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00:00:00You are now watching NowFast TV.

00:00:10Hey y'all, it's me, your girl D.J. McGuire, Miss Show Me The Money, clearly, and this is Pink Conversations exclusively on NowNet TV.

00:00:37Listen, we're about to get to it. You hear me? We're about to get into the real, the raw, the L in between with the who, what, where, the why, the how.

00:00:47And if you know me, you know I get straight to the point and I keep it all the way 100.

00:00:51So get ready if you ain't ready and tell a friend to stay ready. Tune in and see what's next.

00:00:58Meanwhile, I got my girl KK here with me.

00:01:01Hi.

00:01:01So KK is here exclusively from V12 to curate our experience here on Pink Conversations with me and my gorgeous guests.

00:01:09But before we get into that, baby, I need a cocktail.

00:01:12What would you like?

00:01:13You know me. I see we got that tequila over there.

00:01:18So I feel like you should mix me up something sweet and tangy with a little bit of razzle-dazzle.

00:01:24Razzle-dazzle me, girl.

00:01:24Oh, girl, I can tell that's good from here.

00:01:28Look at the glass of frosted feet.

00:01:30There you go.

00:01:31Thank you, gorgeous.

00:01:32You're welcome.

00:01:33Enjoy.

00:01:34Try it now.

00:01:38Perfect.

00:01:40You're welcome.

00:01:41So I have a wonderful guest joining us today.

00:01:45She's such an amazing person, and I'm so glad to have her joining us today.

00:01:50Miss Delicious, please come brace the couch with your present.

00:01:56But wait, before you sit, I need a little razzle now with some Corbin.

00:01:59Can you come give Miss Delicious a 360, please?

00:02:02Hey, you're welcome.

00:02:02This is your paparazzi moment, honey.

00:02:04It was a little suttin' suttin'.

00:02:06Yes.

00:02:09You got my best angle?

00:02:12Hi, beautiful.

00:02:13Hi, honey.

00:02:14You look so good.

00:02:15Thank you so much for joining me.

00:02:17Congrats, have a seat on my beautiful pink couch.

00:02:19Oh, my goodness.

00:02:19This is so sexy.

00:02:21I love it.

00:02:21I love it, too.

00:02:22I, like, dreamed of this, and it came true.

00:02:25I'm so proud of you.

00:02:26This is, like, so big.

00:02:28Thank you so, so, so much.

00:02:29So how are you feeling?

00:02:30I feel grateful.

00:02:33Okay.

00:02:33Yeah.

00:02:34Why grateful?

00:02:35Because I worked so hard to get to this point.

00:02:38It's been such a long 10 years with me in this media space.

00:02:41It's been such a long 20 years with me with my strip career, you know, in the past.

00:02:46So it's just, like, every moment that I've had, every door that I was able to knock down

00:02:50has led to this, and I couldn't be more appreciative for this moment and this opportunity.

00:02:55Okay.

00:02:55So you appreciated the journey.

00:02:57Yeah, I did.

00:02:58Yeah, yeah.

00:02:59All of the lessons, all of the experiences, everything that I've done, the good, the bad,

00:03:03and the ugly, has led me here.

00:03:05You know, we live and we learn, right?

00:03:06Right.

00:03:06And we take our life lessons and we turn them into what?

00:03:11Their experiences.

00:03:12Experience.

00:03:12We turn those experiences into lessons.

00:03:14Lessons and lessons.

00:03:15Lessons, exactly.

00:03:16And then we move forward and we do what?

00:03:17But then we make better decisions.

00:03:18We do.

00:03:18And we climb and we elevate.

00:03:20The evolution that comes from all of that is, like, the hindsight or the bottom line.

00:03:25Yes.

00:03:25It's crazy.

00:03:26And here we are.

00:03:26Yes, here we are.

00:03:27So thank you again for joining me.

00:03:29You're so welcome.

00:03:30Cocktail?

00:03:30Yes, please.

00:03:31So I named this cocktail the Delisharita.

00:03:34Okay.

00:03:35This is KK.

00:03:35She actually named it Delisharita.

00:03:38Hi.

00:03:38You're so sexy.

00:03:40You're welcome.

00:03:41KK has one for you, right?

00:03:43Yes.

00:03:44The Delisharita.

00:03:45Okay, so what is it made of?

00:03:46It's a margarita, but with a special little deliciousness.

00:03:48Okay.

00:03:49And I like a good margarita.

00:03:50It feels, like, so female forward.

00:03:53Okay, so first of all, I'm so nervous.

00:03:55Why?

00:03:55Girl.

00:03:55Okay, so I just have to just let it go.

00:03:58You are, like, female, like, iconic.

00:04:01You're so feminine.

00:04:02Don't make me cry, girl.

00:04:03Coming from you of all people.

00:04:05It's, like, a big deal because you're Gigi McGuire.

00:04:08Like, my daughter, she's 26, so she's like, Mom, you always say Gigi when, you know, you

00:04:13give her this valor and this merit.

00:04:16What does she do?

00:04:16We're going to her podcast.

00:04:17What does she do?

00:04:18I'm like, oh, my God.

00:04:19She is, like, so feminine forward.

00:04:21She's very sexy.

00:04:21She's a po-ologist.

00:04:23Yes, ma'am.

00:04:23She's a sex-ologist.

00:04:24Yes, ma'am.

00:04:24She looks amazing.

00:04:25And she's a woman, not to mention she's a mother.

00:04:27Cheers.

00:04:28So, you.

00:04:29Cheers.

00:04:29You got all the accolades.

00:04:31So much.

00:04:33So, what's up?

00:04:34Girl, let's get into my cards, girl.

00:04:37I'm nervous.

00:04:37So, there's a table on the other side if you want to sit your drink down.

00:04:40Oh, cool.

00:04:40You can hold on to it if you want to.

00:04:41Well, this is really good.

00:04:43Cheers again.

00:04:44Cheers.

00:04:45Welcome to Pink Conversations.

00:04:46Oh.

00:04:46Welcome to my pink couch.

00:04:48Yes.

00:04:48I'd love to hear it.

00:04:49By the way, when I first came in, they greeted me with, like, drinks and flowers and all that

00:04:53stuff.

00:04:53By the way, I got you flowers, too.

00:04:55Oh.

00:04:55So, I'll make sure to give them to you.

00:04:56You got some flowers?

00:04:57Yes.

00:04:58Absolutely.

00:04:58But they got me drunk.

00:05:00Already?

00:05:00Yes.

00:05:02Shout out to your staff.

00:05:03I'm going to sit my drink down.

00:05:05Because I need to hold on to these cards.

00:05:07So, you are from one of my favorite places.

00:05:10What up, though?

00:05:11So, first of all, I always have such a good time when I go to Detroit.

00:05:16Baby, there's no other place like the D. And I'm from the east side of Detroit, so

00:05:19it's, like, the beast side.

00:05:20They say that's the best side.

00:05:22Yes.

00:05:22You know, like, I'm cool.

00:05:24I represent Detroit, so I'm cool with the east and the west, but I'm from the east side.

00:05:27So, we were labeled the beast, and the west was labeled the best, and they both had,

00:05:32like, this spirit.

00:05:33Yeah.

00:05:33It was rough on the east.

00:05:34I love that.

00:05:35Yeah, the east side was rough.

00:05:36It's been a bad night.

00:05:37It's all good.

00:05:38Yeah.

00:05:38Um, I spend a lot of time there these days because my boyfriend lives there.

00:05:42Wait a minute.

00:05:43Well, he's from Ann Arbor.

00:05:44Okay.

00:05:45But I fly in, and we spend a little time in the city.

00:05:48We always in the city.

00:05:49Like, I haven't even been to Ann Arbor yet.

00:05:51How does that, okay.

00:05:52Right.

00:05:52That's a different experience than Detroit.

00:05:53He keeps saying I need to come up there, but I ain't made it up there yet.

00:05:56It's a different experience.

00:05:58Detroit is more, I would say, urban.

00:06:00Ann Arbor is more like a college town.

00:06:02Right.

00:06:03That's easy.

00:06:03Yeah.

00:06:04And it's not necessarily the blackest environment, but it's cool.

00:06:07It's diverse, and it's a part of Michigan, so I rock with it.

00:06:10Right.

00:06:10But how did you end up meeting somebody from Michigan?

00:06:12I was there.

00:06:13Okay.

00:06:14Yeah.

00:06:15So, wait a minute.

00:06:17I was at an event with Angela Yee.

00:06:19Okay.

00:06:19We were actually celebrating.

00:06:20Excuse me.

00:06:21Yeah, Shadi.

00:06:21We were actually celebrating a two-year anniversary of her show, Way Up.

00:06:26Yes.

00:06:26Right?

00:06:26Shout out to Angela Yee.

00:06:27Way Up.

00:06:28You know, she was on The Breakfast Club, as everybody knows.

00:06:31Yeah.

00:06:32And the station and iHeart, they gave her her own show.

00:06:35So, Way Up, we were celebrating two years, and we were at this rooftop situation, and it

00:06:41was grown and sexy, and he approached me and just said all the right things, and I was

00:06:45just like...

00:06:47So, how did you know it was the right thing?

00:06:50So, girl, I didn't at first.

00:06:54Okay.

00:06:54Yeah.

00:06:55It's almost nine months now, and we kind of just made it official like a month ago.

00:06:59Okay, nice.

00:07:00What makes it official?

00:07:01Oh, we had the conversation.

00:07:03We had the commitment conversation.

00:07:05And he said, listen, I want you to be my girl.

00:07:07I want you to be my wife.

00:07:07Like, what was the commitment?

00:07:09Wait, so he wants to get married.

00:07:10Yes.

00:07:11And are you comfortable with that?

00:07:12I am.

00:07:13Really?

00:07:13Yeah.

00:07:13I mean, not immediately.

00:07:15You know, I made that mistake already.

00:07:16So, not immediately.

00:07:17I did the 65-day fiancé thing.

00:07:19He proposed three days after we had sex.

00:07:20It was the whole thing, but no.

00:07:21No.

00:07:21Okay, wait a minute.

00:07:22You can't just say that.

00:07:23What happened with that?

00:07:23That was my last relationship.

00:07:26Okay, so you did 65-day fiancé?

00:07:28Yes, I did.

00:07:29I didn't like the show or anything.

00:07:30Oh, okay.

00:07:30Wait, how does that work?

00:07:32Wait, how does that work?

00:07:33So, it was a guy that I was, um, I knew in a business set.

00:07:39Okay.

00:07:39And we hadn't seen each other in a very long time, and we crossed paths.

00:07:43Mm-hmm.

00:07:44And, um, you know, it was a romantic encounter.

00:07:47Mm-hmm.

00:07:48Um, I went to Costa Rica, like, right after that, so we talked on the phone for, like,

00:07:52a week or two.

00:07:53Okay.

00:07:53Maybe, like, 10 days.

00:07:55And when I came back, we went on a date the first night I got back.

00:07:5930 minutes into the date, he's like, I want to commit to you and this woman, I want you

00:08:02to be my woman.

00:08:03He's like, God, send you to me.

00:08:04Did you think he was crazy, though?

00:08:05You're the woman I was praying for.

00:08:06No, I didn't.

