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We discuss Leroy's upcoming wedding, the people not invited, people taking photos, and more. As Leroy says, "there's peaks and valleys" when it comes to this planning.
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00:00we're almost there we're almost there you're almost a a man who's spoken for
00:06i haven't had a ring on my finger in a long time i i never really i it's all it's just felt
00:13uncomfortable i i never liked wearing the ring but um you don't take your rings off do you
00:19romero do you take yours off ever i take this one off when i'm gonna work out and i put on one of
00:24those like silicone whatever ones that why do you feel like you need to do that because i love my
00:32wife that's why i'm not anti-relationship like you i don't hate everything having to do with being
00:37with another person i know where she i know where she's coming i'm just saying like it doesn't make
00:41you less married by taking off your ring and i know that signals to other people that you're taken
00:48but it doesn't mean that you don't love your wife if you don't have it's like an hour or two of your
00:55time like i just i don't know and don't you work out in your house alone yeah okay okay i'm confused
01:03if i'm lifting up like something like on a barbell a dumbbell okay but all right but i you're doing it
01:10because you don't want to ruin the ring but why do you feel like you have to put something on in its
01:14place i just do it just i just do it out it's not like okay then that's that's all i'm asking
01:19i just i i was wondering it's literally a boom boom it's a five second thing got it you'll get
01:26you'll be fine with it don't tell tita that jesus what you don't take wouldn't take yours off or
01:33you're not going to take it off kind of same thing what he's saying if i'm if i somehow end up in a
01:37basketball league i'm taking it off obviously but besides that you know just wearing it and yeah
01:43it's gonna feel so weird i haven't had one on my finger in a minute nah you'll be fine it only
01:49feels weird when you eat a lot of salt and then you can't get it off that's real humid that's how
01:54you gauge like when when your fingers get because mine comes off easily for you know normally so
02:01like if i have trouble taking it off and stuff i'm like oh i'm either um it had too much like like
02:08if i had sushi yeah or even if i go out to dinner you don't realize how much salt they put in your
02:12food until you go to take your wedding ring off and you can't and it's wedged on there
02:15or for some reason if i go walking a lot and like i kind of get swelled up a little bit
02:20humidity humidity makes me swell yeah yeah it really does absolutely it's so weird it's like it just gets
02:27inside my body and it's like pitch lero are you still sticking by the because you you are so anti live
02:36streaming that you sent out an update just to let people know listen i know that this is a big deal
02:42but please don't make it about yourself to be clear i didn't send out an update tina sent out the update
02:49the update came from leroy and tina it came from tina but i i am in agreement i'm in agreement with her
02:56because you don't want you know and i think pebbles you mentioned this before and tina i know feels this
03:02way you just want to make sure that the first pictures or videos the representation is is right
03:08it's not some bad angles bad lighting caught in the middle of chewing food you know all that stuff you
03:15don't want that so so so no and the streaming thing i love the listeners i really do but it just feels
03:25weird having people who you've never met before watching your wedding and we're not the royals
03:33we're not prince and princess like it is that ain't it so it just feels that feels extremely weird what
03:41about for uh family and friends who are upset with you yeah that they didn't get an invite the people
03:50who give crappy gifts and didn't get the invite and are actually have the audacity to call you up and
03:54tell you like imagine like listen i'm about to veer off to something else but they're calling you up
04:01and saying how they were upset that you didn't invite them so if for some reason you did invite
04:08them that's the equivalent of fine shut up you can have the chicken nuggets like when your kids are
04:14annoyed about something yeah yeah and it doesn't bother them like that they're that is crazy most people
04:20just they don't they don't pause to think about it and again my wedding's small so it's like 65 people
04:26and i thought about this if my entire immediate family and their families come that's like 20
04:33something people already and we still i still gotta split with tina's family so it's just it's really
04:39really tough really tough but um yeah and you gauge it according to say it say it say it to what
04:46according to who's gonna give you the best gifts that's where you the cutoff is when you have two
04:50people of equal let me let me let me tell you something listen that's the truth that nobody wants
04:55to acknowledge when they don't get invited to a wedding speaking as a black man african american i hate to
05:02say it but i have to and i'm not expecting much when it comes to the gift department i'm just being
05:08honest we don't we don't really get down like that we should we really should but we we don't so i'm
05:15like whatever you and tina aren't doing the the thing where you're like you pick who you think is
05:20going to give you the best gift and she picks oh you got to play that game wow that's kind of gross
05:25what yeah no we don't we have no you don't tell people that it's just like between him and her
