was like, what the hell?
41:18What person here
41:19is doing a mother
41:20and that happened to be me?
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