Dear Chixie: Regret

SunStar Philippines

POSSESSIVE ANG BANA    Dear Chixie,  Itago lang ko sa pangalan nga Rose. Kining akong problema kabahin ni sa akong bana nga itago nato sa pangalan nga Luis. Opposite kaayo mi kay ako extrovert samtang si Luis, introvert. Tinuod gyud diay ang ilang giingon nga diha lang nimo makita ang batasan sa imong partner kon minyo namo. One year lang mi isip manag-uyab dihang nagpakasal nami. Nisugot ko nga magpakasal niya, Chixie, kay nagkasinabot raman pud ang among batasan.   Apan dihang minyo nami ug nagpuyo nami sa usa ka balay, diha ra nigawas ang iyang batasan nga pagka-possessive. Ganahan ra siya sa balay magpuyo ilabina kon day off niya apan ako, ganahan man ko makig-socialize sa akong mga amiga. Bisan kon kahibaw siya asa ug kinsa akong kuyog sa laag, magsige siya og monitor na ko. Kada minuto nalang motawag ug murag papaulion nako. At first, okay ra ko but madugay, natuok nagyud ko kay murag iya nakong gicontrol.

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02:00We encourage everybody to help one way or another sa inyuhang mga ways na makatabang sa atuang isig kaingun na binaas sa mga biktima sa bagyo diri sa sugbo.

02:13So moving forward, welcome and good afternoon sa Tanan.

02:17The sun is up.

02:47The sun is up.

02:49The sun is up.

02:51The sun is up.

02:53You and your partner have different personalities.

02:58Most especially the extremes.

03:00The sun is up.

03:02The sun is up.

03:04The sun is up.

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03:12The sun is up.

03:14The sun is up.

03:16Most of the sun is up.

03:18The sun is up.

03:20The sun is up.

03:22Introvert also have some.

03:24The sun is up.

03:25The sun is up.

03:26The sun is up.

03:28The sun is up.

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03:35The sun is up.

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03:37The sun is up.

03:38So today the sun is up.

03:40Well, mayroong naiya.

03:41What if you're an extrovert,

03:44you're an introvert,

03:46but along the way in your relationship,

03:49inside the marriage,

03:51you found out that your husband is kind of possessive of you?

03:55Can you feel in such a way that you're feeling like,

03:57hmm, I really like my husband.

04:01I don't know if I'm going to do that.

04:02When it comes to how he wanted you as a wife.

04:08So muna, ito na yung paminawan ng story ni Rose

04:11because apparently she is married to somebody

04:15na opposite ang personality sa iyaha.

04:18But how does this affect their marriage?

04:21Muna, ito ang Dear Chixie episode for today.

04:24Nga na ay hashtag regret from the word itself, regret.

04:27Nagmahay na ba?

04:29Paminawan na ito ang story for today.

04:32Syempre, bringing life to our story.

04:34Chari and Eric with us

04:35sa ito ang Dear Chixie episode for today.

04:39Hashtag regret.

04:54Dear Chixie,

04:56Itagaw lang ko sa pangalan nga Rose.

05:00Kininga kong problema,

05:01kabahin ni sa kumbana,

05:03nga itago na ito sa pangalan nga Louise.

05:07Kininga kong bana,

05:08opposite ginian ni niya.

05:11Extrovert ko.

05:12O siya, introvert ang personality.

05:16Maong,

05:17wala agit kong magdahom

05:18nga magkadayon mi.

05:20I must admit,

05:22pas-pas kaayo ang dagan sa among relasyon.

05:25One year lang mi nga nagkauyap,

05:28sa dihang,

05:29iya ha kong gihagad

05:30nga magpakasal.

05:33Babe,

05:35nakoy gustong isultinay mo.

05:39Um,

05:40unsama na, babe?

05:42Babe,

05:43happy anniversary!

05:44Happy anniversary po, babe!

05:47Ah,

05:48thank you,

05:48iba,

05:49for bringing joy sa akong kinabuhya.

05:52Kaybaloka, babe,

05:52sukad nga nagkauyap ta.

05:55Mas,

05:55na-inspire ko

05:56to be a better person.

05:59Salamat kayo sa nice words, babe, ha?

06:02Himala,

06:02expressive nakakaroon.

06:04Ah,

06:05basta about ni mo, babe,

06:06I can help myself,

06:08but,

06:08express

06:09what I'm feeling.

06:11Ikaw,

06:11Rajod,

06:12ang tao nga

06:12nakapaingon,

06:13anin ako, babe.

06:15And,

06:16tungkol na na, babe,

06:16I know,

06:17early pa to ask this question,

06:19pero,

06:20delay na kumapug nga na kong kaguling mo

06:22mag-ass ni mo.

06:23And,

06:24I hope,

06:25imo kong tubaggon ba.

06:27Ah,

06:28unsama na, babe?

06:30Gikulbaan lagi ko.

06:32Babe,

06:33sa katuwig na tanunin,

06:35and I realized that

06:36I can wait na

06:37maka-uban ka

06:38for the rest of my life.

06:41Maunang,

06:41babe,

06:42I want to ask you this question.

06:44Ah,

06:46will you marry me?

06:48Babe?

06:49Oh my,

06:51are you sure?

06:52Oh,

06:53sure ko.

06:54Ah,

06:55will you marry me?

06:56Yes,

06:57yes,

06:57babe,

06:58oy,

06:58I will marry you,

06:59babe.

07:00Yes,

07:01thank you,

07:01babe.

07:02I love you so much.

07:03I love you too,

07:04babe.

07:09Pas-pas kaayo

07:10ang panghitabo,

07:11Chixie.

07:13Nagpakasaladayun

07:13me ni Louise.

07:15Siyempre,

07:16along the way,

07:17na ako'y na-discovery

07:18na kinaiyase

07:19or na ako'y madiscovery

07:21sa kinaiyase mong partner

07:23na wala pa ni mo makita

07:25sa dihang

07:26uyab pa mo.

07:28So,

07:28sa akong case,

07:30akong na-discovery

07:31na homebody

07:32kaayo

07:32ang akong ba na

07:33samtang ako,

07:35I wanted to go out

07:36with friends.

07:38Butang,

07:38nausahay

07:39among malalisan.

07:40Rose,

07:48imong phone ba?

07:50Ganina naman

07:50na si Gigring,

07:51uy?

07:52Nganong diliman

07:53na ni mo to bagun?

07:54Ay da,

07:57si Louise

07:57rana Andrea,

07:58uy?

07:59Oh,

08:00imong ba

08:00naman di

08:01ay na.

08:02Nganong diliman

08:02ni mo to bagun?

08:04Hmm,

08:05GELQ mo no.

08:06Kaaway mo,

08:07ha?

08:07Wah,

08:07uy,

08:08ay da,

08:10kayo ba

08:10umagun na siya

08:11asa ko karun?

08:12Kayo ba

08:13siya nga

08:13nagkuyuk ta,

08:14nga

08:14nang laag ta?

08:16Ang pandili ko

08:17kasabot anak niya

08:18nga no,

08:19nga wala pa ganito

08:20sa kauras ko nga nilakaw,

08:21murag

08:22papauli o naman ko.

08:24Ganahan na siya nga

08:25sa balay na lang

08:26kung magtambay ba?

