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00:00Previous Lee on 90 Day Chimpsay, he goes away.
00:04My name is Johnny.
00:05I'm from the beautiful island of Aruba.
00:10Love you. Love you.
00:11I'm leaving a six-figure job with my mom to move to Aruba.
00:15Don't go.
00:16Even though I'm reassuring my mom that I know what I'm doing,
00:19the truth is, I do not.
00:24Bring your head up a little bit.
00:26I met Matthew on Basically Vegan Tinder.
00:30And I'm giving up a lot to move to the UK.
00:33I don't know how you're going to leave that sweet girl.
00:35I don't know either.
00:36Distressed about living with his parents.
00:39I'm not really good at living with families.
00:41A lot of people get in a situation that you're in,
00:43and they kind of panic about that.
00:45And you're a panicker.
00:49You have about two arms.
00:51A little left. One and a half.
00:53The entire family, we're going to work together in a cafe.
00:56And it will be the main source of income for the entire family.
00:59What do you think?
01:02They haven't done anything.
01:04The smalls.
01:08Today, we are moving to France, and I'm terrified.
01:14I felt like I've been doing, like, solo parenting.
01:18I already told you that I feel a bum and you're saying that to me.
01:23Yes.
01:24I know you tried.
01:25And it's hard.
01:26That's why we're going to France.
01:28Let's put it on the side, but I'm not forgetting.
01:30Hello, hello.
01:31What's up, dude?
01:32I told them, no bachelor party.
01:33And what walks in?
01:35If Madeline found out about this before the wedding, she'd call it off and dump my ass.
01:40Oh, my God.
01:41Oh, my God.
01:42Oh, my God.
01:45Here we go.
01:46Oh, my God.
02:08Today is a big day.
02:32I got Chloe coming in, so now I got to get stuff ready.
02:35I got her pillow right here.
02:37She doesn't sleep without the silk, so just small things, getting her pillow ready.
02:41I got her a whole closet, you know.
02:43She has a lot of stuff.
02:44Like, I can't even explain how much stuff she has.
02:47I got the bathroom right here, and I put a bunch of shelves for her.
02:51I'm nervous, man.
02:52I'm nervous.
02:53I hope it's up to her standards, you know, because she comes from a very high-end family
02:58and all that, so I'm trying to just, like, you know, making it comfortable enough where
03:02she wants to be here.
03:07The last woman I lived with was my mom.
03:15And so it was different, of course, you know, your mom is your mom.
03:20Three years ago, me and my ex decided mutually to break up on New Year's.
03:25Unfortunately, I caught her with somebody else.
03:28I didn't really have a place to go, so I moved back in with my mom, and a few months later,
03:33my mom got really, really sick.
03:36I had her heart attack.
03:40I spent a good year with my mom before she passed, and she was sick the whole time, and
03:44we didn't know what day she would go.
03:47And so when I lost her, it was a complete devastation.
03:50Like, I felt completely heartbroken and destroyed, and that was very hard.
03:58When I was gone, I'm really, really appreciating every little thing that she did for me.
04:03My mom was everything to me.
04:06Man, like, you know, I was with my ex, and when we broke up, and I saw her with somebody
04:14else, and things like that, I thought that was heartbreak.
04:18I thought, I thought nobody could hurt me worse than that.
04:23But when I lost my mom, when I lost her, then I really realized what heartbreak really was.
04:33Sometimes I feel like I'm a very cold person because, like, I lost a lot of myself.
04:39And it's just, I don't know how to say it, but it makes it hard, makes it very, very hard.
04:53Chloe was my first serious relationship after my mom passed, and with everything that happened
04:58with my ex, of course, it kind of gave me a trauma.
05:01It made things a lot more harder to trust any woman, not only Chloe, but every woman.
05:07At the same time, I love her, and I think I'm ready to open up my heart again and see
05:12where this goes.
05:13I pick her up every time she comes from the airport.
05:18Now she's going to be living with me.
05:19She's going to be moving in with me, so it's like a, it's a different, it's a different
05:22feeling this time.
05:23It's more of a, a more serious commitment.
05:25It's an exciting feeling.
05:26It's a feeling of like, yeah, you know, like, yeah, like, we can do this, you know?
05:30And lately, it's, of course, it's been a lot on ads because she's not here with me.
05:34She can't see what I'm doing, you know?
