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Belle Collective - Season 6 Episode 2 -
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07:29We have planted the seeds, and we are reaping the harvest.
07:34With that being said, it'll be great for me to retire.
07:38You know, I've been an entrepreneur for 25 years.
07:41I've put in a lot of work into building the Hamilton Davis brand,
07:45and there's pretty much nothing else I can do when it comes to health care.
07:51I've put in the work, and I feel like it's time for me to retire.
07:54No, you cannot retire right now.
07:57Give me another year.
07:58You said that last year.
08:00Yeah, give me another year.
08:01So we can't hire another executive director to do what I do.
08:05No.
08:06Nobody's going to do it like you do.
08:08So 12 more months.
08:0912 more months.
08:11And I say, okay, Ri, you can go.
08:12I'm sorry, I can't do it.
08:14If you stop trying to juggle all these men, you will have time to do it.
08:21Yes.
08:22No the didn't say that.
08:24Yes.
08:25And see, with the mess, she never stops.
08:28Like, I'm living my life.
08:30Difference between me and others is I'm being up front with what I'm doing.
08:36The party, I thought would be a disaster when I saw Martin walking in.
08:40And if Martin had been a different person, or Sid had been a different person, it would have been some stuff thrown, some furniture moved.
08:49And then, Hesla, you out here dancing with both of them just like.
08:53And I was shooting some rolling with both of them.
08:56And I was like, oh my God.
08:57Oh my God.
08:58Look at that.
08:59Hi.
08:59I'm like, what?
09:00She's not going.
09:01I'm like, yeah.
09:01I'm that bitch.
09:05I'm like, oh my God.
09:07Even though the party was fun, I'm conflicted.
09:13Honestly, it's a lot for me to process because, like, you know, I love Cedric.
09:18Mm-hmm.
09:18And, you know, I like Martin.
09:22People think that Martin is a fly-by-night, oh, I'm just doing something to pass time.
09:27But actually, I have grown to care about Martin.
09:30I do.
09:32That man had me on the back of that jet ski, ride me from one side of the ocean.
09:38So then I would not have never did anything like that ever.
09:44Yeah.
09:45So, you know, he just...
09:46He just brought something different.
09:47He brought something different into my life and just showed me a different way of life,
09:51a different culture.
09:52And I like that.
09:54Mm-hmm.
09:54You know, I really enjoyed him.
09:56So I'm wrestling.
09:58I have not heard a word from Martin for two weeks since he's been out of town.
10:02And now I'm at a crossroads as to, you know, how am I going to proceed with him in my life?
10:11I do love Cedric.
10:12I do.
10:14But then on the other hand, you know, I was having fun.
10:17You need to get your stuff together, baby, because you got too much going on.
10:21My heart is leading in a certain direction, but I need to have a conversation with Martin.
10:27I need clarity at this point.
10:31Now, I need to know who to root for.
10:33Who are you?
10:33Both of them.
10:37Coming up on Bell Collective.
10:39Communication is key.
10:40Sometimes you be moving like you my boyfriend, not my fiance.
10:44The way you got me is the way you need to keep me.
10:47I have not heard from you.
10:49I have not seen your butt.
10:51Like, my friend seems like she a little distance.
10:53I've been in my feelings.
10:55I ain't gonna lie.
10:59You know, I really like you.
11:03I'm so sorry.
11:04Go ahead, pop another bottle.
11:07Why?
11:08Because I'm stepping on the scene.
11:10Oh.
11:11And we about to celebrate.
11:13Yeah.
11:13We about to celebrate me.
11:16Yeah.
11:16Why you tripping all the time?
11:18I be tripping all the time.
11:19I be getting to the paper.
11:21You know I'm against mine.
11:22I be putting in that work.
11:24Yeah.
11:25Baby, I'ma make it work.
11:27Yeah.
11:27Ri, what you cooking in there?
11:33It's a surprise.
11:36Stay tuned.
11:37All right.
11:38You're going to love it.
11:40Mm-hmm.
11:41Mm-hmm.
11:43Say it.
11:43Yo.
11:44What do you think about my birthday party?
11:47It was lit.
11:47It was nice.
11:48It was nice?
11:49I'm glad you came.
11:51Oh, yeah.
11:52Had to.
11:54Look, I'm still torn between Cedric
11:57and Martin, but had a date night with Cedric,
12:00and one thing led to another, and here I am.
