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Married At First Sight UK S10E06
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00:00I don't struggle to meet women.
00:03Previously.
00:04I just haven't met the right person.
00:06Two more single strangers.
00:09I'm really ready to find the one.
00:12Married at first sight.
00:14But Bailey's bravado.
00:16So much.
00:176'4".
00:186'4"?
00:19There's no way he's 6'4".
00:20Fell flat for bride Rebecca.
00:22He's putting on like a bit of a show and it worries me.
00:26And Devani's negative nature.
00:28Everything is so intense and so deep.
00:31Prompted a heated heart to heart.
00:33The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas and then like get into bed with you.
00:38Hurling them head first into heartbreak.
00:41There's trouble in paradise isn't there?
00:45Tonight.
00:46I know what I want and what I don't want.
00:47It has to be right.
00:49One more couple says I do.
00:51But expectations.
00:53I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox.
00:57Sense of humour.
00:59Are quickly tested.
01:01Here's my rose.
01:02Oh you're a choker.
01:04He's not the silver fox I had in my.
01:08Bailey seeks a more intimate connection.
01:11I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you.
01:14I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them.
01:17That's just a bit too soon for me.
01:19And for Julia, Ruth and Devani.
01:21Devani and I slept separately.
01:23I haven't seen him since.
01:24The Road to a Honeymoon Reunion.
01:27You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that.
01:29Is heading for a dead end.
01:31This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.
01:39Oh my God, look at the sea.
01:40It looks so beautiful here.
01:43In Mauritius, Rebecca and Bailey have arrived on their honeymoon.
01:48Look how romantic this is.
01:49Nice big bed.
01:55Bailey has described himself as an alpha.
01:58But I'm not sure.
02:00So I want to spend quality time with him on the honeymoon.
02:04And to see if he fits into that alpha mould.
02:10Cheers.
02:10Cheers.
02:10Looking at Rebecca, she looks absolutely gorgeous.
02:15I'm definitely hoping it progresses.
02:17The next step is hopefully getting that little kiss from her.
02:19And that will probably make me happiest man right now.
02:22When I turn around, that moment seeing you, let's just say I had a big smile on my face.
02:27Oh, good.
02:28Yeah.
02:29So for me, I'll just say how I feel.
02:32Yeah.
02:32I am interested in seeing if there is that spark.
02:34And we can like kind of build on this.
02:36I think the pace that we're taking at is nice.
02:38I'm just getting to know, yeah.
02:40I do feel like we don't need to put pressure on it.
02:42We don't need to label anything.
02:43Like it just is what it is.
02:45We're still like kissing on the cheek level.
02:47I don't see the necessity to rush something like that.
02:51I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them.
02:54And I've only, like it's our first day of our honeymoon.
02:56I've only known Bailey for like a matter of hours really.
03:00That's just a bit too soon for me.
03:01Dovani and I slept separately and I haven't seen him since.
03:18He was really mad at what I said and what happened at the camel ride.
03:21And then last night when we're travelling back to the resort, Dovani just started shouting at me out of nowhere.
03:26He was coming at me with a lot of energy.
03:30One of my deal breakers that I said is a temper and anger.
03:33I've been very clear about that.
03:35And there was no need for it.
03:39On the way back, I spoke to Julia Ruth about how annoyed I was.
03:43I was just coming from a dinner that was very intense.
03:46There was a lot of emotions and I'm feeling like I've been mugged off.
03:49And that's something that I'm not standing for in this experiment.
03:52I want to be respected.
03:52I told him, like, I just need space, I just need time, we just need to kind of like back off, just like step away.
04:00This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.
04:07As Julia Ruth and Dovani's honeymoon hangs in the balance,
04:11back in the UK,
04:14another couple's journey in the experiment
04:16is about to begin.
04:18Wow.
04:19Whoa!
04:22Now then, here we go.
04:25I wouldn't know how to purposely flirt.
04:29I ain't no peacock.
04:30Check that out, girls.
04:33And they go, oh.
04:36My friends would describe me as odd.
04:38Whoa!
04:40A bit quirky.
04:41And lovable.
04:44Verbal diarrhoea, that's my middle name.
04:47My approach to life is carpe diem.
04:52It's as simple as that.
04:53Being 60 doesn't prevent you from doing anything.
04:56It's a state of mind.
04:57I'm old school.
04:59I'm proud of it.
05:00It is.
05:01Here she is.
05:02Recently, we went to Ibiza.
05:05Champagne, cocktails.
05:08I don't remember the rest.
05:10I think you need someone who's really patient, really understanding.
05:16You keep emphasizing the word really there.
05:17Really.
05:18Really.
05:19My outlook on life is just positive.
05:21Wake up in the morning positive.
05:23Woo-hoo!
05:24Ding, ding!
05:27But positivity is something that you have to learn.
05:31It's not a given.
05:35My life's been very tough, very checkered.
05:38When I was around five-year-old, my father walked out and left and disappeared.
05:45Forever.
05:46I was desperate for a father figure growing up.
05:50I had no contact with him, period.
05:54Then 35 years later, I received a phone call from the good old Salvation Army.
06:00We've found your father.
06:04Immediately decided the next day to go and visit him.
06:08Got to the front door.
06:14And walked away.
06:16Didn't knock on the door.
06:21Unfortunately, the day my son was born, he died.
06:26I wake up every day, every day, regretting that I didn't knock on the door.