00:08:07Because you felt the energy.

00:08:08Because I knew him already.

00:08:10So, it wasn't like he was just a stranger weirdo saying these things.

00:08:12Right.

00:08:13It was a rekindled type of thing.

00:08:14We knew each other, but not in a romantic way.

00:08:16Right.

00:08:16I get it.

00:08:17So, for you to now see me in this new light and feel like you got hard eyes.

00:08:21But that didn't scare you.

00:08:22No.

00:08:23So, you know I'm a little crazy, right?

00:08:25Yeah.

00:08:25So, he's like, if you say yes, today will be our anniversary.

00:08:30So, I'm like, okay.

00:08:32Girl, by the end of the night, we make it in the hot tub.

00:08:35Okay.

00:08:35I like this date already.

00:08:36And it was good, girl.

00:08:38It was so good.

00:08:38And then the next day, he's like, don't you want to call the movies and move all your

00:08:41stuff in?

00:08:42And I'm like, no.

00:08:42I don't want to live with you.

00:08:43And he was serious.

00:08:44He was dead ass.

00:08:44So, then the next morning, he goes, no, like, we're really?

00:08:48And I'm like, no, we're not going there.

00:08:51So, then the next morning, because I'm still there.

00:08:53The next morning.

00:08:54But you never left.

00:08:54I stayed there for 30 days straight.

00:08:57I did.

00:08:57So, for day three, he's like, why don't you want to live with me?

00:09:01And I'm like, I made that mistake before living with a man that I was not married to.

00:09:05And the only way I will ever live with a man again is if it is our marital home.

00:09:08Yeah.

00:09:09So, he's like, well, let's just get married.

00:09:10And even that, you can get screwed out of.

00:09:12Girl, don't, because you know it, right?

00:09:14We talk about that.

00:09:15We talk about that.

00:09:15It's in the cards.

00:09:16Yeah, girl.

00:09:16This story is crazy.

00:09:17Everybody thinks I'm crazy for this story.

00:09:18And I'm about to tell you all of the whole thing real quick, real quick, because we

00:09:21got to move on.

00:09:21Okay.

00:09:22So, day three, he's like, let's just get married.

00:09:24And I'm like, what?

00:09:25And he's like, I already know I want to spend the rest of my life with you.

00:09:28Like, what do you need?

00:09:29And I'm like, we're making it in the bed naked first thing in the morning.

00:09:32I'm like, is this a proposal?

00:09:33Like, where's my ring?

00:09:34And by coincidence, we have the same jeweler.

00:09:37Okay.

00:09:37So, he's like, we can get Chris on the phone right now.

00:09:38We can go see her.

00:09:39Okay.

00:09:40So, my question to you is this.

00:09:42It sounds like a fairy tale because it's three days in.

00:09:44And you are obviously into him.

00:09:45You guys are sexual.

00:09:46He's fun.

00:09:47He's sick.

00:09:47Was there any part of you that said, okay, I deserve this.

00:09:51I'm going to do it?

00:09:52So, I'm a Gemini.

00:09:53And you know, I'm half crazy.

00:09:54Right.

00:09:54So, the same Gemini was like, I deserve this.

00:09:58Right.

00:09:58And then, the crazy Gemini was like, bitch, YOLO.

00:10:01Yeah.

00:10:01You can die tomorrow.

00:10:02Right.

00:10:02So, just say yes.

00:10:04Right.

00:10:04What's the worst thing?

00:10:05I'm that person, unfortunately.

00:10:07So, I said yes.

00:10:09We went and saw the jeweler.

00:10:10My ring was being custom made.

00:10:12And I got his name tattooed on me.

00:10:15We made an announcement.

00:10:16I told the world.

00:10:17I announced it on lip service.

00:10:18And everybody thought I was cool for coconut.

00:10:20They were on TikTok going in open.

00:10:21Wait, now I do remember this.

00:10:23Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

00:10:24I announced it on the service.

00:10:25They was going crazy.

00:10:26And then, to wrap this up, because we got to move on.

00:10:28To wrap this up about, so, things changed after the first 30 days.

00:10:33Because now, not it will work.

00:10:34I can't lay up with you and be in your house and all that.

00:10:36I got shit to do.

00:10:36Right.

00:10:37Things changed.

00:10:37I voiced what I didn't like.

00:10:39He didn't make a move.

00:10:40I voiced it again.

00:10:40He still didn't budge.

00:10:41I peaced out.

00:10:42And it was over.

00:10:44What did you like?

00:10:46He just wasn't giving me what I needed.

00:10:48Sexually?

00:10:49No, the sex was fine.

00:10:50Okay.

00:10:51It was really good.

00:10:52But he wasn't giving me, like, I need a certain type of communication.

00:10:57Okay.

00:10:57You know, it was kind of like, out of sight, out of mind.

00:10:59Like, once I wasn't up under him, then it was a little different.

00:11:02And I was just like, mm, I can't do this.

00:11:04So, Detroit or Michigan made it totally different.

00:11:07Yes.

00:11:08Okay.

00:11:08So, he gives you attention.

00:11:10He gives me all the things.

00:11:11We haven't had sex yet, though.

00:11:12Oh, that's beautiful.

00:11:14Yeah.

00:11:14I love it.

00:11:15I haven't had sex in a year.

00:11:16Oh, girl.

00:11:17Yeah.

00:11:18We nine months in.

00:11:20It's a lot of self-pleasure.

00:11:21It's a lot of turning my room into a barbershop.

00:11:23I got to give you your flowers for that.

00:11:24Speaking of.

00:11:24Because that's a big deal.

00:11:26Can I get flowers?

00:11:28Oh, girl.

00:11:29Did you know Lily was my favorite flower?

00:11:32No, this is ghetto.

00:11:33There's no water here because I didn't want it to spill.

00:11:35Can I send them over here?

00:11:36Yeah, please.

00:11:37It goes right with everything.

00:11:38Thank you so much.

00:11:40First of all, it's a big deal.

00:11:41I love the Lily.

00:11:41It smells so good.

00:11:43You're welcome.

00:11:44Nine months.

00:11:45No sex?

00:11:46No sex.

00:11:47So, how is that for you?

00:11:48A lot of self-pleasure.

00:11:49Oh, okay.

00:11:50Cool.

00:11:50I'm down with that.

00:11:51Yeah.

00:11:51A lot of self-pleasure.

00:11:52It feels odd for me because I have two daughters, 26 and 14.

00:11:56So, I don't do a lot of self-pleasuring either just because I feel self-conscious of her.

00:12:00Because they're at...

00:12:01Well, my 14-year-old lives with me.

00:12:02Okay.

00:12:03So, I'm just like...

00:12:04Yeah, when I was dating, normally I wouldn't date anyone that lived in Atlanta.

00:12:09So, I'd have to travel to see the gentleman that I was seeing or whatever.

00:12:12So, that's different.

00:12:13So, you're currently not dating?

00:12:15I'm dating.

00:12:15I'm just not having sex.

00:12:16Not having sex.

00:12:17Yeah.

00:12:17So, is that dating?

00:12:19No, it's dating.

00:12:20Okay.

00:12:21Yeah.

00:12:21You're hanging out.

00:12:22You're getting to know people.

00:12:24You're going out on dates.

00:12:26Yeah.

00:12:27I think the celibacy scares the men of today.

00:12:31Before, that was a thing that you actually cherished or you looked at as a...

00:12:36You know, that's precious that a woman would do that or whatever.

00:12:39Now, I think it turns a man off because they feel like that they can get the same in a woman who's actually having sex.

00:12:44What's the reason you're not having sex?

00:12:46I just felt like probably for the first time ever...

00:12:51Well, not the first time because I did six months before in a previous relationship.

00:12:54I just felt like taking our time...

00:12:57So, there's an age gap situation.

00:12:59Okay.

00:13:00He's 29.

00:13:01I'm 45.

00:13:03You would think he was like really sexual.

00:13:05Like, bae.

00:13:06My bae.

00:13:08Yeah.

00:13:08So, we've slept together naked twice and he only just cuddled with me all night.

00:13:15There's no sexual...

00:13:16He ain't even touch a titty girl.

00:13:17Okay.

00:13:17Wait a minute.

00:13:17You've been in a relationship for nine months and you've only slept...

00:13:20Well, we met nine months ago.

00:13:22Okay.

00:13:22We only made it official about a month ago and we've only slept in the same bed twice.

00:13:26Okay.

00:13:26That can happen.

00:13:27I can see that.

00:13:27And again, it's long distance.

00:13:29Right.

00:13:29So, that's also a factor.

00:13:31So, are you making your celibacy a thing or it just hasn't happened?

00:13:34It's not really celibacy.

00:13:35It just hasn't happened.

00:13:36Okay.

00:13:36Same thing.

00:13:36Yeah.

00:13:36And there was an opportunity for it to happen but I chose not to.

00:13:39Right.

00:13:40Because of the time.

00:13:41Like, he had an early morning flight and I'm like, we ain't waiting less for you to get up and leave.

00:13:44So, be a quickie.

00:13:45He ain't about to...

00:13:46Right, no.

00:13:46Yeah.

00:13:46Oh, you about to live in this pussy, baby.

00:13:48So, listen.

00:13:49It's going to become a thing for you.

00:13:50Girl.

00:13:51So, we talk about it and he was actually supposed to come to Atlanta last week but I chose to stay

00:13:56in Miami an extra day because I needed a little son and a little R&R.

00:13:59Fun and fun.

00:14:00Okay.

00:14:01So, yeah.

00:14:02I guess the next time he comes to visit, which will be in a couple of days, I'm like...

00:14:05So, now it's at the top of your plans.

00:14:07Oh, I already told him.

00:14:08Oh, okay.

00:14:08We ain't got to keep waiting because, baby.

00:14:10Especially now that it's official.

00:14:11That's what I want though.

00:14:12We got to consummate this situation.

00:14:13Yes.

00:14:14Not that you're in a title.

00:14:15I want that.

00:14:15I don't necessarily want to give out a title but I want to feel so into a guy that I want

00:14:20to have sex.

00:14:21I don't...

00:14:22No man makes me feel like, you know...

00:14:24You know when I knew I really liked him?

00:14:26Or maybe it was in a...

00:14:27When?

00:14:27When I started like fantasizing about having sex with him while I was masturbating.

00:14:30See, that's what I...

00:14:31I was like, oh, he got me.

00:14:32Yes.

00:14:33That was...

00:14:33Yeah.

00:14:33That was...

00:14:34Did I just call his name?

00:14:37See, when I want that.

00:14:39When I want to fantasize or I want to make out with myself to the idea of a man.

00:14:43Yeah.

00:14:44That's what it was to me.

00:14:44And I'm like, okay, maybe, you know, we can get past the celibacy thing and do our...

00:14:48No.

00:14:48So, you don't have like a hard out, pun intended, on this...

00:14:52No.

00:14:52On the celibacy thing.

00:14:54No.

00:14:54It's just when you know...

00:14:54It wasn't even intentional.

00:14:56Like, people are like, are you doing it for religious reasons?

00:14:58I would love to be able to say, yes, I'm not.

00:15:00But I just had a couple of bad relationships since my divorce.

00:15:06And I'm like, you know what?

