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Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 3
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00:00I have to be honest, there isn't a spark.
00:05And while for one new couple there was instant chemistry...
00:09Actually stunning.
00:10I do fancy him.
00:12Take a date.
00:13An initial lack of attraction...
00:15I wouldn't say he's my type.
00:17Then Bride Grace spiralling...
00:21I feel I'm sorry.
00:24Tonight...
00:25Right now he's not putting the foot wrong.
00:27Nellie and Stephen go from strength to strength.
00:29Exactly what I wanted from a honeymoon.
00:31While Ashley's comments continue to trouble Grace.
00:34I said I want a tomboy Barbie.
00:36Like, what?
00:37Oh.
00:38Every now and then he just says something and I think, like, do you know how that sounds?
00:42Sarah's forthright take on how to ignite a spark with Dean...
00:46Get some tattoos and lose some weight.
00:49Combined with demands for honesty...
00:51Would it be any different if I wasn't as big?
00:53Further test the couple's marriage.
00:56Probably.
00:56And there's two more brave singles...
01:01I'm scared, but I'm definitely ready.
01:04...enter the experiment...
01:06Hi!
01:07...one of the brides has serious second thoughts.
01:10Should we do a take?
01:12I don't know.
01:12She can't see me now.
01:13I made a mistake.
01:16Shit.
01:24How are you feeling today then, after it's all settled down?
01:27It still feels a bit surreal.
01:28I can't believe yesterday happened.
01:29Yeah, it was all a bit of a whirlwind.
01:32It feels really strange.
01:33The whole situation.
01:35Like, I'm married.
01:36I don't feel like I really know Grace at all yet.
01:38It's been, what, 10, 12 hours.
01:41I didn't know whether I was coming or going at the wedding.
01:44I am still feeling a little bit overwhelmed.
01:46Ashley and I aren't aligning on certain values in terms of,
01:50he's perhaps more traditional, I'm more liberal.
01:54I was raised like men of the breadwinners.
01:58At their wedding day, Ashley's old school values rang alarm bells for Grace.
02:03God, here we go.
02:05This is 20, 25, Ashley.
02:08Would you describe yourself as a feminist?
02:11100% no.
02:12Causing Grace to drastically question her new marriage.
02:16Just one day.
02:18This is a hard thing to do.
02:19You've had a really emotional day.
02:22Oh, God.
02:23It was good to have a sleep and process all of yesterday.
02:30I did spiral, but it's day one.
02:33I'm feeling way more positive.
02:34And I'm really keen to just start with that friendship.
02:38Good place to start.
02:39We have nothing but time now to carry on getting to know each other on honeymoon.
02:44Yeah, at least they're a holiday.
02:44They make sure it breaks you as well, don't they?
02:46All right, let's go.
02:48Let's find out.
02:48I'm massively looking forward to the honeymoon.
02:51I'm looking forward to sort of digging deeper and getting to know Grace.
02:54We've got an envelope.
02:56I'm hoping that she starts to kind of soften to me and that she does like me.
03:00Do you want to do the honours?
03:01No, you go for it.
03:02Go for it.
03:03Grace and Ashley, congratulations.
03:05Now it's time for you to go on your honeymoon in Koh Samui.
03:09Oh, awesome.
03:10That's so good.
03:12I'm chuffed to that, to be honest.
03:13Yeah, me too.
03:15Thailand.
03:15Woo-hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo.
03:18I'm well up for that, I can't wait.
03:20Cheers.
03:20Can you cheers tea, coffee?
03:21Let's do it.
03:22I'm actually over the moon.
03:27Didn't feel I had to sleep like a pencil last night.
03:29You're very respectful, both in our own lanes as such.
03:33So yeah, thank you.
03:34I got respect for you being like that anyway.
03:37Yes.
03:38If anything, it makes me like you a little bit more.
03:45Okay.
03:46It's like you're not that person, so...
03:47Well, what if I was that person?
03:50Um, well...
03:51Would that be an issue, do you think?
03:53Multiple morals and people that respect themselves.
03:56That is something that I asked for.
03:58Yeah.
03:58It is quite important to me.
04:01Yeah.
04:01Oh, yeah.
04:01Okay.
04:06Big no for me, double standards.
04:08You can probably respect yourself, and if you want to be the kind of person that engages in those activities, that's probably okay too.
04:18Yeah, but you're not that person.
04:20You've made that quite clear, so...
04:22Okay.
04:23It's...
04:24I feel like everything I'm doing is wrong.
04:29It's taken me back a bit.
04:32I don't know why it went to that when I was given a compliment.
04:37Cool.
04:37I'm just a little bit concerned that Ashley might be, like, set in his ways, and his opinions of women, and I kind of maybe naively hoped that they would be a bit more aligned.
04:55It's really important to me.
05:00I'm just, like, really, like...
05:02God, I just feel like I shouldn't be going.
05:04I'm just like, am I stupid to go?
05:06I shouldn't be not just...
05:08Don't mind, like, you literally met yesterday.
05:14I wish I could snap out of it.
05:16I'm just feeling really overwhelmed and really anxious.
05:18This is a lot harder than I anticipated.
05:25Look at this.
05:37Oh, my God.
05:39I've now stayed in somewhere so nice.
05:42It's gorgeous.
05:44You can't say no to a chocolate cup of straw.
05:46I mean, I'll feed you over there, then.
05:47Okay.
05:48Being on Honeymoon with Stephen, I just feel really happy.
05:50It kind of feels like we've known each other for ages.
05:52Like, we don't really feel like strangers.
05:54Oh, stunning.
05:56Honeymoon's sweet.
05:58Do you actually need to leave the room?
05:59I think not.
06:03Since the wedding, the feeling there is just growing.
06:06It's definitely exceeded my expectations the whole journey so far.
