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Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 2
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00:00:00Oh, I don't fancy Dean.
00:00:01This is a little song.
00:00:03A grand musical gesture.
00:00:05We'll be all the life together, you and me.
00:00:10And at the end of a difficult day for the bride.
00:00:12Too much, too soon.
00:00:16Can't believe we're here!
00:00:18Tonight.
00:00:19This is like dreams.
00:00:20As the first set of newlyweds head on honeymoon.
00:00:24For David and Kia.
00:00:25Do you want to see a rhino's horn? Is it the horn you're excited about?
00:00:28An innuendo too far.
00:00:30Everything has to be an innuendo or a joke.
00:00:32I need the ear part.
00:00:33Calls their match into question.
00:00:35Oh, dear!
00:00:36And Dean's urged to perform.
00:00:38Say hallelujah!
00:00:39No!
00:00:40Irk's new wife, Sarah.
00:00:41The outburst of song and rapping really beginning to grate on me.
00:00:46Ahead of a frank confession.
00:00:49Have you ever been with anyone big or anything like that?
00:00:50No.
00:00:51It's hard to hear.
00:00:53That has left me feeling empty.
00:00:55And as two new couples say I do.
00:00:58I'm at a point in my life where I am looking for that real thing.
00:01:02One bride's show-stopping arrival.
00:01:04You want an entrance?
00:01:06Spells a hopeful start to married life.
00:01:08I do fancy him.
00:01:09Tick, tick, tick.
00:01:12Hey.
00:01:13In stark contrast.
00:01:14I wouldn't say he's my type.
00:01:17To the other's wedding day meltdown.
00:01:19I can't really do it.
00:01:21Sorry.
00:01:28Ooh.
00:01:30Hmm?
00:01:31It's the first morning of married life for our newlyweds.
00:01:36Our first night together was fabulous.
00:01:39We fell off in bed together.
00:01:42Kissed a lot.
00:01:44A lot.
00:01:45Nothing happened.
00:01:48I promise you.
00:01:48Nothing happened.
00:01:50Yes.
00:01:51Yes.
00:01:52Come on.
00:01:53Open it.
00:01:53Open it.
00:01:54I'm so excited.
00:01:55Wow.
00:01:55Come on.
00:01:56South Africa.
00:01:57Oh my God.
00:01:58That's sick.
00:01:59We're going to South Africa.
00:02:02I'm so excited.
00:02:04We're going to the f***ing supply.
00:02:06Come on.
00:02:06I'm so excited.
00:02:07I'm so excited.
00:02:08I'm so excited.
00:02:09I'm so excited.
00:02:10That's wild.
00:02:11He has a lot of energy and he's 110 at all times and I love it but I'm at an 80 and he's
00:02:19at the 110.
00:02:20Oh my God.
00:02:20We're going to South Africa.
00:02:32I can't believe we're here.
00:02:33Look at this.
00:02:34This is like three situations.
00:02:37Absolutely beautiful.
00:02:39And here we are.
00:02:40This is us.
00:02:41Let's head in.
00:02:44Oh my God.
00:02:47Look at the boom.
00:02:48Look.
00:02:49You can see.
00:02:50See the fish.
00:02:51Mad.
00:02:53Oh my goodness.
00:02:54It's absolutely stunning.
00:02:56My biggest hope for this honeymoon is to get to know the real Sarah and Sarah to get
00:03:00to know the real Dean.
00:03:01Just absolutely beautiful, isn't it?
00:03:04Right.
00:03:04Step in.
00:03:05Step in.
00:03:05Oh no, we're in.
00:03:07You're in.
00:03:07You're in.
00:03:08You're in.
00:03:08I'd hope to leave it possibly with a kiss and then we'll see where we go from there.
00:03:14This is crazy.
00:03:15It is amazing.
00:03:16But then we were in our wedding, literally 24 hours ago.
00:03:20I know.
00:03:20You didn't know where we were going.
00:03:21I know.
00:03:21And here we are.
00:03:22Here we are with a space mark.
00:03:24We didn't even know each other like two days ago and now we're here.
00:03:29Sarah entered the experiment aware she had a type.
00:03:33My usual type of guy would be referred to by my friends as a walking red flag.
00:03:39What's your type?
00:03:40Sith.
00:03:40Girl, I like a bad boy.
00:03:41They look like they've probably just come out of jail.
00:03:43Fantastic.
00:03:44But she was determined to break this cycle in her search for love.
00:03:48I am now ready for the nice guy.
00:03:50I want to settle down with the nicest guy in the world.
00:03:56Dean has got so many of the qualities that I am looking for in a partner.
00:04:00However, I usually go for the tattooed bad boy.
00:04:03I just need to look beyond that attraction side and see if it's something that I can work on.
00:04:10Paradise, isn't it?
00:04:11Absolutely paradise.
00:04:12I mean, could it get more better than this?
00:04:22Whilst the newlyweds settle into their honeymoons.
00:04:25This is crazy.
00:04:26It's absolutely beautiful.
00:04:28Back in the UK, another single is preparing to enter the experiment.
00:04:34Right.
00:04:34Can I look at action?
00:04:36Are we good?
00:04:36Is this right?
00:04:37This is like you're so awkward.
00:04:38This is insane.
00:04:38What does that mean?
00:04:40Are you good?
00:04:40I feel weird.
00:04:41Okay, so I guess this is it.
00:04:44This is Marrying a Stranger 101.
00:04:47Holy shit.
00:04:49I would describe myself as extroverted.
00:04:52I have no filter.
00:04:54I'm tightly strung.
00:04:55Perhaps you could say.
00:04:57I'm nervous for her, but I'm also nervous for him.
00:04:59Yeah, she's a whirlwind.
00:05:04Cut!
00:05:04My friends would describe me as pectic, wild, nuts.
00:05:10Next!
00:05:11Huge feminist.
00:05:13Big into equality.
00:05:15We haven't achieved it yet.
00:05:16I am a midwife, and I chose to go into midwifery because I am a caring person.
00:05:23I also want to empower women.
00:05:25People often ask you when you're a midwife, do you have kids?
00:05:27And it's like 2am on a Saturday night, and I'm there with them delivering their child.
00:05:33And I'm like, when would I be meeting someone to have a child with?
00:05:36Oh, she's a princess!
00:05:38I am surrounded by strong women.
00:05:41They just know me so well, and they accept me for who I am.
00:05:45Who knew you could be so glamorous?
00:05:48Actually, talk about glamour, eh?
00:05:50Six ages, baby!
00:05:51Grace is a very loud, playful, fun character, and I think it takes a certain type of person
00:06:01to be able to take it for what it is.
00:06:04I'm always trying to find the funny side in everything.
00:06:07My life sometimes is quite funny.
00:06:09Definitely my dating life is hilarious.
00:06:12Ha, ha, ha.
00:06:13How many boyfriends have you had or situationships you'd like to...
00:06:16Oh, situationships!
00:06:17Oh, countless, limitless.
00:06:19The limit does not exist.
00:06:20Do you actually want me to quantify it?
00:06:21I definitely can't.
00:06:25Sometimes it's easier to find the funny side and laugh it off than actually, like, sit in
00:06:29the feelings of discomfort and, like, rejection.
00:06:33I put myself out there so much.
00:06:35I went on dates that were set up by friends.
00:06:38I went on dates that were friends of friends.
00:06:40I went on dates...
00:06:41I went with an old flame.
00:06:42I started a new thing with someone that I met on an app.
00:06:45Like, I put myself out there and I was let down.
00:06:47I was let down in so many different ways, so consistently.
00:06:51It's hard and it's hurtful and it's frustrating, but every one of these experiences tells you
00:06:58a little something more about what you do want.
00:07:01It is hard.
00:07:03I know.
00:07:03Because I feel like I'm so respectful.
00:07:06Yeah.
00:07:07Yeah, I never really seemed to.
00:07:09You're not getting it back.
00:07:11Yeah.
00:07:12Every time I go through a breakup, I end up developing a new skill or hobby.
00:07:25I actually came to adult gymnastics after a breakup.
00:07:28And spinning around a gymnasium, launching here, jumping there, was my idea of just pure
00:07:36heaven.
00:07:36I had a little pop at stand-up comedy last year.
00:07:40That was the most nerve-wracking thing.
00:07:42I'm like, for the audience.
00:07:44Anyone want to get your hopes?
00:07:45Anyone?
00:07:46You know, some people use humour as a way of protecting yourself from something.
00:07:52Have you thought about that for yourself?
00:07:54Yes.
00:07:55I'd say that's maybe how I came to develop a sense of humour.
00:08:02Certainly, it has come in handy before when I have felt I was in hot water to just crack
00:08:05a joke.
00:08:06I don't know if I've ever actually felt reciprocated, full, whole, warm love.
00:08:11I do feel I want, like, extraordinary love.
00:08:14I'm not willing to compromise.
00:08:16That is what I will have, or I will have nothing at all.
00:08:19I'm marrying a stranger.
00:08:21I feel like I've exhausted all of the other options.
00:08:23I've put myself out there.
00:08:25I've done what you're supposed to do, and it hasn't worked.
00:08:29My family will always be like, oh, he's out there.
00:08:32He's looking for you.
00:08:33What am I supposed to do?
00:08:34Just wait in.
00:08:35He'll come knocking at the door.
00:08:37He'll be here any minute, but it's charming.
00:08:38I would love to be matched with someone so fun, so easygoing, so sociable, someone charismatic,
00:08:50someone hardworking, motivated, very family-orientated, someone sporty, active, athletic, quite masculine.
00:08:59I like a broad shoulder.
00:09:02You know, just a few descriptors.
00:09:05I'll take anything.
00:09:06Anyone willing.
00:09:07I'm joking.
00:09:08I'm a bit of a cheeky chappy.
