Married at First Sight UK S10E05

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00:00marriage to me means everything previously i am extremely excited this is the most

00:07spontaneous thing i've actually ever done four more courageous singles said i do to a stranger

00:14i'm extremely nervous i want an epic love story whilst romance sparked for one couple

00:22it's love at first sight for the other i want your life when you draw one bride's party spirit

00:28wild argumentative argumentative raised concerns for her groom she is more fiery than i'm used to

00:36that is a worry and for lee and leah i just want to go home struggles on the slopes i might have a

00:43panic attack i'm not joking landed them in honeymoon hell she doesn't understand the severity of things

00:48until it gets too far i've paused the fucking eye

00:52tonight i don't struggle to meet women i just haven't met the right person two more bold singles

01:04i'm attracted to the alpha male i won't settle for anything less meet and marry at first sight

01:14but one bride's rigid expectations i can't tell whether he's an alpha or not bring a bitter

01:20disappointment he's not my type you may now share your first kiss kiss i can't remember the last

01:27time i was given the cheek if i'm honest is that a first part bloody hell four more newlyweds it's

01:33time for your honeymoon the magical morocco set off on their romantic escape i don't wait to get

01:39lazy life joe's worst fears become reality you really pissed me why because you're off man you're

01:46actually off and davani's negative conversations knowing that i could potentially be alone for the

01:52rest of my life that would be the worst unleash tension everything is so intense and so deep

01:59that tears their honeymoon apart the last thing i want to do is have a talk about our traumas and then

02:05like getting to bed with you there's trouble in paradise

02:17it's hot god i am sweating here i cannot wait to get in the pool pina colada pina colada cannot wait to

02:24get wavy like i'm still not 100 too certain where we are but it's absolutely amazing oh my god champagne

02:32do you want some of course i do jamaica is that right caribbean i don't actually know i don't know

02:40this we've got our own pool haven't we is insane i can't wait to jump in there

02:46it don't feel real to me no don't i mean i still haven't come to terms with that i'm actually married

02:55obviously there are things i do like about maeve

02:58but my first impressions were i wasn't really sure if she is what i needed a few babies can't wait

03:06she came across big brash personality um yeah and i just think it's going to take some time just to

03:11see if she isn't just a party girl but i guess we'll find out so like one thing i might be concerned

03:20about is obviously when we're both drinking yeah how we're gonna like be with each other because

03:26obviously you said you were like proper argumentative and shit when you when you're pissed so i'm all

03:32right but the more i drink the more like cheekier i get yeah the more looking to like pushy buttons i get

03:40because you've calmed down do you know what i mean and mate like that's what i want to be like so

03:48maybe you might possibly be the one to try it well calm us down hopefully

03:54do you think that'll happen right now probably not

03:58i've always sworn by treat them mean keep them keen if he can handle me at my worst he can have me at

04:07my best the more time i'm spending with joe i'm starting to like him and i feel like he's a very

04:14easy person to talk to but i still have my guard up in my past relationships i have been walked all over

04:22back what can go wrong get a couple of drinks down and we'll sure find out got you a little hot chocolate

04:44i'll hold you poor okay so the honeymoon it has been up and down in terms of where we're at

04:51she has been a bit aggy and stuff with me it's emotionally draining i do feel like i'm giving

04:56more and i want her to know that i feel like at this point i feel like i'm maybe trying a little bit

05:14harder are you i'm always attentive with you i'm like do you want this do you want that you look nice

05:29constantly giving you compliments for me i need a little bit of like flirtiness back i don't want to

05:36flirt with you because like that part for me is just like not there yet i don't want to rush myself

05:46but you could be a little bit more flirty i think

05:50oh leah your hair looks nice today oh leah i like the way you're wearing your rings

05:55okay do we want do we want to just dig me out how awful i am i feel like we're in this experiment we

06:05need to like push ourselves more than we would in the outside world

06:11we have to meet in the middle if we want it to try and work

06:14do you know what i mean i know i'm not her type but also she's not my type

06:23i still can have a flair and have a joke with her is she open to giving a little bit more

