Dive into the latest installment of The Never Ever Mets, where hopeful romantics navigate the complexities of modern relationships. This episode continues to explore the emotional journeys of individuals as they prepare to meet their online connections in person for the very first time. Witness the drama, anticipation, and unexpected twists that unfold as virtual bonds are put to the ultimate real-world test.
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00:00Renee! Here you go, darling!
00:03Oh, that looks great!
00:04I'm definitely into alpha males paying attention to me.
00:08Is it ever okay to keep secrets in a relationship?
00:11Clay Bossier! Tatiana! No!
00:16Cut it out.
00:17She don't even know these secrets that these people have,
00:19and she making these signs.
00:21You don't know what other people got going on in this situation.
00:25What happened with Clay? What was the secret?
00:27Clay also has, like, a baby.
00:29We all know. Tati doesn't know.
00:32As a symbol of blossoming love, I got this for mine.
00:36You're the best.
00:38Typically, it really does take me a longer time to open up,
00:41but because I know that he cares about me,
00:43I'm gonna be open and see where it can go.
00:46I love you, Tatiana.
00:47Hi, baby! You're getting so big!
00:50I miss my babies, but I believe that Jared and I have something special.
00:55I came here to start my life with him.
00:58It's time for breakfast.
01:13What are you making?
01:15Tacos.
01:16Oh.
01:17You want some?
01:18You still sleeping?
01:21Mm-hmm.
01:22Is it cool down here enough for you?
01:24Mm-hmm.
01:25You got a couple different outfits that I think are all my favorite.
01:29Which is your favorite?
01:30I think I'm happy to go with the pink.
01:32The pink?
01:33The pajama set.
01:34The pajama?
01:35The pajama?
01:40That's crazy.
01:41All these pillows I got for you.
01:45The intimacy is sweet.
01:47You just do whatever feels right in that moment with your person.
01:52What Tatiana and I really wanted and yearned for was like that real intimate time together.
01:58Like, sexually, we're already vibing.
02:00We're already locked in.
02:01We're good.
02:02We're comfortable.
02:03And that's what we wanted.
02:04I think our biggest thing was just taking our time and letting things happen and flow naturally.
02:09Y'all taking naps?
02:10I was trying to.
02:11I barely slept.
02:13My bad, big dog.
02:14I told her to wake me up if I snore, that's why.
02:16No, no.
02:17Hell no.
02:18She made you snore.
02:20I know how that go.
02:22Took y'all long enough.
02:25Welcome to the party.
02:30You better not fall in this water, bro.
02:32Hey.
02:33Look at him.
02:34There you go.
02:35Clay best friend coming and Tati mama coming.
02:37You know, he's really been walking around here sweating.
02:41Ever since he made that.
02:42He should never have that drunk ass night talking too much.
02:45Mm-hmm.
02:46Remember at first he was like, okay, I got the baby.
02:48Okay, cool.
02:49When he started talking about the best friend stuff, like my best friend's coming, then he was quiet.
02:53The night Clay was drunk, Tati went to sleep early.
02:56And Clay started to breathe hard.
02:58He was like, my best friend is coming.
03:00I was like, yo, that's crazy.
03:03Oh, your best friend's a girl.
03:04Yeah.
03:05Yeah.
03:06And then he said, she's a porn star.
03:08You like body leather, rose leather, porn star.
03:12Oh.
03:14So when he said that, I'm like, what was the point of even saying that?
03:17Like, it was no reason we need to know what she does for a living.
03:19Like, it was no reason he needed to say that.
03:22That's when I was like, have you slept with her?
03:24Yeah, he said he never cracked her.
03:25I don't believe him.
03:26Because why did you start with her being a porn star and smile?
03:30Tati's like one of the sweetest people here.
03:32Yeah.
03:33And now, look, remember yesterday, they cooked together.
03:36He got the roses.
03:37They went to the boom boom room.
03:38Remember how mad she was about the vegan ?
03:40Imagine what she gonna do when she's about to be a baby.
03:43I'm like this, man.
03:44So he got a baby mama that's bad that went to our best friend.
03:46And a porn star best friend.
03:47He got a lot of going on.
03:48Yeah, that .
03:49Don't ask me for a dumb ass disaster.
03:52Have you been bringing this up together yet?
03:54Well, no, we haven't had sex.
03:55Yeah.
03:56Have you and Ty talked about boom booming and the room rooming?
04:01Um, here and there.
04:03But I'm not going.
04:04Why not?
04:05Because I'm not there yet with him.
04:08I can understand.
04:09So I'm not interested in going.
04:10In my personal opinion, Ty is kind of out there.
04:13And, you know, he's the funny guy.
04:15And Brittany is more reserved.
04:16And usually opposites attract.
04:18But at this point, he might be going home by himself.
04:21What can he do to make you change your mind?
04:23Nothing.
04:24Really?
04:25There's nothing he could do to change my mind.
04:27Is it like a trumpet?
04:29What is it?
04:30Wait, like I'm not trying to be in your business.
04:33It's a few things, actually.
04:36And I want to say it's majority mental.
04:39I can understand that.
04:43I heard she was a stripper or a porn star or some .
04:46Taty's not going to like that.
04:48You said you about to win the next one?