06:09So, yeah, at this moment in time, I think Nelly and I are a perfect match.
06:17It's insane how well-suited we are.
06:20Honestly, I'm having the best time.
06:21I think it's exactly what I wanted from my honeymoon.
06:24It's amazing.
06:24My guard feels up a little bit today.
06:44I am starting to feel a little bit rejected.
06:46I think last night was the first time I was probably not going as well as I thought it was going.
06:49What was your first reaction when, like, obviously I turned around and you were walking down?
06:54You weren't, sort of, looks-wise what I was expecting.
06:58Have you ever been with anyone bigger or anything?
06:59What's your usual type?
07:00Have I been with anyone bigger?
07:01Anyone who's, like, bigger or anything like that, yeah.
07:03No, I have to admit that.
07:04No, no.
07:09Last night was the first time I probably felt anxious within this whole experience.
07:13It was just a weird place to be in.
07:15It kind of left me feeling empty.
07:16I didn't like it.
07:18I woke up this morning, I was feeling better and, like, kind of ready to just have fun again.
07:22Have you been cuddling any pillows?
07:23No, I've not been cuddling any pillows.
07:25I've kind of stopped that now.
07:27I'm waiting for the real thing.
07:28Dean is looking for more affection from myself, but for me, I'm just not there yet.
07:38No.
07:39Dean has not made any move, which is fine by me.
07:44He can't hear me, can he?
07:45Okay.
07:47I normally share my bed with my dog every night.
07:49Oh, fair, yeah.
07:50I'm used to shaking.
07:50So, like a dog.
07:51That's nice.
07:52Is it because I'm rough?
07:54It's just rough.
07:55It's rough.
07:56It's because a dog bark.
07:57Did you just bark?
08:03Dean barking in bed this morning makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.
08:07He's obviously stopped the rapping, and the random outbursts of song is now being replaced
08:12with animal sounds.
08:14Yeah, don't do that.
08:22Cheers.
08:23So, that's an early red.
08:24Whilst this year's first three couples get to know each other on their honeymoons.
08:31In the UK, another brave single is about to enter the experiment.
08:36I'll just look at the camera.
08:37Fuck.
08:38Ugh!
08:39Wait.
08:40Sorry.
08:41Sorry.
08:41Sorry.
08:42Sorry.
08:42Sorry.
08:42Sorry.
08:42Okay, ready?
08:44Okay.
08:44Is it recording now?
08:45At work, I'm like a powerhouse.
08:50Gotta get shit done.
08:54How are you, all right?
08:55Good, how are you?
08:55Yeah, thanks.
08:57I'm a consultant in the construction industry.
08:59Let's do one of the team's call, and then get you booked in for a site server, and go from
09:03there.
09:03I'm a masculine energizer, and I've got, like, a really girly side as well.
09:09Definitely say I'm spiritual.
09:11I love meditation.
09:13One year, I was in Thailand, and I lived with the monks.
09:17You know how to speak?
09:18That was hard for me.
09:21Already, I can see you are ironic.
09:25I think you meant iconic.
09:27No.
09:27I'm joking.
09:28I'm joking.
09:29I'm joking.
09:29Come on.
09:29I'm joking.
09:31They're going to have to be strong-minded, because you're quite strong and know what you
09:36want.
09:37You're making me sound like an absolute control freak.
09:39No.
09:39No, you've just got your shit together.
09:41That's a better way of putting it.
09:44I dated men until I was 25, and I now also date women as well.
09:50I never was one of these people in the closet, or, like, knew I had these feelings.
09:54I literally kissed a girl and liked it.
09:56I was Katy Perry.
09:58I swear to God.
09:59Long story short, I was in a hot tub with her, and I could see the way she was looking
10:03at me, and I thought, oh, my God, she fancies me.
10:05She tried to kiss me, and we just started snogging, and we was kissing for ages.
10:09And then I thought, the next day, I was like, oh, my God, am I a lesbian?
10:15That girl became my first girlfriend, and I ended up being with her for, like, a year.
10:21And then my last actual relationship, which was three years ago now, we were thinking
10:25of marriage.
10:27Coming away from that was hard.
10:29Definitely thought I'd found the one, yeah.
10:32What was missing for you not to remain in those relationships?
10:36I think I had to learn a lot to compromise as I got older.
10:40Like, I can be a control freak, but I hope I'm hands up with that.
10:43Typically, when people assert a lot of control in a relationship, they tend to have vulnerability
10:49challenges.
10:50Oh, yeah, 100%.
10:51But I'm willing to be completely vulnerable here.
10:55How do I know that?
10:56Because I've just told you.
10:59Okay.
11:02Isn't that weird?
11:03The next time I'm going to see you is at the wedding.
11:05What do you actually think about me doing it?
11:06You're absolutely nuts.
11:08Family.
11:09Family is so important for me.
11:11Out of the veils, girl.
11:12On your head.
11:14My nan is one of my best friends.
11:17I look like Minnie Mouse.
11:18Get it, y'all.
11:19You look nice.
11:20No, that's not how it goes.
11:22Me and my nan are so similar.
11:23We know what we like.
11:24We know what we don't like.
11:26Would you like me to show you my wedding photo?
11:28Have you got one?
11:29Yeah.
11:30Let me see.
11:31My mum and dad, and my nan and grandad, they've all shaped the way I view marriage.
11:36I'm so lucky to be surrounded by relationships that have just worked.
11:40I don't think I've ever seen you on your wedding day, you know.
11:43Well, you wouldn't have done, you were born.
11:44My ideal person would be emotionally intelligent, driven.
11:54It's so important for me.
11:55This person is family-orientated.
11:58Looks-wise, I always go for a girly girl.
12:02Nice eyes, nice teeth.
12:03Someone who takes care of themselves.