06:28because if it's not i can't see myself going through this process it's just a waste of time for me

06:33do you want to go and play in the snow no

06:49god no no back in the uk close them julia ruth and davani are waking up to their first morning as a

06:57married couple how did how did you sleep fantastic how was yours i listed up on my head in the pillow

07:03and i was gone first night with my wife was very romantic when i opened my eyes this morning i thought

07:09i was dreaming my wife is a very beautiful woman and very attracted to her coming to ask for anything

07:14better so it was it was good it was just super super super duper comfortable okay

07:27i feel like the wedding was such a high but i have woken up with like a different thought this

07:31morning i'm quite an openly sexual person but i'm not having that desire so i do think that i just

07:39want to take things slowly and out at our pace and just build from there

07:46julia ruth and davani congratulations we hope you enjoyed your first night as newlyweds

07:52now it's time for your honeymoon in the magical morocco the perfect setting for an enchanting love

07:59story to begin i'm screaming i love that we're going to morocco

08:07i didn't get the initial spark that i was hoping for davani let's try and make the most of

08:12being on the honeymoon as i see if it grows

08:18morocco here we come oh i'm here for it

08:29morocco we're excited ready as julia ruth and davani jet off on honeymoon

08:37another hopeful single is ready to put her trust in the experts i'm ready i'm excited let's go guys

08:47i'm successful seriously independent

08:50and determined three two one

08:59the gym's a huge part of my life i love to feel healthy i love to feel strong and i think that's

09:05why i'm attracted to the alpha male i'm attracted to the big man that can lead me by the hand

09:16are we ready lovely i'm an aesthetics nurse and i run my own clinic from home i absolutely love my job

09:25i've managed to build a business on my own from the ground up it's thriving

09:32is that okay feeling all right and i'm so proud of that because i know that it's me who's achieved

09:37that when you're entrepreneurial you strive for more all the time my standards are very high i like

09:47things to be in order and i like things to look nice i won't settle for anything less

09:53than perfection in my life and i feel the same about my relationships

10:01i was with my ex-partner for eight years and we got engaged and a little while after that i broke off

10:10the engagement when he proposed there was something

10:15something inside me that was saying i'm not sure if this is a hundred percent right

10:23making the decision that i made to break off the engagement

10:28obviously changed the course of my life but changed me as a person yeah it was heartbreaking for us all

10:34you know because we just we just thought that was your course to be on there is somebody out there

10:41that is just going to be perfect for what you want i have a really clear idea of the type of person that

10:48i want the values that i want him to have the way that i want him to live his life and what would work

10:53well for me in that sense and i haven't ever felt that before

10:57i want to be with a partner and think this is everything that i've ever wanted so if you found

11:06somebody that wasn't your type would you be willing to put the work in and the effort in if

11:12you didn't take those boxes straight away i feel like i'm the type of person that needs them boxes

11:18ticked instantly and if they're not in my mind i think that's not gonna work it's not gonna work just

11:25move on i'm attracted to the alpha male somebody tall confident and who's sure of themselves

11:38i want him to have really strong family values and want to have a family in the future with me

11:45i want him to be kind and respectful to have a lot of get up and go

11:50and to be really funny i'm really ready to find the one and something as crazy and as wild as this

12:01feels like the right next step

12:05i have got a hundred percent hit rate with my flirting don't listen don't ask my friends what

12:09they say just ask me it's a hundred percent we never thought we'd see the day that baby gets married

12:15like i always thought i'd get married like chill out on that everyone grows up like i'm not like a

12:20massive flirt anymore much a little bit if there was a dating review website i think i'd have five

12:26stars i think i'm a catch yeah i mean yeah look at me i enjoy being tall i think that is such a good

12:32trait when you're trying to approach women i've got to put my heart on a day enough i put hi i'm six

12:37foot four yeah remember i'm six foot four i'm definitely an extrovert i'm just loud so i end up being

12:43central attention i like to think of myself somewhat as an entrepreneur i'm kind of like