04:49Yeah.
04:54My friend that's coming to visit is Jamila.
04:56That's my best friend in the whole wide world.
04:58She's literally like the big sister that I've always wanted.
05:01I got some stuff to tell Tatiana.
05:03And there's been a lot of times in life I could just go down a list where I up.
05:07No matter when, where, how.
05:09My best friend always got me through it.
05:12Hey, how you doing?
05:13Hey.
05:14I'm Chris.
05:15Chris, hi.
05:16How you doing?
05:17I'm good, how are you?
05:18What you here for?
05:19Play.
05:20Oh, wow, nice to meet you.
05:21What's your name?
05:22Jamila.
05:23Hey.
05:24Clay!
05:25Hey!
05:26Hey!
05:27Hey!
05:28Hey!
05:30How are you?
05:31Hey!
05:32Hey!
05:33How are you?
05:34I'm good.
05:35Good.
05:36Clay.
05:37This woman gets right past me, jumps into the vasaya on, and I say, oh, s**t, let the games begin.
05:47What'd you say, oofa?
05:50She jumped up and wrapped her leg around him.
05:54Tatiana.
05:55Hi.
05:56Nice to meet you.
05:57Hey.
06:02This is my best friend, everybody.
06:04Hey.
06:04Hi.
06:05Hi.
06:05Hi.
06:06Hi.
06:06I'm Jamila.
06:07Hi, Jamila.
06:08Nice to meet you.
06:09So what's been happening here?
06:10Um, you feel me?
06:12We've been doing different activities and games with s**t like that.
06:16Can I go pee in there?
06:17Okay.
06:20She's...
06:21Both?
06:22Oh, both?
06:23Both?
06:24Wait, did they wrap?
06:26Yes.
06:27Like locked in on the...
06:28No, no, no, they didn't lock.
06:29They didn't lock.
06:30I feel like she would've if she could.
06:32I didn't see the hug.
06:33If he just picked her up and put her down on some like little sister type of vibes or something
06:38like that, then cool.
06:39But if it was like a jump in his arms and wrapped a leg around, then that is pretty disrespectful.
06:44They said the best friend got the hug and the best friend wrapped her legs around.
06:46Make it look like this.
06:47Yeah.
06:52How pretty is this?
06:54They was fishing out there earlier, too.
06:57Jamila has my back no matter what and gives me feminine perspective and idea at the same time.
07:02Super clutch.
07:03Love her to death.
07:04You got glitter in your mouth?
07:05Who you been kissing?
07:06No, I'm just kidding.
07:08And she's a godmother to my daughter.
07:11So she knew everything from start to finish.
07:14You know, I have my daughter that's almost three months now.
07:18Yeah, I know that.
07:19And so I didn't tell Tatiana, so me and her are fishing now.
07:25Bro, you didn't tell her still?
07:27Nah, I know.
07:28I know, I know.
07:29I'm meeting her mom tonight.
07:30Shut up.
07:32Yeah.
07:34She picked her off the ground.
07:36What the?
07:37What you doing?
07:42If your best friend hug you like that, you finna get your ass beat.
07:46What they talking about in there?
07:48Apparently when she came in, she jumped on him?
07:50Two hands?
07:51She jumped on him?
07:52Yeah.
07:53With her legs up?
07:54Yeah.
07:55Hold on.
07:56Wait, wait.
07:57Cause this drink about to be on his shirt.
07:59I know.
08:00Wait, wait, wait.
08:01I was totally planning on just giving them their space.
08:03But this man is a liar.
08:05He does not care about me.
08:07He does not care about my feelings.
08:09No, no, no.
08:10No, no, no.
08:11Wait, wait, wait, wait.
08:12Everything in my body just went red.
08:14So after I left, she jumped into your arms?
08:17What are you talking about?
08:18Did you pick her up?
08:19They just said after I walked to the living room, she jumped on you.
08:22I just hugged him.
08:23Like we always hug.
08:24That's not a hug.
08:25Okay.
08:26If you don't want me to hug you.
08:27I don't want you to.
08:28Okay.
08:29That's not a hug.
08:30Don't jump on him.
08:31Okay.
08:32Then I don't have to.
08:33I don't have to hug him.
08:34No.
08:35That.
08:36The would you let somebody jump on your man like that?
08:38This drink must be in your face.
08:40No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
08:41Save the off my man.
08:42How about that?
08:43It's not someone you're caring, it's your mouth.
08:48My mouth?
08:49Yeah.
08:50I would like you to call her and let her know that what she did was wrong.
08:55Like the that we did yesterday was not cool.
08:57I mean, I've always hugged you.
08:59So Clay, do you think that that's fine?
09:01You have five seconds to say some .
09:04I just hugged him.
09:07That's not a hug.
09:08Don't jump on him.
09:09Okay.
09:10Then I don't have to hug him.
09:11No.
09:12No, no, wait.
09:13Hold on.
09:14Would you let somebody jump on your .
09:15I would not.
09:16This drink must be in your .
09:17Okay, so don't assault me.
09:19That's crazy.
09:20Well, stay the off my man.
09:21How about that?
09:22Okay.
09:23Respect me.
09:24Okay.
09:25Before it's a problem.
