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00:00Okay, now I'm getting those.
00:05En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:10It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:16Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:20We've known each other for 16 years.
00:22Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:28Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:34Look at that rock on your finger.
00:36She just makes me basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:40The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:45I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:50Tom fully understands what I'm like and to be honest, joins me.
00:55Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
00:59The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:06I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:12We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:18Yeah.
01:19I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:26With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:44How you guys doing, alright?
01:46Hey.
01:47A good looking couple.
01:48Yeah.
01:49You look lovely.
01:50Very lovely.
01:51Hi guys.
01:52You alright?
01:53Hey.
01:54Come on, love your shirt.
01:55We're almost matching.
01:56Yeah, these guys look fit.
01:57One girl, a bit of you.
01:58I'm excited, but nervous.
01:59Oh, I'm nervous now.
02:00Yeah.
02:01Definitely nervous now.
02:02I'm so excited to be here.
02:03I really am.
02:04I am like, come on.
02:05Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need.
02:21It's just a real big push.
02:24Guiding couples on their journey.
02:27Hello, come in.
02:28Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:32Take a seat.
02:34I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:37So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:40I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:44Mm-hmm.
02:45I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:51We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:01Okay.
03:02Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:04I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:07Mm-hmm.
03:09I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:16When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:19If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that, it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:29I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:40I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:45There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past, even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:51I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:54When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
03:59I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself. I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:09When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy. Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom. It was terrifying.
04:21The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:28It was so, so scary. He got really down. He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:35Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:47You have a terrible relationship with your body. Yeah, definitely. Definitely.
04:51It's like you're not going to get a hard-on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
04:59Hey, you're okay? Yeah, I'm good. I wasn't expecting that.
05:09Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:13The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:22So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:34And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:40It's what I want as well.
05:43Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:46I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap. And also, I've never had more than two men at once. And it's always been a fantasy of mine. And the same for women as well.
05:59Yeah. But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:04Sure. Yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things. Starting with a good old party.
06:11Tonight is about taking the lead. Once you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:17I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:27This is about sensuality. That's about cuddles and touches.
06:31I want you to focus on one person. And I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:42Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:50And then, be open to things escalating.
06:57That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
06:59When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.
07:02Yeah.
07:04Right. It sounds really exciting. Yeah, yeah, okay.
07:07Beautiful. Yeah.
07:08Yeah.
07:15Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:21So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:29If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:35Oh, wow.
07:39I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't, if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go our separate ways.
07:51I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
08:00Previously on Open House.
08:03Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:14What's at stake is Alana's, like, feelings and emotions.
08:18I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:20Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
08:23So, we kind of want you to face that threat.
08:26Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy reason?
08:32That scenario wasn't in my head. I don't want to do it. Like, I want to live.
08:35Really?
08:37If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
08:43Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie.
08:45He's gorgeous.
08:47Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us?
08:50Yeah.
08:52If it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
08:56I did not think this is where we were going to be on, like, our first night.
09:07And here you are.
09:08This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
09:10Really?
09:11If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
09:13I'd be like, no.
09:14We didn't think that we would be in a hot tub if we were better.
09:17And here you are.
09:20How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:29How do you feel?
09:31I'm okay.
09:32Yeah?
09:39In that moment, watching Alex and Georgie kiss...
09:44I thought, oh, no.
10:07How did that make you feel?
10:09Like, fine.
10:10Like, I was, like, yeah, like, almost a bit turned on by it.
10:15I really want you on me.
10:17Can I, like, want you on me?
10:20I can't believe this.
10:21Are you proud of me?
10:22Yeah.
10:24Like, what the hell?
10:26Yay.
10:27Yeah.
10:28I've never seen Alana kiss another woman.
10:37I knew it was part of her life, like, long, long ago.
10:40But to see that, like, reopen that door was such a huge tunnel for me to see that.
10:45It was, like, really hot.
10:46Oh, my God.
10:47I'm obsessed.
10:48Stop it.
10:50Can we just take you home with us?
10:53Well, it all flowed very naturally.
10:56We've got a free wig.
10:57Yeah.
10:58Who the fuck would have thought we'd have been here?
10:59I honestly don't know what's happening right now.
