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00:00Marriage to me means everything.
00:03Previously.
00:04I am extremely excited.
00:06This is the most spontaneous thing I've actually ever done.
00:09Four more courageous singles.
00:12Said I do to a stranger.
00:14I'm extremely nervous.
00:17I want an epic love story.
00:20Whilst romance sparked for one couple.
00:22It's love at first sight.
00:23For the other.
00:24What are you like when you're drunk?
00:26One bride's party spirit.
00:27Wild.
00:29Argumentative.
00:30Argumentative.
00:31Raised concerns for her groom.
00:33She is more fiery than I'm used to.
00:36That is a worry.
00:38And for Lee and Leah.
00:39I just want to go home.
00:41Struggles on the slopes.
00:42I might have a panic attack.
00:43I'm not joking.
00:44Landed them in honeymoon hell.
00:46She doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far.
00:51I've paused the fucking eye.
00:57Tonight.
00:57I don't struggle to meet women.
01:00I just haven't met the right person.
01:02Two more bold singles.
01:04I'm attracted to the alpha male.
01:08I won't settle for anything less.
01:11Meet and marry at first sight.
01:13But one bride's rigid expectations.
01:17I can't tell whether he's an alpha or not.
01:19Bring a bitter disappointment.
01:21He's not my type.
01:23You may now share your first kiss.
01:25Kiss on the cheek.
01:25I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek if I'm honest.
01:29Is that our first part?
01:30Bloody hell.
01:31Four more newlyweds.
01:33It's time for your honeymoon.
01:35The magical Morocco.
01:37Set off on their romantic escape.
01:39I cannot wait to get wheezy life.
01:40Joe's worst fears become reality.
01:43You really pissed me off.
01:44Why?
01:44Because you're f***ing on, man.
01:46You're actually f***ing off.
01:48And Devani's negative conversations.
01:50Knowing that I could potentially be alone for the rest of my life.
01:53That would be the worst.
01:55Unleash tension.
01:57Everything is so intense and so deep.
01:59That tears their honeymoon apart.
02:01The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas
02:04and then, like, get into bed with you.
02:07There's trouble in paradise, isn't there?
02:17It's hot.
02:18God, I am sweating here.
02:20I cannot wait to get in the pool.
02:22Pina colada.
02:22Pina colada.
02:23I cannot wait to get wheezy life.
02:25I'm still not 100% too certain where we are,
02:28but it's absolutely amazing.
02:29Oh, my God.
02:31Champagne.
02:32Do you want some?
02:32Of course I do.
02:34Jamaica, is that right?
02:36Caribbean?
02:36I don't actually know.
02:38I don't know.
02:40This...
02:41We've got our own pool, haven't we?
02:42...is insane.
02:45I can't wait to jump in there.
02:46It doesn't feel real to me.
02:48No.
02:49Do you know what I mean?
02:50I still haven't come to terms with that I'm actually married.
02:55Obviously, there are things I do like about Maeve,
02:57but my first impressions were,
02:59I wasn't really sure if she is what I needed.
03:04A few babies.
03:05Can't we?
03:06She came across a big, brash personality.
03:09Yeah, and I just think it's going to take some time
03:11just to see if she isn't just a party girl.
03:13But I guess we'll find out.
03:17So, like, one thing I might be concerned about
03:20is obviously when we're both drinking...
03:22Yeah.
03:23...how we're going to, like, be with each other.
03:26Because obviously you said you were, like,
03:28proper argumentative and shit when you piss, so...
03:31I'm all right, but the more I drink,
03:34the more, like, cheekier I get.
03:36Yeah.
03:37The more looking to, like, pushy buttons I get.
03:43Because you've calmed down, do you know what I mean?
03:46And, like, that's what I want to be like,
03:48so maybe you might possibly be the one to try it.
03:51Well, calm us down, hopefully.
03:52Do you think that'll happen?
03:55Right now, probably not.
04:01I've always sworn by,
04:02treat them mean, keep them keen.
04:05If he can handle me at my worst,
04:07he can have me at my best.
04:09The more time I'm spending with Joe,
04:11I'm starting to like him,
04:13and I feel like he's a very easy person to talk to.
04:16But I still have my guard up.
04:19In my past relationships,
04:20I have been walked all over.
04:23What can go wrong?
04:26Get a couple of drinks down here till we shall find out.
04:41Got you a little hot chocolate.
04:44I'll hold you, Paul.
04:46OK.
04:47So, the honeymoon,
04:48it has been up and down in terms of where we're at.
04:52She has been a bit aggy and stuff with me.
04:53It's emotionally draining.
04:55I do feel like I'm giving more.
04:58And I want her to know that.
05:07I feel like at this point...
05:09I feel like I'm...
05:12maybe trying a little bit harder.
05:14I don't want to flirt with you because, like, that part for me is just, like, not there yet.
05:30I don't want to rush myself.
05:45But you could be a little bit more flirty, I think.
05:50Oh, Leah, your hair looks nice today.
05:53Oh, Leah, I like the way you're wearing your rings.
05:58OK, do we want to just dig me out?
06:00How fucking awful I am.
06:02I feel like we're in this experiment.
06:05We need to, like, push ourselves more than we would in the outside world.
06:11We have to meet in the middle if we want it to try and work.
06:15Do you know what I mean?
06:16I know I'm not her type, but also she's not my type.
06:23I still can have a flair and have a joke with her.
06:26Is she open to giving a little bit more?
06:28Because if it's not, I can't see myself going through this process.
06:31It's just a waste of time for me.
06:33Do you want to go and play in the snow?
06:40No.
06:49God, no, no.
06:50Back in the UK...
06:52Close them!
06:53Julia, Ruth and Devani are waking up to their first morning as a married couple.