00:09:14I'm, like, very positive.
00:09:16I'm that annoying guy that's always smiling.
00:09:17I'm not a city boy.
00:09:18I'm a country bumpkin.
00:09:20I've always been an outdoorsy person.
00:09:22My parents live on a farm with 36 acres, horses, and being up there is amazing.
00:09:28It's a really good lifestyle.
00:09:29I think that's quite important with my partner, that she is the type of girl that can just chuck on a pair of wellies and put her hair up and just go up and get dirty on the quad.
00:09:39And then, other times, put her hair up and then, other times, put a pair of stilettos on and come out with me with a cocktail dress.
00:09:44Morning.
00:09:44Good morning.
00:09:47Good morning.
00:09:48I work for my father.
00:09:49I work for a family company.
00:09:52And it's an offshore marine construction company.
00:09:54So, basically, anything to do with steel for ships and rigs.
00:09:57I do enjoy it.
00:09:59Being from South Wales, rugby is basically religion here.
00:10:04But girls don't like rugby boys.
00:10:06I think they've got this stereotype about us.
00:10:09Like, lagerlout, the crazy.
00:10:11But the majority of the lads that I know that I play rugby with, they're all gentlemen.
00:10:16I feel like I'm a gentleman.
00:10:18And I think I was, well, I was made to be by my mother.
00:10:21I think she raised me right.
00:10:23How are you starting to feel about it all?
00:10:25I'm starting to get really excited about it now.
00:10:27And you deserve somebody nice.
00:10:29I grew up around strong women.
00:10:31I've got two sisters, one older, one younger.
00:10:33So, I've got a bit of feminine energy.
00:10:36I want the best for Ashley.
00:10:38He's kind, thoughtful.
00:10:40He's got loads of love to give.
00:10:42And he just needs somebody there special that feels the same.
00:10:48I would say I have high standards in women.
00:10:51They used to date in this universe.
00:10:52I'm quite proud of that one.
00:10:54But I haven't really had that many girlfriends.
00:10:59I've been engaged twice.
00:11:00The second time we got engaged because we were having a son.
00:11:04You're so clever.
00:11:04It was a hard decision to break up with my son's mother.
00:11:11But ultimately, it was definitely the right decision to make.
00:11:14And we're still friends.
00:11:16I think I've done my life right.
00:11:18I did all the travelling and parties and things.
00:11:21And then I come home, I've got my house.
00:11:22I've got my son.
00:11:23I'm at the stage in my life where the only thing I don't really have is someone to share it with.
00:11:27I think I'm ready to be a husband.
00:11:31For me, I like being the protector.
00:11:33Like I was brought up old school.
00:11:36Like I'm the type of guy that will hold the door.
00:11:38I'm the type of guy that will lift you through the puddle.
00:11:42I'm looking for someone with a personality.
00:11:45That's just up for a laugh.
00:11:45And it's true what they say.
00:11:48If you marry your best friend, it'll work.
00:11:49So I'm looking for a best friend.
00:11:53Somebody that's also going to be loving and caring.
00:11:56To have that deep connection.
00:11:58And it feels more important now.
00:12:00I still think I'm a catch.
00:12:04Somebody wants me, surely.
00:12:11Grace is possibly one of the quirkiest brides we've met.
00:12:14Her offbeat humour and quick wit are qualities which Ashley will enjoy.
00:12:18As a fun personality, it's top of his wish list.
00:12:22I love Grace's humour too.
00:12:23But I feel sometimes she can use it as a way of masking her emotions.
00:12:27It feels to me like a self-protection mode.
00:12:30Which could prove challenging to break through for a new partner.
00:12:33Yeah, I think Ashley has the patience and determination to push past that.
00:12:38Raised in a home of strong women, he wants a confident, outgoing partner.
00:12:41He takes pride in his upbringing and says he's been raised to be a gentleman.
00:12:46Respectful and caring.
00:12:48Yeah, I mean, Grace told us she's sick of the relentless unreliability of modern dating.
00:12:53As someone loyal and dependable, Ashley is the perfect antidote to that.
00:12:57Yeah, they're both intelligent and driven in their careers.
00:13:01But also hugely sociable and enjoying active lifestyle and a strong family bond.
00:13:06I think you're right.
00:13:08If they can start their marriage on a foundation of mutual trust and friendship,
00:13:12Grace and Ashley have real potential.
00:13:14Absolutely.
00:13:15Our next match, Grace and Ashley.
00:13:20I'm so excited about this next match.
00:13:23I really hope we see a lasting connection.
00:13:26A guy that I went on a date with literally said, like, you're hard work.
00:13:29And I was like, define fucking hard work.
00:13:31I think it's called Sanderton.
00:13:32And I was like, I don't know who the hell you've been dating, but it ain't people like
00:13:34me then.
00:13:35Go and get me some champagne.
00:13:36And he did.
00:13:38When I first meet a guy, obviously I want him to be completely obsessed with me.
00:13:43I just think, well, why does it take me three hours to reply to a text?
00:13:45And what are you doing?
00:13:47It's not bad.
00:13:48I'm Nalima, but everyone calls me Nelly just because it's easier.
00:13:53Pop your heads back for me.
00:13:55I'm just going to pop this in.
00:13:56I am really career driven, mainly because I just want to make my parents proud.
00:14:01I'm so lucky.
00:14:02I love you guys.
00:14:04My mum and dad met through a gorgeous arranged marriage.
00:14:07Not only am I doing what they did, I've got a one-up on them.
00:14:10You had the privilege of actually meeting each other once before you married each other.
00:14:14Once, once, just once.
00:14:16And was she a perfect lady?
00:14:17She is a perfect lady for me.
00:14:20And if it worked for my parents, hopefully it worked for me too.
00:14:23I'm probably one of the luckiest people in the entire world with the family that I've
00:14:26been blessed with.
00:14:28Wasn't it two years that you lived here, or three years?
00:14:30The two best years of your life when you fell, like a millennium.
00:14:33My sister is the ideal, perfect Indian daughter.
00:14:39Met a lovely Indian man.
00:14:40They got married.
00:14:41They had the twins when they were 30.
00:14:44And that is what my parents wanted for me.
00:14:46And obviously, it's not the case.
00:14:48Hands up if you like Massey's cooking.
00:14:52Double hands!
00:14:53My sister and brother-in-law have got the most beautiful twins.
00:14:57I just love them so much.
00:14:58Did you guys have a good day at school?
00:15:00Yeah.
00:15:01What did you do?
00:15:02Reminds a leg.
00:15:03Right, yeah.
00:15:04My Luna.
00:15:05What did my Luna get?
00:15:06The Nautilus.
00:15:07Yeah, of course she did!
00:15:08I do really want to have kids in the future, but I don't want to compromise that and have
00:15:15them with the wrong person.
00:15:15I've been in three relationships in total, and sadly, each one ended up the same way and
00:15:22they were all unfaithful.
00:15:25I do feel a little bit insecure.
00:15:27Of course I do.
00:15:28It can change your confidence.
00:15:31I just kept thinking, well, what did I do wrong?
00:15:34What didn't I do?
00:15:35Why did he have to, you know, find whatever he needed to find in somebody else?
00:15:40I think the way that all my relationships ended sort of gave me a really negative view
00:15:48on relationships in general.
00:15:50I just feel that whoever I end up with, I won't be with them forever because at some
00:15:55point they will be unfaithful.
00:15:57And I really hate that I think that's how it will always end.
00:16:02I don't, and I just hope it doesn't, obviously.
00:16:07My tip.
00:16:09Sorry, guys.
00:16:10When you look at the breakdown of each relationship, did it make you question yourself?
00:16:18Yeah, massively.
00:16:19It's always, how can I protect myself?
00:16:21Yeah.
00:16:23Yeah.
00:16:23Yeah.
00:16:24Self-protection is always important, but it can coexist with hope.
00:16:28Yeah.
00:16:29And I think in order to get into a good, positive, healthy relationship, you've got to allow that.
00:16:34And that means opening up a little bit, letting some hope in, and being a little bit vulnerable.
00:16:39Yeah.
00:16:40I'm excited to work on it.
00:16:44Right, shall I pop open?
00:16:45Yeah, absolutely.
00:16:46I've had people mention that before, that they think I do self-sabotage.
00:16:51And I can be extremely needy.
00:16:52I think a lot of it comes down to a fear of rejection.
00:16:56I want to change that about me.
00:16:58I just need to just take a chill pill.
00:17:00You do get yourself in a bit of a flack.
00:17:02I know.
00:17:03And I try not to show it, but obviously you guys can see it.
00:17:06Nelly is a very bubbly person, but I think underneath she's so terrified of rejection.
00:17:13I think you just need to have more confidence in yourself.
00:17:16Yeah.
00:17:16Like, you are amazing.
00:17:18She has so much to offer.
00:17:19She's an incredible person.
00:17:20She does.
00:17:20And she just needs to meet an incredible person.
00:17:23She does.
00:17:23Yeah.
00:17:25My perfect husband is open, is honest, is fun, pretty chilled out.
00:17:33Someone who is just going to make me feel really secure.
00:17:37My type is a tall man.
00:17:38I just love a man that can tower over me.
00:17:42The taller the better.
00:17:43Let me climb that man like a tree.
00:17:46Obviously, I want him to be completely obsessed with me.
00:17:49He's a missing piece of the puzzle.
00:17:50Like, I'm just ready for it now.
00:17:52I'm ready to meet Mr. Right.
00:17:53What are you doing?
00:17:54Get here already.
00:17:59Despite the accent, I'm not actually an Essex boy.
00:18:03I'm a jewellie, so I'm from Newcastle.
00:18:06I'll always be a jewellie at heart.
00:18:07I'm Newcastle through and through.
00:18:09I'm a Newcastle United fan.
