- 3 months ago
Dear Chixie,
Tawga lang ko og Lyn. I have a boyfriend for almost 13 years. Dili malikayan nga ang among family and friends magsige og pangutana og kanus-a mi magminyo. Bisan ako usahay makaoverthink nganong wala pa nipropose ang akong uyab hangtud ron. Naa koy bestfriend nga tawgon lang nato sa pangalan nga Mia. Wala pagyud ni kasuway og uyab si Mia, kutob ra talking stage. Gwapa baya ang akong amiga maong mag wonder lang pud mi. Until, usa ka adlaw iya nalang kong gipaila sa iyang uyab. Nalipay gyud ko, Chixie, kay nakita sad nako nga happy ang akong friend ug buotan sad ang lalaki.
Usa ka adlaw, ila nalang kong gibalitaan nga engaged na sila ug magpakasal na sila. Wala ko kasabot sa akong gibati pero nakafeel ko og kasuya.
Tawga lang ko og Lyn. I have a boyfriend for almost 13 years. Dili malikayan nga ang among family and friends magsige og pangutana og kanus-a mi magminyo. Bisan ako usahay makaoverthink nganong wala pa nipropose ang akong uyab hangtud ron. Naa koy bestfriend nga tawgon lang nato sa pangalan nga Mia. Wala pagyud ni kasuway og uyab si Mia, kutob ra talking stage. Gwapa baya ang akong amiga maong mag wonder lang pud mi. Until, usa ka adlaw iya nalang kong gipaila sa iyang uyab. Nalipay gyud ko, Chixie, kay nakita sad nako nga happy ang akong friend ug buotan sad ang lalaki.
Usa ka adlaw, ila nalang kong gibalitaan nga engaged na sila ug magpakasal na sila. Wala ko kasabot sa akong gibati pero nakafeel ko og kasuya.
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04:59During those times nga nagkatrabaho mi, naan ako'y uyab.
06:07Besh, I don't want to go on, Uy.
06:11Basin, delay pa time ni Mo. Besides, bata pa man kagod.
06:15The right time will come para ni Mo.
06:18No, Besh, Uy. Feeling ako, no? Basin, mag-minute na lang mo ni Arthur. Single ang gihapon ko.
06:26Grabe po, Uy. Layo pa siguro may anang ka-minute, Besh, Uy.
06:30Uy, delay ko kaingon. Diba, college pa ta, kamo naman.
06:35Bila na ganito mo katuig ni Arthur?
06:37Ah, mmm, 12 years na po, Dba, Uy. See? Basin, hapit na mo mag-menu. Basin di ay, mag-propose na si Arthur sa imo, ha?
06:49Na? Dili pa siguro, Besh, Uy.
06:54Pero kung kung saan manggali, Ilin, ha? Timanini, I will be very happy for you.
06:59Na, na, sige na, mgaung na ta kay Basin, Uy. Mag-drama na kagsamot, Ani.
07:03Kining si Mia, Chixie. Mag-wonder good ko, kung ano dawng dili good siya maka-uyab.
07:15O baka, makamatgunsad ko nga, sige na siyag paasahong nung lalaki.
07:20Honestly, Chixie, guwapa man si Mia, Uy.
07:25Mung, bisag ako ga-wonder nga nung inaana man o diligid siya ka-uyab.
07:30Pero siguro, may pagka-inosintihon po doog karakter ni si Mia.
07:36Joker siya gamay, pero medyo formalon po.
07:38Kaya, lagi, honestly, arangan o kahimtang sa kinabuhi.
07:44Kaya negosyante man po dangihang mga ginikanan.
07:47Kung baga, Basin, ma-intimidate lang sudsiguro ang mga lalaki sa akong amiga.
07:54Hangtod sa milabay ang pila kabuan,
07:56o gibalitaan ko ni Mia,
07:59na naanas siya'y lalaki na special siyang kinabuhi.
08:03Kinsa nang uyab ka niya, o guwa madugay,
08:07iyahang gisugot.
08:09Nalipay ko para sa akong amiga,
08:12pero wala ko mag-expect sa kapaspas sa progress sa iyahang relasyon.
08:23Lynn!
08:25Lynn!
08:27Na di ko'y gusto nga isultin ni mo.
08:29Actually, kami ni James. Di ba, babe?
08:31Oo, mawag yud, Lynn.
08:34And I hope musugot ka.
08:36Ah, unsa-unsama na.
08:39Alimang gudin siya, kanang...
08:42Uy, Besh, ayaw ka siya, kasakas akong isultin ni mo.
08:45Hala, uy, marag na lipay lagi ko.
08:48Sige ko, unsa man na, isultin na.
08:50Kanang, James, babe, ikaw nalang isulti, uy.
08:54Kakute yun ni mo, babe.
08:56Ah, ipakita na lang ka natang Lynn, babe.
08:59Unsay, unsay ipakita.
09:02Kaniyo, look, oh.
09:05S-sing-sing?
09:06Wait!
09:08Wow! Kanay sa sing-sing, uy.
09:10Besh, James, don't tell me.
09:13Oh my God, engage na mo.
09:15Oo.
09:16Nag-propose siya.
09:18And I said yes.
09:20Mauna nga, ganahan ni personal ka na mo nga yung nun, Lynn.
09:24Mm-mm, kitungod, ganahan pod ko nga.
09:28Kung pwede lang, ikaw ang mamahimong maid of honor sa among wedding.
09:33Pero kung an ka nanggi, unsa, I mean, kanusama na, kanusama na, nga, nag-propose si James ni mo?
09:39Ah, katungan, Lynn.
09:40Pag celebrate na mo sa among ika-fifth month, I propose to her.
09:46Unsama man ang dugayan nga, sure naman kung siya adjud akong ipaabot.
09:50O, siya adjud ang the one.
09:52Wow!
09:53Kapas-pas, ha?
09:55Gadali mo?
09:57Wala man, pero, di ba, as they say, Besh, when you know, you know.
10:03So, unsa man, musugot ka nga, maid of honor ka sa akong wedding?