09:26Stupid hoe.
09:27Who does like that, you dumb bitch?
09:29Oh .
09:31Okay, so that doesn't seem like a good mother figure for your child.
09:36Like she has an issue with me hugging you.
09:39I mean, she'd have an issue with a lot of things.
09:43It's a hug.
09:45It's just a hug.
09:47There's countless videos and photos of you picking me up.
09:51We've been doing it since we was kids.
09:53I'm lost like that was a lot.
09:56I'm still trying to process it.
09:57That's not a .
09:58No.
09:59You don't wrap your legs around somebody.
10:01That's weird, best friend.
10:02Right.
10:03I missed you.
10:04And I miss you too.
10:05Like, I mean, I love my best friend like to the end.
10:08You know what I'm saying?
10:09To the end forever.
10:10God damn, he's an idiot.
10:11Why the you pick her up?
10:12No man of mine is going to do that.
10:15It made me just feel triggered.
10:17I just felt instantly embarrassed.
10:19Like once again, it felt like another moment where I'm the last one to find out that he's acting up, doing something that he shouldn't be doing.
10:27I've never seen you date anybody that was this, um, like barbaric.
10:34I wouldn't want your daughter to be influenced by that type of behavior.
10:39I would never act like that knowing that my child can see.
10:42I don't think this is the best way or even what I intended to happen with my girlfriend meeting my best friend.
10:50I think that maybe you should leave and then I can try to calm her down.
10:54All right.
10:55I'll see you.
10:56Right here, right now.
10:59I think it's best to get Jamila out and deescalate everything.
11:03All right.
11:04Yeah.
11:05He knows you're upset.
11:06Look who he's outside with.
11:07Exactly.
11:08Did he come and check on you?
11:09Not at all.
11:10Not at all.
11:11So boom, you made your decision.
11:12Don't try to be in my face later because he's a rep for that.
11:15The least this woman could have done was had some type of respect and walked in and gave him a normal hug.
11:21Like she was just, she was too much.
11:23She was extra.
11:24It was unnecessary.
11:25I ain't gonna lie, bro.
11:28I was with you until she wrapped that leg up.
11:30I was like, like she was jumped up on you, bro.
11:33Think about how he just explained it to you man to man.
11:36And then think about how the women explained it to her.
11:39Did you apologize yet?
11:40I didn't get a chance.
11:41I was chasing her.
11:42Oh, that's the perfect time.
11:43Say what you gotta say.
11:44Go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go.
11:46I didn't see anything bad, but clearly the rest of the house did.
11:50And even though Tatiana didn't see it, I can imagine having a million people come up to you saying different things and what that could be like.
11:58I wanna apologize.
11:59You know the flowers I got you, my best friend was the one that told me to do that.
12:03I don't give a what she tells you to do.
12:05Yeah.
12:06Please just don't talk to me about her.
12:08What do you wanna say?
12:09Okay.
12:10I am concerned with telling Tatiana my secret about, you know, me having a daughter because of everything that took place just now.
12:18Just say it.
12:21But you know what?
12:22No more procrastinating.
12:23Gotta get right to it.
12:25Something else I want to tell you is I have a daughter.
12:29She's now a couple months old.
12:33You're so...
12:34I'm so what?
12:36Stupid.
12:39At this point, I don't even give a about the kid.
12:42You tried to make me look stupid again.
12:44How did I try to make you?
12:45Why the would you let her jump in your arms in front of a house full of people who have been watching us be booed up every day?
12:51Did you hear that?
12:53They told me.
12:54Who was that?
12:58Hi.
12:59Hey, how are you?
13:00How about you?
13:01I'm Jared.
13:02It's nice to meet you.
13:03Hi, Jared.
13:04How are you?
13:05I'm Charlie.
13:06Hi, Charlie.
13:07Nice to meet you.
13:08Chit chat.
13:09Just come find us later.
13:10Hi.
13:12I wish I wasn't as vulnerable or as open with him because of all the deception that was happening.
13:19It made me feel like I didn't know the person that I came here for.
13:24Hi.
13:25Happy to see you.
13:26Happy to see you.
13:27Happy to see you.
13:28Hi.
13:29Hi.
13:30Hi.
13:31Hi.
13:32Hi.
13:33Hi.
13:34Hi.
13:35Hi.
13:36Hi.
13:37My mom.
13:38My mom is definitely one of my best friends.
13:40I don't want to be breaking down to people that I don't know.
13:44Usually, she's my go-to person, like, if I need to have an ugly cry.
13:48I was just happy that she was there for me.
13:50Oh, my goodness.
13:51What's going on?
13:52Just now or whatever, the guy that I was talking to, he brought this girl over, right,
13:57that's supposedly his best friend.
13:59She ran up on him, literally jumped into his arms, wrapped her legs around him.
14:04I didn't see it.
14:05It just pissed me off because I'm just like, he always is one to be doing all these grand gestures, like giving me these roses in front of everybody and being like, oh, I love her, blah, blah, blah.
14:17And then doing stupid shit like this.
14:19And then another thing, he has a kid or whatever.
14:22I guess he had a kid.
14:24I feel like he keeps trying to embarrass me, but really I feel like it just makes him look like a liar.
14:28Am I going to get to meet him?
