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00:00We will be in each other's lives till the rest of our lives.
00:04You guys are sisters and we're supposed to be all coming together as a family.
00:09I'm not the worst on the planet because I always come back for them.
00:17Tamar announced that she would be interviewing our niece Ashley on Tamar's podcast.
00:21Y'all tried to shut down my entire business.
00:24Sending a cease and desist.
00:27Nobody wanted to come to my defense.
00:29So you're going to sit there and say, Toni Braxton?
00:31Don't worry about you.
00:32Toni Braxton ain't never having your back.
00:35We do not get the hands.
00:37Bitch.
00:38Don't you.
00:40I do not let him talk.
00:42Don't put your hands on me.
00:43I didn't touch you.
00:43I didn't touch you.
00:44Don't get out of your hands on me, bitch.
00:47So I did talk to Toni.
00:48She and Trina are on board to come to the sister retreat.
00:51And just like you said, Tawanda's not coming.
00:55You've been present, but you haven't been really present.
00:57He has congestive heart failure.
01:00Why did you want me to leave the room when the doctor was talking to you?
01:04I asked the doctor if I was going to die.
01:07I now pronounce you husband and wife.
01:13I have to leave.
01:15His husband's not doing well.
01:16His heart's bothering him, so Trina has to go right now.
01:20Where's Trina?
01:22Where's Trina?
01:22I can't stand the thought of Tawanda's wedding day being ruined.
01:34I have to take Vaughn to the hospital.
01:37Is he all right?
01:38They called this morning.
01:40And they need to go to the emergency right now.
01:41Like right now he had to go.
01:43Wow.
01:43So that's where they went.
01:44Got it.
01:45You could have told me that earlier.
01:47I wouldn't have been asking for it all night.
01:50Anything dealing with the heart is serious.
01:52So I'm extremely concerned.
01:55I really wish that somebody would have told me sooner.
02:00I'm just shocked about that.
02:02I understand.
02:03She got to take her husband.
02:04I got a new husband.
02:05I would have left with my husband too.
02:07About an hour and a half ago they left.
02:09Is it his heart stuff?
02:11His blood work?
02:12Terrible.
02:13Everything is not good.
02:13Dr. Blake told Trina to take him right now.
02:15Like why is he here?
02:17I probably should have told her sooner.
02:20I won't feel better about this whole situation
02:22until I actually hear back from Trina
02:23and know that Vaughn is okay.
02:25But I am relieved that Tawanda finally knows
02:28and was able to enjoy most of her entire wedding day
02:30without carrying the stress of the whole Vaughn situation.
02:34I stayed the whole time.
02:36I know, I'm not sure what Tom said.
02:37I stayed the whole time.
02:38I can't believe Tom is saved.
02:40Although I was sad, I was happy that, you know,
02:45they got to the hospital
02:46and everything is going to be checked up on Vaughn
02:49because that's what matters.
02:50I don't want to dwell on anything that was negative
02:53leading up to me walking down the hall with Sean
02:56because, I mean, it was so beautiful I want to do it again.
03:01Our family is just like any other family.
03:04We have a lot of love
03:05and then we still have some unresolved situations
03:07that we need to work through.
03:09But I feel like I'm right where I'm supposed to be.
03:15Every time he want it.
03:17Hello, how are you guys?
03:44Good, good, good.
03:45Shut the door.
03:46Have a seat.
03:48The last 48 hours have been a complete whirlwind.
03:53Vaughn was finally discharged from the hospital last night
03:55and today we have to do a follow-up with Dr. Brown.
03:59That's his primary doctor
04:00and she's also a very good friend of the family.
04:02So, I told you to go to the hospital
04:10at 7 o'clock in the morning
04:12because I received a phone call
04:14from my lab that you had a critical potassium level of 7.
04:21Yes.
04:23Your potassium should never be that high.
04:27And when I get something critical,
04:29it's not a suggestion.
04:33Then I seen you after the actual ceremony.
04:37And what did you do?
04:39You went and talked to another provider there.
04:42It took this doctor
04:43to reiterate what I already said
04:46for you to finally make the exit.
04:50It's never a suggestion.
04:51But you got to take into account
04:52the reason why I didn't want to go to the hospital.
04:55No, I cannot.
04:56Okay.
04:57It's called dead.
05:03It's called dead.
05:04Let's be real.
05:05If I'd ended up in the hospital,
05:06she wouldn't have gone to the wedding.
05:08And I didn't want to mess the day up, you know.
05:10If you were to fall out dead
05:12in the middle of the rest of the wedding,
05:15then what?
05:16You're still ruining the day.
05:18I want me to put it that way.
05:20I mean...
05:20Oh, okay.
05:24Apparently, he could have had a stroke.
05:25He could have had a heart attack.
05:26He could have passed away.
05:28If he would just listen.
05:30Just listen.
05:32And then order the plate of catfish to go.
05:35To where?
05:36When he was going to the hospital.
05:38I was hungry.
05:39Remember I told you I wasn't eating?
05:40Order catfish to go.
05:44Okay.
05:46One of the things about
05:47Von's heart issues being scary
05:49is it's almost like he's so nervous
05:52that he is...
05:55Stupid is the wrong word.
05:56I'm not calling you stupid, babe.
05:58But you're just not operating
06:01the way you should
06:02out of fear.
06:05All right.
06:06So give me the update
06:07since the hospital visits.
06:09On top of congestive heart failure,
06:14I had the beginning stages of...
06:16Early onset kidney disease.
06:20Yeah, that.
06:21Kidney failure.
06:24Your gut, your heart,
06:26and your kidneys are the three biggest things
06:27that you have to make sure
06:28that you maintain.
06:30Yes.
06:30If those things don't function,
06:31nothing else will.
06:32Your blood flow won't go to your wanker
06:34if your heart's not pumping.
06:36Hmm.
06:37Yeah.
06:38It's a muscle.
06:40So we're gonna make different choices.
06:42Yeah.