00:18:11I bleed black and white.
00:18:12And how weird are lads?
00:18:17I'm an investment banking manager currently.
00:18:19But I've been working in finance for the last 13 years.
00:18:24Suppose the general misconceptions of people working in finance is
00:18:27they're slightly obnoxious.
00:18:28They're know-it-alls.
00:18:30They're up themselves.
00:18:32It's not the case.
00:18:34Before I started my career in finance,
00:18:35I was a professional footballer.
00:18:36But I loved every minute of it.
00:18:38Travelling up and down the country every other weekend,
00:18:41being with a group of lads,
00:18:42all working towards the same goal.
00:18:44Football was everything.
00:18:45I definitely wanted to get to the highest level.
00:18:48But my football career came to an end when I was attacked outside of a nightclub by nine guys.
00:18:55I had a shattered nose, which was reconstructed.
00:18:58I'd fractured my right cheekbone.
00:19:00My teeth come out of place, so I needed to get my teeth sorted.
00:19:03And I got a scar on my chin, which went down to my bone,
00:19:05which required 17 stitches inside and 14 outside.
00:19:08So it destroyed my confidence.
00:19:11It made me step away from the professional game.
00:19:14I wasn't in the best headspace.
00:19:17I'd say I was in a rut for about three years.
00:19:20It took my family to get out of that rut.
00:19:23Family mean everything to me.
00:19:25Without them, I wouldn't be who I am.
00:19:27I'm the youngest of five, so I had my sister and three other brothers.
00:19:32It's good having a close-knit family.
00:19:35I couldn't imagine a world where I'm not talking to my brothers and my sister on a daily basis.
00:19:39Do you remember when you were two and you used to strip off naked and run round the estate?
00:19:43I mean, I was probably a bit of free spirit, after all.
00:19:45Do you know what I mean?
00:19:45I'm confident in myself, even at two years of age.
00:19:50I'm a father of two kids.
00:19:52My daughter, Piper, is nine.
00:19:54And my boy, Reggie, is five.
00:19:56And he does have autism and sensory disorder.
00:19:59He doesn't speak.
00:20:00He can't tell us what it actually is he's thinking.
00:20:03What's that?
00:20:05He's never been able to tell us what he wants from an early age.
00:20:09High five.
00:20:10Yeah.
00:20:12You know, obviously, you're a package deal.
00:20:13You've got two kiddos.
00:20:15How important is it that this new woman can fit within there and have great relationships with your kids?
00:20:22If I link it to some of my dating in the past,
00:20:24a lot of people have told me that they've actually understood that I've got kids.
00:20:28But further down the line, they actually realise that.
00:20:31I don't understand that you've got kids.
00:20:33And if they have the understanding that, look, not only have kids,
00:20:36but one of them has his own challenges that he deals with.
00:20:40And I'm not expecting anyone to just waltz in and play stepmom or be that kind of figure.
00:20:46But I'd say I am where I want to be at 34.
00:20:50But I think the biggest thing that's missing for me is a wife.
00:20:54I need someone to do life with.
00:20:55I'm looking for someone strong-willed, very independent, and with a massive personality.
00:21:03Very family-oriented, with a nice beam and smile.
00:21:07I want to meet my person.
00:21:09I'm ready to find the one.
00:21:11Hopefully, I can give my best to someone and they can actually embrace it.
00:21:14As a dad of two, Stephen needs a partner who'll embrace and happily take on his ready-made family.
00:21:26Nellie's maternal instincts and love for her own family suggest that this won't be a problem.
00:21:31What's clear is Nellie's been cheated on in lots of past relationships.
00:21:36Yeah.
00:21:36So reassurance is key for her to feel safe and secure.
00:21:39You know, also, Stephen told us that he's never been unfaithful and his calm and stable nature should provide the security that Nellie needs.
00:21:49They're both high achievers and have all aspects of their lives sorted apart from love.
00:21:55I mean, Stephen is hoping for a strong woman with a big personality and Vivacious Nellie is a perfect example of this.
00:22:04Well, that's right.
00:22:05This is a match where the personalities really complement each other.
00:22:08Nellie's high energy and the first to admit that she likes the princess treatment.
00:22:13There's a calmness to Stephen that I think would be really grounding for her.
00:22:17Exactly.
00:22:18Her maturity and emotional depth will encourage him to open up.
00:22:21I cannot wait to see their relationship grow in this process.
00:22:26Nellie and Stephen.
00:22:27Stephen.
00:22:27Stephen.
00:22:27Stephen.
00:22:29Stephen.
00:22:31Stephen.
00:22:32Stephen.
00:22:33Stephen.
00:22:34Stephen.
00:22:35Stephen.
00:22:36Stephen.
00:22:37Stephen.
00:22:38Stephen.
00:22:38Stephen.
00:22:45Stephen.
00:22:45Stephen.
00:22:45Stephen.
00:22:45It's all gone very, very real.
00:22:47My stomach keeps dropping every time I think about it.
00:22:49It's not affecting your eye on it, clearly.
00:22:51Mate, my eye on it's never been good, to be fair.
00:22:55I'm shitting it.
00:22:57I cannot believe I'm getting married to a complete stranger today.
00:23:02You're nervous, you have.
00:23:03I am, mate.
00:23:04And you know me.
00:23:05Like, I don't get nervous, but I'm...
00:23:07Yeah, I'm bad.
00:23:07this is fun but there's that background noise of like wait a minute who is he i am feeling a
00:23:16little overwhelmed a dry mouth there's a racing heart all of these things oh i'm so excited to
00:23:22see what he's like yeah i would obviously like to be with someone attractive probably make things a
00:23:28bit easier maybe if i was just fancy the pants off them from the way go husband husband husband
00:23:34doesn't really roll off the tongue i just hope he's got a cracking personality yeah because you need
00:23:40someone that you can like bounce off but yeah and that he's not threatened yeah like that you're
00:23:45funny and you're this super independent strong woman yeah there's only room for one sheriff in
00:23:50this time we're not getting competition who's the silliest billy what i love the silliest billy
00:23:54he's hilarious what are you gonna do oh what if he's funnier than you cancel the wedding if he's
00:23:58hilarious how dare he presume to be funny no obviously be great if he's funny i'll take it
00:24:03back soon i was with you take the mic i feel like i have a nervous energy about me today and i would
00:24:07not be surprised if i walked down the aisle and went mute and was like hello nice to meet you
00:24:12because that's just the best i am i'm all all or nothing
00:24:16as if we're seeing the day nearly he's getting married i didn't think that would ever ever happen
00:24:28i know who would have thought who would have thought always jumped to this day and i can't
00:24:32believe it's here not only am i getting married which i didn't think would happen i'm literally
00:24:38marrying a stranger how are you feeling nil i think one thing i am nervous about me liking him and
00:24:44him not being into me i mean it is obviously a bit terrifying because being cheated on by all three
00:24:51of my past partners makes you think that there's something wrong with you i know what i deserve i
00:24:59know how i should be treated i don't think i'm asking for anything extra than just being treated
00:25:03with kindness and like a nice human being but that's how you would treat someone so you just want it
00:25:07back no one likes the feeling of getting rejected but i've just got to trust the process
00:25:13and be open and be vulnerable be open be vulnerable be open be vulnerable it could be
00:25:20amazing we could really really just click and really fancy each other i'm probably the most
00:25:26nervous about a future brother-in-law not finding her as attractive as she'd want she wants somebody
00:25:31to be really obsessed with her just be infatuated with her and that that would maybe break my heart
00:25:36a little bit if he just wasn't that interested she's got so much love to give so to get it back
00:25:40would just be really incredible i actually can't believe i'm getting married today i'm going to
00:25:48facetime the kids this morning if i can see their face it'll just calm me down entirely
00:25:52hello hello yeah one of the biggest things i've asked was someone being understanding of that kids
00:25:59will always be number one it is so important to me that they spend a wedding day with me even if
00:26:04they're not here in person you got any advice for daddy for the wedding don't say anything stupid
00:26:09don't say anything stupid all right well i'll see you soon
00:26:13okay
00:26:14yeah
00:26:15yeah
00:26:16i'm in
00:26:25hello
00:26:27hi who are you oh my god how are you handsome
00:26:30my parents have been married for nearly 40 years so they're doing something right i mean something
00:26:37like that to me is what i'm striving for when i have thought about it i've thought like i hope i
00:26:42like her hope she's this hope she's that but the other side i hope she likes me yeah absolutely and i
00:26:47hope she's i hope she's the type of person to show that she'll find out not long i know
00:26:52no one deserves to find love more than grace she is the kindest most intelligent woman
00:27:07but grace can have quite high walls and i think it depends how the first meet goes and you know
00:27:15grace is the kind of person who might bolt at the first smell that something might be a bit fishy
00:27:19i keep thinking like when has it gone too far is it now he's a lucky guy he's a lucky guy
00:27:24beautiful isn't it
00:27:38i think he's kind of
00:27:45gorgeous
00:27:49i'm at a point in my life where i am looking for that real thing
00:28:02i'm really nervous i would be gutted if it didn't work out
00:28:07there's so much that's gone into it so i'll give it everything i got
00:28:12i do hope that this is the first day of something beautiful
00:28:16how's everyone
00:28:41how's everyone
00:28:46i can see it
00:28:59hello
00:28:59i am worried that like i'm maybe taking this too far like like even for me i'm starting to think
00:29:19this is a bit too much is it do you think grace you are gonna nail this every time i take another
00:29:27step towards like the actual wedding i'm like oh god i'm taking it too far too far
00:29:36she's got tissue
00:29:44i'm breaking it really nervous sweaty hands i was like a deer in headlights
00:29:49worst case scenario is that she just doesn't like me
00:30:03i'm actually
00:30:05i'm completely
00:30:33Hi, how are you?