10:06Ah, oo, oo, sige, sige, sure, Besh.
10:09Thanks, Besh.
10:15Wala akong mag-expect sa kapas-pas sa dagan sa relasyon ni Mia, o ni James.
10:21I was surprised, Giyod.
10:24Pero, usapod sa dili na ako masabtan, kaya ang akong gibati towards that news.
10:32Murabag, deep inside me, I was not fully happy about it, Shixie.
10:38Dili ko sure kung nasuya ba ko, or worried lang ko, nga pas-pas kaayo ang dagan sa ilang relasyon.
10:46To the point nga, nakadesider na sila, nga mag-menyudahin sila.
10:52Knowing, bago pa sila nga nagkailhanay, o nagkauyap.
10:57I also felt bad, kaya morag akong nakumpara ang akong relasyon sa ilaha.
11:03Imagine, akong relasyon with Arthur, kaya padulong na mag-13 years.
11:08And yet, wala pa kuhagda, o pagpakasal.
11:12Nakakwestiyon na hinuan ko sa akong worth, o nag-wonder nga,
11:16Basin, di ligyod ako ang the one ni Arthur.
11:21Tungod ni Inie, Shixie, magpatambag ko.
11:24Normal na ba ni akong gibati, nga morag di kaayo ko super happy sa good news sa akong amiga?
11:33Am I being a bad friend for feeling this way?
11:38Unsa man ang akong angayng buhaton.
11:40Please, tambagiko, Lynn.
11:45Thank you so much, Chari and Eric.
12:04Chari is back.
12:05Thank you, Kaayo, for giving life to our Letters Sander Lynn.
12:10So, moniayang story, no?
12:12Obviously, ang hashtag envy because probably nasuya siya sa latest kanabitawong progress sa relationship.
12:22Siya ang best friend nga si Mia, our close friend nga si Mia.
12:25Di in five months pa lang, ang boyfriend ni Mia nga si James,
12:29gihagad na uug kami noon si Mia.
12:31Hinungdan nga sa pagkakaroon as of this very moment.
12:35Daw ba, deep inside her, she is not fully happy because nasa'y tendency nga makumpara ang progress sa iyang relasyon
12:45towards nga to kang the life of Mia.
12:52So, kung ka mo ang nasa iyong sitwasyon, unsama ng inyong thinking.
12:56Is it right? Is it wrong? Or is there anything else na kanabitawong, we need to somehow, no?
13:08Identify kung anong ingon-anak siya, anong medyo in view siya, anong suyaon siya sa sitwasyon.
13:13But very basically, ingon siya rin, basically, naanagi siyang kanana-question na yung kaugalingon
13:19because sila ni Arthur 13 years and there's no ring.
13:23However, yung friend nga si Mia, five months lang and there's a ring.
13:27So, nanay-proposal, no?
13:29So, muna, ato niyong diskusyonan, kung na mo yung mga opinion sa live,
13:33go ahead and share your thoughts.
13:35Kay, welcome man ang tanan-ani para mo-advise sa itong program ng DH6C.
13:40And hopefully, inyong hapong ma-share ang inyong sentiments with regards to our story.
13:49Kay, kung ka mo ang nasa sitwasyon, siguro na po'y inanak nga feeling
13:53ang anong sila pas-pas-rakay ang progress.
13:56Kitaan niyon, sa una lang, diba?
13:59So, ato nang huwaton kung unsag yun ang mahita bo, anong sitwasyon na, okay?
14:06Sige.
14:07So, atong huwaton nang uban pa na mga thoughts.
14:11And hopefully, makakuha ito ang exact nga kanabitaw ang advice nga haom
14:17nga to kang, or alang kang, Lynn nga tong letter sender.
14:23So, once again, welcome to DH6C.
14:25Just a summary, kung bago lang ka nakatanaw, just a briefer.
14:28Again, si Lynn, nasa siya uyab for almost 13 years now.
14:32Dilimali kayan nga sa ilang family and friends.
14:34Magsiging na pangotana, kanun sa mag-menu, bisansya, usahay, mag-overthink.
14:39Nga nung wala pa na-propose yung uyab, hangtod ka ron.
14:41Huwag na ka siya yung best friend, nga tawag sa pangalan nga Mia.
14:44Wala pa yun si Mia kaso ay uguyab.
14:48Hangtod na lang yun sa mga talking stage.
14:50Guwapa ba yung yung amiga, maung nag-wonder siya.
14:53Until, o sa kaadlaw, iyahan na lang na matiknan nga si Mia.
14:57Doon na na yung uyab.
14:59Huwag eventually, after 5 months, nag-propose na ka niya.
15:01So, itong tanaw niyong thoughts sa Dili pa.
15:05Ito sa i-shoutout ang nagtanaw ka ron.
15:07Cha-cha Boyles.
15:08Greet ko ni Nanay Eri Boyles.
15:10O Vanessa Peralta.
15:13Oo.
15:14And lakip na po si Amarie Van Nicolet Boyles.
15:17O Ola Boyles.
15:19Nga.
15:20O si Minik Boyles.
15:21Sa Buhol.
15:23Sa Ubay Buhol.
15:24Hello.
15:24Shoutout everybody.
15:26Go ahead and share your thoughts sa itong story ka ron.
15:30Kung mahimo nga, i-comment ninyo kung saan niya pag overcome,
15:35mangyayang envy stage or nasuya siya stage.
15:40Nasuya?
15:41Imposible kayo nga, wala tayo kasuya.
15:43O eh, mag-perfect na lang manjood ka ayun.
15:45But naamagoy degree ang kasuya.
15:47Suya in such a way nga,
15:49ay na, nice ka ayun.
15:50Masuya ta, pero ma-inspired po ta.
15:52Pero naamagoy kasuya nga, pati pwede ka ayun.
15:55Morabag negative ang vibe, no?
15:58Sa pagkasuya.
15:59No?
16:00Para nako, kung masuya ka, you're like,
16:02that's something that is in character of a person.
16:05Isang kamot, be.
16:06Nga ka nang wagid nasuya every silang life.