12:51the richard branson of brighton i own a microbrewery it helps me on dates loads i mean if i'm in a bar

12:58that sells the beer be like oh oh they sell my beer here today like i didn't know already works honestly

13:03that works a treat my beer is named after my gorgeous little daughter wow look at that

13:10you ready here we go becoming a dad is the best thing i've ever done she's the most important

13:17person in my life i just have another level to love with bluebell who's your best friend

13:24who's my best friend yeah family is super important to me i split up with my daughter's

13:30mother and it was something i never wanted to do we came to kind of the harsh reality that we would

13:35be happier separated i do want more kids one day so i think that makes it even more important to be

13:41in a strong relationship and to be really close with my partner be really sure about them why is love

13:48so important to you now oh love means everything to me i'd love to be married i'd love to start building

13:56the future maybe build on my family and have a family together all of these things are important to me

14:01but the right person someone i could see forever with just a teammate like someone to bring out the

14:07best of me and then i can hopefully do that with her yeah i'm looking for sparks honesty kindness

14:19entrepreneurial spirit i think there's that fairy tale out there for everyone

14:24and yeah i'm here searching for mine

14:34rebecca and bailey are a fascinating couple let's start with rebecca who is possibly one of our

14:40trickiest brides to match she's confident career driven a high achiever and she demands perfection

14:46in all aspects of her life including her partner she wants a husband with an alpha personality who can

14:52match her energy and drive it's a very high bar but i think we may have cracked it with bailey he's an

14:59entrepreneur self-assured a leader in his peer group and he radiates charm and confidence absolutely

15:06bailey's a big personality but rebecca's direct and honest characteristics will keep him on his toes

15:12and they both have a genuine love of family which as a loving father is a crucial quality for bailey

15:18and let's not forget they are both highly active and extroverts who love the company of other people

15:24so they should really bounce off each other's positive energy

15:28if the spark ignites for these two there could be fireworks rebecca and bailey

15:34i just want there to be like that spark and that connection and then i look at him and i'm like

15:45oh okay do you feel like you when you see him you'll know yeah straight away yeah i know within 10 seconds

15:53i'm just that type of person though aren't i you do need to give people a chance as well

15:58rebecca likes everything her own way and you know she's got certain standards that she wants

16:05everybody to live up to but she does maybe need to compromise a little bit i want somebody who

16:15like is a typical alpha guy i'm always attracted to like the tallest guys i hope he's well dressed

16:22clean big feasts gym bod or six pack discipline and they work really hard i would say you're picky

16:28you have got your standards you have and you know what you want

16:36god it feels so real now you're here i didn't sleep at all last night nervous no i'm ready i'm ready

16:41i can't believe it the day is here i'm about to be a husband i'm gonna have a wife

16:45i can't wait to meet her get me down that aisle she might not like you are you worried about that at all

16:52nah i'm not worried about that she'll love me right it's fine i'm obviously mr confident i'm not

16:58used to people not fancying me i get a lot of numbers get a lot of dates is she going to be in

17:03love as soon as she sees me he's always confident a bit a bit too too confident at times

17:13try and crack on with her for the first night what she's like she's not feeling that yeah

17:17yeah how would you react to that i don't know listen i'm not even thinking about it it's never

17:33i definitely am looking to settle down i just

17:55i just haven't met the right person i want to call someone my wife i don't want to be with someone

18:00forever

18:11i don't know

18:20hello hello

18:23what's your name i'm bailey bailey yeah nice to meet you all you look lovely thank you

18:38thank you

18:41rebecca knows what she wants so i will know from rebecca's face if this is not her dream man

18:48i'm picturing like a man who's got like stature about him

18:59i want him to be a dominant figure

19:02i've walked away from something before because i didn't want to settle

19:12and if they don't take enough boxes for me straight away i will say how i feel

19:32i'm

19:48how's it going you all right

19:49hi how are you nice to meet you too i'm rebecca hi rebecca i'm bailey nice to meet you