11:00I feel like this is normal.
11:02I think, like, things are feeling good.
11:03Mm-hm.
11:04Do you maybe wanna come back to our room?
11:05I would love that.
11:06Explore things a little bit more.
11:07Take the next step.
11:08We'll do baby steps.
11:09So let's do it.
11:10I didn't think that was gonna be a thing ever since I was in and go home.
11:13I don't know what's going to happen right now.
11:14I was looking at all the things moving into the room, and this is a great thing to do.
11:15I feel like, this is normal.
11:16I don't know what's happening right now.
11:17I feel like this is normal.
11:19I think, like, things are feeling good.
11:21Mm-hm.
11:22Do you know who I wanna come back to our room?
11:25I would love that.
11:26Yeah.
11:27Just explore things a little bit more.
11:30Take the next step.
11:31We'll do baby steps.
11:33Stop, do it.
11:34I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in like a single female, I thought that would be way too intimidating.
11:42I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up, yeah.
11:49Yeah, like this has been insane.
11:51Honestly I can't believe it's such a change and you can't do anything and now we're inviting...
11:57I just have to come back to our room.
11:59Back to our room.
12:04Oh my god, that show show.
12:15Oh no, I did say my ass like eats them.
12:18New arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night.
12:22Oh, that's bad.
12:24They'll be attending a sexy barn dance where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block when it comes to opening up.
12:38Whenever we've dipped our toes into being open, Tom felt he just couldn't perform, felt really uncomfortable.
12:49They've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience, where the focus is only on foreplay.
12:58Hey babe.
12:59What?
13:00I look fucking ridiculous.
13:01With no pressure to perform, the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion.
13:07I do foresee hurdles.
13:09The residents are all very beautiful.
13:11The problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious.
13:20If I went in there on my own, I think I'd probably walk straight back out.
13:24How are you guys feeling?
13:25Yeah, great.
13:26Shit's good.
13:27This is out of my comfort zone.
13:28The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room.
13:53So what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them.
14:01I feel sick inside.
14:02I don't think I can.
14:03Okay, so listen, there's no pressure.
14:05That's what we're saying.
14:06Let's just give it a really good go.
14:08This is what we're here for.
14:10First to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz.
14:14What are you looking for then?
14:16That's the question.
14:17So for me, I need that conversation.
14:20Yeah.
14:21And for you, it's obviously just about feeling body confident around.
14:24Yeah, I'm a bit, yeah.
14:25Yeah.
14:26Just lacking in confidence a little bit.
14:27Yeah.
14:28That's understandable.
14:29You know, it's really nerve-cracking.
14:31If there's any environment where personality matters more than looks, it's this environment.
14:36We'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey.
14:40Hello, you all right?
14:41I'm Tom.
14:42How are you doing me?
14:43All right?
14:44How are you doing?
14:45I'm Gaze.
14:46This is my wife Olivia.
14:47What's your dynamic?
14:48That's a big word, that is.
14:49Dynamic.
14:50That's a big word, isn't it?
14:51Dynamic.
14:52I love it.
14:53We're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling.
14:59You know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared.
15:02But when you have that, you know, responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression
15:06of the lifestyle, you want to make it the best.
15:09I used to be like really like outgoing, going gym seven days.
15:13I used to have like the abs and I basically comfort eat and drink and of course I put
15:17on the weight now, so.
15:18You can just like kiss and you can like, you can go down on them and you can touch.
15:24And you don't necessarily just have the build up, but I think it is the poor mentality.
15:27You think you've got to go through that natural process.
15:30Olivia and Gage, they made me feel so like, it just felt, it just felt natural just talking
15:35to her.
15:36After a confidence boost from Gage, Tom moves on to single resident Aaron, who's no stranger
15:43to open conversation.
15:45Do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience?
15:49Basically, have fun, relax and try and let my hair down.
15:53To a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up, I think the best
15:58thing they can do is talk to, talk to us.
16:01You know, you've come here for the sex, but don't forget that the sex comes from a person.
16:05I'm a single guy, I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women.
16:10Oh wow!
16:11At the same time for two years.
16:12Oh wow!