06:43It's gonna be all about you.
06:47Yeah.
06:48I made a mistake,
06:51and it will never happen again.
06:53I'm certain of that.
06:54Well, as long as we clear,
06:56I'm good.
07:00Since the doctors first discovered
07:02Von's congestive heart failure,
07:04they gave him 90 days
07:05to make improvements
07:06with medicines and diet,
07:08or he'll need to have surgery.
07:10And the idea of Von getting heart surgery
07:13of any kind is terrifying.
07:16So I just hope he'll listen
07:17to the doctor's orders going forward
07:19and stay healthy.
07:20We still have so much more life to live,
07:23and I'm not ready
07:24to live it without him.
07:28All right, let's get out of here,
07:29because I have to go back.
07:31I'm going away on a sister trip.
07:32I hope you have a great week.
07:34Yes, ma'am.
07:35And you're gonna take this medication?
07:37Yes.
07:37I like the red.
07:38It's pretty.
07:40It's like Kool-Aid.
07:41Get out.
07:44Don't come back.
07:53Even with everything going on with Von,
08:09I agreed to go on the trip to Malibu
08:12in an effort to rebuild,
08:14because our sisterhood
08:16is bigger than the circumstance.
08:17The big issues,
08:20they're gonna come regardless.
08:21I mean, whether it's in the middle of fun
08:23or not in the middle of fun.
08:24But if you go in with bad intention,
08:26that's what you're gonna walk out with.
08:27Okay, this view is beautiful,
08:29but it's getting a little chilly out here.
08:31And I'm hungry.
08:31And I'm hungry.
08:32Let's go eat.
08:33So I'm gonna go in with good intention,
08:35hoping that we will reach
08:37at least a place
08:38where we're being
08:39in a conversation.
08:40Okay, here we go.
08:49Tony is moving.
08:52Let's go ahead and have the lamp
08:53come in and do all final looks,
08:55make sure everybody feels good.
08:58All right, guys,
08:58let's go ahead and speed on camera.
08:59Let's get ready to go.
09:02And how's she doing?
09:05Hey, divas.
09:06Hey, Luke.
09:08Hey, Treve.
09:08Hey, Tane.
09:10Hi, Tony, Michelle.
09:12Hey, hey.
09:13Why are you coming in
09:13with your wallet, girl?
09:14Ain't nobody stealing.
09:15I just got here.
09:16What's popping?
09:17Hey, nothing.
09:18What are you doing?
09:19You got your hair cut fresh.
09:20I did.
09:21It looks good.
09:21How you know?
09:22You can tell?
09:22It's some very Tony Braxton.
09:23Very.
09:24Tamar reached out to me
09:26about doing a sister's retreat.
09:27And I agreed to it
09:29because I haven't been happy
09:30with myself and my sister
09:31since the big fight
09:33at the restaurant.
09:34My regret at the restaurant
09:36was I lost my cool.
09:37And you should never
09:39lose your cool.
09:40It was not indigenous
09:41of who I am as a person.
09:43And I don't know
09:43how we got here.
09:46But I think it's important
09:47that we get past this.
09:49Yasa, tell me about the wedding.
09:52It was nice.
09:54So when is Tawana
09:55back from her honeymoon?
09:57I don't know.
09:58I didn't ask her.
09:59I didn't know.
10:00So you don't talk
10:00to Tawana now?
10:01I didn't say that.
10:02I said I don't know.
10:03So you don't know nothing.
10:04I don't.
10:05I honestly don't.
10:06She has not been very
10:07phone answering.
10:09She has not.
10:09She responded to my text
10:11two hours later.
10:12At all.
10:16She'll eventually
10:17come up for air.
10:18Mm.
10:20Yeah.
10:24I feel like we're
10:25missing somebody.
10:27Wait a minute.
10:27Hold on.
10:28We're having a special guest?
10:29We always have
10:30a special guest, Tony.
10:32Who's a special guest?
10:33Somebody you love.
10:34Somebody you comfortable with.
10:37Be right back.
10:39Wait.
10:40Just hold off.
10:41Pull yourself something.
10:42I don't know, but
10:43I'll be inviting stuff.
10:46Right?
10:48What's going on, Trine?
10:51She made it!
10:53No.
10:54No.
10:54Start to just
10:59soften the body.
11:01There's nothing there,
11:01Trine.
11:01We're not going to hell.
11:03I don't know what she
11:04praying.
11:05Why she over there
11:05doing gongs.
11:06We don't succumb to
11:07nothing.
11:11Trine, why do you
11:11think you're better than
11:12me?
11:12Why?
11:13What's your...
11:13No, why do you...
11:13Why is it that you
11:14mad at me?
11:15Did you put your
11:15hands on me?
11:16You put your hands
11:16on me?
11:16You put your hands
11:17on me.
11:17I didn't touch you.
11:18Did not.
11:18Whoa.
11:19You didn't touch me?
11:20Did not touch you.
11:20Whoa.
11:22We have it right here.
11:23She said she did not
11:24touch you.
11:24Did not touch you.
11:28I feel like we're
11:32missing somebody.
11:34Be right back.
11:35Wait.
11:36I don't know, but
11:37I'll be inviting
11:37stuff.
11:38Right?
11:39What's going on,
11:41Trine?
11:41She made it!
11:44Tawanda made it!
11:48What is wrong?
11:49Why is there food?
11:50There's nothing wrong
11:51with that.
11:52We're having dinner.
11:53Why is crackers in her
11:54mouth?
11:54Because she hungry.
11:55We're having dinner.
11:56Why is she a blow-up
11:57dog?
11:57Because she hungry.
11:59We can't.
12:00Put the oil in her
12:01mouth.
12:01We are all here.
12:02Why is she like a
12:03missionary?
12:04That ain't missionary.
12:05Because she's usually
12:05in the missionary
12:06position.
12:07It's a blow-up dog.
12:08No, that's not.
12:08That's Tawanda.
