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Seeking Sister Wife S6 Episode 10
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00:01Miss Merrifield? Mr. and Mrs. Merrifield?
00:07Now, I am Merrifield.
00:10I think there's still a lot of settling in to do.
00:13I'm wondering how the future's gonna look for all of us.
00:19Has everything been going good? You want some tea on him?
00:21Give me the tea on...
00:22Or the D.
00:25I am feeling jealous.
00:27There is a bit of me that's like, oof.
00:29Someone's getting a little...
00:30I'm sorry.
00:31I'm excited.
00:32Billy shows facial expressions that she's not comfortable.
00:37I want to believe that she won't be jealous,
00:39but we never know.
00:42How did it go last night?
00:44The conversation with Jackie regarding my boundary
00:47with Yesel not having a baby with another woman
00:50didn't turn out the way we wanted.
00:52Did she basically end things with us?
00:54Yes.
00:55Well, that kind of sucks now, doesn't it?
01:00I don't think after tonight I want to pursue a relationship with you.
01:04So that's her.
01:06She broke up with us.
01:10Okay.
01:11I haven't told my family about our relationship dynamic.
01:16They're extremely opinionated.
01:18But with Shanae being gone, I might need to lean on my family.
01:23The way that you are about yourself, Teresa, it's causing disruptions in the harmony of our situation overall.
01:32I think they are getting tired of me running away and not addressing the issues when they bring them up.
01:40We have reached a sort of a crossroads.
01:42I know.
01:43I got you.
01:44I'm going to go take a moment.
01:46I'm sitting here trying to have an adult conversation.
01:48If you want to get up and act all flustered, all extra, just get the up and go then.
01:53All right, you ready?
01:54We're heading straight for that bar.
01:56I'm definitely going to need a shot of liquid curry.
01:57I'm so anxious.
01:58Today is our second date with Randy.
01:59And Billy's coming with.
02:00And I'm really excited to see her again and kind of see where her relationship goes.
02:10Like, I'm in the house.
02:13Through the house.
02:14All right, you ready?
02:15We're heading straight for that bar.
02:16I'm definitely going to need a shot of liquid curate.
02:18Why?
02:19I'm so anxious.
02:20Today is our second date with Randy and Billy's coming with and I'm super excited to see her
02:28again and kind of see where her head's at and where this is all heading. How we doing? Hey,
02:34I'm doing great. How about yourself? Good. Good, good, good. We're going to start with a shot.
02:38Yeah, I guess we'll go big or go home. I want tequila. And whiskey, please. All right.
02:44Now that these feelings of jealousy have hit me, I'm anxious to see Randy again.
02:52But at the same time, Reese is super excited. I don't want to let him down. He's already got
02:59emotions invested. And obviously, he sees something in her. Cheers. Cheers.
03:06So I want to give it a shot. My favorite. Oh my gosh. Oh, careful. Careful.
03:15All right. Go first. Oh, I get to go first? Yeah. How are you feeling? Well, I'm really anxious.
03:20So, I mean, obviously, she's kind of interested. I don't know how this is going to go.
03:27Just pull off the band-aid. I did. I did it. Good job. How about you? How are you feeling?
03:33I'm more concerned about you. We just have to make sure we're on the same page, you know?
03:37How are you feeling? Good to see you. You doing okay? Yeah. Yeah, I'm doing okay.
03:50You guys are playing Jenga. You're playing a game.
03:53So, I had a great time with Reese on the first date. He seems like a great guy. But there are some
04:00concerns that I have with Billy that I think need to definitely be addressed.
04:05So, how's the babies? How's the kids?
04:08Good. Getting big.
04:10Oh my gosh, you're so cute. It's crazy.
04:12I was looking at pictures from a year ago and they just look so different. And it's only a year.
04:16So, how are you guys feeling? Like, with everything's...
04:21I feel like, um, like, I love being able to get to know you and, like, being able to message you and
04:27because now, like, you totally understand him. So, I have somebody that I can relate to.