00:15:07The one thing that catches me up, I'm a Capricorn, but I act like a Cancer.

00:15:10I'm real emotional.

00:15:12Cancers are emotional.

00:15:13Baby.

00:15:14Is that like you're rising or...

00:15:16I'm a Gemini.

00:15:16Oh, you're a Gemini.

00:15:17But that's the one thing I say about Cancers is that they some fucking...

00:15:20Yeah, sometimes I feel like I'm a Cancer because I'm emotional.

00:15:22So, I think sex...

00:15:23Maybe Cancer might be in your chart.

00:15:25It's definitely in there.

00:15:26My daughter told me it's my moon or something like that.

00:15:30But, yeah, I'm like, listen, sex makes things that much more difficult.

00:15:35Because even if a person has a red flag, you'll start to try to turn them orange or pink.

00:15:40Because you're like, yo, I've had sex with them.

00:15:42That dick will make you act stupid if it's good enough, girl.

00:15:44Exactly.

00:15:45So, I don't want that.

00:15:45We can all attest to that.

00:15:46Yeah.

00:15:47I want to like them for them and then the sex be a bonus.

00:15:49Right.

00:15:50So, I'm just waiting on that person that turns me on on a date to the point where I'm like,

00:15:54I want to go make out with myself at the idea of being with him.

00:15:57Nobody brings me to this date.

00:15:58And then you manifest it into it actually being him is what I'm doing right now.

00:16:01That's what I'm trying to work.

00:16:04That's the goal.

00:16:06So, you know, I've always been a fan.

00:16:08Before becoming a friend, I was always a fan.

00:16:10So, you remember when you came to Vanity Grand back in 2015?

00:16:14Wait a minute.

00:16:14Okay, yes.

00:16:16You don't remember?

00:16:16Now I do.

00:16:17That was when we first, first, first met.

00:16:19That's when I met you first.

00:16:20The very first time.

00:16:21I was trying to talk to Jason about like, when was the first time I met you?

00:16:23It was so long ago.

00:16:24It was in Philly.

00:16:24Yes.

00:16:25Okay.

00:16:25I was the entertainment director at a strip club there.

00:16:28And you were booked to come host the night.

00:16:29I love Philly.

00:16:30They always book me.

00:16:30And we got a picture.

00:16:31I got to find a picture so we can add it into the mix.

00:16:33Miss Kat there?

00:16:34Miss Kat.

00:16:35I think she was.

00:16:36Always there.

00:16:36I think she was.

00:16:37Shout out to Philly.

00:16:37We were up in the section.

00:16:39Remember it was like up steps in the section above the stage.

00:16:42Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

00:16:43Oh, it was a good time.

00:16:44Prior to that, you've always been that girl.

00:16:47Like, so beautiful.

00:16:48So gracious.

00:16:49So talented.

00:16:50I will always have a kiki deep inside at the time that you sung on Flavor of Love when this girl was singing.

00:16:57Oh, my God.

00:16:57He was crazy.

00:16:59That's my viral moment.

00:17:01Like, okay, we won the show, but the viral moment is when you sang and you sang.

00:17:03When you sang, girl.

00:17:05I really do appreciate it.

00:17:06Because you blew it down.

00:17:07And besides that, we have mutual friends.

00:17:09Jason being one of them.

00:17:10B-Mac being a doctor who I just seen you with recently.

00:17:13Yes.

00:17:13And it's just, we, I feel like even though we haven't spent a whole lot of time together, it's always the same energy.

00:17:20It's always the same, like, frequency of just girl time.

00:17:24I think that's what women are lacking right now.

00:17:27I love that about you.

00:17:27When I see you, I'm like, okay, she got the same energy.

00:17:31I think that that's important.

00:17:32And I think that women should actually find that they have more, we have more in common than we, you know.

00:17:37Than differences.

00:17:38Than differences, yes.

00:17:38And we are stronger in numbers when we stick together.

00:17:41Absolutely.

00:17:41And when we hold each other down.

00:17:43Girl, and it's a compliment to see, excuse my French, another bad bitch.

00:17:46I just think that that motivates me.

00:17:48Yeah.

00:17:48That makes me feel good.

00:17:50Same.

00:17:50Amongst the right crowd.

00:17:51I am definitely a girl's girl.

00:17:52Yes, me too.

00:17:53And rooting for them all.

00:17:54This is good, by the way.

00:17:56KK, this is a Delisherita.

00:17:58A Delisherita.

00:18:00Cheers.

00:18:02So, you came into fame already as a mother.

00:18:07I was.

00:18:08And of a daughter.

00:18:09Yes, my daughter.

00:18:10I have two girls, Jasmine, who is turning 26, and Lexington, who will be 15.

00:18:14So, when I started my career, it was back in 2006, and Jasmine was five.

00:18:19Okay.

00:18:19You are so famous, so fly, so fun.

00:18:23What is life like being in that space, as far as motherhood is concerned?

00:18:28Oh, my goodness.

00:18:29Now, motherhood is the bomb.

00:18:31I mean, because of their age and how close we've been to each other through everything in my adult life, we're like sisters.

00:18:41These are my daughters, mind you.

00:18:43Yeah.

00:18:43But I have that.

00:18:44My daughter's 28.

00:18:45Yes.

00:18:46So, at a certain age, when she became an adult, she had a different type of respect for me.

00:18:53She found a different fondness for me as a woman, let alone her mom.

00:18:58So, my oldest daughter and I, we clicked as she got older, and then my youngest, my divorce made her close to me because she saw me at my lowest point, and I found out that she had always admired me.

00:19:13Yeah, so that was like a big deal to find out that my daughter was mirroring me, so I'm like, what is it?

00:19:21Yeah, my baby, yeah, my baby, I'm like, what do you see, because my divorce, I don't know, it just felt like it broke me as a woman.

00:19:30So, speaking of your ex-husband, we don't have to mention his name if we don't choose not to, the world, you know, if she famous enough, y'all don't know who he is.

00:19:37So, blending in with the family, how was that?

00:19:44How did your daughters take to him?

00:19:45Oh, my goodness, they loved my ex-husband.

00:19:47Yeah.

00:19:47They absolutely loved him.

00:19:49Like the world, we knew about his story from Netflix.

00:19:52So, that show was so big, the story of When They See Us, which talked about the Exonerated Five, known back in 1989 as the Central Park Five.

00:20:03The Central Park Five, yes.

00:20:04So, we took a liking to him instantly, my kids did too, they're empathetic girls, so, and not that that's a bad thing, we were just empathetic to his story.

00:20:12Right, so, my children, knowing the type of person that I am, it made sense to them.

00:20:18They're like, oh yeah, she always, I always go for the one that has a story.

00:20:23I am a sepial sexual, so I'm never.

00:20:25Do you feel like you're a healer?

00:20:26Yes.

00:20:27I feel that energy from you.

00:20:28Because I feel the same way about myself.

00:20:29But you know what, the thing about it is, when my divorce happened, I hated having that spirit, because it felt like it rendered me weak.

00:20:39But I feel now.

00:20:39Because you're speaking from yourself.

00:20:40Yes.

00:20:41You're pulling from within.

00:20:42Or I couldn't hide that happening to me in front of my kids, my empathy, yeah.

00:20:46But now I feel different.

00:20:48I feel like I'm more of a vessel than a victim.

00:20:50I love that.

00:20:51Yeah, so I like to be that person that wants to be connected to healing.

00:20:56And I do realize, though, with all the things that I experienced in my divorce, that there is a stage of healing that doesn't belong to me, and God has to take that on.

00:21:05Absolutely.

00:21:05So, I don't have God power.

00:21:07And even if I want to have a likeness of him, there are still some things that he has to take care of.

00:21:11And so, not everything is my battle.

00:21:13I love that.

00:21:14So, yeah, once I got to that point, I felt a little better.

00:21:16So, you were married for two years.

00:21:17Yes.

00:21:18You know that the people try to be messy and say you only married a man for his settlement money.

00:21:22How do you feel about that?

00:21:23Well, two things.

00:21:24One, I don't even want to say he moved in with me.

00:21:27Because not only that, you got your own money.

00:21:29Yes.

00:21:29I was about to say.

00:21:30You came into fame with your own coin.

00:21:31You know what?

00:21:32I was not going to twist it.

00:21:33You know what?

00:21:34Thank you so much.

00:21:34I appreciate that.

00:21:35But let me tell you something.

00:21:36You're putting your down.

00:21:37I'm picking mine up.

00:21:37Right.

00:21:38It's so good.

00:21:39People who...

00:21:41You've had your career for a very long time.

00:21:43And so have I.

00:21:44It'll be 20 years next year in 26.

00:21:47I feel like this.

00:21:49Regardless of who I decide to marry, become best friends with, even...

00:21:54Break their celibacy for.

00:21:55Yeah.

00:21:56Even break my celibacy for.

00:21:57My fan base at this point already knows if they mess with me or if they don't.

00:22:02So, if someone said that it wasn't because you believe that.

00:22:04It's because you're not a fan of mine.

00:22:06You don't know me.

00:22:06So, you don't know me.

00:22:07And what's even better?

00:22:09If that's all you got, you have nothing.

00:22:11So, I feel good about myself.

00:22:13Not only that, you're not discrediting me.

00:22:15Because I'm cool with being a platinum digger.

00:22:17I'm not even digging for gold.

00:22:18I like the platinum.

00:22:19I'm in a different, you know, phase of my life.

00:22:21But, I'll tell you this much.

00:22:23You didn't shit on me.

00:22:24You shitted on him because you said he had no value other than his money.

00:22:27Other than that money.

00:22:27So, you made me know, never mind.

00:22:30Your projection of me does not have to be my reality.

00:22:32And this man fell in love.

00:22:34Now, love didn't have to last.

00:22:35But that doesn't mean that it didn't happen.

00:22:37Right.

00:22:37So, no.

00:22:38I recognize people.

00:22:39I like people to identify themselves.

00:22:41Not so I can bark back at you.

00:22:43But so I can avoid you.

00:22:44Yes, I can see you.

00:22:46Life is way too short.

00:22:47I spend less time commenting on the naysayers.

00:22:50And I like to be with the people that celebrate me.

00:22:52Right.

00:22:52Like when I got the call from you, I said, I am there.

00:22:55110%.

00:22:56You know, life is short.

00:22:57Like you said earlier, you're recognizing having gratitude for the process rather than the end goal.

00:23:03Yes.

00:23:03A lot of times we're looking to try to connect to the end goal.

00:23:06And we miss the whole idea of life.

00:23:08Listen, the journey is what matters.

00:23:10Yes, baby.

00:23:10The journey is what matters.

00:23:12So, I'm on a journey.

00:23:13Yes.

00:23:13The naysayers, I'll tell you this much.

00:23:14I had two years of a marriage to someone that I know personally that I truly loved and cared about.

00:23:21It didn't work out.

00:23:22And that's okay.

00:23:22It's a part of the experience.

00:23:24And I know I helped a lot of people.

00:23:25Will you marry again?

00:23:26Absolutely.

00:23:27Yes, ma'am.

00:23:27I love that for you.

00:23:27If God keeps spreading my body, girl, I'm a lover.