06:58How did you sleep?
07:00Fantastic, how was she?
07:01I listened and put my hand on the pillow and I was gone.
07:05First night with my wife was very romantic.
07:07When I opened my eyes this morning, I thought I was dreaming.
07:10My wife is a very beautiful woman and very attracted to her.
07:13I'm not sure anything better, so it was good.
07:17It was just super, super, super duper comfortable.
07:21Okay.
07:21Yeah.
07:27I feel like the wedding was such a high,
07:29but I have woken up with, like, a different thought this morning.
07:32I'm quite an openly sexual person,
07:35but I'm not having that desire.
07:38So, I do think that I just want to take things slowly and at our pace
07:42and just build from there.
07:43Julia, Ruth and Devani, congratulations.
07:49We hope you enjoyed your first night as newlyweds.
07:52Now it's time for your honeymoon in the magical Morocco.
07:56The perfect setting for an enchanting love story to begin.
08:00I'm screaming.
08:01I love that.
08:02We're going to Morocco.
08:07I didn't get the initial spark that I was hoping for, Devani.
08:11Let's try and make the most of it being on the honeymoon
08:13and see if it grows.
08:17Morocco!
08:18Morocco, here we come.
08:20Oh, I'm here for it.
08:21We're excited, we're ready.
08:33As Julia, Ruth and Devani jet off on honeymoon,
08:37another hopeful single is ready to put her trust in the experts.
08:41I'm ready.
08:42I'm excited.
08:44Let's go, guys!
08:47I'm successful.
08:49Fierly independent.
08:51And determined.
08:54Three, two, one.
08:59The gym's a huge part of my life.
09:01I love to feel healthy, I love to feel strong.
09:04And I think that's why I'm attracted to the alpha male.
09:08I'm attracted to the big man that can lead me by the hand.
09:16Are we ready?
09:17Lovely.
09:18I'm an aesthetics nurse and I run my own clinic from home.
09:23I absolutely love my job.
09:25I've managed to build a business on my own from the ground up.
09:31It's thriving.
09:32Is that okay?
09:33Feeling all right?
09:34And I'm so proud of that because I know that it's me who's achieved that.
09:37When you're entrepreneurial, you strive for more all the time.
09:44My standards are very high.
09:46I like things to be in order and I like things to look nice.
09:50I won't settle for anything less than perfection in my life.
09:55And I feel the same about my relationships.
09:57I was with my ex-partner for eight years and we got engaged.
10:07And a little while after that, I broke off the engagement.
10:10When he proposed, there was something inside me that was saying,
10:19I'm not sure if this is 100% right.
10:23Making the decision that I made to break off the engagement
10:27obviously changed the course of my life, but changed me as a person.
10:31Yeah, it was heartbreaking for us all, you know,
10:34because we just thought that was your course to be on.
10:39There is somebody out there that is just going to be perfect for what you want.
10:45I have a really clear idea of the type of person that I want,
10:49the values that I want him to have, the way that I want him to live his life
10:52and what would work well for me in that sense.
10:55And I haven't ever felt that before.
10:57I want to be with a partner and think this is everything that I've ever wanted.
11:05So if you found somebody that wasn't your type,
11:08would you be willing to put the work in and the effort in
11:11if you didn't tick those boxes straight away?
11:14I feel like I'm the type of person that needs them boxes ticked instantly.
11:20And if they're not, in my mind I think,
11:24it's not going to work, it's not going to work, just move on.
11:25I'm attracted to the alpha male.
11:32Somebody tall, confident, and who's sure of themselves.
11:38I want him to have really strong family values.
11:41I want to have a family in the future with me.
11:44I want him to be kind and respectful.
11:48To have a lot of get up and go.
11:50And to be really funny.
11:54I'm really ready to find the one.
11:58And something as crazy and as wild as this
12:00feels like the right next step.
12:02I have got 100% hit rate in my flirting.
12:07Listen, don't ask my friends what they say.
12:10Just ask me, it's 100%.
12:11We never thought we'd see the day that baby gets married.
12:15I always thought I'd get married.
12:16Like, chill out on that.
12:18Everyone grows up.
12:19I'm not a massive flirt anymore.
12:21Much.
12:22A little bit.
12:22If there was a dating review website, I think I'd have five stars.
12:27I think I'm a catch, yeah.
12:28I mean, yeah, look at me.
12:30I enjoy being tall.
12:31I think that is such a good trait when you're trying to approach women.
12:34I've got to put my heart on a dating app.
12:36I put, hi, I'm six foot four.
12:37Yeah, remember, I'm six foot four.
12:40I'm definitely an extrovert.
12:42I'm just loud, so I end up being central attention.
12:44I like to think of myself somewhat as an entrepreneur.
12:50I'm kind of like the Richard Branson of Brighton.
12:53I own a microbrewery.
12:55It helps me on dates loads.
12:57I mean, if I'm in a bar that sells the beer, I'd be like, oh, oh, they sell my beer here today.
13:01Like I didn't know already.
13:02It works, honestly, that works a treat.
13:05My beer is named after my gorgeous little daughter.
13:09Wow, look at that.
13:11You ready?
13:12Here we go.
13:13Becoming a dad is the best thing I've ever done.
13:16She's the most important person in my life.
13:18I just have another level to love with Bluebell.
13:21Who's your best friend?
13:23You.
13:24Who's my best friend?
13:25Me.
13:26Yeah.
13:27Family is super important to me.
13:29I split up with my daughter's mother.
13:31It was something I never wanted to do.
13:33We came to kind of the harsh reality that we would be happy if separated.
13:37I do want more kids one day, so I think that makes it even more important to be in a strong relationship
13:42and to be really close with my partner.