06:44I think with hindsight, not having those values and those teachings from my father has affected me in the long run.
06:50I think it's certainly affected my marriage.
06:56I don't think I knew how to be a husband.
06:59I had no yardstick.
07:01I had nobody to follow.
07:04Experience of marriage has made me very, very cautious.
07:07I haven't dated since.
07:11So there's been no dating at all?
07:14Zero.
07:14Period.
07:15Period.
07:16My last relationship was my marriage, 15 years ago.
07:21I'd love to have made it work and I just failed.
07:22And I feel a little bit of failure for that.
07:25I don't want to go through that failure again.
07:26Right.
07:27So tell me why now.
07:28I'm always the life and soul of the party.
07:31It's like, hey, what are you doing?
07:33I'm actually quite lonely inside.
07:36So all my children are in a good place.
07:39So my job is done.
07:41It's my time now.
07:47I know that I've got a lot of love to give.
07:49I'm not sure if I've just found a person yet that's able to bring that out of me.
07:58I would love to be matched to somebody positive, loving, funny.
08:06I think somebody who has a nice, friendly, smiley face.
08:12My future wife should bring a lot of fun to the party.
08:17Let's have an adventure.
08:22I'm Anita.
08:23I'm 54.
08:24I'm from Durham.
08:26Oh, my God.
08:27I need cue cards, mate.
08:33I'm a devoted mother of two children.
08:35I love being a mum, but also I love being a grandmother as well.
08:38Cheers, big ears.
08:40Cheers.
08:41My grandchildren probably think I'm a little bit wild.
08:45I'm always doing something crazy, whether it's fire eating, learning to fly a helicopter,
08:52riding motorbikes.
08:55Of course I'm the best grandma.
08:57My love life is non-existent.
09:0718 months ago, my whole world was turned upside down.
09:11My mum suddenly passed away in November.
09:15I got made redundant the week before Christmas, and my partner walked out Christmas Eve.
09:22Within six weeks, I felt like I'd lost everything.
09:27I had no inkling to think that it was going to end.
09:43I thought that we wanted the same thing at the end of the road.
09:47Obviously, he didn't have the same ending as what I wanted.
09:51I just sat and cried, to be honest.
09:55But then I just thought, I've got to get up and start planning for the month ahead.
10:00So I had something to look forward to.
10:02So I started putting a list together of things I've always wanted to try.
10:08First on the list was a super club in Ibiza.
10:11Had my eyes opened.
10:12I got a tattoo from my thigh right up to my ribcage and breast enlargement.
10:19I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox, a sense of humour, adventurous,
10:35someone with the same lust for life who I can grow old with.
10:39After everything I've been through, I still believe in love.
10:46Paul and Anita have so much in common.
10:48They've both been married before, they both have grown up children,
10:52and they both have a wealth of life experience, good and bad.
10:57Absolutely.
10:58Anita's been through some tough times,
11:00but she's dealt with them by throwing herself into exciting new adventures,
11:04which speaks to her resilience and strength of character.
11:07Her optimism and zest for life are qualities that should really excite Paul.
11:12And Paul is a real character too.
11:14He's a titan in his friendship group,
11:16and his humour and sense of fun should really appeal to Anita.
11:19But importantly,
11:20he also brings a steady, laid-back energy,
11:23which she should find attractive and grounding.
11:26They both want a meaningful connection with a partner they can really embrace life with.
11:30And of course,
11:31their shared family values and life experiences
11:34are things they can use to connect and build strong foundations.
11:36I think this is a fantastic match.
11:40Anita and Paul.
11:51So how are you feeling?
11:53Nervous, apprehensive, worried.
11:57Jordie is getting ready with me today.
11:59She is my daughter-in-law.
12:00She will calm my nerves.
12:03And I know she'll just be there having my back.
12:07So what are you expecting at the end of the aisle?
12:10What was it?
12:11Silver Fox, James Bond, Bear Grylls,
12:14and Finney Jones all mixed into one.
12:17And funny as well.
12:19And yeah, sense of humour.
12:20Yeah, good crack.
12:21I'm hoping for a Silver Fox.
12:22But if he's not what I expect,
12:26I'll change my mind any time I want.
12:28I've got my trainers in the bag.
12:34The day has finally arrived,
12:36and I'm feeling like an excitable puppy.
12:42Hi.
12:43Wow.
12:45Stunning.
12:46Thanks.
12:47Well, there's only one person I could choose to get ready with me today,
12:50and that's my best man, Emily.
12:52My beautiful daughter.
12:54When you get married and they say,
12:55oh, you may kiss the bride,
12:57are you actually going to kiss her?
12:58Well, there'll certainly be no tongues.
12:59Well, don't...
13:00Ew!
13:02Like this, isn't it?
13:03Ew.
13:05Please don't.
13:05Something like that.
13:07TFI.
13:07I get you.
13:08I get you.
13:08May I?
13:10Even if you just find one little thing of common ground,
13:13I think you're all right.
13:16I've been waiting for Dad just to find somebody,
13:19and he just doesn't have anybody,
13:20apart from me, basically.
13:23I know your sort of coping mechanism is joking a lot.
13:29For someone that doesn't know you,
13:31it can come across a bit like, ooh.
13:33Yeah, but sometimes Shurer gives a bit lightheartedness to the event.
13:37Oh, definitely.
13:38It was a bit tense.