16:13That's crazy!
16:14Split 50-50.
16:15Yeah.
16:16There'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence.
16:19Yeah.
16:20And I'll go and play and I won't even get half.
16:22But that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around.
16:26That's, that's what I'm, that's what we're trying to get through to talk.
16:31Speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me to basically say I don't need my penis basically,
16:37I've got my hands and I've got my tongue.
16:39And I think Lauren really likes them as well.
16:43Aaron has given me fanny footers.
16:45So I've never had more than two men at once.
16:49So my ideal situation would obviously be more men.
16:56Fresh from meeting Aaron, Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree.
17:04Aaron, because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard.
17:08Yeah, yeah.
17:09Because I feel like he would understand you as well.
17:12Yeah.
17:14Aaron made me feel really at ease.
17:16He, yeah, he was absolutely brilliant.
17:21I'm so scared of the rejection.
17:22Mainly for Tom rather than for me.
17:24Because is he then going to be really nervous going forward?
17:29That little bit inside that if they say no, it'll feel like shit yeah but, you know.
17:33You just have to wait and see and see what happens.
17:37We just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just.
17:41Maybe some games, some teasing, some fuddling.
17:44If it escalates, escalates.
17:45If it doesn't, it doesn't.
17:47And that doesn't.
17:52Okay guys, I'm not going to say that I'm going to play.
17:57It's for me at the moment, I take a lot more to get to that point.
18:03I was surprised by Aaron because he said he didn't want to play.
18:08Aaron, without being rude, obviously we have to move along with being honest.
18:12Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea.
18:14But for me, I don't obviously want to put Tom off even more with this process.
18:18It's like rejection.
18:20I'm just, yeah, I'm shocked.
18:30Right, move all the things off the bed.
18:31Put them all on the, here.
18:33In their bedroom, Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie.
18:40Are we going to be weird and go, are you okay if we get protection just in case?
18:44Or just have it on the side?
18:46They're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap.
18:54By having a threesome.
18:56I don't know how this is going to go.
18:59Seeing Alex being with another woman.
19:02With where we are now, look, I'm definitely open to just seeing hot ghosts.
19:10But as much as this is a really big step for me, it's also a really big step for him because he's going to potentially be with another woman.
19:20This is all new and it's starting to feel very real.
19:24So my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel.
19:30I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have, but equally it could not be.
19:34Hello, can I come in? Can I come in? You all right?
19:42Oh, it's so nice!
19:45It would be devastating if anything went wrong here, for sure.
19:52So much better. Okay, cool.
19:54This is a bit more chill.
19:56Don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum.
19:59No, I like that. Let's just pick up on my laptop.
20:05The sexual chemistry was insane.
20:14The fact that I could, like, just let go of everything and just really enjoy it, like...
20:24I never thought that would have happened in this experience.
20:34Oh, my goodness, that's it.
20:35Oh, yes.
20:36I love the taste.
20:40But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.
20:58I think, like, I was overwhelmed.
20:59It was, like, from zero to a hundred and it caught me off guard, really.
21:17Although I was, like, turned on an idea, I wasn't, like, turned on.
21:21I think, like, you...
21:23What?
21:25Oh, my God!
21:26Oh, my God!
21:29Oh, my God!
21:30Oh, my God!
21:32Oh, my God, yeah!
21:37I can't quite match that right now.
21:39That right now.
21:44Thank God, yeah.
21:52I've had like the best evening.
21:55Yay.
21:56Give me a little kiss.
21:57Yeah.
21:58Bye.
22:04I'll see you soon as well.
22:06Yeah, we'll see you soon.
22:07Bye.
22:09I love you so much.
22:15I loved it.
22:16I genuinely loved every minute of that.
22:18There wasn't any part where I thought,
22:21I feel uncomfortable or like,
22:23oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:25Like, I literally loved every single second of that.
22:28Did you enjoy it?
22:31I loved seeing you, like, enjoy them.
22:34Yeah.
22:36I loved it.
22:39Do I always seem to get the wet patch?
22:51Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
22:58At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:08It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident, Georgie.
23:27You're so quiet.
23:28Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened, but I could feel there was something a little bit off.