19:55bailey yeah you look lovely thank you so much so do you

20:02she's absolutely stunning i can't believe it she's right up my street she's a bit of me god you

20:09look lovely by the way yeah you're really lovely yeah honestly yeah i have big smiles look at me

20:14i'm like a cheshire cat

20:28six four six four yeah is that all right

20:32he's not six foot four i guess six foot one i said i would know within 10 seconds

20:50and alarm bells are going off in my head

20:54is not my type

21:02oh god

21:12thank you all for coming to celebrate this very special occasion

21:16now in these beautiful surroundings we come to the vows which rebecca and bailey have written to each other

21:28i always tell my friends that first dates should be casual nothing too fancy

21:33don't overdress and whatever you do never talk about marriage but well here we are nice to meet you

21:40but in all seriousness i vow to be your biggest fan your supportive teammate and your personal comedian

21:51always there to make you smile when you need cheering up

21:55so here's the laughter happiness and who knows hopefully one day love so let's do this

22:03to my husband

22:11never in a million years did i think i'd stand in front of a stranger and agree to marry them

22:17i decided this year was the year that i would say yes to everything to every opportunity to every

22:22invitation but more importantly to you i want to get to know the real you

22:27i know we may go through tough times together but all i ask i'm gonna cry all i ask is that you

22:35try to love me sorry but you try to love me just as i am

22:43please just accept me and let me show you how magical life can be with me by your side

22:47excuse me so to my husband i say yes to you today and hopefully i will say yes every day thereafter

23:02i'm gonna start wearing out i can't speak

23:05i don't know i'm trying to i'm trying to be your match i don't think he's an alpha

23:14no rebecca i give you this ring wear it with joy and as a symbol of our unity

23:23bailey i give you this ring with sincerity and as a symbol of our unity

23:29bailey rebecca you may now share your first kiss

23:33no like a kiss on the mouth isn't right for me at this stage

23:48please join me in giving them your warmest congratulations thank you thank you

24:03god i can't remember the last time i was given the cheek if i'm honest

24:09i wanted a kiss oh god i don't know is that a first part bloody hell

24:15i felt straight away there was no real sexual pull i don't know if he'd be my type that i'd gravitate to

24:25you i'm a man on a mission now i'm a man on a mission to get a kiss maybe a bit of tongue later

24:41oh my god the experts have definitely got this right i've literally met someone that i didn't

24:49truly believe ever existed ah this is really nice you know what i think i can stay here for a few nights

24:59i've been married for less than 24 hours the lack of physical like desire does bother me a little bit

25:08i love someone who is excited about life and i'm getting the impression that davani is low energy

25:14wow just different energy to mine if i had to design my own house it would look like this

25:21yeah but it would have pillars as well oh pillars i love a i love a house with pillars

25:28i don't want a boring life i want to do fun things together

25:32maybe it'll spark and come in time um it hasn't really at the moment

25:44it's our final dinner it's the honeymoon i'm hoping to clear the air i've sort of had to think

25:52about how i'm behaving i know that i've had moments where i could have been more open and i

25:58could have put more effort in so i want her to know that i'm going to take on board what she said

26:03we've had moments i think where we've been like sort of up and down

26:06i've maybe realized that there is an element of me that this may be a bit more distant with you

26:15because of things i've been through in the past subconsciously i've built a wall up so much

26:22since i've been single it's like i've turned a switch off and i'm struggling to turn that switch back on

26:31and that is why i like there's a bit of me that's kind of like kicking myself a little bit i'm like why

26:34is that bit not there yeah because like i am attracted to you in a lot of ways

26:43what i really appreciate today is like me telling you that i feel like we need to meet 50 50 and

26:48already you've gone away and you've worked on that straight away within hours do you know what i mean

26:53yeah see i can be sweet it makes me feel like i'm definitely heard thank you so i feel like she is

27:04trying no i'll feed it to you i'm trying to be romantic sorry you asked for effort i'm giving you effort

27:12the sound on my feet ow i think i've just stepped on a rock thank you very much just like ow oh i just kicked the table