12:04Did you enjoy yourself at your birthday party?
12:07I did.
12:08I enjoyed myself.
12:10You know, I felt, at first, uncomfortable a little bit.
12:16Why were you uncomfortable?
12:18You know, you were there.
12:19I had you there, and then my friend showed up.
12:23Well, I told them, you know, my name.
12:28I told them that we have a daughter to go.
12:30Marie and I have a 12-year-old daughter.
12:32Yes.
12:32And then I've been married before.
12:35Yes.
12:36We had two children, so.
12:37Oh, okay.
12:38So that's 17 and 19.
12:39Oh, that's great.
12:40Yeah.
12:41Oh, okay.
12:42But it felt awkward, though.
12:44Here you are dancing with this guy,
12:47and you trying to dance with me, too.
12:49Come on.
12:53It's my birthday.
12:55It's my birthday.
12:56I felt like a sucker.
12:58I just felt unsettled.
13:01I was unsettled, too, because you know what?
13:02Think about this.
13:03Just like I said, I feel uncomfortable having you there
13:06and having my friend there.
13:08And I don't ever want to be in that position ever again.
13:12The reason why I think that I'm right for Marie
13:15is because I got unconditional love in my heart.
13:18Why?
13:19Because we got so much of history together.
13:21We got a whole baby together.
13:23We done built our family around each other.
13:25You know, we're taking the one day at a time, Marie.
13:29But that moment made me feel like maybe
13:33this is not right now for us.
13:37I get it.
13:37I get it.
13:38But, like, just bear with me.
13:43I'm working through it.
13:44Yeah.
13:45I'm here with you.
13:46Yeah, that's true.
13:48Okay, I could have been over there with him in his bed.
13:50I'm here with you.
13:53Marie, in terms of that guy, your friend and everything,
13:58you know, what I do want you to know is that
14:01it'll mean the world to me for you to just be happy.
14:04Mm-hmm.
14:06I'm going to wait until you communicate with me
14:10that you are settled.
14:11All right.
14:13I like Martin.
14:14I really like him.
14:15He's a great person.
14:17But I love Cedric.
14:19It's complicated.
14:22I have had so much on my plate.
14:36I have had so much on my plate.
14:50I have been one busy mama.
14:53My daughter Sky has a baby on the way.
14:55Then also, I want to do the all-white event
14:58in honor of my son, Quincy Johnson.
15:01I'm trying to see if it's the right spot for my event.
15:04This is like my baby.
15:06Right.
15:06You know, this is memories of my son.
15:09The last thing I need to deal with
15:10is these communication problems I have with Mike
15:12because it has gotten worse.
15:15And right now, Mike is getting the solid treatment.
15:18So I guess you can say,
15:19I'm having communication issues now.
15:21Look, I'm going to pop a level on my jeans,
15:25but these one-on-ones
15:26Rock them like I'm getting real design
15:28and got it out of the mud.
15:29What the hell wrong with you?
15:54When you was out of town,
15:56you didn't answer that phone.
15:58That's one thing.
15:59Communication is key
16:01with any type of relationship.
16:04Sometimes you don't act like you know it.
16:05You be moving like you my boyfriend,
16:08not my fiance.
16:09How? What move when?
16:10Oh, you talking about
16:11when I be going to do stuff?
16:12Yes, you're supposed to tell me that.
16:17I don't know what changed,
16:19but he used to tell me everything,
16:22and I think he's probably
16:23getting a little comfortable.
16:25And I'm like, baby, no, don't get comfortable.
16:28The way you got me
16:29is the way you need to keep me.
16:31It can be so easy, so simple.
16:34I mean, you can be so easy, too,
16:35if you be talking and don't walk off.
16:37Now, Michael, when I'm talking,
16:39you be walking off.
16:40So we really need to meet the Pearsons.
16:44They don't have been through hell and back.
16:46So they're the right couple to talk to.
16:49Next week, Latisha is setting up an outing
16:52for Mike and I to help us
16:54with our communication problems.
16:56I feel like it's going to help.
16:57I mean, it can't do any worse.
17:03Coming up on Bell Collective.
17:06Well, wait a minute now.
17:07Since all y'all up in my business,
17:09let's play a game, true or false.
17:11Oh, we can tell me that you all
17:12experience infidelity in your marriage.
17:15They all up in my business.
