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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance, The Other Way.
00:04Hi! You look very difficult.
00:07I can tell it was a long journey because you stink.
00:11You're welcome.
00:12Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
00:15Uh, yep, everything with a G on it.
00:17But there's stuff in there.
00:18Oh, God, really?
00:19It doesn't even seem like he was expecting me to arrive here.
00:24It just doesn't really feel like home.
00:26Well, we love each other.
00:34They love each other.
00:37All the good work we've done till now can't be spoiled by one loud person.
00:50No tengo más dinero, amor. Lo siento, pero es verdad.
00:54Pues yo hablo con todos los proveedores a ver qué podemos hacer, pero también es que piensen si es que se quieren casar porque, pues...
01:02He is wondering if I should get married, and this is sick of me.
01:08I've had a really long day, so I apologize.
01:11For how long he think I'm gonna have to forgive him?
01:15Whatever.
01:16I don't even know where I packed my underwear.
01:31Hey, Matthew, where are you?
01:41Hey, I'm in here.
01:42I'm gonna take a shower.
01:45Yeah, go for it, darling.
01:46Did you find enough space for your clothes?
01:52No.
01:53Gotta get a taste what the future holds.
01:57Falling into place like a deep soul.
02:01Enjoy your shower.
02:03Thanks.
02:06Greta arrived earlier today, and is this how I would have wanted it to go in the first hour or two?
02:15Probably not, but I expected her to be pretty worn out from the day.
02:22Maybe there's more space I can clear for her, but I think the best thing I can do now is just to stand back, give her some space.
02:32I get it that she just wants to do her own thing for a little while.
02:36Oh, hi, Matthew.
02:48You all right?
02:49Yeah, pretty well.
02:50How are you doing, Matthew?
02:52How are you doing?
02:52How's it going?
02:54Yeah, pretty well.
02:54Has Greta arrived?
02:55Yeah, yeah, she's arrived.
02:56She's just having a shower now, so.
02:59I bet she's tired, isn't she?
03:01She's knackered.
03:02Yeah.
03:02Did you have a big hug when you saw each other?
03:04Yeah, we had a pretty big hug.
03:05Yeah, yeah.
03:06Aw.
03:06Hi.
03:07Hi.
03:09Oh, my God.
03:11So good to see you guys.
03:13It's so lovely to have you.
03:15Yeah.
03:16Welcome.
03:17Welcome.
03:18Look who's here.
03:18The house looks great.
03:21Hi.
03:22It's so nice to see you again.
03:25It's nice to hear that cheeky laugh.
03:26It's got quite a distinctive laugh.
03:28I'm just so excited to be here and just so thankful you guys let me stay here again.
03:33Aw, you're welcome.
03:34We really love having you here.
03:36Aw, thank you.
03:37Happy family, huh?
03:39Yeah.
03:40Yeah.
03:41I think Matthew has found his soulmate in Greta.
03:45I hope that they have the wedding and the babies and they live happily ever after.
03:51Matthew was anxious a few days before.
03:53But I see a spark in his eye now.
03:59Aw, you look really happy, both of you.
04:03Mr. Grumpy's happy now.
04:05Yeah.
04:06Mr. Grumpy.
04:07Mark's been getting ready for you, haven't you?
04:10You've been sorting out the fridge and the freezer.
04:12Yeah.
04:13We've made some meat-free zones for you.
04:15Oh, that's sweet.
04:18I've got something for Greta.
04:20You've got something for Greta?
04:22Yeah.
04:22Yeah.
04:23Aw.
04:23You guys always make me feel so included and welcome.
04:26I think my mother has something for you.
04:27Yeah, oh yeah.
04:28I got you.
04:29Oh my God.
04:30Oh my God.
04:32Welcome.
04:32Did you make that for yourself?
04:33No.
04:34I love that clever.
04:35That's beautiful.
04:36Aw, there's cat, there's kitties.
04:37That smells very nice.
04:39This is a vegan cake?
04:40That is a vegan cake.
04:41It's got blueberries in, it's got lemon in, and it's got apple and hazel on the top.
04:47Oh my God, thank you.