00:30:39You look amazing.
00:30:40Thank you, thank you.
00:30:42Nice to meet you.
00:30:44How are you feeling?
00:30:46Oh, you know, all in a day.
00:30:48This is your average Monday.
00:30:50How are you?
00:30:51Yeah, pretty much the same.
00:30:53Nice to meet you guys.
00:30:54I'm Grace, by the way.
00:30:55Ashley, nice to meet you, yeah.
00:30:57You're Welsh.
00:30:58I am.
00:30:59Well, give it away.
00:31:00The one word that you said.
00:31:02Yeah.
00:31:03All right.
00:31:04All right, all right, all right.
00:31:06Anyone ever done this before?
00:31:08No.
00:31:09Anybody get any prompts?
00:31:10I'm normally more talkative, I'll be honest.
00:31:12You're a prompt for your money now.
00:31:14Get your own out.
00:31:16When she's nervous, she is like joke after joke after joke after joke.
00:31:21I don't necessarily think that's a good thing.
00:31:23Hopefully it's not too awkward.
00:31:25Yeah.
00:31:26Who's everyone?
00:31:27Sad mum, sister.
00:31:28You guys are great.
00:31:29A million bucks.
00:31:31Showing up in my life.
00:31:38Nice to meet you.
00:31:39Yeah.
00:31:40Like, she's got a personality.
00:31:42And that's everything I've kind of asked for.
00:31:44The attraction is there.
00:31:45I'm a happy man.
00:31:46100% I fancy her.
00:31:49No, you look amazing.
00:31:51So do you.
00:31:52I wouldn't say he's my type.
00:32:05I'm feeling no innocent spark.
00:32:07We're gathered here on this beautiful day to witness the union of Grace and Ashley, who have decided to take a chance on love.
00:32:26Grace?
00:32:27Grace?
00:32:28You've found us.
00:32:29There once were two strangers at the altar.
00:32:33They'd tried normal dating.
00:32:36Their souls simply weren't mating.
00:32:38So they married and their fates, they did alter.
00:32:42They vowed to have a great experience.
00:32:45They hoped love would make an appearance.
00:32:48They had great respect for what the experiment expects.
00:32:52And in hard times, they promised perseverance.
00:32:56To hell with convention.
00:32:58Rules were made to be bent.
00:33:00Let's make time together.
00:33:01Time well spent.
00:33:04You're very nice, Ashley.
00:33:08Today I stand here not just to make a promise, but to begin a journey.
00:33:12With someone who is in so many ways still a mystery to me.
00:33:16Yet in this moment, I'm certain of one thing.
00:33:18I choose you and I choose us wherever this past may take us.
00:33:21I vow to be loyal to you, to honor you, and to show up every day for this commitment we're making together.
00:33:27I promise that you're wrong for life.
00:33:28I don't know.
00:33:29Your biggest fan when life feels light.
00:33:30Maybe I did hope there would be more of an initial spark.
00:33:34Maybe I just hoped it would be there and more.
00:33:37You've been showing me that you are truly all in.
00:33:40And take this leap with me.
00:33:41I promise to try and give you the world and more.
00:33:43To dream with you, to build with you, and to never stop enjoying the memories we'll create.
00:33:48One day at a time.
00:33:52With this ring, I join my life with yours.
00:34:01So Grace and Ashley, would you now like to celebrate your union with your very first kiss?
00:34:06I can offer a cheek.
00:34:07I do know.
00:34:08I do know.
00:34:09I do know.
00:34:10I do know.
00:34:11I do know.
00:34:12I do know.
00:34:13I do know.
00:34:14I do know.
00:34:15I do know.
00:34:16I do know.
00:34:17I do know.
00:34:18I do know.
00:34:19I do know.
00:34:20I do know.
00:34:21I do know.
00:34:22I do know.
00:34:23I do know.
00:34:24I do know.
00:34:25I do know.
00:34:26I do know.
00:34:27I do know.
00:34:28I do know.
00:34:29I do know.
00:34:30I do know.
00:34:31I do know.
00:34:32I do know.
00:34:33I do know.
00:34:34I do know.
00:34:35I do know.
00:34:36I do know.
00:34:37I do know.
00:34:38I do know.
00:34:39I do know.
00:34:40It gives me great pleasure to present to you our wonderful happy couple, Grace and Ashley.
00:34:46I'm Jess.
00:34:51I like the fact that she didn't want to kiss straight away that shows she's got more old.
00:34:56I respect that quite a lot.
00:34:59Now it's just to find out if I'm what she's asked for.
00:35:09I'm not really sure why I'm being quite as wobbly as I am right now.
00:35:18I can't put my finger on it.
00:35:21Honestly, I just don't know how I feel.
00:35:24I don't want to do this.
00:35:26Sorry.
00:35:27What's upsetting you?
00:35:30It's absolutely fine.
00:35:31Yes.
00:35:32And it's just like a man.
00:35:33I don't know what to say.
00:35:34It's a lot.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:36Sorry.
00:35:37I think I'm just in like a negative headspace about it.
00:35:40Yes.
00:35:41Sorry.
00:35:42Sorry.
00:35:43I don't want to do it.
00:35:44I'm sorry.
00:35:45Just...
00:35:54I can't.
00:35:56I can't...
00:35:57I just...
00:35:58I can't...
00:35:59I don't want to do it.
00:36:00Sorry.
00:36:01Just...
00:36:02Wait...
00:36:03I can't...
00:36:04...
00:36:12This is amazing!
00:36:30We have hearts!
00:36:31We have hearts!
00:36:33This is adorable!
00:36:37Come on!
00:36:39Stop it!
00:36:40We are Indiana Jones!
00:36:42The fact that I'm on honeymoon right now with my husband is insane.
00:36:47We look hot.
00:36:47We look great, you know.
00:36:49But I'm finding Keaton's energy a lot.
00:36:53He's very loud.
00:36:55He's 110 at all times.
00:36:57This is amazing!
00:36:58Come on!
00:36:59I want to be treated like this every day.
00:37:00I'm not going back to normal life.
00:37:02This is how we look.
00:37:03Yeah, that's it.
00:37:04That's it.
00:37:04This is it.
00:37:05So I just want to get to know him.
00:37:07I want us to have that deep, meaningful conversation about everything.
00:37:12We're going to have the best time!
00:37:16We are.
00:37:28Running to swing in to sing in.
00:37:30Work it, work it, work it, work it, work it, work it, work it, work it.
00:37:33Me and Dean are big energy.
00:37:35You know, there's no denying that.
00:37:37The thing that's grating on me at the minute is Dean does keep randomly outbursting into raps or songs.
00:37:43When I saw you in that dress today, you did more than take my breath away.
00:37:53On their wedding day, an impromptu rap from Dean.
00:37:56When I say wed, you say Dean.
00:37:58Wed!
00:37:59Dean!
00:37:59Wed!
00:38:00Dean!
00:38:00He is just over the top.
00:38:02That's put me right off.
00:38:05Followed by a self-penned serenade at the top table.
00:38:08We'll build a life together, you and me.
00:38:13Sowed serious seeds of doubt in his new wife's mind.
00:38:17I'm not an over-romantic person at all.
00:38:20And anything over the top does put me off.
00:38:23Got girl Sarah right next to me, in Maldives, living life.
00:38:29Spiced margarita all the time.
00:38:31Zumba, maybe we'll find out.
00:38:32Read a book, it's going to be so light lit, so damn good, going to get so wood.
00:38:36It's still quite a lot for me.
00:38:38Swish it, swish it, swish it.
00:38:40Oh, dear.
00:38:48Ready for some Pilates.
00:38:49Ready for some Pilates.
00:38:51Here we go.
00:38:52Right, get your legs up.
00:38:53Legs akimbo.
00:38:54Oh, my God.
00:38:56Oh, I like it.
00:38:58I feel very vulnerable.
00:39:01I guess this is like, is this a girl's view quite a lot of the time?
00:39:04Okay, well, we do the next move.
00:39:06Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:39:07I was coming out with the innuendos, you know.
00:39:10Nice one, Dean.
00:39:15Yeah.
00:39:18It's all about the hips.
00:39:20And then you just pull back.
00:39:22And then thrust in.
00:39:24That's literally what it is though, innit?
00:39:29My sexual chakra, no, it's not been opened up just yet.
00:39:32It's still there, it's still ready.
00:39:34It's burning away, but it's not opened up just yet.
00:39:36Take a seat.
00:39:40Let's take a seat.
00:39:41Take some heat off these feet.
00:39:42You love turning things into wraps.
00:39:44Oh, I love wrapping.
00:39:47I'm looking forward to getting to know Sarah on a deeper level, because at the moment we're
00:39:49laughing all the time, and it's spanner, and the energy's amazing.
00:39:52She will fall for me.
00:39:56Don't worry.
00:39:56Trust me, it will happen.
00:39:57I've been here before.
00:39:58We're good.
00:39:58So how long have you been single for then?
00:40:03About 18 months, coming up to two years?
00:40:04Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:40:05What about yourself?
00:40:05Yeah, but I'm over two years now.
00:40:08My typical type is a bit of an asshole, which I've always usually gone for.
00:40:12Very toxic and manipulative.
00:40:15Nice guys, trust me, nice guys are the way to go.
00:40:19I know she wants a nice guy, but I still don't know if I'm the nice guy she wants.
00:40:22Hopefully she can see there's more to me than just probably what met the eye to begin with.
00:40:28I didn't actually start dating until I was 22.
00:40:30Oh, really?
00:40:30I didn't do anything until I was 22.
00:40:31I was like, oh, I need to kind of jump into this.
00:40:34I need to get a girlfriend.
00:40:35I don't want to diverge in.
00:40:37You know, those type of things.
00:40:38I don't want that to be me.
00:40:40I did go through a phase where I lost about 10 stones.