17:18Want to know, you know, about Martin and Cedric.
17:20Okay, I said, well, let's play a game.
17:22I want to know what's t-ing.
17:23Oh, it's so pretty.
17:47How are you doing?
17:48I'm so excited.
17:52Yes, yes, yes.
17:54Thank you.
17:55Today, we are at my re-launch social
17:58of Women Brunch Mississippi,
18:00the platform for female entrepreneurs to network.
18:03So my brunches are more than an expensive hobby.
18:06My brunches allow women to really come together
18:09and collaborate and be successful.
18:11And we're here to celebrate
18:13and to announce my statewide tour.
18:18Oh, I'm sorry.
18:19I get so passionate talking about my brunches.
18:21I know that little flip, that little hair flip.
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22:14I have nothing bad to say about Kira, honey.
22:16Kira is very dramatic, very talkative,
22:20but I absolutely love her.
22:22Anything extra to me is always welcome.
22:25Listen, I heard about the event last week,
22:29so how did it go?
22:30It was a mess a whole lot, honey.
22:32Come on, y'all, let's open up.
22:34Okay.
22:36You're looking good, honey.
22:38Oh, my God!
22:39Why are you late?
22:44This why you wanted to come in fashionably late?
22:46You were on a whole spaceship navigating.
22:49You got, look, you got all your space off it now.
22:52Let me tell you something.
22:54Marie comes in late 8 a.m.
22:57You will never see me doing that to one of my girlfriends.
23:00Never, ever.
23:02Babe, I can see the natural BBL in this.
23:04I can see the natural BBL in this.
23:06I can see the natural BBL.
23:07That's right, girl, she can have it.
23:09This is cornbread thing.
23:11Yeah, cornbread, y'all.
23:14I was literally just talking about you.
23:16What's going on?
23:17I missed your birthday, so I wanted to know, like,
23:20what happened to you?
23:20Who missed you?
23:21I know.
23:22I know you'll have to tell me that.
23:23Look, Marie, they keep talking about BBL, honey.
23:25It's BBM.
23:26It was bad bitch Marie that night, honey.
23:29It's your birthday.
23:31She busy.
23:32Look, ladies, I'm a single woman.
23:39I'm a single lady.
23:40You single, because I was confused.
23:42But wait a minute now.
23:43Since all y'all up in my business, let's play a game, true or false?
23:47True or false?
23:47How many of you all experience infidelity in your marriage?
23:50You know, the BBLs, they all up in my business wanting to know,
23:56you know, about Martin and Cedric and Marie,
23:58this and you this and you that.
24:00Okay, I said, well, let's play a game, true or false.
24:02Have any of y'all ever experienced infidelity
24:04in your relationship or your marriage?
24:06I want to know what's T.
24:10Coming up on BELL Collective.
24:12When I walked through the door, I didn't hear you,
24:14but a little bug got dropped in my ear.
24:15You were trying to shake the hell out of me.
24:17Let me make a little joke.
24:18Yes, it's giving everything that it's
24:20supposed to give, this not.
24:22It got to go.
24:22Well, I am working.
24:23Bye-bye.
24:24Bye, mama.
24:33How many of you all experience infidelity in your marriages?
24:37These are all up in my teeth.
24:39We can't help but be in your teeth,
24:41because the teeth was right there, baby.
24:42It was some hot teeth.
24:44Marie, are you serious?
24:46All of your relationships have had infidelity,
24:48so why try to bring up another woman's situation?
24:52The question was, true or false?
24:59Oh, man, I said false.
25:00We're boring.
25:01And where the hell did this come from?
25:03So, I just want to know.
25:05I'm going to dibble and dabble in y'all business.
25:07I'm a single lady.
25:08OK, that is something that I have a question with,
25:11because I have been so confused.
25:13The last time we all hung out as couples,
25:16Martin was your boyfriend.
25:18Yes.
25:18What happened when Martin became the friend
25:21and Cedric became my man?
25:24When did that happen?
25:25So let me explain.
25:27Cedric is my ex-husband.
25:30You know, death brought us back together.
25:32Unfortunately, he came back into the picture
25:35while I was, I guess, trying to figure out things
25:38between me and Martin.
25:39And I'm just trying to navigate.
25:43In my book, you know, everybody got somebody.
25:46And you deserve somebody.
25:47I'm working on my love life.