08:28Nga no,

08:28di ay,

08:29napanigisilosan

08:30ni mong ba na nga,

08:32di man siya

08:32ganahan

08:32nga maglaag-laag ka,

08:34nga waksiya.

08:35Wala,

08:35uy.

08:36Pero amput anak niya,

08:38uy.

08:39Gusto niya siguro nga

08:40typical housewife ko?

08:42Tanawa good

08:43pag minyot na mo.

08:44Wala na ko niya

08:45patrabaho ah,

08:46kay kaya ko no niya

08:47muprovide na mo.

08:48Wala ko'y problema

08:49na ha,

08:50pero maupod lagi,

08:52murag man kog

08:52huwag katungod

08:53nga maglaag.

08:55Agdo na ko siya

08:56uglaag,

08:56dili mampod siya

08:57musugot kay

08:58daghan ko nog tao,

09:00madrain ko no siya

09:01kay lagi,

09:02introvert ba

09:03ya to siya?

09:04Amput ba niya

09:05kung ba na,

09:05uy.

09:07Murag possessive man

09:08kayo ni naku.

09:09Kapoy,

09:10kayo naunaon ba?

09:12Unya,

09:12gani,

09:13mamataan ako ni mo ha,

09:15naka-open up na ka,

09:17sa imong bana,

09:17sa imong nafeel.

09:19Ay oo,

09:21dugay na,

09:21uy,

09:22sige na mag istorya.

09:24Pero,

09:25maura man gihapon.

09:27Istorya on na

09:27kong tarong karun,

09:29magsori rasad.

09:30Unya,

09:31palaagon ko,

09:31pero,

09:32nagihapoy time limit,

09:33unsako.

09:35Kanang teenager?

09:37Amput,

09:37uy,

09:37higikapoy git ko.

09:39Nah,

09:40tuwan na sa doog,

09:41miring na sa doog.

09:42Ako ito bang,

09:43ani mi?

09:43Ako yung ino nga,

09:44kita'y nag-uban

09:45para wala siya dapat

09:46ikabalakan ni mo.

09:47Ay,

09:47ayaw na lang,

09:48Andrea,

09:48uy.

09:49Pasagdiin na na siya.

09:51Bahala na lang

09:52kung maglalis mi

09:52inigabot.

09:54Kapoy,

09:54kaayaw nang

09:55nagminyo lagit mi,

09:56pero,

09:57mura man sa doog,

09:58matuok na hinoon ko niya.

09:59Mauna niya ng akong problema

10:09ron,

10:10Shixi.

10:11My husband is quite

10:13possessive.

10:14O ganahan lang

10:15pirmi nga

10:16naarak ko sa balay.

10:18Tagsara ka ayo nga

10:20hag dun ko niya

10:21glaag.

10:22Even on his

10:23rest day.

10:25Ganahan siya nga

10:26sa balay rami.

10:27He can't even

10:28take me out on dates

10:29like the way

10:30it was before.

10:32I wonder kung,

10:34nga no?

10:36Usahay makahonahon na ako

10:37o saktobakaha

10:39ang akong nahimong

10:40desisyon na

10:41pakaslan siya.

10:43But it's too late.

10:44Kay minyo na mi.

10:46And it's too late

10:47para magmahay.

10:49Every time

10:50and even sa times

10:52akong friends,

10:54usahay

10:54ay monitor pa ko niya

10:56kung unsay akong

10:57mga buhaton

10:59o guunsang urasa

11:01kumuuli.

11:02Ay,

11:03hambot na lang yun.

11:04Please,

11:05tambagay ko,

11:06Chixie.

11:07Salamat sa pagbasa

11:08sa akong letter,

11:10Rose.

11:10Thank you so much,

11:25Shari and Eric

11:26for bringing life

11:28sa itong story

11:28ka ron.

11:29Muna ni Ron.

11:31Naguruy.

11:32So,

11:37anyway,

11:37so muna ni Angato

11:38ang gi,

11:39koan ka ron.

11:40Na problema siya

11:41sa iyahang husband.

11:42Kay,

11:42pagkatungwa pa sila

11:43nag-menyo,

11:44nindit ka sila

11:44mga dates.

11:45Nga pag-menyo na,

11:47anong lakas sa balay.

11:49Malakaw,

11:49malakaw,

11:50sultan,

11:51pero

11:51maraman sa,

11:52maraman ni,

11:52oi,

11:53papalanin mo yung mong bana?

11:54Maraman sa gagdi pala ago.

11:56Grabe naman sa

11:57yung mong bana,

11:57oi.

11:58I mean,

11:59let's admit it ha,

12:00na ay nice about

12:02being opposite.

12:03I don't know about you,

12:04but to me,

12:05nindot mag-inangan na

12:06amoy difference

12:07sa imuhang partner.

12:08Na amoy,

12:09di mo pariho all the time ba?

12:10Kay murag.

12:11Kung pariho,

12:11rasad kayo,

12:12murag.

12:12Wala excitement.

12:13And you don't learn so much.

12:15Depende lang po.

12:15Kaya naman sa iyo ba,

12:16na pariho yun sila.

12:17Pareho silang bubbly personality,

12:18pareho silang extrovert,

12:19pareho silang ana.

12:20Pero feeling na ako,

12:22mabito ni ana sila nga,

12:23nine times nga,

12:24it will really work.

12:25Or opposite attracts ko,

12:26no?

12:26Because mo lagi na,

12:27yin and yang,

12:28no?

12:29White and black.

12:30Ngayon naman yun,

12:30nabitaw nga,

12:31may balance kumbaga.

12:33However,

12:34grabe naman sila yung

12:35ba na ka-introvert nga,

12:36mula aglamang gani,

12:37murag heavy naman

12:38ang pagka-monitor,

12:40no?

12:40E kunsyaw,

12:40ako yung problema sa

12:41kung ba na nga siya

12:42mo provide kay,

12:44tinuod man.

12:44But,

12:45living a life wherein,

12:47murabag na sacrifice po,

12:49na ang imuhang,

12:50being you because,

12:52your husband is introvert,

12:54murag po siya gusto nga

12:55introvert na lang po ka.

12:56Murag mo yung akong

12:57nasabot ani ha.

12:58Kaya introvert man siya so,

12:59gusto sad sa'yo mga husband,

13:00humba din lang po ka.

13:02Di ba sa puy ding ina,

13:03na?

13:03Uy,

13:03so man sa'yo nga husband,

13:05uy.

13:06Kanabang,

13:06di li man sad kumukuano,

13:08pero I get the point.

13:09However,

13:10mula ginig,

13:11uy, kanabang,

13:12it all boils down to

13:13getting to know each other

13:16a little more

13:17before

13:17jumping into

13:19the next chapter

13:20of your life,

13:22which is

13:22commitment fully

13:23in terms of marriage.

13:24Listen po kayo sa ngatanan.

13:26Di li man sa tamuhok ko,

13:28nga perfect na lang d'yo

13:28kayo si Chixi,

13:30nga muingon d'yo

13:30ko,

13:31nga kanabit ang sayop,

13:32d'yo na imugibuhat ma'am,

13:33nga nagminyukag sa'yo,

13:34wala may sayop.

13:35I think it all just boils down

13:37to the thought nga

13:37we can always learn

13:39something from this.

13:40natin makatunan at the end of the day

13:42entering into a relationship

13:44such as this.