05:36Even though she has my location and all the access to my camera, it's still very hard
05:40for her.
05:41You know, it's because of my job, and I kind of understand that.
05:44But, you know, this time, I feel like the moment we see each other, we'll appreciate
05:48each other a lot more because we haven't seen each other in a long time, and I know we both
05:52really miss each other a lot.
06:00It's a weird feeling, you know?
06:02It's like an adrenaline feeling almost.
06:04It's kind of like when you're surfing, and you're in the water, and you can feel that
06:07wave coming up to you, and you have to, like, really decide you're going to commit.
06:12Sometimes you're in the barrel, you get out with the pipe, you know, and catch some lip.
06:15It's great.
06:16But sometimes you eat it.
06:20Chloe never lived on her own.
06:22She never had to pay her own rent, her own electricity, her own water.
06:27Like, I don't even think her own phone bill.
06:29And, like, I'm not some rich guy, you know?
06:34Chloe's mom and Chloe has their minds so wrapped up on money, knowing she has a safety net there.
06:41Any day, she could just be like, hey, you know, I'm tired of this.
06:44I want something easier and just go off.
06:46And yeah, it really does scare me.
06:48I know sometimes the worst is best, as pictures fade and show the rest.
07:01But I don't see myself inside this frame.
07:06Hearing a love song in the back of my mind.
07:13This is my friend's place.
07:15I crashed here last night.
07:16It's super close to LAX, so very, very convenient.
07:21Getting real.
07:22The wedding is in just over three weeks.
07:24And I'm moving to Colombia today.
07:28Madelaine, she thinks I'm coming in two days.
07:30But I've changed my flight, so I'm flying out tonight, hoping to surprise her so that we can fix everything.
07:38You know, we haven't seen each other in months.
07:40And we've been fighting because of money challenges, and she blocked me.
07:45Made a big ordeal about it.
07:47I don't like the fact that she's doing that, you know, three weeks before we're supposed to get married.
07:52So I just want to get down there.
07:54How you doing there, boy?
07:58How's it going?
07:59You all set?
08:00All set.
08:01You taking all that?
08:02It'll fit in the back, yeah?
08:04In the back seat?
08:05Yeah, it should be.
08:06Yeah, it should be good.
08:08I feel like my move to Colombia is me taking one of the biggest risks in my life.
08:16I'm in debt because my investments haven't paid off, and I'm quitting my job.
08:23The distance has been really hard for Madeleine, and she's given me ultimatum where now I really
08:29need to move to Colombia.
08:31And because of that, I'm sitting in a position where I feel stressed out financially because
08:37I may not be able to provide the lifestyle that Madeleine has grown accustomed to.
08:42And I do worry that she'll leave me if all my investments go to ****.
08:48I can't believe it.
08:49That's all I'm coming, boy.
08:50I know.
08:59I was Madeleine to die, boy.
09:01I mean, I think we're both stressed.
09:03I mean, the wedding planner came out with some more costs that we didn't expect.
09:08We're arguing about the finances, and then now she's saying, oh, well, I don't want
09:12to get married unless you put the property in both of our names.
09:15And she blocked me.
09:18Ouch.
09:19Right.
09:20I am planning to buy a property and build a boutique hotel.
09:25Madeleine and I are going to be equal partners in this new business, but I would prefer that
09:31my name is the only name on the property title.
09:35The reason I want everything in my name is because if it doesn't work out, then I have
09:39something to fall back on.
09:40I'm leaving a really good job.
09:42I'm leaving my life and my family.
09:43You're leaving everything.
09:44But she wants it in both of our names because all her other friends, boyfriends, have infidelity
09:51issues.
09:52She thinks that I'm going to leave her for another girl, and what is she going to have?
09:57Yeah.
09:58But you're giving up family, friends, job.
10:01You've got to stand your ground, otherwise you'll mincemeat already.
10:04Right.
10:05I'll have to send you a pair of nuts for Christmas.
10:10I don't want to lose her.
10:13And on top of all of that that's, you know, kind of stressing me out, I went over to David's
10:18the other day and they had a stripper come over.
10:22It was a bachelor party.
10:23Yeah.
10:24And it was the one thing Madeleine didn't want me to do.
10:27I guess she found out.
10:28Oh, she'll go crazy.
10:30You know what?
10:31It's a partnership.
10:33You can't hold lies and tell little white lies.