13:39Yeah, but don't forget, it is a wedding,
13:41so maybe keep it a bit, not too much humour.
13:45My dad's very eccentric and loud
13:48and gets, like, verbal diarrhoea, basically,
13:51but hopefully that won't come out
13:53and hopefully that'll stay hidden.
13:54I hope she gets past sort of the initial just blurting out stuff.
14:00You hope or you pray?
14:01Pray, probably.
14:02MUSIC PLAYS
14:04Wow!
14:06You look amazing!
14:08MUSIC PLAYS
14:09Wow!
14:10You look amazing!
14:12Oh, my God!
14:14You look amazing!
14:16Oh, my God!
14:19I actually can't believe it's now, today, it's happening.
14:23It's come around so quickly, standing in the dress.
14:27It's bloody real.
14:27LAUGHTER
14:28What are you doing?
14:30What am I doing?
14:32Oh, honestly, I just want to get out there now.
14:34I just want to meet him.
14:35I just want to get to know him.
14:37For the last few years, Anita has just been to hell and back,
14:40and I think she's stayed strong throughout it all.
14:42I think she just deserves the world now.
14:45She really does.
14:45MUSIC PLAYS
14:47I'd really like to have a soulmate, somebody who gets me.
15:12I hope she's happy with what I've got to offer her.
15:15MUSIC PLAYS
15:17Time will tell.
15:18We'll soon find out, won't we?
15:19LAUGHTER
15:20MUSIC PLAYS
15:21MUSIC PLAYS
15:22Wow!
15:24MUSIC PLAYS
15:26MUSIC PLAYS
15:28MUSIC PLAYS
15:30MUSIC PLAYS
15:32MUSIC PLAYS
15:34I'm Paul.
15:35Hi.
15:36MUSIC PLAYS
15:38MUSIC PLAYS
15:40MUSIC PLAYS
15:42MUSIC PLAYS
15:44How is she- is she nervous?
15:47I'm not nervous.
15:48I'm ready.
15:51MUSIC PLAYS
15:53Is she a bad timekeeper normally?
15:56She'll be here.
15:57MUSIC PLAYS
15:59MUSIC PLAYS
15:59Me only reservation would be like, can you get serious?
16:03Is he a little bit too much of a joke egg?
16:06MUSIC PLAYS
16:06MUSIC PLAYS
16:07HOO!
16:08MUSIC PLAYS
16:09MUSIC PLAYS
16:10MUSIC CONTINUES
16:11There's a lot riding on today. I'm not in my 20s or 30s anymore. This is it. It has to be right.
16:24The last two years, I've done a lot of soul-searching. I know what I want and what I don't want now.
16:31And I'm ready to find my other half.
16:34I'm hoping that he's the one. I'm looking for the missing piece of the jigsaw.
17:04Hey, hey, hey. Hello. Wow. You look amazing. Thank you.
17:16I'm Paul. I'm any day. Where'd I sign?
17:22Wow. Poing.
17:24First impressions of Paul, he's not the silver fox I had in mind. He's not the type I would typically gravitate to.
17:41Hey, hey, hey.
17:54You ready?
18:03Anita and Paul, you're going to make your vows to one another.
18:11I've not got my glasses.
18:13Yeah, I think so.
18:15Right, well, here's my vows. Are you ready?
18:18Are you a choc?
18:19I want to keep mine short and sweet.
18:24Although we've never met, we've been matched for a reason.
18:29Yeah.
18:30Our love will be built on patience, please, trust, respect and unwavering support for each other.
18:40Yeah.
18:40I'm looking forward to the journey ahead and the possibilities it may bring.
18:45One step at a time, we can build a loving, respectful partnership till death is due part.
18:51Oh, that's really nice.
18:52Can I have my glasses back?
18:55Your print was a bit of that big.
18:57Look, I can't see you.
19:00Out of all the people we could have possibly encountered in this world, here we are today standing together, you and me.
19:11Two strangers, two missing pieces of a jigsaw.
19:14And I can't wait to get to know you.
19:17So as we embrace this crazy adventure together, united as one, there's no doubt we are going to have moments that feel surreal and overwhelming, but hopefully more that feel amazing and just right.
19:29Yeah, nice.
19:29With mutual respect, trust and honesty, I'm sure we'll be able to grow together.
19:34So, Paul, I will laugh with you, cry with you, support you and definitely surprise you.
19:40And hopefully we will both find the happiness we never knew was missing in our lives.
19:44Wow, well done.
19:48Well done.
19:51Anita's vows were nice, weren't they?
19:53There was no GBT there, not a chance.
19:57She probably used a quill in paper, like I did, by candlelight.
20:03Ready?
20:03Oh, yeah.
20:05Anita, I give you this ring, wear it with love and joy.
20:09As it has no end, neither shall my love for you.
20:16Where'd you get it from?
20:18Oh, my God.
20:20Oh, yeah, it's a war.
20:22Go on.
20:23Yes!
20:29Paul, I give you this ring, wear it with pride and joy.
20:34As it has no end, neither shall my love for you.
20:39I choose you to be my husband this day and forevermore.
20:46Oh, easy.
20:49We will all be delighted if you would like to seal your commitment to your marriage with a kiss.
20:55Oh.
20:55Oh.
20:56Crazy, come on.
21:00I'm feeling very relieved.
21:03Anita is very attractive.
21:05Jackpot!
21:07She looks like she's a battle of laughs.
21:09He seems very nice.