04:32I know, like, she's had some questions, too.
04:35Yeah, and me, too. And, um...
04:37Shoot, ask away.
04:38Yeah, I was just wondering, like, how you feel about some things because it felt like last time
04:46we met that maybe you were uncomfortable.
04:51Got the vibe that maybe it was just, like, not for you or you weren't sure about me or just the
04:57whole situation in general.
05:02I really didn't even want to come back.
05:06Oh.
05:06I, about... I, like, basically wanted to cut off contact because of it.
05:13Because of my reaction?
05:14Yeah.
05:15Oh, okay.
05:18Knowing that Billy did feel jealous, I'm not surprised that Randy is feeling this way.
05:23I would be really disappointed if we had to end things with Randy because of these feelings.
05:30I mean, we put all this effort. I have put a lot of emotion, a lot of time and energy.
05:36And for it to all just kind of be flushed away is really defeating.
05:41This is why Mommy's a nurse and not a cake decorator.
06:00I'm going to let it slide because you're cute.
06:06Are you excited for Daddy to come home?
06:09Mm-hmm.
06:09Today's finally the day.
06:11Yesil comes home.
06:13And I'm super excited, but I would say this homecoming feels a little bit more awkward than most because we need to address that things didn't work out with Jackie, which sucks a little bit.
06:27Daddy's going to be home in, like, 45 minutes, dude.
06:32So Mommy's got to get cooking, okay?
06:35I don't want negative feelings to fester or, like, resentment or anything.
06:39It feels like it might be a little bit in that arena, which is scary.
06:45So I feel like I kind of, like, this is why I'm excited for your daddy to be home.
07:01It's been a long couple of days of traveling.
07:11I am jet-lagged.
07:13Also, I am feeling a little bit cranky about how it was handled with Jackie.
07:17We've had our struggle with seeking a sister-wife, obviously.
07:25It just didn't really work out with Jackie.
07:28So it's just one of those things that it sucks, especially because it happened while I was away.
07:35Shortly after Danny and Jackie had that conversation, Jackie did reach out to me.
07:41She immediately let me know how very disappointed she was.
07:46Danny and I haven't really talked about what happened at that dinner or after.
07:53I am feeling a little bit bitter.
07:57We have to really hash this out, so we're back on the same page.
08:01And just, there's no more awkwardness between us.
08:05Daddy.
08:06Oh, my goodness!
08:07Go get home!
08:08No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no!
08:09Hi, Bobby!
08:10Good job!
08:11Hi!
08:12Hi!
08:13Hi!
08:14Hi!
08:15Hi!
08:16Hi!
08:17Hi!
08:18Hi!
08:19Hi!
08:20Hi!
08:21Hi!
08:22Hi!
08:23Hi!
08:31What a drunk boy.
08:33Isn't he heavy?
08:35I am so excited to see Danny and the boys.
08:37Come in home is always one of the best days of the year, I guess one could say.
08:49Oh, yeah.
08:50Yeah.
08:52Thank you, babe.
08:52You're welcome.
08:53Mmm.
08:54Good luck.
08:55I'm about to bust this food down.
08:56I am really hungry.
08:58This is mine.
09:00Where's your guys' food?
09:02OK.
09:03Did you make some for you?
09:05You know how hard I worked making all of that
09:07with your two children running around in the kitchen?
09:09With, like, no other adult help?
09:12I mean, to be fair, we could have had a little adult help.
09:20Mm.
09:22You know.
09:23Mm.
09:27JJ, JJ, JJ, JJ, no, no.
09:34I could have.
09:36Watch that one, huh?
09:38Are you mad about it?
09:39Are you?
09:40I mean, I'm a little pissed about it.
09:43It happened while I was away.
09:45I wasn't really there to even try to remedy this situation.
09:50And I wasn't there to try to support you in this situation.
09:52Right.
09:53So it sucked.
10:00This is supposed to be a happy time.
10:02I just feel like you're a little hangry,
10:04and you should probably eat.