25:49I never portrayed to have my personal life in order.
25:52Even though I am a brilliant-ass businesswoman,
25:56I'm human.
25:57Well, let's have a conversation, y'all.
25:59Let's mingle some more.
26:01I got a fit.
26:02Me too.
26:03Friend, we got a fit.
26:05God damn.
26:05You hurt so bad.
26:07Oh, my God.
26:11What's going on, friend?
26:13Nothing.
26:13That's what I'm trying to see what's going on.
26:15I have not heard from you.
26:16I have not seen your butt.
26:18Like, Selena was supposed to be the bar manager.
26:21It tastes.
26:22Listen, this is Selena.
26:24This is our bar manager.
26:27And when I had the grand opening,
26:29Selena was not there to help me at all.
26:32I actually want to have a conversation with Selena
26:34because y'all just felt like she left me out the drive.
26:38So it's just all sorts of things
26:40that's going through my head right now.
26:42I know I'm supposed to be working at Tay's,
26:44but then I had my car accident.
26:46I wasn't able to work, so I had to recover and all that.
26:49And I'm just like, my friend seemed like she a little distant.
26:52I was in my feelings a little bit about you not working
26:54at the restaurant because I felt like it was an excuse.
26:56And, yeah, I felt I did feel some type of way.
27:00I wish we would have had a conversation early on.
27:02Like, honestly, I should have called them and been like,
27:04hey, Selena, you know, I feel some type of way
27:06about you not working at Tay's,
27:07and you not being vocal and letting me know.
27:09You just not showing up or whatever.
27:11Okay, because my feelings was...
27:13I've been in my feelings.
27:14I ain't gonna lie.
27:15You know, after the accident, I lost my dog,
27:18and my dog that died, that was my son's dog.
27:21I'm like, that dog was there when my son was murdered.
27:25So I just felt like I lost another part of my son.
27:28It's like hit after hit after hit after hit.
27:31I apologize for not letting you know.
27:35Okay, so we good?
27:37Because I miss you, too.
27:38I miss you, friend.
27:40I'm very appreciative that Latrice and I
27:43got the opportunity to connect
27:45because I do value our friendship.
27:47We've been friends for over a decade,
27:49so I don't want her to think that I abandoned her.
27:55Let me talk to you.
27:56Come on.
27:57So, how's everything going with you?
28:00Girl, it's good.
28:01I've been doing all this back and forth to Jackson.
28:04I'm thinking about how I can expand my presence up here.
28:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.
28:08When I walked through the door,
28:10I didn't hear you with a little bug.
28:12I dropped in my ear.
28:12You were trying to shake the hell out of me
28:14when I walked in here.
28:15I'm talking about I look like I came from space.
28:17No, it's a future.
28:18It's an outfit.
28:19It's silver.
28:20You're looking good.
28:21You were on a whole spaceship navigating.
28:23You got on your space outfit now.
28:27I'm saying you were going on a journey,
28:29and I said you had your spaceship ready,
28:31but I mean, like, that's how I talk.
28:32Like, I love to make jokes and puns.
28:34Okay.
28:35But I mean, girl, look in the mirror,
28:36you look fabulous.
28:37Look at me, listen, you're beautiful.
28:39But this dropstream ponytail, it gotta go.
28:41But, like, I'm telling you a babe.
28:42This grandmommish?
28:44No, no, no, no.
28:45This is timeless classic.
28:46Who do you mean?
28:47You gotta be hazed in, girl.
28:49You can't just come in here
28:50and be throwing shade everywhere
28:51like you an OG, baby.
28:53You gotta take baby steps.
28:54You need to kind of take some steps back.
28:56Yes, it's giving everything
28:58that it's supposed to give.
29:00This not.
29:00That's giving grandma old school,
29:02old fashioned.
29:03It gotta go.
29:04It's giving Sunday morning worship.
29:06It gotta go.
29:06Bye-bye.
29:08Bye, mama.
29:08Hey, Dean, Dr. Marie.
29:11Please come back to Earth, honey,
29:12because you are clearly
29:13in a whole nother universe than us.
29:15Because you and the Martian hairstyle,
29:17it was time for y'all to fly away.
29:18Well, Leticia, this was amazing.
29:20And congratulations on everything
29:22that you're doing.
29:23Thank you.
29:24Y'all have amazing things going on,
29:26all of us here.