16:09O sila si Sir Tash, mong kataan na ako,
16:10wala gin mo nasuya ever?
16:12Bisag ka usa?
16:13Wala gin nasuya?
16:15O wala mo isa?
16:16Kaya nasuya ang tanaan dyan.
16:18Nagsigik kasuyaan na agyo, diba?
16:20O, it's either nasuya ka kaya na siya yung inana nga gamit.
16:23O, pwede.
16:24It's either nasuya ka kaya,
16:26Uy, in fairness, inana na yung kinabuhi.
16:28Ako diri, diri lang kihapon.
16:29Pero, wala na nagpasabot nga,
16:30nagpa-drown ka sa kasuya.
16:32Naamay usahin, masuya ka,
16:33pero that, kanap itong jealousy of yours
16:36will also serve as a motivation
16:37para mo level up kasi mong kinabuhi.
16:39However, ina mo kayo mga kasuya,
16:41pariho, ani, life decision, be, ani, ha?
16:43Kanang wakkahagdag kami niyong onlisod, be.
16:45Kaya naalangan naman mo ana si,
16:46kanang kuan mo, ana si Linsa,
16:48iyang uyab nga si Arthur nga,
16:50babe, pag-propose na na ako,
16:51Biki, nag-propose na ba si James,
16:53nga dukang kuan, kang Mia.
16:54O, diba?
16:55Lahilahi, beg, sitwasyon ang matag relasyon.
16:58Lahilahi po, duga,
16:59kanabitaong posibleng giagian
17:01o igong rasyon kung anong karoon
17:03kapag iha po nang-propose niya,
17:04ang iyahang bana, diba?
17:06Common, be, a kind of,
17:07if na ka sa long-term relationship,
17:10ang pinaka-basic na pangutan na,
17:11ang pinaka-common question is,
17:14pag-menu na mo,
17:15or kano saan mo mag-menu,
17:16kano saan mo mag-bildog family,
17:18kano saan mo mga anak,
17:18it's something that is makapressure, ha?
17:21Pero I have a feeling,
17:22depende na po sa tao kung saan
17:24ano yung pag-receive.
17:25Kaya na may uban nga,
17:26they understood that it isn't a time yet,
17:29pero I think ang Lynn,
17:30she's ready or ready na mag-level up.
17:32However,
17:33ang iyahang boyfriend nga si Arthur,
17:34wala mangyod ni-propose.
17:36So, made her wonder nga,
17:38ano,
17:39anong saan may feeling,
17:40ni,
17:40kaya kung nakumpara na noon niya
17:42sa iyong friend nga si Mia,
17:43nga naagyo'y proposal nga na hitabo.
17:47So,
17:47let's move forward,
17:49let's take a pause,
17:50and then once we get back sa itong story,
17:52after sa itong showbiz news,
17:54ito nang tagaan,
17:55uga,
17:55lamdaga,
17:56nang hunahuna ni Lynn,
17:57no,
17:58para sa pag-overcome sa iyong feelings of envy,
18:02o,
18:02towards sa iyahang friend nga si Lynn,
18:04o sa progress sa relationship ni Lynn.
18:07So,
18:08ano yung-ana,
18:09ano yung tagadres na itong kuano,
18:11um,
18:11unsay chika segment,
18:13so,
18:13Dear Chixie,
18:14let's go!
18:25Alright,
18:26unsay chika segment,
18:28speaking of marriage and,
18:30marriage,
18:31marriage,
18:32sorry,
18:33speaking of marriage and weddings,
18:34ang singer nga si Selena Gomez,
18:37hingpit na nga nag-i-do,
18:39siya iyang ang music producer husband na,
18:42nga si,
18:43Benny Blanco.
18:46Okay,
18:47na hitaboan kami nyo on,
18:48during the weekend,
18:49exactly,
18:50Saturday,
18:51September 27,
18:54o 2025,
18:56sa US time,
18:57of course.
18:58So,
18:58muna nagitawag nga congratulations ni Selena.
19:01Actually,
19:02um,
19:02di man sa dadugay lang nga,
19:04bagong na-announce nga,
19:04engage siya, no?
19:06But,
19:06I think,
19:07ah,
19:07ang nakapalipay po na ni siyang mga fans,
19:09because she finally found that one person,
19:12no?
19:12Who will stood by her.
19:13Kaya kaya ba lumampunta na,
19:15si Selena Gomez before,
19:17ang yung mga previous nga relationship,
19:19very public as well,
19:20given,
19:20nga artista siya,
19:21so,
19:22kaya ba po na,
19:22or it's not just an artist,
19:24acting,
19:24but,
19:25she is a singer,
19:26performer.
19:27So,
19:27grabe kaysa nga ta na lang,
19:29mga controversies,
19:30ang pinaka-famous nga relationship niya was when,
19:32she was involved with Justin Bieber,
19:34but that was then.
19:36Kay,
19:36katunang sa una,
19:37mga bata pa sila niya.
19:38In fact,
19:39si Justin Bieber,
19:39dugay naman nag-menyo.
19:41So,
19:41karoon-menyo na si Selena,
19:43malipay na po ng uban,
19:44and munigitawag na,
19:46mauna man ng uban,
19:47maabot na po rin yung mga time.
19:49Diba?
19:49So,
19:50best wishes,
19:51and congratulations to Selena Gomez.
19:54As we move forward,
19:56kani,
19:56successful ang kami nyo on.
19:57Kani,
19:58murag,
19:58controversial gihapon.
20:00Philippine showbiz ata,
20:01when it comes to,
20:03the question ng bayan,
20:04kung kumusta,
20:05o okay pa ba?
20:06Si Paula Huyong,
20:07nga mo'y,
20:08fiance,
20:09ni Ryan Bang.
20:11Ang showtime host nga si Ryan Bang,
20:13diba,
20:14nag-propose po din siya last year,
20:16sa iyahang girlfriend nga si Paula Huyong.
20:19Nani sila'y business, no?
20:20Si Ryan Bang is,
20:21apart from acting,
20:22or being a host sa showtime,
20:25nani siya'y business,
20:26Korean business,
20:27food business.
