00:00Hello, I'm Jodie. I grew up in foster care in Carmarthenshire. I entered the foster care system
00:10as a teenager and I left when I was 18 years old. During my time in foster care I had two foster
00:16carers. One very lucky day I met Jackie, the biggest blessing that ever came into my life.
00:23She took me horse riding the first time that I met her and then on the way back from the horse
00:28riding we stopped in the shop and she asked me to choose whatever biscuits I wanted and we chose
00:34like an assorted selection and we went home and we watched children in need together and I just
00:39felt safe for the first time in a very long time. Now that might sound simple to you but for me who
00:45had never really been able to relax and enjoy the little things in life that meant everything. Due to
00:50ongoing concerns at home I then moved in with Jackie full time. I was very very lucky and 14 years on
00:57now we still have the most magical relationship. We are mother and daughter.
01:01Jackie lives around the corner from me. We love going walking together. She is a grandmother to my
01:11children and she has shown me the mother that I would like to be. For a long time I didn't talk
01:16about the fact that I grew up in foster care. It's not often spoken about and I did worry about being
01:21judged but now I've made peace with my past and I'm really proud of where I come from. Jackie has taught
01:27me how to be a strong independent woman. If you're to ask me on this planet one person who is my
01:33inspiration it is Jackie. Sorry. Jackie has got a heart of gold. She always goes above and beyond for
01:42me. Nothing is ever too much for her and she's the reason that I am here today. I'm now a mum of two
01:50beautiful daughters. I run a successful business and I'm really happy in life despite everything
01:56that's ever been thrown at me. What about the hardest point of being in foster care Jodie?
02:02I would say the hardest part of being in foster care is definitely feeling different and as a child
02:07feeling very responsible for the circumstances that you end up in but as an adult now I've realized
02:12that these were things beyond my control and I don't need to feel that. What's been the most difficult
02:19thing about leaving care? The most difficult thing for me was definitely worrying about whether I'd still have
02:25that family unit that I'd made within foster care but lucky enough for me I can't get rid of Jackie.
02:31She's over there now watching me in the corner of the room and yeah just it couldn't have worked out
02:37any better. To anybody who has been through the foster care system or is currently in it I'm proud of you
02:43and just know how no matter how hard it gets this is just a small period of your life and your potential is
02:50extraordinary.
02:56you
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