00:23:30I love that for you.

00:23:31I will love again and again and again.

00:23:33Yes.

00:23:34So, let's talk about Queen's Court.

00:23:36Oh, goodness.

00:23:36Speaking of love.

00:23:37Right.

00:23:37Speaking of love.

00:23:39I have to be honest with you, friend.

00:23:41I did not watch the entire episode.

00:23:42I mean, the entire season.

00:23:43Well, then I feel better.

00:23:44But I did watch a lot of the episodes.

00:23:46I watch almost all.

00:23:47I'm so busy these days.

00:23:49Make our tree jobs mine.

00:23:50Like, I'm not the best.

00:23:51Baby.

00:23:51I'm doing so much.

00:23:53No, I'm not mad at you.

00:23:54So, yeah.

00:23:55And you know Kay Michelle's my girl, too.

00:23:57So, I was watching for the both of you and Lisa Rae.

00:23:59I don't know her personally, but I have always been a fan.

00:24:02Yo, Lisa is a pioneer.

00:24:03So, seeing the three of y'all in this house and in this environment with these men in

00:24:08this competition.

00:24:09Yes.

00:24:10You know, it was a good watch.

00:24:12I got to finish, but it was a good watch.

00:24:14You know what?

00:24:15Well, I'm not with the guy that I...

00:24:17Well...

00:24:17Not to give it away.

00:24:18Right.

00:24:19But, yeah.

00:24:20So, yeah.

00:24:20Finish watching.

00:24:21But just like the competition part of it.

00:24:24When you got the call and they told you, you know, you're going to be with other ladies

00:24:29and a lot of men and it's a whole dating thing from a dating show.

00:24:33That's how we first met you.

00:24:34Flavor point.

00:24:35So, now you flip the coin and they are coming.

00:24:38That's your seat.

00:24:38Exactly.

00:24:39Yes.

00:24:39So, explain your POV and why you decided to do it and how was that for you?

00:24:43Well, first of all, shout out to Will.

00:24:45Also, when I tell you that to have a Will Packer production under my belt, that felt

00:24:52good.

00:24:52Just to be in the presence of Will Packer.

00:24:54He's amazing.

00:24:55And shout out to Peacock, Bravo, NBC, NBC Universal, Rodney and Holly Robinson-T.

00:25:02Just to be amongst them was good for me because at that time, I was in such a broken state

00:25:09in my life.

00:25:10On February 13th, 2022, my ex-husband walked out on my family and myself.

00:25:17Devastating.

00:25:18Just like that blindsided you.

00:25:20Well, I was out of town working on set.

00:25:22I was actually filming a movie.

00:25:23So, he walked out on mine.

00:25:24While you were gone.

00:25:25And I don't want to make this a bastion about him.

00:25:26These are things that actually happen.

00:25:28You're speaking your truth.

00:25:29Yes.

00:25:29He just don't have to be a cabinet of war.

00:25:31I promise I don't have any beef with him.

00:25:34I pray for him daily.

00:25:36But that's what happened.

00:25:38So, February 13th was the last time that he was in our life.

00:25:43Fast forward to February 13th, 2023, my niece was killed in a mass shooting at Michigan State

00:25:49University.

00:25:50I did hear about that.

00:25:51My condolences.

00:25:52A year to the day.

00:25:53A year to the day.

00:25:54So, and this is one day before Valentine's Day.

00:25:56So, the love day breaks my heart every year.

00:25:58Oh, baby.

00:25:59Yes.

00:26:00So, when they reached out, I was so numb to living that I said that this opportunity, one,

00:26:10wake me up, put me around other women, and even give me back the idea or the desire that

00:26:16I may even want to connect to love.

00:26:18Because I had lost it.

00:26:19I was really, really numb.

00:26:20And I was feeling like love was not something that I was going to even encounter again.

00:26:25So, you went into this situation like maybe I can just, maybe it will, maybe it will happen

00:26:31for me.

00:26:31Yeah.

00:26:32So, there was one guy, one scene in particular that stood out to me.

00:26:38Let's talk about Chris.

00:26:39Okay.

00:26:40Yeah.

00:26:41Shout out to Chris.

00:26:41That's a really good friend of mine.

00:26:42Hey, Chris.

00:26:43So, there was a point when you felt like Chris was not being a gentleman.

00:26:47Yeah.

00:26:48He was being a little sassy from what I can tell.

00:26:51Yeah.

00:26:51He had a little sass at the table, child, in the kitchen, right?

00:26:55Yes.

00:26:56And, you know, he was saying that he wasn't feeling the whole process and that he was

00:27:00ready to go, basically.

00:27:02And you had just saved him because Kate Michelle was ready to kick his ass to the curb.

00:27:06Yes.

00:27:07Are you talking about Zach?

00:27:08Wait, am I talking about two different people?

00:27:09Okay.

00:27:09So, is he Caucasian or black?

00:27:11The black guy.

00:27:11Okay.

00:27:12He's black.

00:27:12It's Chris.

00:27:13So, Chris.

00:27:13But Chris was always my guy.

00:27:15Oh, okay.

00:27:15Okay.

00:27:15So, it was that.

00:27:17Okay.

00:27:17I had the two good views.

00:27:18That definitely happened with Zach.

00:27:19So, Zach was Kate Michelle.

00:27:21It's Chris, right?

00:27:22You almost walked over.

00:27:23So, you're talking about Chris from Nevada, Michigan.

00:27:24Yes, yes, yes.

00:27:25Yes.

00:27:26Oh, my God.

00:27:27Chris, I had just saved him.

00:27:28You had just saved him because Kate Michelle was ready.

00:27:30I stopped watching after that.

00:27:31Yeah.

00:27:31Okay.

00:27:32So, Kate Michelle was ready to, and you saved him by giving him another chance.

00:27:36And he turned sassy on you and told you that he wasn't feeling the whole situation and

00:27:40he eliminated himself.

00:27:41Girl, I hated me on the show.

00:27:42So, then you had to realize that Kate Michelle was right.

00:27:45Well, I didn't.

00:27:46Okay.

00:27:46So, first of all.

00:27:47Now, she should have gave his ass on that.

00:27:48No.

00:27:48So, but you know what?

00:27:49I don't, I'll put it to you.

00:27:51Like, the premise of the show is this.

00:27:52It's a very difficult thing to do because you wouldn't do it in real life.

00:27:55Well, I wouldn't.

00:27:56I wouldn't date multiple men while knowingly dating other women.

00:28:01So, that's already something that's going to be difficult.

00:28:03But when you put three women that are strong in their presence, with a, not even assertiveness,

00:28:11but that we have strong presence.

00:28:12These are not, and they're not, we're not really opposite of each other.

00:28:16So, you know that there's going to be some type of back and forth.

00:28:20She's going to maybe like the same guy that I like or vice versa.

00:28:23So, that's already complicated.

00:28:25Already.

00:28:25But then when you tell me, well, I had a bad time with him, I may have a good time with

00:28:29him.

00:28:29I'm a sapiosexual.

00:28:30You're not going to get the same version of somebody that.

00:28:32I may not, yeah.

00:28:33Right.

00:28:34So, the energy isn't the same.

00:28:35Not to mention, I'm loyal to a father sometimes.

00:28:37He's from Detroit.

00:28:38So, I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt.

00:28:41And so, I wanted to keep him there.

00:28:42But watching the show, I hated my personality because I felt like a doormat.

00:28:47Yes, I felt like I was thirsty to keep someone around and not be abandoned.

00:28:55In hindsight, why do you think that you?

00:28:57My ex-husband abandoned me.

00:28:58So, it did give me some abandonment issues.

00:29:00And I learned a lot from Queens Court about myself, which is why I did the show because

00:29:04I needed to not be so dumb.

00:29:07Oh, my goodness.

00:29:08It helped.

00:29:08And shout out to all of the men that were on Queens Court.

00:29:11I don't think that I was bad to them, but I just know that they dealt with me during a

00:29:15time where I was really, really emotional.

00:29:16So, you ended up not crowning the guy.

00:29:19I know Lisa Rae did.

00:29:20Did K. Michelle crown the guy?

00:29:21I'm the only one that crowned the guy.

00:29:22Oh, you did crown the guy.

00:29:23Oh, okay.

00:29:24See, I didn't finish.

00:29:25That's why I said I'm glad you didn't finish because I'm not with him.

00:29:27So, now I got to make sure I put that on my top of the pregnancy list because now I got

00:29:30to see what happened, friend.

00:29:31So, shout out to him.

00:29:32I'm not going to tell you who it is, but he and I are friends.

00:29:35So, you did crown the guy.

00:29:36So, my next question, because I didn't know that you crowned the guy, was do you feel

00:29:39like the guys on the show were on your level?

00:29:40But if you crowned the guy, then clearly you felt something for him.

00:29:43You know, that was my empathetic side.

00:29:45And I don't want to disregard his value as a man, but we've even had a conversation after

00:29:50the show.

00:29:51He felt like maybe you shouldn't have chosen anyone.

00:29:53If anybody was broken in that cast, it was me.

00:29:56So, it would have taken a miracle or just that actual person for me to walk away with

00:30:01my pick.

00:30:02Me choosing someone actually showed me, girl, you got a little pattern.

00:30:07You fall into stories.

00:30:09Oh, okay.

00:30:09And you are like...

00:30:11You put your cape on and want to save a hoe.

00:30:12The guy that's like, yes, like sit down.

00:30:14No, you don't need anyone in this group, not because they are not worthy, but because they

00:30:18are not your match.

00:30:19So, I need your next man to come completely healed and ready to help uplift you.

00:30:23Yes.

00:30:24And you know what?

00:30:24Don't that sound selfish?

00:30:26No, it does not.

00:30:27Because to say completely healed, I don't ever want to like...

00:30:28No.

00:30:29I need him to come ready.

00:30:30I need him to come ready.

00:30:31Yeah, come ready.

00:30:32I feel like mine came ready.

00:30:33But if you have a problem or two, nobody's perfect.

00:30:36See, nothing.

00:30:36No buts.

00:30:37No pedo.

00:30:37No buts.

00:30:38No buts.

00:30:39Right.

00:30:39Come ready.

00:30:40Come ready.

00:30:41For all of this fabulousness.

00:30:42For all of this fabulousness.

00:30:43And speaking of all of this fabulousness, you're a reality star.

00:30:47You're an entrepreneur, you're an actress.

00:30:49Let's talk about you as an actress.

00:30:51I love that.

00:30:52Oh my goodness.

00:30:53I love it so much.

00:30:54That's my next step.

00:30:55That's the next thing I want to get.

00:30:56Girl, it is something.

00:30:57I need to lock in some roles.

00:30:59It's a different environment.

00:31:00I like the idea of becoming a character or pushing myself to the limits.

00:31:04I graduated from Detroit High School for the Fine and Performing Arts.

00:31:07I lived up in the Fine and Performing Arts High School too.

00:31:08Baby.

00:31:08It's in our background.

00:31:09It's in our DNA.

00:31:10Wow.

00:31:10So I like the idea of becoming a character.

00:31:15I don't have to always be in my box, even though at the beginning of my career I got

00:31:18caught past.

00:31:19Can you see these cards?

00:31:20No.