12:10There was a time in our
12:11sisterhood whenever we
12:12would go out and then
12:13no one had a date, we
12:14would have someone who
12:15was invisible.
12:16So to have a blow-up
12:17Tawanda was...
12:18It was pretty light-hearted.
12:20It was nice.
12:20It was funny.
12:21Tawanda, we are glad
12:30that you could join us
12:31after all.
12:34When did she...
12:34How'd she get here?
12:35She blew here.
12:37She got...
12:37There ain't nothing to get
12:39here.
12:40Tawanda would be
12:40offended by the outfit.
12:41Very.
12:42Well, then she should've
12:43been here.
12:43She can't be here, so...
12:44Boom.
12:45They're honeymooning.
12:45Tawanda just got married.
12:46I really wish Tawanda
12:48could've been here
12:49since the issues we need
12:50to work out are with
12:51all four of us.
12:52But of course, right now,
12:53the time for Tawanda and
12:54Sean to enjoy their
12:55literal honeymoon season,
12:57honeymoon phase.
12:57I get it.
12:58However, it feels so good
12:59to be laughing with
13:00Tamar and Trina.
13:01We're like natural
13:02comedians, and we used
13:04to laugh more than we
13:05used to fuss.
13:06Just missed all of this.
13:07That's good.
13:16You're eating a biscuit
13:17with a knife and fork?
13:19I'm gonna get my nails
13:20started.
13:22Girl, you was married
13:23to Birdman.
13:23You're doing a lot.
13:26Look.
13:30It's out in the open.
13:31No, we not.
13:33Why is it out in the open?
13:34I didn't spill the story.
13:37You don't even know
13:39if it's true.
13:39Yes.
13:40Is it true?
13:42I'm not comfortable
13:43talking about my...
13:44I'm sorry I couldn't
13:47even get it out.
13:48Yeah.
13:49Just gonna let it go.
13:50I'm not comfortable
13:50talking about my personal
13:51life.
13:52Tony's only gonna tell
13:53whatever Tony wants to
13:54tell.
13:55She doesn't feel
13:55comfortable talking
13:56about it right now.
13:57So with that being said,
13:58I don't think I feel
13:59comfortable talking
14:00about it right now.
14:04So what are we gonna
14:05do this weekend?
14:06I feel like we have
14:07been in this state
14:10of fighting
14:11for too long.
14:13And it's time
14:14for us to move
14:14to the next chapter.
14:18So how do we do that?
14:19We need to have
14:20a lot of hard conversations,
14:21real conversations,
14:24uncomfortable conversations.
14:26I think I'm
14:27the most uncomfortable
14:28I've ever been
14:29in our relationship
14:30and still yet
14:31I've shown up
14:31from Malibu.
14:32So I think
14:33with conviction
14:34can say I'm definitely
14:35ready for that.
14:36I'm already uncomfortable.
14:37And then what else
14:39we're gonna do?
14:40We're gonna do
14:40our sound bath.
14:41I've never had that before.
14:42That's amazing.
14:42It's nice.
14:43It's healing through sound
14:44and vibration.
14:55What?
14:56He moving out of the way.
14:57Oh, I didn't see that.
14:58You thought somebody
14:59was here moving?
14:59No, no, I'm just saying,
15:00wait, I didn't see him.
15:02It could have been
15:05an animal, anything.
15:06Uh-uh.
15:06Trina has anxiety.
15:08The hell to the...
15:09Yeah, everybody does.
15:10Yeah, and her anxiety,
15:12if anything is
15:13remotely triggering
15:15for her,
15:16it's giving...
15:17I don't receive
15:18that diagnosis
15:19or that analysis.
15:21I appreciate
15:21what you're trying to do.
15:22Trina, your anxiety
15:23is on a thousand.
15:24Trina, if your anxiety
15:25wasn't high,
15:25your blood pressure
15:25wouldn't be high.
15:26My blood pressure
15:27is high for certain
15:28other reasons in my life.
15:29Well, it's not something
15:32I wanted to divulge
15:33on television
15:34for the masses.
15:36I'm not trying
15:36to get you to divulge
15:37anything.
15:37You told me that
15:38you had hypertension
15:39because of stress.
15:40Pilot's high fire.
15:42We check his blood pressure
15:43and mine.
15:43You on medication, too?
15:44I am.
15:45On high blood pressure
15:46medication?
15:46Yes, I am.
15:47My stress levels
15:48are very high.
15:48Yeah.
15:49Yes, I said...
15:50That's all I said here, right?
15:51No, no, wait, wait.
15:52Wait, wait.
15:53No, I'm just saying
15:53that's all I said here, right?
15:54I didn't feel anything.
15:55I would like to know
15:56what just happened here
15:57because I just said...
15:57Nothing happened.
15:58I'm just telling you
15:58something I don't want
15:59to divulge.
16:00I'm like, I didn't divulge it.
16:01Wait, wait, wait.
16:01That didn't happen.
16:02She doesn't say it like that.
16:02That didn't happen.
16:03That didn't happen here.
16:03Sometimes I tell you
16:04just say, okay.
16:06Just say, okay.
16:06That's your way.
16:07That's not my way.
16:07Okay, my bad.
16:10Sometimes it's hard
16:11for people to say,
16:13okay, oh, I hear you.
16:15You want to have
16:15that back and forth
16:16to go and,
16:17ah, rah, rah,
16:18we're at the rah stage.
16:19Just say, okay.
16:20Okay.
16:21That doesn't mean
16:21you agree or disagree.
16:22It just means
16:23you're open to listening.
16:25So you'll talk to us
16:26about it off camera?
16:26Off camera.
16:27Okay.
16:29And I feel that
16:30the weekend is going
16:30to be harder
16:31than I even expected.
16:44My sister Trina
16:45is a Christian.
16:47Well, nothing about
16:47what we're doing today
16:48is religious.
16:49I'm very firm.
16:51I'm not going to hell.
16:52How do you help
16:55this person
16:56take me down?