21:12Seems a bit of a joker.
21:13He's not the silver fox I envisioned.
21:16But I do want to get to know him.
21:18So I'm just going to wait, see what happens.
21:22And hopefully the attraction part will come later.
21:26Oh, God, there's another one.
21:36You take that one.
21:37I'll protect you, don't worry.
21:39All right, back off, son.
21:40That's my wife, yeah?
21:41Behaviour yourself.
21:42Bailey and I are now at a point where we're really comfortable in each other's company, but I'm still not sure if he's my type.
21:51So the pace that Bailey and I are at at the moment feels absolutely fine for me.
21:57Yeah.
21:58Come on, son.
21:59Let's get some action.
22:01Must be on his honeymoon, eh?
22:03Let's get some action.
22:08Fucking hell.
22:09There's tortoises going out here everywhere.
22:11They're having a better time than me, but you don't know, we've still got a bit of time, haven't we?
22:14I would have never imagined falling out with my wife on a honeymoon.
22:38Being apart from Julia Ruth today, it was difficult for sure.
22:41But I feel like the space was needed.
22:47I've reflected, and I feel like there was just a lot of miscommunication.
22:52It was a lot of emotions that played a part.
22:55I don't want my wife to step away from the marriage.
23:04You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that, but we shall see.
23:10Hey.
23:11I missed you today.
23:33Yesterday was an emotional day.
23:35From our previous conversation at dinner, and then the elevated levels of stress that she went through the roof.
23:47There's just no need for that situation to happen.
23:51Just doing it in the heat of the moment.
23:53Mm-mm.
23:54There's no need for that.
23:55But, um, I do want to apologise for how I approached you.
24:03I feel like I came a bit too strong.
24:05I just wanted to get things off my chest, but it was the wrong time, and the way I articulated it wasn't the best.
24:12So I do understand why we are in this situation.
24:15I appreciate that, and I understand that, like, it's a lot of emotions to deal with.
24:23Next time I just need to just, you know what I mean, give it some time.
24:26A hundred percent.
24:28Do you forgive me?
24:28It's all right.
24:33Baby steps.
24:35I feel like it's good to iron out and have those things now.
24:38But this is the crucial part about relationships.
24:40Yeah.
24:41We're figuring out each other.
24:42That was nice.
24:44It does feel like it's got weight and meaning behind it, and it's not just words.
24:49I have one other surprise for you, but it is outside.
24:54Okay.
24:55Yeah?
24:56Yeah.
24:57Let's go.
24:59I think tonight went well.
25:01Obviously, going into it was a bit nerve-wracking, but I apologised, so I feel like we're definitely heading in the right direction.
25:08Open your eyes.
25:12Okay.
25:14Oh, you got the keys.
25:16I got the keys.
25:18Yeah.
25:19I've been writing this for a while.
25:20It's just like a little introduction to us.
25:25Okay.
25:25The first time I laid my eyes on you, I turned around, ooh, you made me smile.
25:34Don't run away, don't run away, don't run away.
25:40Don't run away, I'm feeling you.
25:42Don't run away, don't run away, don't run away.
25:48I'm feeling you.
25:56Beautiful.
25:57That was also you.
25:59Oh.
25:59Oh, that was amazing.
26:05I feel like I'm able to appreciate Devon a little bit more, and I think we understand each other's boundaries and how to communicate with each other and what we both need.
26:12But there is a lot more to still work through, so that's definitely going to be a challenge for us.
26:18Thank you for that and sharing with me.
26:21Nice.
26:21It was beautiful.
26:22Yeah?
26:23Mm.
26:30Hello.
26:32Congratulations.
26:33I'd like you to try and nuzzle her ear from there, if that's okay.
26:37What?
26:38No.
26:39A bit of, like, in the crook of her neck there.
26:40Oh, I'm going to blow it.
26:42I can't.
26:43She's very tickly.
26:48Getting the photographs taken, it's a bit too close for comfort.
26:51Yeah, it's a bit early for that.
26:54This is my first top three questions.
26:55How many times have you been married?
26:57One.
26:57How many children have you got?
26:59Three.
27:00Where do you live?
27:01Five miles south of Middlesbrough.
27:04Right.
27:05That's not too far.
27:06Geography-wise is good.
27:07We've both been married, we've both got children,
27:09so hopefully there's got to be some common ground there somewhere.
27:14So were you born in Scotland?
27:16Oh, I'm jock-a-nees.
27:17What?
27:18Jock-a-nees.
27:18What?
27:19Oh, you better believe it.
27:20I dare to leave an arse.
27:21He's obviously got a good sense of humour,
27:23and that's one of the things I did ask for.
27:26Let's get your arm around.
27:27Let's get physical.
27:29But I think he's going to be one of those people,
27:32if it's in here, it's going to come out here.
27:34Ha-ha, I got you.
27:36I got her.
27:37No, seriously, I've got her.
27:38Obviously, I don't know.
27:40I've got a lot more to find out about them.
27:42But it was a lot.
27:44It was really overwhelming.
27:50CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
27:52CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
27:54CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
27:56You all right?
27:59Yes, I'm all right, Jess.
28:00Hey, Darren.
28:00Hey.
28:01You all right?
28:02Yeah.
28:03I need a drink.
28:04I thought you were a big one.
28:06What did you ask for then?
28:07I asked for a silver fox.
28:10Silver fox, I think so.