12:05That energy where it just draws you in, and you just instantly feel a connection.
12:11I have never really been this open to be taken out of my comfort zone, and I'm ready to take it on.
12:19Lee, interview, take one.
12:20One.
12:21Oh, God, that was so bad.
12:25I do definitely take pride in my appearance.
12:27I think I've been that way since I was young.
12:29I remember being, like, six years old, and my nan teaching me how to put lipstick on.
12:34I definitely am a really, like, feminine, girly girl.
12:37I always love to get my hair done, get my nails done.
12:40People used to joke about me that I'm always dressed up, even just to go to the shop.
12:44I live in Essex, so, I mean, the majority of the girls do, so.
12:49When people first meet me, they assume I'm going to be a little bit of an airhead.
12:53I'm not at all.
12:54I'm not just my eyelashes and fake down.
12:57I'm a lot deeper than that.
12:58I'd say I am quite a spiritual person.
13:00I like my crystals and the energy that they give off.
13:03I've got ten rose quartz at home, trying to flood the love towards me in hopes that it will work.
13:09Currently, I work in a GP surgery, doing clinical coding.
13:14I love my job, but it's definitely not something I want to do for the rest of my life.
13:18I found what my passion was.
13:20I realised that I really want to help people, so I'm now doing a degree in counselling.
13:26I think you need a little trim on the end.
13:28Not too much, though, Mum.
13:29I am getting married.
13:31I know.
13:32Being single and living with your mum isn't always the most ideal, let's be honest.
13:37You know, if you want to bring someone home, it'll be awkward.
13:41Single life in Romford?
13:44Awful.
13:45Everyone assumes I'm straight.
13:46It's always, have you got a husband or have you got a boyfriend?
13:49No, I haven't.
13:50Haven't got a girlfriend or a wife, even.
13:52You definitely want to find love and settle down, didn't you?
13:54Yeah.
13:55I feel like I'm 30 now.
13:56Everyone around me settled.
13:58Yeah.
13:58You've found your fiancée, you've got kids.
14:00Unless we understand, my love life hasn't been great.
14:03I do feel very protective.
14:04I'd never want you to get hurt again, the way you was before.
14:07Yeah.
14:11I have been engaged before.
14:13I thought I was going to continue and get married and have kids and all of that lovely stuff,
14:18but it just didn't work out that way.
14:20It was hard.
14:22The hardest thing I've ever been through.
14:23I saw my life with this person.
14:29That then got taken away.
14:31It was a really hard pill to swallow.
14:33When you think about this experiment,
14:35do you believe there will be any area that you personally struggle in?
14:40I think letting myself be vulnerable.
14:42If somebody was getting a little bit too comfortable with me,
14:46I've sort of shut it off.
14:48Are you prepared to emotionally attach?
14:50I think naturally now my guard is up, but I'm willing to go in with both feet.
14:55I'm serious about wanting it to work.
14:57I can see it.
14:57I can see that you're very serious about this.
15:02I definitely am wanting to find something.
15:04I'm wanting to find love.
15:06Mum?
15:08What do you think?
15:10Are you getting emotional?
15:12Oh, Mum.
15:13You're going to make me cry.
15:14I really just hope that this wedding would be everything that you dreamed it would be.
15:19You deserve it.
15:20Oh, thanks, Mum.
15:22The perfect wife would be family-orientated,
15:27open to spirituality,
15:30works hard,
15:31has goals set,
15:33quite a masculine-presenting woman,
15:35but still feminine to some degree.
15:37I like women for a reason,
15:39so I want them to feel like a woman.
15:41And I've been engaged.
15:43I just hope that this time I make it down the aisle
15:45and make the love of my life.
15:48Now this is a fascinating match.
15:50There are a lot of shared values with these two,
15:52and both have a steeliness to their character.
15:55Lee doesn't pull her punches,
15:57but Leah also said she wants someone headstrong
16:00who will keep her on her toes.
16:02Leah will be drawn to Lee's femininity,
16:05while Leah will appreciate her bride's masculine energy.
16:08If they connect, this can be an amazing partnership.
16:11I agree.
16:13Leah comes across as a tough cookie,
16:15exuding strength and confidence.
16:18Her challenge is vulnerability.
16:20Lee is quite a deep thinker,
16:22so she won't be afraid to explore Leah's softer, less obvious side.
16:26Both these brides are very driven at work,
16:30but they also value spirituality,
16:32and family is hugely important to them.
16:35They have close bonds to their nearest and dearest,
16:38and both prioritize thoughtfulness
16:40and emotional connection in their relationships.
16:44I think they might just meet their match
16:46in more ways than one.
16:48Lee and Leah.
16:50I can't believe I'm getting married today.
17:09It feels very surreal.
17:10I've been engaged before,
17:11so there's been moments where I thought that this was going to come,
17:14and it never did.
17:14But we're here.
17:15We're actually here.
17:17How do you feel this morning?
17:18I feel like it's going to go well.
17:19I've got a good feeling.
17:21I actually think it's because I've bought my crystals.
17:23I thought about, in the ceremony,
17:25maybe giving her one.
17:27Well, yeah, because it means so much to you.
17:29You want to be able to share that with somebody else.
17:31Yeah, definitely.
17:32I think it will be a nice way to solidify our bond.
17:36It represents love and healing.
17:37It's either going to go well or it's going to go really badly,
17:39because I'll be able to tell from her face
17:41if she thinks, what are you doing?
17:42I actually can't believe today's a big day.
17:51It's now starting to hit me a little bit, I think.
17:53Last night, I was lying in bed on my own,
17:55and I was thinking, what am I actually doing?
17:57And then when all the nice messages started coming through,
18:00like, oh, you lot,
18:00and my nan sent me a lovely message as well.
18:03And then I just started crying.