13:45Be really sure about them.
13:47Why is love so important to you now?
13:50Oh.
13:51Love means everything to me.
13:54I'd love to be married.
13:55I'd love to start building a future.
13:57Maybe build on my family and have a family together.
14:00All of these things are important to me, but the right person.
14:02Someone I could see forever with.
14:05Just a teammate, like someone to bring out the best of me, and then I can hopefully do that with her, yeah.
14:09I'm looking for sparks.
14:15Honesty.
14:17Kindness.
14:19Entrepreneurial spirit.
14:22I think there's that fairy tale out there for everyone.
14:26And, yeah, I'm here searching for mine.
14:28Rebecca and Bailey are a fascinating couple.
14:38Let's start with Rebecca, who is possibly one of our trickiest brides to match.
14:42She's confident, career-driven, a high achiever, and she demands perfection in all aspects of her life, including her partner.
14:50She wants a husband with an alpha personality who can match her energy and drive.
14:54It's a very high bar, but I think we may have cracked it with Bailey.
14:59He's an entrepreneur, self-assured, a leader in his peer group, and he radiates charm and confidence.
15:05Absolutely.
15:06Bailey's a big personality, but Rebecca's direct and honest characteristics will keep him on his toes.
15:12And they both have a genuine love of family, which, as a loving father, is a crucial quality for Bailey.
15:17And let's not forget they are both highly active and extroverts who love the company of other people.
15:24So they should really bounce off each other's positive energy.
15:28If the spark ignites for these two, there could be fireworks.
15:33Rebecca and Bailey.
15:34I just want there to be, like, that spark and that connection, and then I'll look at him and I'm like, oh, OK.
15:46Do you feel like when you see him, you'll know?
15:49Yeah.
15:50Straight away?
15:51Yeah.
15:51I'll know within ten seconds.
15:53I'm just that type of person, though, aren't I?
15:55You do need to give people a chance as well.
15:58Rebecca likes everything her own way, and, you know, she's got certain standards that she wants everybody to live up to.
16:08But she does maybe need to compromise a little bit.
16:11I want somebody who, like, is a typical alpha guy.
16:17I'm always attracted to, like, the tallest guys.
16:20I hope he's well-dressed.
16:22Clean, big feasts, gym bod, a six-pack discipline, and they work really hard.
16:27I would say you're picky.
16:29You have got your standards.
16:31You have.
16:32And you know what you want.
16:33God, it feels so real now you're here.
16:37I didn't sleep at all last night.
16:39You're nervous.
16:40No, I'm ready.
16:40I'm ready.
16:41I can't believe it.
16:42The day is here.
16:43I'm about to be a husband.
16:44I'm going to have a wife.
16:46I can't wait to meet her.
16:47Get me down that aisle.
16:48She might not like you.
16:50Are you worried about that at all?
16:52No, I'm not worried about that.
16:55She will love me.
16:56Like, it's fine.
16:57I'm obviously Mr. Confident.
16:58I'm not used to people not fancying me.
17:00I get a lot of numbers, get a lot of dates.
17:02Is she going to be in love as soon as she sees me?
17:07He's always confident.
17:08A bit too confident at times.
17:13Try and crack on with her for the first night.
17:15Well, she's like...
17:16She's not feeling it.
17:17Yeah.
17:18How would you react to that?
17:19I don't know.
17:20Listen, I'm not even thinking about it.
17:21It's never happened.
17:22It's never happened.
17:32I definitely am looking to settle down.
17:53I just haven't met the right person.
17:57I want to call someone my wife.
18:00And I want to be with someone forever.
18:04Good heavens.
18:05Hello, hello.
18:23All right?
18:24It's awesome.
18:24All right, how's it going?
18:26Hello.
18:26What's your name?
18:34I'm Bailey.
18:35Bailey?
18:35Yeah.
18:36Nice to meet you all.
18:37You look lovely.
18:41Rebecca knows what she wants, so I will know from Rebecca's face if this is not her dream man.
18:48I'm picturing, like, a man who's got, like, stature about him.
18:59I'd want him to be a dominant figure.
19:05I've walked away from something before because I didn't want to settle.
19:09And if they don't tick enough boxes for me straight away, I will say how I feel.
19:32She's scared.
19:33How's it going?
19:48You all right?
19:49Hi.
19:51How are you?
19:52Nice to meet you.
19:52Nice to meet you, too.
19:53I'm Rebecca.
19:54Hi, Rebecca.
19:55I'm Bailey.
19:55Nice to meet you.
19:55Bailey?
19:56Yeah.
19:57You look lovely.
19:58Thank you so much.
19:59So do you.
20:00She's absolutely stunning.
20:04I can't believe it.
20:06She's right up my street.
20:08She's a bit of me.
20:09God, you look lovely, by the way.
20:10Yeah, you're really lovely.
20:11Yeah, honestly.
20:12I love you.
20:13I love you.
20:13Big smiles.
20:14Look at me.
20:14I'm like a Cheshire cat.
20:27What's all that?
20:28Six-four.
20:29Six-four?
20:30Yeah.
20:31Is that all right?
20:39He's not six-foot-four.
20:42I guess six-foot-one.
20:45I said I would know within 10 seconds.
20:50And alarm bells are going off in my head.
20:56It's not my type.
20:57Oh, God.
21:03Thank you all for coming to celebrate this very special occasion.
21:16Now, in these beautiful surroundings, we come to the fowls which Rebecca and Bailey have written to each other.
21:23I always tell my friends that first dates should be casual, nothing too fancy, don't over-dress, and whatever you do, never talk about marriage.
21:37But, well, here we are.
21:38But, well, here we are.
21:40Nice to meet you.