04:49That's so sweet.
04:50I'm going to crowd it.
04:51Oh my God.
04:53I've been so anxious about the move that I forgot how amazing that these parents are.
04:59They have always really loved me and been really accepting of me, and that's what I've always hoped for.
05:06For saying it's vegan, it's not bad.
05:08After my mom passed when I was five, I've always had a tough time being around any parents.
05:16So the feeling of a warm, happy family, it feels really, really nice.
05:20I feel really grateful.
05:23I'm sure Greta's really tired.
05:25It's been a long, long day for you.
05:27I've been tired too.
05:29I'm sure.
05:29Getting this place ready for her.
05:31But Greta's been traveling for hours and hours and hours, so I think we should let Greta have some sleep now.
05:37Okay, well, good night, you guys.
05:38Good night.
05:39I'll see you in the morning.
05:41And you, Matthew.
05:41Take care.
05:42Oh, are you coming with me?
05:43Okay.
05:43Yeah.
05:44Good night.
05:45Good night.
05:46See you guys.
05:46Good night.
05:48Today started off a little rocky, but I'm glad things are beginning to feel more normal between me and Greta.
05:55And there's always an adjustment period when we see each other again, but I can't wait to begin planning our life together.
06:05It's been such a long day.
06:08How are you feeling?
06:10I'm just, like, kind of in shock right now a little bit.
06:13In shock?
06:14Yeah.
06:15Like, good shock or bad shock or just, yeah.
06:19I feel, like, really unsettled.
06:23Hmm.
06:24When I was unpacking earlier today, I felt really overwhelmed.
06:28I felt like the room wasn't really prepared for me to arrive.
06:33It kind of made me feel, like, not really welcome here.
06:39Welcome here?
06:41Yeah.
06:42You're always welcome here.
06:43You've always been welcome here.
06:44Well, no, I mean, I feel really welcome here by your parents, but I'm just, like, this doesn't really feel like my room, too.
06:51It just kind of feels like your room.
06:53Well, it is my room, so it's always going to feel a little bit foreign to you.
06:58It'll become more and more comfortable to you.
07:00I feel like you don't understand what I'm saying.
07:01Like, it doesn't feel like my room because it's filled with your stuff and there's no space for my stuff.
07:06That's what I'm saying.
07:08Feel your stuff out.
07:09Take all your things out.
07:10Put them out.
07:11If you don't want my clothes there, take them into the garage.
07:13If you want to draw, tip everything out, put it in the bin and put your things in there.
07:18This is as much your room as it is mine now.
07:21I didn't think this is how our first night back together would go.
07:25I was really hoping for this giddy, romantic reunion, but that's not happening.
07:32And at the same time, I feel really hopeful we can reconnect and have those really intimate moments.
07:40The more time I spend with him.
07:43I'm so tired, honey.
07:44I'm just going to go to bed, okay?
07:46Yeah, that's fine.
07:47Good night.
07:50Good night, darling.
07:50I'm going to try.
08:13I'm excited that we're going.
08:29Love moved to Colombia yesterday, and I was so happy to see him.
08:46But later, the meeting, when they were implanted, I feel so mad with him.
08:52But he explained to me he was tired.
08:55Like, he had a so, so long flight, and maybe he mistake a little bit.
09:01And so I forgive him for this time.
09:03Was there anything, any intimacy?
09:12Really?
09:12I was so horny.
09:14Like, I don't f*** like three months ago or more.
09:18And obviously, I expect to have sex with him.
09:22And he f*** me mad.
09:23And obviously, he don't get any sex.
09:27Amor.
09:27She was still mad.
09:30She was angry.
09:31But the fact of the matter is we haven't seen each other in months.
09:34And it was good to hold each other in our arms.
09:37We kissed.
09:39I was happy.
09:42Are you ready to go to pick the cake?
09:44Yeah, let's do it.
09:46Today is the tasting of the cake.
09:49I'm so happy and excited about it.
09:54I think he's here.
09:55We're going to have a funny and cute day night.
10:01And we can put all the frightens behind us.
10:06Hola, ¿cómo están?
