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00:00people don't need to know my shit set steven on a collision course just stay out of my business
00:06i'm not trying to come to a new relationship i'm not couldn't give a flight i'm completely
00:09honest i'm here for my relationship
00:10tonight on a scale of one to ten how strong are your feelings the second dinner party serves up
00:22romantic confessions from some 9.5 do you have any regrets so far while others face harsher truths
00:32yes i feel like i'm constantly calling you out for things trying to be nice and then they're
00:39backfiring on me i'm at a point of my life now i need to know you want the same thing i haven't
00:44got time to waste but it's gossip in the group well like two weeks before you can't get
00:50that sparks the biggest conflict of the night who has decided to say i was talking about my
00:57sexual activity you did we've all met people start to me off it that that that that that
01:02wow did he just say that
01:08do you want to tell you babe yeah i'm just a bit and fatted that means you're angry
01:19no it means like you're thirsty i thought it meant like feathers are coming out of your mouth
01:23and you're so dry i always thought that meant you're annoyed
01:26cookie stop force feeding me no no no great i don't want the cookie now you've licked it
01:34it's mave's 30th birthday today so i just want to make it as special as possible
01:47and celebrate her birthday together there you go that's not too bad mave she sometimes needs
01:54reassuring how special she is
01:56happy birthday
02:00good writing isn't it and then oh it's still fun oh my god
02:06all i wanted was a three and a zero balloon wasn't that happy birthday
02:11oh thank you
02:12i've never been treated this well of a lad on my birthday ever
02:17me and joe are in a really good spot right now i just feel like we're on cloud nine
02:20i feel very good about myself today what is it
02:27oh sweet heart it's a bit salty like
02:31after the expats weekend to help with charlene myself and sarah were growing romantically
02:45now we're holding hands you know now we'll cuddle you know it's slowly slowly getting there then we
02:50were doing really good but we had a blit last night we had a massive argument
02:54we had had a few drinks and i really wish the argument hadn't happened because
03:02we have had a really good week i put my foot in it again
03:05a member of the crew came down where we were drinking
03:09and sarah said oh if you were straight i'd be all over you
03:12made me feel like i don't know if she'll ever feel that way about me
03:17so last night we had a massive argument because i was like do you think you'll ever fall for me
03:22she said i don't know and it did hurt
03:25i now have learned from that and i have been apologizing to dean today
03:31she's saying she's not used to thinking for somebody else's feelings and she went i'm genuinely
03:36sorry it'll never happen again i'm here to find love and i'm putting everything into this
03:39so we're gonna be strong and we're gonna get through this
03:42you want a coffee grace yes please
03:50things are being nice are good experts we help the relationship we're getting more trusting and
03:56i'm relaxing more the workshop was helpful for taking the pressure off a little bit
04:00do you find it awkward at all i'm just private aren't i
04:03does it make it more awkward that i wasn't awkward no i think that probably helped to be fair
04:07grace and i are really good but there's that constant communication issue where
04:12my terminology isn't always correct it's normally silly things i woke up the other morning and her
04:16nails were overgrown and i was like should we go and get your nails done and her reply was i
04:20don't need to get my nails done for a man i was like okay it's not what i was saying but i get it
04:25how do i say this when i met ash i was so disappointed that i had this traditional
04:32person that wants a lady and a tomboy barbie and all this bollocks it made me feel uncomfortable and
04:38not not really me i've asked him not to comment on what i wear and how i look and how i am
04:42he continues to do it anyway
04:44bonita and i are in separate apartments i have gave her plenty space i thought expert week was good
04:58for us we did the questions task and i asked her some direct questions which was what she wanted
05:05and i think that went quite positive hello hello lovely i'd like to walk into the dinner party
05:15together a show of strength a show of becoming closer i have my fingers crossed it's a nice
05:21frock isn't it thanks i joined this experiment and said that i would give it a hundred percent
05:25but i don't know how i feel about my marriage hardly asked any questions about me i don't want to ask
05:32since their honeymoon i don't know if it's all for the marriage issues with communication i know
05:37your three children's names do you know my two no no emotional connection no communication just
05:46miles apart and a differing approach to the pace of their marriage surely you should know what you
05:51want by now are you expecting me to be feeling committed attitude created problems for anita and paul
05:57you said it takes you time i just haven't got that time love is something you build my time frame
06:04may be different from her time frame and that's going to be the sticking point
06:09have you had a good week yeah it's been better yeah what about you don't know how i'm feeling
06:15i took the expert advice on board done the questions being more open i don't want to give any
06:26wrong signals well let me reassure you you're not how would you like to arrive personally i'd like
06:35to go together i think we've had a better week we've been more communicative spent time together
06:43your choice madam
06:45i don't know
06:50i'm not sure whether to go into the dinner party with paul
06:57obviously came here looking for love and paul and i are on totally different pages different books
07:04to be honest