00:31:20Okay.

00:31:21Because.

00:31:21Okay, what's the question?

00:31:22Do you feel like they put you in a box?

00:31:24Yes.

00:31:24Because of how you look.

00:31:25Because of who you are.

00:31:26Because of how you naturally give the blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:31:29You know what?

00:31:30And I kind of fuck myself.

00:31:32I fuck myself a little bit.

00:31:33Because if you don't step outside of your pretty, then they may only think that that's

00:31:40what you're capable of.

00:31:41They're giving you an opportunity.

00:31:42But, you know, sometimes when they send me now, when they send me the script, I know

00:31:47they'll send me the character that they wanted me to try out for.

00:31:50But now I jump in and ask.

00:31:50Read the script and see what's up with this one.

00:31:52I like that.

00:31:53I do that character.

00:31:53So what would be your dream role?

00:31:56Ooh.

00:31:57Like what kind of character would you like to play?

00:31:59First of all, I'm tired of dying.

00:32:01Every movie that I've done so far.

00:32:03You die.

00:32:03Every single one.

00:32:05I'm out of here.

00:32:05I don't like it.

00:32:06But if it happens in a movie rather than real life, I'll take that.

00:32:09I know that's right.

00:32:09But I think I want a role where it's age appropriate.

00:32:12Meaning that, I don't know why we frown on age.

00:32:15Every day is a blessing to be here.

00:32:17But I'm 47.

00:32:19And I'm cool with that.

00:32:22I'm cool with what 47 represents.

00:32:24So I don't have to have the sexy role.

00:32:26I'm cool with being a mom or being, I just want that role where I'm able to introduce

00:32:3047 and be comfortable in it.

00:32:32And it brings a good life for what that age group is.

00:32:34Right.

00:32:35How do you feel about sex scenes?

00:32:40I'm better now.

00:32:42Shout out to Tristan Fasika out of Detroit, by the way.

00:32:45Tristan Fasika's got me all the way together.

00:32:48And shout out to Kevin Savage and to the others.

00:32:50Did you have an intimacy culture on set?

00:32:52Well, with Tristan, no.

00:32:54Okay.

00:32:54But to my past sex scenes, we did have a culture, whatever.

00:32:59And then the gentleman, it wasn't them.

00:33:01Okay.

00:33:02I don't know.

00:33:02I think that your co-star has to have that in them too.

00:33:09Because that was the thing with Tristan.

00:33:11Tristan said, listen, where can I touch you?

00:33:14Where can I not?

00:33:16What are you comfortable with?

00:33:17Okay, cool.

00:33:18What's your absolute?

00:33:19Yes.

00:33:20Don't you dare.

00:33:20And then he asked me something like, okay, what was your most amazing sexual encounter?

00:33:26Oh.

00:33:26That's not something that you.

00:33:28Let me sit straight.

00:33:29Sit straight.

00:33:30He was smart.

00:33:35You got another one already?

00:33:36Because that took my head to a space of.

00:33:42Okay, I can describe that for you.

00:33:44And tell you what that's like.

00:33:46Which give him insight.

00:33:46Because he doesn't know me.

00:33:47He's known me for 15 minutes.

00:33:48Right.

00:33:49As opposed to the script.

00:33:50You know, requires that he's known me for a minute.

00:33:52So I think that his questions is what made the sex scenes work.

00:33:57And we were explosive.

00:33:58Made you comfortable.

00:33:59Oh my God.

00:34:00And no disrespect.

00:34:01He's married.

00:34:02But it was amazing to work with someone who knew what to do.

00:34:07Tired to direct me.

00:34:07So I have the Magic City documentary, Coming to Stars.

00:34:14It's a five-part docu-series.

00:34:16I narrate the entire five episodes.

00:34:19That's juicy.

00:34:20I interview, of course.

00:34:21I have producer credit.

00:34:23Okay.

00:34:23And there's a little more tea that I can't spill right now.

00:34:26But in the very first episode, These Titties is out.

00:34:30Yours?

00:34:31Mine.

00:34:31Okay, how nice.

00:34:32I can't wait.

00:34:32When does it come out again?

00:34:33In the summer.

00:34:34Okay, cool.

00:34:34Yeah, late summer.

00:34:35I am topless in the first episode.

00:34:39And I filmed this two years ago.

00:34:42Right?

00:34:42Okay.

00:34:42Prior to 65 Day Fiance.

00:34:44Prior to my current boyfriend.

00:34:46Right.

00:34:47So with it, you see where I'm going with this?

00:34:51Yeah.

00:34:51So with it coming out soon and us, you know, forming this commitment, I had to have a talk

00:34:56with him and let him know that, you know, my Titties is going to be on Starz for all

00:35:01of your friends and family to see.

00:35:02How do you feel about it?

00:35:03So we had to talk about it.

00:35:05And he's like, you're working.

00:35:07And it's something that you already did before me.

00:35:09And, you know, as long as you ain't flashing everybody on the red carpet, then, you know,

00:35:13we good.

00:35:13So how did that feel for him?

00:35:15What was his reaction to that?

00:35:17He was like, you know, that's it.

00:35:19Like, he's not just a complete nobody himself.

00:35:21He writes for a few people in Detroit.

00:35:23He has some singles that's been out in that.

00:35:25Did it intimidate him?

00:35:26I don't think it did.

00:35:27I think it enticed him.

00:35:28I think it made him interested in getting to know me more.

00:35:32I think it intrigued him.

00:35:34I mean, because the reason why I ask that, and that's good, especially if he's comfortable

00:35:38with it, is I think that was the problem in my previous marriage is that men will say

00:35:44that they're comfortable with that.

00:35:45Jealousy.

00:35:46Oh, a lot of insecurities.

00:35:47Because you think about when he thinks about who I dated in the past and he starts to compare

00:35:52himself to them, you know what I'm saying?

00:35:55And the idea that I may have to work with these people again, or just the idea that,

00:35:58you know, men fantasize about Gigi.

00:36:00Like, my ex, I definitely know that that was a part of his issue.

00:36:04It was a problem for a previous relationship of mine, too.

00:36:07But with him, he's so supportive.

00:36:11He tells me so much how he's proud of me and how he's so happy for everything that I'm

00:36:16doing right now.

00:36:17And, you know, he's actually seen in the nine months of me manifest things that are happening

00:36:21right now.

00:36:21And he's been...

00:36:22And you're big shit.

00:36:23Do you know who I am?

00:36:24Oh, heck yeah.

00:36:25They did a whole episode for you for P-Valley.

00:36:27For P-Valley.

00:36:27Yes, yes, yes, yes.

00:36:28Episode five.

00:36:29Baby.

00:36:30Season two.

00:36:30Okay.

00:36:30Yeah.

00:36:31Yeah.

00:36:31Yes.

00:36:32That was a good time.

00:36:32Episode five.

00:36:33Season two.

00:36:33Yes, yes, yes.

00:36:34So, yeah, I had to ask him, how would he feel?

00:36:38You know, what are your thoughts on it?

00:36:40Because, you know, your people want to see, and he's just like, you were working, and it

00:36:44was two years ago.

00:36:45And, you know, and I told him that, like, well, what about in the future?

00:36:49I want to act.

00:36:50What if I get a movie role and I have a sex scene?

00:36:52Like, how do you not work that?

00:36:54Right.

00:36:55You know, they want the sex allergist to ooze sex on her pores.

00:36:57I love somebody.

00:36:58So, and I would actually love to, I would actually love to do a sex scene on camera.

00:37:03That's the only way I'll ever do porn.

00:37:05Really?

00:37:05I want to do real porn when the size was in my phone.

00:37:07I want to do real porn, but I'll up the shit out of somebody fake on camera.

00:37:11Okay, listen, it is very, like, you feel a way, you feel like a pop.

00:37:15I can't wait.

00:37:16I can't wait.

00:37:16I want to do that.

00:37:17So, I asked him, how would he feel about that?

00:37:19And, allegedly, he's fine with it.

00:37:21So, we'll just have to see what happens when it happens.

00:37:23I was about to say, full on, no blood, no brawn.

00:37:26No, I'm laying it all out.

00:37:28I mean, I was a stripper.

00:37:30I was elbows and booty holes.

00:37:31You have to make sure that you take care of him really, really well that night.

00:37:34I was elbows and booty holes for the world to see for 10 whole years, girl.

00:37:38Wait a minute.

00:37:38I'm sure there's a few people in this room that have seen my vagina before.

00:37:43Besides Jason.

00:37:45Look, I see someone.

00:37:47Exactly.

00:37:48It was nice.

00:37:49So, yeah, I mean, you know, it is what it is.

00:37:53But as far as you dealing with a man while you're in a relationship,

00:37:57I mean, I'm sorry, doing a sex scene while you're in a relationship,

00:38:00like, what are your thoughts on that?

00:38:02Well, I was seeing someone when I was filming Cogs and Cougar,

00:38:06which is a very sexual, fluid, and forward film.

00:38:10Mm-hmm.

00:38:10Um, and my, my partner was just more so, he wanted me to do the role well.

00:38:18Okay.

00:38:18He doesn't want me to suck on camera.

00:38:19Mm-hmm.

00:38:20But he also wanted me, listen, use your professionalism and know that you love me

00:38:23while you're doing this.

00:38:25You love me.

00:38:25You have someone else.

00:38:26Is that, like, foreplay for you?

00:38:27Did you go home?

00:38:28No.

00:38:28Okay.

00:38:29No, that's where you have to separate.

00:38:30Okay.

00:38:30Now, first of all, I wasn't single and he's married.

00:38:33So, that, that's the first thing that stands right in the forefront of your mind.

00:38:37It's like, I want to respect this environment.

00:38:38But I am a woman.

00:38:39Yeah.

00:38:40And he is a man.

00:38:40You are human.

00:38:41Right.

00:38:42I'm human.

00:38:42And so, that's what I'm saying.

00:38:43With Tristan in particular, he was very professional.

00:38:47So, the way he played outside of the camera was really, really dope.

00:38:53And it got me into character.

00:38:54Like, he never went out of character until we said cut and it was done filming.

00:38:59So, it made it easier or whatever.

00:39:00As long as you talk to your partner.

00:39:02Yeah.

00:39:02You have a good conversation.

00:39:03They respect you.

00:39:04Mm-hmm.

00:39:04They know that you love them.

00:39:05Hey.

00:39:06Have you ever dated a man that was, like, jealous of, like, your persona or the way that people

00:39:10love you?

00:39:11I don't think I've dated a man that wasn't.

00:39:13Wow.

00:39:14How do you deal with that?

00:39:15Well, you know what?

00:39:16I understand it.

00:39:17So, if I can function within my relationship and they don't make it an issue or act insecure,

00:39:22I get it.

00:39:22I'll play with them.

00:39:23They didn't like that.

00:39:24You always kissing me like that.

00:39:25Hey.

00:39:26Do you want to try to do it?

00:39:27Do you want to kiss me better?

00:39:28Do you want to kiss me better?

00:39:29Yeah.

00:39:29You know what I'm saying?

00:39:31You got to make them feel better.

00:39:32You got to make it work for you.

00:39:33Yeah.

00:39:33It's got to make it work for you.

00:39:34Flip that.