10:08Bienvenidos a Marmetina.
10:10Muchas gracias.
10:12Andamos buscando la torta para nuestro matrimonio.
10:16¿Qué les parece si les saco una degustación de diferentes cakes
10:20para que los prueben a ver cuál les gusta más?
10:23Perfecto.
10:23Claro que sí, bienvenidos.
10:24Vamos.
10:27The wedding is coming up so soon.
10:31So excited.
10:32I just want to know everything going to be perfect
10:35and my dreams going to come true.
10:38Por acá les traigo una degustación.
10:42Un cake de vainilla con frutos rojos.
10:46Y este es red velvet con chocolate blanco.
10:48Entonces, amigos, me cuentan cuál les gusta.
10:52Que los disfruten.
10:53¿Estás listo para probar?
10:54Vamos.
10:55You give it to me and I give it to you.
10:58Which one is this?
10:59Vainilla.
11:00Esa es una torta de pistacho con un centro de maracuyá.
11:03Esa es una torta de pistacho con un centro de maracuyá.
11:15Esa es una torta de pistacho con un centro de maracuyá.
11:25Esa es una torta de pistacho con un centro de maracuyá.
11:29I don't even know what this pistacho, like in Colombia.
11:33If you're asking me if I see a pistacho in my life, no.
11:36You want to try this one?
11:38Looking like you bought.
11:44Mmm.
11:46I want this for me and the other one for the other people.
11:50Really?
11:54This is something like I don't want to share.
11:56It's delicious.
11:59Aww, you're so cute.
12:02Some thanks.
12:08Well, baby, I just want to say I love you so much.
12:12You mean the world to me.
12:14And I know we've had a rough start to me moving here.
12:18And it's been stressful for both of us.
12:22I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you.
12:26Do, amor.
12:27You know I love you so much.
12:29You know I love you.
12:30Oh, I love you.
12:30I love you.
12:38Are you weird?
12:40are you weird good I'm trying to tell you something and I I don't know how how to do it
12:52but I'll try when you tell me this it's because something is common
13:02well look I mean we talked about me not doing a bachelor party and
13:11I totally get where you're coming from
13:18okay remember when I had said I went to I was going to David's house
13:26basically like they they threw like a small little bachelor party
13:42a small little and what is a bastard party for you what do you do
13:48a stripper came over and what do you do with the stripper what do you mean what do you do with
14:01the stripper I mean told me the true look because you know I gonna have to find out
14:06I didn't do anything I just she dancing for you yeah the stripper did the stripper stuff I mean
14:17she came over for you touch her I didn't touch her I mean what I didn't
14:22think I have soup wait
14:23Madeline
14:33I didn't touch her I'm Petya I'm 58 one night I was working and Dylan came in he fell for these right away it was love at first boob sight
14:40I'm Petya I'm 58 one night I was working and Dylan came in he fell for these right away it was love at first boob sight
14:48people can say anything you cannot shut anybody's mouth I know if this is what it's gonna be like every time family members come over I don't want to live there
14:55I'm Petya I'm 58 one night I was working and Dylan came in he fell for these right away it was love at first boob sight
15:02people can say anything you cannot shut anybody's mouth I know if this is what it's gonna be like every time family members come over I don't want to live there
15:09I know if this is what it's gonna be like every time family members come over I don't want to live there
15:16in
15:17phone
15:18있지
15:30It's
15:34in
15:36Hey, are you okay?
15:41Why does she have a problem with me?
15:44What is wrong with her?
15:46I haven't heard anything from any of his family members
15:49for a long time, so I thought everything was okay
15:52and it all just kind of went away.
15:55But I found out I was wrong.
16:02I thought your family accepted me.
16:05Yeah, I thought that, too.
16:07Like, that's why I thought, like, they are coming to our place.
16:09So where did that come from?
16:11Yeah, baby, I don't know what to say about it.
16:16Sauna accepts me, but I'm worried that
16:20if these other family members keep being negative,
16:24it could make her mind go back to the way it was before.
16:29So I am worried about that a lot.
16:31People can say anything.
16:34You cannot shut anybody's mouth.