07:04he feels that if he does ask questions he feels like he's being intrusive he's being nosy as always
07:12i don't know how he feels deep down i'm not sure what paul wants to be honest
07:17how'd you think the week's gone it's been a bit downish the workshop with charlaine was interesting
07:29yeah i wouldn't say that the intimacy workshop brought me and leah closer because intimacy is
07:37still not massively progressed we went through that whole situation where leah was being flirty
07:42with rebecca and it annoyed me i felt disrespected i just feel like they're gonna ask us have you done
07:47your homework yeah but we're not in any rush to be doing anything that we don't want to do
07:53i'm frustrated i'm putting me all on the table do i feel like i'm getting that back absolutely not
07:59we did take a load of different bits and pieces from the intimacy workshop but she'll get under the
08:05bed somewhere and we haven't done anything or practiced anything at home i just hope it doesn't
08:12just stay in this friend zone because we're here for a reason aren't we
08:15thank you
08:21it's been a really tough week i have communicated to steven how i'm feeling
08:28but the effort's not there and i'm exhausted
08:32how's the rib
08:36you know me i'm quite good with pain so
08:39yesterday i fell over in the bathtub and broke my rib when i told steven i just felt like he
08:49didn't really care because he ignored how i'm feeling and didn't come home till gone 11 at night
08:55do you want to talk or not about when i broke my robe
08:58sure i felt deflated not seeing you until very late at night that just knocked me back a little bit
09:06i've heard this myself a dick
09:11she's not been my priority this week my stepdad's in hospital it's hard to think of anything other than that
09:16we ran out for drinks last night and we had steven with us
09:22there's things i don't agree with that were said
09:24yeah it was quite concerning
09:26steven should have been at home with nelly but instead he was at the bar bragging about his sex life
09:32before the experiment
09:32that is just insane
09:35nelly has no idea and i'm not 100 sure if i should bring it up at the dinner party
09:39i'm struggling with that
09:41i think tonight will be very telling once there's a bit of heat on him how strong
09:45that bond really is now
09:46i don't know what is going on in that boy's mind
09:53nelly fell
09:54fractured her rib
09:56she was hurt
09:57and then he just decided to stay up with the boys all night
09:59both bailey and i are really close with nelly and steven
10:04but it feels really muggy i think he's treating her the wrong way
10:08my husband wouldn't disrespect me in that way and if he did then that would be it for me
10:13people are going to have an opinion on how they would have done things
10:19generally couldn't care
10:22i am apprehensive about going into the dinner party
10:25people are going to have an opinion
10:27and he's going to get his back up because people are piping in again
10:30they can say their own thing
10:33but i'll just dismiss it
10:35and see how they like that
10:37steven doesn't take into account my well-being
10:40and i deserve better than that
10:42do you care
10:44because every single person came and checked on me apart from you
10:48i'm in agony i'm in pain
10:52where were you
10:54here we are guys
11:07dinner party number two
11:08i cannot wait to check in and see how all the couples are doing
11:11and of course right off the back of experts week
11:14let's see if the couples put into practice everything that they learned
11:18take a look
11:19first one
11:26julia reef and deviney
11:28last time we saw these two they were not in a great place
11:31for experts week
11:32this couple had the values ranking task
11:35so it's going to be really interesting to see what that's done for them
11:37in terms of finding alignment
11:39or otherwise
11:40do you think anyone's going to come in alone
11:41i don't think so
11:42i hope they need to pull
11:44they're doing well
11:44rooting for them
11:46how are you
11:53here's lee and leah
11:55good
11:56lee and leah really struggled with intimacy
12:01so it'd be really interesting to find out whether there has been some progress
12:06what have you guys been up to
12:08we had intimacy week and there was literally just sex toys all over a table
12:12i got to take them home after
12:14have you used it since you've been back
12:15no then you put it all under the bed
12:17all of it
12:19all of it under the bed
12:19doesn't sound like they've been accessed
12:22leah sounds quite disappointed
12:24the thing for me is that i mean
12:26touch first base
12:27we haven't gone to second base
12:29yeah so pulling out a dildo at this point
12:31i got aggressive
12:33you'll have to go like balls and walls
12:34what about the candle the massage candle
12:36should we try that later
12:37yeah
12:38let's make a pack now
12:39yeah
12:39don't just say it
12:40we're the witnesses
12:41we'll do that
12:41we're the witnesses
12:41yeah
12:42we'll do that
12:43oh i'm knocking your door tomorrow and i'm like how did i go
12:45if i'm not burnt tomorrow with candle wax and she's a liar
12:48well it sounds like they might have shared a kiss
12:51which is progress
12:53the question is
12:54will lee make good on that pinky promise
12:57let's see
12:58and nelly and steve
13:00are we talking about the fact that he went out all day when she had a broken rib and didn't come back and see if she was alright
13:06and everyone else was in the apartment looking after her
13:08yeah
13:09oh nelly must be really suffering
13:11yes
13:12i mean it's not what you expect from your partner is it
13:14to have a broken rib and for them not to show up for you
13:17something's going wrong there
13:19i think everyone came in and checked on her but steven
13:22hi gorgeous
13:31rebecca and bailey
13:33they look like a really strong couple
13:36and it's because they've managed to build both a strong physical and emotional connection with each other
13:41they seem to be doing really well
13:43hello girlies
13:44how are you
