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04:06I need to shop
04:08Well that we can do
04:09Jeff is like my best friend
04:11We like to spend money and we like to spend a lot of it
04:15Right Bill you don't mind
04:16My dad claims he's a fashionista
04:19But Bill pays for everything
04:21So I think this could be really cute
04:23I'm gonna do $178
04:27This makes me happy
04:28And it makes me sad
04:30I hear when the ching come into my credit card
04:34Ching ching
04:35Ching ching
04:36Ching ching
04:37What else do you need?
04:39Well I need shoes
04:40Really?
04:41I'm gonna need like jewelry too
04:43You're gonna need your nails done
04:44Oh that's a good point
04:46And you just got her hair done too
04:48He loves me
04:49I love you too
04:50You don't show it
04:51My wallet does
04:52We're gonna make it work
04:54Isn't that what we always say?
04:56I love you
04:56Growing up it was really fun
04:58Oh you can't get
04:59Y'all can't get to me
05:02The best part of having two dads is probably
05:05That they both are kind of
05:07I don't want to say clueless in some ways
05:09But I definitely think I can get away with a lot more stuff
05:12We're supposed to change our attitude and stop parenting, right?
05:16And let her be an adult
05:17But yeah, that doesn't always go so well
05:21I guess we're going shopping
05:22Why don't you do like carrots?
05:30Okay
05:30You don't want onions in the cell?
05:32Well that's a big hit
05:34It's carrots
05:35Okay
05:36It's my freshman year at Miami University of Ohio
05:40And I love it here
05:42But I really do miss my mom
05:43How was school, Mom?
05:45Really, really good
05:46And getting good grades
05:47Got a really high GPA this semester
05:50So I was shocked at that
05:52How I did really happy
05:54Not shocked, I know
05:55My mom and I are really close
05:57I love that
05:58I can tell her whatever
05:59I love being with my children
06:02They are my number one priority
06:03You agree with that?
06:04Mm-hmm
06:05I run my own security company from home
06:08Which allows me the luxury of being with Morgan
06:11And Madison
06:12And Mitchell
06:13My other two children
06:14All the time
06:15We are from Portland, New Jersey
06:17And we live in Puerto Rico part-time
06:20Morgan thinks that everyone should be wealthy
06:23Private jets
06:24Like she thinks it's like a norm
06:26That's not that funny
06:28Yeah, it's not funny
06:29But it's funny to me
06:30I think I need more clothes
06:32Why?
06:33Um, because I'm gonna go through a rush in the spring
06:37Why?
06:38Because I want to like build more relationships with girls at my school
06:42And have a special bond like Maddie does
06:45My older sister Madison goes to a different college
06:49Indiana University
06:51She rushed and joined a sorority and loves it
06:54All of Madison's closest friends are her sorority sisters
06:58I'm hoping to find a great group of friends like Madison did
07:02You're fine doing all the stuff that Maddie did?
07:05Yep
07:05I'm excited to like experience that on my own
07:08Okay
07:08When Morgan told me that she wanted a rush
07:10My stomach started to hurt
07:12Because things don't come as easy for Morgan as they do for Madison
07:16I think that the way people have treated her over the years
07:21Have knocked her down quite a bit
07:22So I think she struggles with her confidence
07:25I worry about Morgan rushing a sorority
07:28Because she's much harder on the outside than she is on the inside
07:32I love being a rush coach
07:39Because it allows me to take someone, work with them
07:43And see their dreams come real
07:44I've had clients from sea to shining sea
07:47If a girl's going through a rush somewhere in the United States
07:50They know who I am
07:51Hey Bill
07:59Hi
08:00Here's the princess
08:01Hey, I'm Bill
08:02I don't know what spring brush is
08:05It's a whole different world than it used to be
08:08We really don't feel that prepared
08:11Okay, so
08:12Ella, do you know why I'm here?
08:15A little bit
08:16A little bit
08:17You think I'm selling Girl Scout cookies?
08:19Come on
08:19Daddies
08:21Do y'all know about sorority rush?
08:25I know a little bit from rushing a fraternity and college
08:28But it looks like
08:29Honey, you're not a spring chick
08:31So do you know anything since before color TV
08:34That's invented about sorority rush?
08:39No
08:39Phil is extra, that's for sure
08:43So I think his advice is going to be very helpful
08:46Even if his delivery is a little frightening
08:49Now let's talk about spring rushes around the corner
08:53Spring rush
08:54It's a little bit different than fall rush
08:56Um, okay guys
08:57I'm walking to meet my group
08:59You might be cold
09:01But at least your makeup isn't melting off your face
09:04And your cheeks are going to get a natural rosy glow
09:08These girls ain't running home
09:10They're sliding home
09:11What have you done to prepare?