13:45So, ito na yung basaho,

13:48sa tanang mga nag-comment

13:49and I hope that

13:50you're watching wherever you are

13:52right now

13:52and share your thoughts

13:54sa ito ang

13:55live karun,

13:57kung asa man mo

13:58na himutang,

13:59asa mo nagtanaw,

14:00especially sa

14:01itong Sunstar Cebu

14:03Facebook page.

14:04Thank you so much.

14:05Shout out to

14:06Joralene Belia.

14:08Hello.

14:09Hi to Lisa,

14:10DJ Chixi.

14:11Hello.

14:13Hello, kids.

14:15Charot.

14:15Hindi na kumentioned ako.

14:16Nakabot na mo, Diri, ha?

14:18Ano ba yan?

14:19Anyway,

14:19so,

14:20itong tanawang, Diri,

14:21ang

14:22uban pa ng mga

14:24ni-advice, no,

14:26with regards to our story karun.

14:28We are live

14:28across Sunstar

14:29and DJ Chixi page

14:31and over

14:32our TikTok, no?

14:34So, natay live

14:35sa TikTok as well.

14:36Nai-comment si Christos

14:38tumomag-aso.

14:39Ingon siya.

14:39I hope we could project this, ha?

14:42Ingon, Diri,

14:43natural lang

14:44kay Minyo na mo.

14:46Nganong magsigi man

14:47kaglakaw, no?

14:49Nganong kano magsigi

14:50lakaw kano nga na.

14:51Naman kano yung bana.

14:52Ay, medyo kuan

14:53mandaniyahang, ano?

14:54Kuan mandaniyahang comment?

14:56Ay, nilang i-flash.

14:57Sorry.

14:59Kuan na MTR-CB.

15:00Sorry.

15:01Okay.

15:03Diri, di, pwede mo lakaw.

15:05Pwede raman siguro.

15:07Pwede raman mulakaw

15:08mulaag with friends.

15:09I mean,

15:09you don't necessarily mean

15:11yung nag-party siya.

15:12Nag-shopping raman siya.

15:13Wala man siya nag-kuan nga.

15:15Nag-party-party siya.

15:17Adora.

15:17Ingon siya.

15:18Good afternoon, everyone.

15:19In here.

15:20Good afternoon, Adora.

15:22No?

15:22Pero mulagin niya.

15:23To cut the long story short,

15:25kung ikaw ang nasa sitwasyon,

15:28di na kay...

15:29Okay, mahimo.

15:30Diyan niya siya nga.

15:31Possessive.

15:32Possessive ang husband?

15:34Or...

15:35Possessive ang husband, no?

15:40Okay.

15:41Pasensya na.

15:41We are live.

15:42Live.

15:43Tama daw.

15:43Naman mo.

15:44Madunga dyan.

15:47Anyway.

15:48Possessive kaayo ang banag yun, no?

15:50Muna yung problema kay...

15:52Mura pag...

15:53Sa iyang pagka-introvert to the extreme,

15:56mura ganahan lang po siyang iyahang wife.

15:57Iyahara, Judd.

15:58Like...

15:59Kay wife naman pika,

16:00akin ka lang giliw.

16:02Ha?

16:02What sound yun?

16:04Mura kuya,

16:04wala si taan yung style nga.

16:05Di na?

16:06Sa Judd po,

16:06hindi wala.

16:06Ay freedom yung mga asawa,

16:08di hanggapita, brad.

16:09No?

16:10Listen po kayo na sa ngatan ng ingon,

16:11ana.

16:12Pwede raman Judd na yung mulaag, no?

16:14Manda siya na ingon ako.

16:15Yung point being is,

16:17murag wala siya yung sense of freedom ba?

16:19Na murag time limited lang ang paglaag,

16:21like one hour lang,

16:23mga inana lang.

16:25No?

16:25Listen kay sa ngatan ng mga inana,

16:27nga mga sitwasyon.

16:28Uy?

16:28No?

16:29Kamu ba?

16:29Ika ni mga lalaki manidiri?

16:31Mga tanako,

16:32kamu?

16:33Di ko sure sa inyong personality.

16:34I don't know.

16:35Extrovert ba mo?

16:35Introvert ba mo?

16:36Ako kabalo?

16:37But...

16:38Kamu?

16:38Kung na...

16:39Sir?

16:40Mga tanako,

16:41padung pa siya mag-menyo.

16:42Si Eric,

16:43minyo na ka-Rick.

16:44Ha?

16:45O,

16:46si Sir Mark,

16:47mga minyo na,

16:47o,

16:48mga tanako ninyo,

16:49when your wife asks nga,

16:50mag-concela,

16:51mag-time with friends,

16:53mulaag,

16:53muparti,

16:54o kira ba mo?

16:56Sir Mark,

16:56o kira.

16:58O,

16:58si Sir Tange,

16:58depende.

16:59O,

16:59sa mga depende mo pasabot,

17:00Sir Tange?

17:01Depende sa kuyog.

17:02Pero babae man,

17:03like,

17:03barkada,

17:04mag-cake shopping.

17:05O,

17:05pero delay ni mo yung monitor,

17:07like,

17:07asan nakakaroon,

17:08on sa'y mag-ibuhat?

17:09Daly lang.

17:09Tagalog freedom.

17:10Tagalog freedom,

17:11no?

17:14Sige,

17:15magpanawag.

17:16Asan nakakaroon?

17:17Asan nakakaroon?

17:17Ha?

17:19Walay salig.

17:20Sakto,

17:20that's the word.

17:21Walay salig yung bana niya.

17:24No?

17:25And that's something that should be addressed.

17:27Unta,

17:28before marriage,

17:29ilan na ta'n nang istoryaan?

17:31Ang problema man,

17:32good ka roon sa ingun-ani nga sitwasyon,

17:34ka na bang,

17:36hindi naman gunanin mo mauli,

17:37imong kaminyuun?

17:39Huwag i-mong gimahayan,

17:40kaya,

17:40samansan ni siya,

17:41uy,

17:41abinakug ka na na ko yung freedom,

17:43ani.

17:44Tinood ba yan na,

17:45no?

17:45Dilira man di ay babae,

17:46ang morag feeling sa mga lalaki,

17:48masakal sila sa mga babae.

17:50Ang mga babae po,

17:51usahay,

17:51kaya generic lang taha,

17:53kasagaran mga laki,

17:54masin yung uyabay,

17:55matuok,

17:56masin ta'n eh.

17:57No?

17:57Di ba,

17:58katawa mo?

17:59Di ba?

17:59Moagree mo,

17:59anay sir Mark,

18:00kasagaran mo yung mga laki,

18:01moingon,

18:02jud ba yan na,

18:02nga,

18:03natuok,

18:03masin yung uyab,

18:04uyab pa gani,

18:06morang masin ka na kasawa na,

18:08nga,

18:08pa-update,

18:08chuntag,

18:09asa mahitaw mo?

18:10Di ba,

18:10hindi ramang good food,

18:11good na good,

18:11especially kung nag-issue,

18:13siguro mo,

18:13ano,

18:13syempre,

18:14nag-in yung mga trust issues,

18:15pero at the end of the day,

18:16kanabang a little freedom,

18:19is important,

18:20because how can you grow individually?