14:30Sure.
14:31Me and my mom, we're both believers that everything just works out for the goods.
14:35So regardless of like how he was acting in that moment, we both know he's not the only man on earth.
14:41He better get it together.
14:43Hi.
14:44How you doing?
14:45Good.
14:47You should sit on that couch.
14:51Okay.
14:51Can I introduce myself to your mom?
14:55I'm Clay Vossey.
14:56Nice to meet you.
14:57Hey.
14:58I want to apologize to you and your daughter.
15:03I made her really upset.
15:04You're definitely trying to make me look stupid.
15:06I would never want to hurt you or make you feel bad.
15:09And I really do care about you.
15:11That would be funny why you're doing it.
15:14You've met her, so I would love to continue talking to my mom before she has to go.
15:18Okay.
15:19Yeah, have a good night.
15:20It was a pleasure meeting you, ma'am.
15:20Nice to meet you, too.
15:21You okay, mom?
15:26Yeah.
15:27You know I just want you to be happy.
15:28Yeah.
15:29We know what you deserve.
15:31Yeah.
15:31Much better.
15:32No.
15:33Nothing but the best.
15:34Yes.
15:34Absolutely.
15:35I'm really okay.
15:44Like, I'm more so just mad that a bitch tried me in my face more than anything.
15:50Like, I'm just disappointed because, like, he does have a lot of good qualities, you know?
15:55Are you up for this?
15:56I mean, I want to sleep on it.
15:59Emotions are high.
16:00You're right.
16:01What would you do?
16:03I wouldn't do anything but have a good time.
16:05And that's what I'm trying to do.
16:06That's why I was like, where are the drinks?
16:08Okay?
16:09I'm trying to just sit with my emotions because, truthfully, the part of me wants to just be
16:19like, I'm done.
16:20Obviously, I genuinely care about him.
16:23Um, but I'm hurt.
16:27I love you, Mom.
16:28I love you.
16:29I love you, babe.
16:35I knew it was going to blow up.
16:36I didn't think it was going to blow up that way.
16:38Me either.
16:39If he could figure out a way to get over that, the baby thing is nothing now.
16:44Right?
16:44She doesn't even worry about the baby.
16:45The baby thing is nothing now.
16:47But now he can't be with Tassi and have her the best friend, though.
16:50So, let's just **** that up.
16:52When you get married, your wife goes above all.
16:54Of course.
16:55He's looking for his wife.
16:57I've tried the married life.
16:59I was married for three years.
17:00And I know how to be a great boyfriend, husband, whatever.
17:05But it's very exhausting keeping that pace and doing it for a long time.
17:09And it didn't work out for me.
17:12So, until I find a person that doesn't give me that exhausting feeling after a while, maybe
17:17that's my person.
17:18But until then, I'll just keep looking.
17:19Even if he reconciles things with Tassi, there's always going to be a clash between Jamila and
17:26Tassi, you don't want to live your life like that.
17:29You trying to go to sleep?
17:35Uh-uh.
17:36What you trying to do?
17:37I'm not trying to go to sleep.
17:38Can I be ticklish?
17:39Girl, if you tickle me, my mom's ****.
17:42Dude.
17:43Get your ass over there, man.
17:44Brittany, she gets very touchy with everyone but Ty.
17:47And for her to be walking around how she does and not even care about his feelings, the
17:53way she acts with all the other guys is ****ed up.
17:55You ready?
17:56It's been a long-ass day.
18:08She's about to drag him to the dirt.
18:10Oof, oof, oof, oof.
18:12Tassi, she has every ****ing reason to feel the way she feel.
18:15Yeah.
18:15Being embarrassed for days, then this **** happened after a great night.
18:19She's like, damn.
18:20I already gave myself to him and then he do this ****.
18:23Yeah, that's crazy.
18:25That's crazy.
18:26That's crazy.
18:35I feel like ****.
18:41Like I must have hurt my girl.
18:44Badly.
18:45Yeah, she mad, right?
18:49But also, she's standing right here.
18:52So obviously, there's still a certain level of care there.
19:00I think first and foremost, I do want to apologize.
19:03If I was to say, I love you, but I don't respect you and I keep doing things to disrespect you,
19:08do you think that that's genuine?
19:10Nah.
19:11I see your point.
19:12I'm not perfect and I ****ed up.
19:14You don't let that girl come in here and try attempt to let me look down.
19:19You didn't check her when she was here.
19:20You let her prance around and let her walk out the door without saying anything and you chose
19:26her and not me by not coming to check on me and walking around with her and walking her
19:30out the door, acting like everything was sweet for her.
19:32Actually, you know what I would like you to do?
19:35Talk to me.
19:35I would like you to call her and let her know that what she did was wrong and I want to hear
19:40the conversations.
19:41Because if I can't trust you with somebody who's supposed to be your best friend and now
19:45you have a baby mom, how am I supposed to trust you with any other women and it's supposed
19:49to be long distance?
19:50And I want to see you have a backbone with her.
19:53If you can't do that, then I don't think we can move forward.
19:55I mean, you wanted me to make the call.
19:57I don't have a problem doing it.
20:00Go ahead.
20:04Okay.
20:05All right.
20:09Hello.
