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00:00Family will be in each other's lives for the rest of our lives.
00:04You guys are sisters, and we're supposed to be all coming together as a family.
00:09I'm not the worst on the planet, because I always come back for them.
00:13It doesn't have to be like this.
00:17Tamar announced that she would be interviewing our niece Ashley on Tamar's podcast.
00:21Y'all tried to shut down my entire business.
00:24Y'all, don't say y'all.
00:24Sending a cease and desist.
00:27Nobody wanted to come to my defense.
00:29So you're going to sit there and say, Toni Braxton?
00:31Don't care about you, and Toni Braxton's here.
00:33Toni Braxton ain't never happy.
00:34You're back?
00:35We do not get the lead.
00:37Oh, bitch.
00:38Don't you.
00:39Don't you.
00:40Don't you.
00:40Don't you.
00:41Don't you.
00:41Don't you.
00:42Don't you.
00:42Don't you.
00:43Don't you.
00:43Don't you.
00:44I didn't touch you.
00:44I didn't touch you.
00:44I didn't help y'all.
00:45Don't you.
00:45Don't you.
00:46Don't you.
00:46Hands on me, bitch.
00:47So I did talk to Tommy.
00:48She and Trina are on board to come to the sister retreat.
00:52And just like you said, Tawanda's not coming.
00:54You've been present, but you haven't been really present.
00:58He has congestive heart failure.
01:01Why did you want me to leave the room when the doctor was talking to you?
01:04I asked the doctor if I was going to die.
01:07I now pronounce you husband and wife.
01:13I have points.
01:15His husband's not doing well.
01:17His heart's bothering him, so Trina has to go right now.
01:19Where's Trina?
01:22Where's Trina?
01:23I can't stand the thought of Tawanda's wedding day being ruined.
01:35I have to take Vaughn to the hospital.
01:37Is he all right?
01:38They called this morning.
01:40And they need to go to the emergency right now.
01:41Like right now he had to go.
01:43Wow.
01:43So that's where they went.
01:44Got it.
01:46You could have told me that earlier.
01:47I wouldn't have been asking for her all night.
01:50Anything dealing with the heart is serious.
01:52So I'm extremely concerned.
01:55I really wish that somebody would have told me sooner.
02:00I'm just shocked about that.
02:02I understand.
02:03She got to take her husband.
02:04I got a new husband.
02:05I would have left with my husband too.
02:08About an hour and a half ago they left.
02:09Is it his heart stuff?
02:11His blood work?
02:12Terrible.
02:13Everything is not good.
02:13Dr. Blake told Trina to take him right now.
02:15Like why is he here?
02:16I probably should have told her sooner.
02:20I won't feel better about this whole situation until I actually hear back from Trina and know
02:23that Vaughn is okay.
02:25But I am relieved that Tawanda finally knows and was able to enjoy most of her entire wedding
02:30day without carrying the stress of the whole Vaughn situation.
02:34I stayed the whole time.
02:36I know.
02:36I'm not sure what Tom said.
02:37I stayed the whole time.
02:38I can't believe Tom stayed.
02:39Although I was sad, I was happy that, you know, they got to the hospital and everything
02:48is going to be checked up on Vaughn because that's what matters.
02:50I don't want to dwell on anything that was negative leading up to me walking down the
02:55hall with Sean because, I mean, it was so beautiful I want to do it again.
02:59Our family is just like any other family.
03:04We have a lot of love and then we still have some unresolved situations that we need to
03:08work through.
03:09But I feel like I'm right where I'm supposed to be.
03:13We have a lot of love and then we're going to go to the hospital and then we're going to
03:43go to the hospital.
03:44Good, good, good.
03:45Shut the door.
03:46Have a seat.
03:48The last 48 hours have been a complete whirlwind.
03:53Vaughn was finally discharged from the hospital last night and today we have to do a follow
03:57up with Dr. Brown.
03:59That's his primary doctor and she's also a very good friend of the family.
04:06So, I told you to go to the hospital at 7 o'clock in the morning because I received
04:13a phone call from my lab that you had a critical potassium level of 7.
04:23Yes.
04:24Your potassium should never be that high.
04:27And when I get something critical, it's not a suggestion.
04:33Then I seen you after the actual ceremony.
04:36And what did you do?
04:39You went and talked to another provider there.
04:42It took this doctor to reiterate what I already said for you to finally make the exit.
04:50It's never a suggestion.
04:51But you got to take into account the reason why I didn't want to go to the hospital.
04:55No, I cannot.
04:56Okay.
04:57It's called dead.
04:58It's called dead.
05:05Let's be real.
05:05If I'd ended up in the hospital, she wouldn't have gone to the wedding.
05:08And I didn't want to mess the day up, you know.
05:10If you were to fall out dead in the middle of the rest of the wedding, then what?
05:16You're still ruining the day.
05:18When we put it that way.
05:20I mean.
05:20Oh, okay.
05:24Apparently, he could have had a stroke.
05:25He could have had a heart attack.
05:26He could have passed away.
05:28If he would just listen.
05:31Just listen.
05:32And then order a plate of catfish to go.
05:35To where?
05:36When he was going to the hospital.