10:36You've got to be honest for it to survive.
10:40The worst case scenario for this move is that Madeleine would call off the wedding and I
10:45lose out on the property, my dream, and everything that I've ever worked for.
10:50I don't know how I would get out of that hole, both relationship wise and financially.
10:57Everything's on the line for me.
11:03Good.
11:04We need equipment for the cafe.
11:08So I called my friend Rohit.
11:09Don't mind the garbage.
11:11Trash all over the floor, dust everywhere.
11:15Look like a junk room.
11:17Can we not stand in here?
11:18It's really gross to me.
11:20For you Americans, everything is gross.
11:24Let's go, let's go.
11:26I just really wanted to feel like it's a new beginning.
11:29But right now it feels like we are bringing a lot more baggage than the 10 freaking liggages
11:34we have.
11:36We have to go, let's go.
11:37Let's go.
11:38Let's go.
11:39Let's go.
11:40Let's go.
11:41Let's go.
11:42Let's go.
11:43Let's go.
11:44Let's go.
11:45Let's go.
11:46On our way to the airport, Anthony said to my face that he feels that he is the solo parent.
12:03And honestly, that's just like a tiger in my heart.
12:07Whenever we have a fight, Anthony, he's just like, okay, great.
12:10We had a little argument.
12:11Okay.
12:12I apologize.
12:13It's done.
12:14We good.
12:15I'm completely different.
12:16It's actually something that still hurts to me.
12:18I'm going to keep it in my heart.
12:19It's going to hurt.
12:20And I'm not going to forget.
12:22I just don't want to keep fighting before that longest flight and before what we have ahead
12:28of us.
12:29One step at a time.
12:33Yeah.
12:34It's happening.
12:35I'm excited.
12:36I didn't want to hurt Manon's feelings, but it's the truth.
12:41And it's not something I wanted to keep holding on to because she's already harping about money
12:48and finances and I'm worried that the same issues are going to be moving with us to France.
12:57Don't step into the silence.
13:04Leaving LA is just bringing a lot of emotions because LA is not my home anymore.
13:11I wish that he was a little bit more compassionate.
13:14I just really wanted to feel like it's a new beginning for us.
13:17But right now, it really feels like we are bringing back a lot more baggage than the 10 freaking luggages we have.
13:23Oh, no.
13:24I'm going to open the door up and you've got to park like this.
13:42We have to start figuring out what are our most important things that we need to get
13:59now to put in there and get it going.
14:03Let's see what he's offering.
14:06He's a friend.
14:07So he might expecting me to buy all his stuff.
14:12We need equipment for the cafe.
14:14So I called my friend Rohit.
14:16I used to work in his delivery kitchen, which he closed six months ago.
14:21So I know he is trying to sell his used kitchen equipment.
14:25He blamed you for that a lot.
14:29Why is it my fault?
14:31He always called you, my boss, that, oh, you need your boss permission.
14:36If you are coming to work here, you have to give all the time you have.
14:40I'm not sure about that.
14:42Seven days a week is going to be a big change for Jenny, too.
14:45Everything is happening like what Jenny wants.
14:48What Sumit wants, I also want to know.
14:50He's just jealous because he's still not married.
14:53And he's like, what, is he like 30-something years old?
14:57Rohit has opened so many different businesses.
15:01None of them work.
15:03He gives up on them.
15:05Look at what happened with him and Sumit.
15:08All of a sudden, Rohit decides, oh, I'm going to shut this business down.
15:14Left Sumit out of a job, and now we can't afford our apartment.
15:20I was upset because it's a big setback, but me and him are friends since a long time.
15:30Rohit?
15:31Rohit.
15:32And I think because of the good friendship we are having that I expect that he's going to give me a good deal.
15:38Hello.
15:39How are you?
15:40Hi, Jenny.
15:41How are you?
15:42How are you?
15:43How are you?
15:44How are you?
15:45Do you remember me?
15:46No, no, I don't remember you now.
15:47Good.
15:48It's been a long time.
15:49One or two years.
15:50When me and Sumit started the business, it was running good.
15:54Then I asked him to run the business on his own, and I will look after on my other businesses.
15:59Then after one or two months, I don't know what happened, he started losing the grip.
16:04He only used to open a restaurant for two, three hours.
16:07And whenever I asked him why you are not coming, he used to say, Jenny won't allow me.