21:42But in all seriousness, I vow to be your biggest fan, your supportive teammate, and your personal comedian.
21:50Always there to make you smile when you need cheering up.
21:53So, here's to laughter, happiness, and who knows, hopefully, one day love.
22:01So, let's do this.
22:08To my husband.
22:11Never in a million years did I think I'd stand in front of a stranger and agree to marry them.
22:17I decided this year was the year that I would say yes to everything.
22:20To every opportunity, to every invitation, but more importantly, to you.
22:24I want to get to know the real you.
22:29I know we may go through tough times together, but all I ask...
22:33I'm going to cry.
22:34All I ask is that you try to love me.
22:37Sorry.
22:39But you try to love me just as I am.
22:43Please just accept me and let me show you how magical life can be with me by your side.
22:49Excuse me.
22:51So, to my husband, I say yes to you today.
22:54And hopefully, I will say yes every day thereafter.
23:02I'm going to start wearing out. I can't speak.
23:05I don't want... I'm trying to... I'm trying to be all macho, aren't I?
23:13I don't think he's an alpha.
23:16No.
23:17Rebecca, I give you this ring.
23:19Wear it with joy and as a symbol of our unity.
23:22Bailey, I give you this ring with sincerity and as a symbol of our unity.
23:29Bailey, Rebecca, you may now share your first kiss.
23:33No.
23:43Like, a kiss on the mouth isn't right for me at this stage.
23:48Please join me in giving them your warmest congratulations.
24:05God, I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest.
24:08I wanted a kiss.
24:11Oh, God, I don't know.
24:12Is that a first part?
24:13Bloody hell.
24:13I felt straight away, there was no real sexual pull.
24:21I don't know if he'd be my type that I'd gravitate to.
24:27I'm a man on a mission now.
24:29I'm a man on a mission to get a kiss.
24:31Maybe a bit of tongue later.
24:32Oh, my God.
24:44The experts have definitely got this right.
24:47I've literally met someone that I didn't truly believe ever existed.
24:52This is really nice.
24:53You know what?
24:54I think I can stay here for a few nights.
24:57Cool.
24:57I've been married for less than 24 hours.
25:02The lack of physical, like, desire does bother me a little bit.
25:08I love someone who is excited about life.
25:11And I'm getting the impression that Devani is low energy.
25:14Wow.
25:15Just different energy to mine.
25:18If I had to design my own house, it would look like this.
25:21Yeah?
25:22But it would have pillars as well.
25:24Or pillars.
25:25I love a house with pillars.
25:28I don't want a boring life.
25:29I want to do fun things together.
25:31Maybe it'll spark and come in time.
25:34It hasn't really at the moment.
25:47It's our final dinner.
25:48It's the honeymoon.
25:49I'm hoping to clear the air.
25:51I've sort of had to think about how I'm behaving.
25:54I know that I've had moments where I could have been more open and I could have put more effort in.
25:59So I want her to know that.
26:00I'm going to take on board what she said.
26:03We've had moments, I think, where we've been sort of up and down.
26:06And I've maybe realised that there is an element of me that is maybe a bit more distant with you because of things I've been through in the past.
26:18Subconsciously, I've built a wall up so much since I've been single.
26:24It's like I've turned a switch off and I'm struggling to turn that switch back on.
26:28And that is why, like, there's a bit of me that's kind of, like, kicking myself a little bit.
26:34I'm like, why is that bit not there?
26:36Yeah.
26:36Because, like, I am attracted to you in a lot of ways.
26:42What I really appreciate today is, like, me telling you that I feel like we need to meet 50-50 and already you've gone away.
26:50And you've worked on that straight away within hours, do you know what I mean?
26:53Yeah, see, I can be sweet.
26:57It makes me feel like I'm definitely heard.
27:02So I feel like she is trying.
27:07No, I'll feed it to you.
27:08I'm trying to be romantic.
27:09Sorry.
27:10You asked for effort, I'm giving you effort.
27:12Mm-hmm.
27:23The sand on my feet.
27:29Ow!
27:30I think I've just stepped on a rock.
27:31Thank you very much.
27:33Just like, ow!
27:33Oh!
27:34I just kicked the table.
27:36That's just nice, isn't it?
27:37Yeah.
27:38Joe is a really nice guy.
27:40I didn't even know his name 24 hours ago.
27:43And now I'm in this amazing place in the Caribbean, I think.
27:49And I'm having a really good time.
27:51Oh, fucking hell.
27:58Are you being a lady tonight?
27:59Uh-uh.
28:02I think the biggest stumbling block about Maeve is she's got this big sort of character that's
28:08almost boisterous energy.
28:09Ha-ha-ha-ha!
28:10But Maeve, that is strong, you know.
28:11Woo!
28:13But I feel like I need to get to know each other on a deeper level tonight.
28:16So you do love being a mum, yeah?
28:22Oh, yeah.
28:23The best feeling in the world.
28:24Best feeling in the world.
28:27I miss my son knows now.
28:29Seeing his little face in the morning, like, oh, I just squeeze him.
28:33Like, I wake up, like, ten minutes earlier just to give him a cuddle.
28:36That's nice.
28:36It's the best honesty, man.
28:38He melts me hot.
28:39Like, he is my best friend.
28:41But there are times when it is, like, hard.
28:45Yeah.
28:45Because I've got to be, like, the mum, the dad, like...
28:48And obviously I had him at 20.
28:49Like, I've always been the person that's provided, like, paid all the bills and everything.
28:54Yeah.
28:54So I am quite, like, independent.
28:57See, I respect that massively.
28:59Yes.
29:01You are a caring person and I proper get that vibe off you.
29:04And that's exactly what I asked for.