16:36And that's why I don't care.
16:38And I suggest you don't care about what people talk about.
16:42Don't upset yourself.
16:44You are a beautiful person.
16:45My family finally standing up for you.
16:47I know.
16:49Yeah.
16:50I saw tears in my mom's eyes.
16:52She don't want, like, anybody to say anything to you.
16:55It is a proud moment for me.
16:57I never thought that I would see Sauna sticking up for me.
17:03But if this is what it's going to be like
17:06every time family members come over,
17:09that's just another reason why I don't want to live there.
17:13Yeah, baby.
17:15Everything goes fine.
17:16Don't worry.
17:17I love you.
17:18I love you, too.
17:19Thank you so much for standing up for me.
17:22I'm just glad it's over.
17:24I'm glad I'm too.
17:26See you later.
17:44You're up next.
17:56I'm Patia.
18:15I'm 58, and I live in Dallas, Texas.
18:18I'm also known as Shalita.
18:24I don't consider myself a stripper.
18:32I consider myself an exotic dancer.
18:35I started in this industry back in 1989,
18:38when I was, like, 21 years old,
18:40because I needed money.
18:42It's happening, baby.
18:44And here we are, 37 years later,
18:47and I'm still shaking.
18:49I'm a dinosaur.
18:54Dancing's always made me happy.
18:57It makes me feel youthful.
18:58It makes me feel energetic.
19:00It keeps me fit.
19:02God have mercy.
19:04But now I'm hanging up my cowgirl hat
19:07to move across the world to be with my boyfriend, Dylan.
19:10I'm just going to turn the water off here.
19:21Ah, I see the problem.
19:24G'day.
19:25I'm Dylan.
19:26I'm 38 years old,
19:27and I live in Launceston, Tasmania.
19:29There we go.
19:30No more leaks.
19:31No more leaks.
19:32Thank you so much for coming out, Dylan.
19:33I appreciate it.
19:34I'm a plumber.
19:35I do anything from plugging up leaks,
19:38fixing dunnies.
19:42Oh, wow.
19:43That's a good flush.
19:44I do enjoy being a plumber,
19:46just jumping in the ute,
19:47getting out and about with the locals,
19:49and it's actually a great job down here.
19:51I pick and choose the work I want to do,
19:53and I've been as busy as a bull's ass in fly season.
19:59G'day, ladies.
20:00I heard you had a broken pipe in here.
20:02I don't feel it gets soaking wet.
20:13But I'm also a male stripper in Launceston.
20:18Growing up, I wanted to be on stage,
20:20but when I was doing the singing,
20:22songwriting like nobody cared.
20:28So I started stripping,
20:30and the phone started ringing.
20:33A few years later,
20:34Australia's Got Talent came to town,
20:37and I ended up actually making it all the way
20:39to the grand final of that show,
20:41and then suddenly,
20:42I'm Thunder from Down Under's MC in Las Vegas.
20:45This next one's for all those country girls out there.
20:48And that's when I meet Pattaya.
20:52I moved to Las Vegas because my love life was a mess.
20:56I was married twice.
20:58I was separating from my husband,
21:00and I was not looking for love.
21:02One night, I was working, and Dylan came in.
21:05I looked up on a podium, and she just looked beautiful.
21:09We just started talking, and then, yeah,
21:11I was just really just smitten with her.
21:15He fell for these right away.
21:17It was love at first boob sight.
21:23He invited me to a show.
21:25He has the best abs, I mean.
21:28Dylan is chiseled like a Brad Pitt.
21:32He's very handsome.
21:39And that Australian accent boy.
21:41Thank you so much for having me.
21:43It's beautiful.
21:44I never thought I would date somebody
21:46that was like 20 years younger than me.
21:48Who is your body on the dance floor?
21:51But his personality won me over.
21:54He made me laugh.
21:55He made me smile.
21:56He's very romantic.
21:57He's very passionate.
21:59He has an old soul.
22:04Pattaya is the most loving, nurturing,
22:08amazing woman I've ever met.
22:10I don't want to be with anyone else.
22:12I only want to be with Pattaya.