27:35that's just nice isn't it yeah joe is a really nice guy i didn't even know his name 24 hours ago

27:43and now i'm in this amazing place in the caribbean i think and i'm having a really good time

27:51i think the biggest stumbling block about maybe she's got this big sort of character that's almost

28:08boisterous energy that is strong you know but i feel like i need to get to know each other on a deeper level tonight

28:21so you do love being a mom yeah oh yeah the best feeling in the world best feeling in the world

28:27i missed my son loads now seeing his little face in the morning like oh i just squeeze them like i

28:33wake up like 10 minutes earlier just to give him a cuddle that's nice it's the best honesty man he

28:38melts me hot like he is my best friend but there are times when it is like hard yeah because i've got

28:46to be like the mom the dad like and obviously i had him at 20 like i've always been the person that's

28:52provided like paid all the bills and everything yeah so i am quite like independent see i respect that

28:58massively yes you are a caring person and i proper get that vibe off you and that's exactly what i asked

29:05for someone that's got a good heart and i genuinely do think you've got an eye goal honest

29:11that is actually

29:15but i think you put on this like

29:19facade but i i know there's a soft interior i can just see it

29:24i don't really open up to people it's like i am scared of talking about how i actually feel

29:32when people say that i have got a soft side people do take the piss out of you and i don't

29:35want that to happen again but it's nice that he actually listens to me i've never had that

29:50so here we are here we are here we are i definitely find julia roof stupid attractive

30:00getting to know her throughout this honeymoon stage i feel like it's just really confirming

30:04what i've been looking for for a very long time so what was your um first thoughts or how did you

30:11feel when you turned around and you saw me when i turned around and i saw you all smiling walking up

30:17i was so happy nervous but i was stupid happy man stupid you absolutely beautiful

30:29that's really nice

30:33as you were thinking when you saw me

30:38i was like fun there was so many like emotions excited and nervous and it was a lot to take in

30:45you were very confident you were very calm when i was nervous and i like the fact that we had a lot in

30:51common

30:54but um

31:00i think it is fair to say that there was an expectation maybe on like height

31:04i mean i have i have dated like taller guys

31:17he just feels like a really nice friend at the moment

31:26i don't want to be mean to him

31:28that shocks me i'm not no basketball player yeah that hurt

31:45i definitely fancy her she's obviously gorgeous but i'm struggling to tell

32:14where she's at a little bit this way for me

32:17i really look good what do you reckon do you mean yeah i think it looks yeah i hope so

32:24bailey is so complimentary of me but i just don't know if like the fanciing is there for me

32:34what's your type i like a real masculine energy yeah sweet yeah what you like with your mates i'm the

32:39i'm the loud one yeah i'm proper extroverted yeah and what about you i'd say i'm like the

32:46leader of the girls yeah yeah we're both alpha then are we see i don't get that vibe at all

32:51what for me do you not what am i giving beta vibes

32:54what's going on i'm obviously the alpha could i get a kiss for the camera is that okay please

33:03i can't really don't feel about the kissing can i kiss on the cheek

33:06yeah you can kiss on the cheek

33:17there we go

33:20i've got the cheek again but i can't work it out i can't believe it

33:24i don't think i see the type a character from him yet i don't know if we've got different

33:34definitions of what an alpha might be

33:44you okay

33:44oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god

34:10what i've found is the more time that i'm spending with them i am starting to like him

34:19it's nice isn't it to go out of your comfort zone no well done you smashed that

34:24that was the worst thing i've ever done in my life you smashed it i was crying at the top

34:29me other boyfriends that i've been with are nothing compared to joe

34:33like joe makes me feel really comfortable and he reassures me quite a lot but i've still got my guard

34:40up massively so i don't want to give him 100 just yet

34:48fuck that

34:49how are you feeling

35:04not great okay

35:07there's tension for sure when julia ruth shed her perspective on first thoughts at the wedding

35:14yeah that hurt but i'm still physically attracted to her i'm emotionally attached to her for sure

35:21and uh i really want this to work as much as possible i'll just let my character be bigger and