29:06Someone that's got a good heart and I genuinely do think you've got an heart of gold, honest.
29:11That is actually...
29:12But I think you put on this, like...
29:17It's sad, but I know there's a soft interior.
29:23I can just see it.
29:25I don't really open up to people.
29:28It's like, I am shit scared of talking about how I actually feel.
29:32When people say that I have got a soft side, people do take the piss out of you and I don't want that to happen again.
29:37But it's nice that he actually listens to me.
29:40I've never had that.
29:47Here we are.
29:54Here we are.
29:54Here we are.
29:56I definitely find Julia Ruth stupid to act here.
29:59Getting to know her throughout this honeymoon stage, I feel like it's just really confirming what I've been looking for for a very long time.
30:07So, what was your first thoughts or how did you feel when you turned around and you saw me?
30:13When I turned around and I saw you all smiling, walking up, I was so happy.
30:19Nervous, but I was stupid happy, man.
30:22Oh.
30:22Stupid.
30:24You are absolutely beautiful.
30:29That's really nice.
30:32What was your thinking?
30:35You saw me.
30:36I was, like, flooded with so many, like, emotions, excited and nervous, and it was a lot to take in.
30:46You were very confident.
30:47You were very calm when I was nervous, and I liked the fact that we had a lot in common.
30:51But, um, I think it is fair to say that there was an expectation maybe on, like, height.
31:08I mean, I have dated, like, taller guys.
31:12Huh?
31:12He just feels like a really nice friend at the moment.
31:26I don't want to be mean to him.
31:32Wow.
31:32That shocks me.
31:42I'm not no basketball player.
31:44Yeah, that hurt.
31:45Shit.
31:45Shit.
31:45Shit.
31:45Shit.
31:45Shit.
31:46Shit.
31:46Shit.
31:49Shit.
31:49Shit.
31:50Shit.
31:50Shit.
31:50Shit.
31:50Shit.
31:50Shit.
31:50Shit.
31:51Shit.
31:51Shit.
32:02I definitely fancy her.
32:11She's obviously gorgeous, but I'm struggling to tell where she's at a little bit.
32:16This way for me.
32:17I think we look good.
32:18Beautiful guys.
32:19What do you reckon?
32:20Do you mean?
32:20Yeah, I think we look good, yeah.
32:22I hope so.
32:24Bailey is so complimentary of me, but I just don't know if, like, the fanciing is there for me.
32:32What's your type?
32:35I like a real masculine energy.
32:37Yeah, sweet, yeah.
32:38What are you like for your mates?
32:39I'm the loud one, yeah.
32:40I'm proper extroverted, yeah.
32:42And what about you?
32:43I'd say I'm, like, the leader of the girls, yeah.
32:47We're both alphas then, are we?
32:49See, I don't get that vibe at all.
32:51What, from me?
32:52Do you not?
32:53What am I giving?
32:54Beta vibes.
32:57What's going on?
32:58I'm obviously the alpha.
33:00Could I get a kiss for the camera?
33:02Is that okay, please?
33:03I can't.
33:03I don't feel about the kissing now.
33:05Can I kiss on the cheek?
33:10Yeah, you can kiss on the cheek.
33:17There we go.
33:20I've got the cheek again, but I can't work it out.
33:23I can't believe it.
33:24I don't think I see the type A character from him yet.
33:33I don't know if we've got different definitions of what an alpha might be.
33:37You're okay?
33:47No!
33:48You'll be all right.
33:50Hold on.
33:50Hold on.
33:51Hold on.
33:51Don't move it.
33:52Don't move it.
33:52Just get me like the shaking.
33:53Don't move it.
33:57Whoa!
33:59My feelings have definitely progressed with Maeve.
34:01I was a bit unsure at the wedding, but just getting to know her gradually.
34:06I'm getting signs that Maeve sort of let me in.
34:08Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God!
34:10Fucking hell, I nearly knocked this hell out.
34:12I'm not doing that ever again.
34:14Well done.
34:15What I've found is the more time that I'm spending with him,
34:17I am starting to like him.
34:19It's nice, isn't it?
34:20It can go out of your comfort zone.
34:21No!
34:22Well done.
34:23You smashed that.
34:24That was the worst thing I've ever done in me life.
34:27You smashed it.
34:28I was crying at the top.
34:29Me other boyfriends that I've been with
34:31are nothing compared to Joe.
34:34Like, Joe makes me feel really comfortable
34:36and he reassures me quite a lot.
34:39But I've still got my God up massively.
34:41So I don't want to give him 100% just yet.
34:48Fuck that.
34:58How are you feeling?
35:04Not great.
35:05OK.
35:06There's tension, for sure.
35:10And Julia Roof shared her perspective
35:11on first thought at the wedding.
35:14Yeah, that hurt.
35:15But I'm still physically attracted to her.
35:18I'm emotionally touched to her, for sure.
35:21And I really want this to work as much as possible.
35:23I'll just let my character be bigger and taller.
35:26So that's where my mind's at, really and truly.
35:29I feel like there's still more days left to see where it's going to go.
35:37Yeah.
35:38Sometimes it's easier to adjust to your partner's needs.
35:44And I feel like it just depends on circumstances, situations, time.
35:49I feel like there's just a little bit of a little bit of a thing.
35:49And I shit.
35:50I'm so kind of like we're out of my mouth.
35:51I'm so sad.
35:51Davani is just boring.
35:53I just want to, like, let her hair down.
35:57So today I just want to see him, like, have fun with cooking American food.
36:01And then maybe the physical attraction would have come just a little bit easier.
36:21This is me right now in my element.
36:23Yeah.
36:23Super happy.
36:25I love eating.
36:26I love good food.
36:27I also love flavours, spices.