29:26You're right, Leticia.
29:27I would like to invite the Bells to something.
29:30What's happening?
29:30I'm doing an all-white affair
29:32in memories of my son.
29:33I want to build, like, a safe space
29:36for people who is dealing with grief.
29:38They don't have anybody to turn to.
29:40I love that.
29:40So, yes.
29:41I want to invite all of the ladies
29:43to my all-white event
29:46in memories of my son, Quincy Johnson,
29:48in a week.
29:50Because losing a child
29:51is the worst feeling in the world,
29:54and it's something you would never get over.
29:56But I have to start somewhere.
29:58Okay, so, Carrie,
30:00you have a restaurant in Biloxi?
30:03Gulfport.
30:04In Alabama?
30:04In Mobile.
30:05Carrie's really that girl on the coast.
30:07You are that girl.
30:09And that's my point.
30:10That's what you got to look.
30:11Carrie, tell me you can dress
30:12how you want to, baby.
30:13Thank you.
30:13Okay.
30:14Thank you.
30:14Thank you.
30:15Like, I don't want to look
30:16the same as everybody.
30:19We made it through
30:20Leticia's relaunched social
30:24without any drama.
30:26We survived.
30:27I am proud of the collective.
30:30I think we have arrived.
30:34Coming up,
30:35One Bill Collective.
30:36When you ghost me,
30:40I feel like you ghost me,
30:41and you stop communicating with me.
30:44So.
30:46So, something happened in the meantime.
30:49With your heart.
30:57Oh, I'm about to lose my mind
30:59if somebody text me one more time.
31:01Oh, Lord, I'm on my grind.
31:04Can't nobody try to do my shit.
31:06Hey.
31:07Yeah, that's pretty mad.
31:08And I hate you so bad.
31:09Yeah, that's pretty mad.
31:10Now I got a lot of money talking big bad.
31:13When I fill up on your kitchen with light.
31:16Hey, hey.
31:17Yeah, that's pretty mad.
31:18And I hate you so bad.
31:19I'm stopping by to visit my girls today,
31:30especially Skye.
31:31She has a baby on the way.
31:32And while I'm here,
31:34I might as well talk to them
31:35about the issues Mike and I are having.
31:38Keep pointing.
31:39Keep pointing.
31:39Keep pointing.
31:40How did the doctor's office go?
31:42Let me see one.
31:43We still haven't started dilating.
31:45You in your nine months,
31:46but how many weeks are you?
31:4738 weeks.
31:48So we need to be going running.
31:50That's what they mean.
31:50I told her.
31:51We can go sprint.
31:52Run.
31:52Bounce.
31:53Bounce.
31:54Because you didn't see it.
31:54We can do some bounce, bounce, bounce.
31:56We got some more boys added to the family.
31:59It's a lot of girls.
32:00It's a lot of girls throughout the whole family.
32:04Boy, you all gonna take a nap?
32:05Come on, baby.
32:07Seeing my daughters have children,
32:09it was actually something I prayed for.
32:11I do have health issues.
32:13And I'm just so grateful
32:15that I'm here to experience this, Mike.
32:18Who doesn't want to see their children
32:20start their own family?
32:22But let me update y'all.
32:23Me and Mike, we had a conversation.
32:24Ooh.
32:26Ooh.
32:28But yeah.
32:28Okay.
32:29So we were just talking about the problems
32:32before I walked down the aisle.
32:33Okay.
32:34When it comes to Mike,
32:36what frustrates me the most
32:37is his communication skills.
32:40He gonna buy him another, what, box truck?
32:43Uh-huh.
32:43An 18-wheeler to get back on the road.
32:45Uh-huh.
32:45Okay.
32:46I found out, but he told me after the fact.
32:49Uh-huh.
32:49Just like the boat.
32:51I'm in my feelings still a little bit,
32:53even though...
32:53We get it, because it's just like,
32:54you ain't go and get...
32:55Me and life spending money.
32:56...no TV.
32:57Yes.
32:57You ain't gonna get a whole vehicle.
32:58A whole...
32:59And it's not a regular vehicle.
33:00It's an 18-wheeler.
33:02A big vehicle, okay?
33:05I grew up in a home.
33:07My grandmother was always talking.
33:09We always had communication.
33:12So with Michael,
33:13he would say a couple of words
33:15and expect me to understand.