35:26taller so that's where my mind's at really and truly just feel like there's still more days left to

35:36see where it's going to go yeah sometimes it's easier to adjust to your partner's needs

35:44and i feel like it just depends on circumstances situations time

35:51davani is just boring i just want to like let her hair down

35:57so today i just want to see him like have fun with cooking marcan food

36:01and then maybe the physical attraction would come just a little bit easier

36:21this is me right now in my element yeah super happy

36:24i love eating i love good food lots of flavors spices

36:35nice

36:41i'm really trying to have fun

36:45but the conversation has been a bit of a struggle

36:48so yeah it's not ideal it's it's not fun

37:18so

37:20hello everyone

37:21what hello

37:24oh what do you reckon

37:27i want to be punching

37:33what do you drink

37:34uh anything are you do you drink i do drink you do drink yeah it's not like loads okay

37:39i don't drink like this but um no no is it just because i said i don't know

37:43no no i mean i don't i just don't drink loads but um yeah anything beer wine so do you drink a lot then

37:51not a lot i feel like you're gonna lie to me

37:52no no no not not loads i'm a social drinker

37:57do you go out quite a lot not like what like depends what you mean socially like to watch the

38:02football at the pub then a little bit but like it's like literally to do that and go home

38:06you can't say that you've got no no no i swear i just want you to tell me how you act like you

38:15are like i just i want to get to know you properly do you know what i mean

38:21when somebody's an alpha they don't try too hard to be like that

38:26yeah like fitness is like a big part of my life is it yeah i like training so i like being in the gym

38:30always in the gym like i go every day i can never go a week without going i went like 24 days in the

38:37in the month so yeah i'm always in the gym this chance so much i do worry about the authenticity

38:54i'll be back oh are you on fire i'm off i'm gonna go and speak to your friends wait who's speaking

39:00to my friends i'm not sure if bailey is being really real with me hello there so what do you

39:07want to know the goths tell me all the goths far away is he six foot four there's no way he's six

39:15four he's about six two on a good day i think so he said to me that he trained every day when he

39:26says training he means he does five press-ups in the morning it is a white lie it makes no sense to

39:32me i don't mind i don't need someone who goes to the gym every single day just be honest what's he

39:40been like in past relationships with people oh no no no no silence is deafening the thing is with

39:49his uh his ex i can kind of see in ways like how he like sort of changed a little bit yeah he changed

39:57his dress sense a little bit he changed his dress sense to match the partner i think so a little bit

40:01really yeah i know i don't like that yeah i like someone who's just like dead sure themselves like

40:07won't change for anyone and i've got concerns around bailey and alpha doesn't change for anybody

40:15i want to get to know somebody for who they are and to fall in love with that but he's putting on

40:20like a bit of a show and it worries me right what we got here i'm really looking forward to having

40:37another night with joe tonight have a nightmare oh wow i think i'm having a really good time with

40:47him i want it burning me soul but it's really hard when i start meeting someone because i've always got

41:00in the back of my mind they're gonna hurt you so i'm just trying to take it moment by moment

41:07today has been one of the most craziest days of my life is it lining through a jungle there has been

41:12a lot like yeah how are you feeling about everything i'm good yeah i think it's nice to see you like do

41:18all this this like different shit but obviously you said that you have like a guard up and i think when

41:27like me and you were in the villa that's when like your guard comes down but when we're more in like

41:33a public setting it goes back up again but it's my job as a husband to sort of get that guard down and

41:41really get to know more you really piss me off why have i pissed you off because you have for what

41:48reason why because i actually feel myself going to kick off soon what do you mean no i haven't said

41:54yeah you're saying that i don't fucking open up yeah but you need to explain what

41:59do you know what i mean i just don't want everyone to say that i am like this like what

42:04well obviously like i've got this big like personality that i don't give a

42:07fuck and like obviously you know that i've got a softer sideways i don't want everyone to say that

42:11do you know what i mean that's part of your personality so why wouldn't you because i don't why