36:31Nice.
36:40I'm really trying to have fun.
36:45But the conversation has been a bit of a struggle.
36:49Can I borrow your knife?
36:52Okay.
37:01So, yeah.
37:07It's not ideal.
37:09It's not fun.
37:20Hello, everyone.
37:21You all right?
37:21Hello.
37:21What do you reckon?
37:27It's a puncher bit.
37:28Yeah?
37:29I want to be punching.
37:33What do you drink?
37:34Er, anything.
37:36I do drink.
37:37I do drink.
37:37You do drink, yeah.
37:38Just not, like, loads.
37:39Okay, no, I don't drink like this, but, um, no, a little bit.
37:42Is it just because I said I don't drink?
37:43No, no, I mean, I don't, I just don't drink like this.
37:44But, um, yeah, anything, yeah, wine.
37:48So, do you drink a lot then?
37:51Not a lot.
37:51I feel like you're going to lie to me.
37:52No, no, no, not loads.
37:54I'm a social drinker.
37:57Do you go out quite a lot?
37:58Not, like, what, like, depends what you mean.
38:00Socially, like, to watch the football at the pub, then a little bit.
38:04But, like, it's, like, literally to do that and go home.
38:07You can say what you've got.
38:09No, no, no, I swear.
38:11I just want you to tell me how you act like you are.
38:15Like, I just, I want to get to know you properly, do you know what I mean?
38:21When somebody's an alpha, they don't try too hard to be like that.
38:26Yeah, like, fitness is, like, a big part of my life.
38:28Is it? Yeah.
38:28I like training, so I like being in the gym, always in the gym.
38:31Like, I go every day, I can never go a week without going.
38:33And I went, like, 24 days in the month.
38:38So, yeah, I'm always in the gym.
38:41Just trying to sell a shit.
38:42Oh, no.
38:47I do worry about the authenticity.
38:54I'll be back.
38:55Oh, are you off, I am?
38:56I'm off. I'm going to go and speak to your friends.
38:59Wait, who are you speaking to? My friends?
39:00I'm not sure if Bailey is being really real with me.
39:05Hello there.
39:06So.
39:07What do you want to know?
39:08The goths.
39:09Go for it.
39:09Tell me all the goths.
39:10The tea.
39:11Tell me the tea.
39:11Far away, far away.
39:13Is he 6'4"?
39:14There's no way he's 6'4".
39:17He's about 6'2 on a good day, I think.
39:23So, he said to me that he trained every day.
39:26When he says train, he means he does five press-ups in the morning.
39:29It is a white lie.
39:32It makes no sense to me.
39:33I don't mind.
39:34I don't need someone who goes to the gym every single day.
39:37Just be honest.
39:39What's he been like in past relationships with people?
39:45Oh, no.
39:45Oh, no, no.
39:46The thing is...
39:47Silence is deafening.
39:48The thing is, with his ex, I can kind of see, in ways, like, how he, like, sort of changed
39:56a little bit.
39:57Yeah, he changed his dress sense a little bit.
39:58He changed his dress sense to match the partner?
40:01I think so.
40:01A little bit.
40:02Bailey?
40:02Yeah.
40:03I know, I don't like that.
40:05Yeah.
40:05I like someone who's just, like, dead sure of themselves.
40:07Yeah, yeah, of course.
40:07It won't change for anyone.
40:09I've got concerns around Bailey.
40:12An alpha doesn't change for anybody.
40:15I want to get to know somebody for who they are and to fall in love with that.
40:19But he's putting on, like, a bit of a show and it worries me.
40:34Right, what have we got here?
40:35I'm really looking forward to having another night with Joe tonight.
40:39Have a night, mate.
40:41Oh, wow.
40:45I think I'm having a really good time with him.
40:48I want it.
40:49It's burning me soul.
40:52Fucking hell.
40:55But it's really hard when I start meeting someone because I've always got in the back of my mind
41:01they're going to hurt you.
41:02So I'm just trying to take it moment by moment.
41:07Today has been one of the most craziest days of my life.
41:10Zip lining through a jungle.
41:12It has been a lot, like.
41:13Yeah.
41:13How are you feeling about everything?
41:15I'm good, yeah.
41:15I think it's nice to see you, like, do all this, this, like, different shit.
41:20But obviously you said that you have, like, a guard up.
41:24And I think when, like, me and you are in the villa, that's when, like, your guard comes down.
41:31But when we're more in, like, a public setting, it goes back up again.
41:35But it's my job as a husband to sort of get that guard down and really get to know him more.
41:42You've really pissed me off.
41:47Why have I pissed you off?
41:47Because you have.
41:48For what reason?
41:49Because you have.
41:49Why?
41:50Because I actually feel myself going to kick off soon.
41:52What do you mean?
41:53No, I haven't said it.
41:54Yeah, you're saying that I don't fucking open up.
41:56Yeah, but you need to explain what...
41:59Do you know what I mean?
42:00Because I just don't want everyone to say that I am like this.
42:03Like what?
42:04Well, obviously, like, I've got this big, like, personality that I don't give a fuck.
42:07And, like, obviously, you know that I've got a sucker sideways.
42:10I don't want everyone to say that.
42:12Do you know what I mean?
42:14Yeah, but that's part of your personality, so why wouldn't you?
42:16Because I don't.
42:17Why do you care about that?
42:18Because I do.
42:19For what?
42:20Yeah, but that isn't a reason, is it?
42:22Well, yeah, it is.
42:23It's a very fucking valid reason.
42:26What, because I do?
42:27Yeah.
42:33Fucking idiot.
42:37I get me guard up really, really quick.
42:39And that is the type of person that I am.
42:41I don't want anyone really to see how vulnerable I can be, because I've been hurt so many times.