13:45did our old um experts week
13:49we had values
13:50our values was like
13:52complete opposite
13:53so we didn't align on the
13:56the sex and the looks
13:57when did you put sex and looks
13:58okay
13:59well i can imagine that julia ruth wasn't happy to hear that because one thing we do know about julia ruth is that sex is right up there it's very important for her
14:12he put six eight and then looks as nine oh my god sex is eight for you as a no
14:19the thing it got me was that he had occupation and money above six and looks and i just was like
14:24you're more worried about someone's job than you are
14:27you have a sexual connection with them
14:29really
14:31i would appreciate it if it was like five six maybe something like that
14:34but the male was like eight
14:35hey
14:41hey
14:41hi everyone
14:43mave and joe
14:45so i saw these two for experts week and we had a really good session
14:48mave had a challenge around accepting compliments
14:50and i believe that we were able to work her through that hump
14:54so i had to do an exercise when i'm looking in the mirror joe's got to give me a compliment
14:59were you like
14:59you would have hated that
15:01you would have hated every minute of it
15:03and then obviously then look at joe and then repeat it back to him
15:05okay that's sweet
15:06we're in a fucking great spot
15:08like this morning i actually woke up genuinely like buzzing
15:12i just felt very good where i was at do you know what i mean with her so
15:15it's a good feeling
15:16so i just feel in a really good spot with her
15:18i feel like you two are actually closer
15:24like every time i see you i'm like oh a bit closer a bit closer
15:27we have had a wobbly week haven't we
15:29our problem is
15:33and i'm going to speak about this at the commitment ceremony
15:36because i don't know where these feelings will come from
15:38i felt a bit of a type of way
15:41and leah was being flirty with rebecca
15:42i felt rubbed up the wrong way about it
15:48and we was having a bicker and i was like look
15:50you take a minute we'll come back and talk about it again
15:52it'll be interesting to watch it play out
15:55and see whether this really is
15:57lee having deeper feelings for leah
15:59or whether her pride's been hurt
16:01or is this triggers from her past relationships
16:04coming up and unsettling her
16:11oh no paul's alone
16:16so him and anita are still
16:18not going too well
16:20how are you as anita
16:21i've no idea is she here
16:22no not yet
16:23you're in before her this time
16:25how are you
16:26thank you
16:27of course last week anita was talking very much
16:29about feeling that paul wasn't listening to her
16:31wasn't asking her questions
16:33or really engaging with her
16:34by the looks of things
16:35there might not have been any improvement
16:38do you want to like her though
16:40yeah
16:41i need to take time and i build and i build and i build
16:44the more i get into her mind
16:46the more i get to know her as a human being
16:48the more chance it may be loving her
16:50i'm disappointed that we didn't come together
16:54because i've put quite a bit of effort in this week
16:56i hope she realises that my intentions are sincere
16:59and perhaps that time
17:02is something she will give me
17:05i'd like to try and build
17:06some kind of emotional connection
17:08i've started to build it
17:11that's good
17:12oh
17:15there she comes
17:19more talk of the devil
17:20oh here's anita
17:23oh yeah
17:26what's he talking about you
17:28you alright
17:30well it looks like paul missed anita
17:32the question is
17:34if anita missed paul
17:35looks nice doesn't she
17:36yeah
17:37the dress on
17:37she looks lovely
17:38all the compliments that paul has
17:42are beautiful
17:43but is he saying this to anita
17:45why are you going to go in separately
17:47did you start overthinking
17:48this morning i did
17:49just didn't want to give him anything
17:50oh
17:51that's helpful
17:51yeah
17:52i wanted to go in separate
17:54from paul tonight
17:55because i still believe that he's on a
17:58self-discovery journey
17:59and i'm on a love journey
18:00i have no idea what paul's thinking
18:03i've wasted 17 years
18:04i don't want to do that again
18:06it's quite notable
18:07that after a 17 year relationship
18:10that never progressed
18:11this weighs heavily on her
18:12this is about past triggers
18:14from previous relationships
18:15yay
18:20thank you honey
18:22it's been great
18:22what an entrance
18:23you look dashing in your lilac
18:26oh yeah honey
18:27good
18:27my wife brought it for me
18:29oh
18:29wow
18:31oh my wife
18:32how are you
18:36it's been a bit intense
18:37you know
18:38i think you're
18:39definitely warming up to it
18:41yeah
18:41yeah
18:42i just feel
18:43he's just getting a bit
18:44exhausted
18:45i don't think he is
18:46but then i worry like
18:46we've just had a few conversations
18:48this week
18:49just about like
18:50i don't know
18:51i just
18:51speak it
18:52for sake
18:54ash made the mistake
18:55of telling me
18:56i needed to get my nails done
18:57and i was like
18:58ash no one's going to tell me
18:59how to have my nails done
19:00so tell me what alfred's wearing
19:01that's for me
19:01this is a big one for grace
19:03you know
19:04as an independent woman
19:06having a man tell her
19:08what to wear
19:09how to do her nails
19:10this is really rubbing her
19:11the wrong way
19:12and this goes deep
19:13into her values
19:14this is not something
19:15she's just going to get over
19:16this is something
19:17that the two of them
19:18really need to
19:19very carefully
19:20navigate together
19:21i'm really confused
19:22at the moment
19:22do you know what i mean
19:23it's
19:24really good couple
19:25really good
19:26and the fact that
19:27the way i say things
19:29isn't necessarily what i mean
19:30but
19:30yeah
19:31things like i turned around
19:32and i was like
19:32oh your nails look like you need to in
19:34like she's going to get your nails done
19:35and she's like
19:35i don't need to get my nails done
19:37and come in
19:37and i was like