00:40:43Did you?
00:40:43I lost loads of weight.
00:40:44You know, I'd wear, like, fake tan.
00:40:46I'd have guy liner on.
00:40:47Yeah, fake tan.
00:40:48You were a guy liner?
00:40:49I was a completely different person.
00:40:50Did you?
00:40:51I wasn't the nicest to girls.
00:40:52I would, like, not quite sometimes.
00:40:54And I just wasn't someone my nan would be proud of, innit?
00:40:55And I was like, I'm not myself.
00:40:57I just want to be myself.
00:40:58I've always been bigger.
00:40:59And when you're confident and fat, it's cute, you know, it's funny, it's nice.
00:41:02But then when you're confident and, like...
00:41:04You're a good-looking guy, yeah, yeah.
00:41:06I'm still good-looking.
00:41:07No, no, no.
00:41:08I didn't mean that.
00:41:09I didn't mean that.
00:41:10I know you don't mean that.
00:41:12Sorry.
00:41:15It was really nice of Dean to open up about him losing the weight
00:41:19and also how that changed him as a person, which I was quite surprised at.
00:41:23Turned into basically a bit of an asshole.
00:41:25I was shocked, you know.
00:41:27I did not expect that at all.
00:41:30It would be really weird to see Dean as a bad boy.
00:41:34Yeah, definitely.
00:41:35I just can't imagine it at all.
00:41:44Oh, wow.
00:42:00Oh, my God.
00:42:01Oh, look at you.
00:42:03Oh, look at you.
00:42:04Oh, look at me.
00:42:06You're going to make me cry.
00:42:08I've always wanted to see her in a wedding dress.
00:42:15Yes, she looks absolutely stunning.
00:42:18She's so gorgeous, my little baby.
00:42:22You're absolutely beautiful.
00:42:24Thanks, Dad.
00:42:26You make me proud.
00:42:27It does.
00:42:27Yeah, we're all very proud.
00:42:28Yeah.
00:42:29I'm going to be coming down the aisle in the dolly.
00:42:33When they put it down, can you get me out of it and take me to my husband?
00:42:37That would be the proudest moment of my life, Dad.
00:42:39Oh!
00:42:42I mean, it's like giving away my heart.
00:42:46It means the world to me that my dad's going to be able to, like, give me away.
00:42:50I'm such a lucky girl to have family like that.
00:42:52I'm sure he's going to love it.
00:42:53I know, I hope so.
00:42:55So I just don't know how he's going to react.
00:42:57It's not the normal.
00:42:58That's okay.
00:42:59How do you want him to react?
00:43:00I want him to be obsessed with me.
00:43:03He might be a little bit shocked because it's very different.
00:43:06Yeah, which is fine because it's so probably not what he's expecting
00:43:08and not what he's been envisioning for however long.
00:43:11But yeah, like, I just hope he doesn't think I'm some sort of diva coming down.
00:43:15I'm so terrified of him being like, yeah, I'm not really that into her.
00:43:21No one wants to face rejection.
00:43:22And if he isn't completely showing that he's obsessed with me,
00:43:25you'll be thinking, but why?
00:43:27I've been up since five o'clock getting ready for you, babe.
00:43:31Yeah, Steve, I think you're struggling without a tie.
00:43:33You might need a little help.
00:43:34I'm going back to our school, eh, isn't I?
00:43:37With everything that he's gone through in life to where we are now,
00:43:40Stephen's ready for this.
00:43:41He fully deserves it.
00:43:42Having watched us get married, have children, have a settled life,
00:43:46Stephen wants that the same as we've had it.
00:43:48So how do you feel about the kids' scenario?
00:43:51Do you feel you're going to let her know that straight away?
00:43:54I'll sort of delay it a little bit.
00:43:55It's a tough one.
00:43:56That's been rattling through my mind.
00:43:58I don't think I'll say it at the altar straight away,
00:44:00going, oh, by the way, I've got kids,
00:44:01because I think that will just scare her at first.
00:44:05Kids are the kids.
00:44:05They're always going to be there.
00:44:07You know, that's how I'm in her mood.
00:44:08She's got to respect that.
00:44:10I think it'll be tough to tell her that I've got kids today.
00:44:12Again, I think if it comes up, then absolutely I will.
00:44:15When there's a right moment in time.
00:44:29We're the brothers, two brothers.
00:44:30Is your brother good looking at you guys?
00:44:34Nearly at my level, just a little bit below it.
00:44:42It's important that my future wife can set my children.
00:44:45Because my children are my entire world.
00:44:49And they might be all and end all.
00:44:52So it's massively important to me.
00:45:00Remember, Savio?
00:45:01I need my specs to see you properly.
00:45:18Sorry, it's the teeth in my blind job.
00:45:23Tall.
00:45:23Very confident.
00:45:25I think he is.
00:45:26Nelly is, like, perfect.
00:45:27I think he probably is.
00:45:28Yeah, definitely, 100%.
00:45:29Today is the biggest day of my life.
00:45:38Given up a lot to be here.
00:45:40And I'm just really, really hoping that this is it.
00:45:43And this is the one.
00:45:54If he doesn't react well to my entrance, I'd be devastated.
00:45:59It would ruin the magical rule.
00:46:01This whole shebang, me in the red.
00:46:06Is he going to think I'm some diva and some princess?
00:46:11I'm putting my heart on the line.
00:46:12And I just really, really hope it doesn't get squished to little pieces.
00:46:17Because I don't know how I'm going to come back from it if it does.
00:46:19I don't know how I'm going to come back from it.
00:46:49Oh, wow.
00:47:05Amazing.
00:47:06Hi.
00:47:06You all right?
00:47:07Nervous?
00:47:08How are you?
00:47:08Nice to hear you.
00:47:09I'd be nervous at all.
00:47:12Thank you, Sarah.
00:47:14I'm more on entrance.
00:47:15I'm more on entrance, I guess.
00:47:16I'm glad you liked it.
00:47:19I think from first initial attraction and the little cheeky smile she gave, it was definitely
00:47:23something I'm like, yeah, I'm feeling this.
00:47:26She's absolutely standing in the red dress.
00:47:28Yeah, definitely.
00:47:29Ticks a lot of boxes.
00:47:29My neck has to go back to look at him.
00:47:35Tick, tick, tick.
00:47:37Lavender friends.
00:47:39It's very traditional.
00:47:41Yeah, I'm not very, I'm not normally very traditional, but it's all about it.
00:47:47He just doesn't seem intimidated by anything in the slightest.
00:47:51He's just taken it all in his stride and I think that's really admirable.
00:47:53I feel like I need to keep my call because I don't want him to think I'm a giddy schoolgirl
00:47:56because I'm not.
00:48:01With our friends and family both here witnessing us meet for the very first time, I couldn't
00:48:05be more excited to meet a beautiful stranger and share an adventure that we'll only need
00:48:09to do once in our lifetimes.
00:48:10Today, we have taken a risk, but sometimes, without risk, there is no reward.
00:48:17And standing here today in front of me, all I see is a reward.
00:48:21Let's embrace this journey fully.
00:48:23Let's be a team and conquer anything that comes our way.
00:48:27Here's to us.
00:48:31I stand here today hoping to find someone who will see and love me for who I truly am.
00:48:36Strong, independent, but also deeply ready to share my life with the right person.
00:48:40I'm far from perfect, but I'm willing to be vulnerable, to put my heart on the line
00:48:44and give my all to this process.
00:48:48Now, before we go any further, let's address the fact that I'm wearing red today.
00:48:52And no, it's not because I'm a walking red flag.
00:48:55Although, a red dress does come with a little extra sass, doesn't it?
00:48:59I love it.
00:48:59And if you're the one, I promise to bring all my love and commitment to our journey.
00:49:03I can't wait to see what this process brings for us both.
00:49:06Absolutely.
00:49:07Blowing mine out of water there, isn't it?
00:49:08It's good, isn't it?
00:49:09That's unbelievable.
00:49:12Unbelievable.
00:49:13I'm going to pop this one.
00:49:14Sorry, I'm tall.
00:49:14That's okay.
00:49:15I'm not complaining.
00:49:17That's not a complaint for me.
00:49:20It's more.
00:49:21Don't miss the hell.
00:49:21With this ring, I promise to stand beside you, to grow with you, and to see where this adventure
00:49:31takes us.
00:49:35With this ring, I promise to stand beside you, to grow with you, and see where this adventure
00:49:42takes us.
00:49:42You may seal this moment with a kiss, if you wish.
00:49:49Go for it.
00:49:49Sorry, Dad.
00:49:50Thank you, Dad.
00:49:50100% fancier.
00:50:02Absolutely stunning.
00:50:05His confidence is really, really sexy.
00:50:07He's just kind of gone with the flow and just doesn't seem intimidated at all.
00:50:12And, yes, I do fancy him.
00:50:14Let's move on.
00:50:15It's all right.
00:50:40I'm sorry.
00:50:41I just don't want to get upset.
00:51:00This waiting round bit is intense.
00:51:03It is a bit awkward, but I'm just, I'm really looking forward to just getting to know her.
00:51:11If you come a little bit closer, maybe just hold hands.
00:51:27Then you want to know.
00:51:27Hold hands, and that's really awkward.
00:51:29Yeah.
00:51:33What do you do?
00:51:35I'm a manager of an offshore marine construction company, so I build ships and rigs.
00:51:40Oh, nice.
00:51:40Yeah, it's not as exciting as it sounds.
00:51:42It was, um, it was a ship in Scotland at the Royal Yacht Battalion, and I turned it into
00:51:47I'm feeling overwhelmed.
00:51:50I'm trying not to focus on any negatives.
00:51:53What is it you do?
00:51:54I'm, I'm a midwife.
00:51:56Okay.
00:52:01Smile.