22:14She's the sunshine in my life.
22:17We've been together for 12 years and still going.
22:21We're destined to be together.
22:25Oh my God, my feet.
22:27Me too.
22:30Dylan and I lived together in Las Vegas
22:32for about seven years.
22:34But then he had to move back to Australia
22:36due to visa stuff.
22:37And shortly after that, I moved back to Texas
22:40and we've been doing the long distance
22:41back and forth, up and on.
22:43But all of that is about to change
22:45because I'm moving to Tasmania to be with Dylan.
22:49I'm not going to miss these.
22:51That's for sure.
22:54What kind of shoes do you have to wear in Tasmania?
22:56Flats.
22:57Is it like all jungle?
22:59No.
23:00It's like an island.
23:01Google Tasmania.
23:02Google Tasmania.
23:03Google Tasmania.
23:04I need to Google it.
23:05I don't even know where it's at.
23:06It's nothing like Dallas.
23:07You know, here it's like really fast-paced.
23:09Yeah.
23:10It's fun.
23:11Exciting.
23:12Lots to do here.
23:13What can you do there?
23:15I don't know.
23:16I've never been.
23:17It's going to be quiet.
23:19Like, staying home, reading a book, reading a Bible.
23:22Like, retirement-ville.
23:25I mean, if that makes you happy, yeah, but I couldn't do that.
23:29I mean, he's wonderful.
23:30He's exciting.
23:31He loves to surprise me.
23:33But it's going to be, you know, like a nice, chilled, relaxing life.
23:38It's just not going to be the same.
23:40Yeah.
23:41You know, I really feel scared about, like, hanging up all, you know, saying goodbye to dancing.
23:46Because the last time he had me do this, he's like, babe, babe, let's come together.
23:50I promise I'm going to take care of you, and you don't have to work anymore, and we moved to Thailand.
23:55I, like, you guys know I sold everything, got down to a suitcase and a carry-on, you know?
24:00Yeah.
24:01And, um, here I am, back dancing again.
24:05Four years ago, Dylan and I moved to Thailand for about a year.
24:09And things did not go as I planned.
24:12We were fighting constantly, and it was not working.
24:16And I felt more alone than ever.
24:18It was just awful.
24:19All this fighting became very toxic, and I couldn't take it anymore.
24:23So we broke up, and then I came back to the States.
24:28So that's what I'm worried about, that, you know, that that could happen again.
24:33So how are you so sure it's not going to happen this time?
24:36I don't know.
24:38Despite our problems, our love is so strong.
24:43No matter how much we fight, we end up coming back together.
24:46What do you guys think?
24:47Do you guys think I'm doing the right thing?
24:49I mean, I feel nervous for you.
24:52And especially with everything you're sacrificing.
24:55Yeah.
24:56Here I go again.
24:58Yeah.
24:59Yeah.
25:00I'm just tired of the back and forth, you know?
25:12It's just being with somebody, even though, like, you're not with them.
25:17It just feels like you're alone, you know?
25:19I'm just tired of that.
25:20Work, going home to an empty apartment.
25:22Like, I really, like, I just want this to be, like, like, I just want this to be the final time.
25:30No.
25:31I'm giving up a lot to be with Dylan.
25:33The dancing, the independence, my big city life, my friends.
25:38I'm moving to a whole new country.
25:40And I'm doing this all for the second time.
25:43But Dylan is so worth it.
25:45He makes me feel like no one's ever made me feel.
25:47I love him more than anything in this world.
25:49He's just the most amazing person I've ever met.
25:51And I feel like Dylan and I have a connection that nobody else can understand.
25:56But I just hope we don't fall back into our old patterns and break up again.
26:00I don't know if my heart can take it anymore.
26:08In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
26:12I'm fine to be the breadwinner here, but I think there needs to be a realistic cap on things.
26:21I don't know if I can't see.
26:24I definitely don't want this cake in my marriage.
26:27I have a marriage.
26:51Ready for our spa treatment?
27:00Yeah.
27:03Hi.
27:04Hi.
27:05Hi.
27:06Welcome.
27:07Here's a hot towel for you both.
27:08Perfect.