19:38that's not what i meant
19:39that's not what you meant
19:39yeah but it's like a constant thing
19:41so we're clashing
19:42but then also
19:43like we went out last night
19:44and of course i knew where i was going
19:45but it was a surprise
19:46yeah
19:46so
19:47she got ready
19:48and then she was like
19:48oh don't know
19:49and i was like
19:49you look lovely
19:50but have you got a dress
19:51and that's because
19:51i'm not telling you to wear a dress
19:53i'm just saying
19:54i know where we're going
19:55she wrote you should have probably told her before she got a dress
19:57yeah
19:57when ashley says things like wear a dress
20:02i think there are lots of women that will be like
20:04don't you tell me what to do
20:05because if she's saying that this is offensive
20:08then what we would want from ashley
20:10is for him to take that on board
20:11and make changes
20:12so here's that opportunity to question his partner
20:15and say what do you need
20:16how do we interact around this
20:17is that okay
20:20i just had a very weird that steven
20:30oh fuck me dude
20:31he was talking to the group
20:34and he was bragging about
20:35how he's on wire
20:36and how he had like fucked a girl
20:38like two weeks before he came on
20:39yeah
20:40oh come on steven
20:44like he kept bragging about
20:46like if i called mave here
20:47like if she can
20:47like a fucking night
20:48mave
20:51i wonder what mark is getting for
20:56sorry
20:56okay
20:57we were at the bar
20:58and then steven made the comment about
21:00him being a liar
21:01and the celebrity girl
21:03and he was like
21:03yeah
21:05so what i'm gathering here
21:08is that steven's out
21:09with all the other guys
21:10bragging about
21:11being with other women
21:13on the internet dating site
21:14it's not a good look
21:15but my real concern here
21:17is that nally's at home
21:19with a broken rib
21:20she's still in pain
21:21probably quite vulnerable
21:22and really needs that support
21:23of her partner
21:24you know it sounds like
21:25he hasn't shown up
21:26it wasn't just like
21:28one comment
21:29it was like
21:29oh yeah
21:30and then i did this
21:30and then i did that
21:31and then also
21:32when i went with her
21:33there was someone else
21:33that i went with
21:34and we were just like
21:35this would be really hurtful
21:37for nally
21:38if this gets back to her
21:39it's really going to
21:40reinforce any insecurities
21:41that she's having
21:42in this relationship
21:43and her doubts
21:44about whether steven's
21:45interested in her
21:46is that border
21:48i think he's a cheeky bastard
21:52you guys are amazing
22:00hi
22:02steven and nally
22:03i'm shocked
22:04they actually seem pretty happy
22:06poor nally
22:07none the wise there
22:08how are you getting on today
22:12so obviously
22:13i've broken my roof
22:14and then he didn't
22:15come home until like
22:16yes
22:17which really upset me
22:18and i told him at the time
22:19i just don't want to rock the boat
22:21because i feel like
22:22anything i do is
22:22but you're not rocking the boat
22:23you're not the one who
22:24i feel like
22:25if i say anything about
22:26how i feel then
22:26no
22:27no
22:27is he how you fucking feel
22:29i know but it just
22:30turns into
22:30fuck off
22:31at the end of the day
22:33you were injured
22:34but he still
22:35he still took the boat
22:36with the lads
22:36for hours and hours
22:37it was a five minute walk away
22:39so nally's talking about
22:41being in this vulnerable position
22:43and not wanting to say anything to him
22:44because she doesn't want to rock the boat
22:46it's a very dangerous position
22:48walking on eggshells
22:49in a relationship
22:50and that's precisely
22:51what she's doing right now
22:52yeah
22:53what's going on
22:56everything good or
22:57mm-hmm
23:00yeah
23:01more little bickering's going on
23:03yeah
23:04i'm gonna go first to you
23:07you know he gets really annoyed
23:08about people
23:09hanging in there
23:10i don't give a shit
23:10i feel like it's gonna go badly
23:12but
23:12now he's really panicking
23:14you want a shot
23:15yeah
23:16come on
23:16i'll be back
23:17here we go
23:19oh hell
23:19so
23:27yes
23:28things are getting said
23:30and i'm obviously coming to you
23:32prior to it going back to nelly
23:34why did you not come back
23:36all day all night
23:36i said this to nelly
23:38i've had an emotional challenge
23:39week and my stepdad's in the hospital
23:41so yeah
23:41she's not been my priority this week
23:44which i've held my hands up for
23:45oh
23:46that's why
23:47okay
23:48which is why i didn't come home the other night
23:51which
23:51again
23:52held up
23:52yeah it didn't look good
23:53i'm not gonna lie
23:54like it was
23:54a shit move from you
23:56something's happening with his stepdad
23:58that must be very hard
24:00i think it does help us understand
24:02his behaviour
24:03there's external pressures
24:05bearing down on stephen
24:06he was pulling back
24:08just listen to everything first
24:10because i know you'll get up and go wild
24:12they have steve make comments about like um
24:17having sex with a celeb
24:19oh hell
24:21two weeks before he came here
24:23it became braggy
24:25we're just looking at each other
24:27and thinking what the fuck do you even say about that
24:28when your wife's at home
24:29with a broken rib
24:30poor nelly
24:31she's been cheated on in three relationships
24:34so you can imagine her alarm bells
24:36will be going off
24:38i'm still joking
24:39no
24:39no no
24:40you're knocking it out
24:41the night that i hurt my rib
24:44and he didn't come home
24:45steven's obviously discussing
24:46who he's been with
24:47when your girl's at home
24:49i feel like an absolute fool
24:52for letting my guard down
24:53just feel like he cares about himself
24:55sorry to encroach
24:58if you care about nelly
25:03and you want it to go somewhere truly
25:05you've got to be smarter about what you're doing
25:08the stuff that you've done so far
25:11don't look great
25:11some of the things do look sticky
25:14they just look dodge