09:13I've made my resume
09:15And that's about it
09:17No videos
09:19No videos
09:20Not looking at your social media
09:22You've got your rush bag all planned out
09:24No, sir, no
09:25What's a rush bag?
09:31Serious question?
09:33Yeah, serious question
09:34I never heard of a rush bag
09:35Do you know what a rush bag is?
09:38No, I do not know what a rush bag is
09:40All right, it's like a survival kit
09:42A rush bag is basically your kindergarten box for the filter
09:50The goal is to be prepared for anything and everything
09:54Portable charger
09:55Brush and toothpaste
09:56Double-sided fashion tape
09:58A little mini hairspray
10:00Bring in my tanning mist just in case mine starts to fade
10:02You don't want to sit there and go, oh my God, I need my lotion, I need my lotion
10:05And you don't have it
10:06Lord have mercy, Bill just came in
10:10And we already got work to do
10:12You have three days of rush
10:14Mm-hmm
10:14What are you going to wear those three days?
10:16I'm not exactly sure yet
10:18Bill is scaring the hell out of us
10:20Do we have outfits that hit all categories?
10:24No
10:24And I'm thinking about
10:27Yeah
10:27Oh my God, we got to get all this stuff done
10:29So you stay on campus in a dorm?
10:31Mm-hmm
10:31Okay, cool
10:32How's that working out?
10:33It's good
10:34Do you like having people all around all the time?
10:39Yeah
10:40Right?
10:41And rush is around the corner
10:43Mm-hmm
10:44Okay, yes, we're going to work on complete words
10:46Mm-hmm is not a word
10:48Yes
10:48Yes, it's a good start
10:50Yeah, we're going to work on speaking skills
10:52And the reason we're doing that is because at rush
10:54You can't just sit and go, mm-hmm, yeah, mm-hmm, yeah
10:57I'm really trying to get her to talk
11:00I got to get her coming out
11:01I got to get her being comfortable
11:03Putting herself out there where she needs to be
11:06Now, many times girls that have darker skin pigmentation than me
11:10Yes
11:10Go deny
11:11Have you considered doing that?
11:13I decided not to
11:14I didn't think it was really me
11:16Did dads have different opinions?
11:19Yes
11:19She's going to this all-white school
11:21For the most part
11:23I didn't want her to be a token
11:24I want her to find her a true sisterhood
11:27Someone who's going to back you
11:29Someone who understands where you've come from
11:34Someone who has lived your experience
11:37I think those are all true points
11:39However, I got something to surprise you with
11:40Sure
11:41She's already seen that and lived it
11:43You've already raised her so well
11:46Believe that she's going to be okay
11:48And she's going to be in every environment
11:50Mm-hmm, thank you
11:52I mean, it's already there
11:54I'm not wanting to rush the D9
11:56It's her choice
11:57We shouldn't question that
11:59We should celebrate choice
12:01What's on your to-do list?
12:03I have to get ideas of each day
12:07And what outfits to wear
12:08I have to start getting ideas for my rush bag
12:11Get a rush bag
12:13Yeah, get a rush bag
12:15How to initiate and start a conversation
12:17That's in our future
12:18Yes
12:19Of all the people I've worked with
12:21This is an example of true need
12:24We need some Jesus
12:25Those two guys don't have a clue about sorority rush
12:30And they know they need help
12:32They've got to put gas in the car
12:34Put it in drive
12:35And get down the road
12:37Sorority rush is like the personality Olympics
12:42Part interview
12:43Part presentation
12:44Part networking
12:45Let the true you shine through
12:48Be enthusiastic
12:49You should be proud about yourself
12:51If you want to be remembered
12:51And gain rush crush status
12:53You have to answer the question
12:54And then build upon it
12:56This next question is the infamous
12:57What made you decide to rush?
12:59This is a question that you will 100% be asked
13:01Show us who you are
13:02Show us your personality
13:03Show us your quirkiness
13:05That's the stuff that makes you charming
13:07I decided to hire Bill a rush coach
13:12To help Morgan get prepared
13:14For rushing a sorority
13:16Bill, how are you?
13:17Well, hello
13:18Hi, I'm Morgan
13:19Hello
13:19Okay, so
13:23Why do you want to rush?
13:24Could you please open it for me?