20:28Sa Osaka building,
20:29na dito iyahang restaurant.
20:32Sa taas sa iyong restaurant,
20:33na dito ang cafe,
20:34nga g-manage ni Paula Huyong.
20:37Weeks ago,
20:38g-hungihong niya,
20:39nga,
20:40daw ba,
20:41wala pa ni confirmation,
20:42pero hungihong,
20:43meaning rumors,
20:44nga,
20:45dili okay, no?
20:46Ang relationship ka ro'n ni Paula,
20:49o ni Ryan Bang.
20:50Where in fact,
20:51nga nangutan na kung sila pa ba.
20:53Kaya nang delete naman,
20:54nag-picture si Paula,
20:56sa ilahang mga pictures ni Ryan.
20:59No?
20:59And even, I think,
21:00the engagement pictures,
21:01wala na po.
21:02No?
21:03And because of that,
21:04nga nagspeculate,
21:06nga,
21:06dili na sila okay.
21:07All the more,
21:08sa pag-anunsyo ni Paula Huyong,
21:11nga ang iyahang business,
21:12nga nakalocate sa building,
21:14kung nasa po na ang food business ni Ryan,
21:16iyan ang si Radan,
21:17karong umaabot nga November.
21:19So,
21:20imagine ha,
21:20nag-propose na niya,
21:21I think,
21:22a year po na ang ilang relationship,
21:23one year early proposal,
21:25unyan na ang buwag.
21:26Unsan man na na yung pa-shoutout?
21:28Ha?
21:28Pa-shoutout niya.
21:29Sige,
21:29ito yung i-shoutout.
21:30Munig-itawag nga,
21:32na ang sitwasyon ka ron nga,
21:35daw ba,
21:36nakuan ha,
21:37na pangutan na sa mga tao nga,
21:40buwag na ba sila?
21:41Sila pa ba?
21:42Okay pa ba?
21:42Kay murag,
21:43nang naman noon,
21:44nanira naman noon,
21:45o g-negosyo.
21:46So,
21:46hangtod ka ron,
21:47wala pa yung ipagawas nga,
21:49private statement,
21:50or public,
21:51sorry,
21:51wala pa yung ipagawas nga,
21:52public statement rather,
21:54si Ryan,
21:54o si Paula,
21:55sa maong issue.
21:56Did she return the ring?
21:58Sila pa ba?
21:59Some are saying
22:00this is a low-key confirmation
22:01that they are not okay,
22:03but malay mo naman,
22:05other plans,
22:06no?
22:06Pero kung ka mo'y pangutan o,
22:08na yun,
22:08manira si Kuan,
22:09nanira ang iyahang Kuan,
22:10fiancé silang negosyo dito,
22:12tanaw ninyo sila pa,
22:14ang suwata sa Eric ron,
22:15tanaw ninyo,
22:15updated Miss Eric,
22:17o,
22:17tanaw na ito,
22:18tanaw ninyo sila pa ba,
22:19makutan na lang,
22:20kung amtaka ba,
22:20o good,
22:21basta kayo nahungihong,
22:22nalangpud ni,
22:24saya nga,
22:24sing-singsa,
22:25kung samang gani,
22:26no?
22:26Okay,
22:27nice successful,
22:28kaya namin yun,
22:28naapoy o siya,
22:29nage-engage,
22:29pero wala ba naga,
22:30unsa ba?
22:31Wala ba yung sure?
22:32Tanaw ninyo,
22:33tanaw ninyo,
22:33confirmation na ba nang nanira,
22:35o tindahan,
22:36nga wala na sila,
22:38unsa man?
22:39Okay,
22:39wala takabalog,
22:40yun bitaw?
22:42Yes,
22:42yun si Eric,
22:43yes.
22:44Na yung itawagan ni Eric,
22:45yun sila,
22:45low-key confirmation ko,
22:47no?
22:48Nga wala,
22:48pero kita dili sa takabuot,
22:50simba ko lang palayo,
22:51as itakabaw,
22:51diba?
22:52Pero mo lagi na,
22:53Ryan,
22:53paula,
22:54ba sinamoy plano,
22:55no?
22:55Because,
22:56we just gave out the news,
22:57kay mo,
22:58saninamat ko na sa uban,
22:59but at the end of the day,
23:00we don't know,
23:01we will wait until the time,
23:02na si Ryan,
23:03yun mismo mo confirm,
23:04nor mo deny sa situation,
23:06kunun sa mangani,
23:07because for whatever that is,
23:09min yung uno,
23:10naunta sila,
23:11no?
23:11Sayugay kayo ang proposal,
23:12mga one year po,
23:13sila silang relationship,
23:14na po na-propose.
23:15So,
23:16ang itong mga show business,
23:17related po sa wedding,
23:18sa na,
23:18yun sa successful,
23:19or hype lang,
23:21masan ni hype lang,
23:22sa pakagat lang,
23:23gano?
23:24Di ba,
23:24diyo takaingun?
23:25So,
23:25ako,
23:26maingun ta,
23:26nga,
23:27we just delivered what we've observed,
23:28and even the netizens are questioning,
23:30kun okay pa ba,
23:31ang love life status ni Ryan Bang,
23:33sa ihang non-showbiz,
23:34businesswoman girlfriend.
23:36So,
23:36let us see,
23:37kunun sa'y progress,
23:39but hopefully,
23:40in due time,
23:41atong makuha ang,
23:43mga,
23:43kuandiyun,
23:44natukmang tubag sa itong mga pangutana,
23:45with regards to the relationship of Ryan Bangkay,
23:48gano?
23:48Sa tinuod lang,
23:49it's been months,
23:50nga,
23:50g-discussed ni,
23:51kung sila pa ba,
23:52tungod laging aning mga matang lawin,
23:55nga mga netizens,
23:56nga makakita bitog,
23:56mga delete na ganin,
23:57nagsugod,
23:58meaning na na'y problema,
23:59na,
23:59mga delete na ganin,
24:00nagsugod din,
24:01ha,
24:01mga kuya,
24:02one,
24:02na d'yo talihang dapita,
24:03di ba?