25:15i don't like the fact that everyone's getting involved
25:20in their nice relationship
25:21people sticking their two pens in
25:22i hate it from the off
25:23the way they go about their business
25:24they can fuck off
25:25oh
25:30dean and sarah
25:33at the intimacy workshop
25:34they both really gave it a good shot
25:36whether the sexual attraction has grown though
25:38i'm not sure
25:39come and sit down and say hello
25:41are we indeed getting on
25:43it's tough
25:44yeah
25:44it's tough to have a little bit of an argument
25:46i think you probably heard
25:47yeah
25:48i don't know if you heard
25:49we had our first like argument
25:50she said to one of the crew members
25:52that if he was straight
25:53she would sleep with him
25:54last time we saw sarah and dean
25:57at the commitment ceremony
25:58we were quite firm with sarah
25:59about some of the quite disrespectful comments
26:02she made about dean
26:03she's made another one
26:04and she's hurt his feelings again
26:05if my missus said something like that
26:07i would probably take it
26:09i would definitely pull up
26:10are you okay though as well
26:13because obviously it sounds like
26:14it was quite a heated thing
26:15it just kind of caught me
26:16i was like i don't think you're ever going to say that to me
26:18so that triggered that
26:19yeah
26:20and then i went upstairs like
26:21i don't think i can stay
26:22because i don't think you're ever going to
26:23ever going to feel that way about me
26:25and she went
26:26i don't know if i will
26:27i was like what am i doing here
26:28i feel like sticking up for yourself
26:30is perfectly fine
26:31i've found it quite up and down and things
26:33i'm glad that dean and i are getting on
26:34and we are getting better
26:35normally having arguments
26:37but as long as you're taking sound positive out of them
26:39and these are things that you've gone through
26:41and you're not going to go through again
26:42so we're actually probably in the best place we've been in
26:45dean wants this relationship more than anything
26:49but hopefully he's able to identify what his self-worth is
26:52before he places priority on the relationship
26:54my real concern for dean here
26:56is that his expectations are so low
26:58that almost anything sarah offers him
27:01he's going to be prepared to accept
27:03yes
27:03you don't deserve this
27:06i don't deserve this
27:07i deserve that
27:08someone out there will give me better
27:10what he needs to do now
27:13is he needs to figure out how he's getting out of this
27:14that's what he's doing
27:15it's going to be bloody tough mate
27:18you need to ask him
27:21i think it's time
27:24go
27:25oh this has been
27:31a fun start at the dinner party innit
27:33extremely fun
27:35apparently there's a lot of stuff going around
27:36i've been told apparently
27:41a few weeks before
27:42you'd hooked up with
27:44some
27:45said lister
27:46and you were talking about the sexual stuff
27:49that you'd done with her
27:49i wasn't
27:52so has that come out
27:53completely
27:53who the fuck has said that
27:55people have heard it
27:57do you know how it feels
27:59to come in here and everyone tell you
28:01this is how steven's been acting
28:02when i've already been upset
28:03with how you've been behaving anyway
28:05two weeks for an experiment nelly man
28:10do you know how fucking silly that is
28:11why is it coming into the experiment
28:13don't get mad at me
28:16fucking clownish man
28:19so this is interesting
28:24looking at steven's
28:26default reaction
28:27to being
28:28confronted with his behaviour
28:31is to get defensive
28:32angry
28:32and deflect
28:33you're speaking about
28:34ex-partners that you've been with
28:36on the night when
28:37you should have been at home with me
28:39oh wow
28:39wow wow wow
28:41are you going to listen to what i'm saying
28:45i'm listening but i'm finding it fucking laughable
28:47to be honest
28:48well i'm laughable
28:51no i'm finding this situation
28:52okay i'm not finding it funny
28:54so if you are finding it funny great
28:56these are my feelings
28:57and i'm not finding it very funny
28:58okay
28:59right
29:01guys
29:02guys
29:03oh god
29:09who has decided to say
29:12i was talking about my sexual activity
29:14with this fucking z-lister
29:15did it happen at the bar
29:17i mean you did talk about
29:18who you were having sex with on raya
29:20i guess
29:20no i was not
29:21at the bar you did
29:23davani made you were there
29:26so what is it
29:27i've just said i don't
29:29hey please i don't want to get involved with this
29:31davani don't leave me hanging
29:36no seriously
29:36you did
29:38no i didn't
29:39oh
29:40what's interesting though is davani has not said a word
29:44we were all there
29:47dean
29:47sarah
29:48maeve
29:49some people
29:51are really starting to fuck milk
29:53i wouldn't lie about that
29:56seriously
29:56you said that
29:57i've spoken so openly about my sexual activity with people
30:02two weeks before
30:03you said she gave sloppy hands
30:05whoaaaaa
30:08ho ho ho
30:09he gives what
30:10sloppy head
30:11let me ask you
30:15let me ask another question here
30:16two weeks before i started the experiment
30:18why the fuck does it matter
30:19okay
30:19it's fine
30:20honestly why the fuck does it matter
30:21who i've dated beforehand
30:22why the fuck does it matter
30:23what i do
30:24no because people are starting to fuck me off
30:26they're like that that that that
30:27they need to fucking realize shit
30:29fucking bollocks man
30:32i have to fucking leave me here
30:35i'm going over there
30:35fuck them
30:36you fucking said that
30:38you're alright
30:40no i'm not fucking alright
30:42all fucking cunts
30:43wow
30:51did he just want to call me
30:52what i do
30:53people are starting to fuck me off
30:54they're that that that that that
30:55need to fucking realize shit
30:57shit. Fucking bollocks, man. I have to fucking listen to him. I ain't going over there. Fuck
31:04him. You fucking said it. You alright? No, I'm not fucking alright. All fucking cunts.