16:11Jenny is not allowing me.
16:12We started losing money.
16:16Don't mind the garbage.
16:18How can I not mind it?
16:20It's everywhere.
16:21There's no mice in here, is there?
16:23This one is gas, where you will cook food.
16:27Everything will be cooked on this thing.
16:29And this one is deep fryer.
16:31Grailer I have, mixer I have.
16:33All this stuff looks too big for our cafe.
16:36You have to make a space.
16:38Without this, you cannot start a business.
16:40Why are you keeping all this like this, man?
16:42Because I am selling it off.
16:44It's better, you should give it to me.
16:47Are you thinking that you will get it for free right now?
16:54Can we not stand in here?
16:55It's really gross to me.
16:57Can we talk outside?
16:58For you Americans, everything is gross.
17:00Yes, we can go.
17:02Seriously, it looks like a bomb went off in here.
17:06Trash all over the floor.
17:08Everything, dust everywhere, dirty.
17:11That's all the stuff of his ex-businesses.
17:15Whatever he failed with, he could bring the stuff and throw it in there.
17:19It looked like a junk room.
17:21It looked like a junk space.
17:22So, what kind of stuff do you want?
17:26I want griller.
17:28I want deep fryer.
17:30We are doing mostly finger food, like sandwiches.
17:34We have french fries, burgers.
17:36Coffee.
17:37Who will be your chef?
17:38She can cook.
17:39She can cook, you know, spaghetti.
17:41Yeah, I can make spaghetti.
17:42I have been to your house, okay?
17:44It was very good spaghetti.
17:48Why is that funny?
17:50Nothing is funny.
17:52Well, your business was so good, it shut down, right?
17:58Okay.
18:02You can start a business without a chef.
18:04You both are good chefs.
18:06Yeah, we are.
18:07You can run.
18:08I know that you are not running the business, so that's why I thought like I worked for you for so long, now you're gonna give me something.
18:14No.
18:15Not for free.
18:16Like, I'm not asking you for free.
18:17I'm asking you on credit.
18:23It's not possible.
18:24I will not give on credit.
18:25Why are you not gonna give?
18:26I don't know whether you will run the business good or not.
18:31It looks a little jealous to me that I was working for him and now I'm gonna open my own place.
18:37And that's why he don't wanna like see me successful in the same business where he is losing.
18:43I was hoping just because of our friendship, he will try his best to make things work out for me.
18:49But I think jealousy is not letting him do that.
18:55I will give you a discount as it is second hand now.
18:5835,000.
19:00Let's lock the deal for 40,000.
19:02You don't want to help me?
19:04I am helping you right now.
19:06Why I called you here then?
19:08I'm saying that within two months, I'll give you money back.
19:11Let's make a deal for 35,000 as you are starting new business.
19:15I will not put pressure on you.
19:1735,000 and first month is free.
19:19From second month, you have to pay my money back.
19:22Yeah, I'll give you.
19:23Okay.
19:24Sounds good.
19:28I don't think that they have any clue what they are getting into.
19:31Because running a restaurant here in India, it's very difficult.
19:35Like whole family is working.
19:37And when a lot of people are there, there will be a clash.
19:41If they start fighting, then I don't know what will gonna happen.
19:44I don't know.
19:46Okay.
19:47Nail done?
19:48Nail done.
19:49Okay.
19:50Nail done.
19:51Thank you, sir.
19:52When I'm around you and Hazel, it's not even like I'm a third wheel.
20:00It's like you two are a bicycle and I'm just spectating.
20:03Matthew thinks that I love Hazel more than him.
20:07And that's true.
20:10Oh, look who it is, dude.
20:11It's mommy and papi.
20:12I feel very optimistic being here.
20:13Like it is the start of a new chapter for us.
20:17Papa, you're a father.
20:18No, he's a lot.
20:19No!
20:20He's a lot.
20:21No!
20:23He's a little bit, no!
20:24I'm so happy!
20:25No!
20:26No!
20:27No!
20:28No!
20:29Please!
20:30No!
20:32No!
20:33No!
20:34No!
20:35No!
20:36No!
20:37No!
20:39No!
20:40No!
20:41No!
20:42No!
20:43No!
20:44No!
20:45Hi, honey. How are you doing?
20:51Hey, darling. Yeah, I'm pretty well, but a little bit stressed.