05:38I was hungry.
05:39Right catfish.
05:39I remember I told you I wasn't eating.
05:40Order catfish to go.
05:44Okay.
05:44One of the things about Von's heart issues being scary is it's almost like he's so nervous
05:52that he is, stupid is the wrong word, I'm not calling you stupid, babe, but you're just
06:00not operating the way you should out of fear.
06:05All right.
06:06So give me the update since the hospital visits.
06:09On top of congestive heart failure, I had the beginning stages of early onset kidney disease.
06:20Yeah, that.
06:21Kidney failure.
06:24Your gut, your heart, and your kidneys are the three biggest things that you have to make
06:28sure that you maintain.
06:30Yes.
06:30If those things don't function, nothing else will.
06:32Your blood flow won't go to your wanker if your heart's not pumping.
06:37Yeah.
06:38It's a muscle.
06:39So we're going to make different choices.
06:42Yeah.
06:43It's going to be all about you.
06:47Yeah.
06:49I made a mistake and it will never happen again.
06:53I'm certain of that.
06:54Well, as long as we clear, I'm good.
07:00Since the doctors first discovered Von's congestive heart failure, they gave him 90 days to make
07:06improvements with medicines and diet or he'll need to have surgery.
07:10And the idea of Von getting heart surgery of any kind is terrifying.
07:16So I just hope he'll listen to the doctor's orders going forward and stay healthy.
07:20We still have so much more life to live and I'm not ready to live it without him.
07:28All right.
07:28Let's get out of here because I have to go back.
07:31I'm going away on this trip.
07:32I hope you have a great week.
07:34Yes, ma'am.
07:35And we're going to take this medication?
07:37Yes.
07:37I like the red.
07:38It's pretty.
07:40It's like Kool-Aid.
07:41Get out.
07:44Don't come back.
07:44Even with everything going on with Von, I agreed to go on the trip to Malibu in an effort
08:12to rebuild because our sisterhood is bigger than the circumstance.
08:18The big issues, they're going to come regardless.
08:21I mean, whether it's in the middle of fun or not in the middle of fun.
08:24But if you go in with bad intention, that's what you're going to walk out with.
08:27Okay, this view is beautiful, but it's getting a little chilly out here.
08:31And I'm hungry.
08:32And I'm hungry.
08:32Let's go eat.
08:33So I'm going to go in with good intention, hoping that we will reach at least a place
08:38where we're being in a conversation.
08:42Okay, here we go.
08:49Tony is moving.
08:52Let's go ahead and let the lamp come in and do all final looks.
08:55Make sure everybody feels good.
08:58All right, guys, let's go ahead and speed on camera.
08:59Let's get ready to go.
09:02And that's you, Tony.
09:05Hey, divas.
09:06I love you.
09:08Hey, Tree.
09:09Hey, Tay.
09:10Hi, Tony.
09:11Hey, Michelle.
09:12Hey, hey.
09:13Why are you coming in with your wallet, girl?
09:14Ain't nobody stealing.
09:15I just got here.
09:16What's popping?
09:17Hanna.
09:18What are you doing?
09:19You got your hair cut fresh.
09:20I did.
09:21It looks good.
09:21How you know?
09:22You can tell?
09:22It's some very Tony Braxton.
09:23Very.
09:24Taybar reached out to me about doing a sister's retreat.
09:27And I agreed to it because I haven't been happy with myself and my sister since the big fight
09:33at the restaurant.
09:34My regret at the restaurant was I lost my cool.
09:38And you should never lose your cool.
09:40It was not indigenous of who I am as a person.
09:43And I don't know how we got here.
09:45But I think it's important that we get past this.
09:49Goss, tell me about the wedding.
09:52It was nice.
09:54So when is Tawana back from her honeymoon?
09:57I don't know.
09:58I didn't ask her.
09:59I didn't know.
10:00So you don't talk to Tawana now?
10:01I didn't say that.
10:02I said I don't know.
10:03So you don't know nothing.
10:04I don't.
10:05I honestly don't.
10:06She has not been very phone answering.
10:09She has not responded to my text two hours later.
10:12At all.
10:16She'll eventually come up for air.
10:20I feel like we're missing somebody.
10:27Hold on.
10:28We're having a special guest?
10:29We always have a special guest, Tony.
10:32Who's a special guest?
10:33Somebody you love.
10:34Somebody you comfortable with.
10:37Be right back.
10:39We just hold off.
10:41Pull yourself something.
10:42I don't know, but I'll be inviting stuff.
10:46Right?
10:48What's going on, Trine?
10:50She made it.
10:53No.
10:58Start to just soften the body.
11:01There's nothing there, Trine.
11:02We're not going to hell.
11:03I don't know what she praying.
11:05Why she over there doing gongs.
11:06We don't succumb to nothing.
11:09Trine, why do you think you're better than me?
11:12Why?
11:13What's your?
11:13No, why do you think?
11:14Why is it that you mad at?
11:15Did you put your hands on me?
11:16You put your hands on me.
11:16You put your hands on me.
11:17I didn't touch you.
11:18Did not.
11:19Whoa, you didn't touch me?
11:20Did not touch you.