13:26Thank you
13:26Well, I want to rush
13:27Because I want to find like
13:29People that are like me
13:31All right, let's start over
13:32Sometimes you look down
13:33Because it's an uncomfortable emotional thing
13:35So I need you to look at me
13:36Or laughs
13:37That's another one
13:38Well, I want to rush
13:40Because
13:41Well, Miami
13:43Look at me, I'm talking
13:44I'm seeing a pattern with Morgan
13:46She constantly looks down
13:48It's a total lack of confidence
13:50That's a major no-no for rush
13:53You've got to look at the people
13:55And talk to them
13:55When we want to show
13:56That you're confident
13:57You look at them in the eyes
13:58Look at them in the eyes
13:59You know
14:00Because I always tell you guys
14:01This is
14:02You hear me, see me
14:03And you're thinking
14:04So let's try it one more time
14:06With enthusiasm
14:07Well, I want to rush
14:08Because I want to form
14:10These special friendships
14:11Because in the past
14:12I've had like girls
14:13Not treat me the nicest
14:14She was friends with them
14:16And I probably shouldn't
14:17Have hung out with the girls
14:18She's the one
14:19Who includes everyone
14:20Every time I ask Morgan a question
14:23Julie cuts her off
14:24And Julie gives the answer
14:26Julie, you're not going through rush, darling
14:29It's my daughter
14:30Right
14:31Explainable
14:33Mm-hmm
14:34Totally not justifiable, though
14:35I think that my mom
14:37Jumps into the conversations
14:39Because sometimes
14:40I get distracted very easily
14:43You're very independent
14:44You are not
14:45You're independent
14:47With the swimmies on
14:48I'm worried
14:49By Julie babying Morgan
14:51She's not helping her
14:52She's actually slowing her growth
14:56Julie, you've enabled this
14:58And so we're going to work on
14:59Let mom step away from Morgan
15:01And I like how independent
15:03She is
15:04She's becoming
15:05Of course
15:05Because you want her to be you, sweetie
15:07And she's not, Julie
15:09I know, but she's almost there
15:10And that's hard
15:11No, she's not going to be you
15:13That's the life lesson today
15:15I know
15:15I know
15:16Julie wants Morgan to be tough
15:18She doesn't want her to get hurt
15:19If Morgan's going to be tough enough
15:21To face the challenges of rush
15:23Mom, move over
15:24And get out of the way
15:26And let this girl go forward
15:27So you have this beautiful life
15:29Privileged princess
15:30But I think you've realized
15:32Things and substance and whatever
15:34That's not what makes us happy
15:35Yes
15:35Morgan's homework is simple
15:37Complete all of your application process
15:40By yourself
15:42Her sister's already gone through rush
15:44She is a great resource
15:46Particularly when it's time
15:48To film the rush video
15:48And mom, your homework
15:50Is going to be this
15:51Morgan may tell you
15:52What she needs to have done
15:52But Morgan's going to do it
15:54You're not
15:54Yeah
15:56I want Morgan to take more initiative
15:58It's going to build her confidence
16:00It's going to make her more self-reliant
16:02And it's going to let her
16:04Feel that she finally
16:06Is in control of her life
16:08We've got to take the swimmings off
16:10Right?
16:10Yeah
16:10You're going to get the deep end
16:12And if you drown, you're done
16:13It's just so good
16:21That we're going to have help
16:22And do it
16:23Getting all this done
16:24You know, it's like
16:25One of those forced family fun days
16:27Oh honey
16:28We can drag you behind
16:29An 18-wheeler
16:30Without a problem
16:31It seems that Jeff
16:33Gets to do all the fun outings
16:34With Ella
16:34I ain't got to get
16:36To the bottom of that
16:37But in the meantime
16:38I need to see if Ella's been working on her interview skills
16:42So let's kind of play a little thing
16:44Ella, what are you doing this spring?
16:45I'm going to try out for the cheer team
16:47Okay, let's don't make it so like direct answer
16:50Because Bill said say
16:50Talk about cheer team
16:51Are you enjoying your time at Wake?
16:53And did you visit before you went?
16:55We visited like once or twice
16:58That was just with Dad
16:59Bill didn't go
17:00I'm sure he's got some reason
17:04I take care of the dogs
17:05And I got a broke back
17:06Do you think sometimes Bill uses
17:08My back hurts
17:09I don't want to go?
17:10Oh, 100%
17:11Honestly
17:11I've been the one that has taken the lead
17:14When it comes to her clothing
17:16And Bill
17:17Bill does not like shopping
17:19Because of all the drama
17:20All the drama
17:21I wanted to be involved
17:23But you know
17:23For me, it's hard
17:25What other schools did you visit?
17:27I visited UNC
17:29UNC is a rival of White Forest, right?