18:05Did you cry?
18:05Yeah, I cried.
18:06I was crying in bed.
18:06I just want to see that moment when you both see each other
18:09and just your first reaction.
18:11I hope she's just got nice teeth, like a nice smile,
18:14like a smiley person.
18:15And what about her personality?
18:17I hope she's got the same open mind as me, really.
18:21Who would be, like, your dream wife to be?
18:24So, I think mask, but not too mask,
18:29and not too femme, but not a stem.
18:33Um, stem is somebody that's a mix between a femme and a mask,
18:37so they'll be in between.
18:39If someone hears me say this, they're going to be like,
18:41so what exactly is it that you're looking for?
18:43Yeah.
18:43And it's really hard to explain.
18:45Like, it's that masculine energy for me.
18:47And that's got nothing to do with looks.
18:49It's just all about how they carry their self.
18:51If that's not there, I'll struggle with that.
18:55Did you always think you'd be marrying a woman today?
18:58I've always been open to both, haven't I?
19:00But I'm definitely more comfortable with a woman now.
19:02Yeah, you're more of the masculine energy in the relationship,
19:05so maybe that's why you're more suited to a feminine energy.
19:09Sometimes when I date guys, I'm too similar.
19:11Yeah, like two alpha males in the room.
19:13Yeah.
19:14You've got a bit of a feisty side.
19:17Would you like her to be like that?
19:19I'd like her to be headstrong.
19:21That might mean that at certain times,
19:23if I've got a strong opinion, she's got a strong opinion,
19:25we might butt heads, but then I think that's a good thing.
19:27It's just a team effort.
19:29Just be yourself, and whatever will be, will be.
19:36I feel like I didn't get myself.
19:38Sorry.
19:39God.
19:39Wow, that's come out of nowhere.
19:40Yeah.
19:44Yeah.
19:45I think I've just seen how you are as a person,
19:49like with everyone that you care about.
19:51That's the type of relationship that I want,
19:53is to be like the person that you are to my partner.
19:57Sorry.
20:00Yeah.
20:02Lee really does deserve to meet someone nice.
20:05She's been unlucky in love,
20:07so I really hope this works for her this time.
20:11You make me cry again.
20:15Love you.
20:22You look beautiful, babe.
20:27Oh, stop.
20:31I can't help her.
20:32Sorry.
20:33You know what I'm like?
20:35Leah means a hell of a lot to me.
20:39Yeah, I'm so proud.
20:41In fact, it gave me a tear to see her.
20:44It was beautiful.
20:46If you find somebody that really, really loves her,
20:52I'll be made up.
20:52I'll be made up.
21:12That was a knife.
21:15Lovely.
21:15Because I'm crying, it's only you girls.
21:25This feels like the biggest day of my life.
21:29I'm scared, but I'm definitely ready.
21:32I want someone who's going to challenge me
21:35and push me to be my best self.
21:38I'm ready to give everything to that person.
21:41She's a horse.
21:46Hello?
21:47You're gorgeous.
21:50She's a queen.
21:54She's a queen.
21:56Oh, my God.
22:00What am I doing?
22:01Love.
22:02I definitely feel like the universe has led me here
22:10I want to be able to trust someone and rely on somebody
22:15I am treading carefully but I'm going into this and I'm giving it my all
22:20I want someone to love me for me
22:32this is friends
22:38look stunning
22:45hi
22:50hi
22:51hi
22:52hi
22:53my wife is just as nervous as each other
22:57I'm not sure, right?
22:59I'm excited
22:59she's definitely a bit of me
23:04she's pretty, nice hair, nice teeth, nice eyes
23:07so yeah, tick, tick, tick
23:09what's your name?
23:10Leah, what's your name?
23:11Lee
23:11you Lee?
23:12yeah
23:12no
23:13Lee and Leah
23:16perfect
23:18you okay?
23:19yeah, you
23:20good
23:20she's absolutely stunning
23:26but
23:30I'm not sure
23:32if she does have a masculine side
23:34so
23:35am I going to fancy her?
23:37and in this moment
23:38I don't feel like I do
23:39shit
23:41hello everyone
23:49and a huge
23:50warm welcome
23:51can I ask you to please read your vows to Leah
23:55as we stand here today as strangers
23:59about to embark on probably one of the craziest journeys we've ever been on
24:02I trust that the universe has led us both here today for a reason
24:06and I truly believe that right here, right now
24:08we're exactly where we're supposed to be
24:09I hope that whilst growing our bond
24:13we can be a team
24:13one that inspires each other to be our best selves
24:16but know that we have each other's backs on the days when life isn't as kind
24:19and last but not least
24:22I can't wait to discover the reasons that we've been so divinely placed together
24:25before I wrap this up
24:27oh thank you
24:32I just wanted to give you this rose quartz
24:34and I hope that it will enable us to build a loving and healing connection
24:38and one that enhances our bond
24:40and brings peace on the days when you need it
24:42thank you
24:42can you hold my stone?
24:46yes
24:46thanks
24:47did she just call my crystal a stone?
24:54maybe she's not as into spirituality as I am
24:57I've manifested change
25:03but I never imagined the risk we're about to explore
25:05whether it's a connection of love that lasts until the end
25:09or something that takes us out of our comfort zone
25:11and spins us on our head
25:12fucking hell
25:13I'm apprehensive
25:15she is not what I normally go for
25:17and I'm worried
25:19I made a mistake
25:20all I can say is I promise to be vulnerable, honest and true
25:24and I'm excited for this journey of me and you
25:27I give you this ring
25:32as a symbol of my commitment to this marriage
25:35and my faith in this relationship
25:37I give you this ring
25:40of my intention to respect and support you
25:42and my faith in this relationship
25:44and I would now like to invite you
25:48to give each other a kiss
25:50should we do a take?