23:41What are you thinking about?
23:51I'm just thinking, processing.
23:56Processing.
24:01Are you sure you're okay?
24:02Yeah.
24:06When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:13I knew Alex was in his head a little bit.
24:19Even at home, like, he can go a bit quieter sometimes, but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:25Hello.
24:30Hello.
24:31Come in.
24:32Hello.
24:33Take a seat.
24:34Take a seat.
24:35Get comfy.
24:36How was last night?
24:39Like, I'm really happy.
24:40Yeah.
24:41It just, it felt right.
24:44Beautiful breakthrough.
24:45Absolutely.
24:46I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:53Mm.
24:54She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.
24:57And, like, I actually enjoyed watching it, which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:04What are you thinking, Alex?
25:07I don't, I don't know.
25:09I don't want to take away because I loved last night.
25:11Sure.
25:12It was incredible.
25:13But I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:18Okay, so, yeah, tell me about that.
25:20I don't know, like, I don't think I was...
25:22I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like, so that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:27Okay, okay, okay.
25:30The couple thing I definitely want to do, but again, I don't know if I go all the way, so...
25:34Okay.
25:35Hmm.
25:36That's where...
25:37I think that's why I've been quiet this morning because I wasn't sure.
25:38For me, there was, like, something missing, and I don't know what it was.
25:41I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection-based, like, when it comes to sex.
25:45Mm, mm-hmm.
25:46Like, deep, deeper emotions.
25:47Sure.
25:48Intimacy?
25:49Is that what you're seeking?
25:51Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:54I do find it better if there's a connection, and that's where I am right now.
25:59Like, I'm trying to figure that out.
26:01The thing that I want to understand is, how do you feel about that?
26:10Erm...
26:12I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:15Sure.
26:16Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:19Like, what if you build, like, this really great connection with someone else that you then feel is...
26:27Like...
26:29Like...
26:30That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:35You okay?
26:36Yeah.
26:37It's okay.
26:39You're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of, and stuff is coming up.
26:44Yeah.
26:45Like, that's all about that.
26:48So, that's scary to you right now.
26:50So, let's just look at it in the face.
26:51Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:54Let's just, like...
26:55I think it's definitely not, like, deep connection with what I have with you.
26:59It's a lot less than that.
27:01Okay.
27:02It's more familiarization.
27:03Like, you almost want to be friends with that person before it...
27:06Yeah.
27:07I've never been, like, a one-night guy, if you know what I mean.
27:11To be fair, like, yeah, even we didn't sleep together, like, straight away.
27:15Mm.
27:16So, I get that.
27:17I know that's not necessarily, like, how you work.
27:20Mm.
27:21So, what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:25Like, do you want to have, like, one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:32Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:35Like, what does that look like for you?
27:36We did say, like, it would be nice to have, like, one couple that we're, like, best friends with.
27:41Mm-hmm.
27:42And we get on really well with them and, like, play together as well.
27:45Mm-hmm.
27:46So, what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want.
27:53But I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece.
27:58For you to actually go there and start making a connection.
28:01And for you to feel like, to figure out what it feels like when it's happening.
28:05And spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.
28:07And then, once you feel like you have a connection in place, then you can escalate things in your own time.
28:14And take it from there and you see how it goes for you.
28:16How does that sound?
28:17No, that sounds good.
28:18You happy?
28:19Good.
28:20I'm fine with that. Are you definitely fine?
28:23Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:24Okay.
28:25I think that the biggest thing off my chest was what we've spoken about now.
28:28That was, like, just something I needed to understand.
28:35You're welcome. You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:37I'm excited to meet Subcarpo today.
28:44But, um, this moment, I don't know if I can go all the way.
28:51We'll have to see.
28:56We love each other, right?
28:58Yeah, we do.
29:07At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident Aaron.
29:21Let your hair down.
29:22Let my hair down.
29:23I'm going to make you line dancing.
29:24I am not line dancing.
29:25That is not happening.
29:32Oh, ah!
29:37Oh, my God.
29:39Hi, girls!
29:43I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.
29:45It's what I used to really enjoy.
29:46So, I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
29:55When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.
29:58Yeah.