17:33Yes
17:33And you decided not to go to UNC
17:35Well, I got rejected for UNC
17:37We're not saying that
17:39We chose Wake Forest
17:41We chose Wake Forest
17:42I looked at UNC
17:44And I looked at Wake Forest
17:45And I knew that this was the fit for me
17:47Right
17:47So Ella's making some improvement
17:50With her interview skills
17:51But now I've got to work with her
17:52To become more conversational
17:54She doesn't need to sound so scripted and stiff
17:57You're going to respond to two to four
18:02Of the questions below
18:03How can you incorporate your personal values
18:05Into the sorority experience?
18:07I feel like that's a really good question
18:08Yeah, one we say
18:09Bill wants me to work on my Rush video
18:13Instead of asking my mom
18:15I'm taking ownership
18:16And asking Madison for tips
18:19Do you know that this video is like the first impression
18:22That all the sororities are going to be seeing this even before you rush?
18:25Yeah
18:25Well, like I didn't know that
18:28So there's 17 sororities and then it narrows down to 11
18:33And this video in your application is how they make the first cut
18:36So you really want to show who you are and give off a great first impression
18:40Yeah, that's like a little bit scary
18:41So now this has to be like perfect
18:44So start off
18:45Hi, my name is Morgan Feldman
18:47I am currently a freshman
18:49And I'm from Colts Neck
18:51Oh no, I'm nervous
18:52Don't be nervous
18:54Channel Bill
18:55You know how confident he is
18:57Okay, I'm gonna start it
18:58Hi, my name is Morgan Feldman
19:01Oh, that was bad
19:02Mo, like I know the person you are
19:04We've all seen you grow so much
19:06Like give off the vibe that you want to be doing this
19:09You're really excited and you're confident in yourself
19:11The Rush video makes me nervous
19:13Because the video is sorority's first impression of me
19:17Be yourself, be happy, be smiley
19:19Like peppy
19:20Like turn on your like
19:22I'll be like hi, I'm Morgan Feldman
19:24I'm a freshman
19:25Oh my god
19:27They're not gonna like me
19:28You're trying too hard
19:30You're just trying to be like a Kardashian right now
19:32Hey, I'm Morgan Feldman
19:34I'm a freshman
19:34No one
19:35Do you feel like pressure to get into a sorority?
19:38Yeah, I do
19:39I'm putting a lot of pressure on myself to get this right
19:42If I don't get into house
19:44I am scared that I won't find the friendships
19:46And bonds that I'm looking for
19:48I'm redoing that
19:50Because that was just not good
19:51Also, smile
19:52Confidence is an asset to these chapters
20:00If you're anything less than confident
20:02You're just gonna be dead weight
20:04And they ain't gonna want you
20:05I swear some of my most favorite conversations and memories
20:09Were just from talking to the girls around me
20:11Be as confident as possible
20:12Don't like overly compliment
20:13Like I love your outfit
20:14I love your hair
20:15Be authentic and be your true self
20:16They have very limited time in these houses
20:20Getting to show these sororities who they are
20:23You need to break the mold
20:25But you gotta figure out how to do it without breaking the cookie
20:28Morgan, you're too tense
20:34Have fun with it
20:35And talk like you're just talking to me
20:36I've been through this
20:38Like, I know what it's like
20:39And I'm here for you
20:40Thank you
20:41You're welcome
20:41Okay, should we finally do this video?
20:44Do you feel better now?
20:45Yeah, I do
20:46If I get it wrong, then we'll just redo it
20:48And then the second time, it'll be better
20:50Okay
20:50Hi, my name is Morgan Bauman
20:53I am a freshman and I'm from Colston, New Jersey
20:56I bring to the sorority loyalty
20:58Because that is something I bring to my own friendships
21:02And I want others to treat me the same way
21:05Yeah, that was about it
21:07Do you know how to submit it?
21:08Um, no
21:09Oh my gosh, we're in
21:11Well, all right
21:16I kind of want you to try this on
21:18Do you like this?
21:19I'm down to try it on
21:20Oh, and the same thing
21:22Perfect
21:22Might go with jeans
21:23Yeah
21:24Everybody's gonna have a black dress
21:25I don't know if everybody's gonna have a green one
21:27Um, are y'all seeing what's going on?
21:32Mm-hmm
21:32Because you're not even speaking
21:33We're taking it all in, Bill
21:35No, and we're not looking at a price tag
21:37I'm not
21:38I'm looking at the beauty
21:39Well, that's me
21:40All right, madame, if you'll put that down for privacy, please
21:45And go in there
21:46All right, so we're starting the process
21:50I need you to be a little bit more engaged
21:52You know what I'm gonna have you do?
21:55You're gonna hold this up and say
21:56How about this for a rush bag that I found?