16:57What accountability
16:58do you take
16:59for actually getting
17:00physical with your sisters?
17:03Tamar.
17:11All right, cell phone's off.
17:17All right, let's do it,
17:21y'all.
17:21Let's get everybody
17:22in place.
17:22Here we go.
17:26What's popping?
17:27Hey, everybody.
17:28Hey.
17:29How you doing?
17:30It's Tawanda.
17:31She's not here,
17:32but she's here
17:33with us in spirit
17:34and by blow-up.
17:36Make yourself comfortable.
17:39I took my shoes off.
17:40You may want to take
17:40your shoes off.
17:41I'm Dr. Sheena.
17:43Dr. Sheena?
17:43Yeah.
17:44And Chelsea.
17:45Chelsea.
17:45Chelsea.
17:47So I'm a psychologist
17:49and I focus on
17:51liberation work
17:52and embodiment work
17:53with Black people
17:54who are surviving trauma
17:56and I'm so excited
17:57to be here.
17:58Me too.
17:59I know all that.
18:01Yeah.
18:01All the people.
18:03Yeah, my name is Chelsea.
18:04I'm here to facilitate
18:05the sound bath.
18:07My passion is really
18:07in just facilitating
18:08space for people
18:10to really just drop
18:11into their bodies
18:11and regulate
18:13their nervous system.
18:14We promised
18:15our sister
18:16before she left us
18:19that we would
18:20continue on
18:21and do the best
18:23that we could do
18:23and be close
18:25and be sisters.
18:26And so far,
18:28we have not only
18:29failed her,
18:30but we have failed
18:31ourselves.
18:32And this is why
18:33you all are here
18:34to tap into
18:35our individual selves.
18:38Yes, beautiful.
18:41So I have to have
18:42a disclaimer real fast.
18:43Okay.
18:44My sister Trina,
18:45who I am
18:46very, very grateful
18:48that you are here today.
18:50She's never been
18:51to a sound bath.
18:52She is a bona fide Christian
18:55and she don't cross
18:56the line of...
18:56And I'm going to speak
18:57for myself for one second.
18:58Okay, I'm sorry.
18:58But my faith
19:01does not leave
19:02a lot of room
19:03for ambiguity.
19:04What's that?
19:08Abiguity?
19:10Ambiguity.
19:11What's that?
19:12So in essence,
19:15and I'm going to paraphrase it,
19:16I'm going to give you guys
19:17a chance,
19:17but I'm very firm.
19:18Mm-hmm.
19:20I did a little reading,
19:21I did a little research,
19:22and I wanted to go in
19:24being open
19:25because I didn't want
19:27to seem as if
19:28I was so completely guarded
19:30that I wasn't looking
19:31to move forward
19:32to something that could
19:33possibly heal
19:34the sisterhood,
19:35but I can't compromise
19:36how I feel spiritually
19:38trying to mend a fence.
19:40All right.
19:41Anything else to add, Chelsea?
19:43It's not the devil, Trina.
19:44We're not going to hell.
19:45I'm not going to hell.
19:46No, we're not.
19:47I can't speak for anybody else.
19:48I can only speak for me.
19:49Yeah, well,
19:50nothing about what
19:50we're doing today
19:51is religious.
19:54Our intentions here today
19:55are to support
19:56connection with sisterhood,
19:58and I also think
19:59the legacy of your sister.
20:02All right,
20:03so I invite you
20:04to choose a shape
20:05that feels right
20:07for the moment.
20:08You might decide
20:09you want to stay seated.
20:10You might decide
20:10you want to lay down
20:11on your backs.
20:12You want to try
20:13laying down, Trina?
20:14You want to see it?
20:15She's never seen it.
20:16Okay, now I'll see.
20:17I'm going to get my life,
20:20my entire...
20:21and checking in
20:22with your breath.
20:23Start to just soften
20:25the body.
20:28With each exhale,
20:30you're letting go.
20:35We start with
20:36the lower frequency sounds
20:38just to help us ground.
20:42See if you can listen
20:43to the sounds around you
20:45with as much detail
20:48as possible.
21:10I'm starting to bring
21:12some awareness
21:12back into your bodies.
21:15And then taking a moment
21:17to acknowledge each other,
21:20just making eye contact
21:21with each other
21:21for a moment.
21:23Seeing each other.
21:24Hey.
21:26Hey.
21:28Yes.
21:29You had your eyes
21:30open the whole time.
21:31Did you?
21:31You don't succumb to nothing.
21:34You want to be honest?
21:34Yeah.
21:35I tried to release myself
21:37and let myself go,
21:38but I don't know
21:39what she praying
21:40while she's over there
21:41doing gongs
21:41and stuff.
21:44You said the gong?
21:45Yeah.
21:46The gong show?
21:47And pouring rain
21:48and the wind chimes.
21:50You probably should have
21:50had like a five-minute
21:51conversation with her before.
21:53Probably.
21:53Just so you could have...
21:54I was not able
21:55to get into it.
21:56The whole time,
21:57I'm pleading the blood
21:59and I'm speaking
22:00in tongues in my head.
22:01That's not my thing.
22:02I don't do the crystals
22:03and the bongs
22:05and the gongs
22:06and the pouring over me.
22:09That's not for me.
22:11It was good, Chelsea.
22:13I appreciate it.
22:14All cameras rolling.
22:32Camera speed.
22:35Okay, and action trim.
22:38Hey, Ted.
22:39Hey, Stink.
22:39What's poppin'?
22:41You look cute.
22:41I like that outfit.
22:42Ella, where you going?
22:47I'm hanging with my sister.
22:48You going on a date?
22:49With my sister?
22:49When you came to the table
22:50with Toni Raxon.
22:52So far,
22:53the sister trip
22:54has been absolutely beautiful.
22:57Anytime I can see
22:59that glimpse
23:00of our sisterhood
23:02and our sistership,
23:03it makes me happy.
23:04I really like this house.