20:10Okay.
20:11So right now it's me and Tatiana here right now.
20:13And I want to let you know that like the **** that we did yesterday was not cool, bro.
20:18It was a lot.
20:19I mean, we've been best friends since I was like seven.
20:23Ten years old, you know, I've always hugged you and I, you know.
20:27Can we clarify that that was not a regular hug?
20:30Like, let's not play dumb.
20:31So there's a difference between giving someone a hug and jumping into his arms and wrapping
20:36your legs around him.
20:37That's obviously not going to be okay with somebody who has a girlfriend.
20:40I didn't wrap my leg.
20:42Okay.
20:42Did y'all see that?
20:45Everybody in the house saw it.
20:47So I don't know.
20:48Well, I can see that your tax bracket is a lot below mine.
20:52I don't behave this way.
20:53I'm sorry.
20:54I'm not a porn star like you, so.
20:56And you don't know the **** about my **** playing, to be clear.
20:59Well, you were drinking wine out of a ****.
21:01Yeah, I **** was.
21:02I could drink out of the **** whatever the **** I want to because clearly I was stressed
21:06the **** out because you coming in disrespecting me.
21:09So Clay, do you think that that's fine?
21:11Do you think it is fine?
21:12No, **** what she's saying?
21:13Is that fine with you?
21:14For her to jump into your arms when it's clearly upsetting me.
21:17Is it fine?
21:18No, say it.
21:19Verbally say it so she can hear it.
21:22Let her know because to her there's nothing wrong, clearly.
21:25Let her know.
21:26Let her **** know.
21:29You have five **** seconds to say some **** because she's saying stupid ****.
21:33Everybody here knows that was disrespectful.
21:35And you're not saying nothing.
21:37You're just letting her talk.
21:37I'm not going to continue this phone call because I don't like to let people talk to you.
21:41You have five seconds before I get the **** out of here.
21:44Tell her it was wrong.
21:47Okay, I'm going to stop talking to me and talk to her.
21:49Tell her that it was wrong.
21:51I think it was wrong.
21:52I don't want to be disrespectful.
21:53There's nothing to talk about.
21:55I just said it was wrong.
21:56You're not speaking up for me.
21:57You're not **** protecting me right now.
21:59You're not doing anything but sitting there looking dumb, letting her run her stupid-ass mouth.
22:04I just hugged him and I'm so sorry that I've known him since I was seven.
22:07I don't give a **** if she was there when you were born.
22:09It was **** up.
22:10She was disrespectful and you needed to **** say that.
22:12I just said it was wrong.
22:13So that's why I have to step in because I got my back even if you **** don't.
22:18This **** is just sitting there.
22:19You know what you call me?
22:30So I feel like after all of that, are you done with him or do you want to work it out?
22:35Where you at?
22:35I'm at a point right now where I want to be petty.
22:40I want to see if I can make him feel how I felt.
22:44I would like to go to therapy.
22:46Yeah.
22:47I feel like the therapy thing is going to be good for you guys.
22:50Maybe she can help him figure out why he has to lie.
22:53Yeah.
22:54And if he works that out, then he can be for you who we thought he was.
22:57Because he does seem sweet.
22:58Aside from all the shenanigans, everything is so good.
23:04So.
23:04You're looking lovely.
23:09You too.
23:09We stay wearing black.
23:12First date we was wearing black.
23:13Now we're wearing black.
23:14I set up a second date for me and Brittany.
23:17She has no idea I'm going to take her to my apartment here in LA.
23:20Hopefully she's going to like it.
23:21I'm excited.
23:22Hey.
23:23Where do you think we're going?
23:24I don't know.
23:25So I didn't know what to put on.
23:27I plan to make her favorite to show her that I'm interested, that I'm wanting her, that
23:32I plan to please her.
23:33You know, by prioritizing her as she wanted to be.
23:37You know, my humble abode.
23:39Okay.
23:40This where it goes down at?
23:41It's, I mean, where it could go down.
23:44I'm just saying, it don't usually go down, but it could go down if you want it to go down.
23:49Shut up.
23:50Did you see the menu?
23:51Oh, you're making crap waves.
23:53Yay.
23:57I'm excited.
24:03Have a seat.
24:11I know over the last 12 hours, you guys' relationship has been teetering.
24:16So I brought in my good friend, Dr. Allie.
24:20And she's going to take it from here.
24:21All right.
24:22My expectations of walking into the session with Dr. Allie are be optimistic.
24:27I'm hoping to get some tools that, you know, hopefully me and Tatiana can use.
24:32But let's just leave taking something away.
24:35All right.
24:36Why am I here?
24:37Yesterday we had family come over.
24:39I brought my best friend.
24:41We grew up together like, like almost like that's my big sister.
24:44So when she seen me, she ran, she jumped.
24:47And wrapped her legs around him.
24:50And then Tatiana came out almost as if it was a different person.
24:54I had not seen this side of Tatiana before.
24:56And in my head, I'm just like, what the f***?
24:58I feel very like unprotected, very much like he doesn't care about my feelings.
25:04I've just been having problems with him in general, just lying a lot.
25:08And it's just like, I'm always the person on the outside that doesn't know stuff.
25:12Pass me your text messages?