21:59I want you to take credit
22:01Okay
22:01Oh
22:02That you found this
22:03And you're giving her her rush bag
22:05Okay
22:06Bill has allowed Jeff to carry the ball
22:09The whole game
22:10And he's left out
22:11When she comes out
22:13I want you to hold up and go
22:14Look what I found
22:15What I'm seeing happens is that
22:17Where they're doing this
22:18Supporting her instead of this
22:21That's cute
22:23Do you like it?
22:24Yeah, I like it
22:25All right
22:25Number two
22:30Next one
22:31What happened, mute?
22:34You're holding it in your hand
22:35You're holding it in your hand
22:35Seriously?
22:37All right
22:38All right
22:39That's cute
22:41Oh, that's cute
22:41Okay
22:42I like it
22:43You like it?
22:45Yes, I do
22:45And look what I got for you
22:48I think somebody has found you
22:50What he thinks would be the cutest rush bag
22:55I like it
22:56Well, thank you, love
22:58Thank you
23:01I appreciate it
23:02He didn't look at the price tag either
23:04So let's just put this over here
23:06In Ella's little prize packet
23:07Sandy Claus
23:08Now, go put on the
23:10That long knit thing
23:11All right
23:12Wow
23:15Y'all, this looks dynamite
23:18I do like this
23:19I know you like this
23:20Okay, do you have boots?
23:22No, I do not
23:22How does she not have a pair of boots?
23:25Y'all are the worst gays
23:27I've asked her if she wanted some boots
23:28And she says no
23:30I'm not a fan of this one
23:32You're not a fan?
23:33Is it too sparkly for you?
23:34Yeah
23:35Do you have any, like, little
23:37Pearl, little stretchy bracelets
23:40That all the girls are wearing and stuff?
23:41Those are really cute, too
23:42But they are really cute
23:43Things like that
23:44I want you finished
23:45Mm-hmm
23:46Got it?
23:47We're all together?
23:48Yep
23:48Everybody good?
23:49With rush starting in just a couple of days
23:51The stress, it's real
23:53Ella has to remember what I taught her
23:56And she has to apply it
23:58Well, let's rock and roll
23:59Okay
24:08Alrighty
24:09I'm back with Morgan
24:11And hopefully when we're shopping
24:13We're going to continue to give her a confidence boost
24:16And they're going to get to see who Morgan is
24:19Let's focus on the first two days a lot
24:22I like those jeans for philanthropy
24:24Okay
24:25Okay, we can try these on
24:26All right
24:27I like these bodysuits
24:29For, like, sisterhood
24:31Then let me find something to put over that
24:33I like that sheer top
24:35But that's not what it is
24:36Yeah, but this looks like a kangaroo
24:40Well, hippity-hoppity-hopp-hopp-hop
24:44I wasn't picking that out
24:46Okay, so do we have everything?
24:48I think we have good start
24:50Let's put this in the dressing room
24:51We'll play fashion show
24:52So, um, clearly she's been thinking and doing some work
24:57She has
24:58She's been trying, like, with her sister
25:00I'm happy that it's settled in
25:03It's making sense
25:04She's immediately started talking with me
25:06She's very engaged
25:07She's purposeful
25:08She's focused
25:08I noticed some of the things
25:10When I talked to her about what we're doing
25:11I mean, she was like
25:12If she hadn't thought about something
25:14It was during headlights
25:15Right
25:16And I'm seeing the growth in her
25:18So kudos to you for staying focused
25:21Okay, I really like this
25:24Actually, I love the skirt
25:26The skirt's fabulous
25:27I want you to put on the green lace sheer
25:31When I first met Morgan
25:32I guess she was just shell-shocked
25:34She's engaged today
25:36She's talking
25:37We're communicating
25:39Oh my god, this is very cute
25:42Oh, it is
25:43I kind of like, for sisterhood, this
25:45Dressing for the University of Miami of Ohio
25:48Is a lot different than dressing for Rush
25:52At Ole Miss or Alabama
25:54When you go through Rush at Alabama
25:55It's 95 to 100 degrees plus humidity
25:58When you go through Rush and Ohio
26:00In the middle of that gum winter
26:01It may be 25 degrees outside
26:03Yay!
26:04Morgan's heading back to school
26:06I'm hoping it works out the same way it did for Madison
26:11I definitely have fears and reservations
26:13But I think Morgan needs to do this on her own
26:16How do you present yourself?