18:22Di,

18:23tuod nag-menyo mo,

18:25kailangan,

18:25sige,

18:25magpilit sa usag-usa,

18:27tagaan,

18:28siyo nag-chance nga,

18:29mag-inhawa,

18:30no?

18:30Kanabang pamingaw sa kag-usahay ba?

18:33Sige,

18:33raw,

18:33magkita,

18:34tapad pa mo sbalay,

18:36tapad pa mo ikatulog,

18:37kuyo mo ikkaon,

18:38wala mo excitement,

18:39ana,

18:39magsige lang,

18:40magsige lang,

18:41mag-apong susag-usa,

18:43di ba siya na pwede?

18:44And of course,

18:45this would case in aninga case,

18:46because the husband is introvert,

18:48and she is extrovert,

18:50eh,

18:50an extrovert individual wanted to really socialize,

18:53most of the time.

18:54Ako,

18:54extrovert ko,

18:56before,

18:56pero na,

18:57feeling ako,

18:57ambivert na ako.

18:58Like,

18:59I can stand not going out,

19:01so much.

19:02Di man sa ko party person daan,

19:03pero,

19:04what I meant with being extrovert ka ng tok-tok,

19:06chika-chika,

19:06friends-friends,

19:07groups-groups,

19:08going out,

19:09gana-gana-gana.

19:10I can stand with just little or few people,

19:13but I can socialize.

19:14No,

19:14so pwede ta ambivert,

19:16like pwede ko alone time,

19:17ana,

19:17as I mature,

19:19feeling ako,

19:19inanan akong stance ka roon.

19:21But when I was way younger,

19:22as an extrovert person,

19:24gana-gana-gana,

19:24makitagdaghang tao,

19:26you want to be inside ka ng,

19:28example lang,

19:29mga birthdays,

19:29kaya na kayo makita ng mga relatives,

19:31family,

19:32you talk to them,

19:33you engage with them,

19:34gana-gana freedom ba?

19:35Gana-gana mag-laag-laag with friends,

19:37mag-chika-chika,

19:38that's how you relax, no?

19:40Especially kung nakay extrovert type of personality.

19:43Introvert can stand alone.

19:45Okay ra sila,

19:46mag-laag sila raosa,

19:47okay ra sila,

19:48magkaon sila raosa,

19:49and they don't mind.

19:50Okay ra sila,

19:51homebody sila,

19:52wala yung problema.

19:53They can stand with that.

19:54It's okay.

19:55Karoon ang iyong husband,

19:56given ng introvert,

19:57ganaan sa siguro nga,

19:58papuyon niyang asawas,

19:59balay po,

20:00yu lang kadira kay,

20:01wapay gasto.

20:01Diba grabe sa date na mag-date,

20:04pagloto din ha kay asawa,

20:05na teka,

20:06ha?

20:06Ura magsag,

20:07what's up ni mo asawa?

20:08Cinderella?

20:09Na ay uras ang paglakaw,

20:11kailangan mo uli

20:12yung before alas 12?

20:13Diba?

20:14So tinood lang,

20:15balisod ka ay

20:15yung inana nga dynamics nga,

20:17ka nang tuod man opposite mo,

20:19nindutunta kay mag-attract mo,

20:21kay di mo pare personality,

20:22ang problema man good,

20:23nahi mo na nung issue,

20:24kay murag ang usa,

20:26dili na niya makaya,

20:28nga higpit ang usa sa iya ha.

20:30So, anyway,

20:32sa mga nananaw din ha ha,

20:34if na mo'y ka-relationship ka ron,

20:36or you were part of a relationship once,

20:40nga introvert, extrovert personality,

20:42how did you manage your relationship?

20:44No?

20:45How can you manage the differences

20:47na inyuhang character

20:49na ay giposes nga in anilig?

20:52Siya,

20:53kuansya,

20:53kana bang,

20:55how do you call this?

20:59Mahog nga,

21:00ano,

21:01kana bang,

21:02introvert ka siya,

21:03tapos ikaw extrovert ka ka,

21:04so extremes mong duha,

21:05ang saan kumano yung pag-sulbad

21:06ang kuansin yung relationship,

21:09differences,

21:10no?

21:11Ayan,

21:11itong basahong diri,

21:13hi,

21:13Marilu Obenia,

21:15hello pretty chicksie,

21:16may hapon,

21:18napadiri,

21:18mhm,

21:21hi chicks,

21:22may hapon,

21:22good afternoon,

21:23kamo be,

21:23kung kamo si Rose,

21:24inyong bana,

21:25Rose,

21:25you're an extrovert person,

21:27nagminyaw mo si mong bana,

21:29one year pa lang mo sa inyong panag-uyab,

21:30pagminyaw ninyo,

21:32okay,

21:32raman,

21:32kaso lang,

21:33nadiskubrihan ni mong,

21:34ang inyong bana,

21:35may pagkahigpit ba?

21:36Dili kayo ka pala agun,

21:38gihimok ang housewife,

21:39kunya kung mananghit ka mula ag,

21:41nakay time limit,

21:42sigi ka monitor ni mo,

21:43feeling ni mo higpit na kayo mong bana,

21:46and your bana also,

21:47yung personality introvert,

21:49so opposite mo,

21:50kanang unsaman,

21:51unsa-on kaha ni mo,

21:53kay every time nga ma-open up ka niya,

21:55nga di kayo magpalabig higpit,

21:56mag-sorry,

21:56kung man,

21:57mabalik na sa pagkahigpit,

21:59nahugman na,

21:59meron medyo possessive yung bana,

22:02so feeling niya karunan na siya'y pagmahay,

22:04kung nga nung dalira kayo siya ni sugot,

22:06nga mag-minyot sila,

22:07ngayong ano,

22:08manday ang personality sa iyang bana,

22:10diba?

22:11Okay,

22:12so muna,

22:12ang pinakadak,

22:13pwede kung nga nahan mo judge,

22:14good,

22:15kaya,

22:15dili ko mo yungo nga,

22:16introvert people can not understand,

22:19the time nga,

22:20mugawa taong sa katawan,

22:21I think,

22:22personality gini niya,

22:23dili lang because introvert siya,

22:25nagini something yung bana,

22:26nga nung possessive,

22:27kaya siya ha nga,

22:28ako lang ka ha?

22:30Dili ka pwede maglaag-laag perminte?

22:33Muli kag sayo,

22:34hala,

22:35mura mag-anak ang asawa,

22:36uy,

22:37uli yun mag sayo,

22:38e gumag-school uli,

22:40huh?

22:41Sa man eh,

22:42dito pwede mag-inana,

22:43uy,

22:43naunsag yun,

22:44no?

22:44So muna,

22:46how will you solve this,

22:47kanabi taong situation,

22:50okay?

22:51Sige,

22:51kung ka mo ang naanin nga sitwasyon,

22:53unsaon manininyo be,

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23:23Kuwang rana sa anad,

23:25what do you mean anad?

23:26Maanad nga nas pa ni Malay,

23:28or maanad nga,

23:30naara siya din ha,

23:31wala nagawa sa,

23:32what do you mean?

23:33Sige,

23:34ato nang i-check.

23:35Anyway,

23:35so,

23:36before that,

23:37syempre,

23:37before kumuhatags akong advice,

23:39no?

23:39Atong i-shoutout sa tanampun na mga nananaw karun sa TikTok,

23:43hello everybody,

23:44thank you so much for watching,

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23:52Unya,

23:55Anita Dresa,

23:56to ang

23:57showbiz news ata,

24:00okay?