11:20Whoa!
11:22We have it right here.
11:23She said she did not touch.
11:24Did not touch you.
11:25I feel like we're missing somebody.
11:34Be right back.
11:35Wait.
11:36I don't know, but we'll be inviting stuff.
11:38Right?
11:39What's going on, Trine?
11:41She made it.
11:44Tawanda made it.
11:46What is wrong with her?
11:50Why is there food?
11:50There's nothing wrong with Tamar.
11:52We're having dinner.
11:53Why is crackers in her mouth?
11:54Because she hungry.
11:55We're having dinner.
11:56Why is she a blow-up doll?
11:57Because she hungry.
11:59We here.
12:00Put the hole in her mouth.
12:01We are all here.
12:02Why she looked like a missionary?
12:04That ain't missionary.
12:05Because she's using the missionary position.
12:07It's a blow-up doll.
12:08No, that's Tawanda.
12:10There was a time in our sisterhood whenever we would go out and no one had a date, we would
12:14have someone who was invisible.
12:16So to have a blow-up Tawanda was, it was pretty lighthearted.
12:20It was nice.
12:20It was funny.
12:28Tawanda, we are glad that you could join us after all.
12:34When did she, how'd she get here?
12:35She blew here.
12:37She got nothing to get here.
12:40Tawanda would be offended by the outfit.
12:41Very.
12:42Well, then she should have been here.
12:43She can't be here, so boom.
12:45But they're honeymooning.
12:45Tawanda just got married.
12:46All right.
12:47I really wish Tawanda could have been here since the issues we need to work out are with
12:51all four of us.
12:52But of course, right now, the time for Tawanda and Sean to enjoy their literal honeymoon season,
12:57honeymoon phase.
12:57I get it.
12:58However, it feels so good to be laughing with Tamar and Trina.
13:01We're like natural comedians, and we used to laugh more than we used to fuss.
13:07Just missed all of this.
13:09Mm-hmm.
13:13That's good.
13:16You're eating a biscuit with a knife and fork?
13:19I'm going to get my nails started.
13:22Girl, you was married to Birdman.
13:23You're doing a lot.
13:24Look.
13:30It's out in the open.
13:31No, we're not.
13:33Why?
13:33It's out in the open.
13:34I didn't spill the story.
13:38You don't even know if it's true.
13:39Yes.
13:40Is it true?
13:42I'm not comfortable talking about my...
13:44I'm sorry I couldn't even get it out.
13:48Yeah.
13:49Just going to let it go.
13:50I'm not comfortable talking about my personal life.
13:53Tony's only going to tell whatever Tony wants to tell.
13:55She doesn't feel comfortable talking about it right now.
13:57So with that being said, I don't think I feel comfortable talking about it right now.
14:04So what are we going to do this weekend?
14:06I feel like we have been in this state of fighting for too long.
14:13And it's time for us to move to the next chapter.
14:18So how do we do that?
14:19We need to have a lot of hard conversations, real conversations.
14:24Uncomfortable conversations.
14:26I think I'm the most uncomfortable I've ever been in our relationship.
14:30And still yet, I've shown up for Malibu.
14:32So I think, with conviction, can say I'm definitely ready for that.
14:36I'm already uncomfortable.
14:38And what else are we going to do?
14:40We're going to do our sound bath.
14:41I've never had that before.
14:42That's amazing.
14:43It's nice.
14:43It's healing through sound and vibration.
14:54Uh-uh.
14:55What?
14:56You're moving it out of the way.
14:57Oh, I didn't see that.
14:58You thought somebody was here moving to Wanda?
14:59No, no, I'm just saying, wait, I didn't see him.
15:02Um, it could have been an animal, anything.
15:06Uh-uh.
15:06Trina has anxiety.
15:08I don't know.
15:09Yeah, everybody does.
15:10Yeah, and her anxiety, if anything, is remotely triggering for her.
15:16Mm.
15:17I don't receive that diagnosis or that analysis.
15:21I appreciate what you're trying to do.
15:22Trina, your anxiety is on 1,000.
15:24Trina, if your anxiety wasn't high, your blood pressure wouldn't be high.
15:27My blood pressure is high for certain other reasons in my life.
15:29Why?
15:29What's those reasons?
15:31Well, uh, this is not something I wanted to divulge on television.
15:35For the masses.
15:36I'm not trying to get you to divulge anything.
15:38You told me that you had hypertension because of stress.
15:40How is Tafi?
15:42We check his blood pressure and mine.
15:43You on medication, too?
15:44I am.
15:45On high blood pressure medication?
15:46Yes, I am.
15:47My stress levels are very high.
15:48Yeah.
15:50Yes, I'd say that's all I said here, right?
15:51Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
15:53No, I'm just saying that's all I said here, right?
15:54I didn't spill anything.
15:55I would like to know what just happened here because I just said...
15:57Nothing happened.
15:58I'm just telling you something I don't want to divulge.
16:00I'm like, I didn't divulge it.
16:01Wait, wait, wait.
16:01That didn't happen.
16:02She doesn't say it like that.
16:02That didn't happen.
16:03That didn't happen here.
16:03Sometimes, Tate, just say, okay.