26:24Now, if you don't have a sense of style, that's different
26:26But if you have a sense of style
26:28You want them to kind of see who you are
26:30Shoes are from Ray on Revolve
26:32They'll be my favorite
26:32If you're dressing for your college
26:34What you might wear at sorority recruitment
26:36For the University of Alabama
26:38Would get you the side eye
26:39At the University of Arizona
26:41Fashion is a statement
26:43You better make sure you're sending the right message
26:45To these sororities
26:46Hey, Bill
26:48I'm doing what you asked of me
26:50I'm practicing using longer sentences
26:52And not one word responses
26:53So here I go
26:55The reason why I'm doing Panhellenic Rush
26:57Instead of D9
26:58Is to prove a point to myself
27:00I feel like growing up I was definitely a follower
27:03And now that I'm older I want to be a leader
27:05I want to show that I can do what I want to do
27:08Without listening to other people's opinions
27:10Anyways, I'm videoing this to show you
27:12That I'm taking your advice
27:14Bye
27:15Hi, how are you?
27:25I'm so excited
27:28Are you excited to go back?
27:30Yeah, so ready
27:31Tell her about like rushing it
27:33So there's 15 sororities
27:34And like you choose like your top five
27:37Based off like the welcome round
27:38I mean, you're under a lot of pressure
27:40Like it's not
27:41You go to a big school, right?
27:43Yeah, like
27:43So it's not like 15 girls
27:46That's trying to rush
27:47Like it's a lot
27:48What if I don't get into a sorority?
27:50Would you be upset?
27:51I definitely wouldn't be upset
27:55For like me
27:56I'd be upset for you
27:58Because I know how much you really want this
28:00And I feel very bad that you didn't
28:02But you'll find your fit
28:04It'll happen
28:05Yeah
28:06If you're meant to be, you're meant to be
28:07Ella
28:09So how are you feeling about this sorority rush?
28:14I'm excited
28:15I'm excited to be back on campus
28:17And to see all my friends again
28:18Okay
28:19So what are some of the lessons that you, you know, got from Bill?
28:23I think learning how to speak in full sentences is definitely like the main one
28:27And you know, just like telling my story and everything like that
28:31I feel so blessed to have you
28:34You have been the most important thing in our lives for a long time
28:38I appreciate it
28:39Love you
28:40I love you too
28:41You know how I feel
28:43I do know how you feel
28:45I know this is going to be a little bit stressful
28:48But have faith in yourself
28:50We know what a wonderful person you are
28:52Any sorority will be lucky to have you
28:54We love you
28:56We love you, baby
28:57Hey, love, don't you look fabulous
29:08Bill's coming back one final time before Morgan goes back to rush
29:12You're a businesswoman, New York control street
29:14And the very first time we talked
29:16I became aware that you would love for her to go through bumper pool lanes for the rest of her life
29:23That you can protect her from all sharp objects
29:26I don't want to do that
29:27I want her to grow
29:28That's it
29:29So for rush week, our plan is this
29:31Okay
29:32What I would even say is
29:33Honey, don't call me after every party
29:35We'll regroup at night
29:36I believe in you and I know you're going to soar
29:39Julie finally has the right attitude
29:41She is not doing everything for Morgan anymore
29:44I know that that one thing is changing Morgan's life
29:48And it's going to put her in the best position for rush
29:50And in turn, the best position for her at school
29:53How many times are your kids seeing you cry?
29:55Hmm, that's only when people die
29:58There are a lot of cry, we all discuss this
30:01You never cry in front of your enemy
30:03And you cry in the bathroom
30:05And then you wash your face and you move on
30:07That's wonderful advice
30:09Correct
30:09But not for a family
30:11This conversation is dead on
30:14It feels like he knows my whole life story
30:17Like he only met me for a short time
30:21I want you to verbally hug her
30:23That's very funny
30:26Kind of hard because
30:28You're a tough broad
30:29And it's very hard to understand that, yes
30:31Yes, you're tough
30:32That's very funny
30:33You are not going to let life beat you down
30:36Bill wants me to be there for Morgan emotionally
30:39He also wants me to teach her the motivation
30:43And the independence to do this on her own
30:46So she could knock it out of the park
30:48Paperwork done?
30:49Yes
30:50Clothes, God Almighty, thank God
30:52Yes
30:53With shoes
30:53Video's done?
30:56Yes
30:56I'm proud of Morgan
30:57She did the interview process herself
30:59She completed her video
31:01Hi, my name is Morgan Baldwin
31:03And I'm a freshman from Colstack, New Jersey
31:05I'm so excited to get back on campus and rush
31:08She's doing all this without mom doing or hovering
31:11That's progress
31:12We checked all the boxes
31:14Yeah
31:15It's been fun to get to know you
31:17Because the blonde bombshell is not interesting to me
31:21But Morgan is
31:23Thank you
31:24All right, so I'm going to go
31:26We work for our good care
31:30Thank you
31:31Morgan's confidence level has increased because of Bill
31:35Because Bill, he understood her
31:37And she really cherishes that
31:41And I think that built her confidence quite a bit
31:43You're going to walk Bill out?