23:06Beach house, yes.
23:08Everyday living,
23:09can't do it.
23:09It's so far.
23:10I don't mind the far.
23:12Far out is not a problem for me
23:13because we all know
23:14that I live...
23:15In South Carolina.
23:17It's not.
23:17But it's about an hour and a half.
23:19And some change
23:20sometimes in traffic,
23:21yes, but I love
23:22living that far out.
23:23So you would drive
23:24an hour and a half
23:25every Sunday
23:25to come to my house?
23:27That's what I did.
23:27Every Sunday.
23:29You know,
23:30before Ashley coming
23:30on my podcast,
23:32we was fine.
23:33And I individually
23:35talked to everyone.
23:36I individually talked
23:37to my mother.
23:38I individually talked
23:39to Toni.
23:39I individually talked
23:40to Trina.
23:40Well, you know,
23:41y'all know I can't get
23:42Tawana on the phone
23:42and she really don't like me
23:43and she really don't talk
23:44to me,
23:44so we ain't gonna act
23:45like that.
23:45And Trina and I
23:47got together every Sunday
23:48to watch Sunday night football.
23:49And I had her
23:50and her neighborhood
23:50come over my house
23:51and they all ate.
23:53We drank beer
23:53and had a good old
23:54grand old Opry.
23:57We would cook together,
23:58drink together,
23:59we would sit and talk together,
24:00watch TV together,
24:01play games together.
24:02We were just being
24:03the family
24:04that I was accustomed
24:05to us having.
24:06I just wish
24:07we could go back
24:07to those days
24:08because it were
24:08really fun times.
24:11What changed?
24:12What stopped you?
24:13If we're being honest...
24:14I want to be honest.
24:15You said you didn't want
24:16anything to do
24:16with us anymore.
24:18You sent out
24:18a whole text message
24:19to me,
24:20to Wanda and Toni.
24:21You said that you don't
24:22want anything to do
24:22with the Braxons.
24:23You don't want your name
24:24coming out of our mouths.
24:25But don't you think
24:26that was after you all
24:27served me paperwork?
24:28I didn't serve you anything.
24:31You have displaced anger.
24:33But that is your lawyer.
24:34That is your personal lawyer.
24:35Because to me,
24:36that's a cop-out.
24:37That's not fair.
24:40To get a cease and desist
24:41letter from your family,
24:43that's up.
24:44People are downplaying it
24:45as if it's nothing.
24:48When it's everything to me.
24:50Because my cease and desist
24:52was to shut down my business.
24:54All I can stand by
24:54is my business.
24:55How I'm going to feed my child?
24:57If I knew someone
24:59who was trying to shut
25:00your business down
25:01or your business down,
25:02I would go for bad.
25:04For you both.
25:05So yes,
25:07I did lash out.
25:08And I was like,
25:11F y'all
25:11for not coming
25:12to my defense
25:13or not helping me.
25:14Because I didn't do
25:15anything to anybody.
25:17The important thing is
25:19that you put
25:20the anger
25:22where it belongs.
25:23With you all?
25:24No, ma'am, sir.
25:26Y'all attorney
25:26tried to take me out
25:28and take my business
25:29out of here.
25:30I did not hire him
25:31in that capacity.
25:32It's not about hiring him.
25:34It's your friend.
25:35You cannot hold
25:36anybody else accountable
25:38for someone else's actions.
25:40And I refuse
25:41to take accountability.
25:43I had nothing
25:44to do with that.
25:46If I didn't,
25:47I will say it
25:48all day long.
25:50I am not afraid
25:51of anything that I do
25:52or say
25:53because I stand behind
25:54all of my convictions.
25:55Period.
25:56I can't speak
25:57for anybody but Trina
25:58and Trina
25:59didn't do it.
26:03Joni, what do you
26:04have to say about this?
26:05Nothing.
26:06I don't understand it.
26:07Okay, so what is it
26:08that you need to understand?
26:09I feel like
26:10I'm tried and convicted
26:11for a crime
26:11that I didn't commit,
26:12didn't know anything about.
26:14And you didn't defend me.
26:15What am I going to defend?
26:17Your best friend.
26:18One of your best friends.
26:19Tell me,
26:19what am I supposed to defend?
26:21Joe,
26:22leave my sister alone.
26:24Okay, you want me
26:24to call the attorney
26:25to f***?
26:25No, your friends.
26:27No, no, no, no, no.
26:27Talk to him every day.
26:28But what does it
26:29have to do with it?
26:29A real question.
26:30Sure, absolutely.
26:31Were you the one
26:32who gave f*** the information?
26:35Um...
26:43Wanda, would you like
26:44some champagne?
26:46I bet you Wanda
26:46might feel some kind of way.
26:48Why would she feel
26:48a certain kind of way
26:49that we have a symbolization
26:50of her?
26:51To Wanda,
26:52what you think?
26:53Diff it out.
26:54It can't just be
26:54an argument
26:55or a disagreement
26:55and everybody's fine
26:56and this is not a war.
26:58So why did you
26:59get in between us?
26:59Because we are not
27:00supposed to do that
27:01as sisters.
27:02You better take that back.
27:03I'm not taking nothing back.
27:12Were you the one
27:13who gave f*** information?
27:15Did I give him a...
27:20Yes, I did.
27:21He asked me for the name
27:22of my attorney
27:22and I gave it to him.
27:23Why wouldn't I?
27:24Did you give him
27:25my address?
27:27I didn't.
27:28Did you give him
27:28my address?
27:29I had no idea
27:30you were being served.
27:31I want to apologize
27:32to you
27:33at the restaurant
27:34where I blamed everybody.
27:36Correct?
27:37And I asked specifically
27:38and nobody wanted to say
27:39and I have to tell you
27:41that I am sorry
27:43because I was angry with you
27:44because I'm like
27:45how she throw me like that?
27:48How do you help
27:49this person take me down?
27:51And I'm sorry.
27:54I'm grateful for the apology.