42:17do you care about that because i do for what yeah but that isn't a reason is it well yeah it is

42:23it's a very fucking valid reason what because i do

42:28i get my guard up really really quick and that is the type of person that i am i don't want

42:42anyone really to see how vulnerable i can be because i've been hurt so many times but i feel like

42:47he's just said this out of nowhere so me god's gone straight back up

42:50i didn't want to piss you off like yeah but you've actually hit a nerve though why

42:58because you have for what reason because you just have and i'm not going round and round in

43:02circles but you have just hit a nerve yeah but you've got to give a reason for it

43:07what oh right right no then you're pissing me off why because you're fucking all man you're actually

43:14fucking all i just want to feel more connected to me and my main concern is that we don't actually

43:28get there in the end

43:42i'm feeling a little uneasy right now like her not like opening up as much it's something that

44:00i felt that i had to bro when i have a few drinks i get in my head a little bit and little things just

44:10trigger me and i flew off the handle for no reason i never like to say i'm in the wrong about anything

44:17even when i am in the wrong but i need to tell them how i'm really feeling

44:28do you know last night was a lot wasn't it yeah i mean i feel like it's not really resolved what i was

44:35saying do you know what it is like i don't want people to say that i've got that softer side it was

44:39like i do struggle opening up and like even just opening up to you about little things like

44:44that's massive for me honestly i hate feeling vulnerable but i just feel like every time when

44:50i let more people in that's when i get over more yeah so that's why i'm always a bit of a dick

44:58but i wouldn't i'm not going to fuck you over do you know what i mean

45:04i know to worry about everyone else has though

45:08so do you know what i mean yeah yeah i do i do

45:12i did feel bad you don't actually need to it was just like a misunderstanding and it's fine

45:19he's making me feel real like really reassured about everything like he's the kindest soul that

45:28i've actually ever met and i feel like no matter what i say he's not going to judge us so i do think

45:33i'm going to be a little bit more open with him i'm just trying to like learn about you i feel

45:41close to you now than i did before i feel more comfortable around you

45:48we've just got to take a day at a time though haven't we and that's what i think and to be

45:52fair i was pretty scared of what like drunk you were going to be like but you aren't that bad

45:57that wasn't anything that was literally just me saying i needed to get away from you

46:00like that was i was scared for my safety to be fair oh man

46:10your friends were very telling about how you are yeah in a good way

46:19they said that you don't go to the gym and you're not six foot four

46:25that's wild

46:32everything i've said has been total truth

46:35total truth honestly i want you to be a hundred percent you that's so important to me like i want

46:42you to just be yourself i feel i've always been sure on myself your friends didn't say that

46:46they said that when you was with an act yeah she dressed quite quirky and they said that you

46:56like matched that and you dressed in a similar way yeah that's probably a bit more true i don't

47:02want you to change at all for me but i wouldn't see it changing i would see it growing with someone

47:13i think i've grown from all of my past relationships and it's kind of made me into the person i am today

47:21i think like i want to meet someone i can grow with and they can grow with me and i think that's healthy

47:27okay he seems like he's got the gift of the gap i just want to make sure that the person i'm with

47:34and they're really sure of themselves and they don't change for an ex or anybody else come on then let's cheers cheers

47:40come on

47:54this is nice got the honeymoon sweet look so we need to discuss the sleeping arrangements oh yeah

48:02yeah what are your thoughts uh yeah it's up to you baby i can take the sofa i'm very much a gentleman

48:13it's up to you totally up to you yeah

48:18okay i mean if you're happy to sleep on this over that would be great

48:22i just want like a clear yeah divide between us just for now yeah we can see how we get on yeah

48:30yeah is that okay with you yeah that's fine yeah good i was not expecting that in the slightest

48:39but i'm still interested don't get me wrong i think there's still something there to work on

48:43see you in the morning wifey good night all right i'm just not there yet it's so early on i don't

48:54know if i've like met the real him yet i need to build that connection before i can be physically