20:55I've got you moving over in a few days.
20:58I'm so stressed it's even brought a massive pimple out of my nose.
21:01Holy s***. That's huge.
21:05Don't worry, honey. I'll still hug you and make love to you
21:09even if you have a giant spot on your face.
21:10You'll still love me. You'll still love me.
21:12Okay. That's reassuring. Good to know.
21:15Yeah. Are you looking at apartments for us?
21:21Whoa.
21:26I might still have to do that.
21:31Oh.
21:32I've been very busy. Come on. You know that.
21:36Yeah. I mean, you just know that you live with your parents
21:40and their house is really small.
21:42I think the world is cozy.
21:44I thought Matthew would have an apartment locked down for us
21:50by the time I arrived in England,
21:51so we wouldn't be stuck at his parents' house for a long time.
21:55They've always been very welcoming to me
21:57whenever I've stayed with them in the past,
21:59but I always feel like I'm in their way.
22:02Plus, they live in this little remote village.
22:04Like, it takes an hour to walk to the store.
22:07So, when Matthew's at work, I'm going to feel like I'm stranded.
22:11Do your parents have space in the fridge for our food?
22:16I can show you something.
22:18One slight snag for the food arrangements
22:21is probably this freezer.
22:23Oh, my God.
22:27What is that?
22:29This is an entire lamb ribcage.
22:33And there's, like, a sort of in it.
22:38Oh, God.
22:39That's gross.
22:40My dad, when I was growing up, was a butcher.
22:46So, you open the freezer,
22:48and there you are.
22:49There's a morgue right in front of you.
22:51But when I was at university,
22:52I decided that I loved animals too much,
22:55and I've been vegan for about eight years.
22:58My family respect that,
22:59although they do still eat a lot of meat.
23:02That's just par for the course of country living.
23:05That was Hazel.
23:07Aw.
23:08She was meow-screaming at me all day today.
23:13But tomorrow is when her new owners come.
23:19It'll be the worst day of my life.
23:21You always have apple here.
23:24Apple is not Hazel, honey.
23:27I'll go get it.
23:31Hi, baby apple.
23:33Hi, baby.
23:35That's your mummy,
23:36even though she doesn't want you.
23:38That's your mummy.
23:39That's not true.
23:41He's just not Hazel.
23:46I feel emotionally connected to Hazel,
23:49and she's extremely emotionally connected to me,
23:52and we can't help that.
23:54When I'm around you and Hazel,
23:56it's not even like I'm a third wheel.
23:59It's like you two are a bicycle,
24:00and I'm just spectating.
24:02The love triangle,
24:03that's a straight line between you and Hazel.
24:06Matthew thinks that I love Hazel more than him,
24:10and that's true,
24:13but I don't know what to do about that.
24:16I don't want to make him feel bad
24:18or make him think that I don't love him,
24:20because I do.
24:21It's just that Hazel and I
24:23have spent so much more time together,
24:25and it's going to be a huge adjustment
24:27for both me and Hazel when I move.
24:30Honey, I'm very emotional
24:33about having to leave Hazel in the States,
24:35and this conversation is not helping.
24:40Are there any ways I can put you at ease?
24:43I think I will be more at ease
24:46once we are together in the same place.
24:49I'm about to change my whole life,
24:51because Matthew's a connection I've been waiting for.
24:55I'm doing the best I can to be excited,
24:58but I'm not going to sugarcoat
25:00what a sacrifice it is to leave my baby behind.
25:06It's not going to be easy,
25:08but I'm 100% confident
25:10that we'll get through it together.
25:11Oh, there's a place right here, boy.
25:27Oh, yeah.
25:32What are you doing, sir?
25:33Yeah, no problem, boy.
25:41I can't believe you're leaving your home country.
25:44I don't think it's hit me yet.
25:46No.
25:46I think it's more like when I get on the plane.
25:50I'll probably cry like a baby driving home.
25:55Yeah, no.
25:56It's a huge step,
25:57but it reminds me of
25:58when I left England and go to South Africa.
26:01Same thing.
26:02Huge.
26:03Leaving your family is so hard.
26:07Where?
26:08It ain't like we're a stone's throw away.
26:11It upsets me to think
26:13that Luke is leaving us.
26:15I'm going to miss his company.
26:18They grow up and they move out,
26:20but it's tough to deal with,
26:22you know,
26:22because he'll always be my little kid.
