Why do we push away the people who show us real care? Why do healthy relationships feel harder than toxic ones?
The truth is: when you’re used to chaos, safety feels unfamiliar. Your nervous system has been wired to expect instability, conflict, or disappointment — so when someone offers calm, consistent love, your brain interprets it as a threat, not comfort.
This is why you: Overthink their intentions Create distance Pick fights Run from closeness Sabotage the love you actually want
In this video, we break down the psychology behind self-sabotage, attachment wounds, and why healing can make safe relationships finally feel safe.
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