27:55I think as sisters,
27:56as people,
27:56you should apologize
27:57if you've done something wrong.
27:58I think that was big of her.
27:59I think it was mature
28:00and grown up.
28:01Just to say,
28:02I'm sorry.
28:02I accused you
28:04of something
28:04that you didn't do.
28:06I'm appreciative of it.
28:07As siblings,
28:09we are supposed
28:09to be here for each other.
28:11No one
28:12is showing up for me
28:14and that is something
28:15that I am willing
28:16to accept
28:17and take.
28:18What accountability
28:19do you take
28:21for actually getting
28:22physical with your sisters?
28:23Well,
28:24because you put your hands on me.
28:26That's not true.
28:27That's not...
28:28Wait, wait.
28:29First,
28:29I'll let you tell your truth
28:31because there's a difference
28:31between your truth
28:33and the truth.
28:34So tell me
28:34when I put my hands on you.
28:36So,
28:37would you like to have proof?
28:38Yes?
28:38Proof is great.
28:40Would you like to have proof?
28:40If you want to get proof,
28:41I'll watch.
28:42Okay, let's go have proof.
28:43We're going to have proof.
28:45Roll the tape
28:46because I did not hit Tamar
28:48and the world will see
28:49that I did not hit Tamar.
28:51I think it's important
28:52that we see ourselves.
28:54Have you already seen this?
28:56Tamar.
28:57Excuse me, Tamar.
28:58Tamar.
28:59Tamar.
29:00Have you already seen this?
29:01Get my mind off of it.
29:02Is that what we're doing?
29:04Because it was a lot.
29:05And then I wanted
29:06to spend some time with Brooke.
29:07Excuse me, OG.
29:08And Brooke had a good old time.
29:09Has Tamar already seen this?
29:11This footage has not been seen
29:12by Cassie.
29:13Everybody's watching it
29:14in real time.
29:14For the first time?
29:15For the first time.
29:15This is like 20 minutes.
29:17It's longer than that.
29:18Because that's why
29:18I want to have an answer to it.
29:20That's why I can't.
29:20It's so nasty.
29:21It's so rude.
29:22What's nasty and rude?
29:22You.
29:23What you're saying?
29:23You are nasty.
29:24No, what's nasty and rude
29:25is you're not answering
29:26someone when they ask you a question.
29:27I don't have to answer you.
29:28You're not answering me honestly.
29:30In your opinion.
29:31You're a liar, Trina.
29:32No, you're a liar.
29:33Mentirosa.
29:34Mentirosa.
29:34One day you tell me something
29:35in a man on otra cosa.
29:36And back at you.
29:37Oh, you don't know
29:38what it means.
29:39It doesn't matter.
29:39Trina, why do you think
29:40you're better than me?
29:41What?
29:41No, why do you think?
29:42What is it that you mad at?
29:43Why do you think that, Tamar?
29:44Let's get to this.
29:45Why do you dislike me
29:48so much on camera?
29:49Why do you feel like
29:50anybody's upset with you?
29:50But you just said
29:51Mentirosa.
29:52I know that bitch.
29:53No, that is not.
29:55I did not call you
29:55out of your name.
29:56What is the problem?
29:57What is the issue
29:58that you have?
29:58You called me a liar
29:59so I called you one bad.
30:00Trina, what is the issue
30:01that you have with me?
30:02Put it on the table.
30:03Be an adult.
30:04You're 50.
30:05And a half.
30:05Put it on the table.
30:08Because you put your hands
30:09on me.
30:09You put your hands on me.
30:10You put your hands on me
30:11and you did not say
30:12I'm sorry not one time.
30:13And you didn't get you out.
30:14I didn't touch you.
30:15You didn't touch me.
30:16Did not.
30:17Bro, you didn't touch me.
30:18Well, let's look
30:18at the footage.
30:19You didn't touch me.
30:19Let's look at the footage.
30:20Let's look at the footage.
30:20Let's look at the footage.
30:21Let us.
30:22But we have it right here.
30:23Did you not touch me?
30:24Did not touch you.
30:25Okay.
30:25We have it right here.
30:26She said she did not touch me.
30:27Did not touch you.
30:28Did not pass any licks on you.
30:30Fast forward.
30:30You're going to owe everybody
30:35at this table an apology.
30:36And you're all going to owe me one too.
30:37Since this hoe over here
30:38talking about that.
30:39No.
30:40Get all this go there.
30:42You're there.
30:43Don't you?
30:44Don't you?
30:44Don't you?
30:45Don't you?
30:45Don't you?
30:45Don't you?
30:45Don't you?
30:46Don't you?
30:46Don't you?
30:47I did not.
30:47Oh, wait.
30:48First of all, you are a superstar.
30:49I am.
30:50My hands are on Tony.
30:51No, and me.
30:52No, I'm moving.
30:53I have not moved you out the way.
30:55No, I, no, Tamar.
30:56You have a false,
30:57you're having a false sense of reality.
30:58I didn't move you out the way, Tamar.
30:59I didn't touch you.
31:00I didn't touch you.
31:02I don't see,
31:02I see people pushing Tamar out the way.
31:04I don't see fighting.
31:05I didn't say fighting.
31:06I say she put her hands on me.
31:07She said she didn't touch you.
31:08I was separating you and Tony
31:10from, because you were in Tony's face.
31:12There wasn't nobody laying no hands on each other.
31:14We would never do that.
31:15Our mother taught us better than that.
31:17The back of my hand
31:18grazed her shirt
31:19and trying to separate she and Tony
31:21is not passing a lick.
31:24Y'all know that.
31:25I know that.
31:25We know that.
31:26Ray Charles can see that
31:27and so can Stevie Wonder.
31:28I did not hit my sister.
31:31My hair was pulled.
31:33I was kicked.
31:34Take accountability
31:36for your words,
31:38your actions,
31:39and your deeds.
31:40Period.
31:42I don't know why
31:42the fight's got to be to the death.