27:09Oh, that feels good.
27:10Yeah.
27:11That feels great.
27:12And then here's a welcome drink for you both.
27:14Oh, thank you.
27:15Cheers, darling.
27:16Cheers.
27:17It's my second day in England with Matthew and I felt a bit unsettled.
27:24But I think Matthew knows the key to my heart because today he surprised me with the trip to the spa, which is one of my favourite places.
27:32Aw, you look cute.
27:34So do you.
27:35It's just a small thing to show me that he cares and to make me feel welcome.
27:41So this is our relaxed room.
27:43Ooh.
27:44Please make yourself comfortable.
27:45Okay.
27:46And the therapist will come in shortly.
27:49Ooh, you like sink into these.
27:51Ooh.
27:52Yeah.
27:53Wow, that's good.
27:54Well, this is good.
27:55Honey, look, we can still hold hands.
27:57Oh, yeah.
27:58Yeah.
27:59I'm gonna take my glasses off too.
28:01Mm.
28:02Get the full relaxation experience.
28:04Yeah.
28:07We're spa people, aren't we?
28:09Yeah, once in a blue moon, it's pretty good, isn't it?
28:12Well, I get massages quite often in Oklahoma.
28:19Like, you know, weekly massages.
28:22Having a massage every now and then is fine.
28:28I think once every week or two is probably a little bit too much.
28:34No.
28:39I'm fine to be the breadwinner here and support you and give you what you want to be happy.
28:45But I think there needs to be a realistic cap on things, you know?
28:49I mean, if we want to be realistic, you bought an upgraded engine on your car that you did not need at all.
29:00And you bought a very expensive computer.
29:04So I don't really know what, like, realistic means to you.
29:09We share the car, right?
29:11But I can't share your spa expenses.
29:15We don't both get something out of your massages.
29:19You get a happier version of myself.
29:22I don't think a happier version of you is very sustainable financially.
29:28So you probably need to reel it in just a little bit.
29:33Well, I really don't feel like I'm that unrealistic of a person financially and that I'm really not asking for much.
29:40I'm willing to give almost everything I have financially for us combined.
29:46But if I stopped working today, I couldn't afford the life that you want.
29:53And I'd lose you as a result.
29:54So you think I'm engaged to you for the money? Is that what you're saying?
30:00I just want you to bear it in mind to be able to have things like this in life.
30:06It's something that ultimately I have to foot.
30:09I assume that you were going down this career path to make a lot of money and work in finance because that's who you were and that's what you wanted.
30:22Mm.
30:23I don't want you to make choices because you feel like that's what I want in the future.
30:28I do enjoy my career.
30:31I enjoy the work I do.
30:33I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate how much I give to this.
30:38I am really surprised by this comment.
30:44Matthew knows I want to be an animal lawyer, but I cannot practice law until I have the proper certification.
30:54And it's going to take some time to do that.
30:57I'm really grateful that Matthew is supporting us and I don't want to be a burden.
31:02But I don't want to start this whole thing where we're keeping score on each other's sacrifices.
31:08I don't think that's a healthy foundation for a relationship.
31:12We're all ready if you want to come up for your massages now.
31:16Sounds good.
31:17Sounds good.
31:18Feeling very tense.
31:22He did propose to me in Vegas, but he ended up taking the ring back.
31:26Are you kidding me right now?
31:27He was young.
31:28It doesn't matter.
31:29It can cost you so much if this doesn't work out.
31:32I love cooking and enjoy it very much.
31:59Like I can make all types of dishes.
32:01My nephew's coming over.
32:03He loves homemade food.
32:05I'm really looking forward to cooking for him and hanging out with him.
32:10I haven't seen Nicholas in a long time.
32:12He doesn't know Dylan.
32:13He's never met Dylan.
32:14But when I told Nick I was going to be moving out to Tasmania, he immediately scheduled a trip to come out and visit me.
32:19Hi, Nick!
32:20Hi!
32:21Oh my God!
32:22How are you?
32:23How are you?
32:24You look so pretty.
32:25How are you?
32:27Look at you.
32:28All grown up.