16:06Just say, okay.
16:06That's your way.
16:07That's not my way.
16:07Okay, my bad.
16:10Sometimes it's hard for people to say, okay.
16:13Oh, I hear you.
16:15You want to have that back and forth to go and, ah, rah, rah.
16:18We're at the rah stage.
16:19Just say, okay.
16:20Okay.
16:21That doesn't mean you agree or disagree.
16:22It just means you're open to listening.
16:25So you'll talk to us about it off camera?
16:27Off camera.
16:27Okay.
16:29And I feel that the weekend is going to be harder than I even expected.
16:37My sister, Trina, is a Christian.
16:47Well, nothing about what we're doing today is religious.
16:50I'm very firm.
16:51I'm not going to help.
16:54How do you help this person take me down?
16:58What accountability do you take for actually getting physical with your sisters?
17:03Tamar.
17:07All right.
17:16Cell phone's off.
17:20All right.
17:21Let's do it, y'all.
17:21Let's get everybody in place.
17:22Here we go.
17:26What's popping?
17:27Hey, everybody.
17:28Hey.
17:29How you doing?
17:30It's Tawanda.
17:31She's not here.
17:32She's here with us in spirit.
17:35And by blow up.
17:35Make yourself comfortable.
17:39I took my shoes off.
17:40You may want to take your shoes off.
17:42I'm Dr. Sheena.
17:43Dr. Sheena.
17:43Yeah.
17:44And Chelsea.
17:45Chelsea.
17:47So I'm a psychologist.
17:49And I focus on liberation work and embodiment work with black people who are surviving trauma.
17:56And I'm so excited to be here.
17:58Me too.
17:59I know all that.
18:01Yeah.
18:01All the people.
18:03Yeah.
18:03My name is Chelsea.
18:04I'm here to facilitate the sound bath.
18:07My passion is really in just facilitating space for people to really just drop into their bodies
18:11and regulate their nervous system.
18:14We promised our sister before she left us that we would continue on and do the best that
18:23we could do and be close and be sisters.
18:26And so far, we have not only failed her, but we have failed ourselves.
18:33And this is why you all are here to tap into our individual selves.
18:38Yes.
18:39Yes.
18:39Beautiful.
18:41So I have to have a disclaimer real fast.
18:43Okay.
18:44My sister, Trina, who I am very, very grateful that you are here today.
18:50She's never been to a sound bath.
18:52She is a bona fide Christian.
18:55And if she don't cross the line of...
18:57And I'm going to speak for myself for one second.
18:58Okay.
18:58I'm sorry.
18:59But my faith does not leave a lot of room for ambiguity.
19:04What's abogu...
19:05What's that?
19:08Abigu...
19:08Abiguity?
19:10Ambiguity.
19:11What's that?
19:12So in essence, and I'm going to paraphrase it.
19:16I'm going to give you guys a chance, but I'm very firm.
19:18Mm-hmm.
19:20I did a little reading.
19:21I did a little research.
19:23And I wanted to go in being open because I didn't want to seem as if I was so completely
19:29guarded that I wasn't looking to move forward to something that could possibly heal the sisterhood.
19:35But I can't compromise how I feel spiritually trying to mend a fence.
19:41All right.
19:41Anything else to add, Chelsea?
19:43It's not the devil, Trina.
19:44We're not going to hell.
19:45I'm not going to hell.
19:46No, we're not.
19:47I can't speak for anybody else.
19:48I can only speak for me.
19:49Yeah.
19:50Well, nothing about what we're doing today is religious.
19:54Our intentions here today are to support connection with sisterhood.
19:58And I also think the legacy of your sister.
20:02All right.
20:03So I invite you to choose a shape that feels right for the moment.
20:08You might decide you want to stay seated.
20:10You might decide you want to lay down on your backs.
20:13You want to try laying down, Trina?
20:14You want to see it?
20:15She's never seen it.
20:16Okay.
20:17Now I'll sit right.
20:19I'm going to get my life, my entire...
20:21And checking in with your breath.
20:23Start to just soften the body.
20:28With each exhale, you're letting go.
20:31We start with the lower frequency sounds, just to help us ground.
20:42See if you can listen to the sounds around you with as much detail as possible.
20:49I'm starting to bring some awareness back into your bodies.
21:14And then taking a moment to acknowledge each other.
21:20Just making eye contact with each other for a moment.
21:23Seeing each other.
21:24Hey.
21:26Hey.
21:28Yes.
21:29You had your eyes open the whole time.
21:31Yeah.
21:32You don't succumb to nothing.
21:34You want to be honest?
21:34Yeah.
21:35I tried to release myself and let myself go.
21:38But I don't know what she praying.
21:40Why she's over there doing gongs and stuff.
21:44You said the gong?
21:45Yeah.
21:46The gong show?
21:47And pouring rain and the wind chimes and stuff.
21:50You probably should have had like a five minute conversation with her before.
21:53Probably.
21:53Just so you could have...
21:54I was not able to get into it.
21:56The whole time I'm pleading the blood and I'm speaking in tongues in my head.
22:01That's not my thing.
22:02I don't do the crystals and the bongs and the gongs and the pouring over me.