10:05We will talk about it later when we can sit down, focus,
10:09full bellies, kids asleep.
10:11OK.
10:12Well, let's give them a nap while I eat some food.
10:14OK.
10:15I think in an ideal world, Yesel would want Jackie here
10:21to welcome him home.
10:23I don't like feeling like I let someone down.
10:28And just, like, knowing that, you know,
10:31maybe I could have prevented the ending of everything.
10:36Kind of feels like I took it away from him.
10:38So it's just emotional.
10:40I'm, like, disappointed in myself a little bit.
10:49We let Danielle come in, and we let Vera call her mommy.
10:52And then she left.
10:54I don't want to do that again with Teresa.
10:58It's just enough is enough at this point.
11:02There's been some things going on in my family.
11:05I am scared to let my family in on this,
11:09because it can go either way.
11:11What is it then?
11:12I want us to be able to have fun and enjoy Jenny's pregnancy.
11:32Absolutely.
11:32And enjoy each other's company.
11:34All the time.
11:35And if every single time we try to talk to her about her.
11:39Self-destructiveness.
11:40Right.
11:40Her self-destructiveness.
11:41I didn't call her what it is.
11:42Right.
11:43Her self-destruction.
11:43Every time we try to talk to her, she runs away.
11:46And then we never get to talk about it.
11:48And then she'll try to come back and act
11:49like nothing ever happened.
11:51You know, I love Teresa very much.
11:53We all do.
11:54She's got a special place in our heart.
11:57And she's made a place in our family.
12:00I mean, we'd like to have a place for her and our family.
12:02But it's been eight or nine months
12:04that we've had to constantly revisit these same issues,
12:09these same topics that she finds herself stuck on and able to move past.
12:14This is not the energy or the mode that we want to sustain.
12:19All we've done is try to help, making sure that she feels secure and...
12:29Supported.
12:30...try to help her cancel out all of those negative, you know, self-talk moments.
12:36I don't want to have that constant energy in the house of being like,
12:41Oh.
12:42Right, right.
12:43You know what I mean?
12:44Walking on eggshells, worried about if somebody's...
12:45Going to trigger her.
12:46Right.
12:47Something's going to upset her.
12:48Right.
12:49I mean, and I guess if she's just going to always run away,
12:51then maybe we need to just let her run away.
12:53Yeah.
12:54And not keep trying to pull her back in.
12:56It's 100% about Teresa's relationship with herself.
13:04That is the trouble.
13:05Mm-hmm.
13:06There's nothing we can do to help her address the relationship she has inside.
13:13And the thing is, is the baby's going to be here in a few weeks.
13:17And it breaks my heart because we're so concerned about making sure Teresa feels good.
13:24We can't even enjoy Jenny's pregnancy and I just don't want to keep doing that.
13:33It's like maybe just, you know, keep giving her a chance and give her a chance.
13:37And like, you know, she'll, she'll work through it.
13:40Um, but at the same time, we're at the point that we're at, you know, and so that's what's...
13:46that's what has me really torn, you know, it's like, especially coming up on having a baby.
13:53It's like, you know, maybe, maybe I'm being too hard, you know, maybe it's not a big deal.
13:59Like maybe like I'm overreacting and stuff like that.
14:05It's upsetting and concerning to me for my two beautiful wives to be all emotional and upset.
14:12And I'm really not happy about that at all.
14:16It's like, I don't want to do that again with Teresa and have my child get attached just for you to leave because you can't get together.
14:35Yeah.
14:39It's just enough is enough at this point.
14:42Either she's going to commit herself to doing the internal work that she needs to do to help herself heal or
14:49or she's not going to be here.
15:09Today I'm going over to my mom's house.
15:11I'm going to be meeting with my mom, my sister Chastity, my Auntie Pumpkin, and my Auntie Tiffany so that I can share that me and Matt, we had this polygamous relationship.
15:25Hey.
15:25Are you ready for a shot?
15:27Here, here, here.
15:27Um, shot o'clock?