28:11It's just by DNA, silver fox.
28:14Bit of a Bear Grylls, a bit of adventurous.
28:16Yeah, I could do that, yeah.
28:18Old-fashioned values, but young at heart.
28:21Emily reckons that's one of my failings,
28:23having old-fashioned values.
28:25Yeah, of course she's interested.
28:27She'll be interested.
28:28Yeah.
28:28I think we're maybe two peas in a pod.
28:33Jackpot.
28:33We have potential in the future, my dear.
28:35Yeah.
28:47Hi.
28:47How are you?
28:48Nice to meet you.
28:48Nice to meet you.
28:49I'm Rebecca.
28:50Nice to meet you.
28:51Nice to meet you.
28:51Some dancers, yeah.
28:53Latin dance.
28:54Are you ready for me to tread on your toes?
28:56Yeah.
28:57Come on.
28:58You look lovely.
28:59Very lovely.
29:00It's saucy dance, good location,
29:03but not used to people maybe not fancying me,
29:06and it's been so hard to tell at certain moments,
29:08so I'm going to put on the moves a little bit,
29:10pull her in a bit closer,
29:11show off a bit of my skills,
29:13and I'm sure she'll like that.
29:15One, two, three.
29:16Five.
29:18Five.
29:18Five more times.
29:19Five.
29:20I've lost my rhythm.
29:20Five.
29:21One, two, three.
29:22You're all right.
29:23I'm very distracted.
29:27Five, six, seven.
29:33She's trying to spawn herself.
29:34One, two, three.
29:35Oh!
29:36Oh!
29:36You spun me too.
29:37Sorry.
29:40All right, I've lost it.
29:42You're good, you're good.
29:43All right, I know.
29:43Fucking freestyle.
29:45Oh, this is a bit of me.
29:49It's nice feeling that closeness with Bailey.
29:53He's huge.
29:53He's like a big bear,
29:54so it is a nice feeling
29:56when he's got his hands around my waist.
29:58He's quite touchy-feely.
29:59I'm really starting to see
30:01that alpha side come out of Bailey.
30:03So today he's been better.
30:07Hmm.
30:08This is nice.
30:08This is very nice.
30:10Do you know, he was actually...
30:12This is going to sound so bad,
30:13but he was actually better than I thought.
30:14Come on, Jim.
30:15Come on, Jim.
30:17I feel more comfortable now
30:18with my hands on you than off you.
30:19Ah!
30:20Do you know what I mean?
30:21I feel much more comfortable.
30:22I feel like today,
30:25probably because of the dance class,
30:26it's like a physical thing, isn't it?
30:30You know, like, PDAs,
30:31like, I enjoy it,
30:33and, like, I like to know
30:34that somebody who's with me,
30:35like, wants to get hold of me.
30:37Do you know what I mean?
30:38And I do.
30:40Yeah, love grabbing over your hand,
30:41walking about,
30:42having chats with you,
30:43and those feelings,
30:44like, they're, like,
30:44I mean, you know,
30:45you know, like,
30:46I've captured a little bit
30:48of feelings for you.
30:49Do you know what I mean?
30:49It's going in the right way.
30:50What?
30:51Well, no, I am.
30:52Well, you must be able to feel it.
30:53Do you know what I mean?
30:54Like, I like speaking to you,
30:56getting to know you.
30:57Do you know what I mean?
30:57But I feel like, for me,
30:58it's happening in a better way.
30:58And I like speaking to you
30:59and getting to know you, too.
31:00Like, I really do.
31:02I don't think there's anyone
31:03I'd rather be here with you
31:05than you, yeah.
31:06Aw, you're very cute tonight.
31:08What he said
31:09about catching feels,
31:11that vulnerability
31:12brings you closer.
31:13It was nice to hear.
31:15I think we both
31:16find each other attractive.
31:18I do think things
31:19are progressing
31:19in the right way.
31:30Congratulations, Paul.
31:31Definitely punching, though.
31:33Do you reckon?
31:33100%.
31:34You're punching above your weight, man.
31:35She's not attractive, lass.
31:36I don't think she is.
31:37A real prince is in order, lass.
31:39Is there a bit of chemistry there, is there?
31:42There's a bit of biology coming on.
31:43Oh, there's some biology.
31:46How are you feeling?
31:47I'm still a bit nervous, to be honest, yeah.
31:50It's overwhelming, isn't it?
31:51It's like...
31:52Obviously, there's going to be a lot of laughs.
31:54Yeah, yeah, definitely.
31:56Honestly, I love that,
31:57because he's...
31:58He can be serious,
31:59but he loves a laugh.
32:01He just wants to have fun.
32:02And literally, sometimes it comes across the wrong way
32:04when he says something.
32:06Yeah.
32:06And if you're willing to be a bit...
32:08Patience, yeah.
32:10Yeah, a bit of patience.
32:11You know what I mean?
32:12Yeah.
32:12There's a lot of the boxes ticked.
32:14Yeah.
32:14So...
32:14And it's an experiment,
32:16so we're just going to have to trust the process
32:17and see what happens.
32:18Yeah.
32:18I'm just going to stick with it.
32:20Yeah.
32:20Give it 100%.
32:21Yeah.
32:22I really like Emily.
32:24Very protective of my dad.
32:25And she just said to bear with him
32:27for maybe the silly things that he does come out with.
32:29Hopefully, the jokes and the nervous energy.
32:33There's a mask.