00:52:02Yeah.
00:52:02Yeah.
00:52:02I find that I was smiling.
00:52:06That already has got my back up.
00:52:09And if you're comfortable, would you like to have a little kiss, maybe?
00:52:12I was literally just about to say I wouldn't be the most PDA person.
00:52:15I wouldn't be one for, uh...
00:52:17What about a cheek?
00:52:18We can do a cheek if you're okay with that.
00:52:20Yeah.
00:52:22It's so awkward.
00:52:24Yeah, it's fine.
00:52:24Maybe, like, let's not.
00:52:26Is that fine?
00:52:26Okay.
00:52:30So you're not, you're not PDA.
00:52:32You're kind of in, like...
00:52:33I'm, like, the opposite.
00:52:33Okay.
00:52:34Not being PDA, that's a little bit disappointing.
00:52:38It feels a little bit of a knockback, because I like someone who is kind of affectionate.
00:52:44Stand a little bit closer together.
00:52:49I'm feeling so awkward, so uncomfortable.
00:52:53So much pressure.
00:52:54And finding flaws, just panicking, like a reason to bolt.
00:52:58Just frustrated.
00:52:59I feel negative when I really wanted to force, like, to feel positive.
00:53:09I don't...
00:53:10Honestly, I don't know.
00:53:11It's day two of honeymoons,
00:53:38and whilst David and Kia head off on safari.
00:53:43What's the collective noun for zebras?
00:53:45It's called a dazzle of zebras.
00:53:48Game.
00:53:49Yeah.
00:53:51In the Maldives, Sarah and Dean are having pre-dinner drinks.
00:53:56I think it's been such a good day today.
00:53:57Like, I've really enjoyed it.
00:53:58And do you know, because it's been an intense few days.
00:54:00And, like, yeah, 100%.
00:54:01I was like, there's no one I'd rather have, like, been married to.
00:54:04You know, like, it's genuinely been so nice.
00:54:05Like, just, like, straight off the bat, like,
00:54:07we're in the most romantic place in the world.
00:54:09Yeah.
00:54:10Yeah.
00:54:14So, is there anything about me that is annoying you?
00:54:18At the moment, there's genuinely nothing majorly.
00:54:22And you do look nice.
00:54:23So, yeah.
00:54:24Yeah.
00:54:24Being in the Maldives right now with Dean,
00:54:29we are getting along really well.
00:54:30I just can't get past that attraction that I don't have towards him.
00:54:35Shake, shake, shake.
00:54:37And the outbursts of song and rapping
00:54:40really beginning to grate on me.
00:54:43So, I just want to address that,
00:54:45but I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:54:49So, is there anything that's kind of annoying you?
00:54:51Do you think it's a nervous thing or no?
00:55:18How I'm probably...
00:55:19I guess I'm always a happy person in general, usually.
00:55:22And whenever I've got sadness out,
00:55:24I write songs in it.
00:55:25That's how I get my sadness out.
00:55:26And, like, if I'm feeling a certain way,
00:55:28if you listen to the song I'm singing,
00:55:29it will usually tell you how I'm feeling,
00:55:31but without saying it.
00:55:33Sarah bringing up the rapping and the singing
00:55:35and being a bit annoying,
00:55:36it's not the first person to bring it up.
00:55:38And it wouldn't have been the last.
00:55:39So, she's not trying to change me.
00:55:41She's just trying to not make me irritate her.
00:55:44So, if you were sad, she would just start singing?
00:55:46I'd be like, yeah, I'd sing all by myself or something.
00:55:48You know, but you wouldn't realise.
00:55:49And no one would realise.
00:55:50But that kind of gets the emotion, like, out of me.
00:55:54The biggest thing I'm taking away from tonight
00:55:55is learning to be open and honest
00:55:57and talk about whatever's bothering us.
00:55:59And hopefully, that should move us along as a couple.
00:56:02Maybe now that we're married,
00:56:04you could tell me your emotion
00:56:06rather than singing it.
00:56:09I've never done it.
00:56:12So, I don't know.
00:56:13I genuinely don't know,
00:56:13because I've never done it.
00:56:15You could try.
00:56:18Right, Dean, let's practice right now, OK?
00:56:20OK, ready, right.
00:56:21So, tell me how you're feeling right now.
00:56:24Yeah, happy.
00:56:25See?
00:56:25I'm happy.
00:56:27See, hallelujah.
00:56:27No, I don't do that.
00:56:30No.
00:56:31I think maybe you are right.
00:56:33And I'll take it on board and I'll compromise,
00:56:34because, yeah, that's the whole reason we're here.
00:56:36We're going to do this try.
00:56:40I was really nervous
00:56:41telling Dean how I felt
00:56:43about outbursting into raps or songs
00:56:46and that it was beginning to irritate me.
00:56:49I think I've made it quite clear now.
00:56:51So, yeah, fingers crossed.
00:56:54There is a droop!
00:57:15Yes!
00:57:16Yeah.
00:57:17A lot of these animals,
00:57:18they rely heavily on their sense of hearing.
00:57:20So, it's very important to restrain ourselves
00:57:21from shouting and screaming too loud.
00:57:23Yeah.
00:57:24I know.
00:57:27I scared me I'm going to die.
00:57:31This is amazing.
00:57:32The bush is absolutely wild.
00:57:39There's a lion this time.
00:57:44That's amazing.
00:57:46I just want to stir again.
00:57:48All I want to do is scream and point
00:57:51and touch everything.
00:57:52And I can do none of those things.
00:57:57Hello.
00:58:01There is an elephant also walking right towards us.
00:58:04There is a lion.
00:58:04There is a lion.
00:58:05There is a lion up there.
00:58:06Oh, there is a lion.
00:58:07There is a lion.
00:58:08He is.
00:58:09I have to meet my husband.
00:58:11He is a lion.
00:58:11He is a lion.
00:58:11He is a lion.
00:58:12He is only 110 and 90% of the time.
00:58:14I am far enough away and I am whispering.
00:58:19I keep having to cover his mouth or tell him,
00:58:21Keep it up, just like, shh, and be quiet.
00:58:25Cheers.
00:58:25Cheers, this is so lovely.
00:58:27Mmm.
00:58:28Mmm.
00:58:30Mmm!
00:58:32How are you feeling?
00:58:33Like I'm on honeymoon, it's fabulous.
00:58:35No, it's great, isn't it?
00:58:36Mm-hmm.
00:58:37It's great day out.
00:58:38Honestly, not screaming has been the most difficult thing.
00:58:40You know.
00:58:45We know we have that, like, really cute connection that we do have.
00:58:48We have no problems, like, kissing.
00:58:51Like being physical with each other,
00:58:53but we are kind of waiting for intimacy.
00:58:57How do you feel about it?
00:58:58I think waiting for that step, I'm completely on board with,
00:59:02and I think it's just building the tension.
00:59:05It's just going to be better when we get there.
00:59:07What do you want?
00:59:08Do you want to see a rhino's horn?
00:59:09Is it the horn you're excited about?
00:59:11Pop it!
00:59:12Kia!
00:59:13Kia!
00:59:13Kia!
00:59:16He uses comedy just to deflect out of a very deep conversation.
00:59:20I want to get to know him a bit more.
00:59:22I want to know how he's feeling.
00:59:25On their wedding day...
00:59:27He will open up to you.
00:59:28Yeah, I'm not going to hurt her.
00:59:29But it will take time.
00:59:30Kia's mum gave David an insight into his new husband's character.
00:59:34He's spent his whole life thinking that he has to perform for everyone,
00:59:38because that's what they expect.
00:59:40Oh, Kia's a good laugh.
00:59:41You know, Kia's the life and soul of the party.
00:59:43Do you find talking about this type of stuff hard?
00:59:48That's why you deflect to, like, comedy.
00:59:51Yeah, I think talking about...
00:59:52No, do you know what?
00:59:53I don't find talking about sex hard.
00:59:57It's just...
00:59:58Is it the first mechanism?
00:59:59You do that.
01:00:00Yeah, yeah.
01:00:01100%.
01:00:01If I feel slightly uncomfortable,
01:00:03or things are getting a little bit too serious,
01:00:05I make a light-hearted joke.
01:00:07Yeah.
01:00:07You deflect.
01:00:08I don't know how I feel about that.
01:00:13I think we're going to have to work on that a little bit.
01:00:15We'll work on that.
01:00:16Yeah.
01:00:16If I am, like, being vulnerable and, like, talking and stuff like that,
01:00:20I want you to, like, go on the same level.
01:00:21That's all.
01:00:22Yeah.
01:00:25Not everything has to be an endo or a joke.
01:00:28I just don't need it to be all the time.
01:00:32I need deeper.
01:00:33I just need deeper.
01:00:38How are you doing?
01:00:52What's, you know, how are you doing?
01:00:54Um, yeah.
01:00:57Yeah.
01:00:58Yeah.
01:00:58I mean, obviously, not much to go off, but...
01:01:01Yeah.
01:01:01Right.
01:01:02How are you doing?
01:01:03How are you doing?
01:01:03How are you doing?
01:01:04I'm really happy.
01:01:06Were you kind of...
01:01:08Was I what you asked for, or...?
01:01:10Yeah, I think so.
01:01:12Well, it's, you know...
01:01:13What did you ask for?
01:01:14I asked for someone, like...
01:01:15charismatic and respectful, actually.
01:01:19Yeah.
01:01:19I was quite big on myself.
01:01:20Yeah, yeah.
01:01:20My father's very old school.
01:01:22Old school in what way?
01:01:25I was raised, like...
01:01:27Men are the breadwinners.
01:01:28So I was kind of raised that way.
01:01:30Why is it that you feel the man has to be the breadwinner, at a big chance?
01:01:41Like old school morals, basically.
01:01:44Yeah.