26:00we've just met
26:01and it is a pleasure to present you
26:06as wife and wife
26:08I actually can't believe I'm right as a stranger
26:13she's so attractive
26:14absolutely gorgeous
26:16I'm so excited
26:17but
26:20I don't know if she fancies me enough
26:23Leah does come across really feminine
26:27so I want to get to know
26:29if she does have a masculine side
26:32to find that physical attraction
26:33but I'm worried that that won't come
26:37fuck
26:41South Africa
26:48whilst our newlyweds continue to honeymoon
26:53Lynn and I
26:53we're always pulling each other in for a little cuddle
26:55or a little peck
26:56every time we can
26:57one could say Stephen is quite good with his hands
27:00in the Maldives
27:06oh, I'm sure I can drink when you think
27:08just open that fizz I think
27:10Sarah and Dean are all set for an intimate dinner
27:14I'm literally a pro
27:16just don't shake it
27:17the vibe with Sarah right now
27:20it's kind of weird
27:21no, but can you just face it over that way
27:25is there anything Dean could do
27:27to ever get a sexual spark
27:29get some tattoos and lose some weight
27:35maybe
27:37where do you see our relationship going?
27:39I see it like going back to the UK
27:40for a little bit
27:41however
27:44the longer that the honeymoon has gone on for
27:47and even in the last couple of days
27:49there's certain traits of his personality
27:51that are beginning to grate on me
27:53that wasn't a robot
27:56I know, but it was a joke
27:57I should be completely honest
28:01okay, you showing a band with me yet then?
28:13yeah
28:13Grace and Ashley are waking up in Thailand
28:17I saw the flight yesterday
28:18I was actually in two minds
28:20about whether I should even get on the flight
28:21I know Ashley framed it as a compliment
28:26that he respected me more
28:28for not sleeping with him on the first night
28:29but it did just feel judgmental
28:33of a woman who might have done that
28:34yeah
28:35100% I've learned already in this process
28:39that the things I say
28:41aren't necessarily the things I mean
28:42Grace, she's a really, really nice girl
28:45and I'm looking forward to getting to know her better
28:46I just, I've almost felt like
28:48everything I was doing was wrong
28:50I know I always mean well
28:53I've known in my head what I meant
28:56but then, like when I've tried to explain it
28:58it's not, almost come out right
29:00when you were saying like
29:01oh I really want a lady
29:03I was like, what?
29:04but then I've contradicted myself
29:06because from the very beginning
29:07I said I want a tomboy Barbie
29:08oh god I've done it again
29:14I'm like, put my foot in it
29:15why am I not allowed to like that?
29:20you know she's like
29:21kind of like a cartoon
29:22she's not like an actual shape
29:23of an actual woman
29:24I just keep saying
29:26some really outlandish things
29:28and they trigger me
29:29it's just
29:32it's more of a saying
29:34but don't you think
29:36we should move away from that saying?
29:39oh fuck
29:40I feel like I'm going to be
29:43burned at the stake
29:44by the end of this
29:45I just don't love that you're so specific
29:49that you're so like
29:51you can't have sex on the first date
29:53gorgeous but also
29:55not too gorgeous
29:56I don't know where it comes from sometimes
29:59but every now and then
30:00he just says something
30:01and I think like
30:01do you know how that sounds?
30:03I feel like I can't see
30:04like big old boobies
30:05little tiny ways
30:06like long blonde hair
30:08they're my preferences
30:09I'm allowed just as much
30:12as the next guy
30:13to have my kind of list
30:15and know what I want
30:15if you don't have it
30:18or you're not that person
30:19then you're not right for me
30:20I'm not saying
30:21you have to be that
30:23it's just a saying
30:24it's offensive
30:34hand in pocket over there
30:40have you seen
30:41she's got pockets in her dress
30:42she's got loads of rocks in there
30:43are you spiritual by the way?
30:46yeah I am
30:46oh okay
30:47what was that stone you gave her?
30:50a rose quartz
30:51yeah
30:51where did you put it?
30:53you haven't got it in your dress
30:53no you took it back off me
30:54oh she's lost it already
30:56oh no it's upstairs
30:56have you got my rose quartz?
31:00oh now she's concerned
31:02oh no
31:04I can't think where it is
31:05I've definitely got it somewhere
31:07I just don't want to lose it
31:08she'll kill me
31:08lovely
31:10just look towards the camera
31:11look down the lens
31:12perfect
31:14how do you like normally identify?
31:17are you like masc, femme, femme?
31:20I don't really identify
31:22as anything like that
31:23I don't know
31:23do you?
31:24what are you?
31:24yeah I would consider myself more femme
31:26I've got masculine energy I guess
31:28but I'm definitely more femme
31:29hmm
31:31just bring your faces
31:35really nice and close together
31:36no it's a bit much
31:38I was going to ask you
31:44if you wanted to do a kiss as well
31:45but
31:45probably not
31:46I've got the cheek today
31:47so no
31:47yeah sorry
31:48don't fancy it
31:53even the little one on the cheek
31:54no it's even weirder
31:55that it's
31:55the push
31:57you know
31:58you've asked five times now
32:00no
32:00I know
32:02he's fiery
32:02I got a little bit of a shock
32:04Lee has definitely got a fiery side
32:07I was like
32:07alright
32:08are we good?
32:11hmm
32:12I can't wait till I
32:25see how this will marvel
32:27really think it's got potential
32:28they're going to get along
32:30a hundred percent
32:31what is your normal type?
32:35my normal type is normally like
32:36quite masculine actually
32:38masculine yeah
32:38yeah
32:39I gauged that before
32:40why what goes that way?
32:42you said something like
32:43what do you go by?