24:00Anita Dresa,

24:01showbiz news,

24:02speaking of being a wife,

24:04and being,

24:05kanina wife,

24:06makaingon sa guanin niya,

24:07kanang,

24:08kuwan kay siya,

24:09uy,

24:09kanang iligante ba?

24:12Unsay Chica,

24:14si Marian Rivera,

24:14bisan tuod,

24:15o misis na ni siya,

24:16o siya mismo ang nilirikit siyang kaugalingon siyang pamilya,

24:19Sir Mark,

24:20waman ni siya pugni ni Ding Dong,

24:21kaya padayon maghepo niyang career,

24:24no?

24:24In fact,

24:25kanina to ang i-share nga photos,

24:27was last month ni siya,

24:28Sir Mark,

24:29ni trending magod ni si Marian Rivera,

24:31sa Nasud nga Vietnam,

24:33so grabe kayo,

24:34wa siya nag-expect,

24:34ingon siya,

24:35niyang i-share nga,

24:36kilig kay siya ba,

24:37happy kay siya,

24:38nga naka-feel nga,

24:39grabe ang iyong fans na dito sa Nasud nga Vietnam,

24:42no?

24:43Kaya napili man ni siya,

24:44isip,

24:45usa sa mga murampa,

24:46sa usaka brand,

24:48sa Vietnam,

24:48which is why,

24:49kanina yung mga kaoban,

24:50mga Vietnamese,

24:50siguro ni siya niya,

24:52mga designer,

24:53gigan sa Vietnam,

24:54nirampa siya dito,

24:55hindi man siya na ito,

24:56ikalimod nga guapa,

24:57mag-Ukenis Marian,

24:58anyag mag-Ukenis Marian,

25:00iyahang,

25:00iyahang Spanish nga beauty,

25:03ni Lutaw Mangyod,

25:05no?

25:05And she is half Spanish,

25:07half Pinay,

25:08pero ni Lutaw,

25:09giniahang pagka-Espanyol,

25:10sa iyahang lugo,

25:12no?