31:44It can't just be an argument
31:45or a disagreement.
31:45Everybody's fine.
31:46And this is not a war.
31:48That's the part I don't get.
31:50Why?
31:51I got, oh, okay.
31:52I got something.
31:52Okay, good.
31:53Because no one ever says,
31:56you know what, Trina, you're wrong.
31:58You know what, Tawanda, you're wrong.
32:00You know what, Tony, you're wrong.
32:02It's always Tamar.
32:04That becomes very taxing
32:06when it is a group by one.
32:11There's things that you've been wrong at.
32:13Absolutely.
32:14About no one calls you on.
32:15That's not true.
32:16Whoa!
32:17Let me finish!
32:19I feel that you put your hands on me
32:22whether that was your intent or not.
32:26And if you're telling me
32:27that that was not your intent,
32:30I have to accept that.
32:32Outside of what I feel
32:34and what I believed in that moment.
32:36In that moment,
32:38I felt attacked.
32:40I felt like I couldn't get a word in edgewise.
32:42In that moment,
32:44my loyalty,
32:46everything that
32:48our sisterhood stood on
32:51was being challenged.
32:54And it wasn't a conversation.
32:56It was an attack.
32:57So, Trina,
33:00the last thing I want to do
33:02is put my hands on you
33:04because I love you.
33:06Me putting my hands on you
33:08was
33:08probably one of the things
33:11I regret the most.
33:13There is no excuse from that,
33:15even if you put your hands on me.
33:16but I don't receive that
33:20because I didn't.
33:24I understand that
33:37the sisters had a retreat trip.
33:39Tawanda has nothing to say.
33:41I'm Belina.
33:42Tawanda, what you think?
33:45What I will not allow to happen
33:47is that you create a narrative
33:48that I put my hands on you.
33:50You said I shouldn't have gotten her face.
33:51And I got in between
33:52my sisters.
33:54Where do we go from here?
34:03Me putting my hands on you
34:04was probably one of the things
34:06I regret the most.
34:08There is no excuse from that,
34:10even if you put your hands on me.
34:12But I don't receive that
34:13because I didn't.
34:15And what I will not allow to happen
34:17is that you tell a story
34:19or create a narrative
34:20that I put my hands on you
34:22and I did it
34:23when it was shown here
34:24and you stopped it
34:25wherever you wanted to stop it.
34:26No, I didn't stop it.
34:26We can play it.
34:27I think it's it.
34:28It's still my interpretation.
34:29It's not going to change.
34:30You can play it a hundred times.
34:32No, but my interpretation.
34:33If we do play it a hundred times.
34:35If you do not mean
34:37to put your hands on me,
34:38you pulled my hair
34:39and kicked me out you.
34:41And did.
34:42And that was the...
34:42And that was wrong.
34:45I didn't retaliate.
34:45You should have.
34:47You should have.
34:49Absolutely not.
34:50That's not what sisters do.
34:51Well, in my opinion,
34:53sisters don't get in between sisters
34:55as if me and Tony
34:56has never gotten
34:57into a physical altercation
34:57in her life.
34:57Then you shouldn't have
34:58been in her face like that.
34:59She got in my face.
34:59We got in each other's face.
35:01Well, you should have been in hers.
35:02But you didn't say that.
35:03You said I should have
35:04gotten in her face.
35:05And I'm saying it again.
35:06Which is what I'm trying to say.
35:08But what did you hear me say afterwards?
35:10Did you hear me say that afterwards?
35:12No, after she said it.
35:15I know Trina not on my side.
35:16Come on.
35:17It's obvious.
35:17Let's read the room.
35:18I am not making this up.
35:21Tony stood up.
35:23I mean, I guess the bird
35:24is rubbing off on her.
35:26She stood up like gang, gang.
35:28I got up like gang, gang.
35:30Trina got to pushing.
35:32Well, she didn't push Tony.
35:33She pushed me back.
35:35And everybody know
35:36when you acting gang, gang,
35:38you can't put your hands
35:39on somebody.
35:40So when she pushed me,
35:41I took that as a lick.
35:43And I'm standing by that.
35:44So why did you get in between us?
35:45Because we are not supposed
35:47to do that as sisters.
35:48We are better than that.
35:49She stood up first.
35:50We are above that.
35:50I stood up second.
35:51We are sisters.
35:52She stood up first.
35:53I stood up second.
35:54And I got in between
35:55my sisters.
35:57You better take that back.
35:58I'm not taking nothing back.
36:00You take it back
36:01that you put your hands on me.
36:02You take that back.
36:03I take it back.
36:06Now what?
36:07I hate that it got physical.
36:25Like my parents didn't play that.
36:26This is the first time
36:27in my life
36:28that I've ever seen
36:29my sisters get physical.
36:31This is boring for me.
36:33But I love that they're talking
36:36and recognizing
36:37their contribution
36:38to how we got there.
36:39I just never get that angry.
36:41But I recognize that
36:42it's our phase.
36:44And it's going to get better.
36:46I'm going to keep saying that
36:46because I got to say it
36:47so it can happen.
36:48Words are powerful.
36:50For me,
36:51the bigger picture
36:53is where do we go from here?
36:56I realize that
37:03there are some relationships
37:05that
37:06will just not be resolved.
37:11And
37:12I have to be okay with that
37:14until
37:16that time
37:18and that place comes.
37:22But what I don't want
37:23is
37:24any more of that.
37:27Okay.
37:28I wish
37:29we can just
37:30have a couple of conversations
37:31and everything
37:32is going to be
37:34where it used to be.
37:35And that's not
37:36where we are just yet.
37:37Nothing is healed overnight.
37:39But
37:39tomorrow's another day.
37:52Chef,
37:53can I have a little
37:53champagne name
37:54just like Trina?
37:55Can you get some berries
37:55like Trina?
37:56That's what someone
37:57to bury like Trina.
37:58Me too.
37:59And this is my last mask.
38:00Oh, that's enough.