32:44like a mask femme
32:44stem
32:45I don't really know about labels
32:46yeah
32:47like I would never be like
32:48I'm a bisexual
32:49or I'm strict
32:49do you know what I mean
32:50I'm just like
32:50for me it's a connection
32:51physical attraction
32:53definitely can grow
32:54she needs to get outside of her head
32:56we need to be open
32:58and try and push ourselves
32:59are you a bit high maintenance?
33:01not like
33:02I think you've got a little bit of it
33:04I've seen a little bit of a fiery side already
33:06I've seen a little bit of a fiery side already
33:07yeah
33:07why what happened?
33:08they said like
33:09oh
33:09can we kiss?
33:11and Lee was like
33:12no
33:13I've already said once
33:13I'm not doing it
33:14what is the reason you didn't want to kiss?
33:16I'm a bit of a slow burner
33:17I don't brush things
33:19or
33:19do things when I'm not ready
33:21I was going to say
33:25that's a conversation
33:26I wanted to have with you
33:27like early on
33:28I'd appreciate it
33:29if you respect my boundaries
33:30what are your boundaries?
33:33I recharge
33:34for having my own time
33:36what?
33:37I just might need
33:38a couple of hours to myself
33:39she already said
33:42she wants her own time already
33:43I'm in for a great old night
33:47obviously we're here for a marriage
33:51but how are we actually meant
33:53to get to know each other
33:53if we're not together
33:55and spending time together?
33:59have you got any concerns?
34:00is there any like
34:01red flags?
34:02she goes for really masked girls
34:04yeah
34:04so I'm not her type
34:05you're not used to someone
34:06being like
34:07you're not my type
34:08why don't you just
34:10get a number one all over?
34:11why after?
34:12the sexual attraction
34:14isn't there
34:15we can look past that
34:16because
34:16based on
34:17listening to her friends
34:19and just the general vibe
34:20there's a lot
34:22of potential chemistry there
34:23what I don't want to do
34:25is try and force myself
34:26to rush into something
34:28and then feel uncomfortable
34:29and then I pull back
34:30and shut down
34:31because of my past relationships
34:34I'm definitely a lot more guarded
34:35family and friends
34:37think there's a lot of fundamentals
34:38between us that align
34:40but I don't know
34:41I overheard you were chatting
34:42on the table
34:43was that she needs three hours
34:45when she gets home
34:46or was that
34:46was that
34:47yeah she likes to have
34:48her own time
34:49that might be a challenge
34:50in this process
34:51because you're not going to have
34:53that three hour period
34:54away from me
34:54you're not going to have that
34:55so she may struggle
34:56she saw us
35:06it's opening up
35:08yeah
35:08sorry I'm just a bit flashed
35:13so we should definitely work
35:15on talking French
35:16much much much more
35:17does that make you
35:18happy?
35:20it makes some part of me happy
35:22there is an unreal amount
35:28of sexual tension
35:29between Tafid and I
35:30but we promised
35:31that we will wait
35:32before we are intimate
35:33with one another
35:34to just make sure
35:35that that emotional trust
35:36is just completely there
35:37because we were happy
35:38to wait
35:39I said I was happy
35:42I didn't say it wasn't hard
35:43I'm dying to be intimate
35:46with Kia
35:46not going to lie
35:47but I want to
35:48build up the tension
35:49a little bit more
35:50I know things have
35:51gotten a little bit
35:52freaky
35:53but we have stopped
35:54each other a lot
35:55no one wants to get intimate
35:57in 30 odd degree heat
35:59it's unbearable
36:01I'm already a profuse sweater
36:04can you imagine
36:06it would be like
36:06a slip and slide
36:07it doesn't feel like
36:15we've met each other
36:17less than a week ago
36:17yeah it's just
36:19just taken back
36:20by it
36:21bamboo rafting
36:22with Nelly
36:22it's been so romantic
36:24couldn't have expected
36:25any more beautiful person
36:26looking across from me
36:27do you think we're
36:28a bit delusional
36:28just being in our
36:29own little bubble
36:30about how good it is
36:31no
36:32I'm having the best time
36:34with Stephen
36:35honestly it's everything
36:36I could have asked for
36:37it's too good to be true
36:39I don't want to get back
36:40so you're wanting more
36:42basically
36:42erm
36:43how did you get
36:44cheers to today
36:53absolutely
36:54I'm having a really good time
36:58it's been an amazing time
37:00a couple more days
37:01we'll be back
37:01in the UK
37:03I've never lived
37:04with a guy before
37:04honestly
37:06I'm a bit nervous
37:08I think it's just
37:10going so good
37:11and we're having
37:11such a good time
37:12but
37:13I'm waiting for
37:14something to happen
37:15which I know
37:16is not great
37:16erm
37:17just a little bit
37:18cautious of
37:19it sort of
37:19crashing down
37:20around us
37:21what scares you
37:23in this marriage
37:24so I've only
37:27had like three
37:27relationships
37:28erm
37:29they were all
37:31unfaithful
37:31it's such a big trigger
37:35for me
37:35and I think honestly
37:36if you had
37:37I just don't see how it could work
37:39me and you
37:39I would just be thinking
37:41red flag
37:41what am I getting myself into
37:44look
37:45living together
37:46poses challenges
37:48but
37:50I've never cheated
37:53yes
37:54honestly
37:57do you know how
37:58much better that makes me feel
37:59like that
38:01that is great
38:01I am so
38:05so glad
38:07it just really reassured me
38:08right now
38:09it's tick tick tick
38:10and he's not putting the foot wrong
38:11I can only show you in actions