25:12Hindi man,

25:12maklaro,

25:13judin mo nga guapa kayo siya sa ngatanan,

25:15grabe,

25:15ingon siya,

25:16nalipay siya,

25:17was siya nag-expect,

25:17after 10 years ko no Sir Mark nga,

25:20grabe gihapon ang paghangop

25:21sa mga taga-Vietnam niya,

25:23goes to show,

25:23despite of her being married

25:26to Ding Dong for almost,

25:28mga ina na po,

25:28mga 10 years ka pinag-renewal naman po ni sila,

25:31dugay na po ni silang Ding Dong,

25:33ay nagpadayon yung gihapon niya,

25:34ang iyahang,

25:35pagka-Kuangiyod,

25:37pagka-ila,

25:38bisag,

25:39minyo na siya,

25:40so mula ginamunig itawag nga,

25:41bisag minyo na ka,

25:42pwede na gihapon ka nga,

25:44mo sore high,

25:45sa iyong career,

25:46which is why maklaro din mo nga,

25:48she's beautiful and elegant niya,

25:50nanabay siya doon ka anak,

25:51so,

25:52grabe marian,

25:53saan mo marian na ginsa mo,

25:54grabe kayo no,

25:56pagka-maintain no,

25:57fit and beautiful and stunning,

26:00so,

26:00congratulations ni Marian Rivera,

26:02kanil ko natin malipay,

26:03o diba,

26:04apart from that,

26:05disipline po ni siya,

26:06no,

26:07makita ni mo,

26:07mag-workout,

26:08gihapon ni siya,

26:09disipline ni sila,

26:10kanil mga artista,

26:10kay naman din na,

26:11mga artista,

26:12mung gud na mung gudin sila,

26:13yung mga,

26:14kanilang goal,

26:15nga kailangan i-meet,

26:16mga weight,

26:17mga looks,

26:17nga kailangan i-meet,

26:19no,

26:19so,

26:19muna nga,

26:20grabe ka,

26:21fit,

26:21gihapon si Marian Rivera,

26:23and glowing,

26:24o diba,

26:25muna gitawag nga,

26:26basta di pasagdan,

26:27o basta,

26:28kung alam ka nang,

26:29kung singa na niyo,

26:29basta,

26:30ka nabang,

26:31i-allow lang sa ban na nga,

26:32musurhay,

26:33musurhay manjod,

26:34o diba,

26:35bongga kasi Marian,

26:36di hanggapita,

26:37o diba,

26:37makalipay mo na ni Sir Mark,

26:38nga nung ato,

26:39nang balita,

26:39bakay,

26:45sin sa Pilipinas,

26:46so,

26:46kung mailas nila sa laing naso,

26:48dako po ng garbo na to,

26:50no,

26:50so,

26:50hinahinay mo,

26:51open up na gintaan ng mga,

26:52ingunana,

26:53nga matang,

26:54nga mga recognition,

26:55from other countries,

26:56diba,

26:56anyway,

26:57muna,

26:57tungkol sa chika sa showbiz news,

27:01balik ta diri,

27:02kay morag,

27:03naglibog,

27:04napuntagun sa on,

27:05ni siya,

27:05pag sulubad na yung problema,

27:07ni,

27:07kana bitaw,

27:08ang rose bitaw,

27:09no,

27:10gamahay man siya,

27:11o,

27:12siya,

27:13mamahay na ko nga,

27:14masakto man eh,

27:15may too late naman makarealize nila,

27:16dapat wala na ako,

27:17may new idrit sa kumbana,

27:20diba,

27:20muna,

27:20diha,

27:21ron,

27:21kanya magod na siya,

27:23ang story na Judd,

27:23ano,

27:24kanya bitaw,

27:26well,

27:26lahi-lahi Judd na,

27:27ang timeline sa relationship,

27:29ako mutuo Judd ko nga,

27:30naay,

27:30mutuo,

27:31o,

27:31kanya bitaw,

27:32long,

27:34long dating phase,

27:35kanya,

27:36date nga,

27:37daily,

27:37kanya nag-date mo,

27:38as kanya mag-uyab-uyab pa mo,

27:39kanya,

27:39kanya uyab na Judd mo ba,

27:40and then you get to learn more about a person,

27:43nagani uban nga,

27:44they have this live-in set up,

27:45ang uban ha,

27:46I'm not judging,

27:47lahi-lahi-manta,

27:48naay uban nga,

27:49musud o live-in set up,

27:50just to know,

27:51if the,

27:53the chemistry,

27:54the,

27:55kanabitaw,

27:56environment,

27:57being together,

27:58in the same house,

27:59would work,

28:00no,

28:00naanay mga buhat-buhato na,

28:02mga inana,

28:02ang mga couples,

28:03depende na po na sa inyong choice,

28:05no,

28:05kung,

28:06naman mo yung freedom,

28:07un sa mga type of,

28:08kanang managrelasyon,

28:09o manag-uyab,

28:11sa ilang case,

28:12one year lang,

28:13and then nag,

28:13nag-i-do na,

28:15syempre,

28:16daily po na to na,

28:16i-kuan,

28:17i-disregard ang fact,

28:19na,

28:20there's so much to learn,

28:21no,

28:22in terms of personality,

28:24sa usak ka,

28:25partner,

28:26no,

28:27niya,

28:27kanabang may nguntag,

28:29sa mag-u-ni-sya,

28:30good ka nang,

28:30kung anong mag-u-kay-ni-sya,

28:31ka nang introvert,

28:33mag-u-ni-sya niya,

28:33ako extrovert,

28:34basic,

28:35mangyin na,

28:35nga na mo yung opposite,

28:37and ambot-ambot lang ninyo ha,

28:38pero,

28:39ma-agree ba mo,

28:39opposite attract sir,

28:42ma-agree mo,

28:43kaya nang di mo parek personality,

28:44mas ma-attract,

28:45si sir,

28:46it work,

28:46nga naman,

28:47ikaw may introvert no,

28:48extrovert,

28:49yung uyab,

28:50laging,

28:50itando siya,

28:51siya extrovert ko na iyang uyab,

28:52pero di siya higpit,

28:53di libang kahigpit,

28:54di ba sir,

28:55gamay,

28:56nga nga naman na,

28:58nga nga nga,

28:58tanata ka nandiri,

29:00ay pag-inanay sir ha,

29:01basi mo reklamo,

29:02yung mong igminyo ha,

29:05pero nga naman,

29:06nga naman,

29:07nga naman mag-higpit man,

29:10ay si Loso ka,

29:10dili,

29:12siya,

29:13pero mag-higpit ka niya,

29:14siya may higpit,

29:15di li ikaw,

29:15ah,

29:16okay,

29:17bali,

29:17dili ang introvert may higpit,

29:19ang extrovert may higpit,

29:21ikaw sir Mark,

29:22pareho mo personal,

29:23ay siya,

29:23kita ko,

29:24pero comfort,

29:25extrovert mo siya,

29:26ikaw introvert,

29:27pero ano,

29:29it works,

29:30so,

29:30sobra,

29:31no,

29:31pero na yung adjustment,

29:33pila katuig,

29:34unang in marriage,

29:36lahil-lahil,

29:36medyo mong personality,

29:38di ba,

29:38I mean,

29:39di ba,

29:39ang extrovert,

29:40magudiya mo na,

29:40kanang,

29:41kuwan kayo,

29:42kanang,

29:42murag ako,

29:43ano lang,

29:43kanang kuwan,

29:44chika-chika dito,

29:46chika-chika here,

29:46and everything,

29:47unya,

29:48ang usakay mo,

29:49murag,

29:49muli na ta,

29:50ikawin ako,

29:52ganang murag,

29:53mahurot nang,

29:53ano yung jika,

29:54kapahoy,

29:54kapahoy yun na,

29:55lahil ba yun na,

29:57di ba,

29:58muli ako na-learn,

29:59sa psychology ng mga klaseng,

30:01wow,

30:01nomino sa teacher,

30:02lahil-lahil,

30:03manggid na sila,

30:04personality,

30:04na ganang ambivert,

30:06the one in between,

30:07the one in between is,

30:09kaya niya maki-adjust,

30:10kung introvert ba siya,

30:12or extrovert,

30:12kaya niya i-balance,

30:13pero naamag tayo,

30:14extremes,

30:15like,

30:15kanang extremes mo,

30:16ni common,

30:16the extrovert,

30:17and the introvert,

30:18so,

30:20pila kat,

30:20ano,

30:21Sir Mark,

30:21si Sir Mark,

30:21kaya yun silang,

30:22inanap pa nilang set-up,

30:23though wala,

30:24hindi na nilang set-up,

30:25pero,

30:25si Sir Mark introvert,

30:26yung wife extrovert,

30:28pila katuig,

30:29una ka naka-adjust nga,

30:30inanap pa nilang wife,

30:32she's ka nang outgoing,

30:35okay,

30:35rakam mulaag siya,

30:37wala na kayo problema,

30:38bahalag mabiyan ka sa inyo,

30:41okay ra,

30:41o,

30:42di ba,

30:43so,

30:43na-times nga,

30:44siya na lang ang mulaag,

30:45ikaw di ka mukuyog,

30:47nga naman kapoy,

30:49o,

30:49see,

30:49because,

30:50most if not all,

30:52ano,

30:52mag-inan ko bang lalaki,

30:53kaya naman,

30:54balayan ko eh,