29:59And, like, the fact that he was just busting out the robot and, like, just having so much fun with it.
30:02And I was like, let's do this, let's do that.
30:04And he was just like, yeah, let's do it. It's the last.
30:06That's the last.
30:12I'm buzzing.
30:13I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.
30:20He's so relaxed now.
30:24Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective, finding residence for a sensual after-party.
30:31I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:32So, I think it's a lot more easier to invite people and to see if they say yes or no.
30:37You lead the way.
30:38Hello, well.
30:39Welcome to my friend.
30:40Hello.
30:41I'm your shirt for tonight.
30:42Have you guys been enjoying yourself?
30:43Yeah.
30:44Come on, yeah.
30:45But it was basically, we're just wondering if you'd like to be, to, like, come back with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:05Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are.
31:06I'll be at the bar.
31:07I wasn't expecting that.
31:08I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a note.
31:12As Tom's confidence grows.
31:13And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
31:14Yeah.
31:15Yeah.
31:16Yeah.
31:17Yeah.
31:18Oh, wow.
31:19Yeah.
31:20Yeah.
31:21So does the after-party.
31:22Wondering if you want to come.
31:23Yes.
31:24I love that.
31:25That's quick.
31:26That's so easy.
31:28And the guest list swells to five.
31:29We were pleasantly surprised.
31:30And it actually feels kind of, like, nice, like feeling, I know it sounds weird, but wanted.
31:45I would say I'm definitely attracted to him, for sure.
31:49They're a vibe, 100%.
31:51I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.
31:53Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet.
31:59As the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety.
32:06And successfully open up.
32:08We're basically, we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.
32:15I'm not promising anything.
32:17I've still got them hurdles.
32:18I've still got them body confidence and all that.
32:21The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.
32:26Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up, Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples.
32:45Oh, this looks so cute.
32:51We're just looking for, like, good vibes.
32:54Obviously, going into the couple scenario is slightly different because it's both of us have got to have an attraction to two different people then.
33:02We'll see, you know, if it's the right people then it will be there.
33:09Hello.
33:10Hello.
33:11How are you?
33:12I'm Joe.
33:13Joe, lovely to meet you.
33:15How are you doing?
33:16Hello again.
33:17Was it just on the walk in?
33:18Literally on the walk in.
33:19Both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them, don't we?
33:23Yeah, they're definitely good looking.
33:24They're super hot.
33:25Who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then?
33:28I think coming here might have been more me.
33:31Did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady?
33:36What were you initially looking for?
33:38Connections with couples.
33:39Yeah.
33:40Is where we were looking at.
33:41The hardest part was obviously for me to kind of get over, like, insecurities with having another female.
33:48Like, being physical and, like, smash that on the first note.
33:52So we're like, yay!
33:54One thing I'd say is, oh, I'll do three things as easiest.
33:59You guys have actually done probably one of the harder things.
34:01Like, foursomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do.
34:07Hi, I'm Alana.
34:08Hi, Alana.
34:09Lovely to meet you.
34:10Nice to meet you.
34:13So, tonight.
34:14Today, tonight, you're looking for a couple swap?
34:16Yeah.
34:17Just trying to, like, find our way into it now.
34:19We definitely want to be in a space that's just finding our, like, place.
34:22Big thing letting someone else into your relationship.
34:25But it's nice because, like you say, everyone's, like, scenarios are different.
34:31Well, it's about you guys.
34:32That's the thing.
34:33It's like, you're not here to please someone else.
34:35Yeah.
34:36It's what's best for you.
34:37I didn't know how I was going to feel about it.
34:39Yeah.
34:40But actually, like, I've shocked everyone and ended up being absolutely fine with it.
34:46Alex and Alana were quite attractive, actually.
34:49There was definitely a vibe there.
34:51I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us.
35:00Can I go for a chat?
35:01Can I go for a chat?
35:02Yes.
35:06Hi.
35:08Tea.
35:10Ooh, thank you.
35:15How have you found it?
35:16Um.
35:17Like, it's been nice to speak to couples today.
35:21Like, obviously, that was what we wanted to do.