32:29Oh my goodness.
32:30I love your place.
32:31It looks gorgeous.
32:33Well, Auntie's going to make some chicken mothman curry.
32:34I need you to wash your hands and you're going to be my sous chef.
32:35You're going to help chop up the carrots.
32:36I just love Nick.
32:37He loves me for the way I am.
32:38He thinks I'm the coolest aunt because I was always like the wild one.
32:50Sneak off and do what I want when I want.
32:52My mom calls me a wild horse you cannot tame.
32:57I mean, I moved out when I was 17 because I just don't like to be controlled.
33:03I'm excited to see you.
33:05You've always been my favorite aunt.
33:06Aw, thank you, sweetie.
33:07Of course.
33:08Sorry, honey.
33:09It's...
33:10That's kind of...
33:11Do you want some more?
33:12Yes.
33:13Yeah, go ahead.
33:14It's kind of big.
33:15I might chip my teeth trying to eat that.
33:17Has your mom talked about me and Dylan?
33:19I've heard the typical story.
33:20I mean, anything that...
33:21What did she say about...
33:22You know what?
33:23Never mind.
33:24This is the that we grew up with.
33:25Anything that Patia does is just beyond the norm.
33:28You guys have a 20 year gap, right?
33:30Yes.
33:3120 years gap.
33:32He's 38.
33:33Yeah.
33:34This is like textbook cougar and the cub situation, you know?
33:37It is.
33:38I mean, you see all these guys.
33:39They're so hyped.
33:40Oh my gosh.
33:41I can't wait to have an older woman.
33:42Blah, blah, blah.
33:43I know.
33:44But he's very, very mature, Nick.
33:45I know.
33:46When I first met him, I was like, no.
33:47Oh, I know.
33:48Nicholas.
33:49I've known Dylan 12 years.
33:50Like, yes, we, you know, worked together for that long, but yes, we also like separated
33:54many, many times.
33:55And I didn't want...
33:56Because I would be like, go, go.
33:57I don't want to hold you back.
33:58But then he was the only one, the one that's always calling me to come back.
34:02He's like, I try to not think about you and try to be without you, but I can't.
34:07Living in Las Vegas, doing what we both did, we were both performers.
34:11We get into fights about jealousy and insecurities.
34:15So Dylan and I have broken up 20 times.
34:18He was definitely a runner.
34:20He would question our relationship and would end up breaking up with me.
34:24But now, as he gets older, he's realizing this is the girl that I want to be with.
34:28My dream girl.
34:30You guys have had this relationship now for, you said, 12 years?
34:3312 years.
34:34So where is the ring at?
34:36I don't know if you know this, but he did propose to me in Vegas.
34:39OK.
34:40Like three years after we were together, but he ended up taking the ring back because,
34:46you know, he wasn't ready at the time.
34:48Are you kidding me right now?
34:49He was young.
34:50It doesn't matter.
34:51I mean, that's just.
34:52No, I mean, it was nine years ago.
34:54Now, I feel like he's more than ready.
34:56He's very ready.
34:58I've not met the guy, so it's not my place to really dog him.
35:02But who takes the ring back?
35:03You know what I mean?
35:04I can't picture in any world that if I did that to a woman, that she would take me back.
35:09Either she has a lot of love in her heart or she has no idea what the hell she's doing.
35:15Until you have the ring, why don't you stay here?
35:18Because that way, if something does go wrong, you don't have to move all the way back.
35:21You don't have to uproot your life again.
35:23Well, I know.
35:24At the age of, what, 60?
35:25I know.
35:26I know.
35:27But we're going to get married, so it will work.
35:29He's going to propose to me.
35:31And I'm going to give him one last chance.
35:33But it can cost you so much if this doesn't work out.
35:38And I don't mean to make you cry.
35:39I'm sorry.
35:40I know.
35:41I appreciate you.
35:42OK.
35:43Come here.
35:44I'm not.
35:47I know.
35:48I know.
35:49I know.
35:50I know.
35:51I know.
35:52I know.
35:53I know.
35:54I know.
35:55I'm not trying to scare you here.
35:58No, I know.