24:04So,
24:04muna.
24:05Anyway,
24:06let's move forward and go back,
24:08sa ito ang story for today,
24:09and just before nakotambagan,
24:13ito sang i-shout out si Yannix Puno,
24:16hello,
24:17and CDRRMO from Carmen Cebu.
24:21Hello,
24:22thank you so much.
24:25CDRRMO ni siya,
24:26di ni siya municipal,
24:27sa Carmen man eh.
24:29Ah,
24:29municipal eh,
24:30municipal,
24:31so MDRRMO,
24:32ayan,
24:33hello,
24:34thank you so much.
24:36Yannix Puno,
24:37thank you for watching.
24:38Greetings from Sir Tanj.
24:40O sa tanang mga nagtanaw,
24:41Karun,
24:41salamat,
24:42kais nga tanan.
24:43Okay?
24:44Sige.
24:46Wow.
24:47Anyway,
24:48so go ahead,
24:49and napay time,
24:50pero of course,
24:51time check lang ta,
24:524.48,
24:54and sa tanang din ang mga friends,
24:56no?
24:57Nakapad eh,
24:57kumpitensya nga,
24:58kailangan mag-una,
24:59jugas kasal,
24:59sanglit,
25:00ikaw unang nakauyap,
25:01mag-di matad siguro,
25:02no?
25:02Mag lahirap pulugin ana ang datingan,
25:04no?
25:05Anyway,
25:06Mamona Madera,
25:07good afternoon,
25:08salamat sa pagtanaw.
25:09Ugg sa uban pa din hang nagtanaw sa itong Facebook live,
25:13karung hapuna.
25:14Again,
25:15this is hashtag envy,
25:18our Dear Chick C episode for today,
25:21nga live sa itong Sunstar page,
25:24and also to our TikTok at Sunstar Cebu.
25:28So,
25:29itong i-check,
25:30ang uban pa din hang nga mga comments,
25:32with regards to the situation,
25:35kay,
25:35dilipod lalim,
25:36no?
25:36Nga,
25:37maabot na sa punto sa itong kinabuhi,
25:39nga,
25:40ganahan na po'd ka mag-settle,
25:41pero wala po'd ka gi-oferan,
25:43o kaminyo on.
25:44Here comes your friend,
25:46wahey man,
25:47pero pas-pas kay ang progress,
25:48kay,
25:49mas nag-una pa,
25:49kaminyo on.
25:51O wala pa namin nyo,
25:52but mas nag-una pa sa,
25:54um,
25:54step closer to the marriage,
25:56despite of the,
25:58um,
25:59the length of time,
26:01nga nakarelasyon,
26:02kay five months pa lang,
26:03iproposa na.
26:04Pinakadakong pangutan na,
26:06deep inside her,
26:07na-surprise po'd siya,
26:08di ko niya masabta na nga,
26:09hindi bati towards the news
26:11because she is not fully happy
26:14about the thought
26:15that her friend Mia
26:17will be settling down soon
26:19in a nakapas-pas.
26:21However,
26:22siya po,
26:22nakahuna-huna po'd,
26:24she felt bad
26:24because nakumpara niya
26:26ang iyahang relasyon
26:27sa relasyon ni Mia.
26:29Si Mia,
26:29five months pa lang with James,
26:31pero napropose na si James.
26:33O niya,
26:34siya nga 13 years,
26:35or maglangat 13 years
26:37with Arthur,
26:38and yet there's no ring,
26:40okay?
26:41Tungod ni Inie,
26:42magpatambag siya.
26:43Normal,
26:43raba ko no'y ang gibati,
26:44nga moragdi kay siya
26:45super happy
26:46sa good news
26:47sa iyang amiga.
26:48Is she being
26:49a bad friend
26:50for feeling this way?
26:53Okay?
26:54Unsa man ang angay
26:55niyang buhaton.
26:56Now,
26:56my advice to this
26:58is very simple.
27:00Acknowledge, no?
27:01Nga,
27:01naagyo kay Kasuya
27:02sa imuhang lawas.
27:04Najao kay Kasuya.
27:05Acknowledge na.
27:06Kaya,
27:06huwi mo nang i-deny,
27:07but mas bati,
27:08mas bati yung nang denial ka
27:09pero suyaon ka deep inside.
27:11No,
27:11we have to acknowledge
27:12our negative side.
27:13I don't know about you
27:14but to me,
27:15one way of accepting
27:16things that are happening
27:18in our lives
27:18is to acknowledge
27:20the things
27:21that is also
27:22not righteous
27:23about us.
27:25Kanaba,
27:25kasabot mo
27:26nga,
27:27example ako,
27:28na ako'y kalalis
27:29nga tao.
27:29Example lang,
27:31kanina akong kalalis,
27:32na siya yung maot
27:33na kinaiya.
27:33But that doesn't justify
27:35nga siyara ang rason
27:36kung anong naglalis me.
27:37Because I also possess
27:39this maot
27:40na kinaiya.
27:41Kasabot mo,
27:42na,
27:42naasag ko'y ako
27:43ang bati
27:44na kinaiya.
27:44So it should go
27:45both ways.
27:46The problem with people,
27:47they will never recognize
27:49nga na po'y bati nila.
27:50It's always
27:51the other person.
27:52Siya manggud,
27:52bati siya siya,
27:52siya manggud,
27:53siya manggud.
27:54Dapat makasabot sa dtanga
27:55na apot ay fault,
27:56no?
27:57So pariwani nga sitwasyon.
27:59She said na
28:00normal na ba nga yung bati?
28:03Parang ako,
28:03natural manggud nga na
28:04atay,
28:05envisa to ang
28:06kalawasan
28:07o itong kinaiya
28:08na magig kasuya.
28:09But,
28:10bati na na siya,
28:11ang kanangimong kasuya
28:12will lead to
28:13kanabitong doing
28:15negative things.
28:16Para lang ginn,
28:16masatisfy nga nga,
28:18dili ma-happy
28:18ako sa kataw.