25:14No.
25:14I know, no, no, no, no.
25:17If you're not going to do what I asked, then that's fine.
25:19But just know, I know that it's not what you're saying that it is.
25:23Okay.
25:23So it seems like your primary issue is the friend.
25:27And then that he's like lying a lot and just, or not telling full truths from your perspective.
25:31So she has been very succinct.
25:33Is this the same thing you understand?
25:34Yeah.
25:36Where are you emotionally right now?
25:38I'm exhausted.
25:40I'm stressed and overwhelmed.
25:42Your hand was shaking a second ago.
25:43Yeah.
25:45I got bad nerves and anxiety.
25:47Something I didn't tell her is like about the PTSD and traumas I have from my deployment.
25:50I have no problem owning up to me f***ing up.
25:54But at the end of the day, I just want f***ing peace.
25:57When I hear people say, I just want peace, it makes me start to think of what we call avoidance coping.
26:03Your response to the trauma is to freeze.
26:05You had all these thoughts going through your head.
26:06You had all these experiences.
26:08But in order to keep the peace, you didn't want to talk about them.
26:10When in reality, you'd be surprised what comes on the other side of having the difficult conversation.
26:15And so where are we now?
26:17You're on drink duty.
26:23Look, I even got a whole thing right there in case you need to make any garnishment.
26:28I don't like sugar on my rim.
26:30I should be sweet enough.
26:31I need to see.
26:32Let me see.
26:36No tone?
26:37No tone?
26:38I can't get no tone?
26:39No.
26:39A little bit of tone?
26:40Maybe later with Ty wanting, you know, more kisses and this and that.
26:45I would rather prefer him allowing me to come to him.
26:49But I don't, I didn't want to, you know, mess with his ego.
26:53You look good, by the way.
26:54I mean, I wanted to slap you, but, you know, I'm trying to exercise consent.
27:00Do I have consent to?
27:01You know what?
27:02That is a great idea.
27:03Do I have consent to slap you?
27:05No, you don't.
27:06What are you feeling right now?
27:15I feel hurt.
27:16It made me feel upset.
27:20It made me feel like, um, I feel like I'm only angry because I feel like I have to be
27:27to protect myself.
27:28But I just feel like if he doesn't really care about me, I would rather him say that
27:32than to keep saying, like, oh, I love you, I love you, and know that he's going to keep
27:37doing stuff like this.
27:38And I feel like I've been very vulnerable with him and giving him, like, a real shot,
27:42and I feel like he just keeps playing in my face.
27:44Yeah.
27:45The anger is understandable.
27:47A boundary's been crossed.
27:49It will be a part of your job to make sure she feels trust in you.
27:56You get that?
27:57Yes.
27:57I care about you, Tatiana.
28:01I do.
28:03This was one of those pivotal moments in a relationship where you have that first huge
28:08argument.
28:09And it's just about you figuring out your limits when you're ready to be done.
28:13I just want there to be respect.
28:15And I just feel like his actions don't match up with his words.
28:18Are you willing to fix this relationship, or are you done?
28:22Are you willing to fix this relationship, or are you done?
28:36I don't know.
28:37I just don't know if I could trust him.
28:40How invested are both of you, like, zero to ten?
28:42Ten.
28:44I came in on, like, a seven.
28:47But I feel like it's dropped down to, like, a two or a three.
28:50Now it's going to be about, is this actually a relationship-ending situation?
28:57Or is this something that's teaching me a little bit more about my own wounds right
29:01now, too?
29:02Yeah.
29:03It's hard to bring new people into your life, right?
29:05Period.
29:05Can we still talk this out?
29:07Is it worth that?
29:09And that's a test of a relationship.
29:10Mm-hmm.
29:12Yeah.
29:16What?
29:17What?
29:17Okay, okay.
29:20It looks amazing.
29:25This is just for us.
29:25It's so good.
29:27Since we've been together, we had a little hiccup, but we're over that now.
29:32But this is everything right now.
29:35Ty and I had such a vibe online.
29:37You looking fly.
29:39Lord, I need to keep up.
29:40Can't wait to see it.
29:41And now I'm just trying to find the chemistry that we have over the phone here in real life.
29:46That's cheers to an amazing meal.
29:49Yes.
29:51Thank you for my favorite drink.
29:53Yes, ma'am.
29:54Favorite drink and favorite food.
29:55What's up, girl?
30:03Who you here for?
30:04Chris, Chris.
30:05Yeah?
30:06My cousin, he's coming to the house.
30:08I feel really good.
30:10We grew up in a sandbox together.
30:12This man know everything about me.
30:14This is a lovely lady.
30:15How you doing?
30:16I'm good.
30:16How are you?
30:17Good, good.
30:17Sean, too.
30:18Nice to meet you.
30:18Nice to meet you, sir.
30:19That's right.
30:20That's right.
30:20Yes, sir.
30:21Hey, you too, man.
30:23Oh, man, this is great.
30:24Yeah, I see you.
30:26Hey, how you doing?
30:27Hey.
30:27Nice to meet you.
30:28Dr. Mania?
30:29Hey, yes.
30:30Hey, I'm Jared.
30:31There's Mr. Lexus right there.
30:33Look at you.