15:28Yeah, I'll take one.
15:29Shot o'clock.
15:32Two or three years ago, I told Chastity that we had this relationship.
15:37But I think I've decided now after three years to let my family in on our secret, on our life because we just broke up with Shanae and I'm hurting.
15:52Right now, I need my family more than ever.
15:56I don't have that extra support to lean on in my relationship because Matt is also hurting.
16:03He doesn't know how to process my pain and his own.
16:08Shot o'clock.
16:09Cheers.
16:09Shot o'clock.
16:10Shot o'clock.
16:15She's so stupid, I swear.
16:18What you been up to, Angelica?
16:20Nothing, just working.
16:22Raising these kids.
16:24Trying.
16:26My family is very judgmental.
16:29They're extremely opinionated.
16:31I am scared to let my family in on this because it can go either way.
16:37All right, Tiff, go ahead and explain the game because some of them don't know.
16:41See, you have to see, you have to put it in the center.
16:45Ah, you pass it to the right.
16:47Left, you pass it to the left.
16:51There you go.
16:52Center and right.
16:53Yeah.
16:53Oh, I got one back.
16:54There you go.
16:55All right, so the reason why, you know, I wanted to talk to you guys.
16:59Don't make me fall.
17:00There's been some things going on in, you know, my, my house, my family.
17:05You can have just one more baby.
17:06No, no more kids.
17:08Where is it?
17:09Where is it then?
17:10So...
17:10Matt and I have actually been dating...
17:21You said you were swinging?
17:22Oh, someone else.
17:23You got no girl, don't tell me that.
17:26What, you swing?
17:27Yes!
17:28But we're not swingers.
17:29Matt and I have been dating some, a woman and...
17:37What?
17:38As a sister wife, as a sister wife.
17:41Oh, hell no!
17:44What?
17:45I don't get it.
17:46I don't know what you're saying to me.
17:48I don't know either.
17:49What's she saying?
17:50So essentially, Matt has a second, he has a girlfriend or a second wife.
17:55You sign, you, you're signing up to be, you're like, you and Matt are married.
18:01Hold on.
18:02You and Matt are married.
18:03Yes!
18:04You and Matt are married, thank you.
18:08You and Matt got married.
18:09How long you been married?
18:10Since 2019.
18:11Okay.
18:13How you sign up to be a side chick?
18:15You're married.
18:16You're okay with being the side, a married side chick?
18:19I know you love him, but you know what?
18:21I can promise you his ain't that good.
18:22He don't even got that much money.
18:24It was actually my idea.
18:26Help us, Jesus.
18:29Why?
18:35It doesn't have anything to do with sex.
18:36It's not fueled by sex.
18:38What is it?
18:38Not for you?
18:40Why, why, why did you bring it up though?
18:42Why?
18:44Because I, I'm, I want the relationship.
18:47I want the relationship dynamic, the friendship, the camaraderie.
18:50Oh, the girl.
18:51No, with the other girl.
18:52You want a friend, so you're gonna find a chick, a side chick for Matt?
18:55No, no.
18:56Because you're the side chick.
18:57No.
19:00I don't know how she got to this point where she thinks it's okay to find
19:04another, a replacement for herself, because that's what it is.
19:08I love Matt.
19:11I love my son-in-law, but I just don't think he's worth any of this.
19:16Angelica, whatever happened to just having an affair?
19:22He's throwing that all in your face.
19:25You know what I mean?
19:26Why can't he just have an affair?
19:28Because an affair doesn't involve a full relationship.
19:32Oh, it does.
19:32Like...
19:32Do you think, okay, do you think he will allow you?
19:37I don't want to be with anyone else.
19:39Yes, you do.
19:40But him, she loves him.
19:41She just wants to make him happy.
19:42That's the way I'm thinking.
19:43I can't say nothing, because the stuff I'm going to say, you're not going to like.
20:05Oh, yeah.
20:10Hey, babe.
20:11Hey.
20:12Hey.
20:13Boys are down after about seven books.