42:47But I feel like he's just said this out of nowhere, so me guard's gone straight back up.
42:53I didn't want to piss you off, like, with one.
42:55Yeah, but you've actually hit a nerve, though.
42:57Why?
42:58Because you have.
42:59For what reason?
43:00Because you just have, and I'm not going round and round in circles, but you have just hit a nerve.
43:03Yeah, but you've got to give a reason for it.
43:07What?
43:08Oh, right.
43:10Right.
43:11Go then.
43:11You're pissing me off.
43:12Why?
43:13Because you're fucking home, man.
43:14You're actually fucking home.
43:15I just want to feel more connected to me.
43:26And my main concern is that we don't actually get there in the end.
43:29I'm feeling a little uneasy right now.
43:56Like, her not, like, opening up as much, it's something that I felt that I had to have brought up.
44:06When I have a few drinks, I get in my head a little bit, and little things just trigger me.
44:11And I flew off the handle for no reason.
44:14I never like to say I'm in the wrong about anything, even when I am in the wrong.
44:18But I need to tell them how I'm really feeling.
44:26Do you know, last night was a lot, wasn't it?
44:30Yeah, I mean, I feel like it's not really resolved what I was saying.
44:36Do you know what it is?
44:36Like, I don't want people to say that I've got that softer side.
44:39It was, like, I do struggle opening up.
44:41And, like, even just opening up to you about little things, like, that's massive for me.
44:46Honestly, I hate feeling vulnerable.
44:49But I just feel like every time when I let more people in, that's when I get fucked over more.
44:54Yeah.
44:54So that's why I'm always a bit of a dick.
44:59But I wouldn't...
45:00I'm not going to fuck you over, do you know what I mean?
45:04I know, but...
45:04You don't need to worry about that.
45:06Everyone else has, though.
45:08So, do you know what I mean?
45:10Yeah.
45:11Yeah, I do.
45:11I do.
45:13But I did feel bad.
45:14You don't actually need to.
45:15It was just, like, I misunderstood him.
45:17And it's fine.
45:22He's making me feel real...
45:24Like, really reassured about everything.
45:26Like, he's the kindest soul that I've actually ever met.
45:29And I feel like no matter what I say, he's not going to judge us.
45:32So, I do think I'm going to be a little bit more open with him.
45:36I'm just trying to, like, learn about you.
45:40I feel closer to you now than I did before.
45:43I feel more comfortable around you.
45:47We've just got to take a day at a time, though, haven't we?
45:50And that's what I think.
45:51And to be fair, I was pretty scared of what, like, drunk you were going to be like.
45:55But you weren't that bad.
45:57That wasn't anything.
45:58That was literally just me saying I needed to get away from you.
46:00Like, that was nothing.
46:01I was scared for my safety, to be fair.
46:03Oh, shut up.
46:03Oh, man.
46:10Your friends were very telling about how you are.
46:14Yeah, well, in a good way.
46:18They said that you don't go to the gym.
46:21Blood.
46:22And you're not six foot four.
46:28That's wild.
46:30Everything I've said has been total truth.
46:35Total truth, honestly.
46:37I want you to be 100% you.
46:40That's so important to me.
46:41Like, I want you to just be yourself.
46:43I feel I've always been sure of myself.
46:45Your friends didn't say that.
46:48They said that when you was with an ex, she dressed quite quirky.
46:53And they said that you, like, matched that and you dressed in a similar way.
46:59Yeah, that's probably a bit more true.
47:01I don't want you to change at all for me.
47:09But I wouldn't see it changing.
47:11I would see it growing with someone.
47:13I think I've grown from all of my past relationships.
47:18And it's kind of made me into the person I am today.
47:20I think, like, I want to meet someone that I can grow with and they can grow with me.
47:24And I think that's healthy.
47:27Okay.
47:29He seems like he's got the gift of the gab.
47:32I just want to make sure that the person I'm with, they're really sure of themselves.
47:36And they don't change for an ex or anybody else.
47:39Come on, then.
47:40Let's cheers.
47:40Come on.
47:53This is nice.
47:55Got the honeymoon suite, look.
47:57So, we need to discuss the sleeping arrangements.
48:01Oh, yeah.
48:02Yeah?
48:02Yeah.
48:02What are your thoughts?
48:08Yeah, it's up to you, babe.
48:09Yeah, I can take the sofa.
48:11I'm very much a gentleman.
48:13It's up to you.
48:14Totally up to you, yeah.
48:18Okay.
48:19I mean, if you're happy to sleep on this over, that would be great.
48:24I just want, like, a clear divide between us just for now.
48:28Yeah, we can see how we get on, yeah.
48:30Yeah.
48:31Is that okay with you?
48:32Yeah, that's fine, yeah.
48:34Good.
48:35I was not expecting that in the slightest.
48:37But I'm still interested, don't get me wrong.
48:41I think there's still something there to work on.
48:45See you in the morning, wifey.
48:48Good night.
48:48Good night.
48:49I'm just not there yet.
48:52It's so early on, I don't know if I've, like, met the real him yet.
48:57I need to build that connection before I can be physically intimate with him.
49:01We've got a nice milk.
49:21Milk bath.
49:23It says, I haunt you.
49:25I thought you said Joe.
49:28I definitely think the arguments brought us close together.
49:31It was important that Maeve sort of opened up.
49:34I do feel like we are understanding each other more and more every day.
49:38Cheers for the last day.
49:39Cheers.
49:41Feeling great after last night.
49:42Me and Maeve had a really nice time when we got to the villa.
49:45We really did get to know each other on a deeper level.
49:48One thing led to another and that's it.
49:50That's what I'm saying.