26:25I feel like the stakes are so high.
26:27Just please God,
26:28you're doing the right thing.
26:32He's scared.
26:33It'll be absolutely heartbreaking
26:35for all of us if it fails.
26:38And it is tough
26:38saying goodbye to him,
26:40but it would have been a lot tougher
26:42if we weren't going down
26:45to the wedding in two weeks from now.
26:47I know you're struggling
26:48with money and that,
26:50so I've just got you a little...
26:52that'll help with paying
26:54some of your bills
26:55that you're going to be going to.
26:57Yeah, thank you, Dad.
26:57And I sincerely hope
26:58that all your dreams come true.
27:01I've got a heavy heart right now.
27:06I really do, boy.
27:08I love you so much.
27:16You're the best, Dad.
27:17I love you so much.
27:22My dad giving me $3,000,
27:24he didn't have to do that,
27:25but I appreciate it so much.
27:27I mean, every little bit counts.
27:31I have a really good dad.
27:33Still can't believe it, though.
27:36It sucks.
27:38I know.
27:40Take care.
27:42Keep that check safe.
27:47I'll freeze you in your place.
27:50Keep that image for all days.
27:54I'll be bored.
28:05It's surreal.
28:06I don't think it's really hit me.
28:08I'm scared.
28:09I have a little bit of doubt.
28:11I'm happy at the same time.
28:14Can't wait to see my girl.
28:16Can't wait to start a new life.
28:18Do you have room in the front, bro?
28:20Could you hold my suit?
28:22I'm getting married, Doc.
28:24Holy s***.
28:26What am I getting into?
28:27Appreciate it.
28:29Bye.
28:29While I'm psyched to finally live every day
28:34with a woman that I love,
28:35I can't help but feel like I'm jumping out of a plane
28:3815,000 feet in the air without a parachute.
28:41And I'm scared of heights.
28:42Don't stray too far.
28:47Keep home inside.
28:50Good Mary.
28:52How crazy is that?
28:54Come on your side.
28:55Together we will make it through, I swear.
28:59Let's go, man.
28:59I'm so happy Chloe's back in Aruba,
29:08but I don't know if she's ready for this.
29:10Watch out for the cone.
29:11All right, you're tired.
29:12F***.
29:13We just need more closet space.
29:18Did you get hot water?
29:19All right, I made it.
29:39I'm so excited.
29:39I can feel the warmth.
29:41I took off my layers.
29:44Because I was dying on that plane.
29:45It was literally 9,000 degrees.
29:48And I can't wait.
29:49And now I have to go get my bag.
29:50Hopefully I don't lose it.
29:51Because I'll cry.
29:54I just arrived in Aranyastad.
29:56No, I can't say it.
29:58I just...
30:00Aranyastad Aruba.
30:02And this time I have like a one-way ticket.
30:05Like I just am here and that's it.
30:08So I feel...
30:09I wouldn't say like anxious,
30:11but I think like equivalent to cheerleading.
30:14When like my coach would be yelling at me
30:16and then she'd be like,
30:17okay, time to go on stage.
30:18And that feeling of like,
30:20oh crap.
30:21Like I'm here.
30:22I have to go.
30:23It's literally, it's like the same.
30:27Let's go.
30:35Chloe.
30:42Chloe.
30:42Chloe.
30:49Hi.
30:51How are you?
30:52Chloe, how are you?
30:53How are you?
30:57Hi.
30:58Can you have all my taps to go over you?
31:00Mm-hmm.
31:01Am I pale?
31:02No.
31:05We did it.
31:07Well, I did it.
31:08No, I'll take one.
31:09I'll take both.
31:10I don't care.
31:10Just hold your flowers.
31:16Are you excited?
31:17Came back.
31:17Yeah.
31:18You think I wasn't going to come back?
31:20I don't know.
31:20Sometimes you argue with me
31:21and you tell me when.
31:22Ah, here we go.
31:25Love you too.
31:25I love you too.
31:29Oh my God.
31:30What's wrong with the cone?
31:32I'm sorry.
31:32Collision.
31:33Collision with the cone.
31:34I feel like my first step,
31:36I need a shower so bad.
31:38I feel just like a mess.
31:41And I'm starving.
31:42And then I'll go to bed.
31:44Don't wake me up.
31:45Maybe.
31:46I'll come at you.