28:20You have to pray for this.
28:21Feeling na ako,
28:22you have to pray for this.
28:23Being in a
28:24kanang sinful manner,
28:26maging nang masuya,
28:27no?
28:27Maging nang itudlo sa toa
28:28ang masuya,
28:29jud,
28:30no?
28:31Kanang suya on ka,
28:33dili na makiangayon,
28:35no?
28:35Pero,
28:36naiuban nga na suya,
28:37nga nahimong inspired,
28:38no?
28:38To do better.
28:40However,
28:41mula ginia akong reminder
28:42sa tanan,
28:42nga the length of time
28:43of being in a relationship
28:45doesn't justify the thought
28:47nga ready na ka sa kami nyo on.
28:50Okay?
28:51Kaya naiuban tao,
28:52nga taas kaayog stage
28:54siya pa nag-uyab
28:54because they wanted it
28:55that way.
28:57If it's mutual.
28:58Pero nasa iuban nga,
28:59ang usaganan na kami nyo onang,
29:01laki di,
29:01good,
29:02then you have to really
29:03talk about it.
29:05Kung ako,
29:05wala man yung mag-share
29:07diri Lynn,
29:09no?
29:09Nga nakigsturya kang Arthur,
29:11kung asa yun pa dulong yung relationship,
29:13the first thing you need to fix
29:15is your relationship.
29:17Kay natural,
29:18masuya,
29:18dutuod ka,
29:19kay naunhan man kang,
29:20ikaw man tayo nag-una,
29:21nga nakauyab.
29:23Pero,
29:23dili po na maayong
29:24ang kinaiya,
29:25nga you will drown yourself
29:26into envy,
29:27no?
29:27Dili po na maayong
29:28ang magsigila kang kasuya,
29:30no?
29:30You have to work on things
29:32in order for you
29:33to achieve things.
29:34So,
29:35if you feel doubt
29:36about your relationship,
29:38dili ni mo,
29:39dapat ikumpara
29:40ang imuhang relationship
29:41sa laeng tao.
29:42Feeling na ko,
29:43ang nakakose mo
29:43insecurity is the thought that
29:45in a span of 13 years,
29:47wala duka of fairy
29:48o marriage,
29:49and here comes your friend
29:50nga bago pa lang
29:51nakauyab,
29:52five months pa lang,
29:53sure na sayaha
29:54ang lalaki.
29:55So,
29:55na duka yung insecurities
29:56sa imuhang kaugalingon.
29:57You have to acknowledge
29:58na kay insecurity,
29:59ikaduhan na kay envy,
30:01envious ka,
30:02so yaon ka,
30:03no?
30:03And because of these things
30:05and these factors,
30:07these are the things
30:08that you have to fix.
30:09Kay nga naman,
30:10you're putting pressure
30:12towards yourself
30:13na dapat ikaw po
30:14mag-menu na.
30:15Diba?
30:16Kay nga naman,
30:17what went wrong?
30:17Nga naman,
30:18sayo ba ko,
30:19am I being a bad friend
30:20for feeling this way?
30:21Hmm,
30:22somehow,
30:23bati nga,
30:24masuya ka si Gala,
30:25but I think this is not
30:27an issue,
30:28just an issue
30:29between you
30:30and your reaction
30:30towards your friend.
30:31This is an issue
30:32na nananin mo
30:33taod-taod na.
30:35The issue is there.
30:36Na-trigger lang
30:37nga ang imong friend
30:39mag-menu na.
30:40Pero feeling ako
30:40deep inside
30:41in the longest span
30:42of time
30:43for 13 years
30:44or almost 13 years
30:45na na po kay question
30:46nga nga nga
30:46naabot mag-13 years
30:47nga si Arthur
30:48wala mag-good ka
30:49pang-propose na ko.
30:51Unsa may sayop na ko,
30:52bati ba ko nga
30:53pagka-uyab?
30:54Unsa may nakarong
30:55ani, no?
30:56So you have to fix
30:58your internal issues
30:59with your relationship.
31:01Feeling na ko
31:02ay opener lang neng
31:03na hitabo ni Mia.
31:04This is just
31:05to serve as a reminder
31:07nga
31:07naadi ka-existing issue
31:09with your partner
31:10which is
31:10you are wondering, no?
31:13Kung anong wala
31:14magig-kagiproposan.
31:15Ikaduha
31:16na may being a bad friend
31:18I will not say
31:20that you are truly bad
31:21because I can see
31:21that you are acknowledging, no?
31:24Nga weird ang pamati
31:25nga nga nga
31:25di ka fully happy.
31:27Bati kung
31:28denial ka
31:29nga wala
31:29di ka nasuya.
31:31Pero ang advantage
31:32is you actually
31:33acknowledge
31:34nga medyo
31:35di ka happy.
31:36Ang nakabati
31:37lang ni Ini
31:37is
31:38you can never
31:40kanabitong fake
31:42your feelings, no?
31:43What if at in
31:44ating kas-kasal
31:45di ka fully happy?
31:46Bati po kayo
31:47eh kay Gisaligan
31:47eh kay Gimaid of Honor
31:48so you have to fix
31:49the issue within you.
31:51Wala may issue
31:52si Mia, Annie.
31:53Kung decision ni Mia
31:54o ni James
31:54na magminyog sa'yo
31:55in a span of
31:56five months niya
31:58makigminyog na sila
31:59ilahan na ng decision.
32:00That's their feelings
32:01and not yours, no?
32:03So ikaw
32:04ang kailangan ni mo
32:04i-fix
32:05ang imong character
32:06ang imuhang issues
32:08internal issues
32:08with Arthur.
32:10Feeling lang yun ako
32:11nahitabo lang yun
32:12ng kalin nga relationship
32:13that triggers you
32:14because deep inside
32:16you are also
32:16questioning
32:17nga numan.
32:18Kaya di ba
32:19naipart nga
32:19naingon si Lin
32:20nga
32:21when you know
32:22you know.
32:22So syempre
32:23nakahunapan sa siguro
32:24nga nga nga nakaingon
32:26man si Lin
32:26nga when you know
32:27you know.