22:09That's not for me.
22:11It was good, Chelsea.
22:13I appreciate it.
22:30Off camera's rolling.
22:31Down and feet.
22:34Okay, Ted.
22:36Action, Trent.
22:38Hey, Ted.
22:39Hey, Stink.
22:39What's poppin'?
22:41You look cute.
22:41I like that outfit.
22:44Ella?
22:45Where you going?
22:47I'm hanging with my sister.
22:48You going on a date?
22:49With my sister?
22:49You came to the table.
22:50It was Tony Rackson.
22:52So far, the sister trip has been absolutely beautiful.
22:57Anytime I can see that glimpse of our sisterhood and our sistership, it makes me happy.
23:05I really like this house.
23:06Beach house, yes.
23:08Everyday living can't do it.
23:09It's so far.
23:10I don't mind the far.
23:12Far is not a problem for me because we all know that I live in South Carolina.
23:17It's not.
23:17It's about an hour and a half.
23:19And some change sometimes in traffic, yes.
23:21I love living that far out.
23:23So you would drive an hour and a half every Sunday to come to my house?
23:27That's what I did every Sunday.
23:29You know, before Ashley coming on my podcast, we was fine.
23:33And I individually talked to everyone.
23:36I individually talked to my mother.
23:38I individually talked to Tony.
23:39I individually talked to Trina.
23:41Well, you know, y'all know I can't get Tawana on the phone and she really don't like me
23:43and she really don't talk to me, so we ain't gonna act like that.
23:46And Trina and I got together every Sunday to watch Sunday night football.
23:49And I had her and her neighborhood come over my house and they all ate.
23:53We drank beer and had a good old Grand Ole Opry.
23:55We would cook together, drink together.
23:59We would sit and talk together, watch TV together, play games together.
24:02We were just being the family that I was accustomed to us having.
24:06I just wish we could go back to those days because it were really fun times.
24:11What changed?
24:12What stopped you?
24:13If we're being honest...
24:14I want to be honest.
24:15You said you didn't want anything to do with us anymore.
24:18You sent out a whole text message to me, to Wanda and Tony.
24:21You said that you don't want anything to do with the Braxons.
24:23You don't want your name coming out of our mouths.
24:25But don't you think that was after you all served me paperwork?
24:28I didn't serve you anything.
24:31You have displaced anger.
24:33But that is your lawyer.
24:34That is your personal lawyer.
24:36Because to me, that's a cop-out.
24:38That's not fair.
24:38To get a cease and desist letter from your family, that's up.
24:44People are downplaying it as if it's nothing.
24:48When it's everything to me.
24:50Because my cease and desist was to shut down my business.
24:54All I can stand by is my business.
24:55I'm going to feed my child.
24:57If I knew someone who was trying to shut your business down or your business down,
25:02I would go for bad for you both.
25:05So, yes, I did lash out.
25:08And I was like, F y'all for not coming to my defense or not helping me.
25:15Because I didn't do anything to anybody.
25:17The important thing is that you put the anger where it belongs.
25:23With you all?
25:24No, ma'am, sir.
25:26Y'all attorney tried to take me out of, take my business out of here.
25:30I did not hire him in that capacity.
25:32It's not about hiring him.
25:34Thomas, I met you guys.
25:35You cannot hold anybody else accountable for someone else's actions.
25:40And I refuse to take accountability.
25:43I had nothing to do with that.
25:46If I didn't, I will say it all day long.
25:50I am not afraid of anything that I do or say.
25:53Because I stand behind all of my convictions.
25:55Period.
25:56I can't speak for anybody but Trina.
25:58And Trina didn't do it.
26:00Tony, Tony, what do you have to say about this?
26:05Nothing.
26:06I have, I don't understand it.
26:07Okay, so what is it that you need to understand?
26:09I feel like I'm tried and convicted for a crime that I didn't commit, didn't know anything about.
26:14And you didn't defend me.
26:15What am I going to defend?
26:17Your best friend.
26:18One of your best friends.
26:19Tell me what am I supposed to defend.
26:20Joe, leave my sister alone.
26:24Okay, you want me to call the attorney to f*** you?
26:25No, you're a friend.
26:27No, no, no, no, no.
26:27Talk to him every day.
26:28But what does it have to do with it?
26:30I have a real question.
26:30Sure, absolutely.
26:31Were you the one who gave f*** information?
26:34Um...
26:37Wanda, would you like some champagne?
26:46I bet you Wanda might feel some kind of way that...
26:48Why would she feel a certain kind of way that we have a symbolization of her?
26:51To Wanda, what you think?
26:53It can't just be an argument or a disagreement.
26:56Everybody's fine.
26:57And this is not a war.
26:58So why did you get in between us?
26:59Because we are not supposed to do that as sisters.
27:02You better take that back.
27:03I'm not taking nothing back.
27:12Were you the one who gave f*** information?
27:18Um...
27:18Did I give him a...
27:20Uh, yes, I did.
27:21He asked me for the name of my attorney, and I gave it to him.
27:24Why wouldn't I?
27:24Did you give him my address?
27:27I didn't.
27:28Did you give him my address?
27:29I had no idea you were being served.