01:01:49God, here we go.
01:01:52It's 20...
01:01:5325, actually.
01:01:54Men don't have to be a moneymaker, and the woman stays home.
01:01:59Stephen, do you want to put your hand around your wife?
01:02:13Don't be scared.
01:02:13Don't be scared.
01:02:14There you go.
01:02:15Lovely.
01:02:15And just look this way.
01:02:18How old are you?
01:02:1934.
01:02:20Are you?
01:02:21Yeah.
01:02:21You look younger.
01:02:22Oh, stop it.
01:02:22Now you're just playing with me.
01:02:24In your dream.
01:02:25Well, hopefully, yeah.
01:02:26Yeah, I know.
01:02:27It's not...
01:02:27Imagine if you didn't.
01:02:28I know.
01:02:29Your teeth are nice.
01:02:31Yes, they are.
01:02:31They got done.
01:02:33Composite?
01:02:33Yeah.
01:02:34I'm a dentist, which is why I clocked the teeth.
01:02:38Yeah, they're good.
01:02:39She looks natural.
01:02:40Thanks.
01:02:41And I've got to say, the red dress.
01:02:44Great.
01:02:44Do you like a sassy sister?
01:02:46Sassy girl?
01:02:47Yeah, I like.
01:02:48Sassy girl.
01:02:48I like someone who's going to give me a little bit to get her back.
01:02:51Okay, perfect.
01:02:51So, yeah, you're all for that.
01:02:52No, too.
01:02:53Absolutely.
01:02:54I didn't really get to see your family.
01:02:56I think I was just really nervous.
01:02:58So, my brother and my sister were there.
01:02:59We're all three older brothers.
01:03:00Oh, wow.
01:03:01Are you?
01:03:02Yeah, I've got one sister just above me.
01:03:03So, there's five of you?
01:03:05I love a big, busy house.
01:03:07It's crazy.
01:03:08Yeah.
01:03:08I'm telling you that.
01:03:08All the nieces and nephews and stuff as well.
01:03:10It's amazing, though, isn't it?
01:03:11It is.
01:03:11Are you close to them?
01:03:13Your nieces and nephews?
01:03:13Yeah.
01:03:14Are they, like, your world?
01:03:15Yeah.
01:03:16Fantastic.
01:03:21It is nerve-wracking telling anyone, especially who I've just met, that I've got kids.
01:03:26It doesn't feel like the right time to be telling Nellie to shit.
01:03:28I've just met the girl.
01:03:33I feel like just nothing really phases him, which is great.
01:03:37I'm excited.
01:03:38Let's get the party started.
01:03:39I can't wait.
01:03:40I can't wait.
01:03:45So, Grace, this is my dad.
01:03:50Nice to meet you, Father.
01:03:52Hello.
01:03:53Ashley, nice to meet you.
01:03:54Nice to meet you.
01:03:55Are you okay?
01:03:56I'm sorry, have a seat.
01:03:56I'll pull up, you know.
01:03:57We've got so many questions.
01:03:58Yeah, fire away.
01:04:00Fire away.
01:04:01Is she everything that you were hoping would be at the end of the aisle?
01:04:04I think, other than, like, the affection bit, but then, look, something like that.
01:04:08I wouldn't expect.
01:04:09Are you normally, like, making out straight away?
01:04:11No, 100%.
01:04:12If anything, at the ceremony, her not letting me kiss her gained massive respect for her
01:04:18as well.
01:04:19Like, she's a lady.
01:04:21Like, I was brought up with old school morals, so I kind of feel like it's the man's job
01:04:25to turn the woman around, if that makes sense.
01:04:28Yeah, it's the man's job to turn the woman around.
01:04:30Like, to make the effort.
01:04:32Yeah, I would say Grace is big on kind of partnership and equal power dynamics and everyone pulling
01:04:39their weight.
01:04:39And, like, I think that's really important to her, right?
01:04:42Yeah.
01:04:42100%.
01:04:43Hannah's a bit of a gorilla, though, isn't she?
01:04:48No, not a gorilla, a gorilla, as in, like, she grilled me.
01:04:53It's nice, though, that she feels that passionate about her friend and who I am and what's been
01:04:58picked for her.
01:05:03Would she describe yourself as a feminist?
01:05:05100% no.
01:05:10Grace is all about women's rights and empowering women.
01:05:14I wouldn't say, not 100%, no, that's the wrong thing to say.
01:05:17I would say I do have old school, and I was raised that the man was the red winner and
01:05:21things like that.
01:05:22I do have old school, and I was raised that the man was the red winner and things like
01:05:39that.
01:05:40A man that isn't a feminist probably isn't a person for grace.
01:05:55I'm not looking for, like, a washerwoman.
01:06:01I am an old school gent, so I will always treat her with the utmost respect.
01:06:05I don't think being an old school gent goes head to head with being a person that believes
01:06:10in equal, partnership and equal power.
01:06:13But I would never see myself as anything other than equal to her.
01:06:18I think it is a partnership.
01:06:20In which case, I will describe you as a feminist.
01:06:22So that's good.
01:06:23Everyone's learned something today, and that's amazing.
01:06:26Yes, I'm a feminist.
01:06:30Like, I'm not going to go around burning my bra or not, do you know what I mean?
01:06:33And that's what I thought a feminist was.
01:06:37My advice would be, she wants to know you respect her, and she wants to like you as a person.
01:06:43When I explained to him what a feminist is, he came right around to it.
01:06:47It turns out that he just didn't understand the question, and he said he's just quite
01:06:50respectful of women, and he wants someone to feel cared for.
01:06:54And I think Grace can really warm to that.
01:07:08My husband, oh God, it feels so weird saying that, is being really, actually really attentive,
01:07:13just like I wanted.
01:07:14Like, he's making sure he pulls out the chair for me.
01:07:17Like, it's great.
01:07:20When you turned around, and you saw his face, his smile gave it away instantly.
01:07:24He's honestly like her ideal person.
01:07:26He's also one who's going to have a good time, and like, take a sense of humour, and like...
01:07:30The teeth.
01:07:30Yeah.
01:07:31We're getting all the gossip.
01:07:34Fantastic.
01:07:34Thank you, detectives.
01:07:38Does Stephen have any children?
01:07:42Sorry, I had a man.
01:07:43Sorry.
01:07:43Oh, sorry.
01:07:47Stephen has two children.
01:07:50Ooh.
01:07:51Two children.
01:07:54Kind of hoping it wouldn't come up.
01:07:56Not for anything.
01:07:58We just, we'd rather him...
01:07:59Yeah, no.
01:08:01I get that.
01:08:04So, have you all got kids, then?
01:08:07Um.
01:08:09Um.
01:08:11I've got two boys.
01:08:13Oh, lovely.
01:08:13Peter's got two boys and a girl.
01:08:15Yeah.
01:08:15Paul's got two boys.
01:08:17Uh, Jordan hasn't.
01:08:19So, yeah, we are a big extended family as well.
01:08:22Nice.
01:08:23As well as the five of us already.
01:08:24Yeah.
01:08:27His family remind me of my family, and I think that's what makes me feel a lot more comfortable
01:08:31and more safe.
01:08:32See you in a bit.
01:08:33Bye.
01:08:34And I think, well, you've got such a great family, so surely you must be such, like,
01:08:37a great guy.
01:08:40You know, that's it.
01:08:41Did you shot the kid once?
01:08:44And you asked.
01:08:46You said it.
01:08:46Yes.
01:08:48Yeah, that's it.
01:08:52I could immediately see, like, you guys having, like, kind of a vibe.
01:08:56Like, he was chatty, you were chatty.
01:08:57Yeah, he's like a brother family guy.
01:09:01He's got, like, nieces and nephews.
01:09:04I've not asked him if he's got any kids yet, actually, but he's not mentioned it.
01:09:13I think it's difficult because you can't just be like, oh, we know that he's got, like,
01:09:17children.
01:09:18I think it's something he should say to her.
01:09:21It's going to be kind of awkward, but, you know, you just need to tell her.
01:09:24I think, I think you might have to just drop it.
01:09:27Yeah, I've got to.
01:09:28But it's just, like, you're trying to work that into a natural conversation.
01:09:30Hi.
01:09:31Hi.
01:09:32Hi.
01:09:33Hi.
01:09:34Hi.
01:09:35Hi.
01:09:36Hi.
01:09:37Hi.
01:09:38Hi.
01:09:39Hi, guys.
01:09:40How's it going?
01:09:41How's it going?
01:09:42Desperate to speak to you.
01:09:44As soon as she kind of entered and she was like, pop, it was like, that's what I asked
01:09:49for.
01:09:50And personality-wise, that's what I asked for.
01:09:52She is a lady.
01:09:52Yeah.
01:09:52She's lovely.
01:09:53Yeah.
01:09:53I think we can take the boxes there.
01:09:54A hundred percent.
01:09:55Okay, so, I had, like, a huge wobble when I had to do it.
01:10:04Oh, God.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:06I think maybe I was more reliant on, like, an initial smoke.
01:10:08I think I just was a bit, like...
01:10:09Yeah.
01:10:10It's just such a massive build-up.
01:10:12Yeah.
01:10:13In, like, a photography.
01:10:15Mm-hmm.
01:10:16I was trying not to thrive.
01:10:17And he was, like, smiling.
01:10:19And I was, like...
01:10:20Oh.
01:10:21You know, like a man telling you to smile.
01:10:23Just smile.
01:10:24It's like a fundamental thing that, like, women don't want to do.
01:10:27I get that.
01:10:28And, like, the breadwinner thing.
01:10:29And he's like, I am traditional.
01:10:30I like to be the breadwinner.
01:10:31And I'm like, mm-hmm.
01:10:35He did say when we were sitting over there, I said, would you describe yourself as a feminist?