20:17Two bedtime songs.
20:18The usual.
20:20That looks nice.
20:21Ooh.
20:22A little hot.
20:23A little bit.
20:23Someone got me.
20:25Since Yassil's been home, there's definitely some tension in the air.
20:29I can tell he's upset.
20:31A little more paper doesn't hurt.
20:33I think he's pissed.
20:35I know he's pissed.
20:39I want to touch some grass with my toes.
20:41Because the last three months, I feel like I need to be grounded.
20:47The last few months have felt very long.
20:52While I was away, Jackie and I were video calling, messaging on a pretty regular basis.
20:58Things were going well.
20:59I feel like we had a strong bond.
21:01I felt pretty close to her.
21:03And then in one day, it just blew up.
21:07What happened at that dinner?
21:10What exactly happened?
21:11There it is.
21:12You still a little spicy?
21:14Obviously, things completely fell apart.
21:16Right.
21:17So.
21:18We had the conversation about the no kid thing.
21:22Like, I'm just not comfortable with her having a biological child with you.
21:26What did she say when you brought that up?
21:27I just feel like she was a little too shell-shocked and she definitely thought it was unfair.
21:35I feel like, you know, woman to woman, I feel like maybe she could have took it as
21:44a threat. You don't know. I could have possibly been the buffer there.
21:56It sounds like a her problem.
21:58No, it's a all of us problem.
22:00If you were there, that boundary is not going to change.
22:05So this is not a her problem.
22:09It's not a her problem.
22:14I wonder every day if Dani really wants this.
22:21I have kept a lot of my opinions to myself and I feel like maybe it wasn't the wisest choice to
22:28completely let her, you know, give her the reins. And I am regretting not being more vocal with my
22:35concerns initially. I don't feel like, I just kind of want to ask, like, is it, is it, do you still
22:40want to do this or is it the boundary awaited for you to, like, sabotage, kind of like the relationship?
22:50So...
22:53You got to look at it for some, from somebody else's point of view.
22:56You're a person coming into an established marriage, an established family.
23:00If somebody's telling you, you cannot have biological kids with my husband.
23:07I mean, wouldn't you see that as a major red flag? Like, what, what else? Are they trying to control
23:13me? You know?
23:17It's not about control.
23:20It's not, I could, I could see how it would seem unfair to someone and I get that.
23:24But this is not like a new boundary just because it's her.
23:29Is it something that, is it fair to me because obviously I want more kids?
23:37Oh, I feel like that's another discussion to have.
23:39And we're, we can have it right now.
23:48Do you think it's fair to you?
23:54Just, just, just a thought in my head is all it is.
23:58Well, if I could give you more, I would.
24:00Oh, I know you would.
24:01I just, like I've said multiple times, like, I just don't, my journey's over with it.
24:06My body's done. My heart is not.
24:11So to watch another woman have what I want so bad, I can't do that. I can't do that.
24:21I believe if someone wants this dynamic with us that bad, then they would, you know, be willing to compromise.
24:40Can you live without having more biological children?
24:43Yeah, absolutely can. I mean, I have our three boys, I have you, and we're perfectly happy.
24:57I'm perfectly happy.
24:58Okay.
25:02I am more than prepared to sacrifice having another child for the sake of my family, my boys and my wife's happiness.
25:10All right, let me get some.
25:19During this, during this process, I feel like I've been giving you more of the reins and,
25:24you know, with Jackie and all that. And I feel like it, it, it possibly bit us in the ass.
25:31Maybe if we are more together and, and, and all of it.
25:39I just realized we both kind of did the same thing in different ways.
25:45Irony.
25:46You know, we got to learn lessons the hard way.
25:53During our first attempt at seeking, Yesel took the reins and I took a back seat and it, it blew up in her face.
26:03The second time around, Yesel let me take the reins because I feel like he felt a little bit guilty,
26:09and it blew up in her face again.
26:12We're one for one each.
26:13Dead even one for one.
26:14Yes, we are.