32:33And I think I just need to get to know him a little bit more.
32:36Hey!
32:45Ah, seat last!
32:50Emily, she's very nice.
32:51She's very protective of you.
32:53Is she?
32:54Yeah.
32:54Oh, that's interesting.
32:55She knows you best, doesn't she?
32:56She knows that kind of...
32:57Maybe not.
32:58The jokey, nervous energy is kind of a mask.
33:02Of course it is.
33:02Yeah.
33:03I think a couple of times I've been in deep,
33:05you know, relationship-wise,
33:07and it's not been the best outcome.
33:10And I kind of want to bear it all,
33:11but very carly.
33:12Yeah.
33:15So, what are you expecting from this marriage, then, Paul?
33:19I'm expecting mutual respect to restate.
33:22Yeah.
33:23I think we've got to have each other's back.
33:25I think that's quite important,
33:26because there'll be some...
33:27I think there'll be some tough times here and there.
33:29He seems like a genuine, lovely person,
33:34but I'm struggling with the attraction part.
33:37So, I think talking and being honest and being open
33:40is going to be the only way forward for me and him.
33:42We seem to be cut from the same cloth
33:46in respect of that respect thing
33:48and that kind of old school.
33:50Well, that's what I'm hoping from the marriage,
33:52a little bit of trust,
33:54respect, honesty.
33:56Good one.
33:57Yeah.
33:58I'm just going to take one day as it comes.
34:00Yeah.
34:01Yeah, go with the flow
34:02and just try and enjoy it.
34:12I'm feeling super-duper pleased.
34:14I feel relieved that she thinks I'm something
34:16that she can get on with and build with.
34:18It's been a little bit of a mixture
34:21of funny and serious today.
34:23I think the laughs have covered a lot of nerves.
34:26For this marriage to work,
34:28I think we've got a lot of common ground,
34:30but I do think we've got a lot of work going forward.
34:32I feel like we've got closer yesterday.
34:49Did you?
34:50Mm-hmm.
34:51There has been slight progression.
34:55Bailey and I did kiss last night.
34:57HE LAUGHS
34:59HE LAUGHS
35:01I think yesterday was my favourite day, actually.
35:04Yeah?
35:05Had a little kiss for the first time,
35:06which was nice.
35:07I think the cheek's firmly gone away now.
35:10Those kisses have progressed.
35:12Definitely a bit more my style.
35:17Look at the size of the waves.
35:19It is looking worse and worse.
35:21They've literally just put a letter through the door.
35:23Let's see.
35:24It's about this weather.
35:25Right, so class three cyclone morning.
35:28Fucking hell.
35:30Oh, my God.
35:31For your safety,
35:32any movement outside the resort is strictly prohibited.
35:35Please do not leave your room unless absolutely necessary.
35:38I'm sure we can figure out a few things to do.
35:40Yeah, we're going to have to entertain ourselves then.
35:41Yeah.
35:42If we're in all day,
35:43maybe we can progress on last night a little bit.
35:45HE LAUGHS
35:45I feel like the time will go really quick for us.
35:48Yeah, we can just sit in all day,
35:50get a bit closer.
35:50HE LAUGHS
35:51How nice is this?
35:58It looks actually beautiful.
36:01I can't wait to get changed and...
36:04Oh, if I'm going to see you naked.
36:05No.
36:05HE LAUGHS
36:06Paul is...
36:08Talkative.
36:09He hasn't switched off yet.
36:10HE LAUGHS
36:11Oh!
36:11HE LAUGHS
36:12I don't know if it's nerves or whether that is truly Paul.
36:16Have a smell.
36:16HE LAUGHS
36:17So, the next few days is going to be pretty crucial.
36:21HE LAUGHS
36:22The swans, together.
36:23You've got to be careful about the swans,
36:25cos they look all grey, so, but underneath, they're going...
36:27HE LAUGHS
36:28I feel fantastic after arriving, settling in,
36:32seeing our beautiful suite.
36:33I feel really good.
36:35Oh, it's all right, actually.
36:37Paul is loud, he's brash, but that could be a mask.
36:40So, I'm looking forward to getting to know the real Paul.
36:43But at the minute, it's a lot, a lot for me.
36:45HE LAUGHS
36:46HE LAUGHS
36:47HE LAUGHS
36:48Because of the cyclone,
36:58the restaurants are all closed in the hotel tonight.
37:01So, Bailey has told me to get dressed up,
37:04and he's going to sort it.
37:06Hello, Trouble.
37:08How's it going?
37:09Oh, Bailey, this is so nice.
37:11Boy do good.
37:12It's so nice to see him be really romantic and gentle
37:15and go to loads of effort for the date.
37:17You look bloody lovely, by the way.
37:19Thank you, you look nice, too.
37:21Cheers.
37:23So, is, like, this what you do for all of your first dates?
37:26No, only for you.
37:27HE LAUGHS
37:28Am I right in saying, like, we've both really had, like,
37:32one really significant relationship?
37:35No, I've had a couple, yeah.
37:37OK.
37:37Yeah, obviously, most recent speakers for me, yeah,
37:39cos it was the longest.
37:40What happened then?
37:41I don't know, we kind of grew apart, I think, yeah, so...
37:44It's hard, isn't it, cos when you've got a child,
37:46like, I think it gives that different dynamic.
37:47You look at your relationships a bit different.
37:50I think Bluebell's always kind of in the forefront of my mind, so...