33:18No, honey,
33:18I need you to talk to me.
33:21I'm trying to walk down the aisle.
33:22I'm trying to be his wife.
33:23When me and Mike met,
33:26you know, this was during the time
33:29when I lost your brother.
33:31And so in the back of my head,
33:33sometimes when we have, like, disagreements,
33:36I be thinking,
33:37did I make a mistake?
33:39I mean, I love this man.
33:41I can't see myself with nobody else.
33:43But then I'm like...
33:44You feel like y'all started too fast?
33:46I don't think we started too fast.
33:48It's just I was in a very vulnerable state of mind.
33:52and he just did all the right things.
33:55He said all the right things.
33:56Everything was perfect.
33:58In 2020, my son was murdered.
34:01And that took a toll on me
34:03and I'm still not over it.
34:04And that's why I want us
34:06to start communicating more.
34:07It's not just him.
34:09Sometimes I get in my feelings
34:11and I don't want to talk
34:12and I should,
34:13but I don't want to feel like
34:15I'm bothering him.
34:16When Quincy passed, like,
34:19I mean, you was grieving,
34:20but we were also grieving.
34:22And so, like,
34:23when it came to being there for you,
34:25it just gave you
34:26a different type of comfort
34:27where we couldn't.
34:29Yeah, we like Mike.
34:30He helps out a lot
34:31and he doesn't have to.
34:32And then when it comes to y'all two,
34:34I just feel like y'all
34:35really match each other's, like, energy.
34:37I know y'all love him to death.
34:38I love Mike, too.
34:40We just got some issues
34:41we gotta work out.
34:42We love Mike,
34:43but it's not over your happiness.
34:45So we just want y'all both
34:47to do what's best for both of y'all.
34:49I mean, it would be wrong of you
34:51to get married
34:52and then y'all going into the marriage
34:53having problems.
34:54I just want to make sure
34:55when I get married this time,
34:57it's for the long haul.
34:58They'll do us part.
35:00That's what I want.
35:01After talking to my daughters,
35:03I don't really think
35:04I'm getting anywhere
35:05because they love Michael to pieces.
35:09But to me,
35:10I don't want to go into a marriage
35:11with all these problems.
35:12We have to get over this hump.
35:14If not,
35:15there's not going to be a wedding.
35:41There you go.
35:42All right.
35:42Can I get you started
35:43with something to drink?
35:44Water with lemon.
35:45Okay.
35:45I'll be right back.
35:46Thank you.
35:47I have not really seen
35:49or talked to Martin.
35:51And after talking
35:52to Cedric and Essie
35:54about Martin,
35:55I need to know
35:56what's going on with him.
36:04Hey, Marie.
36:06Hi, Martin.
36:07How are you?
36:08How are you?
36:08How are you?
36:09How are you?
36:09How are you?
36:09How are you?
36:09You're looking good.
36:11Thank you.
36:12How are you?
36:13Yeah.
36:13Good.
36:16How are you doing?
36:18I'm well.
36:19What about you?
36:21I'm tired,
36:22but happy.
36:24Yeah.
36:24Yeah.
36:25Yeah.
36:25You want an old-fashioned?
36:27Oh, not today.
36:28Not today?
36:29No, I think
36:30a Diet Coke
36:31is what I need today.
36:34What you need today.
36:36I'm glad you can
36:37come to my party.
36:38So,
36:39how was it
36:40being at the party
36:41with my ex?
36:43Yeah.
36:44Oh,
36:44I just enjoyed myself.
36:46Well, I'm glad
36:46you had a great time.
36:47Oh, yeah.
36:48Yeah, buddy.
36:48That was good.
36:49Yeah.
36:49That was good.
36:50There you go, sir.
36:51Thank you.
36:51I just hope to hear you.
36:53What are we doing, Germany?
36:53Oh,
36:55post.
36:55Post.
36:57Post.
36:58Yeah,
36:59so,
36:59um,
37:01Germany,
37:01did you enjoy yourself?
37:02Yeah, yeah.
37:03I went with the kids
37:04to the mountains
37:05for skiing.
37:06I love to see that
37:07because my dad
37:08has always been
37:09in my life,
37:10so I can't even imagine
37:12having somebody
37:13in my life
37:13who don't,
37:14you know,
37:14show up for their children.
37:16Yes.
37:16Thank you.