00:39:35Flip the script on his ass.

00:39:36Yeah.

00:39:36Imagine.

00:39:36Yeah.

00:39:37Your man is like, yo, Gigi, he just saw, like, your press.

00:39:40It's okay for you to be jealous.

00:39:41That's the reason, honey.

00:39:42I understand.

00:39:43I'm going to take care of you later.

00:39:44Period.

00:39:45Yeah.

00:39:45Okay.

00:39:46So, any more dating shows in the future?

00:39:48Would you do it again?

00:39:50Maybe it's just me.

00:39:51It was not a competition, but.

00:39:52Yes.

00:39:53Okay.

00:39:53I would do it, and I love Lisa Rae and K. Michelle.

00:39:55Beautiful, beautiful women, but they were strong competition, one.

00:39:59And two, I think it makes, I've always had a relationship with them.

00:40:03First of all, I had a relationship before we went on the show.

00:40:04Right.

00:40:05Does it make it a little sticky and different?

00:40:07Yeah.

00:40:08A little bit.

00:40:08At one point, it felt like that, so I don't even want to feel like that about, you know,

00:40:11any female, let alone females that I'm fond of.

00:40:14So, and plus, I think that I would, I would be myself more if I did a solo dating show

00:40:20because I wouldn't be looking at it as a competition.

00:40:22What about if you're already in a relationship, not doing a dating show, but doing something

00:40:26with your man?

00:40:27Like how Holly and her husband have a show.

00:40:31It would have to make sense.

00:40:32Like, would you be able to be on a show and be in a working environment if you were in

00:40:36a relationship with somebody?

00:40:37I think it would have to make sense.

00:40:38I'm not against it, but I'm not necessarily for it either.

00:40:41I think that they're, most of my friends, believe it or not, are part of a franchise that

00:40:47has their relationship in the forefront, like love and hip hop.

00:40:50So, I'm really good friends with Yandy and Mendeecees, Rashida and Kirk, Bambi and Scrappy,

00:40:56but a lot of those relationships go through some really tough things in front of the camera.

00:41:00Candy and Todd, I have a lot of friends that have their relationship on TV and they don't

00:41:05always work out.

00:41:08It can create a rift sometimes with the outside influence and the opinions and just people

00:41:14being straight up messy.

00:41:14Yes, and we're human.

00:41:15So, those comments do have some type of effects.

00:41:18So, I don't know.

00:41:18Maybe I wouldn't do it, but I'm not against it completely.

00:41:21So, what type of guys are you dating right now that you aren't having sex with?

00:41:26Grown men, at least that's what they care in themselves.

00:41:28Like, I want to be very clear that you can take me to Maldives, which I love, by the way,

00:41:34just so far is a really long trip.

00:41:35A lot of light.

00:41:36Yeah, a lot of light.

00:41:37But that's not going to get me to have sex with you.

00:41:41I need someone who is, one, already taking care of their business sexually so I don't

00:41:46have to worry about that temperature or whatever and respects me.

00:41:49So, the minute I'm dating, there are grown men.

00:41:51There are older, Muslim in age.

00:41:53And they just respect me individually, like being around me.

00:41:57I like that.

00:41:58I'm around people that like my company.

00:41:59So, what's like the age range?

00:42:02You said you date older men.

00:42:03So, what's the age range?

00:42:04Like, what's like a hard, like, okay, he's too old.

00:42:07And then what's like on the other scale?

00:42:08Because I'm currently dating somebody younger.

00:42:10Right.

00:42:11And I have guys that are younger that actually come at me, but I don't see the reality in

00:42:17that for me.

00:42:17Girl, these 20 songs have been knocking my DMs down for the past five years.

00:42:20Listen, I talked to my 26-year-old about that.

00:42:22She was like, I don't know what it is.

00:42:24You're going to just mom them.

00:42:25Exactly.

00:42:25So, I don't want to waste your time.

00:42:27I'm really like, I'm mothering a little bit.

00:42:31I like being a mom and a wife.

00:42:33See, this is a first for me with the age gap with me being the older age.

00:42:38Okay.

00:42:38Do you like it?

00:42:39And I like it.

00:42:40Yeah, it's with sex.

00:42:40I joke about it all the time.

00:42:42It's with sex.

00:42:42Like, I be calling him a 12-year-old and like, oh, see.

00:42:46I mean, like, because you're 12.

00:42:48But, you know, we have fun with it.

00:42:50It really did have to grow on me.

00:42:52But my whole thing was, and this is what made me kind of like, all right, I'll do this.

00:42:56Yeah.

00:42:56Because, for one, he is the same age as my kid.

00:43:00Right.

00:43:00Just about.

00:43:01They were the same age for like 60 days.

00:43:02Right.

00:43:03But if I didn't have a kid when I was a kid, then he wouldn't be the same age as my kid.

00:43:06Yes.

00:43:07For one.

00:43:07And it would be okay if they knew.

00:43:08For two, I was just with someone that you know.

00:43:11Yes.

00:43:12For, I don't know, a lot of years, 10, decade and more, right?

00:43:16A lot of your life, yeah.

00:43:17And he was 15 years older than me.

00:43:19So it's never.

00:43:20Yeah.

00:43:21Right?

00:43:21So it's never an issue when the man is older.

00:43:24No.

00:43:24Nobody bets an eye when a man is older.

00:43:26But when the woman is older, there's so much chatter about it.

00:43:29Well, don't get me wrong.

00:43:30I have friends who are in their 20s.

00:43:33It's not something I'm proud of.

00:43:35It's just something that's factual.

00:43:36Some friends who I know, well, in the environment that I'm in, I meet all range of age or whatever.

00:43:42But I have to personally know for myself that this is not going to, we're not having the same type of conversations.

00:43:47I don't have the same way of chilling.

00:43:50Like, I'm a homebody.

00:43:51When I'm not working or whatever, I like to make my home my oasis.

00:43:55So some guys are young and they want to just get out and travel, whatever.

00:43:59Yeah, want to be outside.

00:44:00I'm not really into that.

00:44:01So I don't know.

00:44:02There are more homebodies.

00:44:04They're more established.

00:44:05They got more.

00:44:06And they, even when they want to travel.

00:44:07They want, they know what they need.

00:44:09Yeah.

00:44:09They want to travel to relax.

00:44:11They don't want to travel to vlog.

00:44:13They don't want.

00:44:13Yes.

00:44:13No, they want to travel to chill.

00:44:17So I'm like, okay, I can deal with it.

00:44:19I'm here for that.

00:44:20But I'm so, and plus, I semi-like to be controlled.

00:44:23I want someone who I can be submissive with.

00:44:26I like a little adore.

00:44:27Yes, I want you to be.

00:44:28I'm a Capricorn.

00:44:29So I don't want to be the male energy in the relationship.

00:44:33I need somebody that's older that feel like, girl, relax.

00:44:36I got this.

00:44:39Please have this.

00:44:40So, yeah, this whole age thing is like really something that's really prevalent in my life

00:44:46right now.

00:44:46It's something that I battle with on a daily basis because I really do love him and I'm

00:44:49so happy for my relationship and it's really, it's new, but it's working.

00:44:53I like the way you look when you talk about it.

00:44:55So it must feel good to you.

00:44:56But does he, you're such a strong being.

00:44:59His mama is two years older than me.

00:45:02What does she say?

00:45:04She loves me.

00:45:04Okay.

00:45:05I'm not his mom and his grandma.

00:45:07But if the mother loves you, then it's...

00:45:08And the grandma.

00:45:09Normally, okay.

00:45:09And the grandma.

00:45:10Yeah.

00:45:11But would you ever get tired of the age you got?

00:45:14I asked him that.

00:45:15Like in 20 years, you know, you want to get married and all that.

00:45:18Right.

00:45:18And have more babies.

00:45:19Exactly.

00:45:20And that's the whole process.

00:45:21But in 20 years, I mean, you know, if it's right, I'll be giving the baby.

00:45:24But in 20 years, are you going to roll over and be like, this old bitch.

00:45:28No.

00:45:29You won't be trying to trade me.

00:45:30I think that once you fall in love, that that is off the table.

00:45:33No.

00:45:33I mean.

00:45:34He was like, baby, it's fine as you are.

00:45:36I'm fine now.

00:45:37Exactly.

00:45:38But no.

00:45:38What older woman and young couple?

00:45:42Care.

00:45:43Madonna.

00:45:45They're like big age guys.

00:45:46Who stayed together the whole time?

00:45:48Like I was in love with Demi and Ashton at one point.

00:45:51Yeah.

00:45:51That was so sexy.

00:45:52They're not still together, are they?

00:45:53No, they aren't.

00:45:53But that was a really sexy one.

00:45:56And they didn't work.

00:45:56Yeah.

00:45:57They look good together.

00:45:58But who works?

00:46:00Cher's still with the young guy?

00:46:01She is with the young guy.

00:46:02He's like in his 20s.

00:46:03He's like.

00:46:04Amber Rose's.

00:46:05Yes.

00:46:05Baby dad?

00:46:06Yes.

00:46:07Okay.

00:46:07Yeah.

00:46:07Okay.

00:46:07Well, I guess.

00:46:08And Madonna is with like a 28 year old.

00:46:11How long have they been together?

00:46:13I'm not sure.

00:46:13But she's sexy.

00:46:14I mean.

00:46:15And then Tammy.

00:46:16Tammy has a young guy.

00:46:17Yes.

00:46:17Tammy Roman.

00:46:18Yeah.

00:46:19She has a young guy, whatever.

00:46:20And that works.

00:46:20And that's working.

00:46:21I love them.

00:46:21I mean, I guess it could work.

00:46:23And not only that.

00:46:23I want it to work.

00:46:24If it feels.

00:46:25Yes.

00:46:25If it feels good to you, then go for it.

00:46:27That's what I say.

00:46:28If it feels good, go for it.

00:46:30We rub some of that off over here.

00:46:32So let's talk surgery, girl.

00:46:34Okay.

00:46:35Yeah.

00:46:35Let me have a break.

00:46:37Me too.

00:46:37Take care.

00:46:38We're shaking it up.

00:46:39This is now my favorite conversation ever since my ex-point.

00:46:41We are toasting to the attitude is forever gratitude.

00:47:11Yeah.

00:47:12Oh, I like that.

00:47:12And that's what got me on this couch today.

00:47:14Guys, the attitude is forever gratitude.

00:47:16Ever gratitude.

00:47:16Salute.

00:47:17Yes.

00:47:21Oh, this is real dangerous.

00:47:23It did.

00:47:24Yeah.

00:47:24It did.

00:47:25He made me one of these.

00:47:26He might actually get some.

00:47:29Right.

00:47:29That's what he put in the show.

00:47:31She's there, man.

00:47:31So, all smiles and sunshine, peaches and painted rainbows.

00:47:39Your five scenes just so perfect.

00:47:41You look good.

00:47:43You give out good energy.

00:47:46Is there a time that you can recall yourself ever taking results?

00:47:50Yes, absolutely.

00:47:51First of all, thank you.

00:47:52That makes me feel good.

00:47:53But maybe I'll get bigger roles in acting because maybe I'm putting on an act because baby life be lifing.

00:48:01Like I said, February 13th.