32:27So meaning
32:28si Kuan
32:29basin si Arthur
32:30never padunan niya
32:31na feel naku
32:32nga when you know
32:33you know.
32:34Di ba?
32:35So this will be
32:36the door, no?
32:37This will be the chance
32:38for you
32:38to talk to Arthur
32:40to fix your issues.
32:42And maybe
32:43by this time
32:44ang nahitabo ni Mia
32:45will also lead
32:46to something
32:47that you will discover
32:48with regards
32:49to your personal relationship.
32:51Kumangota na muna ko
32:52chiksi natural bang masuya?
32:54Yes.
32:56Plastik ko sa plastic
32:57kung hindi li yung masuya.
32:58Di ba?
32:59Never mo masuya?
33:00Grabe.
33:01Gabi ka plastic.
33:02Di bitaw.
33:04Real talk.
33:06Simple lang.
33:06Naasya yu sa kasakenan.
33:09Dream car na ni mo.
33:10Masuya man jug ka.
33:11Pero it's either
33:12your reaction
33:13will justify
33:14kung unsan kayong mong karakter.
33:16It's number one
33:17masuya ka nga
33:18moingon ka nga
33:19ay mabangga rana
33:19or musuya ka nga
33:21mupalik kong ingon ana.
33:23Puhon.
33:23It's either
33:24you will be an evil eye
33:26to somebody's success
33:27or you will be inspired
33:29to somebody's success.
33:30If you know what I mean?
33:32So meaning
33:32kung yung mong kasuya
33:33will lead you to be
33:35inspired to be better
33:36that's good.
33:38Pero kung yung mong kasuya
33:39will lead to be
33:40bitter
33:41that's bad.
33:43No?
33:44So kung ka ni si Lynn
33:45ang iyong kasuya
33:47himoon niyang motibasyon
33:49para mas maimprove
33:50ang ilang relasyon
33:51ni Arthur
33:51then that's a good thing.
33:54Pero kung ka ni si Lynn
33:55himoon niyang negative
33:56nga muingon siya
33:57deep inside her heart
33:58nga magbuwag rani
33:59si Mia o si Juan
34:00muon ay bati nga
34:02kay na iya
34:03muon ay envious nga
34:04naasa
34:05seven sins
34:06naasa
34:07sa kasalanan
34:08sa balaod
34:08sa Biblia
34:09o
34:09diba
34:10nalajugoy na
34:11na nasyak
34:12pero tinong
34:12diba
34:13I don't read often
34:15sa Bible
34:15pero naagi na dito
34:17diba
34:17nga naman
34:18yung mga inanan
34:18dita pwede masuya
34:19sa itong isig
34:20kaingon
34:20diba
34:21pero muna
34:22gitawag nga
34:23importante
34:24dito kay sangatanan
34:25no
34:26nga kita mismo
34:27sa itong kaugalingon
34:28will acknowledge
34:29the degree
34:31of what we are feeling
34:32letter A
34:33masuya ka
34:35para mahimok
34:36ang negative
34:36or letter B
34:38masuya ka
34:39in order for you
34:40to be motivated
34:42you choose your suya
34:43diba
34:44pili akong asa
34:45na klase nga
34:46NV
34:46ang naasay mong kinabuhi
34:47diba
34:48kay nga naman
34:49Sir Mark
34:49kalang masuya ta
34:50muram ang putang
34:51ma-inspire good
34:52it's either
34:53kung ikaw lang ha
34:54like example
34:54hala
34:56kanay sa iyahang bag
34:58mahalon lang
35:00di pa naku kaya
35:01diba
35:02ay
35:03pero kawatong
35:04nagay pa na yung bag
35:05muna yung negative
35:06for example
35:07kanay sa iyong bag
35:09mahalon lang
35:09di pa naku kaya
35:10sige lang
35:10tiguman na naku
35:11dream bag man ko na
35:12so
35:12naagyad kay
35:14reaction
35:15no
35:15nga masuya
35:17maganahan
35:18dipindi na lang
35:19kung kung sa'yo mong mindset
35:20diba
35:21ma-inspire ka
35:22or dili
35:22so parang ako Lynn
35:23nasuya ka
35:24nga negative yung feeling
35:26akong feelings towards you
35:27bati ka nga friend
35:29no
35:29kung tubagunti ka
35:30bati ka
35:31kung i-mosh nang-i-wish nga
35:32mag-buwagra na sila
35:32kaya pas-pas
35:33kailang progress kami
35:34ganin Arthur
35:3413 years
35:35wapang mangani
35:36kaya nang inanay mo
35:37reaction
35:37meaning
35:38dili yung katinood na friend
35:39diba
35:40pero kung
35:41yung mong reaction is
35:42may tag-akupod no
35:44one day
35:44makarealize na si Arthur
35:46nga manyuan ko niya
35:47then that's a good attitude
35:49no
35:50kay
35:50ang bot ninyo
35:52people will say
35:52dili ni popular opinion
35:54but people will say
35:54Chixie
35:55bati mag-inan masuya
35:56actually bati mag-inan masuya
35:58umagoy na ingon na
35:58nindut ang masuya
35:59but again
36:00depende sa impact
36:01sa suya ni mo
36:02di ba mo itong ingon
36:03it's either masuya ka
36:04kaya negative ka
36:05evil eye ka
36:06you wish bad luck
36:07or it's either
36:08nasuya ka
36:09and you are motivated
36:10and inspired
36:11to do better
36:12to be better
36:14and to have
36:15a better situation
36:16so choose your suya
36:18mag-inanay mo
36:18kung nga pili
36:19kung
36:19yung nga klase
36:20nga pagkasuya
36:21ang naa inside you
36:23di ba
36:24pareo lang good na
36:25in the job we're in
36:26in the career we're in
36:28or physically
36:28di ba
36:29say for example
36:30um
36:31I wanted to
36:32to achieve
36:33uh
36:34house and lot
36:35but
36:36I just don't have enough
36:37money for now
36:38di ba
36:39kung makita ka nga
36:40yung mong silingan nga
36:42sa una
36:43halos wala agyod
36:44bisag piso