31:45I'm nervous, but I'm excited
31:47If I don't get into the house, I am scared that I won't find the friendships and bonds that I'm looking for
31:53And thank you for bringing Bill
31:55Rush week is many times the first time a girl really sees, eats, and breathes stress
32:03It's stressful because you have to be on all day
32:07And then the next day to find out, was I good?
32:11You got the smell
32:12It's a lot of pressure
32:14Failure's not an option
32:16Grab your popcorn, people, and put that phone on silent
32:26It's rush week
32:27This time last year, I was, like, shaking in my boots
32:30For recruitment
32:31I am so excited to meet everyone
32:33And I literally can't believe that, like, it's happening today
32:36We're so excited
32:3740 Rush is almost like your eat, pray, love moment for college
32:42You're discovering who you are after high school
32:45Open house
32:49I kind of like to say that it's the beginning of the Olympics
32:52You know, when they do the opening ceremonies
32:54It's building up
32:55This is actually happening
32:57It's starting
32:58You guys, today's day one of Rush
33:00Good luck
33:04Good morning, it's day one of Rush
33:08Here's my OOTD
33:09OOTD stands for Outfit of the Day
33:12You can't show up for an office job interview in a Hooters outfit
33:18They're going to know you ain't serious
33:21The same goes for Sorority Row
33:24I have the chin on the shirt
33:26And some jeans
33:27And some sneakers
33:28I'm not too nervous about today
33:30Just because the excitement is just taking over
33:32I've been waiting so long for this moment
33:35It's unreal
33:36The fact that I'm going to know what sorority I'm in by the end of the week
33:40Oh my God
33:42Okay, well that makes the nerves come in
33:44The first big day is philanthropy
33:49Philanthropy, it's each sorority's charity
33:52I kind of call speed dating a sorority
33:55Philanthropy doesn't have real long meetings
33:59But it's very much blind date, get to know each other
34:02Okay, so I got five back out of the seven from philanthropy
34:08Five's okay, five's okay, that's not bad
34:11It was just so overwhelming
34:13Like I totally didn't expect like voices and conversations to be on top of one another
34:19But now you're dealing with it and you're not running from it
34:22And that's very important
34:24Right
34:25I only have like two I would consider out of the five
34:29Right now, my two favorite houses are DZ and AZD
34:33If I don't get these two houses, I don't know what I'm going to do
34:37Like the other ones I just don't vibe with
34:39And I don't see myself there
34:40That's okay
34:41But if we start worrying that I'm not going to get it
34:45Then you start bringing in what they would say negative karma
34:49All you need is the one, does that make sense?
34:52Yeah
34:52A lot of these girls come from a place where they feel like they are a big fish in a small pond
34:58Some of these girls ain't never been rejected
35:01Then they show up to rush week and they learn real quick that they ain't in a pond anymore
35:06They are in an ocean and there are plenty of fish in the sea
35:11All right, how you feeling, baby?
35:13So here's my issue
35:15If she doesn't get that sorority
35:17She falls apart
35:18And I think she thinks that everything is just going to be great
35:22And life is not always that great
35:24Listen, as a parent, it's good for me because it's been really hard
35:28Like I would have flown down today or yesterday
35:31And been there, right?
35:34But then again, it would have been weird
35:36I should not be doing that, right?
35:38Okay, yeah
35:39This is all new to you
35:40I know how badly Julie is itching to get on that plane to fly from Puerto Rico to Ohio
35:46And she's not
35:48That's progress
35:49It's time to let Morgan finish her rush week
35:52This was a good process
35:54But who knows?
35:55Only time will tell
35:56Hey there
35:59Hi
36:00How's it going?
36:02No one word answers, right?
36:04Yeah, I was like, I was able to use your advice of today
36:08Because I got compliments on the sweater
36:10So that also helped kind of steer the conversation
36:13So that was really good
36:14See it
36:15All right, now you're thinking
36:16And you saw it work
36:18You know, I'm not trying to be at the know it all
36:20Because I know I know it all
36:21But the point is this
36:23You're feeling it and seeing it
36:25Tell me the numbers
36:26Out of the possible six
36:28I got three back
36:30Okay
36:32Not as high as I'd like it to be
36:34Remember this
36:35You just need one dance
36:36Okay
36:37We want them to see your personality
36:39And see your emotion
36:40Okay?
36:40Yes
36:41Ella only getting three out of six houses back after sisterhood
36:44That's a little concerning
36:46She cannot afford to be dropped by another sorority at this point
36:51Informal recruitment process
36:58If you don't get the bid you want on bid day
37:03Or you don't get a bid at all
37:04All hope is not completely lost
37:07There is still a way that you can get a bid and join a chapter
37:10And it's called continuous open bidding
37:12The individual events are a lot more casual than formal recruitment
37:16Sisterhood
37:18The sorority is much more intent with their evaluation
37:23Okay, but so what's the update of the rush?