30:36We've been friends for about six years.
30:39We're really cool, really close.
30:41She was interested in meeting Christopher because he's a little bit younger, and she wants
30:46to see that dynamic between us.
30:51Was she better online than in person?
30:53It's crazy you ask that question because, you know, with me and her, it's a 10-year-age
30:57gal.
30:57When I seen her, I thought she was a little, uh, you got your, like, cool.
31:00I'm a tool.
31:02A little tiger, yeah.
31:06But no, man, she's 45.
31:07I made a date of, like, two older women.
31:09Okay.
31:10But they wanted to control it tight.
31:11You see what I'm saying?
31:12She's too aggressive to you.
31:13I'm kind of aggressive, and that's what I want her to calm down.
31:16I got some condoms for you.
31:17She was pushing the sex agenda hard, and you know, that's fine.
31:24But if I do give her an honest chance for us to move forward and be together, she's not
31:29going to be on that type of thing.
31:29So if she's so more submissive, you'll take her to that boom boom room.
31:32You damn right.
31:33What did he say?
31:34It's not all of our sex.
31:36Oh, is that what he said?
31:37I'm like, I ain't never worked this hard for a young boy.
31:39Hey, how you doing?
31:43I'm Chris.
31:43Hello, Chris.
31:44Nice to meet you.
31:45You look amazing.
31:46Manya.
31:46This my cousin, my family.
31:48Hey, how you doing?
31:49So Manya wants to talk to you by herself, and we're going to go and talk.
31:54Come on, let's talk.
31:54We can do some talking.
31:55So how has it been here with all these people?
31:59It's been a lot, but I feel like me and Alexis both been managing it pretty well.
32:04So talk to me.
32:06How can I maneuver a real Christopher?
32:09Now, he needs a strong woman, but I think it's not somewhere you're carrying.
32:15It's your mouth.
32:17My mouth?
32:17Yeah.
32:18Okay.
32:19But he really likes you.
32:20I know he really want to grow and continue and build with you.
32:24So when you first laid eyes on her face to face, what was going through your mind?
32:29Well, I mean, she was a pretty, beautiful woman, but I want her to get more fit.
32:33Okay.
32:33And I understand fitness can be a journey for people.
32:35We ain't got to start out fast.
32:36Right.
32:37I'm willing to go slow.
32:38And she reciprocated that way.
32:40Just continue to be that feminine, power, energy that you are.
32:45And you got my blessings.
32:47Come on, let's go join now.
32:51All right, she got my vote.
32:52What makes you say that?
32:53I feel like she listens.
32:55It was very, very straightforward.
32:57I could appreciate that.
32:58I'm so glad you guys can make it.
33:00Yes.
33:01The friend and family visit was awesome.
33:03It's nice to see Maya because she has a nice insight on people.
33:08So I'm glad she got the look in.
33:09It was definitely needed.
33:11You got this.
33:12All right.
33:13All right.
33:13And you go first.
33:21And I can teach you if you want or we can just play and you can learn that way.
33:24Can I try to teach you something?
33:34Don't explain that to me.
33:43Shorty.
33:45Yep.
33:46I really appreciate you saying that you'll still give me a chance and work with me.
33:54Nobody's perfect.
33:55And a relationship is perfect.
33:58That was good.
34:06Can you give me some juice?
34:07Sure, honey.
34:08I'll be right back.
34:10Is it okay?
34:10I don't want to.
34:11No.
34:11Don't touch me.
34:12Okay.
34:12I won't.
34:13We had a session and at our session, I felt like we was making some progress and we're
34:22starting to mend and pull back together.
34:23But every time she like jerked away and snatched away, it was just like, damn, it hurt.
34:30You don't get full granted access just because you say sorry.
34:33I handed you everything and you on it.
34:37I felt like we were in a better space than we were earlier.
34:39I was really trying to challenge myself and try to move forward.
34:43If you want to move forward, like, give it your all.
34:47I'm not going to give it my all.
34:48So if we're not doing shit with our all, then what are we doing?
34:51But I feel like I need more time to kind of fill it out because I don't want to prematurely be like, I'm over this situation.
34:59Your actions change our dynamic.
35:01We're back.
35:02We're back.
35:04Hey, y'all look so f***ing good.
35:08I'm just, I'm just, I'm just, I'm f***ing good.
35:10Let me get this for you.
35:11How was it?
35:12Tell me about it.
35:12It was great.
35:13And he's being so hot and he's bad.
35:17And you can't sell him in his bed.
35:17He feels like I'm having a f***ing good.
35:20I'm not, it's not happening.
35:22The least compatible people in the house would be Brittany and Ty.
35:27They had a date and like, they didn't get physical or kiss or anything at their intimate setting at his house.
35:34I mean, he should have just dropped her off at the door and went the f**k home.
35:40Y'all are crazy.
35:42How was everybody today?
35:43Amazing.
35:44Y'all had therapy today, Tati?
35:46Mm-hmm.
35:46How did it go?
35:48It went good.
35:51Clay.
35:53You straight, shorty?
35:55I'm not gonna give it my all.
35:58It's been a long-ass day.
36:00I got up early.
36:02You already on the mat?
36:05That was you.
36:08I'm wasting my f**king time here.