31:11Wow. Did he just say that? He did. He's under pressure. He's back against the wall. He's
31:19being confronted with things that he's said he cannot cope. And so he's attacking everyone
31:25else. And this is ugly. Currently with Steven, I don't know where I'm at. Obviously I'm
31:31going to be thinking what the hell is going on. And you are sat there getting annoyed at
31:35me that I'm believing these people. Why would Judy Ruth and Maeve like? They're not going
31:40to. You alright? But don't have to talk. Don't have to say anything happened. Who? Fucking
31:47idiots, man. I know, I know. Just chew on it and have a breather for a second, geez. You're
31:53saying that you've done this, you've done that. But then you haven't even fucking seen
31:55your wife. That's what everyone's. And then you don't take accountability for it. And
31:59then you want to shout at everyone. You said it. What do you mean who said it? You said
32:01it. But then it, you said it. Come on in your mouth. You didn't pipe up. Hey. You left
32:06me. I didn't leave you. You left me. I didn't leave you. You did. Just disappointed in
32:12Devani. He just could have said something. I didn't like how that was handled. And he needs
32:17to have my back next time. We needed them in the room one minute ago. Yeah, we did.
32:32Well, the whole energy shifted as soon as they were. Right. Stephen and his wife. Over
32:41there. One on one. Quiet conversation. Words were said. Something about Stephen said he
32:50had slept with a Z-lister. I don't know. We've all slept with a Z-lister, right? Okay. I mean,
32:59I think it was normal.
33:09Alrighty. Here we go again. Oh, hello. Okay, let's see. Where do you think we are?
33:14Can we just switch the names? You okay? Yeah. Yeah, I'm good. Yeah, okay. You want some wine,
33:24though? I know. Remember that? Yeah. Do you want some wine? Eh, no. Mm. Did you
33:31rude? Thank you for holding your own and being truthful and not. Thank you. You're welcome,
33:36babe. I told you I got you. It's not a nice position to be in when someone's coming for you,
33:40but thank you. If anyone should be scared, it's him. Woman on a mission. Where is Stephen?
33:46Probably crying somewhere about how we've messed up. I don't know.
33:53How do you feel about Joe? I'm, like, obsessed for Joe. Ooh. In a healthy way. In a very
33:59healthy way. I just think the cast one. You're like, you're like, everything that I've ever
34:03wanted. Oh. That's so cute. Yeah. She knows how much love I have for her, and I said, I'm
34:12not going to, like, go all in with I'm falling in love with her, but I can see there's potential
34:16for love there because there are genuine things that I do love about her. What a sweetheart.
34:21Right, I'm not for that. I'm not for that. Maeve is taking the advice that we gave her on Experts
34:29this week, and that is how to receive a compliment. This is so good to see. How are you? I'm
34:34good. How are you? We're good. We're on the right track, I think. Dean and I, we're learning
34:38so much about each other all the time. I've just been so overwhelmed, but I really am giving
34:43it more this week. I shouldn't have disrespected Dean. I am worried about what to do next.
34:49I don't know whether to just bite the bullet, give him a kiss, but I also don't want to lead
34:53him on and hurt him. He deserves better than that, so I just want to not make any more mistakes.
34:58What is happening with you two? Yeah, what are you getting on? Is it improving?
35:01Yeah, I don't think so for a minute, no. What about for you? Is it moving quick enough
35:06for you? Yeah, because the more I get to know her, the more I'll be attracted to her.
35:10You've already said you're attracted to her. You said she's attractive.
35:12Yeah, she's really attractive to me, yeah. So you are...
35:15That's the first time I've heard him say that.
35:18Well, I didn't know you need the affirmation, love. I thought you were confident, independent.
35:21I would remember that.
35:22That right there is a great example of their inability to communicate. He believes she's
35:30attractive. He's vocalized it, and it's such a shame because they actually could work if
35:35they could just fix the communication.
35:37Oh, here comes Stephen.
35:47Well, come on.
35:48Right. Is everyone all right now, then? Are we all all right?
35:52Yes.
35:52Are we good, son?
35:54I'm actually quiet.
35:55What do you think about?
35:56My games is up. The more ears that listen in, the more masks that pipe up.
36:01It's just like, just back the fuck off.
36:03Hang on a minute, Stephen. Nell's had your back constantly. And I think the, hang on,
36:08the issue was is that when she needed you on that night, she knew that you needed to
36:12blow off steam with the lads, but she just didn't want your last home and not checking
36:16in on her.
36:16She's not been my number one priority this week, which is shit, because my stepdad and
36:20making sure he's okay has been there at the forefront. So it's like, all these things
36:23have factored in into this week, and I've already been open and emotional on things I've never
36:27wanted to talk about before, because I'm a closed-off person.
36:29I think what's clear here is that, yes, he's got a lot going on at home, but what isn't
36:36great is how he's treating Nellie. That's not on.
36:39Stephen, I think the point of this is, you need to say in this moment is that, yeah, you
36:42did fuck up that day.
36:44Which I've said. And I've said this to you. But now it's like, it's being made to, I've
36:49got to say sorry again, just to please everyone and you. And that's exactly what it's being
36:53made up to right now.
36:54Do you feel like you've had an apology?