38:01I don't want it
38:02to ruin my bed.
38:02Oh.
38:05That's the water.
38:06The chicken is chickening.
38:16It's all good, Chef.
38:31You did that.
38:31Ain't you glad we changed the menu?
38:33Won't he do it?
38:33What was the menu prior to you?
38:35Boozy
38:35Tony Braxton food
38:37that nobody want to eat.
38:38She had us eating seafood
38:39that one time for her birthday.
38:41Nobody want that.
38:41We want black people food.
38:43We want the house
38:44smell like chicken
38:45like it's supposed to.
38:46She said,
38:46ooh,
38:46we're going to start
38:47with a foam,
38:48a moose,
38:48boosh.
38:49I'm like,
38:49no,
38:49nobody wants that.
38:51Who wants to eat
38:51foam?
38:52Foam.
38:53Flavored?
38:54Foam.
38:54Foam.
38:56Hey, Trina.
38:57Hey, love.
38:57Hey, Ty.
38:58Hey, Amber.
39:00She made all your favorites.
39:02Yeah.
39:04And the green juice
39:05is really good.
39:06I can't see for pickles.
39:07Let me see everything.
39:09Okay, Chef,
39:09can I have everything?
39:11Oh.
39:11She wanted me to be fancy pants.
39:14Wanda,
39:14would you like some champagne?
39:18What does she have
39:19in her mouth now?
39:19Hopefully not.
39:20Girl,
39:21twisted pretzels.
39:22A little pretzel.
39:22I bet your Wanda
39:23might feel some kind of way.
39:24Why would she feel
39:25a certain kind of way
39:25that we have a symbolization
39:26of her mouth open?
39:28Well,
39:28that's the best I could do.
39:30Trina got on Tracy.
39:32We are all here.
39:33Trina got on who?
39:35Oh, yeah.
39:37Yeah,
39:38it's great.
39:40I'm definitely happy
39:41that I decided
39:42to go on this sister retreat.
39:43No matter what fights ensue,
39:46no matter what arguments ensue,
39:47we're always going to have
39:49our sisterhood,
39:50forever.
39:51Hello.
39:52Mwah, mwah, mwah.
39:53Isn't family great?
39:55I love you
39:55on purpose.
39:57Mind you,
39:59it might take a little time
40:00to heal.
40:02But at the end of the day,
40:03your sisters are
40:04your first friends.
40:07I don't even have
40:08a drink yet.
40:09They're the first people
40:10you tell your secrets to.
40:11Don't have no drugs.
40:14And that is something
40:16that I'm always
40:17going to strive to keep
40:19for the rest of my life.
40:21How big are your food?
40:22Aren't they great?
40:24They are good.
40:25Look.
40:25Look how pretty they are.
40:26Don't, I don't want
40:27to see your booze.
40:28Oh, it's the best gift
40:29I've ever given to myself.
40:31Things not only
40:32going to get better,
40:33they are getting better.
40:35You know what I mean?
40:36And we're going up
40:37and up and up and up and up.
40:38We have so many amazing memories.
40:42Yes.
40:43So many fun times.
40:45At the end of the day,
40:46this is me showing up
40:47for my family.
40:48I'm so grateful
40:49that you're here.
40:51I would like to get
40:52to the other side
40:54and start winning
40:55with my sisters.
40:57What's new, pussycats?
40:59I cooked for six hours
41:01because mommy's oven
41:02is so slow.
41:04You're going to have sickness.
41:06You're going to have
41:07ups and downs.
41:09It's just what you call life.
41:12And it's what you do with it
41:14that matters.
41:16Hey, beautiful.
41:17Hey, daddy.
41:18Get off the phone.
41:20It's sister time.
41:21I'm always working on
41:22healing the sisterhood.
41:23I think it is
41:24an emotional roller coaster,
41:25but I'm just optimistic
41:27that it's going to get better.
41:29Little baby steps.
41:30Tawanda, what you think?
41:32Tawanda has nothing to say.
41:34So I understand
41:35that the sisters
41:37had a retreat trip.
41:39I was not in attendance.
41:42I'm a newlywed.
41:43Hello?
41:44This new season
41:46was giving us
41:47a new exhale
41:49of life.
41:52We're just still
41:53going to push through.
41:55with grace.
41:57We can stand alone
41:58or we can stand together
42:02Amen.
42:03Amen.
42:04If there is a storm
42:05we'll get through the weather
42:08Listen, I'm in
42:10my non-offensive era.
42:12Does that mean that you
42:13won't offend anybody
42:15or you won't get offended?
42:17Both.
42:18Amen.
42:19That's a good place to be.
42:20Salud.
42:21Salud.
42:23To a non-offensive era.
42:24To a non-offensive era.
42:26Clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank.
42:29We're so excited.
42:29We're family and sisters.
42:31Exactly.
42:31And let's always be intentional
42:33about who we are as sisters.
42:35Even when it hurts.
42:36Yes.
42:38Let go.
42:39Okay.
42:40Y'all, that's the best fried chicken
42:41I haven't had in a long time.
42:42It's really good.
42:43You really take it to Wanda?
42:44I'll take it.
42:46Don't even say anything.
42:47Let's let her do it.
42:47We're better together.
42:51We're better together.
42:52We're better together.
42:53We're better together.
42:53We're better together.
42:53We're better together.
42:53We're better together.
42:53We're better together.
42:54We're better together.
42:55We're better together.
42:55We're better together.
42:56We're better together.
42:56We're better together.
42:57We're better together.
42:57We're better together.
42:58We're better together.
42:58We're better together.
42:59We're better together.
42:59We're better together.
43:00We're better together.
43:01We're better together.
43:01We're better together.
43:02We're better together.
43:03We're better together.
43:03We're better together.
43:04We're better together.
43:05We're better together.
43:06We're better together.
43:07We're better together.
43:08We're better together.
43:09We're better together.
43:10We're better together.
43:11We're better together.
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