30:54ha,

30:55kung ano ko direct,

30:56ano ko TV,

30:57basket,

30:57games,

30:58diba,

30:59o,

31:00si Eric ka,

31:00noon sa kanin si Eric,

31:01no,

31:01wala ka ba sa personality ni Eric,

31:03what's up ka Rick,

31:04extrovert ka introvert,

31:07ambivert,

31:08o,

31:09pero,

31:09if,

31:10in anang case Rick,

31:12magsige ba kag-monitor,

31:13si emuhang ano,

31:14GF,

31:16monitor ka,

31:17from every uras,

31:18kuni-uli na ba,

31:21what's up sa oras,

31:22sa one,

31:2230 minutes na kang naglakaw,

31:24apaka ni uli,

31:25grabe sa 30 minutes,

31:26ay,

31:27grabe sad,

31:28di ba,

31:28pero,

31:29mo lagi na,

31:29no,

31:30I mean,

31:31adjustment,

31:32mo ni ang word,

31:33we have to adjust,

31:34because,

31:35kanang imuhang,

31:36ba na,

31:38o,

31:38ikaw nga asawa,

31:39given naman d'yo na,

31:40by the thought of it,

31:42nga babae ka,

31:43lalaki siya,

31:44daghan naman d'yo kalahean,

31:45no,

31:46regardless,

31:47kung introvert,

31:48or extrovert,

31:48ang personality,

31:49sa managtia yun,

31:52mailhan na mag-iud po na inyong mga batasan,

31:54along the way,

31:55kabalo mo,

31:56kung na ako'y mga nahibauan,

31:58anong mga long-term relationship,

32:01gano'y mga,

32:01na nasa 30 years,

32:0325 years,

32:0415 years,

32:06wala pa ko na ha,

32:06pero,

32:07kanang na-learn ako,

32:08kayo siyempre,

32:08extrovert man ko sa tabian man ko,

32:10nung kitabi,

32:10mandyug ko,

32:11kung na ako'y na-learn,

32:13is that,

32:14you will always discover something new about your partner,

32:18dili na,

32:19nagpasabot nga,

32:20it stops,

32:22after mo nag-uyab,

32:24in the marriage,

32:25napaka'y madiskubre,

32:27you know,

32:27some secrets,

32:29some past,

32:29kanang experiences,

32:31some personalities,

32:32you never thought they have,

32:35or they possess,

32:36daghan yung kaayo na,

32:38no,

32:38mumpito ni Anna sila nga,

32:40it's better when you date,

32:41kailangan,

32:42you date nga,

32:43deeply,

32:44you understand deeply,

32:45the personality,

32:46dili lang ka nang,

32:47in the romance ha,

32:48tarongan na to,

32:49dili lang kutob sa romance,

32:50nga relationship,

32:51or lustful,

32:52whatever,

32:52what I'm trying to say is that,

32:54you have to get to know,

32:55in a deeper level,

32:57kung unsag yun,

32:58ang personality sa tao,

32:59in terms of conversation,

33:01kaya nga naman,

33:03in the marriage,

33:04di naman good ni mo mauli,

33:05tinood yun na,

33:06he's good pag itato ganina nga,

33:08unsag to,

33:08wala na yung can on,

33:10ah di,

33:10ang kami nyo on,

33:11dili mo ragkan on,

33:12nga init,

33:13nga kumpirting init,

33:14tapos din ni mong iluwa,

33:15so mong lagi na,

33:16di naman ni mo mauli,

33:18di naman ni mo mabali,

33:20mabali,

33:21pero nalang,

33:21umugasto ka for annulment,

33:23ya pila man sa katuig,

33:24ya pila man sa 100,000,

33:25ni mong gasto on,

33:26or more,

33:27para lang,

33:28Jude,

33:28kaya di nakaganahan sa personality,

33:30so,

33:30kani personality,

33:31mahilot pa man yun,

33:32no adjustment lang,

33:33feeling na ako,

33:34dili pa lang sa Jude,

33:35kama umu-adjust ang lalaki,

33:38nga,

33:39kanabang,

33:40tagaan pa,

33:40oh freedom,

33:41pwede sa kamangotana sa lalaki,

33:43kaya basin,

33:43kung mga yun sa kagpanglaag,

33:45ka nagdaghan sa kikagpangayoon,

33:47basin tag 10,000 pesos,

33:48pwede mong pangayoon,

33:49ya pila,

33:50rice wheel doon sa bana,

33:51no,

33:51or pwede sa kamangungin nga,

33:53kanang,

33:54babe,

33:55kuwan,

33:55o babe,

33:56babe lang tawagan na eh,

33:57babe,

33:58pwede raman,

33:58babe nga,

33:59kanang,

34:00kanang,

34:01I work na po,

34:01this time,

34:02just give me freedom,

34:03just give me a life,

34:04that there's balance,

34:06no,

34:06kaya boring,

34:06kaya nga narako sa balay,

34:07so,

34:08explic ka rin,

34:09unya,

34:09kung di ligod mahimo,

34:11go ahead and seek for a marriage counselor,

34:15ako,

34:15mutuo ko,

34:16ana,

34:16like,

34:17counseling,

34:17mutuo ko,

34:18ana,

34:18kaya I think,

34:20kung wala,

34:20kung ingin mo ha manggong husband,

34:23hindi naging kaya siya maminaw ni mo,

34:26maglisod tayo along the way,

34:27and it's nice nga,

34:28karoon nga,

34:29wapa sila anak,

34:30Sir Mark,

34:30kaya I think wala pa sila anak,

34:31it's nice nga,

34:32karoon nga,

34:32wapa mo'y anak,

34:33inyo na naging fix,

34:34kaya,

34:35inigabot sa time nga,

34:36nanay anak,

34:37oh,

34:38the more,

34:38di naging siya kalakaw tuod,

34:40kaya magmama naman naging siya,

34:42di ba,

34:42so,

34:43dapat karoon pa lang,

34:44kung saan yung mga internal issues,

34:45imong ban na samtang,

34:46wala pa mo'y baby,

34:48inyo naging naging isgutan,

34:49unya,

34:50lay down the cards,

34:51and tell him,

34:52natuok naging kuha ni babe,

34:53nga ka nang wala ko'y feeling na ko,

34:55baby ko ni mo,

34:56i-allow to enjoy,

34:58no,

34:59niya,

34:59maagad kuglaag ni mo,

35:00di man sag kaganahan,

35:01kaya kapuyan ka,

35:03no,

35:03we also need a little dynamics,

35:06nga kung pagbigyan ti ka nga na housewife ko,

35:08pagbigisan ko nga magla-accepta sometimes,

35:11I think balance lang,

35:13balance kaya wala,

35:14wala,

35:14di rinapitaw,

35:15kung nakitag balance mo,

35:16siguro si girl,

35:17may give in to the thought,

35:19nga mag housewife siya,

35:20to serve the guy,

35:21but the boy didn't also,

35:24give way to the thought,

35:25that her missus,

35:26or his missus,

35:28is extrovert and outgoing,

35:30wala niya natagaan,

35:31yung chance to,

35:33kanabitaw,

35:34kanag-enjoy,

35:35no,

35:36the me time,

35:37or alone time,

35:38kaya regardless if you're married,

35:39mutuog yung go,

35:41nga you need to also grow individually,

35:43even if you're a couple,

35:44even if,

35:45nag-menu na mo,

35:46even sa uyab,

35:47usahe gani,

35:47okay na kayo na nga,

35:48di mo always magsigig monitor,

35:50asa nakakaroon,

35:50once ayun mong gilunch,

35:53kaya siguro,

35:54kung first few stages sa relationship,

35:56okay kayo na nga,

35:57magsigig kag-follow up,

35:58pero,

35:59now na you're married,

36:00siguro a little trust is important,

36:03nga,

36:03diligid all the time,

36:04sige kag-monitor,

36:05diligid all the time,

36:06sige kag-ingon nga,

36:07ang sama,

36:08nagkaon,

36:08nakalab,

36:09aw,

36:09momen eh,

36:11wuso ron,

36:12pasig si Eric na na siya,

36:13giteksan,

36:14nagkaon,

36:14nakalab,

36:15ah,

36:15wuso ron,

36:17kaya na ron,

36:18hanggang term,

36:19di ba,

36:20kayo,

36:20wata ka palo,

36:21oh,

36:22di ba,

36:22so,

36:23diligid all the time,

36:24ngayon mong ingnon,

36:25inaana,

36:25no,

36:26diligid all the time,

36:27nga,

36:27magsigig kag-follow up,

36:28you just allow them to grow,

36:30to breathe,

36:31kay,

36:31permi naman mo,

36:32uban,

36:33sige pa,

36:33yung kag-monitor,

36:34morag,

36:35diligid naman sa yun,

36:35siguro sa yun nga,

36:37ingunana na lang,

36:38permi,

36:38ako as a woman,

36:40in the first stage of a relationship,

36:42especially kung boyfriend,

36:43girlfriend,

36:44mag-ila-ila mo,

36:44natural d'yo na,

36:45on sa kakaroon,