36:45karun na na
36:46balay
36:46dagang kay kag negativity
36:48kung yung mong kasuya mo yun ka nga
36:50ting ka na niyang kwarta
36:51kinawat siguro na
36:52ana ana ana
36:52ana chuchuchuchu
36:53kanya mo na yung negative
36:54nga kasuya
36:55pero
36:55kung nasuya ka
36:56in such a way nga
36:57na inspire ka like
36:58hala awa siya
36:59oh sa una
36:59walang wala
37:00agin sila
37:01pero karun
37:02nakapatugkod na giyod siya
37:03three floors pa ang balay
37:04mayuha siguro na yung
37:06madiskarte sa
37:06mga tanang kubi
37:08kung yun sa pagdiskarte
37:09kaya basig ako po
37:09di ba
37:10so you get my point
37:12nga naagyoy
37:12different lang yun
37:14nga
37:15pag-receive
37:16no
37:16ang suya
37:17sa usang kataw
37:18no
37:18and though
37:19it is not encouraged
37:21but somehow
37:22it's your attitude
37:23about it
37:24kung nun siya makatabang
37:25sa yung muhang ka
37:26o galingon
37:26will the suya
37:28help you
37:29to be better
37:29or the suya
37:31will make you
37:31more bitter
37:33pait
37:33pasta ng pait
37:34no
37:35so parang ako
37:36Lynn
37:36you have to acknowledge
37:37na
37:38in relationships
37:40walay timeline
37:42lahil lahit
37:43tag timeline
37:44na ay mga
37:45long-term
37:45relationships
37:46that
37:47needs more time
37:49to think
37:50if magmini
37:50bagyod
37:51na apoy
37:52mga
37:53short-term
37:53relationships
37:54that
37:55doesn't need
37:56second thoughts
37:56because that's
37:57how they feel
37:57about it
37:58but remember
37:59to trust
38:00your timing
38:00because
38:01everything
38:02ugta ng mga
38:03butang skin
38:03na buhay
38:04na ang
38:04timing
38:05no
38:06cliche
38:06kinapaminawan
38:07as in
38:08balik-balik
38:09na ginapaminawan
38:09ng timing
38:10but it is
38:10true
38:11naagyo'y
38:13lahi-lahi
38:14na timing
38:15ang kada
38:15individual
38:16ang kada
38:17kada
38:18relasyon
38:20no
38:20posibleng
38:21karun
38:22Lynn
38:22wala pagin
38:23siya
38:23na-propose
38:23si Arthur
38:23nimo
38:24but malay mo
38:24naman
38:25in time
38:25no
38:26or posibleng
38:27diligid
38:27ka mong
38:28magkadahin
38:28ni Arthur
38:28but you are
38:30meant for
38:30somebody else
38:31so we'll
38:32never know
38:32no
38:32what's important
38:33is you
38:34acknowledge
38:34that you
38:35have this
38:35kind of
38:35attitude
38:36nga nasuya
38:36ka
38:37and
38:37by the way
38:38kanipod
38:39always pray
38:40for it
38:41pray
38:41nga din
38:42nakamasuya
38:43lord
38:43tabangi ko
38:44tanta nga
38:44ang kasuya
38:45sa akong
38:46gibate
38:47help me
38:48nga
38:48mahapi ko
38:49fully
38:49mahapi ko
38:50nga
38:50why
38:50bitterness
38:51kaya nga
38:52no
38:52bisa mo
38:53ano
38:53mo nga
38:53grabe sa
38:54kachiksi
38:54kuan
38:55dun
38:55na
38:55that's my
38:56advice
38:56honestly
38:57kaya
38:58ang
38:58upang
38:59bito
38:59sa tinood
38:59lang
38:59makalimut
39:00bito
39:00pagampo
39:01maybe
39:01muna
39:02imunang
39:02gibate
39:02nakalimut
39:03pagampo
39:04pagampo
39:05yun
39:05kaya
39:05usaya
39:06mo
39:06Lord
39:06may tag
39:07di lang
39:07so
39:16always
39:16pray
39:16for it
39:17and Lord
39:17please
39:18guide me
39:18guide us
39:19or guide
39:19our relationship
39:20guide me
39:20to be happy
39:21with my
39:21friend
39:21i-pray
39:23na siya
39:24kaya
39:24wala yung
39:25makatabang
39:26ni mo
39:26but
39:26to clear
39:27your mind
39:27your mind
39:28is to
39:29have a
39:30peaceful
39:30heart
39:31so
39:32yun
39:32pray up
39:33for it
39:33when
39:34anything
39:35bate
39:35pray for
39:37it
39:37and I hope
39:40you get my
39:40point
39:41again
39:41kanyang
39:44karakter
39:44nga
39:44masuya
39:45na
39:46good
39:46na
39:46pero
39:47naarap po
39:47na
39:48sa tao
39:48kunun
39:49sa
39:49ang
39:50klase
39:50nga
39:50kasuya
39:51ang
39:51ngayang
39:51gibate
39:51will
39:52that
39:52person
39:53be
39:53better
39:53or
39:54will
39:54that
39:54person
39:55be
39:55bitter
39:55so
39:56muna
39:56akong
39:56advice
39:57and I hope
39:57you get
39:58my
39:58point
39:58for this
39:58afternoon
39:59and Lynn
40:00ayok
40:00kabalaka
40:01storya
40:01mong
40:01Arthur
40:02wunigid
40:03makaya
40:03ikaw
40:03nalai
40:03propose
40:04joke
40:04lang
40:04huwat
40:05na lang
40:07your time
40:15will come
40:16okay
40:16thank you
40:17thank you
40:17so much
40:18Lynn
40:18for the
40:18trust
40:19and of
40:19course
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40:26thank you
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40:27if you
40:28wish
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40:29own
40:29stories
40:29na
40:30abam mo
40:30yung
40:30mga
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40:51until
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40:52kini si
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40:54dear
40:55chicksie
40:55bye
40:55everyone
40:56and
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