01:10:40Because I know that's super important.
01:10:41Yeah, yeah.
01:10:42That's super helpful stuff.
01:10:43And he said, no.
01:10:48But then when I said, why don't you believe in my equality and that you're going to have,
01:10:53like, an equal partnership with someone?
01:10:55And he said, yeah.
01:10:56And so we said, yeah.
01:10:57Okay.
01:10:58He said, yeah.
01:10:59Okay.
01:11:00I said, you've learned something today.
01:11:01You're a feminist.
01:11:02And he said, okay.
01:11:03Yeah.
01:11:04Okay.
01:11:05And I was like, oh, God, I'm going to have to bring you up to speed.
01:11:07It was, like, really basic-ish.
01:11:08The thing is, though, Graves.
01:11:09Yeah.
01:11:10When he said, I'm going to be the breadwinner and all that stuff.
01:11:13Yeah.
01:11:14Although it made us all go a bit like this.
01:11:16It can be nuanced a little bit.
01:11:18Yeah.
01:11:19And although it makes you initially have a coil, he is really lovely.
01:11:23Yeah.
01:11:24Yeah.
01:11:25Yeah.
01:11:26Yeah.
01:11:27It's really overwhelming.
01:11:28Yeah.
01:11:29See, when I tuck you into my arms.
01:11:32I just thought I wanted it to be really easy.
01:11:34I just thought it was really easy.
01:11:35It's not easy.
01:11:36It's not easy.
01:11:37It's a lot.
01:11:38Today has been so much.
01:11:39I'm going to give you a big hug.
01:11:40No, you don't like to.
01:11:41No.
01:11:42Sorry.
01:11:43This is a hard thing to do.
01:11:44You've had a really emotional day.
01:11:45Oh, God.
01:11:46Oh, God.
01:11:47No.
01:11:48No.
01:11:49No.
01:11:50No.
01:11:51No.
01:11:52No.
01:11:53No.
01:11:54No.
01:11:55No.
01:11:56No.
01:11:57No.
01:11:58No.
01:11:59No.
01:12:00No.
01:12:01No.
01:12:02No.
01:12:03No.
01:12:04No.
01:12:05No.
01:12:06No.
01:12:07No.
01:12:08No.
01:12:09No.
01:12:10No.
01:12:11No.
01:12:12No.
01:12:16Let's start Africa.
01:12:17Mhm.
01:12:18It's beautiful.
01:12:19Beautiful.
01:12:20Just like you.
01:12:21See?
01:12:22Not hot.
01:12:23You're going to make me blush.
01:12:24No.
01:12:25Stop.
01:12:27During the safari, Daveed mentioned that I deflect a news humour.
01:12:32Cheers.
01:12:34Cheers.
01:12:35I haven't been open and vulnerable with Daveed, to explain to him why I do that.
01:12:40that i want to share with him that site to give him context as to why i sometimes use humor to deflect
01:12:53so um let me just sorry let me just uh preface with this with i will probably make uh i'm going
01:13:01to try not to make inappropriate jokes um or to deflect but um i my mom comes from a military
01:13:08background we're a military family and that's kind of just how we deal with our trauma we make jokes
01:13:14and like and make light hard because it's better to make people laugh um and to just kind of get
01:13:20through it but yeah so my my brother was um very disabled he had a cerebral palsy um so when he was
01:13:32born he was only meant to live until he was one um thankfully he lived until he was nine just turning
01:13:38ten um so it was a there was a lot to deal with and it was the same time as my parents were getting
01:13:44divorced as well so we were losing our family home and having to move um so i guess the reason why
01:13:50there's so many situations i deflect because it was a coping mechanism that i always had to
01:13:56get me through a really difficult period where we obviously lost my brother and uh well
01:14:05the family as we know it um yeah it sorry um and it's really hard for me to open up and be
01:14:23vulnerable because my natural instinct is to make light and make a joke to make people smile and to make
01:14:30people laugh uh because sometimes that is easier
01:14:39now i understand i understand but i'm trying i'm trying i know you are and i'm really proud of you
01:14:45i knew there was something more that he just needed time to feel comfortable to open up to me this
01:15:04definitely uh deepened our emotional connection together and i already liked it i definitely like
01:15:11him more now this is what i want to see i want to see that because you have a beautiful heart
01:15:18you have a beautiful heart and i wanted to see that
01:15:25have you enjoyed today yeah it was really fun right i like think it was okay sarah's mentioned
01:15:43the rap singing being a bit annoying and it's um something that i'll definitely take on board
01:15:46tonight hoping to just continue to get to know each other more and more hopefully progress in our
01:15:51relationship and our step by step get to that marriage that i think we've both dreamed of
01:15:56so how are you finding everything how you find married life still a bit surreal to be honest
01:16:02do you think the same it's such a whirlwind isn't it but i feel like we're getting to know each other
01:16:06like loads and loads but it just yeah it does feel yeah it feels good it feels comfortable i think
01:16:11i'm still like i'm obviously wanting to work on it and try and see what happens but yeah i'm very much
01:16:17like i don't want to put pressure on it i don't want to start a rush of the thing i just want to
01:16:22take each day as it comes and just yeah just see what happens i myself i'm a little bit of a slow
01:16:26burner i like to kind of get to know a person and like kind of see how it goes then what are you like
01:16:31usually um i think it just depends because i usually would move quite quickly
01:16:40usually when i have gone with like previous partners it's probably that been that attraction that i've
01:16:45then been drawn to them and then it's moved quickly that's the only sort of thing that i would say
01:16:50you know it maybe would be usually quicker quicker but it's just because it's not got that initial spark
01:17:00just for me at the moment it's still friend zone
01:17:04if i feel that spark i'm all in
01:17:12god sorry dean
01:17:18i was kind of thinking that i would like
01:17:21you know marrying someone and being like okay like this is it i've got my person he's going to be
01:17:25here with me 24 7 and i'm like no that's not what i want so you know i think it's yeah
01:17:29so what was your like first initial reaction what you thought when like obviously i turned
01:17:35around and you was walking down um
01:17:42you know you weren't sort of looks wise what i was expecting
01:17:47so i think initially i was a bit like okay um have you ever been with anyone bigger
01:17:52anything what's your usual type and stuff like that have i been with anyone who's like bigger
01:17:56like that yeah no i have to admit that no
01:18:02if you hear that you're not someone's type that has left me feeling deflated all of a sudden you're
01:18:08not going to put yourself out there as much because you don't want to get hurt like
01:18:10you don't want to be rejected have you ever been friends with somebody that's done into a romantic
01:18:15relationship
01:18:19no
01:18:19it's hard to hear and i'm starting to feel rejected like no one wants to be rejected and
01:18:27it does feel like like you're just friends
01:18:31i genuinely don't know how i'm going to get past the fact that there isn't the attraction there isn't
01:18:37the spark you know it's not friend at first sight i want to meet the love of my life
01:18:43i have to be honest i just envisioned something completely different
01:19:05honestly i met you and i thought why
01:19:18as you put me straight is it's freaking me out
01:19:22you've made me just feel really really comfortable
01:19:24and i just want you to know that you can always be honest with me
01:19:27so obviously we're both family orientated yeah what i need to tell you
01:19:35i wanted to bring it up sooner i need to find the right moment
01:19:40be alone time
01:19:43away from sort of families me and you
01:19:47so i'm a dad
01:19:51got two kids i'm glad that you could share that with me
01:19:58obviously they are sort of my world kind of thing
01:20:04so how are you feeling now
01:20:09i'm chill about it
01:20:12that's the way of why as well yeah you go into the process you know how's you going to take that
01:20:17for kids like yeah you know i'm having the conversation being open and honest
01:20:22i don't know why but if i find myself like liking someone i have the tendency to i'm so afraid of
01:20:32getting hurt again that i'll put my walls straight up and i'll start self-sabotaging
01:20:36although i'm really really trying to be aware of it because i don't want to put my walls up and i
01:20:42want to be able to explore a connection because that's literally why we're here right yeah we've
01:20:47all got past relationship trauma yeah that's what makes us who we are today right so yeah so maybe
01:20:51we just actually just really need to be honest with each other and just have each other's back
01:20:55and yeah just pick each other up that's the thing i think you promise i think you promise
01:21:04this is the first time that i've opened up to somebody this even makes me feel really comfortable
01:21:10and safe so i think so far i'm much made in heaven
01:21:20cannot believe we got married today something i've always dreamed of i think the days exceeded
01:21:25expectations we're very excited about nilly and i's journey ahead
01:21:32i've always got to this day and i just feel like i might have been matched with someone who
01:21:37actually will just like me for me and i don't have to pretend to be who i'm not
01:21:43like it takes a lot to um oh god what's wrong with me
01:21:52like it takes a lot to open up to somebody
01:21:57and i really just want to i want to give it my all god this is i said i wouldn't do this but it's day one
01:22:08oh god
01:22:12i think i'm ready to receive and give love if that's on the cards
01:22:24next time right now he's not putting the foot wrong nelly and stephen go from strength to
01:22:29strength exactly what i wanted from a honeymoon while ashley's comments continue to trouble grace
01:22:34i said i want a tomboy barbie like what oh
01:22:38oh
01:22:38every now and then he just says something and i think like do you know how that sounds
01:22:43sarah's forthright take on how to ignite a spark with dean get some tattoos and lose some weight
01:22:49combined with demands for honesty would it be any different if i wasn't as big
01:22:53um further test the couple's marriage probably
01:22:56and there's two more brave singles i'm scared but i'm definitely ready and to the experiment
01:23:07one of the brides has serious second thoughts should we do a cheek
01:23:12i don't know if she can't see me you know
01:23:15fuck i made a mistake
01:23:16she's so
01:23:20i don't know if she does it
01:23:23all right
01:23:29so
01:23:30so
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