00:48:03I don't want to mark that date as a date that I have to hold as, okay, tragedy is going to happen.

00:48:08But definitely divorce, divorce is like death.

00:48:12We have a mutual friend, Jason.

00:48:14Yeah, it's a loss.

00:48:15Jason was a part of my tribe and he will tell you there were times where I didn't recognize myself or people wouldn't recognize me.

00:48:24I was so thin.

00:48:25I was so broken.

00:48:28And I guess, like you said, I was used to the world seeing me with, you know, everything in place.

00:48:35So, to have things be matters of the heart, I didn't have any control over that.

00:48:41You know, I couldn't put a front up.

00:48:42My heart was really, really broken.

00:48:45And I'm like, of all men, it would be you.

00:48:49But that also told me how much I loved him.

00:48:53I loved him like really, really deep.

00:48:55So, I was broken then.

00:48:57And then when I lost my niece, I don't think I felt pain like that.

00:49:03I don't think I felt.

00:49:04Brief is different.

00:49:05It's different.

00:49:06I don't know this about me.

00:49:07I'm like, she's broken.

00:49:09But I have, right now, like I spent about a break.

00:49:14I needed some fight.

00:49:16Okay.

00:49:17Yeah.

00:49:18What got you there?

00:49:19So, my, I lost my mom.

00:49:22It'll be eight years in August.

00:49:23I'm sorry.

00:49:25Of cancer.

00:49:25And I was with her through that transition, through the whole process of learning she

00:49:31had cancer, going to her appointments with her, going through the chemo with her, and

00:49:36being the only of her four daughters that could really be there with her every day, through

00:49:40every step of the way.

00:49:41Right.

00:49:41My sisters all have kids and husbands, and I was the only one that's out here hustling.

00:49:44So, I had time to actually be there for my mother.

00:49:46Right.

00:49:47And I'm so grateful for that experience.

00:49:49We didn't always have the best relationship, and we were able to really bond in a different

00:49:52way before I lost her.

00:49:54So, I'm grateful for that time.

00:49:56However, my dad also passed away, and he passed away on her birthday.

00:50:02I'm sorry.

00:50:03It'll be, thank you.

00:50:04It'll be three years in October that my dad died on my mom's birthday.

00:50:08Help, and speaking of doctors, you were like a sexologist.

00:50:12Oh, girl, self-proclaimed.

00:50:13That's a self-proclaimed sexologist.

00:50:15Self-proclaimed.

00:50:15First of all, every woman, I don't care what she says, wants to be a sexologist.

00:50:21Not even just because she wants to have a whole bunch of sex, or maybe because she

00:50:24wants to have a whole bunch of sex, but every woman wants to be a sexologist.

00:50:29What makes you that, and how can I become that?

00:50:31Yeah.

00:50:32So, here's the thing.

00:50:33I think you learn from experience.

00:50:36Okay.

00:50:36And I've been in long-term relationships.

00:50:38I've been a sneaky link.

00:50:40I've been a mistress.

00:50:41I've been a sugar baby, and I've met a lot of sex.

00:50:43But, like, I'm not ashamed to say that I've had a lot of sex in the 30 years that I've

00:50:48been having sex.

00:50:49Was it good sex?

00:50:49I enjoy sex.

00:50:50Yes, and I enjoy sex.

00:50:52And as a woman, I should enjoy sex.

00:50:53And we should not be ashamed for a joke.

00:50:55Like, listen, men want us to have sex when they want us to have it.

00:50:59Because when we speak about enjoying sex, or we talk about how we want sex, then we

00:51:02want sex.

00:51:03It's like, you want me to have sex or not?

00:51:05Right.

00:51:06You want me to be two-body Tiffany that can't go back?

00:51:08Or you want me to know what the fuck I'm doing when I ride that deck like this?

00:51:10Okay, so sexologist has to do with experience?

00:51:13I mean, in my terms.

00:51:15Okay.

00:51:16So, first of all, you have to be experienced.

00:51:17How many men have you have had to have sex with?

00:51:19Girl, I don't know those.

00:51:21I don't know that.

00:51:21For you to say, I'm experienced.

00:51:22Because here's the thing.

00:51:23You can have a lot of sex with one partner.

00:51:26You can have a lot of sex with multiple partners.

00:51:27So true.

00:51:27Either way, you're having a lot of sex.

00:51:29Okay.

00:51:29Right?

00:51:29I was in a 12-year relationship.

00:51:31We had a lot of sex.

00:51:32Okay.

00:51:33I've also had one-night stands and first-date sex.

00:51:35I've had first-date sex and ended up in a 65-day engagement.

00:51:38So, I'm curious, because you're a sexologist.

00:51:40What makes sex good sex?

00:51:41If you had an orgasm or you had a good time?

00:51:44If you have a good time.

00:51:45I've had good sex where I didn't orgasm, and that's okay.

00:51:47Same.

00:51:47And it was okay.

00:51:48I actually desired it to.

00:51:49I feel like women can do that, but men can't.

00:51:51No.

00:51:51I feel like if a man don't come, then it wasn't different.

00:51:53That's very selfish, by the way, gentlemen.

00:51:55It is.

00:51:55But I feel like that's how they think.

00:51:56I feel like if they don't finish, then it was a bust.

00:51:59Pun intended.

00:52:01It's waiting to happen if you're smart.

00:52:03Come back later.

00:52:05The bust is going to be even greater.

00:52:08I feel like as a woman, we can definitely have a good sexual experience.

00:52:11Without having an orgasm.

00:52:13Yes.

00:52:13That's why I'm still with it.

00:52:14I have nice experiences.

00:52:18Yeah.

00:52:19But the whole sexologist thing is just something that I play around with.

00:52:23I would go and get a real certification, though.

00:52:25How can I become a sexologist?

00:52:27Well, there's a certification course.

00:52:28Experience and then a course.

00:52:29There's really a certification course.

00:52:31You have, of course?

00:52:31I did not.

00:52:32Oh, okay.

00:52:32But I would take one just to kind of like satisfy me as a real sexologist.

00:52:35Okay.

00:52:36So, I don't want to embarrass myself.

00:52:37I'm already 47 years young.

00:52:38So, being that, oh, I better have some things under my belt.

00:52:41What do I need to know how to do?

00:52:43What's a go-to?

00:52:43Because what if I don't like butt sex?

00:52:45Anal sex.

00:52:45You don't have to have anal sex.

00:52:47Okay, good.

00:52:47Perfect.

00:52:48Then I could be a sexologist.

00:52:49Yes.

00:52:49So, listen.

00:52:50You don't like anal?

00:52:52No.

00:52:53I like anal.

00:52:53It's a go-to.

00:52:54Me having this butt, you having that butt, they want to just go there.

00:52:58So, my thing is, no, we got to be really, really drunk and really into each other, very

00:53:02married, and then we can have butt sex.

00:53:04Very married.

00:53:04But it's just not going to be on the menu, just on the norm.

00:53:06Butt sex is butt and hilarious.

00:53:08Yes, it's hilarious.

00:53:09So, what should I be saying?

00:53:09I mean, anal, but I just like the way it sounds.

00:53:11Anal is so anal.

00:53:13Right?

00:53:14I'm drunk.

00:53:15Okay, so now, do I have to be able to swallow cum?

00:53:22Do you not?

00:53:24I think I want something a little bit.

00:53:25Is my daughter in here?

00:53:26Girl, yes, she is.

00:53:28Just close your ears.

00:53:29Close your ears.

00:53:30No, I want somebody to, like, spray it on me.

00:53:32I like it on my face.

00:53:33Yes, I'd rather have it on my face than my throat.

00:53:34I love it on my face.

00:53:35I think that's my favorite place where it's the last thing.

00:53:37Yeah, like, I think when we were young, we were like, oh, I want to swallow it.

00:53:39No, we don't.

00:53:40The fuck we don't.

00:53:40It doesn't taste good.

00:53:41We don't like it.

00:53:42Well, if he eats clean and eats the right things, it will taste good.

00:53:45But I'm not interested.

00:53:46I don't want your nut.

00:53:47You don't want to.

00:53:47Ask him, does he want to swallow his nut?

00:53:49He's not.

00:53:50Exactly.

00:53:50So, I don't.

00:53:51If a dick is somewhere down your throat that you don't taste it anyway, then what?

00:53:54Just.

00:53:54And it's over.

00:53:55It's gone.

00:53:56Magician.

00:53:56You swallowed it.

00:53:57You disappeared.

00:53:58It's gone.

00:53:58It's no longer this.

00:53:59Do that again.

00:54:00You're swimming in your stomach.

00:54:03Okay, so, with your straw, what does that mean?

00:54:06I'm just saying, if I'm not about to, but I'm just saying, if the dick is far enough

00:54:12when he's about to orgasm, then it's just going to shoot up the back of the dog club.

00:54:17So, I don't know if I like it, but I like to hear you talk about it.

00:54:21Something dick is my thing.

00:54:22Well, no.

00:54:23Do you like gay porn?

00:54:23I like to suck dick.

00:54:24I love gay porn.

00:54:26Yeah.

00:54:26I mean, girl on girl porn is my go-to category, but I like to watch the men do it, too.

00:54:31It's a terrible thing.

00:54:31What does that make us?

00:54:33I don't know.

00:54:34I like it.

00:54:35I like what I like.

00:54:36I don't categorize myself as gay men.

00:54:39Have you ever been attracted to a gay man?

00:54:40No.

00:54:41Yes, that's a problem for me.

00:54:42No.

00:54:42Really?

00:54:43Not intentionally.

00:54:44Okay.

00:54:45I think that the men that I end up being attracted to, I find out later that they are.

00:54:51Oh.

00:54:52It's really, you know what?

00:54:52So, you like the aesthetic?

00:54:55Is it the?

00:54:56It's definitely not the aesthetic.

00:54:57Okay.

00:54:57I don't know.

00:54:58I don't know what it is.

00:54:59It's like, I don't, like, I love who Jason is, of course, but that's family, so I would

00:55:02never go there.

00:55:03But the idea of, like, a Jason.

00:55:05Yeah, see, no.

00:55:07Jason?

00:55:07No.

00:55:08Jason is so thorough.

00:55:09Jason takes care of me.

00:55:11No, if it wasn't, well, mine too, if it wasn't him.

00:55:13But the way that Jason is as an individual.

00:55:16But do you think that he's that way because he's gay?

00:55:18Oh, I think he's just a man.

00:55:20No, I think he's not.

00:55:20He's still very much like a gentleman.

00:55:24Yes.

00:55:24What's it?

00:55:25What's the word?

00:55:26I don't know.

00:55:26He's charismatic.

00:55:27He's gentle.

00:55:28He's patient.

00:55:30Yes.

00:55:30He's assertive.

00:55:31Okay.

00:55:32That's no word.

00:55:32Okay.

00:55:33Sorry.

00:55:33We can, we can, if you love on Jason, no, they don't.

00:55:36So, let's talk about surgery.

00:55:39Okay.

00:55:39Let's talk about surgery.

00:55:41I've had a lot of surgery.

00:55:42Have you?

00:55:43I've had lipo twice.

00:55:45I've had breast implants twice.