37:53Yeah, of course.
37:54Yeah.
37:55Do you think, like, you would definitely want to have children again
37:58in the future?
37:59That's what I want.
38:00Yeah.
38:01Yeah, but I'd have to be short.
38:02Like, I 100% want to be a mum and 100% know that it's in my future.
38:08Yeah.
38:08Yeah, and I would have to be with someone who would want to do that, too.
38:11I want a big family.
38:12I want those of kids, yeah.
38:15I love being a dad.
38:16Honestly, I love being a dad.
38:18It's definitely the most important thing that brings me the most happiness
38:21is being a father, so, yeah, definitely.
38:24It's so nice to hear that Bailey does want to be a father again
38:27in the future, and he knows how important that is to me,
38:31so it's something that we're on the same page with.
38:34I'm just really enjoying getting close to her.
38:36It just feels natural.
38:37Do you know what I mean?
38:38It does, yeah.
38:38And share a few little kisses, which is nice.
38:42I've moved past the cheek stage now, haven't I?
38:43Yeah, no more cheeks, yeah?
38:44Yeah, no more cheeks.
38:46You're a good kisser as well.
38:49Why are you getting all shy now?
38:50I am shy.
38:51You're getting shy?
38:51I am shy.
38:52Being locked up inside all day is helping us getting a little bit closer.
38:56I'm being respectful.
38:57I'm going at Beck's pace.
38:58But, yeah, I'm hoping this cyclone gets the train moving a little bit, though.
39:01Let me get your show.
39:11Oh, thank you.
39:12Come on, madam.
39:14I'm going to pull it away.
39:15Whoosh.
39:16Good gentleman.
39:17Whoosh.
39:19There's no spark there yet, but he's certainly a gentleman.
39:23He's got that bit right.
39:24To finally be here with a beautiful guy.
39:26A girl, sorry.
39:27Yeah, yeah.
39:27But as far as revealing your emotions and sharing and all of the intimate stuff, I think
39:36he struggles with that a little bit.
39:38So, have you been in many relationships, Paul?
39:41Like, seriously?
39:42Serious ones?
39:42Yeah.
39:43Four.
39:44Four.
39:45You've only been married once, I'd say, yeah.
39:49How long were you married?
39:51Six years, five years, six years.
39:52I mean, I was married when I was 17, two children, divorced by the time I was 22.
39:59I think he was my virginity child was in my early 20s.
40:04I think Paul's trying to be as honest as he possibly can.
40:08However, I wish Paul had asked more questions about my life.
40:11I've prompted him to talk about his life, and he hasn't delved back.
40:15I feel frustrated, because it feels like he doesn't really want to get to know us.
40:19So, why don't you think your past relationships have worked out then?
40:23Well, different ones, different reasons, really.
40:25Yeah.
40:26It could be a common thread.
40:28I've never had a serious relationship for 15 years, since the divorce.
40:32Never.
40:32So, you haven't actually had a relationship for 15 years?
40:35No.
40:36Crikey.
40:37No, I haven't had a girlfriend in 15 years.
40:41You haven't had a...
40:41Oh, right, so...
40:43Right, so you actually haven't had a girlfriend for 15 years.
40:47Correct.
40:48Right.
40:49Paul was last in a relationship 15 years ago.
40:52It's a very long time to be single, and then all of a sudden be wanting a wife.
40:56What does marriage actually mean to you?
40:59To me?
40:59Yeah.
41:00I don't know what the template says for marriage.
41:02I've not read the book.
41:03Tell me, what is...what I'm meant to do?
41:09I'm here to find a husband, but I don't think Paul's ready for marriage, so feeling a little
41:15bit apprehensive, going forward with a relationship, I'm not sure how that's going to work out, to
41:20be honest.
41:23Yeah, it's worrying.
41:33It does look a bit brighter.
41:41Oh, yeah, that looks so much better.
41:43I think we'll get out and brave it, yeah?
41:44Yeah, amazing.
41:44Sound like a plan?
41:45Yeah, let's go.
41:46Last night was really cosy.
41:48I think the little date, Beck really liked that.
41:50The cyclone did help.
41:52So, yeah, safe to say we definitely got a bit closer last night.
41:55Bayley is firmly out of the frenzo, and I do feel like the spark has ignited, you know?
42:05LAUGHTER
42:06Come on, we're going back to the apartment.
42:11Let's go.
42:17You ready, love?
42:19Yee-haw!
42:21Perfect.
42:22What are you doing, man?
42:23I think kayaking's an analogy to life.
42:31You've got to have good teamwork.
42:33We're off, kids.
42:34Yee-haw!
42:34I think we stroked well together.
42:36Mind you, at some points, we were stroking differently and going round the circles.
42:42That was a challenge, wasn't it?
42:44Yeah, it's a bit windy, that's why, I think.
42:46I think the key to a tandem is you've got to...
42:50Communication.
42:51I think I communicate all the time.
42:53Do you know what I don't think I do?
42:54Listen enough.
42:55Yeah, maybe.
42:57I'm like that.
42:59It's like a white noise, isn't it?
43:02You are nonstop.
43:04I think the experts have...
43:05We'll see why they've matched us.
43:07Oh, definitely.
43:07Yeah, for the out-goeness, the sense of humour, don't take life too serious.