35:24For me, I feel like Jem and Daz, I just feel like they would be, like, a really great couple to get to know.
35:31I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us.
35:33How are you feeling?
35:34Is there anyone that you felt like you might have had a connection with?
35:40I've, like, um, honestly, at the moment, I just don't know right now if I can go any further.
35:55Go any further?
36:01Okay.
36:03How do you, how are you feeling about that?
36:06Um.
36:08Yeah, like, I'm a little bit surprised.
36:11Um.
36:14What is it that's making you feel that way?
36:16Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:20Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon?
36:24Like, it's just got a bit overwhelming?
36:30Mate, I don't know, like...
36:33It's more of a me thing, this now.
36:38Like, for now.
36:40That's as far as I can go.
36:42You've hit, like, a bit of a wall with it.
36:44Yeah.
36:45Okay.
36:46Okay.
36:49I do want to redo this.
36:50Okay.
36:54That makes me happy.
37:05With Alex unable to continue, the couple stay at the retreat has come to an end.
37:17Going forward, I do think opening up a relationship is for me and Alana.
37:22But it's going to take time.
37:24It will take more time for me.
37:25Um, I don't know, I feel, like, emotional now.
37:35I could...
37:37What just happened then?
37:39I don't know.
37:40I don't know.
37:41It's just the whole thing's, like, just very overwhelming, isn't it? Like...
37:54What's up?
37:55I don't know.
37:56I don't know.
37:57I don't know what to say.
37:58It's just, like, a very emotional few days, isn't it?
37:59Like...
38:00What's up?
38:02I don't know.
38:03I don't know what to say.
38:05It's just, like, a very emotional few days, isn't it?
38:08The future will, at some point, be a full open relationship, but at the moment, it's baby steps still.
38:22Um...
38:25I have.
38:27It's just been a very overwhelming process, but, um...
38:32I don't want to keep crying, but, like, I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:38Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought.
38:42Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it.
38:48It's not easy.
38:49But, like, we've absolutely got the ability to do it.
38:56I absolutely love you to pieces, and I'm happy and glad, and I love you so much.
39:00I love you so much.
39:12Just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it.
39:14However, if you hadn't, then why is everyone saying yes?
39:19Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom.
39:25Ooh!
39:26Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff, it doesn't mean, like, you know, they see me and go, actually, no, what the fuck is that?
39:34It's what goes to my head.
39:36I know.
39:37So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time.
39:41Okay?
39:42Yeah.
39:44No pressure.
39:45They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay, Tom will manage to get an erection.
39:52A stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up.
39:55I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about, um, for, for my dick not to hug.
40:05Just to have a hug.
40:13Ooh!
40:15Oh!
40:17Oh, wow!
40:18Look at me!
40:19What happened!
40:20How did you do?
40:22Isn't it it?
40:24Yeah!
40:25Fuck it!
40:27Yeah, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:31I've been in shock, to be fair.
40:32be fair. My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable because I will get
40:37naked and run around. Like I am the complete opposite of Tom. I know I want to be open
40:47and I'm not planning on changing that. I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle
40:52and it's Tom that is. Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid? It's basically
41:08just taking a top off. I definitely want to make Lauren happy. We'll try anything. Like
41:20jump this hurdle basically. But once it's in my head I can't before I freeze. Once I'm
41:28in that rut I can't get out of the rut. How are you feeling mate? It's weird but. You're
41:34getting worshiped. You're getting all the attention. This is my favourite thing. Despite Effie's
41:42advice to actively engage in foreplay Tom lets the ladies lead. Just let us know if it gets
41:49too overwhelming. It was putting shivers down my spine. I could feel everything. I feel
42:17absolutely petrified and sick. Next time on Open House. Are you ready for the next level?
42:29I feel absolutely petrified. Is it okay to kiss? It's two guys. Back in the rut. I have
42:44identified as gay. Today I don't know. I've been feeling very nutty. Never had any experience
42:52with gay maybe far. The worst case now would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting.
42:59This is out of my comfort area for sure.
43:01This is out of my comfort area for sure.
43:17Bye.
43:18The best though.
43:24Do want to pakistan a virgin.
43:29Whole full fortunately hut.
43:33For the next level.
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