05:30that's weird that's what couples do she was putting together the box for the stuff last night
05:36and we were just cracking up she was like hey nobody oh stop it but we were laughing we just it's just
05:43you know now you just do it online yeah before yeah cats are struggling man but it is what it is but
05:51i'm happy i'm looking forward to it um but as far as streaming for family members we got to figure
05:59out if you guys can help me figure out a way to do it i have a friend that recently did it for uh
06:04for her wedding yeah and how did it how did it go do like a teams link or a zoom link yeah it's you
06:11just do a zoom link and someone you have someone send it out someone's got a facebook live i know
06:16they don't know do the link right and then there's still gonna be someone mad because they never
06:20got the link and you could be like i don't even want you looking at my wedding you cheap
06:24what about like just videos like short clips snapchat reels stuff like that mel has a guy
06:33no no no no i'm wondering do you not want people that are at the wedding posting even like small
06:39clips because that's another thing too because we had people messaging us that they were like they
06:44had a strict policy of no pictures or video at all like even like just you know put on my
06:50instagram story because they want to be the first ones to post their pictures i would say
06:55i agree but more so like a strict policy of her and i in the the wedding party right like if you
07:04want to do something here at the wedding you're just walking in okay or if you want to you know
07:09everyone's sitting a group picture yeah that's fine right but i think the actual the wedding and
07:16everyone has individuals who are part of the wedding probably not a good idea i i don't i mean i
07:23she probably don't even want me to because i don't care i can be like you take a picture of me i don't
07:28care but she probably probably doesn't want to want that to happen either there are people now that
07:33have signs you know like please do not record don't pose and then there's people on the other end
07:40that are like here's our hashtag put up whatever you want right now i do have a question i'm gonna
07:46ask her what about the reception when everyone's a little bit you know litty and having fun that's
07:52kind of what i was referring to i wasn't even thinking about the actual ceremony oh okay i'm
07:56thinking about the reception like if we're at the reception and we're on the dance floor and like
08:00can we be like oh i don't see why not yeah but i gotta check with the first lady because
08:05okay okay we want to respect her wishes is your brother going to be the photographer for the thing
08:11no her brother and his wife are going to do it oh they are are they going to do the video recap thing
08:16that people do now for weddings um probably yeah are you going to put that out so people could see it
08:22oh yeah i think all that stuff will come out afterwards you know a few days or something like
08:25that as tina goes through and make sure things are uh approved she's been very she let me just say
08:33she's done a phenomenal job uh this is 96.9 percent of her putting it together yeah um
08:41we're always passing the blame no i'm not passing any blame are you nervous is there anybody on her
08:47side or your side that you're like oh guys hope this person doesn't cause a scene or act up or
08:52anything like that i'm nervous that people who weren't invited are gonna try to come to the
09:01what people do that wedding crashers baby well yeah vince vaughn did it no yeah no but people like
09:10really that weren't invited are gonna try to go i'm i'm i'm worried i'm not saying a whole lot i'm just
09:17saying i'm worried it could be one or two that try to crash the wedding and then if that happens
09:22and i see them and i'm already up there waiting i got i'm gonna have to figure out a way to get
09:28them escorted out i don't know how i'm gonna do it but yeah that's the only thing i'm worried about
09:33i'm worried about tina when we have to uh say our your vows yes because she's not used to being
09:41she's not used to standing in front of people yeah and she's extremely shy and nervous oh that's
09:47the worst so like last night i was like so let's practice i was like what you got okay long story
09:51short so she went and bought a microphone i'm telling you she's running everything and i was like
09:58no we really don't need it as long as we just speak up you know everyone's gonna be
10:02quiet and listening and it's close and i said all right so let's practice and she got nervous
10:08practicing with me yeah so when she gets in front of people i'm nervous i pray she doesn't faint i
10:15pray she doesn't cry i pray that she makes it down the aisle okay i'm dead serious because she's
10:21she's shaking will be fine yeah the fainting won't be hold on are you writing your own vows yes oh okay
10:27okay get out oh god i can already tell i'm gonna cry i get mad now that people people don't do their
10:31own vows i'm like yo that is that is the lazy way out when you have someone tell you what to say
10:37what about this do you think it's crazy when people write their own vows and have them written
10:41down and they have to pull out the paper like no no that's fine i did that okay yeah yeah just
10:46making sure yeah i know people were expected to i did that because you never know at that moment
10:50defending tina crying a little bit not passing out but crying a little bit you never know like in
10:56that exact moment what you're you know you know the lights are on baby game time no messing around
11:02what is it that she is the most i don't know nervous about or like what is she