36:46on sa mga buhat,

36:47naligo na ka,

36:48nikau na ka,

36:48natural naman na ang conversation,

36:50pero,

36:50if na nakasalong relationship,

36:53di hao manin mo makuanan nga,

36:54ay,

36:55for as long as this person knew what I'm doing today,

36:58okay naman,

36:59di ba,

37:00okay naman,

37:00I mean,

37:01I'm not saying,

37:01napabaya ka ha,

37:02siguro ten of the day,

37:03o,

37:03kumusta man ka,

37:04nag-unsa nakakaroon,

37:05nanakodari sa kani,

37:06kani akong gi-work,

37:07okay,

37:07sige,

37:08and then,

37:08it doesn't mean nga,

37:09every minute,

37:09every hour,

37:10nakamonitor,

37:11d'yo kasi,

37:11imuuyaw,

37:11I mean,

37:13kailangan punog space,

37:15because,

37:15wala na excitement,

37:16kung wala space,

37:18kung wala po siya,

37:19wala po siya lugar,

37:21for herself,

37:22to explore,

37:23to grow,

37:23to go out,

37:24once naman,

37:24yung mga conversation,

37:26basin maabutan sa puntong,

37:27kanin mong banas,

37:28sobra kaposesive niya,

37:29naragyo kasi inyong balay,

37:30panagsara ka palaagon,

37:31ang inyong mahisgutan,

37:32ang tiki,

37:33sa bumbong,

37:34di ba kay,

37:35wala na,

37:36wala na,

37:36wala na siya may excite,

37:37di ba,

37:37if you get my point,

37:39wala na siya,

37:40ikashare si Mrs. Kang Banak,

37:42kaya wala na siya,

37:42gawas-gawas,

37:44puwala,

37:44magkita siya,

37:45kaya ba ba ka babe,

37:46nila ako dito,

37:47na na yung mga Christmas decor dito,

37:49nag-sale,

37:49mamalita kay Pasko na,

37:51o di ba,

37:51na yung mahisgutan ba,

37:53no,

37:54it's,

37:54I hope you get my point here,

37:56nga,

37:57sometimes,

37:58our partner needs,

38:00kanabitang,

38:01their own time,

38:02alone,

38:03to enjoy,

38:04but that doesn't mean nga,

38:06kung mulakaw sila,

38:07mulaag sila,

38:09nangita na sila,

38:09glaing,

38:10diliin,

38:10on a wing,

38:11no,

38:11and you have to trust,

38:13na,

38:14your,

38:15kuan,

38:15your wife,

38:16might be siguro,

38:17kaya siguro,

38:18social butterfly,

38:18siguro na yung wife,

38:19kanabang,

38:20kuan kayang wife,

38:21baka nang siguro,

38:22close kay,

38:23dali kay makahilo-bilo,

38:24so,

38:24basin siloso si Mr.

38:26na,

38:27no,

38:27makita nga,

38:28makikitabi na yung uglaki,

38:30makikitabi na yung kuan,

38:31no,

38:32siguro,

38:32inana siya nga type,

38:33but,

38:34eh,

38:34alaw po si wife,

38:36o to explore,

38:37no,

38:37what,

38:38she is,

38:39she truly is,

38:40kaya,

38:40ba't yung mga kayo na nga,

38:41tuko na lang po na to,

38:42kaya tungod,

38:43di mo pa rin personality,

38:44gusto na lang po di mo,

38:45ma-introvert na lang po siya,

38:46yung bisag extrovert,

38:47good siya,

38:47listen,

38:48bad po na,

38:49no,

38:49and also wife,

38:50you won't force your husband

38:51to be an extrovert person,

38:52if introvert,

38:53good siya,

38:54but just meet halfway,

38:55mo ni ang word,

38:56meet halfway and balance,

38:57and adjustment,

38:59in the early stages of a marriage,

39:01there is more to discover,

39:03sure ko,

39:03di panikan ni,

39:04kung karoon palang ganin,

39:05nagreklam mo na mo sa inani,

39:08years to come,

39:09as what I've mentioned,

39:10I've talked to,

39:11relations,

39:12people with long relationship,

39:15like 15,

39:1625,

39:1730 years,

39:19their secret in marriage,

39:20daghan,

39:21lahilahe,

39:21pag sinabtanay,

39:23antos,

39:23antosay,

39:24na yung mga yung nanang,

39:25natubag,

39:25antos na lang,

39:27kaya mo na magid ni,

39:28na yung nanang,

39:28antos para mas antos,

39:30nasa yung mga na,

39:31happy wife,

39:31happy life,

39:32nasa yung mga na,

39:34kaya nang,

39:35well,

39:35mo na magid ni,

39:36kaya din,

39:36na magid mo uli,

39:37ang kami noon,

39:38pero nasa yung mga ingon,

39:39na give and take,

39:40so lahilahe na,

39:41pero the secret to marriage,

39:43na yung mga yung nanang,

39:44nasa yung uban nga,

39:45they will discover a lot of things,

39:47even if they are in a marriage of 30 years,

39:51no,

39:51kaya naagyod na yung mga personality,

39:53especially kung manigwang na,

39:55manggawas na mga kinaiya,

39:56sobrang kinaiya,

39:57nga di ganun mo masabtan,

39:59naanamang yun na,

40:00so,

40:01adjustment lang yun,

40:02para na ko adjustment,

40:03open heart,

40:04open mind,

40:05and you have to ask him,

40:07kanya,

40:07basiwanin na yung muna pangunta na,

40:09nga naman babe,

40:10nga,

40:11madluk mang ka,

40:12kung siya may problema,

40:13kaya nangisagutan na mo ni Chari ganun,

40:14di ba ka inferior,

40:16ang ano,

40:17husband,

40:18no,

40:18kaya ito nang i-search,

40:19kung saan mo ganyan yung meaning sa inferior,

40:21kaya,

40:22may nang mas search ta,

40:24o,

40:24di ba,

40:25kanya murag sya ga,

40:27well,

40:28from the word itself,

40:30inferior,

40:30inferiority complex,

40:32no,

40:33a persistent feeling of inadequacy,

40:37or insecurity,

40:39no,

40:39often leading to,

40:41deep-seated belief,

40:43that one is deficient,

40:44or inferior to others,

40:46so,

40:46naapoy na,

40:47na low self-esteem,

40:48na self-doubt,

40:49no,

40:50na siya yung mga inana,

40:52na yung mga,

40:53kana bang,

40:54na yung mga moments,

40:55pasig inana po siya nga,

40:57murag,

40:59siguro,

41:01makita siya nga yung wife,

41:02na yung kalingawan lain,

41:03basin ma,

41:04inferior sya,

41:05basin pod,

41:07or basin magselo sya,

41:08kay,

41:09basin malingaw na ang iyong wife,

41:11sa lain company,

41:11uldili na sa iya,

41:12ha,

41:13siloso dahil ni si husband,

41:15dapat mag story edud mo,

41:17so,

41:17ano,

41:18mutuogid ko ang mahilot rani,

41:19and if diligid makaya,

41:21seek for someone better,

41:22who knows how to,

41:24fix relationships,

41:25such as,

41:25mga marriage counselors,

41:27no,

41:28ano,

41:28seek for your,

41:29oh,

41:29seek guidance from your ninang,

41:31and ninong sa kasal,

41:32that's where the role,

41:33the role should come in,

41:35your parents should come in,

41:37ay,

41:37lalang sa parents,

41:38kaya,

41:38ang parents,

41:39bias-bias man yung parents,

41:40yung kinsang anak,

41:41di ba,

41:42oh,

41:42ang mga ninong,

41:42ugninang sa kasal,

41:43doola,

41:44kung saan ninyo yung marriage,

41:46okay,

41:46because I'm sure,

41:48that at the end of the day,

41:49if you choose to be together,

41:51you will always be together,

41:53because,

41:53paranako,

41:54though love,

41:55feelings,

41:56cannot be dictated,

41:57pero it's always a choice,

41:59to stay,

42:00with that person,

42:01you want to stay with,

42:02for the rest of your life,

42:04so,

42:04mo lang na,

42:05I hope a little adjustment will do,

42:07and in time,

42:07ma-okay ra,

42:08o mahilot ra,

42:09and,

42:10be ready,

42:11because there's more discovery,

42:13in the rest of the years,

42:14na you're married with your husband,

42:15and I hope in time,

42:16as early as now,

42:18sa inyong hang stage in marriage,

42:19kung pa mo yung anak,

42:20ma-fix na ninyo nga issue,

42:21thank you so much,

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42:23Rose,

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