35:59I know.
36:00I know.
36:01I truly believe that this will work out.
36:03This is, this will be our final time.
36:06It does hurt because I've invested so much time in us and I don't want to, you know, like,
36:11he feels the same way.
36:13You have to let him know this isn't the same you guys have been doing for 12 years.
36:18I know.
36:19I know.
36:20I know.
36:21But I want to give him that, that last chance.
36:24Knowing my nephews, like, that concern about me hit hard.
36:28I have to make sure that this is a final time.
36:31And I'm not going to keep the breakup, the makeup, the breakup, the makeup going for the rest of my life.
36:38I mean, I'm 58.
36:39I've been doing it for too long.
36:41It's either or get off the pot.
36:44He has to propose to me.
36:45If he doesn't commit, I'm moving on.
36:48That's it.
36:49But at the same time, I'm worried that if I did, I mean, I invested 12 years and if it doesn't work out, I will come back and be alone.
36:58It does scare me a lot.
37:05I knew she'd be pissed.
37:06I didn't think that would happen.
37:08I'm going to make what I'm going to do right now.
37:13Can we figure this out, please?
37:15Go, go get muddy, holy street.
37:25Can I get, like, a napkin or something?
37:28I didn't think that would happen.
37:30I definitely don't want the cake in my marriage.
37:43If I have a marriage.
37:45This is over.
37:46I last two years of my life.
38:00Can I know my rules?
38:02I knew she'd be pissed.
38:04She doesn't like the idea of me being around other women.
38:07Um, at all.
38:08I knew she'd be pissed.
38:09She doesn't like the idea of me being around other women, um, at all.
38:24But I didn't plan the bachelor party.
38:25I didn't know about it.
38:26I didn't order the stripper.
38:27I was just there.
38:31I didn't know how to tell her.
38:32I didn't know how to tell her.
38:33But I also felt that starting a marriage without 100% honesty is not a good place to start.
38:38It is not a good place to start.
38:50that starting a marriage
38:52without 100% honesty
38:55is not a good place to start.
39:20This is too much.
39:30You run me casa.
39:32Oh my gosh.
39:33Sorry.
39:39Sorry, fixing what?
39:41You know exactly what do you do.
39:44How do you think I'm going to get married
39:48with someone I don't trust in anything?
39:50I'm sorry.
39:52I didn't know what was happening.
39:54I didn't.
39:55I see.
39:56And you come here with this excuse.
39:57I don't know what's happened.
39:59You have close to three yards to me with me.
40:03You know who I am.
40:05You know which one is my limits.
40:07I'm sorry.
40:09Go, go, get married with the street, babe.
40:18Can we figure this out, please?
40:20Figure out what?
40:21We're supposed to get married, Madeleine.
40:22No.
40:23The marriage is canceled.
40:25It's not canceled.
40:26It's canceled.
40:27Go to get married with the stripper.
40:29You cannot get married with her.
40:30I don't want to marry her.
40:31Exactly.
40:32You lost me for her.
40:33Madeleine.
40:34Close the door of my car.
40:35But I'm sorry.
40:36No, Madeleine.
40:37Close the door of my car.
40:38Madeleine.
40:40Madeleine.
40:41I'm sorry.
40:42It's over.
40:43It's over.
40:44It's over.
40:53It's over.
40:55Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
41:13This is not normal yuga, this is poop yuga.
41:25Today I am finally going to Tasmania to see my honey.
41:34My biggest concern about going to Australia is his mom being so darn close to us.
41:38I think it's about time that he gets off his mom's nipple.
41:42It's time.
41:43I have been working on a business plan.
41:48Manon will always be hustling.
41:52Are you like for real?
41:53Yes, I'm for real.
41:57Do you see him?
41:58Jonathan asked me to stop his location sharing.
42:01Oh my God, look at him.
42:03But my physical eyesight doesn't need to stop tracking him.
42:07I give to him so much that he don't give me the same to me.
42:19I don't know if she'll speak with me.
42:21I don't know what to do at this point.
42:23No.
42:24No.
42:25Get out of here.
42:26Get out of here.
42:28No.
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