43:12But then when it comes to the L word and the relationship what word sorry the L word no idea. Oh, but
43:19Oh this one
43:21I think the bonds going between us, but I'm nowhere near the same level of maturity when it comes to emotions as Anita
43:28So do you think you've ever been in love?
43:31I'm not sure what in love means
43:33We joined this experiment we are married. Uh-huh. So are you actually ready for marriage?
43:43I don't know what not ready is so therefore. I don't know what ready is you never give one answer
43:49Because I don't know the answers if I had the answer that'll give you the answers. I don't have the answers
43:58I came on here looking for love when he's even admitted. He doesn't know what love is
44:03So it's really hard to kind of move forward
44:25I'm feeling very good about my final honeymoon dinner. Oh, it's unreal so nice
44:31Things me and Becca really good
44:33I'm looking forward to a beautiful meal with very beautiful company
44:37Honestly, I'm sitting here
44:39Big smile couldn't have asked for anything more. I yeah wouldn't want to do it with anyone else
44:46We are each other's kind of comfort blanket. It's only been a week
44:49But it's a really nice feeling but also really like not vulnerable very strange feeling. Yeah, I mean
44:55It is
44:56Scary yeah, yeah
44:58I feel like there's a massive spot between us don't you
45:01I do it there is there is some sparky yeah
45:05There's a big one isn't there is a like a big connection a big spark
45:09Because of like past relationships. I'm so worried about being in a place where like that spot does die
45:15Yeah, that's why I chase the spark initially
45:19Yeah, I've never gone into anything that isn't like that
45:22Yeah, so then when we met and the spot was there like the tiniest amount is mad now to be in a position where we're like it's grown
45:30Now it's so deep. It means so much more than just like that instant like your sexual attraction or that instant spark
45:37I wanted to just continue and just be as like powerful and energetic and happy
45:44Let me keep it going. Yeah power couple
45:49When I first met Bailey, I wasn't sure if he was an alpha but over the past few days
45:55I see that side to him. He 100% is an alpha man and
45:59Today it feels like I've known Bailey for
46:03forever
46:07I can beautiful look here really beautiful one more last one
46:24Going home tomorrow are we yeah back to reality well back to the apartments more like
46:31Do I'm gonna do the first two days?
46:34Sleep all right. Yeah, what do you think?
46:38Meets and I are getting on like a house on fire
46:40I think we've got a good understanding of where we're coming from so hopefully tonight could be a perfect end to a perfect week
46:50You've hardly asked any questions about me any particular question you want to ask me about no I want you to tell me I don't want to ask
46:57Do you know I mean? I want you to say to me well
47:00That's what I think about that and I don't agree with that there must be something about me that you've wondered about long
47:07Three hundred and seventy four things yeah
47:10Ask is one then
47:12But why can't you tell me like I tell you why can't you open up to me?
47:17I plus that has been interested
47:19I always feel if people want to tell you they'll tell you
47:21I
47:23I
47:25Struggle sometimes to understand your train of thought when I ask you questions
47:32It's like what do you think of love? I don't know what love is
47:35There's never just kind of like this is how I feel or this is what it is
47:39Can I ask you a question?
47:40Mm-hmm
47:41What is love?
47:42Love is...
47:44See the pause?
47:46I can't pray
47:48But you see the pause though?
47:49Yeah, yeah because
47:50It's not that simple
47:51Right
47:52Well, love to me is all couples in the 80s still holding hands
47:56That's what I want
47:57That's affection
47:58Yeah
47:59That's showing love
48:00But what is love?
48:01Just at my age I need somebody who knows what they want
48:07Hmm
48:08You've actually said you don't know what love is
48:10Hmm
48:11You don't know how you're supposed to be feeling
48:13So why did you want to get married?
48:18Wanted to have a life experience and
48:20Take myself out of the comfort zone
48:22Which I've definitely done
48:23So you didn't join the experiment to find love?
48:27I don't know what love is
48:28How can I find something I don't know what it is?
48:31I think the key word is experiment
48:33I think if you look at the Google definition of an experiment
48:36Let's test something to see if it works or not
48:38So
48:39If we said earlier I'm not sure what love is
48:42Then I don't think I'd join it to find love
48:45I find Paul very frustrating
48:50I really don't know what he wants to be honest
48:53I enjoyed that steak
48:57I can't have that bit
49:01Too much
49:03You enjoyed yours by the way
49:07Nah I'm not going to do that
49:08I'm done
49:11I don't know if there's hope for the marriage
49:13Erm
49:14Truthfully
49:15Don't think there is
49:17I don't think there is
49:27Next time
49:28I'm her
49:30Our newlyweds
49:33Move in together
49:34We're so cute
49:35But for some couples
49:37Exhausted to come in a little bit real now
49:41Domestic harmony
49:42I know your three children's names
49:44Do you know my two?
49:45Is short lived
49:47It's crunch time
49:48For me
49:52At the first dinner party of the experiment
49:54Oh she's on her own
49:56Oh
49:58It's showtime for Dean
50:01Here we are on this mad experiment
50:02Seeing things not in our element
50:05But Sarah serves a scathing review
50:08He asked me if I'd ever slept with anyone
50:10Okay
50:11He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid
50:14He's like a care bear
50:16That's not a very hot thing to say about your partner
50:18No
50:19And while some are falling head over heels
50:22I've got that like fuzzy feeling in me
50:24You've got to move me
50:26Others are falling apart
50:29You
50:30Are very negative
50:33This one's so genuine
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