27:31I want to apologize to you at the restaurant where I blamed everybody.
27:36Correct?
27:37Mm-hmm.
27:37And I asked specifically, and nobody wanted to say, and I have to tell you that I am sorry.
27:43Because I was angry with you, because I'm like, how'd she throw me like that?
27:48How do you help this person take me down?
27:51And I'm sorry.
27:52I'm grateful for the apology.
27:55I think as sisters, as people, you should apologize if you've done something wrong.
27:58I think that was big of her.
27:59I think it was mature and grown up.
28:01Just to say, I'm sorry.
28:03I accused you of something that you didn't do.
28:06I am appreciative of it.
28:07As siblings, we are supposed to be here for each other.
28:11No one is showing up for me.
28:14And that is something that I am willing to accept and take.
28:19What accountability do you take for actually getting physical with your sisters?
28:24Well, because you put your hands on me.
28:26That's not true.
28:28That's not...
28:28Wait, wait.
28:28First, I'll let you tell your truth, because there's a difference between your truth and the truth.
28:34So tell me when I put my hands on you.
28:36So, would you like to have proof?
28:38Yes?
28:39Proof is great.
28:39Proof.
28:40Would you like to have proof?
28:40If you want to get proof, I'll watch.
28:42Okay, let's go and have proof.
28:43We're going to have proof.
28:45Roll the tape.
28:47Because I did not hit Tamar, and the world will see that I did not hit Tamar.
28:51I think it's important that we see ourselves.
28:54Have you already seen this?
28:56Tamar.
28:57Excuse me, Tamar.
28:57Tamar.
29:00Tamar.
29:00Have you already seen this?
29:02Is that what we're doing?
29:05Excuse me, OG.
29:09Has Tamar already seen this?
29:11This footage has not been seen by Cass.
29:13Everybody's watching it in real time.
29:14For the first time?
29:15For the first time.
29:15This is like 20 minutes.
29:17It's longer than that.
29:18Because that's why I want to have an answer to it.
29:20That's why I can't.
29:20It's so nasty.
29:21It's so rude.
29:22What's nasty and rude?
29:22You are nasty.
29:24No, what's nasty and rude is you're not answering someone when they ask you a question.
29:27I don't have to answer you.
29:28You're not answering me honestly.
29:30In your opinion.
29:31You're a liar, Tamar.
29:32No, you're a liar.
29:33Mentirosa.
29:34Mentirosa.
29:35One day you tell me something, and then I know otra cosa.
29:36And back at you.
29:37Oh, you don't know what it means.
29:39It doesn't matter.
29:39Trina, why do you think you're better than me?
29:41What?
29:41No, why do you think?
29:42I didn't mean that you mad at.
29:43Why do you think that, Tamar?
29:44Let's get to this.
29:46Why do you dislike me so much on camera?
29:49Why do you feel like everybody's upset with you?
29:50But you just said mentirosa.
29:52I know that bitch.
29:53No, that is not.
29:55I did not call you out of your name.
29:56What is the problem?
29:57What is the issue that you have?
29:58I meant that you called me a liar so I called you one back.
30:00Trina, what is the issue that you have with me?
30:02Put it on the table.
30:03Be an adult.
30:04You're 50.
30:05And a half.
30:06Put it on the table.
30:07You put your hands on me.
30:09You put your hands on me.
30:10You put your hands on me.
30:11And you did not say I'm sorry not one time.
30:13I will touch you.
30:15You didn't touch me.
30:16Did not.
30:17Bro, you didn't touch me?
30:18Well, let's look at the footage.
30:19You didn't touch me?
30:19Let's look at the footage.
30:20Let's get this straight.
30:21Let us.
30:22But we have it right here.
30:23Did you not touch me?
30:24Did not touch you.
30:25Okay.
30:25We have it right here.
30:26She said she did not touch me.
30:27Did not touch you.
30:28Did not pass any licks on you.
30:30Fast forward.
30:31Can I have a dick?
30:31Well, $50,000?
30:32Great, boy.
30:34You're going to owe everybody at this table an apology.
30:36And y'all are going to owe me one, too.
30:37Since this hoe over here talking about that.
30:39No.
30:40Get on there.
30:40Go there.
30:42No, man.
30:42Don't you.
30:44Tony.
30:44Tony.
30:45Tony.
30:45Tony.
30:45I am not going to do this.
30:47I am not going to do this.
30:47I am not going to do this.
30:48First of all, you are a superstar.
30:50My hands are on Tony.
30:51No, and me.
30:52No, I'm moving.
30:53Has I moved you out the way?
30:55No.
30:55No, Tamar.
30:56You have a false sense of reality.
30:58I didn't move you out the way.
31:00I didn't touch you.
31:00I didn't touch you.
31:02I don't see.
31:03I see people pushing Tamar out the way.
31:04I don't see fighting.
31:05I didn't say fighting.
31:06I said she put her hands on me.
31:07She said she didn't touch you.
31:08I was separating you and Tony from, because you were in Tony's face.
31:12There wasn't nobody laying no hands on each other.
31:14We would never do that.
31:15Our mother taught us better than that.