38:13words mean nothing
38:14until I actually prove the point
38:15honestly that makes me feel so much better
38:17that you said you've never cheated on anyone
38:18that's such a big relief
38:20sorry if I've never been so far
38:36yeah it's a lot more intense
38:37than I thought it was going to be
38:38can't lie
38:39this process is proven difficult
38:41I thought it was going to be easy
38:43I expected
38:43it would just run swimmingly
38:45where are we going now
38:46secret gardens
38:48this is beautiful isn't it
38:50I'm willing to speak to Sarah
38:51and tell her how I'm feeling
38:52because that's how you go forward
38:53oh
38:55hello
38:56hello Vera
38:58she was saying hello to us
39:02can't ignore her
39:05hi Basel
39:08didn't work
39:10sometimes they don't work
39:12Dean making the herb jokes
39:15it's not helping the situation
39:16it's becoming an egg
39:18yeah it's nice here though
39:24pretty mint
39:25if you ask me
39:26stop that
39:27please honestly just stop
39:29if I'm honest like
39:33yesterday was a lot for me
39:34that was probably the hardest day
39:35I've had personally
39:36but I found myself going back
39:39to being that fat kid at school
39:40you know that didn't get the girls
39:42and wasn't very popular
39:43it didn't sit easy with me at all
39:45and I was like I'm so
39:45so past that
39:46or I thought I was so past that
39:47I think it was like
39:49the rejection
39:50like it feels a little bit
39:51of rejection doesn't it
39:52and I think the more I'm getting to know you
39:54obviously the more
39:55I am liking you
39:56but I also don't want to
39:58get hurt
40:00from your point
40:03like would it be any different
40:04if I wasn't as big
40:05because obviously
40:06I haven't always been
40:06um
40:11the last thing I want to do
40:13is upsetting
40:14but
40:14I have to be honest
40:16probably
40:21I think there maybe
40:25would be more of that
40:27attraction sexual chemistry
40:29um
40:30sorry
40:31I want to be open
40:35and transparent with you
40:36I don't want to
40:37you know
40:37hide anything
40:37or pretend
40:38are you okay
40:45hearing Sarah say that
40:51did hurt my feelings
40:53yeah
40:54just remember
40:58I'm also a prize
40:59like I am what I am in it
41:03attraction's just not my own
41:21isn't this a dream though
41:27oh yeah
41:27somewhere else
41:28I'm just really not sure
41:42how I'm feeling
41:42about Ash
41:43at the moment
41:44I'm not impressed
41:45with him
41:46the comment that was said
41:47just caught me right
41:48at the wrong time
41:49but
41:49waking up today
41:50I am trying to
41:51have a different mindset
41:52I have to keep reminding myself
41:54to leave in a couple days
41:55and
41:55I need to have an open mind
41:57no fun
42:01good one
42:03yeah
42:04ping of my time
42:05is it doing it for you
42:06yeah
42:07woo
42:08come out in trouble
42:10go
42:11wait
42:13one
42:13good one
42:15is he allowed to do that
42:16Ashley
42:18Ashley
42:18he obviously has to touch
42:20on top of the way I was feeling
42:24trying to make it like flirty
42:25and finally just made me
42:26clam up a bit
42:27one two
42:28the more pressure I feel
42:31to be affectionate
42:32with someone that I'm really
42:33unsure about
42:34the less likely I am
42:35to be affectionate
42:36come on
42:37you're teaching me all this
42:39equality stuff
42:40go
42:40yay
42:43I'm not really feeling it
42:46come on then
42:46sorry
42:47I feel like you've got more
42:49on you than that
42:49I'm actually just
42:50I just don't want to
42:51I'm not loving it
42:52it's okay
42:54I'm just confused
42:56I'm trying to be me
42:57but I'm not sure
42:58I feel like
42:59I feel like everything I'm doing
43:00is wrong
43:01and I don't know
43:01why
43:02sure you're okay though
43:03yeah
43:03no I'm good
43:04yeah
43:04mm-hmm
43:07yeah
43:08people have told me that
43:09marriage
43:10is hard
43:11and you think I just
43:12I don't think it needs
43:13to be this hard
43:14you okay
43:19I think
43:21it comes so naturally
43:23to you to be like
43:24flirtatious
43:25and like tactile
43:26but I wasn't really
43:27expecting it in like
43:28a Muay Thai session
43:30so I just think I felt
43:31a bit awkward
43:32I think I got a bit
43:33overwhelmed
43:33didn't you just feel like
43:35I was coming on a bit
43:36strong
43:36I'd love to just work
43:38on like the friendship
43:39part first
43:40right
43:41okay
43:42ultimately I'm in you
43:45for
43:45I know
43:46for a different reason
43:47than friendship
43:48so yeah
43:49look I want to be friends
43:50and that but
43:50it's like we're here
43:53like we've signed up
43:54to marry a complete stranger
43:55in an experiment
43:56and it's kind of
43:57working at a marriage
43:57rather than a friendship
43:58yeah
43:59I do get that
44:01it's like I already
44:02kind of feel like
44:03like we are
44:04running slow
44:06feeling like
44:06flirting
44:07I don't see
44:07it's like a big jump
44:08yeah
44:09to be fair
44:12we are married
44:13I think I just
44:14I'm a bit in my own head
44:16okay
44:16I hoped it would be
44:19a bit easier
44:20but I have struggled
44:21in this process
44:22it's way harder
44:23than I thought
44:23it was going to be
44:24sorry
44:25it's nice
44:25I'm going to apologise
44:26still getting to know
44:28each other
44:28exactly
44:29yeah
44:29I'm definitely
44:30outside my comfort zone
44:31as someone's wife
44:33I kind of wish
44:33I was a bit more
44:34open hearted
44:35in the way that he is
44:36but still early days
44:39I'm committed
44:40to the process
44:41so big steps
44:43from here
44:44yeah thanks for
44:46understanding