36:58So, you apologise, obviously, the moment you walked in. But I think what stings a little
37:02bit for me is, it's not that you're sat there talking about your family for, like, till, you
37:05know, midnight. You're talking about loads of other things that I just don't think are
37:09appropriate, and it's on the night where you should be at home with me. Words are great,
37:14but I just need actions.
37:15I can't do much in 24 hours to show that action. It needs to be over time. So, I've
37:22said sorry, and not even 24 hours has passed, and then we've got another issue that we've
37:25got to deal with.
37:29I feel like I'm getting frustrated now, because it's at the point where I'm trying to look
37:33at the good in everything. And I just find that sometimes my feelings get dismissed.
37:41Don't roll your eyes at me. Sorry, can I just say it, because that's uncomfortable at the
37:45moment. The minute... No, no, no. It's uncomfortable, Stephen, your reaction to when Nellie goes to
37:51talk about how she feels.
37:53Well, good on Lee for standing up for Nellie and actually calling this out, because this
37:57is passive-aggressive behaviour, and it is dismissive.
38:01You've got your head in your hands, you're rolling your eyes, you're having feelings out.
38:04I'm extremely dismissive in what I'm saying.
38:06I just, it's a little bit difficult to watch my life.
38:09You're joking.
38:15Here's the honesty box, where we get to ask difficult questions, but always bring out
38:35the truth.
38:39Right, are you ready?
38:42What are you finding the hardest about being in this experiment?
38:46I think, obviously, you know my past. From a really young age, I was addicted to the party
38:53lifestyle.
38:54Yeah.
38:54And I think being round, like, the drinking environment is what I'm really struggling with.
38:59But that's where you've been so amazing. And I think, obviously, you love getting pissed.
39:06I do, yes.
39:08And that's very much part of your lifestyle, but I think you've really adapted to me. And
39:13sometimes I've said I feel like I'm sucking the fun out of you sometimes, but you're saying
39:16that's not the case. Just, like, compromising me really well, and I just don't want to be
39:21in that environment all the time.
39:23Yeah, I just don't want to be in that environment all the time.
39:25Yeah.
39:30Why are you not just the best human man?
39:35I'm embarrassed now.
39:37That was really brave of Joe, I think, to open up and talk about the struggles he's had
39:41in that social environment in the past, and that this is quite tricky for him.
39:45It shows real vulnerability.
39:45Julia Roof, do you feel like we are on the same team?
39:58No, we're not always on the same team, no.
40:04Last week was telling that we, like, maybe weren't. And then I think today, I don't need
40:10anyone to, like, fight my battles. I can do that. But I think if I'm calling your name,
40:14I need you to step up and be there. I don't care if you like conflict or not, or if that's
40:19your boy, you could have done a bit better in that regard. Yeah.
40:25This is what it is.
40:28I really appreciate Julia Roof's honesty here, because, fair enough, Devani could say,
40:34I didn't know you needed my support, but she actually called his name, and he still didn't
40:37help her.
40:38Right. Anita, young lady, why didn't you want to come to the dinner party with me?
40:47Initially, I did think, yeah, we can go to the dinner party together. There's no harm in
40:52that. But then I thought, I'm not sure where Paul has placed us. Is he thinking friendship
40:59or is he wanting more?
41:01OK.
41:02So that was me kind of taking a step back.
41:04Mm-hm.
41:06Judge me after six, eight, ten weeks. Don't judge me after two weeks. I'm getting more
41:10fond of her the more I spend time with her.
41:12Yeah.
41:12And that's fair.
41:14Anita, is that friendship? Is that not a good base?
41:17I'm at a point of my life now where I need to know where I stand. I need to know you want
41:22the same thing, and I haven't got time to waste.
41:25If you've got ten weeks in you, you're not fucking dying.
41:28Time's precious.
41:29Seems like the issue is on both of their sides. They're moving at totally different speeds.
41:34Anita's said that she has no time to waste. Paul, on the other hand, is comfortable with
41:39a slow and steady approach. It takes him time to form a bond.
41:46Go on, Leah.
41:47How have your feelings changed for me this week?
41:53I feel like my feelings for you have changed this week because, in the Rebecca situation,
42:00I realised that I obviously had feelings towards you because I was bothered by it.
42:08And if I didn't have any feelings towards you at all, it wouldn't have bothered me.
42:16Oh!
42:16Oh!
42:17What?
42:20That was a cheek, wasn't it?
42:21She swerved her.
42:22It's not total rejection, but it is stating a boundary when it comes to intimacy.
42:31Grace, what's the biggest challenge in our marriage for you?
42:33I think a challenge I'm having is that in speaking with you, I do sometimes feel it's like put
42:42back to me like, well, you're just, you know, I can't understand you.
42:45I don't, you know, and I think, how do we get to a place where I feel comfortable, but
42:50that you don't feel nagged and, like, you don't feel like I'm constantly calling you out for
42:55things.
42:56But everything you've kind of called me out on, I'm genuinely, I'm trying to be nice and
42:59I'm trying to do these things and then they're backfiring on me.
43:02What sort of thing?
43:05It's a little thing, so, like, the nails incident.
43:08In my head, I was thinking, right, your nails are, like, overgrown, and let's take you out
43:12to get your nails done.
43:13I meant it in, like, let me treat you, let me take you out.
43:15To clarify, he didn't say, like, oh, can I treat you to get your nails done?
43:19He didn't say that.
43:20He was, like...
43:20The way you say it isn't the way I said it.
43:22Okay, well, we do...
43:23There's three sides to every story.