31:17The back of my hand grazed her shirt and trying to separate she and Tony is not passing a lick.
31:24Y'all know that.
31:25I know that.
31:25We know that.
31:26Ray Charles can see that, and so can Stevie Wonder.
31:29I did not hit my sister.
31:31My hair was pulled.
31:33I was kicked.
31:34Take accountability for your words, your actions, and your deeds.
31:41Period.
31:42I don't know why the fight's got to be to the death.
31:44It can't just be an argument or a disagreement.
31:46Everybody's fine, and this is not a war.
31:48That's the part I don't get.
31:50Why?
31:51Oh, okay, I got something.
31:52Because no one ever says, you know what, Trina, you're wrong.
31:58You know what, Tawanda, you're wrong.
32:00You know what, Tony, you're wrong.
32:02It's always Tamar.
32:04That becomes very taxing when it is a group by one.
32:10There's things that you've been wrong at.
32:13Absolutely.
32:14No one calls you on it.
32:15That's not true.
32:16Yes, they do.
32:16Whoa!
32:17Let me finish!
32:18I feel that you put your hands on me, whether that was your intent or not.
32:25And if you're telling me that that was not your intent, I have to accept that outside of what I feel and what I believed in that moment.
32:36In that moment, I felt attacked.
32:40I felt like I couldn't get a word in edgewise.
32:42In that moment, my loyalty, everything that our sisterhood stood on was being challenged.
32:53And it wasn't a conversation.
32:56It was an attack.
32:58So, Trina, the last thing I want to do is put my hands on you.
33:04Because I love you.
33:06Me putting my hands on you was probably one of the things I regret the most.
33:13There is no excuse from that, even if you put your hands on me.
33:19But I don't receive that.
33:23Because I didn't.
33:34Hey, Amber.
33:35I understand that the sisters had a retreat trip.
33:40Tawanda has nothing to say.
33:41Amber Lena!
33:42Tawanda, what you think?
33:43What I will not allow to happen is that you create a narrative that I put my hands on you.
33:50You said I shouldn't have gotten in her face.
33:51And I got in between my sisters.
33:54Where do we go from here?
34:03Me putting my hands on you was probably one of the things I regret the most.
34:07There is no excuse from that, even if you put your hands on me.
34:12But I don't receive that, because I didn't.
34:15And what I will not allow to happen is that you tell a story or create a narrative that I put my hands on you,
34:22and I did it when it was shown here and you stopped it wherever you wanted to stop it.
34:26No, I didn't stop it.
34:26We can play it.
34:27I think it's it.
34:28It's still my interpretation.
34:29It's not going to change.
34:31You can play it a hundred times.
34:32But no, but my interpretation, if we do play it a hundred times, if you did not mean to put your hands on me,
34:38I did.
34:40And kicked me out of you.
34:41And did.
34:42And that was the, and that, and that was wrong.
34:45I didn't retaliate.
34:45You should have.
34:48You should have.
34:49Absolutely not.
34:50That's not what sisters do.
34:51Well, in Maya's opinion, sisters don't get in between sisters,
34:55as if me and Tony has never gotten into a physical altercation in my life.
34:57Then you shouldn't have been in her face like that.
34:59She got in my face.
35:00We got in each other's face.
35:01Well, you should have been in hers.
35:02But you didn't say that.
35:03You said I should have gotten in her face.
35:05And I'm saying it again.
35:06Which is what I'm trying to say.
35:08But what did you hear me say afterwards?
35:10Did you hear me say that afterwards?
35:12No, after she said it.
35:15I know Trina not on my side.
35:16Come on.
35:17It's obvious.
35:17Let's read the room.
35:19I am not making this up.
35:21Tony stood up.
35:23I mean, I guess the bird is rubbing off on her.
35:26She stood up like gang, gang.
35:28I got up like gang, gang.
35:30Trina got to pushing.
35:32Well, she didn't push Tony.
35:33She pushed me back.
35:35And everybody know when you acting gang, gang, you can't put your hands on somebody.
35:40So when she pushed me, I took that as a lick.
35:43And I'm standing by that.
35:45So why did you get in between us?
35:46Because we are not supposed to do that as sisters.
35:48We are better than that.
35:49She stood up first.
35:50I stood up second.
35:51We are sisters.
35:52She stood up first.
35:53I can stand up if I want to.
35:54And I got in between my sisters.
35:57You better take that back.
35:58I'm not taking nothing back.
36:00You take it back that you put your hands on me.
36:02You take that back.
36:03I take it back.
36:06Now what?
36:13I'll take it back.
36:14I hate that it got physical.
36:25Like my parents didn't play that.
36:26This is the first time in my life that I've ever seen my sisters get physical.
36:31This is boring for me.
36:33But I love that they're talking and recognizing their contribution to how we got there.
36:39I just never get that angry.
36:41But I recognize that it's our face.
36:44And it's going to get better.
36:46I'm going to keep saying that because I got to say it so it can happen.
36:48Words are powerful.
36:50For me, the bigger picture is where do we go from here?
36:56I realize that there are some relationships that will just not be resolved.
37:11And I have to be okay with that until that time and that place comes.
37:22But what I don't want is any more of that.