36:12Keep it real with me, I keep it real with you, baby.
36:14Like, if you're not gonna be all in, like, I don't gotta be all in either.
36:17Yo!
36:19Clay!
36:21Ain't enough attention on it, but I'm not falling for it.
36:25Wow, what's up?
36:26Yeah, I'm trying to leave, bro. I'm going on.
36:28I said, like, are you all the way in?
36:29She's like, no, I'm not.
36:30I'm just kind of here. You should be happy.
36:32Because she's mad.
36:33But you gotta understand, she's a woman that's hurt, that's embarrassed in front of all these people.
36:38She really love you.
36:39I don't wanna waste my son here right now.
36:41If you leave, you don't waste your time.
36:43We're closer to the finish line than we get to the beginning.
36:45That's true.
36:46You can't make no good decisions off of motion.
36:51I'm ready to slide, bro.
36:53I have no more fight.
36:56Listen.
36:56Listen to me, bros.
36:58No more gas in the tank.
37:00Oh, my God.
37:01What is it now?
37:02I'm done.
37:12He hasn't grasped the concept of women's behavior with an attitude yet.
37:17He hasn't grasped it.
37:20None of it.
37:21I don't have four different 45-minute conversations today.
37:33I'm done.
37:33I don't think this is working.
37:37You said that you don't wanna give it your all.
37:40I really don't wanna waste my time.
37:42So, I feel like you're being a big man, baby, right now.
37:45You just need to accept the fact that it's gonna take me time.
37:48You gotta wait.
37:49No.
37:49You gotta take the punch.
37:50He can't.
37:50His mind is not mature.
37:51But if you wanna go home, just let me know and stop playing with me.
37:55If you wanna make this work, then I'm here.
37:59I started packing.
38:01He can't get past his pride of feeling like he hurt because he's saying stupid.
38:04Okay.
38:05So, is that your decision?
38:08My whole thing's...
38:09What's your decision?
38:10I started packing.
38:11So, do you want to go?
38:13It's yes or no.
38:15No.
38:16I don't.
38:17Seeing that look in her eyes again, like, it gave me kind of hope.
38:20I felt love.
38:23Okay.
38:24Then, what are we talking about?
38:26I need you to, like, not waste my time.
38:28I'm not wasting your time.
38:29I literally have shown you progress.
38:31What are you doing?
38:31I'm not doing...
38:32I'm going back downstairs so I can have a good night.
38:35So, what was your purpose to come here?
38:37Was it for them or was it the f*** with me?
38:38So, I can leave right now.
38:39Do you want to go?
38:41No f*** if I said I f***ing packed with a f***ing thing.
38:43So, stop saying that.
38:44You literally keep flip-flopping.
38:45Okay, whatever.
38:45If you wanna go, then...
38:46All right, now you straight.
38:47You got it.
38:47Okay, bet.
38:48Let's tell everybody.
38:49All right, you dig.
38:50No, you didn't.
38:52Hey, I'm sad for Tati.
38:53That's kind of...
38:54Yeah, yeah.
38:55He got an idiot.
38:58He decides that he wants to go home because he feels like I'm not giving it 100%.
39:02Just f*** up.
39:08I think this would have never even surfaced.
39:11If it weren't for that hug at that front door.
39:13Somebody was messy.
39:14Yeah.
39:14Those other folks.
39:16Did you see how he jumped up in his lap?
39:18Did you see how he put that leg up on his arm?
39:21Then you gonna turn around and take advice from these folks?
39:23F***.
39:24Yeah.
39:25Hey, f***.
39:25I'm not gonna beg him to stay.
39:29F***.
39:29You ain't begging nobody.
39:30Because if f*** today, then it'll be tomorrow.
39:35He gonna be all right, man.
39:36If you guys were going to go through all that counseling, just for him to make a decision
39:41that he wants to go home, you also want to go home to get the attention back on you.
39:46It was a b***h move.
39:48Take care, Koi.
39:48He's a sweet guy.
39:50He's very sweet.
39:51But he got a lot of s*** to learn.
39:57Zero out of ten.
39:59Girl, negative ten out of ten.
40:01Okay, I'm about to block him on everything because this is just too much.
40:05But this was a cool experience, though.
40:07Honestly, I met y'all.
40:08Yeah.
40:09And that was the best part.
40:11And I felt like I was ready to move forward and try to see, like, can we make this work?
40:16But I feel like he made a rash decision because he just needed to have a little bit of faith
40:20and patience that if you could just make it through the night, it's going to be better tomorrow.
40:25Aww.
40:26That's crazy.
40:27Bye.
40:28So much.
40:29Bye.
40:29I guess my tolerance for bulls*** was a little high.
40:33Because I wasn't ready.
40:38I'll fight both y'all if y'all decide to leave.
40:40I mean, no, no, no.
40:41Don't stay.
40:42You think I'm going to leave this man?
40:43I'm going to leave this man.
41:13People who seem like the perfect couples, right?
41:16Gone.
41:17We know who's next.
41:19So you're just going to drag me along?
41:21Yeah, that was the plan.
41:23You're going to be a f***ing asshole to me.
41:25Don't put your feelings on my face.
41:26Don't do that.
41:26Get the f*** out of here.
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