49:52Oh, God.
49:54I can tell you now that he's definitely more than a good body.
49:59He is a very...
50:00He's a good time guy.
50:14Hello.
50:15Hello.
50:15Hi.
50:16How are you?
50:16Good, thanks for being here.
50:17Good, how are you doing?
50:17Good, yes.
50:19Yeah.
50:20At the moment, I feel like it's feeling really awkward.
50:23Hey, whoa.
50:24That's mad.
50:25Today, I just wanted us to have lots of laughs
50:27and trying to focus on, like, the good things and the energy.
50:31Whoa!
50:33Jeez.
50:38Yo.
50:40I didn't envision my honeymoon to be like this,
50:42but marriage, just as we all know it, it's not going to be easy.
50:45Ultimately, this is just another opportunity
50:46just to get close to my wife.
50:48And I still strongly believe that we can get over this hump.
50:53Can you hear that?
50:54Pure silence.
50:58That's nice.
51:01That's really nice.
51:02Oh, look at that.
51:13Are you like a scenic person, like, views and all of that, yeah?
51:17Yeah.
51:21I actually did very well on the subject of earth and space in school.
51:25OK.
51:28This is quite hard.
51:30I'm struggling with the conversation.
51:33I kind of just live a fearless life.
51:36I just kind of just step into the unknown, whatever that looks like.
51:42How I've grown up, I've always been a protector
51:44or just a facilitator, keeping the peace.
51:47Mm-hmm.
51:49Are you afraid of heights?
51:50Nah.
51:51No?
51:51Nah, yeah.
51:52Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.
51:53Yeah.
51:55Do you have any, like, fears?
51:58Like, what scares you the most?
52:00Growing up, I was always alone,
52:02just even with my whole family.
52:04And I think knowing that I could potentially be alone
52:06for the rest of my life,
52:07that would be the worst.
52:11Yeah.
52:13That's not what I meant at all.
52:15With Devani, it is quite difficult to find the fun,
52:18light-hearted side and just be a bit carefree.
52:21It has to sit too deep.
52:23I don't know.
52:24I think the worst thing is that I've always went through life
52:27questioning why certain things happened.
52:30So he's getting misses.
52:31That's a strange way to look at it.
52:33Nah, not really.
52:34No one caters to me.
52:36That shit sucks.
52:39He doesn't see any positives or, like, with that with me.
52:42It's just like...
52:44It's like, it's just too much.
52:46You focus on the negative.
52:48You're saying, it sucked.
52:50You sit in the negativity and you attract negativity
52:52and draw negativity, and it will keep coming back.
53:00Camerade was a disaster.
53:01It's just hard.
53:05It just feels like it's just, like, a lot of negativity.
53:09I can't lift us both up.
53:12I can't.
53:13This is definitely one of the hardest challenges I've been through,
53:23and I don't want it to be translated that
53:24the information that I was given
53:26was from a negative place.
53:28It was more of just me opening it up.
53:30It's pretty intense.
53:46Mm-hmm.
53:47It's very much intense.
53:49I just feel like what I need was just a little bit of positivity
53:53and fun so we can feel the traction.
53:55But on the camels, it was just, like, I sat there, and you literally
54:00spat out one thing after another.
54:02I don't want you to feel you can't open up to me because that's not what the case is.
54:08There just needs to be a balance and, like, a time and a place for things.
54:11So, I came into this experiment to find my person,
54:17have someone that I can, as well as having fun,
54:21offload to,
54:23and someone that ultimately understands me.
54:25It wasn't intentional to put you in that situation where it was like,
54:29damn, I'm trying to be Mr Negative.
54:31It was just something that hit me in that moment,
54:34and I was just pouring out the feelings.
54:37But the way you say things, it's just, like, a tornado of negativity.
54:44And it's hard to want to be intimate and grow and develop something
54:48when everything is so intense and so deep.
54:52The last thing I want to do is have a talk about traumas
54:54and then, like, get into bed with you.
54:56Maybe, like, just for tonight, we'll just do separate rooms, just to be clear.
55:09And then tomorrow, we'll, like, regroup and start, like, a fresh new day
55:12and, like, a clean slate.
55:13Shit.
55:18That's how I'm honestly feeling.
55:20Um, I feel like I've just been attacked.
55:24The thing that hurt me the most is to sleep in separate rooms,
55:27but if she needs her space, I'll give her space.
55:31There's trouble in paradise, innit?
55:33Next time...
55:44I know what I want and what I don't want.
55:46It has to be right.
55:47..one more couple says I do.
55:50But expectations...
55:51I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox.
55:56Sense of humour.
55:57..are quickly tested.
55:59Here's my vase.
56:00Oh, you're a joke.
56:01He's not the silver fox of heart and mind.
56:07Bailey seeks a more intimate connection.
56:09I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you.
56:12I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them.
56:15That's just a bit too soon for me.
56:17And for Julia, Ruth and Devani...
56:19Devani and I slept separately.
56:21I haven't seen him since.
56:23..the road to a honeymoon reunion...
56:25You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that.
56:28..is heading for a dead end.
56:29This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.
56:32ạn step for at the beginning.
56:32Thanks for having me.
56:32Thanks for having me.
56:33Men't down to me.
56:35Go into the rest.
56:36Questions leave me any way.
56:38Muslim.
56:38Even about where I can kneel.
56:39Now...
56:40The rain let over the bring of each other.
56:41That as if if your man's wurde...
56:42You've just said that.
56:43Fromция to life.
56:45Welcome.
56:46All right now.
56:49On your ethical ground with accounting.
56:54To me.
56:55Like you.
56:56Follow him.
56:57That was dark.
56:58Bye when I come out with any more time.
56:59Goodbye.
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