11:10is there one thing that she's afraid of going wrong that would be she's afraid of herself
11:17falling apart in front of people she's really falling apart crying no no no more so like uh
11:25literally passing out fainting oh being nervous to walk down the aisle like shaking to the point
11:30when she can't yeah i'm not trying to laugh at her but it's like i get that wow yeah yeah
11:38i don't think about the woman i always feel like the guy passes out in situations like that
11:43yeah like whenever you see wedding kind of blooper types it's like the dude doing something you know
11:49what i'm saying you know why it doesn't apply because i feel extremely confident and like ready
11:56and happy yeah so well you've been there before man this ain't your first yeah but it's not even
12:01about that part it's more so like i told her also yesterday i've we went to get our marriage license
12:08to with the sign up for it two days ago and as we're filling the forms out she's just like i can't
12:16believe this i i this and so we're done she's walking over to the counter she has a little bop in her head
12:22on her step and her head's going from side to side and she's smiling all hard and i'm like dang it
12:27she's like i'm just i'm just happy and i'm like great i'm like this is beautiful and she was like
12:32are you happy i said yes and i said i said but it just for me i've accepted a long time ago that she
12:40was the one okay so it just i'm like it just feels natural like yo let's go do this i'm not i think
12:49guys who are nervous i think they're nervous because deep down inside they're unsure maybe
12:55not a lot maybe it's a little but i'm not unsure i'm i'm good the hot take yeah and i do think though
13:02that and this is probably in tina's situation like being in front of people i went let me tell you
13:11it's not fun having everybody turn around and look at you i hated it hated it with a passion like
13:21i and oh so i feel her nervousness she was like you know this is our wedding i said that's nice to
13:29say tina i said but for instance i'll already be at the altar but when you come down oh man every
13:36everybody wants to see the bride there's gonna be a pause music's gonna hit everyone's gonna
13:42stand up and all eyes are gonna be on her exactly she's wearing and like at least you know it's
13:47designed that way you know and she was like oh my god i forgot about that i was like all right well
13:51i'm gonna look at her but i'm looking at you i'm gonna be looking at you i'll probably will be
13:56cheesing extremely hard yeah i'm i'm good i'm ready to go i'm ready to go i'm ready to go
14:01yeah this is gonna cry all right i'll be crying before the door even opens for her to walk down
14:08the aisle really yeah i just weddings are very emotional for me i always cry at weddings what is
14:13it about a wedding because like not that you don't have a connection to leroy and tina but like
14:17the connection i think would be way more to leroy than to tina yeah and i could understand if it was
14:22like a female friend of yours that you grew up with or something but it's in general it's people
14:28in general are giving their lives to someone else and living the rest of their lives potentially
14:35with someone and it's just so it's the reason why graduations make me cry it's like something
14:41that's so final yeah like it's a chapter of a life beginning yeah you know that is the emotional part
14:48for me yeah see if i have no connection to it i could give a rat no i'm serious like what's what's
14:55right yeah if i if it's like a wedding of like you know one of nicole's co-workers which i went to
15:00i was literally like when do we what are they serving for food what's the food again this is
15:06boring you gotta ask tina i don't remember i was looking at mine again because remember i was the
15:14only one that ordered the ravioli that's like making an order on a plate and having the the flight
15:20tend to be like i'm so sorry right you don't have that so i did end up with the salmon got it yeah
15:26i can't wait my friend yep and i i gotta say this too please don't expect perfection or some grand
15:33thing um i just want this is not a good party yeah yeah i don't care about the ceremony just make it
15:40quick yeah oh yeah it's gonna be quick it's gonna be real real you know be honest everyone
15:46is there a mass is there a who a mass no okay no mass is catholic yeah we don't do that right okay
15:52well all right maybe not a mass there's gonna be a choir singing no no no no no no no no is there
15:58gonna be a uh a bishop what do you have a bishop there's a minister minister all right you're gonna
16:05be asking for money and telling us no no no no no that's what i meant like is there gonna be some
16:09kind of like a religious ceremony okay is there all to call no no no i swear to god if i see that
16:16basket coming down my eye i'm gonna ignore it to take it to the left where my father passed and we
16:22had his funeral all of that happened and i was pissed off we were in there i kid you not for like
16:30four hours oh it was and i would never do that in any type of ceremony yeah it was crazy a lot of
16:38people showed up and it was like a lot of people took it as an opportunity to promote themselves
16:44there was about a good i kid you not it was about a good four or five thousand people there and people
16:50were using it as an opportunity to oh my god promote themselves and since that day i was like i will
16:56never have anybody experience anything like that if if i it's up to me so our wedding's going to be
17:03like this we trying to party i like it already all right don't forget to
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