31:47Yeah?
31:48I'll come at you too.
31:50Jonathan!
31:51Oh my God!
31:52It feels good to be back.
31:59Yeah.
32:00It feels good to be back.
32:01It feels good to be back with me.
32:04I would literally never come here
32:05if you weren't here.
32:06Oh.
32:07It makes me feel special.
32:08I'm so happy Chloe's back in Aruba
32:23and that she's finally moving into my house.
32:25But I'm very, very worried
32:27because, you know,
32:29I don't know if she's ready for this.
32:32Every time Chloe came to Aruba,
32:33she was always in a vacation rental.
32:35And now that she's going to live with me
32:37and my home,
32:38I'm going to see, like,
32:40hey,
32:41are you in this?
32:43Are you ready for something real?
32:45You remodeled the place.
32:50Yeah, right.
32:51You ready to unpack a little bit?
32:53It's like a tomorrow thing.
32:55You want to do it tomorrow?
32:56I'm so tired.
32:58I need to find my other silk pillowcase
32:59because I know I had another one.
33:03I didn't even know silk pillowcases
33:05really existed before I met you.
33:08You don't get wrinkles.
33:09I'm going to use a silk pillowcase,
33:11like, right here.
33:12Hmm?
33:12No.
33:13Okay.
33:14And then the Botox helps.
33:16Wow.
33:18I mean, it is what it is.
33:22Honestly,
33:23we just need more closet space.
33:27We need...
33:28Did you get hot water?
33:31Oh, I have to still install that.
33:35We need hot water.
33:37Most people don't have hot water in Aruba
33:39because, you know,
33:40it's more of a...
33:41It's an expensive thing.
33:42In Aruba, it never gets that cold.
33:44I'll actually pay for the water bill
33:45if we get hot water.
33:47I will pay for it.
33:49I will.
33:50It's like...
33:50It's a lot, though.
33:52Imagine if it becomes, like, $100.
33:56Like, the most I'll pay is...
33:57I'll pay the $100.
33:58I'll pay the $100.
33:59Oh, you'll get that out of here.
34:00No, I'll pay the $100.
34:01I'll pay the $100.
34:04In the States, when it's winter,
34:05hey, you need hot water.
34:07But here in Aruba,
34:08there's never any snow, ever.
34:10No winter.
34:11The coldest it gets is, like, 75.
34:14Maybe if it's raining and storming
34:16and the winds are blowing.
34:17So the water is never, never cold.
34:19Somebody go to bed.
34:20Let's go to bed.
34:23What scares me is that Chloe is spoiled.
34:27Chloe is spoiled.
34:28Like, she's so used to this luxury lifestyle,
34:31and I'm kind of worried that, you know,
34:33when she lives with me,
34:33she kind of realized, like,
34:35oh, this is much more simpler.
34:38Time to shower?
34:39I'm gonna shower.
34:40I'm gonna take it to shower.
34:42I don't know if she's gonna be satisfied
34:44with that, you know?
34:46Makes me think, like,
34:47hey, is she really ready for this?
34:49Watch the limbs.
34:51Watch all the limbs, right?
34:55After 10 years, I'm coming.
34:57Here you go.
34:59I cannot be like,
35:00yeah, Marseille, I love it so much.
35:02No, I don't.
35:03I promise I'll come back.
35:05That's all.
35:06But you're going to be with me, I'm coming.
35:07I'm going to be with you.
35:07I'm going to be with you.
35:09No, no.
35:12Yeah.
35:16Oh.
35:19No, no, no, no, no, no,
35:21I have friends who are pleased.
35:23No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
35:25I have friends who are pleased.
35:27Is this two?
35:28Three?
35:30I don't see four.
35:32After a total of 17 hours
35:35with two flights
35:36and an extended layover,
35:38we finally landed in Marseille.
35:40There you go.
35:43Choo-choo.
35:45Minona and I got into a big argument
35:47on the way to the airport,
35:48and I feel like she is a little bit distant,
35:52but I feel very optimistic being here.
35:56Like, it is the start of a new chapter for us.
35:58Oh, look who it is.
36:02Dude, it's mommy and papi.
36:10Bonjour les maris.
36:11De la petite tour.
36:14Coco.
36:14Hello, how are you doing it?
36:20My beauty.
36:22My beauty.
36:23How are you?
36:23How are you?
36:24How are you?