26:15Okay.
26:17Knowing that we're both learning from our mistakes is reassuring. And now it's even.
26:23Moving forward, we should definitely bring up the baby subject in the beginning, you know?
26:28We.
26:29We.
26:30Together.
26:31Together.
26:31So it's not just one person delivering that very big piece.
26:36Especially if we know it's somebody that's definitely interested in having a child.
26:40Mm-hmm.
26:41You know, put it in our profile.
26:44It's just one of those things we, I feel like we need to be really upfront about.
26:46Right.
26:48I have learned that keeping quiet doesn't work because emotions are very loud.
26:54Yeah.
26:56And this is for everybody out there.
26:57If your relationship is not solid, on solid freaking ground, try and polygamy out.
27:05It is not for the faint of heart.
27:07No.
27:08No.
27:08Mm-mm.
27:09As long as we commit to being on the same page with each other,
27:14then I feel like, you know, third time might be the charm.
27:18Might be.
27:19Or fourth or fifth or sixth.
27:21We're not gonna speak.
27:24We're not gonna do that.
27:27This experience has made our relationship better.
27:31Learning how to just slow things down a little bit.
27:34Finding more of those compromises that we never thought we'd have to make.
27:37Right.
27:38As many times, times as it takes.
27:41Jesus.
27:44Okay.
27:45I think our needle and haystack is out there.
27:50How far out there?
27:52No idea.
27:53I don't think it'll be easy, but I'm looking for a lifelong bond with someone.
27:59You don't take the easy road to get that.
28:02Hot young couple, done with kids, but looking for a sister wife.
28:07You're not wrong.
28:09I am hoping third time is the charm and we hit a home run.
28:14But in the back of my mind, all I'm thinking is, does she really want to do this?
28:18We'll see what happens.
28:21Well, I'm about done stroking this fire.
28:25Stoke.
28:26Stroke this fire.
28:27I'm gonna stroke that fire.
28:28Can we go inside now?
28:29Okay.
28:31How do I know you're not just gonna run away with my husband?
28:36I just really hope that Billie can get her feelings in check because I like Randy.
28:48I felt like last time we met that maybe you were uncomfortable.
29:02Because I mean, basically it was jealousy.
29:06I really didn't even want to come back.
29:10Because of my reaction.
29:11Yeah.
29:12Okay.
29:13I don't know.
29:18I wanted to talk to you about that a little bit more if we could and just make sure.
29:23I've got to run the restroom.
29:25So I'm gonna leave you ladies so you can sit and chat for a minute, okay?
29:28All right.
29:31I just really hope that Billie can get her feelings in check because I like Randy.
29:35I see something there.
29:36But this relationship has to work for Billie as well.
29:40So I'm just gonna excuse myself and let them talk amongst themselves.
29:45Because there are gonna be a lot of tough conversations in the future if we do
29:49move forward with this.
29:50So I think this will definitely be a test for them to see.
29:54I mean, if they're compatible in this journey.
29:56So how do you think that you will handle the jealousy if we do bond and click?
30:08Because I'm not fully convinced right now that you would be able to deal with that.
30:18So one of my biggest fears is how do I know you're not just gonna run away with my husband?
30:23What if my husband ends up loving you more?
30:29Because everything is, you know, shiny.
30:31It's new.
30:32It's fun.
30:33And I'm not.
30:34I'm what's been here before.
30:36You know what I mean?
30:37Old news.
30:38Like, yeah, like the old news.
30:41I wouldn't do that.
30:44I mean, I can understand those fears.
30:47I don't want to ruin anything that you guys have, you know?
30:50Yeah.
30:50I mean, I wouldn't be human, I think, if I didn't have some sort of emotion.
30:54Definitely.
30:54You know what I mean?
30:55I totally agree with that, too.
30:58Like, having all those emotions and fears is natural.
31:02So I know you have your fears, but I have mine, too.
31:07And how, you know, am I supposed to know that I'm not always gonna be second?
31:15Yeah.