43:23How did you like that?
43:24I got sisters and that, so there was a gap in the back and I was, like, your nails are
43:27overgrown.
43:27That's when you go to get your nails done.
43:29I was, like, sorry?
43:30And he was, like, yeah, I prefer French tips.
43:32And that wasn't said all in one thing.
43:33I said, here's the French tip.
43:35No, no, no.
43:35Fuck off!
43:38I wouldn't have said it like that.
43:39What he meant to say.
43:40I'm not going to be a person that tells you, like, you need to get your nails done or
43:42you need to wear this or you need to do that.
43:44I'm not that person.
43:45I've never been that person.
43:47Forget the terminology.
43:48Do you think it came from a genuinely nice place or do you think he was actually saying,
43:51like...
43:51In the moment, I was, like, easy, Tiger.
43:53I'll manage my own alley cap and I was, like, you're all good.
43:56And I was, like, car.
43:58That is really bothering me.
43:59And it was just a few things, like, I'd put an outfit on and Ash would be, like, haven't
44:02you got a dress you can wear?
44:03No, no, no.
44:04No, no.
44:04Again.
44:06So, I booked a fancy meal and a show.
44:09And you said, do I look good?
44:09And I said, you look amazing, but have you got, like, a dress?
44:12Because I knew where we were going and you didn't.
44:16The real test of a mature relationship is your willingness to compromise and also to
44:21listen to what your partner is saying.
44:23They both have two very different versions of the same event.
44:27So, it's really difficult to know what the intention is.
44:30I'm with you.
44:31I'm confused.
44:31I feel like there's a reluctance on both of their parts to seek deeper.
44:36So, in this scenario, it's become quite apparent to everybody.
44:41Grace is very independent, doesn't need anybody else's opinion.
44:45And so, I think, given that you're her husband and that you've probably taken that on board.
44:50But I am trying my best.
44:51I know you are.
44:52I know you are in so many ways.
44:53I'm not, like, I think Grace thinks that she's the bad person in it.
44:56But she's not.
44:57No, she's not.
44:58I understand that.
44:58I completely understand that I take full responsibility, that it is the way I say it and the way it's
45:03presented.
45:03Yeah.
45:03I get that.
45:04But I'm not blaming Grace.
45:05I'm taking responsibility for it.
45:06Well, okay, yeah.
45:09We have this issue of, like, struggling to understand each other.
45:13But for us to progress, we need to get on the same page.
45:18That's the challenge we face.
45:19On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 be in love, how strong are your feelings for me?
45:3512 wasn't on it.
45:351.
45:36Be honest, Bailey.
45:39I am a firm 9.5.
45:45Wow.
45:45Oh, that's strong.
45:50That's strong.
45:50Oh, my gosh, you round up.
45:51He's a 10.
45:52My heart is literally...
45:53I don't know how much more I can say.
45:57I'm falling, and I like the way it's going.
46:00Can't imagine you're not in my life.
46:03Why couldn't you just give me a 10?
46:05Maybe the 10 will come.
46:06Give me a moment.
46:07Listen, 9.5.
46:08Maybe I'm holding a little something back.
46:11But honestly, yeah, it's nearly there.
46:14It's nearly, nearly there.
46:15But I'm sure it's not going to take too long.
46:20OK.
46:21Sarah, do you have any regrets so far?
46:27Yes, I do.
46:28I regret the last dinner party and the comments that I obviously made to the girls that were brought up to the commitment ceremony.
46:36And I apologise again to you.
46:38I know I've apologised quite a bit now for it, but I do regret that, and I'm really sorry.
46:42And our argument as well.
46:44I wish that hadn't happened, but it has, and we've dealt with it.
46:47We all have blips, but if we communicate as we did and get over it, like, we're going to come out stronger.
46:52And I think we'll be fine, you know?
46:54We'll be good.
46:54Thanks.
46:55It's great that Sarah took responsibility, but Dean so quickly dismissed his own feelings in that.
47:02And there was no mention of how she made him feel, and he made no mention of how he felt.
47:08Yeah.
47:08It is lovely that Dean has, you know, he speaks so highly of me, and that's what I mean.
47:15He's just so lovely.
47:17So, yeah, I don't really know how to, like, deal with it, so I just, I don't want to cause any problem.
47:25We are in a better place than we were last week, I hope.
47:28I really am trying, and I'm trying to, like, hold his hand and hug him and stuff.
47:32But I don't know if it ever will come.
47:33Canella?
47:44Oh, no.
47:45All right.
47:46Do you trust me?
47:51Um, I don't know.
47:59The only thing I struggle with is, can I trust you with my heart?
48:04I like to think we can get there.
48:09Words are great, but I just need action to back it, that's all.
48:14I just don't want to be broken at the end.
48:17I don't think I've got that much making up to do.
48:19It can't just be what I've got to compromise on.
48:21It needs to be a better happy balance, otherwise it's purely I'm give, give, give, and she's just receive, receive.
48:27What's that fucking day?
48:28The way I'm feeling right now and after today, I generally don't know if I'm going to be stand-on leaving, so a lot of things to do over the night.
48:34Next time.
48:43I'll get bored and say the same thing over and over again.
48:45You keep saying that.
48:46Don't antagonise me then.
48:47Don't raise your voice at me.
48:48Nellie and Stephen continue to clash.
48:50I can do it.
48:51Why am I liking someone who's treating me like this?
48:53Ahead of a tense.
48:54But we have hit an issue this week.
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