37:27Okay.
37:28I wish we can just have a couple of conversations and everything is going to be where it used to be.
37:35And that's not where we are just yet.
37:37Nothing is healed overnight.
37:39But tomorrow's another day.
37:52Chef, can I have a little champagne?
37:54Just like Trina.
37:55Can you get some berries like Trina?
37:56That's what someone's a berry like Trina.
37:58Me too.
37:59And this is my last class.
38:00Oh, that's enough.
38:01I don't want it to ruin my bed.
38:02Oh.
38:05That's the water.
38:06That's the water.
38:07That's the water.
38:08That's the water.
38:08That's the water.
38:08That's the water.
38:08That's the water.
38:09That's the water.
38:09The chicken is chickening.
38:29It's all good, Chef.
38:31You did that.
38:31Ain't you glad we changed the menu?
38:33Won't he do it?
38:33What was the menu prior to you, Chief?
38:35Boozy .
38:36Tony Braxton food that nobody want to eat.
38:38You should have just eating seafood that one time for her birthday.
38:41Nobody want that.
38:41We want black people food.
38:43We want the house smell like chicken like it's supposed to.
38:45She said, ooh, we're going to start with a foam, a moose, boose.
38:49I'm like, no, no, no, nobody wants that.
38:51Who wants to eat foam?
38:52Foam.
38:53Flavored foam.
38:54Foam.
38:56Hey, Trine.
38:57Hey, Lo.
38:57Hey, Tay.
38:58Hey, Amber.
39:00She made all your favorites.
39:02Ha.
39:02Yeah.
39:04Boomer.
39:05And the green juice is really good.
39:06I can't see for pickles.
39:07Let me see everything.
39:09Okay, Chef, can I have everything?
39:11Oh, she want me to be fancy pants.
39:14Wanda, would you like some champagne?
39:15What does she have in her mouth now?
39:19Oh, a little what?
39:20Girl, twisted pretzels.
39:22A little pretzel.
39:22I think you're wondering, might feel some kind of way there.
39:24Why would she feel a certain kind of way
39:25that we have a symbolization of her?
39:27She's keeping her mouth open.
39:28Well, that's the best I could do.
39:31Trina got on Tracy.
39:32We are all here.
39:33Trina got on who?
39:36Oh, yeah.
39:37Yeah, it's great.
39:40I'm definitely happy that I decided to go on this sister retreat.
39:43No matter what fights ensue, no matter what arguments ensue,
39:47we're always going to have our sisterhood forever.
39:51Hello.
39:52What's up?
39:53Isn't family great?
39:55I love you on purpose.
39:58Mind you, it might take a little time to heal.
40:02But at the end of the day, your sisters are your first friends.
40:07I didn't even have a ticket.
40:09They're the first people you tell your secrets to.
40:11I don't have no drugs.
40:12And that is something that I'm always going to strive to keep for the rest of my life.
40:21How big are your boobs?
40:22Aren't they great?
40:24They are good.
40:25Look.
40:25Look how pretty they are.
40:26Don't, no, I don't want to see your boobs.
40:28Oh, it's the best gift ever.
40:29Give it to myself.
40:31Things not only going to get better, they are getting better.
40:35You know what I mean?
40:36And we're going up and up and up and up and up.
40:38We have so many amazing memories.
40:42Yes.
40:43So many fun times.
40:44At the end of the day, this is me showing up for my family.
40:49I'm so grateful that you're here.
40:50I would like to get to the other side and start winning with my sisters.
40:57What's new, pussycats?
40:58I cooked for six hours because mommy's oven is so slow.
41:04You're going to have sickness.
41:06You're going to have ups and downs.
41:09It's just what you call life.
41:12And it's what you do with it that matters.
41:16Hey, beautiful.
41:17Hey, daddy.
41:18Get off the phone.
41:20It's sister time.
41:21I'm always working on healing the sisterhood.
41:23I think it is an emotional roller coaster.
41:26But I'm just optimistic that it's going to get better.
41:29Little baby steps.
41:30Tawanda, what you think?
41:32Tawanda has nothing to say.
41:34So I understand that the sisters had a retreat trip.
41:39I was not in attendance.
41:42I'm a newlywed.
41:43Hello?
41:44This new season was giving us a new exhale of life.
41:52We're just still going to push through with grace.
41:57We can stand alone.
41:58Here!
42:02Amen.
42:03Amen.
42:04If there is a storm, we'll get through the weather.
42:09Listen, I'm in my non-offensive era.
42:12Does that mean that you won't offend anybody or you won't get offended?
42:17Both.
42:18Amen.
42:19That's a good place to be.
42:20Salud.
42:21Salud.
42:23To a non-offensive era.
42:24To a non-offensive era.
42:26Clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank, clank.
42:29We're so excited.
42:30To family and sisters.
42:31Exactly.
42:31And let's always be intentional about who we are as sisters.
42:35Even when it hurts.
42:36Yes.
42:38Let go.
42:39Okay.
42:39Yeah, that's the best fried chicken I haven't had in a long time.
42:42It's really good.
42:43You really take it to one, do the chicken.
42:46Don't even say anything.
42:47Let's let her do it.
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