31:15And that's totally legitimate.
31:17And I've told Reese I don't like, like, the terms, like, first wife, second wife,
31:22because I don't want there to be a hierarchy among people.
31:27It's all, it's all of our relationship.
31:30Like, yeah, we got married first, and I understand that, like, when we have history.
31:34But that's why we're going slow and dating is to build up that rapport so that you guys can be just
31:40as comfortable.
31:42You have very valid fears, you know?
31:45And as long as we go slow and steady and everyone's comfortable, I think we'll be on the path to the
31:51right way.
31:52Because, I mean, those fears that you have of being kicked out is the same fears that I have,
31:56you know, of being kicked out.
32:01I'm glad that we were able to have this conversation and talk about these things,
32:05because that's really reassuring that things could work, you know?
32:12I'm definitely glad that we had this conversation.
32:16Oh, I'm starving.
32:18Randy seems really receptive to everything I'm saying, which is a good quality.
32:22You know, I want to be able to have a sister wife that I can talk to and ask hard questions
32:26or have hard conversations. So, I feel like it's definitely a good thing.
32:33Well, look who's here.
32:34Hey.
32:34Oh, there he is.
32:35Food is here.
32:36Food is here.
32:36Food is here.
32:37The man, the myth, the legend.
32:40That's right.
32:40So, after, I mean, I guess, so where do we stand? Like, where are we going from here?
32:51I think that we can continue to talk and see where, explore it, things, see where things go,
32:58and, um, cool.
33:00Yeah, hopefully it will work out.
33:02It's exciting.
33:02Okay.
33:03Okay, cool.
33:04Okay, I was kind of nervous.
33:05I was like, oh my God.
33:06I know, I give up vibes, but I promise I'm okay.
33:11I'm really satisfied with the way she handled my concerns.
33:16I feel better knowing that she's willing to communicate and hear my side, too.
33:22I'm excited to see where this goes because they're great people.
33:28And Reese is cute, and he gets cuter, too. Like, he's one of those people that's like,
33:34you get to know their personality and they get, so it's good. He's so fun.
33:40All right. So, uh, what are we thinking for third date then?
33:44So, we're going to do a third date? I mean, that's what I was thinking.
33:48All right.
33:48Okay.
33:49And we're going to do it.
33:51I was really nervous that it wasn't going to happen. I don't want Billy to be uncomfortable
33:56or feeling jealous. I don't want our relationship to go negatively and get worse while a relationship
34:04with someone else is getting better and forming. So, you're going to have to speak up, obviously,
34:09and then we can address it.
34:14If Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back. We're tied to her for life.
34:27Where were you when he met this girl and went on a date?
34:44So, if you let me explain, I can put all that out there.
34:50About three years ago...
34:51Are you kidding me?
34:52We met her on a dating app.
34:54No, he met her, not me.
34:56No, no. We met her on a dating app.
34:58Okay.
34:59I created his dating profile. I helped him write the biography.
35:04I was the one that was swiping through the photos.
35:08So, you picked her?
35:09And I was the one, I liked her profile.
35:12For him?
35:13For him.
35:15Her name is Shanae. You know, she's been a great friend to me and like a support system,
35:22a sister.
35:22What is this, what is this about you don't have a support system? You need to bring this
35:26bitch in because you need support? When your sister's right across the street, I'm always around
35:31the corner. What do you need support for?
35:34For what? For Matt?
35:35No, it's, it's more than that.
35:38What? What is it?
35:39It's a different relationship. She and I are experiencing the same thing. We're going through
35:45the same thing.
35:45What? What do you want to do?
35:49And it's like a frustration with Matt. She understands how, you know, how he can be and how...
35:55Kind of how?
35:56Because they're in a relationship as well.
35:58My understanding is she's looking for her village, her support system.
36:06She has it right here.
36:08I know. I said it in front of me and hurt my feelings, but when she explained it to me...
36:11That came out of your mouth right now was supportive.
36:14I...
36:16We're in shock!