37:17One of the main reasons
37:18why I fell for Martin
37:20is his love
37:22for his children.
37:23and that
37:24is what won me
37:25over with him.
37:27I love a family man.
37:28After you
37:29came back from Germany,
37:31when I picked you up
37:32from the airport,
37:33we hung out
37:34that day,
37:35that next day,
37:35and then after that,
37:36I didn't hear from you
37:37for, like,
37:38three weeks.
37:40I didn't know
37:41if you had gone back
37:42or people still here
37:43or what happened.
37:49When I came back,
37:50it was like,
37:51I was,
37:52I was working a lot.
37:53Okay,
37:54if I can just be honest,
37:55I just felt like
37:56the place we were in,
37:57we were hanging out,
37:58we were having a great time,
37:59in communication,
38:00so it went from
38:01that to nothing.
38:04I just felt
38:05kind of abandoned
38:08or maybe,
38:09I don't know,
38:10maybe disrespected.
38:11So it did hurt my feelings,
38:13you know.
38:14I'm sorry,
38:15that was really
38:16not my intention.
38:17I just want to let you know that.
38:17Yeah,
38:18I don't want to...
38:20When you
38:22ghost me,
38:25I feel like you ghost me
38:26and you stop communicating
38:27with me.
38:28It was like
38:29my daughter's father,
38:31he just
38:32somehow
38:34just started
38:35coming back around,
38:37checking on me,
38:39and, you know,
38:40just being nice
38:41and just
38:42pretty much
38:43just like being there,
38:44so.
38:45So,
38:46something happened
38:47in the meantime.
38:49Which means
38:50something happened?
38:50With your heart.
38:52Well,
38:53I just feel like
38:57I can't see you anymore.
39:00Marie,
39:01I didn't expect this.
39:03I know,
39:04I know.
39:08It's emotional
39:09for me because,
39:11you know,
39:12I really like you.
39:15But then,
39:15you know,
39:16I have
39:16my daughter's father,
39:20you know,
39:20like,
39:22you know,
39:22I care about him.
39:23I have love for him.
39:25You know,
39:25I love him.
39:26I do believe
39:27in being transparent
39:28and honest
39:29and true to myself,
39:31one.
39:31and
39:33I don't want to,
39:35I won't lie to you.
39:37So.
39:40Yeah,
39:40I mean,
39:41I'm,
39:42I say,
39:42I understand
39:43your situation.
39:45I knew that
39:45the breakup
39:46would be tough
39:47on me.
39:49I'm so sorry.
39:51But,
39:52Martin seems
39:52to be handling it
39:53better than I anticipated.
39:55Not everyone
39:56is an emotional
39:57type of person,
39:58you know,
39:58and that's okay.
39:59So,
40:00he's handling it well.
40:01I am
40:02so sorry.
40:04I am
40:05sad
40:07to end things
40:08with Martin,
40:08but
40:09I do want
40:10the best for him.
40:11And
40:12I can now
40:13focus
40:14100%
40:15on Cedric
40:16and moving forward.
40:19So,
40:19who's paying?
40:20I would,
40:21I would do.
40:22I would do.
40:23Okay.
40:24Yeah.
40:24All right.
40:27Thank you.
40:30Thank you.
40:31Thank you.
40:35Next,
40:36on Bell Collective.
40:37It's now
40:38going on
40:38five years
40:39since my son's
40:40life was taken.
40:41I lost
40:42my second brother.
40:44It was like
40:44I never woke up
40:45from that nightmare.
40:49I talked to him
40:50that night.
40:52So,
40:52when you leave,
40:54it upsets me
40:55when I don't know
40:55where you're at.
40:56In the traditional
40:57father marriage,
40:58people are used to
40:59the little wife
41:00who dotes.
41:01I'm not that doting.
41:02I know you got a lot
41:03on your plate,
41:04but I think I expect
41:05just a little bit
41:05more effort.
41:06But it's like,
41:06it's only so much
41:07time in a day.
41:08I am throwing
41:09a pool party.
41:10Oh!
41:11Have you ever
41:12been attracted
41:13to someone
41:13in the group?
41:14Glenn.
41:15Are you a-
41:15I'm attracted
41:16to my wife.
41:17That bull-
41:17I seen a DM
41:18to man kept it.
41:19What you mean?
41:20I saw a DM.
41:21You know who the
41:22I am?
41:23I like this.
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