00:55:46I'm fresh off the Botox and filler table.

00:55:48I have a whole new face and I'm here for it.

00:55:51Right.

00:55:51And I'm going to keep doing it.

00:55:53I want a facelift when it's time.

00:55:54Okay.

00:55:55That's what I'm afraid of.

00:55:56You know, I'm not.

00:55:57And, you know, these days, BBL is like the only word people know when it comes to surgery.

00:56:04And that's not what the case is on everybody.

00:56:05I have not had a BBL, but I've definitely had my tummy tuck and my breasts done.

00:56:09Right.

00:56:10I needed it.

00:56:10So, because they see body, yaddy, yaddy, because they see curves, they automatically assume, oh, she had a BBL.

00:56:15No.

00:56:16So, first of all, let's school them on that.

00:56:18Yes.

00:56:18First, a BBL includes the butt.

00:56:21Mm-hmm.

00:56:21Okay.

00:56:21So, it's when you have lipo in anywhere on your body, including the chin, the arms, the stomach, the thighs, and you take that fat and you have it harvested and transferred.

00:56:30Do they do all of that?

00:56:31Girl, they do the thighs.

00:56:32They do the torso.

00:56:33They do the arms.

00:56:34They do the chin.

00:56:36Yeah.

00:56:36Okay, no.

00:56:38I haven't even had anything close to a BBL.

00:56:39I just had, um...

00:56:41But you know what?

00:56:42I think when I went to go get my breasts and my tummy done, I don't think that that was the crave at the time.

00:56:47Nobody was getting a BBL.

00:56:49So, I don't think that that was what was going on.

00:56:51I got my titties done so long ago.

00:56:53And I did get my butt done, but I got the old school butt shots.

00:56:56Okay.

00:56:56So, the only reason why I did not get butt shots, not that I thought that I needed them, but the only reason...

00:57:01No, I'm going to tell you why.

00:57:02You didn't need them.

00:57:03No.

00:57:03The reason why I thought I needed them is because genetically, I have, like, dips in my thighs.

00:57:08Well, it's better now.

00:57:10Now that I'm in the gym and I'm using weights, it's much better.

00:57:12But, I mean, when the world started looking at you with, you know, a magnifying glass, then you wanted to perfect everything.

00:57:18Do you attest that to social media?

00:57:19Do you think social media made everybody look at you with a...

00:57:22No, my cellulite was a hit when I was growing up in high school.

00:57:25Once social media came out, every little detail about you that wasn't perfect was, like, magnified and it was a thing.

00:57:31And it played on a lot of our, you know, our conscious.

00:57:34Like, a lot of us self-consciously...

00:57:36My 14-year-old, she swears, mom, the way that you always want to work out, you have body dysmorphia.

00:57:41Excuse me?

00:57:42That's not body dysmorphia.

00:57:43No, I told her, I said it's a mental thing.

00:57:45She was like, you don't see your body as already being...

00:57:47You have to maintain it.

00:57:49And that's the whole thing about surgery.

00:57:50People don't understand that not all surgery, when you see a shape, is a BBL, for one.

00:57:54It is.

00:57:55It is.

00:57:55That's a lot.

00:57:56You have to maintain.

00:57:57You don't just get surgery and then it magically stays that way forever.

00:57:59You have to work out and you have to eat clean.

00:58:01You have to maintain it.

00:58:02So, when the surgery girls are in a gym, it's because they're saving their...

00:58:06They're protecting their investment.

00:58:07Actually, you'll be in a gym more.

00:58:10Because all of that, you know, genetic stuff starts to play out after you, you know, healed

00:58:15and had your surgery or whatever.

00:58:16And you'll find things that you don't like.

00:58:18And so, you have to use a gym in order for you to, you know, like, move those muscles.

00:58:22Like, I didn't want my stomach to have that weird wavy thing going on or whatever.

00:58:26So, I was immediately, as soon as they said that I can go to the gym, I stayed on it or whatever.

00:58:29So, the number one perception versus reality that I see that they say about you is that

00:58:35you got your nose done.

00:58:35And I've never...

00:58:36I know you get sick of it.

00:58:37Well, no.

00:58:38I tell my daughter all the time now that the things that...

00:58:40I walk so a lot of people can run.

00:58:42Let me tell you.

00:58:43For majority of my career, I've been talking about contouring and how there is something

00:58:49magical about being able to have a brush and a contouring pad.

00:58:53I should have made that palette nose job a long time ago by Delicious.

00:58:57Because now everybody contours.

00:59:00And I'm like, wait a minute, hold up.

00:59:01Back in 2007, 2008, when I was doing it, you were accusing me of having a nose job.

00:59:06And now the girls are doing it.

00:59:08Shout out to me.

00:59:09And not that I came up with it.

00:59:11But it was just a thing that I was always judged for.

00:59:13I started to think I had a nose job in my sleep or something because it was just like,

00:59:17you thought Delicious and you thought Nose Job.

00:59:19But no, I just always knew how to do my makeup.

00:59:22Back to this whole sex and sexologist conversation.

00:59:26I just want to tap on this real quick.

00:59:27So every woman swears that she has the best sex.

00:59:31Every woman is like, oh, my coochie is so wet.

00:59:32Oh, my poop is so tight.

00:59:33Oh, it's so good.

00:59:34Oh, I suck so much shit.

00:59:35I'm so the best at that.

00:59:38Books.

00:59:39I think it's individual based.

00:59:41I'm not a heavily sexual person or whatever.

00:59:45I think it's definitely due to traumas and things that I've gone through.

00:59:48I've been sexually assaulted before when I was young.

00:59:51So I'm not connected to sex based on a competition to be the best in bed.

00:59:57But I think when I connect sexually, it's based on an intimate moment with that individual.

01:00:02So I know that you think that I'm the best.

01:00:04Absolutely.

01:00:04I'm going to talk you out of your draws.

01:00:06We are going to do a lot of touching.

01:00:09We're going to do a lot of foreplay before we actually got to.

01:00:11So now we get to intimacy.

01:00:12You're busting already.

01:00:13So is there a place in the bedroom where you feel the value you lack?

01:00:18Is there something that you feel like you should be or can be better at when it comes to sex or intimacy?

01:00:23Not that I've been told or not that I can recall.

01:00:26But I haven't had sex in over a year.

01:00:29But maybe that.

01:00:31Maybe I should.

01:00:32I don't know.

01:00:33I'm really good.

01:00:34When I decide to have sex, I feel your passion.

01:00:37Right?

01:00:38And you're empathetic.

01:00:40So you have that.

01:00:41I'm a giver.

01:00:42Yeah.

01:00:43You're also a healer.

01:00:44So you have all of the things going.

01:00:47Do you feel that you initiate on a more regular basis?

01:00:54Or do you just kind of wait for it to happen?

01:00:57Yes.

01:00:57I have to initiate.

01:00:58Just because the men that I'm dating don't want to offend me knowing that I have my celibacy going on or whatever.

01:01:04So I'm making my business to let you know you can come in here.

01:01:07You can come over here.

01:01:08You can come in here.

01:01:09You can come over here.

01:01:10You can come in here.

01:01:11Oh, you can.

01:01:12Don't do that.

01:01:13But no, I let them know.

01:01:16So I do like to be a little bit assertive with that or whatever.

01:01:20And that's my thing too.

01:01:21I may not be having sex, but I'm doing some stuff.

01:01:24Okay.

01:01:24Yes.

01:01:25Okay.

01:01:25So we making out.

01:01:26We're having an intimate moment.

01:01:28I love making out.

01:01:30Just so you don't forget that she's there.

01:01:33So you out here teasing, sis.

01:01:35Pretty much.

01:01:36No, I'm just.

01:01:37You out here dangling the carrot.

01:01:38I'm out here dangling the coochie.

01:01:40I'm putting a pin in it.

01:01:40Baby.

01:01:41So you can know that it gets greater later.

01:01:43You out here dangling that coochie and dragging them along.

01:01:46Just follow it.

01:01:47I just want to make sure that it makes sense.

01:01:49When I do do that, I want to.

01:01:51Plus, I want to be.

01:01:52I want to have sex raw.

01:01:53Oh, girl.

01:01:54I want to really know you.

01:01:55I don't want to have a condom even in between us.

01:01:57When I finally say that's that one.

01:01:58How do you speak about women with condos?

01:02:00As a single woman, did you carry condos?

01:02:02No, I never carried condos.

01:02:03I did.

01:02:04I didn't.

01:02:04By the time I was intimate.

01:02:05If I was intimate with you, you were my man.

01:02:07But no.

01:02:07So I've never been the type that carried condos.

01:02:09I think it's wise.

01:02:10I have two daughters.

01:02:11So I definitely tell them to carry condos.

01:02:13But no.

01:02:14If I was fucking you, I was fucking you raw.

01:02:15So I wish there could be a creative conversation on forever and ever and ever.

01:02:18But unfortunately, we're going to have to continue this off camera.

01:02:23But before we wrap, I just want to, for one, thank you so much for being here and joining

01:02:28me on the pink couch for pink conversations on down that TV.

01:02:32And I want to know what's next.

01:02:33What should the people know?

01:02:34Where can they find you?

01:02:35What you got happening in that whole thing?

01:02:36That's right.

01:02:37Well, you guys can follow me.

01:02:38First of all, thank you for having me.

01:02:39This has been amazing.

01:02:40Congratulations.

01:02:41You can follow me at I Am So Delicious on all things social media.

01:02:44I-A-M-S-O-D-E-E-L-I-S-H-I-S.

01:02:47That's on Twitter.

01:02:48As well as Instagram and Facebook and that other thing.

01:02:53That thing.

01:02:54But you can look for me in movies.

01:02:56I do have two that I'm currently working on.

01:02:59A nice sitcom.

01:03:00Some voiceovers and music.

01:03:02Because you can sing, girl.

01:03:04Yes.

01:03:04And I am working with the famous Dennis McKinley.

01:03:07Have you ever sang to the dick?

01:03:10I'm sure.

01:03:11Yeah.

01:03:11I've been married twice.

01:03:12So I-

01:03:12Maybe.

01:03:13If I could sing, I would sing to the dick.

01:03:15Girl, okay.

01:03:16So if you could sing, what would you sing?

01:03:18To the dick?

01:03:18Yes.

01:03:19Oh, girl.

01:03:20I don't even got to think about it.

01:03:20I'm singing Beyonce Dangerously in Love 2.

01:03:23So, girl.

01:03:24Again, thank you so, so, so, so much.

01:03:26You're welcome.

01:03:27For coming and joining me today on the couch.

01:03:29We got so much more to talk about, girl.

01:03:30Yes.

01:03:30Right?

01:03:31We got to continue this all.

01:03:32We do.

01:03:33Meantime and between time, you know where we at.

01:03:36You know what it is.

01:03:37Okay.

01:03:37I will forever be your favorite strippers.

01:03:39Favorite stripper.

01:03:40And here we have a pole.

01:03:42Oh, my God.

01:03:44So, that's when they come back to the pole so we can dance on about this thing.

01:04:10Oh, my God.

01:04:15I can't see.

01:04:18Oh, my God.

01:04:18So, you fix.

01:04:28Oh, my God.

01:04:29Oh, my God.

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