36:17It does bother me and hurt me to see her sad and tearing up and holding back her feelings.
36:24At the end of the day, I'm not okay with this, but I am okay with my sister's happiness.
36:30So, um, we actually just got broken up with by Shanae.
36:35Good.
36:36And, um...
36:37And you're sad?
36:38I am sad.
36:40Who gives a if she left?
36:41You feel like you're in the middle.
36:42And it's still not going to be you and your husband like it should be.
36:44Yeah.
36:45And your kids.
36:46But I've developed a really good and close relationship with her and friendship.
36:48That's fine. You can still be her friend.
36:50She can be your best friend.
36:52You know?
36:53That's what I was getting at.
36:54Okay.
36:54Okay.
36:54What? She's...
36:56You guys are...
36:56You and her are going to still be friends?
36:59Hopefully, yeah.
37:01You know, this was...
37:02There was a lot of love and a lot of...
37:05A lot that went into this.
37:07I'm in a lot of pain.
37:09You know, I am in a lot of pain.
37:10I'm hurting and I'm looking for my community, my support system,
37:15and I'm coming to you guys asking for that.
37:19That's why I'm here today.
37:21That's...
37:21I love you.
37:22That's what I need.
37:29I don't agree with any of this stuff you're doing, but I'll be here for you.
37:35You can maintain her friendship.
37:37Just keep her out of your bed.
37:39At this point, I'm completely over even attempting to have a conversation with them.
37:44Maybe this wasn't the best way to go about telling my family about our situation.
37:51It just reminds me why we're on this journey.
37:58And it's, if anything, it's pushing me to continue down this path even more.
38:04I, I need Shaday.
38:09I, I cannot lose her.
38:10I, I need Shaday.
38:21I, I need Shaday.
38:23Okay, sister.
38:24You, Peepee?
38:25Mm-hmm.
38:26Un, dois, tres, cuatro, cinco.
38:28This, three weeks after Lorena and Garrick got married, Garrick and my brother Sam ended up
38:40having to go out to Wisconsin to help my grandma with some remodel work for her house that she's trying to sell.
38:52So shortly after Garrick left for Wisconsin with my brother, Lorena realized she was a little bit late with her period.
38:59And, Garrick, two.
39:02Do you understand?
39:05Garrick, two.
39:06No, Garrick, two.
39:07No, Garrick, one.
39:08Okay.
39:09I always wanted to get married, but not that I wanted to get married so fast when I came here.
39:16I'm a little bit worried if I get married because there's going to be a lot of changes.
39:24Yeah, principalmente, I'm still not native in English, and having a baby, and also my family is far away from me.
39:34It makes me a little bit worried if it's going to change a lot, both for me and for Garrick, but also for my family.
39:43Oh, my God.
39:45Lorena's only been in the USA for three months, and Garrick and her literally just got married like three weeks ago,
39:51so everything is really happening fast.
39:54To be honest, everything with the relationship with Lorena has happened fast.
39:57Immigration, like, it's kind of surreal how fast everything is going.
40:07Garrick and I have never been to this point in polygamy where he's having a child with another woman,
40:11and so I really don't know how I'm going to feel.
40:15The reality is that if Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.
40:18We're tied to her for life.
40:24No, sister.
40:25No, sister.
40:27Okay, any minute now, she should be here.
40:29I have no idea what to expect from this conversation, this interaction we're about to have with Teresa.
40:34Oh, she's here.
40:36I just hope that we can all leave from this experience still being friends at the very least.
40:44I see my house over here.
40:51I see her house over here.
40:54I feel like we're getting really close to having our dream, you know, our village, our family.
40:59Now, would you be okay, though, knowing I'm right next door with a sister wife?
41:08How are you?
41:09I'm doing all right.
41:10You?
41:11Yeah.
41:13I went with Matt to see another woman, and I didn't tell Shanae.
41:18I think what broke the camel's back for me is, you met this person.
41:23I'm not ready to lose her at all.
41:25I'm angry, Angelica.
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