44:47going into the day
44:50Grace and I
44:51had a tough time
44:52but I do appreciate
44:53that she's trying
44:53maybe you want to go
44:54for a walk
44:55on the beach or something
44:55yeah
44:56she wants to move
44:57at her own pace
44:57I'm more than happy
44:58to do that
44:59I understand that
45:00friendships
45:00make the best marriages
45:02I'm just hoping
45:03that we build
45:03a connection
45:04from there
45:05thank you
45:22I am really excited
45:24for my final dinner
45:24my breath is taken away
45:26like it's magical
45:27every part of this trip
45:29is an absolute dream
45:30yeah
45:30I am lost
45:33for words
45:34for once
45:35this is
45:37this is amazing
45:38and I'm so happy
45:39I'm doing it with you
45:39same
45:40I adore
45:44spending every single
45:45minute of every day
45:46with you
45:46I know
45:48I felt the connection
45:49from the moment
45:49we
45:50I walked down the aisle
45:51and you grabbed my hands
45:52and told me it was
45:52going to be okay
45:53and I just
45:54I couldn't appreciate you
45:56more
45:56in any way
45:57same
46:00you've opened up a lot
46:04to me
46:05you can feel really
46:06comfortable
46:06you are my person
46:09and I'm
46:12100%
46:13falling for you
46:14I feel completely
46:20utterly
46:20the same way
46:21I am
46:22I am completely
46:23besotted with you
46:24you're honestly
46:26just
46:28yeah
46:28perfect in every way
46:29I'm going to kiss you
46:32now
46:32I would
46:32I would
46:33hate if you didn't
46:34that thing
46:35Davine and I
46:43have definitely
46:44found our groove
46:44I think
46:45when it comes to
46:46communication
46:47it was a little bit
46:48stunted at the start
46:48but only because
46:49I
46:50was so scared
46:51to do that
46:52vulnerability aspect
46:53but since I've done that
46:55I think we've grown
46:56from strength to strength
46:57he's
46:59he's just
46:59everything
47:00yeah
47:01he's
47:01he's
47:02yeah
47:04I understand why people
47:05write love songs
47:06sad it's our last evening
47:16yeah
47:16it's been such a
47:17perfect honeymoon
47:18the honeymoon
47:19has been literally
47:20everything and more
47:21I could have asked for
47:22we seem like we're really
47:23perfectly suited
47:24to one another
47:24I'm really hoping that it's not just that we're in the honeymoon bubble
47:28but I honestly feel really really lucky and fortunate
47:30from the moment I saw you
47:32to now
47:33the word is just wow in general
47:35where the hell have you been for 34 years of me life
47:39couldn't find the experts enough on that
47:42I don't know what to say
47:43don't you cry on me
47:44no no no no no no
47:46no it is
47:46no it is
47:47but that was really nice to hear
47:48so this being the last night
47:50that is so cute
47:56I love that I actually can't wait to put that in the apartment
48:03do you know what is this from
48:06first bottle we popped
48:07as if you kept that
48:09that's so sweet
48:10that's so nice
48:11thank you
48:14really surprised at Stephen
48:17with all those little keepsakes
48:19it's really reassuring
48:21because sometimes I can't gauge
48:22whether a guy likes me or not
48:23I'm like
48:23it just makes me think
48:24he likes me too
48:25I'm not used to it
48:26thank you so much
48:28for just being
48:28an incredible husband so far
48:31my honeymoon with Nelly
48:32absolutely amazing
48:34emotionally
48:34we're connecting very well
48:36and just looking forward to
48:37what's to come
48:38here's to the apartments
48:39and life
48:40yes
48:40how are you feeling
48:49good
48:50relaxed
48:51feel to be
48:52back and chilled
48:53yeah
48:54someone to ask you a question
48:58no
48:58how would you feel
49:02if
49:05we spent
49:08this evening
49:09on our own
49:11what the hell
49:15is she doing
49:16not exactly how
49:20I thought
49:20the first night
49:21would go after a wedding
49:22so weird
49:24cool
49:26sweet
49:28okay
49:29okay
49:29I'll see you out
49:31oh thanks
49:32do you want me to help you
49:34if you can
49:34I didn't always plan on
49:36staying apart from
49:37whoever I ended up marrying
49:39obviously
49:40obviously
49:40I wasn't really what I was expecting
49:42have a lovely seat
49:45I respect the boundaries
49:47however
49:48I think if it continued
49:49to not the process
49:50I'd be like
49:51nah I'm gone
49:52next time
49:59marriage to me
50:00means everything
50:01more brave singles
50:03I'm extremely nervous
50:05take the ultimate gamble
50:06on love
50:07there's an instant spark
50:10for some
50:11it's love
50:11but one bride's
50:15unconventional arrival
50:17can't believe
50:17she's on a horse
50:18hey don
50:19you alright
50:19I thought
50:20you were
50:20black for a funeral
50:22and party spirit
50:23it was rosy
50:24I'll be on
50:25my second bottle
50:25by now
50:26ring alarm bells
50:27for her groom
50:27what are you like
50:28when you're drunk
50:29argumentative
50:30I'm not 100% sure
50:32that maybe
50:32was my type
50:33do you reckon
50:34you could do it
50:34yeah
50:34and as the honeymoons
50:36continue
50:37I love typhoon
50:39don't you
50:39while Grace and Ashley
50:41turn a corner
50:41I thought we'd
50:44go to the top
50:44of the mountain
50:45right
50:45Lee and Leah's
50:46troubles
50:47Leah I'm not excited
50:49you are
50:50hit new heights
50:51no this is not
50:53fun for me
50:54she doesn't understand
50:55the severity of things
50:56until it gets
50:57too far
50:58good
50:59can't skin me
51:00close it
51:00have balls
51:01left off an eye
51:02out
51:03in to
51:08in
51:24in
51:25in
51:28in
51:28out
51:29in
51:29in
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