36:25Yes, I'm fine.
36:25How are you doing it?
36:27Oh, my baby.
36:28Hey, you go.
36:28How are you doing it?
36:29How are you doing it?
36:30How are you doing it?
36:31How are you doing it?
36:32How are you doing it?
36:33How are you doing it?
36:33It's not too hard.
36:34Benji, it's mommy.
36:36It's mommy Sabrina and papi Loulou.
36:39Coco.
36:39Coco.
36:40Do you remember?
36:40Coco.
36:41Coco.
36:41What's he doing it?
36:42What's he doing it?
36:43What's he doing it?
36:44What's he doing it?
36:45What's he doing it?
36:46What's he doing it?
36:46It feels bittersweet, okay?
36:48I cannot be completely ecstatic.
36:52I cannot be like, yeah, Marseille.
36:54I love it so much.
36:55No, I don't.
36:57I'm sorry.
36:58Hey, you're at the house.
36:59Mon petit Marseillais.
37:01But seeing my mom and my dad, seeing Ben
37:05that they haven't seen in forever,
37:06they only seen Ben once, made me kind of like
37:10forget a little bit where I was.
37:12He's shy.
37:12He's a little bit mild.
37:13He's shy, he's timid.
37:20He's timid.
37:21I'm actually home.
37:24It fills my heart with a lot of joy.
37:26In Los Angeles, for nine years?
37:28And Manon, they come back to Marseille.
37:30Marseille, he reminded me.
37:34He's not going back.
37:36He's not going back.
37:38You're going to be with us.
37:39I promised you never come back.
37:41You're going to be with us, Siri.
37:43I thought I was going to be with you.
37:45But no, but no, but no.
37:47It's so hard.
37:48You're a family.
37:49You're a family, man.
37:50Yes, of course.
37:51Yes, of course, of course.
37:54I'm happy.
37:55My wife is here.
37:56I'm happy.
37:57My son, my son, my son, my son, my son.
37:59My family.
38:00We're going to meet.
38:01It's great.
38:02We're going to return all.
38:04It's not.
38:05It's not.
38:06She told us that she won't come back after nine years.
38:09She can always change her opinion, return to the USA or elsewhere.
38:16I don't know.
38:17We'll support her what she decides to do, both of them.
38:20Come on, Benny.
38:22We're going to make you discover your country, France.
38:26We land in France, and immediately, Menon's like, oh, here we are back in France.
38:31Said I'd never come back.
38:33It's been a really rocky road to get to this moment, and we need to try to make this work.
38:38I think time will really tell whether or not she's going to want to stick it out here.
38:43So, I'm just a little worried about that.
38:50Continue.
38:52Oh, nice.
38:54No, I think it's.
38:56It's 10 years of my life, okay?
38:58It's 10 valises for 10 years.
39:02When I am around my family, I feel easily triggered because I feel like I'm the Manon 1.0.
39:09From when she was a teenager back home in France.
39:13C'est parti la famille.
39:16In French, we said, tu dois rentrer dans la moule.
39:19You have to fit the mold.
39:21My biggest fear is that it took me 10 years to really found who I am and really be happy
39:28with myself, and now I feel I'm regressing 20 steps backwards.
39:33What about the core person that I am?
39:37Like, am I going to actually lose myself again?
39:41Because I have to fit everybody else's idea of what I should be.
39:46So, I don't know what the f*** am I going to do.
39:50Next time on 90 Day Fiancee, the other way.
39:57I need to at least eat first.
40:00Can you think you can manage making boy legs?
40:03No, I don't like the noise.
40:04Don, I'm afraid.
40:05I'm scared so much.
40:08Come in, come in.
40:09Please help me.
40:10Now we're living together, and I can't have her have this vacation mode all the time.
40:15Oh!
40:16Yeah!
40:17Thank you for all the smiles and laughs.
40:21Saying goodbye to Hazel, it's like my heart is being ripped from my chest.
40:26Bye, Hazel.
40:28Now that I'm leaving for the UK, I'm going from living alone with my cat to living with
40:33my fiancé and his parents.
40:40I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in with Manon's parents.
40:44But the house is a boîte à sardines.
40:49Oh my God, c'est petit!
40:52I could not sleep because I feel I'm never good enough.
40:55I'm here in France to save America.
40:57I have a lot to work on, and she has a lot to work on.
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