49:00intimate with him

49:19we've got a nice milk milk bath it says i heart you i thought it said joe

49:26i definitely think the arguments brought us close together it was important that may have

49:33sort of opened up i do feel like we are understanding each other more and more every day

49:41feeling great after last night me and may have had a really nice time when we got to the villa

49:45we really did get to know each other on a deeper level one thing led to another and that's it that's

49:50what i'm saying oh god i can tell you now that he's definitely more than a good body he is a very

50:00he's a good time guy hello hello hi how are you good thanks for you good how are you doing yes

50:18yes at the moment i feel like it's feeling really awkward hey whoa that's mad today i just wanted us

50:26to have lots of laughs and trying to focus on like the good things and the energy wow

50:38yo i didn't envision my honeymoon to be like this but marriage just as we all know it's not going to be

50:44easy ultimately this is just another opportunity just to get close to my wife and i still strongly

50:48believe that we can get over this hump you hear that pure silence

50:58that's nice

51:01that's really nice

51:02look at that are you like a scenic person like views and all of that yeah yeah

51:21i actually did very well when the subject of earth and space in school okay

51:26this is quite hard i'm struggling with the conversation

51:33kind of just live a fearless life i just kind of just step into the unknown whatever that looks like

51:42how i've grown up i've always been a protector or just a facilitator keeping the peace

51:46um are you afraid of heights nah no no no yeah yeah do you have any like fears like what scares you the

51:59most growing up i was always alone just even with my whole family and i think knowing that i could

52:05potentially be alone for the rest of my life that would be the worst yeah that's not what i meant at all

52:15with davani it is quite difficult to find the fun light-hearted side and just be a bit carefree

52:22it has to sit too deep i don't know i think the worst thing is that i've always went through life

52:27questioning why certain things happened so he's hit and misses that's a strange way to look at it

52:32nah not really no one caters to me that shit sucks

52:37he doesn't see the any positives or like with that with me it's just like

52:44it's like it's just too much you focus on the negative you're saying it sucked you sit in the

52:50negativity and you attract negativity and draw negativity and it will keep coming back

52:56it's just hard to just feels like it's just like a lot of negativity i can't i can't lift us both up

53:11this is definitely one of the hardest challenges i've been through and i don't want it to be

53:24translated that the information that i was given was from a negative place it was more of just me

53:29opening it up

53:37how you doing okay

53:46it's pretty intense very much intense i just feel like what i need was just a little bit of

53:52positivity and fun so we can feel the traction but on the camels it was just like i sat there and you

54:00literally spat out one thing after another i don't want you to feel you can't open up to me because

54:05that's not what the case is there just needs to be a balance and like a time and a place for things

54:14so i came into this experiment to find my person have someone that i can as well as having fun

54:20offload two and someone that ultimately understands me was it intentional to put you in that situation

54:28where it was like damn i'm trying to be mr negative it was just something that hit me in that moment and

54:34i was just pouring out the feelings but the way you say things it's just like a tornado of negativity

54:44and it's hard to want to be intimate and grow and develop something when everything is

54:50so intense and so deep the last thing i want to do is have a talk about traumas and then like get into

54:56bed with you

55:04made me like just for tonight we'll just do separate rooms just to be clear and then tomorrow we'll like

55:10regroup and just start like a fresh new day and like a clean slate

55:14that's how i'm honestly feeling um i feel like if you've been attacked the thing that hurt me the most

55:25is sleeping in separate rooms but if she needs her space i'll give her space there's trouble in paradise in it

55:42next time i know what i want and what i don't want it has to be right one more couple says i do

55:50but expectations i would like to be matched with someone who is the silver fox sense of humor are

55:57quickly tested well here's my rose oh you're a joke he's not the silver fox i had in mind

56:07bailey seeks a more intimate connection i feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you

56:12i personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as i've met them that's just a bit too soon for me

56:16and for julia ruth and davani davani and i slept separately i haven't seen him since the road to a

56:23honeymoon reunion you don't really get a second chance with a woman like that is heading for a

56:29dead end this is not how i wanted my honeymoon to go

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