37:27How's it going?
37:28I was pretty bummed
37:30Because now that AZD dropped me
37:32Now I only have one that I liked
37:34DZ
37:34There's no reason you should be losing sleep over this
37:38You're going to end up where you're supposed to be at the end of the day
37:41You just have to trust that
37:42When I like saw like the other girls opening their slip
37:45It was like smiles, excitement
37:47And then there's just like me
37:49And I felt like alone
37:51It doesn't matter
37:52This is your experience
37:53You can't compare it to everyone else
37:55Like you're on your own journey
37:56There's people that literally didn't even do a video
38:00But then got the best houses
38:02Like I just don't understand
38:03There's literally no such thing as top house
38:06You need to like take that idea and literally just throw it out
38:09And try and be yourself, Morgan
38:11Right, man?
38:13Yes
38:13Okay
38:14Thank you
38:15We love you, Morgan
38:17Preference day is the day before bid day
38:23That is the day the most important decisions are made
38:27Hi
38:28You look gorgeous
38:30You look good
38:31Thank you
38:32So today we met for like an hour
38:34Which is like the longest out of all rounds
38:38And today I kind of felt like the conversations weren't as good
38:42And then I got oil like all over my dress
38:46It was horrible
38:46You can't waste time going back and second guessing yourself
38:50What you did, what you said, anything
38:52You know, just have faith that this will work out
38:57And you will end up in the right place
38:59They will be very lucky to have you
39:02Yeah
39:02Right
39:03Hey, you
39:06Hey, you
39:07What's going on, love?
39:09DZ was always my top
39:10And I got dropped from them today
39:12So
39:13Yeah
39:13I've decided to drop out of rush
39:16Okay, so how are you, first off?
39:20It's been hard
39:20Why didn't they pick me in the first place?
39:23Like, is it off the video?
39:24I didn't expect it to go like this
39:26So honestly, just like, it's really hard
39:29Morgan just told me her other favorite, DZ, dropped her
39:33And she doesn't want to go for it
39:35Now I'm going to do informal
39:36So I'm hoping it's going to be better
39:39I think informal rush is going to be good for you
39:42Because all the sororities that didn't make quota
39:45Are now able to do it individually
39:48I have had girls actually end up in better sororities
39:52Than they ever had during rush
39:54Going through the informal rush after
39:56Right
39:58Because they got comfortable with themselves
40:00And the people realized
40:01We lost you in a video chat
40:04We lost you off a piece of paper
40:06You know, they don't even know you
40:07Yeah
40:08I want Morgan to get into a sorority
40:10I want her to succeed
40:12She's been doing so well
40:13She has spread her own wings
40:15She is flying herself
40:17And I do believe
40:18When the door's closed
40:20God can open a window
40:22Thank you
40:23All right, love
40:24I'm here if you need me
40:24You know that
40:25Big day is Christmas
40:34And did Santa come and bring you what you want?
40:37Or are you getting coal and switches?
40:40It's exciting
40:40There's some tears that are shed
40:43Sometimes girls end up in other places
40:45And they wanted number one
40:46And they got number two
40:47The way I look at big day is
40:49The war is over
40:50Hey guys
40:54I've been dying to know
40:56I got Delta Zeta
40:58I am so proud of her
41:03She found her voice
41:05And she was able to land in a house
41:07That is a great perfect fit for her
41:10I could not be more ecstatic for her
41:12Bill and Jeff
41:14I hope are just the proudest two dads ever
41:17She's right where she needs to be
41:20What's going on?
41:23What happened?
41:24Well, I got good news
41:26I got high five
41:28Yay!
41:30How do you feel?
41:31I'm so excited
41:33I'm very happy for you
41:35This is going to be better
41:36Because these girls liked you
41:38And wanted you
41:39And they got to know you
41:40The real Morgan
41:41Thank you
41:42Thank you
41:43Love you so much
41:44She took a very challenging
41:46And then ultimately disappointing
41:48Formal rush week
41:49Turn it on its head
41:50And look where she is now
41:52Now Morgan's in a house that fits her
41:53She's already making deep friendships
41:55With new sisters
41:56And I made myself count
41:58Game on
42:06And then ultimately
42:08They're making deep friends
42:09Run, you know
42:10And about about
42:11You guys
42:13Are looking yeah
42:14Maybe
42:16Did you see
42:17Need are looking
42:19Like
42:19They're looking
42:19Asking
42:19When
42:20A
42:22It's
42:22You
42:22You
42:27Me
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